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#video #90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 01: The Art of the Love Bomb #drama2026 #movie2026 #hotmovie
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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been
00:00:06one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point,
00:00:13but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your f***ing face?
00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40We're just not good together.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.
00:00:44I don't know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The men.
00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?
00:01:01Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Oh?
00:01:17Sexy.
00:01:17Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife.
00:01:45I want the house.
00:01:46I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be softened.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:04But now I have to be safe.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out that we're just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?
00:02:20I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Okay, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't call me hostile because I don't know you can.
00:02:28I don't know you can.
00:02:29You guys have a great relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:57Hola.
00:02:58Hola, hola.
00:02:59¿Es posible en pina pelada?
00:03:00Sí, claro.
00:03:01Gracias.
00:03:24Hey, bitches!
00:03:30I'm here.
00:03:32Look at that.
00:03:34Boom.
00:03:34Check, check, pick, check, pick it out.
00:03:36Snap, check, check, look at that.
00:03:37Girl strip.
00:03:38Girl strip.
00:03:39Woo!
00:03:39Do I have your attention?
00:03:41Woo!
00:03:42Woo!
00:03:43I'm Sophie.
00:03:44I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years, and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Jers!
00:03:56Oh!
00:03:57So I've recently filed for divorce, and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks, and just have a good time, and not stress, and just actually
00:04:10have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.
00:04:18Even the workers are cute.
00:04:20The hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?
00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected, and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older?
00:04:45How old?
00:04:4693 is fine?
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California.
00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:05But I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18Latinian.
00:05:18I would say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, no, yeah.
00:05:21I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So, you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, so be the single, not you.
00:05:56I'm Julia, I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:04My husband, Brandon, is very protective, but he has a reason because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I don't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:21So, let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mock tells.
00:06:26After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard
00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi, thank you.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:48Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I miss you.
00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:06:59But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:12I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob.
00:07:41And there's definitely something scary about getting back out there, because I've only known my life as an adult, really,
00:07:47with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:07:54And we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall, he works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:14If you could write on paper, the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy.
00:08:36And I was like, okay, like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation.
00:08:52But I know better than to judge someone based on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:02And he basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want.
00:09:09And he just, like, did all of it.
00:09:10And I was like, oh.
00:09:11So what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace.
00:09:17And that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:20Oh, my God.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic.
00:09:25And I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers,
00:09:29like, once.
00:09:30It's like every week I get new flowers at my door.
00:09:32Then he leaves, like, this little, like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34You see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday.
00:09:46And I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now.
00:09:48So it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single,
00:10:07and I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time,
00:10:14I've been through hell with my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which will be fun.
00:10:27All the way, have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends, yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him.
00:10:38But I feel like he's catching very strong feelings very early on,
00:10:42and I really just want to make sure that I don't let someone force me into something
00:10:47that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:50So, let's have fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:53Ladies, what happened in the Dominican Republic?
00:10:55Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:18Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Woo!
00:11:33I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh, I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars sign.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:58And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:19And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes.
00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:49Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:52You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I use a gun?
00:12:59I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Si.
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:19Try to.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, Javier!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months, but it is hard as to find a good man
00:13:40in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay.
00:13:43We're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:45I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.
00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was
00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God.
00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:28Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this funny, too?
00:14:32you.
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you remind me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days were over, but
00:14:44I loved Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby.
00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this state.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:00No.
00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know.
00:15:09And, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the ?
00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a asshole.
00:15:20You are a asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:27Woo!
00:15:28We did.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So how did you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:46Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:49Yes.
00:15:50I wore the little uniform.
00:15:52I wore the little beret.
00:15:53I jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55It must have been very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:03So.
00:16:03Where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, .
00:16:09Two.
00:16:10So it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:25You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Javier.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:47And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:58Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide, and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:12I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out of here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17So, I'm not going to see Javier again, but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:23Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh.
00:17:45So, is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take a few things.
00:17:48Oh, you do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:50Oh.
00:17:50Jamal.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05You have ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two-for-one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:23I'll take one.
00:18:24Yeah.
00:18:24I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:38I just feel like I still need-
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to say what I have to say, you know, or discuss what I've done.
00:19:07All right.
00:19:08Love you.
00:19:09Love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will-
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:23All righty.
00:19:23See you later.
00:19:24I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh my God, like, she looks fine, like.
00:19:54The hair, the eyes, the lips, the f***, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:09Oh.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in
00:20:18such a disaster?
00:20:29Step down.
00:20:31Let's go.
00:20:32What you drinking?
00:20:33What you want?
00:20:33Two cats right here.
00:20:36Let's go.
00:20:41Come on, Gino.
00:20:43You got this.
00:20:45Every time.
00:20:48Every time.
00:20:49Every time.
00:20:50Be a little good, a little bad.
00:20:52I'm like, ooh, you're so divine.
00:20:56All right.
00:20:57Last 10 seconds before the end.
00:21:00I'm Gino.
00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Camp Michigan.
00:21:04One.
00:21:04Let it all go.
00:21:06Nice job.
00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:12I'm way out of here.
00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:19I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies,
00:21:25baby.
00:21:26Woo!
00:21:27Would you mind taking a couple selfies for me?
00:21:30Of course.
00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:34Sure.
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I
00:21:43am.
00:21:43Nice job.
00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the last,
00:21:53well, last four years, anyway.
00:21:59Oh, my God.
00:22:00Is it?
00:22:01Jasmine?
00:22:02Is it you?
00:22:03Oh, my God.
00:22:05I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to meet
00:22:13her.
00:22:13We're still here forever.
00:22:15Yeah.
00:22:17Yeah.
00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:25There were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:28You trash.
00:22:30I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:31That's your choice.
00:22:33You .
00:22:34Guys?
00:22:36I'm gonna kill this.
00:22:38Oh, God damn, the president.
00:22:39Stop.
00:22:40Jasmine, I love you.
00:22:41Stop it, liar.
00:22:43I .
00:22:43Okay.
00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the
00:22:56street two months after we separated.
00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:05And Matt and I agree that we wanna have the baby and that's what we're gonna do.
00:23:12Well, I thought she loved me.
00:23:19I thought she wanted to have a child with me.
