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Love is Blind Sweden Season 3 Episode 4
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00:00:18You
00:00:19We're here now you and me yes, I want to ask you with my whole heart
00:00:28Will you marry me I oh my god, it's really beautiful
00:00:39Really beautiful
00:00:50Oh my god
00:01:03I don't think I'm ready
00:01:12I really want to be I thought I was and I really wish that I could be but I don't
00:01:20think I am
00:01:22It happened too fast
00:01:25You said you were in love and I couldn't say the same and then I realized that if you're doing
00:01:31this you must be
00:01:34I get it
00:01:35Yes, I
00:01:38And I really wish I could feel a little different a little more it would have been so much better
00:01:46This has been amazing
00:01:48You're the best
00:01:51I'm just not ready
00:01:53I thought I was
00:01:56It's okay
00:01:56No, I don't want you to be sad
00:02:00It went a little too fast for me
00:02:07Can I give you a hug?
00:02:08Yes, please
00:02:19It was so wonderful
00:02:23I'm sorry
00:02:23You don't have to say you're sorry
00:02:26You don't have to say it
00:02:31Thank you so much
00:02:32Thank you for being so honest, it was beautiful
00:02:36Okay
00:02:36Goodbye
00:02:39Goodbye
00:02:45Oh, my God.
00:03:10Oh, my God.
00:03:23Oh, my God.
00:03:30Oh, my God.
00:03:32I have to be strong.
00:03:34Always.
00:03:39Love?
00:03:40What is love?
00:03:43Well, I don't know.
00:03:47Maybe love's not for me.
00:03:51Maybe not.
00:03:53Maybe not.
00:04:12Yes, I'm nervous as hell.
00:04:14I am really nervous.
00:04:16I'm shaking for sure.
00:04:18I want to feel something.
00:04:22When that door opens, when I see her, when we get to hug each other for the first time,
00:04:28will we both have chemistry?
00:04:30Will she be a stranger?
00:04:32Or is she the person that I've been talking to for so many hours?
00:04:35The one I feel so much for without ever having met.
00:04:38Is she the one?
00:04:43I'm very ready, but I'm also very nervous, too.
00:04:47I fall in love with a wall.
00:04:49But there's a man behind that wall.
00:04:52It's difficult.
00:04:53Because I know that everybody has different tastes in what they like,
00:04:57and people place different value on a person's appearance.
00:05:00And so, speaking for myself, I don't make a big deal about how somebody looks.
00:05:06It's more about how they treat me and what their personality is like.
00:05:10But that's easy to say when you have yet to actually see the person.
00:05:26When that door opens, it should be kind of like a shock going through my body.
00:05:37Joanna.
00:05:38Hi.
00:05:39Well, hi.
00:05:41Hi.
00:05:42But, no, it's totally...
00:05:44Hi.
00:05:45Oh, my.
00:05:46Oh.
00:05:49My whole body is shaking.
00:05:52I've never been so sure.
00:05:54So are you.
00:05:55Completely amazing.
00:05:56I mean, I've never thought about a name as much as I am now.
00:06:00Joanna Storm.
00:06:02You are so beautiful.
00:06:03I can't believe it.
00:06:06Damn.
00:06:06You got lipstick.
00:06:07It doesn't matter.
00:06:08How are you?
00:06:09Good.
00:06:10Are you sure?
00:06:11Better now.
00:06:11Do you?
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:13You look so beautiful.
00:06:14Oh, thank you.
00:06:17Can we do another hug?
00:06:18I want a hug.
00:06:19I've waited so long.
00:06:21Oh, my God.
00:06:23There is a terribly nice shiver going through my body right now.
00:06:26It's so...
00:06:26It's so crazy to hear your voice.
00:06:28I know what you mean.
00:06:29Who are you?
00:06:30And that...
00:06:31Should we sit down for a minute?
00:06:33So we don't fall apart?
00:06:37Here's the thing.
00:06:38I'm not a kleptomaniac, but I found a little flower.
00:06:41Oh.
00:06:42So I hope you can enjoy it.
00:06:43Oh, that's nice.
00:06:44It's not that nice.
00:06:46But I do have something else for you.
00:06:47Oh.
00:06:48That I'd like to give you.
00:06:49Oh.
00:06:50Really?
00:06:51Uh, really.
00:06:52But yeah, it's just, uh...
00:06:54It's hard to let this sink in.
00:06:56Uh-huh.
00:06:57A mountain storm that...
00:06:58Yeah, that flew in.
00:07:00Yes, that flew in.
00:07:01Yeah.
00:07:01I mean, no.
00:07:02Who are you?
00:07:04Oh, my God.
00:07:04Magical.
00:07:05I mean, you're really taking me by storm.
00:07:08I mean, can I just...
00:07:09Yeah, right.
00:07:10Exactly.
00:07:10Never heard that one before.
00:07:11No, that was the idea all along.
00:07:13Okay.
00:07:13I'm going in here to take my man by storm.
00:07:15Shit.
00:07:16My hands are just all over you.
00:07:19But...
00:07:19Incredibly beautiful.
00:07:21I mean, seeing you makes me so giddy and happy.
00:07:25Yeah, it's amazing.
00:07:26Is it okay if we stand up now?
00:07:28I just have to, uh...
00:07:30Yeah.
00:07:31Look.
00:07:33Joanna, Victoria's storm.
00:07:35I have a little question for you.
00:07:37Aye, aye, aye.
00:07:38And now, I'm going to get down on one knee.
00:07:42Hey, Joanna?
00:07:43Yes?
00:07:44Do you still want to marry me?
00:07:48Yeah.
00:07:49Yeah?
00:07:50Oh, man.
00:07:50I mean...
00:07:53I don't know how this goes, but can I just...
00:07:55Oh.
00:07:56Yeah, exactly.
00:07:57Whoa, what a great choice.
00:07:59I'm going back down.
00:08:00This feels better.
00:08:01You think it's beautiful?
00:08:03It's really beautiful.
00:08:04It goes nicely with your little bracelet.
00:08:06Oh, my God.
00:08:07Right?
00:08:08Is it...
00:08:09Is it a mountain storm ring?
00:08:11Yes, it was.
00:08:12It was.
00:08:13That's nice.
00:08:16You're not shaking as much.
00:08:17No, a little less.
00:08:18It's good.
00:08:19A little less for sure.
00:08:20Shall we go for a swim?
00:08:22Now you've recovered, cooling off a little would be nice?
00:08:25Yeah.
00:08:26Actually.
00:08:26Feels like everything's falling off.
00:08:28I'm kidding.
00:08:29We shouldn't have said anything about that, but look.
00:08:33Ah, shit.
00:08:34This was worth it.
00:08:35Yeah.
00:08:36It really was.
00:08:36I mean...
00:08:37It was.
00:08:37Let's walk in the same direction.
00:08:39Someone will have to stop us.
00:08:41I don't want to walk out that way.
00:08:42You can follow me.
00:08:44Follow me to the door.
00:08:45Right?
00:08:45Let's try it.
00:08:46But hey, this is magical.
00:08:49Hey, that ring.
00:08:51Yeah.
00:08:51Hold it on to it.
00:08:52You do that?
00:08:53Yeah.
00:08:54Mountain storm forever.
00:08:56Kisses.
00:08:56Kisses.
00:08:57Bye.
00:08:58Oh, my God.
00:09:16What a thing.
00:09:18He was lovely.
00:09:21She's a 10.
00:09:23She's easily a 10.
00:09:24And that's a wrapping paper that you keep.
00:09:27Was that a dream?
00:09:30Well, damn.
00:09:32This turned out better than I'd ever imagined.
00:09:35This is the best piece of jewelry I've ever had.
00:09:38Because it comes with a man.
00:09:40Now I just want to get out of here and see him again.
00:09:43Why am I still here?
00:09:46This is wonderful, wonderful.
00:09:53Wonderful, wonderful.
00:09:58Now our five couples will take the next step in their relationship together.
00:10:03Bye-bye.
00:10:06Sure you don't want to help?
