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Love & Marriage Huntsville - Season 11 Episode 5
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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03I asked my kids, well, why did you write me?
00:06And Marceau said, I didn't know, we didn't know you.
00:10Uh-huh.
00:11Special guest.
00:13Hey, that's the beautiful lady.
00:17So we made it in.
00:18I asked you, do you want to get back in the dating world?
00:21You say, yeah, I do, but not right now.
00:24We're dating, you know what I'm saying?
00:25Like, have I made it exclusive?
00:28No, but am I saying someone else?
00:29No.
00:33Why?
00:34Tisha tell Trish that supposedly somebody came to her
00:37and I was in their DMs.
00:38I just was wondering, like, why was that something that came?
00:42I'm kind of wondering that, too.
00:43That's a little embarrassing for me.
00:58You know, you know.
00:59You know.
00:59We keep it moving.
01:05All day, all night.
01:07Yeah.
01:09Yeah.
01:10All day, all night.
01:12Yeah.
01:13Ain't no stopping us.
01:17Yeah.
01:22All day, all night.
01:24Oh, y'all better watch out.
01:25Oh, we in here right now.
01:26That's right.
01:27We about to walk it right.
01:29Yeah.
01:30Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
01:34Come on.
01:37This revelation that Ken said is very, very disturbing when
01:41he tells me that Tisha told Trish about girls in his DMs.
01:47I've been thinking about it all night.
01:50That's not, uh, that's not something we do.
01:54Hey, T.
01:55Yeah?
01:58We're not aiming at other people.
02:00You know, girl, your man was in somebody else's DMs.
02:03That's not us.
02:04That ain't the Scots.
02:06I saw a kid yesterday at Black.
02:08You and him and Swarm have a really good relationship, huh?
02:10I think he just seen me sitting outside,
02:11and he just pulled over.
02:13But I was like, damn, I ain't see you in a minute,
02:14because, like, let's not see you.
02:15You haven't seen it because karaoke.
02:16Yeah, because him and Trish be up there in karaoke.
02:18He's like, I mean, in a nutshell, it's like,
02:21he even hanging around Trish.
02:23Like, they're not, do you know that they're not looking together?
02:27OK, so this is what Trish told me, is that her and Ken
02:29has been, like, having, going through it.
02:31And I was like, oh, why?
02:33She was like, because of social media.
02:34And I was like, what does social media
02:37have to do with y'all relationship?
02:38She was talking about her and Ken, what they was going through.
02:40She was talking about, like, the outside noise.
02:42Talking about his DM slides.
02:46T, you come and say, yeah, girl.
02:48He being people DMs.
02:49I did not see it like that.
02:51That doesn't help our relationships.
02:53That doesn't help dealing with Ken.
02:56And when he told me that, I'm like, nah, Trisha wouldn't, nah,
03:00that ain't it, you know?
03:02And so the same way that I wouldn't want, you know,
03:06if that conversation was turned around, you know?
03:09Ken was like, he don't even know who DMed his lead in.
03:12So I'm like, all right, that might be a problem.
03:15But at the same time.
03:16So he said that he was in people's DMs?
03:18He said it wasn't like that.
03:19He said it was probably, it could be more direct message.
03:21He said that, he said, I guess he said it was all in the up and up.
03:24It wasn't just like him being the creepy.
03:27Well, I said that because she said Ken was like,
03:30somebody said they saw her out with a guy.
03:33And she was like, tell them to prove it.
03:34Where's the proof?
03:35Where's the proof?
03:36And I was pretty much saying, like,
03:38just like he's hearing stuff about you,
03:40people are coming back and saying that he be in people's DMs.
03:43T.
03:44So what I'm saying is that he has to block the outside noise.
03:47Like, she has to block the outside noise.
03:49So it's not fair for him to believe what they're saying about her.
03:52Tisha.
03:52And for her not to believe what they're saying about him.
03:54But it's not OK for us to be the outside noise.
03:57I'm not the outside noise.
03:58No, no.
03:58What I'm saying is that if there's anybody in our friend
04:01circle that probably shouldn't carry bones, it's us.
04:07Especially when it comes to marriages.
04:08I agree.
04:09Because we're the same ones that have been saying,
04:10don't come from my marriage or relationship.
04:13And we're the same ones that shouldn't be hearing stuff
04:16and going and telling people stuff.
04:18I think that Tisha should step back and ask herself, what if I was telling this information
04:25to Tisha and Marceau?
04:26Tisha didn't feel good when people had all of this stuff to say about us.
04:31She can't turn around and be that person that's saying those things.
04:34You're being them.
04:35Do you think I should apologize to Tisha about telling her that, or just...?
04:39I think one, apologize, but second is make sure that in your behavior that you're being
04:43more cognizant of the fact that people have relationships and they don't like to hear
04:48that kind of stuff.
04:49That's true.
04:49Especially when you don't know it's true.
04:51I guess I just wasn't thinking about it like that.
04:52I was just, I guess, trying to make her feel better about the situation, and it just
04:56came out that way, so yeah.
04:58Yeah.
04:59I'll talk to Tisha.
05:02I hate that for Ken and them, that they had to suffer through someone trying to destroy
05:05them.
05:06Or so, what?
05:09No, I'm not...
05:09Don't do that.
05:10I hate it.
05:11No, for real, for real.
05:12I want Tisha and Ken.
05:13They need to get on one accord with everything and, like, figure out what's causing the issues
05:18and they can't fix it until they know exactly what and who is causing the problem.
05:24Ma'am.
05:25It is not me.
05:26I ain't got anything to do with that relationship.
05:28Ma'am.
