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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 09: Initial Descent
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00:00:00Maki Maki.
00:00:02Maki Maki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are to introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't have kids, they won't give the place to you.
00:00:16This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44Every opportunity I have.
00:00:46Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
00:00:50What?
00:00:53You protested Lavia Rezim?
00:00:56I have been with a woman before.
00:00:58Yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore.
00:01:00No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing.
00:01:16Bro, I feel guilty as all hell, because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:01:28This is your thing, being unromantic.
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:34Like, making sure your lights is on, because you're at home, and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:45From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You lie about...
00:01:53Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:55Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:58Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you shouldn't listen to me.
00:02:01I do respect you, but...
00:02:10So you're saying in this very moment, you see 0% chance of me being your wife.
00:02:15I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:02:17But you're at 0?
00:02:45So there's 0% chance you want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:50I want to just sleep.
00:02:510% Ziad?
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now about us, 0%.
00:02:55And I don't know why you would say that in front of your friends
00:02:58when it's, like, my first time meeting them.
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful, to talk to me like that as one of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is when someone speaks, we have to listen to him.
00:03:09I listen...
00:03:09All I do is listen to you.
00:03:11No, no, you didn't.
00:03:11You are always difficult.
00:03:13You can't...
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak.
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online, and then I get you...
00:03:20I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:21No, you speak.
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no.
00:03:25Okay, Ziad.
00:03:26You can go to sleep.
00:03:27Okay.
00:03:29So good night.
00:03:31I say good night.
00:03:32Okay.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:54I have some tea for you.
00:04:10This morning, I woke up, and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco, and I've given this relationship my all, and to hear that
00:04:20Ziad is 0% sure of having a future with me, I'm just confused.
00:04:26Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring saying that it was here and waiting for
00:04:31me.
00:04:32I spent thousands of dollars to come here just to be sitting here right now with Ziad,
00:04:37And then for Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure, I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:45So how are you feeling after, like, what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions.
00:04:52Yeah.
00:04:54And I feel good to see them, too.
00:04:57I mean, it was nice to meet your friends.
00:04:59And I know that we have a lot to work on, but before I got here, you made it seem
00:05:04like
00:05:04we were ready to be engaged, and then I meet your friends, and you're, like, 0% sure.
00:05:10It makes me feel like we're never going to get married.
00:05:13We're never going to get engaged.
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time and money that I don't have.
00:05:19And I'm basically here for, like, no reason.
00:05:24I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:28It's like, why now?
00:05:30You don't understand me, so...
00:05:32But how am I not...
00:05:33I understand what that means.
00:05:34So what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36No, in your mind.
00:05:37Do you realize everything you said about me since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44Seems like you're always mad at me.
00:05:46I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:48Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:52I would send me nice messages and, you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things.
00:05:57And then since I've gotten here, it's been like, you're, like, mad all the time.
00:06:03Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:15And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:19I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:28So, from going out, it would be so nice.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:39At this moment, I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:44But I'm a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:48Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:51She's special.
00:06:52She's so sweet.
00:06:54Yeah, maybe I have been too hard on here.
00:06:58I believe there is something between us.
00:07:01So, from now, there is no fights.
00:07:04No fights.
00:07:08Aw.
00:07:12You can come here.
00:07:16This feels nice, babe.
00:07:20This is the very first time that I felt any physical chemistry between us.
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing with the head.
00:07:30Very slowly.
00:07:33Extremely slowly.
00:07:35But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:38And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign that we're moving forward.
00:07:42I think we have a lot to work on.
00:07:45But I think we'll be okay.
00:07:47Just with time, everything will be good.
00:08:12My head hurts.
00:08:13It itches.
00:08:14Because the glue is like bubble gum right now, stuck to my head.
00:08:31This has been on for about a week.
00:08:33This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it overnight once.
00:08:39And it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:41My head hurts.
00:08:42It's time.
00:08:43I have to take it off.
00:08:44I mean, it's awful right now.
00:08:49I've never been this nasty before in my life.
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days.
00:08:56And I have yet to change my wig.
00:09:00No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.
00:09:04So I don't even know how it's going to feel coming off of my head, actually.
00:09:09Ow.
00:09:09It actually hurts.
00:09:16It hurts.
00:09:18It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:20My head itches.
00:09:22I have headaches.
00:09:23My scalp hurts.
00:09:24I have sores.
00:09:25I feel them growing.
00:09:27I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:31I need to take it off.
00:09:32It's time.
00:09:38Oh, my God.
00:09:41Oh, it itches.
00:09:47I have some sores on the side of my head where the glue was.
00:09:53I hate to say this, but the wig actually has an odor to it right now from all the sweating.
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:10:04But I need to feel the air touching my scalp.
00:10:10It just feels so incredible.
00:10:13It feels so light and airy.
00:10:15And it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:18At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels when he sees me.
00:10:23I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:27God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:30And it's not just my hair.
00:10:33We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married.
00:10:36But I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:10:41I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:10:44I think if he had known how many women I had actually been with, I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.
00:10:50I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.
00:10:55On top of that, I've been so nervous to speak to my daughter, Faith, because I promised her I wouldn't
00:11:03get engaged to Daniel until after I revealed all of my secrets.
00:11:07But yesterday, I finally ripped off the Band-Aid.
00:11:12We started leaving the airport, and there was a festival in the street with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:19It was for me.
00:11:21Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:23You're sending him money all the time, yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:33I don't know.
00:11:34I don't know.
00:11:36And there's more.
00:11:38What else?
00:11:42He dropped to his knee, and he pulled out a ring.
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head yes.
00:11:52You're awfully quiet.
00:11:53Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:57Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:12:00Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:12:02At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:12:05It's like, tell love nuke.
00:12:07Oh, God.
00:12:08Ma, this isn't good.
00:12:10You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:12:14The other thing I personally have an issue with is, you haven't asked Daniel about the women he's been with.
00:12:22You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:25You know he's a playboy.
00:12:27How could you let all this slide and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:41Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:45I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping from Daniel.
00:12:49But Faith is right.
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past.
00:12:54Or even other women he's been with.
00:12:57There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide.
00:13:01And maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:13:05Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends tonight.
00:13:09And I'm excited.
00:13:10I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:18Hmm.
00:13:20Daniel just texted me.
00:13:26Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:29Oh God.
00:13:31I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:35Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful special woman in the world.
00:13:39But he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:42At home I don't wear my wig 24-7, seven days a week.
00:13:52So if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
00:14:08Hey.
00:14:09Oh wow.
00:14:10Rocks.
00:14:11Daddy.
00:14:14Oh my God.
00:14:18I'm waiting my jungle queen.
00:14:26I think it's stupid.
00:14:27It's not even sexy.
00:14:30I don't know.
00:14:31I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:34Oh!
00:14:36Oh no!
