- 7 hours ago
Category
📺
TVTranscript
00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02Girl's trip!
00:04I've recently filed for divorce.
00:06So what better way to celebrate them with a girl's trip?
00:09Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:11And we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:14I've been talking to this guy.
00:15His name is Pedro.
00:18And yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.
00:23But I don't want to rush it the same way I rushed my marriage.
00:26You're separated right now.
00:27Are you still married?
00:28I'm still excited to be married.
00:30Any hookups with him?
00:31Yeah.
00:32They've been hookups.
00:34And she never told me they did hookups before.
00:36What the we doing here?
00:40I want to look good for Natalie, so I bought a couple of new shirts.
00:44My first attempt at dating Natalie, it didn't go very well.
00:47But I asked her if I could visit her, and she said yes.
00:51I have some nervousness.
00:53It's a little nerve-wracking.
00:55I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:59I have two roommates.
01:01Oh, two.
01:02I used to date one of them.
01:04Sadly, I cheated on her.
01:06Oh.
01:07It is hard as to find a good man in your 50s.
01:10Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
01:14You have a lot of other things going on.
01:17I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:21Jamal has an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption.
01:24You think you're going to have a deep talk with him?
01:26I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:28About what?
01:29About the other one.
01:31Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:34I also had a daughter.
01:35I don't know, man.
02:20I'm sorry that Sophie is here, and they are with her friends.
02:23I really, really want a relationship with Sophie, but she had sex with the ex a couple of months ago,
02:29so I don't know if she's ready to let it go to pass.
02:43I don't like this situation, but I want to let it go because I like her,
02:48and I want to do whatever it is to win Sophie over.
02:51Well, how'd your conversation go?
02:54We're getting to know each other, but that's the extent that I'm ready for.
02:57If he just lets me open up myself, it will be better for me.
03:02So can you take a step back?
03:04Yes.
03:04And you look at the take step forward.
03:05Step forward, yeah, yeah.
03:07Pedro's coming on very strong.
03:09You know what Pedro asked me?
03:10He asked me if I'd f*** Rob.
03:12And what do you say?
03:13I said...
03:14Truth?
03:14Yeah, I said the truth.
03:15Why am I going to lie?
03:16And what did he say?
03:17He was not happy.
03:19Oh.
03:19Like, I feel like he kind of was, like, judging me.
03:22Even if you say yes, I sleep with him yesterday before I came to DR.
03:27It's nothing because you're not a relationship.
03:29You're dating.
03:31Help me, I need a pig.
03:35Hi, Sophie.
03:36Oh, hi.
03:37Bella.
03:38What's up, bro?
03:39Bitch.
03:40Hi.
03:40How you doing?
03:41I'm having a great time.
03:42Sophie's been talking about me?
03:45So, Sophie's definitely been, like, he's the first guy to buy me flowers.
03:50And she said that you're so, like, respectful.
03:54Like, very sweet.
03:55You're very sweet and romantic.
03:57Are we serious about her?
03:59I am.
04:00Are y'all?
04:01I am.
04:02Yeah.
04:02You're thinking that she really want this?
04:05Like, she's been a little distant these days, you know?
04:07I think, you know, she just recently is just getting out of this marriage and relationship.
04:13And it seems like you've been kind of separated and divorced for a while.
04:16She's in the beginning stages of trying to, like, discover, like, where she's at.
04:22That's really scary.
04:22Like, she want to discover more of that side.
04:25No, no, no.
04:25Not discover more.
04:27She needs to...
04:28She's still healing.
04:30She's still healing?
04:31Healing, yeah.
04:32Yeah.
04:34I didn't feel that Lisa's holding back and she not telling me the whole story.
04:38She didn't say directly, but it's made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
04:45Like, what the fuck?
04:46I've been doing all those things for you, and right now maybe you're not ready for a relationship?
04:50That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
04:54What are we interrupting right now?
04:55Nothing.
04:56What are we doing?
04:57Nothing?
04:57I think in VR, Tyra.
05:00And we have to go back to the resort.
05:03I'm ready for bed.
05:04Let's bring you to the band, ladies, okay?
05:07I'm going to bed, Chara.
05:09I came to the DR to be single and mingle, and...
05:14First night, crushed it.
05:16I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
05:17Make sure he gets home safe.
05:18I'll go ahead and give you a text.
05:19You have my number, okay?
05:21All right.
05:21Have a good night.
05:22I even got a number.
05:23Via is so sexy and so sweet.
05:26I'm so excited to see him again.
05:28I see you tomorrow?
05:29Yes.
05:30Yes, for sure?
05:32Yeah, let me know what you're going to do.
05:33Okay.
05:34A little to the beach, maybe.
05:35Yeah, I want to go to the beach.
05:37Honestly, for me, the night has just been very overwhelming, and Pedro definitely came
05:41on a lot stronger tonight than I anticipated.
05:45Him pushing me forward or trying to pressure me to something is only going to make me step
05:48back.
05:49And things between us are just going to end before they've even started.
05:52Pedro just needs to take things a little bit slower.
05:55You look beautiful.
05:58And then tomorrow we see you, okay?
