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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She bought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also bought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:46I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49I've got my reassurances.
00:01:50We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:40Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh, God.
00:03:41Oh, my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay
00:04:10and our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness
00:04:14after stepping into the life that could be waiting for them
00:04:19outside the experiment.
00:04:20Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful,
00:04:26the couples now turn their attention
00:04:28to the second last dinner party of the experiment,
00:04:32eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time
00:04:40since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:43We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:46It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip come up.
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:55Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:59The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:05For Rachel and Stephen,
00:05:08Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage,
00:05:11unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays
00:05:21and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again
00:05:32and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out.
00:05:37And, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay
00:05:42and I'm actually just really excited
00:05:44to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47And I'm glad you had a good time
00:05:48and you could see, you know,
00:05:49a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:54After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:59Like I said to Rachel,
00:06:00can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:12You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:06:14so we're really lucky to have had
00:06:16the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While Homestays brought some closer...
00:06:23..for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home
00:06:26presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:29It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink? Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your exes or something?
00:06:37Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
00:06:47because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you,
00:06:53but can I commit to moving and everything
00:06:55if you never feel like, you know, that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments,
00:07:01eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset
00:07:04and look on the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party,
00:07:10being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night
00:07:17to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion,
00:07:24but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great. We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:38Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems
00:07:46if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:51Oh...
00:07:54Pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it. Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good, we feel good,
00:08:00and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny,
00:08:09what began as a promising homestay
00:08:11took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need
00:08:15to have hard conversations with you,
00:08:19they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously,
00:08:21because Danielle fancied me,
00:08:22she didn't want to, like...
00:08:27I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice
00:08:39and be genuine about it
00:08:40and then not say,
00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing morning.
00:08:48F***ing me.
00:08:50F***ing...
00:08:52And now back at the apartment,
00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney
00:09:03from homestays,
00:09:04things look great.
00:09:05Like...
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like...
00:09:09Since we've been back,
00:09:11like, there's not really any need
00:09:12to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning,
00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,
00:09:21we have a shag,
00:09:22and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples,
00:09:33homestays brought them together.
00:09:35But for one couple,
00:09:36it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,
00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:43And obviously,
00:09:43Chris and I left each other
00:09:44at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down,
00:09:48and maybe we could just be, like,
00:09:50really raw and honest with each other
00:09:52about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility
00:09:58for your defensiveness
00:09:59and the aggression I felt
00:10:00from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08Yeah.
00:10:08I just feel like we've...
00:10:09I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um,
00:10:1415, getting in trouble
00:10:15by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um...
00:10:21Okay, okay.
00:10:22Um...
00:10:24In the beginning,
00:10:25uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um,
00:10:29yeah, we also have some, um,
00:10:31differences as well.
00:10:32And I just wanted to put my dad hat on
00:10:35and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea
00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party
00:10:52because I want that last chance
00:10:54to sort of just, like,
00:10:56find out why Chris
00:10:57actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity
00:11:02on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one
00:11:06struggling with the fallout
00:11:08of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,
00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,
00:11:16but what are your thoughts
00:11:19about me moving to Sydney
00:11:20just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know,
00:11:27you want to have a family
00:11:28and you don't want to
00:11:31keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take 10 years
00:11:35to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well,
00:11:38I don't know that yet.
00:11:38I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:45I don't think you've got
00:11:45a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51I'm feeling a lot online.
00:11:52And after a confronting
00:11:54conversation with her mum,
00:11:56Alyssa unraveled
00:11:57and David was left
00:11:58wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you.
00:12:04I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family
00:12:07in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out
00:12:11on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to
00:12:13make this thing work,
00:12:14David might have to
00:12:15move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here
00:12:20and you've talked a lot
00:12:21about what your wants
00:12:22and needs are.
00:12:24Mm.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments,
00:12:32David has had a wake-up call
00:12:34of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling
00:12:40at my limit
00:12:41post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself
00:12:48living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:50But, you know,
00:12:51after having, you know,
00:12:52come back to Sydney
00:12:53and having time to just
00:12:55come down
00:12:56from the high of homestays,
00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because
00:13:00there were a couple things
00:13:01that have still, like,
00:13:04trinkled in the back
00:13:05of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself
00:13:07living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing
00:13:14to move here,
00:13:16which is great,
00:13:17but I don't know,
00:13:18I feel like I'm getting
00:13:19overwhelmed with it
00:13:20because you're, like,
00:13:21literally on the high
00:13:22spiral.
00:13:23I am, I am, I am,
00:13:24because it's, like,
00:13:25a lot.
