Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 33

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00:00:00So excited to show David around, my hometown.

00:00:05When the couples took off across the country,

00:00:08they tasted married life beyond the experiment.

00:00:12You've always told me, don't come here to Sydney for me.

00:00:15Well, I'm open to moving now.

00:00:17And for Stephen...

00:00:18Must admit, I kind of like holding a rod and getting kissed.

00:00:21He gave Rachel the reassurance she needed

00:00:24to begin their next chapter together.

00:00:26What I see is a life outside the experiment.

00:00:30It really reaffirms the feelings are real, the feelings are neutral.

00:00:35My feelings are, like, they're pretty gone.

00:00:39Emotions ran high for some...

00:00:41You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it.

00:00:45And despite winning over her nearest and dearest...

00:00:48David is everything that you've asked for.

00:00:50I don't know, I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it.

00:00:52David still felt he wasn't able to be the calm to Alyssa's storm.

00:00:57She still sees negatives.

00:00:58There's nothing else I can do.

00:01:00What's that?

00:01:01Mine's a pink.

00:01:02Is it your ex's or something?

00:01:03And on the Gold Coast...

00:01:05I see you being pressured.

00:01:06Like, you need to be able to voice your concerns.

00:01:07Are you scared about her reaction?

00:01:09Pretty much.

00:01:10Scott struggled to voice his issues with Gia.

00:01:13I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells.

00:01:15You know what I mean?

00:01:15It's gone.

00:01:16No, no, what I'm saying is, like...

00:01:17I didn't know you wanted to argue today.

00:01:19Tonight.

00:01:22Now, in just a short time, you have one of the biggest decisions that you're going to have to make.

00:01:27Whether or not you can take this relationship into the real world and make it a success.

00:01:34Welcome.

00:01:35It's the last commitment ceremony of the experiment.

00:01:39This is a very pivotal night.

00:01:41And after two months of marriage, uncomfortable truths will be exposed.

00:01:46I want a partner who can have a constructive conversation with me about an issue.

00:01:51I can't mind reading.

00:01:52It's not mind reading.

00:01:53It's not mind reading.

00:01:53Oh, my gosh.

00:01:53I can't.

00:01:54I cannot.

00:01:55Boom.

00:01:55David reveals what's really going on in his relationship with Alyssa.

00:01:59You did mention I was a weak man.

00:02:01She called you a weak man?

00:02:03Yeah.

00:02:03So that's a problem.

00:02:05No, no, no.

00:02:06Do not blame me.

00:02:07After weeks of giving her heart to Danny...

00:02:10I'm not going to walk down to final vows with someone that's a maybe about me.

00:02:15Is this the night Beck finally calls it quits?

00:02:18I'm not doing it.

00:02:20I'm not.

00:02:22And then...

00:02:23What I'm seeing here is fake.

00:02:25I'm going to call you out.

00:02:27I've seen it the entire experiment.

00:02:29If you don't let us in, you're not going to last.

00:02:32It's Scott's moment of truth.

00:02:35I'm getting a bit nervous.

00:02:40What I'm going to talk about tonight is I don't want you to be upset.

00:02:44What I'm going to talk about is feelings where I...

00:02:49Take a breath.

00:02:52Breathe.

00:03:10It's the morning of the final commitment ceremony.

00:03:14Yummy.

00:03:16Get some caffeine.

00:03:18Cheers.

00:03:18And after eight weeks in the experiment,

00:03:21tonight marks the last time the couples will come face-to-face with the experts.

00:03:27How'd you sleep?

00:03:28Yeah, I slept really well.

00:03:29Really, really well.

00:03:30I love our little midnight make-out sessions.

00:03:34Some people have chats.

00:03:35We have make-out sessions.

00:03:36Yeah.

00:03:37I love it.

00:03:38This week, during homestays, the couples were tested

00:03:41as they prepare for a life outside the experiment.

00:03:45It was good.

00:03:46I'm just enjoying the last couple of weeks.

00:03:48Stella and Philip continue to evolve as a couple,

00:03:51having said, I love you.

00:03:55Rachel and Stephen have been slower to open their hearts.

00:03:59But day by day, their connection grows.

00:04:02It was really good to tell everyone about our homestays

00:04:05and even reflecting on it after last night's dinner party.

00:04:10Do I dare say that we're one of the strongest in the group now?

00:04:15Dare to say it, babes, because I've been saying it.

00:04:19Yes.

00:04:20Oh.

00:04:22For Alyssa and David,

00:04:25homestays has exposed cracks in their relationship.

00:04:30I feel like David and I have been a strong couple throughout this experiment.

00:04:35I still believe we are, because we have each other's backs.

00:04:38It's just hard.

00:04:39Be careful.

00:04:39It's just...

00:04:39You know, we have been honest with each other about a lot of things.

00:04:42But since homestays, it's taken a turn.

00:04:46We have had deep conversations, big conversations,

00:04:49and David's maybe held back from saying what he really felt in that moment

00:04:53or questioning what I meant in that moment.

00:04:55And now, towards the end of the experiment, it's all coming out.

00:04:59How are you feeling?

00:05:01Um, I'm feeling...

00:05:06..like...

00:05:07..we've got a lot going on right now at the moment.

00:05:09Just, uh, we're not really understanding each other.

00:05:12Yeah.

00:05:13I feel like we have a lot to unpack and a lot to, you know, break down.

00:05:17And, yeah, there are some cracks.

00:05:19And, you know, the pressure of the experiment ending,

00:05:22it's definitely taken its toll on me.

00:05:27I felt in homestay that I'm like,

00:05:29OK, he's keen to move to Adelaide.

00:05:31Wait, I haven't met his family.

00:05:32Wait, I haven't met his friends.

00:05:33Oh, wait, I don't even know he's got multiple jobs.

00:05:36Like, I don't know if he's stable.

00:05:37I want to have a family.

00:05:38Like, this is me spiralling, because I'm like,

00:05:40this is too good to be true.

00:05:42Obviously, homestays is quite late,

00:05:44but it's brought up a lot of other things

00:05:45that we should have dealt with a long time ago.

00:05:47Like, have the conversations if you don't agree with something,

00:05:51or have the conversation, or ask the questions

00:05:52when you don't understand something that I've said.

00:05:55Well, all I'm going to say is...

00:05:56We should have gone there, but we haven't,

00:05:58and I haven't felt, like, challenged enough.

00:06:02You need to break through that softness and be strong with me,

00:06:05because I want to be a team with you

00:06:06and talk things through and, um, you know, like...

00:06:10It's so frustrating to sit here trying to express my side of the story,

00:06:15and I can hardly get a word in.

00:06:17I feel like there are holes.

00:06:18I think there was a...

00:06:19All I'll say is...

00:06:20There are cracks.

00:06:21There was a bit of, like...

00:06:23The last couple of days, what I've been struggling with

00:06:26is I haven't been as, like, willing to have those...

00:06:30Hard conversations.

00:06:31Hard conversations with you about how I was feeling.

00:06:33But, babe, like, if you don't talk to me about your reservations,

00:06:36that's not healthy, babe.

00:06:38Yeah.

00:06:39Talk to me.

00:06:40We need to voice.

00:06:42And that's what I need in this relationship,

00:06:44and that's...

00:06:44You're not fulfilling that need for me.

00:06:46And I believe that it's right to put it all out of the table.

00:06:50I don't ever want to have to hold back.

00:06:52I don't think it's that you hold back,

00:06:54but I think one thing about you is you hold on too much...

00:06:57And then, babe, you...

00:06:58Babe.

00:07:02You're spiralling within yourself.

00:07:03No, I'm not.

00:07:04Are you done?

00:07:05You know what I mean?

00:07:05I can't even get a word in.

00:07:08I feel like it's a slap in the face.

00:07:11Alyssa says she wants a hard, challenging conversation,

00:07:14and she's wanted this for a long time.

00:07:16But it's not just like that with Alyssa.

00:07:18It's not.

00:07:19Respect is only on her terms,

00:07:20and the relationship only goes her way or the highway.

00:07:24So that is a big deal break for me as well.

00:07:26It is the first time where I feel like

00:07:28both of us are very disconnected

00:07:32a lot more than we ever have

00:07:34going into a commitment ceremony.

00:07:36And tonight, I'm just going to be completely honest

00:07:38because I've hit my limit,

00:07:40and I'm not going to, like, hold back.

00:07:43I'm just going to put it all on the table.

00:07:49As for Danny,

00:07:51his controversial views

00:07:53resulted in a tense argument with Beck

00:07:55at last night's dinner party.

00:07:58It makes you feel like a bit of a bitch

00:08:00moving in with a woman.

00:08:02What are you on about?

00:08:04He's talking about feeling emasculated

00:08:06if she was the one who owned the house.

00:08:10F*** me!

00:08:14And this morning,

00:08:15they are still struggling to resolve the issue.

00:08:18People can feel how they want to feel.

00:08:20You know what I mean?

00:08:21Whether other people agree with it or not,

00:08:23like, it's not up to them.

00:08:25This is how I feel.

00:08:26I feel like moving in with a woman

00:08:28just doesn't feel very manly of me,

00:08:31you know?

00:08:32Yeah.

00:08:33You don't understand.

00:08:34I do understand.

00:08:35I get what you're saying.

00:08:37But I suppose

00:08:39if we're talking about

00:08:41creating a life together

00:08:42after this experiment,

00:08:44then

00:08:45you're going to have to get over that.

00:08:49Am I right or am I right?

00:08:51The funny thing is with Bec,

00:08:53when she feels a kind of way,

00:08:55it's a completely valid feeling.

00:08:56That's how she feels.

00:08:58But when I say

00:08:59it makes me feel this way,

00:09:01oh, no, but, no,

00:09:02but that's not right.

00:09:03It's not actually to do

00:09:04with you being a woman.

00:09:05I wouldn't move in with anyone

00:09:06and just, like,

00:09:08freeload often.

00:09:09You pay the bills,

00:09:10I'll pay the mortgage,

00:09:10we'll be done.

00:09:11Easy.

00:09:12Finito.

00:09:14Other than that,

00:09:15we had a great night.

00:09:17It's, uh, yeah.

00:09:18And whilst Bec and Denny

00:09:20continue to disagree,

00:09:22our other couples

00:09:23are preparing

00:09:24for the final commitment ceremony

00:09:26of the experiment.

00:09:28You look great.

00:09:30You too.

00:09:31Yep.

00:09:33Yeah.

00:09:33Very pure, you know?

00:09:35Yeah.

00:09:36Yeah.

00:09:36Very appropriate.

00:09:37Very appropriate.

00:09:39As our couples

00:09:40face the experts

00:09:41for the last time,

00:09:43a defining choice awaits.

00:09:47Tonight,

00:09:48they must decide.

00:09:50Stay in the experiment

00:09:52through to final vows

00:09:54or walk away

00:09:56from their marriages

00:09:57for good.

00:10:01For Scott,

00:10:02the pressure is mounting.

00:10:04He feels it is now

00:10:06or never

00:10:06to reveal his true feelings

00:10:08to his bride,

00:10:09Gia.

00:10:10Final commitment ceremony

00:10:12tonight.

00:10:13Crazy, isn't it?

00:10:15Yeah, can you believe

00:10:16that we've made it

00:10:17this far?

00:10:20Yeah, I definitely

00:10:21didn't imagine it.

00:10:25I do think

00:10:26we had a great week.

00:10:28I don't think

00:10:29we're going to have

00:10:29too much feedback tonight.

00:10:30I think

00:10:32it was great.

00:10:32Like, I can't fault

00:10:33homestays.

00:10:34It went really well.

00:10:35Positive,

00:10:36good vibes, you know?

00:10:37So, hopefully

00:10:38not getting grilled

00:10:39hard tonight.

00:10:41I feel like

00:10:42I've been hit a bit

00:10:43throughout this experiment

00:10:44from the experts.

00:10:46Yeah.

00:10:47Yeah.

00:10:52What else?

