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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 11: Use Caution When Opening Overhead Bins
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:30No, no, no.
00:00:30You remembered last night when I brought it up.
00:00:32Now all of a sudden, you're pretending you don't know her?
00:00:35I can't remember.
00:00:36I am being caught.
00:00:38I lied to her.
00:00:40Yes, I know this lady.
00:00:43But it's been a long time I won't talk to her.
00:00:46I'm sorry, OK?
00:00:48I'm still hurting inside.
00:00:50But at the same time, all my secrets
00:00:53are so much more than his one lie.
00:00:56If I can let this go, maybe he'll forgive me
00:00:58when I tell him everything.
00:01:00Sorry.
00:01:03We decided that both of our finances
00:01:05would be put into a shared account.
00:01:09No, actually, he doesn't have the access.
00:01:13You're not married.
00:01:15I'm really surprised that Sheena's dad would tell me
00:01:18we don't get to share a bank account.
00:01:20And Sheena is going along with it.
00:01:23I don't know if I can propose to Sheena if I can't trust her.
00:01:28There's some things that I do have questions about.
00:01:32We probably have to have a private conversation.
00:01:35I do understand why Aviva has fallen for stick.
00:01:39But now this all changes, because I am here.
00:01:42This is you, isn't it?
00:01:45Oh .
00:01:47The last time I was here in Morocco,
00:01:50I was coming to visit the guy that I was dating.
00:01:54And there's, like, something else.
00:01:59We got engaged.
00:02:27I just seen this.
00:02:29Have you seen this cat before?
00:02:32No.
00:02:33This to tell that I'm from Igbo tribe.
00:02:36You look like Santa Claus.
00:02:39Really?
00:02:40Yeah.
00:02:50How are you feeling since everything yesterday?
00:02:54The woman from social media?
00:02:56Yes.
00:02:57Are you still remembering that?
00:02:59I am still remembering it.
00:03:01Oh.
00:03:02It bothers me a little bit.
00:03:03So I tried to talk to her again to see if she would send those screenshots one more time.
00:03:09Okay.
00:03:09And she blocked me on social media.
00:03:13I thought she's a friend.
00:03:14Why did she block you?
00:03:16I don't know.
00:03:18But my thought is, I guess she's jealous of us.
00:03:22So I think I'm feeling better about it, thinking about it that way.
00:03:27I can't believe she blocked me.
00:03:30It's making me believe that she's the one who was lying about Daniel.
00:03:36Maybe she wanted to be with Daniel.
00:03:38So she reached out to me to call him a scammer to deter me away from Daniel.
00:03:43I think she's mad that Daniel chose me over her.
00:03:47I think everything has been resolved.
00:03:50I'm trying to believe that.
00:03:54Baby, can you dress up?
00:03:56We are going to the king, okay?
00:03:59I want us to go there with one mind, okay?
00:04:03For now, I just want to put this whole thing behind me.
00:04:07Because today, Daniel's taking me to meet the king in Lagos.
00:04:12Apparently, there are several kings of the Igbo tribe.
00:04:15And this is a real king.
00:04:17I am going to meet a real king.
00:04:19I am so scared and I'm so nervous I may pee my pants.
00:04:23We'll go see the king, but I need you to help me with my hair tie.
00:04:28Perfect, right there.
00:04:30When you're talking about marriage, everyone don't have to go and see the king.
00:04:34But getting his blessing, it means a lot.
00:04:38You look so handsome.
00:04:40Taking her to the king is the highest honor to our culture.
00:04:43This will be the way to prove to Lisa I respect her a lot.
00:04:47And I am committed to her.
00:04:56I am very nervous.
00:04:57Is it a big palace?
00:05:00Or is it more like a mansion?
00:05:03Just a condom.
00:05:04I am allowed to be nervous about meeting a king.
00:05:09It's exciting.
00:05:10I am picturing a huge castle.
00:05:11It's going to be bigger than Disneyland.
00:05:13It's going to have towers and that is going to have a moat.
00:05:17Marble floors and this grand entrance.
00:05:20I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:05:22I'm thinking I'm in England.
00:05:26How do I greet him again?
00:05:28You have to know that I'll say.
00:05:29It is a beautiful.
00:05:31May you live long, my king.
00:05:32May you live long, my king.
00:05:34Good.
00:05:38Oh, my God.
00:05:39I'm so nervous.
00:05:41I am so afraid that I'm going to say something wrong.
00:05:44That I'm going to kneel at the wrong time.
00:05:47That I will accidentally reveal my secrets.
00:05:50I mean, this is the ultimate blessing.
00:05:53I can't mess up.
00:05:56Oh, we're turning here.
00:05:59Where are we?
00:06:01Are we here?
00:06:02Yes.
00:06:05Oh, my God, baby.
00:06:19During my last trip when we were in Marrakesh,
00:06:21we got engaged.
00:06:35So that's why you are so fast,
00:06:37you want to just be engaged and...
00:06:39No, I don't just want to be engaged,
00:06:41but that's just what happened on my last trip.
00:06:44Mm-hmm.
00:06:49In social media when we speak,
00:06:51why did they say that...
00:06:53You make a story for...
00:06:56It's not a story.
00:06:57Just be...
00:06:57Be...
00:06:58Be real.
00:06:59I am being real.
00:07:00Sometimes you have to say it without to be scared.
00:07:02For example...
00:07:03That's what I'm doing right now.
00:07:05But you take a lot of time.
00:07:06It's like...
00:07:07Well, exactly.
00:07:08I didn't want you to be mad,
00:07:09so I didn't say anything about it.
00:07:14It's like, I don't know you,
00:07:16and I will not trust.
00:07:19Anything you say.
00:07:22It's like, I feel like you are not good.
00:07:31She told me I was there in Morocco
00:07:33just to visit Marrakesh with my girlfriend.
00:07:35This is the first life.
00:07:37The second one,
00:07:39when we are together in cooking clothes,
00:07:42she told me I was hailing.
00:07:44And right now,
00:07:46she told me another story.
00:07:47I was with a Moroccan man in Marrakesh
00:07:49because we are just ready to be engaged.
00:07:52And if you don't want to say anything,
00:07:54you don't want to say anything.
00:07:55And the whole story is...
00:07:57It's like...
00:07:58It's like...
00:07:58It's like...
00:07:58It's like...
00:08:05It's like...
00:08:10It's like...
00:08:13You can't what?
00:08:14I can't be engaged with you,
00:08:16and I can't propose you.
00:08:20I can't move on with you.
00:08:22It's like...
00:08:22What do you mean you can't move on?
00:08:24What do you mean?
00:08:26You're breaking up with me?
00:08:29Yeah.
00:08:33I accept what you did.
00:08:34So you're breaking up with me
00:08:36because I was with a guy before you.
00:08:39Because you're lying to me.
00:08:41That's the problem.
00:08:44I need a minute, so...
00:08:58How is this something to break up with me over?
00:09:00What do you mean?
00:09:01How is this something for you
00:09:02to just leave and break up with me?
00:09:04Did I break up with you
00:09:05when you were talking to other girls
00:09:07and I had proof of you messaging girls,
00:09:09telling them to come visit you,
00:09:10telling them you want to get to know them?
00:09:12No.
00:09:15I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt.
00:09:17I tried to see the best in you,
00:09:19and then you find out one little thing,
00:09:20and you're ready to just break up with me
00:09:22and go home.
00:09:22So why not I want to go to my home?
00:09:25Why?
00:09:26See, had it, were we in a...
00:09:27Were we in a relationship?
00:09:30Were we in a relationship?
00:09:31Were we in a relationship?
00:09:33Why can't you talk to me?
00:09:35Like, I came all the way here
00:09:36and you're just walking away
00:09:37because of one thing that you're mad about?
00:09:39Can you leave me a walk?
00:09:40No.
00:09:41I want to like it by myself.
00:09:41No.
00:09:42Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:43Just go.
00:09:43No.
00:09:46Don't touch me.
00:09:47I'm not touching you.
00:09:48So just let me go.
00:09:49I want to go right now.
00:09:50Okay, bye.
00:09:51Yeah, goodbye.
00:09:56I did all of this for us to be together.
00:09:59He's an asshole.
00:10:00He's literally an asshole.
00:10:12Oh, I got a crown too?
00:10:14I am King Forrest.
00:10:16Dressing up as her shiny knight
00:10:19and her dressing up as my beautiful princess
00:10:21is my dreams have come to fruition.