06:00Okay, I see you.
06:02I want a relationship with Sophie.
06:04I didn't feel like she's like a true diamond.
06:06And I know that we can't be really good together.
06:09Bye, princess.
06:10Bye.
06:10Take care.
06:12But if she's not serious about me, what's she doing to be hard with me?
06:16I don't know what's going on.
06:18It's freaking up.
06:35As much as I want to sit here and, like, talk about how, like, I feel bad for you and
06:39stuff.
06:40I don't expect you to feel bad for me.
06:41I've never asked you to.
06:42I know I don't.
06:52Like, I know it's, like, a lot for you.
06:55But I caused it.
06:56Yeah, it's your fault.
07:00So I just don't have Jamal as a son.
07:04I have Larry, who I put up for adoption when I was 21 years old.
07:10Last year, when I told Jamal of all of this and all of this opened, it hurt worse because
07:17I had hid it for so long.
07:22It just sucks, dude.
07:24Like, me thinking I was the only child, but then finding out not only am I not an only
07:28child, I have, like, multiple siblings.
07:34Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
07:37I also had a daughter a year later.
07:40My relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good, and I had to do what was
07:44best for me at the time.
07:48I don't regret what I did, but I'm not happy with what I did either.
07:56Because you're bringing these beautiful beings into this world.
08:02And you feel that motherly love, and you feel that maternal thing, and knowing what you're
08:06doing, and knowing that you're giving them up for adoption.
08:11It's probably one of the hardest things I think any birth mother has to go through.
08:18I knew about my sister when I was 12, and then I found out about Larry, because he found
08:22you a year ago.
08:25It's like, why in that gap you didn't just tell me about him?
08:29I just didn't know how.
08:31I really just did not know how.
08:34When Jamal was 12, he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister, and that's
08:39how Jamal found out.
08:41I think I only told Jamal about one, because I just thought, to me, like, one would make
08:46sense, but to do it twice, I didn't want to him up.
08:53Did I handle it well?
08:54No.
08:55Not at all.
08:57I don't know.
08:57I really feel for Larry not telling him about our full-blood sister.
09:04I feel like every time I talk to him, it's like I'm, like, hiding a truth from him, and
09:08I feel like about it.
09:11Do you not think I feel like too?
09:16I didn't tell Larry about his sister when he first found me, because I was, like, trying
09:21to get to know him.
09:22He was trying to get to know me, and I just couldn't figure out a way to tell him.
09:27But now Larry wants to come visit us, and I have to go into this being completely 100%
09:33transparent.
09:35We can't build a strong, honest relationship if I'm keeping secrets from him.
09:44So I'm going to tell him about his sister.
09:46But I feel like I don't want you to be there when I tell him, so don't worry about that.
09:50I'll take care of it myself.
09:50Why would I not be there?
09:51I feel like I do want to be there, because, like, and I don't want to sound like a dick,
09:57but I don't know what you're going to tell him.
09:59Let me tell him the truth.
10:00I don't know.
10:02I don't know.
10:06I feel really protective of Larry, because I don't want my mom to lie to him like she
10:12lied to me.
10:15I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be, but it's going to take
10:22a lot
10:23of rebuilding of trust, like her actually being transparent with Larry, because right
10:29now, I just, I just don't trust her anymore.
10:36Anyway, let me know when Larry's coming.
10:47All right, I'm out.
10:49All right, love you.
10:57Telling Larry about his sister is going to be really difficult, but I know I have to
11:01do this, because it's killing me.
11:03It is literally killing me.
11:06And it's like, I feel like I'm, like, drowning sometimes, and I have to, like, swim just to
11:10get to the top.
11:15You know, the way I handled it was terrible.
11:17It was awful.
11:17Do you think this was easy for me to live with my whole life for 30, 35 years, 34 years?
11:24It was awful.
11:26All of this has affected my self-esteem, my self-worth, but I feel like now I have to,
11:32like, gain Jamal's trust back.
11:34I want to build a bigger relationship with Larry, and I feel like I want to find love.
11:40I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness that's going on.
11:45I think having Larry out here and just talking to him and being real, and then, you know,
11:49just having transparent conversations is going to help a lot.
11:51That's what I'm hopeful for.
11:56Good morning, family.
11:58Good morning.
11:59Good morning.
12:01Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico.
12:04Things got romantic, so she invited me to live with her in Florida at her parents' house.
12:12There it is.
12:13There it is.
12:13Ooh, nice one.
12:14Do you think they have sex more than we do?
12:16I think it's more than what we're doing, so.
12:20I was talking to Liz.
12:22She told me, like, oh, yeah, you do amazing things for Sophie, but are you sure that she
12:29want to be with you?
12:30She made me feel a little bit like, how do I say?
12:33Like, be careful.
12:34Wait, what did she exactly say?
12:37To go behind my back, that's breaking girl code.
12:39Like, you don't do that.
12:41I'm really pissed.
12:42I'm really pissed.
13:00Is there anyone golfing with us today?
13:02No, just us.
13:04Okay, okay.
13:06Joe at the club the other day told me a funny joke.
