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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 07: The Art of Meddling
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04Sophie is acting like a little girl.
00:07Being honest, I think you're going to ruin your life again.
00:11I feel that I have to listen to Nicole.
00:13But at the same time, I want Sophie to see that we can be great together.
00:19The beauty is perfect.
00:20Yeah, stunning.
00:21Stunning, like you.
00:22This is the side of Pedro that I like, and I feel like this is the real him.
00:26You want to see my book?
00:27Go, I want to see it.
00:28You want to see my book?
00:30If he just puts the seriousness of wanting a relationship all that aside, this is how
00:35I build attraction.
00:39Will you be communicating with other women?
00:43Um.
00:45I asked him point blank if he was talking to other women.
00:49Where are you going?
00:51I'm going to hold.
00:52He didn't have the balls to tell me the truth.
00:54I just don't want to waste time.
00:56I'm flying back to Michigan tonight, and I have no idea where we stand.
01:01I just want to go home, please.
01:04I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better, but now I have to-
01:08I wish you did, too.
01:11Jamal has an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption, but I also had a daughter.
01:17Larry wants to come visit us, and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent.
01:23How do you think he's going to react?
01:24I think he's going to be really upset with me.
01:26By the way, you have a sister.
01:34Come on and dance with me, darling.
01:36I know you want it.
01:38With the rhythm of your body.
01:41I want to call you.
01:43You know you're driving me crazy.
01:45Anticipating.
01:46Hey, good morning.
01:47Good morning, cover guides.
01:49Give me this, give me this.
01:50Can't help it with this.
01:51And, oh.
01:54You're up to rock inside, or what?
02:03I got some delicious coconut for you ladies.
02:06We'll take this, and I got it.
02:09Oh, my gosh.
02:12Me and Julie are going with Pedro tonight to his sister's birthday party in Santo Domingo.
02:16It's a bit of a drive, so we're going to be staying overnight in a different hotel.
02:20Coconut cheers.
02:21Coconut cheers.
02:22Okay, let's make this day the best day here.
02:24We want us on phone, okay?
02:25Yes.
02:26Ever since Pedro and I hit the reset button, he's just being himself.
02:30He's being funny, sweet, and silly.
02:32Be careful there.
02:33Okay.
02:33Okay.
02:34It just feels like whatever serious pressure he had in the beginning is gone, so.
02:39Let's go.
02:39Let's drive crazy.
02:41I'm already feeling super nervous about meeting Pedro's mom and his sister, so I just feel like
02:46having Liz here as well would just make things even more awkward.
03:00We're here, ladies.
03:01We're here, ladies.
03:01Thanks.
03:02We're here.
03:03Things we meet, Sophie, are getting really good right now.
03:06Welcome to Santo Domingo, ladies.
03:09We had an amazing day in our Mexican's last night.
03:13And now I'm super happy that she's coming to my sister's birthday party.
03:18Okay, this is mine.
03:19I'll get ready.
03:20We are like an hour.
03:21Okey-dokey.
03:30Yeah, this is the most conservative outfit that I've bought.
03:36I mean, okay, it shows some cleave, but honestly, I'm fully covered.
03:40I think it's pretty traditional.
03:42It's still giving party because I'm not going to show up with, like, a sack, you know?
03:45Like, I still want something cute, but yeah, I think this is pretty respectful.
03:57Let's go.
03:58We're going to have a lot of fun tonight.
04:02How many people is going to be?
04:04There's going to be, like, 20 people at this.
04:05This is my sister's friend, you know?
04:07Oh, my God.
04:08I'm scared.
04:09Look, we're only talking, okay?
04:11It's not pressure.
04:11Yeah, exactly.
04:12Yes.
04:12What if they're, like, we don't like Sophie?
04:15You're like, see you later.
04:16You're going to hang out with me anymore?
04:17See you later?
04:18Really?
04:20It's my family, you know?
04:21No pressure, though.
04:23You're not kidding.
04:24You're not kidding?
04:25I'm kidding.
04:26You're not kidding.
04:27My mom, my sister, they are very savage, so I had to be in high alert tonight.
04:37The last thing that I want is for my mom and my sister is scare Sophie away.
04:43I think we're stressing it.
04:45It's my sister.
04:45She's crazy.
04:46That's the problem.
04:48Pedro's not really making me feel very, like, comforted.
04:51Like, oh, no, my sister's sweet.
04:52He's literally, like, no, she's insane.
04:55I'm so scared.
04:56It's okay.
04:57What did I get myself into?
05:06Flakies.
05:09It's Pedro.
05:10So, Mommy.
05:13Julia, nice to meet you.
05:15Let me greet you, Julia.