00:10:07Totally sure.
00:10:08Okay.
00:10:09I'm a strong woman.
00:10:09Did you ever think this day would come?
00:10:12It has to go.
00:10:14Mmm.
00:10:15Finally.
00:10:16Yeah.
00:10:18Look, it's so nice.
00:10:20Yeah, wow.
00:10:21Oh, that didn't work out.
00:10:22Rings on their fingers.
00:10:24They've chosen each other solely based on who their partner is on the inside.
00:10:28And in the pods, they've formed a strong emotional bond.
00:10:31Cheers to us.
00:10:32Cheers to us.
00:10:35The weddings are now only a few weeks away.
00:10:38But in order to say I do, the physical attraction must also be there.
00:10:42My God, you're so smooth.
00:10:44Is that good?
00:10:45It's great.
00:10:46I like to touch.
00:10:47Will they be able to connect the voice to the appearance and still have feelings for the person?
00:10:52That's what the couples will be exploring here on Corfu in Greece.
00:10:56Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, wonderful.
00:11:03Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.
00:11:14Birthday girl.
00:11:16No way.
00:11:17You remember that?
00:11:18No, I forgot.
00:11:19I promise.
00:11:20I was like, what?
00:11:21Awesome.
00:11:22What an entrance.
00:11:23Oh, my God.
00:11:24Come on.
00:11:25Hello.
00:11:25Oh, thank you.
00:11:26Oh, hi.
00:11:26All good?
00:11:27Yeah.
00:11:28Happy birthday.
00:11:30I mean, yeah.
00:11:31How could I forget that?
00:11:32Oh, my God.
00:11:33I mean...
00:11:34I'm ready to take it to the next step.
00:11:36I'm done on the inside.
00:11:37I know who...
00:11:38I mean, we know a lot about each other.
00:11:40We also know the deeper stuff.
00:11:42So that part is in place.
00:11:44Now it's the physical...
00:11:45Well, yeah.
00:11:47You look nice.
00:11:48Thanks.
00:11:49I mean, I think I'm going to be pretty clingy with her.
00:11:52I know that I can be like that when I really like something.
00:11:55Well, that pool looks nice.
00:11:57It's so cozy.
00:11:58Woo-hoo!
00:11:59And a little too nice, I think.
00:12:01This is just incredible.
00:12:03Just, wow.
00:12:04It's so wonderful.
00:12:06A pretty great honeymoon.
00:12:17To be a woman these days.
00:12:22No, I'm kidding.
00:12:23Okay.
00:12:25No, no, you didn't.
00:12:27No, I didn't.
00:12:28Okay.
00:12:29So there's a walk-in closet.
00:12:31I mean, this is totally...
00:12:32This is totally crazy.
00:12:33That's yours.
00:12:34All of it?
00:12:35Really?
00:12:36Yeah, what am I going to put in there?
00:12:37What about you?
00:12:38I've got this.
00:12:40I like that.
00:12:41Extra points.
00:12:42The feeling's amazing.
00:12:44Today is a good day to be alive.
00:12:46And I hope I'll feel the same way every day from now on.
00:12:49I love this.
00:12:51Eyes on the prize, they say.
00:12:52Eyes on the prize.
00:12:53And she really is top prize for me.
00:12:57So now it's up to me to behave.
00:13:01You were wearing nice clothes when I saw you that first time.
00:13:06You were nervous, though.
00:13:08You were.
00:13:09Do you think I was nervous?
00:13:10You were so nervous.
00:13:11No.
00:13:11I could see it in your eyes.
00:13:14Yeah, but who wouldn't be nervous?
00:13:16With an amazing woman?
00:13:18The thoughts and feelings that I'm having towards Lars Eric is that it will be really nice to finally be
00:13:24able to relax and settle down for a bit so we can see how we actually are with one another
00:13:29in normal life.
00:13:30Okay, but now I'm done.
00:13:32Okay, but now I'm done.
00:13:32This was so damn boring.
00:13:34We're unpacking when the sun is shining and the champagne is out.
00:13:38The feeling I get when he...
00:13:42There was this one thing that he did that scared me a lot.
00:13:47Perfect.
00:13:48How's it locked?
00:13:50Lars Eric wrote on a note,
00:13:52You are an amazing woman.
00:13:54I love you.
00:13:55And it hurt me.
00:13:56If I were watching this, I would have run immediately.
00:14:00I have promised myself that if I meet a guy who's love bombing me, I'll back off because it can't
00:14:07be real.
00:14:09The breeze is nice.
00:14:11It's an amazing view.
00:14:12Oh, yeah.
00:14:13But I have a better one.
00:14:15How do we move forward, but at a calmer pace, without drifting apart?
00:14:20Because I don't want that.
00:14:22So there are still a lot of things that you and I need to talk about, obviously.
00:14:27And I think that it's good that we do it when we feel like.
00:14:34Now, I don't feel like it.
00:14:36But...
00:14:37You don't want to have a deep conversation right out of the game?
00:14:40No, I can't.
00:14:40What?
00:14:42That's what I was going to do right away.
00:14:44Damn it, it's been so hard.
00:14:46Get into heavy stuff.
00:14:48I've written down 40 questions that are really intense.
00:14:51What?
00:14:52No, I'd never do that.
00:14:53Like, how'd I get here?
00:14:54I'd never do that.
00:14:55No.
00:14:56You are my wife-to-be, so I'll have to behave.
00:15:00I'm here for one thing, and one alone.
00:15:04She's right here.
00:15:06And it's going to be great to spend this time with a wonderful woman like you.
00:15:27Great.
00:15:28That's good.
00:15:29eBay and I kind of said that now that it's the two of us, let's just go for it.
00:15:34100%.
00:15:35And I hope we will continue to feel that way, and two, one thought, to stay in love and
00:15:40to get married.
00:15:43Yeah, but how...
00:15:45Have you been?
00:15:47Been kind of tough.
00:15:48Has it?
00:15:48Just thought it was so intense in there.
00:15:51That first meeting?
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:53Yeah, I thought so, too.
00:15:54I don't know what it was.
00:15:55I didn't realize it was you I've been talking to.
00:15:58I don't think I got that either.
00:16:00At the same time, I was really happy.
00:16:02I was also panicking.
00:16:04I think we all were.
00:16:05Oh, yeah?
00:16:07What shocked you about the way I look?
00:16:09The fact that you didn't have hair.
00:16:12I was shocked by...
00:16:14Because of the nose ring?
00:16:15No, yeah, I just hadn't pictured it.
00:16:17It's not a big deal, I don't think.
00:16:19I can take it out.
00:16:20No, no.
00:16:21If you think it's nice, then you should wear it.
00:16:23That's not something I really need to care about.
00:16:28I'm going to sit next to you instead, yeah?
00:16:30You comfortable?
00:16:31Yes, I am.
00:16:34What?
00:16:35Wait.
00:16:36Forgot about you wearing a ring.
00:16:37That's crazy.
00:16:39What?
00:16:40I got it from you.
00:16:41Yeah.
00:16:43That's crazy.
00:16:45Well, I was just in shock.
00:16:48I love your laugh.
00:16:51You never said what you thought I'd look like.
00:16:54You thought dark features, but were you thinking tall, maybe?
00:16:57I didn't have much more of a picture than that.
00:17:00I mean, I don't know.
00:17:03No, sort of not really.
00:17:06I think you're beautiful.
00:17:08Likewise.
00:17:11Come closer.
00:17:12Come closer?
00:17:13Mm-mm.
00:17:14Better now?
00:17:15Feels a lot better.
00:17:19Come on now.
00:17:21I feel alive.
00:17:25Do you feel it too?
00:17:28I feel alive with you.
00:17:36You got nice arms.
00:17:42Thanks.
00:17:45Okay, what would be, if I'm showing a side of myself that, what is something where you'd
00:17:50be like, no, no, no, not that, no?
00:17:53I don't like inconsistency.
00:17:56If you're one way, then just be that way.
00:17:59But if you're like, going back and forth, then...
