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00:00:00Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:00:02Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05It's so embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:00:06This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:10For the past 21 years, I have been with women only.
00:00:13But Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:17I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago,
00:00:21I told him I had a fling with a woman.
00:00:24And he was disgusted.
00:00:28He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:30I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:34Don't make jokes.
00:00:36He doesn't love you. That's not what love is.
00:00:38He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:41There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face.
00:00:44But if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:00:48then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:53We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check
00:00:57until we get married.
00:00:59But that's just not what you said.
00:01:00A couple weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women.
00:01:05And it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:10Now seeing how he's acting in person,
00:01:13it's making me question things.
00:01:19Oh, my goodness.
00:01:22Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
00:01:25And I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:29But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:39Apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed
00:01:44before we can proceed.
00:01:54I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor
00:01:56because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:02:01I'm going to see his face and it's just going to flow out of me,
00:02:03drip down my legs.
00:02:04And what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:14I am nervous and I am excited and I'm scared to death
00:02:19because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:23What if he hides?
00:02:24What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:26I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:28I don't know if he's going to be like,
00:02:30wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:36Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria to go see Daniel for the first time.
00:02:40And I'm feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:47My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns
00:02:50at dinner the other night that Daniel could be scamming me
00:02:53and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:55But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face
00:02:58and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:03:02I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:06These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:09They're brand new.
00:03:10I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:15I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:18My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:22It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:25Wearing a wig, it's a process and it's not fun.
00:03:30It sticks to your hair, it sticks to your skin,
00:03:33you have rashes, you have all kinds of sores.
00:03:36It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria,
00:03:39but it makes him so happy.
00:03:42I want to look beautiful for Daniel.
00:03:45So I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:47I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:51So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:56I'm pretty nervous.
00:04:00Not sure how it's going to go.
00:04:03She's horrible with directions.
00:04:06I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:09and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:13But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:18Hi, Faith.
00:04:19I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:22Oh, wonderful.
00:04:24Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:26That's the first thing I want.
00:04:28I know.
00:04:29All right, listen.
00:04:30Here's something really important.
00:04:32The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:34Yeah.
00:04:35So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:38That has to be done.
00:04:40Like immediately.
00:04:41Yes.
00:04:41Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:44is on the 29th.
00:04:46So that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:49I want to come clean and tell him that not only I was still
00:04:54married, but the divorce is there.
00:04:55And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:04:58If I'm just, Mom, you not only lied about the fact that,
00:05:03oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:05No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:09But you also told him, you're not married.
00:05:14Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:05:19Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:27He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me.
00:05:31And I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:33Because in my heart, I have been free to marry because my ex-wife and I have been separated
00:05:37for over nine years.
00:05:38We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:44If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:47I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:49Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:52I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:05:56He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:06:01Just trust me.
00:06:03I'm just worried.
00:06:04Don't worry.
00:06:05Don't worry.
00:06:06I got this.
00:06:07Let's get going.
00:06:08We need to get to the airport.
00:06:10It is getting late.
00:06:11And we don't have a flight going.
00:06:13I do have a flight.
00:06:15I struggle trusting my mom that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:21Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody before you're ready.
00:06:26I need to grab my phone.
00:06:28That's the last thing I need.
00:06:33So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in that area, would you keep your hands
00:06:37to faith?
00:06:37Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:44I want to say no.
00:06:48But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:06:53Jump with both feet in.
00:06:57I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:07:00I want to be with him.
00:07:02I want to be a part of him.
00:07:04I want to be his wife.
00:07:07So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:09I really don't know.
00:07:12Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:14Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:15Woo, here we go.
00:07:26Here we go.
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:32What?
00:07:34Oh, 61.
00:07:35I got three.
00:07:37Oh, you done good.
00:07:39Oh, 70.
00:07:42I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:45I was married to a soldier.
00:07:48He lived up the street.
00:07:51My husband and I met in junior college.
00:07:53We loved to skate.
00:07:55So our first date was going skating.
00:07:58The first date, we went to a fair.
00:08:01And I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:10I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:13That was just, that was it.
00:08:17He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:23And here it is.
00:08:29I'm done waiting.
00:08:31No more.
00:08:33Hensitating.
00:08:35There ain't nothing more to once more.
00:08:39You got to feel it.
00:08:41You got to believe it.
00:08:44There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:48B.
00:08:49Or what?
00:08:50Good afternoon.
00:08:53Lemonade.
00:08:54Oh, boy.
00:08:55My name is Javon.
00:08:57I'm 38 years old.
00:08:58And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:09:02Who's winning?
00:09:03Who has a bingo?
00:09:05I've got several bingos.
00:09:06Oh, nice.
00:09:08I work at a nursing home.
00:09:10And I like my job.
00:09:14You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:19They have no filters.
00:09:20And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:22What did you bring us today?
00:09:23We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:28Ooh, look at all that cheese.
00:09:31But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:33Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:35I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:39American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:46I call them the three-sixes.
00:09:48And it's not me.
00:09:53That's good.
00:09:56We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:09:58Oh, yeah.
00:10:00It's a trip way overdue.
00:10:01I'm going to see my wife.
00:10:04When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:07Uh, actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:15So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:19Oh, okay.
00:10:22Really?
00:10:23Yeah.
00:10:25Aw.
00:10:26My wife is Anna Lynn.
00:10:28She's 38 years old.
00:10:29And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:33Hey, boo.
00:10:34It's your wife.
00:10:34I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:37Must be something in the middle.
00:10:40Yeah, man, must be something.
00:10:42We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:45And we've been married for about two years.
00:10:50He said that?
00:10:52No, that's wrong.
00:10:54We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:10:57And we have been married for almost three years.
00:11:00Okay?
00:11:03Hello, boo-boo.
00:11:04I love you, and I appreciate you.
00:11:07Mwah!
00:11:08Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:13Yummers.
00:11:19Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:22we would talk for hours every day,
00:11:24and he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:30Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:34I wanted to meet Annalyn in person.
00:11:36But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:41There were flight restrictions.
00:11:42I was kind of feeling hopeless, and I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:11:49And then I was scrolling on social media,
00:11:52and I saw these couples getting married online.
00:11:56And I thought if we were married legally, he would be able to enter the Philippine border,
00:12:02because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:08When Annalyn first brought up online marriages, I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:18I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox, but I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:26When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:29you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:30It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:32When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:12:36All right.
