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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?
00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40You're just a little girl together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I don't know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The man.
00:00:58We're happy in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:15Oh, sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be serious.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?
00:02:20No, I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Oh, yeah, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't call at me hostile, because I die.
00:02:27No, you cannot do it, I die.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame. Everybody knows my name.
00:02:57Hola.
00:02:58Hola, hola.
00:02:59¿Es posible un pina colada?
00:03:00SÃ, claro.
00:03:01Gracias.
00:03:0720.
00:03:42I'm Sophie. I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls. It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years, and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Cheers.
00:03:56Oh.
00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce, and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks, and just have a good time, and not stress, and just actually
00:04:10have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.
00:04:18Even the workers are cute.
00:04:20The hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24Everything's an upgrade for me, ladies.
00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected, and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older, but how old?
00:04:4693 is fine.
00:04:47Let's stick with 94.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California.
00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:05But I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18I would say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So, you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:32When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, Sophie the single, not you.
00:05:57I'm Julia.
00:05:57I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:04My husband, Brandon, is very protective.
00:06:07But he has a reason because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:21So let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:25After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard
00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:47Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I missed you.
00:06:49Six years ago when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating
00:07:04site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:11Let's explore.
00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something
00:07:42scary about getting back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really
00:07:47with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you, and we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall.
00:08:11He works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper, the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy, and I was
00:08:37like, okay, like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between
00:08:48him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based
00:08:55on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I
00:09:09want, and he just, like, did all of it, and I was like, oh, so what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and he bought me a $2,000 necklace, and that
00:09:17was the first time we met in person, so.
00:09:20Oh my gosh.
00:09:21I know.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic, and I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind
00:09:28of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.
00:09:30It's like every week I get new flowers at my door, and then he leaves, like, this little,
00:09:33like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34You see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday, and I wanted to do
00:09:47this girl's trip for a while now, so it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the
00:09:51two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single, and
00:10:07I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time, I've been through hell with
00:10:15my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously, so I want to make sure
00:10:20I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it
00:10:25out.
00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which will be fun.
00:10:27I'll have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends.
00:10:31Yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him, but I feel like
00:10:39he's
00:10:39catching very strong feelings very early on, and I really just want to make sure that
00:10:44I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:49So, let's have fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:53Ladies.
00:10:54What happened in Dominican Republic?
00:10:55Stay in Dominican Republic.
00:10:57Yes.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:19Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Yeah!
00:11:32I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh.
00:11:37I like this.
00:11:39I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars hide.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey.
00:12:17And I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:19And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy.
00:12:24And it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes.
00:12:39I was a bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:48Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:51You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I use a gun?
00:12:59I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Do you?
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:09You got the right kind of woman, then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:19Probably, too.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, it's me!
00:13:32No!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months, but it is hard as to find a good man in
00:13:40your 50s.
00:13:42Okay.
00:13:43We're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.
00:13:59I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was on a
00:14:11plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God!
00:14:18Oh, my God!
00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:32you.
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days are over, but I loved
00:14:45Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby.
00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this day.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:00No.
00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know.
00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:13Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:27We tried.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So, how do you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:47Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:50Yes.
00:15:51Wore the little uniform, wore the little beret, jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55That's very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:02So, where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, two.
00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:12No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:24You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29Do you don't mind me asking?
00:16:30Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Javier.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:46And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:55It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:58Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide, and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:11I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So, I'm not going to see Javier again, but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:23Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I've ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So, is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take him to his bins.
00:17:48Oh, you do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:49Oh.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:53He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05Do you have a ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two-for-one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah.
00:18:27I went on, like, a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah.
00:18:31It was fun.
00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:37I just feel like I still need to...
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:53Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to...
00:19:02say what I have to say, you know?
00:19:04Or discuss what I've done.
00:19:07All right.
00:19:08Love you.
00:19:09Love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:23All right.
00:19:23See you later.
00:19:25I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh, my God, like, she looks fine, like.
00:19:54The hair, the eyes, the lips, the f***, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:20:18disaster?
00:20:29Stop down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:32What you drinking?
00:20:32What you want?
00:20:33Two counts right here.
00:20:35Check yourself out in the mood.
00:20:37Let's go.
00:20:37I'm not when you're looking top tier.
00:20:39From your head to your toes.
00:20:41The star, this is your show.
00:20:42Come on, Gino.
00:20:43You got this.
00:20:44Like you're going to show up every time, every time that we never know.
00:20:49Woo.
00:20:50Be a little good, a little bad.
00:20:52I'm like, ooh, so goodbye to you.
00:20:56All right.
00:20:57Last 10 seconds before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Kent, Michigan.
00:21:04Come on.
00:21:04Let it all go.
00:21:05Woo.
00:21:06Nice job.
00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:12I'm way out of shape.
00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:19I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:21:26Woo.
00:21:27Would you mind taking a couple selfies for me?
00:21:30Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I
00:21:43am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women because I have failed miserably in the last, well,
00:21:54last four years anyway.
00:21:59Oh, my God.
00:22:01Is it Jasmine?
00:22:02Is it you?
00:22:03Oh, my God.
00:22:05I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago and went to Panama to meet
00:22:13her.
00:22:13We're still here forever.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25There were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:28You trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:31That's your choice.
00:22:35Guys.
00:22:36I'm going to kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn, the president.
00:22:39Hey, don't stop.
00:22:40Jasmine, I look at me.
00:22:41Stop it, liar.
00:22:43I can't hear.
00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street
00:22:56two months after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:04And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby and that's what we're going to do.
00:23:11Well.
00:23:13Good.
00:23:19I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet.
