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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends.
00:00:09I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No.
00:00:17We can leave the past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past,
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey Boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05Do you want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met.
00:01:18But now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Good night.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40You can meet her.
00:01:42I'll go with energy, homer.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it here.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
00:02:06It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still doesn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on and I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:31It's just the same way for her.
00:02:33Hey, baby.
00:02:41We're going to fight.
00:02:42Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh, yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want, then we can haggle, okay?
00:02:57Hey, Sheen, what do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:09I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:12And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:19Thank you, thank you.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is something you need?
00:03:23Well, I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:49Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:52I'm sorry.
00:03:53I'm a giant man.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:03it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:12Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15Maybe there's a t-shirt that you can use.
00:04:17I'm going 2X.
00:04:182X?
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:20She won 5X.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest is around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen.
00:04:46My life.
00:04:48Wow, you look like a macho.
00:04:50You look like a professional guy.
00:04:51You look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54It's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:56See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Young.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and
00:05:05a pair of undies on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:08But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been
00:05:34kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:42So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and
00:05:58not actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only thing
00:06:27we can do.
00:06:28It's time to be independent.
00:06:30It's time to be strong.
00:06:31And I'm going to be behind you and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that, sorry,
00:06:53we don't have that much money, but we're trying to stay because you have a lot of plans for
00:06:57us and I will have to move with you to the U.S. Just show them that you are a
00:07:03very sincere
00:07:03person, what kind of person you are.
00:07:06Because in my culture, parents are the one who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So if my parents would approve, then it would be much easier for just to have a better future
00:07:23for us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about what
00:08:12if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your
00:08:20parents.
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion, then
00:08:26things doesn't quite work.
00:08:33So you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right.
00:08:51But my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my
00:09:08mom out of the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena.
00:09:12And I believe that this is just going to make things worse.
00:09:15And I'm scared.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra on a flat that's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be going
00:09:36with my titties because they're hurting.
00:10:04Today is my big day.
00:10:05Today, my girlfriend is coming.
00:10:09So that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16I barely slept last night.
00:10:18How should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Hawaii.
00:10:22That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of, you know, kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa Brooks Hotel for she and I to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:49I'm really nervous.
00:10:53I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:58She doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So we have begun to decide.
00:11:09I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman.
00:11:25And that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:11:29Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruition.
00:11:35I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:45But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:56Oh, touchdown.
00:12:06Oh, my God, oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:12:10Oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:12:14Oh, my God, oh, my God.
00:12:14Oh, my God.
00:12:20I've been so desperate.
00:12:22So eager to see how...
00:12:33I'm so nervous, I feel like a drowned rat from the heat
00:12:37and the humidity.
00:12:40I did not sleep at all on the plane,
00:12:43and my nerves are just going crazy.
00:12:46I'm feeling really self-conscious right now.
00:12:49Oh my god.
00:12:56I have boop sweat.
00:12:58When you're this large, you can't help but have boop sweat.
00:13:01I'm going to wash my crotch area,
00:13:03because I don't want to stink down here, either.
00:13:13I am freaking out to the point where I feel sick to my stomach.
00:13:17I think he's going to be as handsome as ever,
00:13:20and I think he's going to look at me and say, oh my god,
00:13:22she's older than I thought she was,
00:13:24because everything with this heat,
00:13:27I can't camouflage anything.
00:13:28And my age of 52 is showing today.
00:13:34Oh my god.
00:13:35It was such a long flight.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video,
00:13:48I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle
00:13:54just where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:04Ay-ay-ay-ay-ay-ay-ay-ay-ay-ay.
00:14:29I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to get this?
00:14:36keep all these promises I made to faith?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past
00:14:40and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:45What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:47I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's gonna reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here.
00:15:00I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done, I'm done, I'm done.
00:15:04All right, here we go.
00:15:17She's taking a deep breath for it, man.
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:30Javon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:45Okay.
00:15:47The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date
00:15:54we could have on my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit.
00:15:59Yeah, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10Nah, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:19All right.
00:16:20Don't tell you.
00:16:20You're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25You got me in a love day.
00:16:29Call it a love day.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:37Love you.
00:16:37All right.
00:16:38Love you, too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:39Yeah.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:49Yeah, man.
00:16:50I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today's the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past Checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I
00:17:28need to figure out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41Can't wait to see her.
00:17:57Can't wait.
00:17:58I know you can't wait.
00:17:59I can't wait.
00:17:59Can't wait.
00:18:01No.
00:18:01No.
00:18:02Yes.
00:18:02It's all right.
00:18:02It's the night ride.
00:18:03Yeah, I know.
00:18:04Oh my God.
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07He's coming.
00:18:10Baby, baby, baby.
00:18:11Yeah.
00:18:12And as it's all right.
00:18:16Oh, OMG, cute, sexy, oh, look, hey, Javon, it's me, your wifey, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:18:42I'm Annalyn, and I'm 38 years old from Cavite, Philippines.
00:18:49I've always been, I would say, bubbly, happy person, talkative, but there's also a hardworking part of me as well.
00:18:59I went to university and I studied mass communication because I like talking, sometimes a lot.
00:19:08But I decided to stop working full-time because Javon and I are on opposite time zones.
00:19:15So I have to change my sleep schedule.
00:19:19And that has made it really difficult to keep up any kind of job.
00:19:24Thankfully, Javon sends me $400 to $500 once a month.
00:19:29Ma, ma, ma, tingnan, buksan mo ako, yung gate.
00:19:34Uh-uh.
00:19:35Ha?
00:19:37My mom and I live next to each other, and she has a small store.
00:19:44Ma, may mga binili ako, tingnan mo.
00:19:46Ano yan, patingin.
00:19:49I feel like we're more like best friends, but she's a very timid, shy woman, and I'm more like, yeah.
00:20:03He's so so fun.
00:20:04Kailangan ko ng pandagdag ng height kasi si Javon mataas, yung height difference namin.
00:20:13Excited na ako.
00:20:15Nag-book ako kasi sa Misibis, Misibis Bay.
