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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 01: The Art of the Love Bomb
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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17In your head, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?
00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40You're just a little girl together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The men.
00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Oh!
00:01:17Sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santana Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife.
00:01:45I want the house.
00:01:46I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:53Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be serious.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way and it turns out that we're just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15It's just who you are.
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?
00:02:20No, I am just here.
00:02:21Go, say about him and ask you about it.
00:02:24But don't talk to me hostile because I don't know you can't do it like that.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing great relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me.
00:02:33I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame.
00:02:54Everybody knows my name.
00:02:57Hola.
00:02:58Hola, hola.
00:02:59¿Es posible un fina colada?
00:03:00Sí, claro.
00:03:01Gracias.
00:03:1321.
00:03:42I'm Sophie.
00:03:43I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Jers!
00:03:56Oh!
00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's
00:04:00trip.
00:04:01I've never traveled.
00:04:02So this is like, you're going to have to like take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks and just have a good time and not stress and just actually
00:04:10have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:42Me too.
00:04:44How old?
00:04:46How old?
00:04:4693 is fine.
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:4894.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old and I'm from San Diego, California, but I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship, but I'm single and it feels really good to be
00:05:09single for once.
00:05:12Sophia, I know you like a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, yeah.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just like hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:42I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, Sophie, the single, not you.
00:05:57I'm Julia.
00:05:57I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective.
00:06:06But he have a reason because we have a secret.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:21So let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:25After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard for me
00:06:37to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:48Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I miss you.
00:06:49Six years ago when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:11Let's explore.
00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women ten f***ing times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.
00:07:27We're just not good together.
00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it.
00:07:32I don't know.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something scary about getting
00:07:44back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob, but it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you, and we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall.
00:08:11He works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy, and I was like, okay,
00:08:37like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantel.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based on other
00:08:56people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want,
00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it.
00:09:10And I was like, oh.
00:09:12So what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace.
00:09:17And that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:20Oh, my God.
00:09:21I know.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic.
00:09:25And I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers,
00:09:29like, once.
00:09:30It's, like, every week I get new flowers at my door.
00:09:32Then he leaves, like, this little, like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34Do you see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hanged out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday.
00:09:46And I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now, so it kind of made perfect sense to
00:09:50just combine the two.
00:09:52It's going to be the most amount of time you're spending with her.
00:09:54Yeah.
00:09:55But also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately, because I only met him, like, a
00:09:59couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:02He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:03Like, my end goal is a relationship again.
00:10:05But right now, I also want to be single, and I want to make sure I know what I want
00:10:08this time.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro.
00:10:13But at the same time, I've been through hell with my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck,
00:10:18obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time.
00:10:23I've been giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which should be fun.
00:10:27All of them have fun.
00:10:28I can't wait.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends.
00:10:31Friends.
00:10:31Yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him.
00:10:38But I feel like he's catching very strong feelings very early on.
00:10:42And I really just want to make sure that I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just
00:10:48really not ready for yet.
00:10:50So, let's have fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:54What happened to the Dominican Republic?
00:10:56Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:18Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:23They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Yeah!
00:11:33I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh, I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars hide.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:20And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes.
00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:49Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:52You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I use a gun?
00:13:00I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Do you?
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:10So you got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:20Try to.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, oh, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, Henry!
00:13:32No!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months, but it is hard as to find a good man
00:13:40in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay, we're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.
00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was
00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Who are you, Molly?
00:14:18Who are you?
00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you remind me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days were over, but
00:14:44I loved Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby.
00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this day.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:01No.
00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know.
00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:28We did.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So, how do you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:46Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:50Yes.
00:15:51Wore the little uniform, wore the little beret.
00:15:53I jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55I mean, that's very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:03So, where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, two.
00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:24You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29Do you don't mind me asking?
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Javier.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:47And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:59Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide, and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:12I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay.
00:17:15Got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out of here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So I'm not going to see Javier again, but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:23Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:26Bye-bye.
00:17:33Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take him to his bins.
00:17:48You do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:50Oh.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05Do you have a ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two for one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:24Take one.
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:33And maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:38I just feel like I still need-
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and like really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to say what I have to say, you know, or discuss what I've done.
00:19:08Love you.
00:19:09Love you too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Gotcha.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will-
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:23All righty, see you later.
00:19:25I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh my God, like, she looks fine.
00:19:53Like, the hair, the eyes, the lips, the f***, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in
00:20:18such a disaster?
00:20:29Stop down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:33Two counts right here.
00:20:36Let's go.
00:20:41Come on, Gino.
00:20:43You got this.
00:20:56All right.
00:20:57Last ten seconds before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Camp Michigan.
00:21:04Come on.
00:21:04Let it all go.
00:21:06Nice job.
00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:12Oh my God, it's here.
00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:18I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies,
00:21:25baby.
00:21:26Woo!
00:21:27Would you mind taking a couple selfies for me?
00:21:31Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:34Sure.
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I
00:21:43am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the
00:21:52last, well, last four years anyway.
00:22:03I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to
00:22:13meet her.
00:22:13We're still in here for today.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25because there were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:28You trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:32That's your choice.
00:22:33You guys.
00:22:36I'm going to kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn, the president.
00:22:39Stop.
00:22:40Stop it, liar.
00:22:43I can't.
00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down
00:22:56the street two months after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:05And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby, and that's what we're going to do.
00:23:12Well, good.
00:23:15I thought she loved me.
00:23:19I thought she wanted to have a child with me.
00:23:26She's such a liar.
00:23:33She's such a liar.
00:23:36I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet, and now I just want to look forward
00:23:42to living my best life.
00:23:57Today, I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:04Keep it easy, keep it easy, keep it easy, keep it easy, keep it easy.