00:23:40And now I just want to look forward to living my best life.
00:23:56Today, I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:03And we can see.
00:24:05It's peachy.
00:24:06That's so easy.
00:24:08Even if it isn't.
00:24:10Keep it easy, peasy.
00:24:16Hi there.
00:24:17I'm Melissa.
00:24:18Gino.
00:24:18Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:20Is this your first event?
00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.
00:24:22So, let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:26Sounds good.
00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good
00:24:3730 years.
00:24:38Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:43Before the internet, I'd use classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary because I didn't really know what they look like.
00:24:53In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do.
00:24:57And I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:25:00So, this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:05I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:13You feel so small and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So, I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's go.
00:25:24Let's go.
00:25:28Let's go.
00:25:31Hey, can we get Gino up here?
00:25:33Let's go.
00:25:33My bat?
00:25:35Gino, girl.
00:25:36Go, go, go.
00:25:37Gino, Gino.
00:25:39Gino.
00:25:40Gino.
00:25:41Gino.
00:25:55What's your name?
00:25:56What's your name?
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58I'm Aaron.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:00Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:04Awesome.
00:26:05Oh, good job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:11But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh my God, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:21We're 70% women.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:33So tell us, like, what brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36No.
00:26:37Well, I mean, I'm single now.
00:26:38When did you get divorced?
00:26:40When I get divorced?
00:26:42Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:26:46Okay.
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:56What if they're not done?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:05I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:11What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random guy at the gym,
00:27:22and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24What?
00:27:25And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me, not telling them about my nightmarish,
00:27:40miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:47But anyway, the change of subject a little.
00:27:50What are you guys looking for in a man?
00:28:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:16disaster?
00:28:29All lies aren't mean, what you're looking at?
00:28:31Yeah, I'm sinking my teeth like a big cat.
00:28:32Oh, me give you un poquitito, un poquitito, lo que está bien rico.
00:28:36Flying so high, yeah, I'm on in the night.
00:28:39I'ma show you what I like.
00:28:42Pedro's bad, baby.
00:29:02My name is Pedro.
00:29:04I'm 33 years old.
00:29:05Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic, but right now I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:09Trae la van, si, ya estamos aquÃ.
00:29:11Si.
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel, I've been keeping a low profile.
00:29:15I need a time to myself.
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:20Eso, papá.
00:29:22But now, I put everything behind me, and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.
00:29:28Bam.
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.
00:29:31Asà mismo.
00:29:31Asà mismo.
00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.
00:29:36Para Sofi.
00:29:37Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.
00:29:40Yo soy un tipo romántico.
00:29:42I'm putting my best effort in this, okay?
00:29:46SÃ, claro.
00:29:47I'm so excited.
00:29:49I'm very happy.
00:29:50Because Sofi arrived in the yard with her friends, and they're going to meet me and my friend
00:29:54at the club tonight.
00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi when she is in my own country.
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.
00:30:01They're going to drive Sofi and her friends around the yard.
00:30:05Pedro, ¿qué te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:08No me gusta, papá.
00:30:10Me encanta.
00:30:11Oye, man.
00:30:13The first time I saw something online, you know, I said, oh my God, like, she looks fine.
00:30:19Like, she has everything that I was looking for.
00:30:22The hair, the eyes, the lip, the ****, the ass, the leg.
00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist.
00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, going to be down, you know, like a guitar kind of
00:30:32style, you know.
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:44I have a strong feeling for Sofi, and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:48She has very calm heart.
00:30:49She has the full package.
00:30:59No, todos los errores que se metÃan en el pasado fueron errores, ¿tú me entiendes?
00:31:02Ahora yo aprendà mis errores.
00:31:03When I met Chantel, I told her my life was set for forever.
00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain.
00:31:13Ah!
00:31:15Hey, you!
00:31:15Ah!
00:31:17Baby!
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:26Hello, my baby.
00:31:31But Chantel's family caused so much drama.
00:31:33They were freaking crazy.
00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:31:35What'd you say, ****?
00:31:37I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect, and nobody else.
00:31:40Let's go!
00:31:41Hey!
00:31:42Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:43Hey!
00:31:44Chantel!
00:31:45Chantel never stand up for me with her family.
00:31:48That was dropping a wedge between us, to the point our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:55I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:10Put more time, more effort, listen more,
00:32:13be more flexible, you know.
00:32:15And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:19Hey.
00:32:30You're feeling good tonight.
00:32:33But it's great.
00:32:35It's a big night.
00:32:37Okay.
00:32:39Oh, it's good.
00:32:41Now let's go down.
00:32:44Let's go, little Bobby.
00:32:47It's been a long time.
00:32:48I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm 30 years old,
00:32:54not a kid, not married,
00:32:55made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:01What you never know.
00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.
00:33:06I want my wife.
00:33:07I want the house.
00:33:08I want the kid.
00:33:10Maybe if we love it, we get some.
00:33:12If not, we try again.
00:33:17I want to show Sophie the time of her life in the yard.
00:33:20And I hope at the end of the street,
00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:28We're ready.
00:33:38Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart and she loves Cass.
00:33:52Who's that beauty?
00:33:54Who's that beast?
00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.
00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:59Who's she?
00:34:00I must admit.
00:34:02That's me.
00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate.
00:34:07I'm willing and able to make my own bed and eat it all alone.
00:34:12That's me.
00:34:13Hi.
00:34:13How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16Let me go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:17Have a great day.
00:34:19Okay.
00:34:19Bye.
00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor in a hotel casino.
00:34:26Ooh, it's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized.
00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training
00:34:36because you have to be organized when you're in the military.
00:34:40Are you almost done?
