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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 14: Prepare for Immediate Descent
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:06Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:10Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be
00:00:37introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16That's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see it like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:26Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife, don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:49I love you so much.
00:01:50What?
00:01:51Stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09Don't come...
00:02:10It's not as bad as...
00:02:11Don't come close to me.
00:02:18Oh.
00:02:19Yeah, I can feel your energy is passing through me.
00:02:26I feel so alive.
00:02:29Oh.
00:02:31Oh.
00:02:37Oh.
00:02:39Oh.
00:02:40Oh, yeah.
00:02:41Oh, yeah.
00:02:42Okay, thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:47That's all right. I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:55I feel so bad, like every hour I was making you get up and get me water.
00:03:04So who needs sleep?
00:03:06You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:08Yeah, well, long flight, and you weren't feeling this, so, you know.
00:03:13You're such a good boy.
00:03:16I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face to face.
00:03:23The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:29night.
00:03:30I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:35me all night.
00:03:36It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.
00:03:39Like, it's just, like, swollen here.
00:03:41Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:46Yeah.
00:03:47I am a needy bitch.
00:03:49Especially when I'm sick.
00:03:50I need my man to attend to me, like, a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:57Joshua does that.
00:03:58Yeah.
00:03:58I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink, and I took my
00:04:03medicine.
00:04:04That's good.
00:04:05It's probably a good start.
00:04:07What is it?
00:04:09It's Vegemite.
00:04:10What's that?
00:04:11You have to try it.
00:04:12It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:13It smells like sardines.
00:04:17There's no fish in it.
00:04:20Just take a big bite.
00:04:26Suck.
00:04:26Is it good?
00:04:28It's not bad.
00:04:30No, I don't like it.
00:04:32I don't like it.
00:04:33Ew, ew, ew.
00:04:34Joshua, what is that?
00:04:36Is that fish?
00:04:37It's not fish.
00:04:40Do you want a tissue?
00:04:43It's a condiment.
00:04:45I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:46And you love it?
00:04:46Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:49You're not Australian, if you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:51Tastes like .
00:04:53I hated it.
00:04:58All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:05:00All right.
00:05:01There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:06Yes.
00:05:06And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:11Bondi.
00:05:12Yeah.
00:05:12All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:17I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:21Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:28Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:31This is it.
00:05:32Oh, my God, all the guys that wear the what's the Speedo thing.
00:05:36I can't, I can't, I can't.
00:05:42Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:44Very different than Miami.
00:05:45It's like really soft.
00:05:49Do you want to go in?
00:05:51Yep.
00:05:51Wait, I have to change.
00:05:54Towel's in my bag.
00:05:55Oh.
00:05:55So let's figure this out.
00:05:57So here's to cover me.
00:05:59Okay.
00:06:02How about this?
00:06:03Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:06:05Yeah.
00:06:09My top is off.
00:06:11Hold me.
00:06:12Hold me.
00:06:13Hold me.
00:06:14How do you do this part?
00:06:15All right.
00:06:15So now we're going to go down.
00:06:16Yeah.
00:06:17So.
00:06:18How are you going to do that now?
00:06:22Hold it tight.
00:06:25I'm losing it.
00:06:27Hold it.
00:06:29Oh.
00:06:30Voila.
00:06:31Well done.
00:06:35That was pretty impressive.
00:06:38Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:41Yeah.
00:06:41I'll do my best.
00:06:42Let's go.
00:06:43Ready?
00:06:43Okay.
00:06:57It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours.
00:07:02And it's so natural.
00:07:04There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:07:07We're so touchy-feely.
00:07:09But he seems a little reserved.
00:07:12So I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:16Oh.
00:07:17I mean, I do have three weeks here.
00:07:19And I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:22So getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff,
00:07:27for sure.
00:07:32Holy camoly, I'm cold.
00:07:34It's funny.
00:07:35You see adults in there, they're freezing.
00:07:37And then you see, like, little kids.
00:07:38And they're just, like, following him around for hours.
00:07:41I think when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:45We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:47Okay.
00:07:48But then in the afternoons, we'd be, like, doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:54I love learning about you.
00:07:56I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:58Yeah, good.
00:07:58I want to know the heart.
00:07:59Like, I want you to open up.
00:08:00I feel like you're reserved.
00:08:04Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:08:07Yeah, I probably was.
00:08:08I was.
00:08:10Yeah.
00:08:11One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up and then having it used, like, against me.
00:08:20You know.
00:08:23My previous relationship, we dated for seven years.
00:08:27But I never felt secure.
00:08:29I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:33She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:37And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:42So I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:45She could just end it at any time.
00:08:48Ultimately, I had my heart broken.
00:08:50And I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:54Like, are you constantly thinking?
00:08:56Like, is something on your mind or, like, it's just...
00:08:59Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:09:00Always, always thinking.
00:09:02What's your top thought right now?
00:09:04That this is...
00:09:06I like that you're sort of asking these questions.
00:09:08But, you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:11Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:14No, I get it.
00:09:15Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:19But...
00:09:19You know what?
00:09:20You made me feel safe already.
00:09:22Really?
00:09:23That's, like, an early call.
00:09:26So hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:28Yeah, I feel safe with you, too.
00:09:32Hi.
00:09:33Hi.
00:09:39I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:42Like, guys have said a lot of things to me,
00:09:44but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:47It feels good.
00:09:49I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:54So, yeah, the plan was to wait.
00:09:57But, like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:59He's so attentive to me.
00:10:00He's letting his guard down.
00:10:01Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:10:04So we'll see.
00:10:06Yeah.
00:10:20It's not...
00:10:20Don't...
00:10:21It's not as bad as...
00:10:23Don't come close to me.
00:10:25Daniel.
00:10:28You're telling me you have been a lesbian.
00:10:32Listen.
00:10:33Don't...
00:10:33Don't try it.
00:10:34Listen to...
00:10:35Don't even come...
00:10:36Don't...
00:10:36Don't try it.
00:10:37Listen.
00:10:38I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:43I want it all out.
00:10:45That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:46I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:52Daniel.
00:10:54Daniel.