00:23:26She's such a liar.
00:23:36I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet and now I just wanna look forward to
00:23:42living my best life.
00:23:56Today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:03And it's easy, it's easy.
00:24:06It's easy, it's easy.
00:24:10It's easy.
00:24:10Keep it easy, easy.
00:24:13Keep it easy, easy.
00:24:16Hi there.
00:24:17I'm Melissa.
00:24:18Gino.
00:24:19Gino.
00:24:19Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:20Is this your first event?
00:24:21Yeah, this is my first event.
00:24:22So let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:26Sounds good.
00:24:27I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:30In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good
00:24:3730 years.
00:24:39Hi.
00:24:40Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:43What's up?
00:24:44Before the internet, I used classified ads.
00:24:47It was scary because I didn't really know what they look like.
00:24:53In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do and I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:25:00So this is Amy.
00:25:01Hi.
00:25:02Hello.
00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:03Nice to meet you.
00:25:04Nice to meet you.
00:25:05I'm Gino.
00:25:05But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:14You feel so small and it's hard to take.
00:25:16So I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:23Yeah, let's do it.
00:25:24Let's do it.
00:25:25Let's do it.
00:25:26Let's do it.
00:25:27Let's do it.
00:25:29Let's do it.
00:25:29Let's do it.
00:25:30Let's do it.
00:25:31Let's do it.
00:25:31Can we get Gino up here?
00:25:32Let's go.
00:25:33My bat?
00:25:35Gino, you're up.
00:25:36Go, go, go.
00:25:37Gino, Gino.
00:25:39Gino.
00:25:39Gino.
00:25:40Gino.
00:25:41Woo!
00:25:43Gino!
00:25:44Gino!
00:25:46Gino!
00:25:55What's your name?
00:25:57Gino.
00:25:58Gino.
00:25:58I'm Aaron.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:25:59Nice to meet you.
00:26:00Nice to meet you.
00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:05Awesome.
00:26:05Good job.
00:26:06Good job.
00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh my god, another normal guy.
00:26:21Oh, that's good.
00:26:21We're 70% women.
00:26:2470%?
00:26:25I like that.
00:26:25I know, right?
00:26:26That's why I get excited.
00:26:28I'm like, a guy?
00:26:32That's fine.
00:26:33So tell us.
00:26:34What brought you here?
00:26:35What brought me here?
00:26:36No.
00:26:36Well, I mean...
00:26:37I'm single now.
00:26:39When did you get divorced?
00:26:41When I get divorced?
00:26:42Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:26:46Okay.
00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:50We don't live together.
00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:56What if they're not done?
00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:04I'm with you on that.
00:27:06He seems so nervous.
00:27:08He's shaking.
00:27:09His voice is cracking.
00:27:10What the hell is going on here?
00:27:11What is he hiding?
00:27:13So tell us what happened.
00:27:15So basically what happened is, five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random
00:27:21guy at the gym, and cheated on me with him.
00:27:24What?
00:27:25And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me.
00:27:36Not telling them about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:47But anyway, the changes suck like a little.
00:27:50What are you guys looking for in a man?
00:28:01Wait, can you hear?
00:28:05Oh, did I hear that?
00:28:07No.
00:28:08I didn't hear anything.
00:28:09Okay.
00:28:10I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in
00:28:16such a disaster?
00:28:17No.
00:28:21No.
00:28:28All eyes are mean what you looking at
00:28:30Yeah, I'm sticking my teeth like a big cat
00:28:32I'm gonna give you un poquitico
00:28:34Un poquitico lo que está bien rico
00:28:36Flying so high
00:28:37I'm on in the night
00:28:39I'm gonna show you what I like
00:28:42Pedro's bad, baby
00:28:43Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha
00:28:45Muy mala
00:28:46Mala, mala, mala, mala
00:28:48Muy mala
00:28:50You bad, honey, got mad money
00:28:52You bad, honey
00:28:53Mala
00:28:54Muy mala
00:28:56¿Qué es lo que?
00:28:57¿Qué es lo que?
00:28:59¿Cómo estás?
00:29:00¿Cómo estás?
00:29:00¿Cómo estás?
00:29:03My name is Pedro
00:29:04I'm 33 years old
00:29:05Originally I'm from Dominican Republic
00:29:06But right now I live in Atlanta, Georgia
00:29:09Trae la van, sí, ya estamos aquí
00:29:11Sí
00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel
00:29:14I've been keeping a love profile
00:29:15I need a time to myself
00:29:17Dale, dale, dale
00:29:20Eso, papá
00:29:21But now I put everything behind me
00:29:25And I'm ready for the next chapter of my life
00:29:28Bam
00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there to say
00:29:31Así mismo
00:29:32Así mismo
00:29:32¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita
00:29:36Para Sophie
00:29:36Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer
00:29:39Yo soy un tipo romántico
00:29:42I'm putting my best effort in this, okay?
00:29:46Sí, claro
00:29:47I'm so excited, I'm very happy
00:29:50Because Sophie arrived in the yard with her friends
00:29:52And they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight
00:29:54I really want to impress Sophie
00:29:56When she is in my own country
00:29:58That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the band
00:30:01They're going to drive Sophie and her friends around the yard
00:30:05Pedro
00:30:05¿A la verdad es que te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:08No me gusta, papá
00:30:10Me encanta
00:30:11Óyeme
00:30:13The first time I saw Sophie online, you know, I said
00:30:16Oh my God, like, she looks fine
00:30:19Like, she has everything that I was looking for
00:30:21The hair, the eyes, the lip, the ****, the ass, the leg
00:30:26And she got, you know, the waist
00:30:28You know, like, it's going to be here, going to be down, you know
00:30:31Like a guitar kind of style, you know
00:30:33That's made me a little crazy
00:30:44I have a strong feeling for Sophie
00:30:45And I really, really want a relationship with her
00:30:47She has very calm heart
00:30:49She has the full package
00:30:51Es momento de tu reiniciar tu vida otra vez
00:30:54Si
00:30:55Y espero que los errores que se pudieron cometer
00:30:58No se vuelvan a repetir
00:30:58No, todos los errores que se meten en el pasado fueron errores
00:31:01Tú me entiendes, ahora yo aprendí mis errores
00:31:03When I met Chantel, I told her my life was set for forever
00:31:07And then, you know, everything went to the drain
00:31:14Ah, there you are
00:31:15Ah, baby
00:31:18Baby
00:31:21Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard
00:31:24And moved to the United States for love
00:31:26Hello, my baby
00:31:31But Chantel's family caused so much drama
00:31:33They went freaking crazy
00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey
00:31:35What'd you say, ****?