05:17Thank you for my birthday.
05:18Thank you for inviting us.
05:20Nice to meet you.
05:21Famous Sophie.
05:23She is a famous Sophie.
05:28She's famous because my brother has talked to me about her.
05:31No, she's famous for me.
05:33You are making my brother suffering.
05:38Yeah, Sophie, you are making my brother suffering right now.
05:57Hello.
05:57What's up?
05:58How are you?
06:00A wreck.
06:01I'm, like, shaking.
06:17Go, go, go.
06:19You can make it.
06:23I'm excited to see them, you know?
06:25I'm anxious to see the kids.
06:27Yeah, me too.
06:28I'm excited to see Bean.
06:29He's speaking now.
06:31He's saying words.
06:31I know.
06:32He calls me BMK.
06:33Baby Mama Kim.
06:37Today's the day that Larry and his family arrive in San Diego,
06:40and Jamal and I are on the way to go meet them.
06:43We've only seen them once before in North Carolina,
06:46but we talk or we'll video chat or text once a week.
06:51And the video chats with his son are probably my favorite thing.
06:55He's obsessed with my cats.
06:59And it's really become, like, a special part of my life.
07:04Did you get any sleep last night?
07:06No.
07:07No.
07:08Don't start crying.
07:09It's the best.
07:11I'll be fine.
07:11Well, just try to stay strong when you're talking to him, you know?
07:14Yeah.
07:14I just really need to do this, you know?
07:17Yeah.
07:18Yeah.
07:19But I'm scared.
07:21Leading up to today, I've been feeling super anxious.
07:24I've had a couple panic attacks.
07:26I've cried a lot of tears because I'm like,
07:29how am I going to tell this guy that now he has not just Jamal,
07:33but he's got a sister, too, that I also placed for adoption?
07:37I hope he's understanding and that he doesn't hate me.
07:41It's a lot.
07:44I really don't have that much information to give Larry about his sister
07:47because it was a closed adoption.
07:49So I don't know who adopted her.
07:52I don't know where she lives now.
07:53And I don't even know her name.
07:55But it's not fair to him that I've been holding all of this in.
07:59And now I just have to release it.
08:01I have to let it go.
08:03I can't live like this anymore.
08:05I just can't do it.
08:14Can you grab the stuff out of the back?
08:17Oh.
08:19It's hot today.
08:22I'm so nervous.
08:23I feel like I'm going to throw up.
08:28All right, lead the way.
08:31I've been waiting for my mom to tell Larry about my sister
08:35because I want to, like, get closer with my brother.
08:39Like this.
08:41But I've been distant from him.
08:42Just because this secret was eating at me,
08:45I just felt bad getting closer to him while hiding something from him.
08:53It's going to be fine.
08:54It's like one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, you know?
08:57Yeah.
08:59But...
08:59It's hard when you've lied all the time to, like, open up like that, you know?
09:05If you can tell me the truth about him, then you can tell him the truth about her.
09:11I just don't know what Larry is going to think about me once I tell him this news.
09:16I'm scared that he's going to judge me.
09:19He's going to be ashamed of me.
09:23Okay.
09:25What if he just turns around and leaves?
09:27What if he never speaks to me again?
09:29Screw it over.
09:30I just keep thinking.
09:31I'm going to lose him again.
09:35Ooh.
09:37I can feel my heartbeat.
09:39Ooh.
09:40No, everything's fine.
09:41You're freaking me out, Jamal.
09:42You're freaking me out.
09:43Everything's fine.
09:47Oh, here they come.
09:51I'm going.
09:58Hi, guys!
10:00Who is that?
10:02Come here!
10:03Hi, baby!
10:04Hello.
10:05Hello.
10:06Hello.
10:07Oh, look at this.
10:08Wow, look at you.
10:09You got your hair?
10:10Yeah.
10:11You know?
10:12Hello.
10:13What's up?
10:14Oh, you're so good.
10:16Oh, you're so good.
10:17Oh, boy.
10:18Now you got two.
10:19No.
10:20Hi, Nelly.
10:21You're so pretty.
10:23That's Nelly.
10:24I got presents for you.
10:26I just love seeing Larry and the family,
10:28and Bean is just so cute.
10:31What's my name?
10:32BK.
10:32BK, right?
10:33Yeah.
10:34I'm BK.
10:35Who's that?
10:37Uncle Mal.
10:38Uncle Mal.
10:39What's up, boy?
10:40I'm just looking at him like, wow,
10:42these kids are a part of me.
10:43Like, they have my blood in them.
10:45And I really want for us to build a family together.
10:48Come on.
10:49So if this doesn't go well today, I have a lot to lose.
