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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 16: Mile High Club
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:09Yeah, I'm pregnancy driven.
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom
00:00:17the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners
00:00:29for K-1 visa is 26,500 USD.
00:00:34And, you know, disability benefits
00:00:35is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here.
00:00:40We got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09Where is the honesty.
00:01:11Up to 20 something years with your fellow woman.
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18is there a way we can solve this
00:01:34you got that final warning at work and Nat's helping you out these question marks make me
00:01:40feel like it's super unstable I'm just sick of the peppering and peppering peppering you
00:01:44flogging the same horse like because when I get a warning like that when you say it happened but
00:01:49now it's I still have a job okay but it makes me worried that you could be using me if
00:01:55you think
00:01:55that then I would not expect anything less than you wanting to go so please please let me know
00:02:09are you kidding me he said he has a fiance
00:02:16how dare he had dumped me and leave me alone in the desert Mohammed standing me up like I'm just
00:02:22so over it this ring and everything that it represented I will find love somewhere else
00:02:47you know that I like that give you what you want you want you want
00:02:55forever alone I'm just feeling hangry hangry bear when I'm hangry and moody I see that
00:03:04you want some nuts
00:03:05I feel like I'm chipmunk
00:03:21I just want to stay here like this
00:03:26yesterday Sheena and I met up with an immigration attorney and we learned some disappointing news
00:03:30turns out I don't make the necessary income to bring Sheena over on a K-1 visa
00:03:36and that could take years to build up so the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here so I can get my Filipino visa instead but I'm not sure I'm
00:03:49ready
00:03:50to just pick up and move to another country
00:03:55Sheena we have some real big decisions we have to make but I'm looking forward to tonight and I
00:04:02really just want to put that down for tomorrow I understand my love I can't wait to you know visit
00:04:11the beaches at least no one's gonna disturb us
00:04:17I'm bringing forth the Batangas the province along the south area it's quite popular for beautiful sandy
00:04:24beaches since talking the immigration lawyer it causes a lot of emotional stress
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing and that it will give me the opportunity to get him
00:04:37to really consider living here with me
00:04:43Also looking outside here
00:04:46One thing I don't like about the beaches
00:04:49Jellfish
00:04:51Well let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish
00:04:53But turns out I didn't bring the jelly
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight
00:05:01Oh that would be great
00:05:05I'm gonna have to ask you if mom approves about this
00:05:11Mom's gonna be there watching and cheering the entire time
00:05:15You're craving me now
00:05:17All right I think this is it
00:05:20Nice
00:05:21It's a very tight fit
00:05:24Oh that's tight fit
00:05:26Oh my gosh
00:05:30Sheena and I talked about it
00:05:31And now not having anybody to kind of hold us back
00:05:36I think now is the perfect time to kind of let our sexual tensions go
00:05:41Lead away honey
00:05:42Yeah
00:05:45Oh look there's a hammock honey
00:05:47Wow this is such a beautiful place
00:05:50Oh wow
00:05:54Did you prepare this honey?
00:05:57That's so sweet
00:05:58I did
00:05:59To be honest I am quite nervous to lose my virginity
00:06:04And I'm quite excited as well
00:06:06I was like oh wow
00:06:08Hey baby
00:06:10Boom
00:06:13I'm quite happy because I wanted to give this to the person
00:06:17That who had loved me for the longest years
00:06:21And I think Forrest deserved that kind of love more than anyone else
00:06:28Oh wait
00:06:29You know what
00:06:30I had to freshening myself
00:06:31I'm gonna get some sexy lingerie
00:06:35Mmm
00:06:35Okay
00:06:37It's C-Targo
00:06:39I don't know what you want
00:06:41When I was younger
00:06:43I always thought you know
00:06:45My first time would be great and excravent
00:06:47And amazing
00:06:48And I got older and it wasn't happening
00:06:51I did worry that that's just one of those life experiences that other people just get to have
00:06:57But not me
00:07:00So going into this love nest that I have made for Sheena and I
00:07:05I am extremely nervous on what to do or how to do things
00:07:10But I have no doubts that I'm doing it with the right person
00:07:27You're looking so sexy
00:07:29What do you think about me?
00:07:31Oh yeah you look so handsome
00:07:32I got it all ready for you
00:07:34You're so making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams,
00:07:44the vixen of the internet.
00:07:48I'm glad that I'm getting to give you my virginity.
00:07:52And I wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you.
00:07:55You're going to have to help me get this on, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:58Oh, my God.
00:08:00Oh, there it is.
00:08:00Oh, what?
00:08:03You're ready to go, honey?
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:08We'll wait.
00:08:13You're going to have to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:23Are you the sweetest honey there, I am?
00:08:26Yes.
00:08:45Are you a princess?
00:08:47I wish I was a princess.
00:08:48You're so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:57I kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:00I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So, yeah, it's scary.
00:09:17You're up, handsome.
00:09:28Oh.
00:09:30Oh.
00:09:31Is this where we're going?
00:09:33Oh, yes.
00:09:34This is a big market.
00:09:41Okay.
00:09:43We'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders, and he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat, two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:10And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy.
00:10:17But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:20Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:24This is homo.
00:10:25Calo skin.
00:10:26Homo, this is what I put in this suit.
00:10:28So that's how they prepaid.
00:10:31Be careful.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:38It's Marcus.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This place is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:45The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now they don't do that anymore.
00:10:49So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:56But what are the yams for?
00:10:59The two yams is what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen it before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria here.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:19This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24All right, Tom.
00:11:25This one we need.
00:11:27How much is this?
00:11:28Five, five.
00:11:30Five thousand five hundred.
00:11:32For one or?
00:11:33One.
00:11:33One.
00:11:34Ah.
00:11:35It's too expensive.
00:11:37But, baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40Can I give you 10,000?
00:11:42This two?
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:4510,000.
00:11:4610,000?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:57He spent 10,000 on two yams.
00:11:59And I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel is a good negotiator.
00:12:05Look, look, look, look.
00:12:07Ah!
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yes.
00:12:10Yeah.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This is female.
00:12:14This is female.
00:12:15Ah!
00:12:16This one is female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:18Ah!
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:21Thanks.
00:12:22What?
00:12:22Ah!
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:24Ah!
00:12:25200,000.
00:12:26What?
00:12:26200,000 for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30I don't know.
00:12:31What do you want to go?
00:12:32A lot less than that.
00:12:33Ah!
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:35Ah!
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying 200 for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:40No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not 200, no.
00:12:43Give me 100.
00:12:44100.
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45We are not paying.
00:12:46Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God, we are not paying 100.
00:12:48We are paying 70,000.
00:12:49Please.
00:12:52I'm taking it.
00:12:54Oh, my God.
00:12:54We just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:07Are you sure this is the right way?
00:13:09Oh, God.
00:13:10The directions he gave me.
00:13:12What the smell, honey?
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed.
00:13:21And that will be the end of everything.
00:13:24I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35Just be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:43Oh, my God.
00:13:44Oh, my God.
00:13:48Hold on.
00:13:48He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Give me your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:14Damn bitch, I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29Wait, should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:14:34But if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:38OK.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:42Oh, my God.
00:15:06Things are still, like, tense between Josh and I.
00:15:09He came back to the apartment, but he's barely speaking to me.
00:15:13And after talking to my parents, I am just so confused.
00:15:18My parents think that I'm judging Josh too harshly.
00:15:21And, like, I don't know, I am the queen at self-sabotaging.
00:15:25But I'm just trying to protect myself and my family.
00:15:27And it sucks because my heart wants one thing.
00:15:30My mind's telling me another right now.
00:15:32And it's scary.
00:15:33It's scary.
00:15:35It's scary.
00:15:45You all right?
00:15:48You all right?
00:15:49Are you?
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:54I'm going to get out of the apartment.
00:15:56OK.
00:15:58Cool.