00:10:56I get nervous

00:10:56going to the

00:10:58commitment ceremony

00:10:59because

00:11:00I still can't be

00:11:01100% myself

00:11:02and I feel like

00:11:03I just can't have

00:11:04a voice sometimes

00:11:06because she thinks

00:11:06we're going to have

00:11:07an argument

00:11:07and I want her

00:11:08to be able to understand

00:11:08that we need to speak

00:11:09anecdotally

00:11:09knowing that

00:11:10if I have a concern

00:11:11or she has a concern

00:11:12we can talk

00:11:12and it's not going to

00:11:13lead to a disaster.

00:11:14You've got to be able

00:11:15to communicate.

00:11:16So, you ready for tonight?

00:11:19I don't like

00:11:19commitment ceremonies,

00:11:20you know that?

00:11:21Yeah.

00:11:22I feel like

00:11:23we're at the point

00:11:23where, you know,

00:11:25we're almost

00:11:25falling in love.

00:11:27Yeah.

00:11:28Then I feel like

00:11:29if she feels more

00:11:30than me

00:11:30and she doesn't

00:11:31get anything back

00:11:31from me

00:11:32she'll start spiralling

00:11:33and start saying

00:11:34harshful things to me.

00:11:36Very harshful things.

00:11:39And so then

00:11:40I feel like

00:11:41I can't talk

00:11:42and I go quiet

00:11:44and I go flat.

00:11:46That retracts me

00:11:48every time

00:11:48and that's what

00:11:49pushes me away

00:11:49from falling in love

00:11:50and I don't think

00:11:51she understands that.

00:11:52So you've just got to

00:11:53look at the positives,

00:11:54you know?

00:11:57Personally,

00:11:58I'd love to speak up

00:11:59and share everything

00:12:00because it's good

00:12:00to get feedback.

00:12:02But there's another

00:12:03side of me

00:12:04where I feel like

00:12:04I want to protect my wife.

00:12:06I don't want to feel

00:12:07unstable, upset

00:12:08or, you know,

00:12:09get nervous

00:12:09or have a breakdown.

00:12:11So, you know,

00:12:11I think how's she

00:12:12going to react

00:12:12if I say these things?

00:12:14All right.

00:12:15See you in there.

00:12:18Bye.

00:12:18Sometimes I'm like,

00:12:19well, I'm just

00:12:20not going to talk about it.

00:12:22I'm just in the air.

00:12:23I don't know what to do.

00:12:25Bye.

00:12:27Bye.

00:12:46Hello.

00:12:47Hi.

00:12:48How are you guys?

00:12:49Very well.

00:12:50Welcome.

00:12:51Hello, guys.

00:12:52Hi.

00:12:53Hello.

00:12:53Good evening.

00:12:54Welcome.

00:12:54Hi.

00:12:58Hi.

00:13:17Hello, ladies.

00:13:18Hello.

00:13:19I'm Chris.

00:13:20Hi.

00:13:28You OK?

00:13:29Yeah.

00:13:30Welcome, everybody,

00:13:31to the very final

00:13:33commitment ceremony

00:13:34of this experiment.

00:13:36Now, this is a very,

00:13:38very pivotal night

00:13:40because it is

00:13:41the very last time

00:13:42that you get to sit

00:13:44in front of the experts

00:13:45and to hear the feedback

00:13:47that we have for you.

00:13:50Now, in just a short time,

00:13:52you have one of the biggest decisions

00:13:53that you're going to have to make,

00:13:54whether or not

00:13:55you can take this relationship

00:13:57in the experiment

00:13:58into the real world

00:14:00and make it a success.

00:14:02And as we know as experts,

00:14:04if you are not

00:14:06completely vulnerable

00:14:07with your partner

00:14:08at this stage

00:14:09of the experiment,

00:14:10then your relationship

00:14:12will crumble

00:14:14on the outside.

00:14:15It will not last.

00:14:19Now, with that being said,

00:14:21let's get our first couple up.

00:14:27Alyssa and David.

00:14:30applause

00:14:38Hello.

00:14:40Hello.

00:14:43So,

00:14:44how are things?

00:14:46Um,

00:14:47you know what?

00:14:48Last time

00:14:48we were on the couch,

00:14:50things were

00:14:51moving in the right direction.

00:14:52They still are,

00:14:54but we do have

00:14:55some hiccups

00:14:55that we're trying

00:14:57to work through

00:14:57at the moment.

00:14:58Okay.

00:14:59Um,

00:15:01obviously I'll start

00:15:01by saying,

00:15:02you know,

00:15:03Alyssa is an amazing girl,

00:15:05but personally,

00:15:06I feel like

00:15:08I have,

00:15:09you know,

00:15:09carried a lot

00:15:10of the emotional weight

00:15:11in the relationship.

00:15:12This is just how I feel.

00:15:15What do you mean

00:15:16when you say

00:15:16carry most of the emotional weight?

00:15:19I feel like

00:15:20there has been times

00:15:20where I personally

00:15:22put my emotions aside

00:15:25just to make sure

00:15:25that there was

00:15:27just peace.

00:15:29And this is a thing

00:15:30where, like,

00:15:31I have tried

00:15:32to bring something up

00:15:33at the start

00:15:34of the relationship

00:15:34to Alyssa,

00:15:35and I felt like

00:15:36she was not

00:15:36receptive to it.

00:15:38So what that

00:15:39ended up doing

00:15:40for me

00:15:40was making me

00:15:41be more cautious

00:15:43of bringing stuff

00:15:43up to her.

00:15:44Mm-hmm.

00:15:48It was more

00:15:49the reaction of,

00:15:50is it going to

00:15:50become an argument

00:15:51that was going

00:15:52to go out of hand?

00:15:54So what happened

00:15:56with all of that

00:15:57emotion

00:15:57as you described it?

00:15:59If you weren't

00:16:00expressing that

00:16:00to Alyssa,

00:16:01what were you doing

00:16:02with it?

00:16:06Well,

00:16:08anything little

00:16:08that I didn't

00:16:09really care about

00:16:10didn't really affect me,

00:16:11so I'd brush over it.

00:16:12But what happened

00:16:13in homestays

00:16:14was,

00:16:15I feel like

00:16:15it triggered me.

00:16:16Okay.

00:16:17I was saying

00:16:18Adelaide is a

00:16:18livable place,

00:16:19but I felt like

00:16:20Alyssa was being

00:16:21a bit negative

00:16:24about the move.

00:16:25I feel like

00:16:26she was pointing out

00:16:27all of the reasons

00:16:27why it won't work,

00:16:28which are all valid.

00:16:29We all know

00:16:30that there is things

00:16:30to work out

00:16:31in the real world.

00:16:32But it felt like,

00:16:34for me,

00:16:34she was too in her head

00:16:36about it,

00:16:36that it's affecting

00:16:37me right now.

00:16:42Do you know why?

00:16:43Because I'm feeling

00:16:44very frustrated

00:16:45at this part

00:16:46of the experiment.

00:16:47This is our last

00:16:48couch session

00:16:49and I'm feeling

00:16:50like there has been

00:16:50some holdback

00:16:52and some of our

00:16:53couch sessions

00:16:53could have been

00:16:54things that we could

00:16:54be working through

00:16:55if we had more

00:16:56open conversations.

00:16:58I feel like he doesn't

00:16:59want to have, like,

00:17:00conflict.

00:17:01But I feel like there

00:17:02is healthy conflict

00:17:03resolution.

00:17:04Otherwise, my

00:17:04relationship in my

00:17:05eyes, this is too

00:17:06good to be true.

00:17:08Can I just stay?

00:17:10I want a partner

00:17:11who can have a

00:17:13constructive conversation

00:17:14with me about an issue.

00:17:16But a partner that

00:17:18shuts you down and

00:17:19tells you what they're

00:17:19saying is Bible,

00:17:21it is an issue.

00:17:22I haven't actually

00:17:23spoken down on you

00:17:23in a bad way.

00:17:25Like, I don't...

00:17:25Well, there's

00:17:26things you've said.

00:17:27I don't want to,

00:17:28I don't want to,

00:17:29like...

00:17:29Well, an example

00:17:30could be helpful

00:17:31for Alyssa here.

00:17:33Well, she has...

00:17:34You did mention

00:17:35I was a weak man

00:17:36at one point.

00:17:37She called you

00:17:38a weak man?

00:17:39Yeah.

00:17:42So that's a problem.

00:17:58Well, she has...

00:17:59You did mention

00:18:01I was a weak man

00:18:01at one point.

00:18:03She called you

00:18:04a weak man?

00:18:05Yeah.

00:18:08So that's a problem.

00:18:15What was the context

00:18:16around that?

00:18:18It was in one of our

00:18:19talks about, like,

00:18:20she's got assets,

00:18:21she's ahead in life,

00:18:23and she wants a guy

00:18:24that can match that.

00:18:25So financially weak.

00:18:26Yeah.

00:18:27How did it feel

00:18:28when she said that?

00:18:29Well, I just thought,

00:18:30where's this coming from?

00:18:31And the thing about me

00:18:33is, like, I pick

00:18:34what I want to, like,

00:18:35get upset about,

00:18:36and I didn't.

00:18:37Maybe I should have

00:18:38combated that

00:18:39at the time.

00:18:44Alyssa,

00:18:44what was going on

00:18:45for you?

00:18:46What did you want

00:18:46to achieve

00:18:46from saying that

00:18:47to him?

00:18:49I was getting frustrated

00:18:50because I'm wanting

00:18:51more from David.

00:18:52I'm wanting to see

00:18:53more from him,

00:18:55and I feel like

00:18:56I want to be strong

00:18:57together as a couple.

00:18:58I think where I'm

00:18:59struggling is

00:19:00she wants me

00:19:01to be strong

00:19:02on her timeline,

00:19:03and that's where

00:19:04it feels like

00:19:05it is your way

00:19:07or you're not happy.

00:19:10David,

00:19:10do you feel like

00:19:11you're enough

00:19:12for Alyssa?

00:19:13I feel like

00:19:13I'm 100% enough.

00:19:17Do you think

00:19:18she thinks

00:19:18you're enough?

00:19:19I think she does,

00:19:20but the questions

00:19:21that I am getting

00:19:22are, like,

00:19:23they are confusing me.

00:19:24So what are these

00:19:25questions that

00:19:26are confusing you?

00:19:27Well,

00:19:28the first thing

00:19:29is she's wondering,

00:19:30like, you know,

00:19:30energy, like,

00:19:32in five years

00:19:32or whatever,

00:19:33is that going to be

00:19:33enough to sustain her?

00:19:34And she has said to me,

00:19:35if I'm not getting

00:19:38the fix I need,

00:19:39I'll go look elsewhere.

00:19:40No, I didn't say that.

00:19:43She said,

00:19:43I'm hungry.

00:19:44You need to feed me.

00:19:45You need to feed me.

00:19:45I've taught you more

00:19:46in this relationship

00:19:47than you've taught me.

00:19:48I'm wanting to,

00:19:49like, open-ended

00:19:50conversations and stuff.

00:19:51I'm wanting to go deep.

00:19:52Like, I'm putting

00:19:53all my cards on the table.

00:19:54I'm very direct.

00:19:55Like, I'll talk

00:19:55about stuff.

00:19:57I need some sort

00:19:58of fuel like that.

00:19:59It's just,

00:19:59it's what I like.

00:20:01But I don't know

00:20:02if our relationship

00:20:03is going to last

00:20:05in the real world,

00:20:06if this is the gap.

00:20:10I don't know

00:20:10if we're going to be

00:20:11a good match long-term

00:20:12if this is the energy

00:20:13because I need to see

00:20:15David in his element.

00:20:16I need to see David

00:20:17with his family.

00:20:18I need to see David

00:20:18with his friends.

00:20:19I need to see what he does.

00:20:20Like, I want to have a family

00:20:21in the next few years.

00:20:28And, like, if we want

00:20:30to talk about me

00:20:30seeing things work

00:20:31in the real world,

00:20:32what I need to see as well

00:20:33is if someone says

00:20:34they want to have

00:20:35open-ended conversations,

00:20:36that has to be it.

