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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She bought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also bought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:46I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49I've got my reassurances.
00:01:50We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:40Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh, God.
00:03:41Oh, my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay
00:04:10and our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness
00:04:14after stepping into the life that could be waiting for them
00:04:19outside the experiment.
00:04:20Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful,
00:04:26the couples now turn their attention
00:04:28to the second last dinner party of the experiment,
00:04:32eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time
00:04:40since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:43We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:46It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip come up.
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:55Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:59The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:05For Rachel and Stephen,
00:05:08Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage,
00:05:11unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays
00:05:21and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again
00:05:32and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out.
00:05:37And, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay
00:05:42and I'm actually just really excited
00:05:44to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47And I'm glad you had a good time
00:05:48and you could see, you know,
00:05:49a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:54After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:59Like I said to Rachel,
00:06:00can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:12You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:06:14so we're really lucky to have had
00:06:16the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While Homestays brought some closer...
00:06:23..for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home
00:06:26presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:29It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink? Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your exes or something?
00:06:37Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells
00:06:47because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you,
00:06:53but can I commit to moving and everything
00:06:55if you never feel like, you know, that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments,
00:07:01eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset
00:07:04and look on the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party,
00:07:10being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night
00:07:17to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion,
00:07:24but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great. We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:38Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems
00:07:46if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:51Oh...
00:07:54Pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it. Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good, we feel good,
00:08:00and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny,
00:08:09what began as a promising homestay
00:08:11took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need
00:08:15to have hard conversations with you,
00:08:19they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously,
00:08:21because Danielle fancied me,
00:08:22she didn't want to, like...
00:08:27I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice
00:08:39and be genuine about it
00:08:40and then not say,
00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing morning.
00:08:48F***ing me.
00:08:50F***ing...
00:08:52And now back at the apartment,
00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney
00:09:03from homestays,
00:09:04things look great.
00:09:05Like...
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like...
00:09:09Since we've been back,
00:09:11like, there's not really any need
00:09:12to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning,
00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,
00:09:21we have a shag,
00:09:22and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples,
00:09:33homestays brought them together.
00:09:35But for one couple,
00:09:36it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,
00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:43And obviously,
00:09:43Chris and I left each other
00:09:44at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down,
00:09:48and maybe we could just be, like,
00:09:50really raw and honest with each other
00:09:52about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility
00:09:58for your defensiveness
00:09:59and the aggression I felt
00:10:00from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08Yeah.
00:10:08I just feel like we've...
00:10:09I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um,
00:10:1415, getting in trouble
00:10:15by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um...
00:10:21Okay, okay.
00:10:22Um...
00:10:24In the beginning,
00:10:25uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um,
00:10:29yeah, we also have some, um,
00:10:31differences as well.
00:10:32And I just wanted to put my dad hat on
00:10:35and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea
00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party
00:10:52because I want that last chance
00:10:54to sort of just, like,
00:10:56find out why Chris
00:10:57actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity
00:11:02on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one
00:11:06struggling with the fallout
00:11:08of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,
00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,
00:11:16but what are your thoughts
00:11:19about me moving to Sydney
00:11:20just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know,
00:11:27you want to have a family
00:11:28and you don't want to
00:11:31keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take 10 years
00:11:35to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well,
00:11:38I don't know that yet.
00:11:38I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:45I don't think you've got
00:11:45a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51I'm feeling a lot online.
00:11:52And after a confronting
00:11:54conversation with her mum,
00:11:56Alyssa unraveled
00:11:57and David was left
00:11:58wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you.
00:12:04I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family
00:12:07in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out
00:12:11on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to
00:12:13make this thing work,
00:12:14David might have to
00:12:15move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here
00:12:20and you've talked a lot
00:12:21about what your wants
00:12:22and needs are.
00:12:24Mm.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments,
00:12:32David has had a wake-up call
00:12:34of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling
00:12:40at my limit
00:12:41post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself
00:12:48living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:50But, you know,
00:12:51after having, you know,
00:12:52come back to Sydney
00:12:53and having time to just
00:12:55come down
00:12:56from the high of homestays,
00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because
00:13:00there were a couple things
00:13:01that have still, like,
00:13:04trinkled in the back
00:13:05of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself
00:13:07living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing
00:13:14to move here,
00:13:16which is great,
00:13:17but I don't know,
00:13:18I feel like I'm getting
00:13:19overwhelmed with it
00:13:20because you're, like,
00:13:21literally on the high
00:13:22spiral.
00:13:23I am, I am, I am,
00:13:24because it's, like,
00:13:25a lot.
00:13:27David actually is
00:13:28everything that you've
00:13:29asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now,
00:13:31this is too good
00:13:31to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is
00:13:33also another reason
00:13:34why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this
00:13:37experiment,
00:13:38I have been patient
00:13:39because I know
00:13:40there is something
00:13:41in this relationship
00:13:42to fight for,
00:13:43but when you get
00:13:44to that point
00:13:46where, like,
00:13:46you're dealing with,
00:13:47like, the mum,
00:13:48the family,
00:13:49friends,
00:13:49they all said
00:13:50that I'm a great
00:13:51guy for her
00:13:52and she still
00:13:53sees negatives,
00:13:54there's nothing
00:13:55else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit
00:13:58and I'm not going
00:13:59to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very
00:14:02real that I could
00:14:03potentially be
00:14:05putting everything
00:14:06on the line
00:14:06for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want
00:14:08to meet me
00:14:09halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know
00:14:11I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me,
00:14:13I think it's important
00:14:14to just express
00:14:15how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of
00:14:22almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling
00:14:26going to the dinner
00:14:27party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive,
00:14:32massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point
00:14:36where, like I said,
00:14:38you know,
00:14:38I'm happy to give
00:14:39all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space
00:14:43I need
00:14:43because I definitely
00:14:44need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like I feel like
00:14:46I've just gone
00:14:47and put it all
00:14:47on the line
00:14:50and, you know,
00:14:50at the end
00:14:51I'm not going
00:14:51to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time
00:14:56I've ever heard you
00:14:57say that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like,
00:15:02you're more like,
00:15:03let's, like,
00:15:03whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time
00:15:05you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like,
00:15:10rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally I'm the one
00:15:12that needs space.
00:15:13So, you know what,
00:15:14if he needs space,
00:15:15gladly,
00:15:16because I need space
00:15:17right now
00:15:18just from my head
00:15:19and I don't need
00:15:19any of this pressure
00:15:20right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm
00:15:22at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's
00:15:24at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired
00:15:26and he's been snoring
00:15:27louder than usual
00:15:28like it's just been
00:15:29a bit of an emotional
00:15:31rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space
00:15:33because, yeah,
00:15:34I am a calm person
00:15:35but I'd get into my limit
00:15:37where I just need
00:15:38to take some space
00:15:39for my own brain
00:15:40because I feel like
00:15:41I put my cards
00:15:42on the table
00:15:44but it almost felt
00:15:45like you were just
00:15:45looking for the negatives
00:15:46and when someone's
00:15:48looking for the negatives
00:15:48too much
00:15:49of why things can't work,
00:15:50like, I'm not gonna
00:15:51force that.