00:13:27David actually is
00:13:28everything that you've
00:13:29asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now,
00:13:31this is too good
00:13:31to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is
00:13:33also another reason
00:13:34why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this
00:13:37experiment,
00:13:38I have been patient
00:13:39because I know
00:13:40there is something
00:13:41in this relationship
00:13:42to fight for,
00:13:43but when you get
00:13:44to that point
00:13:46where, like,
00:13:46you're dealing with,
00:13:47like, the mum,
00:13:48the family,
00:13:49friends,
00:13:49they all said
00:13:50that I'm a great
00:13:51guy for her
00:13:52and she still
00:13:53sees negatives,
00:13:54there's nothing
00:13:55else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit
00:13:58and I'm not going
00:13:59to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very
00:14:02real that I could
00:14:03potentially be
00:14:05putting everything
00:14:06on the line
00:14:06for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want
00:14:08to meet me
00:14:09halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know
00:14:11I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me,
00:14:13I think it's important
00:14:14to just express
00:14:15how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of
00:14:22almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling
00:14:26going to the dinner
00:14:27party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive,
00:14:32massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point
00:14:36where, like I said,
00:14:38you know,
00:14:38I'm happy to give
00:14:39all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space
00:14:43I need
00:14:43because I definitely
00:14:44need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like I feel like
00:14:46I've just gone
00:14:47and put it all
00:14:47on the line
00:14:50and, you know,
00:14:50at the end
00:14:51I'm not going
00:14:51to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time
00:14:56I've ever heard you
00:14:57say that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like,
00:15:02you're more like,
00:15:03let's, like,
00:15:03whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time
00:15:05you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like,
00:15:10rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally I'm the one
00:15:12that needs space.
00:15:13So, you know what,
00:15:14if he needs space,
00:15:15gladly,
00:15:16because I need space
00:15:17right now
00:15:18just from my head
00:15:19and I don't need
00:15:19any of this pressure
00:15:20right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm
00:15:22at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's
00:15:24at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired
00:15:26and he's been snoring
00:15:27louder than usual
00:15:28like it's just been
00:15:29a bit of an emotional
00:15:31rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space
00:15:33because, yeah,
00:15:34I am a calm person
00:15:35but I'd get into my limit
00:15:37where I just need
00:15:38to take some space
00:15:39for my own brain
00:15:40because I feel like
00:15:41I put my cards
00:15:42on the table
00:15:44but it almost felt
00:15:45like you were just
00:15:45looking for the negatives
00:15:46and when someone's
00:15:48looking for the negatives
00:15:48too much
00:15:49of why things can't work,
00:15:50like, I'm not gonna
00:15:51force that.
00:15:52I'm not gonna force
00:15:52a connection
00:15:53if it's just me
00:15:54looking for the positives
00:15:55and someone else
00:15:56is looking for anything
00:15:57to be like,
00:15:58why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be
00:16:03lying to you
00:16:04if I said I wasn't
00:16:05questioning things
00:16:06right now
00:16:06and questioning
00:16:07our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not
00:16:12going into the dinner
00:16:13party with Alyssa
00:16:14feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're
00:16:17in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just
00:16:19as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour
00:16:36of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep.
00:16:38Let's go.
00:16:42Up to you.
00:16:43After me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:50I don't want to do this.
00:16:53I don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,
00:17:07the second last one
00:17:09before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one
00:17:13because they've come back
00:17:15from the homestays
00:17:17as they start to get a glimpse
00:17:19of what their life
00:17:20will be like
00:17:20with this person
00:17:21in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part
00:17:25of the experiment for them
00:17:27because some of them
00:17:27will bond closer together
00:17:30through the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start
00:17:37to really fall apart
00:17:38and question their overall compatibility
00:17:40with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that
00:17:48in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up
00:17:58the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last
00:18:01in the outside world?
00:18:03We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:09Aw, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you
00:18:17but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen
00:18:26look so relaxed
00:18:27and so really walking in
00:18:29with Rachel as we are today.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:46We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52It's probably the most relaxed
00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:01No, definitely.
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited
00:19:29to share how much fun we had
00:19:31and, like, and how good it was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple
00:19:37is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm...
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:48..in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news
00:19:52they had a good week.
00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you
00:20:10because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out me.
00:20:13Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:30I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:35Does it?
00:20:36Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:48Oh, look who it is.
00:20:59It's not taking space from each other.
00:21:12It's just taking space to process everything.
00:21:15Okay.
00:21:18Oh, look who it is!
00:21:19Oh my God!
00:21:21Oh my God!
00:21:22Oh my God!
00:21:23Oh my God!
00:21:23Oh my God!
00:21:24Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:21:25Oh my God!
00:21:27Oh my God!
00:21:27Oh my God!
00:21:28Oh my God!
00:21:29Hang on.
00:21:30How are you, mate?
00:21:31Dude, that's all I can do.
00:21:32Handshake.
00:21:33Good to see you, bro.
00:21:34Likewise, man.
00:21:34Looking good.
00:21:35Oh.
00:21:36That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:21:38Oh, at first!
00:21:39Yeah, at first.
00:21:40You guys are there.
00:21:41We've got so much done.
00:21:42Oh, yeah.
00:21:43We've got a lot to evaluate.
00:21:44Let's just get some...
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47Okay.
00:21:48Okay.
00:21:55So, are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa!
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a low post the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:16Ooh.
00:22:17Crying in my face.
00:22:18And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know, I am sort of one in my own space,
00:22:23you
00:22:23know, in my head just to sort of figure things out.
00:22:26So, I did walk in on a low.
00:22:32Oh!
00:22:32Hey!
00:22:34Here we go!
00:22:35What's up?
00:22:36Scott and Gia.
00:22:38Do I spin?
00:22:38A little hotness right here.
00:22:41How pretty are you both?
00:22:43Hi!
00:22:44I'll give you some love.
00:22:45Gorgeous!
00:22:46Hello!
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with Gia, like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:22:53We still have a couple things to work on.
00:22:54Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:56I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad, I just see the more good in someone.
00:23:01Do we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:06All right, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with Sam, it was just so
00:23:15yucky and awkward.
