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00:00:01Previously on Before 90 Days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:06I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Here, we have sex.
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being unromantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:08Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:16Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:24If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You blow it.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:35This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:41My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:01But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:18She feels a psycho.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You're up?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you in a case?
00:02:25So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:30I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:32But that s**t, I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:01Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling at her, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f**k.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:12how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:48Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:52That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, that's a lot to think about.
00:04:04I'm f**king.
00:04:07Hurting.
00:04:09I'm f**king.
00:04:11Angry.
00:04:12Angry.
00:04:13Hey.
00:04:15Elise.
00:04:16How are you?
00:04:20I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:26I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:41I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:43I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal f**king coming up.
00:04:56I acted f**king cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her, that just brought up a ton of emotions for
00:05:08me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That f**king should never happen once.
00:05:26There's gonna be a common occurrence.
00:05:28F**k that.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still gonna go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me, I, I...
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06But you can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me or
00:06:20he really likes it.
00:06:21But I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:24Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:50But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:05My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am,
00:07:13I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:23Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mmm, you're scared.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32100%, yep.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:34Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:40Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands-off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:48Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think with animals in Australia, they think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:58We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15Bye.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:25I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you
00:08:29know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:40So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet?
00:08:46Or are we okay?
00:08:48Or, like, I'm trying to just, I don't know how, like, to interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong.
00:09:11And I will own that.
00:09:12And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's
00:09:16not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:20All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:23You are so much different to her.
00:09:26She's a friend.
00:09:27You are my girl.
00:09:29You embarrass her.
00:09:30You embarrass me.
00:09:32And you're supposed to be the one?
00:09:34Like, I don't know if I can be with someone after that.
00:09:40The thing is, like, I'm falling in love with you.
00:09:44Like, I am.
00:09:46But things like last night, it makes me hesitate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her.
00:10:04And it's just bringing up a lot of emotions.
00:10:06And I think just the...
00:10:07You've got answers.
00:10:09You've got answers.
00:10:12You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:34Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:39I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how, uh, convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing.
00:10:52And it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:58Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00I can, yeah.
00:11:01I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh.
00:11:06And that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance and, uh, not throw
00:11:16this all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:37Come on, let me try it out.
00:11:39Go for the chase.
00:11:40Let me try it out.
00:11:41Come on, I'm trying to get ready.
00:12:42I know she still has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one who wanted
00:12:48to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe it's all a lie.
00:13:16Hey, baby.
00:13:18Hey.
00:13:19How was your day?
00:13:21Perfect.
00:13:22Was it okay?
00:13:23Yeah.
00:13:23I'm curious.
00:13:24I enjoyed it.
00:13:27Did you really?
00:13:29Yeah.
00:13:29He's a good guy.
00:13:32I've been saying that.
00:13:34That's a relief to hear.
00:13:36He's a good guy.
00:13:38But it turns out you are not so good.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47And what did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:22Well, you make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:26He's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not.
00:14:31I waited.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:40This is a little thing.
00:14:40Are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:49Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon, Michael and I were
00:15:00watching TV, and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch, and I tried to kiss
00:15:10Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after
00:15:20that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again, and I never told BeerCon that I once tried
00:15:26to kiss Michael, because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me
00:15:33staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:52You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:15:59He is still in your life, and you kept this from a secret.
00:16:03Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:08It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:18Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:22I tried to kiss him, but he refused me, but we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31Nope.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:57I'm surprised at Birkhan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkhan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me, and I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:22Nothing is going on.
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:26Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I.
00:17:32No.
00:17:33No.
00:17:34Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:42You're one of the young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:50I don't have to go through all of these new emotions.
00:17:52I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:54You met, you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:01I can trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:09Mm-hmm.
00:18:13If you care this much.
00:18:15No, I don't.
00:18:16You cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:39There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What's that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my d***.
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother, but I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning
00:19:19on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a load.
00:19:41It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana?
00:19:46You going to put me at the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello, Pa.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, Pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir.
00:20:09Because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:21It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be with
00:20:27each other intimately, that was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping this spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I have a lot of hard
00:20:43decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:46And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to our body, ma'am.
00:20:51Very great.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57I'm extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment, and it feels like you're
00:21:06being placed on, like, as a food, which is, most people in my country, they would use
00:21:11banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:13It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:17Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:33Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:37But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move
00:21:44as the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:55Well, honey, this is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah, I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah, I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:05Well, gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything, and I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:26And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you.
00:22:35I have to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:58But at this point, living in the Philippines, I feel the best option, it means I get to be with
00:23:06Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:14are way out of my bounds.
00:23:16It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips out my heart and tears
00:23:23out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:44us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom's always been a very controlling person, and I'm terrified to tell her and Dev that I'm planning on
00:24:19staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle you everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:33Even though I happen to try to do many things for her, it's time for you to grow up and
00:24:39be a man and try to tell mom that you want to do some things that you wanted to do.