00:20:19Hi.
00:20:20Wow.
00:20:22Tomorrow morning, I'm traveling to Beagle to meet Javon.
00:20:26And finally have our honeymoon.
00:20:31This will be the first time that we get to spend time together physically, and intimacy-wise,
00:20:38we'll be able to discover a lot more about each other.
00:20:41So, yeah, good luck to us.
00:20:47Grabe excited na ako, mama.
00:20:50Pedyo kinakabahan din ako.
00:20:53Kasi ang tagal ko kasing hinantay to.
00:20:56Kasing hinan di to.
00:20:57Ma, anim na taon na, ano?
00:20:58Grabe, anim na taon.
00:21:00Bala ko nga, hindi na mangyayaring darating yun.
00:21:04Six years na yan.
00:21:07Umikot na lang ang buong buhay mo, ang mundo mo sa kanya, kakahintay ang mga tawag niya.
00:21:13Hindi ka na nakakapagtrabaho ng maayos.
00:21:17Hindi ka na nakikipagkita sa mga kaibigan mo.
00:21:22Mahirap kaya pagmasdan mo ang anak mong ganyan.
00:21:26Ang alam ko, may tampuhan kayo ni Jubon.
00:21:29Okay na ba kayo?
00:21:32Technically, hindi pa talaga namin nasusog fully yung problem.
00:21:41Naisip ko, magfocus muna sa mga positibong bagay.
00:21:46Lalo na sa first time meeting namin.
00:21:48Saka ako na lang siya ididiscuss later on.
00:21:53Jubon and I had a fight recently because he told me that he's been talking to this woman that he
00:21:59used to have feelings for.
00:22:02Even though we talk about it, I feel like he still doesn't understand why it feels like a betrayal to
00:22:10me.
00:22:10But at the same time, Jubon and I have some problems that are way, way worse than this.
00:22:19Natutunan ko dito sa relasyon na ito, hindi siya madali.
00:22:23Hindi siya para sa mga marupok.
00:22:27Ikaw, ano kayo, madali kang mainis.
00:22:30Tsaka ando siya long luminantis eh.
00:22:33Jubon, ang gusto niya siyang masusunod.
00:22:39Jubon and I have a lot of struggles and at times we fight a lot.
00:22:44Jubon thinks I changed, but how I see it is that he's the one that really changed.
00:22:52What happened was, after we got married, he started watching podcasts about masculinity and stuff.
00:23:02They teach the man to find women that's soft, feminine and submissive.
00:23:08Suddenly you have this idea in your head that I should be like this as a woman.
00:23:13Like, what the hell?
00:23:15We were not like this before.
00:23:17I feel like he's trying to trace me to a person that I'm not.
00:23:22He thinks that even if I don't agree with him, I should just be quiet.
00:23:27And I'm a type of woman that I just don't agree.
00:23:29I question things.
00:23:33Atayo yung gumagawa ng kapalara natin.
00:23:35Ito yung pinili ko eh.
00:23:37So kailangan kong panindigan.
00:23:45I love Jubon and I know he loves me, but my biggest fear is Jubon will come here and we
00:23:54can't get along.
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend, I'm meeting a husband.
00:24:00I can't just, you know, give off after everything I did for six years.
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues and we fight the whole time, what am I gonna do?
00:24:14Sana lang patutungohan yung kahintay mo sa kanya sa loob ng habang taon.
00:24:41How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest, I was really frustrated, disappointed, because I went to bed alone.
00:25:00When I got here, there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward.
00:25:05Like, we were not sure what to say.
00:25:10And it, I internalized those things.
00:25:13And so last night, I decided to go out into the living room and see if I could have a
00:25:21little bit of a conversation with Bearcon.
00:25:24I felt really disconnected that whole first day.
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking, oh, s**t, my worst fear that he's just not attracted to me in person
00:25:39has just come true.
00:25:43Yeah.
00:25:45We ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:25:49Good times.
00:25:53We have time to explore this further as we get to know each other better.
00:25:59But, you know, I am still kind of feeling a little, like, unsure about the situation.
00:26:05Because he decided to put the brakes on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried because we have some things to do later today that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:29More rain.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:32God loves us.
00:26:34I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:36We are bringing bliss wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:40I think this is where we're going.
00:26:42Okay.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic and the most awkward date we could have on
00:26:54my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:27:00Hi.
00:27:00Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:02You must be Laura.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:03Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Please take a seat.
00:27:06Okay.
00:27:07Before I came to Turkey, I had been researching skin removal surgery.
00:27:13And Turkey has such high-quality plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately, I was able to secure an appointment with one.
00:27:22But, unfortunately, the only appointment they had was for today.
00:27:29So awkward.
00:27:45A few weeks ago, I asked Bjorkon to come with me because I kind of want to see how our
00:27:51future could look together as someone who's supposed to support me.
00:27:55But now I kind of think it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night, I am still feeling insecure about how he actually perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:11Laura thinks too much about her appearance.
00:28:16It is a curse that you always try to be perfect, but nobody is perfect.
00:28:24If you ask me, I'm happy with my teeth because it is my teeth.
00:28:28I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:29So, who cares?
00:28:30But this is her body, and she's not happy with that.
00:28:34That's why I support her.
00:28:36Hi.
00:28:37You must be Laura.
00:28:37I am.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:39You come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:42Please take your seats.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:44So, I'm Dr. Amar.
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:48Um, I have recently lost 140 pounds, and so I have some, like, loose skin in places that
00:28:56I am looking to have removed.
00:28:58Which areas bothers you the most?
00:29:00Mainly in my, like, in my stomach area.
00:29:02It's my least competent spot.
00:29:05Uh-huh.
00:29:06So, I will take you to the studio for some pictures, if it's okay for you.
00:29:10That's fine.
00:29:10And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:12Okay.
00:29:13I love that.
00:29:13And we can figure out a treatment plan for you.
00:29:16I love that.
00:29:16All right.
00:29:16Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door when you're ready.