00:10:55Don't come close to me.
00:10:57Please try to understand.
00:11:00I...
00:11:00I...
00:11:01You don't know how hard it was to...
00:11:03You have a lot of secrets.
00:11:04I have no more secrets.
00:11:06Just listen, please.
00:11:08I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:11:11Jesus Christ.
00:11:12I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:14I'm not straight.
00:11:15I'm not bisexual.
00:11:17I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:20People should love people by their soul.
00:11:22And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:25Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:30I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:32You told me you have had serious of, you know, relationship.
00:11:35I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:38Same sex.
00:11:41Yes.
00:11:42And you have been lying to me.
00:11:46I'm sorry.
00:11:49You are evil.
00:11:51I'm not evil.
00:11:53You know me.
00:11:54I take care of people.
00:11:55And I've even taken care of you.
00:11:57I'm not evil.
00:11:59I have a good heart.
00:12:00And I'm a good person.
00:12:01What make...
00:12:02What makes you a good person?
00:12:04Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:12:05That doesn't make me evil.
00:12:08I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:12:12The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.
00:12:15I love you.
00:12:17I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:19I love you.
00:12:21Don't...
00:12:21Don't...
00:12:22Don't say that again.
00:12:23You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:26I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:28That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:30I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:33But I'm telling you...
00:12:34Shut your mouth.
00:12:35You don't have to...
00:12:36You're killed by a woman.
00:12:37Not even woman.
00:12:38Women.
00:12:42You are...
00:12:43You are a liar.
00:12:45I'm just...
00:12:46A person who has been lost.
00:12:53Don't.
00:12:54Can you hold this ring?
00:12:55No.
00:12:57Hold the ring.
00:13:00I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies.
00:13:05So you're full of evil.
00:13:08I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:13:11I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:26I'm trying to have seen it all.
00:13:28But she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:33No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:34I cry, cry, cry the river.
00:13:38I didn't think he'd call me evil.
00:13:41I'm not evil.
00:13:43I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:46And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:53Daniel's not gonna accept me for who I am.
00:13:56You know what?
00:13:58him.
00:13:59him.
00:14:12You're officially on the jeepney.
00:14:14I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:14:17And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:21So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:24If you file today for the K-1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:38We are late to be.
00:14:44It's not true.
00:14:52This is light out so we could see.
00:14:56We are here.
00:14:58I'm tired.
00:15:00Just get it with oil.
00:15:19So this is like a, gonna be like a village environment, right?
00:15:22Yeah.
00:15:25Yesterday, we traveled from New C. Bay to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:30We arrived late, so we stayed in a hotel, and now we are going to my family's village for a
00:15:38few days.
00:15:40Can't forget my baby wipes. I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:45We used water.
00:15:50We had a big fight last night.
00:15:52I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:56But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:16:05I don't want to ruin this vacation, but the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:16:16I went a little overboard, and I'm sorry for that.
00:16:21I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:25It's just, I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:33I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:42Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:49Okay.
00:16:50We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:57I want them to accept you, because I want this relationship work.
00:17:03I do, too.
00:17:07I overreacted yesterday.
00:17:09It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:17:15Then it just totally set me off.
00:17:18I want to be here, and, um, I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:25Yeah.
00:17:26There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:38So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:42What?
00:17:42What?
00:17:43No!
00:17:48Let's go now.
00:17:55Nice tips is right here.
00:17:57Yeah, it's nice.
00:18:10It's quiet, you see?
00:18:12Not much people.
00:18:14Not what I expected.
00:18:17Woo!
00:18:19This is rough roads.
00:18:23The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:25Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:28Yeah.
00:18:30Yeah.
00:18:30No!
00:18:34I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:40Everything is just simple.
00:18:42There is no running water, no fancy toilet, but everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.
00:18:54Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:56Yeah, to see me.
00:18:58What about me?
00:19:01They're going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:19:03I don't know.
00:19:04Meet me?
00:19:06They're happy because I bring a boyfriend, and they will tell me if you were the good person for me
00:19:14or not.
00:19:18Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:19:24I feel a little bit scared. My family won't accept Rick. Men in my tribe is very strong. When they
00:19:38don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:42Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't. I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:55This is it right here?
00:19:56Yeah, it's here.
00:19:58There's no turning back, man.
00:20:00Ah!
00:20:10So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:20:13I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:20:15Ah, you're going to have to.
00:20:16How's that? How's that work?
00:20:17Well, you can see those signboards.
00:20:19Uh-huh.
00:20:20Just have to find the right location.
00:20:22Then, we just have to kill Para.
00:20:25Oh.
00:20:25Para is the south.
00:20:26Oh.
00:20:31So here.
00:20:32Oh, here?
00:20:33Yes.
00:20:35There.
00:20:36All right, we're officially on the jeepney.
00:20:42There it is, the big car.
00:20:58It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena, and we are just over the moon in love with
00:21:05each
00:21:05other, but not everyone's happy.
00:21:08Oh!
00:21:09Oh!
00:21:10My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance.
00:21:16And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:21:22So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:21:25Oh, my gosh.
00:21:26Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:21:38I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:40And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:46Good morning.
00:21:47Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:51Yes.
00:21:51Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila,
00:21:55just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:58Hi.
00:21:58Oh, hi, sir.
00:22:00Hi.
00:22:00Hi.
00:22:00Good morning.
00:22:01Good morning.
00:22:01My name is Sheena.
00:22:03Hi, her.
00:22:03How are you?
00:22:04Nice to meet you.
00:22:05Nice to meet you.
00:22:05Nice to meet you.
00:22:07Good afternoon.
00:22:08Good afternoon, sir.
00:22:09Welcome to our office, and welcome to the Philippines.
00:22:13I've been enjoying my stay.
00:22:15Okay.
00:22:15So, for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:22:21Of course.
00:22:22Sure.
00:22:22If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:22:25Yeah.
00:22:25Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:22:29Seven years.
00:22:30Seven years.
00:22:30Seven years.
00:22:31Mm-hmm.
00:22:32And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:35No.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:36Speak clean.
00:22:37That's good.