00:24:43Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net, but her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:06from my mother.
00:25:08No, mom, sir. Excuse me, time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:12But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do, and
00:25:19I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting, and I'm ready to start our lives together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:29I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no.
00:25:43But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:08I just want the answer to it.
00:26:38or you want to have a baby or not.
00:26:54My uncle said,
00:26:56we are strict about having children
00:26:58because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:04That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not gonna change.
00:27:08So we only wait for you and you know that.
00:27:13In their culture,
00:27:15having a baby is the most important thing.
00:27:19I understand that and I would hate for Trish
00:27:22not to be respected by her community over this.
00:27:26If Trish didn't have a baby,
00:27:28I feel like she would be ashamed.
00:27:32I would feel awful if she looked at herself in that way.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family and I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:16Trish, if we're gonna be together and get married,
00:28:22then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:29So...
00:28:32I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:28:48Hey!
00:28:58You're excited that you're going to eat a baby!
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:20And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:41It's gonna take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're gonna start
00:29:49planning our family together.
00:29:53We're going to get married now.
00:29:58We're going to go home.
00:30:00We're going to go home.
00:30:01We're going home.
00:30:02We're going home.
00:30:02I got one home.
00:30:05We're going home.
00:30:07So when I got married, then that's when I got married and I left myself.
00:30:13And I got married, then I got married to my wife.
00:30:15I got married to her daughter.
00:30:15And I got married to her daughter.
00:30:18They fired her.
00:30:21You say quick, quick, and make this a quick.
00:30:28So what if after 20 years, you start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months, we are going to be engaged,
00:30:45and he will start the process?
00:30:48If everything goes in the direction that's been going
00:30:51in the last few days, then yes, that's what's going to happen.
00:31:10They are going to give a blessing
00:31:16for everything.
00:31:18This is great news.
00:31:20I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision,
00:31:29because I really wanted to be with Trish,
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to
00:31:36do is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:39But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is,
00:31:46it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities
00:31:55of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother.
00:32:01And I'm actually starting to envision it,
00:32:06and things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:22When you get back to America,
00:32:23You have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that.
00:32:27But you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore.
00:32:39I'm done.
00:32:50We have to snuggle before we get up.
00:32:52One less snuggle.
00:33:02I hope so.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:17What's that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you putting it off?
00:33:25I know you like it.
00:33:26And you've been talking.
00:33:27You've been hammering on that.
00:33:29There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:33:31And that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my d***.
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:05I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry.
00:34:10Okay?
00:34:11I'll make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You've got to start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Um, baby, you know, I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:35:09I'm going to do that, babe.
00:35:11My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are going to find out which is better, the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one is going to get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay?
00:35:28So that's what we'll do.
00:35:29Yes, I can.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer,
00:35:45getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:51I'm done.
00:35:56Um, that's fine.
00:35:58But you know how hard Nigeria is, okay?
00:36:01So maybe I have to call you and ask you for assistance.
00:36:07Thanks.
00:36:10You have to try not to, because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:20I have you.
00:36:21So we have a game plan now.
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:24Hmm.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:30You have to get dressed.
00:36:30We have to get going.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one processing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:55What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You going to wear it today?
00:36:58Do you know what women will say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They will say, your wife is weak.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She deserves a good, you know, good tins.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you.
00:37:21All I want is love.
00:37:22And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:43I knew it was going to be hard.
00:37:44I didn't know it was going to be this part.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged to you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:05I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:12I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:16I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:26I don't want to go.
00:38:30I have to go.
00:38:34I don't know what to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:38When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:57It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, babe.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:16My baby.
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again.
00:39:25Because anything can happen.
00:39:27She might go back to her country
00:39:30and she might change her mind on most of the promises,
00:39:32like bringing me to her country, you know, the visa.
00:39:37I am hoping she will do it,
00:39:39but we are not married legally yet.
00:39:42So it's very hard for me to say goodbye.
00:39:46I miss you so much.
00:39:50I love you, baby.
00:39:51I can't do it.
00:39:51You have to walk away from me.
00:39:53I can't do it.
00:40:07Okay, I'll go.
00:40:08I'll go.
00:40:12It's very hard.
00:40:13I feel like I'm not going to see her again,
00:40:15even though I know I'm going to.
00:40:17I'm making these plans,
00:40:18but I'm thinking, what if they fall through?
00:40:22What if it's more than six months?
00:40:24What if it's more than a year?
00:40:25What if, what if,
00:40:27what if it's two years?
00:40:30What happens between Daniel and I?
00:40:32I don't know.
00:40:49It's nice.
00:40:50It's a big house.
00:40:51We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:40:55I was really upset with Elise
00:40:56and how she acted at the bar the other night,
00:40:58but she's trying to make it up to me.
00:41:00You know, I've never used the kitchen in my house,
00:41:02so the fact that I'm doing this
00:41:04must mean I really like you.