00:14:37That sounds like a plan.
00:14:41I'm so frustrated.
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like I'm sticking on landmines and I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:14:50I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:56It's hard to be with him.
00:14:59How much more of this I could take, I don't know.
00:15:13Hannah, why are you so emotional?
00:15:17Something you will never understand because you don't have that.
00:15:31Well, I mean, I don't, I don't know what to say.
00:15:34Because no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:39You know?
00:15:40So I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:58The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:16:04It has nothing to do with money.
00:16:07But you have to remind me every time we argue.
00:16:14About what you do for me and you throw it to my face.
00:16:18And I feel like it's so unfair because you want to be a provider.
00:16:22But at the same time, you're always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:28Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:33You're unbelievable.
00:16:35Okay.
00:16:53I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage.
00:16:58But sometimes I feel like I'm not being appreciated.
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come around and say, hey, you know, he does
00:17:12a lot for me.
00:17:12Maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:17:15But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:17:18You know, I would definitely want things to be a lot more peaceful between us.
00:17:22But sometimes I feel like I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.
00:17:27I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:33I'm so frustrated.
00:17:43All right.
00:17:45I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:50I'm just, I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:53I don't want to do this right now.
00:18:05I don't really know what's going on in his head, honestly.
00:18:09I am not one of this misogynistic and, you know, masculinity thing.
00:18:15And it's really confusing because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff.
00:18:21But at the same time, traditional goes like the man provides.
00:18:26And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:29I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:33Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much as he provides monetary doesn't mean I'm not doing my
00:18:43part.
00:18:47Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:55I've been patient so long.
00:19:00That was my contribution.
00:19:02I stayed all along.
00:19:08But sometimes, he just doesn't get me.
00:19:12He knows what sets me off.
00:19:15He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:19:17He knows what offends me.
00:19:21So, we argued a lot before.
00:19:24Online.
00:19:25But it's just more different.
00:19:27I'm just not used to it.
00:19:30Like, arguing in person.
00:19:32We've never been together before.
00:19:34So, how much more, like, of this guy could take?
00:19:42I don't know.
00:19:43It's just annoying.
00:19:59Woohoo!
00:20:00Baby, I hope there's no sharks in this water.
00:20:03There is.
00:20:04Oh, hell no.
00:20:05But that's fine.
00:20:06They're nice, right?
00:20:08Oh, hell.
00:20:09There's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:20:11Malagasy shark is bad.
00:20:14Babe.
00:20:28Here we are.
00:20:31Woo!
00:20:34Where is this place?
00:20:36It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:41Believe me.
00:20:43We only have a few more days left of island hopping before we have to head out to meet Trisha's
00:20:49family.
00:20:50It's beautiful up here.
00:20:52There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind after our conversation about meeting her dad and all this pressure about
00:21:01having to have kids.
00:21:04But right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused on being in such a beautiful place.
00:21:11Why do I have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:21:17I got us the most incredible place to stay on a very secluded part of Nosy Kumba.
00:21:25It's totally off-grid, and I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:30I see it now, babe.
00:21:32I'm really excited for her to see it and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:38All right.
00:21:40We're here, baby.
00:21:43Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:47Baby, yeah!
00:21:51Yeah, baby.
00:21:53Oh, my God.
00:21:54You like it?
00:21:56Yeah!
00:21:57Come here.
00:21:57Let's check it out.
00:21:58Oh, my God.
00:22:03We can't even see all of this.
00:22:06You see the whole island, baby, is here.
00:22:09I'm really surprised.
00:22:11You've never seen a place like this before, baby?
00:22:13I've never.
00:22:15Okay, let's explore here.
00:22:19Be careful, baby.
00:22:20Watch your step here.
00:22:22We got our own little waterfalls and private pools.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:28I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:33I'm really surprised.
00:22:35It's very beautiful.
00:22:37The view, the house.
00:22:41I'm living here, but I didn't know that a place like this could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:49I did this for you, honey.
00:22:51Beautiful bed.
00:22:53I love the bed.
00:22:54It's for you.
00:22:55I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:59What is it?
00:23:02Here we go.
00:23:04I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:23:07Let's hope we run around the jungle here.
00:23:09Let me see.
00:23:10There you go.
00:23:11This is yours right here.
00:23:13You serious?
00:23:14Yeah.
00:23:15I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:23:19I'll put mine on, and you put yours on.
00:23:21Okay.
00:23:24Role playing is something that I recently got into, and I just think it's something fun
00:23:30to do.
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:38I mean, it's hot.
00:23:41I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:23:47Oh.
00:23:49You look beautiful.
00:23:50I am, seriously.
00:23:53Come on, baby.
00:23:54You look sexy, baby.
00:23:56Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:03I think it's stupid.
00:24:05It's not even sexy.
00:24:07I don't know.
00:24:09I'm going to make this role play.
00:24:11Come on.
00:24:12I got you to score the gun.
00:24:15Come on, baby.
00:24:16Get into it.
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy, but I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip,
00:24:27so I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:24:33In my fantasy, girl.
00:24:36But the way I'm chasing, I don't know.
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:41Oh!
00:24:44That sounds like a plan.
00:24:46Let's walk naked.
00:24:48Yeah!
00:24:49No!
00:24:50Come on, baby.
00:24:51Nobody's going to see.
00:24:53It could be Adam and Eve.
00:24:57Come on, baby.
00:25:21Do you have your own man?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24That's what I'm laying next to.
00:25:31We had a wonderful night.
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish, but in the back of my mind, I feel guilty because I know that
00:25:47I've held back for too long now.
00:25:54Time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:58I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:26:05And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:26:14So cool here.
00:26:16That's nice.
00:26:18Yeah!
00:26:20What if you, Jesus?
00:26:23Yep, it's a beautiful view, baby.
00:26:26The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:26:30It's been like a dream.
00:26:34Yeah.
00:26:35I'm happy.
00:26:39Baby.
00:26:42There's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:48You make me afraid.
00:26:50I don't know what you...
00:26:53Explain yourself.
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this.
00:27:01I don't know what words to say that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:27:12I'm worried that she'll want to end things and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:27:23Just know, just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:27:31What do you mean?
00:27:37Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:40Do you want the truth?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:44When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:27:47I find another way to pay that debt.
00:28:13Good morning.
00:28:18I really had fun meeting everybody yesterday.
00:28:20I did too.
00:28:21I'm still feeling tired.
00:28:24I've been in Turkey for almost a week now and it's going okay.
00:28:32We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best friend, Michael.
00:28:40And then last night, I got to meet Birkan's best friends and they kept having conversation in Turkish and I
00:28:49can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from me.
00:28:54Are you excited for the day?
00:28:57I don't know.
00:28:58I don't know what to be excited about.
00:29:00I don't even know what to pack.
00:29:02Yeah, you better pack.