00:31:37I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect
00:31:39And nobody else
00:31:40Let's go
00:31:41Hey, hey?
00:31:43Hey, hey, hey, hey!
00:31:44Hey, hey, hey, hey
00:31:44Whoa!은
00:31:45Shakal never opened by me with her family Without
00:31:48dropping a wedge between us To
00:31:51the point our marriage couldn't survive I
00:31:55feel that we go a different way in life
00:31:58I want my divorce.
00:32:02I can.
00:32:05I can continue with this.
00:32:07I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:10Put more time, more effort, listen more,
00:32:13be more flexible, you know.
00:32:15And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:19Hey.
00:32:30You're still a group tonight.
00:32:33But it's great.
00:32:35It's a big night.
00:32:37Okay.
00:32:39Hope is good.
00:32:41Now let's go down.
00:32:44Let's go, little puppy.
00:32:47It's been a long time.
00:32:48I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm 30 years old,
00:32:54not a kid, not married,
00:32:55made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:01What you never know.
00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.
00:33:06I want my wife.
00:33:07I want the house.
00:33:08I want the kid.
00:33:10Maybe if we love it, we get some.
00:33:13If not, we try again.
00:33:17I want to show Sophie the time of her life in the yard.
00:33:20And I hope at the end of the street,
00:33:22we can be in a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:28We're ready.
00:33:38Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart and she loves Cass.
00:33:52Who's that beauty?
00:33:54Who's that beast?
00:33:55Dirty mouth, the conscience clean.
00:33:57All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:59Who's she?
00:34:00I'ma submit.
00:34:02That's me.
00:34:04I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate.
00:34:08I'm willing and able to make my arm better than eat it all alone.
00:34:12That's me.
00:34:13Hi.
00:34:13How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Have a great day.
00:34:19Okay.
00:34:19Bye.
00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor in a hotel casino.
00:34:27Oh, it's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:30I like scheduling.
00:34:31I like keeping things organized.
00:34:33And I think I get that from my military training because you have to be organized when
00:34:38you're in the military.
00:34:40Are you almost done?
00:34:41We got to go.
00:34:42It's girls' night.
00:34:43Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend.
00:34:48And I love the fact that, like, I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:54I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends.
00:35:00And we're just going to have a little ladies' night.
00:35:03I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:07So if you see any guys tonight, you're going to try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14Yeah.
00:35:15How'd that go?
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:24But that's a different story.
00:35:27I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:32You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:40No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:42No.
00:35:42Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like, I've never had that.
00:35:48And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:53Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:57It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does
00:36:02deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:08She's a beautiful person.
00:36:09So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.
00:36:14All right.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:16Pretty girls around the world.
00:36:18They're waking up.
00:36:19They serving up.
00:36:19You couldn't catch this one if you tried.
00:36:21Oh, we serve.
00:36:21We serve spicy.
00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.
00:36:25We're all right up here.
00:36:27What is this?
00:36:37We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:57The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Okay.
00:37:01Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:03You knew about that.
00:37:05I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:06She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12Ladies and gentlemen, you can hear me.
00:37:17Welcome.
00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:21All right.
00:37:21So we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wing men and wing women on this very stage.
00:37:27pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation so that you know
00:37:33who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:43Give it up.
00:37:57We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things that
00:38:04we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right.
00:38:09Let's get started in Pitch Up, friends.
00:38:11Starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:17So I am introducing my friend Alex.
00:38:20We just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, it's 42.
00:38:24He is on.
00:38:25Any event for us to 45?
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29To y'all.
00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34Do you have a strong line?
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:37Okay.
00:38:39Boundaries.
00:38:41Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:47Question.
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Yes.
00:38:51Do you like older women?
00:38:55I don't discriminate whatsoever at night, please.
00:38:58Okay.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old
00:39:19ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:21Why the am I here?
00:39:23I'm so nervous now, I'm sweating.
00:39:27Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:39:31The most authentic, funny military vet, yo.
00:39:38She has the biggest heart and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats.
00:39:50Her cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no.
00:39:58You cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00Cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:01They're sleeping.
00:40:03Okay.
00:40:04Could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true, but you know.
00:40:15Questions for Kimberly.
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:18Well, hello.
00:40:20Unfortunately, I'm under 55.
00:40:22Damn it.
00:40:23I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:34Hey, why if my dad is in New York, would you date a man that is far away?
00:40:40I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:45Why the not?
00:40:48This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:54I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions.
00:40:59But this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:03Next up, we've got the Isabelle Vision Moments.
00:41:08Okay, so what are we going to do?
00:41:09Do you want to make it?
00:41:10I don't like it.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh, yep.
00:41:21I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:27I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:32Wait, wait.
00:41:34So like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call.
00:41:37Yeah.
00:41:39People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:46I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:48I like to have orgasms.
00:41:50Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:52I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:41:54You guys remember B, right?
00:41:59I'm going to f*** them.
00:42:00Oh-ho!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:03Yes!
00:42:03Oh, man.
00:42:04Oh, man.
00:42:10Whoa!
00:42:11Spending the paper, skip the pay.
00:42:13Lazily play wasting the way.
00:42:16This is a great deal.
00:42:18Two for five.
00:42:18How can you beat that?
00:42:19I mean, I am budget conscience.
00:42:21And some girls will hate it and say,
00:42:23why are you being so cheap?
00:42:24Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value,
00:42:29we're going to get along at the grocery store.
00:42:31And I'm just open for the darkened ocean.
00:42:35The sky's so wide and open.
00:42:37It might turn the bread away from you.
00:42:42Hey.
00:42:42Hi.
00:42:42Excuse me.
00:42:43Do you know where the package meat is at?
00:42:48Like, hamburger?
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:49It's going to be down here on the left?