13:09How come most golfers bring two pairs of pants with them?
13:13I don't know.
13:14Why?
13:15Then in case they get a hole in one.
13:16Ah, I like it.
13:19That guy brings three pairs with me.
13:22Get some more pants here.
13:24Uh-huh.
13:28You guys are being so loud.
13:30So slow.
13:31Huh?
13:31What are you guys doing?
13:33We're getting ready to go golfing.
13:35Good morning, sunshine.
13:49Well, I'm glad you're up, Courtney, because this morning I woke up at 4 o'clock because I was freezing.
13:55I looked at the thermostat and it was set on 67 degrees.
14:01What does that say right now?
14:03Is somebody sick?
14:04Yeah.
14:04And that's where it's going to stay because we pay the bills.
14:07I'm Courtney.
14:08I'm 34.
14:09I live with my parents in Orlando, Florida.
14:12So hot last night.
14:13I couldn't sleep.
14:14Courtney, when you own your own house, you can freeze all you want.
14:18I live with my parents because they're better than any roommate I've had.
14:22Sorry.
14:23Yeah, sorry.
14:24That don't pay the bills.
14:26And also, when I've lived with roommates, it's so much drama.
14:30It's almost like being in the jungle or something.
14:32I think I'm just like prancing around like a little just gazelle, whatever they're called,
14:36and people are just like, ah.
14:38I don't need that in my life.
14:40I just want peace, quiet, like live a nice retirement lifestyle.
14:45When we were your age, we were almost on our second home by then.
14:49With two little kids and mouths to feed.
14:53I've been telling my parents for years, I don't want to move out until I get married.
14:57But my love life has been all drama.
15:05One of my biggest heartbreaks was Antonio.
15:08We met online.
15:09I flew to Spain to meet him.
15:11We got along great.
15:13Like, I thought he was the one.
15:15But there were too many trust issues.
15:18Like, I picked up your phone for like five seconds, and you're like texting like Angel,
15:23Paulina, Maria.
15:24What's the problem?
15:25I got friends.
15:26Okay.
15:28Since Antonio, I've dated a bunch.
15:30But it seems like things always end with me in tears.
15:34It makes me sad how much you've changed.
15:37People do change, bro.
15:39I don't like it.
15:40And I think my parents are starting to worry that I might be living with them forever.
15:47I love living with you guys.
15:49I think you're the best roommates I've had.
15:51Well, yeah, because mom does your laundry for you and cooks for you and gets your groceries.
15:55Oh, what is this?
15:58Oh, my God.
15:59Oh.
16:00Sorry, mom.
16:03What's that all about?
16:04I have no idea.
16:07You put your underwear in my mom's laundry.
16:09Again.
16:11What?
16:12This is like the third time you've done it.
16:14Oh.
16:16Good morning.
16:29I just woke up and my dad's already mad at me for messing with the thermostat.
16:33It keeps it a little too high.
16:36I'm Colt.
16:37I'm 39 years old.
16:38And I live in Orlando, Florida with my girlfriend, Courtney, and her parents.
16:43I know it's one of his number one rules.
16:46Now, shall not change the thermostat.
16:48Yeah, and put your dirty underwear in the laundry.
16:51I did put it in the laundry.
16:53I put it in the basket.
16:55Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico.
16:58I was there because, unfortunately, I have not been lucky in love.
17:06Larissa was my first wife, a fiery Brazilian.
17:10Coach, you're a fat loser that lives with your mother.
17:12But, unfortunately, things got toxic really fast.
17:15F*** you at home.
17:18I met Jess after my divorce from Larissa.
17:23What?
17:24Whoa!
17:25What the f***?
17:26You lie!
17:26What are you talking about?
17:27Vanessa talking with your friends.
17:29You talk every day!
17:31I cheated on Jess with a woman named Vanessa, who would literally become my second wife.
17:38But, after being married for three years, she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore.
17:41And she wasn't in love with me.
17:43And it broke my f***ing heart.
17:45I just f***ing had it.
17:48I always go into relationships with the best of intentions.
17:51I want things to work out.
17:53But, somehow or another, I mess things up.
17:56I hope things can be different with Kourtney.
17:59Morning, family.
18:01Well, morning.
18:03Sorry about the laundry, guys.
18:05I really appreciate everything you guys have been doing.
18:07How is your leg?
18:09You know, I still feel a lot of pain most days.
18:12But, I think everything happens for a reason.
18:15Like, we're together because of it.
18:16Oh, my God.
18:19Are you okay, Rob?
18:20No.
18:21The leg I broke.
18:22Can't move it.
18:23While I was at the singles retreat in Mexico, I was leaving Kourtney's room.
18:27And I slipped and fell.
18:29And I broke my leg.
18:31I have five fractures in my knee.
18:34Colt was in the hospital for about three weeks.
18:36I was there with him almost 24-7.
18:40So, that's when we really started bonding.
18:43So, now, you're here.
18:45Aw.
18:46Things got romantic.
18:48So, when I was discharged, she invited me to live with her in Florida.
18:53She knew I didn't have anywhere to go.