05:29Ma'am.
05:29Ma'am.
05:37Ma'am.
05:41My man.
05:42Ma'am.
05:46I ain't got anything to do with that relationship.
05:47Great.
05:47Girl, look at you looking like a ray of sunshine and rainbow.
05:51So I've invited Destiny and Trish over to my home today.
05:55Hey, hey, hey.
05:56How's it going, Trish?
05:57Where the rest of your shorts at?
05:59Just so we can kind of like chop it up
06:01and see what's been going on with both of them.
06:04Yes, ma'am.
06:05Professional.
06:09Professional.
06:10I don't know if you know I went to Detroit.
06:12How did that go?
06:14Um, it was a lot.
06:15My mom, you know, she just, she gave me the blues for sure.
06:19It was some beautiful moments, and it was some heavy moments.
06:23You know, I feel like I'm whole.
06:24That's a lot for you.
06:25It is.
06:26Yeah, and I'm like a big sister now.
06:29Like, I went from pretty much being the only child
06:31to having seven younger, six younger siblings.
06:35See, I knew that, man.
06:36You talked about that.
06:37So I met my brother.
06:38So did you see that?
06:39My sister, you know, I'd already met her.
06:41She came here to Huntsville, but she flew into Detroit.
06:44So she was there.
06:45Guys came to Detroit.
06:48Aw.
06:48That's great support, though.
06:50Yeah, it was.
06:51But I got a big family, so it was like, I'm good.
06:53You know?
06:54Like, and I think they're not used to that.
06:56Like, they're not used to seeing me with, like,
06:59a squad of people.
07:01Coming back from Detroit and now finding
07:03all of my siblings is life-changing.
07:06I feel like a new sense of responsibility
07:09because I'm the oldest.
07:10So yeah, you know, big sister activated.
07:13So how is Xavier doing?
07:15He doing good.
07:16He doing good.
07:17Girl, so I had to process what Martell told me
07:19when I met up with him.
07:21What?
07:21He said Tisha told you that Ken was
07:26in somebody else's DM.
07:27Mm-hmm.
07:28He did.
07:31I'm needing my drink.
07:33That's not my water.
07:34Ken was mentioning that Tisha told Trish
07:38that Ken was in somebody's DMs as .
07:41What?
07:42I'm like, Tisha, you know what your man out here doing,
07:45so why you even insert yourself
07:47in anybody else's business?
07:48I'm like...
07:49Tisha's being real messy, isn't she?
07:50Oh, what?
07:51You don't feel like that was a little messy.
07:53I think she had the right to because she didn't know
07:55what we was going through at the moment.
07:56What you mean?
07:57We had, like, a little break from each other.
07:58Y'all back together?
08:01Yes.
08:01What the are y'all doing?
08:02But no, no.
08:03So Ken and I didn't talk about the DM situation.
08:05I was like, he was like, well, we didn't know
08:07we was going to get back together.
08:08And, you know, you told me to leave and don't come back.
08:10Because at the point, I was ready to move on.
08:12So I kind of understood.
08:13From Ken?
08:13I was mad.
08:14Yeah, have you and Ken been in therapy yet?
08:16Yeah.
08:17It's...
08:17No?
08:18I'm still working on it, though.
08:19You know what?
08:20Working on what?
08:21Exactly.
08:22I know.
08:22I can tell.
08:23Because when I get mad, I feel like I get so angry
08:26till it's just whatever happens,
08:28you shouldn't have pushed me that way.
08:30But, uh...
08:31I'm just saying.
08:32We finally, you know, working things out,
08:34getting back together.
08:35Because now we're talking about having kids.
08:37Huh?
08:37Because now you want kids.
08:40So...
08:41But...
08:41Wait, how y'all come from?
08:42Y'all can't have no damn kids
08:43until y'all get this divorce.
08:48Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
08:51I think you probably done enough partying.
08:53No, the Fortress is right around the corner.
08:55What you doing?
08:56Take your ass inside.
08:57Come from outside, go inside.
08:59You got beautiful children.
09:00Mama, it's cold at home.
09:02Tisha told Trish that somebody was in Ken's DM.
09:06You told me that.
09:07Lance told me when we were stopping out the other day,
09:11she was in his DM.
09:12He told me about that.
09:13He sent me the screenshot.
09:18We finally, you know, working things out,
09:20getting back together.
09:21Because now we're talking about having kids.
09:24But...
09:24Wait, how y'all come from?
09:24Y'all can't have no damn kids until y'all get this divorce.
09:27Because when is the last time we talked?
09:29Y'all talking about having kids for real?
09:32Yes.
09:33Actually, yeah.
09:34And that was...
09:34He brought it up.
09:35But he always know that I wanted to have a lot of kids.
09:37I'm from a big family.
09:39So I wanted...
09:40I was like, are you sure?
09:42He was like, yeah,
09:43because, you know, he wanted his own kid.
09:44Ken and I have been talking about having kids
09:46for a little over a year now.
09:48I always wanted four kids.
09:50And even at this stage of life,
09:52I can see myself having two more kids.
09:53But no, no, no, no, no.
09:54Hold up.
09:55Does Ken want a baby with you
09:58because he feel like that's going to hold you?
10:01I don't know.
10:02He just said he just wanted a...
10:04I don't know.
10:04Just want a baby.
10:05Yeah.
10:06He said he wanted to want his own baby.
10:09Girl, listen.
10:09They be out here trapping.
10:11That's what that...
10:12These men are trapping these days.
10:13Yeah, they do the same thing.
10:14I'm not saying that's Ken.
10:15Really?
10:16I'm just saying.
10:16That's the thing right now.