00:24:16Hi there.
00:24:17I'm Melissa.
00:24:18Gino.
00:24:19Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:20Is this your first event?
00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.
00:24:22So, let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:26Okay, sounds good.
00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good
00:24:3730 years.
00:24:39Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:44Before the internet, I used classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary because I didn't really know what they look like.
00:24:52In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do, and I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:25:00So, this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:04I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:13You feel so small, and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So, I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:25Let's go.
00:25:26Let's go.
00:25:28Let's go.
00:25:30Let's go.
00:25:31Let's go.
00:25:31Let's go.
00:25:31Can we get Gino up here?
00:25:33Let's go.
00:25:34My bat?
00:25:35Gino, you're on.
00:25:36Go.
00:25:36Go.
00:25:37Gino.
00:25:38Gino.
00:25:40Gino.
00:25:40Gino.
00:25:42Gino.
00:25:44Gino.
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58I'm Erin.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:00Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:05Awesome.
00:26:05Oh, nice job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me
00:26:09because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them,
00:26:14I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like,
00:26:20oh my god, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:22It's 70% women.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I think I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:32So tell us, what brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36Yeah.
00:26:37Well, I mean, I'm single now.
00:26:39When did you get divorced?
00:26:41When I get divorced?
00:26:43Well, I'm not divorced yet, OK?
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still
00:26:55technically married.
00:26:57What if they're not done?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try
00:27:03to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:05I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:12What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random guy
00:27:21at the gym and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24What?
00:27:24And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me, not telling them
00:27:38about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in
00:28:16such a disaster?
00:28:42Pedros va, baby.
00:28:46Mala, mala, mala, mala, mala.
00:28:49Muy mala, you bad honey, got mad money.
00:28:52You bad honey, mala.
00:28:54Muy mala.
00:28:56You okay, baby?
00:28:57You okay?
00:28:59What's up, bro?
00:29:00How are you?
00:29:01You so cool, bro?
00:29:03My name is Pedro, I'm 33 years old.
00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic,
00:29:07but right now I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:09Trae la van, si, ya estamos aquí.
00:29:11Si.
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel,
00:29:14I've been keeping a love profile.
00:29:15I need a time to myself.
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:21Eso, papá.
00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me,
00:29:25and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.
00:29:28Bam.
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.
00:29:30That's the same.
00:29:31That's the same.
00:29:32What are we going to do with the van?
00:29:34We're going to grab the van,
00:29:35put it really nice.
00:29:36Sofie.
00:29:37Are you always willing to give it all for a woman?
00:29:40I'm a romantic guy.
00:29:42I put in my best effort.
00:29:45Yeah.
00:29:45And this, okay?
00:29:46Si, claro.
00:29:47I'm so excited.
00:29:49I'm very happy.
00:29:50Because Sofie arrived in the yard with her friends,
00:29:52and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.
00:29:55I really want to impress Sofie when she is in my own country.
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.
00:30:01They're going to drive Sofie and her friends around the yard.
00:30:05Pedro, how do you like that woman?
00:30:08No, I don't like that, Dad.
00:30:10I love it.
00:30:11Listen.
00:30:13The first time I see Sofie online, you know, I say,
00:30:16oh my God, like, she looks fine.
00:30:19Like, she has everything that I was looking for.
00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lip, the , the ass, the leg.
00:30:26And she got, you know, the ways.
00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, going to be down,
00:30:31you know, like a guitar kind of style, you know?
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:44I have a strong feeling for Sofie,
00:30:46and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:48She has very calm heart.
00:30:50She has the full package.
00:30:52It's time to restart your life again.
00:30:54Yes.
00:30:55And I hope that the errors that you can commit
00:30:57will not be repeated.
00:30:58No.
00:30:59All the errors that have happened were errors.
00:31:01You understand?
00:31:02Now I've learned my errors.
00:31:03When I met him, I was like,
00:31:04Chantelle, I told him my life was set for forever.
00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain.
00:31:14Ah!
00:31:15Thank you!
00:31:16Ah!
00:31:17Baby!
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard
00:31:24and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:26Hello, some of my lady.
00:31:28Mwah!
00:31:29Mwah!
00:31:31But Chantelle's family caused so much drama.
00:31:33They went freaking crazy.
00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:31:36What'd you say, ?
00:31:36I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect,
00:31:39and nobody else.
00:31:41Hey!
00:31:42Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:45Chantelle never stand up for me with her family.
00:31:48That's dropping a wedge between us
00:31:51to the point our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:55I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:09Put more time, more effort,
00:32:13listen more, be more flexible, you know.
00:32:15And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:20Hey!
00:32:21Papa, ya tu sabes?
00:32:22Okay.
00:32:23Dale pa' ya be a con la mujer.
00:32:24Dale su avecito.
00:32:26No, vemo allá.
00:32:27Woo, oh, oh, oh, oh.
00:32:31You're feeling good tonight.
00:32:33You're going to be great.
00:32:35It's a big night.
00:32:38OK.
00:32:39All was good.
00:32:40Look, now let's go down.
00:32:44Let's go, little Bobby.
00:32:47It's been a long time.
00:32:49I never thought that this is gonna be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm 30 years old,
00:32:54not a kid, it made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We are three, nice and clean, what you never know.
00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.
00:33:06I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.
00:33:09Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:33:13If not, we try again.
00:33:17I go and show Sophie, her time, her life, in the yard,
00:33:20and I hope, at the end of the street,
00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay, yeah, now, we're ready.
00:33:31What the is, Pitcher Prince?
00:33:33We are gonna have some of San Diego's finest
00:33:36lead men and lead women pitching their wonderful single friend.
00:33:40Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart, and she loves Cass.