00:18:03By what?
00:18:04That could happen.
00:18:05Can it?
00:18:07Yeah, if I have PMS.
00:18:08Is that so?
00:18:11I don't like it when you say, is that so?
00:18:14Okay.
00:18:15Actually, I don't.
00:18:16Is that so?
00:18:16Hey, and then you say it, you...
00:18:20You're kidding.
00:18:21I think it sounds smug.
00:18:23You never said that in the pods.
00:18:24Is that so?
00:18:25But...
00:18:26Hey.
00:18:30You are tall.
00:18:32You think I'm too tall?
00:18:34No.
00:18:35It shouldn't be a problem.
00:18:37With what?
00:18:38Yeah, that you are tall.
00:18:43What?
00:18:45Problem how?
00:18:46I don't know.
00:18:47Be quiet.
00:18:49I mean...
00:18:50You being funny?
00:18:52Do you think I'm funny?
00:18:54Somewhat.
00:18:58I'm afraid you'll get tired of me.
00:19:01Is that so?
00:19:21I'm engaged just somebody I've known for 15 minutes, and now we're on vacation, and there's
00:19:27a certain pressure that this goes well, both from my side, because I want this, we've
00:19:32invested a lot in this, but I also don't want to disappoint Ludwig or the expectations
00:19:37he has.
00:19:38Cheers, kisses.
00:19:41So that's it.
00:19:43The pressure is definitely there.
00:19:45Now that we finally are together, we'll start to get more and more comfortable and more relaxed
00:19:51with each other, I hope, I think that's what's going to happen.
00:19:55Absolutely.
00:19:56I hope so.
00:19:57Yeah.
00:19:59I mostly just need some time right now to feel comfortable around him.
00:20:04I mean, we're in an environment that's very inviting and where it's easy to get physical,
00:20:10but it's got to feel right, not just because we're engaged and that's what we should do.
00:20:16Instead, we have to explore that.
00:20:18It feels really important to listen to each other and talk about it a lot in a way that
00:20:23we might not have done normally.
00:20:27For me, it's just important to know if you like physical affection, like how you would
00:20:34maybe feel if I come up and give you a kiss or hug you or...
00:20:38Yeah, just wondering if you would think it's uncomfortable or if you like it or if it's
00:20:44like...
00:20:44I don't think it's uncomfortable.
00:20:45That's just not how I work.
00:20:47How so?
00:20:49I think that couples that are very couple-y are annoying.
00:20:52I mean, I hate lovey-dovey couples.
00:20:55I'm just not like that.
00:20:57But then again, because we're not...
00:20:59We're so new that I don't know...
00:21:02We don't know what we are.
00:21:05No, that's also how it is.
00:21:07That's all part of it.
00:21:10But I'm like this.
00:21:12I do what I feel and I just like showing it.
00:21:17But do you think that's because, I mean, earlier that you...
00:21:21No, I think it's a bit of both.
00:21:22I'm not so lovey-dovey in general.
00:21:27But also, I'm not used to it and I don't see that as a bad thing.
00:21:33I mean...
00:21:33No, right.
00:21:34You pull away as if you never could
00:21:44Creating distances by last days dread
00:21:49I don't move like you do
00:21:57I can hold it.
00:21:59Hold that?
00:21:59Yeah, let's not spill that.
00:22:00No, we don't.
00:22:01No.
00:22:02If we do it like this, we can sit together.
00:22:04There.
00:22:05There.
00:22:06Oh my god, that sweater is so cozy.
00:22:09Shit.
00:22:10Cozy time.
00:22:11Yes, indeed.
00:22:12Extra cozy that it's your birthday.
00:22:15I wanted to give you a gift anyway, but now it feels more natural to bring you flowers and gifts.
00:22:20That was very sweet.
00:22:21I actually have a tiny, tiny gift for you, too.
00:22:24I really hope you don't.
00:22:25That's so stressful.
00:22:27It's just a little thing.
00:22:28What?
00:22:29That I have for you, but the little thing also includes something else.
00:22:36Responsibility?
00:22:37What the hell is this?
00:22:38Now I'm getting really nervous.
00:22:41What in the world is this?
00:22:44Oh, is it Balboa?
00:22:46It is Balboa.
00:22:48Is it?
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:49Is it Balboa?
00:22:50The cat sits just like you said.
00:22:52Yes, he does.
00:22:52I mean, come on now.
00:22:54I mean.
00:22:55Look in the bag again.
00:22:58That's the most important thing.
00:23:00Look at this.
00:23:02What?
00:23:04Do I?
00:23:04I didn't know I would.
00:23:06Do I?
00:23:07Are you kidding me?
00:23:08Yeah.
00:23:09Is it true?
00:23:10Do I get one?
00:23:10Yes.
00:23:11You get one.
00:23:13Oh, my God.
00:23:15How lovely.
00:23:16What?
00:23:17I'm so happy.
00:23:18So nice.
00:23:20What?
00:23:20I mean.
00:23:21Did you think that you didn't get one?
00:23:22But this.
00:23:23It comes with a little extra for you.
00:23:26It comes with a house that's going to be a home.
00:23:31So cool.
00:23:32Hmm.
00:23:37That was so nice.
00:23:39I've never worn an engagement ring, so.
00:23:42No.
00:23:44Cheers for that.
00:23:45I want to talk about something else before I cry.
00:23:49Oh, my God.
00:23:49This wasn't cozy.
00:23:51Can I even reach in to touch your leg?
00:23:53What the hell?
00:23:54What are you up to under the blanket?
00:23:56Yeah.
00:23:56I'm trying to get through.
00:23:58But it's like a shield.
00:24:00Yeah.
00:24:01What the hell?
00:24:02It's still.
00:24:02I built a wall to stop you.
00:24:03Oh, funny.
00:24:04I'm kidding.
00:24:04That was.
00:24:05Is there an electric fence, too?
00:24:07Naughty naughty.
00:24:23The way you described how you always knew how I felt about you
00:24:29made me feel good.
00:24:31And that feeling, I've never felt so seen like anybody.
00:24:38Me neither.
00:24:39Really?
00:24:40Mm-hmm.
00:24:41That's what's crazy.
00:24:43I know.
00:24:44I've never felt like this.
00:24:46No, me neither.
00:24:47It's so amazing that it's even possible to feel this way.
00:24:51Awesome.
00:24:53No matter how any of this turns out, even if it's only a moment,
00:24:59it is one of the best moments of my life.
00:25:03Sweetie.
00:25:04No, but it's true.
00:25:06I promise.
00:25:09You're so sweet.
00:25:12You are sweet.
00:25:13No, you're sweet.
00:25:35Check this out.
00:25:37What?
00:25:40Should I read what I wrote?
00:25:42Yeah.
00:25:42C.
00:25:43That's you.
00:25:44I look forward to hugging and kissing you and having a cozy night at home.
00:26:04So has it been okay today?
00:26:06It's been great.
00:26:07It feels really great.
00:26:09Good.
00:26:09It's been good.
00:26:10It's been good for me, too.
00:26:14It really was.
00:26:16It's been good.
00:26:22It's been good for me, too.
00:26:24It really was.
00:26:25I'm looking forward to tomorrow and settling in more with you.
00:26:33I look forward to it.
00:26:35I look forward to it.
00:26:35Yeah, I am.
00:26:36Me, too.
00:26:38I feel really comfortable with you.
00:26:43You're an amazing person, an amazing personality, and you are incredibly beautiful.
00:26:50You're a wonderful person, and I really hope, with all of my heart, that you end up wanting
00:26:57to marry me.
00:27:01Okay.
00:27:02Sleep well.
00:28:05That's just how I am.
00:28:06But we've barely slept.
00:28:08Well, I have a lot of energy.
00:28:10You excited to meet anyone?
00:28:12Right now, I don't feel anything.
00:28:13Yeah, you're tired. You're tired. You're gonna be really tired.
00:28:17No, I won't be tired later.
00:28:20You think I'll be tired all day?
00:28:21Yeah?