00:41:07Oh.
00:41:08Oh.
00:41:11You said, let's turn the heat up.
00:41:13I said, you play with my heart.
00:41:16You said, you're fine with the cheap stuff.
00:41:18It tastes the same in the dark.
00:41:20In the light of the cold gray,
00:41:23cries for the old days.
00:41:25It's a match in the dark.
00:41:28Okay, we have everything, you think?
00:41:30Yep.
00:41:31Okay, to a trip.
00:41:32It's just us.
00:41:34Chris gets the place to himself now.
00:41:37Silence is coming soon.
00:41:40It's finally peaceful on the moon.
00:41:46Blue mountains.
00:41:48It's water.
00:41:50What's this?
00:41:52It's called deodorant.
00:41:57I was really upset with Elise
00:41:58and how she acted at the bar the other night,
00:42:00but Elise has realised she was in the wrong
00:42:02and she's trying to make it up to me
00:42:04and she's organised a two-night stay
00:42:06at the Blue Mountains.
00:42:08Take me away.
00:42:10The Blue Mountains are known for their hiking
00:42:11and waterfalls
00:42:12and it's a different part of nature
00:42:14besides the beaches that Sydney has,
00:42:16so I'm excited.
00:42:17You know, I've never even been.
00:42:19I wouldn't say all is forgiven,
00:42:21but she's trying
00:42:22and this is a good start.
00:42:34Oh, my God, are we here?
00:42:35We are here.
00:42:38It's nice.
00:42:39It's a big house.
00:42:40We can have sex in a lot of rooms.
00:42:44Yes, we can.
00:42:48I knew absolutely nothing about the Blue Mountains,
00:42:50but Josh has always spoken about it
00:42:53and how much he wanted to go,
00:42:54so I decided to book us a trip.
00:42:56And there's hot tubs there,
00:42:57so I was like, love that.
00:43:00Look, baby, look what I got us.
00:43:02Whoa.
00:43:04Oh, wow.
00:43:05A lot of space for a lot of activity.
00:43:08You're the best.
00:43:09I know.
00:43:10I thought it was a great idea
00:43:12to get out of Bondi,
00:43:13away from Nat,
00:43:14away from Chris,
00:43:15away from boats.
00:43:17I just want for us
00:43:18to really unplug
00:43:19and just be with each other more.
00:43:23Get out of the kitchen.
00:43:24I was cooking for you.
00:43:27You know,
00:43:28I've never used the kitchen in my house,
00:43:30so the fact that I'm doing this for you
00:43:32must mean I really like you.
00:43:33That does mean a lot.
00:43:35This should be fun.
00:43:42Baby!
00:43:43What have you done?
00:43:45Baby!
00:43:46This is not the right stuff
00:43:47I thought it was going to be in my mouth.
00:43:50Oh, no.
00:43:52Baby!
00:43:54I mean, I'm crying.
00:43:56This is...
00:43:57Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.
00:44:00Oh, that was a process.
00:44:02Half of it went in my mouth,
00:44:04my face, my boobs.
00:44:05Maybe, should I take it off?
00:44:09Why isn't this coming to a boil?
00:44:11I don't know how to turn on the soap.
00:44:14Oh.
00:44:15Which pasta do you want?
00:44:17That's so embarrassing.
00:44:19What packer was that in?
00:44:21I'm making you two types of pasta.
00:44:23Perfect.
00:44:28Nope, not ready.
00:44:30Oh, God.
00:44:31This feels really good.
00:44:40I read somewhere, I heard that you'll know if pasta's ready if it sticks to the wall.
00:44:45So, like, if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall, then you know it's ready.
00:44:49Yeah, but I don't think that's the same with penne pasta.
00:44:54Let's throw in the pasta.
00:44:56Let's throw in the pasta.
00:44:57Oh, my God.
00:44:58They're splattering you.
00:45:00Oh, I think I just ruined the sauce.
00:45:03Baby.
00:45:05The kitchen is definitely not her element, but I love seeing the side of Elise that's doing
00:45:11something that she's not used to doing.
00:45:13All right, that'll do.
00:45:15Elise, she keeps me on my toes.
00:45:17I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale, and I know it's not going
00:45:22to be dull with her.
00:45:23Let's see how we go.
00:45:25Is it good?
00:45:26It's actually not that bad.
00:45:33It's horrible.
00:45:35Be honest.
00:45:36I'm not picky.
00:45:37It was the most fun I've had making dinner.
00:45:41I laughed my head off, and I needed that.
00:45:44Me too.
00:45:45You know what's so cute about Josh is, like, when I f*** up or I do something stupid or
00:45:50I feel really awkward, like, he makes so light of it.
00:45:53I don't know.
00:45:54It's like, it's the little moments, like, then that I'm like, you know what?
00:45:57Like, I feel like he could be my forever.