00:33:52Who's that beauty, who's that beast?
00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.
00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:59Who's she?
00:34:01I'ma submit, that's me.
00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate, I'm willing and able to make my own bread
00:34:10and eat it all alone.
00:34:12Hi.
00:34:13How was everything?
00:34:14It was great, thank you so much.
00:34:16Everything's good.
00:34:16I'm gonna go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Have a great day, okay?
00:34:19Thank you so much, see you.
00:34:20Bye.
00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor
00:34:24in a hotel casino.
00:34:27Ooh, it's closing time.
00:34:29I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized,
00:34:34and I think I get that from my military training,
00:34:36because you have to be organized when you're in the military.
00:34:40Are you almost done?
00:34:41We gotta go.
00:34:42It's girls' night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just gotta clean up this stuff
00:34:45and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:47Lily's my closest work friend,
00:34:48and I love the fact that, like,
00:34:49I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while,
00:34:55so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are gonna meet some of our other friends,
00:35:00and we're just gonna have a little ladies' night.
00:35:03I really wasn't a part of the planning,
00:35:04but I'm just down for whatever.
00:35:06At this point.
00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight,
00:35:08you're gonna try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14How'd that go?
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not gonna just settle
00:35:30for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42Yeah, you're gonna need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:48And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:52Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does
00:36:02deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's gonna try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:08She's a beautiful person.
00:36:09So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.
00:36:14All right, let's go.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:16Pretty girls around the world, they waking up, they serving up, you couldn't catch this one if you tried.
00:36:21Oh, we serve, we serve spicy.
00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.
00:36:25Come on, right up here.
00:36:27What is this?
00:36:29Let's see why we get inside.
00:36:34Let's see why we have a friend.
00:36:37We love you.
00:36:40Bye.
00:36:41We love you.
00:36:42Bye, girlie.
00:36:43Bye.
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:44What are we doing?
00:36:44Sit down.
00:36:45What the **** is it?
00:36:46Pitch a friend.
00:36:47Just chill out.
00:36:48What is this?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:05I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:06She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12Ladies and gentlemen, you can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome.
00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:21All right.
00:37:21So we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wing men
00:37:25and wing women on this very stage,
00:37:27pitching their wonderful single friends
00:37:30with a PowerPoint presentation
00:37:32so that you know who is available
00:37:34and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:41All right.
00:37:41You guys got me on this one.
00:37:42You got me.
00:37:43You got me.
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes,
00:38:02bullet points about different things that we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right.
00:38:09Let's get started and pitch some friends.
00:38:11Starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:16So I am introducing my friend, Alex.
00:38:20He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, he's 42.
00:38:24He's 6-1.
00:38:25And he went across to 45.
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29Too young.
00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34I would go.
00:38:34You have a strong line.
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:38Okay.
00:38:39Boundaries.
00:38:41Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:48Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Yes.
00:38:51Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever in 19's age.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:06We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:09Woo!
00:39:10Woo!
00:39:11Woo!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old
00:39:19ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:22Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:26Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?
00:39:38She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no, you cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00They're sleeping.
00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true, but, you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly!
00:40:16Raise your hand!
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 45.
00:40:22Damn it!
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly!
00:40:33Um, hey, my dad lives in New York.
00:40:37Have you dated a man that lives far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions.
00:40:59But this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle Bitchin' Mama!
00:41:08Okay, so where are we going?
00:41:09Do you want to meet?
00:41:10I don't like you.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:11Are you?
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh!
00:41:21Yep, I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:26Okay.
00:41:28I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:31Oh!
00:41:32Wait, wait.
00:41:34So, like, a booty call?
00:41:36A booty call, yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:48I like to have orgasms.
00:41:50Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello?
00:41:53Come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:59I'm going to them.
00:42:00Oh-ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:02Okay!
00:42:16This is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five.
00:42:18How can you beat that?
00:42:20I mean, I am budget-conscious.
00:42:22And some girls will hate it and say,
00:42:23why are you being so cheap?
00:42:25Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,
00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:31And I'm just over, floating through the motion.
00:42:35The sky's so wide and open.
00:42:37It might turn the girl away.
00:42:42Hi.
00:42:42Excuse me.
00:42:43Do you, uh, know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48Like, hamburger?
00:42:49Yeah.
00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left.
00:42:51All the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:59And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan.
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04You know?
00:43:04But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:09I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12A little ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right.
00:43:15Yeah.
00:43:15But thanks a lot.
00:43:16Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure.
00:43:18Enjoy your meat.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge.
00:43:35I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:38Hmm.
00:43:38I think this will work.
00:43:42Take that, Jeff.
00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball, but maybe not the best situation, like, to
00:43:56find a date.
00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone if I know this person is already interested in
00:44:19me.
00:44:20Check this out.
00:44:22I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man.
00:44:28I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer
00:44:35while I'm drawing.
00:44:38That's what it says.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately, and I love it.
00:44:46I freaking love it.
00:44:50Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post, and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:03Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago.
00:45:06When Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13Thank you. So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable, too.
00:45:17Look at your smile. It's so cute.
00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.
00:45:23I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:32Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch your mouth.
00:45:38Don't touch her.
00:45:39Don't touch her.
00:45:40Don't touch her.
00:45:41No, no.
00:45:42Listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year.
00:45:49And then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the happily ever after tell-all.
00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:58Yeah, I responded to her.
00:45:59But I added some emojis to it.
00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.
00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.
00:46:09Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:12I still like Natalie a lot.
00:46:15So I asked her if I could visit her next week.
00:46:18And she said yes.
00:46:20You know, this is soft.
00:46:22I mean, exactly how I like my women.
00:46:25Soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie.
00:46:38Like with actions, not just words.
