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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:10Let's go.
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like
00:10:58and surprise me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:19after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip
00:11:26to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him
00:11:45as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:51I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning
00:12:00that I need to tell Birkan about,
00:12:03and I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh, my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's, like, so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places
00:12:35that Greek people built
00:12:38from 10th century D.C.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient
00:12:48historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old,
00:13:05which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher,
00:13:08I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched
00:13:16and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything,
00:13:20even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts?
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits
00:13:47about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:00Yeah.
00:14:04I hope you know
00:14:07that I really do
00:14:09want this relationship to work.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:51I have concerns because you, because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:57And talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:20He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:33He's coming.
00:15:38Without asking, without telling anything, nothing, this is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, um, you know, I'm glad you came,
00:15:57because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world,
00:16:09but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me
00:16:50so, like, I can get in the car,
00:16:51because I'm really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you, two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing,
00:17:24so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names,
00:17:32and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose,
00:17:38Presage Nocturne,
00:17:39Middle Earth,
00:17:40Maidan,
00:17:42Al Riffa,
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:49It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town, see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:08But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheers is, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came.
00:20:20Because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:23And, you know, as soon as you come,
00:20:27I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world,
00:20:51but you're toasting to your buddy over me.
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58I'll start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up,
00:21:01and, you know, what it's taken to get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:42Do you want to party a bit here?
00:21:44Um, I could party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats,
00:21:58and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with me and my
00:22:19cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially, but he parties a
00:22:32lot.
00:22:32But, like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not used to that.
00:22:49No, no, no, no.
00:23:13How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at me.
00:23:17You're standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:40but my cat, Mito, got sick,
00:23:43so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:45I look at you and your cone.
00:23:48You don't like the cone.
00:23:50Nobody likes the cone.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Giovanni!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did, and I wasn't aware.
00:24:37I don't want to see it now.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad then.
00:24:47No.
00:24:48First thing, the papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:56I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:23I'm going to go wash off Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:58Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:06Oh, okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:28My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:40There are a lot of things that happen.
00:26:43The house is so happy.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45But I'm happy that you're here.
00:26:48She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52When are you here until when are you here?
00:26:55Till when are you staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02It's so fast, right?
00:27:03She said it's too fast.
00:27:05Is it not one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:15It was about my daughter.
00:27:19It's all about my daughter.
00:27:53She said for six years as my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:03Because she was, sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:07And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long, though.
00:28:11But I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16All right?
00:28:32I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:36I mean, it took him six years to see me, and we've been married for three years, and we still
00:28:45don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:29:26Who is it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Siyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:22Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person. I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27I love you so much.
00:31:30What's up? What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already. Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you, and he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did...
00:32:50I did all this, like, again, and, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:57Like, what, like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch, and for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco?
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because...
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah, but, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when
00:34:06I was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:17What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your...
00:34:21Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42I just want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Muhammad hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like, I just...
00:34:57I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, it feels too.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:20Emma, interview.
00:35:22I'll take money.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Muhammad.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it.
00:35:30Just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:43I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:35:57I'll call you when I'm here.
00:36:01Two.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Muhammad just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So, it's like, um...
00:36:23What's his voice?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Muhammad have been through a lot.
00:36:50And we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me
00:37:21because of what I did.
00:37:23So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:43So, are you ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:58Seems like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:38:09to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:17Hmm.
00:38:25Seems like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay
00:38:48to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around,
00:38:55and she gets to talking about this great place
00:38:58that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:02I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know,
00:39:08because of what I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous,
00:39:14and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me
00:39:21when I responded to you bragging about...
00:39:25You say, like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you,
00:39:29and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy...
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you
00:39:46more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:08I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Well, then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex,
00:40:20and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him, or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:42:07what I did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:57Michael, he's coming.
00:43:00Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:44:09Birkan and I have made.
00:44:11But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:25This is not normal.
00:44:28Something is wrong with him.
00:44:30Is he out of his mind?
00:44:32Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:44:38Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have it.
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical.
00:44:53He's very insightful.
00:44:55And I value his opinion.
00:44:58I see.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out.