00:29:22Okay.
00:29:22I will come in.
00:29:23All right.
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:32I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish.
00:29:38I just wanted to touch.
00:29:40You can't blame me, guys.
00:29:48I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Perfect.
00:29:52This is going to be enough for me.
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer?
00:29:57Perfect.
00:29:57Okay.
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down a little bit more.
00:30:02Yeah, this is an area that I want to look at.
00:30:05I got it.
00:30:07Perfect.
00:30:08Okay.
00:30:08Hello.
00:30:09No, nothing is seen.
00:30:11Perfect.
00:30:12All right.
00:30:14Okay.
00:30:15Just a few pictures.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:17And it will be over.
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that.
00:30:21Thank you very much.
00:30:23Mm-hmm.
00:30:27This part as fast as possible.
00:30:34I feel really awkward because my stomach area is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:41Perfect.
00:30:42Same thing to the other side.
00:30:45I have worked my ass off, literally and figuratively.
00:30:49And the fact that I still have the loose skin has been really hard.
00:30:55Thank you very much.
00:30:56That's great.
00:30:58When I look in the mirror, I don't want to see myself at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:12So, the problem at the tummy part is actually really common after losing so much weight.
00:31:24Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you some pictures.
00:31:32So, as you can see, a horizontal problem here.
00:31:36We should cut vertically.
00:31:41I was not expecting the doctor to take the things that you know are your most insecure flaws
00:31:49and project them for everyone to see like that.
00:31:54I am immediately regretting having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am sitting next to my boyfriend, who happens to be 20 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell was I thinking?
00:32:07I am thinking, this is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:12It's awful.
00:32:19So, do you think I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father, everyone have their life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me.
00:32:32It just makes me feel like he's hiding something about his life.
00:32:46I don't know.
00:32:47Hello.
00:32:50How are you?
00:32:51Salam.
00:32:52Do you know where I can buy, like, hair oil?
00:32:54Like, to make my hair shiny?
00:33:00Excuse me, do you know where I can get hair oil?
00:33:04No, not like hair oil, not spice.
00:33:07Down there?
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10Okay.
00:33:11Maybe here?
00:33:13No.
00:33:14No.
00:33:16Bags.
00:33:17Not oil.
00:33:19Can you get stuff for your hair?
00:33:22Oh, really?
00:33:23Here?
00:33:23Perfect.
00:33:24Do you want to drink tea or coffee?
00:33:26I love tea.
00:33:36We're going to be cooking today.
00:33:42This doesn't really match my outfit.
00:33:44It's fine.
00:33:45It's just, it's for cover your outfit, so you don't need...
00:33:50This morning, I took a walk through the Medina
00:33:53to try and clear my head.
00:33:55This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57Right now, I'm feeling really concerned about everything
00:34:00that's happened since I landed.
00:34:03Ziad's been very distant with me emotionally and physically
00:34:06the whole time that I've been here,
00:34:08and it's making me a little suspicious.
00:34:11I'm actually really excited for this.
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me to a cooking class today,
00:34:17and I really think it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try not to just be in my head
00:34:24and overthink things.
00:34:26And I'm hoping this could be a fun bonding moment between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:32What are we making?
00:34:33Tagine with chicken and lemon.
00:34:38Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:46Tell me what she's saying.
00:34:48We start with lemon.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:53Oh, you peel it.
00:34:54Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:06She said you make it...
00:35:08Perfect.
00:35:14Ooh.
00:35:15Are you going to try it?
00:35:17No.
00:35:19Careful, two fingers.
00:35:20Yeah.
00:35:20Got it.
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:25I'm cooking.
00:35:26Yeah.
00:35:26This is like real wife material.
00:35:29This is actually a lot of fun.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31I like this.
00:35:32I want to teach Emma how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture of you in my mind.
00:35:37You are cooking.
00:35:39You are cooking.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:41No.
00:35:42You need, for example, to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Dinner, lunch.
00:35:48How did you leave if you don't...
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:59For lunch, I can cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's, yeah, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:16It's sushi.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Oh, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked for your other ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25We don't eat in-house or, no.
00:36:28If you want to eat, we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to...
00:36:33Oh, so you don't eat in the house.
00:36:34Never.
00:36:34Just for myself.
00:36:37Or for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family about me yet?
00:36:45Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco, Zied mentioned that he didn't tell anyone in his family that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad that Zied finally told them, but I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't set up a meeting.
00:37:09I want to know more about him and understand him a little bit more and I feel like meeting his
00:37:13family is the best way to do that.
00:37:16So do you think I can meet your family?
00:37:19Uh, I don't know which time they will be free or they will be there, for example.
00:37:26My father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet anyone in your family while I'm here?
00:37:33Maybe, yeah.
00:37:34That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think that's a little frustrating for me?
00:37:40It is, it is.
00:37:41I'm not missing your apartment.
00:37:42I'm not meeting your family.
00:37:43It is.
00:37:44Every one of my brothers, my father, everyone have her life.
00:37:51You know, this is the man that I love and that I want to be with.
00:37:55It's really odd that he wouldn't want to introduce me to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me feel like he's hiding me or hiding something about his life.
00:38:05And that's not okay.
00:38:08Have you ever introduced a girl to your parents?
00:38:10A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12No, no, no.
00:38:13The girls you date normally aren't just Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked to an American girl, like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:26Have you talked to girls from like Europe or?
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app that we met on is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah, I know.
00:38:37I was matched with a lot of girls, but I don't talk.
00:38:40We don't, we didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came to Morocco, me and Sia had gotten into a huge fight because I found out that he's
00:38:56still talking to a woman online.
00:38:58He told me that he wasn't cheating on me, but I'm not so sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded this extension on my laptop and it shows you in order who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning, I checked on my computer and I found out that he's still adding more women.
00:39:25They're all from different countries.
00:39:27I mean, it's like he's never stopped looking for other options.
00:39:31It feels like everything is hitting me all at once and I'm putting the pieces together.