00:20:37What's happened

00:20:38in this relationship

00:20:39is I've done a lot

00:20:39of listening.

00:20:40Alyssa has done

00:20:40a lot of talking.

00:20:44That's the fact.

00:20:44You need to speak up.

00:20:45No, no, no.

00:20:46But, like, it's...

00:20:47I don't...

00:20:47One thing about me

00:20:48is I think we're both adults

00:20:50and I want to see

00:20:51that in her

00:20:52that she has the ability

00:20:53to listen.

00:20:54I can't mind read.

00:20:55It's not mind reading.

00:20:56Oh, my gosh.

00:20:56I can't.

00:20:57I cannot...

00:20:57I know.

00:20:58I can't mind read, babe.

00:20:59You're frustrating me

00:21:00because I can't read your mind.

00:21:02When I start saying something

00:21:04that she's not getting,

00:21:05I'm frustrated.

00:21:06I don't want to deal

00:21:06with this anymore.

00:21:07No, I'm not dealing with it.

00:21:08I'm just saying...

00:21:08You're now talking in circles.

00:21:10So I'm going to pull you up there.

00:21:13I mean, this has been very...

00:21:15enlightening, I think,

00:21:17for us to get a glimpse inside

00:21:18what's really going on

00:21:20in the relationship.

00:21:22So an observation from...

00:21:24from us here

00:21:25is that you've both

00:21:28made missteps, I think,

00:21:30in terms of your communication

00:21:31and what you've brought

00:21:32to the couch here

00:21:34because, Alyssa,

00:21:35you were aware

00:21:36that he was withholding.

00:21:37You knew he was not

00:21:38being up front with you.

00:21:40So you could have brought that up.

00:21:41And so, David, for you,

00:21:43you were choosing

00:21:44not to speak up.

00:21:47You haven't arrived

00:21:48at an outcome.

00:21:50No.

00:21:50But you've helped us see

00:21:51what's going on inside.

00:21:53So thank you for that

00:21:54to this point.

00:21:56So now let's look forward

00:21:58because, as you know,

00:21:59this is the last

00:22:00commitment ceremony.

00:22:01This is almost

00:22:02the end of the experiment

00:22:04for you two.

00:22:05Where to from here?

00:22:14Well, I'm sitting here

00:22:16because I want that help.

00:22:18I guess what we need to do

00:22:19is look beneath

00:22:20the arguments here

00:22:22because there's a reason

00:22:24that you have been

00:22:27avoiding bringing

00:22:28these issues up.

00:22:29Yeah.

00:22:29Here's an opportunity

00:22:30to now say,

00:22:31OK, we're going to come

00:22:32at this as equals.

00:22:33Not one putting the other down,

00:22:35not one avoiding

00:22:36and running away.

00:22:37We are coming here

00:22:38together to have this

00:22:39open, honest,

00:22:41mature conversation

00:22:42about what you both want

00:22:43post-experiment

00:22:45because otherwise

00:22:46the last couple of months

00:22:48has been a waste of time.

00:22:50You've got that opportunity now.

00:22:52It's not too late.

00:22:55Can you do that?

00:22:57Yeah.

00:22:58Lisa?

00:23:06I do believe that

00:23:10the things we have

00:23:11gone through

00:23:12are significant

00:23:13and I believe that

00:23:14there are genuine feelings here.

00:23:16I do feel

00:23:17strong feelings

00:23:18towards Alyssa.

00:23:19That's why I'm still here.

00:23:20OK.

00:23:22All right.

00:23:22Well, on that note,

00:23:23we're going to go

00:23:23to a decision.

00:23:25Alyssa,

00:23:26we'll start with you.

00:23:28I didn't come here

00:23:29for three months

00:23:30to waste it

00:23:31and, like,

00:23:32I came here

00:23:32to find my person.

00:23:35I want to settle down.

00:23:36I want to have a family.

00:23:37I want the happy ending

00:23:38and that is why

00:23:41I want to move forward

00:23:43as a team

00:23:45and no holding back

00:23:47and because

00:23:48there's so many feelings involved

00:23:50and, like,

00:23:51I really care about

00:23:51this relationship

00:23:52so much,

00:23:53I've decided to stay.

00:23:55OK.

00:23:57And to you, David.

00:24:01Yeah.

00:24:07I'll take your advice

00:24:08on board

00:24:08and, yeah,

00:24:09I wrote a stand.

00:24:15Pleased to see that.

00:24:17This could be

00:24:18make or break

00:24:18for you guys.

00:24:20You're about to make

00:24:22the decision

00:24:22of this experiment.

00:24:24The thing that is

00:24:25going to determine

00:24:25which way you go

00:24:27in your future.

00:24:29Good luck, guys.

00:24:43Good luck, guys.

00:24:45Good luck, guys.

00:24:46Good luck.

00:24:48Good luck, guys.

00:24:50Good luck, guys.

00:24:54Good luck, guys.

00:24:55Good luck, guys.

00:24:56Good luck, guys.

00:24:56Good luck.

00:24:56Coming up...

00:24:57You do not have to

00:24:58tell me you love me

00:24:59but I'm not going to

00:25:00walk down to final vows

00:25:02with someone that's

00:25:03a maybe.

00:25:04Bec hits her limit.

00:25:06I'm not doing it.

00:25:09And...

00:25:10I...

00:25:11Take a breath.

00:25:11A minute.

00:25:13Breathe.

00:25:14Will Scott speak up?

00:25:17Good luck.

00:25:18Good luck.

00:25:18When I care about

00:25:19someone so much

00:25:20I feel like I can't

00:25:21speak my voice

00:25:22when I have a concern

00:25:23and it's a weakness of mine.

00:25:36All right, let's have

00:25:36our next couple up.

00:25:41Rachel and Stephen.

00:25:42Hey.

00:25:46Hello.

00:25:47Hello.

00:25:48Hello.

00:25:49How are you?

00:25:50Hiya.

00:25:51I love this energy.

00:25:53Can I just say,

00:25:54Steve,

00:25:54oh, you've got a bit

00:25:54of a swagger.

00:25:55Oh, he sure does.

00:25:57Oh, don't flatter me,

00:25:58John.

00:26:00Especially coming from you.

00:26:05Where do you two

00:26:05want to begin?

00:26:07Homestays, I guess.

00:26:08I mean, it seems like

00:26:09it's had a big impact

00:26:10on the tour of you.

00:26:11Yeah.

00:26:13Homestays was

00:26:14a big success for me

00:26:16and I believe Rachel as well.

00:26:18It's sort of changed

00:26:20the relationship

00:26:21in many ways.

00:26:22Oh, in what way?

00:26:24For me,

00:26:25Rachel was fantastic.

00:26:26She, I showed her

00:26:27my passions

00:26:28and she went out

00:26:30on the boat

00:26:30and she enjoyed herself

00:26:31a smile ear to ear

00:26:32and we had lots of banter,

00:26:34laughing.

00:26:35It was a really

00:26:36super sweet time.

00:26:37But it's not that

00:26:38she's in the fishing,

00:26:39it's the independence.

00:26:41I can go,

00:26:42I feel like I can rely

00:26:43on Rachel.

00:26:44If something happens

00:26:45in the well

00:26:45where I'm like,

00:26:46jeez, can you,

00:26:46you know,

00:26:47help me out with this,

00:26:48Rachel's going to go,

00:26:48got your back.

00:26:49Yeah.

00:26:50And she's just

00:26:50going to get it done.

00:26:51So as a result of that,

00:26:53how do you feel about her?

00:26:56Well,

00:26:58I feel like I can see

00:27:00myself falling in love

00:27:01with Rachel.

00:27:02Woohoo!

00:27:04That's massive.

00:27:07Hmm.

00:27:09Rachel, uh,

00:27:12yeah.

00:27:12These are tears

00:27:12of happiness,

00:27:13I swear.

00:27:14Let's just take a moment,

00:27:15shall we?

00:27:15Just a little bit

00:27:16overwhelmed.

00:27:17In a good way.

00:27:21So I feel the same.

00:27:23You know,

00:27:23I can definitely see

00:27:24myself falling in love

00:27:25with you too.

00:27:27There's something going

00:27:28on for you right now,

00:27:29Rachel.

00:27:30What is it?

00:27:31This is a very

00:27:31significant moment for you.

00:27:33Yeah.

00:27:33Um,

00:27:35I think I shared

00:27:36with you,

00:27:36John,

00:27:36before I came in here

00:27:37the last time.

00:27:39Someone told me

00:27:40that they loved me.

00:27:41The very next day

00:27:42they told me

00:27:43they don't remember

00:27:44saying it.

00:27:47Um,

00:27:48that was after

00:27:49seven years

00:27:49of a,

00:27:51a toxic situation.

00:27:53And so,

00:27:55um,

00:27:56it's,

00:27:57it's a hard thing.

00:27:58My barriers go up.

00:28:01And so,

00:28:03having this journey

00:28:04with Stephen

00:28:05and knowing,

00:28:06you know,

00:28:07how he feels

00:28:08about vulnerability

00:28:09and when he says

00:28:10something,

00:28:10he means it.

00:28:11So,

00:28:12for him to be

00:28:13sitting here

00:28:13and saying that

00:28:14to me,

00:28:15it,

00:28:16yeah,

00:28:17bam,

00:28:17right in the fields

00:28:18in a really beautiful way

00:28:19because I'm like,

00:28:20yeah,

00:28:21I believe him.

00:28:25And I don't think

00:28:26that I thought

00:28:27that I would believe

00:28:29a man again

00:28:30in that way.

00:28:32You're welcome.

00:28:34And you know what?

00:28:36He said that

00:28:36holding your hand,

00:28:38sitting next to you

00:28:39and showing you

00:28:41his family.

00:28:42Yeah.

00:28:43All the things

00:28:43that signal

00:28:46he's not going anywhere.

00:28:47Yeah.

00:28:50It's different.

00:28:50It is very different.

00:28:52Is it scary?

00:28:53It's petrifying.

00:28:58What are you scared of

00:28:59the most?

00:29:02I'm scared

00:29:02that Stephen

00:29:03will go back

00:29:04to his life

00:29:04in Sydney

00:29:06and it's just

00:29:07going to be easier

00:29:08for him to let me go

00:29:10because he is

00:29:11time poor

00:29:12and he has

00:29:12his business

00:29:14and so,

00:29:15it might be

00:29:16a burden

00:29:18to try

00:29:19and maintain

00:29:19our relationship

00:29:20with me

00:29:21so he might

00:29:22just let me go.

00:29:25So,

00:29:26yeah,

00:29:28that's,

00:29:28that's my fear.

00:29:31I feel hurt.

00:29:33Well,

00:29:34how does that land

00:29:34for you,

00:29:35Stephen,

00:29:35when you hear her

00:29:36say that?

00:29:37Yeah,

00:29:38it makes me feel

00:29:38helpless at times

00:29:39and I don't know

00:29:41what to say

00:29:41because I,

00:29:42when I see

00:29:43Rachel in these

00:29:44states,

00:29:45the first thing

00:29:45I want to do

00:29:46is try and comfort

00:29:47her and try

00:29:48to fix the situation

00:29:49or reassure

00:29:49at least,

00:29:50at least take

00:29:51the edge off

00:29:52a bit.

00:29:54So if you don't

00:29:54have to fix it

00:29:55and you just

00:29:55sit with it

00:29:56and validate it,

00:29:58can you do that?

00:29:58I can do that.

00:29:59I can't say

00:30:00I'm happy with that

00:30:02but I mean,

00:30:02it's,

00:30:03it is what it is.

00:30:04It makes you feel

00:30:04a bit uncomfortable?

00:30:05It does.

00:30:06Yeah,

00:30:06good.

00:30:06It does.

00:30:07Good.

00:30:07It does.

00:30:08And the only thing

00:30:09I can say to her

00:30:10is that the only thing

00:30:11that I feel like

00:30:11that's going to fix

00:30:12this is actually

00:30:13go out there

00:30:14in the real world

00:30:14and put it into practice

00:30:15and prove it wrong

00:30:17pretty much.

