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00:01this romance is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:12garçon okay breathe is possible but you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing
00:21a cool an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of
00:34your
00:34parents work or a sudden shock to the senses none of these daters know what to expect i have this
00:44forever erect nipple what happens next is up to them cute would you like to see each other again
00:59romantically who goes first a romance comes in different shapes little gestures which make
01:13that person see you morning i think we all need to take a leaf out mateo's book you know go
01:20back to
01:20the old school he's such an old school romantic okay you're late for the night he's a bundle of
01:26love in the room just like heart emojis just going out and radiating we do love mateo we do love
01:36him
01:36he's just a cupid just going around just making the matches happen take care of each other all right
01:41i would consider myself old school full stop plus romantic yeah back to work
01:57busy influencer cloda lives for attention some of which she could live without
02:07i'm recording every moment of my life i have done for 10 and a half years yeah keep it rolling
02:14click that
02:15helps sometimes with dating i don't chase i attract but it definitely attracts the wrong kind as well
02:22sometimes but i suppose that's what i signed up for
02:28hello how are we look at you huh i've been waiting for you i've been waiting for you eh hey
02:35it's actually really exciting for me that like i have no idea who's gonna walk through that door
02:39i was just at a festival for three days yeah hence the horse voice how was it oh so good
02:43yeah i'm a
02:44festival girl if you want a festival then you go to amsterdam any festival you choose is like oh man
02:50really yeah all people our age no kids i'm probably a little too young then am i yeah yeah yeah
02:56i'd ruin
02:57the crack i'd ruin the party i give up on the date naps this year i just decided they are
03:03not for
03:04me i just much prefer to meet people out in the wild well welcome to the first dates restaurant thank
03:09you
03:18very much
03:18as a dater mons brings a lot to the table as a chef not so much have you ever cooked
03:26for a date i tried it
03:28once it didn't go well she didn't like it and she made it very clear we ended up just ordering
03:35food
03:35after was there a second date after that it was like yeah but like i just never cooked again
03:44hi how are you very good nice to meet you you're good looking chap thank you very much thank you
03:49very
03:49much how are you keeping i'm fantastic looking forward to this i feel like i'm a fun person to be
03:53around well i hope i am anyways i just like someone to get along with like hopefully to match my
03:59energy
04:00hello hi nice to meet you how are you nice to meet you what's your name mons what are you
04:04mons clona
04:05how are you fine i'm going to go yourself good good where are you from where are you from where
04:10are you
04:11from i'm from warford oh nice i'm from tip oh tip oh geez monster that's very close
04:16sorry my eyes actually tearing off because the wind it's okay i know people do get quite emotional
04:29is there anyone out there yes elaine and thankfully she's come along
04:39i talked to spirits who's passed
04:45i just have them wake me up in the middle of the night and all you know
04:50the spirit's very funny as well you know they'd be cracking jokes
04:55can you hear spirits in the room right now no i blocked myself before i came in just in case
05:00they were you can protect yourself by blocking yourself yeah but it doesn't always work
05:06it's intense but i love it
05:08i think i think i think i'm a bit crazy when they first meet me like hello hi
05:32hi i think a good kind of crazy but i don't know i just want a someone who even if
05:40they're not into
05:40the same i'm into just be like there's my crazy bitch do you know what i mean like and support
05:45me
05:45being a crazy bitch do you know that way i love to moon bed it's literally i'm sitting at my
05:51back
05:51in my pajamas with blankets on me and i'm watching i'm under the moon you know instead of the sun
05:56i love um sea swims and hiking i love um i do a bit volunteer work with adults that live
06:04alone with
06:04special needs and intellectual disability so i help them like clean and organize their houses
06:08i do bring them to get their haircuts do their shopping now and all that's beautiful
06:12like yeah she's very fun to you nia one of my guys really yeah he fancied you really i'm flattered
06:19so you have to get a picture with me later absolutely let's do it now yeah come on let's go
06:24okay
06:27there you go good for geez you're stunning on the camera wow thank you yeah let's hear it right
06:34oh yes my man be happy with this definitely for mama mama look at me
06:45are you a picture of the food kind of last and puts it on a story nah it's on my
06:50story i just take
06:50it for memories and stuff like or sometimes for memories yeah but like oh that was some steak
06:56no no it's because it was like that was the steak i ate when i met
07:00it's the memory of the time describe your ideal woman people are going to kill me for this but kim
07:07kardashian i'm sorry when i was like 15 16 i had a huge crush on her like you just haven't
07:14grown
07:14out of that yet nah i don't think i ever will either like i think she's fantastic i've been
07:17singles like late 2020 how about yourself i've been single for like two and a half ish years
07:24like i've been in a few situationships now oh we've all been there unfortunately how do you find