00:15:52I'm not gonna force
00:15:52a connection
00:15:53if it's just me
00:15:54looking for the positives
00:15:55and someone else
00:15:56is looking for anything
00:15:57to be like,
00:15:58why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be
00:16:03lying to you
00:16:04if I said I wasn't
00:16:05questioning things
00:16:06right now
00:16:06and questioning
00:16:07our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not
00:16:12going into the dinner
00:16:13party with Alyssa
00:16:14feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're
00:16:17in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just
00:16:19as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour
00:16:36of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep.
00:16:38Let's go.
00:16:42Up to you.
00:16:43After me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:50I don't want to do this.
00:16:53I don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,
00:17:07the second last one
00:17:09before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one
00:17:13because they've come back
00:17:15from the homestays
00:17:17as they start to get a glimpse
00:17:19of what their life
00:17:20will be like
00:17:20with this person
00:17:21in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part
00:17:25of the experiment for them
00:17:27because some of them
00:17:27will bond closer together
00:17:30through the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start
00:17:37to really fall apart
00:17:38and question their overall compatibility
00:17:40with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that
00:17:48in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up
00:17:58the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last
00:18:01in the outside world?
00:18:03We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:09Aw, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you
00:18:17but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen
00:18:26look so relaxed
00:18:27and so really walking in
00:18:29with Rachel as we are today.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:46We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52It's probably the most relaxed
00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:01No, definitely.
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited
00:19:29to share how much fun we had
00:19:31and, like, and how good it was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple
00:19:37is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm...
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:48..in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news
00:19:52they had a good week.
00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you
00:20:10because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out me.
00:20:13Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:30I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:35Does it?
00:20:36Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47OK.
00:20:52OK.
00:20:52Oh, look who it is.
00:21:12Oh, look who it is.
00:21:19Oh, my God.
00:21:21Oh, my God.
00:21:22Oh, my God.
00:21:23Oh, my God.
00:21:25Oh, my God.
00:21:26Oh, my God.
00:21:28Oh, my God.
00:21:29Hang on.
00:21:30How are you, mate?
00:21:31Dude, that's all I can do.
00:21:32Handshake.
00:21:33Oh, good to see you, bro.
00:21:34Likewise, man.
00:21:34Looking good.
00:21:35Oh.
00:21:36That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:21:38Oh, we're first.
00:21:39Yeah, first.
00:21:40You guys are first.
00:21:41We got so much done.
00:21:42Oh, yeah.
00:21:43We've got a lot to evaluate.
00:21:44Let's just get some...
00:21:46Wait.
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47OK.
00:21:48OK.
00:21:55So are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa.
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a load post the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:16Ooh.
00:22:17Crying in my face.
00:22:18And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know, I am sort of one in my own space,
00:22:23you know,
00:22:23in my head just to sort of figure things out.
00:22:26So I did walk in on a load.
00:22:32Oh!
00:22:34Here we go!
00:22:34Hello there.
00:22:35What's up?
00:22:36Scott and G up.
00:22:38Do I spin?
00:22:38A little...
00:22:39It's not just funny enough.
00:22:41How pretty are you both?
00:22:43Hi.
00:22:44Hi.
00:22:44I'll give you some love.
00:22:45Gorgeous.
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with GR, like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:22:53We still have a couple things to work on.
00:22:55Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:56I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad, I just see the more good in someone.
00:23:01Can we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:06All right, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with Sam, it was just so
00:23:15yucky
00:23:16and awkward.
00:23:16So I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:24And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:27I just hope this, um, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly
00:23:33so I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good.
00:23:45And then at some point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart.
00:23:48And I don't really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:06But you know what?
00:24:07There's two sides to this story.
00:24:08And coming to the dinner party to back myself and say my side of the story.
00:24:20Oh!
00:24:21Oh!
00:24:24Oh!
00:24:26Oh, Chris is alone.
00:24:27Ew, how you going?
00:24:28Oh, okay.
00:24:29That's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi!
00:24:31Hey, Barton.
00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Well, shit.
00:24:37That's not my prediction.
00:24:39Drink!
00:24:40Drink!
00:24:40Drink!
00:24:41I mean they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44chris had written leave sam was absolutely in tears about it all there was a hope that the
00:24:49homestay they might be able to turn it around but this looks like it's actually uh not been salvaged
00:24:56you look very tanned thanks babe but um the fit's good my life's not
00:25:01i would love one your life is okay yeah you've got this shit back yeah you've got this shit
00:25:07yes obviously it didn't work out wait wait wait wait wait i feel like maybe sam
00:25:12and i can unpack it together i'll give you i'll give you a little run i'll give you a little
00:25:17rundown it's really hard seeing them not walking together because i genuinely had hope that they
00:25:23would get past this the seeing chris walking in by himself like it was genuinely like
00:25:29pretty heart breaks but basically um yeah um sam ended it with me two days into homestays
00:25:36the second day he ended it yeah yeah he ended it with you yeah
00:25:42oh sam ended it i wonder why yes i wonder why obviously we had like a you know pretty
00:25:48bad couch session i took accountability i decided that i wanted to learn and grow from the feedback
00:25:55that i got um so i went into homestays trying to turn it around gia knows i spoke with you
00:26:00about it
00:26:00morning flowers made him dinner i tried everything that i could to turn it around but unfortunately um
00:26:05yeah it didn't work for us and it was really it was a real shock because i thought we were
00:26:10actually
00:26:10doing quite well like you know i started to get those feelings back for him again so so chris was
00:26:15saying he started getting feelings for sam again okay so he was shocked by it blindsided
00:26:22so it's pretty it's pretty sad um but i respect sam's decision to exit um and we actually weren't
00:26:29even going to come tonight like they we he left the farm we were just going to leave it at
00:26:32that because we
00:26:33impact a lot of it um but i've decided to give sam the respect of coming tonight so we can
00:26:37both
00:26:37amazing talk to you guys about it and um let you know what's happened and then sit in front of
00:26:42the
00:26:42experts and get their advice but like no ill feelings towards sam i respect his decision but yeah
00:26:48she's single again yeah alissa how was yours ah
00:27:00i feel like i'm still processing everything yeah it's crunch time right it's crunch time yeah
00:27:08um but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party okay
00:27:21philip and stella for the best part we had a really good homestay you know i got clarity
00:27:35so it's been decided uh i will be making that move happen sooner rather than later he looks tan
00:27:41he looks do you want to spray tan huh do you know we went to the beach what the hell
00:27:45and i just
00:27:46thought you know what like it's time to go for an adventure
00:27:57ah he's beck and danny beck and danny hello i'm feeling phenomenal walking