00:39:37And it's just making me wonder if he did cheat on me or if he even really wants this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time to find out what's the real story here.
00:39:52I still really want to talk to your family.
00:39:55It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first.
00:40:00So they could have a better understanding.
00:40:03I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:40:08I need to be there with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest.
00:40:23So this is the area where there's a lot of, you know, street clubs.
00:40:33That's something we're going to have to do, you guys.
00:40:35I don't need to see that. All I need is my sheep.
00:40:39Forrest, it's not the point of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point of just observing other things.
00:40:47I have no interest in women, but the human body is beautiful.
00:40:53I don't even go to those in the States.
00:40:55On my construction job, that was our lunch because they cooked the best hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was amateur day.
00:41:04Oh, man.
00:41:12Oh, look at that tree coming right out of the wall.
00:41:15That's me, man.
00:41:16Mmm.
00:41:18My conversation with Sheena yesterday forced me to reevaluate how I'm going to approach Sheena's parents.
00:41:24And we decided that it's best to meet Sheena's family first without my mom and dad.
00:41:28So what other things are in, uh, what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles.
00:41:34So this is another historical site in Manila.
00:41:37So it's like a Spanish piece.
00:41:39Oh, man.
00:41:40I just have such a thing for history because you have to learn from history.
00:41:44Yes.
00:41:45Because history repeats itself.
00:41:47You can kind of predict what's going to happen if you don't learn from mistakes from the first time.
00:41:54You know, that's how I've always felt.
00:41:57I'm not looking forward to talking to my mom about this at all.
00:42:01She's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that her family is trying to get the hooks
00:42:06into me.
00:42:06Like, I'm going to go the first day, and they're just going to set me down,
00:42:10they're going to open up my brain, and they're just going to pour the brainwashing juice directly into my soul.
00:42:16And she's going to fight me tooth and nail to allow herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are at the Intramuros.
00:42:25Whoo!
00:42:28So this, you can see, it's like a garrison for Spanish governors.
00:42:33For all the important guys.
00:42:35Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish rulers at that era, yes.
00:42:39Mostly, like, 1600s.
00:42:40That is neat.
00:42:42Look at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's good stuff here.
00:42:45Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to see?
00:42:47Oh, so beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:48You can definitely tell that you're not in America anymore.
00:42:51You can see the constructions, the variation.
00:42:53Do you know what?
00:42:54One thing Deb and I talk about all the time is we'll look at a rock, and we say,
00:43:00you know, imagine how much this rock has seen.
00:43:06It all blows my mind right there.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's credit, she really is making the effort to show us the best of her country.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yeah.
00:43:19Yes, hard.
00:43:19How old is this?
00:43:20Probably a thousand years.
00:43:21I don't know.
00:43:22Yeah, you could try to open.
00:43:23Maybe something will pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to open it.
00:43:27But honestly, I don't regret going so hard on Sheena the other night like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get one of these hats.
00:43:35All in her hats.
00:43:37Yeah, that's what it look like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey, that's perfect.
00:43:40I want to believe she has good intentions.
00:43:43Yeah, you're so handsome.
00:43:46But we're just sitting here, stirring in the pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling to figure out why Sheena lied.
00:43:53And I know in my heart that there is more to this story.
00:43:58There.
00:43:59There.
00:44:00There.
00:44:01There.
00:44:01There.
00:44:02That's the monkey's walk.
00:44:04I'm going to sit down, guys.
00:44:06All right.
00:44:06I'm sweating like crazy.
00:44:08Oh, God.
00:44:09This is all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize how truly beautiful the Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes.
00:44:17Thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean, seeing this, meeting you, is so important.
00:44:24Mm-hmm.
00:44:25But there's still one little piece of the puzzle, and that's with your family.
00:44:32So I still really want to talk to them and discuss things.
00:44:39Well, I'm glad that you brought up, you know, Sheena's family.
00:44:47Sheena and I had a discussion about, you know, going by ourselves to meet your parents,
00:44:52and how it's important that I meet them before Mom and Dad meet them.
00:44:57So, Mom, I know that you wanted to go as a group to meet with Sheena's family, but we would
00:45:03really like it if you come the next day.
00:45:07Forrest.
00:45:08Isn't that right, babe?
00:45:10It would be best if Forrest wanted to meet my family first, so they could have a better understanding.
00:45:19I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
00:45:23If Sheena's family is able to manipulate Sheena the way that they do, with the whole tradition and the first
00:45:32oldest daughter thing, and that we're broke, then who's to say they can't manipulate Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:45I feel it is important that you have me and Dev to stand by your side.
00:45:53Just, we will come in and say our greetings, hello, how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling and screaming, I promise.
00:46:02And so, I was hoping that you would be in agreement to doing that, allowing us to come.
00:46:15Mom, we're not saying that we don't want you to be there.
00:46:18We want you to be there.
00:46:20We just want you to go the next day.
00:46:23Because we can talk about special pink fairy dust and all this other great things, but we live in reality,
00:46:31okay?
00:46:32And in reality, you are a very hardcore person.
00:46:37You know you are going to go and look for anything to be said.
00:46:43And I'm an adult.
00:46:44You need to treat me like an adult.
00:46:46I am not a child anymore.
00:46:49And you should be able to trust me and Sheena in our judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust Sheena yet.
00:46:55She has not trusted it.
00:46:56This is the perfect opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust you now.
00:46:59This is the perfect opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest.
00:47:04He will sacrifice his own self and do anything for Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole reason why I came here was to protect Forrest from Sheena's parents.
00:47:15This is total bull .
00:47:23Only moments away.
00:47:24This is so surreal.
00:47:27I'm meeting my husband, not just any man.
00:47:29I have a feeling that we're going to have some communication problem again.
00:47:34I don't know.
00:47:38Come on.
00:47:39Bobby, where are you?
00:47:44Oh, my God.
00:47:49Oh, wait.
00:47:49Oh, my God.
00:48:01He has a face.
00:48:03Oh, my God.
00:48:05Oh, my God.