00:23:16So, I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:24And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:27I just hope this, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly so
00:23:33I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good.
00:23:45And then at some point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart.
00:23:48And I didn't really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:06But you know what, there's two sides to this story and coming to the dinner party to back
00:24:10myself and say my side of the story.
00:24:21Oh.
00:24:25Oh.
00:24:25Oh.
00:24:26Oh.
00:24:26Chris is alone.
00:24:27Ew, how you going?
00:24:28Oh.
00:24:29Okay, that's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi.
00:24:31Hey, Barton.
00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Well, shit.
00:24:37That's not my prediction.
00:24:39Drink, drink, drink, drink, drink.
00:24:41I mean, they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44Chris had written leave.
00:24:45Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:24:48There was a hope that the homestay, they might be able to turn it around.
00:24:50But this looks like it's actually not been salvaged.
00:24:55The brown's orange.
00:24:56Yeah, yeah, I'm all right.
00:24:57You look very tan.
00:24:58Thanks, babe.
00:24:59The fit's good.
00:25:00The fit's good.
00:25:01My life's not...
00:25:01I would love one, babe.
00:25:02Your life is okay.
00:25:04Yeah, thanks, babe.
00:25:04You've got this shit, babe.
00:25:05You've got this shit.
00:25:07Yeah, thank you.
00:25:07Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:25:08Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:25:11I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:25:13Okay, all right.
00:25:14So you don't want to talk about that?
00:25:15No, I'll give you a little...
00:25:16You give us your side.
00:25:17I'll give you a little rundown.
00:25:18It's really hard seeing them not walking together.
00:25:20Because I genuinely had hope that they would get past this.
00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in by himself, like, it was genuinely, like...
00:25:29Bitty heartbreaks.
00:25:31Basically, um, yeah, Sam ended it with me two days into homestays.
00:25:36He ended it with you?
00:25:37The second day.
00:25:38He ended it?
00:25:39Yeah, yeah.
00:25:40He ended it with you?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.
00:25:44I wonder why.
00:25:45Yes, I wonder why.
00:25:47Obviously, we had, like, a, you know, a pretty bad couch session.
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51I took accountability.
00:25:53I decided that I wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that I got.
00:25:56Yeah, you said that.
00:25:56Um, so I went into homestays, trying to turn it around.
00:25:59Gia knows.
00:25:59I spoke with you about it.
00:26:01Yeah.
00:26:01Morning flowers, made him dinner.
00:26:02I tried everything that I could to turn it around.
00:26:04But unfortunately, um, yeah, it didn't work for us.
00:26:07And it was really, it was a real shock, because I thought we were actually doing quite well.
00:26:11Like, you know, I started to get those feelings back for him again, so...
00:26:14So Chris was saying he started getting feelings for Sam again.
00:26:17Okay, so he was shocked by it.
00:26:20Blindsided.
00:26:22Wow.
00:26:22So, it's pretty, it's pretty sad.
00:26:24Um, but I respect Sam's decision to exit.
00:26:27Um, and we actually weren't even going to come tonight.
00:26:29Like, they, we, he left the farm.
00:26:31Um, we were just going to leave it at that, because we unpacked a lot of it.
00:26:34Um, but I've decided to give Sam the respect of coming tonight, so we can both...
00:26:37Amazing.
00:26:38...talk to you guys about it, and, um, let you know what's happened, and then sit in front
00:26:42of the experts, and get their advice.
00:26:44But like, no ill feelings towards Sam.
00:26:46I respect his decision, but yeah.
00:26:48She's single again.
00:26:50Oh!
00:26:51Thank you!
00:26:52I love you.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:56Alyssa, how was yours?
00:26:59Uh...
00:27:00Good moment.
00:27:01I feel like I'm still processing everything.
00:27:04It's crunch time, right?
00:27:05It's crunch time!
00:27:06For you guys, yeah.
00:27:09Um, but we'll talk about it later, at the dinner party.
00:27:13Okay.
00:27:18Hey!
00:27:20Hey!
00:27:21Hey!
00:27:21Hey!
00:27:22Hey!
00:27:23Hey!
00:27:24Hey, babe!
00:27:25You look amazing!
00:27:26Hi!
00:27:26How's it going?
00:27:26Hey!
00:27:27Hey!
00:27:28Hey!
00:27:29How are you?
00:27:31For the best part, we had a really good homestay, you know?
00:27:34I got clarity, so it's been decided.
00:27:37Uh, I will be making that move happen sooner rather than later.
00:27:40He looks tan!
00:27:41Do you get a spray tan?
00:27:43Huh?
00:27:43Do you get a spray tan?
00:27:44We went to the beach!
00:27:45What the hell?
00:27:46And I just thought, you know what, like, it's time to go for an adventure.
00:27:52Hey!
00:27:53Hey!
00:27:54I love the distraction!
00:27:57Hi!
00:27:58Hi!
00:27:58Ah, he's Beck and Danny.
00:27:59Beck and Danny.
00:28:01Hello.
00:28:02How are you?
00:28:03Hello.
00:28:03I'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party tonight.
00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.