00:28:04into this cocktail party tonight danny and i are in a great spot we are planning our future together
00:28:13we had great homestays and i've got no beef with anyone oh my god pigs fly
00:28:17what the hell i'm not arguing with anyone hello how was homestays cheers how'd you go how was
00:28:35it's a lot like i felt a bit uncomfortable in our house and i felt a bit out of place
00:28:40and it made me just think about like the logistics of the move more like how it's going to work
00:28:45or or because i'm not just going to move in with that of course and live like ah put my
00:28:51feet up this
00:28:51brand free like yeah that doesn't sit well with me so it just solidified there's more things we
00:28:56need to talk about of course
00:29:01so yeah we're going to do i think yeah awesome crazy how about i think danny and i are probably
00:29:08the strongest in the experiment if i'm honest with you and like it feels like it can only go up
00:29:13from
00:29:18here coming up i would never just move in danny's jaw-dropping confession from my point of view
00:29:25anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like a has the whole table
00:29:29talking what are you on about oh my god
00:29:48here we go
00:29:54when did you talk to him last um the last time he spoke to me was um the friday after
00:30:00he left and he and all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party at samarani
00:30:06yeah i don't know what the energy is going to be like with sam i hope he comes in like
00:30:09nice
00:30:12i just yeah i just can't deal with any more you know
00:30:24oh hello everyone oh here's sam here he is how you going good how are you good you look nice
00:30:31yeah
00:30:31how are you not too bad hello
00:30:36sam how are you matt i'm hugging like chest height but i've got a vertical problem
00:30:43hey look look at me brother thanks thanks thanks
00:30:45you're gonna get a drink come on let's get a drink let's get a drink i hope he doesn't come
00:30:48at me
00:30:49like why are you worried oh i just just don't worry no i just can't deal with it like
00:30:55all right no you're okay how are you are you okay uh i just feel a bit like there was
00:31:04no real effort
00:31:04while we're away but we'll get into it at the table yeah no no he's given us a bit of
00:31:09a brief
00:31:12what was he says um that you guys you know went to homestays and like he cooked dinner one night
00:31:17or
00:31:17you guys have dinner together one night and he thought the first night was going okay um and then
00:31:23obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it was right yeah yeah dude he didn't drive
00:31:31you're eating up his bullshit don't eat up his bullshit
00:31:39dinner is served okay let's go babes you got it let's go man
00:31:47all righty well let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin we will get to the bottom of what
00:31:54actually happened at the homestay between sam and chris yes we need to understand what actually went on
00:32:00there cheers guys cheers cheers you got the um you got the tits out again oh yeah
00:32:14chances are for the boys i love you guys i love this spirit
00:32:18job yes
00:32:32wow it's very teens isn't that chris sam
00:32:44I
00:32:45Really want to talk about from our perspective what led me to the decision to end things. Yeah, and how
00:32:50I felt the whole homestay. So yeah
00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit. I
00:33:01Sam and I have already hashed this out at the farm
00:33:04We're revisiting it in front of the group. So for me, this is not comfortable
00:33:09I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly and I just want to get this over
00:33:12and done with
00:33:16Hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can yeah move on I
00:33:21Thought we both just need to say
00:33:23Everything that got us to this point
00:33:26Especially with meeting the experts tomorrow. I want to get as much as I can out of this experience
00:33:31Yeah, we've mentioned it at the cocktail party that we you know well you decided to
00:33:37End it so um, yeah, like I didn't really fight that at all you like
00:33:43Also, just like okay because I I had given so much to try and make it work. I don't want
00:33:48to come oh
00:33:53My god here we go again
00:33:57If Chris thinks that's loads of effort I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future like
00:34:05Yeah
00:34:08Yeah
00:34:09Can I ask a question?
00:34:11How did Sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen? I could I tell whatever I want
00:34:16you guys both to say yeah
00:34:19Yeah, so homestays obviously you'll saw the last commitment ceremony
00:34:23I wrote staying Christopher at leave and that was really hard for me to battle with personally because I did
00:34:29have feelings for Chris
00:34:30So I like obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays and we get to the car to drive down
00:34:35and I'm like
00:34:37Just sitting in the car and it's so uncomfortable and I'm like literally just like shut my eyes and kind
00:34:43of pretend that I'm sleeping
00:34:44And then I get to the farm and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.
00:34:49I'll wake up the next morning
00:34:52And Chris is nowhere to be seen
00:34:55No message no note
00:34:58I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his place with no car
00:35:03Just by myself and then he rocks up is I just went to the gym this morning was really windy
00:35:07last night and I'm like, okay
00:35:08Cool and like this is when I'm starting to feel like are you really do you really want me here?
00:35:12Do you like really want to show me how much you want this relationship to work?
00:35:19Look for me it was letting him sleep a little bit longer
00:35:25We're not interrupting each other's not right
00:35:31Okay, can I keep going my story then yeah
00:35:35So then we come to the fire the next night, and this is what I'm like this is my last
00:35:40play here
00:35:41Like I'm gonna try and see if he really wants to fight for this if he really wants this relationship
00:35:46to work
00:35:46And I had written down questions that were all just about what the experts said
00:35:52Going through all these questions and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of
00:35:55talking about it
00:35:56And then I'm like Chris do you even have feelings for me?
00:36:00And he goes oh, you know with what's happened over the last couple of weeks
00:36:03I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged and like I don't really know if I do anymore
00:36:12And I'm like well, then what am I doing here?
00:36:17Then I was just like well, then do we just end it here and you were just like yeah, I
00:36:20think that's probably like right to do
00:36:23And what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings for me
00:36:33What I honestly feel like happened is that you just like did the bare minimum
00:36:38Got me flowers so that you could come here tonight and say I did this for Sam I tried
00:36:43But like I know that you were checked out of this relationship already. I know you didn't want to give
00:36:47it a go
00:36:53If I'm honest and I'll have to be honest
00:36:57It seems like you're putting a lot on Chris
00:36:59Yeah
00:37:00And just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person is not trying
00:37:07Hold on a second
00:37:10Let's not forget that like the week before Sam was in a world of pain alone
00:37:18Being
00:37:18Yep, correct
00:37:20But hang on a second, hang on a minute
00:37:21We can't be clinging
00:37:22Sorry, I've got to say something here
00:37:26Beck needs to mind her business
00:37:28I don't know how her homestays went but that should be her focus
00:37:31We're a couple weeks out of final hours
00:37:33Don't worry about your man doll
00:37:36I'm not going to let anyone sit here and say your expectations are too high
00:37:40When Sam sat there in tears by himself
00:37:44Not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week
00:37:47Because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him
00:37:51Like let's all just take a step back
00:37:53You've been aggressive too at the dinner parties
00:37:58You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour honey
00:38:01So just pipe it down a little bit
00:38:12Sam sat there in tears by himself
00:38:15Sam sat there in tears by himself
00:38:15Not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week
00:38:18Because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him
00:38:22Like let's all just take a step back
00:38:24You've been aggressive too at the dinner parties
00:38:29You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour honey
00:38:32So just pipe it down a little bit
00:38:36But I've never been aggressive to you
00:38:39Can I speak now?