00:29:04Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway and I'm honestly having mixed feelings about
00:29:12it.
00:29:16I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:29:20I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money.
00:29:27And maybe I'm wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative.
00:29:31You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.
00:29:34Like, I don't like that.
00:29:36Like, I just don't like the timing of it.
00:29:39But it also could be a good thing that we're getting away right now because maybe we'll have more time
00:29:44to, like, process and be in a more lovey state.
00:29:50So, we'll see.
00:29:59Good night.
00:30:01Good night.
00:30:04I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.
00:30:08You don't need to brush your hair.
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.
00:30:13I think we will find a fork and we will...
00:30:16A fork?
00:30:17Yeah.
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid.
00:30:19You are.
00:30:22I think she needs some spice in life, you know?
00:30:27And I am the spice in her life.
00:30:29So, this is my...
00:30:36I didn't realize we're going to be right on the water.
00:30:39This is amazing.
00:30:40I like the view, you know?
00:30:41This is incredible.
00:30:43Cheshme, it is a romantic place, you know?
00:30:46It's peaceful.
00:30:47There's sea.
00:30:49Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:51Wow.
00:30:52I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:30:53Do you want to visit there?
00:30:55I would love to visit there.
00:30:56We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:31:01I am so ready.
00:31:03I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:31:08My friends are right.
00:31:10I can just keep the secret for the rest of my life.
00:31:14But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:31:17If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:31:21I've always wanted to visit a castle.
00:31:24I feel like I get to be the princess now in the castle.
00:31:28Now I'll always be a princess.
00:31:30When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:32I have no idea.
00:31:46Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:48Is this a bathroom?
00:31:49What, what?
00:31:50Is that a bathroom?
00:31:51Nah.
00:31:52I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:31:54Cheshme is incredible.
00:31:57It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:32:00This is like exactly what I was envisioning
00:32:02when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:32:05Would you take our picture?
00:32:07Yeah, of course.
00:32:14Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:16I am enjoying my day.
00:32:17I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:32:19Seriously.
00:32:20You know, I always try my best.
00:32:23I know.
00:32:24Because I care about you and I love you.
00:32:27I know you do.
00:32:29You know, we're still thinking about marriage.
00:32:33You still think about it.
00:32:34I still think about it.
00:32:36We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:32:38And you have a lot of questions.
00:32:40So, what are you wondering?
00:32:43I know you're wondering.
00:32:45Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations
00:32:52that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:32:54But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:33:01Back then, I had places.
00:33:04Back when?
00:33:042019 and 2020.
00:33:06Okay.
00:33:08I had my first shisha bar.
00:33:12I take a loan from a bank.
00:33:14Then I bought my second place.
00:33:17After that, I opened my third place.
00:33:20Okay.
00:33:20So, you had three places?
00:33:22And all of them is big.
00:33:24I was earning.
00:33:26But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:33:31I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:33:35I sell everything I have.
00:33:38I work, like, daily jobs and things.
00:33:42But sometimes I work full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:46And I get paid $40.
00:33:49It's useless.
00:33:51So, I find another way to pay that debt.
00:33:58How is that even possible?
00:34:04Do you want the truth?
00:34:06Yeah.
00:34:10I gamble.
00:34:12A lot.
00:34:18How often are you gambling?
00:34:20If I have money, I gamble.
00:34:24So, actually, it could be every day.
00:34:35I took it off so it could breathe.
00:34:38I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:34:43I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:46It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:34:48You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:34:54I don't know.
00:34:57I don't know.
00:34:57How often do you think I'm a burglar?
00:35:11I don't know me.
00:35:14I don't know you.
00:35:26Good morning, sir.
00:35:33Hey.
00:35:34We're just packing.
00:35:36Since this is your last day at Misibis Bay Resort, the resort prepared breakfast for you
00:35:41too, ma'am, sir.
00:35:42Oh, thank you.
00:35:43Sure.
00:35:44Let's go.
00:35:46It's the last morning of our honeymoon, and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she
00:35:51lives.
00:35:53But me and Annalena are still not talking.
00:36:00My strategy after last night, just to give her space.
00:36:06Every time we fight, he has this habit of, you know, silent treatment that he gives me,
00:36:15instead of, you know, talking it out and fixing things.
00:36:22Before we met in person, if we don't talk for a few days, it was normal because we are
00:36:28in a long distance relationship.
00:36:31Ooh.
00:36:31But I just can't believe we're doing this right now, and we're in the same room together
00:36:38physically.
00:36:57Do you want to talk about last night?
00:37:02You know, clearly we have problems, you know, because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:37:08but providing for you is not easy.
00:37:12And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:37:15But when I'm telling you that, like, I'm not trying to, like, throw it in your face.
00:37:22I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:37:25It's like, what you're saying is, because I'm provide, you gotta be soft.
00:37:30Because if I react a certain way, you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:37:35Anna, I don't bring it up to say, hey, look, look what I did, so shut up.
00:37:39You know what I'm saying?
00:37:40Like, that's not what I'm trying.
00:37:41That's exactly what I feel.
00:37:43Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you, but the way I view it is,
00:37:47it's like, look, you know, Anna, I work hard to do X, Y, and Z.
00:37:49So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like, you know,
00:37:53my husband works really hard, so I'm gonna make sure his day is positive
00:37:57when I talk to him on his break for 15 minutes.
00:38:00But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:38:03You don't think how that makes me feel, like, sometimes?
00:38:07Like, when somebody's constantly criticizing you,
00:38:09when they're supposed to be on your side?
00:38:15But it's not easy being your woman.
00:38:19Putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining.
00:38:25It takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:38:30I know some women would have been, would have given up already.
00:38:38All I hear is, like, you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
00:38:43I mean, you tell me I'm a downer.
00:38:46You tell me I'm not romantic.
00:38:49I mean, Anna, you're this perfect picture,
00:38:51and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:38:56So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:39:28Hey.
00:39:29Oh, wow.
00:39:30Look.
00:39:32Daddy.
00:39:38Oh, my God.
00:39:51Let's get money out of the ATM.
00:39:54And then I want to go for a walk.
00:40:01What?
00:40:03What's wrong?
00:40:07I took it off so it could breathe.
00:40:13It was itchy and hot, and I've worn it for quite a while.
00:40:18And you didn't tell me you're taking it off?
00:40:20No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off.
00:40:29I was astonished when I saw her.
00:40:32It's embarrassing.
00:40:35She looks older.
00:40:37I didn't believe she's...
00:40:40Lisa used to know.
00:40:41If we are going to be together,
00:40:43she have to wear her wig.
00:40:45She's not gonna go with her short hair.
00:40:49Thank you so much.
00:40:51I want her to miss my friends tonight.
00:40:54But if she don't wear a long head,
00:40:57my friends will be embarrassed.
00:40:58My friends will judge her.
