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90 Day Fiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 4
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00:00:00Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:00:02Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05This is so embarrassing. I'm sorry.
00:00:06This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:00:10For the past 21 years, I have been with women only.
00:00:13But Daniel has no idea about this aspect of my life.
00:00:17I'm terrified to tell him because a couple of months ago,
00:00:21I told him I had a fling with a woman.
00:00:24And he was disgusted.
00:00:28He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:00:30I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:00:34Don't make jokes.
00:00:36He doesn't love you. That's not what love is.
00:00:38He wants a ticket to America.
00:00:41There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face.
00:00:44But if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:00:48then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:00:53We can't make more than hugs or kiss and check
00:00:57until we get married.
00:00:59But that's just not what you said.
00:01:00A couple weeks ago, I realized that he followed thousands of women.
00:01:05And it turns out that he was talking to one of the girls.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:10Now seeing how he's acting in person,
00:01:12it's making me question things.
00:01:19Oh, my goodness.
00:01:22Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
00:01:25And I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:29But my mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:39Apology aside, there's still some things
00:01:42that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
00:01:54I'm scared that I'm going to pee all over the floor
00:01:57because every time I get nervous, I pee.
00:02:01I'm going to see his face, and it's just going to flow out of me,
00:02:04drip down my legs.
00:02:05And what an impression that's going to be.
00:02:15I am nervous, and I am excited, and I'm scared to death
00:02:20because things can be different when he meets you in person.
00:02:24What if he hides?
00:02:25What if he changes his mind once I get there?
00:02:27I don't know what he's going to think about me.
00:02:30I don't know if he's going to be like,
00:02:32wow, she's a lot older than I thought.
00:02:37Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria
00:02:39to go see Daniel for the first time.
00:02:42And I am feeling overwhelmed and excited and nervous.
00:02:49My daughter, Faith, brought up some serious concerns
00:02:52at dinner the other night
00:02:53that Daniel could be scamming me,
00:02:55and I'm not ignoring them.
00:02:57But all I can think about is how I just want to touch his face
00:03:01and feel the dimples in his cheeks and feel his beard.
00:03:04I want to pull him in and just kiss him.
00:03:08These are the wigs I am taking with me.
00:03:11They're brand new.
00:03:13I have three because they get ruined very fast.
00:03:17I will not be wearing the wig on the plane.
00:03:21My plan is to put it on in the bathroom once I land.
00:03:25It just needs to go on my carry-on bag.
00:03:28Wearing a wig, it's a process, and it's not fun.
00:03:33It sticks to your hair.
00:03:35It sticks to your skin.
00:03:36You have rashes.
00:03:37You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:39It's going to be stressful to deal with in Nigeria,
00:03:42but it makes him so happy.
00:03:46I want to look beautiful for Daniel,
00:03:48so I will be keeping it on all day and all night.
00:03:50I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:55So today, Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:59I'm pretty nervous.
00:04:04Not sure how it's going to go.
00:04:07She's horrible with directions.
00:04:10I am hopeful she gets the answers
00:04:13and the relationship she's hoping for.
00:04:16But honestly, there's still a lot of concerns for me.
00:04:21Hi, Faith.
00:04:23I have some toast and coffee for you.
00:04:26Oh, wonderful.
00:04:28Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:30That's the first thing I want.
00:04:32I know.
00:04:33All right, listen.
00:04:34Here's something really important.
00:04:36The certified letter is coming for the divorce.
00:04:39Yeah.
00:04:39So you have to go to the post office to mail it.
00:04:43That has to be done.
00:04:45Like immediately?
00:04:45Yes.
00:04:46Because the court hearing date that the judge signs the paper
00:04:49is on the 29th,
00:04:50so that the divorce becomes finalized on the 29th.
00:04:54I want to come clean and tell him
00:04:56that not only I was still married,
00:04:59but the divorce is there.
00:05:00And I want to show him the papers of the divorce.
00:05:03If I'm just, Mom,
00:05:04you not only lied about the fact that,
00:05:08oh, you didn't just have a fling with a woman.
00:05:10No, you've been married to women several times.
00:05:14But you also told him you're not married.
00:05:20Not only does he not know that I've been with women for the past 21 years,
00:05:24Daniel doesn't know that I am technically still married to a woman.
00:05:33He asked me if I was free to marry when he first started talking to me,
00:05:37and I said, yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:39Because in my heart, I have been free to marry
00:05:41because my ex-wife and I have been separated for over nine years.
00:05:45We just never got around to signing the divorce papers until now.
00:05:50If that happened to me, I would be devastated.
00:05:54I wouldn't be able to trust that person.
00:05:55Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip and tell him everything.
00:05:59I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal
00:06:01until we have this conversation.
00:06:03He's going to know about it beforehand.
00:06:08Just trust me.
00:06:09I'm just worried, Mom.
00:06:11Don't worry. Don't worry. I got this.
00:06:13Let's get going.
00:06:14We need to get to the airport.
00:06:16It is getting late, and we need to get going.
00:06:19You don't have a flight to get to.
00:06:20I do have a flight.
00:06:22I struggle trusting my mom
00:06:24that she's not going to somehow try and get married in there.
00:06:28Please do not ruin your life for getting married to somebody
00:06:31before you're ready.
00:06:33I need to grab my phone.
00:06:35That's the last thing I need.
00:06:40So if Daniel was asking you to get married while you were in Nigeria,
00:06:43would you keep my hands to faith?
00:06:44Would I go against faith's wishes?
00:06:52I want to say no.
00:06:55But my heart says, hold on to Daniel and do it.
00:07:01Jump with both feet in.
00:07:05I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:07:08I want to be with him.
00:07:10I want to be a part of him.
00:07:11Um, I want to be his wife.
00:07:15So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:18I really don't know.
00:07:20Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:23Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:24Woo, here we go.
00:07:35Here we go.
00:07:38Oh, 61.
00:07:41What?
00:07:42Oh, 61.
00:07:44I got three.
00:07:46Oh, you done good.
00:07:48Oh, 70.
00:07:51I met my husband when I was in high school.
00:07:54I was married to a soldier.
00:07:57He, uh, lived up the street.
00:08:00My husband and I met in junior college.
00:08:03We loved to skate.
00:08:04So our first date was going skating.
00:08:08The first date, we went to a fair.
00:08:11And, uh, I sort of thought, you know, I like him.
00:08:20I didn't want to be with anybody else.
00:08:23That was just, that was it.
00:08:27He said, I wanted you to have a heart ring.
00:08:33And here it is.
00:08:39I'm done waiting.
00:08:42No more hesitating.
00:08:45There ain't nothing wrong to once more.
00:08:49You got to feel it.
00:08:51You got to believe it.
00:08:54There's a whole new world you're looking for.
00:08:59Big four.
00:09:01Good afternoon.
00:09:03Little late.
00:09:04Oh, boy.
00:09:06My name is Javon.
00:09:08I'm 38 years old.
00:09:09And I grew up in Jacksonville, Alabama.
00:09:13Who's winning?
00:09:14Who has a bingo?
00:09:16I've got several bingos.
00:09:17Oh, nice.
00:09:19I work at a nursing home.
00:09:21And I like my job.
00:09:25You know, old people, they just say some of the first things that come to their mind.
00:09:30They have no filters.
00:09:31And it's just pure comedy.
00:09:33What did you bring us today?
00:09:35We have grapes, crackers, cheese, salami.
00:09:40Ooh.
00:09:40Look at all that cheese.
00:09:42But it's just a low-paying job.
00:09:45Anybody else need any silverware?
00:09:46I think that's where I fall short when it comes to women.
00:09:51American women, they want six-pack, six figures, six inches.