00:38:40First of all
00:38:42Like hand on heart
00:38:43I tried my hardest
00:38:45To turn it around
00:38:47I got the feedback from the experts
00:38:49I took it on board
00:38:50I took accountability
00:38:51I realised that I wanted to grow and learn as a person
00:38:54And I wanted to come out the other end
00:38:56And I'm sorry but I was doing that
00:38:58And I thought we had a good day
00:38:59And like you pulled the notepad out
00:39:01And then asked me the questions
00:39:03And I just for me
00:39:04I felt like
00:39:05You know
00:39:06Like can we just live in the moment?
00:39:07Can we just have a bit of fun?
00:39:09But do you understand with the questions
00:39:10There are things that were burning inside
00:39:12Sam that he needs answers to?
00:39:14Yeah cool I'll keep talking babes
00:39:18So I felt uncomfortable
00:39:20But I stayed calm
00:39:21And I answered the questions
00:39:23As best as I could
00:39:24But you ended it with me
00:39:26You said like
00:39:27Yeah I know
00:39:27Yeah
00:39:28Can I just say something
00:39:29The reason I ended it
00:39:31Is because I asked Chris
00:39:33Do you still have feelings for me?
00:39:36If you were trying so hard
00:39:38And you thought that everything was what you're saying
00:39:41Then at that point you should have said
00:39:42Sam yes I have feelings for you
00:39:48Can I ask a question?
00:39:50Do you feel like
00:39:52When Chris said leave
00:39:53The other week at the last commitment
00:39:55So I know it really hurt you
00:39:56Like you were really upset
00:39:57We could see that
00:39:58Do you think that that
00:40:00Really hurt you to a point where
00:40:02Had you already made up your mind?
00:40:04I hadn't made my mind
00:40:04That just hurt me to the point where
00:40:06This is why I think I needed so much from Chris
00:40:09Because I was really hurt
00:40:10That he said he wanted to leave
00:40:11That he had already given up
00:40:12So I'm like
00:40:13I need to see from you
00:40:14That you haven't given up completely
00:40:15And I get maybe for you
00:40:17What you did was enough
00:40:18But for me it wasn't
00:40:19And then I decided
00:40:20That based on the fact
00:40:21That what you did wasn't enough
00:40:22For my expectations
00:40:23To call it happened
00:40:24And I ended things
00:40:25Because I wasn't getting what I wanted from Chris
00:40:27And if that's not what he can give
00:40:28Because he's got kids
00:40:29And he's got fun
00:40:30He's got everything else
00:40:31Then you're not ultimately a good man
00:40:39It's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out
00:40:42Between Sam and Chris
00:40:43Because I care for both boys
00:40:45But listening to both sides of the story
00:40:47I'm like
00:40:50They're not speaking the same language
00:40:52And they're seeing different things
00:40:54And I don't think they're going to align tonight
00:40:59Just unfortunately it hasn't worked
00:41:00I don't want this to be yucky
00:41:01I just want to be amicable
00:41:03I don't want it to be yucky either
00:41:04It's not yucky though is it
00:41:06It's not yucky
00:41:07Don't mistake passion for anger
00:41:09I think you're both passionate
00:41:10It's not yucky in my opinion
00:41:11You're both just ironing an aisle
00:41:14We do love you both
00:41:15We love you a lot
00:41:16Yeah
00:41:17100%
00:41:18Kings
00:41:19I think it's really sad
00:41:21What's happened with Sam and Chris
00:41:22I love them as people
00:41:23And I love them together
00:41:25And I'm getting this feeling of like
00:41:27Chris did try
00:41:29The way he knew how
00:41:31And it wasn't enough for Sam
00:41:33It's a hard one
00:41:44So Bec and Danny
00:41:46How about you guys
00:41:48You're next
00:41:49How was your homestays?
00:41:51We had such a good homestays
00:41:52Didn't we?
00:41:55If my family felt the need to
00:41:57Have hard conversations with you
00:42:00They would
00:42:01I think obviously
00:42:02Because Danielle fancied me
00:42:06I'm joking
00:42:07You should be able to say something nice
00:42:09And be genuine about it
00:42:10And then not say
00:42:11Or your cousin wants to f**k me
00:42:12I never said that
00:42:13There's a camera in my f**king face
00:42:15And you're abusing me over a joke
00:42:16Dude
00:42:16There's a camera in my face
00:42:18And you're making a joke of what I'm saying
00:42:19Yeah
00:42:20I'm done
00:42:21F**k me
00:42:22F**k me
00:42:24Well we had like a
00:42:25Like
00:42:26Two perfect things
00:42:28And then like the type
00:42:29We had a little argument at the end
00:42:33We had a tiny little ding dong at the end
00:42:37It lasted about 15 minutes
00:42:40I think like for me
00:42:41I don't know for anyone else
00:42:43Who experienced like
00:42:44Going into your partner's home
00:42:47In that moment
00:42:48I felt like a bit out of place in the house
00:42:50Like up until that point
00:42:51I felt so comfortable
00:42:53Like so welcome
00:42:54Not that I was ever
00:42:56Like unwelcome
00:42:57But in that moment
00:42:59Arguing like
00:43:00Hardly an argument
00:43:01A ding dong
00:43:01But yeah
00:43:03Or whatever you want to call it
00:43:06Whilst Danny did call it an argument
00:43:08Bec called it a ding dong
00:43:10So she's wanting to really contain it
00:43:11Yes
00:43:12When we had the disc screaming at the house
00:43:14I felt really uncomfortable
00:43:15Because it's not my space
00:43:16It's your space
00:43:17Yeah
00:43:17Do you know what I mean
00:43:18I don't know if anyone else can
00:43:19It's like
00:43:20Yeah so that was sort of something
00:43:22That stuck with me
00:43:23In the sense of like
00:43:25Moving forward
00:43:26It made me look at things
00:43:28In a different way
00:43:29In the sense that
00:43:31I'd probably want to
00:43:32I don't know how I'd want to navigate
00:43:36If I was to move to Adelaide
00:43:38How the logistics of it
00:43:40Would look as a man
00:43:43Oh
00:43:43As a man
00:43:47I feel like
00:43:48Do you know what you mean
00:43:49Like it's more Bec's house
00:43:51Than it is my house
00:43:52Like moving into her house
00:43:52Yeah correct
00:43:53Like I'd want to sit down
00:43:54And speak to Bec
00:43:55On a deeper level about that
00:43:59Because like
00:44:00I feel like
00:44:00If you move in
00:44:01With a woman
00:44:03And like
00:44:03I would never just move in
00:44:07Like we'd have to talk about that
00:44:09On a deeper level
00:44:10In the sense that like
00:44:12I'm not moving out of my house
00:44:16No I'm not asking you to
00:44:17But what I'm saying is like
00:44:19It's how he fits into it babe
00:44:21Yeah how I fit into it
00:44:23That's more what I'm saying
00:44:25And to you right now
00:44:26You're probably like
00:44:27That's easy
00:44:28I know like
00:44:29It's just
00:44:29But like I get from Danny's perspective
00:44:31He's like
00:44:32Yeah
00:44:32I move in
00:44:33So like he's got to get his stuff out
00:44:34Where does he put his stuff
00:44:35And like
00:44:36And we would make space
00:44:37100% for that
00:44:39From my point of view
00:44:40I suppose everyone looks at it different
00:44:41But it makes you feel like
00:44:43A bit of a bitch
00:44:43Moving in with a woman
00:44:46What are you on about?