18:54I had a long road to recovery.
18:57And she wanted to help me as much as possible.
18:59I'm glad you're here.
19:00I'm glad I'm here, too.
19:02I know you're in a lot of pain.
19:04But, why don't you guys come golf with us?
19:07You can ride in the golf cart, get some fresh air.
19:10Do you want to go?
19:10Yeah, that'd be great.
19:11Okay, if you're going to go, let's go.
19:13Let's go get ready.
19:14I'll help you.
19:15Okay.
19:21Do you want your titties shaved, Jen?
19:24I guess.
19:25Oh.
19:26Look at that.
19:27I brought him to Florida to help him go through physical therapy, take care of him.
19:34And I really hoped he'd be further along in his recovery by now.
19:38But, basically, I'm his full-time nurse.
19:41Do you want to wear the green or the tan?
19:43I'll leave the tan.
19:44Okay.
19:45He could barely even wipe his ass by himself.
19:49They're tight.
19:50They're tight.
19:52I feel some things should probably be left unseen, especially so early on in a relationship.
20:01Push.
20:02Oh, my God.
20:03You're going to knock me off.
20:09Off-road driving.
20:10I do.
20:12You're going to knock me off.
20:14Okay.
20:16Straight ahead, I believe.
20:17You got this.
20:18I have confidence in you.
20:20Your turn, Courtney.
20:22Good luck.
20:24Oh, .
20:25You got this.
20:26You went up too steep.
20:28There you go.
20:29Yay, Courtney.
20:31I see it.
20:36There it is.
20:36There it is.
20:37Ooh, nice one.
20:39They're so cute.
20:40You think they have sex more than we do?
20:42Oh, my God.
20:43Like, ew.
20:43Why are you thinking that?
20:46But anything is more than what we're doing, so.
20:51We haven't had sex, full-on sex yet.
20:55Right now, the plumbing doesn't work so well.
20:59Oh, my God.
21:00We'll get there.
21:02It's a grower, you know?
21:04But it's very majestic when it's fully, you know, realized.
21:08It makes me feel, like, insecure.
21:12Like, am I your type?
21:13You're definitely my type.
21:14I mean, you know, we've had some success.
21:18But it's just when we transition into penetration,
21:23then I kind of go down.
21:27But why?
21:28I don't know.
21:28It hurts.
21:29I'm moving my body around.
21:30There's a lot of expectation.
21:31I'm still on medicine.
21:35Colts is, like, known for being, like, a horny bunny.
21:38Like, he wants to do it hourly.
21:39He wants it all the time.
21:41So the fact he can't get it up from me
21:46is Colt here because he's into me
21:48or is he here out of convenience
21:50because he basically has everything provided for him.
21:53He's not paying rent.
21:54He's not paying bills.
21:55He has it pretty good.
21:57We're in this weird situation
21:59because I feel like I've known you forever.
22:02We get along.
22:03We don't argue.
22:04But then it's like, okay, I don't really know you.
22:07I've only known you, like, a month or two.
22:09Yeah.
22:09Let's be honest.
22:11Like, your exes are constantly online.
22:12Like, oh, you're a liar.
22:14You're a cheater.
22:14Like, they're not saying anything good about you.
22:16Why were they with me then?
22:19I mean, I'm sure they liked you in the beginning
22:21until you cheated on them.
22:24I mean, sure, I have a past.
22:26But, you know, it doesn't mean I'm always going to do that.
22:28It doesn't mean I can't be a good guy for you.
22:31Trust is everything in a relationship.
22:34But I do struggle to trust men in general
22:37because a lot of them do lie and cheat.
22:39I want to believe that Colt has changed.
22:42Maybe he's matured.
22:43Maybe he's grown up.
22:44Like, I know that we have a lot to figure out,
22:47but I want to do it with you.
22:48I want to figure out all these problems with you every day
22:52as we grow old together.
22:53Aw.
22:54I mean, I've always wanted to get married,
22:57have kids, have a family.
22:58Like, I feel me and Colt are aligned.
23:01We have a lot of the same goals.
23:03So I'm hoping it works.
23:05It has to work.
23:07We'll get there.
23:11I didn't like the way it ended for us.
23:13I understand that you didn't create the havoc,
23:17but there's a lot I felt I didn't know.
23:20I haven't seen Gino in almost a year.
23:22I want to believe that he truly made a mistake.
23:25But I don't know if I can trust Gino.
23:27I don't know if I can trust anything he says.
23:43It's a little nerve-wracking
23:44because I haven't seen Natalie in a long time.
23:47This is my chance.
23:49One, two, three, turn around.
23:51Don't you watch me now, just turn around.
23:53Touch your knees, don't look, just turn around.
23:56Do it now, you'll make me count.
24:00Hey.
24:01Gino.
24:03How are you?
24:04I'm good.
24:05How are you?
24:06Doing good.
24:07Long time to see.
24:09How are you?
24:10How are you?
24:10I'm good.
24:11I'm good.
24:12You look thinner.
24:13You look thinner.
24:15After all the drama that happened,
24:17I did not expect Natalie to give me a second chance.