07:30being single it's rough out there it is rough out there do you have like blonde hair hair yeah oh
07:37nice it looks good i like that thank you i just got it done thank you for noticing you're welcome
07:41can i
07:42have a chip of course you can oh my god there was a lad a couple of weeks ago i
07:47was on a night out
07:47he comes over and he just does this he like tops my arm and says follow me what type of
07:54stuff
07:55what type of stuff are you into like what like that's a crazy question to ask so early on no
08:00no no
08:00no no no no no no no no no i don't mean like that like i mean like your hobbies
08:04and stuff you're so
08:07funny man oh my god how long are you single eight years and i do feel like only now i'm
08:18ready for
08:19something do you know what i mean yeah you know what's time to go back out there fair play to
08:22you
08:22i'm searching for my twin flame we complete each other i believe my angels are going to hook me up
08:33darren has his sights set on the perfect woman and he's aiming high
08:44brunette nice eyes nice friendly smile good personality good conversation
08:53like a latino goddess something like that i may as well shoot for the stars we might land on the
09:02moon
09:02look now welcome
09:11dobrovecze prijatelje štai ima korsi dobro sam we go spodine i've been to croatia and a few
09:16toys i did you have holidays picked up a little few holidays yeah always that cool he's here oh is
09:22easy huh you got swag he's got swag he's got swag he's got swag do your date is at the
09:26bar
09:26so enjoy it here we go now here we go now hello nice to meet you nice to meet you
09:33nice to meet you
09:34darren nice to meet you how are you good good good all good all good all good so where'd you
09:40come from
09:41today uh donna big oh yeah myself italic okay okay how long are you single jesus straight in there yeah
09:50it's only because he just asked me so it's just in my mind two years two years and career have
09:55you
09:56any kids i do yeah two two yeah boy and a girl jamie 24 and 19. ah no minding them
10:02yeah yourself
10:04just one door she's 12. i haven't had many dates like most dates i've been on but now a
10:11girl for a while before i initiated any sort of romantic gesture what do you do yourself
10:18i'm an energy heater like a reiki and all that sort of stuff yeah what do you get off my
10:24energy
10:25i got a nice calm energy off you yeah yeah i'll take that it can be quite a force i
10:31like to
10:31absorb everything that's going on around me but once you get to know me i'm i'm not quite
10:37and you're gonna do starters or desserts or desserts perfect yeah you can get the hearts if you want to
10:43have to have it don't you have to have it iconic i have to get one of them to smash
10:48it yeah and then
10:49see if you can heal it
10:57as she navigates the sea of love sarah is wary of ships that pass in the night
11:08i swear to god the heartbreak of a situationship is nearly worse than an actual relationship it's so
11:13bad and shaking me up so you feel like you're in a relationship you're committed to that person
11:19but i just don't think the lads see it that way
11:23nobody wants to settle down like everyone just wants to mess around
11:27and i'm just not here for it
11:30how are you how are you how are you i'm fair anyways kind of hoping you might be able to
11:35find me a decent
11:35lad at least i am having my comfort zone but sure look it is what it is they get you
11:41to the bar
11:41yeah that'd be great yeah i'm from very small village in wicklow it's kind of the back arse of nowhere
11:49to be
11:50honest i would kind of like a bit of a culture maybe i agree spec kind of man i wouldn't
11:56mind a farmer
11:56now i'm a fan of a man in wellies just someone that's sound out like yeah i kind of like
12:01taking
12:02the piss out of people so yeah i'd like them to take the piss out of me yeah yeah yeah
12:06yeah
12:06definitely like a ga lad as well i'd love to be a little like wag supporting on the sidelines
12:12milks the cows during the day and then plays gazi
12:15training in the evening oh yeah
12:22one day maybe even today peter will find a match to match the match of all matches 2012
12:31i must have been seven or eight father was almost in tears whenever he was watching
12:36oh jimmy's running my chest it means so much to donna gall people they say in claire brian
12:44lohan is their god jimmy guinness is our messiah
12:55well how's things good man yourself what's your name peter nice to meet you peter where you coming from
13:00donna gall the best thing about donna gall obviously the running all team the people
13:08the firemen the scenes let's do some dating huh why not let's get started
13:15football special oh my god football special too how did i forget that
13:19ah how are you hi how's things how are you how's things how are you how's things how are you
13:24good man peter nice to meet you peter ah lovely to meet you too where are you from donna gall
13:29oh yeah that's kind of unfortunate for you too isn't it
13:36football wise oh don't get me started
13:50what are you in the mood for
13:55cocktail go on do you like a negroni surprise me why not what even is a negroni
14:01it's strong now do you like your strong cocktails ah he'll have a strong one all right yeah see there
14:06you go you got a strong one you need to catch up here you know
14:16so last year i spent a whole year dating to date i wasn't dating for an outcome i wasn't dating
14:22to
14:22find the husband to find a boyfriend to do any of this i think when you put that pressure on
14:26yourself
14:26yourself and the universe that's a lot of pressure to put on someone you just start talking the first
14:30time in my opinion it's a stranger i just love to know that somebody has their own life because i