00:09:58I call them three sixes.
00:10:00And it's not me.
00:10:05That's good.
00:10:08We hear you're going to the Philippines.
00:10:11Oh, yeah.
00:10:12It's a trip way overdue.
00:10:14I'm going to see my wife.
00:10:17When was the last time you saw her?
00:10:21Actually, I've never even met my wife yet.
00:10:27So, this would be actually our first meet.
00:10:32Oh, okay.
00:10:35Really?
00:10:36Yeah.
00:10:38Aw.
00:10:38My wife is Annalyn.
00:10:41She's 38 years old.
00:10:43And she's from the Philippines, Cavite.
00:10:46Hey, boo.
00:10:47It's your wife.
00:10:48I hope you're having a great day.
00:10:51Must be something.
00:10:52Yeah, there must be something.
00:10:55We connected online about five years ago.
00:10:58And we've been married for about two years.
00:11:04He said that?
00:11:06No, that's wrong.
00:11:08We have been in a relationship for six years.
00:11:10And we have been married for almost three years.
00:11:14Okay?
00:11:17Hello, boo-boo.
00:11:18I love you.
00:11:19And I appreciate you.
00:11:21Mwah.
00:11:22Boy, the moment I saw him, he's so good to look at.
00:11:27Yummers.
00:11:33Even though we were on the opposite sides of the world,
00:11:36we would talk for hours every day.
00:11:39And he just made me feel like the happiest that I've ever been.
00:11:45Maybe a year after we started talking online,
00:11:49I wanted to meet Annalyn in person.
00:11:51But when COVID hit, I couldn't no longer travel.
00:11:56There were flight restrictions.
00:11:57I was kind of feeling hopeless.
00:12:01And I was afraid that I'm going to lose him.
00:12:04And then I was scrolling on social media.
00:12:07And I saw these couples getting married online.
00:12:12And I thought if they were married legally,
00:12:14he would be able to enter the Philippine border
00:12:18because they allow family, which means blood or your spouse.
00:12:24When Annalyn first brought up online marriages,
00:12:30I was just like, what the hell?
00:12:34I had doubts, of course, because it's unorthodox.
00:12:38But I just had a lot of faith.
00:12:42When you meet the one that you're supposed to spend the rest of your life with,
00:12:45you can't even actually put it into words.
00:12:47It's like, that's what they say.
00:12:48When you know you know, it's kind of like that.
00:13:00How I envisioned my wedding was not a Zoom call.
00:13:04Absolutely not.
00:13:05But it was still the happiest day of my life.
00:13:08It is now my privilege to pronounce you lawfully wed as husband and wife.
00:13:19I finally have my perfect wife.
00:13:21I just need to meet her in person.
00:13:25How could you be married for years
00:13:27and never go to the Philippines to see your wife?
00:13:32The whole thing is very expensive.
00:13:34So, you know, and then I have to save up for it.
00:13:36So that's mostly the reason why.
00:13:41Over the years, me and Annalyn have tried to meet up several times.
00:13:45But work and finance has gotten away.
00:13:48And having a marriage online has been challenging.
00:13:54Especially because Annalyn has changed.
00:13:58When I first met Anna, she was more patient, sweeter.
00:14:03She just had more positive vibes about her.
00:14:07I'm like, hold on, what's going on here?
00:14:10I've always been feisty.
00:14:13He knows that.
00:14:15And I'm not the typical Filipina.
00:14:17I don't like being told what to do.
00:14:19I don't like being controlled.
00:14:22After a period of time, I had to fight to actually speak, to be heard.
00:14:28Lately, it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:14:31I know we're already committed as man and wife.
00:14:34But before I apply for that spousal visa and move Annalyn to the U.S., we need to spend physical
00:14:41time with one another to make sure I made the right choice.
00:15:14I'm going out there because I love her.
00:15:15I'm going out there for 10 years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:15:18I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but I'm kind of still nervous about what this is in
00:15:23my routine.
00:15:27I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about
00:15:32that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
00:15:35What? What is this? What's happening?
00:15:41Emma.
00:16:10Emma.
00:16:20Ah, ha, ha.
00:16:22Ha, ha, ha.
00:16:23I wanted to get out for a bit this morning and clear my mind because my night with Emma was
00:16:29horrible. I want to be her husband, but we need some times to know each other. I hope things
00:16:36better today. I pictured my first morning here a lot differently. Like I thought I'd be waking up
00:16:47next to him and he would be like bringing me coffee in the morning and cuddling with me.
00:16:51And that's not how it went at all. We've actually just been completely separate.
00:16:59Zia's behavior last night, it's making me a little suspicious, but I'm trying not to just be in my
00:17:05head and overthink things. I want this to be fun and I want us to just focus on the positive.
00:17:13I'm really determined to turn things around.
00:17:37Hi. Good morning. Morning. How's your night? This is nice. Really? Yeah.
00:17:45Yeah. That's it. This is your place. I hope you will like it. Thanks, babe.
00:17:56Hello. Thank you. She's adorable.
00:18:06Eggs. I don't like eggs, but I'll eat it because she cooked it. Do you want to talk about yesterday?
00:18:16What do you want to start for what? I mean, it wasn't really like a good start to my trip.
00:18:22I don't like that we were fighting all day.
00:18:24Yeah. That's not how I expected like my first night to go.
00:18:29Can you pour me some more tea, please?
00:18:32Yeah. Oh, you drink that all quickly?
00:18:35I love the tea here.
00:18:36Okay.
00:18:37Um, but yes, I did want to say sorry to you.
00:18:41I don't hear you.
00:18:43I don't hear you.
00:18:44I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:45Can you repeat I don't hear what you said?
00:18:46I wanted to say sorry.
00:18:47For what?
00:18:51For running away from your kiss.
00:18:54And?
00:18:56Walking away from you when you were talking.
00:19:01I mean, I'm sorry yesterday got like really dramatic, but I think it was just a long day
00:19:05for me because I was traveling for like 20 hours.
00:19:08I know it's difficult.
00:19:10And it was just like a lot going on.
00:19:11There was like a lot in my mind.
00:19:15Actually, there's something else I wanted to like talk to you about that like I didn't
00:19:19tell you yet.
00:19:34I was just like upset the past couple days because you know how much I love my job.
00:19:40Like I've been there for five years.
00:19:44And well, I got fired.
00:19:50Really?
00:19:52I don't know if I want to talk about it because I'm going to cry.
00:19:55No, no, you don't need to.
00:19:57Listen, listen.
00:20:00I just need a minute.
00:20:03Emma.
00:20:05Emma.
00:20:05Emma.
00:20:06Emma.
00:20:08Emma.
00:20:10Emma.
00:20:11Emma.
00:20:11I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:12No, no.
00:20:13Don't cry.
00:20:16It's a...
00:20:17Because I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:19It's just a walk.
00:20:21It's a hazard.
00:20:23And you don't need to cry for it.
00:20:26So just enjoy your moments.
00:20:28No, don't cry.
00:20:29Don't cry.
00:20:29Okay.
00:20:30Don't cry.
00:20:31Okay.
00:20:38I don't know what I'm going to do.
00:20:40I don't have any, like, options right now.
00:20:43It's difficult and it's hard.
00:20:45But at the end, there is a lot of jobs.
00:20:48Yeah.
00:20:49You will find another one more better than your last.
00:20:52Right now, I want you to enjoy here in Marrakesh.
00:20:57We are together and everything will be good.
00:21:05I think we definitely started this trip, like, on the wrong foot.
00:21:09It was like a tornado.
00:21:12But right now, he's showing me that he cares about what I'm going through.
00:21:16I love you, babe.
00:21:17Yeah, it is.