00:45:01From my point of view anyway
00:45:03I suppose everyone looks at it different
00:45:04But it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
00:45:06Moving in with a woman
00:45:11What are you on about?
00:45:13Oh no that's not what I was getting at
00:45:15Oh god
00:45:16Oh my god
00:45:18He's talking about feeling emasculated
00:45:21If she was the one who owned the house
00:45:23And let's not use the term bitch in that way either Danny
00:45:26Not cool
00:45:27We're on 800 square metres
00:45:29Five minutes from the city
00:45:31With a $97,000 mortgage
00:45:34And a $3 million house
00:45:36F*** me
00:45:41Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa
00:45:42Like firstly
00:45:45You've never said that to me
00:45:47Women have worked really really hard
00:45:49To make sure that we've got this
00:45:51Multi-million dollar home
00:45:52In the most affluent suburb of South Australia
00:45:56So yeah you're not going to be a bitch
00:45:57Moving into my house
00:45:59That was not what I was getting at
00:46:02Are we f***ing serious for this?
00:46:04We're in the 2020s
00:46:08Emasculated
00:46:08By moving into a home with your woman
00:46:14Let's grow up
00:46:15You like to be a provider
00:46:16Correct
00:46:17Correct
00:46:18Yeah
00:46:18I'll be honest
00:46:19I couldn't go to hers
00:46:20I'm going to buy the house
00:46:21I'm going to pay for everything
00:46:22Like that's just a manly thing
00:46:25Dan's a bit like me
00:46:26He likes to feel like the man
00:46:28The boss
00:46:29The alpha male
00:46:30So I understand where Danny's coming from
00:46:31He just wants to feel more emasculated
00:46:33In the relationship
00:46:35We're more traditional in that way too
00:46:37No but like I get it
00:46:38Like I have it
00:46:39My house is bigger than yours
00:46:40But it's like
00:46:41Yeah like
00:46:42It's a different vibe
00:46:43I do agree with Danny
00:46:45I think for a man to feel masculine
00:46:48And his masculine energy
00:46:49They want to have the house
00:46:50And the woman move into it
00:46:52I know that's not like the norm these days
00:46:54But like I like that
00:46:55And that's what me and Scott are doing
00:46:57So I do agree with Danny on that
00:46:59And I think he wants to feel like the man
00:47:02And he has every right to feel like that
00:47:03I feel like it's emasculating
00:47:05Like I get what you're saying
00:47:06Like you want your place to be like
00:47:08Here babe
00:47:08Like come to me
00:47:09Like I'm the man
00:47:11Like I think that's like where you're coming from
00:47:13Yeah that's what I'm saying
00:47:16I felt uncomfortable when we argued
00:47:17And it sort of
00:47:18It made me feel demasculated
00:47:19To like be in her house
00:47:21Yeah like a bit of a bitch
00:47:23I've had that discussion with Beck
00:47:24Two or three times
00:47:26I'm not a hit 1990 song on R&B radio
00:47:30That keeps repeating itself
00:47:31Do you know what you mean?
00:47:32I didn't feel uneasy
00:47:33Until we had the disagreement
00:47:35And I was just like
00:47:36Do you know what you mean?
00:47:37No I don't know what you mean Danny
00:47:39I do wonder if Danny's showing
00:47:41A little insecurity there
00:47:42You know I think
00:47:43Some men
00:47:45Would not see a barrier
00:47:47To moving into a house
00:47:48Owned by the woman
00:47:49It wouldn't feel emasculating
00:47:51He's really dropped the ball here
00:47:53And I'm old school too
00:47:55I'm exactly the same
00:47:56I can proudly say it as well
00:47:57That if me and Rachel do something
00:48:00I would feel more comfortable
00:48:01I feel Rachel moved into my place
00:48:04I feel like a provider
00:48:05Well I don't think that's very fair
00:48:07Because at the end of the day
00:48:08The difference is
00:48:09Is that I've got a massive house
00:48:11With a lot of space
00:48:12Five minutes out of the city
00:48:13With a mortgage of 97 grand
00:48:15I feel like you're a team
00:48:16I feel like you're a team
00:48:17100%
00:48:18I was brought up on those values
00:48:20That's just the way I think
00:48:21If I moved badly
00:48:22I'd be getting lost
00:48:23Yeah
00:48:24Props over
00:48:25Really?
00:48:29I wouldn't like you
00:48:31We gotta work together
00:48:31Do you know what I mean?
00:48:32I know we work together
00:48:33But as a man
00:48:34It's just something I do
00:48:36As a man
00:48:37Maybe I'm old school like that
00:48:39But I believe
00:48:39Like the man
00:48:40Should be the man of the house
00:48:41And take care of
00:48:42The big bills
00:48:43It's nice to have your own thing
00:48:45But ultimately
00:48:46You work together right?
00:48:47Exactly yeah
00:48:48Ultimately you work together
00:48:49It's about how can we work together
00:48:51How can we make this work
00:48:52What are your needs?