14:34am a
14:34busy girl the nine to five has never worked for me i'm more of a like i'll work on a
14:39saturday and
14:39a sunday and a monday and i might take tuesday off for myself my work we start on wednesday because
14:43i work nice so tomorrow morning i'm gonna go gym i want to chill out i'm gonna go to sleep
14:47before work
14:48next morning i'm going with you after you know like you just i like i just like routine like i
14:52know
14:52what i'm gonna do for the week you kind of have to yeah so where do you have time in
14:56your life for a
14:56woman then i can make time if they're if it's the right woman i can make time
15:04have you ever dated anyone with kids or anything like that no do you have kids no do you i
15:12have three
15:15wow two girls and one boy what age is today 10 7 she's gonna be eating actually oh my little
15:23my little boy he's only five oh so do you co-parent oh yeah yeah like we get on really
15:29well like she's
15:30such a good mother like so i have a lot to live up they are very good their mom does
15:34a very good job
15:35with them that's it's great like except for maybe like when you have to shower them their hair i don't
15:41do a really good job with the hair when a mom does it's just perfect and i just i just
15:45can't get it
15:46like and i've tried my i always try my best i've been singing like what four years now going five
15:50years
15:51like no one's ever met my kids like i don't i wouldn't feel comfortable interested in my kids
15:54to anyone unless like unless they were so right yeah but they didn't obviously they can't be
15:59difficult like for example if i see like i'm into someone and stuff obviously i let them know like
16:02because kids are like a big part of my life i'm not gonna you're quite young how many kids i
16:08was like
16:0820 21 and 21 my first year in college so i had my childhood yeah yeah i moved out when
16:14i was 16.
16:14oh you had you had the baby and all so you had to like you've got your own place did
16:18you just yeah
16:19just an apartment yeah yeah i'd say that was a shock to the system two 16 year old i don't
16:24know
16:24it all just walked out that way to run away the day jamie's born and he got handed to me
16:30yeah something just switched like so i literally became a man at 16.
16:40yeah yeah i don't like it involved too much for me do you mind cleaning up no i've ocd so
16:47yeah
16:49i have ocd adhd i have autism i have ecolia i only got diagnosed in 22. i thought it would
16:58be life
16:59changing but it kind of made my whole life make sense you like that like big crowds and stuff
17:05you need to think it was a bit yeah yeah yeah yeah this pub full of people i can hear
17:09like every
17:10conversation going on yeah some people say why don't you go and i'm like it's just kind of
17:14over anymore it's too overwhelmingly yeah i very rarely go out so it's very hard to meet someone
17:19have we ever been on a blind date like this same i was at a blind deb's
17:24uh huh my friend rob rang and he was like my friends boys after breaking off on the deb's
17:29it's tonight will you come and i was like all right okay it was actually it's that he spent the
17:33whole night crying trying to get back with his ex kind of lovely yeah but i still had a great
17:37night
17:46get down to you know will you don't you rush me in us my house was like mad this morning
17:52just
17:53but everyone trying to help me like figure out what to wear oh it was so bad how many is
17:58in your
17:58family six six children yeah wow what are you are the oldest youngest oh you're the youngest oh my
18:05class my siblings would be like jesus like when you want to find a fella and like i just to
18:10be honest
18:10i don't know when is a fella going to find me really like that thing i'm not so bad i'm
18:15an only child
18:16so are you to get the farm all to yourself that's stressful though twice the work yeah
18:22we have to do all the chores all the farm work you're at the hard labors yeah so is it
18:28just sheep you do
18:28or is it like sheep and sheep and cattle and like are you in a like town or a village
18:35i'm in a village
18:37called
18:38call call what m-u-f-f
18:50call
18:57what how is that like real like how is that
19:03i i was i was just kind of counting how many times you would say muff five times did you
19:08actually
19:08count it
19:16that's it
19:17david is all set to be the life and soul of the party he just loves a big dude
19:23oh oh oh woke up today most of my teenage life has been spent in the pursuit of hair volume
19:31oh oh oh look at my hair i used to beg my mom to let me strain my hair on
19:37my own
19:37today i used to fry my hair used to watch it sizzle i've got my hairspray and radio i'm ready
19:44to go
19:45man you're on the mission huh i am i feel like i've been fired out of a cannon
19:49uh your brother vibrate you're cool man good morning boston you look good thank you it's very 80s i
19:57love it yeah funky this isn't a lot this is a moment once i have a good hair day that's
20:02just you know
20:02i can i feel like i can take on the world and what are you looking for mostly a good
20:08time okay yeah good
20:09and if they like me that's only a bonus well they'll have to like i mean how can you not
20:13like this this is
20:14class some people do find my personality a bit intimidating well then they're not for you that's the thing
20:18you know i'm not willing to tame myself for anybody and nobody ever should like
20:28hiya carl has learned how to make quality connections by transmitting on his own unique
20:34frequency i grew up with being labeled oh you're the weird kids but then i found more people who were
20:43like on my wavelength as we got older we realized a lot of people might not like you but that's