00:46:01But there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on, and it's been constantly playing
00:46:05in the back of my mind.
00:46:06I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met your son to see how you are
00:46:14as
00:46:15a father.
00:46:15You would have met him already.
00:46:16I would want you to.
00:46:17But he's moved away.
00:46:19Like, so for now, like, can we FaceTime?
00:46:22Will that work?
00:46:24Yeah.
00:46:25I'm not trying to harp on him again after everything that we've went through, but I'm leaving soon,
00:46:30and I haven't met anyone in his family.
00:46:31I haven't met his son.
00:46:33And this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on.
00:46:38So I really, really hope that it can happen before the end of my trip.
00:46:43Pretty full.
00:46:44Me too.
00:46:45Yeah.
00:46:49I'm looking for wedding bands.
00:46:51I like classic stuff.
00:46:54It is really important for me to have the wedding ring.
00:46:59$268.
00:47:00A dollar.
00:47:01I think he's not sure.
00:47:03You don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
00:47:09They can have you.
00:47:10Okay.
00:47:12Okay.
00:47:25It's a disaster.
00:47:26Sure.
00:47:28Why not?
00:47:30We have a wiener!
00:47:33Yeah.
00:47:34You really wanted that, don't you?
00:47:54That chick knows my belly!
00:48:05that was fun yeah that was so fun oh look at those jobs that's where you can find very nice
00:48:13wedding gowns and dresses like really pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party yeah
00:48:25thanks with javon and i are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our anniversary
00:48:31party where we're going to renew our vows since we never had a wedding in person basically it's
00:48:40just like a second wedding to me you know because last time we didn't get to touch each other face
00:48:48to face i've been dreaming about this and now it's happening and i just can't wait
00:49:00okay are you ready yeah i guess so
00:49:06now that we're going to bring you our vows good afternoon we decided to look at rings
00:49:15we've been married almost three years and sometimes i still can't believe that jubon
00:49:21hasn't put a ring on it yet i feel like i'm the only woman in the world that got married
00:49:28without
00:49:29a wedding band hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands we have
00:49:37different style okay what are you prepared for well i'm okay with a simple plain wedding band i want it
00:49:45more classic i like classic stuff
00:49:53this one
00:49:57it is really important for me to have the wedding ring my symbol of love
00:50:03you need a ring to symbolize that i assume you don't want someone mistaken me as you know still
00:50:09available single woman they can have you okay okay she's on the market i'm playing and relax
00:50:19when is your wedding well we're actually married already but we don't have an official wedding rings
00:50:27yet we did our marriage online that's why you know to be fair you know i did get you a
00:50:36ring okay you
00:50:38send me your money and i bought a ring that's under 100 that's turned my finger green but that's what
00:50:47i thought no i thought it's just a substitute drink hmm how about poor sir what do you think when
00:50:56it
00:50:56comes to bands like i prefer like like this silver in the middle kind of sporty but they don't sell
00:51:04that
00:51:04i already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and i like it a lot
00:51:15i'm not a jewelry person and i really don't want to spend money on something i don't need or want
00:51:27i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to spend money on something i don't want to
00:51:29do you have something that's a little bit wider i have different kind of design okay this
00:51:39this one is good i like this one more simple white but really looks like i'm married
00:51:47you know what i mean how much is this per gram no yes 15 5 10 in peso 15 5
00:51:5510 how much is that
00:51:56us that's 268 in dollar 268 yeah do you have anything budget no we didn't really have a budget but
00:52:07yes it'sgame budget no we don't buy this you're not she's not we don't buy this we need today yeah
00:52:16i can come back
00:52:18will you come back yeah because I gotta sort out my bank stuff okay why would
00:52:36you bring me ring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway what's the
00:52:42point of going out just to get an idea of what you want thank you so much bye-bye
00:52:59I feel so humiliated that I can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry
00:53:07it's a symbol of our marriage I waited six years to be together in person he never
00:53:16applied for a spousal visa and now I still don't have a ring once again he is making
00:53:25me feel like he's not invested in our relationship I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with
00:53:48you I really don't I mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue I don't think
00:53:55he's the only
00:53:56person that thinks that there's a lot of layers there and I mean
00:54:20oh hey hey what concern from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to beer con yeah I did it was super great thanks for that
00:54:42I kind of partly blame you okay
00:54:49you don't know I don't know what was said between you and him I only know my end of the
00:54:55story okay so we have to come together okay super curious what was going through your head
00:55:02telling him that I hit on you like I don't understand what how that even came up we never
00:55:10did anything and he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him told me that he wishes he never
00:55:16met me and I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up and I'd
00:55:23like to
00:55:23know why you did okay I brought it up because beer con was under the impression that I was in
00:55:31love with
00:55:32you that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some point I needed him to understand that
00:55:40I said no to us having a relationship but you were the one that asked and from that he got
00:55:47very upset
00:55:48and I tried to reassure him it was a year ago it didn't I mean it was before you met
00:55:52him
