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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 14: Prepare for Immediate Descent
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:06Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:10Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be
00:00:37introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16That's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see it like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:26Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife, don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:49I love you so much.
00:01:50What?
00:01:51Stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09Don't come...
00:02:10It's not as bad as...
00:02:11Don't come close to me.
00:02:38Good morning.
00:02:40Hey.
00:02:41How are you?
00:02:42Okay.
00:02:44Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:47That's all right.
00:02:48I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:55I feel so bad.
00:03:01Like, every hour I was making you get up and get me water and...
00:03:04So, who needs sleep?
00:03:06You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:08Yeah, well, long flight, and you weren't feeling the best, so, you know.
00:03:13You're such a good boy.
00:03:16I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend, Joshua, for the first time, face-to-face.
00:03:23The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night.
00:03:26But I was up every hour of the night.
00:03:30I was coughing, I was shivering.
00:03:32And he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of me all night.
00:03:35It just feels like it's a sinus infection almost, like it's just swollen here.
00:03:41Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:46Yeah.
00:03:47I am a needy bitch.
00:03:49Especially when I'm sick.
00:03:51I need my man to attend to me, like a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:57Joshua does that.
00:03:58I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink.
00:04:02Yeah.
00:04:02When I took my medicine.
00:04:04That's good.
00:04:05It's probably a good start.
00:04:07What is it?
00:04:09It's Vegemite.
00:04:10What's that?
00:04:11You have to try it.
00:04:12It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:13It smells like sardines.
00:04:17There's no fish in it.
00:04:20Just take a big bite.
00:04:26Suck!
00:04:26Is it good?
00:04:28It's not bad.
00:04:30No, I don't like it.
00:04:32I don't like it.
00:04:33Ew, ew, ew!
00:04:34Joshua, what is that?
00:04:36Is that fish?
00:04:37It's not fish.
00:04:40Do you want a tissue?
00:04:43It's a condiment.
00:04:45I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:46And you love it?
00:04:47Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:49You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:51Tastes like .
00:04:53I hated it.
00:04:58All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:05:00All right.
00:05:01There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:06Yes.
00:05:06And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:11Bondi.
00:05:12Yeah.
00:05:12All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:17I feel like you are, I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:21Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:22But I can understand.
00:05:23Let's see.
00:05:28Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:31This is it.
00:05:32Oh my god, all the guys that wear the what's-the-sweedo thing.
00:05:36Did you smell it?
00:05:37I can't.
00:05:38I can't, I can't.
00:05:39Ha ha ha ha.
00:05:42Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:44Very different than Miami.
00:05:46It's, like, really soft.
00:05:49Do you want to go in?
00:05:51Yep.
00:05:51Wait, I have to change.
00:05:53Towel's in my bag.
00:05:55So let's figure this out.
00:05:57So here's to cover me.
00:05:59OK.
00:06:02How about this?
00:06:03Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:06:05Yeah.
00:06:05There you go.
00:06:09My top is off.
00:06:11Hold me.
00:06:12Hold me.
00:06:13How do you do this, Paul?
00:06:15All right, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:16OK.
00:06:17So, how are you going to do that now?
00:06:22Hold it tight.
00:06:25I'm losing it.
00:06:27Hold it.
00:06:30Voila!
00:06:31Well done.
00:06:35That was pretty impressive.
00:06:38Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:41Yeah, I'll do my best.
00:06:43Let's go, ready?
00:06:43OK.
00:06:45Crookin' that skin.
00:06:46No, no, no, no.
00:06:47I love it.
00:06:48Crush it like the ocean.
00:06:51Oh my god, I am.
00:06:54Can I kiss you in slow motion?
00:06:57It's actually insane to even think
00:06:59that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours,
00:07:02and it's so natural.
00:07:04There is a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:07:07We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.
00:07:12So, I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:16Oh my god.
00:07:18I mean, I do have three weeks here,
00:07:19and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:22So, getting to be alone with Joshua,
00:07:25it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff,
00:07:27for sure.
00:07:49I love learning about you.
00:07:56I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:58Like, I want to know the heart.
00:07:59Like, I want you to open up.
00:08:00I feel like you're reserved.
00:08:04Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:08:07Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship.
00:08:10I was, yeah.
00:08:11One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up,
00:08:13and then having it used, like, against me, you know.
00:08:23My previous relationship, we dated for seven years.
00:08:27But I never felt secure.
00:08:29I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:33She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:37And I was constantly being told, if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:42So, I was always living in fear, I guess.
00:08:45She could just end it at any time.
00:08:48Ultimately, I had my heart broken,
00:08:50and I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:55Like, are you constantly thinking, like, is something on your mind, or, like, it's just...
00:08:59Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:09:00Always, always thinking.
00:09:02What's your top thought right now?
00:09:04That this is...
00:09:06I like that you're sort of asking these questions,
00:09:08but, you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:11This is opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:14No, I get it.
00:09:15Like, opening up can be scary.
00:09:19But...
00:09:19You know what?
00:09:20You made me feel safe already.
00:09:22Really?
00:09:23That's like an early, early call.
00:09:26So, hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:28Yeah, I feel safe with you too.
00:09:32Hi.
00:09:33Hi.
00:09:39I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually.
00:09:42Like, guys have said a lot of things to me,
00:09:44but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:47It feels good.
00:09:49I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:54So, yeah, the plan was to wait, but, like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:59He's so attentive to me.
00:10:00He's letting his guard down.
00:10:01Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:10:04So, we'll see.
00:10:20It's not...
00:10:20Don't...
00:10:21It's not as bad as...
00:10:22Don't come close to me.
00:10:25Daniel.
00:10:28You're telling me you have been a lesbian?
00:10:32Listen.
00:10:33Don't...
00:10:33Don't...
00:10:33Don't try it.
00:10:34Listen to...
00:10:35Don't even come...
00:10:36Don't...
00:10:36Don't try it.
00:10:37Listen.
00:10:38I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:43I want it all out.
00:10:45That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:46I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:52Daniel.
00:10:54Daniel.
00:10:55Don't come close to me.
00:10:57Please try to understand.
00:11:01You don't know how hard it was to...
00:11:03You have a lot of secrets.
00:11:04I have no more secrets.
00:11:06Just listen, please.
00:11:08I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:11:10Jesus Christ.
00:11:12I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:14I'm not straight.
00:11:15I'm not bisexual.
00:11:17I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:20People should love people by their soul.
00:11:22And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:25Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:27God.
00:11:30I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:32You told me you have had a series of, you know, relationship.
00:11:35I didn't know it's your fellow women.
00:11:38Same sex.