00:30:19Well,

00:30:19haven't you changed?

00:30:21You know,

00:30:22all the both of you

00:30:22sitting in front of us

00:30:23today.

00:30:24This was all,

00:30:25all done at homestays.

00:30:27It was amazing

00:30:27what homestays

00:30:28did for us.

00:30:29We love it.

00:30:30We love it.

00:30:31All right.

00:30:32Let's go to the decision.

00:30:33Start with you first,

00:30:35Steve.

00:30:36There was a big

00:30:37question mark with me

00:30:38before homestays.

00:30:39I'm like,

00:30:40this could make or break us

00:30:41but it's just only brought

00:30:43me closer to Rachel.

00:30:46So I'm going to,

00:30:47uh,

00:30:48stay.

00:30:48Beautiful.

00:30:49Brilliant.

00:30:51And what about you,

00:30:52Rachel?

00:30:52What have you got?

00:30:53Stay or leave?

00:30:54I know this is going to

00:30:55shock everyone

00:30:57but I wrote stay

00:30:58and that's us on a boat

00:31:00fishing.

00:31:03Beautiful.

00:31:05We have loved watching you

00:31:07through this experiment.

00:31:08You've had some difficult

00:31:10moments along the way

00:31:11but you've grown,

00:31:13you know,

00:31:13and, uh,

00:31:14the way in which

00:31:15you're together now,

00:31:17uh,

00:31:17really,

00:31:17it's on display.

00:31:19Everyone sees it.

00:31:20Uh,

00:31:21you're a unified couple.

00:31:22It's fantastic.

00:31:23What I would say to you

00:31:24in this final week,

00:31:26uh,

00:31:26is don't get inside

00:31:27your head too much.

00:31:29You need to be

00:31:31enjoying

00:31:33this,

00:31:33this final week

00:31:34rather than

00:31:35thinking too far ahead

00:31:37because that's something

00:31:38that I think

00:31:39in the past

00:31:40you've,

00:31:40you've been a bit

00:31:41guilty of doing

00:31:43and on that

00:31:44you can go back

00:31:44to your group.

00:31:47Yes.

00:31:48Good stuff.

00:31:54Oh.

00:32:00You made me cry.

00:32:02Oh,

00:32:02you're welcome.

00:32:03Yeah.

00:32:04Yeah.

00:32:06Yeah.

00:32:16Let's get our

00:32:17next couple

00:32:18up on the couch.

00:32:21Bec and Danny.

00:32:22Ooh.

00:32:25Hey, guys.

00:32:26Hello.

00:32:27How are you?

00:32:28Good,

00:32:28I'm very well.

00:32:29Good, good, good.

00:32:32Homestays.

00:32:32Let's start with you,

00:32:33Bec.

00:32:34What were they like?

00:32:35They were great.

00:32:37I was in my own

00:32:38estate.

00:32:39I was in my own home

00:32:40with my dog.

00:32:42We saw my family

00:32:43at my auntie's

00:32:44beach house

00:32:45and that was great.

00:32:47Dad and Daniel

00:32:48get along really well

00:32:49which is great.

00:32:51So good start.

00:32:52Great start.

00:32:56What else happened

00:32:57at the homestay?

00:32:59We met

00:33:00Bec's friends.

00:33:01That went pretty good,

00:33:02didn't it?

00:33:02Like, just like

00:33:03the tough questions.

00:33:04And then

00:33:05that night

00:33:06we went back

00:33:06to Bec's

00:33:08and we were

00:33:09sitting around

00:33:10like having a

00:33:10having a fire

00:33:13and then

00:33:13I cracked a joke

00:33:15like about

00:33:16her cousin

00:33:17fancying me

00:33:20and it

00:33:20landed poorly.

00:33:24What did he say

00:33:25with the joke?

00:33:26Can you just tell us?

00:33:28We were having

00:33:29a bit of an emotional

00:33:30moment with one another

00:33:31talking about our feelings

00:33:32and how it's been

00:33:33on homestays

00:33:34and Daniel said

00:33:35if all else fails

00:33:36at least Daniel

00:33:37fancies me

00:33:38type thing

00:33:42and I lost it.

00:33:46And why?

00:33:48Because

00:33:49it makes me feel like

00:33:51when we're having

00:33:52this conversation

00:33:53that means so much

00:33:54to me

00:33:54that it diminishes it

00:33:56and it makes it a joke.

00:33:59I get it.

00:34:00I shouldn't have said it

00:34:01but I feel like

00:34:02our fight styles

00:34:03don't really match

00:34:04too well.

00:34:06What scared me was

00:34:08we couldn't

00:34:09rectify it

00:34:09too quickly

00:34:11and where I'm

00:34:12sort of holding

00:34:13back a little bit

00:34:13is

00:34:15I don't

00:34:16I wouldn't want

00:34:17to move

00:34:17and then we have

00:34:18an argument like that

00:34:19and I feel really

00:34:20isolated and alone.

00:34:21I don't want to do that.

00:34:22So

00:34:23arguing is something

00:34:24that scares you

00:34:25when it comes to Bec.

00:34:26Why?

00:34:27I think for both of us

00:34:29it just doesn't work.

00:34:34Wow.

00:34:35Okay.

00:34:35What am I saying wrong?

00:34:37Just to use the words

00:34:39for both of us

00:34:40it doesn't work.

00:34:44I'm not saying

00:34:45we don't work

00:34:46I'm saying

00:34:46our fight style

00:34:47doesn't work.

00:34:48Oh yeah

00:34:48that

00:34:48no okay.

00:34:50So

00:34:51this is what happens

00:34:52sometimes

00:34:52I try and say something

00:34:53and Bec takes it

00:34:55in completely

00:34:55the wrong way.

00:34:58Bec what's going on

00:34:59inside of you

00:34:59right now?

00:35:01Um

00:35:02I suppose I'm fearful

00:35:03because I've

00:35:03let every wall down.

00:35:06So what happens

00:35:07to you when he says that?

00:35:08Just

00:35:10kills my soul

00:35:11a little bit

00:35:12to be honest with you.

00:35:16because I'm like

00:35:17well

00:35:19why haven't you

00:35:20said this to me?

00:35:22Because

00:35:22because I've been

00:35:23fearful to say it

00:35:24because I don't

00:35:25want to upset you.

00:35:28No no no

00:35:29do not blame me.

00:35:30I'm not blaming you.

00:35:31Don't say

00:35:32you're fearful

00:35:33to tell me

00:35:33because you're

00:35:33going to upset me.

00:35:35I'm here

00:35:36in love with you.

00:35:38We're at the end

00:35:39of this experiment.

00:35:42You're making it

00:35:43seem like

00:35:43I've been holding

00:35:44on to this

00:35:45for six months.

00:35:45Honestly

00:35:46I noticed it

00:35:46in Adelaide

00:35:47when I felt isolated.

00:35:48Up until then

00:35:49I haven't noticed it.

00:35:53Bec I look

00:35:54at your face

00:35:56you seem

00:35:57very concerned.

00:36:03I think he's

00:36:03got more reservations

00:36:04than he lets on.

00:36:06Oh really?

00:36:07I do yeah.

00:36:08I do.

00:36:09I do.

00:36:15Danny Danny

00:36:16look at me.

00:36:18There really is

00:36:19no time for you

00:36:20to make light

00:36:20of the situation

00:36:22because when you

00:36:23add things up Danny

00:36:25it's not making

00:36:26her feel secure.

00:36:28You know you

00:36:28haven't said

00:36:28your feelings

00:36:29back to her.

00:36:30You've gone

00:36:31to the family

00:36:32and they've

00:36:33validated you

00:36:34and then

00:36:34you're not

00:36:35bringing up issues

00:36:36because you're

00:36:36afraid of the

00:36:37fight style.

00:36:38it starts

00:36:39to add up

00:36:41and it makes

00:36:42her feel

00:36:43what?

00:36:44Bec?

00:36:48Like he's just

00:36:49not that into me.

00:36:54So that's a problem

00:36:57because this far

00:36:58into the experiment

00:36:59you don't want

00:37:00your partner

00:37:00to be thinking

00:37:03he's just not

00:37:04that into me.

00:37:07Yeah but I am.

00:37:09I've told you

00:37:10that I am.

00:37:11You know I am.

00:37:14So why is she

00:37:15not believing it?

00:37:17I don't know

00:37:18I can't speak

00:37:19for Bec.

00:37:22I'm asking

00:37:24for you

00:37:25to sit there

00:37:26and say to me

00:37:28Bec this is how

00:37:29I feel about you

00:37:30just once.

00:37:33You know how

00:37:34I feel about you.

00:37:35You know I care

00:37:36about you so much.

00:37:37I do know you

00:37:38care about me

00:37:39but where is

00:37:40the passion?

00:37:42I see tiny

00:37:43glimpses of it

00:37:44but

00:37:46I feel like

00:37:47you are holding

00:37:48back.

00:37:49You said to me

00:37:50once at the

00:37:51beginning of this

00:37:51experiment

00:37:51and I'll never

00:37:52forget it

00:37:53and it's probably

00:37:54ruined me.

00:37:56Daniel's like

00:37:57well

00:37:58when you are

00:37:59obsessed with each

00:38:00other you're all

00:38:00over each other

00:38:01and I don't have

00:38:02that.

00:38:02I just don't get

00:38:03it from him at all.

00:38:05He doesn't want

00:38:06to hold my hand

00:38:07walking down the

00:38:07street.

00:38:07That's not your

00:38:08style.

00:38:08No worries.

00:38:09Whenever we have

00:38:10a kiss I'm the

00:38:11one going to kiss

00:38:11you.

00:38:12You never ever

00:38:12ever go to kiss

00:38:13me.

00:38:14You don't

00:38:14compliment me.

00:38:15Hardly ever.

00:38:18So for me it's

00:38:19like well I'm

00:38:20this fool that's

00:38:21allowed my heart

00:38:22to get to this

00:38:22point and he's

00:38:24not there and

00:38:25he's not going

00:38:25to feel that way.

00:38:28I don't think

00:38:29that's a fair

00:38:30assumption.

00:38:38The thing

00:38:39that's important

00:38:39here Danny is

00:38:40that she's just

00:38:41told you in a

00:38:42very clear cut

00:38:43way why she

00:38:46doesn't feel like

00:38:47you're interested.

00:38:52Your reaction

00:38:53is well that's

00:38:54not fair.

00:38:55No but like

00:38:55yes that's

00:38:56exactly what we

00:38:57just heard.

00:39:01Even like all

00:39:02of the husbands

00:39:03walked past us

00:39:03sitting at the

00:39:04commitment ceremony

00:39:05and they all

00:39:05acknowledge their

00:39:06wives and you

00:39:06never do.

00:39:07You ignore me.

00:39:11And I don't

00:39:12know how I've

00:39:13gotten to this

00:39:13point of these

00:39:14feelings with

00:39:15that.

00:39:19I'm so

00:39:20worried.

00:39:24I'm actually

00:39:25so worried.

00:39:30I don't

00:39:31feel like you

00:39:32have any desire

00:39:33and I just

00:39:34yeah I'm

00:39:35just nervous.

00:39:37The reality

00:39:38is is that

00:39:39how can you

00:39:41move to

00:39:41Adelaide and

00:39:42how can we

00:39:43live this life

00:39:44together if

00:39:45this is how

00:39:46it's going to

00:39:46be.

00:39:47I can't be the

00:39:48one going to

00:39:49kiss you

00:39:51just so that

00:39:52there's a level

00:39:52of affection.

00:39:53I can't.

00:39:56I'm not doing

00:39:57it.

00:39:57I've done it.

00:39:58I did it.

00:39:58I nearly married

00:39:59it.

00:40:00I'm not doing

00:40:00it.

00:40:02I'm not.

00:40:04I'm not doing

00:40:05it.

00:40:05You're either

00:40:06into me.

00:40:07You have had

00:40:07enough time to

00:40:08know if I am

00:40:10the type of

00:40:10person you would

00:40:11want to be with.