00:21:18I love you more.
00:21:20What's...
00:21:20What's mean, tornado?
00:21:22Like an earthquake.
00:21:23Like a...
00:21:23Like a natural disaster.
00:21:25So, like, when I got off the plane, what happened between us was like an earthquake.
00:21:28Yeah.
00:21:30That's an amazing example.
00:21:31Yeah, really.
00:21:36My future hubby.
00:21:38Oh.
00:21:39Do you know what that means?
00:21:41No.
00:21:41Can you explain?
00:21:42What's mean?
00:21:43It's short for husband.
00:21:44Really?
00:21:45Yeah.
00:21:46Hubby.
00:21:46One feet.
00:21:49Yeah.
00:21:51Exactly.
00:22:13I can't believe the trees, how beautiful they are.
00:22:18I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:20I'm probably going to...
00:22:20I can't believe how hot it is.
00:22:21I'm going to have a sunburn in about 10 seconds.
00:22:25Lock away your smile.
00:22:29My heart is racing.
00:22:33All right.
00:22:34See you later, Dave.
00:22:35See you later.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:37I don't know.
00:22:38I just arrived in the Philippines with my parents and finally met the girl of my dreams
00:22:45after seven years.
00:22:47Just being able to touch and hold her hand, it was so amazing.
00:22:52Did a little more than hold hands, I'd say.
00:22:55Waka waka.
00:22:57Yeah.
00:23:01Oh, this is incredible.
00:23:03Yeah, there's a lot to take in here.
00:23:06Crazy.
00:23:07This is definitely controlled chaos.
00:23:10If I could describe the Philippines in one word, it'd be hectic.
00:23:16It's got people, like, almost running into each other or running each other over constantly.
00:23:22Oh, man.
00:23:23Glad I'm not driving.
00:23:26But it's got its own, like, charm to it.
00:23:29Look at that.
00:23:30That thing is pretty good.
00:23:31This is the jeepney.
00:23:32This is locally here in my cafe.
00:23:34Absolutely.
00:23:34They have converted old jeepneys from the World War II, who have been left with Americans,
00:23:39so they converted for, like, taxis.
00:23:42Incredible.
00:23:44You can see the big building there.
00:23:46And that's the condo we're going to stay.
00:23:48I wish we could stay at your place.
00:23:51Yeah.
00:23:52Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila, but we're not staying there because her parents said we had to pay
00:24:00for it if we did stay.
00:24:02When Sheena told me that, it made me really upset because I'm planning on marrying their daughter.
00:24:07And I would be their son, and to charge family to come stay at their house is just absurd.
00:24:14Especially because we have been saving for the last seven years just to afford the plane ticket to actually just
00:24:20meet her.
00:24:21Sheena said, I know it doesn't make sense, but it's what my parents want.
00:24:24It's their wishes.
00:24:25I can't really go around that.
00:24:29But I'm not paying them money.
00:24:33This is the place.
00:24:34All right.
00:24:35We are here.
00:24:40There you go, Molly.
00:24:41That's it.
00:24:43I got it.
00:24:45All right.
00:24:45Charge.
00:24:49Sheena is an extreme foodie.
00:24:51And she likes to make sure that I'm well fed.
00:24:55Well, that's a cultural thing in my country.
00:24:58Whoa.
00:24:59I'd sure like to open him up and see what he's about.
00:25:01Oh, my God.
00:25:01I can definitely smell him.
00:25:03Oh.
00:25:05Yeah.
00:25:05Yeah, you know.
00:25:06Yeah, he's a little excited at the top.
00:25:08Don't go for that.
00:25:09Yeah.
00:25:10Okay.
00:25:14So, sorry, baby.
00:25:15This is all I could get for you guys.
00:25:18You can see that we have two bedrooms here.
00:25:21It's like a simple home, but comfy, so.
00:25:25The place is nice.
00:25:26It's pretty.
00:25:27But it could have been a little bit bigger.
00:25:32I state this claim in the name of Forrest.
00:25:35It feels good.
00:25:37It's your bag, too.
00:25:38Here, I'll throw these in here for you.
00:25:40It's not exactly the ideal place to be sharing with my parents.
00:25:44If me and Sheena, you know, decide to get down,
00:25:47I really just hope my parents don't hear us.
00:25:53Sheena.
00:25:54What?
00:25:54This feels more than online right now.
00:25:59Oh.
00:25:59It's making me even more nervous.
00:26:03Oh, you don't have to be.
00:26:04I'm hearing it with you.
00:26:05Oh, I know.
00:26:06I can see.
00:26:07Yeah.
00:26:08You're so excited, huh?
00:26:09Oh, yeah.
00:26:09Oh, yeah.
00:26:11Because I got some good stuff here.
00:26:14Excuse me, baby.
00:26:16Boom.
00:26:17What is that?
00:26:18This is something amazing.
00:26:21And I want you to try it on for me if you want.
00:26:26Whoa.
00:26:27What?
00:26:27That's...
00:26:28What's that thing?
00:26:29I think it is a cloth that goes on your body and accentuates your sexuality.
00:26:39Oh, that's nice.
00:26:40I love the color.
00:26:41Oh, yeah.
00:26:43That's cool.
00:26:43I guess, guess what?
00:26:44There's even more.
00:26:46What?
00:26:46You have more?
00:26:47I have more.
00:26:49Oh.
00:26:50Oh, wow.
00:26:51I got you a pretty thong.
00:26:53Wow.
00:26:55To be honest, I feel quite nervous because I am a virgin.
00:27:02But Forrest makes me feel confident of my body.
00:27:06This is another one for you.
00:27:07Oh.
00:27:07In case you want to, you know.
00:27:09That's cool.
00:27:10That's beautiful.
00:27:12Oh, okay.
00:27:13Oh, okay.
00:27:21You're so handsome, always.
00:27:22I'm going to go brush my teeth.
00:27:24Okay.
00:27:24Go for it, my love.
00:27:25Deep brush.
00:27:26All right.
00:27:27Do everything, my love.
00:27:30You know, when I was making, like, sexy talk with her, I was really just trying to,
00:27:35like, put her at ease, make her laugh, you know, just calm the mood.
00:27:41I've been waiting seven years to be alone with Sheena like this.
00:27:46But, to be honest, I'm actually, I'm kind of still nervous about what is my virginia.
00:27:53I mean, I'm, I'm not saying I can't blow her socks off, but, uh, having sex with Sheena,
00:28:00I feel like it's an important thing for the both of us to be in the right mindset.
00:28:07It's, it's, it's just a big deal.
00:28:09I love you.
00:28:10I love you.
00:28:11Do you want the lights on or off?
00:28:12Well, turn off the lights, babe.
00:28:20It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:28:25I still have flaws and imperfections.
00:28:28And so I am nervous that beer con won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:28:34Oh, my God.
00:28:36Here we go.
00:28:43We are in the process of landing and I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich or beer con,
00:28:49but I'm excited.
00:29:02So this is the most important day, actually, in my life.
00:29:06I'm trying to look good, you know, for our big meeting for first time.
00:29:12Everything has to go perfect.
00:29:15So I will iron it until it's perfect or it's burned.
00:29:19Laura is arriving tricky today and today might be the first day of my rest of my life.
00:29:29Laura rented this Airbnb for us.
00:29:33I never saw this big of place.
00:29:37It just thrills me.
00:29:42Right now, I'm staying with different friends.
00:29:46Sometimes Izmir, sometimes Istanbul.
00:29:49That's why Laura couldn't stay with me.
00:29:52But the privacy of our place is going to be nice
00:29:57because we have a lot of things to discuss face to face.
00:30:13It's absolutely wild that I'm finally on the ground here.