00:22:39Yeah.
00:22:40When I walk you can hear.
00:22:41Yeah, so, are you working right now?
00:22:46Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:49But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:52Okay.
00:22:53I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:23:00live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:23:08I see.
00:23:09So, I have to, um, uh, be very clear here.
00:23:14You know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:23:19Yeah, you cannot consider that income.
00:23:22The annual income for, uh, petitioners for, uh, K-1 visa is more or less 26,500 USD.
00:23:31Now, is that shared between the both?
00:23:33No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:34Only the petitioner.
00:23:35That's for the petitioner.
00:23:35Okay.
00:23:37So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:48My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment.
00:23:53Then, uh, you can proceed.
00:23:58I'm in complete shock right now.
00:24:01I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly
00:24:07does not count towards the amount that I need to bring shit into the United States.
00:24:12To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:24:22In the past, I've had jobs that ended
00:24:27awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:24:32But my back is at a wall right now.
00:24:36That if I don't get a job, our entire dream of bringing Sheena to the United States is done.
00:24:43So, let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.
00:24:48Yeah.
00:24:48How long is enough to have a stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:55So, yeah, uh, you need probably a year, uh, employment history.
00:25:02Okay.
00:25:03And then, uh, you will meet another year, uh, at least, uh, to have the petition approved
00:25:09and bring your fiancé to the U.S.
00:25:11Yeah.
00:25:16It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:25:21If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:25:30I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold
00:25:37a job long-term.
00:25:42So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:49If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement
00:25:54of financial capacity.
00:25:55Okay.
00:25:56Okay, so there will be a, um, 100% chance that the petition will be approved, you know?
00:26:02Okay.
00:26:04Okay.
00:26:05So, these options will depend on your goal.
00:26:12At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:26:18I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:26:33I don't know.
00:26:34I'm just real pissed off.
00:26:36And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:26:38I don't know how to move forward.
00:26:53Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:54No.
00:26:56Okay.
00:26:57Don't talk to me.
00:26:58Don't come to me.
00:27:06You think you can just treat me this way, humiliate me all the time.
00:27:10All right, I'm going to just give you space, all right?
00:27:43Warning.
00:27:46Are you sure you give your crippled mother?
00:27:53Yeah.
00:27:57What about her hug?
00:28:01Why�igne aún?
00:28:02Like me?
00:28:04Okay.
00:28:15I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:28:19But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:28:25He promised a really good day.
00:28:27But of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:28:31Because it's not Joban if he doesn't.
00:28:35I'll be right back.
00:28:41Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:29:01We're just going to leave him for now.
00:29:03Just give her space, man, so she can just calm down.
00:29:08We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:29:13I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:29:17because I'm putting in massive effort
00:29:20to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:29:23And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place,
00:29:28and it's just, I don't know, I'm just real pissed off
00:29:30that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:29:34And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:29:38I don't know how to move forward.
00:29:41Mama, your day good?
00:29:43It's okay.
00:29:46Every time we're having a good time,
00:29:50he would do this to me, right in front, in public.
00:29:54It's so humiliating.
00:29:56I don't think it's powerless.
00:29:58The fact that he could upset me this much
00:30:01definitely has power of this relationship.
00:30:09Hello?
00:30:12Kumusta nung baby ni Nana?
00:30:14I don't know.
00:30:17Nakainisak ko kay Jovon.
00:30:20Bakit?
00:30:20Nakaka bad trip kasi.
00:30:23Bakit?
00:30:23Kasi gusto niya yung relasyon na amin
00:30:25dahil lalaki siya, siya dominante.
00:30:27Ganito, ganyan, ganyan.
00:30:30Ayoko nang ginaganyan ako.
00:30:31Nakainisak.
00:30:35Nakakakita yan.
00:30:40Nakainisak ko nga makipag-uusap kasi na uwi sa pagtatalo.
00:30:50Kaya, huwag mong hayaang masirang relasyon niyo.
00:30:55I am so, so, so tired of it, Jovon.
00:30:58I have to be this timid...
00:31:00Anna, I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:31:03Self-spoken woman.
00:31:04It's like I've, like, sacrificed a lot of my life
00:31:10so you can be happy.
00:31:11And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:31:13it's something else you want me to do.
00:31:18So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:31:21There's nothing else that I can do
00:31:23to make you, you know, happy.
00:31:27No, I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:31:39I'm so cold.
00:31:40Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:42Okay.
00:31:44I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:31:46Maybe.
00:31:48But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:51I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:54Ha-ha!
00:32:23I'm so cold.
00:32:25Come and have a shower with me?
00:32:27Okay.
00:32:29Never thought you would ask.
00:32:53I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:56Maybe.
00:32:57But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean.
00:33:02And I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:33:05I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:33:08Ha-ha!
00:33:10I'm trying to control myself,
00:33:12but Josh is just, like, so hot,
00:33:14and we've been making out all day.
00:33:17You know, in the back of my mind,
00:33:19I do have some questions,
00:33:20and I do want to see more of him and more of his life.
00:33:23But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:33:26So, I bought some massage oil,
00:33:29and then I think there's some wine.
00:33:31Maybe we can have a glass and relax.
00:33:33I love it.
00:33:34Okay, perfect.
00:33:45Babe, are you coming?
00:33:47Yeah.
00:33:51Everything feels really natural.
00:33:53Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:56We just draw on to each other,
00:33:58which is, you know, really exciting.
00:34:01We had an amazing day together,
00:34:02and I want to pamper Elise.
00:34:05Now's the time to pour some wine,
00:34:08you know, light a candle,
00:34:09and, you know, show her that I've got skills.
00:34:16Wow!
00:34:18Look at this!
00:34:19What's up?
00:34:23Welcome to Sydney.
00:34:25Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:34Feel like a massage?
00:34:35Yeah, I would love one.
00:34:37I'm going to lay it out.
00:34:38This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:34:41It's okay, I didn't mistake it.
00:34:44Lay on your stomach.
00:34:46Okay.
00:34:53Is that all right?
00:34:55That's okay.