00:34:41We got to go.
00:34:42It's girls night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend.
00:34:48And I love the fact that, like, I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.
00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies night.
00:35:03I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you're going to try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14Hi, Becca.
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:47And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does
00:36:02deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:08She's a beautiful person, so I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her
00:36:12like a queen.
00:36:14All right, let's go.
00:36:33Let's go.
00:36:34Hi.
00:36:34Hi.
00:36:35Hi.
00:36:36We love you.
00:36:37We love you.
00:36:38We love you.
00:36:40Mwah.
00:36:41I love you.
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:43What are we doing?
00:36:44Sit down.
00:36:45What the is it?
00:36:46Pitch a friend.
00:36:46Just chill out.
00:36:48What is it?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:04I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:05She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate it.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12Here's the voices.
00:37:13You can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome.
00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:21All right.
00:37:21So, we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage pitching their
00:37:29wonderful single friends.
00:37:30With a power point presentation so that you know who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:52And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things that we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right.
00:38:09Let's get started in Pitch Up Friends.
00:38:11Starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:16So, I am introducing my friend Alex.
00:38:20He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, he's 42.
00:38:25And he went for us to 42.
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34You have a strong line.
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:38Boundaries.
00:38:40Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:47Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at 19's age.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:09Yeah!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old ass is
00:39:20going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:21Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:26Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?
00:39:38She has the biggest heart and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world.
00:39:49Cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no.
00:39:58You cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00Cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:01They're sleeping.
00:40:03Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true.
00:40:13But, you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly.
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 55.
00:40:22Damn it.
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:33Um, hey, why if my dad lives in New York, would you date a man that is far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in ****** Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the ****** not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man and I know they have the best intentions,
00:40:59but this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle bitching moment!
00:41:08Okay, so what are we going to do?
00:41:09Wait, do you want me?
00:41:10I don't like you.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh, yep.
00:41:21I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:26What?
00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:31Oh!
00:41:32Wait, wait.
00:41:34So, like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call, yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But, I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:48I like to have orgasms.
00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:58I'm going to f*** them.
00:42:00Oh-ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:16This is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five.
00:42:18How can you beat that?
00:42:19I mean, I am budget conscious.
00:42:21And some girls will hate it and say,
00:42:23why are you being so cheap?
00:42:25So, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,
00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:42Hi.
00:42:42Excuse me.
00:42:43Do you, uh, know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48Like, hamburger?
00:42:49Yeah, it's going to be down here on the left.
00:42:51All the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:59And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat
00:43:02because she's vegan, you know?
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:09I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12A little ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right.
00:43:15But thanks a lot.
00:43:16Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure.
00:43:18Enjoy your meat.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat
00:43:34and throwing it in the fridge, I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:38Hmm.
00:43:38I think this will work.
00:43:42Take that, Chad.
00:43:43The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball,
00:43:52but maybe not the best situation, like, to find a date.
00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone
00:44:15if I know this person is already interested in me.
00:44:20Check this out.
00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man, I definitely would not be able to go with you
00:44:31because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer while I'm drawing.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately, and I love it.
00:44:46I freaking love it.
00:44:49Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post, and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:03Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago
00:45:06when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13Thank you. So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable, too.
00:45:17Look at your smile. It's so cute.
00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.
00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party
00:45:28and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:31Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch her.
00:45:37Don't get close to me.
00:45:38No.
00:45:39Don't touch her.
00:45:39Don't you .
00:45:40Relax, relax.
00:45:41No, no.
00:45:42Don't you listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year,
00:45:49and then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tello.
00:45:53And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:57Yeah, I responded to her.
00:45:59But I added some emojis to it.
00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.
00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.
00:46:09Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:12I still like Natalie a lot.
00:46:15So I asked her if I could visit her next week, and she said yes.
00:46:20You know, this is soft.
00:46:22I mean, it's exactly how I like my women.
00:46:25Soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie, like with actions, not just words.
00:46:40I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now, that I could post on my Instagram.
00:46:46That big-ass cucumber.
00:46:52I just arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:58Candle in the car!
00:46:59The van alone, cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:06Ah!
00:47:06It's Pedro!
00:47:07He has a ring in his hands.
00:47:28This is my first sight in the VR.
00:47:30And I am going out with Sophie and Juliam.
00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends.
00:47:41So I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:55It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine.
00:48:00And it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited.
00:48:12I want to get dressed up.
00:48:13I want to go out.
00:48:14I want to meet people.
00:48:15I want to mingle.
00:48:16I want to flirt.
00:48:16And I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.
00:48:23And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.
00:48:25And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:30Um, I think you're amazing.
00:48:33And I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.
00:48:42But, um...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:45Burn!
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Hey, go f*** yourself.
00:48:50Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.
00:48:52You are out at the toll, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the f*** up.
00:48:56You don't give a f***, Ed.
00:48:58But despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed and always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:10But then Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:14You're gonna be the best person of yourself and it's not gonna be with me.
00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always gonna be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past.
00:49:28We're gonna move forward.
00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're gonna have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:40And then the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he
00:49:46didn't.
00:49:46He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:07and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch.
00:50:13Me being sick, but...
00:50:19I think I can touch it.
00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me.
00:50:28But I also know that I'm gonna overcome it.
00:50:31I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life.
00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls' Night!
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.
00:51:01You are my soul!
00:51:03I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really?
00:51:07Yeah.
00:51:07Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR, and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh my gosh.
00:51:18Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:24I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:29Oh!
00:51:33Oh my God!
00:51:35Oh my goodness!
00:51:37Oh my goodness.
00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:39I'm sorry.
00:51:41That is, like, candle in the car.