00:28:22You'll be tired and boring.
00:28:25No, I won't. I'm just not waking up at the same pace as you.
00:28:29You need to show me your best size.
00:28:32Need to?
00:28:33No, I'm kidding.
00:28:35What is this?
00:28:37What test is this?
00:28:39It is a test.
00:28:41I have to?
00:28:42You are an experiment.
00:28:43Crazy.
00:28:55Do you know what I dreamt?
00:28:57Sure it was a dream?
00:28:58Absolutely, sure.
00:29:00I dreamed about the name of this damn orange fruit.
00:29:03No.
00:29:03I figured it out and was going to tell you this morning.
00:29:07Then I forgot it.
00:29:09Clementine.
00:29:10It's not a Clementine.
00:29:11It's something else.
00:29:12And then I woke up and forgot.
00:29:14I thought it would be kind of tough with just one duvet.
00:29:18It was cozy.
00:29:19You had most of it, so maybe that's why.
00:29:21Did I?
00:29:21Yeah.
00:29:22Really?
00:29:22Yeah.
00:29:23Oh, shit.
00:29:25No, but it was super cozy.
00:29:28I thought so.
00:29:30And you want...
00:29:31You are so good, though.
00:29:32You kept it your side of the bed.
00:29:34Yeah.
00:29:35Yeah.
00:29:36Yeah.
00:29:38That's how it is.
00:29:39Hello, hello.
00:29:42That's how it is.
00:29:43So well behaved.
00:29:45Yeah.
00:29:46You get to sleep there one more night.
00:29:50Do I get a coupon?
00:29:52You kept yourself in check, and we're a gentleman, so you get to stay for another night.
00:29:58I'm really excited.
00:30:00But...
00:30:01Yeah.
00:30:01I want to hear your body talk.
00:30:03Better tell me what you want.
00:30:06You don't have to say it.
00:30:09I want to hear your body talk.
00:30:13Sunscreen?
00:30:14Oh, yeah.
00:30:14I'll do the neck.
00:30:16Ooh!
00:30:20What is that?
00:30:21A big beetle.
00:30:22Okay, come here.
00:30:27There.
00:30:27Okay.
00:30:28Good.
00:30:34This motherfucker.
00:30:38Fuck!
00:30:39It'll keep coming.
00:30:40No!
00:30:40It'll be on you.
00:30:41It needs to leave.
00:30:42It won't do that.
00:30:43Yes, it will.
00:30:45Fuck me!
00:30:47Shoo!
00:30:47Shoo!
00:30:48Maybe it's actually after me.
00:30:50Should we move?
00:30:52Let's switch.
00:30:53No, it's okay.
00:30:54I'm calm.
00:30:55I'm calm.
00:30:56You want to?
00:30:57No.
00:30:57No?
00:30:58It's on you more than I am.
00:31:00Yeah.
00:31:01It's on me more than you are.
00:31:04I'm jealous of its physical relationship with you.
00:31:08It got shunned away.
00:31:09It's a good thing.
00:31:10I'm keeping a little distance.
00:31:16I've been praying to God for an extremely beautiful woman to be by my side.
00:31:22And I believed it would happen.
00:31:25Mm-hmm.
00:31:26And I really think you are an amazing person.
00:31:32I'd say the most beautiful woman I've ever met.
00:31:35I hope that you will feel the same way about me at some point.
00:31:41Not that I'm a beautiful woman.
00:31:43But I do think you are a beautiful man.
00:31:46Very attractive.
00:31:50Thanks a lot.
00:31:51Want a kiss?
00:31:56Exactly.
00:31:57And I'm very happy that we're here together.
00:32:01I feel like there's chemistry between us.
00:32:04I also can tell.
00:32:05Our personalities seem to go really well together, I think.
00:32:10Or what are you thinking?
00:32:12If I could explain.
00:32:13Sure.
00:32:14Sorry I interrupted.
00:32:16I know there's something real here.
00:32:18But I think it's hard for me to feel something super fast.
00:32:24If I had a lot of feelings for you right out of the gate, I might not trust them so
00:32:29quickly.
00:32:30Okay.
00:32:30And that's why I think it's interesting.
00:32:33This thing with you and me now, my feeling is, are we best friends?
00:32:39Or will this evolve into something that's a lot closer to love?
00:32:44Okay.
00:32:46How am I going to convince you then?
00:32:48I want to dance with you.
00:32:51Then I want to dance with you.
00:32:53It shouldn't take forever to know what you want to do.
00:32:58If I want to leave with you.
00:33:01Then I'm going to make a move.
00:33:03All right.
00:33:04I ain't raising my time.
00:33:07No.
00:33:10Our five couples have now spent their first night together.
00:33:14Everybody's been dating in the pods, but not everyone's met each other.
00:33:18The question is, how will their relationships be affected when the couples meet for the first time?
00:33:23Come on.
00:33:24I'm on time.
00:33:25Never been late for the limelight.
00:33:27Uh-huh.
00:33:28Come on.
00:33:28It's all life.
00:33:30Never met a challenge I don't like.
00:33:31Fun.
00:33:33It's exciting as hell, actually.
00:33:35Wow.
00:33:36Come on.
00:33:37There's a barbecue.
00:33:38Yeah.
00:33:39There's some drinks over there, too.
00:33:40It's so cozy.
00:33:41Refreshments, maybe.
00:33:43Yeah.
00:33:43Hello.
00:33:45Cheers.
00:33:47It smells like Corfu.
00:33:51Oh, my God.
00:33:52Hi.
00:33:53Hi.
00:33:54Hi.
00:33:54Last Amaya.
00:33:55Last Amaya here.
00:33:56Yeah.
00:33:57Yeah.
00:33:58Hello, Daniel.
00:33:59Nice to meet you.
00:34:01Joanna.
00:34:01That's nice.
00:34:02As long as Eric.
00:34:02You've almost got a worse dialect than me.
00:34:04I've got more of a dialect.
00:34:05Well, it's stronger, at least.
00:34:06Worse dialect?
00:34:11Oh, oh.
00:34:14eBay.
00:34:16I'm just running after you.
00:34:17Hi.
00:34:19Hi, Joanna.
00:34:20Nice.
00:34:20Yeah.
00:34:21Nice to meet you.
00:34:22This is so crazy.
00:34:23It's weird, right?
00:34:25Yeah, like this.
00:34:26Hi, hi.
00:34:27I mean, it's so fun to see everyone's faces.
00:34:29You're like...
00:34:31Yeah, damn.
00:34:32It's so good to see your wives.
00:34:33It's fun to say your wives.
00:34:35What can I say, you know?
00:34:37I've been super curious.
00:34:39It's fiance.
00:34:40Yeah.
00:34:41I was really worried that he'd forgotten.
00:34:43How was I going to react?
00:34:45Yeah.
00:34:45Is it a big deal or not?
00:34:47But if my fiance would have forgotten my birthday in the real world, then I would have lost my
00:34:52goddamn mind.
00:34:53Hey, now.
00:34:54We've got company.
00:34:56Yeah.
00:34:59This is so fucking nice.
00:35:03That's so pretty.
00:35:04Oh, my God.
00:35:05You're so pretty.
00:35:09We forgot about your boyfriend.
00:35:12Hi.
00:35:12Joanna.
00:35:13Nice.
00:35:14Hi, Ronia.
00:35:15Hi.
00:35:15Ludwig.
00:35:15Nice to finally meet you.
00:35:17Crazy to see everyone.
00:35:18I know, I know.
00:35:19You're like this.
00:35:20And everyone's been dating everyone.
00:35:23How have your first days been?
00:35:25They've been amazing.
00:35:27Yeah?
00:35:27Hell, I've been dying just to be close to one another.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:32It's been amazing.
00:35:33Just on your football skills?
00:35:35Well, not so much, but it's up there in the pool.
00:35:37My other love is there.
00:35:39Yeah.
00:35:40I mean, Camila has, granted, this is my own opinion on this, but I got the impression that
00:35:46she probably likes older men.
00:35:48So, for me, they're the most surprising couple.
