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Married at First Sight (AU) - Season 13 Episode 27
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00:00:01Previously...
00:00:01Will you marry me?
00:00:02I am in love with you.
00:00:05After seven intense weeks in the experiment...
00:00:09Let's pop it off, shall we?
00:00:10No!
00:00:12The next phase of the experiment began.
00:00:16Yes!
00:00:18Feedback week saw our couples receive fresh perspectives
00:00:21on their marriages from their peers.
00:00:24Did you see the commitment ceremony when he was like,
00:00:26Sam will come to Sydney and then we'll do this?
00:00:28Yes, we had not spoken about that plan.
00:00:31Sam was able to express his concerns about Chris
00:00:34making future plans for the pair without consultation.
00:00:38I just feel like I didn't get a say or a voice at all.
00:00:41Alyssa warned David not to discuss those messages.
00:00:44The comments were vile, disgusting.
00:00:47How do you know what they were?
00:00:49We've seen them.
00:00:52And...
00:00:53She done her honour. I'm going to rename her Usain Bolt.
00:00:56Danny was stood up.
00:00:58I'm not doing it.
00:00:59When Gia refused to participate in the partner swap.
00:01:02This experiment is full of shit.
00:01:04I think Gia, you're not giving her any drama.
00:01:07She's seeking that drama to fulfil her internal need.
00:01:10And after receiving direct feedback from Stella...
00:01:13The advice I got was quite reasonable, I feel.
00:01:15I just need to deliver it the right way for her to not feel offended.
00:01:17Fingers crossed it goes the right way.
00:01:19I just don't really care for her feedback.
00:01:21Scott was hesitant to share his findings with Gia.
00:01:27Um...
00:01:27If I knew if I went too deep, I'd be over the balcony.
00:01:34Tonight...
00:01:35Oh, my God!
00:01:37It's Alyssa and Stephen's turn to get some fresh feedback.
00:01:41Maybe this is your opportunity to jump.
00:01:43Rachel!
00:01:44Take the lead, Stephen Rose!
00:01:46Alright, that's it.
00:01:47But not all our participants will see this week as constructive criticism.
00:01:52I just, like, made a decision on how this is going on.
00:01:54No, actually, no.
00:01:55That's not true.
00:01:56As a tense standoff ensues for one of our strongest couples...
00:02:01Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:02:02I'm not getting defensive, I'm having a conversation.
00:02:04I am sad. I'm disappointed.
00:02:08Do you see me as the mother-father of your children?
00:02:10Yes, I do see you as the father of my children.
00:02:13And as Feedback Week continues...
00:02:16No, thanks.
00:02:19Bye.
00:02:21..what's in the anonymous letter...
00:02:23If we just get through this...
00:02:24What are you doing?
00:02:25..that pushes Gia to breaking point?
00:02:28Gia wants to leave.
00:02:37It's Feedback Week, and across the city, our couples are partaking in an anonymous one-on-one partner swap task
00:02:45set by the experts.
00:02:47The partner swap allows couples to gain an outside perspective on their relationships.
00:02:53It was nice to just talk freely.
00:02:54Week after week, our couples get critical feedback from us as experts.
00:02:59But this week is all about feedback from those within the bubble of the experiment.
00:03:04Their peers.
00:03:06And despite a devastating 24 hours, Alyssa is putting on a brave face and is ready to participate in this
00:03:14task.
00:03:15Obviously, David and I, we've come off the back of, like, some pretty heavy times.
00:03:22Tonight, Juliet felt passionate enough to send me the receipts about the language that was used behind my back.
00:03:31What I just read was f***ing disgusting.
00:03:36But today, I just want to focus on the task.
00:03:39You know, I'm here for David and our relationship, so yes.
00:03:42I'm really excited and I'm always open to feedback.
00:03:45And I'm not sure who I'm going to be partnered with today,
00:03:47but I feel like it's really hard to take feedback from people that have burnt you.
00:03:52So hopefully it's not Beck.
00:03:54Do I look or do I not look?
00:04:06Oh, hello there.
00:04:07Oh, my God.
00:04:09Hello.
00:04:10Hi.
00:04:12Oh, I walk in and I see Alyssa.
00:04:14I was wondering who I was going to meet.
00:04:15I'm like, who is he going to be?
00:04:17I actually feel really good.
00:04:18If I want advice and feedback, it's probably the best that it comes from Rachel's best friend,
00:04:22because they talk like crazy.
00:04:25Alyssa knows everything.
00:04:26Probably if I fart in my sleep or something, who knows?
00:04:29I've been wanting to talk to you.
00:04:31Oh, fantastic.
00:04:34How's your attraction?
00:04:35Are you getting...
00:04:35Is that attraction building with Rachel?