00:48:53You know
00:48:53Vice versa
00:48:54It doesn't have to be
00:48:56A demasculating thing
00:48:57It just has to be teamwork
00:48:59Like you're a team
00:49:00No you're a team
00:49:02For some reason
00:49:03It's just a mental thing
00:49:05It's just
00:49:06It just works like that
00:49:08Females feel more secure
00:49:09When it is like that
00:49:11It's just how
00:49:12It's just how it is
00:49:12Unfortunately it's a double set
00:49:13It's just how it is
00:49:14Guys don't have that problem
00:49:16Yeah
00:49:18I understand
00:49:19Where Danny's coming from
00:49:20Don't agree with it
00:49:21But I understand
00:49:22Where Danny's coming from
00:49:25Beck and Danny's homestay
00:49:26I don't think
00:49:27Was as great
00:49:27As they made it out to be
00:49:30There's something
00:49:31There's something
00:49:31Not right there
00:49:32This is a serious conversation
00:49:34You guys think
00:49:34Do you want
00:49:35Yeah I know
00:49:36For a dinner party
00:49:39Shut up
00:49:41Excellent
00:49:43So glad we're talking
00:49:44About it with everyone
00:49:46Oh goodness
00:49:48No I said
00:49:49I said it to you already
00:49:49Lots of that level
00:49:51Babes
00:49:51100%
00:49:52You haven't
00:49:53No
00:50:02Still to come
00:50:03I did spiral a little bit
00:50:06Dave what's going through
00:50:07Your head bro
00:50:08David finally finds his voice
00:50:10I've hit my wall
00:50:12I've been calm
00:50:13Throughout this whole thing
00:50:14But I'm at my limit
00:50:16This is really a relationship
00:50:18In peril
00:50:19Yeah
00:50:20Before Beck
00:50:21Confronts Danny
00:50:22I would have appreciated
00:50:24Having been that open
00:50:26It's been a lot of relations
00:50:27It's just made me
00:50:29That whole table of people
00:50:30Experiment now
00:50:31Before hindsight
00:50:40How about you
00:50:41Alyssa
00:50:43How was yours
00:50:44Um
00:50:48Do you know what
00:50:49Alyssa and David
00:50:50Really have not spoken
00:50:51About themselves
00:50:52At all
00:50:53No
00:50:53And that is not usual
00:50:54For them
00:50:55David looks
00:50:56Quite uncomfortable
00:50:57Actually
00:51:00I feel like
00:51:02We had highs and lows
00:51:04I did spiral a little bit
00:51:06Like I did get in my head
00:51:08Because you know
00:51:09As soon as we touched down
00:51:10In Adelaide
00:51:11I felt like
00:51:13This weight
00:51:16I felt like
00:51:17Oh my goodness
00:51:18I
00:51:18You know
00:51:19I said I was going to move to Sydney
00:51:20And like
00:51:21We're going to make this thing work in Sydney
00:51:22And we'll meet halfway
00:51:23But I have a lot of responsibilities in Adelaide
00:51:27I have contracts in place
00:51:28I have my business
00:51:29I have a house
00:51:30I have a cat
00:51:32But I'm almost 34
00:51:33And in the next few years
00:51:34I want to start a family
00:51:35So I kind of put pressure on myself
00:51:38And that's where I started to spiral
00:51:40On homestays
00:51:40Because I was like
00:51:41Shit
00:51:41This is not going to work
00:51:44Like I don't think
00:51:45I'm going to be able to stretch myself
00:51:46Out of Adelaide
00:51:48Like in the next three months
00:51:49It might look like
00:51:50Six to twelve months
00:51:51If we're going to make this work
00:51:52In the real world
00:51:58Beforehand you were saying
00:51:59Potentially you'd give it
00:52:00Three months to move to Sydney
00:52:02Is it the move to Adelaide now
00:52:04Well that's what it would probably be
00:52:09It would be Adelaide
00:52:10Yeah
00:52:10Oh
00:52:12We haven't heard that from her before
00:52:15A lot came out of homestays
00:52:16But it's just like
00:52:17How do we move
00:52:18Like forward
00:52:19But I feel like
00:52:20The way that we process things
00:52:22Are very different
00:52:23And I'm wondering
00:52:24Why am I spiralling
00:52:25You know we're all under pressure
00:52:26But some people also deal
00:52:28With pressure differently
00:52:28When I need to just process
00:52:30My mind's going
00:52:31Bing, bing, bing, bing
00:52:33I retract
00:52:35Things have kind of
00:52:37Turned on its head a little bit
00:52:38Alyssa's now saying
00:52:39I can't move
00:52:40David's going
00:52:41Look I'm willing to sacrifice
00:52:43Everything
00:52:43And move down to Adelaide
00:52:45To give this relationship
00:52:46The best chance
00:52:47But her retracting
00:52:48And pulling away from Dave
00:52:50Freaking Dave out
00:52:51You know I sort of felt
00:52:52For Dave a little bit
00:52:53If anything
00:52:54All the risk is on
00:52:55David
00:52:56And there was one other thing
00:52:59I know that I can be a bit full on
00:53:02And like
00:53:03He does ground me
00:53:05But maybe I'm finding
00:53:06A little bit sometimes
00:53:07Too much
00:53:08Where I feel like
00:53:08I'm not myself
00:53:10Like it's
00:53:11Really shifting my energy
00:53:14And that's not something
00:53:15I'm used to
00:53:16My husband also snores
00:53:17So I've had like
00:53:18Lack of sleep
00:53:19The last three months
00:53:20Like it's just
00:53:21It's a compiling thing
00:53:25I feel like
00:53:26Right now Alyssa
00:53:27Is trying to look
00:53:28For any
00:53:29Little
00:53:30Thing she can pull
00:53:31From the sky
00:53:33To question things
00:53:34In the relationship
00:53:35And that is pushing me away
00:53:37She says
00:53:37She doesn't want to push me away
00:53:39But her throwing all these doubts
00:53:42There's only so much
00:53:43I can take
00:53:43Before I start feeling
00:53:44Like an idiot
00:53:46You know
00:53:47I think I was fine
00:53:48With just continuing
00:53:50To be that emotional
00:53:53Shoulder to lean on
00:53:54Until
00:53:54Home stays
00:53:56We've been on this experiment
00:53:57For two months
00:53:58And it's been long enough
00:54:00For her to like
00:54:01Be a bit more certain
00:54:03You know
00:54:03If this ultimately
00:54:04Isn't going to work
00:54:05I'm not going to force anything
00:54:07Like it's up to her
00:54:08To come from her head
00:54:09Into her heart
00:54:10For this to work long term
00:54:14Dave what's going
00:54:15Through your head bro
00:54:22I've hit my wall
00:54:23I've been calm
00:54:24Throughout this whole thing
00:54:25But I'm at my limit
00:54:28You know
00:54:28And I sort of need
00:54:30That mental space as well
00:54:31Just as much as
00:54:32She probably needs it
00:54:32From coming back
00:54:33From home stays
00:54:35And it's something
00:54:35We both need
00:54:37But it's at the point
00:54:38Emotionally I don't have
00:54:39Much to give
00:54:39I'm invested
00:54:41In this relationship
00:54:41I am prepared
00:54:42To move for this relationship
00:54:43But for me
00:54:44I bonded with her mum
00:54:46And her two best friends
00:54:47And I've got her mum
00:54:49Saying this is all good for you
00:54:50Her friend saying
00:54:51This is good for you
00:54:51They really love David a lot
00:54:54So I'm just like
00:54:56What other green checks
00:54:58Do you need ticked off
00:54:59Like you know
00:55:04Well this is David being
00:55:06Really raw isn't it
00:55:07I mean he's saying
00:55:08That he's exhausted
00:55:09And also he's hit his limit
00:55:12And I know that they talk about
00:55:14It in relation to the experiment
00:55:17But actually
00:55:18You know the experiment
00:55:19For some people
00:55:20It brings them closer right now
00:55:22And I get some real worries
00:55:24That he's started to step back
00:55:27We got cracks man
00:55:28We've got cracks like everyone
00:55:29We got cracks
00:55:30But that's something that
00:55:32You know
00:55:32We will talk to the experts about
00:55:35We actually haven't seen them
00:55:36In this state before
00:55:37Have we?