00:28:09we are planning our future together we had great homestays and I've got no
00:28:15beef with anyone oh my god pigs fly what the hell I'm not arguing with anyone
00:28:32I got back and I was a bit drained to tell you the truth it was it's a lot
00:28:37like I felt a bit uncomfortable in a house and I felt a bit out of place and it
00:28:41made me just think about like the logistics of the move more like how it's
00:28:45gonna work draw or cuz I'm not just gonna move in with that of course and live
00:28:49like our put my feet up this is rent free like yeah that doesn't sit well with me
00:28:53so it just solidified there's more things we need to talk about of course
00:29:02yeah awesome crazy I think Danny and I have probably the strongest in the
00:29:09experiment if I'm honest with you and like it feels like it's can only go up from
00:29:13here coming up I would never just move in Danny's jaw-dropping confession from my
00:29:24point of view anyway I suppose everyone looks at different but it makes you
00:29:27feel like the has the whole table talking oh god oh my god
00:29:49here we go when did you talk to him last the last time he spoke to me was the
00:30:00Friday after he left and all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party
00:30:03I don't know what the energy is gonna be like with Sam I hope he comes in like
00:30:09nice just yeah I just can't deal with any more you know
00:30:25hello everyone oh here he is how you going good how are you good you look nice
00:30:31yeah how are you not too bad hello Sam how are you Matt I'm hugging like just
00:30:39hot but I've got a vertical problem thanks thanks thanks I hope he doesn't come at
00:30:49me all right why you worry oh I just just don't worry no I just can't deal with it
00:30:53like all right now you're okay how are you sure are you okay uh still a bit like there was
00:31:04no real
00:31:04effort while we're away but we'll get into it at the table yeah no no he's given us a bit
00:31:09of a
00:31:09grief what was he says um that you guys you know went to home stays and I can't dinner one
00:31:17night or
00:31:17you guys have dinner together one night and he thought the first night was going okay um and
00:31:22then obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it was yeah yeah dude he didn't drive you
00:31:31you're eating up this bullshit don't eat up this bullshit dinner is sir okay let's go babes you got
00:31:43it let's go mate all righty well let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin we will get to
00:31:53the
00:31:53bottom of what actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris yes we need to understand
00:31:58what actually went on there you got the um you got the tits out again oh yeah tits are for
00:32:15the boys
00:32:30yeah wow it's very tense isn't that Chris Sam
00:32:44I really want to talk about from our perspective what led me to the decision to end things yeah and
00:32:50how I felt the whole homestay so yeah tonight is going to be shit I Sam and I have already
00:33:02hashed this
00:33:03out at the farm um we're revisiting it in front of the group and so for me this is not
00:33:08comfortable
00:33:09um I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly and I just want to get this
00:33:12over and done
00:33:13with hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can um yeah move on I feel like we
00:33:21both just need
00:33:22to say everything that got us to this point um especially with meeting the experts tomorrow I want
00:33:28to get as much as I can out of this experience um yeah we've mentioned it at the cocktail party
00:33:33that
00:33:34we you know well you you decided to end it so um yeah like I didn't really fight that at
00:33:42all you
00:33:42were like also just like okay because I I hadn't given so much to try and make it work I
00:33:48don't want to
00:33:52come oh my god here we go again if Chris thinks that's loads of effort I feel sorry for anybody
00:34:01he ends
00:34:02up with in the future like yeah can I ask a question how did Sam end the relationship and where
00:34:13and how did it
00:34:14happen I could I tell the story I want you guys both to say yeah yeah so homestays obviously you
00:34:21all saw the last commitment ceremony um I wrote stay and Christopher leave and that was really hard
00:34:26for me to battle with personally because I did have feelings for Chris so I like obviously now I'm very
00:34:32nervous going into homestays and we get to the car to drive down and I'm like just sitting in the
00:34:38car
00:34:39and it's so uncomfortable and I'm I like literally just like shut my eyes and kind of pretend that I'm
00:34:44sleeping and then I get to the farm and then I do try to have fun and have a good
00:34:48time I wake
00:34:50up the next morning and Chris is nowhere to be seen no message no note I'm just there sitting for
00:35:00an hour in his house at his place with no car just by myself and then he rocks up his
00:35:05I just went to
00:35:06the gym this morning was really windy last night and I'm like okay cool and like this is when I'm
00:35:10starting to feel like are you do you really want me here do you like really want to show me
00:35:14how much
00:35:14you want this relationship to work look for me it was letting him sleep a little bit longer we're not
00:35:26interrupting each other tonight right oh okay can I keep going my story then yeah so then we come to
00:35:38the
00:35:38fire the next night and this is when I'm like this is my last plea here like I'm gonna try
00:35:42and see if
00:35:43he really wants to fight for this if he really wants this relationship to work and I had written
00:35:48down questions that were all just about what the experts said going through all these questions and
00:35:53then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of talking about it and then I'm
00:35:57like Chris do you even have feelings for me and he goes oh you know with what's happened over the
00:36:03last
00:36:03couple of weeks I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged and like I don't really know if I do
00:36:07anymore and I'm like well then what am I doing here then I was just like well then do we
00:36:19just end it
00:36:19here and you were just like yeah I think that's probably like right to do then what I don't understand
00:36:24is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings for me what I honestly feel like
00:36:35happened is that you just like did the bare minimum got me flowers so that you could come here tonight
00:36:40and say I did this for Sam I tried but like I know that you were checked out of this