10:53I can lose my relationship with my grandkids.
10:55I can lose the relationship with his wife.
10:58And I can lose the relationship with Jamal and Larry.
11:01I just feel like I can lose everything.
11:04Bean, do you want your gift?
11:06Here.
11:09Here.
11:09There he is.
11:10There you go.
11:11Ooh.
11:11Can I get it?
11:13Ooh.
11:14Ooh.
11:15We got this car.
11:17He love his firetruck race car.
11:20Anyway, I got y'all's water, some fruit, just little stuff.
11:22So.
11:23Oh, thank y'all.
11:24Look at this.
11:25Did you say thank you for the picnic?
11:27Thank Uncle Mal and BK for the picnic?
11:30Thank you, BK.
11:30You're welcome.
11:32You're welcome.
11:36I always knew I was adopted, and I wanted to find my birth mother.
11:41Two years ago, my family did a DNA test.
11:44When I got my results back, I found my first cousins.
11:48Did some digging, and we ended up finding Kim.
11:51So what's going on with y'all and the NC?
11:55Nothing.
11:55Trying to make it.
11:56Same thing every day.
11:58Working, taking care of the babies, and loving on them.
12:02It's been real cool getting to know them.
12:05I definitely want them to be a part of my life.
12:08I want to be a part of theirs, and I just want to move forward.
12:13Let me give her a strawberry.
12:14She's so cute.
12:17Oh, man.
12:20I'm sitting here looking at Larry, and I feel like I'm having a full-on panic attack.
12:29I do got to talk to y'all.
12:33Is it bad?
12:34Yes.
12:36I have to talk to y'all.
12:38I just need to get this out, okay?
12:40Wait.
12:41No, I got to get it out.
12:43Larry, come here.
12:44Come on this side, please.
12:47Hey.
12:49I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
12:54Heart attack.
12:55Just take a breath there.
12:57Don't have a heart attack, please.
13:07I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie.
13:09So I invited her to Michigan, and after some persuading, she agreed.
13:14There's something important I actually want to tell you today.
13:18Okay.
13:18So, I decided that, you know.
13:29Wait, amigos.
13:31No pression.
13:36Yo.
13:38Pedro's mom is, she's crazy.
13:40That's weird.
13:41What was she saying?
13:42I heard banana.
13:43She said, maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested, but you don't have a taste in
13:47it yet.
13:48If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night, there's only so much I can
13:53take before I'm going to lose my cool.
14:07I'm so excited that I get to pick Natalie up.
14:09She's here in Michigan.
14:11It's going to be a good day.
14:23Natalie and I, we had such a good time in D.C. overall last time.
14:27Good vibes.
14:28A little concerning at the end, but this time is going to be better.
14:34I wasn't even back on the plane to Michigan before I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie.
14:41I don't want to be talking to a bunch of girls.
14:44And, you know, I really want to find someone that I can settle down with.
14:49I need to go all in with Natalie.
15:00Gino!
15:01Oh, Natalie!
15:02How are you?
15:03I'm good.
15:03How are you?
15:04Oh, my God.
15:05So good to see you again.
15:07So good to see you.
15:10What's that?
15:11These are for you.
15:13Awesome.
15:14I really thought I was done with Gino, but the reality is that Gino and I are not in a
15:21committed
15:21relationship.
15:22And I think I may have overreacted.
15:25What's that on your face?
15:27Is there something on my face?
15:28I think you've got some.
15:30Oh, you know what?
15:31It could be from the flowers.
15:33I would smell it a flower.
15:35Did you stick the flowers in your face?
15:39Since DC, he's opened up.
15:42He's been apologetic.
15:43He's been more transparent.
15:45And I want to see if he's changed.
15:48Do you like my makeup?
15:49I do.
15:50There's just something about Gino.
15:52You can't stay mad at him very long.
15:55I love it.
15:57Woo!
15:57You're good.
15:58All right.
15:59Let's go.
16:00Let's get out of here.
16:05Today, we are going to the riverfront.
16:08Okay.
16:08It's a beautiful place on the water.
16:11And I think it'd give us like a fresh start, you know, compared to the last time you were
16:17here.
16:17I like that.
16:18I think we both deserve a fresh start.
16:29Let's feel the water here.
16:32Oh, it's nice.
16:34I want to put my feet in the water.
16:36It'll cool us off.
16:42How is it?
16:42Oh, my God.
16:43Are you really going to get up on there?
16:44Yes.
16:45Come on.
16:47Holy cow.
16:48I probably got to roll my pants a little.
16:50Feel it.
16:51Oh, my God.
16:52Doesn't that feel good?
16:53That is cold.