00:40:11You do not have

00:40:12to tell me you

00:40:12love me but I'm

00:40:13not going to

00:40:14walk down to

00:40:15final vows with

00:40:16someone that's a

00:40:18maybe about me.

00:40:19I'm not doing

00:40:19it.

00:40:20I'd rather be

00:40:20heartbroken now

00:40:21than heartbroken

00:40:22in six months

00:40:23time.

00:40:37You have had

00:40:38enough time to

00:40:39know if I am

00:40:40the type of

00:40:40person you would

00:40:41want to be with.

00:40:42You do not have

00:40:42to tell me you

00:40:43love me but I'm

00:40:44not going to

00:40:45walk down to

00:40:46final vows with

00:40:47someone that's a

00:40:48maybe.

00:40:49about me.

00:40:49I'm not doing

00:40:50it.

00:40:50I'd rather be

00:40:51heartbroken now

00:40:52than heartbroken

00:40:53in six months

00:40:54time.

00:41:15How does that

00:41:16land for you,

00:41:17Danny?

00:41:22Well, obviously

00:41:23it hurts to see

00:41:24Bec like that.

00:41:25What is she

00:41:26saying to you

00:41:28that you've

00:41:29done to get

00:41:30her to this

00:41:31point?

00:41:32Well, just

00:41:33not be

00:41:35passionate and

00:41:36not be the man

00:41:37she needs me to

00:41:38be.

00:41:41I've had my

00:41:41guard up,

00:41:42essentially.

00:41:42that's what

00:41:43that's what

00:41:48that's what

00:41:52When she lays

00:41:54this out on

00:41:54the table,

00:41:55no compliments,

00:41:57very few,

00:41:59lack of intimacy,

00:42:01not making her a

00:42:02priority,

00:42:03not saying how

00:42:04you feel about

00:42:05her.

00:42:07What do you think

00:42:08that does to

00:42:08her?

00:42:12Yeah,

00:42:12would destroy

00:42:13her.

00:42:15What do you

00:42:15think it does to

00:42:16the relationship?

00:42:17Destroys the

00:42:18relationship as

00:42:19well.

00:42:21Why?

00:42:22Because you

00:42:23can't have,

00:42:24you can't build a

00:42:25relationship on

00:42:25like sand

00:42:26foundations,

00:42:28do you know

00:42:28what you mean?

00:42:28So help us

00:42:29understand why

00:42:30you're not doing

00:42:32these things

00:42:33to bring her

00:42:34close.

00:42:38Just,

00:42:41obviously we've

00:42:41talked about

00:42:42the five

00:42:42star,

00:42:43that's the

00:42:43bit where

00:42:43I've been

00:42:44holding back.

00:42:47But I guess

00:42:48after my last

00:42:49relationship,

00:42:50I haven't felt

00:42:50this strongly

00:42:51towards a woman

00:42:52or been this

00:42:52close with a

00:42:53woman in years.

00:42:56But of course

00:42:57I still have a

00:42:58bit of a

00:42:58guard up because

00:42:59last time,

00:43:00when it didn't

00:43:01work out,

00:43:02it destroyed

00:43:02my life.

00:43:05How nice

00:43:05would it be

00:43:06to have heard

00:43:06that?

00:43:07Well you just

00:43:08did.

00:43:08I know,

00:43:09but why do I

00:43:09have to go to

00:43:10this length

00:43:11to hear that?

00:43:11Because I'm not

00:43:12no good at

00:43:12this shit.

00:43:14Well I've been

00:43:15begging you for

00:43:16this level of

00:43:17openness for

00:43:18nearly three

00:43:19months and so

00:43:21hearing that

00:43:22makes me feel

00:43:23like there's

00:43:25hope, you

00:43:26know?

00:43:31Why does that

00:43:32make you feel

00:43:32hopeful?

00:43:33Because if he

00:43:34hasn't felt

00:43:34like this in

00:43:35years, then

00:43:37that means

00:43:38that it's

00:43:42real and

00:43:43you might be

00:43:44into me, but

00:43:45you need to

00:43:46open yourself

00:43:47to me.

00:43:48Yeah, I guess

00:43:48like this has

00:43:49been a problem

00:43:50in the past

00:43:50that I am

00:43:52just a shit

00:43:52boyfriend, to

00:43:53be honest.

00:43:54Oh, I don't

00:43:54believe that.

00:43:54I am.

00:43:55I ain't that good,

00:43:57to be honest.

00:43:57But that is a

00:43:58very easy way

00:43:59of getting out

00:44:00of it.

00:44:01Don't hold me

00:44:02accountable, I'm

00:44:03just a shit

00:44:03boyfriend.

00:44:04No, I'm not

00:44:04saying it like

00:44:05that.

00:44:05But you are.

00:44:07And that's what

00:44:08she's hearing.

00:44:11What she wants

00:44:12right now from

00:44:13you, Danny, is

00:44:14for you to step

00:44:15into this and go,

00:44:16you know what?

00:44:16Yeah, I've

00:44:17dropped the ball

00:44:19and I've sent you

00:44:20the wrong signals

00:44:22and I'm accountable

00:44:23and I'm going to

00:44:24do different.

00:44:25But I'm not getting

00:44:26that from you.

00:44:28No, I, Bec, I

00:44:29want to say I am

00:44:30and I'm sorry if

00:44:31like, it's for

00:44:32making you feel

00:44:33like that, genuine

00:44:34from the bottom

00:44:34of my heart.

00:44:35You know I'd

00:44:35never want to

00:44:36upset you.

00:44:36You mean the

00:44:37world to me.

00:44:41And I'm sorry

00:44:42if I've dropped

00:44:43the ball.

00:44:44It was never

00:44:44my intention.

00:44:49I like hearing

00:44:50it but I need

00:44:50to see it.

00:44:51Yeah, an old

00:44:52time.

00:44:52I can't keep

00:44:53on hearing it

00:44:54and then

00:44:55nothing changes.

00:44:56Well, let me

00:44:56show you that.

00:44:59Okay.

00:45:03Let me show you.

00:45:08Now, with that,

00:45:09we're going to

00:45:10go to the decision.

00:45:13Bec, what have

00:45:14you got for us,

00:45:14stay or leave?

00:45:16Well, you,

00:45:17you have my heart

00:45:19and like, you

00:45:20are the most

00:45:22special person.

00:45:22I've never met

00:45:23anyone like you,

00:45:25right?

00:45:25And I feel

00:45:25really, really

00:45:26lucky that we

00:45:27were matched

00:45:28and we get to

00:45:28go on this

00:45:29journey together.

00:45:33But I need

00:45:36you to give

00:45:37me half of

00:45:39what I'm giving

00:45:40you at least.

00:45:49We have

00:45:50overcome so

00:45:51many hurdles

00:45:51together and

00:45:52we've made

00:45:53it this far.

00:45:54So,

00:45:57I said,

00:45:59stay.

00:46:00And then I

00:46:00said, proud

00:46:01of us.

00:46:03Love it.

00:46:04Love it.

00:46:05And, Danny?

00:46:06Yeah, obviously,

00:46:07I want to

00:46:08apologise again.

00:46:09I'm so sorry.

00:46:10You know, you

00:46:10mean the world to

00:46:11me and this

00:46:12week, I'll try

00:46:14and prove that

00:46:15to you.

00:46:16I'm here for

00:46:17love and I think

00:46:18I can find that

00:46:19with you.

00:46:19So, that's why

00:46:20I wrote

00:46:20stay.

00:46:21Good.

00:46:32Danny, from

00:46:33where we're

00:46:33sitting, this

00:46:34week is on

00:46:35you.

00:46:36You have to

00:46:37do the heavy

00:46:38lifting.

00:46:39You've got a

00:46:40partner here

00:46:40with you who's

00:46:42put her heart

00:46:43out there and

00:46:44said, I'm in

00:46:44love.

00:46:45I want this.

00:46:46You need to

00:46:47step up.

00:46:51And if you

00:46:52are feeling

00:46:53these strong

00:46:54emotions for

00:46:55her, then

00:46:56you've got to

00:46:56start showing

00:46:57it.

00:46:58Yeah.

00:47:01With that, you

00:47:02can go back to

00:47:03the group.

00:47:04Thanks,

00:47:05Well done,

00:47:05guys.

00:47:08Thanks for

00:47:09all your support.

00:47:10Thanks.

00:47:10Good work,

00:47:11you two.

00:47:14Oh,

00:47:15buttered.

00:47:21Communicate

00:47:22with me.

00:47:23My wife

00:47:24hates me

00:47:24and said

00:47:25it was first

00:47:25as well.

00:47:27I don't

00:47:28hate you,

00:47:29boo.

00:47:29I just

00:47:30can't keep

00:47:30on asking

00:47:31to the

00:47:31minimum.

00:47:33It's either

00:47:33there or

00:47:33it's not.

00:47:34And if

00:47:35it's not,

00:47:35you've got to

00:47:36walk away.

00:47:37Now.

00:47:38Right.

00:47:38Okay?

00:47:39But he,

00:47:40yeah.

00:47:40Great.

00:47:43Still to

00:47:44come...

00:47:45I haven't

00:47:46been able

00:47:46to address

00:47:46her concern

00:47:47without

00:47:47Gia and

00:47:48I having

00:47:48an argument

00:47:49or her

00:47:50spiralling.

00:47:51What kind

00:47:51of things

00:47:51could she

00:47:52say?

00:47:53In a

00:47:53moment that

00:47:54demands

00:47:55honesty...

00:47:56Things that

00:47:57can make

00:47:58someone feel

00:47:58pretty defeated

00:48:00and let down.

00:48:00Such as?

00:48:02Scott

00:48:02hesitates.

00:48:05If you

00:48:06can't speak

00:48:07honestly in

00:48:08front of

00:48:08Gia,

00:48:09then I'm

00:48:09really concerned

00:48:10about the

00:48:11possibility of

00:48:12this relationship

00:48:12surviving outside

00:48:14the experiment.

00:48:24Next on

00:48:25the couch...

00:48:28Chris and

00:48:29Sam.

00:48:33Hello.

00:48:35Hello.

00:48:36Hi.

00:48:41Body language

00:48:42says a lot.

00:48:44Yeah,

00:48:44it's been

00:48:45tough.

00:48:46Yeah.

00:48:51What

00:48:51happened

00:48:52last time

00:48:53we sat

00:48:53here,

00:48:54I wrote

00:48:54leave in

00:48:55the moment

00:48:56and then

00:48:57I kind

00:48:57of regretted

00:48:58it.

00:48:59We decided

00:49:00to go to

00:49:00homestays

00:49:01and I

00:49:02thought,

00:49:02okay,

00:49:02I'm really

00:49:02going to

00:49:02try and

00:49:03turn this

00:49:03around.

00:49:04And I

00:49:04bought him

00:49:04some flowers

00:49:05and I

00:49:05got him

00:49:05a card

00:49:06and

00:49:06went to

00:49:07the shop

00:49:07and got

00:49:07groceries

00:49:08and made

00:49:09dinner.

00:49:09And then

00:49:09we had a

00:49:10day with

00:49:10my cattle.

00:49:11You know,

00:49:11we were

00:49:12outside and

00:49:12I thought

00:49:13that was

00:49:13really fun.

00:49:15And then

00:49:16we had

00:49:16a bonfire.

00:49:20Sam

00:49:20pulled out

00:49:21a journal

00:49:21with some

00:49:22questions in

00:49:23it.

00:49:24Hand on

00:49:24heart,

00:49:24I was

00:49:25answering

00:49:25them the

00:49:25best that

00:49:25I could.

00:49:27And then

00:49:27Sam decided

00:49:28to leave

00:49:30the farm

00:49:32and I

00:49:32thought,

00:49:33look,

00:49:33I've

00:49:33really

00:49:33tried

00:49:34to

00:49:34turn

00:49:34this

00:49:34around.