00:30:17I'm so excited now.
00:30:19I just want to run out of this airport and leave all my luggage here.
00:30:30Oh.
00:30:33Oh, my God.
00:30:35She come early.
00:30:45It's slightly close that I am having a heart attack or I am excited.
00:30:50Yeah, we will see.
00:30:53I am going to wear a dress to meet this man.
00:30:57I think that will be a lot cuter than the hot mess that I'm currently wearing.
00:31:03I'm really proud of the progress that I've made over the last 14 months, but I still have flaws and
00:31:11imperfections.
00:31:12And so I am nervous that Birkan won't be as attracted to me in person.
00:31:19And I think that's a cute dress.
00:31:22All right.
00:31:22All right.
00:31:39All right.
00:31:42All right.
00:31:42All right.
00:31:52I wasn't fine till you came into my view
00:31:57Thought I was going inside
00:32:00Oh my god, here we go
00:32:10Welcome, gorgeous
00:32:13How are you?
00:32:14Good, how are you?
00:32:15I'm good
00:32:17How are you doing?
00:32:18It was so long
00:32:19Yeah, I know
00:32:20I am still thinking about, oh my god, America
00:32:23Yeah
00:32:34I think everything is perfect
00:32:36Right now, yeah
00:32:38That's really sweet
00:32:39Yeah, it was
00:32:40I know
00:32:41I know
00:32:42Yeah
00:32:46So let's go this way
00:32:48Okay
00:32:49These bumps are a pain with suitcases
00:32:52He looks amazing
00:32:53Exactly the aesthetic that I've been describing
00:32:57Which is that dark romance male main character
00:33:00When you look at her, what do you think?
00:33:02She's perfect
00:33:03I don't need to look at her
00:33:04I don't need, because I feel it, you know
00:33:07I'm complete, so we don't need to see
00:33:10That's probably the best answer ever
00:33:18That was like the best flight I've ever taken
00:33:20Yeah
00:33:21Seriously
00:33:22I'm glad
00:33:23I'm really glad
00:33:26Yeah
00:33:41It's good to see you
00:33:42You too
00:33:48I don't know what's happening
00:33:51It's very awkward right now
00:33:56I really wasn't expecting that
00:33:58Because, you know, it was like great when we first met
00:34:01He hugged me, he kissed me
00:34:02And then we sit on this train
00:34:04And it's like he doesn't know who I am
00:34:06And I don't know who he is
00:34:13I think we're close
00:34:18I'm hoping that as time moves forward
00:34:21That this will turn around
00:34:23And it will feel more like it did when we were online
00:34:27But right now, something is off
00:34:30And it's freaking me out
00:34:39Anna called me like it were
00:34:42Talking about your brother, your brother
00:34:44I know that Anna is 1,000% unhinged
00:34:47Like kind of off her rocker a little bit
00:34:49She was just talking about that woman
00:34:54Uh, yeah
00:34:56Who is the woman?
00:35:09Y'all, I'm ready to roll
00:35:10Fully loaded, y'all, I'm ready for whoa
00:35:12Straight up out of the bunker, might jump ya
00:35:16Zombies out here to hunt ya
00:35:18This is nice
00:35:21Really?
00:35:23This is screaming, I failed a pottery class
00:35:25No, but she doesn't like how you dress
00:35:27So you gotta do something else
00:35:28Ugh
00:35:41I think you got some good purchases
00:35:44Yeah, I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt
00:35:47It'll be fine
00:35:48It's gonna be fine
00:35:51I'm running some last minute errands with my sister Ashley
00:35:54Because I'm flying to the Philippines in a couple of days
00:35:56To meet my wife for the first time in person
00:36:01I'm excited and I'm super nervous
00:36:03Because we've been married for three years
00:36:06But we've never been in the same room
00:36:08Or even the same continent with each other
00:36:12So, are you all packed up? You ready?
00:36:15Uh, I think I'm as ready as I'm ever gonna be
00:36:20And you know, me and Anna's relationship
00:36:22It's just been this spiraling, like, up and down
00:36:25Loop-de-loop, rollercoaster ride
00:36:27But when things are good
00:36:29I'm, like, really happy to be in a relationship
00:36:31I think Anna's very funny
00:36:32Yeah
00:36:33Like, Anna seems like she's a good time
00:36:36She's just a lot
00:36:41Javon, marrying somebody online
00:36:43Was actually wild to me
00:36:45I do think they love each other
00:36:47But I don't know, like
00:36:49I wouldn't just call this, like, a normal marriage
00:36:52This is something I've never seen or heard of before
00:36:57You know, like, Anna actually called me
00:37:01You spoke to her?
00:37:03Mm-hmm
00:37:05She called me, like, at work
00:37:08I'm working, I'm with customers
00:37:10And she's just, you know, talking about
00:37:13Your brother, your brother
00:37:14I don't know what to do with him
00:37:15Rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah
00:37:18And I was, like, can't even get her off the phone
00:37:21Yeah
00:37:22She was just talking about that woman
00:37:29Uh, yeah
00:37:33So, who is the woman?
00:37:40So, the woman is just, like
00:37:43A friend of mine that I've known for a long time
00:37:48We communicate so well
00:37:50And we can stay on the phone for hours
00:37:52I think because we're both having problems
00:37:55In our, you know, relationship
00:37:57It's definitely more easygoing
00:37:59And it's more positive
00:38:04So, but what is it that Anna's so, like
00:38:07Threatened and bothered by her?
00:38:10Like, what, what is it?
00:38:12Because I feel like I'm missing something
00:38:16Yeah, I mean, there used to be
00:38:18This, this, this, this small thing between us
00:38:21But we're better
00:38:23Also, that, so
00:38:26So, Javon, that's not okay
00:38:28That is no good
00:38:29I know, you know, and I'm not
00:38:32So, that's why she's so upset then
00:38:34Yeah
00:38:36Me and my friend, we never officially dated
00:38:38But there was feelings for one another
00:38:41We lost touch for a while
00:38:43But I reached out to her
00:38:46Because I was going through a rough time
00:38:49In my marriage
00:38:50And I needed someone that knew me
00:38:54And that understood me
00:38:55I wasn't trying to hide anything
00:38:57So, I just came out and told Anna Lynn
00:39:00I was talking to this other person
00:39:03I don't think it's a big deal
00:39:04But obviously she does
00:39:05Because she's extremely pissed off and upset
00:39:11I'm not saying she don't have a valid reason
00:39:14To be upset
00:39:15But it's just completely platonic
00:39:18You know, and she don't have to worry about that
00:39:21Have you tried to call her?
00:39:24I have, but, you know, she blocked me
00:39:30For real?
00:39:33She gets so aggressive
00:39:34See, this is the problem
00:39:36Like, this is how
00:39:37This is why I had to go
00:39:38Outside of our marriage
00:39:42To talk to somebody else
00:39:43About our marriage
00:39:45And it shouldn't be that way
00:39:48Obviously, Anna feels disrespected
00:39:51And I do get that
00:39:53I know that she's 1,000% unhinged
00:39:57Like, kind of off her rocker a little bit
00:39:59But I do feel like he presses her buttons
00:40:02Javon just needs to say sorry
00:40:03And try and talk to her
00:40:05And if they don't know how to talk
00:40:07Then they don't need to be married
00:40:09You're about to see your wife for the first time
00:40:12You all don't need to be in the middle of a fight
00:40:16I don't know what to do
00:40:18I don't know what to do
00:40:23I heard some interesting things
00:40:26From your guys' bedroom last night
00:40:29Did you guys do the old
00:40:31Knockin' knockin'?