00:51:45Candle in the car!
00:51:46The van alone?
00:51:48Cute.
00:51:49But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00It's nice.
00:52:00Candle in the car.
00:52:01Okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:10It's cute.
00:52:11It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:13Okay.
00:52:15Did he do the ball as well?
00:52:18No!
00:52:19Pedro put this more in a sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:33This translator.
00:52:34Yeah.
00:52:35Do you want to kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in, he'll probably go psst.
00:52:38Well, yeah.
00:52:39We haven't done anything yet.
00:52:40You know?
00:52:40So it's like, I'm going to hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:55Let's go.
00:52:57Let's dance homage.
00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:53:03Cause I'll be watching you while a DJ plays your song.
00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:11I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:14Maybe you could show me.
00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:22Ah!
00:53:23It's Pedro!
00:53:24Where is he?
00:53:25He has a ring in his hands.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27He has a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30I'm going to go film.
00:53:35You got this, girl.
00:53:39Wow.
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:45How you been?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How about the fly?
00:53:47It's long. It's okay.
00:53:50She looked, like, stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:55Oh.
00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58Hug like a brother.
00:53:59She hug me like a, like a, like a, like a, like a, like a side hug.
00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.
00:54:09Oh, bam.
00:54:12Introduce Miss to you.
00:54:13Oh, yeah.
00:54:14That's Miss.
00:54:15Oh, hey.
00:54:18How's it going?
00:54:19How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:36How's it going?
00:54:37Good job.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.
00:54:38Enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:42How you doing?
00:54:43Very good.
00:54:43How are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:45Do this one?
00:54:46Yeah.
00:54:56Que lo que, papá.
00:54:57Que lo que?
00:54:58Um, guys, let me introduce you.
00:55:02That's my friend Villas.
00:55:04Darlene.
00:55:05Ernestis.
00:55:06Raphael.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08She's Sophie.
00:55:10Julia.
00:55:11And Liz.
00:55:12Oh, yeah.
00:55:13Nice to meet you.
00:55:14Question, how was the band?
00:55:16Was it good?
00:55:17Yeah, yeah, it was here.
00:55:18Good job, guys.
00:55:19They helped me.
00:55:20Oh, that was super cute.
00:55:23I can tell Pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me, which, it's nice.
00:55:30But it feels like I'm, like, walking into, like, a job interview or, like, I'm supposed
00:55:34to give a speech or something because they were just sat there like this at me.
00:55:39Okay.
00:55:40Hey, should we sit?
00:55:41Ah, let me.
00:55:45I already feel like there's expectation of me and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's
00:55:51girlfriend.
00:55:52It's just kind of freaking me out a little bit.
00:55:57One, three.
00:55:58Let's just go, please.
00:55:59Okay, yeah.
00:55:59We're just gonna go to the bottom real quick.
00:56:00Okay, go to the bottom.
00:56:02You know where this bottom at?
00:56:03Go find it.
00:56:05Huh?
00:56:05Go find it.
00:56:06Go find it.
00:56:11That's...
00:56:14That energy, bro.
00:56:15I don't know.
00:56:16What's life?
00:56:17I don't know.
00:56:18I don't know.
00:56:19I don't know.
00:56:21What's very awkward?
00:56:23I'm excited that Sophie is here, but right now it's feel cold, indifference, weird,
00:56:30you know, like, awkward.
00:56:33Sophie is an entirely different person than I met before.
00:56:40Sexually, he is...
00:56:41He's good.
00:56:42He's great with me.
00:56:43And his is big.
00:56:44So there you go.
00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges.
00:56:49I still have needs.
00:56:53Ooh.
00:57:07I have plans to hook up right now.
00:57:11Oh-oh!
00:57:12Whoa!
00:57:13Oh, wait!
00:57:14I'm feeling too fly.
00:57:16Yeah.
00:57:17I been going way up.
00:57:18Yeah.
00:57:19Give me my paper.
00:57:20Cause you already know.
00:57:21Wait.
00:57:22Wait.
00:57:23So, like, a booty call.
00:57:26A booty call.
00:57:27Yeah.
00:57:28So, a booty call is when you're not in a relationship, and you just meet up with one of your
00:57:33little
00:57:33friends, and you know, you have some drinky drinks, and then do the deed, and then you just go home.
00:57:40Even though I'm in my 50s, I still have urges, I still have needs, and it, like, gets the needs
00:57:46met.
00:57:46You know what?
00:57:47It's a step in the right direction.
00:57:50Why not?
00:57:51I'm meeting up with Benjamin, or as everybody calls him, B.
00:57:55He's a really good friend of mine, and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman.
00:58:01Once Usman and I broke up, and he knew it, he just slid right in the DMs, and we've been
00:58:06banging it out ever since.
00:58:10It's tricky with me and B, because the connection is there, like, you can feel it, you know?
00:58:14But he's just a friend with benefits.
00:58:17Like, I just don't feel like we're at that point to make it a relationship.
00:58:21When B and I tried to date, like, five, six years ago, we were doing pretty good.
00:58:26We have a lot of things in common.
00:58:28And then about six months in, B hit me up with he wanted to be, like, in a thropple.
00:58:33He wanted me to have sex with the woman, and I was just like, are you high?
00:58:38No, I'm not doing that.
00:58:40He was very free-spirited back then, and Kim was not.
00:58:43Sexually, B is, he's good.
00:58:45He's great with me.
00:58:46And his is big.
00:58:47So there you go.
00:58:48What?
00:58:49You had that with Usman, though.
00:58:50It was the same thing.
00:58:52You had the connection, but there was all these other red flags.