00:34:58Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:35:03You can go harder.
00:35:05Harder.
00:35:10You're, like, trying to be, like, a little respectful,
00:35:15but come on, don't be a little bitch.
00:35:18Give me, like, everything.
00:35:19Slap on the ass?
00:35:20Yeah, slap on the ass,
00:35:21like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:35:24I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:35:26Rip me around a little bit here.
00:35:29Wow.
00:35:31It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:35:33It's a family show, I thought you said it would be good.
00:35:35Are you nervous?
00:35:37Yeah.
00:35:38Shaking.
00:35:39I can feel it.
00:35:40You reckon?
00:35:41Mm-hmm.
00:35:49All right, guys?
00:35:54What the f*** are you doing?
00:35:58Oh, my God.
00:36:01The timing on me.
00:36:03Hi, Chris.
00:36:04Yeah, hi.
00:36:05Nice.
00:36:06Now it's a party.
00:36:08Now it's a party.
00:36:10I'm going to stop on my car.
00:36:11I'll get another wine glass.
00:36:15I did not see that coming.
00:36:16I did.
00:36:18Oh, my f***.
00:36:19I'm naked right now.
00:36:20You know, there's better places to give a naked massage
00:36:23in the house than the communal area as well.
00:36:25Half naked massage.
00:36:26You know what?
00:36:27You're absolutely right.
00:36:27Yeah.
00:36:28But, you know, I think I was just blind with lust.
00:36:32Ew.
00:36:33Who's that to say?
00:36:34It's so weird for, bro.
00:36:39All right.
00:36:40Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:36:44Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:36:47This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:36:52Can you button me back up?
00:36:55I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:58Showing your skin to other people?
00:37:01Who is that?
00:37:02Who would have?
00:37:03No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:37:04Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:37:06We know that.
00:37:06But, like, Chris f***ing walks in
00:37:09as your hands are groping my body
00:37:11and it's, like, such a sexual nice night.
00:37:13And, like...
00:37:13Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:37:15Not my finest hour.
00:37:18Sorry, baby.
00:37:18Well, that f***ing killed the mood.
00:37:21For now.
00:37:24Okay.
00:37:33Wait, this is the shower?
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:40Oh, hell no!
00:37:43I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction
00:37:47in front of my father.
00:37:49Paper for the...
00:37:51This is paper to write on.
00:37:53You wipe this...
00:37:54Yeah.
00:37:56Stop it.
00:38:20Wow, babe.
00:38:20This is where you grew up?
00:38:22Yeah, it's here.
00:38:35Hey.
00:38:37Yeah.
00:38:37Is that your rooster?
00:38:39No, not mine.
00:38:40By my neighbor's.
00:38:41Oh, okay.
00:38:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:38:46I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far
00:38:51to get to off the main road.
00:38:53Oh, this is a journey.
00:38:55Don't complain.
00:38:57But I'm happy to be here with Trish
00:39:00because I want a future with her.
00:39:03And if I can get her family's approval,
00:39:07I think that she would be able to see
00:39:08that I'm a good person
00:39:10and maybe it would make up
00:39:12for what I did in the past.
00:39:16Oh, this is it?
00:39:17Yeah, this is my house.
00:39:20Oh, that's my sister.
00:39:22Oh, this is your sister.
00:39:25I need to meet her.
00:39:28She does look like you.
00:39:30She's very beautiful.
00:39:31Yeah, she is.
00:39:32Nice to meet you.
00:39:35And who is this?
00:39:37My brother.
00:39:38Oh, this is your brother?
00:39:38Yes.
00:39:39My brother.
00:39:41Por favor.
00:39:42Chissie.
00:39:44Hello, sir.
00:39:45How are you doing?
00:39:46Nice to meet you.
00:39:47Nice to meet you.
00:39:50Trisha's told me that she has a huge family
00:39:53and they all live on this compound together.
00:39:57Hi, I'm Rick.
00:39:58Nice to meet you.
00:39:59Oh, this is your brother.
00:40:00Okay.
00:40:03Okay.
00:40:04Nice to meet you.
00:40:05Oh, how are you?
00:40:06My sister.
00:40:08This is your sister?
00:40:09Yeah.
00:40:09It's so nice to meet you.
00:40:10You look like my grandmother.
00:40:13I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:40:16You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:40:21Just when I'm thinking,
00:40:23that should be everybody there.
00:40:24Then there's more people coming.
00:40:26Like, how am I going to remember
00:40:28all these people's names and who they are?
00:40:31Bye-bye.
00:40:47My dad say you sleep down.
00:40:56The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid
00:40:59and me and my sister.
00:41:01I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age,
00:41:06but I respect her dad and their culture.
00:41:16Oh, this is the shower?
00:41:20Yeah.
00:41:21We just put water in the container
00:41:23and bring it here.
00:41:25There's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:41:29No.
00:41:30And where does this water come from?
00:41:32From the river?
00:41:34Like, something under the ground.
00:41:37A whale?
00:41:38Yeah.
00:41:40He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:41:42Okay.
00:41:44Oh, man, I smell something already.
00:41:46How do you toilet?
00:41:49Oh, hell no!
00:41:50Yeah.
00:41:51All I see is a wooden plank
00:41:54with a hole cut out of it.
00:41:57Paper for the...
00:42:00Wait, wait, wait.
00:42:02Yeah.
00:42:03This is paper to write on.
00:42:05You wipe this?
00:42:06Yes.
00:42:07With this?
00:42:07Right.
00:42:08Stop it.
00:42:09That's how I...
00:42:09Sit, sit, sit.
00:42:11It's finished.
00:42:12Oh, good.
00:42:13That's it.
00:42:15I'm a little bit embarrassed
00:42:17of his reaction in front of my father,
00:42:20but I'm not surprised.
00:42:24Ever since Rick came to Madagascar,
00:42:26he complains about everything.
00:42:30I don't like the traffic,
00:42:31I'll tell you that much already.
00:42:34And they just leave the meat out like this
00:42:36without refrigeration?
00:42:38These are tight quarters right here,
00:42:40baby, it's kind of squished.