00:40:33I just want to prefer
00:40:35Like, a privacy between us, you know
00:40:37Now you're kind of
00:40:39Now you're kind of being really disrespectful
00:41:04Hello, sweetie
00:41:06Oh, yeah
00:41:10Hey, guys
00:41:11We're going to go down
00:41:12And have some coffee by the pool
00:41:14So, uh
00:41:15We'll be up in a little while
00:41:16Talk to you in a minute
00:41:18Later
00:41:21Mmm
00:41:25It's very content
00:41:44I arrived in the Philippines yesterday
00:41:46And the first night
00:41:49With the woman of my dream, Sheena
00:41:51Was amazing
00:41:53Oh, man, you're strong
00:41:54I've got to walk you down
00:41:55Oh, yeah?
00:41:55Let's jump in here
00:41:56Oh, God
00:41:59I'm going to tickle you crazy, baby
00:42:05There's a lot of new and fun things
00:42:07I'm finding out
00:42:08Being with Sheena physically
00:42:10I found out
00:42:11There's a night Sheena
00:42:12What?
00:42:13And she's kind of grabby
00:42:15Oh, really?
00:42:16I'm not
00:42:16You're very, uh
00:42:18Into being physical
00:42:19Oh, no
00:42:20Night Sheena
00:42:20Oh, no
00:42:22Oh, no
00:42:24You know, just finally being able to
00:42:26Hold you and be with you
00:42:27And kiss you
00:42:29It just felt awesome
00:42:32And I know that
00:42:33I talked of a big game last night
00:42:35About sex
00:42:36And everything like that
00:42:38But I really believe
00:42:40That we should, um
00:42:42Wait, you know
00:42:44Till we know each other a bit more
00:42:45You know, in person
00:42:48I understand my love
00:42:51I really feel like
00:42:53After seven years
00:42:54Me coming here to the Philippines
00:42:56And just having sex with Sheena
00:42:58Straight up
00:42:59It's not what I want to do
00:43:01Yeah, I agree with that
00:43:02I just want to get to know you much better
00:43:05We all know when the time is right
00:43:07I agree with that
00:43:10Also, probably when my mom's not around
00:43:11Yeah
00:43:19We'll see you later
00:43:21I don't need a coat
00:43:23That's for sure
00:43:24Ooh, nice and cool in here
00:43:28I'm excited
00:43:36So where exactly are we
00:43:38Are you taking us again?
00:43:40So it's a Chinatown here in Manila
00:43:43Actually, one of the oldest Chinatown here
00:43:46In the whole world
00:43:47Because Chinese people
00:43:49Have been trading with the Filipinos
00:43:51Before Spanish people arrived
00:43:54Wow
00:43:54Spaniards
00:43:55So there's a lot of historical sites around
00:43:57And good foods
00:43:59I'm ready to eat it all
00:44:04So I got a little curiosity question
00:44:08To ask you guys
00:44:09Uh, I heard some interesting things
00:44:13You know, coming from your guys' bedroom
00:44:15Last night
00:44:17The little giggles
00:44:19So, uh
00:44:20Did, uh
00:44:21You guys, uh
00:44:23Do the old, uh
00:44:24Knockin' knockin'?
00:44:28No
00:44:28No
00:44:29No
00:44:29No
00:44:30No
00:44:31No
00:44:31No
00:44:31No
00:44:33So, what, why, why didn't you guys
00:44:38Well, it just wasn't the right time or place to do that
00:44:42Oh, okay, well
00:44:45You guys can always come and talk to us
00:44:48If you have questions
00:45:19It's not an embarrassing subject to me
00:45:19If you guys didn't want to do the nookie nookie
00:45:24There's oral sex
00:45:26There's fondling
00:45:28Now, now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, Mom
00:45:31I get it
00:45:32You're trying to be helpful
00:45:33But you're pushing too far
00:45:36You know, if we want to talk about sex with you
00:45:38We'll come up and ask about it
00:45:42Okay
00:45:44Excuse me
00:45:48I thought it was nice
00:45:49That he was defending her honor
00:45:51That's admirable
00:45:53But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction
00:45:57Thank you very much
00:46:00Well, Forrest, why is this a, you know, a total 180
00:46:04From our normal discussions
00:46:05Where you're right in there using the same language
00:46:07The same talk saying
00:46:09Yeah, I'm going to get into that
00:46:10Do that
00:46:11It's drastic night and day
00:46:13I see where this is headed
00:46:15Oh, my God
00:46:16I miss this place
00:46:17See us at home
00:46:20Sheena already has that control
00:46:22That thumb on him
00:46:23Let's not forget
00:46:25She was lying to him for years
00:46:27Giving all of her money to her parents
00:46:29Instead of saving for their future
00:46:31And I don't know if Forrest will actually hold her accountable
00:46:35But we need to get some answers
00:46:45You don't need to talk about your past
00:46:49I know, I know everything about your life
00:46:51You don't know everything
00:46:53I really want to tell the end about my last engagement
00:46:57Because I think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:47:17Ooh, look at the mirrors
00:47:20Wait, I want to check my outfit
00:47:22Here, hold that
00:47:25We look cute
00:47:28I can see you
00:47:29Can you see yourself?
00:47:31I can see you
00:47:43Excited to go shopping
00:47:46It's always crowded
00:47:49This is an easy place to get lost
00:47:52Today, I wanted to take Emma to Old Medina
00:47:55I feel so bad because Emma, she loves her job
00:47:59I want to make her feel so better
00:48:01And she loves shopping
00:48:03Oh, look at those bags
00:48:06Those are cute
00:48:08The marketplace in the Medina
00:48:10They have a thousand stores there
00:48:13Oh, my gosh
00:48:13I love all of these clothes
00:48:16You can find anything you want
00:48:19Ooh, look at these rugs
00:48:21Those are nice
00:48:22Yes
00:48:23Oh, wait, there's bags
00:48:24Let's go look at the bags
00:48:27Let's see what you want
00:48:31Oh, this is so cute
00:48:32Can you hold this?
00:48:33I want to look at everything
00:48:33Yeah, yeah, look for anything you want
00:48:36I think I like these little wallets
00:48:37I really like that
00:48:38These are cute
00:48:41I think I'm going to buy these three
00:48:43Not you, me
00:48:45You're going to get them?
00:48:46Yeah
00:48:46Hey
00:48:47It's like my gift to you
00:48:50Can I give you a kiss?
00:48:51Not hair
00:48:52Air kiss?
00:48:53Maybe
00:48:54Is that okay?
00:48:55Yeah, that's okay
00:48:56Can I do that from now on?
00:48:57Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:48:57I'll just give you air kisses
00:48:58Whenever I want to kiss you?
00:48:59Yeah
00:49:03It's really nice to have Ziad offer to buy me things and buy gifts for me
00:49:08That was so romantic
00:49:11Because that's never something I've had in the past
00:49:14It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful than I was feeling yesterday
00:49:18Where are you taking me, babe?
00:49:20This is popular here in Marrakesh
00:49:24What is this?
00:49:30What is that?
00:49:32What do we call them in English?
00:49:34Snails
00:49:35Snails
00:49:35I like don't want that
00:49:36Really?
00:49:37No
00:49:38It's like traditional
00:49:39I'm not trying it
00:49:41Tisted
00:49:41No
00:49:43I literally would throw up
00:49:48So delicious
00:49:49That is the grossest thing I've ever seen in my whole life
00:49:52It's a slimy snail
00:49:55And you just suck it down
00:49:58For me, it's delicious
00:50:03That's like really gross
00:50:05What's like the weirdest food you've ever tried?