00:58:54That's how I feel, and I don't want the red flags.
00:58:56No.
00:58:57Being a woman of a certain age that we all are, it is refreshing for me to see her having
00:59:09a little bit of a hoe phase.
00:59:12You know what?
00:59:13I'm all for that.
00:59:14Are you for that?
00:59:14Yeah, I think she, I mean, get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds the
00:59:18right one.
00:59:19Friends with benefits, whatever they have is a good connection.
00:59:22I'm down for it.
00:59:23Yeah.
00:59:23Okay, love you.
00:59:24I love you.
00:59:25All right, bye.
00:59:25I love you.
00:59:26Love you too.
00:59:26But we want her to find somebody that is truly special and truly someone that she can
00:59:31fall in love with and that loves her.
00:59:34True.
00:59:35He ain't the one.
00:59:36No.
00:59:36But for tonight, he is the one.
00:59:38Thank God.
00:59:40We love you.
00:59:40See my name.
00:59:41Spell it out.
00:59:42Serve it up like a lemonade.
00:59:43Sweet and sour.
00:59:44Make it bust.
00:59:45Bea and I have been hooking up every couple of weeks in some really nice hotels
00:59:48because he has roommates and with my house I never know if Jamal's going to show off
00:59:53or not.
00:59:59At first it was a little inconvenient.
01:00:00But I have to tell you, like hotel sex is kind of hot.
01:00:03Nice hotel sex.
01:00:04Double touch, double touch, double touch, double touch.
01:00:16Come on in, I've been waiting to see you.
01:00:22It's good to see you on the show.
01:00:24I know, I know.
01:00:25Hell yeah, come on in, come on in, come on in.
01:00:27This is nice, B.
01:00:28I know, right?
01:00:29So much nicer than those old hotels we used to get.
01:00:33Man.
01:00:34Back in the day.
01:00:35Isn't that crazy?
01:00:36Absolutely.
01:00:37Look at us now.
01:00:37You look beautiful, as usual.
01:00:39I try.
01:00:40My name is Benjamin, but everybody calls me B, because I'm like the bumblebee.
01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around, and you never know where I'll land at.
01:00:50This is a good bed.
01:00:51This is nice.
01:00:52Look at that.
01:00:53This is a big bed.
01:00:54This is a big bed.
01:00:55The reason why me and Kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship
01:00:59that we have together.
01:01:00She's somebody I definitely like.
01:01:03I rock with.
01:01:05So I went to this like dating event thing.
01:01:08Today?
01:01:08You know what I'm saying?
01:01:09Yeah.
01:01:09See, this is why I love you, because we can talk about this stuff, right?
01:01:12Of course.
01:01:12Of course.
01:01:12Of course.
01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily.
01:01:15Right.
01:01:16And they pitched me, so it was called Pitch a Friend.
01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation about-
01:01:21Like a real slideshow?
01:01:23Yes.
01:01:23Like with pictures?
01:01:24Yeah, of me.
01:01:25And then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff.
01:01:28Wow.
01:01:28So it was cool.
01:01:29It was very touching, but it just was not my thing.
01:01:32Sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys or like this whole Pitch a Friend thing,
01:01:36because I want to see what he's going to say.
01:01:38Like, don't do that.
01:01:40Let me try to be your man.
01:01:41B and I are good together and I know he sees it.
01:01:44And I was kind of hoping that with age that B would like, you know, calm it down a little
01:01:48bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship.
01:01:52We've known each other forever.
01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much.
01:01:55I miss you too.
01:01:56Like, we're cool.
01:01:57Like, we're friends with benefits now and I love that.
01:01:59But like, I'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else it could be.
01:02:04We've always talked about it, you know?
01:02:06And the only way we're going to find that out is with more time.
01:02:09Mm-hmm.
01:02:10We should plan like once every two weeks.
01:02:14When we can.
01:02:17You haven't even been to my house yet.
01:02:19No, but I'm...
01:02:20You're so crazy.
01:02:20I'm coming.
01:02:26Yeah.
01:02:27Okay.
01:02:28I am tired and I just want to go take a shower.
01:02:30Is that okay?
01:02:31Yeah, of course.
01:02:32Okay.
01:02:33I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower.
01:02:36So, I'm just, I'm just, baby, baby, please.
01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.
01:02:41What?
01:02:42Can you show me like what that might feel like?
01:02:46Yes.
01:02:46Yes.
01:02:46Let's go.
01:02:47Let me see.
01:02:47Ooh.
01:02:48Let me see.
01:02:48Let me see.
01:02:50I have a good hand.
01:02:52I love B to death and I would love to be in a relationship with him.
01:02:55And I'm putting out the vibe, but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down.
01:02:59So, I mean, where do we go from here?
01:03:02Ooh.
01:03:03Dang, girl.
01:03:04I'm going to go take a shower.
01:03:05I don't want to be shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old.
01:03:10I just want more for myself.
01:03:12So, if B doesn't step up soon, I mean, this whole relationship is going to have an expiration date.
01:03:17I'm not going to keep waiting.
01:03:22Tradeling today to see Natalie again.
01:03:25God, aren't these sexy?
01:03:27I mean, holy cow.
01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance.
01:03:31And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.
01:03:44You know I work it, work it, cause I'm going to earn it, earn it.
01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?
01:03:53Well, I got to wash the hair, right?
01:03:55The little hair that I have, the patch of hair on the back of my head.
01:03:58I shampoo it, I condition it, I take very good care of it.
01:04:03That's the only hair I got left on my head.
01:04:06I've got a good thing going and I'll never slow them down.
01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie, you know, so I bought a couple of new shirts.