00:42:43It's hot.
00:42:44I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.
00:42:46Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:42:49No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:42:51You are the only bougie here afraid of something.
00:42:54Oh, my God.
00:42:55Terrible.
00:42:59This is the living room?
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:02Yeah, this is the living room.
00:43:04This is the living room.
00:43:04This is the living room.
00:43:05Mandros, Mandros, Mandros, or Mandros?
00:43:08What is this, like, a family meeting or something?
00:43:12Okay.
00:43:12Yeah.
00:43:25So they approve that you are here,
00:43:28and it's going to give us a blessing.
00:43:33This blessing is just for accepting you
00:43:35to go around with me.
00:43:38Okay.
00:43:40In my culture,
00:43:42you cannot just walk around with a man outside there
00:43:46without your parents' acceptation.
00:43:49But it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:43:52No, it's just he's giving an authorization
00:43:56to having a relationship.
00:44:01Just wearing a blessing.
00:44:02That's it, that's it, babe.
00:44:04It is a silver.
00:44:04Was it a bracelet?
00:44:05Yeah, a bracelet.
00:44:10Yeah.
00:44:10So, that's it, eh?
00:44:16A paper,ananan.
00:44:18And then, sec� Business realidad,
00:44:18everyone likes to pick up.
00:44:18Make itine.
00:44:22At least once we have departed and do something like that,
00:44:26but on board and do something like that.
00:44:28If you get a new leader,
00:44:29I will receive something with it.
00:44:32That's what I
00:44:36use.
00:44:38The
00:44:55Thank you. Thank you for this.
00:45:07Oh, is that his? Yeah, his breast.
00:45:09Oh, okay.
00:45:27Now he's a high barber.
00:45:35Until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:45:37until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:45:40I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:45:43I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:45:46he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:45:50Same-sex is a disgrace.
00:45:51This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:45:54Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us
00:45:56or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:46:37I feel miserable.
00:46:42Numb.
00:46:45Really sad.
00:46:50But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:46:53I just don't know what happens from here.
00:46:59Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:47:02I told him everything.
00:47:03There are no more secrets.
00:47:06And he didn't react good.
00:47:08He called me evil.
00:47:09He didn't talk to me.
00:47:12He looked at me with disgust.
00:47:13He's not accepting who I am.
00:47:16So he slept on the sofa.
00:47:17I slept in the bedroom.
00:47:20I'm mad and I'm angry and I'm hurt.
00:47:25But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:47:30My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:47:33I'm cutting the trip short.
00:47:35There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again
00:47:38and that he's going to leave me.
00:47:39But until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:47:41until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:47:47Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:47:51I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore
00:47:54about me lying about still being married.
00:47:57But I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:48:01looks at me as Lisa,
00:48:02sees me as a person he fell in love with those months ago,
00:48:05that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:48:09I still want to be with Daniel.
00:48:11But now it's up to him.
00:48:19How do you feel?
00:48:21Lisa is full of lies.
00:48:23I don't think her lies is over
00:48:25because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:48:29Why did you call her evil?
00:48:31Because she's evil.
00:48:33Keeping all these secrets.
00:48:35I've been taking away
00:48:37of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:48:41that she has not been divorced.
00:48:44Not knowing that she has been in a relationship
00:48:46with her fellow women.
00:48:48She's been practicing same sex.
00:48:51So I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:48:54It's against our tradition.
00:49:04Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:49:10Just allow me to be.
00:49:12Like, we have to talk.
00:49:13You can't ignore me forever.
00:49:16Please.
00:49:18You need to give me time.
00:49:20I have to think.
00:49:25Can you grab your bags?
00:49:26I can't carry everything to the car.
00:49:30I'm not happy that the person I loved
00:49:33have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:49:37I'm not happy.
00:49:39Another love gone bad again.
00:49:41Bad again. Bad again. Bad again.
00:49:44But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:49:48I love Lisa.
00:49:50I want to forgive her.
00:49:52But after what she did,
00:49:53I don't trust her anymore.
00:49:55I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:49:58You're on your own.
00:49:59Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside
00:50:01driving you insane.
00:50:11I don't know if I am already company.
00:50:26You're out of time.
00:50:29So close your eyes at me.
00:50:32I'm not happy with it.
00:50:33I bet I remember this as long as I've processed,
00:50:33so are you ever going to talk to me I am totally confused we dated for six
00:50:41months you have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me but
00:50:46you never did I was scared why didn't you tell my uncle because this is between me
00:50:52and you why does he need to know anything anything yeah you call this
00:50:57anything yeah same sex is a disgrace to any family that involved involved in it
00:51:05it's against our tradition but it's not against American tradition but you are in
00:51:11my country you're in my tribe this is something that you and I cannot settle my
00:51:17uncle I have to be involved are you promising me that you will not go back
00:51:22to practicing same sex Daniel if we're married I plan on marrying you for the
00:51:27rest of my life there's not gonna be another woman if I'm with you I'm with
00:51:32you are you still thinking that there's a chance for us or is there no chance for
00:51:37us Daniel I don't know I don't think I will continue with this relationship
00:51:43until my uncle comes I should have told you I should have told you before I came
00:51:50and then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be
00:51:53with me and there won't be all these emotions involved and there wouldn't be
00:51:57all this struggle I should have just told you I was scared to tell you and I
00:52:02was scared to lose you I'm scared of losing you this all comes down to his uncle when
00:52:11he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years I'm worried that
00:52:16his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me and this relationship will be over
00:52:24I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes please
00:52:45help that ow that does not hurt that really hurts yeah it's not that's how you know I'm so sexually
00:52:52attracted to you because I love popping your pimples I'm good
00:53:04did you sleep well I'm pretty tired I can't believe after six months I had sex I feel like
00:53:13I'm not a virgin anymore like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer but it
00:53:20felt right it was a lot of fun do you think Chris hurt us
00:53:28uh possibly twice it was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like
00:53:39it
00:53:39flowed it was like missionary it was great and then like to the side was the other one