00:42:51All the way down?
00:42:52All the way down?
00:42:52Uh-huh.
00:42:53I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:57Oh.
00:42:59And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat
00:43:02because she's vegan, you know?
00:43:04Yeah.
00:43:04But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:09I feel so happy.
00:43:10You know what I'm saying.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12We'll ball and chain.
00:43:14Ball and chain, right?
00:43:15But thanks a lot.
00:43:16Nice talking to you.
00:43:18Sure.
00:43:19Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:22I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:24I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:29Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat
00:43:34and throwing it in the fridge, I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:38Hmm.
00:43:38I think this will work.
00:43:42Take that, Chad.
00:43:44The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:48I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball, but maybe not the best situation, like, to
00:43:56find a date.
00:43:58In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:44:02So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:07It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:12It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone if I know this person is already interested in
00:44:19me.
00:44:19Check this out.
00:44:21I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:25This woman says, sexy man, I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at
00:44:33you instead of the trainer while I'm drawing.
00:44:41I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately and I love it.
00:44:46I freaking love it.
00:44:50Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:54Who is it?
00:44:56Natalie's replying to my workout post and she says, great job.
00:45:01She's proud of me.
00:45:02Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:13Thank you. So are you.
00:45:14And you're just so adorable, too.
00:45:16Look at your smile.
00:45:18It's so cute.
00:45:20You're so sweet.
00:45:22I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:26But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:32Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:35Oh, really?
00:45:36You should watch her.
00:45:38Don't touch her.
00:45:39Don't you .
00:45:40Relax, relax.
00:45:41No, no.
00:45:42Don't you .
00:45:43Listen.
00:45:44Get off me.
00:45:46We didn't talk for almost a year.
00:45:49And then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tello.
00:45:54And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:57Yeah.
00:45:58I responded to her.
00:45:59But I added some emojis to it.
00:46:01Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.
00:46:07You know, I want to get her attention.
00:46:08Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:13I still like Natalie a lot.
00:46:14So I asked her if I could visit her next week.
00:46:18And she said yes.
00:46:20You know, this is soft.
00:46:22I mean, it's exactly how I like my women.
00:46:25Soft.
00:46:26This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:30But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:34I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie, like with actions, not just words.
00:46:39I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:44Now that I could post on my Instagram, that big ass cucumber.
00:46:51Hello?
00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:56Oh!
00:46:58Candle in the car!
00:46:59The van alone?
00:47:00Cute.
00:47:01But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:47:04He's coming on very strong.
00:47:05Ah!
00:47:06It's Pedro!
00:47:07He has an ink in his hands!
00:47:28This is my first night in the VR, and I am going out with Sophie and Julian.
00:47:34And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:38I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends, so I'm super excited right now.
00:47:50I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:54I live in Washington.
00:47:56It's always gloomy.
00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine.
00:48:00And it can be very depressing at times.
00:48:03So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:08I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:11I am really excited.
00:48:13I want to get dressed up.
00:48:13I want to go out.
00:48:14I want to meet people.
00:48:15I want to mingle.
00:48:16I want to flirt.
00:48:17And I want to feel sexy.
00:48:19I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.
00:48:22And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.
00:48:25And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:30Um, I think you're amazing.
00:48:33And I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:36One of my last relationships was Ed.
00:48:39It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.
00:48:42But, um...
00:48:42It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:45Burn.
00:48:46We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:48Go f*** yourself.
00:48:50Bye.
00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.
00:48:52You are out of control, you drunk.
00:48:54Shut the f*** up.
00:48:56You don't give a f***, Ed.
00:48:58But, despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed.
00:49:03And always wanted to make it work.
00:49:05Will you marry me?
00:49:10But then, Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:14You're going to be the best version of yourself.
00:49:16And it's not going to be with me.
00:49:19Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an asshole.
00:49:25Then came Jason.
00:49:27You're in the past.
00:49:28We're going to move forward.
00:49:29Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:32Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
00:49:34Four months into dating Jason,
00:49:36I found out that he had another girlfriend
00:49:38that he was dating for a year.
00:49:41And then, the time that I needed him to step up
00:49:44and be there for me the most, like, he didn't.
00:49:46He couldn't.
00:49:48A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason,
00:49:52I didn't get the best news.
00:49:55I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:59It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer,
00:50:03which I actually found out through a miscarriage
00:50:06that Jason and I had.
00:50:09And I'm so grateful for that,
00:50:10because it helped me catch me being sick.
00:50:15But...
00:50:19I think I need tissue.
00:50:25Being sick took a huge toll on me.
00:50:28But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.
00:50:32I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:34I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:38I want to live my life.
00:50:41And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:45Girls' Night!
00:50:47I deserve the best.
00:50:49And I've definitely learned that life is too short
00:50:52to accept anything else.
00:50:53I bet you're missing me now.
00:51:01You are my soul!
00:51:04I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:51:06Really?
00:51:07Yeah.
00:51:08Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.
00:51:10It's my first night in the DR,
00:51:12and I have my girls with me,
00:51:14but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:15to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:16Hello?
00:51:17Oh, my gosh.
00:51:18Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls
00:51:21to basically use in the DR and get around with,
00:51:24which I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:25Bye.
00:51:27Hello!
00:51:29Oh!
00:51:33Oh, my God!
00:51:35Oh, my goodness!
00:51:37Oh, my goodness.
00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:40I'm sorry.
00:51:41That is, like, candle in the car.
00:51:45Candle in the car!
00:51:46I hop in the car.
00:51:47The van alone?
00:51:48Cute.
00:51:49But the other stuff,
00:51:50I feel very overwhelmed
00:51:51and I just feel like
00:51:53he's coming on very strong.
00:51:55I feel like that is welcome to his country.
00:51:58I don't think that's too much.
00:52:00Candle in the car.
00:52:01Okay.
00:52:02Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:52:05Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:09No, it's really cute.
00:52:11It's cute.
00:52:11It is cute.
00:52:12It is cute.
00:52:15Did he do the ball as well?
00:52:18Pedro put this in more sexy vibe,
00:52:21but he forgot we will be there too.
00:52:23It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:30I speak Julia language.
00:52:32Yeah.
00:52:33This translator.