00:11:41Yes.
00:11:42And you have been lying to me.
00:11:46I'm sorry.
00:11:49You are evil.
00:11:52I'm not evil.
00:11:53You know me.
00:11:54I take care of people.
00:11:55And I've even taken care of you.
00:11:57I'm not evil.
00:11:58I have a good heart.
00:12:00And I'm a good person.
00:12:02What makes you a good person?
00:12:04Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:12:06That doesn't make me evil.
00:12:08I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:12:12The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.
00:12:15I love you.
00:12:17I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:19I love you.
00:12:22Don't say that again.
00:12:23And you can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:26I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:28That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:30I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:33But I'm telling you.
00:12:34Shut your mouth.
00:12:35You don't have to.
00:12:35You have been threatened by a woman.
00:12:37Not even women.
00:12:38Women.
00:12:42You are a liar.
00:12:45I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:53Don't.
00:12:54Can you hold this ring?
00:12:54No.
00:12:57What a ring.
00:13:00I've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies.
00:13:05So you're full of evil.
00:13:08I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:13:11I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:32No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:38I didn't think he'd call me evil.
00:13:41I'm not evil.
00:13:43I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:46And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:53Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:56You know what?
00:13:58him.
00:13:59him.
00:14:11You're officially on the jeepney.
00:14:14I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:14:17And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:21So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:24If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:37We are late.
00:14:40We are late.
00:14:43We are late.
00:14:53So we can see.
00:14:56We are here.
00:14:58I'm tired.
00:14:59Let's get a rest.
00:15:01Wow.
00:15:19So this is like a, gonna be like a village environment, right?
00:15:22Yeah.
00:15:24Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:31We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel.
00:15:34And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:40Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:42I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:45We use water.
00:15:50We had a big fight last night.
00:15:53I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:57But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:16:05I don't want to run this vacation, but the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:16:16I went a little overboard, and I'm sorry for that.
00:16:21I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:25It's just, I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:33I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:42Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:50We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:56I want them to accept you, because I want this relationship to work.
00:17:03I do, too.
00:17:07I overreacted yesterday.
00:17:09It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:17:15And it just totally set me off.
00:17:18I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:25Yeah.
00:17:26There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:38So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:42What?
00:17:43No!
00:17:48Let's go, now.
00:17:55Nice chips right here.
00:17:57Yeah, it's nice.
00:18:10It's quiet, you see?
00:18:12Not much pickle.
00:18:14It's not what I expected.
00:18:17Woo!
00:18:19This is rough roads.
00:18:23The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:25It must get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:28Yeah.
00:18:30What?
00:18:35I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:39Everything is just simple.
00:18:42There is no running water, no fancy toilet, but everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.
00:18:54Do you think they're going to be happy to see me?
00:18:56Yeah, to see me.
00:18:58What about me?
00:19:01They're going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:19:03I don't know.
00:19:04Meet me?
00:19:06They're happy because I bring a boyfriend, and they will tell me if you were the good person for me
00:19:14or not.
00:19:18Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:19:24I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:28My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:32Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:36When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:42Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:47I'm worried.
00:19:49He doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:54Is it right here?
00:19:56Yeah, it's here.
00:19:58There's no turning back, man.
00:20:10So we're going to have to call a jeep.
00:20:12I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:20:15Ah, you're going to have to.
00:20:16How's that work?
00:20:18Well, you can see those signboards.
00:20:19Uh-huh.
00:20:20You just have to find the right location.
00:20:22Then, we just have to kill Para.
00:20:25Oh.
00:20:25Para is to stop.
00:20:26Oh.
00:20:31So here.
00:20:32Oh, here?
00:20:34Yes.
00:20:35There.
00:20:36All right.
00:20:37We're officially on the jeepney.
00:20:43There it is.
00:20:45Ah!
00:20:47Oh!
00:20:49I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:53Yeah.
00:20:53It's hot.
00:20:54It smells like diesel.
00:20:59it's been a couple days since i proposed to sheena and we are just over the moon in love with
00:21:05each
00:21:05other but not everyone's happy my mom is still mad at me because i proposed to sheena against
00:21:14her guidance and the vibe in the condo is just really awkward so sheena and i have been trying
00:21:23to do our own thing oh my gosh so this is the ball here all right here we go we're
00:21:30getting off yeah
00:21:32while it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself right now is not the time to put the
00:21:37brakes on things i only have a week left here in the philippines and i don't want to waste any
00:21:42time in bringing sheena to america good morning will you have an appointment with mr alexandra
00:21:50kane please now that we're finally engaged i called an immigration lawyer in manila just so we can get
00:21:56a consultation oh hi sir hi good morning nice to meet you nice to meet you yeah good afternoon
00:22:09welcome to our office and welcome to the philippines thank you i've been enjoying my stay okay
00:22:15so for for this uh consultation i would like to you know um make an assessment of course if you
00:22:22are
00:22:22eligible for the k1 visa yeah no how long have you been in this uh in this relationship seven years
00:22:30seven years seven years and you have never been convicted of any crime in the u.s no
00:22:35okay speak clean yeah when i walk you can hear yeah so uh are you uh working right now
00:22:46currently i'm not working but i can prove that i'm getting paid monthly okay i'm receiving uh disability
00:22:55benefits which is it's a good enough amount to have me you know live my basic life and you know
00:23:02get an
00:23:03apartment and get food all that good stuff i see so i have to um uh be very clear here
00:23:13you know disability benefits is not an income
00:23:19yeah you cannot consider that the annual income for petitioners for uh k-1 visa is
00:23:27more or less 26 500 usd now is that shared between no it's only the petitioner for the petitioner okay
00:23:37so um if you will file today for example it will be denied
00:23:47my suggestion is you build your financial capacity you know find again full employment then
00:23:53uh you can proceed i am in complete shock right now i feel devastated to find out that my disability
00:24:05payments that i get monthly does not count towards the amount that i need to bring to the united states
00:24:12to be honest because of my autism i am terrified about working full-time and starting a job
00:24:22in the past i've had jobs that ended
00:24:27awfully because i didn't understand or i messed up but my back is at a wall right now that if
00:24:36i don't get
00:24:37a job our entire dream of bringing china to the united states is done so let's say you know i
00:24:45go back
00:24:45home yeah and i instantly start working yeah how long is enough to have a stable form of income you
00:24:53know before the k-1 is actually granted so yeah uh you need probably a year uh employment history okay
00:25:02and then uh you will meet another a year uh at least uh to have the petition approved and bring
00:25:10your
00:25:10fiance to the u.s yeah it's quite frustrating for me that i'm the only one who's been working
00:25:21if he happened to have a job then he could have acquired the cave of visa sooner
00:25:30i'm worried that since forest have a disability it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:37job
00:25:37long term is there any other options so depending on your goal here in the philippine immigration we
00:25:47have a straightforward process if you get married here and he comes to the philippines and live here
00:25:53there is no requirement of financial capacity okay okay so there will be a 100 chance that the
00:26:01petition will be approved okay okay so these options will depend on your goal
00:26:12at this point it's sounding almost impossible for forest to bring me to the u.s
00:26:18i know it's going to be difficult but i think he's going to have to consider other options
00:26:33i don't know i'm just real pissed off and at this moment i'm at a crossroads i
00:26:39don't know how to move forward can i at least have my wallet no okay don't talk to me don't
00:26:58come to me
00:27:06you think you can just treat me this way humiliate me all the time all right i'm gonna just give
00:27:11you
00:27:11a space all right
00:27:44I'll just...