00:10:25Welcome, conquistador.
00:10:26Let's go, man.
00:10:27Onward!
00:10:30Corrine, can you come here for a minute?
00:10:32Coming.
00:10:33The girl in the photo is Corrine's friend.
00:10:36She has no reason to lie to her.
00:10:38February 7th, where were you?
00:10:41I don't know.
00:10:41I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:10:43That picture was in the Hopkins.
00:10:44You were here in Plasencia with her.
00:10:56I mean, this is you, isn't it?
00:11:01Oh, s***.
00:11:02Yeah, that's you.
00:11:11This is from like two months ago.
00:11:17What is this?
00:11:18Is this something that you...
00:11:19That's a fan.
00:11:19That's somebody that's a fan.
00:11:21This is a fan?
00:11:23So you didn't tell her that you loved her?
00:11:25No, I didn't.
00:11:26So why is there a text right here saying, I'ma love you forever?
00:11:35And when my niece, Corrine, asked, why does that look like Stig?
00:11:39They say, that's my man.
00:11:41Is there some reason that there's text of you telling this girl you love her and her claiming
00:11:45that you're her man?
00:11:47Because these girls are super fans and that's okay and I appreciate that.
00:11:51So I asked you, no, this is more than super fan.
00:11:54This girl definitely says that you guys were together there.
00:11:58Cup.
00:11:59Corrine, can you come in here for a second?
00:12:02Coming.
00:12:06So he claims he doesn't know who she is.
00:12:08That literally that she's just a fan.
00:12:12So, okay.
00:12:13So I know her.
00:12:14She's a close friend of mine.
00:12:17I don't think my friend, a girl with a smile, would have lied to me about something like that.
00:12:21She mentioned when she goes to the city, she sees you.
00:12:27The first one, probably.
00:12:29No.
00:12:30No.
00:12:31So, okay.
00:12:32February 7th.
00:12:33Where were you?
00:12:39Hopkins, I think Hopkins beat our wedding.
00:12:44No.
00:12:45That picture wasn't Hopkins.
00:12:46You were here in Plasencia with her.
00:12:58I can see something's going on through the window.
00:13:01I have no idea what's being said, but I just hear a lot of commotion and I'm freaking out.
00:13:09So, it is frustrating to be left out of this conversation.
00:13:13It seems very important, but I trust my aunt and she must have a reason for wanting to
00:13:19keep me out of the loop.
00:13:20I just wish I knew what the was going on.
00:13:23You guys are definitely together.
00:13:25Like, more than one instance is different dates.
00:13:29No, I don't know what the is like that.
00:13:32If I was with a girl, I might tell her the truth.
00:13:34I might tell her Aviva the truth.
00:13:36I ain't not lying.
00:13:38I don't want to hurt Aviva's feelings because I know, like, she truly and genuinely loves
00:13:44Stig.
00:13:45Even to bring this information forward to Anti-Spring has been, like, so traumatic to me, but I
00:13:54know that my friends and Stig have been hooking up.
00:13:58Stig bulls**t a lot, but if he knows that he doesn't want the relationship, he should leave.
00:14:05I mean, we want this girl, that girl.
00:14:09Pictures.
00:14:11Messages don't lie.
00:14:16Thank you, Nisi.
00:14:18I appreciate you.
00:14:19You're welcome.
00:14:20Fuck.
00:14:21Yeah.
00:14:22All of that is exactly, getting extra about it is exactly what my husband would do, too.
00:14:28This is all the things that I worry about between you guys.
00:14:33The girl in the photo is Corinne's friend.
00:14:36They've known each other since they were diapers.
00:14:38She doesn't know anything about him dating Aviva.
00:14:40She has no reason to lie to her about what she's doing.
00:14:44And if this is just a fan, then he needs to explain that to her, because this is overly
00:14:50friendly with the fan.
00:14:53Aviva actually cares a lot about you and, you know, loves you.
00:14:57And I don't want her to end up, you know, you living two different lives.
00:15:02And I still don't believe anything that you're saying right now.
00:15:07So do you want to explain this to Aviva later?
00:15:12You're either going to tell her or I'm telling her.
00:15:19I have nothing to hide.
00:15:23Anne Springer's trying to put her on me because of her past relationship, which is unfair.
00:15:29So now, I can't believe I have to tell Aviva what a picture of a fan that might ruin my
00:15:37entire relationship.
00:15:39We'll see, I guess.
00:15:41I don't even know.
00:16:04Oh, that's weird.
00:16:05So what?
00:16:06It's a cotton texture.
00:16:07Yeah, that's why I call it cotton.
00:16:08Cotton fruit.
00:16:09Yeah.
00:16:14It's sour, right?
00:16:18Oh, Lordy.
00:16:21I was a guinea pig for everybody.
00:16:24The other one is we call pastillas.
00:16:32Pastillas, it's like soft milk candy.
00:16:36Hey, Mom, we're going to be heading out to Venice Mall today.
00:16:39And I know you guys aren't, you know, the big mall walkers like we are.
00:16:43So.
00:16:44No, we're not mall people.
00:16:48We're thinking about going today to see a bamboo organ at a church.
00:16:54Yes, Mom.
00:16:55I'm interested in learning all about that type of stuff.
00:16:58So, I'm glad you love my mangoes recommendation.
00:17:02I told you, I love to handle stuff.
00:17:04Yes.
00:17:05Any others?
00:17:06I could try them.
00:17:08Just grab the steed, suck it out.
00:17:10Don't take the tall and seed up.
00:17:13I told you.
00:17:14Slurp that seed right now.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16All right.
00:17:16Let's go, baby.
00:17:18I think I'm going to tackle this baby next, right here.
00:17:25Our chariot.
00:17:31Honey, are you excited?
00:17:33Heck, yeah, I am.
00:17:35I've just been really wanting to go to this place, you know, ever since I got here, to the Philippines.
00:17:41Right here, it's just beautiful there.
00:17:43Yeah, I've known about the place, but I haven't visited there.
00:17:48Oh, look at the car, Twitter.
00:17:49I'm so excited, honey.
00:17:50Yeah, me too, baby.
00:17:53Hello, we're here.
00:17:55Oh, my God!
00:17:58I learned about this place from searches online for top romantic places in the Philippines.
00:18:04Wow, look at that.
00:18:06It's a mall that looks like Venice, and Sheena loves Italian food and everything like Italian.
00:18:13Boom.
00:18:15I've been thinking a lot about what's been happening the last few days, and we really need to have a
00:18:19hard discussion about her lying.
00:18:22Now, finally being able to be alone with Sheena without my mom behind me, I can talk to her and
00:18:29help her understand that all these lies that she's been spreading have left a scar.
00:18:35And I'm hoping to hear from Sheena that she won't lie anymore.
00:18:41Wow, look at this place.
00:18:42What do you think?
00:18:44Awesome.
00:18:45Oh, my gosh, is that water?
00:18:48Yeah, it looks nice.
00:18:49Wow.
00:18:50Oh, my gosh.
00:18:53You first walk in, you see these beautiful buildings, and you look down, and then there's this giant swimming pool.
00:19:00You got some, like, little Italian guys just chilling out on these little boats.
00:19:04It's, it's, it's, it's beautiful.
00:19:07Oh, my God.
00:19:09It took years for them to build Rome and everything, but now we are in it.
00:19:15The architectural stuff is amazing.
00:19:17I really feel like we're in Italy.
00:19:19Yeah, this is the most romantic place.
00:19:21Oh, wow, they got a chicken restaurant up there.
00:19:24I have barely traveled internationally, but I definitely believe this is what Italy would look like.
00:19:29Little clowns everywhere.
00:19:32Dancing people.
00:19:34Should we do the same?
00:19:39I'm super grateful to have this time alone with Sheena.
00:19:42Oh, my gosh, look at that.
00:19:44Oh, wow.
00:19:45They have dresses and everything.
00:19:46Yeah, that's cool.
00:19:47Do you think you want to dress up a little bit and get some photos?
00:19:50Yeah, why not?
00:19:51We can try.
00:19:52We'll check it out here.
00:19:53I just hope that some dresses would fit me, though.
00:19:56Do you want to try and serve?
00:19:57You're off it, too.
00:19:57Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59Yeah, that would be great.
00:19:59I've always told Sheena that I would come over to the Philippines as her knight in shining armor.
00:20:05Oh.
00:20:07This looks nice.
00:20:08Yeah, you want this, honey.