00:35:55We are complete.
00:35:57Damn.
00:35:59This is so much fun.
00:36:01Hi.
00:36:01Good to see you.
00:36:03Hi.
00:36:04Joanna.
00:36:05Hi.
00:36:05Daniel.
00:36:05Hi.
00:36:06Hi.
00:36:06Hi.
00:36:08I'm so glad you met Aaron.
00:36:09Hey.
00:36:10Ludwig.
00:36:11Hi.
00:36:12Nice.
00:36:12Nice to meet you.
00:36:13Oh, my God.
00:36:14I need to say hello to you.
00:36:16Oh, hey.
00:36:17You get a hug, Ronia.
00:36:18Yeah, it's you.
00:36:19Oh, my God.
00:36:19It's so nice to finally meet you.
00:36:20I've heard a lot about you.
00:36:22No, it's you.
00:36:22She can't stop talking about you.
00:36:24Aaron is just such a hottie.
00:36:26He's tall, he's magnificent, he has really great smile.
00:36:31I mean, yes.
00:36:34I'm not thinking about other people's looks.
00:36:36I have my eyes on a woman and one woman alone.
00:36:39Yep.
00:36:40For the rest of your life.
00:36:42But he's beautiful.
00:36:44Tall.
00:36:45Very tall.
00:36:46Sexy.
00:36:48Yeah.
00:36:49Yeah.
00:36:50It's funny we're checking him out.
00:36:53You are so in love.
00:36:55You're so in love.
00:36:56I can see it.
00:36:57Did you take it slow?
00:36:58Yeah.
00:36:59Mm-hmm.
00:37:05See you.
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:08Ronia, the woman that stole my heart.
00:37:10That's what I said.
00:37:12I get it.
00:37:14She stole mine too.
00:37:15How many hearts she have?
00:37:16That's my question.
00:37:17She's taken them all.
00:37:18Have you noticed any major differences?
00:37:21No.
00:37:22I mean, if we have any, we brush most of them off with a joke.
00:37:25I mean, it feels great.
00:37:27We're like copies of each other.
00:37:30Damn, that's awesome.
00:37:31Yeah.
00:37:31It's nice to put a face to your name.
00:37:34Right?
00:37:34Indeed.
00:37:34What was your impression of our dates?
00:37:39Because I've heard very different opinions about me.
00:37:41I mean...
00:37:45It feels good with a tall guy, I think.
00:37:47It's safe.
00:37:48He protects me.
00:37:48I know.
00:37:49When we go to party, he'll protect us.
00:37:52No, no.
00:37:53Oh, I won't be going.
00:37:54I don't know.
00:37:55I'm trying to run from your love.
00:37:58Circles coming, running right back to you.
00:38:01I'm trying to get lost, but it's not enough.
00:38:05Circles coming, love.
00:38:06How crazy is this?
00:38:08Very.
00:38:10I'm trying to run from your love.
00:38:11You want more?
00:38:13No, I want kisses.
00:38:14I don't want lipstick.
00:38:15I don't want lipstick.
00:38:15You want some.
00:38:16I want kisses.
00:38:17Daniel and Joanna are very physical, and they show it with each other.
00:38:23It's good to see.
00:38:24I gotta say, you guys look really beautiful.
00:38:27Aw, thank you.
00:38:28So sweet.
00:38:29Good time last night?
00:38:30Your birthday?
00:38:31I called her a birthday girl.
00:38:32It was nice.
00:38:33Yeah.
00:38:34Then she gave me a massage and attention the whole night long.
00:38:38So I told her, you gotta stop.
00:38:40It's four o'clock in the morning.
00:38:41My shoulders are almost gone.
00:38:43She was like, I just want to massage this big body.
00:38:46Yeah.
00:38:47Yeah, you're wonderful.
00:38:48But you gotta take it easy.
00:38:50Yeah, as long as you stop stealing my lipstick.
00:38:53Right?
00:38:53When I'm asking for kisses, she's like, you just want my lipstick.
00:38:56That's terrible.
00:38:57Yeah, okay.
00:38:58So this is how you guys are.
00:39:00Nice.
00:39:00That's it.
00:39:06Do you like green or red pepper?
00:39:08Hmm, I mostly like red.
00:39:15Ludwig, there's a lot of seafood for you.
00:39:17Did I hear seafood?
00:39:18Yes.
00:39:19Is there pasta and macaroni?
00:39:21Huh?
00:39:22Look at all this food.
00:39:23You're kidding me.
00:39:24Wow.
00:39:25No way.
00:39:27No way.
00:39:30Check out this octopus, because I'm crazy about it.
00:39:34Can I have some octopussy?
00:39:36Octopus.
00:39:36Octopus, yes, octopus.
00:39:38Octopus.
00:39:40But you have to, you know, there's a lot more moving parts that you have to navigate than
00:39:45in the pods.
00:39:46And then things come up where you feel like, oh yeah, this is going to be a problem.
00:39:51Yeah, yeah.
00:39:52Because she has a strong will, and I'm also strong-willed.
00:39:59Have you guys had any issues, any problems?
00:40:04No, not yet, at least.
00:40:06No.
00:40:13But I'm actually going to talk to her a little bit about the physical part of this.
00:40:22Earlier, she's never had like an actual real boyfriend.
00:40:30Boyfriend, right.
00:40:32And I think that was what, for me, made her maybe...
00:40:38Fall?
00:40:39Yeah.
00:40:40She fell down on the list.
00:40:41To me, it was like, I mean, I get the concern for sure, you know?
00:40:45Yeah, man, exactly.
00:40:46And I actually have...
00:40:47I didn't think about that before, but I have now.
00:40:50And I just want to check to see if she's just like, I just don't feel comfortable, and
00:40:55I'm not used to it, or is it that she doesn't...
00:40:58You don't want to intrude too much, right?
00:41:00We've agreed to bring things up if they're important, and I feel like that's an important
00:41:04thing.
00:41:05Yeah, I think so, too.
00:41:07As long as you're both willing to talk about things, and to try to solve things, and change
00:41:11together, I really believe that's the key to making it all work.
00:41:15I wanna be, I wanna be close to you, I tried, and I tried, and I tried, to give you
00:41:33what
00:41:33you wanted, to be more than I am.
00:41:44She's great.
00:41:46Very beautiful in so many ways, too.
00:41:50She's a female version of me.
00:41:52And I think that's awesome.
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55I think of her as...
00:41:58I think of her as my other half.
00:42:00I'm sad that she doesn't want to talk to me much right now.
00:42:04But...
00:42:04I get that she wants to mingle, and she's gonna spend a lot of time with me later.
00:42:08Yeah, of course.
00:42:11Now you know what I think of her, and how I feel.
00:42:14See if she starts feeling the same way for me.
00:42:17So you feel like you're just further along, as far as your feelings go?
00:42:21Well, further along, further along...
00:42:23What do you feel?
00:42:24No, I do know that we can have a very nice future together.
00:42:28Yes, but it still would be healthy to take it slow, considering what she's been through.
00:42:33I don't know what she's been through.
00:42:35No?
00:42:35She hasn't said anything.
00:42:36Okay.
00:42:39Oops.
00:42:46Oops.
00:42:58How are you?
00:42:59Do you think you're gonna get married?
00:43:03How I feel now?
00:43:04Yeah?
00:43:05Yeah, and it feels crazy to say it, but...
00:43:08I mean, I'm totally in love with her, and I want to make something out of it with her.
00:43:13That's how I feel.
00:43:14I truly believe in you guys.
00:43:16And it feels like you compliment each other so nicely.
00:43:20It's like there's no doubt there.
00:43:21And she hasn't hesitated once.
00:43:23At all.
00:43:24I'm glad you said that, because you're so close to her.
00:43:28What?
00:43:28I'm curious to hear about you.
00:43:30Yeah?
00:43:30How you feel about...
00:43:31About Lars Eric?
00:43:33Um, I'm going to be honest with you.
00:43:37Yesterday, it was really difficult.