00:27:47I'll just...
00:27:48I'll just...
00:27:48I'll just leave my husband there.
00:27:57That's him.
00:28:02Oh?
00:28:15I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:28:19But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:28:25He promised a really good day.
00:28:27But of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:28:31Because it's not Juban if he doesn't.
00:28:41Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:29:01We're just gonna leave him for now.
00:29:03Just give her space, man.
00:29:05So she can just calm down.
00:29:08We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:29:13I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:29:17because I'm putting in massive effort
00:29:20to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:29:23And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place
00:29:28and it's just...
00:29:29I don't know, I'm just real pissed off
00:29:30that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:29:34And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:29:38I don't know how to move forward.
00:29:41Mama, your day good?
00:29:43It's okay.
00:29:46Every time he were having a good time,
00:29:50he would do this to me.
00:29:52Right in front in public.
00:29:55It's so humiliating.
00:29:57I don't think he's powerless.
00:29:59The fact that he could upset me this much
00:30:01definitely has power of his relationship.
00:30:09Hello?
00:30:12How's my baby?
00:30:14Nana?
00:30:17I'm inis with Jovon.
00:30:19Why?
00:30:20It's a bad trip.
00:30:22Because...
00:30:22Why?
00:30:23Because he wants to have a relationship
00:30:25like this.
00:30:25And with her sister,
00:30:26she's so dominant.
00:30:27All this, this, this, this.
00:30:29I don't have to be like this.
00:30:32I could not even...
00:30:34I was like...
00:30:35I would have to see that.
00:30:37Sigh.
00:30:40You are the same.
00:30:42You'll talk to each other.
00:30:43You'll talk to each other...
00:30:46Or something or something.
00:30:50Why?
00:30:51Don't waste your relationship with your relationship.
00:30:55I am so, so, so tired of it, Javon.
00:30:58I have to be this timid, self-spoken woman.
00:31:04It's like I've sacrificed a lot of my life so you can be happy.
00:31:11And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:31:13it's something else you want me to do.
00:31:18So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:31:21There's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.
00:31:27I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:31:39I'm so cold.
00:31:40Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:42Okay.
00:31:44I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:31:46Maybe.
00:31:48But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:51I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:55You're crazy, you know?
00:32:00Ooh.
00:32:08Ooh.
00:32:09Ooh.
00:32:12Ooh.
00:32:14Ooh.
00:32:14Ooh.
00:32:14Got it.
00:32:17It's so cold in here.
00:32:24I'm so cold.
00:32:25Can you have a shower with me?
00:32:27Okay.
00:32:29Never thought you would ask.
00:32:53I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:56Maybe.
00:32:57But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean,
00:33:02and I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:33:05I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:33:10I'm trying to control myself,
00:33:12but Josh is just, like, so hot,
00:33:14and we've been making out all day.
00:33:17You know, in the back of my mind,
00:33:19I do have some questions,
00:33:20and I do want to see more of him and more of his life,
00:33:23but, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:33:26So I bought some massage oil,
00:33:29and then I think there's some wine.
00:33:31Maybe we can have a glass and relax?
00:33:33I love it.
00:33:34Okay, perfect.
00:33:45Hey, are you coming?
00:33:47Yeah.
00:33:51Everything feels really natural.
00:33:53Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:56We're just drawn to each other,
00:33:57which is, you know, really exciting.
00:34:01We had an amazing day together,
00:34:02and I want to pamper Elise.
00:34:05Now's the time to pour some wine,
00:34:08you know, light a candle and, you know,
00:34:09show her that I've got skills.
00:34:16Wow.
00:34:18Look at this.
00:34:19Yeah.
00:34:23Welcome to Sydney.
00:34:25Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:34Feel like a massage?
00:34:35Yeah, I would love one.
00:34:36I'm going to light it up.
00:34:38This doesn't mean you're necessarily
00:34:39sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:34:41It's okay.
00:34:42I didn't expect her.
00:34:44Lay on your stomach.
00:34:46Okay.
00:34:54Is that all right?
00:34:55That's okay.
00:34:59Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:35:03You can go harder.
00:35:05Harder.
00:35:05Wait.
00:35:08We should go down lower.
00:35:11You're, like,
00:35:12trying to be, like,
00:35:12a little...
00:35:15respectful, but...
00:35:15Come on.
00:35:16Don't be a little bitch.
00:35:18Give me, like, everything.
00:35:19Slap on the ass?
00:35:20Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:35:21Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:35:24I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:35:26RIP me around a little bit here.
00:35:29Wow.
00:35:31It's a family show,
00:35:32I thought you said.
00:35:35Are you nervous?
00:35:37Yeah.
00:35:38Shaking.
00:35:39I can feel it.
00:35:40You reckon?
00:35:41Uh-huh.
00:35:42Uh-huh.
00:35:49All right, guys?
00:35:54What the are you doing?
00:35:58Oh, my God.
00:36:01The timing on me.
00:36:03Hi, Chris.
00:36:04Yeah, hi.
00:36:05Nice.
00:36:07Now it's a party.
00:36:08Now it's a party.
00:36:09I can't stop my mic out.
00:36:11I'll get another wine glass.
00:36:15I did not see that coming.
00:36:16I did.
00:36:18I don't f***ing half naked right now.
00:36:20But, you know,
00:36:21there's better places to give a naked massage in the house
00:36:23than the communal area as well.
00:36:25Half naked massage.
00:36:26Yeah, you know what?
00:36:26You're absolutely right.
00:36:27Yeah.
00:36:28But, um, you know,
00:36:29I think I was just blind with lust.
00:36:32Ew.
00:36:33You just have to say it's so weird for, bro.
00:36:39All right.