00:12:37Place the rings on your fingers as a symbol of the love that you share
00:12:41and the commitment that you're making.
00:12:44How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:12:48Absolutely not.
00:12:49But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:12:52It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:13:02I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:04I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:08How could you be married for years and never go to the Philippines
00:13:13to see your wife?
00:13:15The whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:17So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:19So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:23Over the years, me and Annalyn have tried to meet up several times.
00:13:28But work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:31And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:36Especially because Annalyn has changed.
00:13:41When I first met Anna, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:13:45She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:13:49I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:13:52I've always been feisty.
00:13:54He knows that.
00:13:57And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:13:59I don't like being told what to do.
00:14:01I don't like being controlled.
00:14:04After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard.
00:14:09Lately, it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:14:13I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:15But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Annalyn to the US,
00:14:21we need to spend physical time with one another to make sure I made the right choice.
00:14:27I'm going out there because I love her.
00:14:30I'm going to give it everything I got.
00:14:32But I'm worried that our problems are maybe a little bit too big to resolve.
00:14:37And if we can't, I don't know how this marriage is going to work.
00:14:46You're so excited, huh?
00:14:47Oh, yeah.
00:14:48Oh, yeah.
00:14:50You're so handsome, always.
00:14:51I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:14:53I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:14:58I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off.
00:15:00But I'm kind of still nervous about what this marriage is going to be.
00:15:07I don't like that we were fighting yesterday.
00:15:09But there's something else I wanted to like talk to you about
00:15:12that like I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:14What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:20Hell.
00:15:28Oh, God.
00:15:31Oh, God.
00:16:00I want to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma
00:16:05was horrible.
00:16:07I want to be her husband, but we need some time to know each other.
00:16:12I hope things are better today.
00:16:19I pictured my first morning here a lot differently.
00:16:21Like I thought I'd be waking up next to him and he would be like bringing me coffee in
00:16:25the morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:27And that's not how it went at all.
00:16:30We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:35Zia's behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not to
00:16:40just be in my head and overthink things.
00:16:43I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:16:49I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:16:58Zia's behavior last night.
00:17:01Zia, I'm lost.
00:17:02Zia.
00:17:03I'll take it.
00:17:06Oh.
00:17:07Hi.
00:17:14Good morning.
00:17:15Good morning.
00:17:16How's your night?
00:17:17This is nice.
00:17:19Really?
00:17:19Yeah.
00:17:21That's it.
00:17:22This is your place.
00:17:23I hope you will like it.
00:17:24Thanks, babe.
00:17:37She's adorable.
00:17:40My favorite.
00:17:43I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it.
00:17:47Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:17:51I mean, it wasn't really, like, a good start to my trip.
00:17:56I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:17:58Yeah.
00:17:59That's not how I expected, like, my first night to go.
00:18:03Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:06Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:08I love the tea here.
00:18:10Okay.
00:18:11Um, but yeah, so I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:14I don't hear you.
00:18:16I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:18Can you repeat I don't hear what you say?
00:18:20I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:21For what?
00:18:24For running away from your kiss.
00:18:27And?
00:18:29Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:18:34I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got, like, really dramatic, but I think it was just a long day
00:18:38for me because I was traveling for, like, 20 hours.
00:18:41I know it's difficult.
00:18:43And it was just, like, a lot going on.
00:18:44There was, like, a lot in my mind.
00:18:47And actually, there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't
00:18:51tell you yet.
00:19:02What?
00:19:02What is this?
00:19:03What's happening?
00:19:07I was just, like, upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:12Like, I've been there for five years.
00:19:14And.
00:19:14Yeah.
00:19:16Well, I got fired.
00:19:22Really?
00:19:24I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry.
00:19:26No, no, you don't need this.
00:19:29Listen, listen.
00:19:32I just need a minute.
00:19:35Emma.
00:19:42Sorry.
00:19:44No, no.
00:19:44Don't cry.
00:19:47It's, uh...
00:19:48I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:19:50It's just a walk.
00:19:52It's a hazard.
00:19:54And you don't need to cry for it.
00:19:57So just enjoy your moments.
00:19:59No, don't cry.
00:20:00Don't cry.
00:20:00Okay.
00:20:01Don't cry.
00:20:02Okay.
00:20:09I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:11I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:14It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:16But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:18Yeah.
00:20:19You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:22Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:26We are together and everything will be good.
00:20:35I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:20:39It was like a tornado.
00:20:42But right now, he is showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:20:46I love you, babe.
00:20:47Yeah, he is.
00:20:47I love you, Ma.
00:20:49But what's mean, tornado?
00:20:51Like an earthquake.
00:20:53Like a natural disaster.
00:20:54So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:20:58Yeah, yeah, that's an amazing example.
00:21:05My future hubby.
00:21:07Oh.
00:21:08Do you know what that means?
00:21:10No.
00:21:10Can you explain?
00:21:11What's mean?
00:21:12It's short for husband.
00:21:13Really?
00:21:14Yeah.
00:21:15Where's?
00:21:15Hubby.
00:21:17One feet.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:20Exactly.
00:21:21Exactly.
00:21:23Exactly.
00:21:25Exactly.
00:21:42God, I can't believe the trees, how beautiful they are.
00:21:46I gotta believe how hot it is.
00:21:48I'm probably gonna...
00:21:48I can't believe how hot it is.
00:21:50I'm gonna have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:22:06I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:13after seven years.
00:22:15Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:19I did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:22Waka waka.
00:22:24Yeah.
00:22:28Oh, this is incredible.
00:22:30Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:22:33Crazy.
00:22:34This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:22:37If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:22:43It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:22:48Oh, man.
00:22:49Glad I'm not driving.
00:22:51Yeah.
00:22:52Like, it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:22:56Look at that.
00:22:56That thing is pretty good.
00:22:58Yes, this is the jeepney.
00:22:59This is locally here in my country.
00:23:01They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II who have been left with the Americans,
00:23:05so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:08Incredible.
00:23:10You can see the big building there.
00:23:12That's the condo we're gonna say.
00:23:14I wish I could stand for a place.
00:23:18Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents
00:23:24said we had to pay for it if we did stay.