00:46:39I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now that I could post on my Instagram.
00:46:47That big ass cucumber.
00:46:52Hello?
00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:58Candle in the car.
00:46:59The van alone, cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:06Ah!
00:47:06Pedro, he have a ring in his hands.
00:47:16They call me fuego.
00:47:17They call me fire.
00:47:18They call me all that you desire.
00:47:21They call me fuego.
00:47:22They call me fire.
00:47:23They call me all that you desire.
00:47:25They call me fuego.
00:47:28This is my first night in the VR, and I am going out with Sophie and Juliam, and we are
00:47:35actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends, so I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:56It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine, and it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls' trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited.
00:48:13I want to get dressed up.
00:48:13I want to go out.
00:48:14I want to meet people.
00:48:15I want to mingle.
00:48:16I want to flirt, and I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship, and looking back, I've never
00:48:24picked the right guy, and I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:31I think you're amazing, and I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face, but...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Hi, go f*** yourself.
00:48:50Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz, you are out at the toll, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the f*** up.
00:48:56You don't give a f***, Ed.
00:48:58But despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed and always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:11But then Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:15You're going to be the best version of yourself, and it's not going to be with me.
00:49:19But rest assured, I'm always going to be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past.
00:49:28We're going to move forward.
00:49:30Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:41And then the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he
00:49:46didn't.
00:49:46He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55And I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:07and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch me being sick.
00:50:24Being sick took a huge toll on me.
00:50:28But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.
00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life.
00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls' Night.
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:51:01You, my soul!
00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really?
00:51:07Yeah.
00:51:08Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR, and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh, my gosh.
00:51:19Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:33Oh, my gosh.
00:51:35Oh, my goodness.
00:51:37Oh, my goodness.
00:51:38Oh, my goodness.
00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:40I'm sorry.
00:51:41That is, like, candle in the car.
00:51:45Candle in the car.
00:51:46Candle in the car.
00:51:47Candle in the car.
00:51:47The van alone?
00:51:49Cute.
00:51:50But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed, and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00It's nice.
00:52:00Candle in the car.
00:52:01Okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:11It's cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:13Okay, I'm back.
00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?
00:52:19Pedro put this in more sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there, too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:33This translator.
00:52:33Yeah.
00:52:35Do you want to kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in, he'll probably go, psst.
00:52:39Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know?
00:52:40So it's like, I'm going to hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:57Dain some mosh.
00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:53:04Cause I'll be watching you while the DJ plays your song.
00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:11I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:14Maybe you could show me.
00:53:16Cause I've been with you so long.
00:53:22Ah!
00:53:23Is it Pedro?
00:53:24Where is he?
00:53:24You have a ring in his hand.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27You have a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30You have a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:31You have a giant megaphone.
00:53:35You pop that small.
00:53:39Wow!
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:43Thank you. How are you?
00:53:44How are you? How are you?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How about the fly?
00:53:47As long as okay.
00:53:50She looked, like, stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58He looked like a brother.
00:53:59She looked like a...
00:54:01He looked like a side hug.
00:54:03Like...
00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.
00:54:09Bam!
00:54:12Introduce me to you.
00:54:13Oh, yeah, that's Liz.
00:54:15Oh, it's you!
00:54:18How's it going? How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going? How's it going?
00:54:21That was the first time I met Julia.
00:54:22And then she held me with so much sight, like, God damn it.
00:54:25Like, Sophie, come on.
00:54:27Get Julia's energy, please.
00:54:29I'm ready to be here. Nice to meet you.
00:54:31Nice to meet you. Liz.
00:54:33Okay, ladies.
00:54:34Uh, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.
00:54:38Enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:42How you doing?
00:54:43Very good, how are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:46Is it this way?
00:54:46Yeah.
00:54:56Good, good, good.
00:54:57That's for you.
00:54:58Good, good.
00:54:58Um, guys, let me introduce you.
00:55:02That's my friend Villas.
00:55:04Dolly?
00:55:05Yes.
00:55:05is Raphael okay she's Sophie Julia and Liz nice to meet you question how was the band was good
00:55:17yeah good job guys they helped me I can tell Pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet
00:55:27me which it's nice but it feels like I'm like walking in to like a job interview or like I'm
00:55:34supposed to give a speech or something because they were just sat there like this at me okay
00:55:45I already feel like there's expectation of me and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's girlfriend
00:55:52it's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:58let's just go pee okay we're just gonna go to the bottom real quick okay go to the bottom
00:56:02you know where the bottom at we'll find it huh we'll find it
00:56:13that's that energy bro I don't know what's like I don't know I don't know I don't know
00:56:21what's very awkward as a side of the surface here but right now it's it's feel cold indifference
00:56:29weird you know like awkward Sophie entirely different person that met before
00:56:40sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:46even though I'm in my 50s I still have urges I still have needs
00:57:06I have plans to hook up right now
00:57:21wait wait wait so like a booty call a booty call yeah so a booty call is when you're not
00:57:30in a
00:57:30relationship and you just meet up with one of your little friends and you know you have some drinky
00:57:36drinks and then do the deed and then you just go home even though I'm in my 50s I still
00:57:42have urges
00:57:43I still have needs and it like gets the needs met you know what it's a step in the right
00:57:49direction
00:57:50why not I'm meeting up with Benjamin or as everybody calls him B he's a really good friend
00:57:56of mine and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman once Usman and I broke up
00:58:02and he knew it
00:58:03he just slid right in the dms and we've been banging it out ever since
00:58:10it's it's tricky with me and B because the connection is there like you can feel it you know
00:58:15but he's just a friend with benefits like I I just don't feel like we're at that point to make
00:58:20it a
00:58:20relationship when B and I tried to date like five six years ago we were doing pretty good we have
00:58:27a lot
00:58:27of things in common and then about six months and B hit me up with he wanted to be like
00:58:32in a
00:58:32thropple he wanted me to have sex with the woman and I was just like are you high no I'm
00:58:39not doing