00:20:09Yeah.
00:20:10Sorry, thank you.
00:20:12Ah, so dressing up as her shiny knight and her dressing up as my beautiful princess,
00:20:18it just feels like my dreams have come to fruition.
00:20:24Oh, I got a crown, too?
00:20:26Yes.
00:20:27I am King Forrest.
00:20:31The grace of me.
00:20:33I wonder how Sheena's going to look, though.
00:20:36Where's she hiding?
00:20:43Oh, my Sheen.
00:20:46I look like a princess in a red ribbon.
00:20:49You are a princess.
00:20:52I'm like...
00:20:53Ta-da!
00:20:56You look amazing, baby.
00:20:57Don't have a red ribbon.
00:20:59Oh, that would be great.
00:21:02A parasol.
00:21:05Seeing Sheena dressed up in that red dress,
00:21:08I found myself completely and totally speechless.
00:21:12Well, Conquistador, let's go, man.
00:21:14Onward!
00:21:16She is the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
00:21:19Do I look regal to you?
00:21:20You look like a perfect king of mine.
00:21:23I love you, my lover.
00:21:24I love you, my Sheen.
00:21:26So much.
00:21:28And...
00:21:29I want to be your rock.
00:21:32But...
00:21:36Just...
00:21:37I don't like how it ended up, you know, with the lies and whatever.
00:21:42And I need to know that you will always come to me truthfully and honestly.
00:21:51I understand, my love.
00:21:53I felt so hopeless for what I did, for not telling the truth to you.
00:21:59And I'm trying to open up everything for you.
00:22:02Every single problem that you need to learn.
00:22:07But...
00:22:08It's hard for me.
00:22:13And you know what?
00:22:14I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:22:20I think Forrest would appreciate if I would tell him the truth.
00:22:25He needs to know.
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:38My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:22:42that.
00:22:43I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:22:45Oh my God.
00:22:47In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet my boyfriend Joshua, who's super sexy.
00:22:54But my parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men.
00:22:58Because of what happened a few years ago with my ex.
00:23:01Elise, this is our concern for you.
00:23:03That you're going to find another swindler.
00:23:05For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:23:07Run.
00:23:17We'll begin just by coming to a comfortable position.
00:23:22No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:26No one can do things exactly like I can.
00:23:31My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:34My focus is on my happiness.
00:23:39I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:44I am doing the best I can, and that is plenty.
00:23:58Ew.
00:23:59Can I, like, touch up a second?
00:24:01Look at this.
00:24:01This is disgusting.
00:24:02Yeah, do it right now.
00:24:04Okay.
00:24:05Do I have lip hair?
00:24:07Like, would you tell me?
00:24:09How would you describe yourself?
00:24:11As a very outgoing, loving, kind-hearted person with great boobs, great nipples, great.
00:24:21I would show you if I could, but I would get in trouble.
00:24:38Just breathe, Elise.
00:24:42So, I've been recently trying meditation.
00:24:46Not the best at it, but, like, definitely in high-stress situations, meditation comes in handy.
00:24:52And especially right now, because I'm going to go see my parents.
00:24:57I'm really excited to see my family, but it's hard, because I'm kind of like the odd sheep in the
00:25:03family.
00:25:04My parents have this picture-perfect marriage.
00:25:07Met on a blind date, and now been married for over 40 years.
00:25:11My brother, who's 16 months older than me, has been married with two kids.
00:25:16Been with the same girl for eight years.
00:25:18And then here I am at age 32, when I've never been married, and I don't have kids.
00:25:23And I've made some poor choices with men.
00:25:27I want to find the one more than anything in this world.
00:25:31But, like, my track record is bad.
00:25:34Like, horrible.
00:25:37I've been proposed to five times, and three of them I said yes to.
00:25:42And I've still never walked down that aisle.
00:25:46Recently, I decided to do something completely out of the box, and I went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
00:25:56I had some fun in Mexico.
00:25:58I thought I found the one, but he showed his true colors, and he turned out to be another failed
00:26:03relationship.
00:26:04I went to Tiffany to ask for her back.
00:26:12You literally told me you could see a life outside here with me and not her.
00:26:17Carlo and I tried to make it work after the singles retreat, but it didn't work out.
00:26:22It f***ing hurt.
00:26:23And, uh, that was a hard one to move on from.
00:26:27So, I took that time to work on myself, and I think that's what I needed.
00:26:32Because now I have a new man in my life who's super f***ing sexy.
00:26:36I just don't know what my parents think about all this.
00:26:41Definitely scared that my parents are sitting in the house currently saying,
00:26:45Oh, my God, what is our daughter doing again?
00:26:49My parents wanted me to end up with a Jewish guy, but I just think they lost their hopes on
00:26:53that.
00:26:54I've actually never even had sex with a Jewish guy.
00:26:57Oh, my God.
00:27:00How you doing?
00:27:01I'm good.
00:27:02Do you want any meds?
00:27:05No, but you can't just cover.
00:27:06Oh, cover your feet.
00:27:07Cover the feet, Cease.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:12Hi, Mom!
00:27:13Hi!
00:27:14Hi, Dad!
00:27:16What's that?
00:27:16Come on, Mom!
00:27:18Come here, come on up!
00:27:20Hi!
00:27:20Oh, I missed you.
00:27:22I love you.
00:27:23Hey, we got a gimp over here.
00:27:24Hi, Daddy!
00:27:25We have a gimp.
00:27:26My dad just had two knee surgeries.
00:27:28He's just literally been sitting in a chair, and that's very hard for him,
00:27:32because he's always out and about and a big workaholic.
00:27:37Okay, you want to see?
00:27:38You want to see?
00:27:39I don't know.
00:27:40All right, all right.
00:27:41Ready?
00:27:43My dad's a venture capitalist.
00:27:45He gives money to companies in order for them to go public, or he takes an equi...
00:27:53Oh, God.
00:27:54I should probably know what my dad does, but, like, I don't know.
00:27:57You know what I found, Elise?
00:27:59Your bin.
00:28:00But I want you to take this.
00:28:01I want whatever you want in here to take it.
00:28:03Because we're renovating the house, and I need room.
00:28:07Show us all the report cards with A's.
00:28:09Oh, there are none.
00:28:11What do you mean I got straight A's?
00:28:12Oh, let's see.
00:28:13Okay.
00:28:14This is wild.
00:28:15Oh, summer 2006, when you were 13 years old, third summer.
00:28:19Oh, those are letters from camp?
00:28:21Letters from camp.
00:28:22Oh, let me just...
00:28:22I was camper of the year.
00:28:24No, no, no.
00:28:24This is when she went to overnight camp.
00:28:27Oh, look after that.
00:28:28Oh, my God.
00:28:32Remember you smuggled your phone in?
00:28:34Yep.
00:28:35We're very close.
00:28:37Family.
00:28:38The four of us have always stuck together, and it hasn't always been the easiest.
00:28:44Elise was always wild.
00:28:46We bailed Elise out of a lot of things.
00:28:50Maybe too many.
00:28:52So, what's up?
00:28:53Where are you going?
00:28:55New Zealand?
00:28:56Australia?
00:28:58Yeah.
00:28:59Um, it might be silly to me, but, like, I really like him, and I want to go...
00:29:04Well, you don't know him.
00:29:05No, I've never met him.
00:29:09So, why this now?
00:29:12I'm getting older.
00:29:13I'm 32.
00:29:14I've done a lot of self-reflection.
00:29:15Well, the way I look at it is, Joshua, he has a really nice way about him.
00:29:21He's kind of the opposite of me.
00:29:23Like, he's very calm temperament, and I like that.
00:29:26I haven't found love in Miami.
00:29:29No, you...
00:29:29I feel like I've exhausted every option in Miami.
00:29:33I haven't found love in Miami?
00:29:34Hello, Australia.
00:29:35Yeah, right.
00:29:36I mean...
00:29:37Yeah, right.
00:29:37Welcome to...
00:29:38Hello.
00:29:39What the...
00:29:41I know it sounds ridiculous to my parents, but I wouldn't be flying around the world
00:29:46to Australia to meet just any guy.
00:29:53My boyfriend, Joshua, is a sexy 39-year-old from Sydney, Australia.
00:30:00He is so caring, attentive.
00:30:03He's just, like, a happy-go-lucky guy, like, that everyone wants to be around.
00:30:07He's just, like, an overall, like, a golden retriever puppy.
00:30:12I met him on social media.