16:55Were you like, that girl's crazy?
16:57No.
16:58Okay.
17:00Holy .
17:01Don't you dare.
17:02I love the fact that you really seem to bring out the playful side of me.
17:07For sure.
17:08And you're okay with it.
17:10Yeah.
17:11I'm not used to that.
17:12Oh, my God.
17:13I'm all wet now.
17:17I mean, this is so beautiful.
17:19I mean, boom.
17:21There's Canada.
17:22I know.
17:22Right there.
17:22In your face.
17:24And the weather is perfect.
17:26I know.
17:26It's gorgeous.
17:27Perfect weather.
17:28Yes.
17:29Yeah.
17:30But, you know, there's something important.
17:35Well, what I want to do is I'm not, I don't want to speak to any focus on you and
17:41our relationship
17:42and building our relationship.
17:43You know, I don't want to risk losing you.
17:46I think if I continue to talk to a bunch of women, that's probably going to happen.
17:52I'm shocked.
17:53I'm surprised.
17:55Because you wanted to make this decision.
18:00I did not think that this was going to come out of his mouth.
18:03It's only been two weeks since we last talked about it.
18:06So I am skeptical.
18:08You know, he can say a lot of things, but he needs to show me by his actions that he
18:12truly means this.
18:13But I am excited because we deserve a chance.
18:18There is one more very important thing that I need to ask you.
18:22Stop.
18:23What I want to ask you is if you're hungry, because I know a really good place that's not far
18:30from here.
18:31Yes, I'm hungry.
18:35Natalie seems very happy that I want to focus all my energy just on her.
18:40Ready?
18:41Yeah.
18:44We still have a lot of things to figure out.
18:47We haven't even had sex yet.
18:48But I'm hoping while she's in Michigan, we'll really be stepping up to the next level.
18:53Ready?
18:54Here we go.
18:55It's beautiful.
18:56And then, I mean, who knows?
18:59Say Canada.
19:00Canada.
19:02All right.
19:13She's a famous Sophie.
19:15You are making my brother suffering.
19:19Oh, yeah, Sophie.
19:20You are making my brother suffering right now.
19:31Do you want a shot?
19:33Yeah?
19:34Yeah?
19:34Yeah, yeah, yeah.
19:43Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
19:49about Sophie let me introduce you to my mom you talk to my mom ready yes
19:55mommy
19:57see no perfecto
19:59okay
20:02Amiga no presión no no presión
20:09Pude ver a Sophie entonces
20:13César
20:14una mujer normal una mujer como no vi gran pedro tiene como un patrón mujeres que
20:22son voluminosa que tiene acá no sé no tiene nada en la cabeza
20:29de que apruebe dominicana ella tiene que probar el olo huevo lo huevo es
20:37agresos
20:39yo
20:40yo
20:43como
20:50What the hell that's weird what was she saying what was she saying
20:56she's saying we don't have anything intimate yeah you know what I mean
21:01And then she said, it's stupid.
21:03I'm going to say, finish.
21:04I what?
21:05Maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested,
21:07because you don't have a taste in me yet.
21:11That's embarrassing, bro.
21:12We're in front of everybody.
21:14She said, oh my god, the reason why Sophie is not
21:17commenting to you because you're not going to give you some
21:20platinum.
21:23Jesus Christ.
21:25You know, it's just awkward.
21:27Why you not my son?
21:28I'm like, wait.
21:28Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
21:30That's what she was saying.
21:31That's what she said.
21:33Mom, you don't do those things.
21:35Nobody's mom can do those things.
21:37Can I just chill with you for one second?
21:39Yes.
21:39And then I'll go back.
21:41Yeah, yeah.
21:41And I need one drink, and I'm done.
21:43OK.
21:43I just like, seriously, my nerves, I'm like,
21:46I'm just like, it was super a lot, you know?
21:50Pedro's mom is, yeah, she's crazy.
21:52Like, I don't even need to talk to her much longer
21:53to realize that.
21:56If this family just keeps on disrespecting me
21:58the whole night, there's only so much I can take
22:03before I'm going to lose my cool.
22:05I just, I have, like, anxiety sometimes,
22:07so it's just acting up a little bit, but I'm OK.
22:09I'm not going to tell you about yourself, OK?
22:11Never.
22:11Remember that.
22:12OK.
22:15I made some bad decisions, you know?
22:18And there's so many times we went on the phone,
22:20and I wanted to say something, but I just couldn't say it.
22:23Mm-hmm.
22:23And I feel like all I've done is lie.
22:26Holding the information from me,
22:28I wish you wouldn't have done it.
22:30Please don't hate me.
22:32Oh, ho, ho, ho, ho.