01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them.
01:04:25I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie.
01:04:29They're colorful.
01:04:31That's for sure.
01:04:33Definitely colorful.
01:04:35I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at.
01:04:40This time, I'm going to travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there.
01:04:45God, aren't these sexy?
01:04:47I mean, holy cow, that's some sexy ass underwear right here.
01:04:51A lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk, to be honest, and
01:04:57hasn't been very deep.
01:05:00So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me.
01:05:05But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me.
01:05:12I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not packing any because the little blue pills I need for
01:05:19someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch.
01:05:24Then I need something to pump me up.
01:05:25But Natalie is a different story because just her personality and attitude, the way she is, I'm going to get
01:05:33it up, man.
01:05:35All right. I think we got it.
01:05:47Time to board. I'll see you soon, Natalie.
01:05:54I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years.
01:05:59So trying to put myself out there again, it's not easy.
01:06:07But there's not many times that you can get a second chance.
01:06:11And especially with a woman that's high quality, like Natalie is.
01:06:23Good morning.
01:06:24Good morning. How are you?
01:06:27Doing great. Doing great. My first time in Washington, D.C.
01:06:30I'm excited. Excited. I hope you enjoy your stay.
01:06:33Thank you. I'm so excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today.
01:06:37On top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind, she is a hot, sexy, passionate
01:06:45Latina, let me tell you.
01:06:47She's on fire, man.
01:06:48She's on fire, baby.
01:06:53Oh, is this it?
01:06:54Yeah, this is it.
01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office.
01:07:00The plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment.
01:07:17How are you feeling?
01:07:19Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her.
01:07:24But I have some nervousness. It's a little nerve wracking.
01:07:32My heart's racing a bit.
01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.
01:07:48I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance.
01:07:51But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.
01:07:55Hey.
01:07:59What is your name again?
01:08:01Via.
01:08:01Via?
01:08:02Yeah, it's nice to meet you.
01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:08:05No, there we go, there we go.
01:08:07Via is very good looking and he smells expensive.
01:08:14Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.
01:08:17And then hook us with him.
01:08:20I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants.
01:08:24What the we doing here?
01:08:36How do you feel right now?
01:08:38Well, I don't know why his energy just gives me, like, I just feel like, in his head we're in
01:08:43a relationship.
01:08:44Like, if you ask him, I feel like he's like, yeah, that's my girl.
01:08:48Uh-huh.
01:08:55They take a long time in the restroom.
01:08:57What they doing?
01:08:59Nobody tell you.
01:09:00You can have fun.
01:09:02Just have fun.
01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now.
01:09:05Like, now he's going to feel like she's in my country, she's meeting my friends.
01:09:11Like, I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe.
01:09:13You should loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you'll be good.
01:09:18Let's just see how it goes.
01:09:20It'll be a good night.
01:09:22You know what?
01:09:22Help me meet my man.
01:09:25Kitty's thirsty.
01:09:28We and the girls just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends and it's a very overwhelming
01:09:33environment.
01:09:34Sorry, uh, you can sit down.
01:09:37Um, uh, you can see over here, Sophie.
01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van and now I just feel like he's thinking this is my
01:09:44girlfriend, she's meeting all my friends.
01:09:46And it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before, which that's what I loved before.
01:09:51It was so easy going and this feels a little bit, a little bit pressure.
01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce you to my friend, Villa.
01:09:57What is your name again?
01:09:59Villa.
01:09:59Villa?
01:10:00Yeah, it's nice to meet you.
01:10:01Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:10:02No, I don't even know what we're doing.
01:10:04No, there we go, there we go.
01:10:08Villa is very good looking.
01:10:11He's very well groomed, like his haircut's on point and he smells really good.
01:10:17He smells expensive.
01:10:21Cheers, thank you for inviting us out.
01:10:22By the way, Galis has come,
01:10:24up, up, down, low, low, low, low, low, low, low, low.
01:10:41Two.
01:10:46There, you got it.
01:10:53As we're dancing, I can tell we're both very
01:10:55attracted to each other.
01:10:56Get close.
01:10:57Get close.
01:10:57Get close to me.
01:10:59No, get close to me.
01:11:00No worry.
01:11:01He just smells really good.
01:11:03He dresses well.
01:11:04And he's just hot.
01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him, I don't want to, like,
01:11:08be all over him the first night and lead him on,
01:11:11because I still don't really know what I want yet.
01:11:15So you've never danced bachata before?
01:11:17I was trying to sign up for bachata lessons while I'm out here.
01:11:19It's so easy.
01:11:20I can teach you that.
01:11:21Okay.
01:11:24We can start here, right?
01:11:26So it's one, two, three.
01:11:29Oh, you do know!
01:11:33One, two.
01:11:34One, two.
01:11:35One, two.
01:11:36And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam!
01:11:38One, two.
01:11:40One, two.
01:11:42One, two.
01:11:43One, two.
01:11:43You lied to me.
01:11:45You said she didn't know.
01:11:46She said she was going to take classes.
01:11:47I said I wanted to do one last day.
01:11:49No.
01:11:53Look over here better.
01:11:56Everyone just left.
01:11:57That's okay.
01:12:00They needed that alone time.
01:12:01Yeah.
01:12:02You look beautiful.
01:12:03You look gorgeous.
01:12:05I'm super happy that you're here.
01:12:08Oh, yeah.
01:12:08That you gave the invitation to come in here,
01:12:10to spend a little time with me.
01:12:11I know you want to have the best time.
01:12:14I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast.
01:12:18Because I'm in a DR.
01:12:21Wow, that's a lot.