20:53okay
20:56find friends who do and stick with them instead
21:05i know it's i knew i'd overthink the door it doesn't matter perfection is boring you know i usually
21:10do like someone that's like really goofy and laid back and has kind of a more unique vibe this walk
21:16here it's like what's happening i was just walking down being like okay all i have to do is just
21:21open the
21:21door and then i pulled the wrong door and you know what i've already made that mistake so now if
21:27anything else happens it's fine yeah yeah worst comes to worst this is like a great tinder bio
21:32as featured on hi how are you davis nice to meet you how are you doing i'm well
21:41service yeah listen i don't bite so i'm sure safe i love your hair thank you very much hi how
21:48are you
21:48hiya oh look at this look at that i mean your hair's gorgeous to be fair
21:56i think you have to be very happy with yourself and satisfied with yourself before you get involved
21:59with other people it's true have to set boundaries with people as well she said boundaries yeah you have
22:04set boundaries we love the boundaries that in king they definitely did in like past relationships
22:09allow someone to overstep my boundaries a lot and i became like this little insecure shell of
22:16myself that wasn't me i'll never let myself go back to being that girl again i've done loads of
22:21therapy i've done loads of like so it's always good to talk to someone though it's really important
22:25to talk to somebody i've never had a therapy session in my life really never i think absolutely
22:29everybody can benefit from therapy i think your mental health is like the most important thing
22:34i was never brought up to like deal with emotion and things like that like i remember my dad
22:38he he actually passed away in 2020 i didn't tell my ex at the time when he passed away i
22:43didn't tell
22:43her for a couple of weeks he used to live in england so we had to bring the body back
22:47so by the time
22:48everything was sorted obviously i said it to her then like but i do believe a man does have to
22:53be
22:53strong but should be able to open up at the same time but yeah i'm a little yeah i'm a
22:58little more in
22:58touch with my emotions now anyway i feel like i need someone to bring to like take me out my
23:02comfort
23:02zone i love people who are just very out there chatty because just to bring they're bringing
23:06out another side of you as well as much as i am secure and happy single there's other times where
23:13you're just like when am i gonna meet my person i'm ready like
23:18do you want my chips i don't want to finish your tips of course you can you can have it
23:23bro it's just
23:23it's not good did you call me bro no no i said you can have it though oh that you're
23:30like you have
23:31bro i was like maybe i did am i your bro maybe i did no no but it's just it's
23:37that's the way i talk
23:39to literally everyone uh it's just rolls out my tongue all the time but no you're not my bro you're
23:48um you're a nice person you're a nice girl thank you nice girl you're nice too thank you i appreciate
23:55that i was very pleased when i saw you and obviously if you're a very child person like yeah that's
24:00been actually great like no honestly i've had a good time cheers
24:08should be my type yeah she's pretty she's a good energy about her cool we're off to a flyer then
24:14so
24:14it's a love to hear so far so good fingers crossed my mind he's a really nice guy and he's
24:20really
24:20hot like the conversation has flown yeah it's flown but i don't know i feel like i am kind of
24:28initiating
24:29the conversation a lot more like it's early days it's early days oh do you listen he goes what you
24:35do
24:35and i said an energy healer he goes we'll get the heart and we'll smash it and see if you
24:39can put it
24:40back together because you're a healer what will you do if the spirits tried to
24:44contact you during the date i will chat with them before i go in and i'll say listen no to
24:50chat but
24:51if i go to the toilet you can pass on a message then i could get messages for someone three
24:56tables
24:56away so if i hear someone saying their name if i go and someone says oh hiya sarah and i'd
25:02be like
25:02that's the sarah with the messages for so i'll say here listen by the way i was in the toilet
25:06and
25:07mary says your china's under your pillow do you know what i mean now we have two wines oh yeah
25:14perfect
25:15thank you so much one for the lady oh you're very good thank you and one for this one thank
25:22you very
25:22much thank you you're looking at me in the yellow thank you very much thank you you're welcome i actually
25:27do yeah thank you well i know if you're fancying your date if i'm kind of i'd go and smile
25:33and say
25:33it could be a bit awkward as well that's that's definitely another one now
25:45that's why do you have to hold it like this do you no i just hold it like that play
25:49if i was trying to
25:51flirt like i'm just going up and taking the piss out with someone really my hands are that delicate
25:55you know like they're not that big like you don't need to grasp the glass my friends say my hands
26:00are
26:00like sandpaper like the feel of it just sandpaper your hands aren't even that big like are they like
26:06sandpaper like that like they're not that bad i'm doing that thing you're not doing stop it right now
26:20i'm not allergic i think i'm just such a picky eater jigging nuggets chips maybe beans my family's
26:28polish and i go there polish food is so like oh it's just it's like cold chicken inside like gelatin
26:34like it's all like communist era in 1980s like i like the 80s but that was like poland it was
26:39not