00:45:02So why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get
00:45:07along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f**k me.
00:45:13He made that move.
00:45:14It's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:20Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle to those two having a relationship.
00:45:30I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:41This is his opportunity to break us up.
00:45:44While she is confused about our relationship, this is a strategy.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to, like, calm down and just meet him.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:36I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f**king coming.
00:46:41She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:44I just hope that Michael doesn't f**king up my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:08You can speak Turkish.
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can speak English.
00:47:13Okay, thank you.
00:47:15You know what the Turkish say?
00:47:16Cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheering.
00:47:18I don't know.
00:47:19Sherefe.
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:22Sherefe.
00:47:22Cheers.
00:47:26Cheers.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the
00:47:48ruins, but Birkon's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00And you're like pounding it like a shot.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:15This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is that three different to Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay, that's fine.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26You're welcome.
00:48:27Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:32Okay.
00:48:35There was no heads up.
00:48:37You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:48:43You just decide whatever you want.
00:48:46You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:48:52You don't respect me.
00:48:54That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:11This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:26So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it.
00:49:36Get rid of it.
00:49:37Take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:39Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:55Left here and we're just up here on the left.
00:50:00Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:02Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:04Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:05Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:06Get what you see.
00:50:07Everybody like that.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' place.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on.
00:50:31I went to the mother bar.
00:50:32And now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Just shut the door, would you?
00:50:45Else?
00:50:46Oh.
00:50:47Her.
00:50:48Oh, my God.
00:50:48This is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh, no.
00:50:51Yes.
00:50:51This is too small.
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:56You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and, like,
00:51:00be positive and show him that, like, I'm not a complainer.
00:51:04It's small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh getting the apartment
00:51:11in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial.
00:51:15And, like, I would have settled for a smaller place
00:51:18without a roommate.
00:51:19Like, no offense.
00:51:20Love you, Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:22Oh!
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Wait, wait, wait.
00:51:26What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:31No, I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that.
00:51:40But I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So, like, what?
00:51:43When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:51Yeah.
00:51:55Excuse me.
00:51:56So, I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high depth.
00:52:02I mean, all of my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:08She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone,
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see how, you know, we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not...
00:52:31Do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:52:40There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows.
00:52:47Uh, we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:01Night, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:03All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep, and go to bed.
00:53:10Okay, perfect.
00:53:11And I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, so he's gonna sleep on the
00:53:20couch.
00:53:20That way, we're both avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:53:30But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently.
00:53:33Like, not leading with sex.
00:53:35But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
00:53:39be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:58Because it's, uh, you know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right, well, come take a night to me.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's gonna be a hard sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But yeah, it's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw her, I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor.
00:54:43But, um, you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we
00:54:51met.
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my
00:54:59life that she's not exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person.
00:55:03You know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Things are now settled with Lisa.
00:55:47I'm still really hot with all the offense she has committed by telling lies.
00:55:54But, I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going to be difficult.
00:56:05But, I will try my best to have a good time.
00:56:18Long ride.
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:56:21And what is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:24Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do.
00:56:30So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:56:36You're welcome.
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know what we call these in America?
00:56:53The boonies.
00:56:54What is she?
00:56:55The boondocks, where there's no real civilization, it's just, it's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope.
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos.
00:57:17The pictures online looked really nice.
00:57:20And it's in my price range.
00:57:22So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:57:29Oh, wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:37It's fine.
00:57:38It's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God.
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yes, it's a spider.
00:57:46No, that could be poisonous.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:58:01This thing is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be dangerous.
00:58:05Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just smush.
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it.
00:58:18Get rid of it.
00:58:19Take it outside.
00:58:20No!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25All right, stop.
00:58:26Leave it.
00:58:26I will kill it myself.
00:58:29No, don't kick it again.
00:58:31Stop!
00:58:32Stop kicking it!
00:58:36Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42Don't kick it at me.
00:58:44I have a phobia of spiders.
00:58:46It's just a spider.
00:58:48No, it's not just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge.
00:58:51It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:54You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders.
00:58:59I told you to kill spiders.
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have spandles on it.
00:59:04Ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider.
00:59:06It's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room you paid for.
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider.
00:59:11Kill it.