22:42I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
22:47Heart attack.
23:05I have another daughter that I put up for adoption.
23:13You do.
23:13I don't know.
23:15Mm.
23:16It's your sister.
23:18Mm.
23:20Please don't hate me.
23:21Please, this is so hard, and I don't think
23:24anybody could understand.
23:30I wanted to talk to you face to face,
23:31and there's so many times we went on the phone,
23:33and I wanted to say something.
23:35But I couldn't say it.
23:36I just couldn't say it.
23:38Mm-hmm.
23:38And I feel like all I've done is lie, you know?
23:47Um, what was the situation at the time?
23:51Your birth dad and I were back together,
23:54and things were fine, and then I got pregnant.
23:58And then, um, same thing.
24:01I had her by myself.
24:02I had her at a different hospital by myself.
24:05He didn't give me one, one iota of, I love you, though.
24:09Let's try.
24:10Not one.
24:11Yeah, yeah.
24:12I did everything.
24:13Everything was done by myself, you know?
24:20Oh, calm down.
24:22You just talk to him.
24:24Yeah.
24:25I'm not going to hate you.
24:26I'm not going to hate you.
24:27You're not a bad person.
24:29It's all right.
24:30It's all right.
24:31It's all right.
24:32It's all right.
24:33Aw, see?
24:34Aw.
24:36It's all right.
24:37Baby, don't give her a hug.
24:38Don't give me a hug, OK?
24:40I just made some, you know, I was not smartest back then.
24:44I made some bad decisions, you know?
24:47It's all right.
24:51And Bean tell you it's going to be all right.
24:53It's going to be all right.
24:54It's going to be all right.
24:54It's all right.
24:55It's all right.
24:59I don't know where she's at.
25:00OK.
25:01I don't know.
25:01I know she was born a year after you.
25:03Oh, she's after me.
25:05Yeah.
25:06It's just crazy.
25:08I have a sister.
25:10It's a lot.
25:12Just knowing, like, now I have two biological siblings,
25:16and I'm the oldest of both of them.
25:19Just don't hate me.
25:20Please don't.
25:20I don't know what to say.
25:21I'm, like, ashamed that I didn't tell you.
25:24Holding the information from me, I mean, it's shocking.
25:27Don't get me wrong.
25:28I wish she wouldn't have done it, but, I mean, how mad could I be
25:31that she's my birth mother and she gave me a life,
25:34gave me an opportunity to have a beautiful wife,
25:37two beautiful kids, you know?
25:39And I will never take that for granted.
25:43When it comes to, like, the telling part of it,
25:45yeah, you could handle some stuff better.
25:48I'm sorry. I'm so sorry.
25:49And I'm so sorry to him, too, you know?
25:51It's really, like, this has messed our relationship up so bad.
25:55This has been eating me up because
25:57I knew this secret, and I was just, like,
25:59I don't want to start this relationship with you.
26:02And then this day happens.
26:04Yeah, when I'm looking at you, yeah.
26:04Like, why didn't you tell me?
26:05We've been talking all the time.
26:07Because I'm so glad you all found us.
26:10And, like, I have this family.
26:11I'm going to be honest.
26:12I don't know where we go from here,
26:13but, like, I just want my family.
26:15You know what I mean?
26:16As the one you're, you know, you're coming to telling,
26:20you don't have to beat yourself up about it.
26:23Every day.
26:24Don't. Stop.
26:25Well, it's out now.
26:26It's out.
26:27We just move on.
26:28We go from here, you know what I'm saying?
26:30Yeah.
26:31Bye-bye.
26:31I need a hug.
26:32Brittany, come here and give me a hug,
26:33because you, Brittany, always gives me a hug.
26:36I know I get the best hugs.
26:38You, too.
26:39Thank you, too.
26:41Oh, yeah.
26:42OK.
26:44I'm sorry.
26:44I didn't tell you very much.
26:46It's OK.
26:49I had closed that part of my life, you know?
26:51I had closed my heart to that, because when I put Larry up
26:57for adoption, it was so painful that you have to.
27:01You have to, like, lock it.
27:02You have to treat it kind of like a death, in a way.
27:04Come here, Larry.
27:05Now she'll cry with me, too.
27:07I'm sorry.
27:13But once I told him, it was like all the maternal feelings
27:17came back.
27:22I didn't realize, like, how much I really loved him
27:25until that moment, until this one moment.
27:30I know I'll never be his mom, because he has a mom that
27:33raised him, but I can be something in his life.
27:36And that just means everything to me.
27:47I'm really proud of my mom.
27:50I wanted to see her tell him.
27:52And she did.
27:53And they took it well.