26:39god so if somebody doesn't get my sense of humor which can be very dry and very sarcastic we are
26:45dead in the water i love bantering with people that's like my love language oh i'm a yapper pro yapper
26:50by the way where are you from uh balaymond really yeah where are you from from lincoln oh fair enough
26:55opposite ends of the 13 rest in peace the 13. i'm proud of where i'm from i hate when people
27:02kind of
27:02have like a lesser than mentality i went to college and you see when people were like oh i live
27:07in a student
27:07accommodation and while i'm on it's such a dive and i'm like oh i'm from there like oh oh and
27:11you
27:11went to college good for you and i'm like okay wow so i worked in a student union for a
27:16year that's
27:16fun though that was so fun my favorite thing was planning freshers and booking jedward did you get
27:21to meet them they're so nice yeah in the first five minutes of being on stage doesn't one of them
27:26just like do a bit of a jump across the stage and land on his ankle oh they said grand
27:31and got back up
27:31anyways i used to be a competitive dancer and i did that same mistake i landed like i sprained my
27:37ankle on stage i set out for a month covid came around by the time i healed and i just
27:41never went
27:41back to it oh go back to it i hate dancing well i'm a theater kid but i don't like
27:46dancing i am quite
27:47outgoing and quite loud even like i very much fit to build my friends of being like annoying theater
27:52kids what's your opinion on dinosaurs i went to a dinosaur phase i used to pretend i was a dinosaur
27:56and
27:56like bite my friends i feel like i need to see you do your best impression of a dinosaur i'd
28:00be like
28:01i want someone that if i was like on an iowa on the way to the bus stop we will
28:06start a really
28:07annoying sing song down the road my friend at scotland got a noise complaint because i was screaming
28:12like a version of my madonna while walking down the street to our apartment after a night out
28:15that's just that's how i roll i can't sing for the life of me to be fair it seems like
28:19you're the
28:19dancer and i'm the singer so we make one good theater performance so yeah we can do this
28:27he's lovely he's from waterford go on monster and are you finished eating yeah i'm done i think
28:34she's someone to chip so i'm not 100 sure i'll leave it in case i'll just leave that there for
28:37her a few
28:37months and like yeah yeah and i'll come back in a bit just in case thank you very much not
28:40at all
28:45did you put more chips on my plate when i was gone i thought you i don't want to have
28:49it like you can
28:49have it though i don't mind that was really sweet that you did that when i was gone you're welcome
28:52well tonight yay
29:02you going away this year or have you been away i haven't been away this year no i was away
29:08last
29:09year i was in morocco oh so was i i went actually went in october i went on my own
29:13first time going
29:14away on my own ever i've been away on my own a couple of times yeah enjoy what's most important
29:20to
29:20you in a partner i suppose someone who doesn't mind talking about their feelings and communicating
29:25have everything on the table basically what's your work and i work in like supermarket all right for the
29:32study and acting in gaiety yeah i'm doing a part of time okay for the last year i've been focusing
29:38on
29:38myself and building myself up kind of had a big life event last year that kind of just put everything
29:44into perspective my father passed away heart attack it's a heart attack 65 oh very unexpected for you yeah
29:53totally unexpected it was hard to digest for a while i thought it was kind of going to derail me
30:02but it just drove me to pursue things that i've wanted to pursue i remember doing speech and drama
30:08in school yeah they've always wanted to try to act them never had the confidence to go for it
30:13done a bit of soul searching and went back and it was just like something just clicked in my hand
30:18it was like he left all his strength with me so you go over to him to just put myself
30:24out there now and
30:25go for teams so you must have been real already coming on this if you're used to kind of acting
30:29now
30:29no it's different like when you have a like you have a script and stuff you know what i do
30:33yeah yeah
30:33it's just different because this is real yeah yeah yeah you just have to wing it yeah
30:38so far so good yeah so much did you ask for yeah brown eyes brown hair nice teeth good personality
30:47look for a bit of crack yeah the crack has some moisture isn't it
30:54and do this no do you want some no i'm really i'm really liking this oh okay
30:58because it ate all your chips i don't mind you can
31:04easy now
31:07i had a really good time where tasha was really good looking
31:10so you didn't stop that challenge literally the whole way till the day it was really nice like
31:13that's way too much rubber for me bro you don't like sweet things i do like sweet things i'm here
31:18with you look i don't like sweet things damn it you took my line right from under me
31:26would you like to see each other again yeah he's lovely for sure i think we have a lot more
31:32to
31:32talk about oh thank you i do i think so oh that's good well i don't i'm joking i'm joking
31:38i'm joking
31:39no i definitely would like to see you again yeah thank you the dress is really thank you
31:46that was great fun he's so so sweet i really like his
31:50mindset i think like he's very mature and super kind person
32:01you're an interesting conversationalist oh thank you but you can't say about all men
32:08that's good oh well that's okay i've just played oh cute
32:34It's actually going really well.