00:43:40He wrote on a note, you're an amazing woman, I love you.
00:43:45It freaked me out.
00:43:46Okay.
00:43:47I've been in a relationship with a guy who, after a week, would be like, I love you.
00:43:54Love bombing.
00:43:55Love bombing.
00:43:55Exactly.
00:43:56You get it.
00:43:56I get it.
00:43:57So, when he wrote that, I totally freaked out.
00:44:00I thought, am I going to do this all over again?
00:44:03And then, when I met him yesterday, he was very affirming and spoke a lot about my wife,
00:44:09my future, and it was incredibly hard for me.
00:44:12It was just more love bombing.
00:44:13And, like I said, I was in a previous relationship where the guy love bombed me and said the same
00:44:18stuff.
00:44:19You're my future.
00:44:20I never wanted to get married before, but I do now.
00:44:23And it was just so beautiful.
00:44:25But then, two months later, he was like, I feel nothing now.
00:44:30Ah, shit.
00:44:31And that's emotionally scarring.
00:44:33So, I've been like, I don't want to be love bombed.
00:44:35I don't want someone who says too much with words.
00:44:38Right.
00:44:38But in gestures, sure, you know, a hug, a kiss, a laugh.
00:44:42But with words, yesterday was too much.
00:44:45He was like, we're going to live together forever, and you're my wife, and I just felt
00:44:50it was too much.
00:44:51I get it.
00:44:52Because then, I felt those same feelings that I had had, and I've done everything to avoid
00:44:57feeling those feelings again.
00:44:59Right.
00:44:59And I chose Lars Eric, because he didn't make me feel those things in the pods.
00:45:04He felt really safe.
00:45:05Hmm.
00:45:07Can you tell at all whether the two of you are alike or not, or...?
00:45:12Oh, yeah.
00:45:12We're too much alike.
00:45:13Really?
00:45:14Yes.
00:45:14It's like I'm standing there looking at a reflection of myself, but the opposite sex.
00:45:21Which is...
00:45:22Do you like that it's like that?
00:45:23Yes.
00:45:23Yeah?
00:45:24I do.
00:45:25On the other hand, as you can see, she talks to everybody, and I'm also doing the same.
00:45:32That's...
00:45:32We don't need to pay attention to each other all the time.
00:45:36No.
00:45:36Exactly.
00:45:37When we do spend time with each other, we get what we need.
00:45:44It's going great, actually.
00:45:46There's no problem at all.
00:45:48All's running smoothly.
00:45:50It's too good to be true.
00:45:53We are...
00:45:54Two of a kind.
00:45:56So, it's really great to hang out with her.
00:46:01Today, we haven't been together all that much, because she really wants to spend time with
00:46:06everybody else, and I accept that.
00:46:09Because I get to be with her once we get home.
00:46:14I'm gonna get burned.
00:46:21He'll do anything for you.
00:46:24His way of showing you his love is with gestures.
00:46:28He really shows it.
00:46:29Oh, yes.
00:46:30He does.
00:46:32It's just like, you have to...
00:46:34If you feel it's too much, you'll have to slow him down.
00:46:38May I ask for some help?
00:46:43That depends.
00:46:44With sunscreen.
00:46:46Come here.
00:46:47Is it here?
00:46:49It's not gonna take long.
00:46:52It was just getting juicy.
00:46:54Oh, I interrupted you.
00:47:00Oh, shit.
00:47:05Stay away now, okay?
00:47:07Hey.
00:47:09Bye.
00:47:11Bye.
00:47:11I don't need you.
00:47:25The pool sounds nice.
00:47:26Yeah, I know.
00:47:27I wanna go home to the pool with Joanna.
00:47:30Yeah.
00:47:31You do?
00:47:32Get closer or something?
00:47:33Well, fuck yeah, I do.
00:47:35Yeah, same here.
00:47:37Yeah, I do.
00:47:38Yeah.
00:47:38I wanna smell her neck and kiss her ears.
00:47:42Yeah.
00:47:43Curl her hair and...
00:47:45She's so amazing.
00:47:46Oh, thank you.
00:47:47You're so sweet.
00:47:48I said that already.
00:47:49Good.
00:47:50Lucky.
00:47:52Yeah.
00:47:54I say go for it if she also wants to.
00:47:57Good to see you.
00:47:58I've really talked to you.
00:48:00I know.
00:48:00I wanna sit down and talk?
00:48:02Toot, toot.
00:48:06Toot, toot.
00:48:07That's funny.
00:48:09It feels like a really good match.
00:48:11Yeah, I feel that too.
00:48:12Your two styles together just makes sense.
00:48:14When I was going to talk to you, I was just like, that's just awesome.
00:48:19Aww, that's nice.
00:48:21It feels right to me.
00:48:22Yeah.
00:48:23Well, so do you have feelings for him?
00:48:26Yeah, I definitely do have them.
00:48:29But right now, we're really in different places as far as the physical part of it goes.
00:48:35I get that.
00:48:36Yeah, of course.
00:48:38You don't wanna go too far too soon with these relationships in some ways, because then it's...
00:48:42You also want your feelings to come naturally, and that's...
00:48:45That's why we're here.
00:48:47Yeah.
00:48:48We're given this chance, without distractions, to really actually build something.
00:48:52And to really sit with our feelings.
00:48:55And it's that.
00:48:56To be with them.
00:48:57Yeah.
00:48:57Can't you talk to Daniel about it?
00:48:59I don't wanna scare him off, though.
00:49:01No, I get home.
00:49:03Well, they whisper and talk, and...
00:49:12Let's go.
00:49:13You leaving?
00:49:14What?
00:49:15Can I get a hug?
00:49:15Of course, Ludwig.
00:49:16Oh.
00:49:18Of course you get a hug.
00:49:20Bye, Kimberly.
00:49:21Bye.
00:49:21Nice meeting you.
00:49:22Have a good night.
00:49:23Bye.
00:49:45It's good to get time with you.
00:49:50You have fun?
00:49:51That's what matters.
00:49:55I had, uh...
00:49:57A lot of fun.
00:49:58A lot of fun.
00:49:59A lot of fun.
00:50:00I did.
00:50:01Yeah.
00:50:03I thought it was really nice.
00:50:05Nice to meet everybody, finally.
00:50:08I know.
00:50:09Everyone's got a nice connection.
00:50:11Indeed.
00:50:12Hmm?
00:50:13In different ways.
00:50:16In different ways?
00:50:18They're not the same people, so they bond over different things.
00:50:23If you take Angelica and Aaron, they're so goddamn cute together.
00:50:29Yeah.
00:50:30Huh?
00:50:31You think?
00:50:31I really didn't see them together much.
00:50:34Hmm.
00:50:34You hung out with Aaron for a long time.
00:50:37We talked for quite a while.
00:50:38I know.
00:50:39Joanna and Daniel, I feel they fit nicely.
00:50:42She just seems so happy, too.
00:50:44Yeah.
00:50:45More than you.
00:50:46What?
00:50:47Than me?
00:50:48Yeah, than you.
00:50:49Why?
00:50:50No, I mean...
00:50:52I thought so.
00:50:53Really?
00:50:54Why?
00:50:57Don't know.
00:50:58You've got yogurt on your cheek.
00:51:00All around your mouth.
00:51:06I don't know.
00:51:09Yeah.
00:51:10But, um...
00:51:12There's anything...
00:51:13Yeah, there is something.
00:51:15I was sad I didn't get to spend any time with you.
00:51:18A few minutes with you would have been nice.
00:51:21To hug or kiss sometimes without feeling like I was just interrupting your conversations.
00:51:29It...
00:51:29It's okay, but I'm letting you know.
00:51:32For next time.
00:51:33Hmm.
00:51:59You ever wondered if this is real?
00:52:02No.
00:52:03No?
00:52:04I have.
00:52:04Yeah?
00:52:05Hmm.
00:52:06What the hell am I doing next to this?
00:52:10No, you haven't done that at all.
00:52:12No, I have.
00:52:13I have.
00:52:14I've been like...