00:41:08What?
00:41:11Like you wish I would have had it on to go out?
00:41:14Yes.
00:41:16But you know it's a wig,
00:41:17and I need to be natural sometimes.
00:41:19It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now
00:41:22or something.
00:41:23I'm not embarrassed, but...
00:41:30My hair needed to be washed,
00:41:31and my head needs to air out, babe.
00:41:33Why didn't you stay inside when it dries?
00:41:37You wear it on before coming out.
00:41:42So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:41:44I'm not saying you're not pretty,
00:41:46but I love the long hair.
00:41:47Well, I don't have long hair.
00:41:49I have short hair.
00:41:55I'm hurt, and now I feel ugly,
00:41:58and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:42:01I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:42:04I don't even want to look at him.
00:42:06I want to be away from him.
00:42:09You have to be wearing your wig
00:42:11when we are meeting my friends or meeting people, okay?
00:42:15I mean, I can't wear it all the time.
00:42:19I'm not saying all the time,
00:42:21but when we are going out to meet friends, families,
00:42:23wear it.
00:42:26You're being rude.
00:42:28You don't understand.
00:42:29I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.
00:42:34Sorry.
00:42:34And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it
00:42:36just as much as I am with it.
00:42:39You're always beautiful, okay?
00:42:42You are.
00:42:43I would hug you.
00:42:45You're mine, always.
00:42:51I don't feel he means it.
00:42:53I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful
00:42:56and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:42:58I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:43:02I don't know.
00:43:03I have so many questions, but I have to get answers,
00:43:06and I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some,
00:43:09because right now I'm starting to see red flags
00:43:12and cracks where I never did before.
00:43:22What's going on?
00:43:25We were getting along really well, getting really flirty,
00:43:30and we made out.
00:43:34I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:43:39I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:43:42You have sex with her?
00:43:45Did you?
00:43:58Just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:44:03You make me afraid.
00:44:05I don't know what you...
00:44:08Explain yourself.
00:44:25You remember those five days that...
00:44:33that you weren't talking to me.
00:44:36Why you bring up five days?
00:44:38What's wrong with five days?
00:44:40I already explained everything, so what's the problem now?
00:44:45The problem isn't that, it's what I did.
00:44:50What...
00:44:53What's wrong?
00:44:55I'm trying to tell you now.
00:44:58You make me afraid.
00:45:00Say, Rico, I don't know why you hesitate.
00:45:02What's wrong?
00:45:05When you...
00:45:07When you weren't talking to me, I...
00:45:12I started talking to my ex.
00:45:19She was, like, the only one that, you know, was there to...
00:45:23to listen to me.
00:45:26So, I decided to book a trip, going to Columbia,
00:45:31to be with my ex.
00:45:38I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:45:44I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:45:49You have sex with her.
00:45:51Did you?
00:45:58Yes.
00:46:11I'm sorry, baby.
00:46:14I messed up. I know I did.
00:46:19I regret what I did.
00:46:22But this is something we can work through, baby.
00:46:25Shut up. It was a mistake.
00:46:26Shut up.
00:46:33Maybe I...
00:46:33How?
00:46:36Rick, how could you do that to me?
00:46:39We were together.
00:46:44Baby, you weren't there.
00:46:46And I told you, after a couple of days, I said,
00:46:49if I don't hear from you, then I'm gonna assume that it's over,
00:46:53that you don't want me anymore.
00:46:54And I still didn't hear from you until a couple of days after that.
00:46:59And by then, I had already booked a flight there.
00:47:07I did replay to your messages.
00:47:10I did replay to your call.
00:47:12And I even told you, I'll call you when I'm free.
00:47:16You told me that you would call me when you get back from the police station.
00:47:21I wouldn't hear from you.
00:47:22I would call you, and then you said that I was stalking you.
00:47:26That sounds like, to me, that you didn't want to be with me.
00:47:29Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me? Why?
00:47:35Why?
00:47:36Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:47:39I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:47:46Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:47:49No, no.
00:47:50It's over.
00:47:52It's over now.
00:47:54I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:47:57I haven't had any contact with her.
00:48:01I thought you were different.
00:48:06That I can trust you.
00:48:09You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:48:13I'm not like your ex.
00:48:15And what you did?
00:48:16Guess what?
00:48:17Same thing.
00:48:19It's the same. You cheated.
00:48:26Jesus.
00:48:27I thought you were a good guy.
00:48:30I am a good guy, baby.
00:48:31You were not.
00:48:32You can trust me, baby.
00:48:34It's different now.
00:48:35We've met in person.
00:48:37We've consummated our relationship.
00:48:39We have a stronger bond now.
00:48:41Don't you see that?
00:48:42No.
00:48:45Can't we just start from there?
00:48:49Can't we just start from...
00:48:50If I knew, Rick, if I knew he went there, I'll never talk to you.
00:48:55Baby, can't we just start from...
00:48:56Baby.
00:48:57No, shut up.
00:48:58Don't call me baby.
00:48:59Shut up, Rick, shut up.
00:49:01Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:49:02I...
00:49:03Shut up.
00:49:06Where are you going?
00:49:07I don't care.
00:49:08Oh, .
00:49:26What are you cooking?
00:49:40Oh, baby.
00:49:41What are you cooking?
00:49:43I want you...
00:49:45...to go to the roof.
00:49:46And wait for me.
00:49:47Yeah, yeah.
00:49:48Alright.
00:49:49So I'll see you there.
00:49:50Okay.
00:49:50OK, babe.
00:49:52Emma and I, we feel ourselves like we forget problems,
00:49:56and we start refreshing again from the beginning.
00:50:00It'll add to the sweet.
00:50:02I never cooked for my girlfriend before.
00:50:05So I feel nervous to cook for Emma.
00:50:10I want her to be perfect.
00:50:17Babe, you can just put it there.
00:50:20Babe, this is so cute.
00:50:23Thank you, babe.
00:50:25You look so nice.
00:50:26Thanks, babe.
00:50:28You look very handsome tonight.
00:50:29What did you make?
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:31What do you think inside here?
00:50:33Tajin.
00:50:34So I hope you will like it.
00:50:36Let's see.
00:50:37Ooh, that actually looks very good.
00:50:40So as Muslim people, when we want to eat anything,
00:50:44Yeah.
00:50:45We say bismillah.
00:50:46Mm-hmm.
00:50:47Like bon appetit?
00:50:48Yeah.
00:50:48To you.
00:50:53Mmm.
00:50:55So good.
00:50:56It's fine if you eat it or no.
00:50:58No.
00:50:58So good.
00:51:02Thank you for doing all this.
00:51:03I love the sweet side of you, because that makes me feel like you actually,
00:51:06like, love me.
00:51:08Yeah.
00:51:09It's because I feel it.
00:51:11It's-
00:51:11Do you feel romance in the air?