00:36:40Well, I'm gonna go to my room.
00:36:44Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:36:47This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:36:52Can you button me back up?
00:36:55I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:58Showing your skin to other people?
00:37:01Who is that not?
00:37:02Who would have...
00:37:03No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:37:04Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:37:06We know that.
00:37:06But, like, Chris f***ing walks in
00:37:09as your hands are groping my body
00:37:11and it's, like, such a sexual nice night.
00:37:13And, like...
00:37:13Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:37:15Not my finest hour.
00:37:18Sorry, baby.
00:37:19Well, that f***ing killed the mood.
00:37:21For now.
00:37:24Okay.
00:37:33Andres?
00:37:34Andres?
00:37:34Andres?
00:37:35Andres?
00:37:35Andres?
00:37:35Andres, andres, andres.
00:37:36Oh, this is the shower?
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:39Atom toilet.
00:37:41Oh, hell no!
00:37:42Yeah.
00:37:43I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction
00:37:47in front of my father.
00:37:49Paper for this, isn't it?
00:37:51What?
00:37:52This is paper to write on.
00:37:53You wipe...
00:37:54You wipe this...
00:37:55Yeah.
00:37:56Stop it.
00:38:20Wow, babe.
00:38:20This is where you grew up?
00:38:22Yeah.
00:38:23It's here.
00:38:35Hey.
00:38:37Yeah.
00:38:37Is that your rooster?
00:38:39No, not mine, but my neighbors.
00:38:41Oh, OK.
00:38:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:38:46I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:38:53Oh, this is a journey.
00:38:55Don't complain.
00:38:57But I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her.
00:39:04And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:39:09good person.
00:39:10And maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:39:16Oh, this is it?
00:39:17Yeah, this is my home.
00:39:20Oh, that's my sister.
00:39:22Oh, this is your sister.
00:39:25I need to meet her.
00:39:28She does look like you.
00:39:30She's very beautiful.
00:39:31Yeah, she is.
00:39:32Nice to meet you.
00:39:35And who is this?
00:39:37My brother.
00:39:38Oh, this is your brother?
00:39:39Yes.
00:40:09Oh, brother.
00:40:09Yes.
00:40:09Are you helping?
00:40:09Yes.
00:40:09Por favor.
00:40:09It's so nice to meet you.
00:40:10You look like my grandmother.
00:40:13I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:40:16You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:40:21Just when I'm thinking that should be everybody there, then there's more people coming.
00:40:26Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:40:31Bye-bye.
00:40:32Bye-bye.
00:40:40Bye-bye.
00:40:47My dad say you sleep down.
00:40:58Bye-bye.
00:41:01Bye-bye.
00:41:20Yeah.
00:41:20We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:41:25And there's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:41:29No.
00:41:30And where does this water come from?
00:41:32From the river?
00:41:34Like something under the ground.
00:41:37A whale?
00:41:38Yeah.
00:41:40He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:41:42OK.
00:41:44I smell something already.
00:41:46Out of the toilet.
00:41:48Oh, hell no!
00:41:50Yeah.
00:41:51All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:41:57Paper for the, uh, the knee.
00:42:01Wait, wait, wait.
00:42:02Yeah.
00:42:03This is paper to write on.
00:42:05You wipe this?
00:42:06Yeah.
00:42:07That's great.
00:42:08Stop it.
00:42:09That's how I.
00:42:09Sit, sit, sit.
00:42:11Finish.
00:42:12Oh, good.
00:42:13That's it.
00:42:15I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction
00:42:19in front of my father.
00:42:21But I'm not surprised.
00:42:24Ever since Rick came to Madagascar,
00:42:26he complains about everything.
00:42:30I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:42:34And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:42:38These are tight quarters right here, baby.
00:42:41It's kind of squished.
00:42:43It's hot.
00:42:44I hope it's not going to be this hot in those things.
00:42:46Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:42:49No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:42:51You are the only bougie here afraid of something.
00:42:54Oh, my God.
00:42:55Terrible.
00:42:59This is the living room?
00:43:01This is the living room?
00:43:02Yeah, this is the living room.
00:43:04I don't know.
00:43:05I don't know.
00:43:05I don't know.
00:43:07I don't know.
00:43:08I don't know.
00:43:09I don't know.
00:43:09What is this, like, a family meeting or something?
00:43:12Yeah.
00:43:12Yeah.
00:43:25So they approve that you are here, and it's going to give us a blessing.
00:43:33This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:43:39OK.
00:43:40In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there
00:43:46without your parents' acceptation.
00:43:49Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:43:53No.
00:43:53It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:44:01Just for a blessing.
00:44:02That's it.
00:44:03That's it, babe.
00:44:04It is a silver.
00:44:04Was that a bracelet?
00:44:05Yeah, a bracelet.
00:44:09I have a word.
00:44:12It's not a bracelet.
00:44:15Then, you want something to ask.
00:44:17I'm going forward to helping others.
00:44:23You would love the voice.
00:44:26Speaking of socialbots.
00:44:28I want a drink and take fresh.
00:44:31being a frequent app merchandising.
00:44:32Not only for the inner language of Mother-Kamutu.
00:44:38I worship the actress.
00:44:55Thank you. Thank you for this.
00:45:07Oh, is that his? Yeah, his breast.
00:45:09Oh, okay.
00:45:27Now he's a high barber.
00:45:35Until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:45:37until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:45:40I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:45:43I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:45:46he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:45:50Same-sex is a disgrace.
00:45:51This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:45:54Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us,
00:45:56or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:46:37I feel miserable.
00:46:42Numb.
00:46:45Really sad.
00:46:50But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:46:53I just don't know what happens from here.
00:46:59Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:47:02I told him everything.
00:47:03There are no more secrets.
00:47:06And he didn't react good.
00:47:08He called me evil.
00:47:10He didn't talk to me.
00:47:12He looked at me with disgust.
00:47:13He's not accepting who I am.
00:47:16So he slept on the sofa.
00:47:18I slept in the bedroom.
00:47:20I'm mad and I'm angry and I'm hurt.
00:47:25But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:47:30My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:47:33I'm cutting the trip short.
00:47:35There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again
00:47:38and that he's going to leave me.
00:47:39But until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:47:41until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:47:47Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:47:51I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore
00:47:54about me lying about still being married.
00:47:57But I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:48:01looks at me as Lisa,
00:48:02sees me as the person he fell in love with those months ago,
00:48:05that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:48:09I still want to be with Daniel.
00:48:11But now it's up to him.
00:48:19How do you feel?
00:48:21Lisa is full of lies.