00:55:53I feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way of trying to sabotage it
00:56:00how long have you been here with him how long have you been here with him two and a half
00:56:05weeks
00:56:06and in two and a half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a threat
00:56:16but that's not on me I did everything I could to diffuse that situation
00:56:22I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you I really don't
00:56:26I mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:56:37there's a lot of layers there but no that's not something I want to happen anyhow
00:56:45we're friends I don't want to anymore
00:56:50at the end of the day I want you to be happy all I ever heard was little stories here
00:56:55and there about
00:56:55him from you you said all these bad things and just why does she keep talking to this guy
00:57:02so I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff and you don't have to worry about
00:57:07him and I
00:57:07anymore you just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you before you make a commitment
00:57:13I don't even know what to do right now like there's part of me that just wants to like go
00:57:17have another conversation with him but I don't even know what to say because he just told me he
00:57:21wishes he never met me okay but the opposite of love is not anger it's apathy
00:57:25so angry means he still loves you
00:57:29I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically
00:57:36but I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind and I think he does care about
00:57:41the future of my relationship with beer con beer con is the person I need in my life
00:57:48and I want to fix this I just don't really know how to go about it so what do I
00:57:55do I feel like he
00:57:56never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal
00:58:00you acknowledge that he felt the way he did it didn't matter whether he was right or not
00:58:06no I never said that at the end of the day the relationship is more important than the argument
00:58:15which means somebody has to say I'm sorry it's amazing how the words I'm sorry when said truly
00:58:22can diffuse the situation okay I see your point I guess I'll go give him a call and see if
00:58:30I can fix
00:58:31that thank you I'll let you know how it goes thank you yeah
00:58:59how are you I'm good okay how are you I'm okay um I was just wondering if we could talk
00:59:14not today I'm sorry did you say not today yeah
00:59:23am I not supposed to come back to the apartment I'm sorry just give me the space
00:59:32okay okay I guess I will get a room somewhere okay we both need time yeah we both need to
00:59:42think about
00:59:49okay okay okay bye bye
00:59:59I don't want to force you but like am I ever gonna meet your son when Elise asked to meet
01:00:05my son I can see
01:00:06that she really really cares but honestly after all the fighting with Elise I've had my doubts about
01:00:12trying to let her in to the most important part of my life
01:00:22oh my god oh that's hot oh that's nice right oh it's really nice
01:00:28that's burning me oh you found the champagne I got it it did sound good I think we should open
01:00:36it
01:00:40wow cheers to that
01:00:49what a perfect ending to a perfect little guy
01:00:53good drive good cooking
01:00:58it's so funny huh so funny okay I tried
01:01:03so am I making it up to you am I doing a good job so far
01:01:07yeah absolutely
01:01:10well have I made it up to you enough that like you can let me in your own world
01:01:19well I want to be with you and I'm scared that I've came literally around the world and all I've
01:01:26met
01:01:26is like a few friends and I don't want to force you but like am I ever gonna meet your
01:01:32son
01:01:38when Elise asks to meet my son or you know talk to my son I find that endearing but honestly
01:01:44the last
01:01:44couple of days after all the fighting with Elise I've had my doubts about whether I'll introduce him
01:01:49or not obviously I'm very protective of my son so I want to be confident that this relationship is
01:01:55going to work I understand he's young and it's like a video call and it's
01:02:01probably like a lot to explain to him yeah I do want to prove how much you mean
01:02:07to me but um that's been playing on me heavily what's been playing on you
01:02:15heavily explain that it's just been a tough year I didn't I didn't move him away but you
01:02:23know there's an hour and a half plane ride and I don't see him as much as I want I
01:02:30still feel
01:02:31like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can so it's just a guilty feeling
01:02:38for me at
01:02:38the moment I miss him you know especially when you're here you know really well yeah well because
01:02:46when you're here I think you know if if he was here as well it'll be like I'd love you
01:02:50two to get
01:02:51along and be like perfect little world I guess it's just painful to to think about it it's okay
01:03:03to have feelings it's okay to be upset if you weren't emotional about your son and you didn't
01:03:09feel this way I would be worried I'd be very very worried that means you're a good dad and it
01:03:15means you
01:03:20you care you know it's like having a son's a responsibility and like excitement and you do
01:03:24things with him and then when something like that gets taken away from you you're like I feel like I
01:03:28lost myself yeah I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself my relationship with my son we're
01:03:38really tight I've been there since he was born he's my little partner in crime we go camping we go
01:03:44fishing
01:03:45surfing you know we kick footballs we go and play golf it's such a good part of my life so
01:03:51it really did
01:03:53hurt this year when I didn't have that I want to help make you feel like you're back together I
01:04:04want to be that rock for you I can do it be there for you support you in any way
01:04:12I can but you have to
01:04:13let me into your life I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:04:20this is very emotional because being away from my son affected me you know more than I thought
01:04:26but I don't want that to hold me back from bringing Elise fully into my life I can see that