00:23:28When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their
00:23:33daughter, and I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house
00:23:38is just absurd, especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to
00:23:43afford the plane ticket to actually just meet her.
00:23:47Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:23:50It's their wishes.
00:23:50I can't really go around that, but I'm not paying them money.
00:23:58This is the place.
00:24:00All right.
00:24:00All right.
00:24:00We are here.
00:24:05Here you go, Molly.
00:24:06That's it.
00:24:07The jackpot.
00:24:08I got it.
00:24:09All right, charge.
00:24:13Sheena is an extreme foodie, and she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:19Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:22Whoa.
00:24:23I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:24:25Oh, my goodness.
00:24:26I can definitely smell him.
00:24:28Oh.
00:24:28You hear?
00:24:29Yeah, you know.
00:24:30Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:24:32Don't go for that.
00:24:33Yeah, okay.
00:24:38So, sorry, baby.
00:24:39This is all I could get for you guys.
00:24:42You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:24:45It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:24:49The place is nice.
00:24:50It's pretty.
00:24:51But it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:24:56I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:24:58It feels good.
00:25:01It's your bag, too.
00:25:02Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:25:04It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:07If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down,
00:25:10I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:16Sheena.
00:25:17What?
00:25:18This feels more than online right now.
00:25:22Oh.
00:25:22It's making me even more nervous.
00:25:26Oh, you don't have to be.
00:25:27I'm here with you.
00:25:28Oh, I know.
00:25:29I can see.
00:25:30Yeah.
00:25:30You're so excited, huh?
00:25:32Oh, yeah.
00:25:32Oh, yeah.
00:25:33Because I got some good stuff here.
00:25:36Excuse me, baby.
00:25:39Boom.
00:25:39What is that?
00:25:41This is something amazing.
00:25:43And I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:25:48Whoa.
00:25:49What?
00:25:50That's, what's that thing?
00:25:51I think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality.
00:26:01Oh, that's nice.
00:26:03I love the color.
00:26:04Oh, yeah.
00:26:05That's cool.
00:26:05I guess, guess what?
00:26:06There's even more.
00:26:08What?
00:26:08You have more?
00:26:09I have more.
00:26:11Oh, wow.
00:26:12I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:15Wow.
00:26:17To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:26:23But forest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:26:27This is another one for you.
00:26:28Oh.
00:26:29In case you want to.
00:26:31It's cool.
00:26:32It's beautiful.
00:26:33Oh, okay.
00:26:35Oh, okay.
00:26:42You're so handsome, always.
00:26:43I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:26:45Okay.
00:26:45Go for it, my love.
00:26:46Debrush.
00:26:47All right.
00:26:48Do everything, my love.
00:26:51You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to, like,
00:26:56put her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:27:01I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:06But to be honest, I'm actually kind of still nervous about what is my virginity.
00:27:13I mean, I'm not saying I can't pull her socks off, but having sex with Sheena, I feel like
00:27:21it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:27:27It's just a big deal.
00:27:29I love you.
00:27:30I love you.
00:27:30Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:32Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:27:40It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:27:45I still have flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted
00:27:53to me in person.
00:27:54Oh, my God.
00:27:55Here we go.
00:28:00We are in the process of landing, and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or BeerCon,
00:28:07but I'm excited.
00:28:19So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:28:23I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting for the first time.
00:28:29Everything has to go perfect, so I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:28:36Laura is arriving in Turkey today, and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:28:45Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:28:57Right now, I'm staying with different friends.
00:29:02Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:05That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:07But the privacy of our place is going to be nice, because we have a lot of things to discuss
00:29:15face-to-face.
00:29:28It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:29:32I'm so excited now.
00:29:34I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:29:44Oh.
00:29:48Oh, my God.
00:29:49She come early.
00:29:59It's slightly cold that I am having a heart attack, or I am excited.
00:30:04Yeah, we will see.
00:30:07I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:11I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:30:17I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months, but I still have
00:30:24flaws and imperfections, and so I am nervous that BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in
00:30:31person.
00:30:32And I think that's a cute dress.
00:30:35All right.
00:30:41The woman I love is coming, so I'm thrilled.
00:30:45My hopes are we will get engaged and go to America, live together, and get married.
00:30:53But maybe she will hate me.
00:30:56Nobody knows.
00:31:01This is it?
00:31:02I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
00:31:13Oh, my God.
00:31:14Here we go.
00:31:22What about that one, gorgeous?
00:31:25How are you?
00:31:26I'm good, aren't you?
00:31:27I'm good.
00:31:29How are you doing?
00:31:30It was so long.
00:31:32Yeah, I know.
00:31:33I am still thinking about, oh, my God, America.
00:31:36Yeah.
00:31:43Welcome again.
00:31:46I think everything is perfect right now.
00:31:49Yeah.
00:31:50That's really sweet.
00:31:51Yeah, it was.
00:31:52I know.
00:31:53I know.
00:31:54Yeah.
00:31:58So let's go this way.
00:32:00Okay.
00:32:01These bumps are a pain with suitcases.
00:32:03He looks amazing.
00:32:05Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing, which is that dark romance male main character.
00:32:12When you look at her, what do you think?
00:32:13She's perfect.
00:32:14I don't need to look at her.
00:32:16I don't need, because I feel it, you know?
00:32:18I'm complete, so we don't need to see.
00:32:21That's probably the best answer ever.
00:32:28That was, like, the best flight I've ever taken.
00:32:31Yeah.
00:32:31Seriously.
00:32:33I'm glad.
00:32:34I'm glad.
00:32:35I'm really glad.
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:51It's good to see you.
00:32:57I don't know what's happening.
00:32:59I don't know what's happening.
00:33:01It's very awkward right now.
00:33:06I really wasn't expecting that, because, you know, it was, like, great when we first met.
00:33:10He hugged me.
00:33:11He kissed me.
00:33:12And then we sit on this train, and it's, like, he doesn't know who I am.
00:33:16And I don't know who he is.
00:33:23I think we're close.
00:33:27I'm hoping that, as time moves forward, that this will turn around, and it will feel more
00:33:34like it did when we were online.
00:33:36But right now, something is off, and it's freaking me out.
00:33:48Anna called me, like, at work, talking about your brother, your brother.
00:33:53I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit.
00:33:58She was just talking about that woman.
00:34:03Uh, yeah.
00:34:05Who is the woman?