01:12:24You don't need classes.
01:12:25No class?
01:12:26No.
01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend.
01:12:28Yeah, look.
01:12:29Villa?
01:12:30Yeah.
01:12:32So are you from here or are you from?
01:12:33I was born in Atlanta.
01:12:36When's your birthday?
01:12:38September.
01:12:39September?
01:12:40I'm May, baby.
01:12:41I'm a Gemini.
01:12:42You're a Gemini?
01:12:43Yeah, what is your size?
01:12:45I'm a Libra.
01:12:46Okay.
01:12:46I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced.
01:12:49Which is...
01:12:51Is this your only tattoo?
01:12:53Oh.
01:12:53Yeah.
01:12:54Wow.
01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.
01:12:55It's a Libra.
01:12:56So a woman with the blindfold and the scale.
01:13:01What's this?
01:13:02Oh, it's my son's name.
01:13:04I have a kid.
01:13:08Riley Leanne.
01:13:09You have a kid?
01:13:10Yeah.
01:13:10Really?
01:13:11She's gonna be 12.
01:13:12You have a 12-year-old?
01:13:14Yeah.
01:13:15My baby means everything to me.
01:13:16Same.
01:13:17Yeah.
01:13:17Same.
01:13:17He is my reason for everything.
01:13:20Definitely.
01:13:22Oh.
01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Villa.
01:13:26He'll be eight in July.
01:13:27He's sweet.
01:13:28He loves his kid.
01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.
01:13:32We're having great conversation.
01:13:35I think we need a drink to that.
01:13:36I think we need a shot.
01:13:37I think we need a shot.
01:13:39Is your friend a hoe?
01:13:40He is?
01:13:42I know.
01:13:43He is a hoe.
01:13:44It's okay.
01:13:45Liz is in her single era.
01:13:47So this is her time to just like live her life a little bit.
01:13:50Same with me.
01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.
01:13:53You're separated right now.
01:13:54Are you still married?
01:13:55Are you divorced?
01:13:57How, how, how that goes?
01:14:00Like, I'm still suddenly married, but I'm like starting the process of divorce.
01:14:05But we're still talking.
01:14:06How far you are now?
01:14:09Like, just now.
01:14:11So it's very new.
01:14:13It never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me.
01:14:17He still called you?
01:14:18He called me two days ago, four in the morning.
01:14:20For what?
01:14:21It was an unknown number to have me blocked.
01:14:23And he was like, why do you have me blocked?
01:14:25I'm like, we're getting divorced.
01:14:28Why, why are you so upset with you?
01:14:30Like, why are you not going to move on?
01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.
01:14:35I thought that Sophie and her husband, the divorce was more fight alone.
01:14:40Because she tell me he was the worst husband, that he, he made her, like, miserable all the time.
01:14:48If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?
01:14:53Any hookers with him?
01:15:01Yeah.
01:15:03We, like, hooked up after a few months.
01:15:05Because as much as that guy was horrible to me, I still had love for him.
01:15:09When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories.
01:15:13And so we slept together.
01:15:17They've been hookups.
01:15:18And she never told me they did hookups before.
01:15:21I am speechless.
01:15:23It's hard when you love someone.
01:15:24I can't just be like, I you.
01:15:26Bye, you know?
01:15:27Look, if you want to be with Rob, okay, be with Rob.
01:15:30Or be with every guy that you want to be.
01:15:33But I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.
01:15:37What the we doing here?
01:15:42I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
01:15:46You know?
01:15:47But now I have to just.
01:15:47I wish you did too.
01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:15:54I don't know.
01:15:54I don't know what I up, you know?
01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with B.
01:16:13Even at 55, I'm still doing the walk of shame.
01:16:25Come on, let me give you some treats.
01:16:29Hi, my baby.
01:16:31Here.
01:16:33Last night was pretty amazing.
01:16:35B's really good in bed, I have to say.
01:16:39And usually after a night like that, I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.
01:16:44But right now I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over.
01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.
01:16:50My God.
01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.
01:16:54But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.
01:17:03Super good pipes.
01:17:04Ding dong.
01:17:04Hey.
01:17:05What's up?
01:17:06How are you?
01:17:07Good.
01:17:08How are you?
01:17:09I'm good.
01:17:09I'm good.
01:17:11So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.
01:17:13See?
01:17:14Is it big?
01:17:15It's...
01:17:15Look at the picture.
01:17:17Oh.
01:17:17Okay, here we go.
01:17:18So they go A and C, E.
01:17:21It goes like this.
01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?
01:17:24This is so fun.
01:17:27So I went out for girls night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.
01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.
01:17:32So we went to Mavericks and they had this event called Pitch Me.
01:17:36Oh, no way.
01:17:36So they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.
01:17:40And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.
01:17:42They weren't even like grown, you know?
01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple of guys have been younger.
01:17:49So...
01:17:49My last one guy was younger.
01:17:53So...
01:17:53Well, B's not really.
01:17:54B's 44.
01:17:56So, I mean, he's, you know...
01:17:57What's his real name?
01:17:57Benjamin.
01:17:58Oh.
01:17:59Yeah, B sounds better.
01:18:00Yeah.
01:18:01But, um, so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night.
01:18:08I'm sure you don't want to know about that.
01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.
01:18:13Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.
01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just devastated him.
01:18:24As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.
01:18:27But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then
01:18:32and talk about it.
01:18:34But Jamal will just hang up on me.
01:18:35He won't answer a text.
01:18:36He'll walk out the house.
01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.
01:18:42Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.
01:18:46Why is he coming out here?
01:18:47Just to see, like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know, get a little more of my
01:18:52family history.