00:52:16I mean, how did we end up here?
00:52:19How did we go from being in those damn pods to being in Greece?
00:52:23How did I go from not believing in this process at all to being in love with someone after such
00:52:31a short time?
00:52:32I've never told anyone I've never told anyone I'm in love with them, I've never told anyone I'm in love
00:52:46with them.
00:52:47It's crazy.
00:52:49I mean, when I love somebody I want what's best for them, and I think of them as family, they're
00:52:57important to me, but it doesn't necessarily mean I'm in love with somebody if I love them.
00:53:02Yeah.
00:53:05I get what you're saying.
00:53:06You do?
00:53:07Yeah.
00:53:08I mean, I care about them, but I'm not in love.
00:53:11Exactly.
00:53:12I didn't know how it was supposed to feel.
00:53:15How can you tell that you're in love now?
00:53:18I just know it.
00:53:21Because I've never felt the way I feel about you.
00:53:26It just feels unbelievable.
00:53:31And it's really scary.
00:53:34Yeah, of course.
00:53:35Will you take my hand as we look up at the stars?
00:53:44I don't know.
00:53:47Because tonight the world is ours.
00:53:59Because tonight the world is ours.
00:54:13We are all different and want different things, and different things make us feel good.
00:54:21And I guess it's somehow, well, yeah, I think that maybe it's really important to me.
00:54:28What's important?
00:54:31That...
00:54:35That I feel that I can get, if you get what I'm trying to say, some kind of attention, you
00:54:47know?
00:54:52Physically, I mean.
00:54:56I mean, it doesn't need to be over the top, but just, well...
00:55:01A little more.
00:55:03Yeah, I think so.
00:55:04I mean, I think I need some of that.
00:55:15It will probably have to move at a slower pace.
00:55:19It's going to take a while.
00:55:21I mean, I am...
00:55:23I move slowly.
00:55:25That's me.
00:55:26I move slowly.
00:55:27I'm not a person who moves fast.
00:55:30I think a lot about this.
00:55:32I mean, there is this pressure.
00:55:35When I say pressure, I mean the pressure of, I need to be in love now, here, today, you know?
00:55:42Well, those thoughts...
00:55:43I mean, even if you don't do it on purpose, do you think it will hold you back in some
00:55:48sort of way?
00:55:49Or is it because you're feeling...
00:55:50Yes, probably, for sure.
00:55:51...it stresses you out?
00:55:52Yeah.
00:55:52Because, I mean, things will fall into place and in their own time, you know?
00:56:00But I'm just trying to say that it's possible to...
00:56:07I feel I need some more physical contact.
00:56:15I'll keep it in mind.
00:56:17I just need to find, well, find our way.
00:56:24It was nice of me to offer you a massage.
00:56:32Cheers.
00:56:34Cheers.
00:56:37Cheers.
00:56:38Yeah.
00:56:39I feel a little bit of love every day.
00:56:45Every day.
00:56:48Far from Boulder on this evening's real love.
00:56:56Real love.
00:56:59Ooh.
00:57:02yesterday was you and i didn't talk that much at the beach party true we swam a little that was
00:57:08nice yeah it was it was and i tried to kiss you all the time i wasn't allowed to steal
00:57:14many
00:57:15you're right there's no lipstick now no i wasn't trying to love bug right yeah i wasn't trying to
00:57:24steal lipstick last night no you didn't did you what would i get out of it well nice lips
00:57:34yep yeah that's how it is do you want to jump in i won't but you can i can try
00:57:43to swim at least 50
00:57:44yeah what right yesterday well i mean i didn't get to spend much time yesterday with daniel
00:57:56um we spent a lot of time with everyone else so it didn't add a whole lot to the relationship
00:58:09i feel very distant from daniel i told him that this morning too that the last 24 hours have made
00:58:18me feel very disconnected from him i feel like i want to talk a little more about stuff to see
00:58:25how
00:58:25that goes and if we can deepen that dialogue because it's it's like we're swimming around
00:58:32at surface level and i want to get down here but i don't know how to get there
00:58:38i keep hitting my feet yeah so small i'm like an open book if you ask me questions and that's
00:58:47what
00:58:48i'm struggling with i don't know if there's enough interest to make these questions come naturally for
00:58:56him because i feel like i keep dropping all these little hints for questions he could think of
00:59:03but he doesn't seem to pick any of them up he just says bright with no follow-up questions
00:59:13this is actually the same exact size of the pool we have in my complex it's a small pool
00:59:19like a splash pool so yeah
00:59:30do you miss your home when you're away like this i miss my 75 inch tv cool it's nice
00:59:40i think that when you feel seen and heard that's when other things develop i get very lovey-dovey
00:59:48with my partner when i feel that they see and hear me but i'm not like that if that's not
00:59:55there
00:59:55i think he's struggling a little with why i'm not lovey-dovey why i'm not cuddly or kissing him
01:00:01and why but i just feel like listen to me
01:00:06i feel like i'm talking to him like i'm talking to i don't know the gardener and that's not the
01:00:14relationship i want with my future husband you can't tell that you're sweating in a pool
01:00:21it just hit me right but i think i did because i was damn wet when i got out oh
01:00:27yeah yep
01:00:31make it personal take your time let your mind if i ask you a question
01:00:36are we gonna fall i mean truly and totally foolish in love
01:00:48will your parents like me or will they freak out over the nose ring like you
01:00:57my mom might think you're a serb really or from the balkans i get told the balkans all of the
01:01:05time
01:01:06because my name's a little weird i don't think anyone thinks i'm swedish when i introduce myself
01:01:12really right anelia
01:01:18you know what ibrahim means no father to many
01:01:24we have to hurry up
01:01:26come no stop it i mean
01:01:31well it's really long second time hearing that
01:01:58i've like
01:02:01thought a lot about it over and over uh as far as there being some sort of physical thing to
01:02:10our
01:02:10relationship uh it's extremely important to me because i don't feel good and then
01:02:20then everything doesn't feel good
01:02:30i'm a very physical person but i have to get there i can't force it either
01:02:37i definitely understand that you need time but this specific thing is very important to me
01:02:46it's hard to just change things okay
01:02:55yeah
01:03:09what
01:03:13it's
01:03:15it's
01:03:16it's
01:03:17it
01:03:18it
01:03:26it's
01:03:27it
01:03:28it
01:03:36it
01:03:45it
01:03:47it
01:03:48you
01:03:48it's
01:03:49it
01:03:50because I wanted attention.
01:03:52I don't want you to change against your will.
01:03:54Okay, but did you think that was right?
01:03:56No, and that's when-
01:03:57What kind of signs do you think you were sending?
01:03:59What you and I are doing right now,
01:04:01nothing is working with us.
01:04:03Because the way you expressed yourself to me
01:04:06was not the right way.
01:04:07You came over to me and said,
01:04:09what about me?
01:04:10I need your time too.
01:04:12And I've said earlier that I'm a person
01:04:14with a lot of energy and very social.
01:04:16That's who I am.
01:04:18Can I say something?
01:04:19Of course.
01:04:20I could have come up to you and taken you aside,
01:04:23but that has more to do with my insecurities
01:04:26than your choices.
01:04:28I've been in relationships before
01:04:30where I've felt like an outsider.
01:04:32I appreciate you telling me these things.
01:04:34I think we're a lot alike.
01:04:36You have a past with baggage.
01:04:39I have a past.
01:04:41And I should know these things.
01:04:42With baggage, sure, but-
01:04:44That's what I heard at the party.
01:04:45Absolutely.
01:04:46Thanks.
01:04:47What I'm afraid of and what I want to explain
01:04:49is that I have emotional baggage
01:04:51that I haven't processed yet.
01:04:53I was in a relationship with a lot of love bombing.
01:04:56I love you.
01:04:56I want to marry you.
01:04:58I can see our future together.
01:04:59But suddenly, boom, it was gone.
01:05:01Are you afraid I'll be the same way?
01:05:03Yes.
01:05:04I've been a bit tentative and insecure.