00:34:14Hey, y'all, I'm ready to roll.
00:34:16Fully loaded, y'all, I'm ready for whoa.
00:34:19Straight up out of the bunker, might jump ya.
00:34:22Zombies out here to hunt ya.
00:34:24This is nice.
00:34:27Really?
00:34:28This is screaming, I failed a pottery class.
00:34:32No, but she doesn't like how you dress, so you gotta do something else.
00:34:34Ugh.
00:34:47I think you got some good purchases.
00:34:49Ugh.
00:34:49Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt.
00:34:52It'll be fine.
00:34:54It's gonna be fine.
00:34:56I'm running some last-minute errands with my sister Ashley, because I'm flying to the
00:35:00Philippines in a couple of days to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:35:06I'm excited, and I'm super nervous, because we've been married for three years.
00:35:11But we've never been in the same room, or even the same continent, with each other.
00:35:17So, are you all packed up?
00:35:20You ready?
00:35:20Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be.
00:35:24And, you know, me and Anna's relationship, it's just been this spiraling, like, up-and-down,
00:35:30loop-de-loop, rollercoaster ride.
00:35:32But when things are good, I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship.
00:35:35I think Anna's very funny.
00:35:37Yeah.
00:35:38Like, Anna seems like she's a good time.
00:35:41She's just a lot.
00:35:45Javon marrying somebody online was actually wild to me.
00:35:49I do think they love each other, but I don't know, like, I wouldn't just call this, like,
00:35:54a normal marriage.
00:35:56This is something I've never seen or heard of before.
00:36:01You know, like, Anna actually called me.
00:36:05You spoke to her?
00:36:07Mm-hmm.
00:36:09She called me, like, at work, I'm working, I'm with customers, and she's just, you know,
00:36:15talking about your brother, your brother, I don't know what to do with him.
00:36:18Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah.
00:36:21And I was, like, can't even get her off the phone.
00:36:24Yeah.
00:36:25She was just talking about that woman.
00:36:30Uh, yeah.
00:36:35So who, who is the woman?
00:36:43So the woman is just, like, a friend of mine that I've, that I've known for a long time.
00:36:51We communicate so well, and we can stay on the phone for hours.
00:36:55I think because we're both having problems in our, you know, relationship, it's, it's,
00:37:00it's definitely more easygoing, and it's more positive.
00:37:06So, but what is it that, that Anna's so, like, threatened and bothered by her?
00:37:12Like, what, what is it?
00:37:14Because I feel like I'm missing something.
00:37:18Yeah, I mean, there used to be this, this, this, this small thing between us, but we're
00:37:25back.
00:37:25Also, that, so, so, Javon, that's not okay.
00:37:30That is no good.
00:37:31I, I know, you know, and I'm not.
00:37:33So, so that's why she's so upset then.
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:37Me and my friend, we never officially dated, but there was feelings for one another.
00:37:42We lost touch for a while, but I reached out to her because I was going through a rough
00:37:50time in my marriage, and I needed someone that knew me, that understood me.
00:37:56I wasn't trying to hide anything.
00:37:58So, I just came out and told Annalena I was talking to this other person.
00:38:04I don't think it's a big deal, but obviously she does, because she's extremely pissed off
00:38:08and upset.
00:38:12I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason to be upset, but it's just completely platonic,
00:38:18you know, and she don't have to worry about that.
00:38:22Have you tried to call her?
00:38:25I have, but, you know, she, she blocked me.
00:38:30For real?
00:38:33She gets so aggressive.
00:38:35See, this is the problem.
00:38:36Like, this is how, this is why I had to go outside of our marriage to talk to somebody else
00:38:43about our marriage, and it shouldn't be that way.
00:38:48Obviously, Annalena feels disrespected, and I do get that.
00:38:53I know that she's 1,000% unhinged, like, kind of off her rocker a little bit, but I do
00:39:00feel
00:39:00like he presses her buttons.
00:39:01Javon just needs to say sorry and try and talk to her, and if they don't know how to talk,
00:39:06then they don't need to be married.
00:39:08You're about to see your wife for the first time.
00:39:11You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight.
00:39:15I don't know what to do.
00:39:17I don't know what to do.
00:39:22I heard some interesting things from your guys' bedroom last night.
00:39:28Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
00:39:32I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:39:37Now, now you're kind of, now you're kind of being really disrespectful.
00:40:01Hello, sweetheart.
00:40:02Oh, yeah.
00:40:06Hey, guys, we're going to go down and have some coffee by the pool, so, uh, we'll be up
00:40:11in a little while.
00:40:12Talk to you in a bit.
00:40:14Later.
00:40:16Mmm.
00:40:21Staring content.
00:40:39I arrived in the Philippines yesterday, and the first night with the woman of my dream,
00:40:45Sheena, was amazing.
00:40:48Oh, man, you're strong.
00:40:49I've got to walk you down.
00:40:49Oh, yeah?
00:40:50I'm a strong beard.
00:40:51Oh, God.
00:40:56I'm going to tickle you crazy, baby.
00:41:00There's a lot of new and fun things I'm finding out, uh, being with Sheena physically.
00:41:04I found out there's a night Sheena.
00:41:07What?
00:41:07And, uh, she's kind of grabby.
00:41:09Oh, really?
00:41:10Very, very, very, uh, into being physical.
00:41:13Oh, no, I'm not.
00:41:14Night Sheena.
00:41:15Rawr, rawr, rawr.
00:41:18You know, just finally being able to hold you and be with you and kiss you, it just felt
00:41:24awesome.
00:41:26And I know that I talked of a big game last night about sex and everything like that, but
00:41:32I really believe that we should, um, wait, you know, until we know each other a bit more,
00:41:39you know, in person.
00:41:42I understand my love.
00:41:45I really feel like after seven years, me coming here to the Philippines and just having
00:41:50sex with Sheena straight up, it's not what I want to do.
00:41:54Yeah, I agree with that.
00:41:56I just want to get to know you much better.
00:41:59We all know when the time is right.
00:42:01I agree to that.
00:42:03Also, probably when my mom's not around.
00:42:05Yeah.
00:42:12We'll see you later.
00:42:14I don't need a coat.
00:42:16That's for sure.
00:42:17Ooh, nice and cool in here.
00:42:21I'm excited.