00:58:40that he was very free-spirited back then and Kim was not sexually B is he's good he's great with
00:58:46me and his thing so there you go you had that with Usman though it was the same thing you
00:58:52had
00:58:52the connection but there was all these other red flags that's how I feel and I don't want the red
00:58:56flag
00:58:57being a woman of a certain age that we all are it is refreshing for me to see her having
00:59:09a little bit
00:59:10of a whole phase you know what I'm all for that are you for that yeah I think she I
00:59:15mean get it out
00:59:16of her system for a little bit until she finds the right one friends with benefits and whatever they
00:59:20have is is a good connection I'm down for it yeah but we wanted her to find somebody that is
00:59:29truly
00:59:29special and truly right that she can fall in love with and that loves her true he ain't the one
00:59:36no for
00:59:36tonight he is the one B and I have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels
00:59:49because he has roommates and with my house I never know if Jamal's gonna show up or not
00:59:59at first it was a little inconvenient but I have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot
01:00:03nice hotel sex
01:00:21oh no I know yeah come on in oh this is nice B I know right so much nicer than
01:00:31those old hotels we used to get
01:00:32oh man back in the day look at us now you look beautiful as usual I try my name is
01:00:41Benjamin but
01:00:42everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee I always be buzzing around and you never know where
01:00:49I'll land at this is a good bit this is nice look at the big bit the reason why me
01:00:56and Kim keep coming back to
01:00:57each other it's definitely because of the friendship that we have together she's somebody I'd definitely
01:01:02like I rock with so I went to this like dating event thing you know what I'm saying yeah see
01:01:09this is why
01:01:10I love you because we can talk about this stuff right right of course of course so it was Lauren
01:01:14Jody and my friend Lily right and they pitched me so it was called pitch a friend it was a
01:01:20slideshow
01:01:20presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures yeah of me and then like my likes and
01:01:26dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was very touching but it just was not my thing
01:01:31sometimes
01:01:32I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch a friend thing because I want
01:01:37to
01:01:37see what he's going to say like don't do that let me try to be your man B and I
01:01:42are good together and I
01:01:43know he sees it and I was kind of hoping that with age that B would like you know calm
01:01:47it down a little
01:01:48bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship we've known each other
01:01:53forever yeah I miss you so much I miss you too like we're cool like we're friends with benefits now
01:01:58and I love that but like I'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else it could be
01:02:04we've always talked about it you know and the only way we're gonna find that out is with more time
01:02:09we should plan like once every two weeks when we can
01:02:17so you haven't even been to my house yet
01:02:18no but I'm so crazy I'm coming
01:02:27yeah okay I am tired and I just want to go take a shower is that okay
01:02:31yeah of course okay I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower
01:02:35so I'm just I'm just baby baby please baby baby baby baby please
01:02:41what can't can you show me like what that what my dad yes that might feel like
01:02:46yes let's go let me see let me see let me see
01:02:50I have good him I love B to death and I would love to be in a relationship with him
01:02:55and I'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down
01:02:59so I mean where do we go from here oh all right I'm gonna go take a shower
01:03:05I don't want to be shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old
01:03:10I just want more for myself so if he doesn't step up soon I mean this whole relationship
01:03:15is gonna have an expiration date I'm not gonna keep waiting
01:03:22traveling today to see Natalie again god aren't these sexy I mean holy cow
01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance and more importantly I hope I don't mess it up
01:03:51why are you packing up shampoo
01:03:54well I gotta wash the hair right the little hair that I have the patch of hair on my back
01:03:58of my head
01:03:58I shampoo it I condition it I take very good care of it that's the only hair I got
01:04:04left on my head
01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie you know so I um bought a couple of new shirts hopefully she'll
01:04:24like
01:04:24them I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie they're colorful that's for sure
01:04:33definitely colorful I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at
01:04:39this time I'm going to travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there god aren't these sexy
01:04:47I mean holy cow that's some sexy ass underwear right here a lot of our talks through text and
01:04:54such has been a lot of small talk to be honest and hasn't been very deep so I really really
01:05:01don't know
01:05:02how Natalie feels about me but I don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have
01:05:09any feelings for me I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not packing any because the little
01:05:18blue pills I need for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch then I need something
01:05:25to pump me up but Natalie is a different story because just her personality and attitude the way she
01:05:32is I'm gonna get it up man all right I think we got it time to board I'll see you
01:05:53soon Natalie I've
01:05:55been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years so trying to put myself out there again
01:06:01it's not easy but there's not many times that you can get a second chance and especially with a
01:06:13woman that's high quality like Natalie is good morning good morning how are you doing great doing
01:06:28great my first time in Washington DC I'm excited excited I hope you enjoy your stay thank you I'm so
01:06:34excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today on top of her having a great personality and caring
01:06:41and
01:06:41fun and kind she is a hot sexy passionate Latina let me tell you see what fire man she's on
01:06:49fire baby
01:06:53oh is this it yeah this is it thank you I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office
01:07:00the plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment how are you feeling well
01:07:19I'm super
01:07:21excited to see her and hang out with her and but I have some nervousness it's a little nerve-wracking
01:07:37I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance but more importantly I hope I don't mess it up
01:07:55hey
01:07:59what was your name again via via it's nice to meet you oh you don't do the kiss thing
01:08:05no there you go there you go via is very good looking and he smells expensive
01:08:14honestly if I never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad
01:08:17any hookahs with him I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants
01:08:24what the we doing here
01:08:36how do you feel right now I don't know why his energy just gives me like I just feel like
01:08:42in his head we're in a relationship like if you ask him I feel like he's like yeah that's my
01:08:46girl
01:08:55they take a long time in the restaurant what they're doing
01:08:59nobody tell you can have fun just have fun I feel like he won't let me have fun now like
01:09:06now he's
01:09:07gonna feel like she's in my country she's meeting my friends like I feel like maybe it's giving off the
01:09:12wrong vibe usually loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you will be good
01:09:18let's just hear it goes it'll be a good night yeah you know what tell me meet my man
01:09:25kitty's thirsty
01:09:28me the girls just arrived at the club to meet pedro and his friends and it's a very overwhelming
01:09:33environment sorry uh you can sit down um uh you can see over here Sophie
01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van and now I just feel like he's thinking this is my
01:09:44girlfriend she's meeting all my friends and it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before
01:09:49which that's what I loved before it was so easy going and this feels a little bit a little bit
01:09:54pressure
01:09:55Lisa I'm going to listen to my friend Villa
01:09:58what is your name again?