32:36Does he like farm at all?
32:38He is a farmer, yeah.
32:39He has his own farm at all, yeah.
32:43This man, you are going to love and we are going to bring to the George.
32:46How's it going so far?
32:47Good, really good.
32:48We actually have a lot in common.
32:49Oh, that's great.
32:51I've been single basically my entire life.
32:53I would like to go out there a bit more, but I struggle kind of doing that.
32:58And would you have a typical type?
32:59Just kind of somebody who can handle me, honestly.
33:02And do you think he could?
33:03I think he could, yeah.
33:04Oh, yay.
33:05Sometimes when I have interest in somebody or somebody shows interest in me, I kind of freak out.
33:09And I'm like, oh my God, oh my God, I can't do this, I can't do this.
33:11And I just kind of like shut the door off completely.
33:13We have been having good chats.
33:15I did ask him to do an impression of a dinosaur.
33:17And he did it.
33:18Is he just something you're talking about on a first date?
33:21I've actually never been in a relationship.
33:23I definitely do have like weird commitment-y issues.
33:26There's been times where like I've really got on with someone.
33:28But like I start thinking like long term and start like listing off the variables.
33:32And like if I can see in the next like two years an issue forming, I'm just going to avoid
33:37it.
33:37I'm definitely getting more of like friendship vibes because I don't think we're flirting yet.
33:42I am going to go in and try to flirt a bit.
33:44I think I need to just kind of get into that mentality of I'm just going to go for it.
33:48I want the experiences and I want to have someone to just do dumb shit with.
33:53Oh, thank you.
33:54I'm sure, did you even come to the restaurant if you didn't have a chocolate heart, do you know?
33:59You're very welcome.
34:00Enjoy it.
34:01Oh, so cute.
34:03Crack it and then she's going to heal.
34:06It looks so cute.
34:09Oh.
34:11Oh.
34:14It's not hard.
34:16It's soft.
34:20Tastes like a...
34:22No, I am very upset.
34:27Because in my head, this tastes different.
34:32Comparison's the key for joy.
34:38What's that supposed to be?
34:40What is that?
34:41I don't know what.
34:44Oh, I think it's a sweet potato one.
34:47I don't like sweet potato.
34:48And me working with potatoes at my job, too.
34:51I'm doing it.
34:52You call potatoes as well.
34:54Specialising, yeah.
34:55Jesus, you're flat out then, aren't you?
34:57I'm more or less busy.
34:5924-7.
35:00Between firemen, playing my football, playing my hurling.
35:04A lot of fatigue kind of kicks in with that as well.
35:08I did struggle with mental health.
35:10I can imagine the stress, the anxiety, everything that goes on in your head.
35:16I did take a step back.
35:18And, like, having an outside life and kind of those friendships can help with mental health.
35:24That's what I kind of learned from that experience.
35:30Oh, that is strong, I'll have to say.
35:33Is it?
35:33Do not let it get.
35:36No, you don't.
35:36I do.
35:37No, you don't.
35:38Because you would have had it gone by now if you did.
35:40If I had that gone, I wouldn't have finished my meal.
35:43Is it really strong?
35:45Test it.
35:51I don't think I like it.
35:53What is that like?
35:55I'll take it.
35:56You don't like that.
35:57You don't.
36:01I gave him nothing.
36:04Say that.
36:05Say that.
36:07You should have brought it to the bathroom with you and just poured it into time.
36:16I think this piece is too fancy for me.
36:18We should be in a dive bar, realistically.
36:20Any rockets up the most.
36:21Any rockets, my beloved.
36:22Although I have beef with the milkshakes.
36:24They've gotten smaller as the years went on.
36:26I wouldn't know that.