00:36:45relationship
00:36:46already I know you didn't want to give it a go if I'm honest and I'll have to be honest
00:36:55it seems
00:36:57like you're putting a lot on Chris yeah and just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully
00:37:05doesn't mean this other person hold on a second let's not forget that like the week before Sam was
00:37:15in a world of pain alone being yeah correct but hang on a second hang on a minute sorry I've
00:37:23got
00:37:24to say something here Beck needs to mind her business I don't know how her homestays went but
00:37:30that should be her focus for a couple weeks out of final bowels worry about your man doll I'm not
00:37:36going to sit let anyone sit here and say your expectations are too high when Sam sat there in
00:37:42tears by himself not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week because the
00:37:48person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him like let's all just take a step
00:37:53back back yeah you've been aggressive too at the dinner at the dinner at the dinner parties
00:37:58you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey so just pipe it down a
00:38:03little bit
00:38:12Sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a
00:38:17whole week
00:38:18because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him like let's all just
00:38:23take a step back but you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties you're in no position to be
00:38:30giving someone feedback about their behavior honey so just pipe it down a little bit and I've never
00:38:37been aggressive to you can I speak now first of all like hand on heart I tried my hardest to
00:38:45turn it
00:38:46around I got the feedback from the experts I took it on board I took accountability I realized that I
00:38:52wanted to grow and learn as a person and I wanted to come out the other end and I'm sorry
00:38:56but I was
00:38:57doing that and I thought we had a good day and like you pulled the notepad out and then asked
00:39:02me
00:39:02the questions and I just for me I felt like you know like can we just live in the moment
00:39:07can we just
00:39:08have a bit of fun and but do you understand with the questions they're things that were burning
00:39:12inside of course yeah yeah of course yeah cool I'll keep talking babes
00:39:18so I I felt uncomfortable but I stayed calm and I answered the question I answered the questions
00:39:23as best as I could but you ended it with me you said like yeah no yeah can I just
00:39:29say it's like
00:39:29the reason I ended it is because I asked Chris do you still have feelings for me if if you
00:39:37were trying
00:39:38so hard and you thought that everything was what you're saying then at that point you should have said
00:39:42Sam yes I had feelings for you can ask a question do you feel like when Chris said leave the
00:39:54other
00:39:54week at the last commitment so I know really hurt you like you were really upset we could see that
00:39:58do you think that that really hurt you to a point where had you already made up your mind I
00:40:04hadn't made
00:40:04my mind that just hurt me to the point where this is why I think I needed so much for
00:40:09Chris because I
00:40:09was really hurt that he said he wanted to leave that he had already given up so I'm like I
00:40:13need
00:40:13to see from you that you haven't given up completely and I get maybe for you what you did was
00:40:17enough
00:40:18but for me it wasn't and then I decided that based on the fact that what you did wasn't enough
00:40:22my
00:40:22expectations to call it happened I ended things because I wasn't getting what I wanted from Chris
00:40:27and if that's not what he can give because he's got kids and he's got fun but then you're not
00:40:31ultimately a good man it's really upsetting that there hasn't worked out between Sam and Chris because
00:40:44I care for both boys but listening to both sides of the story I'm like they're not speaking the same
00:40:51language and they're seeing different things and I don't think they're gonna align tonight just
00:40:59unfortunately it hasn't worked I don't want this to be yucky I just want to be amicable I don't want
00:41:03it to be yucky either it's not yucky though is it it's not yucky don't mistake passion for anger I
00:41:09think you're both passionate it's not yucky in my opinion you're both just ironing it out
00:41:14we do love you both we love you a lot yeah 100 kings I think it's really sad what's happened
00:41:21with
00:41:21Sam and Chris I love them as people and I love them together and I'm getting this feeling of like
00:41:27Chris did try the way he knew how and it wasn't enough for Sam it's it's it's a hard one
00:41:44so Beck and Danny how about you guys your next how was your homestays we had such a good homestays
00:41:52didn't wait give my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you they would I think
00:42:02obviously because Danielle fancy me you should be able to say something nice and be genuine about
00:42:10it and then not say oh your cousin wants to me I never said that there's a camera in my
00:42:14face and
00:42:15you're abusing me over a joke dude there's a camera in my face and you're making a joke of what
00:42:19I'm saying yeah I'm done well we have like a like two perfect things and then like the top we
00:42:29had a
00:42:29little argument at the end we had a tiny little ding-dong at the end it lasted about 15 minutes
00:42:39I
00:42:40think like for me I don't know for anyone else who experienced like going into your partner's home
00:42:47in that moment I felt like a bit out of place in the house like up until that point I'd
00:42:52felt so
00:42:52comfortable like so welcome not that I was ever like unwelcome but in that moment arguing like
00:43:00hardly an argument a ding dong but yeah or whatever you want to call it
00:43:06whilst Danny did call it an argument Bec called it a ding-dong so she's wanting to really contain
00:43:11it yes when we had the disagreement at the house I felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space
00:43:16it's your space yeah do you know I don't know if anyone else can like yeah so that was sort
00:43:22of
00:43:22something that stuck with me in in the sense of like moving forward it made me look at it things
00:43:28in a different way in the sense that I'd probably want to I don't know how I'd want to navigate
00:43:36if I was to move to Adelaide how the logistics of it would look as a man
00:43:43oh that's a man I feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more Bec's house than