00:42:29So where exactly are we here taking us again?
00:42:32So it's a Chinatown here, Manila.
00:42:36Actually, one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole world, because Chinese people
00:42:41have been trading with the Filipinos before Spanish people arrived.
00:42:46Wow.
00:42:46Spaniards.
00:42:47So there's a lot of historical sites around and good foods.
00:42:51I'm ready to eat it all.
00:42:56So I got a little curiosity question to ask you guys.
00:43:01I heard some interesting things, you know, coming from your guys' bedroom last night, the little
00:43:09giggles.
00:43:10So, uh, did, uh, you guys, uh, do the old, uh, nookin' nookin'?
00:43:19No.
00:43:20No.
00:43:20No.
00:43:21No.
00:43:22No.
00:43:24No.
00:43:24So what, why, why didn't you guys?
00:43:29Well, just wasn't the right time or place to do that.
00:43:33Oh, ok.
00:43:35Well.
00:43:36You guys can always come and talk to us if you have questions.
00:43:40It's not an embarrassing subject to me.
00:43:43It's interesting.
00:43:44It takes practice to be good at it.
00:43:48Yeah.
00:43:51My parents are just, it's a little too much.
00:43:56It's a little bit rude and awkward for me.
00:43:58I just want to prefer, like, a privacy between us, you know?
00:44:03I respect you guys for waiting, and there's
00:44:06nothing wrong with that.
00:44:07There are other things that you can do
00:44:09if you guys didn't want to do the nookie nookie.
00:44:14There's oral sex.
00:44:16There's fondling.
00:44:18Now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, Mom.
00:44:21I get it.
00:44:21You're trying to be helpful, but you're pushing too far.
00:44:25You know, if we want to talk about sex with you,
00:44:28we'll come up and ask about it.
00:44:31OK.
00:44:33Excuse me.
00:44:37I thought it was nice that he was defending her honor.
00:44:41That's admirable.
00:44:42But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction.
00:44:46Thank you very much.
00:44:49Well, Forrest, why is this a total 180 from our normal discussions
00:44:54where you're right in there using the same language,
00:44:56the same talk, saying, yeah, I'm going to get into that, do that?
00:45:00It's drastic night and day.
00:45:02I see where this is headed.
00:45:04Oh, my God.
00:45:04I miss this place.
00:45:06She's at home.
00:45:09Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
00:45:12Let's not forget, she was lying to him for years,
00:45:15getting all of her money to her parents instead of saving
00:45:18for their future.
00:45:19And I don't know if Forrest will actually
00:45:21hold her accountable.
00:45:23But we need to get some answers.
00:45:33You don't need to talk about your past.
00:45:36I know, I know everything about your life.
00:45:39You don't know everything.
00:45:41I really want to tell the end about my last engagement
00:45:44because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:46:02Oh, look at the mirrors.
00:46:04Wait, I want to check my outfit.
00:46:07Here, hold that.
00:46:10We look cute.
00:46:13I can see you.
00:46:14Can you see yourself?
00:46:16I can see you.
00:46:28Excited to go shopping.
00:46:30It's always crowded.
00:46:32Yeah, yeah.
00:46:33This is an easy place to get lost.
00:46:35Yeah.
00:46:36Today, I want to take Emma to Old Medina.
00:46:40I feel so bad because Emma, she loves her job.
00:46:43I want to make her feel so better,
00:46:46and she loves shopping, so.
00:46:48Oh, look at those bags.
00:46:50Those are cute.
00:46:52The market place in the Medina,
00:46:54they have 1,000 stores there.
00:46:57Oh, my gosh, I love all of these clothes.
00:47:00You can find anything you want.
00:47:02Ooh, look at these rugs.
00:47:04Those are nice.
00:47:06Yes.
00:47:07Oh, wait, there's bags.
00:47:08Let's go look at the bags.
00:47:10Let's see what you want.
00:47:14Oh, this is so cute.
00:47:15Can you hold this?
00:47:16I want to look at everything.
00:47:17Hey, look for anything you want.
00:47:19I think I like these little wallets.
00:47:22These are cute.
00:47:24I think I'm going to buy these three.
00:47:27Not you, me.
00:47:28You're going to get them?
00:47:29Yeah.
00:47:29Hey.
00:47:30It's like my gift to you.
00:47:33Can I give you a kiss?
00:47:34Not hair.
00:47:35Hair kiss?
00:47:36Maybe.
00:47:37Is that OK?
00:47:38Yeah, that's OK.
00:47:38Can I do that from now on?
00:47:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:47:40I'll just give you air kisses whenever I want to kiss you?
00:47:42Yeah.
00:47:46It's really nice to have Zied offer to buy me things
00:47:50and buy gifts for me.
00:47:51That was so romantic, because that's never something
00:47:54I've had in the past.
00:47:56It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful
00:47:58than I was feeling yesterday.
00:48:00Where are you taking me, babe?
00:48:03This, it's popular here in Marrakesh.
00:48:06What is this?
00:48:12What is that?
00:48:14What do we call them in English?
00:48:15Snails?
00:48:16Snails.
00:48:17I like don't want that.
00:48:18Really?
00:48:19No.
00:48:20It's like traditional.
00:48:22I'm not trying it.
00:48:23Just it.
00:48:23No.
00:48:24I literally would throw up.
00:48:30It's so delicious.
00:48:31That is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life.
00:48:34It's a slimy snail.
00:48:37And you just suck it down.
00:48:39For me, it's delicious.
00:48:44That's like really gross.
00:48:46What's like the weirdest food you've ever tried?
00:48:49Like snails would be weird.
00:48:51For you, for me, no.
00:48:52So, for me, sushi, for example.
00:48:55I love sushi.
00:48:56Yeah, it's, we are different.
00:48:59It's something.
00:48:59Are we compatible?
00:49:07Can you hold my other bag, actually?
00:49:11What else can we do, like, while we're here?
00:49:13Do you like horses?
00:49:15I love horses.
00:49:17I think we have to choose this one.
00:49:19I like the white ones.
00:49:20I like the white ones.
00:49:20I like the white ones.
00:49:21Go ahead.
00:49:22Wait.
00:49:23Just one by one.
00:49:25One by one.
00:49:26One by one.
00:49:28Oh, my God.
00:49:28This is so romantic.