36:27I'm not about that like.
36:29I'm so sorry.
36:32I feel like if I ate that, I would have like.
36:34Something's exploding.
36:35Yeah.
36:36Something.
36:36I have more volume in my hair than ever.
36:38I would just stand straight up like Jedward's.
36:41I probably would take that anyway to the average person.
36:43Sure, I don't think I'm too far off to be honest as well.
36:45It's good to have individuality.
36:47I feel like when you look a bit out of the ordinary, people kind of give you like.
36:51Oh, I'm used to stares.
36:53I spent a lot of time trying to fit in.
36:55I had people being like, oh, you read books.
36:58That's so wild.
36:59Why aren't you playing football?
37:00And then I'd play football and they'd be like, oh, you're bad at football.
37:03School was weird.
37:06Definitely it taught me that people can be very close-minded.
37:09But it also taught me that finding your people is so important.
37:15I was always raised to be a bit of a tough cookie.
37:17I remember one time, this is really nasty, but somebody took their semen, to put it bluntly,
37:28and put it all over my locker.
37:30I found out who did it.
37:31So what I did, I went into the butchers the next day.
37:34I got a lamb's heart and I put it all over their locker.
37:37And I was like, if you're going to do this, I'm going to do this.
37:38So don't mess with me.
37:41People in my school speculated for years whether or not I was trans.
37:43I didn't deny it because I'm like, would it be so bad if I was?
37:47No, it wouldn't.
37:47But then again, I don't owe you an explanation.
37:49I hate when people are so locked into the idea that they need to know something about you.
37:54I know.
37:55I played into it.
37:55They were like, what's going on underneath there?
37:57And I'm like, come and have a look at my vagina.
37:59You know?
37:59That was me, the changing room.
38:01I just kind of laughed at all.
38:02It isn't nice, but that's just, you know, that's how life is.
38:04Some people are not going to be nice and you just have to learn how to deal with it.
38:09Like, who cares what anybody else thinks?
38:10Yeah.
38:12Actually, cheers.
38:12I know this is like way too late, but cheers.
38:15Sláinte.
38:16Sláinte.
38:16Sláinte.
38:17Sláinte.
38:18Sláinte.
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38:42Sláinte.
38:43Sláinte.
38:45Sláinte.
38:46what went through your mind when you saw your date and it was a bit overwhelmed
38:52with the whole situation was just everything just calm down it's after
38:59flying in all the same thing with first it feels like running sitting down at
39:02about ten minutes didn't it that's good sign it is a good sign she had a nice
39:07energy about her we were vibing it's definitely more to explore thank you
39:12thank you forget it no can we not go Dutch look please well thank you very much
39:21get me back one time maybe would you guys like to see each other romantically
39:27again you go first okay I'd usually say ladies first yeah I would yeah for me I
39:40think you're a really lovely guy and your sound which was just no spark for me
39:46okay that's okay that's okay you're cool you're dead cool yeah I'll take that yeah
39:54see you later bye bye you're hot and all like do you know don't get me wrong and your sound
40:01just
40:01spark wasn't it let's go I would love to see again be mates and maybe to give you a healing
40:08yeah you can give me a healing if you want yeah it might take you a long time
40:16I won't
40:17thanks a million
40:18is there anything you would have done differently maybe have hearts that smashed
40:34what if we just stage a really dramatic fight oh my god we should like you drag my hair out
40:39pulling it across the room one of the staff members comes over next you pretend we're just having a
40:42massive argument I think so too what's it what's the argument over though what are we fighting over
40:48chaplarone is overrated oh that had a string didn't it I'm sorry everything she did is what lady gaga did
40:5716 years ago it's like our
40:58pop leftovers we'd like chaplarone
41:03wow another glass of wine and a vodka white thank you so much we're currently having a mini argument
41:11over oh really he thinks that chaplarone is overrated lady gaga wannabe I don't think that she's lady gaga wannabe
41:18I'm sorry you definitely can't settle this but um no no it's not going to be settled but it's fine
41:23well it's good that you can have it out we're agreeing to disagree and that's good even though you're in
41:28the
41:28wrong we're agreeing to disagree do you think so
41:33in polish we have a little saying called tema de cerca which basically means it's a topic that flows like
41:39a river
41:39there is no end to it could I partake in stealing a small bit of course go ahead oh thanks
41:43darling
41:44should I just lift it across like oh that's nice it's very deep feeling it you can only share with
41:52them certain people so how would you die in a 80s horror film I'd flirt with the killer I would
41:58try to
41:58like get by them by flirting with them and they would just like probably chop a head off oh that's
42:04cute
42:06I've spent so long even growing up trying to like plan a future but the one variable you can plan
42:10for
42:11is love I guess if I have to choose a way to go shark attack I'd love a shark attack
42:16that'd be funny
42:17right now I can't plan for that part of my future if I find someone I can start to plan
