00:00I'm Arorae, this is my fiancee, Raji.
00:03Our height difference makes people uncomfortable.
00:06Here you go, my love. Step up.
00:09People say that they feel weirded out by height,
00:13that he looks like, you know, my dad and I'm his daughter.
00:17I'm 23 and he's 36 and I don't see nothing wrong with that.
00:20I'm a grown woman.
00:22People assume, based on my style, that I'm childish,
00:25that I want to be a little girl.
00:27I think they only say that because I'm short
00:29and because standing next to him, they think he's my dad.
00:33We met in 2023.
00:36We met at Starbucks.
00:37I had a Lolita dress on and he saw that I was reading Naruto.
00:43And I was actually wearing a Naruto hoodie at the time too.
00:47Walked over, introduced myself, and from there we just clicked.
00:50The height, obviously he got height on him.
00:53Because I'm short, I could not not be in a height difference relationship,
00:58but I never did somebody that's 6'2".
01:00It is a very interesting experience, I would say the least,
01:04because when we're walking down the street, people would say,
01:08Oh my God, she is so cute. Is that your daughter?
01:10And I'm just like, daughter? Um, ma'am?
01:14She's not my daughter. She's my fiance.
01:16I didn't even notice her height until she actually got up.
01:18I thought he was going to be like, wow, you are an ant, but...
01:24Honestly, I didn't even notice her height. I just noticed her fashion.
01:27So guys, this is our room, our pink princess room.
01:31This is all of my anime figures.
01:33And this is our cars.
01:36Yes, we have so many cars.
01:38I love everything just really girly and cute.
01:41I describe my personal style very J-fashion.
01:45J-fashion is Japanese fashion.
01:47Very, like, 2000s Paris Hilton.
01:50Anything pink, sparkly, glittery is definitely me.
01:55I started dressing like this when I was a kid.
01:57My mom put me in, like, the big dresses with the sparkly bows.
02:01And as I got older, I was like, wait a minute, I don't want to be born.
02:05I love the rainbows. I love the glitter and the sparkle.
02:08We definitely love the same things.
02:11We both love Japanese culture.
02:13We both love anime.
02:15And we both love Legos and Disney.
02:18I love Princess Tiana. She's my favorite princess.
02:21She is the first black Disney princess.
02:23And, yeah, I would say that she's such a big inspiration for me.
02:26I just love Tiana.
02:28He actually proposed to me at Disney World in Orlando.
02:31He got me a Hello Kitty ring because, you know, I love Hello Kitty.
02:35I was so shocked. Everybody was clapping.
02:37I was crying. I was like, help me! Oh, my God!
02:40It was a great moment.
02:42Some comments that I've received online is,
02:45oh, she looks 12.
02:46That is strange because I'm 23, not 12.
02:50Weirdos, this isn't love.
02:52She's probably using him for his money.
02:54Which is completely ridiculous because you haven't even asked me for anything since we've been together.
02:59I would say the worst reaction we had to deal with
03:02My grandfather's one day said that we were doing age play.
03:05And I was like this helpless little girl.
03:07And we were just like, that's strange.
03:10Like, just because he's tall and I'm short.
03:13And I dress in all pink and colorful clothes and colorful hair.
03:17Looks like he can be your great granddaddy.
03:19It's 2026 checking back to reality.
03:23Hmm.
03:24You don't look 50 plus to me.
03:26And you don't look like my granddaddy.
03:28Who leaves comments like this?
03:30True.
03:31Very, very insecure people.
03:33I know who I am.
03:35And I know I'm not a child.
03:37I know I'm a grown woman.
03:38And I love this man.
03:40And he makes me happy.
03:41He adores me.
03:43And I adore him.
03:45It's just great to know that I have somebody by my side that actually accepts me and sees me and
03:50hears me and wants to listen and not shut me out.
03:53I'll never shut you out.
03:55No.
03:55As long as you understand one another and love being around each other, there shouldn't be a judgment on who
04:02you love or why you love or when you love.
04:04Like you said, mind your business.
04:06Like this is our love.
04:07This is who we are.
04:09I'm not a child.
04:10I'm a grown woman.
04:11I love being who I am.
04:14I love being a princess.
04:16Beautiful princess.
04:17And if anybody don't like it, step your cookies up.
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