24:21I'm on your home turf this time.
24:22I know.
24:23This time you're in D.C.
24:25I am absolutely super excited
24:28to have this opportunity to reconnect with her
24:31and make things right.
24:34Oh my gosh, it's so cool here.
24:36Yeah.
24:37You have some beautiful trees and hills and parks.
24:43You seem a little nervous.
24:45Are you okay?
24:48Well, I am nervous.
24:49I do have a little nerves coming here
24:51because last time we were together,
24:53you know, it didn't end very well.
24:55You stormed out of the hotel
24:57and you were upset with me.
25:00Well, yeah.
25:01I mean, that was a disaster.
25:05So I haven't seen Gino in almost a year in person
25:08and I really don't know how I feel about it right now
25:11because Gino has a lot of explaining to do.
25:14When I met Gino,
25:16one of my first questions that I asked him is,
25:18are you single?
25:20He said he was separated, about to get a divorce.
25:23But then he invited me to come to Michigan
25:26and meet his family.
25:29And I was kind of surprised
25:31by some of his cousin Michelle's comments.
25:35What's the deal with you and Jasmine?
25:37I mean, you guys just actually went out and had dinner.
25:43Was there hope for progress when you went?
25:47I mean, slight, slight.
25:51You know, he basically lied to me.
25:53So I just wanted to get out of there.
25:56And before I could,
25:58Jasmine walked in the door and attacked me.
26:02Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
26:05Don't touch her.
26:08Don't touch her.
26:09Relax, relax.
26:10No, no.
26:11Don't touch her.
26:12Listen.
26:13Get off me.
26:17I totally understand why you're upset
26:20after all that chaos at the party.
26:22I understand that you didn't create the havoc,
26:26but you kind of did create the havoc
26:29because there's a lot I felt I didn't know.
26:35I shouldn't have been there in the first place.
26:37You know, that's how I felt.
26:39Okay, that makes a little more sense
26:41because I didn't like the way it ended for us.
26:44Neither did I.
26:45And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess.
26:49Well, that's good.
26:50Now I know.
26:51It's taken some time.
26:53It doesn't happen right away.
26:54I know that.
26:55I knew that.
26:56Back then, I wasn't fully recovered.
26:57No, and I could tell.
26:59But anyway, it's all over.
27:01It's all over.
27:01It's done with.
27:02Like, you're here now.
27:05Like, what do you want?
27:08Well, obviously,
27:10I want to, like, just hang out like we did in Vegas.
27:13We had fun together,
27:16and it was, you know, a good vibe, you know?
27:19I mean, I like that idea, you know?
27:21I like putting the past in the past
27:23and, you know, starting new.
27:25Yeah.
27:28You know, as much as I like Gino,
27:30I'm approaching this weekend with a lot of caution.
27:32I'm not going to deny that he's hurt me,
27:34but, you know, I understand what it's like
27:36to go through a destructive marriage
27:39and things happen.
27:40I want to believe that he truly made a mistake.
27:44The weather's pretty s***,
27:45but we can go back to my place.
27:48Ooh, you're inviting me to your place.
27:50Oh, my gosh.
27:51I'm scared.
27:53But I don't know if I can trust Gino.
27:55I don't know if I can trust anything he says.
27:57Let's go.
27:58Let's do it.
27:59I got an umbrella, too.
28:02If Gino wants something romantic with me,
28:04more than friends,
28:05he's got to prove that he's going to be honest.
28:08He's got to prove that he really wants this.
28:10So we'll see if he can.
28:13I can roll.
28:18I like things clear, you know?
28:20I've been clear to you.
28:21If you find somebody that doesn't want to sit down,
28:23they're going to have some fun,
28:25you open to that with somebody else.
28:26I am single, so I'm allowed to do whatever.
28:30I thought that we were exclusive with each other.
28:33If that was the game to the beginning,
28:35that you are single and I am single,
28:37what the f*** can I do all of this for you?
28:44I'm craving something wild.
28:48Look at my evil smile.
28:52Okay, I have this yellow dress.
28:54Okay.
28:55Oh, I like it.
28:55I like this one.
28:56It's pretty cute.
28:57It's a bitch, eh?
28:58Yeah, it needs to be bitchy.
29:00Why you put this dress there?
29:03Because I'm going to wear this one.
29:04Seriously?
29:05Okay, here, let me look at your boobs.
29:12I'm going to get ready.
29:18Okay, have a good laugh.
29:19Give me a hug.
29:20I'll let you know how it goes.
29:22Last night with Prejo and his friends
29:24was just very awkward for me.
29:27Pedro was just coming on a lot stronger
29:29than he has in the past.
29:31It's not even that I don't appreciate
29:33the effort that he's making.
29:34It's not that.
29:35It's more so I can just feel
29:37he's putting too much pressure on it.
29:41You look amazing.
29:42Hello, thank you.
29:43How are you?
29:44Good.
29:44How are you?
29:45I'm good.
29:46I do like Pedro.
29:47Like, I want to get to know him.
29:49I want to go on dates
29:49and see where things go.
29:53You're welcome.