00:55:39I'd say absolutely more questions
00:55:41Than answers we got tonight
00:55:43So that's where we've got to go
00:55:44Tomorrow night
00:55:46We are going to need to ask
00:55:48About the homestays
00:55:50And particularly
00:55:51Where they see themselves
00:55:52In the future
00:55:54This is really a relationship in peril
00:55:56Yeah
00:56:02It sounds like you've been approached
00:56:03By some producers
00:56:04To do another show
00:56:05Is that right?
00:56:06Other producers from Aussie Shore
00:56:09Reach out and see
00:56:10Would I do the season 3 with them?
00:56:11Gotcha
00:56:12I had one of the female cast members
00:56:15Slide into my DMs
00:56:16Like 4 or 5 days ago
00:56:17And I think it's come from there
00:56:19Yeah
00:56:19Is that something you want me
00:56:21To go and do or?
00:56:22My job is not to advise you
00:56:24On what to do
00:56:24Or what not to do
00:56:25But documenting your life on Flex
00:56:27If this is where your life goes
00:56:29You know
00:56:30Mate it's entirely up to you
00:56:31If you decide that you want
00:56:32To pursue it further
00:56:33I can talk to them
00:56:34And see whether we can
00:56:35Capture some of the journey
00:56:37Gosh
00:56:41Mate
00:56:42So obviously I blocked my parents
00:56:43In there on social media
00:56:44So they didn't see my
00:56:46Escorting videos
00:56:48And then it took two days
00:56:49And they've seen them
00:56:50Because a friend had gone
00:56:52And seen them
00:56:52And been like
00:56:52Have you seen what Marcus
00:56:53Is doing in Australia?
00:56:54Now they obviously had no idea
00:56:55So I'm just dealing with that
00:56:56At the moment
00:56:57And I think to drop the bombshell
00:56:58That yes I'm an Escort
00:56:59And I'm also going to go on
00:57:00Aussie Shore
00:57:03Hey
00:57:04You're on Flex
00:57:05You're an Escort
00:57:06And then you're going to go on Aussie Shore
00:57:07It's a big wake for Marcus
00:57:09I've had a busy three days this week mate
00:57:10Yeah
00:57:11It's
00:57:11I don't know if it's going downhill or uphill
00:57:13I can't quite decide
00:57:30How are your homesteads guys?
00:57:32I went out on his Harley
00:57:33Like I grew up there
00:57:35So I'm like
00:57:36I went to school there
00:57:37I had my first kiss there
00:57:38I did this there
00:57:38And it's like
00:57:39It's not like a foreign place for me
00:57:41It's just easy the fact
00:57:42That she's lived there before
00:57:43So that was pretty big for us
00:57:45That's amazing
00:57:45Yeah it was really good
00:57:46The taste of the outside world
00:57:49You know what I mean
00:57:49Like
00:57:49We know
00:57:50Yeah
00:57:50So what's your plan
00:57:52I'll reflect guys
00:57:53After the experiment
00:57:54I do like Cronulla
00:57:56Yeah
00:57:57That's good
00:57:58I could see myself there
00:57:59That's very important
00:58:00That's the whole point of it
00:58:01That's great
00:58:01The home visit
00:58:02It's like
00:58:02Can I see myself there?
00:58:04Yes I can
00:58:04Let's just do it
00:58:06Just give it a go
00:58:07Just give it a go
00:58:08Like and
00:58:08That was a realisation I had
00:58:10And you have a plan
00:58:11Moving forward
00:58:12And like
00:58:13You guys are great
00:58:14Yeah
00:58:16Rachel and Stephen
00:58:17Homestays
00:58:18Hey guys
00:58:19Who's talking?
00:58:21You can talk
00:58:21Captain Steve-o
00:58:23I reckon
00:58:23Rachel go first
00:58:24And I'll
00:58:25No I reckon Steve-o
00:58:26Go first please
00:58:26I agree
00:58:27I think Steve-o can go first
00:58:28Thank you
00:58:29I'll go first
00:58:30I always talk
00:58:31Can you hear me down there?
00:58:33Yeah
00:58:33Yeah boys
00:58:34Loud and clear
00:58:34Alright
00:58:35So look
00:58:36I'm happy to say that
00:58:38Rachel and my family
00:58:39Did get along
00:58:40Everyone loves each other
00:58:41A lot of drinks were flowing
00:58:42Everything was fantastic
00:58:44And yeah we had a really good time
00:58:46And took Rachel out on the boat
00:58:49And she got to experience a little
00:58:51You know a little snapshot of what my life is
00:58:54About and what I'm passionate about
00:58:56So took her out fishing
00:58:58And I can definitely say very impressed
00:59:00With Rachel
00:59:01She's a country girl
00:59:02Full on leaned in
00:59:04She's a catch
00:59:05I am the catch
00:59:06I am the catch
00:59:07She's a catch
00:59:07That's right
00:59:08The catch of the day
00:59:09Right
00:59:10And look
00:59:11I was very impressed with the fishing skills
00:59:13She kissed a couple fish
00:59:15But I'm looking at this woman going
00:59:17Look it's not just that she's leaning into fishing
00:59:20It's more the fact that I'm seeing a woman there
00:59:23That is having a crack
00:59:25And I can see that
00:59:27Outside fishing
00:59:29Rachel will have my back in things
00:59:35I can see we can do life together
00:59:37But I feel a lot more confident now
00:59:39That the foundation has been laid on my side anyway
00:59:41With Rachel
00:59:42That we can take this out onto the outside
00:59:48And have somewhere to start
00:59:50Because it's been done and dusted
00:59:52I'm still going to meet her side
00:59:53But I feel more confident on my side
00:59:55That Rachel and my family
00:59:56And my lifestyle will match now
00:59:58So we had a good time
00:59:59That's a great example
01:00:06Who would have thought
01:00:08Who would have thought
01:00:10Hearing Stephen talk about our homestay
01:00:13And like the beautiful things he was saying
01:00:15Yeah
01:00:16You sound emotional
01:00:18I am emotional
01:00:19I'm so emotional about it
01:00:21Because
01:00:23I've got this guy that I truly, truly care about
01:00:27And I'm developing such strong feelings for
01:00:30And every time he talks about us
01:00:33With the group and everything
01:00:35It's beautiful
01:00:35It's just so nice
01:00:37And what an amazing journey
01:00:41And opportunity we've had
01:00:44And the fact that we get to be with each other
01:00:46Is just even better
01:00:50Some guys are going to buy girls flowers
01:00:52My guy bought me a fishing rod
01:00:54I'm just saying
01:00:57And I was happy
01:00:58Your girl's got her first fishing rod
01:01:01Rachel looks so happy
01:01:04Look at Stephen's smile
01:01:06We've never seen him smile like this
01:01:08We've never seen him as relaxed
01:01:10No
01:01:10And as confident as he has been tonight
01:01:13That was a full bodied smile
01:01:15Yeah
01:01:15He's really transformed
01:01:17But watching him now is just such a joy
01:01:20And he's so comfortable in her space
01:01:22Look, we went through hard times
01:01:25At the start of our relationship
01:01:26Your sort
01:01:27And you know what?