00:16:01I'm still feeling hurt by Elise I'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping I know I've
00:16:07fallen for her but I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to explain myself
00:16:11400 times she thinks that I'm using that then I could use her and that's not the case and I
00:16:17would never want to use someone it feels like she's attacking my integrity so like
00:16:29last night sucked and I know you've got these worries right but like I don't want you to think
00:16:35that you know I would use you you know or I'd be like your past relationships I'd take advantage
00:16:40of you but that's what angered me because it's the last thing I want to do okay just I really
00:16:49like
00:16:51you know when you sort of say you know that I'm I'm dependent on other people and I might be
00:16:56dependent on you you know and that you know she gave me a place to be that's up that's weird
00:17:03it's not weird it's weird you know you've said it you've made your point I have nothing to hide with
00:17:10her have you let me ask you a question have you given me a reason for me to trust you
00:17:15help do you not trust me not right now no I want to I do but let me earn that
00:17:21trust in
00:17:22I'm showing you that you know I can look after myself I can spend for myself I can be a
00:17:26partner
00:17:26for you without having to lean on you know friends or you know please I'm telling you right now please
00:17:34if you can't let me prove it to you then you just don't trust me that's not gonna work
00:17:48I am sorry I do sometimes poke and prod that's just a character defect I just don't want this to
00:17:57be words like words are great to me and that's that's that's made me settle in my entire life
00:18:02with every relationship I fell for words and like I don't want to fall back into that like I've been
00:18:06engaged 30 times like I'm 32 I want to get married and I want to have kids and it scares
00:18:11me because
00:18:12I do like you and I didn't expect to like you so much so soon it's good to hear because
00:18:21I didn't
00:18:21plan on like falling for you as hard as I've fallen for you so quickly I don't want you to
00:18:27feel like
00:18:27you've um you know you've settled and I've I've roped you in I've made you fall in love and then
00:18:32I'm
00:18:32some you know I'm a I'm useless you know I wouldn't let you feel like you've made the wrong decision
00:18:38I
00:18:42won't like I'm I'm crazy about you to be honest I'm glad that Elise is having a little more faith
00:18:50in me
00:18:52the relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic takedown mentality that
00:18:57I can see that she's doing I'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because I do
00:19:02see a future with Elise so I think we get that out of the way and then we can just
00:19:08get stronger and
00:19:11stronger well you know what isn't really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off I think it's a
00:19:16bit windier
00:19:43moment of truth
00:19:50I'm freaking out I am too actually
00:19:54all right should we get it over with I'm gonna go in there alone
00:20:08because I just want to do it on my own how long does it take I don't know it's in
00:20:14Spanish
00:20:18it just feels so surreal thinking about how far stick and I have come over the past few weeks
00:20:23a few days ago I was convinced we were breaking up now I'm taking a pregnancy test so much has
00:20:33happened but I'm leaving in less than two days and I have a lot of mixed emotions I would love
00:20:39to find
00:20:40out that I'm pregnant and get this incredible news but leaving stick is gonna be really difficult
00:20:48after this I might be no drinking no party and none for you too
00:20:53no no no no no no if it says positive I gotta celebrate later on
00:21:01I would be excited about this we would make like beautiful kids and I would love to have a son
00:21:08and
00:21:09by the grace of God he like he wants to sing I'm not saying he has to be an artist
00:21:15because that's you know what I did
00:21:16nothing like that I'm scared all right we'll do your thing okay I just like boys because I know they're
00:21:27like mama's boys and they
00:21:30it's gonna be daddy's what are you talking about no no the girls always favor the dad that's what I
00:21:35always favor the mom I've seen it not to sound bad but I don't want the sins of my past
00:21:39to fall on me so
00:21:40I'm scared to have a daughter I don't want to have to kill anybody whatever gives me baby fever
00:21:57I really want to know now before I leave I don't want to find out when I'm back in Arizona
00:22:01without
00:22:02him because that would suck for him and me even though we only had unprotected sex for
00:22:13I don't know four to five days I still just feel like I might be pregnant I just have that
00:22:22feeling
00:22:26babe how's it going are you done not yet be patient
00:22:34here goes nothing moment of truth
00:22:54bro my palms are sweaty I can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant if she is I'm
00:23:02gonna be right by her side but honestly if she's not pregnant I'd be a little relief
00:23:10babe oh my god
00:23:16okay
00:23:19una y cinco minutos so you gotta wait one to five minute right now I don't think we're ready
00:23:27so it's a little scary if there's one line it's negative two it's positive
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days I think this has shown me I just
00:23:49want
00:23:49something different I'll just be a few minutes before I leave Morocco there's just one last thing
00:23:57that I need to take care of
00:24:21oh thank you sorry I have a lot of stuff
00:24:27thank you so much
00:24:44yesterday was another emotional day for me
00:24:48I got stood up by Mohammed I am single I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore and I'm
00:24:56ready to go home
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days and I think the best thing to do
00:25:09in
00:25:09this moment is to just get back home as soon as possible so I am flying back to the US
00:25:17today
00:25:20last night when I got back to my hotel I received a text from Mohammed and he said are you
00:25:29serious you came to
00:25:31Morocco for someone else not for me I'm not your plan B I think this was his plan all along
00:25:38to bail on me and
00:25:40humiliate me one last time he knew I came here for someone else and he was really mad about it
00:25:46so he just had me
00:25:49running around Morocco and jumping through hoops for him like I always used to do in the past and I
00:25:54fell for it
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Mohammed but at least now I don't have to wonder about any
00:26:04more
00:26:04what-ifs that door is closed forever
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes
00:26:16but before I leave Morocco
00:26:19there's just one last thing that I need to take care of
00:26:34hi
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace after both of these failed relationships
00:26:43so when I changed my flight I decided to let Ziad know
00:26:48and he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye
00:26:56good morning
00:26:58how are you
00:27:01okay how are you
00:27:02fine
00:27:04this day you're gonna travel to your country
00:27:07yeah
00:27:09so
00:27:11I wish you a good word
00:27:14and
00:27:15that's all what they have to say
00:27:16so
00:27:16you don't want to say sorry for anything
00:27:19me
00:27:21it's me who should say sorry
00:27:23I mean I think we both have things to apologize for
00:27:27come on
00:27:27what do you want to find out
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened
00:27:35I came here because I loved you and because I wanted to be with you
00:27:40did you ever love me
00:27:44before you come here I was in love with you really yeah
00:27:47but when you come here we see each other in the reality how we are
00:27:51everything about us it's not work
00:27:55I'm really sorry
00:27:58it's fine
00:27:59yeah
00:28:03okay well thanks for everything
00:28:06thanks for you too
00:28:08so
00:28:09yeah
00:28:10that's all
00:28:12okay
00:28:18bye
00:28:19goodbye
00:28:21goodbye
00:28:44talking to him didn't make me feel better
00:28:47it's almost like it doesn't matter to him
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more
00:28:56this has definitely been a learning experience
00:28:59I think this has shown me and taught me what I don't want in a relationship
00:29:09thank you so much
00:29:15thank you
00:29:16thank you
00:29:18thank you very much
00:29:19hello
00:29:23I want to go home and focus on becoming the best version of me
00:29:31how many bags?
00:29:32three
00:29:33a lot of makeup
00:29:34here you go
00:29:35thank you so much
00:29:39but
00:29:41I'm not giving up on my search for love
00:29:42I'm a hopeless romantic
00:29:44I love love
00:29:46and no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me
00:29:50that's never going to stop me because
00:29:52I know true love is real
00:29:54and I know somewhere in the world
00:29:57my person does exist
00:29:59who's happy to be with me
00:30:03and I know that I'm going to find it
00:30:05I know I'm going to find it
00:30:10and I'm not going to stop until I do find it
00:30:13because I know it's out there
00:30:17and this isn't the end of my journey
00:30:20and you never know
00:30:21it could happen tomorrow
00:30:25or on the plane
00:30:30Morocco it's been real
00:30:31a lot of ups and downs
00:30:33but
00:30:34I'm ready to go home
00:30:37I'm ready
00:30:38so
00:30:39goodbye Morocco
00:30:46this is the water
00:30:48let's do this
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here
00:30:52to fit in
00:30:56you never had a washing machine?