00:59:11No, you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:24Romantic, you said?
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip, but it's very hard for me.
00:59:36I am feeling tense because I don't know what my uncle is going to do, whether he will cancel
00:59:44through this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:59:50You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:55You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because, um, I didn't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West.
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came.
01:00:12Thanks.
01:00:14So, no, um, no sex.
01:00:17No kissing.
01:00:19Auntie, I call my uncle, and I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors.
01:00:24Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days.
01:00:29We can, we can make this work for a couple days.
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together, and then we call your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle.
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you.
01:01:07Fine.
01:01:13This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:16Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
01:01:24Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:01:27You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:01:31Don't be a asshole.
01:01:37You don't want a guy about yourself.
01:01:41You don't want to take me.
01:01:52Look out.
01:02:15what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:02:26this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:02:34it's been nice having to bond in my house but i'm still thinking about my mom's concern about
01:02:41our long distance relationship on top of that now that javon and i are living together in one house
01:02:50slowly but baby i get to see how he is he's very messy and he just puts the clothes and
01:03:03the towels
01:03:03everywhere i feel like i have a toddler and i always have to pick up stuff from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy what i heard that we just haven't got time i heard that
01:03:21no me too loves me yeah well i love you too anna i mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks there's nothing wrong with that
01:03:32anna it's how you're delivering anna what do you want from me instead of coming in the room say
01:03:38javon pick up your stuff you know you can just say oh if you don't mind could you just pick
01:03:45up your
01:03:45stuff
01:03:48javon yeah no matter how much i put it if you really would like to pick up that socks you
01:03:53would have
01:03:55see you don't see that i do actually you do but you don't do it no
01:04:03and like every time i talk to you you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well i'm gonna try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done
01:04:33well you definitely need a pedicure
01:04:38okay
01:04:46i feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:04:51damn how bad do you think my feet is anna's always complained that i'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for anna to show her you know what i appreciate what you do
01:05:11hi good afternoon hello hello pa i just hope that she sees that i'm making a real effort here
01:05:18hmm so it's like barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well look at you yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink i like it i know
01:05:32you did
01:05:35there you go yeah
01:05:40yeah
01:05:41see i told you
01:05:44it just feels weird
01:05:46oh that's nice
01:05:49oh my god boo that's a lot
01:05:52you doing okay over there
01:05:56i'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic
01:06:05yeah did i pass the test today
01:06:06kind of
01:06:08okay yeah
01:06:08thank you some cool points
01:06:10i like that
01:06:13you still have to be nicer to me though
01:06:16and i'll do more nice things
01:06:19like if i leave like underwear or sops on the floor
01:06:25you know will you be nice
01:06:28no
01:06:28no
01:06:29i mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38i know but anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:06:44with me
01:06:45you know what i think it is it's just i think that you knew i wasn't going anywhere and you
01:06:49got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well i got this person
01:06:59i don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable ever
01:07:13i don't understand where did this come from do you get this from those videos that you've been
01:07:19watching about masculinity and other things no that's my that's that's that's all my idea
01:07:27i take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because i feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed and
01:07:40i love who you are
01:07:43but anna this is who i was when you first met me
01:07:46no you're not you were not that prideful before
01:07:50i feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it like a power
01:07:57i don't have any that's the problem like i feel like
01:08:00that's the problem you need to feel powerful
01:08:02no
01:08:02and you're not
01:08:03i feel like i have all the responsibility with no authority
01:08:06because when i tell you to do something you don't listen to me so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you i always have to take care of
01:08:19everything financially so as your husband i feel like having to say is nice you know it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful
01:08:30ah just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here
01:08:40well i wanted you to have a good time
01:08:42yes but if you were gonna do i look like i'm having a good time