29:53But I just finished with my marriage
29:56and I'm healing from it.
29:57You feel good?
29:58Yeah.
29:59He just needs to chill.
30:00That's all he needs to do,
30:01is just chill
30:01and let us get to know each other naturally
30:03and, like, people usually do
30:06when they just meet.
30:11How you feel today?
30:13I feel like I'm kind of tired.
30:16Your hair look amazing.
30:18Do you prefer a straight or curly?
30:19I love both.
30:20You look amazing everywhere.
30:23Oh, wow.
30:26That's nice.
30:28Did you have a good time yesterday?
30:30Yeah, I had a good time, you know.
30:32A little awkward, but...
30:33It was really awkward.
30:35This made me a little worried about,
30:37you know, because yesterday
30:38I was talking to Liz
30:41and then she told me, like,
30:43Oh, yeah, you do amazing things for Sophie.
30:46You give me flowers,
30:47you give me this,
30:48you give me that.
30:49But are you sure
30:50that she want to be with you?
30:57That's made me a little bit like,
30:59what's going on here?
31:00Like, it's like...
31:01What did she exactly say?
31:03She made me feel, like,
31:04a little bit, like,
31:06insecure about all the things
31:08I've been doing.
31:10Maybe I, you have another guy in your mind.
31:12She made me feel a bit like,
31:15how to say,
31:16like, be careful.
31:18I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
31:20I thought we were friends
31:21and then to go behind my back,
31:23she knows us up.
31:24She just met Pedro.
31:26That's not even her friend.
31:27That's breaking girl code.
31:29Like, you don't do that.
31:31I'm really pissed.
31:35I was in a relationship
31:36from when I was 20 years old,
31:38pretty much my whole adult life.
31:39I want to figure out what I want.
31:41I don't know what it is.
31:42I'm 33 years old,
31:43you know,
31:45looking for a steady relationship.
31:47We're not in the same pace.
31:49I don't want you to, like,
31:51wait around for
31:52when I'm ready.
31:53I just want us to, like,
31:54get to know each other.
31:55You want to meet, like,
31:56go,
31:57date other people.
31:59If someone comes along
32:00and she's, like,
32:01ready right now
32:02to settle down
32:03and have kids
32:04and everything you want,
32:05I'm not going to say to you,
32:06no,
32:07be loyal to me
32:08when I'm not ready.
32:08That's extremely selfish.
32:09How about
32:10if you find somebody
32:11that doesn't want to settle down
32:12and they're going to have some fun,
32:13you open to that
32:14with somebody else.
32:15I am single,
32:16so I'm allowed to do whatever.
32:21I thought that
32:21we were exclusive with each other
32:23and that we're going to come
32:24into the street
32:25to try
32:26to get everything settled
32:28to move to a relationship.
32:30If that were the game
32:31to the beginning,
32:32that you are single
32:33and I am single,
32:35what the f***
32:35can I do all of this for you?
32:37I'm not going to spend my time,
32:38my money,
32:39my good intention
32:39with someone
32:40that not really wanted.
32:43I like things clear,
32:44you know?
32:45I've been clear to you.
32:50No, you didn't.
32:51Yes, I did.
32:53The truth?
32:55You told me.
32:56You was already healed.
32:57I have never once told you
32:59I have healed
32:59and I'm ready for a relationship.
33:00I have never told you that.
33:01Stuffie.
33:02No, never told you that.
33:03Never told you that.
33:06I'm really not understanding
33:07why he's acting like
33:08this is like
33:08brand new information.
33:10I know I've said this
33:11because I've made a point
33:12because it's so important to me
33:13and I've told him that.
33:14So for him to then say,
33:15oh, you've never told me that,
33:17it's like,
33:18it's frustrating.
33:20Don't act like
33:21I've said something
33:21I haven't said.
33:23Sofie,
33:24it's not the truth.
33:26I'm not going to lie to you.
33:27You are lying to me right now.
33:28I'm not lying to you.
33:29Yes, you are.
33:33And even last night,
33:34like, I wasn't acting like
33:35that's my man.
33:36Like, I wasn't, you know,
33:37being all over him
33:38and touching him.
33:39I'm literally making sure, like,
33:40I'm not giving him
33:41mixed signals at all.
33:45I'm not going to fight with you
33:46back and forth.
33:47If you tell me,
33:47you tell me what's my fault.
33:48I don't like when people
33:49say I'm a liar.
33:51My ex-to-that's going to have time.
34:02If she needs time
34:04to heal her marriage,
34:05what's she doing in the yard
34:06with me?
34:07You ready?
34:09Whatever.
34:10I'm not a healer.
34:13I'm not a doctor.
34:17I don't want Sophie
34:18to play games with me.
34:20I'm not f***ing interested
34:21in that s***.
34:23Miss?
34:24No, f***ing no.
34:25Hell no.
34:25Not with me.
34:30He's having issues right now.
34:31He's not able to get,
34:32like, up.
34:34Oh, f***.
34:35It's like blowing up a balloon.
34:37It's like,
34:38it's getting there,
34:39getting there,
34:39and then it's like,
34:40pfft.