42:23it I definitely
42:24have all of like the love to give I actually hope that when I'm dead somebody either stuffs me and
42:29puts
42:29me in their living room or chops my head off and mounts on a wall like a deer I've always
42:35said it
42:35would be extremely funny if I get cremated and that's mixed into paint and it's a portrait of me
42:41but like not even like a nice like casual portrait like full creepy like me and my dog in like
42:46a suit
42:46just like staring and like it needs to be left in an attic for at least 50 years I would
42:52like to be a
42:53ghost yeah my granddad he would have been a farmer now so like yeah and then my father never really
43:09like make he'd help them out but like he never really got into the farm yeah like I wouldn't live
43:14on
43:14a farm or anything I wouldn't mind it though farmer's wife I wouldn't mind it what's the biggest
43:23misconception Peter do you think people have about you I suppose that I'm just kind of stuck with
43:28the one straight path in life I went to Italy sort of room a couple weeks ago yeah don't betray
43:34me
43:34fighting to through coin in what's that mean restriction is you throw one coin and so you
43:39have to throw it from your right hand over your shoulder okay that means you'll come back to room
43:42two coins that means you'll find love really and the third one is you'll get married I should look
43:51maybe we'll go back together with me definitely some people do leave the country and never come
43:56back that's what I kind of don't want I want to kind of go out and explore and definitely come
44:01back
44:02I probably want someone just to do those things with as well you know see we go over to Scotland
44:08because my mom's Scottish you see I've never been over in Scotland come over you can come over experience
44:14the Highlands oh it's a really nice place I'll take you over I'll make it work cheers to us
44:30now I'm just gonna pop this down okay let you know that we'll need the table back in about ten
44:35minutes okay thank you so what ten minutes left what are we gonna do with it make the list
44:44that's right what went through your head when you saw your date for the very first time I thought he
44:50looked like somebody that I would get along with it's my friend's birthday today can we send her a
44:54voice note singing happy birthday of course as the date went on just jails perfectly I felt
44:59happy birthday dear Tom hey happy birthday to you I love you we're having such a great chat it was
45:08like we were in a
45:09kebab shop at 4am you know the club bathroom chats yeah I feel like that's pretty much the vibe which
45:14I
45:14think is a very good vibe to have would you like to see each other again romantically yeah sadly I
45:25don't
45:25think romantically okay right now I would a hundred and ten percent love to see you again just like hang
45:31out like literally and then from then on obviously see where it goes yeah I'd be happy to see where
45:35it
45:35goes pleasure to have you thank you bye-bye thank you so much bye-bye I genuinely think there was
45:41a spark
45:41towards like a friendship that I'd like to explore I feel like there possibly could be real romantically
45:52I think you know people come into your life for a reason if I just make a really good friend
45:58I make a
45:58really good friend I think we need to go on a night out and be the most insufferable people in
46:04the
46:04smoking area absolutely terrorize everyone I agree I don't know you know I don't well I would have
46:25finished up maybe more of like a basic beach when it comes to those things I'm quite basic as well
46:30well we just get a pint of Rockshore Snider like Rockshore Snider I can't be shot away I do it's
46:36like
46:36let's go somewhere for drinks before you have to get the bus back facts I thought he ticked all the
46:42boxes on you Jesus lads you couldn't have done any better to me I'll get it no you will not
46:48I will no
46:49don't let this turn into a father Ted episode I am mrs. Doyle and our friend I might be open
46:54I don't need all shearing sheep yet you never know I'll revoluti later right would you like to see
47:02each other again romantically I'd say yes definitely I would too I would say yeah too yeah yeah yeah I'll
47:10have to get your number so I can revoluti that's not gonna be a problem that's not gonna be a
47:14problem
47:14do you fancy her yeah I do once I came in her looks were just class her bubbly bubbly personality
47:27too like preparing a few trips too like Scotland Belfast Donegal Wicklow Rome was another one too
47:34that's right oh there could be more added to the list really I'd take you up to a championship match
47:40I
47:41can imagine you on the sideline just cheering me on what are you doing keep on going see the
47:47wedding there'll be three balls of football special day and one we can crash a pop quiz crash a team
48:08that we don't know on the pub quiz and make sure they lose yeah yeah
48:21I had a good time a great time people who live in Windsor are great so you know that's actually
48:26very true
48:39oh I'd love to give you a healing I'm down for that yeah I have to say a vote of
48:44that yeah
49:01I was able to take a bit of stick as well anyway I'm well used to it in the football
49:06and hard to finish so yeah
49:07could it be magic now now now now we're all the fans could this be the magic at last
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