00:30:14He slid in my DMs, and we've been talking ever since.
00:30:19When we first started messaging, I did not think it was going to be serious at all.
00:30:23But he totally caught me off guard.
00:30:26There's something about him that's so genuine and so different from what I am used to.
00:30:32Josh has a 12-year-old son who lives with his mom, and his son's the most important person
00:30:37to him.
00:30:38Seeing Joshua as a father makes me fantasize that one day maybe we could have a family.
00:30:45Recently, it's gotten very serious.
00:30:47So, in a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia to meet Joshua for the first time.
00:30:53And, like, oh, my God.
00:30:55I just want to get there and see him and be in his arms already.
00:31:00You know, Elise, I'm glad you're getting out of Miami,
00:31:03but I'm really concerned about your choices and who you pick, you know?
00:31:08Well, I'm not going to stand for bullsh** anymore.
00:31:10You know, I'm not going to stand for it.
00:31:13For the love of God, I'm begging you.
00:31:15But if you think, like, there's any, like, you know, what do they call him, gold digger in there,
00:31:20then run.
00:31:21Yeah.
00:31:23Run.
00:31:25Because no mouse, no mouse, no mouse.
00:31:30My parents have a very hard time trusting my judgment with men
00:31:34because of what happened a few years ago with my ex.
00:31:37I thought he was in love with me, and I was really in love with him.
00:31:41But after being with him for a few years, he ended up stealing my identity
00:31:46and got a credit card out in my name and racked it up $500,000.
00:31:52He conned me and completely broke my heart.
00:31:54And I felt so foolish that I let a guy completely embarrass and demolish me.
00:32:01And the worst part is, who had to get me out of this trouble?
00:32:05My dad.
00:32:08Elise, this is our concern for you, that you're going to find another swindler,
00:32:12another guy that's going to take advantage of you.
00:32:14My question is, how do you pull the ripcord if this is going south?
00:32:18What's the evacuation plan if, like, you know, this is...
00:32:21Hello, Mom and Dad.
00:32:22Like, no, I'm not, I can't do that anymore.
00:32:28I really want the love that my parents have.
00:32:32They genuinely love each other, and they're each other's best friends.
00:32:36But, like, I'm scared that, like, I'm about to go all this way
00:32:39and I could have my heart broken again, and I don't want that.
00:32:44My dream for you is I want to see you happy.
00:32:48And I think a big part of that is being able to smell out bulls**t.
00:32:53I'm going to try my damn best to not disappoint you, to not disappoint me, you know.
00:32:59And I'm going to see where it goes.
00:33:03Hey.
00:33:04Hi.
00:33:05Michael has always given me really great advice, and I feel like I need that now.
00:33:12You're emotionally compromised.
00:33:14But if you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:33:17I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out there.
00:33:21May I come out there?
00:33:22May I meet him?
00:33:34Are we here?
00:33:36Yes.
00:33:38Oh, my gosh, baby.
00:33:42I don't see a palace.
00:33:45I thought I'd see a palace, baby.
00:33:47I don't know.
00:33:58I don't know.
00:33:59I don't know.
00:34:00I don't know.
00:34:00I don't know.
00:34:03I don't know.
00:34:03I don't know.
00:34:04I don't know.
00:34:04Hi, Uncle.
00:34:04Hi, Uncle.
00:34:05How are you?
00:34:05I'm good.
00:34:06How are you?
00:34:07I'm fine.
00:34:09Daniel is taking me to meet the King today, and I am thinking I'm going to this palace.
00:34:15But what the ?
00:34:18This is not a palace.
00:34:19Where are we?
00:34:20This is nothing like I expected.
00:34:25Ah.
00:34:34Ah.
00:34:42Should we believe this House a shriek?
00:34:47Oh, yeah.
00:34:48Oh, yeah, some people.
00:34:56Oh, my god, this is a king.
00:34:57He looks like a king.
00:35:00He's wearing lion head and this headdress.
00:35:05And I feel like I'm going to myself.
00:35:07I don't know what to do.
00:35:35Oh, my god.
00:35:36Oh, my god.
00:35:39Oh, my god.
00:35:41Oh, my god.
00:35:47Yes, sir.
00:35:50The lord of the couple comes to me because I'm his royal majesty.
00:35:56I'm like, I'm an oracle, a prophet.
00:36:00And as a royal father, your blessings is enormous.
00:36:03It's not like every other blessing.
00:36:06If this thing, if it's going to work well, I will ask our ancestors.
00:36:34I'm getting more nervous because this is so not what I expected.
00:36:39What if the ancestors don't give us the blessing?
00:36:43Does it erase the uncle's blessing?
00:36:45Does it erase how Daniel feels about me?
00:36:48I have no idea.
00:36:49He's the king.
00:36:54I'm showing signs that I'm falling for you.
00:36:57You're in my mind when you grind.
00:37:01Now is the time you know what I'm going to do.
00:37:14Hey.
00:37:15Hey.
00:37:16How's it going?
00:37:17I just found a heater.
00:37:21Sounds good.
00:37:22Yay.
00:37:24Um.
00:37:25Yeah.
00:37:25I was checking in with some people at home and was wondering if I could have, like, I don't
00:37:32know, 30 minutes or so.
00:37:33Make a phone call?
00:37:35You don't need that long time?
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:36Is that cool?
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:38You know what am I going to do?
00:37:40Probably go find some shisha.
00:37:43Yay.
00:37:44All right.
00:37:45Have fun.
00:37:46See ya.
00:37:48I have a mix of emotions after the boat ride today.
00:37:55BeerCon opening up to me was really sweet.
00:37:58But I definitely still have some hesitations when it comes to BeerCon's gambling and his debt.
00:38:07And I feel like I need to talk to someone who can ground me, help me understand and process
00:38:14all of the things that are going on.
00:38:19Hey.
00:38:21Hi.
00:38:22Long time no see, stranger.
00:38:25I'm saying the same thing to you.
00:38:26How's it going?
00:38:28Uh, I'm doing well-ish.
00:38:30Well-ish?
00:38:31Why well-ish?
00:38:33Best I can help for when you're not here.
00:38:35Aw.
00:38:37I know you missed me.
00:38:38I know.
00:38:39It's been a while.
00:38:39I am sure you missed me.
00:38:43Nope, not at all.
00:38:44Liar.
00:38:46Liar.
00:38:47I missed you too.
00:38:49I have been messaging Michael a little bit since I've been in Turkey, but he definitely
00:38:54doesn't have all the details.
00:38:56I trust and respect him.
00:38:59And he has always given me really great, really sage advice.
00:39:03And I feel like I need that now.
00:39:07Are you coming home?
00:39:11You know, I've thought about it a few times, honestly.
00:39:15I mean, he's super sweet and he's really, really putting in effort to make me feel special.
00:39:22Okay.
00:39:24But it's like, he's given me some information that's like straight up a lot to think about.
00:39:31You have me all ears, girl.
00:39:32I mean, he has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount of debt.
00:39:41What's substantial in Turkish terms?
00:39:44Well, in US dollars, it's 50,000.
00:39:51Yeah.
00:39:52So, I mean, that's not good, but I think probably the thing that like concerned me the most,
00:39:59he talks a lot about gambling.
00:40:01Like, he'll take money and instead of putting it towards his debt, he'll gamble it to try
00:40:09to win more.
00:40:10I'm just so concerned.
00:40:12What's he going to do in the States?
00:40:14Like burn through my money gambling?
00:40:16I don't know what to do.
00:40:18But at the same time, he's ridiculously thoughtful and like so intentional and sweet.
00:40:29No one has ever put this much thought and care into things that they planned for me.
00:40:35Like today, he took me out on this amazing boat cruise.
00:40:40And he told me because of me, he's started to feel alive again.
00:40:46And like, he's starting to be like himself.
00:40:49And I don't get people very often in my life who make me feel cared for.
00:40:55So that is a huge, huge win for me in the pro category.
00:41:03I would feel best if you came home, honestly.
00:41:08You'd feel best if I came home?
00:41:10Yeah, because you're emotionally compromised.
00:41:16I can tell you he's running an incredible con game right now.
00:41:20His job is to woo you.
00:41:22To make you feel like the love of his life.
00:41:25To make you feel incredibly special.
00:41:26And you've been deprived of these experiences for so damn long.
00:41:31That a guy like him, that's all he has to do.
00:41:35And you're falling head over heels for him.