00:51:14We're passing this period of fighting.
00:51:16That's something good.
00:51:17I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me.
00:51:21I feel so, so happy to see you here, especially.
00:51:26It's like a dream and unreal.
00:51:29What's the word we can say?
00:51:31Unreal.
00:51:32Unreal.
00:51:32Yeah.
00:51:33Mm-hmm.
00:51:35That was very sweet, babe.
00:51:37Look at you being so romantic today.
00:51:40I'm happy to be here, too.
00:51:42Yesterday, it was 0%.
00:51:44Right now, it's 7%.
00:51:49So it's only at 7 now?
00:51:51Yeah.
00:51:52It's slowly, slowly, step by step.
00:51:55We can't be, like, 0% and 50%.
00:51:58No.
00:52:02What percent do you need to actually get engaged to 100?
00:52:05Exactly.
00:52:06And you're only at 7 right now?
00:52:08It's just numbers.
00:52:10With time, it will be more than 200.
00:52:12All right.
00:52:14On a scale from 0% to 100%, how much do you love me?
00:52:19Why are you always looking for this?
00:52:20How many cents?
00:52:21Because I need to know.
00:52:23I always say 70%.
00:52:2670%?
00:52:27Yeah.
00:52:27Okay.
00:52:27So you love me more than if you're sure you want to get engaged to me?
00:52:33Yeah.
00:52:34Because engagement, it's a big thing.
00:52:36Okay.
00:52:37You see?
00:52:37All right.
00:52:38But you love me at 70.
00:52:39Mm-hmm.
00:52:40Okay.
00:52:41Okay.
00:52:41That's good.
00:52:42Yep.
00:52:44You know, what would have made this dinner 100 times better?
00:52:46Some dessert.
00:52:48Mm-hmm.
00:52:49Mm-hmm.
00:52:51So you want to go to dessert?
00:52:53Huh?
00:52:54You want to go to dessert?
00:52:54You say dessert?
00:52:56Dessert.
00:52:57Deserve?
00:52:57Not the desert.
00:52:59Ah.
00:52:59Dessert.
00:53:00Deserve?
00:53:00Yeah.
00:53:01Like ice cream.
00:53:02But yes, I do want to go to the desert.
00:53:07You look okay.
00:53:08That's funny because when we talked the first time, you told me you never see a camel.
00:53:13You are here right now in Marcos and I know it's your birthday tomorrow.
00:53:16So I plan to take you to the desert.
00:53:19It would be nice.
00:53:21Aw, mate.
00:53:23I'm excited.
00:53:25That's like my dream, to go to the desert and ride a camel.
00:53:28Yeah, yeah.
00:53:29I think it's really sweet that Ziet is planning this desert trip for the both of us.
00:53:34I know that he's only at 7%, but I only have two weeks left of my trip and I'm really
00:53:41hoping
00:53:41that a romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up.
00:53:45What do you wear to ride a camel?
00:53:48Pants?
00:54:02I'm in a good mood.
00:54:03We're packing up and we're going to like a romantic getaway in the desert.
00:54:07And it's my birthday.
00:54:09So happy birthday to me.
00:54:11Yep.
00:54:12And then there's more.
00:54:14What's going on?
00:54:15We were getting along really well, getting really flirty.
00:54:20And he came into my room and we made out.
00:54:28And then we had sex.
00:54:32Twice.
00:54:35So I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting and it felt really good.
00:54:43And it was nice.
00:54:45I would say it's like a normal, it's like average size.
00:54:50It's nothing crazy, but it's not teeny tiny.
00:54:53It like, it fits in your hand.
00:54:55That's like the best way to describe it.
00:54:57I could deal with it.
00:55:00But I think he's really worried about how people are going to view him,
00:55:04especially because he is Muslim and like his religion and everything.
00:55:09But I had to tell someone.
00:55:11I feel like after having sex, we were in like a perfect place.
00:55:17He was being just so much nicer to me and he was like telling me how much he loved me
00:55:21and how much he cared about me and how like he does want a future with me.
00:55:27So with the way the last night went, I could really see a proposal.
00:55:33And I think hopefully he changed his mind and he's feeling just as sure as I am.
00:55:40I do feel better now that we finally did have sex.
00:55:44I think this means that we're getting a lot closer, but he still doesn't know about the whole Muhammad situation.
00:55:51I know that he does have questions about everything.
00:55:55And I feel like if I'm going to be that serious about him and our relationship,
00:55:58I don't want there to be any secrets.
00:56:00I don't want to lie to him about anything.
00:56:02My friends and family have kind of warned me that once he finds out about Muhammad,
00:56:06he's probably going to break up with me.
00:56:08That's the last thing that I want to happen.
00:56:10But I know that I'm going to need to tell him sooner rather than later.
00:56:25Do you look handsome.
00:56:27I like this on you.
00:56:29You really do.
00:56:30You look really.
00:56:32Awesome wine.
00:56:33You look beautiful and stunning.
00:56:35Yeah, we go.
00:56:38Now I'm giving her the time of her life for me.
00:56:40Come on and wine for me.
00:56:45I will teach you how to say thank you.
00:56:48I will teach you.
00:56:49Thank you is important.
00:56:50I want to know how to say thank you.
00:56:51Imana.
00:56:52Imana.
00:56:53Is this thank you?
00:56:54Imana.
00:56:55Imana.
00:56:58Going without my wig for the first time in front of Daniel was a very vulnerable experience
00:57:05for me.
00:57:06And Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped.
00:57:10Putting the wig back on today was horrible.
00:57:13And now he's responding to me like I'm the most beautiful creature on earth yet again.
00:57:19Does he not love me for who I am?
00:57:22I'm thinking about what Faith said.
00:57:24And I'm starting to question what Daniel's intentions really are.
00:57:30I'm a little nervous.
00:57:31Is there anything I should know?
00:57:34You don't have to be of us because they're my friends.
00:57:37I know them very well.
00:57:38That's why I invited them.
00:57:39They're my friends.
00:57:40I know they're your friends but they're not my friends.
00:57:43And I'm going and they're going to judge me.
00:57:45But needless to say I'm going to judge you through them.
00:57:51Daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends and his cousin.
00:57:54And I'm hoping they can shed some light on a few things about Daniel.
00:58:01Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships.
00:58:03That's why mine has never been mentioned because every time I try to talk to Daniel, he shuts up.
00:58:10He doesn't talk about his past at all.
00:58:12So meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know more about Daniel and understand who he is.
00:58:43So this is Emmanuel and this is my friend of mine.
00:58:47George.
00:58:48George, yeah.
00:58:49This is love day.
00:58:50Hi love day.
00:58:51Hi.
00:58:51Happy to witness this event today.
00:58:54Honestly.
00:58:55Honestly.
00:58:55We are so happy.