01:01:29We, we've just saw it
01:01:31And you know
01:01:32We're now hitting weeks
01:01:33Where it should test us
01:01:35And instead it's strengthening us
01:01:37And it's really nice
01:01:38I love it
01:01:39Yay
01:01:41Well done
01:01:43Rachel and Steve-o
01:01:55At the dinner table tonight
01:01:57Danny, we said that he would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house
01:02:07I hadn't heard that yet
01:02:09And like, I would hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me
01:02:14Like, we talk about everything
01:02:15So, yeah
01:02:19I feel blindsided by him
01:02:24I feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband
01:02:32They got dragged back into the drama
01:02:37And we've got them
01:02:39Mavs royalty
01:02:40Jamie and DiBinica
01:02:42The spiciest sofa showdown
01:02:45Plus
01:02:46The footage
01:02:47You won't believe
01:02:49After the dinner party
01:02:51Tonight
01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide
01:03:00As a man
01:03:02It makes you feel like a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman
01:03:13I've never experienced a slow burn
01:03:15In my life
01:03:16And here I am with a slow burn
01:03:19And like I said
01:03:20We went through hard yards earlier
01:03:22And now we're so strong because of that
01:03:25And so
01:03:26I think I would have appreciated you
01:03:30Having been that open
01:03:32It's in a lot of relations
01:03:33It's just made me that much more confident
01:03:36Coming out of the experiment
01:03:37Before home stage
01:03:38Frankly, Danny, time and time again
01:03:41Has not stepped up and made the commitment
01:03:43That she wants and craves
01:03:45She's been transparent
01:03:47He hasn't said that he loves her back
01:03:49He's now saying
01:03:50I don't want to live in your house
01:03:53So there's a number of things that are now adding up
01:03:55Yeah
01:03:55That Bec's starting to worry about
01:03:57When it comes to Danny's level of commitment
01:03:59Yes
01:04:00And rightly so
01:04:02I mean
01:04:06The idea that
01:04:08Like that
01:04:09Like
01:04:10That you
01:04:11Like you basically just said
01:04:12If I was to move to Adelaide
01:04:14I don't know if I'd want to move into my house
01:04:17I was just saying
01:04:18I didn't
01:04:18I was just saying
01:04:19I would have rather you had said that to me before
01:04:22Announcing it to a table of people
01:04:24I was just saying
01:04:25I didn't say it like that
01:04:26I was just saying
01:04:26We have to like
01:04:28Put money into a house
01:04:30And we're renovating
01:04:30Or I'll pick up the mortgage
01:04:31Because we're just moving
01:04:32That's how it is
01:04:33We've made me feel demasculating
01:04:35Yeah
01:04:35Well
01:04:36I'm excited
01:04:37I was like
01:04:37I said just then
01:04:38I'm like
01:04:38But only 50% of it
01:04:39Are not still good at me
01:04:40And I was like
01:04:41Well
01:04:42I haven't said that
01:04:43So
01:04:43That's why I could say
01:04:44My side
01:04:45Because I'm not moving out
01:04:46I think Bec revealed how hard
01:04:51That conversation was for her
01:04:53You know
01:04:54When she said
01:04:55Here we are
01:04:55Having this conversation
01:04:56In front of everyone
01:04:57She felt really uncomfortable
01:04:58And I think
01:04:59After the dinner tonight
01:05:01They'll be going home
01:05:01For quite a big conversation
01:05:21Okay
01:05:22So the purpose of this conversation
01:05:23Is to talk about
01:05:24What's been happening
01:05:25Within the group of women
01:05:27Hello
01:05:28Hello ladies
01:05:30Welcome to your hens night
01:05:32Not to make comparisons
01:05:34Between men and women
01:05:35And who does it better
01:05:36Wow
01:05:37I just hope that there's
01:05:38Some insight here
01:05:39With the ladies
01:05:40That yes
01:05:41In the future
01:05:41You are going to be
01:05:42In contact with other women
01:05:44Who have strong personalities
01:05:45Have strong judgements
01:05:47About you
01:05:48Or opinions about you
01:05:53But that doesn't mean
01:05:54That you have to play dirty
01:05:56As a woman
01:05:57I think it's important
01:05:58That we support each other
01:06:03Love that
01:06:06That we empower each other
01:06:08I'm so excited
01:06:09This is amazing
01:06:12That we don't compete with each other
01:06:18That we give other women
01:06:19An opportunity to shine
01:06:20Jules
01:06:21Were you married?
01:06:24Yes
01:06:28Just like we do
01:06:29I'm falling in love with you
01:06:31And that does not take away
01:06:33Any of our power
01:06:35You're the last in the party
01:06:36You're the last in the party
01:06:36You're the last in the party
01:06:36You're the last in the party
01:06:36You're the last in the party
01:06:36You're the last in the party
01:06:37You're the last in the party
01:06:37You're the last in the party
01:06:37You're the last in the party
01:06:37You're the last in the party
01:06:38You're the last in the party
01:06:40You're the last in the party
01:06:40You're the last in the party
01:06:41You're the last in the party
01:06:41You're the last in the party
01:06:41You're the last in the party
01:06:42You're the last in the party
01:06:43You're the last in the party
01:06:44You're the last in the party
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