10:17I'm just asking.
10:18Like you said, I don't know.
10:19.
10:19Now, I don't know.
10:20I don't think so, though.
10:22I don't think so.
10:22Are you and Ken going to get married
10:24after you get a divorce?
10:31Yes.
10:32That was a long ass yes.
10:34Well, yes.
10:35I mean, yeah, we are.
10:36That was always been the plan.
10:38Don't you feel like you should have this all stamped
10:40before y'all even have a conversation about a baby?
10:46Sometimes babies bring a lot of love,
10:50but you got to be really grounded when you have a kid.
10:54Hopefully, she can get pregnant within three days,
10:56because they typically break up every three days.
10:59Hopefully, they get ironed out.
11:01When I say life has been lifing, so you know,
11:05had one of them Fletcher family dinners again.
11:07Let me just give you the rundown of who's at the dinner.
11:09Tuan and Kiara.
11:12Kiara did most of the talk.
11:13Well, Lance, I just recently heard about the night your mom
11:16washed the kids.
11:17But you did not inform me that Destiny came
11:20and y'all was talking outside.
11:21We had a cordial conversation for about 10 minutes.
11:2510 minutes is a long time if he just speaking.
11:27He don't say y'all exclusive.
11:29How exclusive are y'all if Destiny just showed up here
11:32a couple of days ago outside in my big ass driveway
11:36and stayed out there for about 45 minutes
11:38while my pizza got cold?
11:41I feel like I'm his therapist.
11:45Because he unloads all his life on me.
11:47You put your therapist outfit on?
11:48I did not on purpose, but we still friends.
11:51I get that.
11:52But I think Kiara had a problem with that.
11:54Ain't none of my business.
11:55I think she had a problem with that.
11:56If you intimidated by a conversation,
11:58you need to lock your man in a little bit more.
11:59Ooh, yeah, ooh, yeah.
12:01Wait, are they still together?
12:03I don't know.
12:04I guess they act like you and Ki and .
12:07And I.
12:09See, you know more than I know.
12:12I know more than both of y'all,
12:13but I'm going to keep my mouth shut.
12:15That's right.
12:15I don't know what I don't know.
12:19Well, I talk to him a lot.
12:20To Lance.
12:23There you go.
12:24See?
12:24They both is counselor.
12:26See?
12:26I'm always letting one know.
12:27Hey, I ain't you be venting.
12:28That dog can be venting like a move.
12:30I believe it.
12:31So this is very new to me that Lance and Trish are friends.
12:36I wonder what that is all about.
12:38But with that said, Lance is having a birthday party.
12:41I don't know if we probably already invited you.
12:43Yeah.
12:44Well, I'm inviting you.
12:45Is it a thing for this birthday?
12:47Yes.
12:48I think his theme is this lucky, you know, lucky landing leprechaun.
12:53He wants to wear green?
12:54Maude.
12:55Black, white, green.
12:57Black, white, green.
12:57Black, white, green.
12:58I think I got some blue in it.
13:00Oops.
13:01Well, that's between you and him.
13:02You want to wear some blue hair, you wear some blue.
13:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
13:08Not too long ago, I had posted a photo.
13:10And she, there was a comment that kind of made, it kind of caught me off guard, right?
13:14Who is she?
13:14Trish.
13:15OK.
13:16And, of course, the comment was a little bit, I feel like, inappropriate.
13:21And then we both have, like, hella people in our dens.
13:25I just wouldn't have responded.
13:27So that's why I was like, oh.
13:28Yeah.
13:29Yeah.
13:30Well, y'all both put thirst trap pictures out there.
13:31Oh!
13:36Oh, yeah.
13:37Oh, y'all better watch out.
13:39Oh, we in here right now.
13:40That's right.
13:41We about to walk it right.
13:43Walk it up.
13:44Walk it up.
13:45Walk it.
13:46Walk it.
13:46Walk it.
13:47Walk it.
13:47Walk it.
13:48Walk it.
13:48Walk it.
13:49Stay with.
13:50Stay with.
13:50Stay with.
13:50Stay with.
13:51Yeah, man.
13:52So what I'm thinking is like, you know, like, casino type vibe.
13:55Kind of keep everybody involved.
13:56That's good.
13:57Hey, mama.
13:58Hey, Kayla.
13:58OK.
13:59Well, this my mother.
14:00How you doing, baby?
14:01So today, I am going with Kayla and Lance to Vibes,
14:06which is going to be the space for his birthday event.
14:09OK, what we got?
14:10Where we at?
14:10What we doing?
14:11So this is what I'm thinking.
14:12Thinking like family up here on the stage, right?
14:14Look kind of cute.
14:15So I'm ready to party and turn up.
14:17I can use that right now in my life.
14:18But while I'm here, I need to speak with Lance also
14:22and let him know that this would be his last rodeo with me,
14:29hosting an event of any kind for him.
14:32He is definitely grown.
14:34And this is where I draw the line.
14:36What you got going on?
14:37Because you got to have a DJ.
14:39K, the balloons.
14:40Yeah.
14:40I'm exhausted.
14:41And I don't know if, so have you seen it?
14:43Yeah, speaking of exhausted.
14:45Yeah.
14:45And speaking of that face, it looks a hell of a lot better
14:49than what it did.
14:50Because when I first seen it, I was just like,
14:54the time was hit.
14:56What the hell happened?
14:58Honestly, taking care of everybody else throughout my day.
15:01Mm-hmm.
15:02I forgot to eat that day, you know?
15:04Yeah.
15:04I went out, and I'm horse-playing with my buddies,
15:07and I just fall and hit my face.