00:49:30This is so romantic.
00:49:30Yeah.
00:49:31This is like a romantic love ride.
00:49:40This is three kisses you kiss me today.
00:49:43Okay.
00:49:45I'm happy that we had a better day today.
00:49:48Yeah, me too.
00:49:48So, it was a big difference between this day and last day.
00:49:54Yesterday was, like, really hard for me.
00:49:56It, like, brought up old feelings, because, you know,
00:50:00I've, like, been lied to a lot, like, in my past,
00:50:02like, with past boyfriends.
00:50:04So, when you kind of lied to me, it was, like, a trigger for me.
00:50:09Yeah.
00:50:09So, you don't need to talk about your past, your bad experience.
00:50:14Do you care about my past?
00:50:15No.
00:50:16I know you right now.
00:50:17Not in past.
00:50:18So...
00:50:18But don't you want to know about my life?
00:50:21Just, like, things I've been through.
00:50:22Like, don't you want to know about me?
00:50:24Yeah.
00:50:24I know.
00:50:25I know everything about your life.
00:50:26Everything.
00:50:26You don't know everything.
00:50:29No.
00:50:29I know everything.
00:50:30I know your family.
00:50:31I know where you live.
00:50:33I know.
00:50:33I know.
00:50:33But there are things that, like, I...
00:50:35That have happened in my life that you don't know about.
00:50:41Like, I thought.
00:50:42We can live in past.
00:50:43It's something in past words.
00:50:44It's past words.
00:50:49I want to be vulnerable.
00:50:50I want to share, you know, details about who I am and my past.
00:50:53And I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement
00:50:58because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
00:51:03But for him to shut me down, it does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about
00:51:08the past
00:51:09because maybe he has something that he's hiding or that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:51:17Since I've gotten to Morocco, I've just felt really rejected by him.
00:51:21And so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything.
00:51:31I need you to be able to look me in the eye.
00:51:34Why have you lied to us all along?
00:51:37I was so fearful of my parents.
00:51:40They would say bad things to me.
00:51:42They would say bad things to other people.
00:51:44Okay.
00:51:44And it affects me emotionally, mentally.
00:51:46It drains me everything.
00:51:47No.
00:51:48I need that direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
00:52:17Hello, Javon.
00:52:25What do you want now?
00:52:28I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time.
00:52:34But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week.
00:52:39My sister talked to Anna Lynn, and she actually unblocked me.
00:52:43But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for.
00:52:50There's so much riding on this trip.
00:52:53Anna being as angry is just not good.
00:52:59Hey, what's going on?
00:53:01What's going on?
00:53:02Ask yourself what's going on, Javon.
00:53:06I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive.
00:53:11Not being aggressive.
00:53:13You told me yourself if we're going to be married, we can't be keeping anyone special from the past.
00:53:22But you're doing it.
00:53:26And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step for any temptation.
00:53:34I'm dealing with so much over here by myself.
00:53:38I'm dealing with your problems.
00:53:39I'm dealing with my problems.
00:53:40And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you.
00:53:45So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate just to just to be
00:53:51understood and just heard.
00:53:56If you feel like sometimes you can talk to me, you have siblings, you have a dad, you have a
00:54:05mom.
00:54:06But if your big circle is still not enough, you're American. Get the therapy.
00:54:13I mean, but like, who can afford therapy right now?
00:54:23She's not taking any accountability that, you know, she played a part in why I reached out to a friend.
00:54:31I need to be able to rely on my wife, but she makes it impossible.
00:54:36Even when I'm like at work and you're going through something, I always try to be there for you emotionally.
00:54:43You know?
00:54:45I try, but I don't see you trying for me.
00:54:48When do you show up for me in that way?
00:55:25I know you've made, you know, some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long.
00:55:31And I do apologize and I do take accountability for what I've done.
00:55:39Okay.
00:55:40Okay.
00:55:43So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:55:48I can stop, but can we at least work on our communication?
00:55:54Okay.
00:55:56Okay.
00:55:57That's all I want, boo.
00:55:58That's it.
00:56:01With Javon coming out to the Philippines, I do feel like I could let go of some negative feelings about
00:56:09this situation.
00:56:10But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore, do I believe it?
00:56:20No, not really.
00:56:23So I will definitely talk about this again in person.
00:56:29Do you think we can like move past it?
00:56:32Like when we see each other?
00:56:34I don't know.
00:56:36I don't know.
00:57:07Yes!
00:57:11Yeah, it's precision.
00:57:14Oh, my goodness!
00:57:15We call that fiesta.
00:57:17Oh, yes!
00:57:18That's a culture for Catholics here in my country.
00:57:20Goodness!
00:57:22Yes!
00:57:22Oh, my God!
00:57:23Yeah, it's really cool.
00:57:24Look at this!
00:57:28I decided to take Boris and his family to Chinatown because I'm a Chinese mix.
00:57:34My mom is Chinese descent, so I wanted to show how Chinese culture interbonded with Filipino culture.
00:57:44Smell that?
00:57:45Oh, that smells so good!
00:57:47Oh, wow!
00:57:47So this is a place that can make handmade noodles.
00:57:50I eat that air!
00:57:52Hello!
00:57:53Oh!
00:57:54Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Boris's parents, especially Molly.
00:58:00Okay, thank you!
00:58:01Thank you!
00:58:01There's been problems between me and Molly, but I'm so glad that she happened to accept me.
00:58:08And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines.
00:58:14Yum!
00:58:15Oh, thank you!
00:58:17Slurps up!
00:58:18Stoops up and slurps up, huh?
00:58:20Yeah!
00:58:20Actually, that's here.
00:58:21The culture here, if you want to slurp, it means you're eating the good noodles.
00:58:24So that's a good sign.
00:58:25So the loud are the best, right?
00:58:26Yeah.
00:58:27Yes.
00:58:27Here I go.
00:58:30Yeah, you are the king of slurps.
00:58:32I made sure to get on my glasses.
00:58:34That's the key.
00:58:35This is all good.
00:58:36Yeah.
00:58:38Well, Sheena, I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday.
00:58:45I mean, that really showed a lot to me.
00:58:49But I did want to ask you about a few things.
00:58:58Okay?
00:58:58Okay, Mom.
00:58:59I'm listening.