01:04:31she really really cares she's shown that she's worthy of you know getting to know my son but at
01:04:37the same time it is scary to let her in the most important part of my life what if things
01:04:43don't
01:04:43work out you know that's going to be pretty devastating for all of us well I'm here for you now
01:05:10I mean after getting her family's approval I just it up
01:05:51my family's happy that you're going to give me a baby
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes that I'm willing to have a child but it felt great
01:06:23to get Trisha's father's blessing overall I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family but I'm
01:06:29sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo now Trisha and I we can sleep together and you
01:06:36know take a nice warm shower together and not have to worry about the eyeballs on us
01:06:44they were really happy you see all of them I thought there was going to be like fireworks set off
01:06:54after I sent it out after I agreed to have that baby
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby but what if you change your mind
01:07:13as long as we're going and moving in the right direction I'm all on board with having a baby
01:07:20because I know that it'll make you happy I know it's what you really want
01:07:27yeah I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm
01:07:33financially ready to have another child but I know that if I don't follow through with my promises
01:07:41this could put Trish in a very bad situation with her family I know how much your family means to
01:07:49her
01:07:49so I feel like that I have to keep my word I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a
01:07:56better situation
01:07:57to financially support another child yeah I'm kind of banking on that
01:08:07it looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out from our future
01:08:15you
01:08:18do that
01:08:19baby doesn't love you more than anything
01:08:33you have to use the restroom or anything
01:08:35no I don't I don't I don't eat anything but this dog or any chicken
01:08:44well damn
01:08:47my flight's been delayed that's it
01:08:50we wait for one hour
01:08:52I hope this bad boy's going straight to Tana
01:08:55a couple of days in Tana before my baby
01:09:06that's really sad
01:09:09sad story
01:09:12it's just all beginning
01:09:39we were waiting on our flight and it just kept getting delayed
01:09:44the whole while Trish is asking me if I loved
01:09:47her I kept telling her yes I love you eventually she says you know why I'm asking
01:09:55and then Trish demanded that I give her my phone
01:10:01it kind of it kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone and she
01:10:11probably saw that my ex had texted me
01:10:19yes
01:10:33a few days ago I got a text message from my ex
01:10:40and she was telling me that um you know she misses the times that we we had together and
01:10:47and I responded and I responded inappropriately
01:10:56and she was telling me that um you didn't tell me if I didn't know
01:11:04I would never hide something
01:11:08this is why what I'm talking about
01:11:10you never told me
01:11:11what's really true
01:11:13you didn't tell me if I didn't know
01:11:18why
01:11:26he told me that he's not talking to his ex
01:11:29that it's just completely over between Rick and that girl
01:11:34but they start talking while we are at my father's house
01:11:48he makes me sad
01:11:57like I love him
01:12:00we talk about the babies
01:12:03the future
01:12:05and
01:12:07I
01:12:08we just
01:12:09my dad just give him blessing
01:12:16I don't want anything
01:12:25I mean after getting her family's approval
01:12:29everything just felt it felt different
01:12:31it did the whole couple weeks prior
01:12:35how did I come so close to
01:12:37getting my what I wanted
01:12:40and then
01:12:41I just
01:12:43f***ed up
01:12:46I'm not sure
01:12:47if I'll get another chance
01:12:49to make things right with Trish
01:12:51and
01:12:51it feels like
01:12:52this is really
01:12:54the
01:12:55end
01:12:56and the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made
01:13:05and arrangements made
01:13:06to
01:13:07get you over to the United States
01:13:09we are
01:13:10leaving tomorrow
01:13:11I know
01:13:12my mom is not going to accept it
01:13:14but
01:13:15I'm ready to do what I need to do
01:13:17to ensure Shane and I are together
01:13:18I have decided
01:13:21I'm going to stay here
01:13:22in the Philippines
01:13:22this is our choice
01:13:25what's that f***
01:13:26you just came out of your mouth
01:13:46man I'm super glad
01:13:47that we were able to sleep in today
01:13:48I know he feels relaxed
01:13:50when mom is sitting around
01:13:51in her bed and sorrow
01:14:05so when I talk to Forrest
01:14:07he's like
01:14:07oh surprise mom
01:14:09I went and met with a lawyer
01:14:11and the lawyer says
01:14:12he has to have like
01:14:13a certain amount of income
01:14:15something like that
01:14:16he didn't do anything right at all
01:14:20I'm upset right now
01:14:22Forrest is coming back
01:14:23and
01:14:24for the last few days
01:14:25Dev and I haven't heard
01:14:26anything from Forrest or Sheena
01:14:28and we've just felt like
01:14:30we're kind of been
01:14:30left in the dark
01:14:31you know I don't know
01:14:34what to expect
01:14:35when they get back
01:14:37from their little
01:14:38rendezvous romantic vacation
01:14:41I don't know
01:14:41what the conversation
01:14:43is going to be
01:14:47we're supposed to be
01:14:48flying out tomorrow
01:14:50and
01:14:50we're not sure
01:14:52what they're thinking
01:14:53or planning
01:14:54at all
01:15:03hey mom
01:15:05how's things going
01:15:08it's going pretty good
01:15:08how are you guys
01:15:13well I think we need
01:15:14to have a talk
01:15:16yeah
01:15:16I think we need to figure
01:15:18things out a little bit
01:15:19yeah
01:15:21that's kind of why
01:15:21we're here
01:15:25today
01:15:25was supposed to be
01:15:26my last day
01:15:27in the Philippines
01:15:27but Sheena and I
01:15:30have made the decision
01:15:31for me to stay here
01:15:32and
01:15:33basically
01:15:34start a life
01:15:35here with her
01:15:36you ready?