00:41:37When there are far, far, far higher quality men that can do the same thing.
00:41:41And don't come without baggage.
00:41:50You're willing to sacrifice common sense.
00:41:56Because a boat ride was enough to win your heart.
00:42:02I know that the red flags sound crazy.
00:42:07But I also think it's easier to hear about red flags than it is green flags.
00:42:16The green flags are harder to see unless you see them with your own eyes.
00:42:22I mean, I honestly think if you truly want to move forward with this man, I would really appreciate it
00:42:29if you would let me come out there.
00:42:32And see him for myself before you make that level of commitment, that level of decision about your life.
00:42:40May I come out there? May I meet him?
00:42:46I don't know. I don't know.
00:42:50That's a really big deal.
00:42:53I feel like that could really push him away and create some big problems for me as I do move
00:42:59forward in this relationship.
00:43:07I really don't know what to do here.
00:43:10On the one hand, it might be nice to have a third party to give me their perspective.
00:43:16But on the other hand, BeerCon already doesn't like my friendship with Michael.
00:43:21And I feel like Michael showing up here, that would piss him off.
00:43:27And honestly, I've always thought that he had some sort of underlying feelings for me.
00:43:32And the fact that he's willing to just fly out here and rescue me from myself really does kind of
00:43:40concern me about what his intentions are.
00:43:44I want to talk to him about it first before we decide for sure.
00:43:51Okay. I can respect that.
00:43:53And I will let you know how it goes.
00:43:55Okay. Thank you for considering it.
00:44:02So your hand actually came with the screenshot of some message from me saying, I'm gonna love you forever.
00:44:12I can't be with somebody who has been lying and cheating on me this whole time.
00:44:16I don't know who the that is.
00:44:26You know what? I have been waiting to tell you something.
00:44:34To be honest, it's really hard for me to talk about this.
00:44:47The truth is that most of the people that I love happen not to be serious with me.
00:44:54They just wanted to play with my feelings.
00:44:56And my previous partner that I was expecting that guy to love me, but he never loved me.
00:45:05He already had someone with him.
00:45:08He had been cheating me for the longest three years.
00:45:12And it appears to me that I would suffer the same fate, like leaving behind.
00:45:20I did that lie because I'm afraid that I would lose you.
00:45:26My previous partner, I finally discovered after the longest years that this guy already had a partner while dating with
00:45:35me.
00:45:35I just felt unwanted.
00:45:40And I really blame myself for not being a perfect woman.
00:45:46Like I had done something to drive him away.
00:45:51If I was ever to do anything to push force away, I would feel so much in pain.
00:45:59It's an indescribable pain.
00:46:08Sheena, that guy did not deserve you at all.
00:46:13I'm not like him.
00:46:14I won't be like him.
00:46:16I would never leave you for having issues.
00:46:21If you just tell me up front what the situation is, I'll be there to support you.
00:46:30I hope you have the courage to come to me from now on.
00:46:35Because I can't, I can't have you lying to me.
00:46:41And I will do my best.
00:46:43And I will put up my negative feelings aside.
00:46:48But I cannot promise you in words, but in actions.
00:46:53Open up and trusting more with you is the best way.
00:46:58I knew that Sheena was in a relationship before, but I didn't know that it affected her to this extent.
00:47:05Things are not perfect.
00:47:06But I feel that Sheena and I were able to talk things out.
00:47:10And I'm glad that she's willing to work with me.
00:47:12It's making me feel better.
00:47:15I'm falling more and more in love with her every single day.
00:47:18I just really wish that I could feel more confident that this won't happen again.
00:47:32Bye, auntie.
00:47:33Bye, I love you.
00:47:35Love you.
00:47:39Is everything okay?
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:51Night was a total disaster.
00:47:54I wanted my aunt to grill him and get the answers.
00:47:59However, I was hoping deep down they would like each other and she would end up having good things to
00:48:05say about him.
00:48:08Clearly, that's not what happened.
00:48:10And at this point, I don't know what's actually going on.
00:48:17Are you going to tell me what happened?
00:48:20Um, yeah.
00:48:21A lot.
00:48:23Okay.
00:48:27So your aunt actually came with quote unquote proof.
00:48:33Proof in her mind.
00:48:36Proof of what?
00:48:37Proof of me not being faithful to you.
00:48:42Okay.
00:48:45Continue.
00:48:46You threatened me.
00:48:48She gave me an ultimatum.
00:48:50She said, if I don't tell you who she's going to tell you, it's going to be worse and all
00:48:55that.
00:48:55So I'm like, well, anyways.
00:48:57Go ahead.
00:49:01She pulled up with a picture of me hugging a girl and with a kiss on her cheek.
00:49:09From when?
00:49:11Probably recently, like maybe a couple of weeks ago.
00:49:18But that's what I do though.
00:49:20I take pictures with fans and sometimes I do that.
00:49:22Nothing bad.
00:49:24So this was just a random girl.
00:49:29Yeah, probably just a fan.
00:49:32Apparently, Corinne, she's like, that's her friend and the girl is like, oh, she's messing with me and she was
00:49:38with me in this city or whatever.
00:49:40I'm like, girl, I don't even know who the fuck that is.
00:49:46Well, no, and apparently some, I think they asked the girl about the picture and she sent a screenshot of
00:49:54some message from me saying, I'm going to love you forever, bruh.
00:50:00From him.
00:50:02Who the hell is me?
00:50:03Apparently I'm him.
00:50:04Not him in that message.
00:50:07Uh, okay.
00:50:09So there's photos and text messages?
00:50:12Apparently, but not real text message.
00:50:17Do you have the photo?
00:50:19I don't have it.
00:50:21I don't know who the fuck that is.
00:50:24I don't know how else can I say.
00:50:25I don't want to curse.
00:50:26Not even like that.
00:50:29I could show you like a million more pictures like that.
00:50:32Corinne is saying it's her friend and that she knows that you guys are hooking up.
00:50:36That's what is concerning to me.
00:50:42If you're messing with her, then you're messing with her.
00:50:44Why would they lie about that?
00:50:45If I was messing with her, I would tell you the truth.
00:50:47Then I would have been like, let's have a treat.
00:50:52But I'm joking.
00:50:54I'm joking, babe.
00:50:55I'm joking because I have no reason to lie.
00:51:01I just don't know what to believe at this point.
00:51:06I need to see the photos and I need to see the text messages and from there I can make
00:51:11a decision.
00:51:13Make a decision about what?
00:51:15If I can trust you, if I can believe you, if I want to continue, that's all I can say
00:51:22right now.
00:51:25This is going to ruin our night?
00:51:28I'm tired.
00:51:29I'm not going to get mad at you tonight.
00:51:33I just need to sleep.
00:51:34You're still cuddling.
00:51:35Okay.
00:51:36Don't do all that now.
00:51:39It's not going to be like that tonight?
00:51:41I mean, I'm just, I'm not feeling it tonight.
00:51:46I came all the way to Belize and I was ready to start a family with him.
00:51:50And then he pulls back on the babies.
00:51:53He won't say he loves me.
00:51:54And hearing that he's possibly in another relationship.
00:51:58It's just crazy after everything I've put into this relationship.
00:52:03Don't forget today even happened to be honest with you.
00:52:15I really hope that he's telling me the truth because I can't be with somebody who's been lying and cheating
00:52:21on me this whole time.
00:52:23This could really be the end for me and Sting.
00:52:34I'm going to Australia.
00:52:37Everything's great between Joshua and I, but I do have some worries about him.
00:52:41When you get there, are you guys staying in the same room?
00:52:44Yeah, hold on.
00:52:44Where are you staying?
00:52:45Okay, so he admitted to me that he lives with his parents.
00:52:50No!
00:52:50Oh!
00:52:55So, baby.
00:52:57Yes.
00:52:58There's some things I kind of want to talk to you about.
00:53:02Today, spending time alone with Sheena, it's been great.
00:53:09Okay.
00:53:10But it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the Philippines.
00:53:16I love you baby girl.
00:53:21I love you baby girl!
00:53:29No!
00:53:30To the future us as aquisitor for you.
00:53:34I hope you love me.
00:53:36Stella can do whatever you want to talk to us.
00:53:42Vielleicht for жеые specialweeds.
00:53:43Treats? Come on. Treats? Come on.
00:53:53Stella, Mommy just got home from Grammy and Grampy's.
00:53:57Feels so good to be home.
00:53:59I'm happy I'm with my little kitty.