00:30:59you remember you called me boozy
00:31:01I'm not boozy
00:31:02I think I gotta take that back
00:31:06my wife-to-be
00:31:07had an affair with her fellow woman
00:31:13woman
00:31:14is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17yes
00:31:18this is totally sacrilege
00:31:22the prison is over
00:31:47I love the door
00:31:52yeah
00:31:54yes
00:31:54that's it
00:31:56I can do some squats with this
00:31:58oh yeah
00:32:05oh
00:32:09it's not one time
00:32:11okay
00:32:13all right
00:32:16it's my second day
00:32:17with Trisha's family
00:32:18and
00:32:19I've been trying to make myself useful today
00:32:22you know
00:32:23helping around the house
00:32:24this is the water
00:32:26yeah
00:32:26yeah
00:32:29all right
00:32:29let me see
00:32:30let's do this
00:32:33how often you do this
00:32:35every day or
00:32:36yeah
00:32:38you watch every day huh
00:32:39oh
00:32:40you cook every day
00:32:41oh
00:32:41cook every day
00:32:43you gotta get the water
00:32:44for laundry
00:32:45for cooking everything
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here
00:32:50to fit in
00:32:51to you know
00:32:52do some of the chores
00:32:54that they do
00:32:54there's my shoulder
00:32:56oh
00:32:59what up
00:33:00what up
00:33:00what up
00:33:02man
00:33:03hey babe
00:33:06check out your man baby
00:33:10you good
00:33:11this is not easy
00:33:12bring the water here
00:33:14okay
00:33:15thank you for showing me
00:33:16where the water was
00:33:17let me show Chetik
00:33:19show her
00:33:24that's it
00:33:26yeah
00:33:26is this another soap here
00:33:28yeah
00:33:28you have to
00:33:33it's gonna take forever
00:33:36I think
00:33:37this is easier
00:33:39I've never washed my clothes
00:33:41to the machine
00:33:43hey
00:33:43are you serious
00:33:44you never had a washing machine
00:33:46we never had one
00:33:48you even do this in Tana
00:33:49huh
00:33:50yeah
00:33:50even in Tana
00:33:51I'm doing this
00:33:55remember you call me boozy
00:33:57I'm not boozy
00:33:58man
00:33:58I think I gotta take that back
00:34:00now
00:34:01I know you be doing this
00:34:03man
00:34:08so how was with my dad
00:34:11did you understand each other
00:34:12oh yeah
00:34:14but we didn't talk about anything serious
00:34:18he didn't talk about babies
00:34:20or I don't know
00:34:22nah
00:34:22I thought it was best just to
00:34:24leave that subject alone
00:34:27for now
00:34:29he's not gonna leave the subject alone
00:34:32he's really
00:34:33really worried about
00:34:35the baby
00:34:36more than I thought
00:34:41so
00:34:41you should not
00:34:43take a long time
00:34:45he wants that
00:34:47you should decide it before
00:34:49here you go
00:34:53what do you think your dad would do
00:34:55if I don't
00:34:56come up with an answer
00:34:57about it
00:34:58in the next couple days
00:35:00what
00:35:03I don't know Rick
00:35:04but it's not
00:35:05just my dad
00:35:07to me
00:35:08having a baby
00:35:09it means a lot
00:35:13I want the mother-child
00:35:15relationship
00:35:16that I didn't get
00:35:17to have
00:35:18you know
00:35:19my mom
00:35:21she lived
00:35:22for
00:35:23another person
00:35:29when I was
00:35:31one years old
00:35:33my parents
00:35:35break up
00:35:36and
00:35:37my mom
00:35:38found
00:35:39another man
00:35:40in my culture
00:35:42when
00:35:44two people
00:35:45broke up
00:35:46and they have
00:35:48child together
00:35:49and the girl
00:35:51decided
00:35:53to
00:35:53marry
00:35:55with another man
00:35:56she cannot
00:35:57touch the baby
00:35:59she cannot
00:36:00see the baby
00:36:01unless
00:36:03her husband
00:36:04buys
00:36:05animals
00:36:06and
00:36:06she has to
00:36:07cut
00:36:08the throat
00:36:09the blood
00:36:11they put it here
00:36:12on the babies
00:36:14my mom
00:36:15didn't
00:36:16do it
00:36:17after she
00:36:17left us
00:36:18because her
00:36:20husband
00:36:20didn't
00:36:21accept
00:36:22for doing it
00:36:23so she
00:36:25left me
00:36:26with my dad
00:36:29she just
00:36:30followed
00:36:31the guy
00:36:32but she
00:36:33didn't care
00:36:40wash your clothes
00:36:45I know
00:36:47I'm not used
00:36:49to talk
00:36:50about my mom
00:36:50because
00:36:51she makes me
00:36:52a little bit
00:36:53upset
00:36:54like
00:36:54how
00:36:55how she
00:36:56could not
00:36:56love a baby
00:36:58it's cute
00:37:00though
00:37:02she left
00:37:03I was just
00:37:03one years old
00:37:05and
00:37:05you're precious
00:37:06baby
00:37:10you had
00:37:10a daddy
00:37:12that loves
00:37:13you
00:37:13more than
00:37:15that's why
00:37:15I want
00:37:16I want
00:37:17to make
00:37:18them happy
00:37:19they want
00:37:19grandchild
00:37:23I think
00:37:23that Trisha
00:37:24is trying
00:37:25to fill
00:37:25a void
00:37:26and I want
00:37:27her to heal
00:37:28and have
00:37:29the life
00:37:29that she's
00:37:30envisioning
00:37:31she deserves
00:37:32to be a mom
00:37:33and I don't
00:37:34ever want
00:37:34to take that
00:37:35away from her
00:37:37but at the
00:37:37same time
00:37:38I'm not even
00:37:40financially prepared
00:37:41right now
00:37:42to have
00:37:43another child
00:37:45my worst fear
00:37:46is to lose
00:37:47Trish
00:37:47and it hurts
00:37:49me to think
00:37:50that I might
00:37:51have to
00:37:51let her go
00:38:04hi
00:38:04you look sexy
00:38:06driving that boat
00:38:08today
00:38:09Josh is taking me
00:38:10out on one of
00:38:10his company's boats
00:38:11but he got a
00:38:13final warning
00:38:13because he took
00:38:14out a boat
00:38:15for a joyride
00:38:16and crashed it
00:38:17I have so many
00:38:17questions
00:38:18this whole boat
00:38:19thing is just
00:38:19super confusing
00:38:20to me
00:38:20squared away
00:38:21so you
00:38:22can be at ease
00:38:23and put it
00:38:23to rest
00:38:25Joshua
00:38:25it was
00:38:26twenty thousand
00:38:26dollars worth
00:38:27of damage
00:38:27how did you
00:38:28pay for that
00:38:45Chris
00:38:46yes
00:38:47I think I have to
00:38:48poop
00:38:49could you leave
00:38:49just pretend I'm not
00:38:51even here
00:38:51no you have to
00:38:52leave
00:38:52I haven't gotten
00:38:54seven days
00:38:56you look like a
00:38:57serial killer
00:39:18I feel so much better
00:39:20I could finish shaving
00:39:21I sprayed
00:39:22don't worry
00:39:23it doesn't smell
00:39:24I like Chris
00:39:27I do
00:39:28he's a great