00:04:38I can definitely say yes.
00:04:40What is holding you back?
00:04:43Nothing's really holding me back.
00:04:44Intimacy-wise, it's taken a while to get there.
00:04:48You've made such progress.
00:04:50And I feel like maybe this is your opportunity to jump Rachel.
00:04:55I just need to build up that confidence more and take the lead, Steve.
00:05:01All right.
00:05:01That's it.
00:05:02How are you and Dave going?
00:05:04I feel like David and I are in such a good place right now in our relationship.
00:05:09And I feel like we're on the same page in a lot of areas.
00:05:13The thing I wanted to ask is, what do you see from the outside?
00:05:17I can definitely tell you this.
00:05:19I've seen Dave at those dinner parties.
00:05:22And when you're not around, he...
00:05:26He's got your back.
00:05:28He's got that?
00:05:29He's got your back.
00:05:31It's amazing.
00:05:31He has your best interest at heart.
00:05:34And he's just amazing.
00:05:36He's so calm and collected.
00:05:37And he respects you so much.
00:05:39And there's a connection.
00:05:40I've seen you two at the retreat.
00:05:42The connection you two had.
00:05:44It's super sweet.
00:05:46You are a match.
00:05:47There's no doubt about it.
00:05:48All I can say is, keep going.
00:05:50Thank you, Steven.
00:05:52Because you're a match.
00:05:53Look, Steve-O.
00:05:54I feel like he really took on board the feedback that I had for him.
00:05:57And I'm so happy about the feedback that Steven gave me.
00:06:00It was really reassuring to hear that we are a strong couple.
00:06:04Cheers.
00:06:04Cheers to that.
00:06:05Cheers to us and our relationship.
00:06:08100%.
00:06:09And hurry up and jump, Rach.
00:06:12The first phase of feedback week has come to a close.
00:06:17And while Alyssa is feeling reassured in her relationship with David,
00:06:22back at the apartments,
00:06:26David is feeling nervous about his catch-up with Bec.
00:06:31I am nervous sitting here waiting for Alyssa to walk in because
00:06:35I don't know how she's going to take the fact that
00:06:38I had to talk to Bec about text messages that Bec sent.
00:06:42And I did not want to talk about it, but Bec obviously brought it up.
00:06:46So I couldn't shy away from it, you know?
00:06:48Do you know what?
00:06:49I wanted to talk to you and Alyssa, but obviously I couldn't,
00:06:51about those messages.
00:06:52I wasn't rude about you.
00:06:54I wasn't rude about Alyssa.
00:06:56I was just talking about your relationship.
00:06:58I don't want to take away from Alyssa's part.
00:07:00I'm sure she'll talk to you in her own time.
00:07:02But I felt like the comments were vile, disgusting.
00:07:05But how do you...
00:07:06And very, like, mean and vicious.
00:07:08But how do you know what they were?
00:07:11Did Juliet send them to Alyssa?
00:07:14She did.
00:07:15It's hard to look past that.
00:07:19Hello, Doc.
00:07:20What it do?
00:07:22Hello.
00:07:23Hi.
00:07:23How are you?
00:07:24Good, how are you?
00:07:25I'm good.
00:07:27How was your day?
00:07:28Good.
00:07:28How was you?
00:07:29Yeah, I was good.
00:07:30I was good.
00:07:33Who did you catch up with today?
00:07:35Who did I catch up with today?
00:07:41Oh, I caught up with Bec.
00:07:45Where do I begin?
00:07:46I sat there and I was thinking...
00:07:48How did you hold your breath?
00:07:50Because we spoke about it before you left.
00:07:52I was like, do not mention the messages.
00:07:55Well, I went in thinking...
00:07:57Did you mention them?
00:07:58She brought it up.
00:08:00Babe, no!
00:08:01She brought it up.
00:08:02Yeah.
00:08:04The one thing I said to David today, before he left,
00:08:08was please do not bring up the text messages
00:08:15and it was brought up and it upset me
00:08:18because I'm like, I'm really disappointed
00:08:19because that is something I wanted to address.
00:08:23Because she was like, she was apologising
00:08:25and then she tried to say,
00:08:27you should have seen the other side of Gia.
00:08:28And she's like, it's all Gia's fault.
00:08:32Gia has a problem with me,
00:08:33but she keeps on making it out like it's me.
00:08:36But Gia sent them to Juliet to try and throw me under the bus,
00:08:39but hurt you.
00:08:41At the centre of everything is Gia.
00:08:44I don't know what to believe anymore,
00:08:46but I don't care how many sorries I get.
00:08:47Oh yeah, I'm with you 100%.
00:08:49How many sorries it needs to be addressed?
00:08:52She knows that you're kind.