00:48:07Oh, my God.
00:48:09Oh, my God.
00:48:11oh today is the date I'm going to meet my loving husband and I'm so excited it's
00:48:21just so surreal after being married for three years in a relationship for six
00:48:31years I finally get to meet my husband in person for the first time so crazy hi hello good morning
00:48:43I'm finally picking up my husband could you please bring us some champagne later on I suggested that
00:48:50we start this trip on our honeymoon so this morning I checked into this beautiful resort
00:48:57in Bicol but it's been raining ever since I showed up some people would think that it's a bad sign
00:49:05but
00:49:06you know I'm Catholic and for us water is cleansing for me it's a blessing some breath spray for the
00:49:14first kiss ever oh my god Javon here I come that are the airport please wow I feel like puking
00:49:30there's just so many emotions going on in my system right now I feel happy I feel excited I feel
00:49:39intense
00:49:40it's just the fact that I'm meeting my husband not just any man the same time I have a feeling
00:49:48though
00:49:49we're also gonna have some communication problem again I don't know but I don't want to be negative
00:49:57because this moment is very special to me I've been waiting for a long time so for today I'm gonna
00:50:05focus
00:50:05focus on the positive which is the love and the feelings we have for each other
00:50:19just touched down I'm very very excited about what's about to happen this is so surreal I can't believe
00:50:28that even though we almost been married for three years I'm about to meet my wife for the first time
00:50:35this moment is huge because it's been a build-up over years I'm excited but also I have a lot
00:50:42of
00:50:42anxiety because things are far from perfect right now I would love to get back to the place where me
00:50:50and
00:50:51Anna can have fun and laugh together and be happy in our relationship like how it was in the beginning
00:51:04this has been like an overdue dream for me I would always daydream of how it's gonna be how it
00:51:12would
00:51:12feel like I wonder how it feels to touch him to hold him oh my god the nervousness is just
00:51:22leveling up
00:51:23it's like ordering something online and when it finally arrives you're just excited to unpack the
00:51:31package just past customs I'm one step closer to seeing Anna and just so ready
00:51:48take that I'm waking up today and I'm finally she's son come on I'll be where are you to know
00:51:59my skin I'll soak it in
00:52:02um better days you just arrived and I'm ready now I've been waiting for my time and I won't get
00:52:12out
00:52:13everything I want can now begin take everything I want can now begin take everything as it comes
00:52:24mommy
00:52:40okay
00:52:41okay
00:53:10I've rehearsed the moment in my head a thousand times of how I
00:53:14how I was gonna approach her and what she was gonna look like and she's just everything that I
00:53:20ever hope for and more oh my god you're so fluffy you're very handsome and tall and yeah perfect it's
00:53:35just feels like a dream feels surreal like I still can't believe it but I just want more kisses
00:53:47still not enough
00:53:57like I can't even wrap my brain around it that I am standing next to my wife it just feels
00:54:05amazing
00:54:06and I'm ready for the honeymoon
00:54:18you look uncomfortable right now so I know you're okay with fine by me I'm comfortable with everything
00:54:25seeing your photos it's just it is just Laura says you're uncomfortable are you
00:54:39I will just show you some pictures
00:54:50so as you can see a horizontal problem here uh that we we should cut vertically we call it
00:54:58abdominoplasty but in public it's called tongue tuck okay so fix this area here and here in this part
00:55:05we can remove it okay when we do an FDL tummy tuck we have to cut in the middle of
00:55:12your tummy so it's almost
00:55:14impossible to hide it right okay you look uncomfortable right now so I'm curious if
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything Laura says you're uncomfortable are you
00:55:32didn't made me uncomfortable it kind of surprised me but it's just it is just people's life you know
00:55:42it is not a problem for me
00:55:49so overall all for uh 7175 dollars okay that's pretty much all the healing period usually the
00:55:59patients ask usually patients ask uh so six weeks okay all right so like anything I do at the gym
00:56:06pretty much exactly done for six weeks yes almost but approximately two to three weeks later you can
00:56:12start jogging and light exercises excellent and I'll have a packet of all this information of
00:56:19course it's already printed out okay thank you very much but we'll be in touch and if you have
00:56:26additional medical questions feel free to ask I love that I was just gonna ask if there was an email
00:56:31thank you thank you I appreciate your time I'm glad I did it but I feel really embarrassed about going
00:56:41to this appointment with Birkan I'm not fully confident that he's like physically attracted to me and having
00:56:52him in there with me has made me more insecure than ever so what are you thinking about surgery it's
00:57:03something that I've thought about for a long time now I feel like sometimes I'll catch a glimpse of
00:57:09myself and I feel like I don't look any different than I did 140 pounds ago and I hate that
00:57:14yeah okay I see if you feel more confident when you do it just do it this is your life
00:57:24okay you have to make your own decisions that shows you how brave you are you know thank you I
00:57:33don't feel like it's brave though this feels exactly the opposite of brave I feel like scared and embarrassed and
00:57:42like it's not brave
00:57:47but you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed you have the power to change your life you wanted a
00:57:58better
00:57:59body now you have it you lost all the weight you want this is the best part you just go
00:58:07into a surgery and enjoy your rest of your life you know and you are gorgeous
00:58:32I love how supportive Birkan is his words are so touching
00:58:42I feel like I feel like I'm finally starting to get some reassurance from him
00:58:48that yeah he really does love me and I can trust what he's saying
00:58:52you want to go now let's go
00:59:01you're the best I know that's my mojo
00:59:12since we've been dating have you talked romantically to any other girls