27:56I keep feeling like I want to cry when I think about it.
27:59It's just, like, everything I wanted, you know?
28:03Ah, great.
28:08Let me get everybody in here.
28:10Hold on.
28:10Oh.
28:10Me, look at the camera.
28:11All right, hold on.
28:12Good morning.
28:12Look.
28:12Say cheese.
28:13Oh, there we go.
28:15Cute.
28:15Cute.
28:16I love you, too.
28:18Aw.
28:19You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years.
28:23And it just feels like I'm finally free.
28:27One, two, three.
28:29Ew.
28:30Girl.
28:31I'm finally free.
28:33Woo.
28:34Woo.
28:35Go, BK.
28:36Go, BK.
28:36Go, BK.
28:37Go.
28:37Now the only thing left to do is find my daughter.
28:40I don't know who she is.
28:43I don't know where she is.
28:45But you better believe I'm going to try.
28:46I owe it to her, and I owe it to myself, and I owe it to Larry and Jamal.
28:55Cheers.
28:56Cheers.
28:57My Uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life.
29:00Getting his blessings.
29:01He's got a lot of heart.
29:03Yeah.
29:03Look at what he's been through.
29:05How well did you know Jasmine?
29:07Do you think that Gino's still in love with her?
29:21So isn't it nice to be in the city and see the whole city?
29:24Yeah, it is a really nice city.
29:26This is a great city.
29:29He's just put your unique stickies on your hat.
29:33You give me high, and I don't want to come down.
29:38I don't know why I keep on hanging around.
29:44Hey.
29:45Hey.
29:47That's my uncle here.
29:49The man.
29:49Uncle Marco.
29:50Who's this beautiful lady?
29:52Aw, thank you.
29:53This is Natalie.
29:54My pleasure.
29:55Nice to meet you.
29:56Aw.
29:56That's the way we do it.
29:59My Uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life, especially now that my
30:03dad has passed.
30:05He's like my father figure now.
30:06And I value his judgment more than anyone when it comes to my relationships.
30:12You guys ready to order?
30:13Yeah.
30:13Let me have two Coney's.
30:15I think I'm just going to get two Coney Island hot dogs.
30:18Actually, make it three.
30:19Okay.
30:20I'm going to go buy your recommendation because I have never been here.
30:22A couple chili dogs.
30:23Looks like all chili dogs.
30:25Well, Natalie, where are you from?
30:28I'm from Las Vegas.
30:29Really?
30:30Yeah.
30:30But I live in DC right now.
30:32So, do you have children?
30:34Yeah, I have two.
30:35No kidding.
30:37I have a daughter.
30:38She's 23.
30:39And a son.
30:39He's 21.
30:40What?
30:41You look like you're 21 yourself.
30:45Holy smokes.
30:47You guys enjoy?
30:49You're welcome.
30:49Maybe we can have a Coney cheers.
30:51Okay, let's do it.
30:52Okay.
30:53Coney cheers.
30:54Cheers.
30:54Cheers.
30:55Coney cheers.
31:00Mmm.
31:03Mmm.
31:04I like the onions.
31:05Is it the best one you've ever eaten?
31:07Or no?
31:08Because the only one I've ever eaten.
31:09The only one.
31:12So yeah, it's the best one.
31:16She's too funny.
31:18We vibe good together.
31:19We have a good connection.
31:21We have that.
31:21Yeah.
31:21Mm-hmm.
31:22You know, on his own accord, he came to me and said that he didn't want to talk to anybody
31:27else and he wanted to focus on us.
31:31Let's celebrate.
31:32Let's celebrate.
31:34Let's celebrate.
31:34Let's celebrate.
31:35Hey.
31:36Cheers.
31:36Cheers.
31:37Cheers.
31:38I like this girl.
31:40I think she's intelligent, smart, and I think the best sign I've seen out of the two
31:46of them tonight is when he talks, she smiles, and when she talks, he smiles.
31:52I didn't see that with you-know-who.
31:56Do you want to have a baby with her?
32:00Well, I mean, like, I always wanted to have a child of my own, right?
32:07Yeah.
32:07I guess the question is, would you be open to it, you think?
32:14I mean, honestly, that's an insane thing to even think about because we just established
32:19today that you're not talking to other women.
32:22Right.
32:22And now we're talking about babies.
32:24We've got to progress a little bit more.
32:26Okay, I'm going to get the room.
32:28I'm going to get the room.
32:31Uncle Marco is very interesting.
32:34I don't think he realizes how old I am.
32:36I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
32:40I don't know about completely sailed because there's always options.
32:44I'm going to have to excuse myself.
32:46I have to hit the bathroom real quick.
32:48All right.