00:54:01You want some catnip? Come here, Stella.
00:54:04Come here. Stella, look.
00:54:07So I was considered a crazy catwoman
00:54:10because I literally had three cats and a dog.
00:54:12And then, I don't know if I'm a crazy catwoman anymore
00:54:16because I only have two cats now.
00:54:19But Stella is pretty much my life.
00:54:24I hated cats.
00:54:26Cats were actually pretty disgusting to me.
00:54:28And when I was a young kid,
00:54:30I got told I was really allergic to cats.
00:54:31Right, Stella?
00:54:33And then, once I got Stella,
00:54:35I became obsessed with cats.
00:54:41I love your breath.
00:54:44And if I kiss you too much, you're going to yap at me.
00:54:50Yeah.
00:54:52You want another treat?
00:54:53One more treat?
00:54:55Oh, God.
00:54:55Did you fart, Stella?
00:54:57Ugh.
00:54:59Stella smells.
00:54:59I feel like she, like, licked her butt,
00:55:01and I just put my mouth in her butt.
00:55:04She, it's when she's really excited, actually.
00:55:08Is Stella a girl?
00:55:09Stella is a boy.
00:55:11Stella is transgender.
00:55:13Stella's all the sexes.
00:55:15I got Stella.
00:55:17I went to go get her spayed.
00:55:19And they're like, hey, just to let you know,
00:55:22yeah, your cat, yeah, she's, um, she's a male.
00:55:25And I said, you know what?
00:55:26My ex and I named her Stella,
00:55:29and I'm keeping it.
00:55:31Stella has a penis, but I call her a girl.
00:55:34She's gender confused.
00:55:35It's 20-25.
00:55:36It's acceptable.
00:55:37Come on.
00:55:38Come to me here.
00:55:39Come on, Stella.
00:55:40Right here.
00:55:41Try and get off me here.
00:55:42Oh.
00:55:43You're not doing my tricks.
00:55:45Come on.
00:55:45Jump up a little.
00:55:46Jump up for mommy.
00:55:47Oh.
00:55:48Dad, my kitty.
00:55:50Stella is my life.
00:55:52Like, if Stella can be in a man's body,
00:55:54I would, I would, you know, date her.
00:55:58Date her.
00:56:02I know.
00:56:02It's confusing.
00:56:04I don't like women.
00:56:05I like men.
00:56:06I like penis too much.
00:56:06Actually.
00:56:19Mommy's going to go see her friends.
00:56:20Yeah, I'll be right back, okay?
00:56:23Bye, Stella.
00:56:26Sort me out.
00:56:29I'm a rich man.
00:56:31I need a clue.
00:56:33I'm happy to be back in Miami
00:56:35after a few days with my parents.
00:56:37But every time I see them,
00:56:39it reminds me of how much I want what they have.
00:56:42Like, I may seem like the crazy, wild girl
00:56:45that, like, doesn't give a f***,
00:56:46but, like, deep down,
00:56:48I want love,
00:56:49and I want to get married,
00:56:50and I want children,
00:56:51and I want, like,
00:56:52my husband to be my best friend
00:56:54in my forever.
00:56:56And even though we have never met in person,
00:56:58I know Josh is just so f***ing amazing.
00:57:01He's sexy, and he's hot,
00:57:03and he's adventurous,
00:57:04and he's active.
00:57:05Like, I'm so infatuated.
00:57:08And I would literally be the happiest girl
00:57:10in the world
00:57:11if he was the one.
00:57:14Oh, my God.
00:57:14Joshua just texted me right now.
00:57:16Hi, babe.
00:57:16How are you?
00:57:17XO.
00:57:19He just sent me a picture.
00:57:22He looks big.
00:57:23His hands look big.
00:57:24Love a good big hand.
00:57:28Even though everything's great
00:57:30between Joshua and I,
00:57:31I do have some worries about him.
00:57:35I held back some information
00:57:36with my parents about Joshua
00:57:38because they have enough on their plate.
00:57:39I don't want to worry them.
00:57:41So I think meeting up with my girlfriends,
00:57:43I can get a different point of view
00:57:45and perspective
00:57:45and, like, kind of dig into the worries
00:57:48that I have.
00:57:50Look what the cat's brought in!
00:57:52Hi!
00:57:54Oh, my God.
00:57:55My dress is so tight.
00:57:57I miss you.
00:58:00Blonde!
00:58:00Hi!
00:58:01Look how blonde she is.
00:58:02Oh, my God.
00:58:02Wait, come here.
00:58:03Let me give you a hug.
00:58:05You look so cute.
00:58:09Wait, are we drinking?
00:58:11Of course.
00:58:12We already had espresso martinis
00:58:13when we got here.
00:58:14That's pre-game you're getting here.
00:58:15Oh, my God.
00:58:16So, what's going on?
00:58:19I'm going to Australia.
00:58:23I'm doing it.
00:58:24I'm going.
00:58:25I can't believe you're
00:58:25I mean, listen, it's like
00:58:27the Miami men suck, we know.
00:58:29Yeah.
00:58:30And Josh is kind.
00:58:32He's super sweet.
00:58:32He's someone I typically wouldn't go for.
00:58:35Okay.
00:58:36He's not a typical Miami guy.
00:58:39Elise is one of the funniest, kindest people I know.
00:58:43And I also feel like she is a hopeless romantic.
00:58:46Elise gives these guys her whole heart,
00:58:49and she gets nothing in return for it.
00:58:53So, when Elise told us she was going to meet some guy in Australia,
00:58:57I gently thought, what the F?
00:58:59I thought, you're insane and you're crazy.
00:59:02Yeah.
00:59:04So, when you get there, are you guys staying in the same room?
00:59:07Is he getting you your own room?
00:59:08Yeah, hold on.
00:59:09Where are you staying?
00:59:10Okay, so, I asked him when I got my plane ticket
00:59:13to send me his apartment and, like, video it.
00:59:16Yeah.
00:59:16Okay.
00:59:17Every single day, I was asking him for him to send me the video.
00:59:20And then he admitted to me that he lives with his parents.
00:59:24No!
00:59:26So, I don't think he has much money.
00:59:29I was like, so, Joshua, like, I'm going to come
00:59:32and I'm going to live with your parents?
00:59:35He's like, no, I will get a rental and split it with a roommate
00:59:39because he can't afford a rental by himself.
00:59:42Okay.
00:59:44We...
00:59:47Listen, the money situation's not the big thing.
00:59:50I can work with a guy that doesn't have money.
00:59:52But here's the thing about Josh.
00:59:56He makes me feel special and he makes me feel important.
00:59:59I'm much rather a guy with not that much money
01:00:02that gives me emotional love than a guy that just spends.
01:00:06I've had every single man spend everything on me
01:00:09with no emotional love.
01:00:12I think it's a good thing that he is more caring, more kind,
01:00:16because she's looking for something different.
01:00:18She's looking for a genuine connection.
01:00:21But no girl and man at 39 should be living with no roommate.
01:00:25That's crazy.
01:00:26Or with the parents.
01:00:27I mean, living with his parents, it was crazy.
01:00:29We sound like another Miami pack of girls,
01:00:32but, like, finances are important.
01:00:33They provide safety.
01:00:34They provide stability.
01:00:35Food on the table.
01:00:36You have a house.
01:00:37You, like, the bills are being paid.
01:00:39Exactly.
01:00:40I am concerned as your friend, like, I'm wearing red.
01:00:45Like, I feel the red flags everywhere.
01:00:47Right.
01:00:48But every single time I talk to him on the phone,
01:00:50I get off feeling so energized and so cared about and so giddy.
01:00:56I am going to Australia because I truly believe that he could be my future husband.
01:01:02But Joshua sent me a text last night that was super alarming,
01:01:07and it kind of threw me off.
01:01:10I'm almost embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
01:01:12And if I tell my girlfriends about this,
01:01:15they would probably tell me not to go,
01:01:18and that's the last thing I want.
01:01:20I'm hoping to get down there and figure this all out
01:01:23because I want this so badly to work out.
01:01:34I was wondering if you wanted to take a gondola ride with me.
01:01:37Oh, really?
01:01:37I guess right here would be it.
01:01:40Oh, ciao.
01:01:41Oh.
01:01:44Oh, thank you.
01:01:46Oh, wow.
01:01:49Oh, my gosh.
01:01:53Here we go, baby.
01:01:55I wonder how much chlorine that takes.