00:39:29roommate
00:39:29really fun
00:39:30and he's like
00:39:31a brother
00:39:33that's hot
00:39:34whatever
00:39:36but I'm not
00:39:37dating Chris
00:39:38I'm dating Josh
00:39:40and things have
00:39:41been a little
00:39:42rocky with Josh
00:39:43and I
00:39:43the past few days
00:39:44hopefully this
00:39:45red light mask
00:39:46did wonders
00:39:47I need to get
00:39:48cute to go
00:39:49on this boat
00:39:49we had an intense
00:39:51conversation at the
00:39:51beach the other day
00:39:52but ever since then
00:39:54things are starting
00:39:55to move in a better
00:39:55direction
00:39:56and today
00:39:57Josh is taking me
00:39:58out on one of his
00:39:59company's boats
00:40:01you'll have a fun
00:40:02day out there
00:40:02it'll be awesome
00:40:02it's a fun job
00:40:04well I know it's fun
00:40:05a little too much fun
00:40:08please focus on
00:40:09the positives
00:40:09let's have a positive
00:40:10day
00:40:10period
00:40:11I like that
00:40:12I'll give you
00:40:13a report card tonight
00:40:13okay
00:40:15I get along well
00:40:15with Elise
00:40:16I like Elise
00:40:16but she's definitely
00:40:18looking for problems
00:40:18since she's been
00:40:20here I've seen
00:40:20them go up and
00:40:21down very quick
00:40:22and very fast
00:40:22almost like a
00:40:23perfect little
00:40:24toxic relationship
00:40:26so short term
00:40:27I think it's
00:40:28going to be fine
00:40:29but long term
00:40:30I don't know
00:40:31I don't know
00:40:43thank you
00:40:43have a good day
00:40:51hi
00:40:53does
00:40:54do you guys know
00:40:55if Josh is here
00:40:56he's not here right
00:40:57now no
00:40:58but he's on his way
00:40:58he works here right
00:40:59yeah he does
00:41:00that's actually his desk
00:41:01this one
00:41:02yeah
00:41:02should I sit at his desk
00:41:03yeah go for it
00:41:04go for it
00:41:05that's his desk
00:41:06that is where the magic happens
00:41:08hi I'm Joshua
00:41:11you just go down here
00:41:12turn right
00:41:13straight down to the right
00:41:37I know Elise has been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes I
00:41:41made
00:41:42of course the main part of my job
00:41:43is selling boats
00:41:44but I wanted to see with her own eyes
00:41:46that I've still got a job
00:41:47and you know
00:41:48she's got nothing to worry about
00:41:50are you ready
00:41:51I'm ready baby
00:41:54it's so pretty around here
00:41:56wow
00:41:56yeah
00:41:58it's a beautiful day
00:41:59and it's a beautiful boat
00:42:00with a beautiful man
00:42:02so
00:42:03when I walked in
00:42:04looking for you today
00:42:05I went into your office
00:42:07and I met someone
00:42:08and I sat at your desk
00:42:09did you
00:42:10yeah
00:42:11did you get some work done
00:42:13no
00:42:13not at all
00:42:15it was fun to show off a little bit
00:42:17I do like being out on the water
00:42:19any chance I get
00:42:20that was my first impression of you
00:42:21when I saw you on social media
00:42:23she was on the front of a boat
00:42:24looking fabulous
00:42:25I think it was on the back
00:42:27actually
00:42:28you were on the front
00:42:30okay
00:42:30he would know boats better than me
00:42:32yes
00:42:34can I see outside
00:42:35yeah
00:42:36I got some champagne
00:42:38smart boy
00:42:39this was like an ideal day for me
00:42:41I'm glad
00:42:46well I'm happy you took me on the boat
00:42:48did you ask your boss or
00:42:51I did yeah
00:42:51and he gave you permission
00:42:53yep
00:42:55before I got to Australia
00:42:57Josh had sent me a text
00:42:59saying he got a final warning from work
00:43:00because he took out a company boat
00:43:03that they were selling
00:43:04for a joyride with friends
00:43:06and crashed it
00:43:08he has to pay back the damages
00:43:10he owes $20,000
00:43:11so yeah
00:43:12I'm happy
00:43:12he still has a job
00:43:13but I feel like what he did
00:43:15was 100% irresponsible
00:43:17I have so many questions
00:43:18and I still haven't had a proper conversation
00:43:20about it yet
00:43:22listen it's like
00:43:23I'm not here to
00:43:24make you feel
00:43:25any worse
00:43:27but
00:43:27this whole boat thing
00:43:29is just super confusing to me
00:43:30so
00:43:31what happened that night?
00:43:39Nat and a few other
00:43:40Nat and another few friends
00:43:42they have friends
00:43:44who were going to become clients of mine
00:43:47and those clients
00:43:48who I'm trying to network with
00:43:50and get closer to
00:43:51are then going to come to me
00:43:52when they want to buy a boat
00:43:54so I took them out
00:43:56on one of our company boats
00:43:58and
00:43:59on our way back here
00:44:00so I got a bit too shallow
00:44:02and flipped through a rock
00:44:03then I was
00:44:05but
00:44:06you know
00:44:08it could have been way worse
00:44:11it got fixed straight away
00:44:13Joshua
00:44:16you told me it was $20,000 worth of damage
00:44:19well
00:44:20look
00:44:20when I first
00:44:21when I first did the damage
00:44:22I thought that it was
00:44:24you know
00:44:24going to be
00:44:24a little bit more damage
00:44:25because I didn't know exactly
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat
00:44:28and see what happened
00:44:29but
00:44:29no
00:44:30it was like
00:44:30it was a couple of grand
00:44:32thank God
00:44:32you know
00:44:33and is that
00:44:33paid off?
00:44:35yeah it is paid off
00:44:36how did you pay for that?
00:44:38well before you got here
00:44:39I sold a boat
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat
00:44:41so
00:44:42that commission
00:44:42did not go to me
00:44:43the money that you sold
00:44:45you didn't get that money
00:44:46it went to that
00:44:46damages
00:44:47so that
00:44:47that's squared away
00:44:48so
00:44:49you can be at ease
00:44:50and put it to rest
00:44:52I'm still working
00:44:53I'm still got a job
00:44:54I'm responsible
00:44:55I can
00:44:55I'm trusted
00:44:58and I got worried about it
00:44:59but all in all
00:45:00you know
00:45:02I have my
00:45:02together
00:45:03yeah
00:45:05okay
00:45:08well I understand that
00:45:10and I'm really happy
00:45:11I came on the boat
00:45:12but
00:45:13I guess the only thing
00:45:14that's like
00:45:14really on my mind
00:45:16and like
00:45:17putting a damper on this
00:45:18is the gnat situation
00:45:20okay
00:45:21why can't I drop the gnat then?