00:52:34Yeah.
00:52:35Do you wanna kiss him?
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:37If he goes in for like a pssst.
00:52:39Well, yeah.
00:52:39We haven't done anything yet.
00:52:40You know?
00:52:40So it's like, I'm gonna hug him.
00:52:42Do we keep the tequila out of your hands
00:52:44or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:45Put it in my hands.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47In my hands.
00:52:56Let's go.
00:52:57Thank you so much.
00:52:59Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:53:04Cause I'll be watching you while a DJ plays your song.
00:53:08It's been two and a half months the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:11I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:13Maybe you could show me.
00:53:16Cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:22Ah!
00:53:23Is it Pedro?
00:53:24Where is he?
00:53:25He has a ring in his hand.
00:53:26Shut up.
00:53:27He has a ring of flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:30You've been crying in a microphone.
00:53:35You've got that smell.
00:53:39Wow!
00:53:42You look good.
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:44How are you?
00:53:45How you been?
00:53:45I'm good. How are you?
00:53:46How about the flying?
00:53:47As long as okay.
00:53:50She looked, like, stunning.
00:53:53She looked stunning.
00:53:55Oh.
00:53:55The hug that she gave me was very awkward.
00:53:58Hug like a brother.
00:53:59She hug me like a, like a, like a, like a, like a side hug.
00:54:03Like.
00:54:05Even the baseball, they give you a little spanky.
00:54:07Oh.
00:54:08Good job, boy.
00:54:09Bam.
00:54:12Introducing this to you.
00:54:13Oh, yeah.
00:54:14That's.
00:54:15Oh, hey.
00:54:18How's it going?
00:54:19How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:20How's it going?
00:54:31How's it going?
00:54:32How's it going?
00:54:33Okay, ladies.
00:54:34Uh, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.
00:54:37You're going to meet my friends.
00:54:38Enjoy the night.
00:54:40Follow me, ladies.
00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?
00:54:41How you doing?
00:54:43Very good. How are you?
00:54:44Good, good, good.
00:54:46Do this one?
00:54:46Yeah.
00:54:56Okay.
00:54:57Okay, um, guys, let me introduce you. That's my friend Villas.
00:55:04Darling, Ernestys, Raphael. Okay. She's Sophie, Julia, and Liz.
00:55:13Nice to meet you. Where's your how was the band was good. Yeah. Yeah. Good job guys. They help me
00:55:21I
00:55:24Can tell Pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me which
00:55:29It's nice
00:55:30But it feels like I'm like walking into like a job interview or like I'm supposed to give a speech
00:55:35or something because they were just sat there like this
00:55:37I mean
00:55:39Okay
00:55:41I
00:55:45Already feel like there's expectation of me and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's girlfriend
00:55:52It's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:56Wow
00:55:59Okay
00:56:11That's
00:56:14That energy bro. I don't know. What's like? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know
00:56:21What's very awkward
00:56:23I
00:56:24Decided this office here, but right now it's it's feel cold indifference weird, you know, like awkward
00:56:33Sophie entirely different person than maybe four
00:56:40I
00:56:41Sexually B is he's good. He's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s. I still have urges. I still have needs
00:56:57I
00:57:07Have plans to hook up right now
00:57:11Oh
00:57:11Oh
00:57:14I'm feeling too flat. Yeah
00:57:16I've been going way up. Yeah
00:57:18Give me my paper because you already know
00:57:21Wait, wait
00:57:23So like a booty call
00:57:26A booty call
00:57:27Yeah
00:57:28So a booty call is when you're not in a relationship and you just meet up with one of your
00:57:33little friends and you know
00:57:35You have some drinky drinks and then do the deed and then you just go home
00:57:40Even though I'm in my 50s. I still have urges. I still have needs and it like gets the needs
00:57:46met
00:57:46You know what it's a step in the right direction
00:57:50Why not?
00:57:51I'm meeting up with Benjamin or as everybody calls him be
00:57:55He's a really good friend of mine and I dated him for about six months before I met Usman
00:58:00Once Usman and I broke up and he knew it he just slid right in the dms and we've been
00:58:06banging it out ever since
00:58:10It's tricky with me and B because the connection is there like you can feel it, you know, but he's
00:58:15just a friend with benefits
00:58:16I just don't feel like we're at that point to make it a relationship
00:58:21When B and I tried to date like five six years ago
00:58:25We were doing pretty good
00:58:26We have a lot of things in common and then about six months and B hit me up with he
00:58:31wanted to be like in a thropple
00:58:33He wanted me to have sex with the woman and I was just like are you high?
00:58:39No, I'm not doing that. He was very free-spirited back then and Kim was not
00:58:43Sexually B is he's good. He's great with me and his is big. So there you go
00:58:49You had that with Usman though. It was the same thing. You had the connection, but there was all these
00:58:53other red flags
00:58:54That's how I feel and I don't want the red flags
00:58:56No
00:58:57Being a woman of a certain age that we all are
00:59:03It is refreshing
00:59:06For me to see her
00:59:09Having a little bit of a
00:59:11Ho phase, you know what? I'm all for that. Are you for that?
00:59:15Yeah, I think she I mean get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds the
00:59:18right one friends with benefits
00:59:20Whatever they have is is a good connection. I'm down for it. Yeah
00:59:23Love you
00:59:26But we wanted her to find somebody that is truly special and truly right that she can fall in love
00:59:32with and that loves her
00:59:34True he ain't the one no for tonight. He is the one
00:59:45B and I have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has roommates and
00:59:50with my house
00:59:51I never know if Jamal's gonna show up or not
00:59:59At first it was a little inconvenient, but I have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot
01:00:03nice hotel sex
01:00:04Double touch double touch double touch double touch double touch double touch
01:00:07Jump jump
01:00:13Oh
01:00:14Oh
01:00:15Yeah
01:00:16Come on in
01:00:17I've been waiting to see you
01:00:22It's good to see you on the show
01:00:23No, I know
01:00:25Yeah, come on in
01:00:26Oh this is nice B
01:00:28I know, right?