01:08:45but you set me up
01:08:46you were asking me questions and i just answered them honestly
01:08:50you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so cease from asking dumbass questions
01:08:57and you don't want to bitch your wife don't be a asshole
01:09:04i can just sit here and get my feet done like i don't have to
01:09:09then they should stay here okay don't come home
01:09:11you need to calm down
01:09:17i don't want to see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey i will see you soon
01:09:35all right
01:09:36i cannot believe michael is actually here in turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43i'm not saying hi
01:09:47you want to open it
01:09:49hey
01:09:50hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:13i have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:22hey good morning
01:10:24good morning how are you
01:10:28um
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready until like two o'clock
01:10:34uh
01:10:35is there any chance i can point in my say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine with me i mean
01:10:43i was just gonna say i pin dropped you my location
01:10:46yeah
01:10:47okay i will uh
01:10:48i will see you soon
01:10:50i wish for walking in your direction
01:10:51all right
01:10:52be careful
01:10:55thanks
01:10:55bye bye
01:10:57bye
01:11:06i'm a little bit worried that michael's here
01:11:09now that this is real and he actually showed up in turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself
01:11:18i'm incredibly nervous and i feel like i'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:28hey
01:11:30that was michael
01:11:32what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what
01:11:40why
01:11:41because
01:11:42i'm not saying
01:11:43well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52turkey is okay but this apartment
01:11:5510 minutes
01:12:01i cannot believe
01:12:03that michael is actually
01:12:05here in turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me
01:12:10i mean it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares about me enough to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think this is normal
01:12:28i think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33i think he's just concerned about me
01:12:36that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah i believe him
01:12:42yeah i believe him
01:12:43he's such a good heart
01:12:50i'm not five years old
01:12:51i don't eat that
01:12:55your friend
01:12:56your friend is trying to
01:12:57this connection
01:12:58and you're like
01:12:59yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like i don't get it
01:13:06i never wanted him to come
01:13:08and i still don't want him to come
01:13:11i think he's coming in turkey
01:13:14to mix up laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some about me
01:13:18give laura more doubts
01:13:21but if our relationship is going to end because of michael
01:13:27i don't blame michael
01:13:30i will blame laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:38yeah i do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:13:52is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55oh my god
01:13:56wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59they're making a palace here
01:14:06i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:14:08i know
01:14:09this is amazing
01:14:10the most spontaneous thing i've ever done in my life
01:14:13i have
01:14:14and i do it for you
01:14:15i do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19oh my god
01:14:21absolutely
01:14:22oh wow
01:14:23yeah this is fantastic right
01:14:25i hope my hotel room looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:29hi michael
01:14:30nice to meet you finally
01:14:32heard so much about you
01:14:34yeah
01:14:35it probably hurt
01:14:38okay
01:14:45make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something to drink
01:14:49tea
01:14:50yeah anything like that
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat right here
01:14:53i don't know how it works
01:14:54do the women make tea here
01:14:55or do the boys do it
01:14:57boys
01:14:58the boys make the tea
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:07um
01:15:08would you like anything
01:15:10nope
01:15:12i am perfect
01:15:13thank you
01:15:27so buddy
01:15:28what you're watching
01:15:31scarface
01:15:36you like american classic movies
01:15:38no
01:15:43i like mob stuff
01:15:45i enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:53do you like
01:15:56do i like this movie
01:15:57or
01:15:58violence
01:16:03uh
01:16:05golly
01:16:06i
01:16:07i'll be honest with you
01:16:08i don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:09um
01:16:10i know i just kind of dropped it on him
01:16:11but
01:16:12he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:14if that's truly who he is
01:16:16then
01:16:17i can't imagine that's healthy for laura
01:16:20my first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that laura and i are more compatible
01:16:23than i think uh
01:16:24than beer con and she are
01:16:25so
01:16:26i want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35i love you so much
01:16:37but
01:16:37stop telling me
01:16:39stop
01:16:39we're hurting some secrets
01:16:41all i can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him
01:16:45and i have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so i have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:01is this really how it ends
01:17:05can we go back to where it all began
01:17:10all i really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to where you love me again