00:45:24I didn't realize
00:45:25she was on the boat
00:45:26with you that night
00:45:26and like
00:45:27this emotional connection
00:45:28you have with her
00:45:29the financial hold
00:45:30she has on you
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep
00:45:34ten times
00:45:35having to tell you something
00:45:36and you not believe it
00:45:38you're not letting things go
00:45:39no I'm letting it go
00:45:40I just
00:45:40didn't
00:45:41it doesn't seem like you are
00:45:42I'm trying to get down
00:45:43to the bottom of this
00:45:44okay
00:45:45let's go and see
00:45:46let's us three hang out
00:45:47so it's just us three
00:45:48and you know
00:45:49hopefully I can put
00:45:50your mind at ease
00:45:51we'll do it tonight
00:45:55okay
00:45:57of course she was on the boat
00:45:59did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01should have been my first question
00:46:03I mean
00:46:04Josh clearly still has a job
00:46:06but he depends on Nat financially
00:46:08I'm just still really confused
00:46:10so I'm really glad
00:46:11that I'm going to see Nat tonight
00:46:12so I can get some answers
00:46:14and just finally put this to rest
00:46:30I swear to God
00:46:31I am about to be cursed
00:46:33I am scared
00:46:35this is no priest
00:46:36I have ever seen
00:46:37in my life
00:46:38he will come after you
00:46:51so I gotta wait
00:46:51one to five minutes
00:47:07so two lines is pregnant
00:47:09one line is not
00:47:18well
00:47:19there we go
00:47:22it's a pretty strong
00:47:24dark one line
00:47:27not two
00:47:28yeah
00:47:29well
00:47:31yep
00:47:32two means pregnant
00:47:33two means pregnant
00:47:36you think it's gonna
00:47:37just stay negative
00:47:38I think so
00:47:43I actually feel
00:47:44really disappointed
00:47:46Stig and I have had
00:47:47so much fun
00:47:47the past few weeks
00:47:48we've gotten closer
00:47:50I've gotten to see
00:47:51a side of him
00:47:52I didn't know before
00:47:52and I was really excited
00:47:54to think about
00:47:55having our baby
00:47:56and starting a little family
00:47:58I'm really sad
00:47:59I'm really bummed
00:48:02don't worry
00:48:03I feel more let down
00:48:05than I expected
00:48:06I don't know
00:48:07I thought it would be
00:48:08a perfect end
00:48:10to our trip
00:48:11I don't know
00:48:12if we could
00:48:13you know
00:48:14I just don't know
00:48:15when I'm gonna see you next
00:48:16you know
00:48:16why are you saying that
00:48:18like you're acting like
00:48:19we're gonna break up
00:48:20when you leave or something
00:48:20that would just
00:48:21I feel like
00:48:23make things happen quicker
00:48:25like I would have
00:48:26motivation to hurry up
00:48:27move
00:48:28instead of go home
00:48:30and
00:48:31don't stress yourself out
00:48:33don't think about it
00:48:35so deep
00:48:37it's really hitting me
00:48:38that I'm going home
00:48:39and I just have no idea
00:48:40what to expect
00:48:42without a baby
00:48:43it's hard to know
00:48:45how serious he is
00:48:46about our future
00:48:50I'm worried that
00:48:51after I leave Belize
00:48:52he's not going to be
00:48:54around me anymore
00:48:55and Stig is going to go
00:48:57just right back
00:48:58into his old
00:48:59partying ways
00:49:00I just feel a little
00:49:02unsure about what
00:49:03the future holds
00:49:04and it's giving me
00:49:05a lot of anxiety
00:49:35I'm not going to be
00:50:05talking
00:50:06my life
00:50:06my life
00:50:09tell me why
00:50:10they're here
00:50:11I tell
00:50:12I'm not going to be
00:50:16I got
00:50:17this
00:50:20do
00:50:20that
00:50:20Christian
00:50:46somehow he knows
00:50:47when he throws these
00:50:49shells
00:50:49shells and they land
00:50:50in a certain way
00:50:51I'm there for a
00:50:52cleansing
00:50:52this is craziness
00:50:56who is this man
00:50:58he's to be my husband
00:50:59why are you here
00:51:02man of Christ
00:51:03my wife
00:51:04my wife to be
00:51:05had
00:51:05an affair
00:51:06with her
00:51:06woman
00:51:09woman
00:51:14yes sir
00:51:15is it true
00:51:16what your husband
00:51:17said
00:51:19yes
00:51:22there's more
00:51:23though
00:51:23I also lied
00:51:25to everybody
00:51:26I wasn't married
00:51:28twice
00:51:28like I had told
00:51:29Daniel
00:51:30I was married
00:51:30five times
00:51:31and we're waiting
00:51:33on the divorce
00:51:34of the fifth one
00:51:38this is totally
00:51:39sacrilege
00:51:43in Africa
00:51:44any woman
00:51:45that committed
00:51:46an abomination
00:51:47there is something
00:51:48we call sacrilege
00:51:49it requires
00:51:51I clean them up
00:51:52by the ghost
00:51:53directing us
00:51:54we are just
00:51:55the mouthpiece
00:51:56to the ghost
00:51:58and if they
00:51:59mess up
00:51:59the cleansing
00:52:00the ghost
00:52:01will say no
00:52:19give him all
00:52:20of what you have
00:52:20in your pocket
00:52:21that I gave you
00:52:22give him all
00:52:22of it Daniel
00:52:23put it there
00:52:24don't put it there
00:52:32what is your response
00:52:34what is your response
00:52:39you are bringing
00:52:46you are bringing
00:52:46there is another
00:52:48thing you need to
00:52:52that is what
00:52:53they
00:52:53go to sleep
00:52:58hmm
00:53:02what is
00:53:04this is your husband
00:53:06what is
00:53:07this is you
00:53:09leap it after me
00:53:10me and my husband
00:53:12is one
00:53:12me and my husband
00:53:13are one
00:53:14forever and ever
00:53:15forever and ever
00:53:17no man
00:53:17no woman
00:53:18no man
00:53:18no woman
00:53:19put us under
00:53:20put us under
00:53:21that is what I
00:53:21promise
00:53:22that is what I
00:53:23promise
00:53:23kiss it
00:53:24give it to me
00:53:25you have a great
00:53:33you are crying
00:53:34yes
00:53:37yes
00:54:03I wish I knew what was
00:54:06going on
00:54:06this is terrifying
00:54:08I'm telling you
00:54:09this is voodoo magic
00:54:13after this
00:54:15cleansing today
00:54:15will you mess up
00:54:17again
00:54:18no
00:54:19it's an agreement
00:54:20between you and
00:54:21all that
00:54:22if you miss
00:54:23they will come
00:54:24after you
00:54:49taking off the
00:54:50taking off the
00:54:55this is our
00:54:55tradition
00:54:56embrace your
00:54:57husband
00:55:03am I clean
00:55:05am I clean
00:55:29I don't know what
00:55:30just happened
00:55:31I know I'm
00:55:32cleansed
00:55:33I don't care
00:55:34about anything
00:55:34else
00:55:35point is
00:55:36if it's enough
00:55:37for us to be
00:55:37accepted as
00:55:38husband and wife
00:55:39then that's all
00:55:40I want it
00:55:41well done
00:55:44maybe I love you
00:55:45love you too
00:55:54I am extremely
00:55:55happy that
00:55:56we are
00:55:57we are cleansed
00:55:58we can go ahead
00:55:59and get married
00:56:00I really appreciate
00:56:02right
00:56:02it's supposed to be
00:56:10can we have
00:56:11sex
00:56:15why not
00:56:16come on
00:56:16when you
00:56:18share it
00:56:21share it
00:56:22happy
00:56:32last night
00:56:33it was more
00:56:34sloppy
00:56:36than what I
00:56:37thought it
00:56:38would be
00:56:39I'm not a
00:56:40virgin anymore
00:56:41it's way better
00:56:42than what I
00:56:42thought
00:56:42me and my
00:56:43hand I'm
00:56:43sorry we're
00:56:44gonna have to
00:56:44break up
00:56:45I'm just glad
00:56:46that we didn't
00:56:46break the bed
00:57:05sheena I feel
00:57:06lots of weight
00:57:07off my mind
00:57:08yeah
00:57:10last night
00:57:11just being able
00:57:12to touch you
00:57:13and feel you
00:57:15just makes me
00:57:16so so happy
00:57:20it was the