32:48All right.
32:49I bet you we'd have really cute babies.
32:52Well, I know we'd have cute babies.
32:54The first thing I'm going to do, I'm going to snap a hat on his head.
32:57Oh, my God.
32:58And it's going to be a fedora, tiny little baby hat.
33:01Okay, Gino.
33:05I guess.
33:07You know, I'm hoping to mind if I ask you a couple questions.
33:09No, I don't mind at all.
33:10You know, just to know.
33:12You know, I just want to make sure that, um, is he capable of not talking to other women?
33:19If he finds the right lady, I believe that man will be faithful.
33:24Right.
33:25To the end.
33:27Okay.
33:27Well, that's good to know.
33:28I really do.
33:29You know, Gino can be a little quirky.
33:32I like that about him.
33:34I find that endearing.
33:36Really?
33:36We all have little quirks.
33:37Yeah.
33:38He's a good kid.
33:39He's one of the best.
33:40I got 30 nieces and nephews.
33:42Aw.
33:43And he's one of the best.
33:44Yeah.
33:45He is.
33:46There you go.
33:47I don't need it.
33:49He is.
33:49He's a good kid.
33:50Yeah.
33:52He is.
33:53I mean, he's got a lot of heart.
33:55Yeah.
33:55Look at what he's been through.
34:02How well did you know Jasmine?
34:04Do you think that Gino's still in love with her?
34:06No.
34:07Not at all.
34:08Okay.
34:09Not at all.
34:12Hearing from Uncle Marco that Gino has no feelings for Jasmine,
34:16and that he wants to be in a committed relationship,
34:19gives me a lot of hope because he's seen the drama between him and Jasmine,
34:24has seen his first marriage, has seen everything.
34:27So it makes me feel like, yeah, the tides have turned.
34:31Gino's changed.
34:32But I'm still very cautious.
34:35You don't want to lose this one, buddy.
34:38Lock it up.
34:42Get that divorce and lock it up.
34:49I just hear concern about him.
34:51I'm asking you about it.
34:52Okay, you have to be concerned.
34:53Well, don't call out your hospital because I don't know you.
34:56I don't know you.
34:57I don't know you.
34:57Not so everything Pedro's been through,
34:59you would think his family want him to be happy and find someone,
35:02but it feels like they're just trying to sabotage any chance he has.
35:06I've been so nice to you and your mom and you guys.
35:09I'm the mother mother.
35:11My mother mother.
35:11My mother mother.
35:12You're the mother mother.
35:21I have anxiety sometimes, so it's just acting up a little bit,
35:24but I'm okay.
35:25I'm not going to tell you about yourself, okay?
35:26Never. Remember that.
35:35Okay.
35:37Sophie.
35:54I've only been at Pedro's sister's birthday party for literally an hour,
35:58and already this is just the weirdest party I've ever been to in my life.
36:03First, as soon as I walk in, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable,
36:07and then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
36:11Like, what's the goal here?
36:14I don't understand what's going on.
36:17It's just so uncomfortable.
36:19Do you like the country?
36:21Yes.
36:21It's very beautiful.
36:22It's my first time here.
36:24Well, I hope you can continue coming here.
36:27I want to know Pedro more.
36:30That's a principle, right?
36:34Pedro is a very good man.
36:38He knows how to treat a woman, but it's also, on the other side,
36:43I don't want to know if I have a relationship with Pedro
36:46and I'm not healed by my ex.
36:50¿Casada?
36:51Sí, casada.
36:52¿Divorciada?
36:52¿Cómo es?
36:53Eh, ahora estoy en el proceso de divorcio.
36:58¿Pero estás casada legalmente?
37:00Eh, legalmente, en este momento, sí.
37:05No, no, no, bien que tú tengas, este casada
37:10y estés saliendo con otro.
37:12Pero...
37:13Es que está muy mal.
37:17Pedro's mom is just way too much.
37:20And I'm trying so hard to be respectful.
37:22Like, I'm not going to start an argument with Pedro's mother.
37:26Like, I'm just not.
37:27But I don't understand why she's, like, talking to me this way.
37:30It's crazy.
37:31Hello, hello.
37:32Hello.
37:32Mami.
37:33Pero Dios blando.
37:35¿A quién está tu Sofi?
37:39¿Estás bien?
37:47¿Estás bien?
37:50No.
37:50Sorry.
37:53After everything Pedro's been through and his failed marriage and everything,
37:57you would think his family want him to be happy and find someone.
38:00But it feels like they're just trying to sabotage any chance he has.
38:23You're the best sister.
38:25Aww.
38:27Where's the girl?
38:28Come on.
38:29Go with me.
38:31What did you say?