01:05:07You said very strong words very quickly.
01:05:10Wrote them.
01:05:10Didn't say that.
01:05:10You wrote them.
01:05:11No, but-
01:05:13For another time.
01:05:14They're still strong words.
01:05:15I agree, and I get it makes you want to take a step back.
01:05:18Hmm.
01:05:19But when all these words came very quickly, and you were over there, and I was here.
01:05:25That's when I started stressing.
01:05:27And that's when I wanted to run away.
01:05:30Am I ready?
01:05:32For something this serious?
01:05:34Sure.
01:05:35Maybe I'm not there, because I've pushed away things holding me back that I haven't processed
01:05:40yet.
01:05:41And that's what we're here for, to help each other work through the issues we have.
01:05:47Everybody has emotional baggage, and I want to be a part of it.
01:05:51To help you heal.
01:05:52That's why I'm here.
01:05:53And I want to.
01:05:54But right now, I think we're in a place where we're over-analyzing, like, every little
01:05:59thing we do.
01:06:00You're right.
01:06:01And this is the situation I want us to get away from.
01:06:03And I don't really know how.
01:06:05I don't think it's a huge problem.
01:06:08We should know each other's weaknesses, so we can handle them when they come up.
01:06:12I see it like this.
01:06:14It'll be hard, but it'll be wonderful, because I'm looking forward to knowing you deeply.
01:06:19In real life?
01:06:20Yes.
01:06:21In real life.
01:06:22Yeah.
01:06:22It was a little unreal in the party.
01:06:24Yeah.
01:06:24It was a lot easier than it is here.
01:06:29And I don't know if I'm putting up a wall now, or if I'm doing it for the right or
01:06:37wrong
01:06:38reason.
01:06:38I don't know.
01:06:39Take all the time.
01:06:41Take all the time.
01:06:41I won't force you to feel anything you don't feel.
01:07:10I mean, I've never seen anything so charming.
01:07:23You're welcome.
01:07:25And if you need something else, just let me know.
01:07:28Perfect.
01:07:28Sure.
01:07:29This looks great.
01:07:30I bet the tzatziki is good.
01:07:33The one we had at the hotel buffet was, well...
01:07:36This reminds me of when I traveled around Sri Lanka.
01:07:40Mm-hmm.
01:07:42To start the meal.
01:07:43You get small curries.
01:07:46How's the tzatziki?
01:07:48Don't know.
01:07:49Haven't tried it.
01:07:50Go try it.
01:07:58It's not a lot of garlic.
01:07:59When I make tzatziki, well, the few times I have, drawing cucumber slices and napkins,
01:08:04then garlic is the main ingredient.
01:08:07It's supposed to have a strong taste.
01:08:09Hmm.
01:08:10But I can't taste any garlic at all.
01:08:13Very little.
01:08:14Mm-hmm.
01:08:15Cheers.
01:08:18Cheers.
01:08:19Cheers.
01:08:25We both won't wear glasses.
01:08:28There.
01:08:29Gone.
01:08:30Mm.
01:08:31Mm.
01:08:32This is lavender.
01:08:33I love lavender.
01:08:34I mean, uh, I love tulips.
01:08:36I always have fresh tulips at home, even when I don't have guests.
01:08:40Like ten fresh tulips.
01:08:41I always have some.
01:08:42So when you wake up in the morning, they're there on the kitchen table.
01:08:46That brings a bit more life to the place.
01:08:48I get it.
01:08:49Unfortunately, tulips look best when they're about to die.
01:08:53Mm-hmm.
01:08:53There's a point when they've opened and become these beautiful flowers a day before you need
01:08:58new ones.
01:09:00Hmm.
01:09:00Hmm.
01:09:02Sure.
01:09:03I used to grow flowers with my dad when I was a kid.
01:09:07Mm-hmm.
01:09:08Sunflowers.
01:09:09Really?
01:09:10Mm-hmm.
01:09:12Happy flower.
01:09:13That's one of the nice memories I have with him.
01:09:18So, sunflowers have a special place in my heart.
01:09:20You can pick sunflowers where I play golf.
01:09:22You can walk around and look for your favorite one, and then you weigh it and buy it like
01:09:27you do at a pick-your-own farm.
01:09:30Mm-hmm.
01:09:32How long do they last after you cut them?
01:09:34A long time.
01:09:36Does it?
01:09:37Hmm.
01:09:38Sure.
01:09:39Sure?
01:09:40Mm-hmm.
01:09:44I actually miss the garlic and the tzatziki.
01:09:47I do more.
01:09:49Yeah.
01:09:50Yeah.
01:09:51Nice.
01:09:52Mm-hmm.
01:09:53Should we drink to finish?
01:09:55Let's do that.
01:09:56Cheers.
01:09:57Cheers.
01:10:06Very good.
01:10:12Off to the restroom.
01:10:14Oops.
01:10:14The chair's funky.
01:10:16Wait.
01:10:16Let's see.
01:10:17Good.
01:10:18I'm gonna go to the restroom.
01:10:20Mm-hmm.
01:10:29Can I talk to you for two seconds, please?
01:10:37I don't know what to do.
01:10:38What I'm struggling with is that two seconds before you guys came to get us.
01:10:43Yeah.
01:10:44Daniel sat me down and said, Joanna, I don't know if I want to continue.
01:10:48I think I want to quit.
01:10:50Quit?
01:10:51I feel stupid.
01:11:01I need somebody that gives me physical love and attention.
01:11:05Who sees me.
01:11:06Who touches me.
01:11:08Who, like...
01:11:12We're not doing good either.
01:11:14She said, like, I'll give it seven days in Stockholm.
01:11:21I'm not a Christian.
01:11:23I don't want to be with someone whose family doesn't like me because I don't share their
01:11:29faith.
01:11:30God's teaching me one last lesson.
01:11:33Oh, my fucking God.
01:11:36I will let God guide me.
01:11:38You're a Christian.
01:11:39I'm a Christian.
01:11:40That brings us together.
01:11:43All right.
01:11:44They'll be here in an hour and a half.
01:11:46What if you don't click?
01:11:51If my friends don't end up getting along with Aaron, then I have a feeling it might not
01:11:57work out.
01:11:58I can't really wrap my head around it.
01:12:01Yeah, because I...
01:12:01It's not good to get on each other's nerves.
01:12:03No, no.
01:12:04Then it's a vicious cycle.
01:12:05Exactly.
01:12:06Then it's a problem.
01:12:07I don't care what everyone else thinks.
01:12:13Shit, it's crazy to see you.
01:12:16I'm so curious about you.
01:12:18Is that weird?
01:12:19What do you mean?
01:12:22I mean, what do you feel?
01:12:25Are you having second thoughts on moving?
01:12:27No.
01:12:27No?
01:12:28But it's hard.
01:12:29It's scary to develop a deep enough connection in such a short amount of time that you feel
01:12:34ready to get married.
01:12:36I mean, the decision was just made so quickly.
01:12:42I thought she was sure.
01:12:43I was sure.
01:12:45I was sure.
01:12:45I was the happiest man on earth.
01:12:47And then it was gone in a second.
01:12:50Hey!
01:12:52Is that her?
01:12:54I don't even want to look.
01:12:55Hi, Ellen.
01:12:56I'm Daniel.
01:12:59Nice to see you.
01:13:00I can't help thinking what if Ellen and I had met instead.
01:13:03This could be the biggest mistake ever.
01:13:07Yeah?
01:13:08I have this feeling of, like, betrayal.
01:13:12I didn't mean to make you sad.
01:13:14I'm running around.
01:13:22I'm running around.
01:13:29I'm running around.
01:13:33I'm running around.
01:13:34You're gonna hear me roar.
01:13:37I'm running wild
01:13:39I'm running wild
01:13:50I'm running wild
01:14:08I'm running wild
01:14:09I'm running wild
01:14:10I'm running wild
01:14:13I'm running wild
01:14:28I'm running wild
01:14:30I'm running wild
01:14:31I'm running wild
01:14:33I'm running wild
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