00:57:21most special
00:57:22moment that
00:57:23I've ever
00:57:24had with you
00:57:27I'm just glad
00:57:28you didn't
00:57:28break the bed
00:57:39you tied me
00:57:40out
00:57:41yeah it's like
00:57:42you took the
00:57:42driver's seat and
00:57:43just kept going
00:57:44as of today
00:57:45I'm not a
00:57:46virgin anymore
00:57:47it was a great
00:57:48sensation
00:57:49I never
00:57:51it's way better
00:57:51than what I
00:57:52thought okay
00:57:52way better than
00:57:53what I do at
00:57:54night by myself
00:57:56me and my
00:57:56hand I'm sorry
00:57:57we're gonna
00:57:57have to break
00:57:58up
00:58:01I really
00:58:02enjoyed it
00:58:02last night
00:58:03with you
00:58:03and I'm so
00:58:04so happy
00:58:05and I'm so
00:58:06glad that we
00:58:06didn't come
00:58:07to this
00:58:08stage
00:58:10yeah
00:58:10I was thinking
00:58:11about how
00:58:12it'd be
00:58:13before
00:58:13sleeping with
00:58:14you
00:58:14and I
00:58:15thought it'd
00:58:15be like
00:58:16this magical
00:58:16thing
00:58:17like there
00:58:18was gonna
00:58:18be like
00:58:18sparks
00:58:19and fireworks
00:58:19and last
00:58:21night was
00:58:21exactly
00:58:21kind of
00:58:22what
00:58:22I thought
00:58:24well
00:58:25more
00:58:26sloppy
00:58:28than
00:58:28what I
00:58:30thought
00:58:30it would
00:58:30be
00:58:31when
00:58:32you
00:58:32got on
00:58:33top
00:58:33and
00:58:33started
00:58:33going
00:58:36my legs
00:58:36were so
00:58:37I felt
00:58:38like I
00:58:38needed a
00:58:39life
00:58:39preserver
00:58:39to make
00:58:41sure I
00:58:41don't
00:58:41drown
00:58:42it was
00:58:43the best
00:58:4335 seconds
00:58:44of my
00:58:44life
00:58:44no okay
00:58:46I lasted
00:58:46a little
00:58:46bit longer
00:58:47than that
00:58:47but
00:58:48Sheena
00:58:48man
00:58:49she
00:58:50went
00:58:50and hopped
00:58:51on top
00:58:51of me
00:58:52and just
00:58:52showed
00:58:53me
00:58:53who
00:58:53was
00:58:53the
00:58:54boss
00:58:54I
00:58:55didn't
00:58:55do
00:58:56that
00:58:56oh yeah
00:58:56you did
00:58:56you took
00:58:57charge
00:59:01I'm happy
00:59:02because you're
00:59:02quite gentle
00:59:03you're quite the
00:59:03gentle one
00:59:04for me
00:59:04I mean
00:59:05so
00:59:05I felt the
00:59:06respect
00:59:07and the
00:59:07love
00:59:07from you
00:59:07so
00:59:08I didn't
00:59:08want to
00:59:08hurt
00:59:08you
00:59:09so
00:59:10that's
00:59:10kind of
00:59:10why
00:59:10I kind
00:59:11of laid
00:59:11back
00:59:11and let
00:59:11you
00:59:11go
00:59:15I
00:59:16was
00:59:16to be
00:59:17honest
00:59:17I
00:59:17didn't
00:59:18know
00:59:18how
00:59:18to put
00:59:18a
00:59:18condom
00:59:19to
00:59:19you know
00:59:20but
00:59:22I
00:59:22couldn't
00:59:23say the
00:59:23right
00:59:24there's
00:59:25a lot
00:59:25of
00:59:26learning
00:59:27but I
00:59:28think
00:59:28that
00:59:29we
00:59:29haven't
00:59:29got it
00:59:29and
00:59:30giving
00:59:30all
00:59:31myself
00:59:31to
00:59:31Forrest
00:59:32I
00:59:32felt
00:59:33amazing
00:59:33it's
00:59:34hard
00:59:34to
00:59:35describe
00:59:36how
00:59:36would
00:59:37you
00:59:37rate
00:59:37me
00:59:371
00:59:38to
00:59:3810
00:59:39well
00:59:39let
00:59:40me
00:59:40say
00:59:40around
00:59:4111
00:59:42perhaps
00:59:43for
00:59:43me
00:59:47sex
00:59:48was
00:59:48great
00:59:48yeah
00:59:49I
00:59:49know
00:59:49the
00:59:50connection
00:59:50that
00:59:50we
00:59:51got
00:59:51afterwards
00:59:51after
00:59:53is
00:59:53definitely
00:59:53something
00:59:54I
00:59:54was
00:59:54not
00:59:54expecting
00:59:55I
00:59:56just
00:59:56feel
00:59:56like
00:59:56you
00:59:56know
00:59:59the
00:59:59world
01:00:00is
01:00:01revolving
01:00:02around
01:00:02us
01:00:02now
01:00:03yeah
01:00:04it's
01:00:05like
01:00:05a
01:00:05magnet
01:00:06mm-hmm
01:00:08and
01:00:08I
01:00:09really
01:00:09feel
01:00:09like
01:00:09even
01:00:10though
01:00:10we're
01:00:11not
01:00:11legally
01:00:12married
01:00:13we
01:00:13can
01:00:13work
01:00:14out
01:00:14the
01:00:14paperwork
01:00:14later
01:00:14but
01:00:16last
01:00:16night
01:00:17you
01:00:17became
01:00:17my
01:00:18wife
01:00:19you
01:00:20are
01:00:21my
01:00:21wife
01:00:22till
01:00:22the
01:00:23end
01:00:23of
01:00:23the
01:00:23earth
01:00:25and
01:00:28if
01:00:28I
01:00:28go
01:00:28back
01:00:28now
01:00:29then
01:00:29I
01:00:29won't
01:00:29have
01:00:30you
01:00:30and
01:00:30I
01:00:30won't
01:00:30have
01:00:32basically
01:00:32my
01:00:33wife
01:00:33with
01:00:33me
01:00:34so
01:00:35this
01:00:36has
01:00:36made
01:00:36me
01:00:36even
01:00:37more
01:00:37committed
01:00:37to
01:00:38you
01:00:39know
01:00:39do
01:00:39everything
01:00:40in my
01:00:40power
01:00:40to be
01:00:40with
01:00:40you
01:00:43having
01:00:44sex
01:00:44with
01:00:44Sheena
01:00:45definitely
01:00:45has
01:00:46changed
01:00:47a lot
01:00:47of
01:00:47things
01:00:48I
01:00:48feel
01:00:49like
01:00:49our
01:00:49heart
01:00:49and
01:00:49our
01:00:49souls
01:00:50are
01:00:51one
01:00:51and
01:00:52the
01:00:52same
01:00:53but
01:00:53I
01:00:53only
01:00:54have
01:00:54a
01:00:54few
01:00:54more
01:00:54days
01:00:54left
01:00:55here
01:00:55in
01:00:55the
01:00:55Philippines
01:00:55and
01:00:56I'm
01:00:56just
01:00:56extremely
01:00:57torn
01:00:57right
01:00:58now
01:00:58because
01:00:58you
01:00:59can
01:00:59go
01:00:59and
01:00:59you
01:00:59can
01:00:59be
01:01:00like
01:01:00oh
01:01:00I
01:01:00love
01:01:00you
01:01:00I
01:01:01love
01:01:01you
01:01:01on
01:01:01the
01:01:02phone
01:01:02but
01:01:02it's
01:01:02not
01:01:02the
01:01:02same
01:01:03as
01:01:03holding
01:01:04the
01:01:04person
01:01:04in
01:01:04your
01:01:04arms
01:01:07I'm
01:01:07starting
01:01:08to feel
01:01:08like
01:01:09maybe
01:01:09the
01:01:09right
01:01:09choice
01:01:09is
01:01:10to
01:01:10stay
01:01:11here
01:01:11in
01:01:11the
01:01:11Philippines
01:01:13but
01:01:13I
01:01:13know
01:01:14that
01:01:14my
01:01:15mother
01:01:15she
01:01:15she's
01:01:16not
01:01:16going
01:01:16to
01:01:16have
01:01:16a
01:01:16good
01:01:16reaction
01:01:17to
01:01:17that
01:01:19it's
01:01:19going
01:01:19to
01:01:19be
01:01:20like
01:01:20a
01:01:20typhoon
01:01:20hitting
01:01:21a
01:01:21hurricane
01:01:21and
01:01:22kind
01:01:22of
01:01:22just
01:01:22blow
01:01:22everything
01:01:23up
01:01:28I
01:01:29love
01:01:29Trisha
01:01:29very
01:01:30very
01:01:30I
01:01:32need
01:01:33more
01:01:33time
01:01:33I
01:01:34am
01:01:36not
01:01:36prepared
01:01:37to
01:01:38do
01:01:38so
01:01:38do
01:01:51you
01:01:51want
01:01:52to
01:01:52go
01:01:52see
01:01:52the
01:01:52mind
01:01:52today
01:01:52yeah
01:01:53what
01:01:54happened
01:01:55you
01:01:56still
01:01:56in
01:01:56a
01:01:56bad
01:01:56mood
01:01:59there's
01:02:00plenty
01:02:00of
01:02:00time
01:02:00gonna
01:02:01make
01:02:01babies
01:02:02stop
01:02:02tripping
01:02:15excited
01:02:15to
01:02:16see
01:02:16these
01:02:16yes
01:02:17it's
01:02:17amazing
01:02:17yeah
01:02:20this
01:02:20is our
01:02:21very
01:02:21very
01:02:21day
01:02:22together
01:02:22on
01:02:22this
01:02:23trip
01:02:23so
01:02:23I
01:02:24want
01:02:24to
01:02:24make
01:02:24it
01:02:24count
01:02:24I
01:02:25want
01:02:25it
01:02:25to
01:02:25be
01:02:25special
01:02:26so
01:02:27today
01:02:27I
01:02:28decided
01:02:28to
01:02:28take
01:02:28Aviva
01:02:29to
01:02:29the
01:02:29Mayan
01:02:30ruins
01:02:30one of
01:02:31Belize's
01:02:31main
01:02:32attraction
01:02:34you're gonna
01:02:35love
01:02:35this
01:02:35I'm gonna
01:02:36be
01:02:36your
01:02:37official