00:43:51it is
00:43:51moving into her house yeah correct like like I'd want to sit down and speak to Bec on a deeper
00:43:56level
00:43:56about that because like I feel like if you move in with a woman and like I would never just
00:44:04move in
00:44:07like we'd have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like I'm not moving out
00:44:13of my house
00:44:16no I'm not asking you to but what I'm saying is like it's how he fits into it babe yeah
00:44:22how I fit
00:44:22into it that's that's more what I'm saying and to you right now you're probably like that that like
00:44:28that's easy I know like it's just but like I get from Danny's perspective he's like yeah I move in
00:44:33so
00:44:33like he's got to get his stuff out where does he put his stuff and like and we would make
00:44:37space 100%
00:44:38for that from my point of view anyway I suppose everyone looks at different but it makes you feel
00:44:43like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman from my point of view anyway I suppose everyone
00:45:03looks
00:45:03different but it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman
00:45:11what are you on about oh no that's not what I was getting at oh god oh my god he's
00:45:19talking about
00:45:19feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house and let's not use the term bitch in that
00:45:25way either Danny not cool we're on 800 square meters five minutes from the city
00:45:31with a 97 000 mortgage and a three million dollar house
00:45:37me
00:45:41whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa like firstly you've never said that to me women have worked really really
00:45:49hard to make sure that we've got this multi-million dollar home in the most affluent suburb of south
00:45:55australia so yeah you're not gonna be a bitch moving into my house that was not what i was
00:46:01getting at are we serious for this we're in the 2020s emasculated by moving into home with your woman
00:46:14let's grow up you like to be a provider correct correct yeah i'll be honest i couldn't go to hers
00:46:20i want to i'm gonna buy the house i'm gonna pay for everything like that's just a manly thing
00:46:25dan's a bit like me he likes to feel like the man the boss the alpha male so i understand
00:46:31where
00:46:31danny's coming from he just wants to feel more emasculated in the relationship we're more
00:46:36traditional in that way too no but like i get it like i have it my house is bigger than
00:46:40yours but
00:46:40it's like yeah like it's different vibe i do agree with danny i think for a man to feel masculine
00:46:48and his masculine energy they want to have the house and the woman move into it i know that's
00:46:53not like the norm these days but like i like that and that's what me and scott are doing so
00:46:57i do agree
00:46:58with danny on that i think he wants to feel like the man and he has every right to feel
00:47:03like that
00:47:03i feel like it's emasculating like i get what you're saying like yeah you want your place to be
00:47:07like here babe like come to me like i'm i'm the man like i think that's like where you're coming
00:47:13from
00:47:13yeah that's what i'm saying i felt uncomfortable when we argued and it sort of it made me feel
00:47:19de-masculated to like be in her house yeah like a bit of a bitch i've had that discussion with
00:47:24beck
00:47:24two or three times i'm not as hit hit 1990s song on r&b radio what keeps repeating itself
00:47:31do you know you mean i i didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement then i was just like
00:47:36no i don't know what you mean danny i do wonder if danny's showing a little insecurity there
00:47:42you know i think some men would not see a barrier to moving into a house owned by
00:47:48it wouldn't feel emasculating he's really dropped the ball here and i'm old school too i'm exactly
00:47:56the same i can proudly say it as well that if me and rachel do something i would feel i
00:48:00would feel
00:48:01more comfortable rachel moved into my place feel like a provider well i don't think that's very
00:48:06fair because at the end of the day it's the difference is is that i've got a massive house
00:48:11with a lot of space five minutes out of the city with a mortgage of 97 grand i feel like
00:48:16you're a team
00:48:16i feel like you're a team 100 i was brought up on those values that's just the way i think
00:48:21if i
00:48:21moved badly i'd be gambling yeah really i wouldn't like you get away together yeah i know we work
00:48:33together but as a man it's just something i do as a man maybe i'm old school like that but
00:48:39i believe
00:48:39like the man should be the man of the house and take care of the big bills it's nice to
00:48:44have your
00:48:45own thing but ultimately you work together right exactly yeah ultimately it's about how can we work
00:48:50together how can we make this work what are your needs you know vice versa it doesn't have to be
00:48:56a
00:48:56demasculating thing it just has to be teamwork like you're a team no you're a team for some reason
00:49:03it's just a mental thing uh it's just it just works like that uh females feel more secure when that
00:49:10it
00:49:10is like that it's just how it is unfortunately it's a double set it's just how it is guys don't
00:49:15have
00:49:15that problem yeah i understand where danny's coming from don't agree with it but i understand where
00:49:22um danny's coming from beck and danny's homestay i don't think was as great as they made it out to
00:49:28be there's something there's something not right there this is a serious conversation you guys need
00:49:34to know uh yeah i know for a dinner party don't like shut up great excellent so glad we're talking
00:49:44about
00:49:44it with everyone oh goodness no i said it to you already that not to that level babes i have
00:49:51a hundred
00:49:52percent no still to come i did spiral a little bit dave what's going through your head bro david
00:50:09finally finds his voice i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:50:16i think this is really a relationship in peril yeah before beck confronts danny i would have
00:50:24appreciated it having been that open it's a lot of relations it's just a whole table of people
00:50:30experiment now before hindsight how about you alissa how was yours um
00:50:47do you know what alissa and david really have not spoken about themselves at all no
00:50:53and that is not usual for them david looks quite uncomfortable actually yeah
00:51:00i feel like we had highs and lows i did spiral a little bit like i did get in my