00:48:23I don't think her lies is over
00:48:25because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:48:29Why did you call her evil?
00:48:31Because she's evil.
00:48:33Keeping all these secrets.
00:48:35I've been taking away
00:48:37of how to talk to my uncle
00:48:39about the one she told me already.
00:48:41That she has not been divorced.
00:48:44Not knowing that she has been in a relationship
00:48:46with her fellow women.
00:48:48She's been practicing same sex.
00:48:51So, I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:48:54It's against our tradition.
00:49:05Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:49:10Just allow me to be.
00:49:12Like we have to talk.
00:49:13You can't ignore me forever.
00:49:16Please.
00:49:18You need to give me time.
00:49:20I have to think.
00:49:24Can you grab your bags?
00:49:26I can't carry everything to the car.
00:49:31I'm not happy that the person I loved
00:49:33have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:49:37I'm not happy.
00:49:38Another love gone bad again.
00:49:41Bad again.
00:49:43Bad again.
00:49:44Bad again.
00:49:44But what obsessed me the most is the lies.
00:49:48I love Lisa.
00:49:50I want to forgive her.
00:49:51But after what she did,
00:49:53I don't trust her anymore.
00:49:55I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:49:57You're on your own.
00:49:59Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside.
00:50:01Driving you insane.
00:50:03They're the pain.
00:50:03I don't know if I can.
00:50:10And I will love touch my shoulder.
00:50:15Cuz it can't hurt anymore.
00:50:19Hurt anymore.
00:50:21That it's already done.
00:50:33so are you ever going to talk to me
00:50:37I am totally confused
00:50:40we dated for six months
00:50:41you have every opportunity to tell me
00:50:43whatever you want to tell me
00:50:45but you never did
00:50:46I was scared
00:50:48why didn't you tell my uncle
00:50:50because this is between me and you
00:50:53why does he need to know anything
00:50:56anything
00:50:56you called it anything
00:50:59same sex is a disgrace
00:51:01to any family that is involved in it
00:51:05it's against our tradition
00:51:08but it's not against American tradition
00:51:10but you are in my country
00:51:12you are in my tribe
00:51:13this is something that you and I cannot settle
00:51:17my uncle has to be involved
00:51:19are you promising me
00:51:21that you will not go back
00:51:22to practicing same sex
00:51:24Daniel if we're married
00:51:25I plan on marrying you
00:51:27for the rest of my life
00:51:28there's not going to be another woman
00:51:30if I'm with you
00:51:31I'm with you
00:51:33are you still thinking
00:51:35that there's a chance for us
00:51:36or is there no chance for us Daniel
00:51:38I don't know
00:51:41I don't think I will continue
00:51:42with this relationship
00:51:43until my uncle comes
00:51:46I should have told you
00:51:47I should have told you
00:51:48before I came
00:51:50and then you could have determined
00:51:51if you wanted to even
00:51:52be with me
00:51:53or not be with me
00:51:54and there wouldn't be
00:51:54all these emotions involved
00:51:56and there wouldn't be
00:51:57all this struggle
00:51:57I should have just told you
00:51:59I was scared to tell you
00:52:01and I was scared to lose you
00:52:05I'm scared of losing you
00:52:08this all comes down to his uncle
00:52:10when he finds out that I lied
00:52:12about me being with women
00:52:13for 21 years
00:52:14I'm worried that his uncle
00:52:17will never forgive me
00:52:18and never accept me
00:52:20and this relationship
00:52:21will be over
00:52:24I don't want to talk about this anymore
00:52:26until my uncle comes
00:52:27please
00:52:45don't help that
00:52:46ow
00:52:47that does not hurt
00:52:48that really hurts
00:52:49it's not happening
00:52:50that's how you know
00:52:51I'm so sexually attracted to you
00:52:52because I love
00:52:53popping your pimples
00:52:54I'm good
00:53:04Did you sleep well?
00:53:07I'm pretty tired
00:53:08I can't believe
00:53:09after six months
00:53:11I had sex
00:53:12I feel like
00:53:13I'm not a virgin anymore
00:53:15like I'm a little mad at myself
00:53:17that I should have waited longer
00:53:19but it felt right
00:53:21it was
00:53:23a lot of fun
00:53:24do you think Chris hurt us?
00:53:28possibly
00:53:30how much time did you have sex last night?
00:53:33twice
00:53:35it was just too hard
00:53:36to keep our hands off each other
00:53:38and just it felt
00:53:39like it flowed
00:53:40it was like missionary
00:53:41it was great
00:53:42and then like to the side
00:53:43was the other one
00:53:46did you get a glimpse
00:53:47of the picture of Chris above?
00:53:49I forgot that painting
00:53:50was in the room
00:53:51well you didn't even
00:53:51me doggy style
00:53:52so I couldn't even see
00:53:54the painting
00:53:54yesterday
00:53:55last night
00:53:56I feel like
00:53:59we're an old married couple
00:54:00like I'm so comfortable
00:54:02with you
00:54:02like usually like
00:54:04at home
00:54:05like if I like
00:54:06sleep with a guy
00:54:07like I just want to like
00:54:07go leave
00:54:09the next day
00:54:09but like
00:54:10I'm stuck with you
00:54:11and I'm here with you
00:54:12and then like
00:54:12I'm happy that I'm here
00:54:14and like
00:54:15I came
00:54:16you know
00:54:17I did
00:54:21Chris walking in
00:54:22when I'm on the couch
00:54:23getting massaged
00:54:23that definitely brought
00:54:25the mood down
00:54:25he had a lot of making up
00:54:27to do if he wanted
00:54:28to have sex
00:54:28and he definitely made it up
00:54:30it was everything
00:54:31I could have dreamed of
00:54:32and more
00:54:33everything about this man
00:54:34is so sexy
00:54:35except the uncircumcised
00:54:39there's a first
00:54:40it's uncircumcised
00:54:44it's a little weird
00:54:45it's like
00:54:45at you
00:54:46but
00:54:48also
00:54:49there's not like
00:54:50a dictionary
00:54:51on like
00:54:52how to use
00:54:52extra skin
00:54:53but
00:54:55like
00:54:55like
00:54:56I'm not complaining
00:54:57about it
00:54:58I can deal with that
00:55:01I'm glad
00:55:02that
00:55:04you felt comfortable
00:55:06very quickly
00:55:08I did
00:55:09I'm like
00:55:10one part of me
00:55:11is like super happy
00:55:12but the other part of me