00:50:08Like snails would be weird
00:50:10For you, for me, no
00:50:11So for me, sushi, for example
00:50:14I love sushi
00:50:15Yeah, it's
00:50:16We are different
00:50:17Are we compatible?
00:50:26Thank you
00:50:28Can you hold my other bag actually?
00:50:31What else can we do
00:50:32Like while we're here?
00:50:33Did you like horses?
00:50:34I love horses
00:50:36I think we have to choose this one
00:50:39I like the white ones
00:50:40Your heads
00:50:42Just one by one
00:50:45One by one
00:50:47Oh my god, this is so romantic
00:50:49This is like a romantic love ride
00:51:00This is three kisses you kissed me today
00:51:06I'm happy that we had a better day today
00:51:07Yeah, me too
00:51:08It was a big difference between this day and last day
00:51:15Yesterday was like really hard for me
00:51:16It like brought up old feelings
00:51:19Because, you know, I've like been lied to a lot
00:51:22Like in my past
00:51:23Like with past boyfriends
00:51:25So when
00:51:26When you kind of lied to me
00:51:27It was like a trigger for me
00:51:29Yeah
00:51:30So you don't need to talk about your past
00:51:34Do you not care about my past?
00:51:36No
00:51:36I know you right now
00:51:38Not in past
00:51:39So
00:51:39Yeah, but don't you want to know about my life?
00:51:42Just like things I've been through
00:51:43It's like don't you want to know about me?
00:51:45Yeah
00:51:45I know
00:51:46I know everything about your life
00:51:47You don't know everything
00:51:50No, I know everything
00:51:51I know your family
00:51:52I know where you live
00:51:54I know
00:51:54I know, but there are things that like
00:51:57That have happened in my life
00:51:58That you don't know about
00:52:03Like I thought
00:52:03We can live in past
00:52:05Something past
00:52:06It's past
00:52:11I want to be vulnerable
00:52:12I want to share, you know, details about who I am and my past
00:52:15And I really want to be able to tell Zied about my last engagement
00:52:20Because I think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:52:25But for him to shut me down
00:52:27It does make me wonder if Zied just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:52:31Because maybe he has something that he's hiding
00:52:34Or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:52:39Since I've gotten to Morocco
00:52:41I've just felt really rejected by him
00:52:44And so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:52:54I need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:52:56Why have you lied to us all along?
00:53:00I was so fearful of my parents
00:53:03They would say bad things to me
00:53:05They would say bad things to other people
00:53:07And it affects me emotionally, mentally
00:53:09It drains me every day
00:53:11No, I need that direct answer
00:53:13As to why you continue to hide it
00:53:42Hello, Jovon
00:53:55I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow
00:53:57To meet with my wife, Anna, for the first time
00:54:01But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:54:05My sister talked to Anna Lynn
00:54:07And she actually unblocked me
00:54:09But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for
00:54:16There's so much riding on this trip
00:54:19Anna being as angry
00:54:21It's just not good
00:54:32I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive
00:54:37I'm not being aggressive
00:54:40You told me yourself
00:54:42If we're going to be married
00:54:44We can't be keeping anyone special from the past
00:54:49But you're doing it
00:54:54And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me
00:54:57But it's like a baby step
00:54:59For any temptation
00:55:02I'm dealing with so much over here by myself
00:55:05I'm dealing with your problems
00:55:07I'm dealing with my problems
00:55:08And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you
00:55:13So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate
00:55:18Just to be understood and just heard
00:55:24If you feel like sometimes you can talk to me
00:55:29You have siblings
00:55:31You have a dad
00:55:32You have a mom
00:55:34If your big circle is still not enough
00:55:37You're American
00:55:39Get the therapy
00:55:42I mean, but like
00:55:44Who can afford therapy right now?
00:55:52She's not taking any accountability that, you know
00:55:55She played a part in why I reached out to a friend
00:56:00I need to be able to rely on my wife
00:56:02But she makes it impossible
00:56:06Even when I'm like at work
00:56:07And you're going through something
00:56:09I always try to be there for you emotionally
00:56:12Okay, okay
00:56:13Okay, listen
00:56:14I try, but I don't see you trying for me
00:56:17When do you show up for me in that way?
00:56:20Oh, God
00:56:24Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years
00:56:29I have devoted
00:56:33Invested so much love
00:56:39If you don't feel like that's understanding enough
00:56:42Waiting for you for that long
00:56:46I don't know what is
00:56:55I know you've made, you know
00:56:57Some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long
00:57:01And I do apologize
00:57:04And I do take accountability for what I've done
00:57:09Okay
00:57:18I can stop, but
00:57:20Can we at least work on our communication?
00:57:25Okay
00:57:27Okay
00:57:28That's all I want, boo
00:57:30That's it
00:57:32With Jobon coming out to the Philippines
00:57:34I do feel like
00:57:36I could let go of some negative feelings about this situation
00:57:41But even though he agreed that he's not gonna talk to that woman anymore
00:57:48Do I believe it?
00:57:52No, not really
00:57:54So I will definitely talk about this again in person
00:58:00Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:58:04Like, when we see each other?
00:58:07I don't know
00:58:07Maybe
00:58:27Whoa, look at this place
00:58:28This was a church
00:58:30Oh
00:58:311588, man, that is old
00:58:33It's old
00:58:33Here we got some brains here
00:58:36What's this, you guys?
00:58:40Yes
00:58:42Yeah, it's precision
00:58:47Oh, my goodness
00:58:48We call that fiesta
00:58:50Oh, yes
00:58:51That's a culture of a Catholic here in my country
00:58:53Goodness
00:58:55Yes
00:58:56Oh, my God
00:58:57Yeah, it's really cool
00:58:58Look at this
00:59:02I decided to take Horace and his family to Chinatown
00:59:06Because I'm a Chinese mix
00:59:08My mom is Chinese descent
00:59:11So I wanted to show how Chinese culture interbonded with Filipino culture
00:59:18Smell that?
00:59:19Oh, that smells so good
00:59:20So this is a place that to make handmade noodles
00:59:24I eat that air
00:59:26Hello
00:59:26Oh
00:59:28Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Forrest's parents
00:59:32Especially Molly
00:59:33Okay, thank you
00:59:35Thank you
00:59:36There's been problems between me and Molly
00:59:39But I'm so glad that she happened to accept me
00:59:43And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines
00:59:49Yum
00:59:49Oh, thank you
00:59:51Slurps up
00:59:52Slurps up and slurps up, huh?
00:59:54Yeah, actually, that's here
00:59:56The culture here, if you want to slurp
00:59:57It means you're eating the good noodles
00:59:59So that's a good sign
01:00:00So the loud are the best, right?
01:00:01Yeah, yes
01:00:02Here I go
01:00:05Yeah, you are the king of slurps, Forrest
01:00:08I made sure to get on my glasses
01:00:09That's the key
01:00:10This is all good
01:00:11Yeah
01:00:13Well, sheena
01:00:14Well, sheena
01:00:16I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday
01:00:20I mean, that really showed a lot to me
01:00:25But I did want to ask you about a few things
01:00:33Okay?
01:00:34Okay, Molly
01:00:35I'm listening
01:00:35And I need you to be able to look me in the eye
01:00:38And I need you to be truthful with me 100%
01:00:46You lied to us about giving your parents the money
01:00:52This was supposed to be you saving up money
01:00:55So you could come to America to be a family with us
01:00:59These were the plans all of these years
01:01:02And then for it to just find out
01:01:05Now, before we come here
01:01:08That hasn't been happening
01:01:13Why have you lied to us all along?