00:58:59Lisa is older than Daniel.
00:59:02She might not be his type.
00:59:05I think he has fully see Lisa and I think he's comfortable with that.
00:59:12She will make a good home.
00:59:16How long have you known Daniel?
00:59:19I know him when I was there, when I was about 11 years.
00:59:22Oh my goodness.
00:59:24You know where I'm from?
00:59:25A very poor family.
00:59:27I'm wearing good clothes today because of her.
00:59:29Wow.
00:59:30You can tell.
00:59:31I know you.
00:59:32I know him as someone that has only one pair of shoes.
00:59:36Really?
00:59:36Yeah.
00:59:37You didn't tell me these things.
00:59:39So, um, I was afraid.
00:59:41I used to wear, um, just a pair of shirts with some openers on the, on the obitox.
00:59:47Is that true?
00:59:48Really?
00:59:49It's real.
00:59:49It's real.
00:59:50So, um, without her, I don't know who I, I don't know where I would be today.
00:59:54Do you know why the relationship is perfect?
00:59:56Why?
00:59:57Do you know why?
00:59:58No.
01:00:00Because you have transformed his life.
01:00:03We should continue doing that.
01:00:04Don't deviate from it.
01:00:09Well, it's not easy.
01:00:11I have to say, it's not easy helping Daniel.
01:00:15I, I work 15 hour days, seven days a week.
01:00:19That's how Daniel is changing because I'm working the hard times.
01:00:24And it concerns me because he doesn't share much of his past with me.
01:00:31I want to know more about your old life, baby.
01:00:34I'm curious.
01:00:35Okay.
01:00:36So, I do have a question.
01:00:37Was he very popular with ladies?
01:00:42Oh.
01:00:43He do.
01:00:44Yes, I am.
01:00:45He do.
01:00:46He do.
01:00:47Come on.
01:00:47He's a handsome guy.
01:00:48He's a black handsome guy.
01:00:51Women love me so much.
01:00:53But that was the past.
01:00:55Yes.
01:00:56I've not bring any woman.
01:00:57I've not brought any woman in my family in the name of getting married to the woman.
01:01:02You know that.
01:01:05When, when Daniel came at me on social media out of the blue, I thought he was a scam artist.
01:01:12I thought he was fake.
01:01:13I did not think he was real.
01:01:15So, I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while.
01:01:19It took me, it took him a minute to get me to trust him.
01:01:23Yes.
01:01:23But the thing is, I'm just surprised that he's only been with me since December and he's
01:01:29already proposed.
01:01:30Honestly, thank God that he's the one.
01:01:34I'm just saying you've helped him in different areas.
01:01:38He's just like an angel who came to his life.
01:01:43All I'm hearing right now is I am Daniel's savior.
01:01:47He is a new man.
01:01:49It's given me a bit of a pause.
01:01:51You know, there's something that happened before I came to Nigeria that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me.
01:01:59He has been sincere to you.
01:02:02He has been honest.
01:02:05He is truthful.
01:02:07You seem to be sweating a little bit over this though.
01:02:10I have to sweat because I don't know.
01:02:12You just need to have trust.
01:02:14Yes.
01:02:15But the thing is, Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking
01:02:21to me.
01:02:26Be honest, because I will walk out if you're not.
01:02:33Are we going to have more debt, more financial problems?
01:02:36Because you can't stop gambling.
01:02:40For Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:02:43Did you gamble that?
01:02:45Yeah.
01:02:57Do you regret, like, marrying me?
01:03:16No.
01:03:18I mean, it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute.
01:03:21No.
01:03:22I love you.
01:03:23It's just that I want you to, you know, like, I guess I want you to be more, like, positive.
01:03:31I just want you to overlook the negativity.
01:03:36You're making me feel uncomfortable like you're not enjoying your time with me.
01:03:40I'm enjoying the time.
01:03:41It makes me feel really...
01:03:42Did you see me yesterday when I was doing this?
01:03:45Yeah, but...
01:03:46And I couldn't fit?
01:03:47You're doing all the things that you have to do, but you always have to leave a remark.
01:03:54Look, I can promise you this.
01:03:57I'm going to do my best to not, you know, throw in your face about what I do in the
01:04:06marriage.
01:04:09Like, provide for you.
01:04:12And I promise you not to be so negative.
01:04:15But, I mean, could you make me a promise and just ease up on me a little bit, cut me
01:04:22a little bit of slack?
01:04:27I actually feel bad when you feel bad and I feel guilty.
01:04:31I feel like sometimes I act, I overreact to things.
01:04:37I just really want to have a good time, please.
01:04:41Well, I do too.
01:04:42But, I feel like you always look constipated.
01:04:45Like, ugh!
01:04:46Because I'm always being chewed, getting my ass chewed out.
01:04:49Like, it's just like .
01:04:52Like this, Jovan.
01:04:58Oh, my God, boo!
01:05:00It's so sunny today!
01:05:02Yeah!
01:05:04I think it's going to rain again.
01:05:06Thank God it stopped raining.
01:05:08I thought we'd be stuck in the room the whole time.
01:05:11I don't want you to get too comfortable because it still might rain.
01:05:14Oh, my God!
01:05:15You don't say that!
01:05:17You jinxed.
01:05:18You have to try it with cheese.
01:05:21I mean, but don't you think that's a weird combination?
01:05:24If you're going to rate it one to five, how is it?
01:05:27Probably a two.
01:05:29A two?
01:05:29Yeah.
01:05:29Really?
01:05:32I'm going to go to the bathroom room.
01:05:34Just a 90-year-old man in the last stages of his life, basically.
01:05:39That's how you're making me sound.
01:05:43So we good?
01:05:45All right.
01:05:48Yes, we made up right now.
01:05:51But because of the last few days, I kind of worried about the future.
01:05:59We struggled to get along during our honeymoon.
01:06:03How are we going to get along for the rest of our lives?
01:06:06Come here.
01:06:07Come sit on my lap.
01:06:08Come on.
01:06:11We've been together six years in a long-distance relationship.
01:06:15And now that we're finally get to be together physically, you see everything about your partner.
01:06:25And I hope that Jovan and I can take all the good with the bad.
01:06:31But right now, I don't know.
01:06:36I'm so sweaty.
01:06:38I don't know.
01:06:41I don't know.
01:07:02I'm so sweaty.
01:07:03I don't know.
01:07:08I don't know.
01:07:09Is gambling part of all of this debt?
01:07:12No.
01:07:13I'm still trying to pay, but that is why I have to gamble,
01:07:19because I need money and I have nowhere to find.
01:07:26I gamble, I make more money.
01:07:28I have progress.
01:07:29That's how my friends and I paid our rent for a long time.
01:07:34That's how we live.
01:07:40I'm angry.
01:07:41I'm hurt.
01:07:42I am shocked.