00:55:12is like
00:55:13I should have
00:55:14I should
00:55:14I want to know more
00:55:15and then
00:55:16but whatever
00:55:17like I shouldn't be
00:55:17so hard on myself
00:55:18just ask anything you want
00:55:20do anything you want
00:55:21say anything you want
00:55:22yeah
00:55:23okay I'll start asking
00:55:24don't hate me
00:55:25okay go
00:55:27so
00:55:28I'm confused about
00:55:30this rental situation
00:55:31like
00:55:32a little annoying
00:55:33that Chris
00:55:33like walked in
00:55:34during that
00:55:34like
00:55:35why is he even
00:55:36here with you
00:55:37renting it
00:55:38in the first place
00:55:39because last I knew
00:55:40is you lived
00:55:41with your parents
00:55:42yep
00:55:44I mean look
00:55:45we were living together
00:55:46and then
00:55:46we sort of
00:55:48had to get out
00:55:48after we moved out
00:55:49I dropped my stuff
00:55:50to my parents
00:55:51and sort of
00:55:52stayed there for a week
00:55:53but then
00:55:53you know
00:55:54I um
00:55:57I've been living
00:55:58with Nat
00:56:00I've been staying
00:56:01at hers
00:56:01because you know
00:56:03she lives a lot
00:56:04closer to work
00:56:04so why
00:56:06I feel like
00:56:07I'm a detective
00:56:08and I'm trying
00:56:09to like navigate
00:56:10this like detective
00:56:10puzzle
00:56:11because you've
00:56:11confused me
00:56:12so much
00:56:14I know
00:56:15now
00:56:15we've talked
00:56:16on the phone
00:56:16a few times
00:56:17but living
00:56:18together
00:56:19I think
00:56:20their relationship
00:56:21is a little weird
00:56:22if it's so platonic
00:56:23and you're just
00:56:24friends
00:56:25why would you
00:56:26have to lie to me
00:56:26about it
00:56:26and tell me
00:56:27you're living
00:56:27with your parents
00:56:29this just smells
00:56:30fishy to me
00:56:32um
00:56:33I just
00:56:34I mean
00:56:35to me
00:56:35it's a little weird
00:56:37that you're living
00:56:38with a girl
00:56:39and like
00:56:40you talk about
00:56:42her a lot
00:56:42too
00:56:43and like
00:56:43I just
00:56:45I don't know
00:56:46like
00:56:46she's my friend
00:56:48you're here
00:56:49you're my
00:56:49you're my girlfriend
00:56:50so
00:56:50it's exactly
00:56:51the same as Chris
00:56:52I would treat
00:56:53exactly the same
00:56:54as I do Chris
00:56:55you know
00:56:55like
00:56:55do you guys
00:56:56like share a bathroom
00:56:56like does she
00:56:57see you naked
00:56:58like
00:56:58like how does that
00:56:59work
00:57:00why is that funny
00:57:01no it's funny
00:57:02because you know
00:57:03I get it
00:57:04that's you know
00:57:04I get why you'd
00:57:05ask those questions
00:57:06um
00:57:06yeah of course
00:57:07we share a bathroom
00:57:08but um
00:57:09she hasn't seen me
00:57:10naked
00:57:11her and I
00:57:11are just friends
00:57:12she's like
00:57:12you know
00:57:13she's a really
00:57:14good friend
00:57:15but you know
00:57:15she knows about you
00:57:16and that you're
00:57:17my partner
00:57:18and you know
00:57:19um
00:57:19I really want you
00:57:20guys to get along
00:57:20because it's
00:57:21important for me
00:57:21well you must feel
00:57:22some sort of way
00:57:23because you didn't
00:57:23tell me you lived
00:57:24with her
00:57:29maybe it was a part
00:57:30of me you know
00:57:31not wanting you
00:57:32to get you know
00:57:33jealous and back
00:57:34out of this
00:57:34before you got here
00:57:35so
00:57:35how do I know
00:57:36you're telling me
00:57:37the truth
00:57:38well that's your job
00:57:39to believe me
00:57:40and it's my job
00:57:41to prove it to you
00:57:44I'm supposed to meet
00:57:45Josh's friends tonight
00:57:47including that
00:57:48so I need to take
00:57:49advantage and get
00:57:50the whole picture
00:57:50of him
00:57:51I want to see
00:57:52how Joshua treats
00:57:53me in front of her
00:57:54see what she says
00:57:54to me
00:57:55if there's any
00:57:56skeletons in the
00:57:56closet that Joshua
00:57:57hasn't told me
00:57:58that I'm going
00:57:58to find out
00:57:59it's like
00:58:00what else do I
00:58:01not know
00:58:02that I should know
00:58:03I want to give
00:58:04Joshua the benefit
00:58:05of the doubt
00:58:06but I don't fully
00:58:07trust him after this
00:58:08at the end of the
00:58:09day like you know
00:58:10you're
00:58:10you know
00:58:11you're mine
00:58:12and you're my
00:58:13number one priority
00:58:14so
00:58:20how old are you
00:58:22oh
00:58:23I'm 52
00:58:2752
00:58:35they want babies
00:59:05that's a goat
00:59:06we call it
00:59:08I wish
00:59:09that's enough
00:59:10it's small enough
00:59:12there
00:59:26oh thank you
00:59:34I don't know
00:59:34I don't know if I can
00:59:35hold my legs
00:59:35like this
00:59:37I'm going to sit
00:59:38like your aunt
00:59:39I'm going to try that
00:59:47only women are allowed
00:59:48to sit like this
00:59:49she's not going to sit
00:59:51like this till the end
00:59:52just serving the food
00:59:55so far everything is
00:59:57seem pretty good
00:59:58with Rick and my family
01:00:00even though he's acting
01:00:02like an old man
01:00:06my father said
01:00:08you have to
01:00:09use to do it
01:00:11but I know my family
01:00:13is going to be asking
01:00:14him a lot of questions
01:00:16and I don't know
01:00:17how Rick
01:00:18is going to respond
01:00:22like
01:00:29what is the intention
01:00:31to me
01:00:33I look at her
01:00:35as being
01:00:37a prospective
01:00:39wife
01:00:40to be
01:00:42I love her very much
01:00:48and I'm hoping
01:00:49that she could
01:00:51possibly love me
01:00:52the same
01:00:54I love her very much
01:01:13how old are you
01:01:15oh
01:01:17I'm 52
01:01:31you have the same age
01:01:33as him
01:02:02you have married
01:02:05you have married
01:02:07yes I've been married
01:02:08twice
01:02:11but now I'm not married
01:02:16do you have a child
01:02:19yes
01:02:20I have two babies
01:02:22and then I have
01:02:24three adults
01:02:31five years
01:02:49they want babies
01:02:59Trish and I have been
01:03:00talking about
01:03:01talking about
01:03:02whether or not
01:03:02we're
01:03:04going to have
01:03:05kids
01:03:05and I'm just
01:03:06not ready to make
01:03:07that decision
01:03:08yet
01:03:29they want to make
01:03:35they want respect
01:03:35and
01:03:36And as a Malagasy, we get married and have a child.