01:02:05This is so beautiful, honey.
01:02:07Yeah.
01:02:08I miss being in my night outfit.
01:02:10Really?
01:02:10Yeah.
01:02:11I know what you're thinking, huh?
01:02:14Always.
01:02:15You're thinking of fun, sexy stuff.
01:02:17No, you're the one doing that, not me.
01:02:19No, it sounds like you're the one thinking about that.
01:02:21No, you're the one doing that thing.
01:02:22I think I know some of your secrets are coming out.
01:02:25No, I know.
01:02:25I'm not.
01:02:26Oh, my God.
01:02:28I know some of my friends are coming out.
01:02:28Today, spending time alone with Sheena, it's been great to just spend time together and finally
01:02:36get to talk to each other and really put everything out.
01:02:41i hope with my love and support sheena will come to understand that she doesn't need to lie
01:02:47anymore she can move forward and tell me stuff from now on instead of just leaving me in the dark
01:02:57that's a nice place to visit i wish i knew some italian songs so i could sing them to you
01:03:09come on jean give me a
01:03:22yeah i love it i love you machine i love baby beer
01:03:34that's so sweet you're so sweet you taste like toothpaste
01:03:43it's been one heck of a curvy road being here in the philippines ever since i got here
01:03:48but one thing that's been consistent the entire time is how i feel with sheena one-on-one
01:03:54okay guys grab me
01:03:58thank you thank you when you take away all the distractions and everybody else's opinions
01:04:04what's left is a love that i've never ever felt before so that's so much fun it feels great to
01:04:14finally have someone who accepts my quirks and oddities 100 and that's what i love about her
01:04:24look at the beautiful flowers oh that's cool there's a lot of busteria
01:04:32wow this place is so beautiful i love it
01:04:36oh actually it's like fast next time but it's okay
01:04:40so baby yes there's some things i kind of want to talk to you about
01:04:47well over the last seven years i've been wanting to come here and be with you and get to
01:04:55you know see you and i know that we've had some ups and downs since i've gotten here but i
01:05:02think it's
01:05:02only going to make us stronger because you are my one special person there's a glimmer in your brown
01:05:14okay yeah but sheena thank you for being in my life let's continue to be in each other's lives from
01:05:24now on so here we are two kindred songs if you would do me the honor oh my god will
01:05:33you please marry me
01:05:35these are the moments that make up our lives oh my god all of the memories and all the first
01:05:44ah i love you baby i love you baby yes i do
01:05:53give me your finger is it right this is the right thing and six years now i had this ring
01:06:02thank you my love it's so beautiful
01:06:08i i want i wanted to be with you for the rest of my life thank you my love
01:06:35thank you for staying with me all this time i'm sorry i didn't come sooner
01:06:47i've never felt super happy in my life and this is the best day of life ever
01:06:55i can't even think straight you know to think that i finally got the woman of my dreams after seven
01:07:00years just keep following your dreams everybody and you will get what what you need you'll get there
01:07:11i love you i love you i'm super happy and super satisfied with how everything went
01:07:25any nerves about telling your family for us sort of yeah but i'm gonna tell my mom that it's the
01:07:33right
01:07:33time it's the right time and i've been waiting for this long yeah and we've been waiting for this the
01:07:38entire time and it was our decision welcome to the tunnel of love that's amazing you know what
01:07:46something funny about this tunnel of love why it may be hot outside but after we entered here i think
01:07:52it
01:07:52got a little hotter
01:07:56so funny huh i love you my love i love you machine
01:08:03are you sure you are going to take good care of him yes my king
01:08:08i don't think so you don't think so no no no no no why are you laughing do you see
01:08:15me laugh
01:08:17i get to go and sit down i didn't spend that so now i'm worried because if the king would
01:08:25hold his blessing i don't know what i would do
01:08:35okay
01:08:37okay
01:08:43lisa yes proceed forward
01:08:54it's a miracle
01:09:06Uh-huh.
01:09:13Are you sure you are going to take good care of him?
01:09:19Yes, my king.
01:09:21Are you sure?
01:09:22Yes.
01:09:24I don't think so.
01:09:27You don't think so?
01:09:28No, no, no, no.
01:09:30Why are you laughing?
01:09:34Do you see me laugh?
01:09:37Do you know my king?
01:09:44I get to go and sit down.
01:09:50I just spent that laughing in the presence of a king.
01:09:55It means that you think the king is talking trash, telling lies.
01:10:00He's very disrespectful to the king and to his palace.
01:10:04So now I'm worried, because if the king would show his blessing, I don't know what I would do.
01:10:12Who are you laughing at?
01:10:14You are laughing at me?
01:10:18No, my king.
01:10:20I'm laughing because I'm nervous.
01:10:22I have a nervous laugh.
01:10:26You have a nervous laugh?
01:10:30I'd either laugh or cry.
01:10:32Your husband did not tell you.
01:10:37Um, may you leave my change?
01:10:42She's the wife I want to marry.
01:10:45And she has been nervous.
01:10:49She has been trying to know most of our tradition.
01:10:53She's trying her best.
01:10:57Good.
01:11:00Say that.
01:11:09Come, my daughter.
01:11:13Don't laugh again.
01:11:14Come, my daughter.
01:11:15Uh-huh.
01:11:20You don't laugh before a traditional majesty like me.
01:11:25Huh?
01:11:26Unless I laugh.
01:11:31Oh, yeah, laugh, laugh.
01:11:36Laugh, laugh, laugh.
01:11:37Yeah, yeah, I tell you to laugh, nah.
01:11:42Come, my brother.
01:11:44Come and hold your wife.
01:11:48So,
01:11:50our ancestors accept you.
01:11:55It shall be well with you people.
01:11:59God will bless you people.
01:12:01God will make this union to be fruitful.
01:12:04God will give you people happy home.
01:12:07I bless you in a marriage.
01:12:09I say it shall be well with you people in a case.
01:12:13Now.
01:12:15I say this union will work well.
01:12:23Enjoy your wife.
01:12:25Wife, enjoy your husband.
01:12:30I wasn't sure I was going to get the blessing.
01:12:32I was on pins and needles.
01:12:34But when the king says we are blessed,
01:12:38it's a relief.
01:12:40Lisa,
01:12:42you are now one of us.
01:12:44My final thoughts,
01:12:46which is very, very, very important thing.
01:12:51I want to see how our waifu dance.
01:12:54Dance anyhow, you know how to dance.
01:12:57You must dance with me.
01:13:03I made it.
01:13:04There's nothing more ultimate than a blessing from the king
01:13:07so that we can get married.
01:13:11But at this moment,
01:13:13I'm still married to a woman.
01:13:17And he doesn't know.
01:13:20I've held on to these secrets so long.
01:13:23It's weighing on me heavily.
01:13:25I have to tell him soon.
01:13:26And I'm hoping that he can understand
01:13:29and accept me for who I am
01:13:31and what my past is.
01:13:34I'm hoping we live happily ever after.
01:13:36I want this so bad.
01:13:38Our waifu's gotten done very well.
01:13:47Siyad, are you going to talk to me now?
01:13:49You just waste your time.
01:13:51Siyad, you're an asshole.
01:13:53You want to act like you're perfect.
01:13:54You want to put on this whole front
01:13:56like you're this great guy,
01:13:57but you're a liar.
01:13:58Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:14:02We play, guys.
01:14:04It's the end.
01:14:15I can't, I can't.
01:14:46I'm really upset right now.
01:14:48I thought we'd at least be able to, like,
01:14:51talk about what happened.
01:14:55And I didn't think he was going to break up with me.
01:15:01I just feel like he took any excuse
01:15:03and any reason to just end all of this
01:15:05and walk away.
01:15:06And I think he was just waiting
01:15:08for a reason to walk away.
01:15:12What are you thinking about right now?
01:15:15With me, I'm not someone to be in a game.
01:15:21I want just to go.
01:15:23That's all.
01:15:30I'm so mad because she lied for everything.
01:15:34So maybe tomorrow she's going to tell me another story.
01:15:37So I can't give her another chance.
01:15:41I make a lot of my energy to be with her,
01:15:45but I feel betrayed.
01:15:50All what I want right now
01:15:51is to leave everything about her
01:15:53and forget her name, too.
01:16:16Where is he going?
01:16:20Are you going to talk to me now?
01:16:23You just waste your time.
01:16:25I'm waiting for someone to pick me
01:16:27to go home, so...
01:16:29So you're not staying here tonight?