01:02:38tour
01:02:38guide
01:02:38I
01:02:40glad
01:02:41we're
01:02:41at
01:02:41this
01:02:41place
01:02:42this
01:02:43is
01:02:43very
01:02:43spiritual
01:02:44for
01:02:44me
01:02:44so
01:02:45I
01:02:45want
01:02:46to
01:02:46experience
01:02:46this
01:02:46with
01:02:47Aviva
01:02:57me
01:03:00at one
01:03:01point
01:03:01this
01:03:01used
01:03:01to
01:03:02be
01:03:02just
01:03:02like
01:03:02imagine
01:03:03mountains
01:03:03and
01:03:04hills
01:03:05and
01:03:05somebody
01:03:06some
01:03:07bright
01:03:07mind
01:03:07came
01:03:07and
01:03:07said
01:03:08yo
01:03:08maybe
01:03:08we
01:03:08should
01:03:08check
01:03:09it
01:03:09out
01:03:10and
01:03:10dig
01:03:10and
01:03:10dig
01:03:10and
01:03:11imagine
01:03:12finding
01:03:12all
01:03:13this
01:03:13stuff
01:03:15where's
01:03:15your
01:03:15stage
01:03:15babe
01:03:16front and
01:03:16center
01:03:17go see
01:03:17this is
01:03:17one right
01:03:18back in
01:03:19the day
01:03:19I would
01:03:19be right
01:03:20here
01:03:21performing
01:03:21for
01:03:21and I
01:03:22would have
01:03:22been the
01:03:22groupie
01:03:23in the
01:03:23front row
01:03:23I
01:03:28hope
01:03:32you're
01:03:32seeing
01:03:33that
01:03:33babe
01:03:33that
01:03:33I
01:03:34do
01:03:34want
01:03:34kids
01:03:34with
01:03:35you
01:03:35I
01:03:35do
01:03:35want
01:03:35a
01:03:35family
01:03:36this
01:03:36is
01:03:36not
01:03:37something
01:03:38just
01:03:38regular
01:03:39for
01:03:39me
01:03:39not
01:03:40just
01:03:40a
01:03:40little
01:03:40vacay
01:03:40you
01:03:41visited
01:03:41me
01:03:42this
01:03:42is
01:03:42more
01:03:43than
01:03:43that
01:03:43for
01:03:43me
01:03:44okay
01:03:45it
01:03:46makes
01:03:46me
01:03:46happy
01:03:46babe
01:03:47I
01:03:47love
01:03:47you
01:03:47I
01:03:48love
01:03:48you
01:03:49too
01:03:52I
01:03:52was
01:03:53feeling
01:03:53pretty
01:03:53upset
01:03:54about
01:03:54the
01:03:54negative
01:03:55pregnancy
01:03:55test
01:03:56but
01:03:57now
01:03:57Stey and I
01:03:58are
01:03:58joking
01:03:58around
01:03:59having
01:03:59a good
01:04:00time
01:04:00and
01:04:00he's
01:04:01just
01:04:01making
01:04:01me
01:04:01feel
01:04:01so
01:04:02special
01:04:02look
01:04:03at
01:04:03the
01:04:03tree
01:04:04pretty
01:04:05right
01:04:05it's
01:04:06super
01:04:06cool
01:04:07walking
01:04:07around
01:04:07the
01:04:07Mayan
01:04:07ruins
01:04:08it's
01:04:08beautiful
01:04:09so
01:04:09much
01:04:09history
01:04:10and
01:04:10I
01:04:11just
01:04:11love
01:04:11spending
01:04:12this
01:04:12quality
01:04:12time
01:04:13with
01:04:13him
01:04:16wow
01:04:18that's
01:04:19huge
01:04:20that is
01:04:22so cool
01:04:23I know
01:04:25people go
01:04:26all the way
01:04:27to the top
01:04:28that is
01:04:28beautiful
01:04:29we should
01:04:29for sure
01:04:30you wanna go
01:04:30to the top
01:04:31hell yeah
01:04:31me too
01:04:33this feels
01:04:37I'm full
01:04:38of gratitude
01:04:38at this
01:04:39point
01:04:40we've been
01:04:41through so
01:04:42much
01:04:42and there
01:04:43were days
01:04:44when it
01:04:44looked dark
01:04:44when we
01:04:45thought that
01:04:46you know
01:04:46maybe this
01:04:46is it
01:04:48I'm gonna
01:04:48race you
01:04:48to the top
01:04:49now
01:04:50but look
01:04:51look at
01:04:51us
01:04:52I think
01:04:53opposites
01:04:53attract
01:04:54like she's
01:04:55the missing
01:04:55piece of
01:04:55the puzzle
01:04:56I feel
01:04:56like we're
01:04:57a perfect
01:04:57balance
01:04:59and I
01:05:00can see
01:05:00the future
01:05:00clearly
01:05:02wanna go
01:05:03through that
01:05:03for real
01:05:03yes
01:05:04let's do it
01:05:05let's go
01:05:07way
01:05:07way up
01:05:08there
01:05:13babe
01:05:14maybe you
01:05:15should
01:05:16stop
01:05:17for real
01:05:18I wanna
01:05:18tell you
01:05:19something
01:05:22since the
01:05:23first time
01:05:23I met you
01:05:24babe
01:05:24at the
01:05:24airport
01:05:25something
01:05:26just made
01:05:26me feel
01:05:26like
01:05:27you're
01:05:27the one
01:05:27for real
01:05:28I knew
01:05:29I was
01:05:29gonna do
01:05:29this
01:05:29I know
01:05:30you were
01:05:30scared
01:05:31but
01:05:32I actually
01:05:32fell in love
01:05:33with you
01:05:33of you
01:05:36and I
01:05:36wanna be
01:05:37with you
01:05:37for the rest
01:05:37of my
01:05:37life
01:05:38that's so
01:05:40sweet
01:05:40will you
01:05:43marry me
01:05:48yes
01:05:49she said
01:05:51yes
01:05:54that's so
01:05:56sweet
01:06:00love you
01:06:01what do you
01:06:05see
01:06:05she got me
01:06:07she's shaking
01:06:08she's shaking
01:06:09is this
01:06:10left
01:06:11left
01:06:13hopefully it
01:06:14fits
01:06:14yes
01:06:17what
01:06:24I've engaged
01:06:25this thing
01:06:26the artist
01:06:26like
01:06:27how cool is that
01:06:30you
01:06:31are full of surprises
01:06:32this is definitely
01:06:33the best one
01:06:34this is the most nervous
01:06:35I've ever been
01:06:36for real
01:06:36for real
01:06:38I'm an engaged man
01:06:39now
01:06:41I've been carrying
01:06:42around this
01:06:42engagement ring
01:06:43for a while
01:06:43but at first
01:06:44I wasn't too sure
01:06:45because
01:06:46I felt like
01:06:47she was questioning
01:06:48me and who I am
01:06:49you know
01:06:49that made me a little sad
01:06:51but then closer
01:06:52leading up to today
01:06:53I felt sure
01:06:55in my heart
01:06:57you still want to go
01:06:58to the top
01:06:58of course I do
01:06:59let's go
01:07:00let's go
01:07:02this is my fiancée
01:07:03Aviva
01:07:03this is my fiancée
01:07:05Stig
01:07:05thank you
01:07:09you're walking in sync
01:07:12you gotta call
01:07:13spring
01:07:13I'm gonna
01:07:14I have to tell you
01:07:15it's spring
01:07:16oh no
01:07:17I'm gonna marry
01:07:18your niece
01:07:23it's so cool
01:07:24alright
01:07:25babe
01:07:26there's always gonna
01:07:27be people
01:07:27spreading rumors
01:07:28trying to get
01:07:29into your mind
01:07:31forget about
01:07:32all that right
01:07:32I got you
01:07:33we're a team now
01:07:34I'm not gonna
01:07:35lie to you
01:07:36promise you
01:07:37I definitely
01:07:38believe you now
01:07:47I love you
01:07:48I love you too
01:07:50you make the love
01:07:52you crazy
01:08:00bring the honey
01:08:01just one more
01:08:02the bro
01:08:02I love you
01:08:12oh look baby
01:08:13that's some bananas
01:08:13let's get something
01:08:14for your family
01:08:15you want bananas
01:08:17I think your family
01:08:18likes bananas too
01:08:19don't they
01:08:27so the dark green
01:08:29one isn't better
01:08:30yeah
01:08:30this is better
01:08:31for it
01:08:32tonight
01:08:33Trish and I
01:08:34are flying back
01:08:35to Antananarivo
01:08:41these past few days
01:08:43I've seen more
01:08:43sides to Trish
01:08:45I've fallen
01:08:46even deeper
01:08:47in love with her
01:08:48but
01:08:49I haven't made up
01:08:50my mind yet
01:08:51whether or not
01:08:52I want another
01:08:53child
01:08:54this is my grandma
01:08:56used to sell
01:08:58fruits before
01:08:59this was her stand
01:09:01right here
01:09:01did you sell
01:09:02stuff out here
01:09:03yeah
01:09:04like fruits
01:09:06oh my god
01:09:06I just cannot
01:09:08picture you doing that
01:09:09yeah
01:09:09I know how important
01:09:11it is to Trish
01:09:13and her family
01:09:14but
01:09:15I think the best
01:09:16solution
01:09:16to this
01:09:18is for Trish
01:09:19to ask her dad
01:09:20again
01:09:20for more time
01:09:22Trish's dad
01:09:23seems like
01:09:24a nice guy
01:09:25and maybe
01:09:26they could ease up
01:09:28a little bit