01:04:10I understand that.
01:04:12And now that I see how important this is,
01:04:15it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:04:27And when are you going to decide it?
01:04:34Before, you know, I come to your father
01:04:38and ask for your hand in marriage, I will make a decision.
01:04:42OK.
01:04:52Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt
01:04:56about having kids.
01:04:59But now the heat is on, and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:05:04My feelings have grown so much for Trish
01:05:07that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.
01:05:13But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:05:17I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:05:24Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:05:26Yeah.
01:05:27I thought you knew that.
01:05:28I don't think that guys and girls can be friends
01:05:30without hooking up.
01:05:31I've tried that.
01:05:31It's never succeeded for me.
01:05:33Oh, no, I have so many guy friends.
01:05:35Let's put two and two together.
01:05:36Josh lied to me about living there.
01:05:38Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:05:41So are you jealous of me?
01:05:42Your face?
01:05:44snowball tuning in.
01:05:54What do you think about making own见?
01:05:57Purple?
01:06:04What you think about making a decision check for you?
01:06:04I sat on the
01:06:05show for reals.
01:06:05Or is there a point or a point.
01:06:07You said, why didn't you talk a question?
01:06:19I'm so frustrated with Javon, but it makes me feel good when I look good, so I'm just
01:06:26going to do my own thing.
01:06:30And we talk.
01:06:49I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never going to resolve this problem.
01:06:56I really can't do this submissive thing.
01:07:01I'm afraid that he's trying to change me.
01:07:06But I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just
01:07:12back out.
01:07:14We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:07:26Hey.
01:07:28Hey.
01:07:33I like your outfit.
01:07:37Thanks.
01:07:39I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:07:48Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:07:57I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:08:01I know you want to come off like, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:08:04You're going to hear me.
01:08:07It causes more fights than it solves.
01:08:12I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:08:18I am not the type of woman who would just say yes just to have peace.
01:08:25Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:08:29And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:08:36The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:08:42And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:08:47Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,
01:08:55I mean, we argue, my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:09:04I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:09:08I don't raise my voice at you and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:09:13I know you're not my dad.
01:09:15You know?
01:09:15The point is, you're hard on me.
01:09:19I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:09:22I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.
01:09:27And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:09:33I grew up with an abusive father.
01:09:38He died a long time ago.
01:09:41But from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:09:45I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:09:49If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:09:56But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:10:07I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was.
01:10:14And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant.
01:10:27OK?
01:10:29All right?
01:10:30Deal?
01:10:30All right.
01:10:31Come on.
01:10:32Be all right.
01:10:35Work it out, OK?
01:10:37Mm-mm!
01:10:38How you sweaty?
01:10:39Oh, let's go to the room where it's cool, man.
01:10:42Want to?
01:10:43Yeah.
01:10:43All right.
01:10:46I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:10:53Thank you so much, boo-boo.
01:10:58I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:11:05Oh, yeah?
01:11:08Yeah.
01:11:09Yeah.
01:11:10Take me a minute.
01:11:12It's ketchup.
01:11:31It's ketchup.
01:11:33Baby, do I look OK?
01:11:35Absolutely perfect.
01:11:38But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something?
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:44And guess what?
01:11:45What?
01:11:45I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:11:48So I have to carry it?
01:11:49Yeah.
01:11:50That's not great.
01:11:51Am I the one you wanted?
01:11:54Oh, oh.
01:11:56Am I the one you wanted?
01:11:58Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:12:01A little nipply.
01:12:04Yeah.
01:12:06Yeah.
01:12:08Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:12:11Um, is there upstairs?
01:12:13The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out in the city
01:12:18in the harbour.
01:12:19I am excited, but nervous more so.
01:12:22I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she was not happy about it.
01:12:26But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:12:35Are you falling?
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:37Falling for you.
01:12:39Oh.
01:12:40That was cool.
01:12:42Wow.
01:12:46This is, like, stunning.
01:12:47Like, not what I expected.
01:12:50It's nice, huh?
01:12:50It's beautiful.
01:12:52Thank you, babe.
01:12:54I love how you hold my purse.
01:12:58Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:13:00Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:13:03I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:13:06Is he going to be attentive?
01:13:07Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:13:08It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:13:11But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:13:13I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:13:15And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:13:18Oh, hi.
01:13:20Hello, hello, hello.
01:13:22Hello.
01:13:24Hello.
01:13:24Hello.
01:13:25Nice to meet you.
01:13:25Nice to meet you.
01:13:26How are you?
01:13:27Oh, you're a y'all person.
01:13:28I'm tall.
01:13:29No, I meant y'all, not tall.
01:13:31Hey, Liz.
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:33Steve.
01:13:33Nice to meet you, finally.
01:13:35Nice to meet you.
01:13:36And I know y'all.
01:13:37I know y'all.
01:13:39Ugh.
01:13:40Keep back.
01:13:41Keep back.
01:13:42What is it?
01:13:43Chewbacca?
01:13:45All right.
01:13:45Where are we all sitting?
01:13:46We're all sitting.
01:13:47We're all sitting, I guess.
01:13:49We'll get attacked by seagulls.
01:13:50Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.
01:13:54Just everyone, man.
01:13:55Yeah, sorry.
01:13:57This is great.
01:13:58Oh, my favorite people.
01:14:02I need this.
01:14:03Thank you so much.
01:14:05To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:07I don't know why that's so funny.
01:14:08Like, why are you, like, saying it with a smile?
01:14:11It's like...
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12Do you want to go for Elise?
01:14:16I can't.
01:14:20I've spoken to Elise before.
01:14:22And she comes across lovely.
01:14:25But she comes across very Miami.
01:14:27Like a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:14:29Yeah.
01:14:29Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:14:30Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:14:32Yeah, well...
01:14:32Very skimpy.
01:14:33Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:14:34But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:36Are you jet-lagged?
01:14:3816 hours.
01:14:39I'm so jet-lagged.
01:14:40I'm in this way.
01:14:41Guys, I don't lie.
01:14:42I don't lie.
01:14:43They're sitting too far away, so...
01:14:44Yeah, I know.
01:14:44Wrap up to this other bar?
01:14:46Yes, let's do it.
01:14:46Okay, go.
01:14:51Are we gonna go in here?