01:15:37yeah we're gonna have
01:15:38go let's go
01:15:38bye guys
01:15:39I know
01:15:40that
01:15:41my mom
01:15:42is not going to
01:15:43accept it
01:15:43but
01:15:44she has to understand
01:15:45that
01:15:45I'm not
01:15:46the child
01:15:47that
01:15:47you know
01:15:48she's seen
01:15:49all these years
01:15:49I have
01:15:50changed a lot
01:15:51this trip
01:15:52and I'm ready
01:15:53to do what I need
01:15:54to do
01:15:54to ensure
01:15:55Sheena and I
01:15:55are together
01:16:01wow
01:16:03look at that
01:16:06they moved
01:16:07to every
01:16:07race
01:16:09well look at that
01:16:26yay
01:16:27oh my goodness
01:16:29oh look at that
01:16:31yay
01:16:31oh thank you
01:16:33oh that's beautiful
01:16:35good job guys
01:16:37that's awesome
01:16:37well you realize
01:16:39you have to be
01:16:39not only in a rhythm
01:16:41with the bamboo
01:16:42but you have to be
01:16:44in a rhythm
01:16:44with your partner
01:16:45too at the same time
01:16:46kind of like life
01:16:49well
01:16:49I think Sheena and I
01:16:50were worth moving
01:16:51in perfect rhythm
01:16:55yeah definitely
01:17:01so Sheena do we
01:17:03get menus
01:17:04or how does
01:17:04how does it work
01:17:06there's a set
01:17:07menu that's going
01:17:08to be prepared
01:17:09so you can try
01:17:09guys
01:17:10oh
01:17:15thank you so much
01:17:19so with the
01:17:20the um
01:17:21where
01:17:22where you guys
01:17:22went
01:17:23just fill me in
01:17:24what happened
01:17:26and give me
01:17:26all the details
01:17:28um
01:17:29yeah
01:17:29I feel like
01:17:30me and Sheena
01:17:31we really bonded
01:17:32in more ways
01:17:36than one
01:17:44you had sex
01:17:45didn't you
01:17:49you know what
01:17:50yeah we did
01:17:53now time
01:17:55I enjoyed it
01:17:56it was fun
01:17:58yeah
01:18:01you guys
01:18:02think that you
01:18:04have a good
01:18:04physical
01:18:05connection
01:18:06with each other
01:18:06yeah
01:18:09I feel like
01:18:10our souls
01:18:11have been connected
01:18:12really connected
01:18:13now we can really
01:18:14understand each other
01:18:18I'm happy that
01:18:20you know my son
01:18:21finally lost his
01:18:22virginity
01:18:23finally you know
01:18:24nookie nookie
01:18:25bang bang bang
01:18:27then also too
01:18:30that's an important
01:18:32aspect to know
01:18:33if they had
01:18:33compatibility
01:18:34on all aspects
01:18:35including sexuality
01:18:38well
01:18:39that's good
01:18:40I'm glad you guys
01:18:41are both
01:18:41de-virginized
01:18:42finally
01:18:42that's
01:18:43yeah mom
01:18:48well
01:18:48you know
01:18:49it's a sad
01:18:50thing
01:18:50that we have
01:18:52to leave you
01:18:52and that Forrest
01:18:53has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow
01:18:55but it must be
01:18:56very painful
01:18:58but are there
01:19:00plans being made
01:19:01and arrangements
01:19:01made
01:19:02somehow
01:19:03to
01:19:05try and get you
01:19:07over to the
01:19:07United States
01:19:10did you guys
01:19:11talk
01:19:11make any
01:19:12plans
01:19:13because
01:19:14this is
01:19:15we are
01:19:16leaving
01:19:16tomorrow
01:19:20yeah we
01:19:21talked a lot
01:19:21yesterday
01:19:24with the
01:19:25K-1 visa
01:19:25I found out
01:19:26that
01:19:27being on
01:19:28disability
01:19:29I don't
01:19:30make enough
01:19:31money
01:19:32so
01:19:32she and I
01:19:34have decided
01:19:35that I'm going
01:19:37to stay here
01:19:37and live here
01:19:38in the Philippines
01:19:41Forrest
01:19:42I'm tired
01:19:43of being
01:19:44alone
01:19:45oh my god
01:19:46I did not
01:19:47expect
01:19:47to be staying
01:19:48here
01:19:49long term
01:19:49oh you didn't
01:19:51expect it
01:19:52full
01:19:52I want
01:19:53my love
01:19:54with me
01:19:54in my second
01:19:55half
01:19:55this is our
01:19:56choice
01:19:58what's that
01:19:59that you just