00:49:35I

00:49:35really

00:49:35took

00:49:35on

00:49:35all

00:49:35of

00:49:36your

00:49:36guys'

00:49:36feedback

00:49:36and

00:49:38yeah,

00:49:38I just

00:49:38feel like

00:49:39I've

00:49:39shut down

00:49:40now.

00:49:42Yeah,

00:49:43I just

00:49:44felt like

00:49:44he was

00:49:45saving

00:49:45face.

00:49:47Especially

00:49:47like the

00:49:48flowers and

00:49:48dinner thing.

00:49:50It felt

00:49:50very like

00:49:51I need

00:49:51to do

00:49:52these

00:49:52things to

00:49:52show

00:49:52that I

00:49:53put in

00:49:53effort.

00:49:54For me,

00:49:55it was

00:49:55genuine.

00:49:55I was

00:49:55trying to

00:49:56be as

00:49:56genuine as

00:49:56I could

00:49:57and I

00:49:57thought

00:49:58that was

00:49:58a way

00:49:59to try

00:49:59and make

00:49:59you feel

00:50:00welcome

00:50:00at the

00:50:00farm.

00:50:01I feel

00:50:01like your

00:50:01effort

00:50:02was like

00:50:02to push

00:50:03forward

00:50:03and there

00:50:04was effort

00:50:04for you

00:50:05to grow

00:50:05but it

00:50:05was never

00:50:06like I

00:50:06need to

00:50:07grow for

00:50:07us and

00:50:08I want

00:50:08to grow

00:50:08to be

00:50:09a better

00:50:09partner

00:50:09for you.

00:50:16Where did

00:50:17the relationship

00:50:17go wrong

00:50:18for you

00:50:19both?

00:50:24I feel

00:50:24like Chris

00:50:25never really

00:50:25fully forgave

00:50:27me for

00:50:27calling him

00:50:28out on

00:50:28like

00:50:29behaviours.

00:50:31From then

00:50:32on,

00:50:33especially

00:50:33after you

00:50:34guys gave

00:50:34him feedback,

00:50:35it was like

00:50:35a no return

00:50:36point from

00:50:37then.

00:50:40Where did

00:50:41it go wrong

00:50:41for you?

00:50:43I feel

00:50:44like after

00:50:46the retreat,

00:50:47that chemistry

00:50:47was lacking

00:50:48for me.

00:50:49We were

00:50:49intimate a

00:50:50second time

00:50:50and I just

00:50:51felt like

00:50:51that wasn't

00:50:52there for me.

00:50:55was it the

00:50:56quality of the

00:50:56interaction?

00:50:57Was it him

00:50:58as a person?

00:51:00What was it

00:51:01that felt

00:51:01off for you?

00:51:03If I'm being

00:51:04honest, it was

00:51:04just the quality

00:51:05of the interaction.

00:51:06I just, I don't

00:51:06know, it just

00:51:07wasn't there for

00:51:08me.

00:51:15Is that

00:51:15something that

00:51:16you spoke to

00:51:16Sam about?

00:51:18No, I

00:51:18didn't want to

00:51:19hurt his

00:51:19feelings.

00:51:24How are you

00:51:24feeling about

00:51:25that, Sam,

00:51:26to hear this?

00:51:27Oh, yeah.

00:51:28Like, I guess

00:51:29a surprise.

00:51:31And like,

00:51:32I guess what

00:51:33really sucks

00:51:34is that I

00:51:35was out on

00:51:35the farm

00:51:35and I was

00:51:36like,

00:51:36herding cows

00:51:37and I was

00:51:37like, this

00:51:38is so

00:51:38good and

00:51:38the kids

00:51:39thing never

00:51:40bothered me.

00:51:41Like, it's

00:51:41always something

00:51:41that I've

00:51:41wanted in

00:51:42my life.

00:51:43And I was

00:51:44just like, it

00:51:44was so annoying

00:51:45that everything

00:51:46else would

00:51:46have worked.

00:51:52This is

00:51:52really disappointing

00:51:53for us because

00:51:55we had so much

00:51:56hope for the

00:51:57two of you.

00:51:59It's just so

00:52:00unfortunate that

00:52:01along the way,

00:52:02with all of the

00:52:03pressure that the

00:52:03experiment brings,

00:52:05that the wheels

00:52:05have fallen off.

00:52:09It is

00:52:09disappointing

00:52:10I came here

00:52:11to find love

00:52:12and, you know,

00:52:13I know that

00:52:13I'm a slow

00:52:14burn and, you

00:52:14know, I know

00:52:15that I get

00:52:15anxious once I

00:52:16do get feelings

00:52:17for someone

00:52:17because it

00:52:18takes me so

00:52:18long to build

00:52:19feelings for

00:52:19someone.

00:52:21And, yeah,

00:52:22it's just

00:52:22really disappointing

00:52:23that it all

00:52:24ended up like

00:52:24this, but,

00:52:25you know,

00:52:27high hopes

00:52:28for the future.

00:52:30Yeah.

00:52:32What about

00:52:32you, Chris?

00:52:33Yeah, and I

00:52:34said to Sam

00:52:34that I want

00:52:35to be really

00:52:35good friends

00:52:35with him.

00:52:37We've been

00:52:37on this

00:52:37journey for

00:52:38eight weeks,

00:52:38so, yeah,

00:52:40I hope that

00:52:40we can, yeah,

00:52:41stay in each

00:52:41other's lives

00:52:42outside of

00:52:42here.

00:52:43Yeah.

00:52:46All right,

00:52:46well, we're

00:52:47going to go

00:52:47to a decision.

00:52:49Chris, we'll

00:52:49start with you.

00:52:52I've obviously

00:52:52learned a lot

00:52:53about myself

00:52:53and I hope

00:52:54you have too

00:52:54and, you know,

00:52:56I'm sorry

00:52:56that it didn't

00:52:57work out for

00:52:57us.

00:52:58My time

00:52:59has unfortunately

00:53:00run out,

00:53:01so, yeah,

00:53:03I have to

00:53:04leave.

00:53:04Okay, thank

00:53:05you.

00:53:07And to you,

00:53:07Sam.

00:53:08It's been a

00:53:09journey.

00:53:09I've learned a

00:53:10lot.

00:53:1090% of our

00:53:11time together

00:53:11was awesome.

00:53:13Yeah, but,

00:53:14you know, it's

00:53:15come to the

00:53:15time to pack

00:53:16it up and

00:53:18leave.

00:53:22I'm sorry

00:53:23you've both

00:53:23landed here,

00:53:25but hopefully

00:53:26you have learned

00:53:27some lessons

00:53:28along the way

00:53:29that you can

00:53:30take into your

00:53:31next relationships

00:53:32and parenthood.

00:53:34You know,

00:53:34this is all

00:53:34about that

00:53:35self-development

00:53:36as well as

00:53:37couple development.

00:53:40Thank you both

00:53:41so much.

00:53:42Well done,

00:53:43you two.

00:53:52Well done,

00:53:53guys.

00:53:54We're going

00:53:54to miss you.

00:53:57Our next couple

00:53:58up on the

00:53:59couch,

00:54:01Stella and

00:54:01Philip.

00:54:05Hello.

00:54:06Hello there.

00:54:09How we doing?

00:54:11Well, we're more

00:54:12interested in how

00:54:12you're doing.

00:54:14Yeah.

00:54:15Coming into

00:54:15homesteads was

00:54:16very, very important

00:54:17for me.

00:54:18I was always open

00:54:19to moving,

00:54:19so it was a

00:54:20really big deal

00:54:20to go into

00:54:21Stella's space.

00:54:22I was just

00:54:23really keen to

00:54:24see what it

00:54:24would look like.

00:54:27I just tried

00:54:27to envisage

00:54:28everything,

00:54:29like how I'd

00:54:29live there,

00:54:30the vibe,

00:54:31the energy

00:54:31and all that

00:54:31kind of stuff.

00:54:33After the

00:54:34experiment,

00:54:35Stella's going

00:54:36to come back

00:54:36for my mum's

00:54:37birthday,

00:54:38celebrate that.

00:54:39We're going

00:54:40to spend a few

00:54:41days in Melbourne

00:54:42and then I'll

00:54:43pick my car up

00:54:44and drive up

00:54:44to Cronulla.

00:54:47Just move again.

00:54:48Yeah.

00:54:50Yeah.

00:54:50Straight in.

00:54:51Yeah.

00:54:51Oh.

00:54:53Moving in.

00:54:53That's a plan.

00:54:55Yeah.

00:54:56So it is a plan.

00:54:58We got there.

00:55:00Here's the thing.

00:55:01When I first

00:55:01met you,

00:55:02you loved

00:55:03control.

00:55:03Yeah.

00:55:04You mapped

00:55:06out, you know,

00:55:07what you wanted

00:55:07to do during the

00:55:08day, your

00:55:09fitness, your

00:55:09health, your

00:55:10sleep, everything

00:55:11on point.

00:55:13And you,

00:55:15without a plan,

00:55:16there was a

00:55:16part of you

00:55:17that wasn't

00:55:18committing.

00:55:19And now,

00:55:20you've come up

00:55:21with a plan,

00:55:22you've got

00:55:23certainty, and

00:55:24now you're on

00:55:25the same track.

00:55:26Because I want

00:55:26this relationship

00:55:27to work.

00:55:29Yeah.

00:55:30Yeah.

00:55:31And I feel

00:55:33like every

00:55:34woman can agree

00:55:35with that.

00:55:36When you don't

00:55:37understand your

00:55:38man's intentions,

00:55:39that's when you

00:55:40get frazzled,

00:55:41that's when you

00:55:41overthink,

00:55:42that's when you're

00:55:42in your head.

00:55:43When you know

00:55:44that the man

00:55:45is like,

00:55:46okay, let's do

00:55:47this, I think

00:55:48you really settle

00:55:49in to that

00:55:50heart.

00:55:50You really do.

00:55:52Philip, I want

00:55:53you to turn to

00:55:54Stella and tell

00:55:55her how you feel.

00:55:56make me cry.

00:56:05You know.

00:56:06You know.

00:56:24You 100% know

00:56:25that I am in love

00:56:26with you.

00:56:28And that you

00:56:29shouldn't doubt

00:56:29anything.

00:56:30There's a lot of

00:56:31unknown and stuff

00:56:32like that.

00:56:33It's okay, we've got

00:56:33this.

00:56:33But, you know,

00:56:34we're a team.

00:56:35Yeah.

00:56:35So, I love you

00:56:37too.

00:56:37Okay.

00:56:38Yeah.

00:56:42So, Stella,

00:56:43how does that

00:56:44feel when he

00:56:46says that,

00:56:48knowing that

00:56:48he's got a

00:56:49plan and he's

00:56:50moving in?

00:56:51Again, like,

00:56:52I really go from

00:56:52the two weeks

00:56:53of the conversation,

00:56:54like, this man

00:56:56makes me feel

00:56:56safe.

00:56:57I don't think

00:56:58I have experienced

00:56:59love before

00:57:00meeting him

00:57:01because, oh,

00:57:03he shows up

00:57:04for me.

00:57:05Yeah.

00:57:06Big time.

00:57:08Can I just ask

00:57:09you, Stella,

00:57:10what's getting

00:57:10you upset right

00:57:11now?

00:57:11Why is this

00:57:12so important?

00:57:14Yeah, I feel

00:57:14quite lucky

00:57:16in the sense

00:57:16that if this

00:57:19works out,

00:57:19it means that

00:57:20everything that

00:57:21was in the

00:57:22past, all those

00:57:23learning curves,

00:57:24all those

00:57:24relationships,

00:57:25all was worth

00:57:27for this moment.

00:57:28because I do,

00:57:30I think,

00:57:32at the stage

00:57:32of my life

00:57:33where I do

00:57:34truly want

00:57:35this to be

00:57:35my forever

00:57:36person and

00:57:37I do see

00:57:39that.

00:57:42Pleasure.

00:57:46Well, you

00:57:47got real on

00:57:48this couch

00:57:48tonight.

00:57:49It was

00:57:50great.

00:57:52And on

00:57:52that note,

00:57:53we're going

00:57:53to go to

00:57:53a decision.