38:44I just wanted a girl.
38:47Yeah.
38:48Yes, me good.
38:52Aww.
38:54Monsaao!
38:57SAC is back!
38:59Come on, let's go!
38:59Let's go, let's go.
39:00Woo!
39:07She was grilling the out of me.
39:09I'm trying to play it cool to Pedro,
39:10but I've never been grilled like this in my life.
39:12It's very full on.
39:13She's like, so why are you choosing my son?
39:15How did you find my son?
39:17It feels like she doesn't want him
39:18to be happy with anyone.
39:20This is any girl, right?
39:22They're very a lot.
39:26Hello.
39:27Hey.
39:28How did you enjoy here?
39:30I'm gonna leave you.
39:31We're good.
39:32Did you eat?
39:33Yeah, the cake is so good.
39:35Have fun, go see.
39:36Oh, thank you so much.
39:39Ah, Sophie, excuse me.
39:40I just want to talk to you.
39:43I promise him no interfere in his life,
39:48but I know Pedro isn't totally in love with you.
39:52He's not in love with me.
39:53He likes me.
39:53No, yeah, but I can see on him
39:56in his eyes, the sparks on anything.
40:00I know my brother enough.
40:02Like, I can tell Pedro's, like, ready to, like,
40:05have a family, get married again, all that stuff, you know?
40:08And I haven't even, like, fully divorced yet, which he knows.
40:10That is something that I feel really concerned about, about something.
40:17Pedro told me, like, a day you are cold, a day you are hurt.
40:21But a woman, when he's really interested in a man, she's trying to be around him,
40:29trying to approach him, not keep him away.
40:33Why do you need to be so involved?
40:35Like, that's his relationship.
40:37Like, it doesn't really have anything, respectfully, it doesn't have anything to do with you.
40:43I don't want to see him suffering.
40:45His sister and his mom shouldn't have anything to do with his relationship.
40:48It is kind of weird.
40:50Like, I'm close to my mom.
40:51Look, I get it.
40:52No.
40:52Like, she wouldn't scare away a guy.
40:54Like, you guys are going to scare me away, when that's the least thing Pedro wants.
40:59I just need to know what is happening here, because he's calling me,
41:04and telling me everything you are doing, because he's not okay.
41:07But why are you so involved with your brother's love wife?
41:11No, because...
41:11What does that have anything to do with you?
41:13Respectfully, what does it have anything to do with you?
41:17I am just here concerned about him, and asking you about it.
41:21I don't know you.
41:24I don't know you like that.
41:28OK?
41:28Be respectful to me.
41:29I've been so nice to you, and his mom, and you guys.
41:32Like, mother, no.
41:33You want to love my mother?
41:34OK, you don't have mother, you don't have mother.
41:37You don't have mother.
41:37You don't have mother.
41:38You don't have mother, you don't have mother.
41:38My mom was lovely to me.
41:39My mom would never scare me and die.
41:41You both don't love you.
41:41Yes, OK.
41:42My mom doesn't love me.
41:44My mom doesn't love me.
41:45I never know.
41:45My mom doesn't love me.
41:46My mom doesn't love me.
41:46You want to go there.
41:47You guys have a paid relationship.
41:49Okay, bye.
41:50You and your family are weird.
41:53Weirdos.
41:55Weirdos.
41:56What kind of relationship is that?
41:58Weird.
42:02Next time on The Single Life.
42:04When I'm at the rock bottom of my life, there's only one person I can call.
42:09There you go.
42:10My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
42:15You and Courtney need to figure this all out.
42:18You can't just keep doing it.
42:19Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
42:22I think I can talk to Courtney, woman to woman, and convince her to try it again.
42:28Cole wants to apologize.
42:30He knows he made a big-ass mistake.
42:33I'm like, what the ?
42:36Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
42:40And I want you guys on this journey with me, but there is the possibility she might not want to
42:45see me.
42:47If something traumatic has happened to my daughter, or she needed me for something, I won't be able to live
42:52with myself.
42:55Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya, or is it something just for the fun?
43:02I know that Sinala wants to grill Tony, but I'm worried that maybe Sinala has gone a little too far.
43:09She just, like, full out of salt in me out there.
43:14I said, you called my mom.
43:16That's what you said.
43:16What did I call it?
43:17I called your mom?
43:18Yeah, you said your mom.
43:19You say that.
43:22Pedro's mom and sister are just absolutely insane.
43:26And Pedro is not even, like, standing up for me.
43:29He's kind of a turn-off.
43:31Trust me, I was very respectful to your mom.
43:33Okay, whatever.
43:34We'll see you tomorrow.
43:36And this is why he will be single forever.
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