01:09:51thank you
01:09:53thank you
01:09:53yeah
01:09:53yes
01:10:01dad wants to talk
01:10:02with us
01:10:03okay
01:10:04no
01:10:05no
01:10:06no
01:10:06no
01:10:06no
01:10:06no
01:10:06no
01:10:07no
01:10:07no
01:10:08no
01:10:09no
01:10:10no
01:10:10no
01:10:10no
01:10:10no
01:10:11no
01:10:24what's the knife
01:10:25for
01:10:29that's the knife
01:10:30for
01:10:30thank God
01:10:31I didn't know what that knife was for
01:10:33I didn't see nothing to cut
01:10:58you say how was your vacation
01:11:02Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:33We're going to leave, so that's why he's called us here.
01:11:50Um, what about your answer about the kids?
01:12:04Um, I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:13Um, but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:21I want...
01:12:25Um, I love Patricia very, very good.
01:12:34I know that's the problem.
01:12:39About the kids now.
01:12:42I need more time.
01:12:46You're judging today, not yesterday, not what?
01:13:01You have to decide it, yes or no.
01:13:03But if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping me financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:28If you say that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:13:29I don't want to f***ing think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:33Want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35Hey guys, let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:13:40Let's go to the sidecar.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need a shower.
01:13:56Hang on.
01:13:58I stink.
01:13:59Oh, maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:01Right now.
01:14:02I'm feeling it right now.
01:14:05Let me show you how.
01:14:09Well, you look f***ing good.
01:14:13Oof.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar, for where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today,
01:14:22and it honestly was great.
01:14:25It would be nice if he owned the boat,
01:14:26but like driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered,
01:14:31but the Nat situation has not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's like the one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:37So we set up tonight for us to just all get together
01:14:39and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship,
01:14:54but like Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day,
01:15:06throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't like looked at the messages,
01:15:18but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on
01:15:24because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favour, don't kick off.
01:15:41I can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:49How are you now?
01:15:50How are you?
01:15:50Good, good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:57It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01Say, how are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Thought a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously
01:16:23and that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me,
01:16:29especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Gil?
01:16:32To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realise that we're just friends
01:16:36and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat tonight.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was...
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:56One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily,
01:16:59but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You were even on the boat together that night.
01:17:16He damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone
01:17:26if I wasn't emotionally tied with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest, like, I'm scared.
01:17:33He's so close financially with you.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say rent.
01:17:50You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:06I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating
01:18:10and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me
01:18:13to be supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the like her?
01:18:17Is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman
01:18:21and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you say that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:33But then what's your game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know.
01:18:37When I leave, you are going to go lick with Nat.
01:18:39Yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers,
01:18:46but it is short term.
01:18:51I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and it be free now?
01:18:57I think it's weird.
01:18:58Don't let me go ask every single person here,
01:19:00because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't, and it would be embarrassing to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a .
01:19:10Okay, guys.
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl
01:19:17and getting financially supported crazy?
01:19:24Did you know?
01:19:25No, he's lying to me.
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33It'll be six months.
01:19:34I hadn't met until just recently though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her.
01:19:44He's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be.
01:19:53Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Your mum would have been-
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the are they supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not-
01:19:57Tell her half the story.
01:19:58But you're not yelling at a bar where I leave.
01:20:00You're here.
01:20:01She's a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07You, man.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a psycho.
01:20:17What the ?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:19Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:23That's-
01:20:24Yeah.
01:20:24That's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, nah.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute.
01:20:36You guys are together.
01:20:38So cute.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So cute.
01:20:42So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's close.
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47Asshole.
01:20:51I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love though.
01:20:58But that , I'm done.
01:21:00I'm fine.
01:21:06I'm fine.
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22My fellow women have been given her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my .
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, boo?
01:21:35Woo!
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42We're looking for wedding bands.
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:49I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know,
01:21:53still available, single woman.
01:21:56They can have you.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03that.
01:22:07I'm angry, angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be,
01:22:15that would be the end.
01:22:19Hey.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah, I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Is it okay?
01:22:59Yeah, he's a good guy.
01:23:01But it turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Okay.
01:23:27Okay.
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