34:43There is a girl
34:44that I was talking to
34:46before I even went
34:47to the resort.
34:48Where does she live?
34:49She's in Brazil.
34:50Oh.
34:51Yeah.
34:52Here we go again.
34:53Diana and I met
34:54a year ago online.
34:56But are you still
34:57in contact with Diana?
35:00Do the right thing.
35:15Let's get wet and juicy.
35:18That doesn't sound right.
35:19I think it sounds delicious.
35:24We got the game
35:26who champagne lighted up tonight.
35:29How was your trip?
35:30I heard you got a boy now.
35:32Yeah.
35:33You don't miss being single?
35:35She'll be single
35:36in like a month.
35:40As much as I love colts,
35:42it's a little, like,
35:44dragging down my vibe
35:45being a full-time caregiver.
35:47I feel like a caged animal.
35:49Like, I'm a cat
35:50stuck inside the house
35:51when really I want to be out
35:52roaming the streets.
35:54So, I'm so excited
35:56for Girls' Day,
35:57for cocktails,
35:57I have a good time,
35:59turn up.
35:59Woo-hoo!
36:01So, what do you like about him?
36:03I feel like we connect
36:04on a deep level.
36:05Like, I feel comfortable with him.
36:07I could be myself with him.
36:09But he's having issues right now.
36:12Like, he's not able to get,
36:14like, up.
36:16He's not able to get what?
36:18Up.
36:18Like, his thing doesn't work?
36:20Yeah.
36:21Oh.
36:22Oh, s***.
36:25Well, cuddle or kiss,
36:27or like, he's done stuff to me,
36:29but I haven't done stuff to him.
36:30But it's like, okay,
36:31what am I supposed to do?
36:32Like, play with your s***
36:32the whole s*** night?
36:33Like, I don't know
36:34what you want me to do.
36:35That's never fun.
36:37It's like blowing up a balloon.
36:39It's like,
36:40it's getting there,
36:41getting there,
36:41and then it's like,
36:42pfft.
36:48I've got you to thank
36:51for so much.
36:53But I love it so much.
36:57How you doing, Mark?
36:58What's going on, dude?
37:00Been a while, man.
37:01Well, a lot has happened.
37:03I broke my leg in Mexico.
37:06Two, we've got to get you
37:07like a bubble wrap outfit
37:09or something.
37:10Mark has been a really good friend
37:12for the past few years.
37:14He's been there with me
37:15through several relationships,
37:17and he's definitely aware
37:18of my dating mishaps,
37:20and he's not afraid
37:20to call out my bull s***.
37:22And right now,
37:23I really need
37:24an honest perspective.
37:25So when I was at the retreat,
37:26I met somebody.
37:28All right, let's hear it.
37:29Her name's Courtney.
37:30We connected on a lot
37:31of different levels,
37:32and we kind of got this
37:33relationship going
37:35while we were there.
37:36And then she asked me
37:37if I wanted to come back
37:39with her and live with her
37:40in Florida.
37:41Wait, stop it.
37:42You're in her house right now?
37:43I'm in her house right now.
37:44You guys live together?
37:45We live together.
37:46We've been here
37:46for over a month now.
37:47Holy crap.
37:48Congratulations, dude.
37:50Wow.
37:50Yeah.
37:51But Courtney lives
37:52with her parents,
37:53so I live with Courtney
37:54and her mom and dad.
37:57Here we go.
37:58Here we go.
38:00All right, how's that going?
38:01What's that look like?
38:02It's been pretty good.
38:03They're very patient.
38:04They're very sweet people.
38:05But the energy is weird.
38:08Courtney is very shy,
38:09and our intimacy
38:10isn't exactly
38:11where I want it to be.
38:13My past relationships
38:15have been very spicy.
38:18I've dated a few Brazilian women,
38:20and they like to
38:21me.
38:25Oh, make me want
38:27sex all the time.
38:32On the other hand,
38:34Courtney's like watching
38:34Little House on the Prairie.
38:36It's quality,
38:37but after a while,
38:38it gets a little bored.
38:40I don't know.
38:41You have a girl that just,
38:42it gets so energetic
38:43that it's on your
38:44just like her life
38:46depends upon it.
38:48That type of energy,
38:49you know?
38:49And then you go to somebody
38:50that's just like,
38:51yeah, do whatever you want.
38:53You know what I mean?
38:53It's just,
38:54it's just not the same.
38:56It's hard to go back to that.
39:02I don't know
39:03if he's not attracted
39:04to me,
39:04or if it's just like
39:05he's not getting enough
39:06blood flow
39:07because of his broken leg.
39:09So I'm trying to be supportive.
39:10I'm trying to be his rock,
39:12I feel like,
39:12but then,
39:13yeah,
39:13I do have like doubts
39:14or fears,
39:15like what's he doing
39:16behind my back?
39:16What do you mean?
39:18I was helping him
39:18upload something
39:19on social media,
39:20and then it shows me
39:21all the women
39:23he's been messaging,
39:24and I'm like,
39:24I didn't even dig deep.