01:09:59Villa
01:09:59Villa?
01:10:00yeah it's nice to meet you
01:10:00oh you don't do the kiss thing?
01:10:02no I don't think that's what we're doing
01:10:04you just can't get in there
01:10:04no there you go there you go
01:10:08Villa is very good looking he's very well groomed like his hair cut some point and he smells really good
01:10:17he smells expensive chairs thank you for inviting us all
01:10:22okay ladies let's go
01:10:24arriba
01:10:26arriba
01:10:27arriba
01:10:28abajo
01:10:28pa'l centro
01:10:30pa'l dentro
01:10:33pa'l dentro
01:10:35that's it
01:10:35bachata bj
01:10:37you dance?
01:10:38yes
01:10:39that's what our videos look like
01:10:40one
01:10:41five
01:10:41two
01:10:46there you got it
01:10:53as we're dancing I can tell we're both very attracted to each other
01:10:56get close get close get close to me
01:10:59no get close to me no worry
01:11:01he just smells really good he dresses well and he's just hot
01:11:06but even though I'm attracted to him I don't want to like be all over him the first night
01:11:10and lead him on because I still don't really know what I want yet
01:11:13hey hey hey
01:11:15so you've never danced bachata before?
01:11:17I was trying to sign up for bachata lessons while I'm out here
01:11:19well it's so easy
01:11:20I can teach you that
01:11:21okay
01:11:24we can start here right?
01:11:27so it's one, two, three
01:11:29oh you do know
01:11:31no
01:11:33one, two
01:11:34one, two
01:11:35one, two
01:11:36one, two
01:11:37and bam, bam, bam, bam, bam
01:11:39boom
01:11:43you lied to me
01:11:44you said she didn't know
01:11:46she said she was going to take classes
01:11:47I said I wanted to do a lesson
01:11:49no
01:11:53let's go over here better
01:11:56everyone just left
01:11:57that's okay
01:12:00they needed that alone time
01:12:01yeah
01:12:02you look beautiful
01:12:03you look gorgeous
01:12:04thank you
01:12:05thank you
01:12:05I'm super happy that you're here
01:12:07oh yeah
01:12:08that you take the invitation to come in here
01:12:10to spend a little time with me
01:12:11I know
01:12:12you're going to have the best time
01:12:15I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast
01:12:18because I'm in the DR
01:12:21wow, that's a lot
01:12:23you don't need classes
01:12:25no class?
01:12:26no
01:12:26no
01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend
01:12:28yeah look
01:12:29yeah
01:12:32so are you from here or are you from
01:12:33I was born in Atlanta
01:12:36when's your birthday?
01:12:39September?
01:12:40I'm May, baby
01:12:41I'm a Gemini
01:12:42you're a Gemini?
01:12:43yeah
01:12:44what is your size?
01:12:45I'm a Libra
01:12:46okay
01:12:46I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced
01:12:49which is
01:12:51is this your only tattoo?
01:12:53oh
01:12:53yeah
01:12:53wow
01:12:54it's a whole sleeve
01:12:55it's a Libra
01:12:56so a woman with the blindfold and the scale
01:13:01what's this?
01:13:02oh it's my son's name
01:13:03I have a kid
01:13:08Riley Leanne
01:13:09you have a kid?
01:13:10yeah
01:13:10really?
01:13:11she's gonna be 12
01:13:12you have a 12 year old?
01:13:14yeah
01:13:14my baby means everything to me
01:13:16same
01:13:16yeah
01:13:17same
01:13:17he is my
01:13:18reason for everything
01:13:21definitely
01:13:22oh
01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via
01:13:26there'll be 8 in July
01:13:27he's sweet
01:13:28he loves his kid
01:13:30he's making eye contact with me
01:13:32we're having great conversation
01:13:35I think we need a drink to that
01:13:36I think we need a shot
01:13:37come on
01:13:39is your friend a hoe?
01:13:41he is?
01:13:42ah
01:13:43he is a hoe
01:13:44it's okay
01:13:45Liz is in her single era
01:13:47so this is her time to just like
01:13:49live her life a little bit
01:13:50same with me
01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship
01:13:53you're separated right now
01:13:54are you still married?
01:13:56are you divorced?
01:13:58how
01:13:58how
01:13:58how that goes?
01:14:01like
01:14:01I'm still technically married
01:14:02but I'm like
01:14:03starting the process of divorce
01:14:05but we still
01:14:07like
01:14:09just now
01:14:11so it's very new
01:14:13it never really felt like it was the end
01:14:15because he would still call me
01:14:17he still called you?
01:14:18he called me two days ago
01:14:19four in the morning
01:14:19for what?