00:59:17no I don't
00:59:18I just don't want us to have any secrets
00:59:20so what about you
00:59:22when we match
00:59:23we're talking and one day
00:59:25we just go away
00:59:27can you just give me some details
00:59:29why you this prayer
00:59:40cute
00:59:42that is so cute
00:59:45that's like the cutest thing I've ever seen
00:59:47can we eat now
01:00:01this is so pretty
01:00:02yes
01:00:03do you want to sit over here
01:00:05you can sit right at this table
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated after the cooking class
01:00:09because I feel like the past couple days
01:00:12he's just been changing his story
01:00:14he's been telling different things to me online
01:00:16and in person
01:00:17oh this is what we made
01:00:20and then seeing what Sietta is doing on social media
01:00:23I feel like he has something that he's hiding
01:00:26or that he doesn't want to tell me
01:00:29this is all the more reason that
01:00:31I think every girl needs to do a little bit of stalking
01:00:35I would never like show up at someone's house
01:00:37in the middle of the night
01:00:38like that's like creepy stalker status
01:00:41but you know
01:00:42like some light digging is like totally normal
01:00:47I investigate
01:00:48I don't stalk
01:00:53we did a really good job
01:00:55yeah
01:00:56should we try it
01:01:03that's really good
01:01:04do you like it
01:01:08good
01:01:17you don't eat yours
01:01:19yeah I'm eating
01:01:20no you eat nothing
01:01:22you just
01:01:25I have a lot on my mind
01:01:27for example
01:01:31I don't know I'm just like thinking about
01:01:33about what
01:01:35just like the whole
01:01:40argument we got into a couple weeks ago
01:01:42what
01:01:43when I found out that you were still talking to girls
01:01:47and you haven't talked to any girls since
01:01:49no
01:01:50so you don't talk to girls on your social media
01:01:52social media
01:01:53it's
01:01:53just people who know me
01:01:56I've been looking at your page
01:01:59every day
01:02:01you follow new girls
01:02:02just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls
01:02:05and it's like thousands of people that you follow
01:02:08there is
01:02:08it's like respect
01:02:09if someone follow me
01:02:10I follow him back
01:02:11so what if they message you
01:02:12do you respond to messages too
01:02:15just people who
01:02:16they know me or I know them
01:02:18if girls try to flirt with you
01:02:19what do you say
01:02:19I would say thanks
01:02:21that's all
01:02:22so since we've been dating
01:02:24have you talked romantically to any other girls
01:02:29I speak only with you like something romantic
01:02:32because you are my girl
01:02:37so
01:02:37so you don't think you've ever cheated on me
01:02:42no I don't
01:02:43you would never cheat
01:02:44no
01:02:45or lie
01:02:46no
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets
01:02:49between each other
01:02:50for me
01:02:51everything on me
01:02:52I say to you
01:02:54I don't hide
01:02:54nothing
01:02:58anything she asks me
01:03:00I give her answers
01:03:01but in the beginning of our relationship
01:03:04she did something
01:03:06that confused me
01:03:07and I never
01:03:09ask her about it
01:03:11sometimes I see her reaction
01:03:13how she talked with me
01:03:15it's like she has
01:03:17like secret
01:03:18or something
01:03:19inside here
01:03:20it's like
01:03:21I feel it
01:03:23I want to feel like
01:03:24I can trust you
01:03:26and that like
01:03:27you're not ever going to do something
01:03:28behind my back
01:03:29like I don't ever want to have to worry about it
01:03:30I don't hide
01:03:31nothing
01:03:33so
01:03:35what about you
01:03:37do you have some secret to me
01:03:42no
01:03:44sure
01:03:48because
01:03:49I remember
01:03:50when we match
01:03:51we talking
01:03:52and one day
01:03:55where is she
01:03:56I don't know
01:03:57we just go away
01:03:59so
01:04:00when you come back
01:04:01I was waiting for you to talk
01:04:03you didn't talk
01:04:06can you just give me some details
01:04:08why you this prayer
01:04:11um
01:04:14I was just going through a bad breakup
01:04:16so no
01:04:17in
01:04:18in the same moments
01:04:19when we talk
01:04:20you feel with someone
01:04:21or by yourself
01:04:23I was going through a breakup
01:04:26when we speak
01:04:27in the first time
01:04:28you
01:04:29you give me a picture of you
01:04:30like you are single
01:04:32you know
01:04:33and you are not
01:04:34you are still with him
01:04:35well I was going through a breakup
01:04:38breakup
01:04:39I mean you're still talking with him
01:04:40like going through a breakup means
01:04:42still talking with him
01:04:44we were going through a breakup
01:04:46I have to repeat again
01:04:47I have to repeat
01:04:48no
01:04:48so you don't
01:04:49you don't want to
01:04:50I was going through a breakup
01:04:52that's my answer
01:04:53I was going through a breakup
01:04:55I wasn't in the right headspace
01:04:57to start a relationship
01:05:01me and Zied have actually never talked about
01:05:04why I ended things with him
01:05:05when we first started dating
01:05:07so I'm really shocked
01:05:09to hear Zied bringing this up right now
01:05:11I mean honestly
01:05:12I did kind of just drop him
01:05:14and disappear
01:05:14because I was trying to make things work
01:05:16with my ex
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied
01:05:22about Mohamed
01:05:23but
01:05:24I feel like with the way Zied
01:05:26is like badgering me
01:05:27for this information right now
01:05:28he wouldn't take it well
01:05:32so
01:05:33I'm just not really ready
01:05:35to tell him
01:05:36in this moment
01:05:38that was a long time ago
01:05:40right?
01:05:41no
01:05:41I want to
01:05:42I want to listen
01:05:43to the details
01:05:44I'm here with you now
01:05:45and I want to be with you now
01:05:46I'm not talking with now
01:05:47yeah
01:05:48what I'm talking about now
01:05:49because I want to be with you now
01:05:50and focus on right now
01:05:52us being together
01:05:55she's being weird
01:05:57she don't want to tell me everything
01:05:59and when I speak with her
01:06:02in the subject
01:06:03she changed the subject
01:06:05for another subject
01:06:10right now
01:06:11I see
01:06:12like
01:06:13she's hiding
01:06:14a lot of things
01:06:15and
01:06:16I can't
01:06:17to be engaged
01:06:18with someone
01:06:18who has this secret
01:06:27wow
01:06:27would you do all this?