01:01:20I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations
01:01:24I hope you can listen to my situation
01:01:27The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents
01:01:32Is because being a breadwinner
01:01:35It's a cultural thing in my country
01:01:37That we are obligated to help our parents around
01:01:41I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money
01:01:44Needing to help your family
01:01:45That's what family does
01:01:48But my issue with it is that you lie
01:01:58To be honest, the reason also
01:02:00That's the reason I was so scared
01:02:03Because my parents
01:02:05My mom happened to guilt-tripping me from time to time
01:02:10If I don't give them money
01:02:12She makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person
01:02:15And it hurts me a lot
01:02:17Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question
01:02:21I need that direct answer
01:02:23And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer
01:02:27As to why you continue to hide it
01:02:33Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure
01:02:35Is just awful
01:02:39I'm wanting to step in and defend her
01:02:41And protect Sheena
01:02:42But at the same time
01:02:45I don't understand what fear she had of telling me
01:02:50I was so fearful of my parents
01:02:53They would say bad things to me
01:02:55They would say bad things to other people
01:02:57And it affects me emotionally, mentally
01:02:59It drains me every day
01:03:01Uh-uh, no
01:03:01And it makes me feel so bad
01:03:03No, no
01:03:04Sheena, I'm not asking you that
01:03:07I'm asking you why you did not tell us
01:03:15I couldn't handle myself anymore
01:03:17Because I don't know
01:03:18I can't
01:03:19Sheena, I can't understand what you're saying
01:03:21I am sorry
01:03:22Oh, my God
01:03:23I don't know
01:03:24See, there's your manipulation
01:03:25Put the tears
01:03:26Please put your tissue down
01:03:31I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge
01:03:34Actions that she did that weren't acceptable
01:03:38So even if she did have good reason
01:03:40To give it all to her parents
01:03:42What's the motivation for hiding it?
01:03:45They gotta get answers
01:03:52Oh, my God
01:03:54This is really happening
01:03:55Oh, my God
01:03:56Oh, my God
01:03:58I can't believe I'm doing this
01:04:00I love Lisa
01:04:01But I am worried about some things
01:04:04She was physical with a woman
01:04:29Here he is
01:04:32Awesome
01:04:33Here we go
01:04:34Yep
01:04:35Here goes everything
01:04:43Thank you
01:04:45Oh, my gosh
01:04:47I'm finally on my way
01:04:49To meet the love of my life, Daniel
01:04:50In Nigeria
01:04:51For the very first time
01:04:54What am I doing?
01:04:56I don't know, Mom
01:04:56What are you doing?
01:04:58Certainly not what I would be doing
01:05:01It still feels surreal to me
01:05:03That after 21 years
01:05:04Of only being with women
01:05:05I'm traveling across the world
01:05:07To meet a man
01:05:09And I love him
01:05:11I love him
01:05:13You're gonna see
01:05:14When I come home
01:05:14How excited and happy I am
01:05:16You're gonna see
01:05:17When I talk to you there
01:05:18How happy I am
01:05:19And you're gonna be happy for me
01:05:22I just
01:05:24I don't want it to ruin
01:05:25Your heart
01:05:32I'm gonna pee my pants
01:05:34Oh, God, please don't
01:05:37Here we go
01:05:39Okay
01:05:42All right
01:05:43You remember the rules
01:05:45Don't get married on the trip
01:05:46Even when the divorce comes through
01:05:47Yes
01:05:48And I would come clean
01:05:50About everything
01:05:51It'll be a foundation
01:05:52And if you have questions
01:05:53I will ask them
01:05:57I love you
01:05:58I love you, too
01:06:00I'm gonna miss you so much
01:06:02Stay safe
01:06:03Oh, God
01:06:05This is the biggest risk
01:06:07I've ever taken
01:06:08Flying across the world
01:06:10To another country
01:06:11To Nigeria, Africa
01:06:13To be with a man
01:06:14I have never met before
01:06:15I can't believe I'm doing this
01:06:18Oh, my God
01:06:19This is really happening
01:06:21Oh, my God
01:06:22Oh, my God
01:06:23Oh, my God
01:06:23Oh, my God
01:06:24I can't believe I'm doing this
01:06:27Happy, Daniel
01:06:28Happy, Daniel
01:06:31I hope Daniel
01:06:32Will accept me
01:06:33For everything that I am
01:06:34And who I am
01:06:35And that he will become
01:06:37My sixth
01:06:38And final spouse
01:06:42Daniel
01:06:42We're coming
01:06:51Bye-bye!
01:06:53Bye-bye!
01:06:57N.o. rare
01:07:04What do you think?
01:07:07I've been doing this
01:07:08Bye-bye!
01:07:32Please, give me 500 nara, um, Pepe.
01:07:37My name is Daniel. I am 29 years old.
01:07:43I am a Christian from the Igbo tribe.
01:07:45We have traditions and we believe in traditions.
01:07:49As an Igbo man, we love competition.
01:07:51We work hard and we have to be honest.
01:08:05I grew up very poor. Sometimes we eat once in a day because there's no food.
01:08:11My family do the best they can do.
01:08:14And I am really close to my family.
01:08:16But some years ago, I lost my mom before she died.
01:08:21She told me that during the war, she nearly be killed,
01:08:25that a white woman protected her.
01:08:27And I have to make sure that I get married to a white woman.
01:08:30So I decided I will do it.
01:08:32And that's how I found Lisa.
01:08:38Lisa is 52 years old.
01:08:40She lives in Pennsylvania.
01:08:42She's a beautiful woman.
01:08:44She has, um, she has a good body structure.
01:08:47She's thick.
01:08:48She has boobs.
01:08:50She has what I want.
01:08:53She don't hide anything.
01:08:55She supports me financially.
01:08:57She makes me feel loved.
01:09:00That's why I fell in love with her.
01:09:03I fell in love with her.
01:09:07I have a cool and gay.
01:09:10It's all the shaky name.
01:09:12Hey, I'm the monkey.
01:09:16Hey, what media time?
01:09:18Uh, okay.
01:09:20My jaw.
01:09:21They got more cool.
01:09:22I do.
01:09:23Mm-hmm.
01:09:25I want a wine.
01:09:26Oh, I know Igbo.
01:09:27I would say I take 27 years now.
01:09:31Sometimes the first person I was mowike.
01:09:34You bet I was going to do a put.
01:09:40Isn't it you know it?
01:09:42thu television performance?
01:09:45You see when people try and then touch.
01:09:47It doesn't mean the way you use it.
01:09:49I don't use it anymore.
01:09:51Are you still there?
01:09:51We're still there.
01:09:52We're still there.
01:09:54We're still there.
01:09:55We're still there.