01:00:29So much nicer than those old hotels we used to get
01:00:32Uh-oh
01:00:33Man
01:00:34Back in the day
01:00:35You look crazy
01:00:36Absolutely
01:00:36Look at us now
01:00:37You look beautiful as usual
01:00:39Thank you
01:00:39I try
01:00:40My name is Benjamin
01:00:42But everybody calls me B because I'm like the bumblebee
01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around and you never know where I'll land at
01:00:50This is a good bed
01:00:51This is nice
01:00:52Look at the big bed
01:00:54This is a big bed
01:00:54The reason why me and Kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship that we
01:01:00have together
01:01:00She's somebody I'd definitely like
01:01:03I rock with
01:01:05So I went to this like dating event thing
01:01:08You know what I'm saying?
01:01:09Yeah
01:01:09See this is why I love you because we can talk about this stuff, right?
01:01:12Of course, of course, of course
01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily
01:01:15Right
01:01:16And they pitched me so it was called
01:01:18Pitch a Friend
01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation
01:01:21Like a real slideshow?
01:01:23Yes
01:01:23Like with pictures
01:01:24Yeah, of me
01:01:25And then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff
01:01:27So it was cool
01:01:29It was very touching
01:01:30But it just was not my thing
01:01:31Sometimes I tell B about me like meeting other guys
01:01:35Or like this whole pitch a friend thing
01:01:36Because I want to see what he's going to say
01:01:38Like don't do that
01:01:40Let me try to be your man
01:01:41B and I are good together
01:01:42And I know he sees it
01:01:43And I was kind of hoping that with age
01:01:46That B would like, you know, calm it down a little bit
01:01:48With the sexcapades
01:01:49And want to be in a monogamous relationship
01:01:52We've known each other forever
01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much
01:01:55I miss you too
01:01:56Like we're cool
01:01:57Like we're friends with benefits now
01:01:58And I love that
01:01:58But like I'd like maybe to see it grow
01:02:01To see what else it could be
01:02:04We've always talked about it, you know
01:02:06And the only way we're going to find that out
01:02:08Is with more time
01:02:09Mm-hmm
01:02:10We should plan like once every two weeks
01:02:14When we can
01:02:17So you haven't even been to my house yet
01:02:18No, but I'm
01:02:20It's so crazy
01:02:20I'm coming
01:02:26Yeah, okay
01:02:28I am tired and I just want to go take a shower
01:02:30Is that okay?
01:02:31Yeah, of course
01:02:32Okay
01:02:33I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower
01:02:35So I'm just, I'm just
01:02:38Baby, baby, please
01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please
01:02:41What?
01:02:42Can you show me like what that might feel like?
01:02:46Yes, yes
01:02:46Let's go
01:02:47Let me see
01:02:47Ooh
01:02:48Let me see
01:02:48Let me see
01:02:50I have a good hand
01:02:52I love Bea to death
01:02:53And I would love to be in a relationship with him
01:02:55And I'm putting out the vibe
01:02:57But he is not picking up what Kim is putting down
01:02:59So, I mean, where do we go from here?
01:03:02Ooh
01:03:02Dang
01:03:03All right
01:03:04I'm gonna go take a shower
01:03:05I don't want to be shuffling with my walker up to a hotel room
01:03:09When I'm 80 years old
01:03:10I just want more for myself
01:03:12So if Bea doesn't step up soon
01:03:14I mean, this whole relationship is gonna have an expiration date
01:03:17I'm not gonna keep waiting
01:03:22I'm not gonna have an expiration date
01:03:23Traveling today to see Natalie again
01:03:25God, aren't these sexy?
01:03:27I mean, holy cow
01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance
01:03:31And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up
01:03:44You know I work it, work it
01:03:46Cause I'm gonna earn it, earn it
01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?
01:03:53Well, I gotta wash the hair, right?
01:03:55The little hair that I have
01:03:56The patch of hair on the back of my head
01:03:59I shampoo it
01:04:00I condition it
01:04:01I take very good care of it
01:04:03That's the only hair I got left on my head
01:04:06I've got a good thing going and I'll never slow them down
01:04:16I want to look good for Natalie, you know
01:04:19So I bought a couple of new shirts
01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them
01:04:25I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie
01:04:29They're colorful
01:04:31That's for sure
01:04:33Definitely colorful
01:04:35I visited Natalie in Vegas previously
01:04:37Because that's where her home's at
01:04:40This time, I'm gonna travel to DC
01:04:42Because she's currently working remotely there
01:04:45God, aren't these sexy?
01:04:47I mean, holy cow
01:04:48That's some sexy ass underwear right here
01:04:51A lot of our talks through text and such
01:04:54Has been a lot of small talk to be honest
01:04:57And hasn't been very deep
01:05:00So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me
01:05:05But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment
01:05:08If she didn't have any feelings for me
01:05:12I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not packing any
01:05:17Because the little blue pills I need for someone that
01:05:20Is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch
01:05:24Then I need something to pump me up
01:05:25But Natalie's a different story
01:05:27Because just her personality and attitude
01:05:31The way she is
01:05:32I'm gonna get it up, man
01:05:35All right, I think we got it
01:05:51Time to board
01:05:52I'll see you soon, Natalie
01:05:55I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years
01:05:58So trying to put myself out there again, it's not easy
01:06:07But there's not many times that you can get a second chance
01:06:11And especially with a woman that's high quality
01:06:15Like Natalie is
01:06:23Good morning
01:06:24Good morning, how are you?
01:06:27Doing great, doing great
01:06:28My first time in Washington, D.C.
01:06:30I'm excited
01:06:31Excited, I hope you enjoy your stay
01:06:32Thank you
01:06:33I'm so excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today
01:06:38On top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind
01:06:43She is a hot, sexy, passionate Latina, let me tell you
01:06:46She's on fire, baby
01:06:53Oh, is this it?
01:06:54Yeah, this is it
01:06:56Thank you
01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office
01:07:00The plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment
01:07:17How are you feeling?
01:07:19Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her
01:07:24But I have some nervousness, it's a little nerve wracking
01:07:32My heart's racing a bit
01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me
01:07:48I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance
01:07:51But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up
01:07:55Hey
01:07:59What was your name again?