15:09Not inebriated, just, you know, horse-playing.
15:14After this party, I think you've probably done enough partying.
15:19No, the 4th of July right around the corner.
15:20What you mean?
15:23Take your ass inside.
15:25Come from outside, go inside.
15:28Take your ass at home.
15:29You got nights at home.
15:30You got beautiful children.
15:31Mama, it's cold at home.
15:33I'm just playing.
15:34No, you're not.
15:34You're not playing.
15:36You're saying what you mean.
15:37And I know this about you as my son.
15:39You don't need no dating life right now.
15:42You don't.
15:43You don't need to have a dating life.
15:46No.
15:46You go home, and you just do them kids.
15:48You playing, and I'm dead ass serious.
15:50Because you have small shit as your mother,
15:55I would appreciate if you just respect my wishes.
15:59And don't tell you when I'm dating.
16:01Gotcha.
16:03OK, if that's what you choose to do, you grown as hell.
16:07You can do that with your sarcastic ass.
16:10You know that.
16:10Don't bring them.
16:11Don't bring them around my grandchildren.
16:13They don't get to come to your house.
16:15Throw your out there in the dirt elsewhere.
16:19My mom's saying that I spend a lot of time out.
16:21I mean, yeah, I do go out from time to time.
16:24But I really don't feel like I'm outside, you know, too much.
16:27I do understand that she's a concerned mother.
16:29And I do appreciate that.
16:31But again, that's just her opinion.
16:33And I'm going to continue to move what, you know,
16:35the way that works for me.
16:36So this party, so who all did you invite?
16:38I invited everyone that I mess with.
16:41You know, I don't really have a big circle, right?
16:43I had Trish and Destiny over at the house.
16:46Trish!
16:47And I invited, she said I already got an invite from Lance.
16:50Damn.
16:51I gave her an invite, but it wasn't,
16:53it was the same invite that I sent everybody else.
16:55It was a copy and paste.
16:57Did you know Ken and Trish were separated?
17:00I heard through the grapevine that they were no longer living together.
17:04But I also hear that they are still working on things.
17:09He has his own apartment.
17:12Of course, someone else was in Ken's DM.
17:16And she didn't like it.
17:18That came to her from Letitia Scott.
17:21How the hell does Letitia know who's in his Ken's DM?
17:24I don't know.
17:25Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. Let me ask you a quick question.
17:27You had Trish and Destiny at the house.
17:29Yes.
17:30Trish is implying...
17:33What's going on?
17:34They're friends?
17:35Yes.
17:36Like, good friends?
17:37Yes.
17:38Cool.
17:39Why are you so shocked?
17:40Well, not too long ago, I had posted a photo.
17:43And she, there was a comment that kind of made, it kind of caught me off guard, right?
17:47Who is she?
17:48Trish.
17:48Okay.
17:49And of course, the comment was a little bit, I feel like inappropriate.
17:54I mean, now tell me if I'm reading too deep into this.
17:59Hmm.
18:00That's actually the tasty emoji.
18:02What's the tasty ?
18:04She's telling me something. I didn't know what that means, taste.
18:06I mean, I know what it means, but I didn't know.
18:07So that means she want to taste them?
18:09In a sense, that's kind of what it's implying.
18:12The emoji usually implies that.
18:16So, I proceed to let Ken know.
18:20Oh, .
18:21What did Ken say?
18:23Well, we was on the phone, and Ken was like, okay, you know, he handled it the way Ken does.
18:27And he said, look, man, I hit you back.
18:30Well, of course, I didn't hear back from him.
18:31Ken and I, you know, I would say we're friends.
18:34So, therefore, I don't want him to have any misconception of what the situation is.
18:38There's a bro code, and I do want to continue to treat Ken how I would like to be treated,
18:44you know.
18:44What do you feel about that?
18:45Do you think I over read into the comment?
18:49Do you think I should have?
18:50That's, you know, a tasty emoji, and usually that would mean something, like she's flirting,
18:56especially with a bunch of hard eyes before, you know.
18:59I don't think you look too far into it.
19:03Trish, Trish, Trish, Trish, Trish.
19:08Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
19:10Seriously, guys, how would you go about if a lady in this group hard eyes my picture that I post,
19:16and I'm cool with the gentleman?
19:20It was Trish, so Trish...
19:22Oh, goddamn!
19:23Oh, hell no.
19:25Show me what you're cooking.
19:27Oh, let me see them moves.
19:30You got the whole world looking like the cine kind of magic taking hold of you.
19:46It turned out pretty nice.
19:48Can I see it?
19:49Can I see it?
19:49I like it.
19:50Got him standing up here like these six feet tall.
19:52Yeah, Lance looked pretty tall right there on him!
19:56Oh, wow!
19:57Damn sign!
19:58Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha.
20:01I'm looking forward to celebrating Lance's 34th birthday.
20:04But at the same time, I'm looking forward to Lance
20:08getting somewhere and sitting his ass down.
20:10Yeah.
20:11Yeah, I agree.
20:12But you know, that's Lance.
20:14I'm looking forward to celebrating it
20:15because I haven't been out the house.
20:17Well, yeah.
20:17So.
20:19You want to get outside, babe?
20:20I want to get outside.
20:21Oh, here we go.
20:22Hi, my beautiful people.
20:24Hi.
20:24Hi.
20:25Hi.
20:26Well, hello.
20:27You look beautiful.
20:28Yeah.
20:28How you doing?
20:30So do you, son.
20:31Beautiful.
20:32Yeah.
20:33How you doing?
20:39I got that blackjack table for me.
20:41Oh, there.
20:41There you go.