00:57:54Stay or leave,

00:57:55you're up first,

00:57:56Stella.

00:57:57Obviously not a

00:57:58surprise and I

00:57:59think I drew a love

00:58:00heart from very

00:58:01early on.

00:58:03Nice.

00:58:04And what about

00:58:04you, Phillip?

00:58:06Uh, I'm not

00:58:07going anywhere.

00:58:08Just started.

00:58:09We're staying.

00:58:10That's what we

00:58:11like to see.

00:58:14Thanks for being

00:58:15in.

00:58:16Thanks for being

00:58:16in.

00:58:17You are a team

00:58:18and you've got

00:58:19this.

00:58:21I really, really

00:58:22appreciate this

00:58:23whole thing.

00:58:24Well done, you

00:58:25two.

00:58:26Great work.

00:58:31Hey, thanks.

00:58:38Our last couple

00:58:40up on the couch,

00:58:43Gia and Scott.

00:58:48Good evening.

00:58:49Hello.

00:58:50Hello.

00:58:50How are we?

00:58:51Good.

00:58:52Hi, Gia.

00:58:53Hello.

00:58:56So, how are you

00:58:57guys?

00:58:59All right.

00:59:00Um, get a bit

00:59:02nervous.

00:59:14So, you

00:59:15know, I care

00:59:18so much about

00:59:19Gia.

00:59:20What I'm going to

00:59:21talk about tonight

00:59:22is I don't want

00:59:23you to be upset.

00:59:25Okay.

00:59:25What I'm going to

00:59:26talk about is

00:59:27feelings where I...

00:59:30Take a breath

00:59:31for a minute.

00:59:33Breathe.

00:59:42So, I think for me

00:59:43to leave this

00:59:44going, the dream

00:59:44would be probably

00:59:46to go into

00:59:46modeling.

00:59:48So, you keep

00:59:49saying that you

00:59:49want to be a

00:59:50model, but what

00:59:50are you actually

00:59:53doing to make

00:59:54that happen?

00:59:55I don't really

00:59:56know, honestly,

00:59:57but I think I need

00:59:57to make a portfolio.

00:59:59I think that's the

00:59:59first step in being

01:00:00a model.

01:00:01Make a portfolio

01:00:02and then you just

01:00:02fire it at people

01:00:03and hope that

01:00:04they like it.

01:00:05Trying to advance

01:00:06onto this world

01:00:07of modeling,

01:00:07right?

01:00:08Made absolutely

01:00:09no progress.

01:00:10Right.

01:00:10What am I doing

01:00:11wrong?

01:00:11Do you think

01:00:11it's tattoos?

01:00:12Probably.

01:00:18I think what we

01:00:19could do is maybe

01:00:20have it where

01:00:23we...

01:00:23Whenever there's

01:00:24a plane, you

01:00:25have to stop.

01:00:27It's a fucking

01:00:28nightmare.

01:00:29I think it's just

01:00:29the way we're

01:00:30marketing it.

01:00:31I think we lean

01:00:31into it heavily

01:00:32with the look of

01:00:33the suit where it

01:00:34covers up the

01:00:35tattoos but still

01:00:36shows a tiny bit,

01:00:37so there's a bit

01:00:37of mystery there.

01:00:38Not even

01:00:39having an

01:00:39acceptance email

01:00:40like, thanks

01:00:41for your

01:00:41application,

01:00:41like, nothing.

01:00:43I don't know

01:00:43if it's tattoos,

01:00:44probably.

01:00:45Don't think

01:00:46that you're

01:00:47screwed.

01:00:47We can't hide

01:00:48the tattoos,

01:00:49right?

01:00:49We're not going

01:00:49to hide it.

01:00:50We're just going

01:00:50to show it in a

01:00:51way that it's

01:00:52versatile.

01:00:52I think that's

01:00:53the main thing.

01:00:54We lean really

01:00:55heavily into the

01:00:56tattoos but in a

01:00:58casual way to

01:00:59show, hey, I know

01:01:00I've got lots of

01:01:00tattoos but I can

01:01:01also look really

01:01:02good in casual

01:01:03wear.

01:01:04If I thought you

01:01:04had no hope,

01:01:05I wouldn't be

01:01:05wasting my time

01:01:06coming here to

01:01:06take by this.

01:01:08Wasting your

01:01:08time?

01:01:09The world needs

01:01:10to sort of

01:01:10change the way

01:01:11that people look

01:01:12at tattoos.

01:01:12There's this huge

01:01:13prejudice against

01:01:13people who tattoo.

01:01:14Hopefully today

01:01:15what we can do

01:01:15is we can sort

01:01:16of show that,

01:01:16yes, this guy's

01:01:17heavily tattooed

01:01:18but he's actually

01:01:19a normal human

01:01:19being and not

01:01:20a criminal.

01:01:23Here he is.

01:01:25Hey, it took

01:01:25your time.

01:01:35What I'm going

01:01:35to talk about

01:01:36tonight is I

01:01:37don't want

01:01:37you to be

01:01:38upset.

01:01:39Okay.

01:01:40What I'm

01:01:40going to talk

01:01:40about is

01:01:41feelings where

01:01:44I...

01:01:44Take a breath

01:01:45for a minute.

01:01:47Breathe.

01:01:53It's a weakness

01:01:54of mine.

01:01:56When I care

01:01:57about someone

01:01:57so much,

01:01:58I feel like

01:01:59I can't speak

01:02:01my voice

01:02:01when I have

01:02:02a concern.

01:02:03It's a weakness

01:02:03of mine.

01:02:05What I find

01:02:06so far is

01:02:07I haven't

01:02:08been able

01:02:08to address

01:02:09a concern

01:02:09without Gia

01:02:10and I

01:02:10having an

01:02:11argument

01:02:11or her

01:02:12spiraling.

01:02:14Let's say

01:02:14that you want

01:02:15to bring

01:02:15something up

01:02:16and Gia

01:02:16is not in

01:02:17the mood

01:02:17to hear

01:02:17for whatever

01:02:18reason.

01:02:20You find

01:02:21yourself

01:02:21simply cowering

01:02:22away from

01:02:22that and

01:02:23not returning

01:02:23to that

01:02:24topic?

01:02:27Pretty much.

01:02:29What have

01:02:30you observed

01:02:30about Gia's

01:02:31behavior that

01:02:32leads you

01:02:32to have

01:02:33that reaction?

01:02:35What kind

01:02:36of things

01:02:36could she

01:02:36say?

01:02:44Can I

01:02:45please just

01:02:45say things

01:02:46that can

01:02:47make someone

01:02:48feel pretty

01:02:49defeated

01:02:49and let down?

01:02:50chess.

01:02:56Honestly,

01:02:58if you

01:02:58can't

01:02:59speak

01:02:59honestly

01:03:00in front

01:03:00of Gia

01:03:01about the

01:03:01things that

01:03:02she does

01:03:02and say

01:03:03that hurt

01:03:03you or

01:03:03scare

01:03:04you or

01:03:04make you

01:03:04feel

01:03:05off,

01:03:05then I'm

01:03:11really,

01:03:11really concerned

01:03:12about the

01:03:13possibility

01:03:13of this

01:03:14relationship

01:03:15surviving

01:03:15outside the

01:03:16experiment.

01:03:31Scott,

01:03:33we've got

01:03:33all night.

01:03:34We're not

01:03:35going anywhere.

01:03:36We're going

01:03:36to sit here

01:03:37and ask you

01:03:37uncomfortable

01:03:38questions until

01:03:39you come

01:03:39clean.

01:03:41Okay?

01:03:42I just,

01:03:42I care about

01:03:43it so much.

01:03:44If you don't

01:03:44let us in,

01:03:46you're not

01:03:46going to

01:03:47last.

01:03:49What I'm

01:03:50seeing here

01:03:50is fake.

01:03:52I'm going

01:03:52to call you

01:03:53out.

01:03:53I've seen

01:03:54it the entire

01:03:54experiment.

01:03:56You talk

01:03:57about things

01:03:58in a way

01:03:59where you

01:03:59don't give

01:04:00us any

01:04:00of the

01:04:01information.

01:04:02You skirt

01:04:03around the

01:04:03issues.

01:04:04I get it.

01:04:05You're trying

01:04:05to fly

01:04:07under the

01:04:07radar,

01:04:07but what

01:04:08we're saying

01:04:08tonight is

01:04:09that ends.

01:04:10Yeah.

01:04:11Okay?

01:04:12You sat

01:04:12down here,

01:04:13you're petrified

01:04:14of Gia,

01:04:15and you're

01:04:15not answering

01:04:16the questions.

01:04:21So I'm

01:04:22going to

01:04:22ask you

01:04:23again,

01:04:23Scott,

01:04:24what kind

01:04:24of things

01:04:25could Gia

01:04:27say that

01:04:27would make

01:04:28you feel

01:04:29fearful of

01:04:29speaking up?

01:04:31So this

01:04:32is probably

01:04:32the most

01:04:33magic concern.

01:04:34It could

01:04:35happen probably

01:04:36on average

01:04:36once a week.

01:04:37I feel like

01:04:38there's a bit

01:04:38of pressure

01:04:38of me to

01:04:39say I'm

01:04:39in love,

01:04:39and when

01:04:40I don't

01:04:40say it,

01:04:41Gia will

01:04:42tend to

01:04:42spoil and

01:04:43say things

01:04:44like you're

01:04:45a crime,

01:04:45you're not

01:04:45a man,

01:04:46you're not

01:04:46a provider.

01:04:47You don't

01:04:48give me

01:04:48reassurance.

01:04:51Pretty much

01:04:51every name

01:04:52under the sun,

01:04:52right?

01:04:54Every name

01:04:54under the sun

01:04:55is wild.

01:04:56Gia,

01:04:57babe,

01:04:58the reason

01:04:58why I'm

01:04:59here is

01:04:59because I

01:05:00know she

01:05:00doesn't

01:05:00intentionally

01:05:01mean it,

01:05:02it's because

01:05:02it comes

01:05:02from a place

01:05:03of hurt.

01:05:03I'll explain

01:05:04that you

01:05:04talk for

01:05:05yourself.

01:05:05And I

01:05:06just will

01:05:08explain,

01:05:08babe,

01:05:09listen to

01:05:10what you're

01:05:10saying,

01:05:11I know you

01:05:12don't mean

01:05:12it,

01:05:12where's this

01:05:12coming from,

01:05:13and I don't

01:05:14know what

01:05:14it is,

01:05:14I just

01:05:15don't know.

01:05:17When you're

01:05:17having that

01:05:18situation,

01:05:19and there are

01:05:19things that are

01:05:20being said,

01:05:21how do you

01:05:21feel in that

01:05:21moment?

01:05:23In these

01:05:23moments that

01:05:24you're describing

01:05:24now,

01:05:25where she's

01:05:26coming at

01:05:26you personally?

01:05:28I just feel

01:05:29like when it's

01:05:31I just feel

01:05:31completely destroyed

01:05:32like I'm

01:05:32worthless.

01:05:34That's

01:05:34pretty major.

01:05:36But I just

01:05:37want Gia to

01:05:38know that I

01:05:39care so much

01:05:39about her,

01:05:40my feelings

01:05:41are strong,

01:05:41I'm falling

01:05:42for her,

01:05:42but when

01:05:42these things

01:05:43happen,

01:05:43it pulls

01:05:44me back

01:05:44and it

01:05:44holds me

01:05:45back.

01:05:47And so

01:05:48Gia,

01:05:49why do you

01:05:50think when

01:05:51you're feeling

01:05:52threatened or

01:05:54not happy

01:05:55with what

01:05:55Scott says

01:05:56that you

01:05:56attack him?

01:05:58What is

01:05:59that about

01:05:59for you?

01:06:00This is a

01:06:01man that you're

01:06:02falling in

01:06:02love with

01:06:03from every

01:06:03indication

01:06:04I've had.

01:06:06Well,

01:06:06I'll just

01:06:07say it

01:06:07out loud.

