In this video, I’m sharing CCTV footage that appears to show my mother entering my room in my absence, checking the CCTV setup, attempting to interfere with it, cutting small snips from my clothes with scissors, and later again entering my room squatting low with a suspicious water bottle in a way that seems intended to avoid the camera’s view. Later on, do notice mom entered my room once again in the end after trying to tamper the CCTV only to run out of my room once dad signaled her that I have returned and am visibly nearby outside.
I still do not know exactly what she did in that blind spot. I had water bottles in my room and I hope she did not put something undesirable in my bottles- like she had done previously with my food since childhood. She also has been obsessed with collecting my hair strands for some weird reasons.
This is not an isolated incident. It is part of a much larger pattern of abuse, intimidation, boundary violations, and invasion of privacy that I have been dealing with since childhood. That history is exactly why I felt the need to install CCTV in the first place and why I prefer to keep my room locked. Also, who knows what else have been placed in my room in my absence that can be potentially very dangerous to both my life and the property? I feel so unsafe here, but I am currently unemployed and have nowhere safe to go live in.
Instead of respecting my boundary, my parents have repeatedly threatened to break the door, banged on it loudly, and have even locked me inside/outside in situations that became serious enough for me to call the nearest police station.
This video shows only the visible part of a much deeper problem.
I am sharing this to document what has been happening, preserve evidence, and speak openly about forms of abuse and control that are often minimized, denied, or hidden behind the label of “family matter.”
#CCTV #PrivacyViolation #EmotionalAbuse #FamilyAbuse #BoundaryViolation #Evidence #Surveillance #ToxicFamily
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