00:51:07head
00:51:08because you know as soon as we touched down in adelaide i felt like this weight
00:51:16i felt like oh my goodness i you know i said i was going to move to sydney and like
00:51:21we're going to make
00:51:21this thing work in sydney and we'll meet halfway but i have a lot of responsibilities in adelaide
00:51:27i have contracts in place i have my business i have a house i have a cat but i'm almost
00:51:3234
00:51:33and in the next few years i want to start a family so i kind of put pressure on myself
00:51:38and that's where i started to spiral on homestays because i was like this is not going to work
00:51:44like i don't think i'm going to be able to stretch myself out at adelaide
00:51:47um like in the next three months it might look like six to 12 months if we're going to make
00:51:52this
00:51:52work in the real world beforehand you were saying potentially you'd give it three months to move
00:52:01to sydney is it the move to adelaide now well that's what it would probably be
00:52:09it would be adelaide yeah oh we haven't heard that from her before a lot came out of homestays but
00:52:16it's just like how do we move like forward but i feel like the way that we process things are
00:52:22very
00:52:22different and i'm wondering why am i spiraling you know we're all under pressure but some people also
00:52:27deal with pressure differently when i need to just process my mind's going bing bing bing bing i retract
00:52:35things have kind of turned on its head a little bit elissa's now saying i can't move david's gone
00:52:41look i'm willing to sacrifice everything and move down to adelaide to give this relationship the best
00:52:47chance but her retracting and pulling away from dave freaking dave out you know i sort of felt for
00:52:52dave a little bit if anything all the risk is on david and there was one other thing i know
00:53:00that i can
00:53:00be a bit full on and like he does ground me but maybe i'm finding a little bit sometimes too
00:53:08much
00:53:08where i feel like i'm not myself like it's really shifting my my energy and that's not something i'm
00:53:15used to my husband also snores so i've had like lack of sleep the last three months like it's just
00:53:21it's
00:53:21a compiling thing i feel like right now elissa is trying to look for any little thing she can pull
00:53:31from the sky to question things in the relationship and that is pushing me away she says she doesn't
00:53:38want to push me away but her throwing all these doubts there's only so much i can take before i
00:53:44start
00:53:44feeling like an idiot you know i think i was fine with just continuing to be that emotional shoulder
00:53:53to lean on until home stays we've been on this experiment for two months and it's been long enough
00:54:00for her to like be a bit more certain you know if this ultimately isn't gonna work i'm not gonna
00:54:06force
00:54:07anything like it's up to her to come from her head into her heart for this to work long term
00:54:14dave what's going through your head bro
00:54:22i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:54:28you know and i sort of need that mental space as well just as much as she probably needs it
00:54:32from
00:54:33coming back from home stage and it's something we both need but it's at the point emotionally i don't
00:54:38have much to give i'm invested in this relationship i am prepared to move for this relationship but
00:54:44for me i bonded with her mom and her two best friends and i've got her mom saying this is
00:54:50all
00:54:50good for you her friend saying this is good for you they really love david a lot so i'm just
00:54:55like
00:54:56what other green checks do you need ticked off like you know
00:55:04well this is david being really raw isn't it i mean he's saying that he's exhausted
00:55:09and also he's hit his limit and i know that they talk about it in relation to the experiment but
00:55:18actually you know the experiment for some people it brings them closer right now and i i get some real
00:55:23worries that he's started to step back we got cracks man we've got crack like everyone but that's something
00:55:31that you know we will talk to the experts about we actually haven't seen them in this state before
00:55:37have we no i'd say absolutely more questions than answers we got tonight so that's where we got to go
00:55:44tomorrow night we are going to need to ask about the homestays and particularly where they see
00:55:52themselves in the future this is really a relationship in peril yeah
00:56:02it sounds like you've been approached by some producers to do another show is that right
00:56:06other producers from aussie shore um reach out and see would i do the season three with them
00:56:12gotcha all right i had one of the female cast members slide into my dms like four or five days
00:56:17ago
00:56:17and i think it's come from there yeah is that something you want me to go and do or
00:56:21my job is not to advise you on what to do or what not to do but documenting your life
00:56:27on flex
00:56:27if this is where your life goes you know it's entirely up to you if you decide that you want
00:56:32to pursue it further i can talk to them and see whether we can capture some of the journey
00:56:37either gosh mate i've already so i also have blocked my parents in now on social media so they didn't
00:56:45see my escorting videos and then it took two days and they've seen them because a friend had gone and
00:56:52seen them and been like you see what marcus is doing in australia now they obviously had no idea
00:56:55so i'm just dealing with that at the moment and i think to drop the the bombshell that yes i'm
00:56:59an
00:56:59escort and i'm also going to go on ozzy show all right you're on flex you're an escort and then
00:57:06you're going to go on ozzy show it's a big wait marcus i've had a busy three days this week
00:57:10mate yeah
00:57:11it's it's uh i don't know if it's going downhill or uphill i can't quite decide
00:57:30how are your homestays guys i went out on his harley like i grew up there so i'm i'm like
00:57:36i went
00:57:36to school there i had my first kiss there i did this there and it's like it's not like a
00:57:40foreign
00:57:40place for me yeah it's just easy the fact that she's lived there before so it's pretty big for us
00:57:45that's amazing yeah it's really good the taste of the outside world you know what i mean like we know
00:57:50yeah so what's your plan i'll reflect guys after the experiment i do like crinola yeah yeah i could