01:09:56we do see spiritual leaders to consult the ancestors I love Lisa but I am
01:10:07worried about some things one she vip so she told me that she she have got him
01:10:14married twice and today she was physical with a woman one time this is the worst
01:10:29we don't believe that same-sex exists in our culture anyone caught in the arts will be
01:10:37banished or killed so we don't do it we don't accept it here she gave me her promise that
01:10:44she have stopped it but I love us
01:11:16now that the ancestors approved I want to move forward on this relationship
01:11:26I'm planning a big surprise for Lisa when I meet her at the airport
01:11:32I've been talking to God Almighty to take me away from Nigeria if I marry Lisa to make me change
01:11:40the
01:11:40story of my family and if I should make it to America this will change my life to good
01:11:59it feels so bad you're dragging my suitcases yes it feels like it got colder it gets cold or gets
01:12:08hot
01:12:09no straight weather oh we're here here you go I will take this thank you you're welcome after all of
01:12:34this excitement anticipation and build up of coming to Turkey and meeting beer con face to face
01:12:41it's starting off a little bit awkward but I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him
01:12:49it just feels so right I'm excited to see this
01:12:57oh you want me to go first yeah of course okay oh my god this is huge yeah this is
01:13:06way bigger than it
01:13:08looked in pictures this is amazing this kitchen is bigger than almost my every house so this is
01:13:19incredible you like this oh my god I love this I'm gonna move here you can see the sea everything
01:13:30oh my god wow
01:13:35this is amazing I'm so excited I'm so excited to finally be here and to finally be doing this
01:13:40did worth it all the trip yeah I know so how about you change and we will see
01:13:57because that sounds awesome let's do that let's do that okay this is the best part of his mirror this
01:14:10is
01:14:11incredible I would love to like live right there like with this view every day yeah I like these old
01:14:19buildings I do too yeah architecture is the art we live in I love that yeah I like really profound
01:14:31yeah I love
01:14:32that phrase beer con has so many like random comments for things and he has a way of taking things
01:14:40that
01:14:40are just very simple and creating this like giant philosophical discussion around it it's really pretty
01:14:47funny now that the sun's gone down yeah when the darkness comes the light shines out sometimes it's a
01:14:56little exhausting because I'm like oh my god it's just the sunset I guess we gotta go this way go
01:15:01back
01:15:01this way yeah I feel like a walking zombie right now actually not you the people are no I have
01:15:09no idea what I
01:15:12don't know where he comes up with all of this I mean it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes but
01:15:18ultimately I like it and I wouldn't change it how was your day yeah it was good I enjoyed it
01:15:30how about you
01:15:32I mean I'm exhausted I traveled a time to get here but it was really fun to see some of
01:15:38the sights and
01:15:47I'm exhausted and I have got to get some sleep okay you want to go to bed
01:15:56actually it's just nine o'clock and I have no sleep so why don't you go some sleep and I
01:16:06will watch
01:16:07some TV and join you after have a nice night all right good night good night
01:16:41um Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here he tracked my flight texted me like
01:16:48as soon as I landed to say I saw you landed and then he just kind of checked up on
01:16:53me
01:16:54I said everything's good and then he was like your tone is less than excited my dear
01:17:02so I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that but I just have a lot of things
01:17:12to process
01:17:12right now him just staying out there watching TV it's just I don't know different maybe than what
01:17:22I was expecting I feel like it's not this like super great magical moment just feels off I don't
01:17:30know how to explain it just feels off it is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting
01:17:38more attention from Michael than I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet
01:17:46and so I feel like there's something really wrong and I don't know maybe he's hiding something
01:17:53or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person but either way I'm just kind of questioning why I'm
01:18:01even here at this point
01:18:08I ain't there Colin
01:18:16does this story make any sense to you at all
01:18:19it doesn't make any sense to me Forrest does it make sense to you
01:18:25I want to end this now you're acting all hostile
01:18:28I'm not yeah you are Forrest
01:18:42my family have been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid
01:18:47for they should be helping me around they kept always promises to me that they will do anything
01:18:52we can't understand you you have to speak you have to be strong you got to speak clearly
01:19:03I need you to really please point blank you were giving your parents money why did you
01:19:13feel it was so necessary to not tell us
01:19:23because I feel so scared that if I happen not to give them money they would say bad things
01:19:33they say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it
01:19:41does this story make any sense to you at all
01:19:44honestly when you try to look at it and without the tears and without
01:19:49it doesn't make any sense to me at all
01:19:55the pieces aren't just lining up I'm sorry but they're not lining up
01:20:06it's very concerning because how do I even know
01:20:11that your feelings and plans are actually genuine
01:20:16oh you were scared Forrest would have come to me and said mom I gotta get on a freaking plane
01:20:23right now
01:20:23I gotta go over there and save her
01:20:26but it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared
01:20:29that you couldn't tell him and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it
01:20:35Forrest does it make sense to you
01:20:43a lot of it yeah I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from
01:20:51them
01:20:51you would try to do anything to make them love you
01:20:56Forrest it's hard to say no to a parent especially when
01:20:59especially mom it's hard for me to say no to you
01:21:04it's hard for me to check up for her against you
01:21:11I believe Sheena is not trying to lie or use things as excuses
01:21:16I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say
01:21:18and she gets so overwhelmed all she can get is
01:21:25you know diary of the mouth
01:21:30I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend
01:21:32to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder
01:21:38obviously she knows she did wrong
01:21:41what's your goal here
01:21:42just to sit here and keep beating her down
01:21:46I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents
01:21:54because ultimately the root of this nasty tree is the parents
01:22:02Sheena I need we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward
01:22:07and confront your parents about what we're going to do from now on
01:22:12I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents
01:22:16it is the only way to end this kind of problem
01:22:19which is what she should have done to set up with you
01:22:23yeah
01:22:23years and years ago
01:22:25we could sit there and we could talk about the past
01:22:26and he said she said he could do that
01:22:29she cannot do that
01:22:30it's time to move forward now
01:22:32Forrest
01:22:33I want to add this now
01:22:38I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore
01:22:40I don't want to talk about anything
01:22:42you're acting all hostile
01:22:43I'm not hostile
01:22:44yeah you are
01:22:46and you're causing Sheena a lot of stress
01:22:49you're causing me a lot of stress
01:22:51we tried to have a nice dinner
01:22:52and our nice dinner turned into
01:22:55disaster
01:22:59it's okay babe
01:23:04I now see that Forrest is too deep
01:23:07he's just got the blinders on
01:23:09only wanting to believe her
01:23:12now he sees us as the big bad bad nasties
01:23:16that attacked his poor Sheena
01:23:19but still I have to always protect Forrest
01:23:22because I know that he really loves her
01:23:25and I will not stop trying to find out why
01:23:29she lied
01:23:36next time on
01:23:38Before the 90 Days
01:23:39I'm about to meet my wife for the first time
01:23:42this is so surreal
01:23:43come on
01:23:45where are you
01:23:46this is like ordering something online
01:23:49and we're just excited to unpack
01:23:51the package
01:23:55are you nervous?
01:23:58a little bit
01:23:59yeah actually
01:24:00before I came to Turkey
01:24:02I did make an appointment
01:24:04with a plastic surgeon
01:24:05I have some like
01:24:06loose skin in places
01:24:08that I am looking to have removed
01:24:11this part is best as possible
01:24:13but I'm immediately regretting
01:24:16having Fearcom come with me
01:24:17I will just show you some pictures
01:24:25I've been looking at your page
01:24:27every day
01:24:28you follow new girls
01:24:29just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls
01:24:31girls, girls, girls
01:24:32yeah
01:24:33I downloaded this extension on my laptop
01:24:36and it shows you
01:24:38who people follow
01:24:40this morning
01:24:41I saw that he was still following
01:24:42thousands of women
01:24:43so since we've been dating
01:24:45have you talked romantically
01:24:46to any other girls?
01:24:49Sheena and I had a discussion
01:24:50about going by ourselves
01:24:52to meet your parents
01:24:53and how it's important
01:24:54that I meet them
01:24:55before mom and dad meet them
01:24:57I can't even imagine
01:24:58what her parents would try and do
01:25:00if Forrest went over there by himself
01:25:01I need to be there with Forrest
01:25:05Sheena
01:25:06your parents are going to do
01:25:08the same line
01:25:09that they've used on you
01:25:11all along
01:25:12well my family isn't a bad people
01:25:13now the story changes again
01:25:16I still don't know
01:25:18if this isn't something
01:25:19that you're involved in either
01:25:29I love him with everything I am
01:25:32but he doesn't know
01:25:33that I've been married five times
01:25:35and I'm still married
01:25:37to a woman
01:25:40what are you doing?
01:25:42you
01:25:42you
01:25:42you
01:25:46you
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