20:42Oh, that's the real damn camera.
20:45Oh, where that blackjack table?
20:46There it is.
20:47How you doing, dude?
20:47We know you know where it's in.
20:49Yeah, what's up, baby?
20:51I'm good.
20:52Yeah, how you doing?
20:52What's up?
20:53What's up?
20:54You doing all right?
20:55How you doing?
20:56Where the birthday boy at?
20:57Late.
20:58How you late ?
21:00Hey, hey.
21:01How you doing?
21:03Hey, Destiny.
21:04Hey.
21:05What you doing, boo?
21:06Look, you look damn good.
21:08You look good.
21:08See?
21:09Y'all playing roulette?
21:10What's going on?
21:10I ain't playing nothing.
21:11Hey, we ain't got no deal-ups.
21:13No, I'll stand around here and talk trash with Martina.
21:18That's what I'm saying.
21:19You're dressed for?
21:20We had a conversation the other day.
21:22Hold on, hold on.
21:22Don't get too deep into it.
21:24I ain't talking about you.
21:25We had a conversation the other day, me, you, and Trish.
21:27And it got a little, got a little, huh?
21:32Tisha told Trish that somebody was in Ken's DM.
21:36You told me that.
21:37Lance told me when we was scouting out the other day,
21:40she was in his DM.
21:41He told me about that.
21:43He sent me the screenshots.
21:44And I'm like, so what does that mean?
21:47As a woman, what does it mean for me?
21:49I don't do emojis, so I can't speak for her.
21:51Maybe she was, she didn't like this outfit.
21:57Hey, how you doing?
21:59Hey, how you doing?
22:00Hey, how you doing?
22:02How you doing?
22:05Whoa.
22:06Hello.
22:08Hey, how you doing?
22:12Hey, how you doing?
22:13Hey, Lena.
22:15You looking cool.
22:16You looking good.
22:17Look.
22:17I love this theme party.
22:18I love a theme party, too.
22:20Love a theme party, see?
22:20It makes it easy when you're getting dressed.
22:22Ha, see?
22:23This is, what is it?
22:24I hope there's no coppers.
22:27Hey, smell how you doing?
22:28Where the lucky?
22:29Where the lucky?
22:30Lucky's on his way.
22:36Hello, hello.
22:37What's up?
22:38What up?
22:38What up?
22:38We're in the gangsta.
22:40Hey, hey.
22:41Hey, hey.
22:42Hey, hey.
22:42I'm out inside.
22:43What's going on?
22:44What's going on?
22:56Oh, birthday boy.
22:57Hey, Lucy.
22:58I should have shown up for your own birthday party.
23:01What are you doing?
23:02Why are you doing?
23:04Happy birthday.
23:04What's up?
23:05What's up?
23:05Happy birthday.
23:06Happy birthday.
23:09How are you?
23:10How you doing, beautiful?
23:12Happy birthday.
23:12Thank you, brother.
23:13Good to see you, man.
23:18Ah, black, baby.
23:20Hey, put 1,000 on black.
23:22Five hundred dollars.
23:23You know what I'm saying?
23:30Oh, black.
23:31Black 31 again.
23:3231 again.
23:33Woo!
23:34Give me faith.
23:35Give me faith.
23:44You got to be confident to wear that.
23:46Blame it on your son.
23:48I don't know.
23:48What you're confident?
23:49No, what I'm wearing.
23:51Blame it on him.
23:52Really?
23:53Yeah, blame it on him.
23:54What is you and Lynn doing?
23:55Because I heard y'all not really item them.
23:56Your son has caused a lot of complications because, like, we were doing good.
24:03But I need the effort.
24:06But I need the effort.
24:06He's not ready.
24:07I don't like that.
24:08I don't either.
24:09When we're out somewhere or something, he wants to make it known that we are something.
24:16And so I'd just be a little confused because there's a lot of complications going on.
24:19I think Lance needs to get his figured out because it's too much what he got going on.
24:29And I was really excited when you came to the house because, like, okay, okay.
24:35Like, keep doing this.
24:35And we was all getting along so good.
24:37Yeah.
24:37Everything was, like, flowing.
24:38And then I feel like y'all played me.
24:41I feel like he played me.
24:42I'm saying.
24:43I'm gonna have to have a talk with him again because, clearly, he's not giving me the whole
24:47truth.
24:48The old version of Lance versus the new version of Lance, I just feel like he thought more
24:54of himself.
24:55Now, I feel like he's off balance.
24:57I feel like he's not quite focused.
25:01And I'm trying to figure out how the hell do I fix it.
25:05Today's Lituation.
25:06Lituation?
25:07Yeah.
25:08Lituation, a situation, a babyation, and you might need a vacation.
25:13The whole family.
25:14I don't might.
25:15I need a vacation.
25:16Let's go back to the situation.
25:19The situation.
25:21What's the situation?
25:22That's me.
25:23You tell me.
25:23What is that?
25:26Well, it seems like y'all have had a conversation.
25:28I need to be informed.
25:29What's going on?
25:30You've been not being honest.
25:32Well, you've been running from the situation.
25:35I don't run from anything.
25:40We're doing this.
25:41So what are we?
25:42We're doing this here.
25:42Lay it out.
25:43We're going to just put it out there.
25:45I feel like you were not putting any effort into our situation.
25:48And that's what I let her know.
25:49Efforts are not dating.
25:51Efforts are not going out on dates.
25:53Efforts are not spending time with our children.
25:55That's no effort.
25:56What effort are you in?
25:58What are you in?
25:58We did spend time.
25:59But all our time was with the kids.
26:01But when you choose a time.