01:19:59came out of
01:20:00your mouth
01:20:01mom
01:20:02where's your
01:20:02list of pros
01:20:03and cons
01:20:03that you wrote
01:20:04out
01:20:05was that
01:20:05in between
01:20:06the
01:20:07excuse me
01:20:09you can say
01:20:09one thing
01:20:10something you
01:20:10want to say
01:20:10but for me
01:20:11I have him
01:20:12he had me
01:20:12I don't care
01:20:13if you're here
01:20:14for my son
01:20:14I'm doing my best
01:20:15for the part
01:20:15for your son
01:20:16because I love
01:20:16your son
01:20:17and I've worked
01:20:18everything for
01:20:18for him
01:20:19for our future
01:20:20I want you
01:20:21to trust your son
01:20:22for once in a while
01:20:27I trust my son
01:20:28I don't trust
01:20:30you
01:20:34sorry
01:20:35I just
01:20:35want to need
01:20:36space
01:20:36sorry
01:20:38sorry
01:20:39excuse me
01:20:47next time on
01:20:48before the 90 days
01:20:49when do you plan on
01:20:51applying for the
01:20:52fiance visa
01:20:53so I can live in
01:20:54police
01:20:55I thought you were
01:20:56going to apply
01:20:56for me
01:20:57in the US
01:20:59no
01:21:01Stig never
01:21:02mentioned
01:21:03wanting to move
01:21:03to the US
01:21:04it's two hours
01:21:05before I'm leaving
01:21:06it's just really
01:21:07weird timing
01:21:08you won't be able
01:21:09to make any money
01:21:10I'm sorry
01:21:10you're going to
01:21:11be my sugar mama
01:21:13I wish we could
01:21:14have talked it out
01:21:15last night
01:21:16you've been texting
01:21:17with him this morning
01:21:18what has he been saying
01:21:19I asked him
01:21:20if we could talk
01:21:21and he said sure
01:21:23I want to show him
01:21:25that my feelings
01:21:25for him
01:21:26are so much stronger
01:21:27than how I ever
01:21:29felt about Michael
01:21:30why did you
01:21:32mislead me
01:21:32like Michael
01:21:33made the move
01:21:34I was worried
01:21:35you would
01:21:37try to put a stop
01:21:38to my friendship
01:21:39with him
01:21:40can you do that
01:21:44are you excited
01:21:46about today
01:21:47I think
01:21:47I should ask you
01:21:48that question though
01:21:49I just don't know
01:21:51what I'm going to say
01:21:52for my vows
01:21:53it's just going to be
01:21:54like the basics
01:21:56I just wanted today
01:21:58to be full of love
01:22:01but it just feels like
01:22:03any other day for him
01:22:04I don't know
01:22:06I can't pretend
01:22:08that everything is fine
01:22:12I love your son
01:22:13and I'll do anything
01:22:14my best for him
01:22:15love doesn't pay the bills
01:22:16Gina
01:22:17you know I'm like
01:22:18in panic mode
01:22:20that he's going to
01:22:20move to the Philippines
01:22:21it's not going to work
01:22:23it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think
01:22:25that you're going to make
01:22:27working here
01:22:27where are you going to live
01:22:29for us
01:22:30have you even factored
01:22:31how much it's going to cost
01:22:33I don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages
01:22:38in the text
01:22:39why did you betray me
01:22:42why don't you block her
01:22:43if you want this relationship
01:22:46tell her that
01:22:47you don't want her anymore
01:22:48that I'm with you
01:22:51I love Trish
01:22:52but love isn't
01:22:55so black and white
01:22:56I need to be honest
01:22:58about my feelings
01:23:00I don't know what to do
01:23:04oh my god
01:23:06stunning
01:23:07I don't think Elise
01:23:08realized you know
01:23:09what she'd signed up for
01:23:12come on baby
01:23:13I'm so done
01:23:14come on baby
01:23:16what do I do
01:23:18yeah at first
01:23:19I'm just thinking
01:23:20she's being a drama queen
01:23:23and I start to think
01:23:24oh f***
01:23:24is she okay
01:23:26get going
01:23:28help me
01:23:29help
01:23:29help me
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