01:16:31No.
01:16:34You're just going to walk out
01:16:35and leave me here by myself?
01:16:37You can't enjoy it with the view.
01:16:41So what about the two weeks that I'm here?
01:16:44You can't wait now to call the gay,
01:16:46and you can come.
01:16:49Zid, you're an asshole.
01:16:51And you're a liar.
01:16:53How about that?
01:16:53How about you're a liar?
01:16:54Do you want to tell everyone how we had sex?
01:16:56Do you want to tell them that?
01:16:59You want to act like you're perfect.
01:17:01You want to put on this whole front
01:17:02like you're this great guy,
01:17:04but you're a liar.
01:17:05Okay, say anything you want.
01:17:07Okay, so did that not happen?
01:17:09Did we not have sex?
01:17:10Did we not have sex?
01:17:13Did we not have sex?
01:17:14You can't say anything you want.
01:17:15Because we did.
01:17:16It's okay.
01:17:17For me, it's the end.
01:17:27Goodbye, guys.
01:17:28Go.
01:17:40Like, when I didn't even do anything.
01:17:42Like, that was before we were in a relationship,
01:17:44and he's done so much to me
01:17:46since I've been his girlfriend.
01:17:48And I, like, accepted it because I loved him.
01:17:51Yeah.
01:17:56I just feel like I wasted my time again,
01:17:59and I did all of this to try to be with someone,
01:18:02and, like, I get broken up with again.
01:18:09And now I'm single and alone,
01:18:11and he gets to just go home.
01:18:15Yeah, he left me in the desert
01:18:16in the middle of nowhere.
01:18:31I just don't understand.
01:18:32Like, it's, like, I try so hard
01:18:36to, like, find love
01:18:39and to, like, make it work,
01:18:41and it just never, it never happens for me.
01:18:44Like, it never does.
01:18:47And it's, like, that's the only thing I want.
01:18:53Like, all I want is to find love
01:18:55and, like, get married,
01:18:57and it just never, it never happens for me.
01:19:00This is a delicious stuff for me.
01:19:02Oh, yes.
01:19:03Oh, yes.
01:19:11Oh.
01:19:28As you said,
01:19:32I have a feeling that my mom's didn't have a lot of questions for us.
01:19:37It just felt right to kind of propose to Sheena.
01:19:43You guys happy?
01:19:45Oh, yeah, I'm ecstatic.
01:19:49What the f***, Forrest?
01:20:02What you do to me, I could write a book on screen.
01:20:08Ripples run around your head, back to where you started.
01:20:19You crazy.
01:20:20Get in there.
01:20:22Go.
01:20:29Oh, yeah, I'm the happiest bear ever.
01:20:31Yeah, I'm the happiest bear.
01:20:32We're bears in love.
01:20:34Yeah, for life.
01:20:35For life.
01:20:40I just proposed to Sheena, and she said yes.
01:20:43So now we're heading back to tell Mom and Dev my world is just amazing.
01:20:52Just filled with so much light and so much happiness.
01:20:56No, I can't even.
01:20:57I felt like I don't want to sleep after everything would happen.
01:21:00You're not going to sleep tonight, huh?
01:21:02No, I'm just feeling happy.
01:21:03I hope I get some sleep tonight.
01:21:04Yeah.
01:21:05I'm going to be sitting there, and you're going to attack me.
01:21:08Oh, no, I'm not going to attack you.
01:21:13Sheena and I have been talking for a while about when would be the perfect time to have sex.
01:21:18And now, knowing that we are going to be committed to each other 100%,
01:21:22we're both afraid to let out that sexual tension, and maybe even get a little bit freaky.
01:21:29Don't worry.
01:21:30I told you.
01:21:30I'm going to get you some dog chains, some dog collar, and some dog balls you want.
01:21:36Well, you are a vet, and I know that you're well supplied.
01:21:39Don't worry.
01:21:40This is free when I'm the vet around.
01:21:43You can borrow that from the community.
01:21:44Oh, my gosh.
01:21:46I'm happy you said yes.
01:21:48Of course.
01:21:49Yeah.
01:21:50One in a million yes to the most wonderful bearded I ever had in my life.
01:21:55I feel a lot of weight off my shoulders.
01:21:57Me too.
01:21:59But I have a feeling that my mom's going to have a lot of questions for us.
01:22:06But I'm ready to take the jump with you.
01:22:10Even if she has doubts, I'm pretty sure my mom's going to be happy for us.
01:22:16At least I'm hoping she's going to be.
01:22:21I just got a text from my mom.
01:22:23She's down by the pool.
01:22:24Okay, my love.
01:22:25Let's go.
01:22:26Okay.
01:22:31Baby, just breathe.
01:22:32Yes.
01:22:33Everything's going to be at peace.
01:22:36Hey, guys.
01:22:38Hey, Mom.
01:22:40Did you have fun?
01:22:42Oh, yeah.
01:22:44We went to the Gondola Mall.
01:22:46We got there.
01:22:46Oh, really?
01:22:47Yeah.
01:22:47We walked around.
01:22:49Did you ride the little boat thingy-mabobber?
01:22:51No, of course we did.
01:22:52Oh, how nice.
01:22:53Yeah, I figured.
01:22:54Yeah, we got there, and it was fun.
01:22:56That was pretty cool.
01:22:58All right.
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59Then we just walked around.
01:23:01We looked at a few stores, and then we came to a little point with tons of nice little
01:23:08flowers and lights and just a whole lot of people.
01:23:12And it just felt, you know, like the right place to, you know, kind of propose to Sheena.
01:23:25Hmm.
01:23:27And she said yes.
01:23:40You guys happy?
01:23:46Oh, yeah.
01:23:46I'm ecstatic, Forrest.
01:23:51I asked you to hold off and wait so she could prove herself.
01:23:55And then you just go walk up and pull this little sneak...
01:23:59If you are not going to be willing to listen, what the am I doing sitting over here in this
01:24:07country then, Forrest?
01:24:11I think you're just being a stubborn ass, and you just don't want to accept our happiness.
01:24:17Excuse me?
01:24:21Well...
01:24:21Don't be shaking your head and agreeing when you weren't there and in part of the process.
01:24:24I agree, because this is why we talk as couples.
01:24:26We work...
01:24:27We talk about this.
01:24:30And this is our decision.
01:24:31Don't answer for him if you weren't in his head and you weren't there at the time when he decided
01:24:36to do it.
01:24:40Do you think maybe it would have been nice if he would have included us?
01:24:44Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
01:24:48Mmm.
01:24:50Oh, jeez, Forrest.
01:24:52Your life.
01:24:53It's over.
01:24:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:25:02Give me one free shot.
01:25:06Trish is very hard to read.
01:25:08I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
01:25:12If the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
01:25:16So, pick the good one.
01:25:18Oh, no, no, no.
01:25:20Hey, hey, hey, referee.
01:25:21All right.
01:25:23Go, go, go.
01:25:25Senior Australian, coming for you!
01:25:29I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend after talking for six months.
01:25:33Elise is beautiful.
01:25:34But at the same time, she's very fiery.
01:25:37I'm nervous.
01:25:38Very nervous.
01:25:39How do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
01:25:42Do you think American girls are more jealous?
01:25:44I don't know.
01:25:45If she has a problem, then definitely do not.
01:25:49The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
01:25:51And do we know if this is still going on currently?
01:25:57Are we actually calling?
01:25:59Oh, you're going to...
01:26:01Get your questions ready.
01:26:05Why didn't you make her prove herself before you proposed?
01:26:09When she starts to lie, it's because she has traumatic experiences.
01:26:15Everybody's got stress in their life.
01:26:17And then to say, I'm under stress, so I'm going to lie.
01:26:20And you're going to accept her?
01:26:22Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying?
01:26:25Of course, you're more bull**** than a Christmas goose.
01:26:29I really want to tell you something.
01:26:33Um, I've been married five times.
01:26:37Five times?
01:26:38And I filled out the divorce papers.
01:26:41But I am still married.
01:26:45I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:26:48Someone...
01:26:48I'm sorry.
01:26:49I came here to tell you the truth.
01:26:52To tell you everything.
01:26:53I want to go home, please.
01:26:56She called me a liar.
01:26:58She called me a scammer.
01:26:59What?
01:27:00She's the real scammer.
01:27:01She's the real scammer.
01:27:03She's the real scammer.
01:27:03She's the real scammer.
01:27:03She's the real scammer.
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