01:14:21it was an unknown number
01:14:22because I have me blocked
01:14:22and he was like
01:14:23why do you have me blocked?
01:14:25I'm like
01:14:25we're getting divorced
01:14:28why
01:14:29why are you so upset with you?
01:14:30like why are you not going to move on?
01:14:31honestly
01:14:32if I never wanted to get divorced
01:14:33like he would still be mad
01:14:35I thought that Sophie
01:14:36and her husband
01:14:37divorced
01:14:38was more fight alone
01:14:40because
01:14:41she tell me
01:14:42he was
01:14:42the worst husband
01:14:44that he
01:14:44he made her like
01:14:45miserable
01:14:46all the time
01:14:47if that guy
01:14:48threw you that bad
01:14:49why you get the phone calls
01:14:51and answer the phone?
01:14:53any hook-ups with him?
01:14:59any hook-ups with him?
01:15:01yeah
01:15:03we like hooked up after a few months
01:15:05because as much as that guy was horrible to me
01:15:07I still had love for him
01:15:09when he was being nice to me
01:15:11I forgot about all the bad memories
01:15:13and so we slept together
01:15:16they made hook-ups
01:15:18they made hook-ups
01:15:18and she never told me
01:15:19they did hook-ups before
01:15:21I am speechless
01:15:23it's hard when you love someone
01:15:24I can't just be like
01:15:25I
01:15:25you, bye, you know?
01:15:28look
01:15:28if you wanna be with Rob
01:15:29okay, be with Rob
01:15:30or be with
01:15:31everybody you want to be
01:15:33but
01:15:33I don't wanna be
01:15:34collateral damage
01:15:35for somebody
01:15:36they don't know what it wants
01:15:37what the
01:15:38we doing here?
01:15:42I wish I would've just handled
01:15:44this whole situation better
01:15:46you know
01:15:47but now I have to just
01:15:48I wish you did too
01:15:49I've been carrying a really big secret
01:15:51for about 30 years
01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad
01:15:54I don't know
01:15:54I don't know what else
01:15:55I up, you know?
01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with Bea
01:16:13even at 55 I'm still doing the walk of shame
01:16:25come on let me give you some treats
01:16:29hey my baby
01:16:33last night was pretty amazing
01:16:36Bea's really good in bed
01:16:37I have to say
01:16:39and usually after a night like that
01:16:40I'm feeling all zen
01:16:41and woosah
01:16:42and you know, calm
01:16:43but
01:16:44right now I'm feeling a little anxious
01:16:46and nervous
01:16:46because Jamal's coming over
01:16:48so good to be out of those clothes
01:16:50my god
01:16:51he thinks he's coming over here
01:16:53to help me build a dresser
01:16:54but really
01:16:55I have some things I need to talk to him about
01:17:04ding dong
01:17:04hey
01:17:05what's up?
01:17:07good
01:17:08how are you?
01:17:09I'm good
01:17:09I'm good
01:17:11so this is a dresser
01:17:12I want to put in my guest room
01:17:13see
01:17:14is it big?
01:17:15it's
01:17:15look at the picture
01:17:17oh
01:17:17okay, here we go
01:17:18so they go A and C E
01:17:20it goes like this
01:17:22yeah, this is E, see?
01:17:25this is so fun
01:17:27so I went out for girls night last night
01:17:29with Laura, Jody, and Lily
01:17:31you know my friend from work, Lily
01:17:32so we went to Maverick's
01:17:34and they had this event called Pitch Me
01:17:36oh no way
01:17:36yeah, so they did like a presentation of like
01:17:39what I'm looking for in a guy
01:17:40and all the guys were like 12, Jamal
01:17:42they weren't even like grown, you know?
01:17:44well I feel like your last couple guys have been younger
01:17:48so
01:17:49I don't know
01:17:49my last one guy
01:17:51was younger
01:17:53so
01:17:53well B's not really
01:17:54B's 44
01:17:55so
01:17:56I mean he's, you know
01:17:57what's his real name?
01:17:58Benjamin
01:17:58oh
01:17:59yeah, B sounds better
01:18:00yeah, but
01:18:01so then he texts me
01:18:03and I went over to a hotel with him last night
01:18:08sure you don't want to know about that?
01:18:09yeah, I don't need to hear that
01:18:13things have been tense between me and Jamal lately
01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long
01:18:19that when I told him it just devastated him
01:18:24as long as we're not talking about these things
01:18:26Jamal and I are fine
01:18:27but it's like everything's hidden under this carpet
01:18:30and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then
01:18:32and talk about it
01:18:33but Jamal will just hang up on me
01:18:35he won't answer a text
01:18:36he'll walk out the house
01:18:38it's been very uncomfortable
01:18:42you know, Larry's coming out here
01:18:46why is he coming out here?
01:18:48just to see like
01:18:49you know, where I grew up at
01:18:50and
01:18:51you know, get a little more of my family history
01:18:55I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better
01:18:59you know, but now I have to just
01:19:00I wish you did too
01:19:04you hid him for so long
01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:19:16I did what I thought
01:19:18what I thought was right
01:19:18yeah, but why'd you hide him for so long?
01:19:25just give me a second
01:19:29Jamal is not my only child
01:19:33this is really hard for me
01:19:35this is really hard for me
01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married
01:19:44we were together for seven and a half years
01:19:47we were in the military together
01:19:49and he was just cheating all the time
01:19:52it was just like
01:19:54every day there was like a different girl
01:19:58when I got pregnant with my first son Larry
01:20:00first thing his dad said was abort it
01:20:04and I just couldn't do that
01:20:06when I was only 21 years old
01:20:08I couldn't imagine being a single mom
01:20:09I was not mentally ready
01:20:11I was starting my military career
01:20:12I was just not ready
01:20:14so I decided to put my son up for adoption
01:20:17and I never told Jamal until last year
01:20:19when Larry found us through an Ancestry website
01:20:23I don't think you ever would have told me
01:20:25I would have told you
01:20:26I don't think so
01:20:27and that's a huge thing for me
01:20:28is like
01:20:31I don't think you ever would have told me
01:20:35because like there was no reason to not tell me
01:20:37I just didn't know how to say it
01:20:39you know?