01:07:45I think gambling is fine, like, when you have money to lose,
01:07:50but he doesn't have anything.
01:07:53The fact that he thinks that he can gamble instead of actually
01:07:57going out and finding a job is ridiculously concerning to me.
01:08:02That's not a job.
01:08:03I don't even understand what he's thinking.
01:08:08So instead of a gift for Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:08:13Yeah.
01:08:14Did you gamble that?
01:08:18Yeah.
01:08:19You sent me how much?
01:08:22Like $150, yeah.
01:08:23Yeah, and that makes $5,000.
01:08:27And we made it $20, I guess, and we paid our rent.
01:08:32It was like you sent us money, but it wasn't solving anything.
01:08:37It's just, okay, we can eat, but maybe three days later,
01:08:40we have to empty the house, you know?
01:08:43But what if you would have lost that?
01:08:46I will figure it out.
01:08:48But I...
01:08:51That was money that I sent you for you, and if you would have lost it
01:08:55and been like, hey, I lost the money that you gave me, I would be livid.
01:08:58I'm actually kind of livid right now.
01:09:00That seems irresponsible to me.
01:09:02What can I say?
01:09:04I'm trying to make a way out for us.
01:09:07So if you...
01:09:09Gambling is something I have to do.
01:09:13Is gambling an addiction?
01:09:16Gambling is not an addiction for me.
01:09:19If I was addicted, I don't care if I lose or win, but I care.
01:09:27And I'm winning.
01:09:30If you come to America, and we're sharing our life,
01:09:33we're sharing our money, we're sharing our banks,
01:09:35are you going to pick it up and gamble it?
01:09:37Because you just...
01:09:38No, it is your money.
01:09:39Well, it would be our money.
01:09:40No, it is your money.
01:09:42How is it...
01:09:42I will gamble with your money, but I will gamble with mine.
01:09:44But you kind of already did.
01:09:48But how do you have something that's specifically yours
01:09:51if we're married?
01:09:53Wouldn't it always be ours?
01:09:54No.
01:09:55It is like if I...
01:09:57It is like if I make $5,000 per month,
01:10:01I will give you $4,000.
01:10:02But I will tell you that $1,000 I need,
01:10:05and I will bet with that.
01:10:09And I will make that $1,000,
01:10:12maybe nothing, maybe $50,000.
01:10:14Because this is me.
01:10:16This is my life.
01:10:17This is how I do things.
01:10:22Gambling is just a way to make money.
01:10:26I started when I was having financial struggle
01:10:30because, you know, I had nothing.
01:10:33But now, mostly, I just bet some football games
01:10:37because that's what I used to do for a living.
01:10:39Just, I can't play.
01:10:41But I can bet.
01:10:44If we do go through with this
01:10:46and apply for that K-1 visa,
01:10:48I am financially responsible for you
01:10:51for like 10 years.
01:10:53Okay.
01:10:53And I guess that's my concern,
01:10:55is that are we going to have more debt,
01:10:57more financial problems
01:10:58because you can't stop gambling?
01:11:02No, because if I hit a grand jackpot, I won.
01:11:07You know?
01:11:07I have money.
01:11:08See?
01:11:09I succeeded.
01:11:11So, until you feel like you're successful,
01:11:14you're going to keep gambling?
01:11:16Yeah.
01:11:17Yeah.
01:11:22It's super alarming to me
01:11:24to hear that he thinks that this
01:11:27is the best way to make money.
01:11:29And knowing that I will be financially responsible for him
01:11:33concerns me greatly.
01:11:36This is really serious,
01:11:38and I feel like I should just pull the plug
01:11:40and go home now.
01:11:48This girl ended up calling me,
01:11:51and pretty much told me he's a scam artist
01:11:53because he's going after more women than just me
01:11:56that are in America.
01:11:58I am here begging you for some truth
01:12:02of what Daniel actually is.
01:12:04And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel,
01:12:07I will not be coming back to this country.
01:12:18Daniel was talking to another girl on social media
01:12:21at the same time he was talking to me.
01:12:28Be honest, because I will walk out if you're not.
01:12:40Yes.
01:12:42I can't remember the last time I talked to the lady,
01:12:44and I was talking to you,
01:12:48and she was disturbing me.
01:12:53This girl ended up calling me
01:12:58and talking to me,
01:12:59telling me all these things that Daniel was saying to her.
01:13:03And she also pretty much told me he's a scam artist
01:13:07because he's going after more women than just me
01:13:09that are in America.
01:13:11Did you know about this woman that he was talking to?
01:13:15Um...
01:13:18To be sincere, I don't know about that.
01:13:22A couple months ago,
01:13:23an American woman got in touch with me on social media
01:13:26and basically told me Daniel was talking to her
01:13:29at the same time he was talking to me.
01:13:32She sent me screenshots of her and Daniel's conversation.
01:13:35She sent me personal pictures Daniel sent to her of himself.
01:13:40And he called her baby.
01:13:42That hurt me.
01:13:43It still hurts me.
01:13:45Daniel said she's just a friend.
01:13:47And after he blocked her,
01:13:49I gave him the benefit of the doubt.
01:13:51And I deleted the screenshots because I believed him.
01:13:56But the more I'm hearing his friends say how I changed his life,
01:14:00the more I'm wondering if this woman was right.
01:14:03And Daniel was just looking for any American woman
01:14:06who was willing to respond.
01:14:09She said that you were going after her strong
01:14:11and she wasn't giving you the time of the day.
01:14:13So what do you want to say about that, Daniel?
01:14:18That is on social media, right?
01:14:20It is on social media.
01:14:21So social media.
01:14:22I have a lot of friends there.
01:14:23You do. You do.
01:14:24But we're not talking about them.
01:14:26We're talking...
01:14:27No, no. I'm not on this team.
01:14:28No, no.
01:14:28I'm asking you about her because you did talk to her.
01:14:31That's why I told you that before I met you,
01:14:34there are some other ladies who wanted me.
01:14:38And some of them were, you know, coming after me.
01:14:41Like I told you...
01:14:41But she wasn't. You were going after her.
01:14:43No, no.
01:14:44Yes, you were, Daniel.
01:14:44I never did.
01:14:45Yes, you did.
01:14:46You wanted her as an American.
01:14:48She told me so.
01:14:49I don't know.
01:14:49I never go to her to, you know, for friendship or any relationship.
01:14:54There's something more going on, Daniel.
01:15:01I don't know.
01:15:02I don't know why she's trying to accuse me.
01:15:03Have you pursued Americans before, Lisa?
01:15:10I do talk to other women.
01:15:12From America?
01:15:13Yes, from America.
01:15:14I do talk to other women from America.
01:15:16I only chat them, you know, ask them how they're doing, you know,
01:15:19ask them how the day went, you know.
01:15:21That's the only thing I do.