00:59:00And I need you to be able to look me in the eye, and I need you to be truthful
00:59:05with me.
00:59:07100%.
00:59:10You lied to us about giving your parents the money.
00:59:16This was supposed to be you saving up money so you could come to America to be a family with
00:59:22us.
00:59:23These were the plans all of these years.
00:59:26And then for it to just find out now, before we come here, that hasn't been happening.
00:59:36Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:43I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations I need.
00:59:48I hope you could listen to my situation.
00:59:50The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents is because being a breadwinner, it's a
00:59:58cultural thing in my country that we are obligated to help our parents around.
01:00:04I mean, I completely understand giving your parents the money, needing to help your family.
01:00:08That's what family does.
01:00:10But my issue with it is that you lie.
01:00:20To be honest, the reason also, that's another reason that I was so scared because my parents, my mom happened
01:00:29to guilt-tripping me from time to time.
01:00:32If I don't give them money, she makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person and it hurts me
01:00:38a lot.
01:00:40Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question, I need that direct answer.
01:00:45And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you continue to hide it.
01:00:55Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure is just awful.
01:01:00I'm wanting to step in and defend her and protect Sheena.
01:01:04But at the same time, I don't understand what fear she had of telling me.
01:01:11I was so fearful of my parents.
01:01:14They would say bad things to me. They would say bad things to other people.
01:01:18Okay.
01:01:18And it affects me emotionally, mentally, it drains me every day.
01:01:21Uh-uh.
01:01:22No.
01:01:22And it makes me feel so bad.
01:01:24No.
01:01:25No.
01:01:25Sheena, I'm not asking you that.
01:01:27I'm asking you why you did not tell us.
01:01:35I couldn't handle myself anymore.
01:01:39Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying.
01:01:42I'm sorry.
01:01:43Oh, my God.
01:01:44I don't want to.
01:01:44See, there's your manipulation.
01:01:45With the tears.
01:01:47Please put your tissue down.
01:01:48Please put your tissue down.
01:01:49Please.
01:01:51I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable.
01:01:58So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents, what's the motivation
01:02:03for hiding it?
01:02:05They gotta get answers.
01:02:12Oh, my God, this is really happening.
01:02:14Oh, my God.
01:02:15Oh, my God.
01:02:16Oh, my God.
01:02:17Oh, my God.
01:02:17Oh, my God.
01:02:18I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:02:19I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:02:23She was physical with a woman.
01:02:45Oh, my God.
01:02:46Oh, my God.
01:02:46Oh, my God.
01:02:47Oh, my God.
01:02:47Oh, my God.
01:02:47Oh, my God.
01:02:48Here he is.
01:02:49Awesome.
01:02:50Here we go.
01:02:50Here goes everything.
01:03:01Oh, my gosh.
01:03:04I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first
01:03:09time.
01:03:10What am I doing?
01:03:12I don't know, Mom.
01:03:12What are you doing?
01:03:14Certainly not what I would be doing.
01:03:17It still feels surreal to me that after 21 years of only being with women, I'm traveling
01:03:22across the world to meet a man, and I love him.
01:03:27I love him.
01:03:29You're going to see when I come home how excited and happy I am.
01:03:32You're going to see when I talk to you there how happy I am, and you're going to be happy
01:03:36for me.
01:03:38I just, I don't want it to ruin your heart.
01:03:48I'm going to pee my pants.
01:03:49Oh, God.
01:03:50Please don't.
01:03:52Here we go.
01:03:57All right.
01:03:58You remember the rules.
01:04:00Don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through.
01:04:03Yes.
01:04:04And I would complain about everything.
01:04:05It will be a foundation.
01:04:07And if you have questions.
01:04:08I will ask them.
01:04:12I love you.
01:04:13I love you, too.
01:04:14I'm going to miss you so much.
01:04:17Stay safe.
01:04:18Oh, God.
01:04:20This is the biggest risk I've ever taken.
01:04:22Flying across the world to another country, to Nigeria, Africa, to be with a man I have never
01:04:29met before.
01:04:30I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:32Oh, my God.
01:04:33This is really happening.
01:04:35Oh, my God.
01:04:36Oh, my God.
01:04:37Oh, my God.
01:04:37Oh, my God.
01:04:38Oh, my God.
01:04:39I can't believe I'm doing this.
01:04:45I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am, and who I am, and that he will become
01:04:51my sixth and final spouse.
01:04:55I think he'll always come in.
01:04:59I think he'll always come in.
01:05:01I think he'll always come in.
01:05:21The one who is eternal mistakenly validating the world designated title to the precarious
01:05:21A Jenogyakamani?
01:05:27Yeah, I don't know how to zero.
01:05:33I mean, he'll always come to a hierarchy.
01:05:45Can you like me?
01:05:46I mean, that'd be their expectations, so many years over it.
01:05:49my name is Daniel I am 29 years old I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe we have traditions
01:05:59and we believe in traditions as an Igbo man we love competition we work hard and we have to be
01:06:06honest I grew up very poor sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food my family do
01:06:24the best
01:06:24they can do and I am really close to my family but some years ago I lost my mom before
01:06:32she she died
01:06:32she told me that during war she nearly be killed that a white woman protected her and I have to
01:06:39make sure that I get married to a white woman so I decided I will do it and that's how
01:06:44I found Lisa
01:06:49this size is 52 years old she lives in Pennsylvania she's a beautiful man she has um she has a
01:06:57good
01:06:57body structure she's thick she has bops she has what I want she don't hide anything she supports me
01:07:06financially she makes me feel loved that's why I fell in love with her
01:07:17I'm here oh my god majo legal go I did you mm-hmm our one or one your Igbo chapa
01:07:37no my daily now she can
01:08:04In our tribe, we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors.
01:08:13I love Lisa, but I am worried about some things.
01:08:18One, she vaped.
01:08:20Two, she told me that she had gotten married twice.
01:08:24And three, she was physical with a woman one time.
01:08:29This is the worst.
01:08:38We don't believe that same-sex exists in our culture.
01:08:43Anyone caught in the arts will be banished or killed.
01:08:47So we don't do it, we don't accept it here.
01:08:50She gave me her promise that she have stopped it, but I'm nervous.
01:08:58She gave me her promise.
01:09:23Now that the ancestors are approved, I want you to move forward on this relationship.