01:06:11If this

01:06:11wasn't on

01:06:12camera,

01:06:12I told him

01:06:13I'm in

01:06:13love with

01:06:13him yesterday.

01:06:16So this is

01:06:17a man you

01:06:17love.

01:06:19So where

01:06:20does that

01:06:20come from?

01:06:21for me,

01:06:24I've felt

01:06:25this way for

01:06:25Scott for

01:06:26the last

01:06:26few weeks

01:06:28and there's

01:06:29been so

01:06:29many moments

01:06:30where I

01:06:31wanted to

01:06:32say it and

01:06:32I'm like,

01:06:33you can't be

01:06:33the girl who

01:06:34says it

01:06:34first.

01:06:35Usually it's

01:06:36been the

01:06:36guy who

01:06:36said it

01:06:37first,

01:06:37so this is

01:06:37weird for

01:06:38me.

01:06:38And I've

01:06:39wanted him to

01:06:39know why

01:06:40I've been

01:06:40spiralling.

01:06:41It's because

01:06:41of this.

01:06:42I've been

01:06:42wanting to

01:06:43say it and

01:06:43I know he's

01:06:44not there and

01:06:44it's frustrating

01:06:45for me because

01:06:45I feel

01:06:45rejected to

01:06:47be honest.

01:06:48The leading

01:06:49up to where

01:06:49you're having

01:06:50these big

01:06:50feelings and

01:06:51that's what's

01:06:51making you

01:06:52feel like,

01:06:52oh my God,

01:06:53he's going

01:06:53to reject

01:06:53me.

01:06:54Why go

01:06:55hurt him?

01:06:57Because I

01:06:57felt hurt and

01:06:59I was like,

01:07:00let me hurt

01:07:00him.

01:07:02That's the

01:07:03truth.

01:07:07That's a

01:07:08pretty big

01:07:10revelation and

01:07:10also a hurdle

01:07:12for Scott to

01:07:13have to handle

01:07:14and walk

01:07:15around eggshells

01:07:16trying to

01:07:17not have

01:07:18you have

01:07:19this reaction.

01:07:20I just think

01:07:20this is very

01:07:21new for me.

01:07:22I haven't

01:07:22ever been in

01:07:23this situation

01:07:24before.

01:07:24But in the

01:07:25situation of

01:07:26saying that

01:07:27you're hurt

01:07:27and therefore

01:07:28you're choosing

01:07:28to hurt

01:07:29back, is

01:07:30that the way

01:07:31that you

01:07:31normally are?

01:07:34No.

01:07:37I'm going

01:07:37to insist

01:07:38and underline

01:07:39this because

01:07:39I really want

01:07:40you to take

01:07:42in Gia,

01:07:43that we can

01:07:44absolutely see

01:07:45how strong

01:07:45your relationship

01:07:46with Scott

01:07:46is.

01:07:47But it is a

01:07:48pattern that

01:07:48you're bringing

01:07:49to the table

01:07:49that you need

01:07:50to break

01:07:51because it

01:07:52will be the

01:07:52thing that

01:07:53makes him

01:07:54run the

01:07:54other way.

01:08:08the leading

01:08:09up to where

01:08:09you're having

01:08:10these big

01:08:10feelings and

01:08:11that's what's

01:08:11making you feel

01:08:12like, oh my

01:08:12God, he's

01:08:13going to

01:08:13reject me.

01:08:15Why go

01:08:15hurt him?

01:08:17Because I

01:08:18felt hurt

01:08:20and I was

01:08:20like, let me

01:08:21hurt him.

01:08:23that's the

01:08:24truth.

01:08:26I'm going

01:08:27to insist

01:08:27and underline

01:08:28this because

01:08:29I really want

01:08:30you to take

01:08:31in Gia.

01:08:33It is a

01:08:33pattern that

01:08:34you're bringing

01:08:34to the table

01:08:35that you need

01:08:35to break because

01:08:37it will be the

01:08:38thing that makes

01:08:39him run the

01:08:39other way.

01:08:46Do you feel

01:08:47secure in your

01:08:48relationship with

01:08:49Scott?

01:08:56Like, yes

01:08:57and no.

01:08:59Why no?

01:09:03I don't

01:09:03know, because

01:09:04like, sometimes

01:09:05I can't bring

01:09:06something up because

01:09:06I'm argumentative

01:09:08or so I don't

01:09:09feel like I'm

01:09:10secure with him

01:09:10and I can be

01:09:11myself.

01:09:12So that and

01:09:13like, he doesn't

01:09:13feel as strong

01:09:14as I feel.

01:09:16Like, well,

01:09:16he could just

01:09:17leave.

01:09:19Am I going to

01:09:20move for like?

01:09:20Am I going to

01:09:21take my daughter

01:09:21out of her

01:09:22school in Melbourne

01:09:23and move to

01:09:23the Gold Coast

01:09:24if he just

01:09:24likes me?

01:09:27Just don't

01:09:28feel as secure

01:09:29as maybe I

01:09:29could in the

01:09:31relationship.

01:09:33So there's still

01:09:33room there for

01:09:34you to grow in

01:09:35terms of security

01:09:36in the relationship.

01:09:39How does it make

01:09:39you feel to hear

01:09:42Gia say that she

01:09:42doesn't feel secure

01:09:43in the relationship?

01:09:47I'm confused

01:09:48because Gia tells

01:09:49me that she

01:09:49feels secure.

01:09:51I try and

01:09:52tickle the boxes

01:09:53to make a note

01:09:55and reassure her

01:09:56that I'm all in

01:09:56on this and

01:09:57like, when we

01:09:58have tough times

01:09:58like, I just

01:09:59keep telling you

01:10:00I'm here for you.

01:10:00I want you to be

01:10:01the shoulder to cry

01:10:01on and like,

01:10:02you know,

01:10:03whenever there is

01:10:03bad things,

01:10:04maybe sometimes

01:10:05I say, oh,

01:10:06like, I don't

01:10:07want to hear it

01:10:07or something like

01:10:08that, but,

01:10:09you know.

01:10:09Well, that's why

01:10:10I don't feel secure

01:10:13because I'm like,

01:10:14well, I can't

01:10:15bring that up,

01:10:16so like, how do I,

01:10:17how can I be

01:10:18vulnerable and

01:10:18feel safe?

01:10:19Because it's swept

01:10:20under the rug,

01:10:21you know?

01:10:22Do you shut down

01:10:23my feelings a lot

01:10:24of the time?

01:10:24I'm going to say

01:10:25myself, I've never

01:10:25shut down your

01:10:26feelings, Gia,

01:10:26never.

01:10:27Well, that's my

01:10:28perception and I

01:10:29feel like sometimes

01:10:30we'll talk about

01:10:31something and you

01:10:32just don't listen.

01:10:34And so then I

01:10:34just stop talking

01:10:35about it because he

01:10:37says I'm arguing

01:10:37and I'm like, okay,

01:10:38well, I'll just forget

01:10:39my feelings, let's

01:10:40just leave it.

01:10:41Because then my

01:10:42brain is like, oh,

01:10:44my God, you're

01:10:44arguing again, he's

01:10:45not going to fall in

01:10:45love with you.

01:10:46And it's like, it's

01:10:48like I can't win,

01:10:49to be honest.

01:10:50That's how I feel.

01:10:56Well, at last, we've

01:10:58got the real Scott and

01:11:00Gia sitting in front of

01:11:01us, and isn't it

01:11:02interesting that week

01:11:05after week, you guys

01:11:06have sat here and

01:11:07said everything's fine.

01:11:08We're a great couple.

01:11:12Tonight, you're

01:11:13exposing yourselves and

01:11:16everything isn't great

01:11:17between the two of you.

01:11:20Scott nearly couldn't

01:11:21breathe tonight because

01:11:23he was so scared about

01:11:24bringing an issue up with

01:11:25you, Gia.

01:11:27That's not healthy.

01:11:30So, it comes down to

01:11:32the two of you.

01:11:33Are you prepared to do

01:11:34the work?

01:11:35Hear things you might

01:11:36not like, but know

01:11:39that when you hear

01:11:39those feelings, you get

01:11:40closer, not further

01:11:42away.

01:11:44But you've got to be

01:11:45real over this next

01:11:46week, otherwise it is

01:11:48going to slip through

01:11:49your fingers.

01:11:54We're going to go to

01:11:55the decision.

01:11:56Stay or leave, and

01:11:57we'll go with you

01:11:57first, Gia.

01:12:02Um, yeah.

01:12:03I think we needed to

01:12:04have this conversation

01:12:05tonight because we're

01:12:07at the end.

01:12:07I don't want to have

01:12:08any questions unanswered,

01:12:10and that's the same

01:12:11with me saying that I

01:12:13love him.

01:12:13I just wanted to be

01:12:16fully in.

01:12:17So, anyways, with

01:12:19that, we'll take on

01:12:20your advice this week,

01:12:22and I'm going to

01:12:23stay.

01:12:24Mm.

01:12:25Love that.

01:12:27What have you got,

01:12:27Scott?

01:12:28Stay or leave?

01:12:29Obviously, we've come

01:12:30so far in this

01:12:31experiment, and I

01:12:31honestly appreciate the

01:12:33three of you for what

01:12:34you've done for us and

01:12:35how you've paired us,

01:12:35and I was nervous

01:12:37walking here tonight,

01:12:38and I don't get

01:12:38nervous, and I feel so

01:12:41light right now because

01:12:42we can both have our

01:12:44say, and I can, I

01:12:46can tell you right

01:12:47now, this is going to

01:12:48help us so much.

01:12:50So, I'm excited for

01:12:51this week because I

01:12:51just feel so happy just

01:12:53after this conversation.

01:12:54So, I'm staying in the

01:12:56sun because we're going

01:12:56to the sunny Gold Coast.

01:12:59All right, you two.

01:13:02So, it's a big week

01:13:03coming up for the two

01:13:05of you, and I know

01:13:06it's hard for you as a

01:13:07couple, but when issues

01:13:09get brought up this

01:13:10week, when you talk

01:13:10about the big stuff,

01:13:13try and be curious as

01:13:15opposed to defensive.

01:13:18All right.

01:13:19Good luck.

01:13:20Good luck.

01:13:26Come on, Lee.

01:13:30Okay.

01:13:32Okay.

01:13:33Yeah.

01:13:34Always.

01:13:35Mm-hmm.

01:13:36Mm-hmm.

01:13:37You know.

01:13:38I don't know.

01:13:40I don't know.

01:13:43I don't know.

01:13:44I don't know.

01:13:45I don't know.

01:13:46I don't know.

01:13:56Tomorrow night.

01:13:58What is going on here?

01:13:59Chanel.

01:14:00Shannon.

01:14:01Oh, no.

01:14:03What?

01:14:04James.

01:14:05Antoni.

01:14:05Oh, my God.

01:14:06What?

01:14:07During the matchmaking

01:14:08process, there was more

01:14:10than one person that our

01:14:11participants were compatible

01:14:13with.

01:14:13The unforgettable final test

01:14:16is back.

01:14:17Oh, my God.

01:14:18It is the ultimate test of

01:14:19trust and security.

01:14:21And this season, the

01:14:23experts have upped the

01:14:24ante like never before.

01:14:26We are removing the

01:14:27element of choice from the

01:14:28final test.

01:14:29Over two incredible nights.

01:14:32I feel sick.

01:14:33I feel like I'm going to

01:14:34pass out.

01:14:36All our participants will

01:14:38make their alternative

01:14:39matches.

01:14:40The only Dave man that

01:14:42came for money.

01:14:43Let's get married.

01:14:44Some will more than enjoy

01:14:46the fresh perspective.

01:14:47Why do I always get the

01:14:48young ones?

01:14:49I like it.

01:14:50You've got to stop

01:14:51touching me because if my

01:14:52wife sees this, she's

01:14:53going to get it.

01:14:53No!

01:14:57Before the biggest twist

01:15:00the experiments ever

01:15:03seen.

01:15:04Instagram screener!

01:15:06Are you serious?

01:15:09That is disgusting.

01:15:12Oh, yeah.

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