01:15:23But I've not tried to date an American lady before.
01:15:26No, Lisa is the first lady that, you know, that came into my life.
01:15:31Well, I love Daniel.
01:15:33Yes.
01:15:34But nobody is perfect.
01:15:35And I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is.
01:15:45I need to clear all this up before we get married.
01:15:50Maybe she lied.
01:15:51Who?
01:15:57Um...
01:15:58It's not funny.
01:16:03All I want to say, I want you to trust him.
01:16:09Why should I?
01:16:10Tell me why.
01:16:11I know him very, very well.
01:16:13I know why I ask you to trust him.
01:16:17He cannot disappoint you.
01:16:19I'm the one working 15-hour days.
01:16:22I'm the one working seven days a week to make sure he looks like this.
01:16:26So I am giving up stuff to be here.
01:16:28My family is worried about me.
01:16:31They have every concern.
01:16:32And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel,
01:16:35I will not be coming back to this country.
01:16:37And if you're not going to share it with me, I will find it.
01:16:40I'm not hiding.
01:16:41I didn't hide anything.
01:16:42You picked me from the gutter.
01:16:44You cluttered me.
01:16:46You feed me.
01:16:47So why should I be playing with you?
01:16:51Why should I be, you know, playing games?
01:16:53Playing games.
01:17:00I feel like his friends are protecting him, as every friend,
01:17:03if they're a really good friend, should have your back.
01:17:06But I feel like a sugar mom.
01:17:09They kept saying it over and over and over again.
01:17:11I'm an angel.
01:17:12I have saved Daniel from the street.
01:17:15I'm sitting here wondering, is he a scam artist?
01:17:18Is he after me for my money?
01:17:20I just don't think he's telling me the full truth.
01:17:24I think he's given me little nibbles of what is reality.
01:17:28And it's going to be up to me to put together this puzzle piece.
01:17:31I appreciate you guys coming and meeting me.
01:17:34I was just hoping for a little bit more than this.
01:17:36From my own opinion, I think you're scared for heartbroken.
01:17:40You don't want to be hurt anymore.
01:17:47I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:17:51I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:17:57I cannot.
01:17:58I'm sorry.
01:17:59I know now that I was wrong.
01:18:02Please, forgive me.
01:18:21We're both back to Nosey Bay is here.
01:18:26Okay, so let's go back.
01:18:30Don't touch me.
01:18:31Don't touch me.
01:18:33Don't make it worse.
01:18:34Just leave me alone.
01:18:54Are you ready?
01:19:04I don't want to even look at him.
01:19:11I thought he's different from my ex.
01:19:16Like a good guy, a good father, a good boyfriend, faithful.
01:19:23But Rick didn't tell me the truth.
01:19:27He was not honest with me.
01:19:31Go ahead.
01:19:33What are you waiting for?
01:19:35Go.
01:19:36Waiting for you.
01:19:38What you care.
01:19:40I told him that I was hurting from my past relationship.
01:19:46But here we are.
01:19:47Same story again.
01:19:54Maybe.
01:19:55Just don't talk.
01:19:57How long are you not going to talk to me?
01:19:59Why you care about that?
01:20:00How long I'm going to talk or not?
01:20:02Because I want to resolve this.
01:20:03Resolve what?
01:20:04You didn't remember what you did?
01:20:06I do remember.
01:20:09I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:20:15I refuse to believe that you regret me coming.
01:20:19I've seen the love in your eyes.
01:20:22You know, just allow me the opportunity to show you how committed I am to you.
01:20:33I told you I'm ashamed of what I did.
01:20:35I'm not proud of you.
01:20:36You were not even ashamed.
01:20:38Because I explained to you after the five days, but you still went to Columbia.
01:20:43So why didn't you cancel?
01:20:46Because even after those five days, things still didn't add up.
01:20:50And I felt like I was just getting strung along.
01:20:54Because I thought you were cheating on me and I felt like...
01:20:59It's my fault.
01:21:01It's my fault.
01:21:03We didn't really start communicating like before until I got back.
01:21:10So in your mind is...
01:21:12Even if she already explained to me, I will still go because I want to revenge her.
01:21:22In some ways, that's true.
01:21:27I mean, I just... I know now that I was wrong.
01:21:37Please, I want you to forgive me.
01:21:45I have nothing to say, Rick.
01:21:50I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:21:58My brother, he told me, like, for coming here.
01:22:03Now...
01:22:03I don't know what to tell my dad.
01:22:07My whole family.
01:22:14I don't know what to tell them.
01:22:17I need to cry.
01:22:19Don't touch me, Rick.
01:22:22It's not like I'm giving up on us.
01:22:28We just have to work to...
01:22:30I cannot. I'm sorry.
01:22:41Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:43Oh, my God.
01:22:46Zied and I are going for a little romantic getaway outside of the city.
01:22:50I have a nice birthday surprise for you later.
01:22:53A surprise?
01:22:53Yeah.
01:22:54We're really connecting.
01:22:55And Zied's always known that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday.
01:22:59I have one more thing for you.
01:23:01Okay.
01:23:06This is us.
01:23:07I'm very excited to see where my wife lives and where my money is going.
01:23:14Oh, wow, bro.
01:23:16This is a lot bigger than what I initially thought.
01:23:20Everywhere I look, I just see dollar signs, a lot of travel photos, huge closets.
01:23:25It makes me feel taken advantage of.
01:23:30I know it is hard to understand my lifestyle, my choices.
01:23:38BeerCon has what I can only consider to be a gambling problem.
01:23:42And it's really making me second guess any kind of future I could have with BeerCon.
01:23:48You know, that is why you are so special to me.
01:23:51Even if we have problems, we will find a solution.
01:23:58Until yesterday, you did not know anything about Sheena's finances.
01:24:04You didn't know the truth about her relationship with her family.
01:24:09Is this a person you can trust?
01:24:13These were big lies for us.
01:24:16She did lie about almost everything.
01:24:21It really hurts being deep in court.
01:24:24But I can't be with someone who is going to constantly lie to me.
01:24:31Hi!
01:24:33Tonight, we're meeting up with my Aunt Spring.
01:24:35Heard a lot about you.
01:24:37And there's some things that I do have questions about.
01:24:41I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig.
01:24:44But I don't think that he is the great person that she believes him to be.
01:24:49So, I have heard some things.
01:24:53I mean, this is you, isn't it?
01:24:59I came here to be with you, but I want answers.
01:25:03Say it. I don't want to find out by her.
01:25:06I want to find out from you.
01:25:09I can't.
01:25:09He is lying to me and he's trying to make me look insane.
01:25:14I don't want to believe there's others.
01:25:16I need this lady to write back to me because I need to know.
01:25:20Is he a scammer?
01:25:22Did she write?
01:25:23Yes, she wrote a lot.
01:25:28Oh, God.
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