01:06:29yeah
01:06:29I am very nervous
01:06:31because
01:06:32it has been
01:06:33almost a decade
01:06:34since I had sex
01:06:36okay
01:06:38well if the positions
01:06:40have changed
01:06:41do I still know
01:06:43how it's gonna go?
01:06:45Jovan
01:06:45you ready for me?
01:06:50now how is it
01:06:51all of a sudden
01:06:52you can miraculously change
01:06:54and stand up
01:06:55to your parents?
01:06:56well my family
01:06:56isn't the bad people
01:06:57now the story
01:06:59changes again
01:07:01lying
01:07:02not keeping
01:07:03her story straight
01:07:04that's where I have
01:07:05an issue
01:07:06I still don't know
01:07:07if this isn't something
01:07:08that you're involved in either
01:07:10but they're gonna have you
01:07:11snooker before you even
01:07:13realize it
01:07:13Forrest
01:07:26I'm so happy
01:07:27really?
01:07:28yeah
01:07:29what?
01:07:30I can just look at you all night
01:07:53I just met my wife
01:07:55for the first time
01:07:56in person
01:07:57man I dreamed about this day
01:07:59for a long time
01:08:00this is freaking huge
01:08:04right now
01:08:04we're on our way
01:08:05to the resort
01:08:06that Anna booked
01:08:07and it's a very surreal feeling
01:08:11before I met you
01:08:13I have a lot of thought about this
01:08:17daydream about this
01:08:18wild dream about this
01:08:20yeah
01:08:20wet dreams about
01:08:23but then it's funny because
01:08:25even though we're married
01:08:26I was a bit worried about
01:08:28I was thinking like
01:08:29oh my god
01:08:29like
01:08:30am I gonna be shy?
01:08:32but I feel like
01:08:33I can fart over here
01:08:35right now
01:08:40Anna's personality
01:08:41is a big ball of energy
01:08:43and she's a little wacky
01:08:45and she can literally
01:08:46hold a conversation
01:08:47all on her own
01:08:50pretty much the opposite of me
01:08:52but what can I say
01:08:53that's my wife
01:08:57so am I what
01:08:58you were expecting?
01:09:00you're exactly
01:09:01what I was expecting
01:09:04my beautiful
01:09:05shatty wife
01:09:10here we are
01:09:15this is really nice
01:09:17that's why I picked it
01:09:18it's got good taste
01:09:20you know
01:09:21yes
01:09:23so
01:09:23ready
01:09:27okay
01:09:27you got it?
01:09:28yeah
01:09:29good
01:09:29no
01:09:31you heavy
01:09:34no don't throw me away
01:09:36don't throw you?
01:09:38no
01:09:39you may look tiny
01:09:40but you heavy though
01:09:42wow
01:09:43would you do all this?
01:09:44yeah
01:09:44okay
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night
01:09:49for six years
01:09:50it's our honeymoon
01:09:52and seeing the rose petals
01:09:54on the bed
01:09:54you know
01:09:55the environment's right
01:09:57for us to
01:09:58you know
01:09:59to
01:10:01get it in
01:10:05yeah
01:10:06yeah
01:10:07boo
01:10:07this is yours
01:10:11these come with the room?
01:10:14yeah
01:10:14okay
01:10:15you can take this off
01:10:16oh
01:10:17I'm kind of scared
01:10:18to take my socks off
01:10:19yeah
01:10:23oh
01:10:23I can smell that
01:10:33I was wearing boots
01:10:34I haven't taken a shower
01:10:36in like
01:10:36why would you wear boots
01:10:3733 hours
01:10:3933 hour flight
01:10:43get a big whiff man
01:10:44that's what you're gonna have to deal with
01:10:45on a day to day basis
01:10:46do you want to take a shower?
01:10:48please do
01:10:50all right
01:10:50okay
01:10:51I'll be right out
01:10:54I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon
01:10:58but I did not expect that the feet would smell so badly
01:11:06it smelled terrible
01:11:13okay
01:11:15I am very nervous
01:11:16because
01:11:17oh my god
01:11:19never been with a man for a long time
01:11:22it has been almost a decade since I had sex
01:11:27okay
01:11:28yeah
01:11:28look at you
01:11:30better
01:11:30I am worried a little bit
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him
01:11:35I don't know
01:11:38well if the positions have changed
01:11:40do I still know how it's gonna go?
01:11:44like
01:11:44I don't know
01:11:51Juvon
01:11:51you ready for me?
01:11:55hey
01:11:55yeah
01:11:57look at you
01:11:58mm-hmm
01:11:59good
01:12:00boo
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks
01:12:07but so far Juvon and I are off to a really romantic start
01:12:11all right
01:12:12you ready?
01:12:12you ready?
01:12:13yeah
01:12:13yeah
01:12:13but oh my god
01:12:16I've never seen any married couple that took three years before doing it
01:12:22wish me luck
01:12:37sheena if we go and meet your parents
01:12:42I agree to not speak out of turn
01:12:46and I don't believe you're going to do that
01:12:48and we cannot mess this up with sheena's family
01:13:04okay
01:13:06sheena your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along
01:13:12the cultural thing and the duty of the family
01:13:16now how is it all of a sudden under one day you can miraculously change and stand up to your
01:13:22parents
01:13:23well my family isn't the bad people
01:13:26it's just that probably got misunderstood
01:13:28oh now the story changes again
01:13:31again
01:13:32you told me yourself
01:13:34yes mom
01:13:35that you are pressured and you're scared of your family remember
01:13:40yes mom
01:13:40but I am
01:13:41you're scared of your family
01:13:43and I could know
01:13:44but now you feel totally safe and
01:13:47yes I understand
01:13:48ah how that switches
01:13:51sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people
01:13:55it's like what what are you saying
01:13:58that's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along
01:14:03oh they're mistreating me they're gonna kick me out
01:14:06they call me names all of this and now the story switches
01:14:10it's hard to think bad of your parent
01:14:13you can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents
01:14:17where my problem is is her lying not keeping her story straight
01:14:22that's where I have an issue
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either
01:14:30it would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys
01:14:34your family of course doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States
01:14:40so you get forced to come over there
01:14:43and then it's twice the amount of money
01:14:45to your parents
01:14:47and he will be the grunt just like you are
01:14:51stop don't I don't do that I love my person I love your son I love more than anything
01:14:56I have self respect for your son
01:14:57but I'm just saying my fear is Forrest is gonna say and do anything just to keep your love
01:15:04and then find out that it was all a con
01:15:09mom you acting this way has proven my point
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family
01:15:20that was it and look at where we're sitting right now
01:15:23you can't even hold your temper
01:15:26my mom is saying things that are way out of line
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in danger
01:15:36or hurt me
01:15:36I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice
01:15:44but instead she's always just nuking it which makes everything worse
01:15:51Mom I don't think one day is truly going to change everything
01:15:55Forrest it's not even the point
01:15:58We've gone beyond that it's already gone beyond that
01:16:01you know why it's gone beyond that
01:16:03because of the fact that you don't trust me
01:16:11I have bust my ass
01:16:14trying to make sure
01:16:16to be there for you
01:16:19and to be there for her
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you
01:16:22that I would bring you all the way here to the Philippines?