01:08:01Via
01:08:01Via
01:08:01Yeah, it's nice to meet you
01:08:02Thanks
01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:08:04Hey
01:08:05No, there you go, there you go
01:08:06Via is very good looking and he smells expensive
01:08:14Honestly, if I never wanted to get the horse, like, could we still be mad?
01:08:18Any hookers with him?
01:08:20I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants
01:08:24What the are we doing here?
01:08:36How do you feel right now?
01:08:38Well, I don't know why his energy just gives me like
01:08:40I just feel like
01:08:42In his head, we're in a relationship
01:08:43Like if you ask him, I feel like he's like, yeah, that's my girl
01:08:55They take a long time in the restroom, what they're doing?
01:08:59Nobody tell you, you can have fun
01:09:02Just have fun
01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now
01:09:05Like now he's gonna feel like she's in my country
01:09:09She's meeting my friends
01:09:10Like I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe
01:09:13You just loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you will be good
01:09:18Let's just think of girls
01:09:20It'll be a good night
01:09:21Yeah
01:09:21You know what?
01:09:23Help me meet my man
01:09:24I mean, kitty's thirsty
01:09:28Mila girl's just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends
01:09:31And it's a very overwhelming environment
01:09:34Sorry, you can sit down
01:09:38You can see over here, Sophie
01:09:40I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van
01:09:42And now I just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend
01:09:45She's meeting all my friends
01:09:46And it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before
01:09:49Which that's what I loved before it was so easy going
01:09:51And this feels a little bit, a little bit of pressure
01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce it to my friend Villa
01:09:58What is your name again?
01:09:59Villa
01:09:59Villa?
01:10:00Yeah, it's nice to meet you
01:10:00Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:10:02No, I don't think that's what we're doing
01:10:04Just kidding
01:10:04No, there you go, there you go
01:10:08Villa is very good looking
01:10:11He's very well groomed
01:10:13Like his haircut's on point
01:10:15And he smells really good
01:10:17He smells expensive
01:10:20Cheers, thank you for inviting us all
01:10:22Okay, ladies, let's go
01:10:25Arriba, everywhere
01:10:27Arriba
01:10:28Abajo, pa'l centro, pa'l dentro
01:10:31There you go
01:10:35That's it
01:10:35Banchata de J
01:10:36You guys?
01:10:38Yes
01:10:38That's when I feel like one, two
01:10:42Two
01:10:46There, you got it
01:10:53As we're dancing, I can tell we're both very attracted to each other
01:10:56Get close, get close, get close to me
01:10:59No, get close to me, no worry
01:11:01He just smells really good, he dresses well
01:11:04And he's just hot
01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him
01:11:07I don't want to like be all over him the first night
01:11:10And lead him on because I still don't really know what I want yet
01:11:15So you've never danced banchata before
01:11:16I was trying to sign up for a banchata lesson while I'm out here
01:11:19It's so easy
01:11:20I can teach you that
01:11:21Okay
01:11:24We can start here, right
01:11:26So it's one, two, three
01:11:28Si, ta ta ta ta ta ta
01:11:33Oh, you do know
01:11:33One, two
01:11:34One, two
01:11:35One, two
01:11:36And bum, bum, bum, bum, bum
01:11:43You lied to me, you said she didn't know
01:11:46She said she was gonna take classes
01:11:47I said I wanted to do one less thing
01:11:48Just gonna be here better
01:11:56everyone just left that's okay they needed that alone time yeah you look beautiful you look
01:12:03gorgeous thank you thank you I'm super happy that you're here that you take the invitation
01:12:09to come in here to spend a little time with me I know you want to have the best time
01:12:14I woke up
01:12:15but I had a pina colada for breakfast because I'm in a DR wow that's a lot you don't need
01:12:24classes no
01:12:25class no I think Liz likes your friend yeah look yeah so are you from here or are you from
01:12:33well I
01:12:34was born um in Atlanta when's your birthday September September I'm May baby I'm a Gemini
01:12:42you're a Gemini yeah what is your size I'm a Libra okay I feel like us Libras are pretty well
01:12:48well balanced which is is this your only tattoo oh yeah wow it's a whole sleeve it's a Libra so
01:12:57a
01:12:57woman with the blindfold and the scale what's this oh it's my son's name I have a kid
01:13:07Riley Leanne you have a kid yeah really she's gonna be 12 you have a 12 year old yeah my
01:13:15baby
01:13:15means everything to me same yeah same he is my reason for everything definitely no I'm feeling
01:13:24butterflies talking to via he'll be eight in July he's sweet he loves his kid he's making eye contact
01:13:32with me we're having great conversation I think we need a drink to that I think we need a shot
01:13:39is your friend at home he's ah he is oh it's okay this isn't her single era so this is
01:13:48her time to
01:13:48just like live her life a little bit same with me I'm not in a toxic relationship you separate right
01:13:54now are you still married are you divorced how how how how that go like I'm still technically married
01:14:02but I'm like started the process of divorce that was how far you are that like just now so it's
01:14:11very
01:14:12new it never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me before in the morning
01:14:19for
01:14:20what it was unknown numbers I haven't looked and he was like why do you have me blocked I'm like
01:14:25we're getting divorced why why so sad with you like why you not can move on honestly if I never
01:14:32wanted to get the worst like you would still be mad I told Sophie and her husband divorce was more
01:14:39fight alone because she tell me he was the worst husband that he he made her life miserable all the
01:14:47time if that guy to you that bad why you get the phone calls and answer the phone and they
01:14:54hook us
01:14:54with him yeah we like hooked up after a few months yes as much as that guy was horrible to
01:15:07me I still
01:15:08had love for him when he was being nice to me I forgot about all the bad memories and so
01:15:13we slept together
01:15:17they've been hookups and she never told me they did hookup before I am speechless it's hard when you
01:15:24love someone I can't just be like I you bye you know look if you want to be with Rob
01:15:29okay be with Rob or
01:15:30or be with every guy that you want to be but I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody
01:15:36they don't
01:15:36know what it wants what the we doing here I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better
01:15:46you know but now I wish she did too I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad I don't know I don't know what I up you know
01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with B even at 55 I'm still doing the walk of shame
01:16:16hey I'm not gonna fall in your line hey I'm a hard-working woman and I do what I like
01:16:24hey
01:16:25come on let me give you some treats
01:16:29hey my baby
01:16:33last night was pretty amazing B's really good in bed I have to say
01:16:39and usually after a night like that I'm feeling all zen and woosah and you know calm
01:16:43but right now I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over so good to
01:16:49be out of those clothes my god he thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser
01:16:54but really I have some things I need to talk to him about