01:09:33I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa when I meet her at the airport.
01:09:39I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria.
01:09:44If I marry Lisa to make me change the story of my family, and if I should make it to
01:09:49America,
01:09:50this will change my life to good.
01:09:53They will.
01:10:05I feel so bad you're dragging my suitcases.
01:10:08Yes.
01:10:10Oh, it feels like it got colder.
01:10:12It gets cold or gets hot.
01:10:15No straight weather.
01:10:20Wow.
01:10:29Here we are.
01:10:31Oh, we're here?
01:10:34Here you go.
01:10:35I will take this.
01:10:37You're welcome.
01:10:37After all of this excitement, anticipation, and buildup of coming to Turkey and meeting
01:10:44Birkan face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward.
01:10:49But I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:54It just feels so right.
01:10:57I'm excited to see this.
01:11:01Here you go.
01:11:02Oh, you want me to go first?
01:11:03Yeah, of course.
01:11:04Okay.
01:11:06Oh, my God.
01:11:07This is huge.
01:11:08Oh, yeah.
01:11:10This is way bigger than it looked in pictures.
01:11:14This is amazing.
01:11:18This kitchen is bigger than almost my every half, so.
01:11:22This is incredible.
01:11:25You like this?
01:11:26Oh, my God.
01:11:27I love this.
01:11:28I'm going to move here.
01:11:30You can see the sea.
01:11:33Everything?
01:11:34Oh, my God.
01:11:36Wow.
01:11:39This is amazing.
01:11:40I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this.
01:11:44It's worth it.
01:11:46All the trip.
01:11:48Yeah.
01:11:50I don't know if it's worth it.
01:11:51Yeah, I know.
01:11:53So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:12:01That sounds awesome.
01:12:02Let's do that.
01:12:03Let's do that.
01:12:04All right.
01:12:04Okay.
01:12:09This is the best part of this mirror.
01:12:13This is incredible.
01:12:14I would love to, like, live right there, like, with this view every day.
01:12:20Yeah, I like these old buildings.
01:12:22I do, too.
01:12:24Yeah.
01:12:27Architecture is the art we live in.
01:12:31I love that.
01:12:32Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:33That's, like, really profound.
01:12:34Yeah, I love that phrase.
01:12:36Birkan has so many, like, random comments for things.
01:12:39And he has a way of taking things that are just very simple and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion
01:12:47around it.
01:12:48But it's really pretty now that the sun's gone down.
01:12:51When the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:57Sometimes it's a little exhausting because I'm like, oh, my God, it's just the sunset.
01:13:01I guess we've got to go this way.
01:13:03Go back this way?
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:04I feel like a walking zombie right now.
01:13:07Actually, not you.
01:13:08The people are.
01:13:10Not me?
01:13:10They have no idea where.
01:13:11Go ahead.
01:13:14I don't know where he comes up with all of this.
01:13:17I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it.
01:13:31I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:34I traveled a time to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights.
01:13:47I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:51Okay.
01:13:52You want to go to bed?
01:13:56Actually, it's just 9 o'clock, and I have no sleep.
01:14:02So, why don't you go some sleep, and I will watch some TV and join you after.
01:14:13Good night.
01:14:13Have a nice night.
01:14:14All right.
01:14:14Good night.
01:14:15Good night.
01:14:16Good night.
01:14:37Who's texting you?
01:14:41Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:44He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:50And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:53I said, everything's good.
01:14:56And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:15:01So, I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that, but I just have a lot of things
01:15:10to process right now.
01:15:14Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:17It's just, I don't know, different maybe than what I was expecting.
01:15:21I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:26Just feels off.
01:15:28I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:29Just feels off.
01:15:31It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than
01:15:39I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:44And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:47And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:51Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:55But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:16:06I ain't bear calm.
01:16:13Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:16I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:18It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:20Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:22I want to end this now.
01:16:24You're acting all hostile?
01:16:25I'm not.
01:16:26Yeah, you are.
01:16:27Forrest.
01:16:36My family had been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:42Forrest, they should be helping me around.
01:16:44They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:47We can't understand you.
01:16:50You have to speak.
01:16:51You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:57I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:17:02You were giving your parents money.
01:17:05Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:17Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:27They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:31And I was afraid that I was running, running, running.
01:17:35Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:38Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:43I didn't have to live anymore.
01:17:45It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:48The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:50I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:59It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:09Oh, you were scared.
01:18:10Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:13Mom, I got to get on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:16I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:18But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:22and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:27Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:35A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:37I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:43you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:47Forrest?
01:18:48It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:51That still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:54It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:55It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:19:02I believe Sheena is not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:07I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:11And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diarrhea of the mouth.
01:19:21I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:29Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:31What's your goal here?
01:19:33Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:36I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:44Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:51Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents about what we're
01:19:58going to do from now on.
01:20:02I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:06It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:09Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:14Yeah, and we could sit there and we could talk about the past and he said, she said he could
01:20:18do that, she cannot do that.
01:20:19It's time to move forward now.
01:20:21Forrest?
01:20:22I want to add this now.
01:20:27I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:29I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:31You're acting all hostile.
01:20:33I'm not hostile.
01:20:33Yeah, you are.
01:20:35And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:38You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:40I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:44Disaster.
01:20:47It's okay, babe.
01:20:52I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:55He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:21:01Now he sees us as the big, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:07But still, I have to always protect Forrest because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:13And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:24Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:27I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:29This is so surreal.
01:21:31Come on.
01:21:32Where are you?
01:21:34This is like ordering something online and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:44Are you nervous?
01:21:45A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:48Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:52I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:58This part is best as possible.
01:22:00But I'm immediately regretting having Pure Calm come with me.
01:22:04I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:11I've been looking at your page.
01:22:13Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:16Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:18No, there's no support.
01:22:19Yeah.
01:22:20I downloaded this extension on my laptop.
01:22:22And it shows you who people follow.
01:22:26This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:29So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:35Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's
01:22:39important that I meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:43I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:47I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:51Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:57Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:59Now the story changes again.
01:23:02I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:08What the heck?
01:23:12I can't get out of there, though.
01:23:15I love him with everything I am.
01:23:17But he doesn't know that I've been married five times, and I'm still married to a woman.
01:23:24What are you doing?
01:23:25What are you doing?
01:23:26What are you doing?
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