00:57:58see myself there that's very important that's that's the whole point of it the home visit it's
00:58:02like can i see myself there yes i can let's just do it yeah just give it a go like
00:58:08and um that was
00:58:09a realization i had and you have a plan moving forward and like you guys are great yeah
00:58:16rachel and steven homestays hey guys who's talking who's talking you can tell captain steve-o
00:58:23i reckon rachel goes first and i'll i'll i reckon steve-o go first please i think steve-o go
00:58:28first
00:58:28thank you i'll go first it's okay i always talk yeah can you hear me down there yeah yeah boy
00:58:34loud and
00:58:34clear all right so look i'm happy to say that rachel and my family did get along everyone loves each
00:58:41other a lot the drinks were flowing everything was fantastic and yeah we had a really good time and
00:58:46took rachel out on the uh the boat and she got to experience a little you know a little snapshot
00:58:52of
00:58:53what my life is um about and what i'm passionate about so i took her out fishing and i can
00:58:59definitely
00:58:59say very impressive impressed with rachel she full-on full-on leaned in she's a catch i am the
00:59:06catch she's a guy that's right the catch of the day right yeah and um and look i was very
00:59:12impressed with the fishing skills she kissed a couple fish um but i'm looking at this woman
00:59:17going look it's not just that she's leaning into fishing it's more the fact that i'm seeing a woman
00:59:23there that is having a crack and i can see that outside fishing rachel will have my back in things
00:59:35i can see we can do life together but i feel a lot more confident now that the foundation has
00:59:40been
00:59:40laid on my side anyway with rachel that we can take this out onto the um outside
00:59:48and have somewhere to start because it's been been done and dusted i'm still going to meet her side
00:59:53but i feel more confident on my side that rachel and my family and my lifestyle will match now so
00:59:58we had a good time who would have thought he would have thought hearing stephen talk about our homestay and
01:00:13like the beautiful things he was saying yeah you sound emotional i am emotional i'm so emotional about it
01:00:21because i've got this guy that i truly truly care about and i'm developing such strong feelings for and
01:00:31every time he talks about us with the group and everything it's beautiful it's just so nice and
01:00:39what what an amazing journey and opportunity we've had and the fact that we get to be with each other
01:00:46is
01:00:46it's even better some guys are going to buy girls flowers my guy bought me a fishing rod
01:00:54oh rachel looks so happy look at steven's yeah we've never seen him smile like this we've never
01:01:09seen him as relaxed and as confident as he has been tonight that was a full-bodied smile
01:01:15he's really transformed but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space
01:01:23look we went through hard times at the start of our relationship you all saw it and you know what
01:01:29we we've just saw it and you know we're now hitting weeks where it should test us and instead it's
01:01:36strengthening us and it's really nice i love it yay welcome rachel and steve-o
01:01:55at the dinner table tonight danny we said that he
01:02:02would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house i hadn't heard that yet and like i would
01:02:11hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me like we talk about everything so yeah
01:02:20i feel blindsided by him
01:02:25i feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband
01:02:31they got dragged back into the drama and we've got them maths royalty jamie and debinica
01:02:42the spiciest sofa showdown plus the footage you won't believe after the dinner party tonight
01:02:57if i was to move to adelaide as a man it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
01:03:03moving in with a woman
01:03:13i've never experienced a slow burn in my life and here i am with a slow burn and like i
01:03:20said we
01:03:21we went through hard yards earlier and now we're so strong because of that and so said to you yeah
01:03:27but not to that level i think i would have appreciated you having been that open it's
01:03:32answered a lot of relations it's just made me that much more confident coming out of the
01:03:36experiment yeah before home stage frankly danny time and time again has not stepped up and made the
01:03:43commitment that she wants and craves she's been transparent he hasn't said that he loves her back
01:03:49he's now saying i don't want to live in your house so there's a number of things that are now
01:03:54adding up yeah that beck's starting to worry about when it comes to danny's level of commitment yes and
01:04:00write me so i mean the idea of like that it like that you like you basically just said if
01:04:13i was to
01:04:13move to adelaide i don't know if i'd want to move into my house i don't know how long it
01:04:19is i would
01:04:20have rather you said that to me before announcing it to attack some people i didn't say i didn't say
01:04:25that i was saying we have to like i'd put money into a house and we'd renovate it or i'd
01:04:31pick up the
01:04:31mortgage because we're just moving on how it is would make me feel demasculated yeah okay i'm excited
01:04:49i think beck revealed how hard that conversation was for her you know when she said oh here we are
01:04:55having this conversation in front of everyone she felt really uncomfortable and i think after
01:05:00the dinner tonight they'll be going home for quite a big conversation
01:05:21okay so the purpose of this conversation is to talk about what's been happening within
01:05:26the group of women hello hello ladies welcome to your hens night not to make comparisons between
01:05:35men and women and who does it better wow i just hope that there's some insight here with with the
01:05:40ladies
01:05:40that yes in the future you are going to be in contact with other women who have strong personalities
01:05:46have strong judgments about you or opinions about you
01:05:53but that doesn't mean that you have to play dirty as a woman i think it's important that
01:05:58we support each other what each other love that
01:06:06that we empower each other are each other i'm so excited this is amazing
01:06:12that we don't compete with each other
01:06:17that we give other women an opportunity to shine jules were you married
01:06:28just like we do i'm falling in love with you and that does not take away any of our power
01:06:48you
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