01:14:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:53We're gonna go in here.
01:14:53Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:14:55Yeah.
01:14:55Yeah.
01:14:56My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:15:01But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something, like, I'm
01:15:08not understanding?
01:15:08Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but, like, I think it's weird.
01:15:12I think it's so weird.
01:15:15Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:15:19Okay.
01:15:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:15:23I can make you love Sydney.
01:15:24I would love that.
01:15:26Are you staying in Sydney?
01:15:30I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:15:35Yep.
01:15:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:15:39Yeah.
01:15:40I thought you knew that.
01:15:40Yeah, he was staying with you for a little bit.
01:15:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:15:48Like, how did this happen?
01:15:49He was kind of between places, and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:15:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:15:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:16:00And I needed comfort.
01:16:03I needed someone there to...
01:16:04Support.
01:16:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:16:06So, it worked out well.
01:16:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:16:15There's a lot to unfold.
01:16:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:16:19I've tried that.
01:16:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:16:20I have so many guy friends.
01:16:22Oh, yay.
01:16:22I disagree as well.
01:16:22I have so many guy friends.
01:16:25And this is probably Australia.
01:16:26It's a culture thing.
01:16:28It's a culture thing.
01:16:29It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:30It's a bit more laid back.
01:16:31We're a bit more easier about it.
01:16:33Yeah.
01:16:33We trust more, I think.
01:16:35We trust.
01:16:36Yeah.
01:16:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:16:40I have a lot of male friends.
01:16:41Yes.
01:16:42I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:16:43He's my brother to me.
01:16:45So, I find it very weird.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47I think of Eliza and insecurities.
01:16:49Yeah.
01:16:49And hopefully, they'll grow together and go through that.
01:16:52Yeah.
01:16:52And that's how trust is built.
01:16:57I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:17:03honest.
01:17:08So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:17:12I feel uneasy about it.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16Well, look, I get it.
01:17:17And hopefully, that can change, you know.
01:17:19I think it's more of the fact that you're living with her.
01:17:21Yeah.
01:17:22I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:17:24Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:17:26Yeah.
01:17:27I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:17:31Right.
01:17:31You have been generous.
01:17:33I'm being generous.
01:17:33I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:37Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:17:39I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:17:43No.
01:17:43No, no, no, no, no.
01:17:45No, I don't.
01:17:46No, that's...
01:17:46No.
01:17:47See, that offends me.
01:17:54She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:17:57So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.
01:17:59But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:18:01Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:18:03I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:18:07Let's put two and two together.
01:18:09Joshua's struggling financially.
01:18:11He's lied to me about living there.
01:18:15Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:18:17I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:18:20That's disgusting and weird.
01:18:22Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:18:30Why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:32If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:35I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:38I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:18:40If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:18:47Sorry.
01:18:48I'm so sorry, Sheen.
01:18:54Oh, my God.
01:19:04So that was eyeopening.
01:19:06Yeah.
01:19:07I know.
01:19:17It's just so much information all at once.
01:19:21Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:19:24Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer,
01:19:26and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:19:32I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months
01:19:35to get Sheena to the United States and everything figured out.
01:19:38But now, after hearing that my disability payments
01:19:41that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take years,
01:19:46this is the biggest setback ever.
01:19:52There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:19:55I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:19:59Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:20:04But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:20:08Plus, you're going to add another two or three years
01:20:10while you find a job and save enough money for the K-1 visa.
01:20:17I don't know.
01:20:20I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:20:24But why do we have to live in your country?
01:20:26That's my good question.
01:20:31It's easier for me to stay here.
01:20:33You got a Filipino visa.
01:20:35And I'm a professional here.
01:20:37If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:20:41Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:20:44I think that's the best option for us.
01:20:51I still have my worries about that, though.
01:20:54With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:20:58And I know I am fighting with my mom.
01:21:01But I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:21:07What makes me upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:21:12I understand that.
01:21:13But what about me?
01:21:15I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:21:18If he happened to come back to his country,
01:21:21we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:21:24So I will be the one who's stranded.
01:21:26And I will be hurt as well.
01:21:29Reach out, fly low, when I'm thinking.
01:21:39I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:21:43I was expecting you that I could be with my partner
01:21:47for the last seven years.
01:21:54I don't know.
01:22:01I don't want to be apart from you that long.
01:22:05And I don't want to...
01:22:08I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:15Sorry.
01:22:16I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:22:25Now that I know that I can possibly stay here
01:22:28and be with Sheena every single day,
01:22:32I feel kind of stuck.
01:22:34Any option I make,
01:22:35I'm either going to hurt the woman I love
01:22:37or my mother.
01:22:42This...
01:22:43This is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:22:47She's my second half.
01:22:48I know she's the one for me.
01:22:52And just being with her,
01:22:53being able to talk, joke, have everything,
01:22:57I don't want to lose that.
01:22:58I won't give it away.
01:23:03I won't keep trying.
01:23:06I won't give it away.
01:23:15I won't keep trying.
01:23:18I'll just be in the last half.
01:23:19Um...
01:23:19Babe.
01:23:20I did not know.
01:23:22Rolling on a canter here.
01:23:23Could me sexy.
01:23:24I'm so hungry.
01:23:27Them pregnancy clearings.
01:23:28Mm.
01:23:29I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:23:32How would you feel if I was?
01:23:38Tell me you love her.
01:23:40If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
01:23:43Dude, you made a move. You blow it.
01:23:45No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:23:47Laura made a move on me.
01:23:49I am thinking about sharing my life,
01:23:51and you are keeping secrets from me.
01:23:55This is betrayal.
01:24:03This water is cold.
01:24:05You can survive.
01:24:08I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying
01:24:10and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:24:24Going to Casablanca right now to see Muhammad,
01:24:26it's kind of surreal.
01:24:27I mean, I have my engagement ring Muhammad gave to me when he proposed.
01:24:33Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:24:37But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:24:42My heart's racing.
01:24:49Why did you just leave?
01:24:52So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:24:55So you just walk away from me?
01:24:58After what I found out about Nat,
01:25:01my mind is just in so many directions,
01:25:03and I'm freaking out.
01:25:05I don't know what the f**k is going on right now.
01:25:10I want to go home.
01:25:15She has gotten married five times.
01:25:18And from 21 years,
01:25:20she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:25:24Why am I hearing this one now?
01:25:27This is an abomination.
01:25:28No.
01:25:29I can't help with my past.
01:25:31I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:25:35I can't believe you.
01:25:37Because of this,
01:25:38the marriage will be over.
01:25:41I can't breathe.
01:25:43I can't breathe.
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