00:53:46did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above I forgot that painting was in the room
00:53:51well you didn't even me doggy style it's like couldn't even see the painting yesterday last night
00:53:58I feel like we're an old married couple like I'm so comfortable with you like usually like
00:54:04at home like if I like sleep with a guy like I just want to like go leave the next
00:54:09day but like
00:54:10I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you and then like I'm happy that I'm here and like I
00:54:15came
00:54:16you know did you I did Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage that definitely
00:54:24brought the mood down he had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and
00:54:28he definitely
00:54:29made it up it was everything I could have dreamed of and more everything about this man is so sexy
00:54:35except the uncircumcised there's a first uncircumcised it's a little weird it's like
00:54:45you know but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin but like
00:54:56like I'm not complaining about it I can deal with that I'm glad that you felt comfortable
00:55:06very quickly I did I'm like one part of me is like super happy but the other part of me
00:55:12is like
00:55:13I should have I should I want to know more than and then but whatever like I shouldn't be so
00:55:18hard
00:55:18to myself just ask anything you want do anything you want say anything you want yeah okay I'll start
00:55:24asking don't hate me okay go so I'm confused about this rental situation like a little annoying that
00:55:33Chris like walked in during that like why is he even here with you renting it in the first place
00:55:39because last I knew is you lived with your parents
00:55:44um I mean like we were living together and then we sort of had to get out after we moved
00:55:49out I
00:55:50dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week but then you know I um
00:55:57I've been living with Nat
00:56:00I've been staying at hers because you know she lives a lot closer to work
00:56:04so why I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle
00:56:11because you've confused me so much
00:56:14I know Nat we've talked on the phone a few times but living together
00:56:19I think their relationship's a little weird if it's so platonic and you're just friends
00:56:25why would you have to lie to me about it and tell me you're living with your parents
00:56:28this just smells fishy to me
00:56:33um I just I mean to me it's a little weird that you're living with a girl
00:56:39and like you talk about her a lot too and like I just I don't know like
00:56:46she's my friend you're here you're my you're my girlfriend so it's it's exactly the same as Chris
00:56:52I would treat exactly the same as I do Chris you know
00:56:55like do you guys like share a bathroom like does she see you naked like like how does that work
00:57:00why is that funny
00:57:01no it's funny because you know I get it that's you know I get why you'd ask those questions
00:57:06um yeah of course we share a bathroom right but um she hasn't seen me naked
00:57:11her and I are just friends she's like you know she's a really good friend but you know she knows
00:57:16about you and that you're my partner and you know um I really want you guys here along because it's
00:57:21important for me well you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her
00:57:29maybe it was a part of me you know not wanting you to get you know jealous and back out
00:57:34of this
00:57:34before you got here so how do I know you're telling me the truth well that's your job to believe
00:57:40me and
00:57:40it's my job to prove it to you
00:57:44I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight including that so I need to take advantage and
00:57:49get the whole picture of him I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her
00:57:54see what she says to me if there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that
00:57:58I'm gonna find out it's like what else do I not know that I should know I want to give
00:58:04Joshua
00:58:05the benefit of the doubt but I don't fully trust him after this at the end of the day like
00:58:10you know
00:58:10you're you know you're mine and you're my number one priority so
00:58:36they want babies
00:59:05that's a goat we call it
00:59:28I don't know if I can hold my legs like this
00:59:47only women are allowed to sit like this she's not gonna sit like this till the end just serving
00:59:53the food so far everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family even though he's acting like an
01:00:02old man
01:00:06my father said you have to use to do it but I know my family is going to be asking
01:00:14him a lot of questions
01:00:16and I don't know how Rick is going to respond
01:00:27like what is the intention to me
01:00:32I look at her as being a prospective wife to be
01:00:46I love her very much and I'm hoping that that she could possibly love me the same
01:00:53I love her very much and I don't know how old I'm 52
01:01:2652 you have the same age as him
01:01:3452 you have married
01:02:0552 you have married yes i've been married twice
01:02:08now i'm not married
01:02:18do you have child yes i have two babies and then i have three adult
01:02:48they want babies
01:02:58uh trish and i have been talking about whether or not we're gonna have kids and i'm just not ready
01:03:07to make that decision yet
01:03:27they want respect and as a malagasy we get
01:03:38married and i have child
01:03:45now
01:04:10I understand that.
01:04:12And now that I see how important this is,
01:04:14it's going to be the forefront of my mind, and...
01:04:29When are you going to decide it?
01:04:34Before, you know, I come to your father
01:04:37and ask for your hand in marriage,
01:04:40I will make a decision.
01:04:42Okay.
01:04:52Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt
01:04:56about having kids.
01:04:59But now the heat is on,
01:05:01and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:05:04My feelings have grown so much for Trish
01:05:07that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.
01:05:12But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:05:17I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:05:24Today I found out that he was living with you.
01:05:26Yeah.
01:05:27I thought you knew that.
01:05:28I don't think that guys and girls can be friends
01:05:30without hooking up.
01:05:31I've tried that. It's never succeeded.
01:05:32Oh, no. I have so many guy friends.
01:05:35Let's put two and two together.
01:05:36Josh lied to me about living there.
01:05:39Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:05:41So are you jealous of me?
01:06:19I'm so frustrated with Javon,
01:06:21but it makes me feel good when I look good.
01:06:24So I'm just going to do my own thing.
01:06:29Can we talk?
01:06:40That's all we do, talk.
01:06:43So frustrating.
01:06:48I'm really starting to feel hopeless
01:06:51that we're never going to resolve this problem.
01:06:56I really can't do this submissive thing.
01:07:01I'm afraid that he's trying to change me.
01:07:06But, I mean, this is not like a boyfriend
01:07:09and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out.
01:07:14We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever,
01:07:19especially now that he's in my house.
01:07:26Hey.
01:07:28Hey.
01:07:30Hey.
01:07:34I like your outfit.
01:07:37Thanks.
01:07:39I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:07:44Yesterday?
01:07:48Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:07:57I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:08:01You know, I know you want to come off like, you know,
01:08:03I'm not going to be pushed around, you're going to hear me.
01:08:08It...