26:02I'm always with my kids, baby.
26:03Okay.
26:04Well, we're both with our kids.
26:05But pause.
26:06So when you choose the time to go out and not inform me when it's supposed to be a date
26:10night, that's where the problem is.
26:12Because I wake up the next morning when I'm at home in bed and you're out of the club.
26:16When that was supposed to be date night for us.
26:17I'm going to be honest with you.
26:18I don't feel like I owe that to anybody.
26:21I, all day, work, parent, all week.
26:24And so if I decide, okay, I'm going to go out.
26:28Sometimes going out may lead to four, five, six hours.
26:31I don't, I don't feel like that's an issue.
26:36So why did you sit at my dinner table and say, y'all is exclusive?
26:41Because I thought it was worth it.
26:42Did we not?
26:44In an exclusive relationship, you just can't find time for yourself.
26:49You have to call your...
26:50I disagree.
26:51No, no, no, no, no.
26:52No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
26:53I disagree.
26:54You have to call your significant other.
26:56Exclusive means exclusive.
26:58I don't, I don't.
26:58Yes.
26:59You have to call your significant other.
27:01I'm not, I'm not married.
27:01I don't have to.
27:02It don't matter that you're not married.
27:03You agreed to be in an exclusive relationship.
27:06Why are you married?
27:06Why are you married?
27:07So you have to call the significant other and you let them know what you're doing.
27:11And maybe you need some time.
27:13So for the record, Kira and I aren't exclusive.
27:16There was a point in time to where we called it an exclusive relationship.
27:20Some things transpired.
27:22And then, you know, I guess we both decided that we were going to continue to date other
27:26people.
27:27Are y'all still interested in each other?
27:30Clearly.
27:34Are you?
27:36She asked, are y'all?
27:37I said...
27:38And I'm asking you, are you?
27:40We're here together, aren't we?
27:42You know, we need to talk.
27:44I think we need a one-on-one.
27:46Are y'all exclusive or are y'all not?
27:47Because clearly, like I said, it's been told to me, you entertain other men as you entertain
27:53other women, correct?
27:53Well, I certainly do.
27:54I do.
27:55I don't understand that.
27:56Because when I was all in, you was not here.
28:00I certainly do.
28:01I do entertain other women.
28:02So y'all not...
28:03Oh, this is all new.
28:04That's clearly all new.
28:06That's clearly all new.
28:06Kiara has expressed that she feels as if I'm outside too much and, you know, not really
28:13focused on our relationship or lack thereof.
28:16There seems to be a little bit of a tit for tat kind of a deal going on here.
28:19She's outside.
28:20I guess you could say I'm outside.
28:23But really and truly, I mean, I think we both have kind of stepped away from what we were
28:28trying to accomplish in the beginning.
28:30Y'all can talk.
28:32At the end of the day, she got kids, you got kids.
28:34I got a grandbaby, more than one.
28:36And I meant that when I said that too.
28:38Don't bring nobody else around them until you get serious.
28:40Don't bring nobody around them, period.
28:42I don't want another female at my house.
28:46Don't bring nobody.
28:47My dinner table is exclusive.
28:51I mean the .
28:52I mean that on every damn thing.
28:53Excuse me, fellas.
28:54Oh, I'm sorry.
28:54I'm so sorry to interrupt y'all conversation.
28:56Just let me get my .
29:02Coming up on Love & Marriage, Hinesville.
29:05Heart eyes.
29:05My picture that I post, it was heart, heart, heart, leggy tongue.
29:09That's your cousin.
29:10Like, why the you put up?
29:11Grown up.
29:12What the hell?
29:19What the hell no?
29:20My God.
29:20How's everything going?
29:21Tell me something good.
29:23Just trying to make it.
29:24Trying to look good.
29:26Going into Lance's party, I see that now it's time that Tisha and I need to kind of revisit the
29:30ground rules and kind of what we establish ourselves as the Scots and the limit of our business as it
29:37involves others.
29:37Well, I do want to say something.
29:42My son and I talk and I want to apologize because I made a statement to Trish and my son
29:48told me that you wasn't okay with it.
29:51And I guess she wasn't okay with it either.
29:52And I just want to say that I wasn't trying to be, like, interfering in your relationship or anything with
29:58that statement.
29:59I can take ownership and I can admit when I'm wrong.
30:03So after hearing that Trish actually felt some type of way about the comment that I made with the DM
30:10situation, I wanted to make sure I spoke with Trish directly and apologize to her because I did not say
30:16it coming from, like, a messy point.
30:18I really was just, you know, like, girl, don't let him gaslight you to make you feel like he's Mr.
30:24Perfect because he has things being said about him as well.
30:28That's messy.
30:32When Trish and I was talking, I was just trying to understand, like, what's really going on to get to,
30:36like, the core of the issue.
30:38Right.
30:39And so when she was telling me about the example that the people told you about her, then I was
30:43like, well, you know, it ain't like people are not saying things about you either.
30:47Right.
30:48So just like you have to be okay and forgiving with her, she has to be the same with you.
30:52Like I told Trish, like, if it was a DM or something that, like he said, I might have locked
30:57somebody's picture or, you know, communicated with somebody.
31:00It was never a thing to where I was trying to get to know other people.
31:03That's why I really wasn't tripping on about it being a thing.
31:06Yeah.
31:06That's why I didn't react the way I did.
31:09Mm-hmm.
31:09But to me, it was like, okay, I know we both have, like, hella people in our DMs.
31:14I just wouldn't have responded.
31:16So that's why I was like, mm.
31:17Yeah.
31:19Um, so it was like...