39:26I just went to like
39:27a few messages down,
39:28and he told a girl,
39:29hey, gorgeous,
39:30I'm doing all this stuff
39:31for you,
39:32and then you're like
39:33messaging other women.
39:35Like,
39:35are you kidding me?
39:37I know you want like
39:38to get married
39:38and stuff like that,
39:39but something's fishy
39:41about this.
39:42He definitely doesn't
39:43sound like Mr. Right.
39:45He's talking to other girls
39:46behind her back,
39:47and I've had that happen
39:48in relationships,
39:49and it never works out.
39:50He can't even get it up.
39:52He can't provide anything.
39:54Way too many red flags.
39:55He is the red flag.
39:58He needs to realize
39:59that he's actually
40:00lucky to have you,
40:01because he is.
40:04Are you able to talk
40:05to her about
40:06like deep stuff
40:07and the future
40:08and relationships?
40:09Yeah,
40:10but she knows
40:11my reputation,
40:12and she thinks like
40:13I'm just going to
40:13leave or cheat
40:14or whatever one day,
40:16so Courtney's worried
40:17that she'll be like
40:17another victim, basically.
40:19Are you still living
40:20that way, dude?
40:21Be honest with me.
40:25So,
40:27well,
40:28there is a girl
40:28that I was talking to
40:30before I even went
40:32to the resort.
40:33Where does she live?
40:34She's in Brazil.
40:35Oh.
40:36Yeah.
40:37Here we go, kid.
40:38Yeah.
40:40Diana and I met
40:41a year ago online.
40:43Originally,
40:44I had plans
40:44to meet Diana
40:45in Brazil
40:46after the singles
40:47retreat ended,
40:49but meeting Courtney
40:50and my injury
40:52ultimately changed
40:53those plans.
40:54Are you still
40:55in contact
40:56with Diana?
40:57I still talk
40:58to Diana.
41:00It's been hard
41:01to let her go.
41:03Meeting Courtney,
41:04right now,
41:04I'm taking it
41:05one day at a time,
41:06but I don't want
41:07to hurt her.
41:07I care about her.
41:08There's definitely
41:09feelings there,
41:09but I don't,
41:10I really don't know
41:11what to do.
41:12I mean,
41:13this does sound
41:14a lot like things
41:15you've been through
41:16in the past,
41:17right?
41:18Yeah.
41:19And there's a situation
41:20where you could hurt her,
41:21and I know
41:22you don't want
41:22to do that.
41:23You want to get
41:23out of these cycles.
41:26Every relationship
41:27I've been in
41:28has ended
41:29because I've cheated
41:30or lied
41:31or a combination
41:32of both.
41:34I love Courtney.
41:35I never wanted
41:35to keep secrets
41:36from her,
41:37but if I tell her
41:38about Diana,
41:40she's never
41:40going to trust me again.
41:41This might be
41:42an opportunity
41:43for you to sort
41:44of take that next step
41:45in your personal growth
41:46and have some
41:47hard conversations.
41:49Yeah.
41:50You know,
41:50do the right thing.
41:51I don't know, man.
41:55Next time
41:56on The Single Life.
41:58I am Vanya.
41:59I have been single
42:00for about a year,
42:01and I'm starting
42:02to wonder
42:03if the guy for me
42:04has been right
42:05in front of me
42:05this whole entire time.
42:07His name is Tony.
42:09Is that your friend,
42:10Tony?
42:11Yeah.
42:11I kissed him.
42:13Oh, my God, girl.
42:14We haven't made it clear
42:15if we're exclusive,
42:17if we're dating.
42:18You need to have
42:19a conversation with him.
42:20If I have this conversation,
42:22there is no going back.
42:23Our friendship
42:24will be changed forever.
42:26How are you day
42:27with Pedro?
42:28We definitely did not
42:29mesh well at the end.
42:31It flipped so quick.
42:32And he's ignored me
42:33since the day.
42:34At this point,
42:35I am starting
42:36to panic a bit
42:36because what if Pedro
42:37just never texts me back?
42:39Let me sing you up.
42:41You know,
42:42I'm happy
42:43that you came here,
42:44but I just keep seeing
42:47that you have
42:48this online battle
42:50still with Jasmine
42:51back and forth.
42:52To me,
42:53it's a red flag
42:54because there's
42:55a thin line
42:56between love and hate.
42:58Does he have
42:58these unresolved feelings
42:59for Jasmine?
43:02Ready?
43:03Yeah.
43:05Oh, yes.
43:07Sexy.
43:11I really want
43:13this relationship
43:14to work with Colt,
43:15but we have
43:16major issues.
43:17His leg is broken,
43:19trust issues,
43:20his erectile dysfunction.
43:21We're not able
43:22to have sex.
43:24So, but now
43:24you're fully committed
43:25to Courtney
43:25at this point.
43:26100%.
43:27I'm sorry.
43:28I feel like you're
43:28using her.
43:29Using her?
43:30Yes.
43:31Do you have, like,
43:32a gut feeling?
43:32Because, like,
43:33that's usually
43:33what we go by.
43:35I don't know.
43:38I don't know.
43:38I don't know.
43:38I don't know.
Comments