01:08:10It causes more fights than it solves.
01:08:13I get what you're coming from,
01:08:14but this is what you married.
01:08:18I am not the type of woman
01:08:20who would just say yes just to have peace.
01:08:25Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:08:29And I saw my mom, you know,
01:08:31she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:08:34Mm-hmm.
01:08:36The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:08:42And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:08:47Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance
01:08:53or you raise your voice sometimes when we argue,
01:08:56my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:09:04I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:09:08I don't raise my voice at you and I'm not this person
01:09:11that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:09:13I know you're not my dad.
01:09:15You know?
01:09:15The point is, you're hard on me.
01:09:19I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it.
01:09:22You know, I know I've married a strong woman,
01:09:24but you're a little bit too strong.
01:09:27And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:09:33I grew up with an abusing father.
01:09:38He died long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:09:45I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:09:50If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:09:56But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:10:07I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was...
01:10:15and I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:10:29All right?
01:10:30Deal?
01:10:30All right.
01:10:31Come on.
01:10:32Be all right.
01:10:35I'll work it out, okay?
01:10:39Oh, let's go to the room where it's cool, man.
01:10:42You want to?
01:10:43Yeah.
01:10:43All right.
01:10:46I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:10:53Thank you so much, boo-boo.
01:10:58I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:11:05Oh, yeah?
01:11:08Yeah.
01:11:10Take me a minute.
01:11:12It's ketchup.
01:11:31It's ketchup.
01:11:33Baby, do I look okay?
01:11:35Absolutely perfect.
01:11:38But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something?
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:44And guess what?
01:11:45What?
01:11:45I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:11:48So I have to carry it?
01:11:49Yeah.
01:11:50That's not great.
01:11:58Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:12:01A little nipply.
01:12:04Yeah.
01:12:04Do you want a chocolate?
01:12:06Yeah.
01:12:06Do you want a chocolate?
01:12:07Yeah.
01:12:08Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:12:11Um, is there upstairs?
01:12:13The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out into the city
01:12:18in the harbour.
01:12:19I am excited, but nervous more so.
01:12:22I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she was not happy about it.
01:12:27But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:12:35Yeah.
01:12:36Are you falling?
01:12:37Yeah, falling for you.
01:12:38Oh!
01:12:40That was cool.
01:12:42Wow.
01:12:46This is, like, stunning.
01:12:47Like, not what I expected.
01:12:50It's nice, huh?
01:12:50It's beautiful.
01:12:52Thank you, babe.
01:12:54I love how you hold my purse.
01:12:58Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:13:00Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:13:03I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:13:06Is he going to be attentive?
01:13:07Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:13:08It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:13:11But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:13:13I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:13:15And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:13:18Oh!
01:13:19Hi!
01:13:20Hello, hello, hello, hello.
01:13:22Hello.
01:13:24Hello.
01:13:25Nice to meet you.
01:13:25Nice to meet you.
01:13:26Nice to meet you.
01:13:26How are you?
01:13:27Oh, you're a y'all person.
01:13:28I'm tall.
01:13:29No, I meant y'all, not tall.
01:13:31Hey, Liz.
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:33Steve.
01:13:33Nice to meet you, finally.
01:13:35Nice to meet you.
01:13:36And I know you.
01:13:37I know you.
01:13:40Keep back.
01:13:41Keep back.
01:13:42Keep back.
01:13:42What is it, Leo?
01:13:43Chewbacca?
01:13:45Where are we all sitting?
01:13:46We're all sitting.
01:13:47We're all sitting, I guess.
01:13:49We'll get attacked by seagulls.
01:13:50Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.
01:13:54Just everyone, man.
01:13:55Yeah, sorry.
01:13:57This is great.
01:13:58Oh, my favorite people.
01:14:02I need this.
01:14:03Thank you so much.
01:14:05To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:07I don't know why that's so funny.
01:14:08Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:14:11It's like...
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12Do you want to go for Elise?
01:14:16I can't.
01:14:20I've spoken to Elise before.
01:14:22And she comes across lovely.
01:14:25But she comes across very Miami.
01:14:27Like a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:14:29Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:14:30Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:14:32Yeah, well...
01:14:32Very skimpy.
01:14:33Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:14:34But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:36Are you jet-lagged?
01:14:3816 hours.
01:14:39I'm so jet-lagged.
01:14:40I'm in this way.
01:14:41You guys...
01:14:42I don't lie.
01:14:42I don't lie.
01:14:43They're sitting too far away, so...
01:14:44Yeah, I know.
01:14:44Wrap up to this other bar?
01:14:46Yes, let's do it.
01:14:51Are we gonna go in here?
01:14:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:53Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:14:55Yeah.
01:14:56My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:15:02But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something, like, I'm
01:15:08not understanding?
01:15:08Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but, like, I think it's weird.
01:15:12I think it's so weird.
01:15:15Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:15:19Okay.
01:15:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:15:23I can make you love Sydney.
01:15:24I would love that.
01:15:26Are you staying in Sydney?
01:15:28Barn diabetes.
01:15:30I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:15:35Yep.
01:15:36Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:15:39Yeah.
01:15:40I thought you knew that.
01:15:40Yeah, he was staying with me for a little bit.
01:15:46So, how did he ask to live with you? Like, how did this happen?
01:15:49He was kind of between places, and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:15:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:15:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:15:59Um, and I needed, um, to be, I needed comfort.
01:16:03I needed someone there to, to, yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:16:06So, it was, it worked out well.
01:16:09Yeah.
01:16:10I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:16:15There's a lot to unfold.
01:16:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:16:19I've tried that.
01:16:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:16:21I have so many guy friends.
01:16:21Oh, yay!
01:16:22I have so many guy friends.
01:16:25And this is probably Australia.
01:16:26It's probably a little bit different.
01:16:28It's a culture.
01:16:28It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:30It's a bit more laid back.
01:16:31We're a bit more easy about it.
01:16:33Like, we trust more, I think.
01:16:35Yeah, we trust.
01:16:36Yeah.
01:16:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:16:40Yes.
01:16:40I have a lot of male friends.
01:16:41Yes.