01:20:40and it's always been like me and you
01:20:41me and you, me and you
01:20:42and I finally got our relationship
01:20:44to where like I've always wanted it to be, right?
01:20:48so it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret
01:20:51I felt like in my head
01:20:52I was just like
01:20:53trying to protect myself
01:20:55and then trying to protect you too
01:20:57because I just didn't
01:20:58very protecting me
01:20:58I don't know
01:20:59I just didn't know how to handle it
01:21:00I didn't
01:21:02that's
01:21:02that is the complete truth
01:21:03I did not know how to handle this
01:21:05at all
01:21:05at all
01:21:09last year
01:21:09I found out
01:21:11I had an older brother
01:21:13full blood
01:21:14mom and dad
01:21:15and my first thought
01:21:16was that she was lying
01:21:18it was a joke or something
01:21:20because
01:21:22why would you hide this for so long
01:21:24when we're so close
01:21:25and then when I found out it was true
01:21:27I was just really pissed off
01:21:28I have this whole other family
01:21:30and you knew about it
01:21:32and I'm like
01:21:33how could my own mom like
01:21:36look me in my eyes
01:21:37when she knows I have a whole
01:21:38brother
01:21:41dude
01:21:43that's just not something I'm like
01:21:46even thought about forgiving yet
01:21:47because I just
01:21:48I just don't know who would do that
01:21:49so I'm like
01:21:51damn
01:21:58I don't know I feel like your mom's
01:21:59the person you're supposed to trust
01:22:00like only
01:22:01like if you can't trust anyone else
01:22:03you can trust her
01:22:04but now it's like
01:22:05wow I can't trust anyone in the world anymore
01:22:09oh I'm like shaking
01:22:14it's like hard for me to look at you
01:22:15when we even talk about this whole thing
01:22:17you do make a lot of excuses
01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad
01:22:22I don't know
01:22:23I don't know what else
01:22:23I up you know
01:22:26like I don't know
01:22:26I don't know what else to say to fix it
01:22:30I know keeping Larry from Jamal
01:22:32was not the right thing to do
01:22:34it ended up just hurting him worse
01:22:37Jamal had every right to know
01:22:39that he had a brother out there
01:22:40and now all I'm trying to do
01:22:42is just repair what I up
01:22:45last year Jamal and I went to North Carolina
01:22:48to meet Larry his wife and his son
01:22:52meeting Larry for the first time was like crazy
01:22:55because I'm looking at him I'm like
01:22:57okay this is my blood
01:22:58this is my son
01:22:59and he has my face
01:23:01he looks just like me
01:23:02but he's a total stranger to me
01:23:05and technically I'm a grandma
01:23:09it's a surreal feeling
01:23:12but I'm so relieved
01:23:14because he was such a good man
01:23:17and I don't know how he would have turned out
01:23:19if I would have kept him you know
01:23:20it makes me feel certain
01:23:22that I did the right thing
01:23:25since then Jamal and I
01:23:27I had been talking with Larry
01:23:28and I invited him to San Diego
01:23:30so I could get to know him more
01:23:32and he could see where I'm from
01:23:36what do you think you even want to do with Larry
01:23:38once he comes out here like what's next
01:23:39you think you're going to have like a deep talk with him
01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him
01:23:43about what?
01:23:48about the other one
01:24:04how do you think he's going to react?
01:24:06I think he's going to be pissed
01:24:08he's going to be really upset with me
01:24:10hey by the way
01:24:12you have a sister like the
01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption
01:24:21I also had a daughter
01:24:31this season on The Single Life
01:24:37this is the kind of life that I want
01:24:39where I can have fun with my partner
01:24:43you're getting me all hot
01:24:44oh yeah?
01:24:46this is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for
01:24:49nice to meet you
01:24:51I'll never see you again
01:24:53I was helping him upload something on social media
01:24:56and it shows me all the women he's been messaging
01:24:59something's fishy about this
01:25:01Courtney's worried that I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one day
01:25:04are you still living that way dude?
01:25:06be honest with me
01:25:07well um
01:25:10how are you?
01:25:12a wreck
01:25:12I'm like shaking
01:25:14I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me
01:25:18here sit
01:25:18but I want to tell him now and I'm really scared
01:25:22what if he just turns around and leaves?
01:25:24what if he never speaks to me again?
01:25:26hard to tell
01:25:30do you mind if I have a dance?
01:25:32it's my girl
01:25:33are you serious?
01:25:35I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else
01:25:38I just don't see how that's respectful the guy that you're with
01:25:41so you're stopping me from being who I am
01:25:43you don't see a problem here at all
01:25:45what is the freaking problem?
01:25:46I think the problem is actually us
01:25:48I'm done with this
01:25:51yesterday I was talking police and she made me feel
01:25:53maybe I do have another guy in my mind
01:25:55why does she tell you that?
01:25:57I don't want Sophie to play games with me
01:26:00I'm not interested in this
01:26:02hell no
01:26:03not with me
01:26:05everything I told you
01:26:06he knows
01:26:08you've never had my back
01:26:11that's breaking girl code
01:26:12like you don't do that
01:26:14go the homeless
01:26:16adios
01:26:17you
01:26:18you
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