31:19Well, y'all both took thirst trap pictures out there.
31:21Oh!
31:23Pretty sure both of our DMs are very, I'm short, like, go crazy.
31:28But that's s***.
31:30That's nothing new to either one of us either.
31:32So, me, I just ignore them.
31:35I won't say that I don't respond to DMs.
31:38Like, I get a lot of inquiries about podcasts, fitness, just regular workout tips, anything.
31:46So, I do think it was kind of amazing that Tisha even brought it to Trisha's attention.
31:50But it's not like I'm out here trying to fall in love on the internet.
31:53That's not what I do.
31:55The road that you guys are going down, we've seen that.
31:59This social media thing is a real thing.
32:02And I'm not trying to act like we are some OGs or whatever like this.
32:05What I'm saying is that we've experienced a lot of what that can do to people.
32:09And it's hard. It's a hard thing.
32:11And then any relationship is tough.
32:12But then we start putting it on display.
32:14That's when it starts becoming more challenging.
32:16And y'all like playing with fire.
32:18Y'all do stuff right now that...
32:20Trish be in the comments.
32:21My point is, we care about y'all.
32:24We don't play about that even if it didn't bother you.
32:26It bothers us because we don't do that.
32:30People can get blinded by social media.
32:33They can get blinded by the one-sided people that come in and slide in their DMs and tell them
32:38how great they are and everything.
32:40And then they start evaluating their partner based on the social media DMs and based on what everyone else is
32:46saying.
32:46So I think no matter who thinks their head's strong, what you allow to come in can impact you.
32:53So yes, it's going to have some influence over your relationship.
32:56It's from Scott Manor, so...
32:58Oh!
32:59Boy, you scared me, y'all damn it.
33:00Hey, listen.
33:01Why don't we play blackjack or something, man?
33:03Dang.
33:04Yeah, I don't know.
33:05There's something up with 31.
33:06Yeah, I'm going to put it on 31.
33:08What's up, brother?
33:09How everything going?
33:10Things good, man.
33:10Yo.
33:11Y'all got a real question though, man.
33:12Hey, look, you got a question.
33:14Seriously, guys, how would you go about it if a lady in this group heart eyes my picture that I
33:19post and I'm cool with the gentleman?
33:24It was Trish.
33:25Oh, Trish?
33:26Oh, god damn.
33:27Oh, hell no.
33:29It was heart, heart, heart.
33:32Licky tongue.
33:33Oh, no, she didn't mind at all.
33:35Oh, yeah.
33:37Oh, speaking of that, that is.
33:41Hey, put those muscles away while we're having this conversation.
33:43Yeah, yo, yo, yo, please.
33:44Please, please.
33:45Tuck those in.
33:45I don't want to know what we're talking about.
33:48How would you feel in this group if someone liked your girl's pictures?
33:54No, no, no.
33:54Heart, heart, heart, heart.
33:55Ne and Licky.
33:57No, heart like, oh, I like it that much.
33:58Ah, I got that.
34:00I know where y'all going.
34:01But what if it's the one that kind of like the tongue up there in the corner of the lip?
34:05I know where y'all going with this.
34:06Yeah, that was kind of weird.
34:09That was kind of weird?
34:09That definitely was weird.
34:11Hey, do you think it could have been because of what you've been doing?
34:16Nah, I'm going to be honest with you.
34:17Yeah, be honest, bro.
34:19And don't take this the wrong way.
34:20I'm not trying to talk bad about her.
34:21Trish just doesn't think a lot.
34:24So Kim, you been in other women DM, was that the same time y'all separated?
34:28Is that when you got in last DM?
34:30Who is last DM?
34:32Well, hell, he showed it to me.
34:33I was not in last DM.
34:35I come in hard under his photo.
34:37And I questioned it, but then it had a lick emoji.
34:39What was the lick emoji?
34:41That was under his photo.
34:43And it wasn't even a lick.
34:45It was a...
34:46Hey, I just asked, explain the to me.
34:49Y'all don't know anybody more.
34:53Explain it to me.
34:54Please let me see it.
34:55Let me explain it to y'all.
34:56Let me see it.
34:57Let me explain it to y'all.
34:58Let me see it.
35:01She says she fat fingered it.
35:02So I was like, hmm.
35:04Damn.
35:04Can I see unfat fingered though?
35:07Okay, so I fat fingered that comment.
35:10And I didn't even realize I did until Lance brought it to Kenny's attention.
35:15And I guess he sent it to everybody.
35:17Like a little kiddie group message because then Destiny had it.
35:20Trisha's saying that she has fat thumbs and she pressed the wrong emoji.
35:23Like, come on.
35:23There's nothing fat on Trish but her butt.
35:25I just kept pressing.
35:26And I actually press it.
35:28People do it all the time.
35:29Let me see it.
35:30Let me see it.
35:32First of all.
35:33Help me out.
35:34Yes.
35:35It is.
35:36It is.
35:36It is.
35:38It is.
35:39It is.
35:40What the Trish?
35:41That's your cousin.
35:42Yes.
35:43Yes.
35:44What the ?
35:44How did you feel when you found it out?
35:46A loop in your throat.
35:47Because it was him, I didn't really take it that serious.
35:49Cause I'm like, that's your cousin.
35:50Like, why the would you put a...
35:52Simmer down.
35:52That's your cousin?
35:55What the hell?
36:00How did you feel when you found it out?
36:01A loop in your throat.
36:02Because it was him, I didn't really take it that serious.
36:04Cause I'm like, that's your cousin.
36:06Like, why the would you put a...
36:07Simmer down.
36:08That's your cousin?
36:09Yeah.