01:16:42I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:16:43He's, he's my brother to me.
01:16:45So, I find it very weird.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47They verbalise their own insecurities.
01:16:49Yeah.
01:16:49And hopefully they'll grow together and go through that.
01:16:52Yeah.
01:16:52Yeah.
01:16:53And that's how trust is built.
01:16:57I think that he's gonna have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely honest.
01:17:08So, are you jealous of me?
01:17:10And our relationship?
01:17:12I feel uneasy about it.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16Well, look, I get it.
01:17:17And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:17:19I think it's more of the fact that you're living with her.
01:17:21Yeah.
01:17:22I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:17:24Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:17:26Yeah.
01:17:27I'm always paying for both bits, for the whole rental, right?
01:17:31Right, but, um...
01:17:32You have been generous.
01:17:33I've been generous.
01:17:33I'm generous.
01:17:33I'm generous.
01:17:34I'm generous.
01:17:34I'm generous.
01:17:35And I love doing that for my friends.
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:37Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:17:39I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of...
01:17:43No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I don't.
01:17:45No, that's...
01:17:46No.
01:17:47That's...
01:17:48That...
01:17:48That offends me.
01:17:54She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:17:57So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.
01:17:59But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:18:01Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:18:03Probably...
01:18:03I should've been more clearer and I should've been more transparent.
01:18:07Let's put two and two together.
01:18:09Joshua's struggling financially.
01:18:11He's lied to me about living there.
01:18:14Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:18:16I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:18:20That's disgusting and weird.
01:18:22Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:18:29Why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:32If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:35I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:38I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:18:41If he happened to come back to his country,
01:18:43we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:18:48Sorry.
01:18:48I'm so sorry, Sheen.
01:19:02I can't leave there at school.
01:19:04So, that was eye-opening.
01:19:06Yeah, I know.
01:19:17It's just so much information all at once.
01:19:21Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:19:24Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer,
01:19:26and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:19:32I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months
01:19:35to get Sheena to the United States and everything figured out.
01:19:38But now, after hearing that my disability payments
01:19:41that I get monthly does not count,
01:19:44and it's going to take years,
01:19:46this is the biggest setback ever.
01:19:52There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:19:55I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:19:59Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:20:04But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:20:08Plus, you're going to add another two or three years
01:20:10while you'll find a job and save enough money for the K-1 visa.
01:20:17I don't know.
01:20:20I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:20:24But why do we have to live in your country?
01:20:26That's my good question.
01:20:31It's easier for me to stay here.
01:20:33You got a Filipino visa.
01:20:35And I'm a professional here.
01:20:37If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:20:41Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:20:44I think that's the best option for us.
01:20:51I still have my worries about that, though.
01:20:54With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:20:58And I know I am fighting with my mom,
01:21:01but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:21:07What makes me upset is, like,
01:21:10he loves his mom, his family.
01:21:12I understand that.
01:21:13But what about me?
01:21:15I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:21:18If he happened to come back to his country,
01:21:21we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:21:24So I will be the one who's stranded,
01:21:26and I will be hurt as well.
01:21:40I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:21:43I was expecting you
01:21:45that I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:21:54I don't know.
01:22:01I don't want to be apart from you that long,
01:22:05and I don't want to...
01:22:08I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:15Sorry.
01:22:16I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:22:20I won't keep trying.
01:22:25Now that I know that I can possibly stay here
01:22:28and be with Sheena every single day,
01:22:32I feel kind of stuck.
01:22:34Any option I make,
01:22:35I'm either going to hurt the woman I love
01:22:37or my mother.
01:22:42This...
01:22:43This is probably the hardest decision
01:22:45I've ever had to make.
01:22:47She's my second half.
01:22:48I know she's the one for me.
01:22:52And just being with her,
01:22:54being able to talk,
01:22:55joke,
01:22:56have everything,
01:22:57I don't want to lose that.
01:23:10Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:14Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:23:15Ah, you're going to...
01:23:16Oh, I'm sorry.
01:23:17This is kind of turning me on, babe.
01:23:20I did not know.
01:23:22Rolling some panther, yeah.
01:23:23Could be sexy.
01:23:25I'm so hungry.
01:23:26I'm a pregnancy clearance.
01:23:29I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:23:32How would you feel if I was?
01:23:38Tell me you love her.
01:23:40I was in love with her.
01:23:42I want to make a move.
01:23:43Dude, you made a move.
01:23:44You blow it.
01:23:45No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:23:47Laura made a move on me.
01:23:49I am thinking about sharing my life
01:23:51and you are keeping secret from me.
01:23:55This is better.
01:24:03Hey, this water is cold.
01:24:05You can survive.
01:24:08I hope Trish's family can see
01:24:10that I'm trying
01:24:10and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:24:24Going to Casablanca right now to see Muhammad,
01:24:26it's kind of surreal.
01:24:28I mean, I have my engagement ring
01:24:29Muhammad gave to me when he proposed.
01:24:33Putting this ring back on
01:24:34is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:24:37But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:24:42My heart's racing.
01:24:49Why did you just leave?
01:24:52So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:24:55So you just walk away from me?
01:24:58After what I found out about Nat,
01:25:01my mind is just in so many directions
01:25:03and I'm freaking out.
01:25:05I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.
01:25:10I want to go home.
01:25:15She has gotten married five times
01:25:17and from 21 years,
01:25:20she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:25:24Why am I hearing this one now?
01:25:27This is an abomination.
01:25:28No.
01:25:29I can't help what my past is like.
01:25:31I am willing to do whatever it takes
01:25:33to be with Daniel.
01:25:34I can't believe you.
01:25:37Because of this,
01:25:38the marriage will be over.
01:25:41I can't believe you.
01:25:43I can't believe you.
01:25:44I can't believe you.
01:25:44I can't believe you.
01:25:44I can't believe you.
01:25:44I can't believe you.
01:25:44I can't believe you.
01:25:45I can't believe you.
01:25:45I can't believe you.
01:25:45I can't believe you.
01:25:45I can't believe you.
01:25:45I can't believe you.
01:25:46I can't believe you.
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