01:16:25That took a lot of trust to bring you here
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me
01:16:33that I won't blow up
01:16:35The reason why I blow up has always been to protect him
01:16:42But to see how
01:16:46he's taken that protection
01:16:48and made it a problem
01:16:50it's painful
01:16:52and I will not be anybody's problem
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom
01:16:59Go handle it now
01:17:01We're not trying to hurt you
01:17:02They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it
01:17:05Forrest
01:17:07So, good luck guys
01:17:08Good luck
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best
01:17:18that she's not coming
01:17:28Oh my god, is it really you?
01:17:36He devoured me
01:17:39When we get to the room
01:17:40then, uh, maybe I will chew you
01:17:42No
01:17:47Oh my god, you better stop
01:17:49Oh my god, Daniel
01:17:51Oh my god
01:18:01I don't mind being here for morning to night
01:18:05Our wits
01:18:07Our wits
01:18:08Our wits
01:18:09Our wits
01:18:18I am having a little lovers
01:18:25I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel
01:18:28Excuse me
01:18:31Hello
01:18:31Hello
01:18:32Hello
01:18:32This is a beginning chapter
01:18:35No matter what it is
01:18:37whether it's good or bad
01:18:38it's going to change everything in my life right now
01:19:00Oh my god
01:19:02Oh my god
01:19:02Oh my god
01:19:02Oh my god
01:19:05Oh my god
01:19:11I want to look at you
01:19:12Let me look at you
01:19:14Let me look at you
01:19:14It's so beautiful
01:19:16Oh my god
01:19:19Oh my god
01:19:25Oh my god
01:19:26Oh my god
01:19:42Oh my god
01:19:43Oh my god
01:19:46When we get to the room
01:19:47then, uh, maybe I will chew you
01:19:49No
01:19:50Oh my god
01:19:55Oh my god
01:19:55You better stop
01:19:57Oh my god
01:19:59Oh my god
01:20:00Oh my god
01:20:00Is it really you?
01:20:01Is it really you?
01:20:02Oh my god
01:20:14Don't cry.
01:20:15I'm trying not to cry.
01:20:17Don't you cry.
01:20:18You know what I'm happy.
01:20:22She's more gorgeous than I think.
01:20:24More beautiful than the flowers I gave her.
01:20:28Really?
01:20:29Yeah.
01:20:30No, I'm a mess.
01:20:31I've been on a plane for hours.
01:20:32Yeah, no, baby, come on.
01:20:34You're such an easy stable bill for Angel.
01:20:37Oh, my God, baby.
01:20:39I love you.
01:20:43Oh, my God.
01:20:44I don't know what to do.
01:20:45I don't know what to do next.
01:20:47Okay, we should go.
01:20:48Let me get my, are you going to get the luggage?
01:20:50I will get this.
01:20:50You get that one?
01:20:52Which way?
01:20:53There.
01:21:00What the heck?
01:21:07Baby!
01:21:11Did you do this for me?
01:21:13Did you really do this?
01:21:24Good God!
01:21:38I walked out and there's music and it's loud and there's dancers dancing around and I'm thinking
01:21:44what the hell is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country but no this is
01:21:51about me Daniel set this up for me I plan to welcome
01:22:20her like a queen that's why I invited traditional dancers I am happy that she joined the dancers and
01:22:27the way she's laughing I am very sure about Lisa at this moment
01:22:43oh my god that was so amazing thank you
01:23:02what are you doing
01:23:19next time on before the 90 days this one is for you
01:23:28today we're traveling meet Sheena's family with our goal of getting their blessing to be married
01:23:33they have a lot of questions for you first it's your career the truth is I'm quite frustrated for us
01:23:41haven't saved anything for a future you're an adult you can find a job you have to be man out
01:23:47of it
01:23:49I brought condoms too baby go take your shower get everything ready
01:23:54it's been 21 years since I've been with a man
01:23:57let me take your shower I want it to happen
01:23:59wait what if I want it and he doesn't want me
01:24:08when we first started talking he was so sweet calling me his wife within like 10 minutes
01:24:15so you are looking to get married yes
01:24:19dad you're actually in the next step and a push it makes us our honey
01:24:24she lied about something
01:24:27sometimes you overstep just a little bit we had that argument and you call my sister
01:24:34I love you but you are a little bit on hands
01:24:38oh my god I can't believe you're born right now
01:24:42you done done with this conversation
01:24:47well this is something you didn't tell me about
01:24:50stop can you just calm down because I wanted a secret for what four months now
01:24:55now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to do with her ex
01:25:01the wizard I didn't told you is it's trying to get me back
01:25:10I went to Istanbul but I couldn't find a job
01:25:14so with my debt I am just broke
01:25:17did you say your debts?
01:25:20yeah
01:25:21how much is it?
01:25:25I don't want to give you a heart attack
01:25:28thank you
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