36:09Oh, bro.
36:10What the hell?
36:11Whatever she said.
36:12Whatever she said, bro.
36:13Whatever she said.
36:14What do you care about now?
36:15Whatever she said.
36:19I had a moment the other day dealing with Chris Fletcher.
36:22I know.
36:22That's my mom's cousin.
36:23I know.
36:25Honestly, I don't know what Trisha is to me.
36:27I have heard that she's my cousin.
36:29But, you know, I guess people like what they like
36:34and do as they please.
36:36I said to him last, she didn't mean to do that .
36:40First of all, we was drunk.
36:41As a matter of fact, we was drunk at karaoke, too.
36:44And karaoke with those things.
36:46She was there.
36:47I bet we was drunk at karaoke with those.
36:49And the heart, the licking mode is right on the heart.
36:51It don't matter.
36:53After the fourth cousin, it don't matter.
36:55So you said after four cousins don't count?
36:58Yeah, it does.
36:59You said the fourth cousin.
37:00Because we have four.
37:01Not in Alabama, it don't count.
37:04Man, listen.
37:05The older I get, the more my give a damn is like, listen.
37:12Yeah.
37:13I'm so far, like, removed from bull .
37:16I talked to her about it.
37:17You was already at your apartment.
37:18Yeah.
37:19Yeah.
37:20With all of the drama, my job, I believe, in this situation,
37:23is to talk to the man and get his temperature on it.
37:27Because Ken is younger than I am.
37:29What's the benefits of mistakes if you can't help people get past them?
37:32Was the move out a power move?
37:34What do you mean?
37:35Like, this is an ultimatum type of move.
37:38For you.
37:38Yeah.
37:39I think when it got to that point, a lot of it was like, hey, look, I've been patient.
37:45And I've been, I've given hella grace.
37:48You know what I mean?
37:49Damn, that's some bull .
37:50I told her, like, the same grace of her, she has to give me.
37:54You know, people, oh, you got your own apartment.
37:57What you doing over there?
37:58Like, not to sound messy or anything, but I think everybody has had their own little
38:02spaces where they ran off to.
38:04You know what I mean?
38:04I don't really take heed to what they're saying too tough when it comes to that.
38:08Because it's just, it's for the moment.
38:10It's something that I just needed to do to get past whatever, you know, these next few
38:15steps we're going to take.
38:16On a more serious note, how do we show up for each other when we're going through things?
38:23And, like, we can really receive it.
38:25I feel like in this group, like, in order for us to grow stronger, we have to be there
38:29for each other.
38:29Not the good times, but the bad times too.
38:31But, like, we heard about, like, Chris' real estate situation.
38:35And I was like, do I reach out to Nell?
38:38Do I text her, hey girl, are you guys okay?
38:41Like, I'm not sure.
38:42I didn't reach out to nobody, because I know me, you have a relationship.
38:48Damn, it's not up.
38:50It's not.
38:52I haven't really bonded with anybody, truthfully, but Destiny.
38:56I already told Trish we're going to talk more, and that didn't happen.
39:00I get it, Letitia.
39:02I live in my real.
39:03Mm-hmm.
39:04The information about Chris' real estate license is out there.
39:07And Nell seemed like she's stressed out.
39:10Like, by the look on her face, Nell has a lot of things going on.
39:13Her reaction is just really telling that it's really deep.
39:18I'm the one guy served with those papers.
39:20He wasn't even there.
39:22Why did you get served?
39:23I'm the one that opened that door and signed for that .
39:28I started dealing with two new grandbabies.
39:32I started on my way to Miami, ended up having to turn around and get my dad, because he called
39:38at 1.30 in the morning.
39:39I talked to my sons all the time, and it makes me angry because I know I've raised them.
39:45I've nourished them.
39:47I've given them all my attention.
39:49And for them to be rebellious, I take accountability for my .
39:54I'm the one that's dealing with all of this.
39:57I don't know what overwhelm looks like, but it might look like that.
40:07I've always been concerned about Nell.
40:09And here we are in another season of her life where the plate is just completely too full.
40:13And I worry about her.
40:15I just couldn't hold it.
40:16You know what I mean?
40:17It's okay.
40:18It's like what I said before.
40:19I don't know.
40:20I can't.
40:21It just seemed like I can't control it no more.
40:23It's okay.
40:24You got to let it out.
40:25You got to let it out.
40:26That's what I told you.
40:27Let it out.
40:28You got to let it out.
40:28My mom never let me cry.
40:30Mm-hmm.
40:31Just me and my family.
40:33We got you.
40:34We got you.
40:37Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
40:40Nell, she has a lot going on.
40:42Like, she just has a lot.
40:44She was talking about her family.
40:45And then you know what's going on with Chris, right?
40:48And the whole license situation.
40:50I don't know.
40:51But I know that them mothers are transparent about everybody else's business,
40:53but theirs.
40:55You got my license revoked.
40:56Now you're trying to make a big deal out of me.
40:58No, I'm making a big deal out of my license.
40:59You're trying to make a big deal out of your lack of disclosure.
41:02I thought that we were going to go into business together.
41:04Oh, am I supposed to get on a bullhorn and alert everybody that my license revoked?
41:08Just me.
41:08Who the are you?
41:10Real talk, I need you to tell your brother.
41:12That needs to get finished.
41:14We cleaned it out a year ago.
41:16It's a small project.
41:17How long does it take to get drawings changed?
41:20I can tell you, way less time than it's taken on this project.
41:24I'd like for you to pick up and get out your soft hands there.
41:26You won't be excited.
41:31How long do it make a big deal?
41:31This is a short notice of the story.
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