01:17:19good morning
01:17:20good morning
01:17:24you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep
01:17:27you kept me awake
01:17:28all treading
01:17:29i know
01:17:30i didn't mean to keep you awake
01:17:32i couldn't help it
01:17:33i was sad
01:17:33now you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42why were you crying
01:17:44i feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:48but i feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because i caught with you right
01:17:53and you were crying so loud
01:17:55so i have to
01:17:56i have to cuddle you
01:17:58you know
01:18:01last night i cried myself to sleep
01:18:03and all i could think about
01:18:05is how i have to tell daniel my secret
01:18:07and i'm scared i'm going to lose him forever
01:18:10but daniel held me all night
01:18:12so i'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:18:16today is a new day
01:18:18and i'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together
01:18:23i'd like to look at the lake
01:18:25and i'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is
01:18:28that's fine
01:18:29all right let's get dressed
01:18:41come on
01:18:42let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:49this is a whole resort and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures
01:19:03it's pretty desolate actually
01:19:06and it's a bit run down
01:19:10smile a little bit
01:19:13but maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is gonna help me with daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us
01:19:25wow
01:19:26water is so big
01:19:27yeah it's so big
01:19:29the water
01:19:33oh look at this
01:19:34this is neat
01:19:35let's have one
01:19:37two please
01:19:41i feel that things are going back to normal
01:19:44like
01:19:44this is trying to rebuild
01:19:46our relationship
01:19:48oh wow
01:19:51delicious
01:19:52let's go for a bike ride
01:19:53can you ride a bike
01:19:56i don't know
01:19:57i will try
01:19:59to me
01:20:00i welcomed it
01:20:01i want us to be together
01:20:02because i love her
01:20:19i feel so light
01:20:26and so good in this moment with daniel
01:20:28he is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it
01:20:33i really feel like we're reconnecting
01:20:36are you having fun
01:20:37yes i am
01:20:39see this is exactly what we needed
01:20:43i want to just enjoy myself
01:20:45but i can't
01:20:45because all i can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him
01:20:49and i have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey
01:21:17we're dancers
01:21:20i'm enjoying the sun
01:21:24i'm enjoying the sun
01:21:25this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat
01:21:27let's watch them
01:21:28let's enjoy it
01:21:32it's beautiful isn't it
01:21:37thank you
01:21:38thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:45are you glad you gave me one more day
01:21:50i'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:51this is what this few days is about
01:21:55do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit
01:21:58i didn't want us to go um reconnect
01:22:01you know i miss the way we used to be
01:22:04but i'm trying to respect our tradition
01:22:08we have to call my uncle
01:22:10when i call him
01:22:12i will beg on our behalf
01:22:14i love you
01:22:15i want to make you
01:22:19i want to you know love you forever
01:22:22but stop telling me that
01:22:24stop with hurting some secrets
01:22:27okay
01:22:29i understand
01:22:30okay
01:22:33so i have more to tell you then
01:22:36more to tell me
01:22:40what do you mean
01:22:43so like in nigeria
01:22:45it's not legal for
01:22:49men to marry men or women to marry women right
01:22:51it's not legal
01:22:52it's not in america it is
01:22:56yes i've heard of that
01:23:01so
01:23:02my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07i'm divorcing a woman daniel
01:23:12and i've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man that i've been with in 21 years
01:23:21because um
01:23:30it's not
01:23:32it's not as bad
01:23:33don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on before the 90 days
01:23:46having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:23:49but i want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:23:51today i found out that he was living with you
01:23:54yeah i think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way
01:23:58are you jealous of me and our relationship
01:24:08we're officially on the gp
01:24:11i only have a week left here in the philippines
01:24:14and i don't want to waste any time in bringing sheena to america
01:24:17so i have to be very clear here
01:24:20if you file today for the k1 vision
01:24:25it will be denied
01:24:30i just feel really hopeless because i'm putting in massive effort
01:24:36and at this moment i'm at a crossroads i don't know how to move forward
01:24:46i'm excited to see my family
01:24:49do you think they're gonna be happy to see
01:24:51yeah did you see me
01:24:52what about me
01:24:53i don't know
01:24:55i feel scared
01:24:58my family won't accept rick
01:25:01when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive
01:25:05rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:15they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets
01:25:22i have no more secrets
01:25:24shut your mouth
01:25:25you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even women
01:25:29women
01:25:30go to the range
01:25:34daniel's not going to accept me for who i am
01:25:36you know what
01:25:38him
01:25:39him
01:25:43it's us
01:25:43it's us
01:25:45it's us
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