01:17:03ding dong hey what's up are you good how are you I'm good so this is a dresser I want
01:17:12to put in my
01:17:13guest room see is it big it's look at the picture okay here we go so they go a and
01:17:20c e it goes like
01:17:21this yeah this is easy it's just so fun so I went out for girls night last night with Laura
01:17:30Jody and
01:17:31Lily you know my friend from work Lily so we went to Mavericks and they had this event called pitch
01:17:35me
01:17:35yeah so they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy and all the guys
01:17:41were
01:17:41like 12 Jamal they weren't even like grown you know
01:17:44well I feel like your last couple guys have been younger so my last one guy was younger
01:17:52so well B's not really B's 44 so I mean he's you know what's his real name Benjamin oh yeah
01:17:59B sounds
01:18:00better yeah but um so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night
01:18:08sure you don't want to know yeah I don't need to hear that
01:18:13things have been tense between me and Jamal lately
01:18:16I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him it just devastated him
01:18:24as long as we're not talking about these things Jamal and I are fine but it's like everything's
01:18:29hidden under this carpet and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then and talk about it
01:18:33but Jamal will just hang up on me he won't answer a text he'll walk out the house
01:18:38it's been very uncomfortable um you know Larry's coming out here
01:18:46why is he coming out here just to see like you know where I grew up at and you know
01:18:52get a little
01:18:52more of my family history I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better
01:18:59you know but now I wish you did too you hit him for so long
01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years
01:19:16I did what I thought yeah what I thought was right so long
01:19:25just give me a second
01:19:29Jamal is not my only child
01:19:34this is really hard for me
01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married we were together for seven and a half years
01:19:47we were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time it was just like
01:19:54every day there was like a different girl
01:19:58when I got pregnant with my first son Larry first thing his dad said was abort it
01:20:04and I just couldn't do that but I was only 21 years old I couldn't imagine being a single mom
01:20:09I was not mentally ready I was starting my military career I was just not ready so I decided to
01:20:15put my
01:20:15son up for adoption and I never told Jamal until last year when Larry found us through an ancestry
01:20:21website I don't think you ever would have told me I would have told you I don't think so and
01:20:27that's
01:20:27a huge thing for me is like I don't think you ever would have told me because like there was
01:20:35no reason to not tell me I just didn't know how to say it you know and it's always been
01:20:41like me and
01:20:41you me and you me and you and I finally got our relationship to where like I've always wanted
01:20:45it to be right so it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret I felt like
01:20:52in my head I
01:20:52was just like trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you too because I just didn't
01:20:58very protecting me I don't know I just didn't know how to handle it I didn't didn't I that's
01:21:02that is the complete truth I did not know how to handle this at all at all
01:21:08last year I found out I had an older brother full blood mommy and dad and my first thought
01:21:17was that she was lying it was a joke or something because why would you hide this for so long
01:21:24when
01:21:24we're so close and then when I found out it was true I was just really pissed off
01:21:28I have this whole other family and you knew about it and I'm like how could my own mom like
01:21:36look me in my eyes when she knows I have a whole brother
01:21:42dude that's just not something I'm like
01:21:46even thought about forgiving yet because I just I just don't know who would do that so I'm like
01:21:51damn
01:21:58I don't know I feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust like only like if you
01:22:02can't trust anyone else you can trust her but now it's like wow I can't trust anyone in the world
01:22:07anymore oh I'm like shaking
01:22:14it's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing you do make
01:22:18a lot of
01:22:18excuses I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad I don't know I don't know what I up you know
01:22:24like I don't
01:22:26I don't know what else to say to fix it I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right
01:22:33thing to do
01:22:34it ended up just hurting him worse Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there
01:22:40and now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up
01:22:45last year Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry his wife and his son
01:22:52meeting Larry for the first time was like crazy because I'm looking at him I'm like okay this is my
01:22:58blood this is my son and he has my face he looks just like me but he's a total stranger
01:23:03to me and technically I'm a grandma it's a surreal feeling but I'm so relieved because
01:23:15he was such a good man and I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have
01:23:19kept him
01:23:20you know it makes me feel certain that I did the right thing since then Jamal and I have been
01:23:27talking
01:23:27with Larry and I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could
01:23:32see where I'm from
01:23:36what do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here like what's next
01:23:39you think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him I have to have a deep talk with him
01:24:04how do you think he's gonna react I think he's gonna be pissed he's gonna be really upset with me
01:24:09hey by the way you have a sister like Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption
01:24:20I also had a daughter
01:24:31this season on The Single Life
01:24:37this is the kind of life that I want where I can have fun with my partner
01:24:43you're getting me all hot oh yeah this is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for
01:24:49nice to meet you I'll never see you again I was helping him upload something on social media and
01:24:56it shows me all the women he's been messaging something's fishy about this Courtney's worried
01:25:02that I'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day are you still living that way dude be honest
01:25:07with me well um how are you a wreck I'm like shaking I didn't tell my son Larry about his
01:25:16sister when he first found me here but I want to tell him now and I'm really scared
01:25:22what if he just turns around and leaves what if he never speaks to me again
01:25:30do you mind if I have a dance it's my girl are you serious I do feel jealous watching her
01:25:36dance with
01:25:37someone else I just don't see how that's respectful the guy that you're with so you're stopping me
01:25:42from being who I am you don't see a problem here at all what is the freaking problem the problem
01:25:47is
01:25:47actually us I'm done with this yesterday I was talking police and she made me feel maybe I you
01:25:54have another guy you mind but why does she tell you that I don't want Sophie to play game with
01:25:59me
01:26:00I'm not interesting the hell no not with me everything I told you he knows
01:26:08you've never had my back yes I have you've never had my that's breaking girl code like you don't do
01:26:14that
01:26:14go the homeless have yours
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