01:18:55And I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
01:18:59You know, but now I have to just...
01:19:00I wish you did too.
01:19:04You hid him for so long.
01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:19:16I did what I thought.
01:19:18Yeah, but why'd you hide him for so long?
01:19:25Just give me a second.
01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.
01:19:34This is really hard for me.
01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married.
01:19:44Um, we were together for seven and a half years.
01:19:47We were in the military together.
01:19:49And he was just cheating all the time.
01:19:52It was just like...
01:19:54Every day, there was like a different girl.
01:19:58When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry, first thing his dad said was abort it.
01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.
01:20:06When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.
01:20:09I was not mentally ready.
01:20:11I was starting my military career.
01:20:13I was just not ready.
01:20:14So I decided to put my son up for adoption.
01:20:17And I never told Jamal until last year.
01:20:19When Larry found us through an Ancestry website.
01:20:23I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:25I would have told you.
01:20:26I don't think so.
01:20:27And that's a huge thing for me is like...
01:20:31I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:34Because like there was no reason to not tell me.
01:20:37I just didn't know how to say it.
01:20:39You know?
01:20:40And it's always been like me and you, me and you, me and you.
01:20:42And I finally got our relationship to where like I've always wanted it to be, right?
01:20:47So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.
01:20:51I felt like in my head I was just like trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you
01:20:56too.
01:20:57Because I just didn't...
01:20:57Very protecting me.
01:20:58I don't know. I just didn't know how to handle it.
01:21:00I just didn't...
01:21:01That's...
01:21:02That is the complete truth.
01:21:03I did not know how to handle this.
01:21:05At all.
01:21:06At all.
01:21:08Last year, I found out I had an older brother.
01:21:13Full blood.
01:21:14Mom and dad.
01:21:15And my first thought was that she was lying.
01:21:18It was a joke or something.
01:21:21Because...
01:21:22Why would you hide this for so long when we're so close?
01:21:26And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.
01:21:28I had this whole other family and you knew about it.
01:21:32And I'm like how could my own mom like...
01:21:36Look me in my eyes when she knows I have a whole brother.
01:21:41Dude.
01:21:42That's just not something I'm like...
01:21:46Even thought about forgiving yet.
01:21:47Because I just don't know who would do that.
01:21:49So I'm like...
01:21:51Damn.
01:21:58I don't know.
01:21:59I feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust like only.
01:22:01Like...
01:22:02If you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.
01:22:04But now it's like...
01:22:05Wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.
01:22:09I'm like shaking.
01:22:14It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.
01:22:17You do make a lot of excuses.
01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:22:22I don't know...
01:22:22I don't know what else...
01:22:23I up.
01:22:24You know?
01:22:26Like I don't know what else to say to fix it.
01:22:30I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.
01:22:34It ended up just hurting him worse.
01:22:36Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.
01:22:40And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up.
01:22:45Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife and his son.
01:22:52Meeting Larry for the first time was like crazy.
01:22:55Because I'm looking at him, I'm like, okay, this is my blood.
01:22:58This is my son.
01:22:59And he has my face.
01:23:01He looks just like me.
01:23:02But he's a total stranger to me.
01:23:05And technically, I'm a grandma.
01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.
01:23:12But I'm so relieved because he was such a good man.
01:23:17And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him.
01:23:20You know?
01:23:20It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.
01:23:25Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry.
01:23:28And I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could see where
01:23:33I'm from.
01:23:36What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here?
01:23:39Like what's next?
01:23:39You think you're going to have like a deep talk with him?
01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:23:43About what?
01:23:48About the other one.
01:24:04How do you think he's going to react?
01:24:06I think he's going to be pissed.
01:24:07He's going to be really upset with me.
01:24:09Hey, by the way, you have a sister like the ****.
01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:24:20I also had a daughter.
01:24:31This season on The Single Life.
01:24:37This is the kind of life that I want.
01:24:39Where I can have fun with my partner.
01:24:43You're getting me all hot.
01:24:44Oh yeah?
01:24:45This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
01:24:49Nice to meet you.
01:24:51I'll never see you again.
01:24:53I was helping him upload something on social media and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.
01:24:59Something's fishy about this.
01:25:01Courtney's worried that I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one day.
01:25:04Are you still living that way, dude?
01:25:06Be honest with me.
01:25:07Well, um...
01:25:10How are you?
01:25:11A wreck.
01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.
01:25:14I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me.
01:25:18Here, sit.
01:25:18But I want to tell him now and I'm really scared.
01:25:22What if he just turns around and leaves?
01:25:23What if he never speaks to me again?
01:25:30Do you mind if I have a dance?
01:25:32It's my girl.
01:25:33Are you serious?
01:25:35I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.
01:25:38I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.
01:25:41So you're stopping me from being who I am?
01:25:43You don't see a problem here at all.
01:25:45What is the freaking problem?
01:25:46I think the problem is actually us.
01:25:48I'm done with this .
01:25:50Yesterday, I was talking police and she made me feel maybe I have another guy in your mind.
01:25:55But why does she tell you that?
01:25:57I don't want Sophie to play a game with me.
01:26:00I'm not interested in that .
01:26:02Hell no.
01:26:03Not with me.
01:26:05Everything I told you, he knows.
01:26:08You've never had my back.
01:26:09Yes, I have.
01:26:10You've never had my back.
01:26:11Enough, enough.
01:26:11That's breaking girl code.
01:26:13Like, you don't do that.
01:26:14Go the homeless.
01:26:16Adios.
01:26:17Adios.
01:26:17Adios.
01:26:18Adios.
01:26:19Adios.
01:26:19Adios.
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