00:08:54She's leaning into you and she is manipulating you.
00:08:57But I don't...
00:08:58I don't believe it.
00:08:59No, but all I did was I said,
00:09:00look, you and my wife can sort it out.
00:09:02It's essential.
00:09:03I said, Alyssa, I'm not going to take away from Alyssa,
00:09:06but I said I wasn't cool with you.
00:09:08But babe, I asked you, like, not to.
00:09:10How do you think I felt sitting there
00:09:12and the first thing that comes out of her mouth
00:09:14is the situation?
00:09:15What did you want me to do?
00:09:17You should have said,
00:09:18I'm not, this is not for me to step in.
00:09:20Like, I don't agree with...
00:09:21Well, like, that's what I said.
00:09:23I said you will...
00:09:24No, but you went there.
00:09:25I asked you one thing.
00:09:26I feel like David should have just shut it down completely.
00:09:30Bec just wants a leg to stand on
00:09:32because as soon as Julia obviously brought her up on the couch,
00:09:34she was shitting herself.
00:09:36You should be careful
00:09:38with how much you are upset about me saying that
00:09:41when I have screenshots of what you've said
00:09:44about Alyssa and David.
00:09:47It was vile.
00:09:54She wanted to make sure she addressed it with David
00:09:57she wanted to try and back herself somewhat.
00:10:00But, yeah, I'm pretty upset
00:10:01because, like, that is something that I wanted to address.
00:10:03Girl to go.
00:10:04I understand you're upset
00:10:06and I heard you loud and clear before I left today,
00:10:09but it's not something that I'm gonna...
00:10:11that I wanted to address.
00:10:13It's something that you can address with her.
00:10:15At the end of the day, I am very protective of Alyssa
00:10:18and even though I didn't want to talk about the situation at all,
00:10:22when Bec brought it up, I felt like I had no choice
00:10:25because it was...
00:10:26the last person I wanted to see was that, was her.
00:10:29I know that you're pissed.
00:10:31Just as pissed as me.
00:10:32100%.
00:10:32I know that you are.
00:10:33I feel like a idiot.
00:10:36I actually feel like an idiot in this whole experiment.
00:10:40Like, I've been fooled so many times.
00:10:44Bec's apology means nothing to me.
00:10:46She has proven over and over again she can't be trusted
00:10:49and I know that she's manipulative
00:10:51because she always gets her f*** away.
00:10:54I'm a nice girl.
00:10:55I know.
00:10:56I trusted Gia and Bec.
00:10:57Yeah.
00:10:58I've forgiven them both.
00:10:59I've... I... and then still, it's just...
00:11:01That's what, like, hurts me a bit.
00:11:03Like, honestly, I hate seeing you like this.
00:11:06And it... it just frustrates me.
00:11:23I don't know what to believe anymore.
00:11:34And down the hall, Bec is awaiting Danny's return
00:11:39from his partner swap task.
00:11:42Hello, babe.
00:11:43Hello, darling.
00:11:45How are ya?
00:11:47Good. How was your day?
00:11:49My day was f***ing amazing.
00:11:52Who did you see?
00:11:53How was yours?
00:11:53Good. Who did you see?
00:11:56The... the better question would be,
00:11:59who did I not see?
00:12:01What?
00:12:02I was meant to see Gia but she stood me up.
00:12:07First time I've ever been stood up in my life
00:12:09and it's by Gia.
00:12:10That's so funny.
00:12:12The streak is over.
00:12:14Well, that's hilarious.
00:12:14So did you speak to anyone?
00:12:15No, no one.
00:12:17I just had a couple of beers in Bondi,
00:12:19chilled out, walk on the beach,
00:12:22done my thing, come back here.
00:12:23So I started shagging birds when I was 14.
00:12:26I'm now 34, 20 years, I've never been stood up once.
00:12:30So it had to happen eventually.
00:12:33Out of interest, why do you reckon she didn't show up?
00:12:36Honestly, I think she probably thought it could be you.
00:12:39And if you've lied about someone and then you have to sit there face to face with them,
00:12:44where you can't run away.
00:12:45It's confronting, isn't it?
00:12:45It's confronting.
00:12:46When you've lied about someone, right?
00:12:49And you've lied about someone and you've gone at them.
00:12:51Only the other night of the commitment ceremony, she told me to shut the up.
00:12:56She probably thought there's a slim chance I could get Daniel and I can't, I can't do that.
00:13:02Even if it was a 10% chance, she couldn't risk it.
00:13:05I also truly believe that she's not interested in showing any flaws in her relationship.
00:13:13She's not keen on that.
00:13:15And I think that would be why she's probably refused to do it.
00:13:21A bit of you, a bit of...
00:13:23Do you know what I think is funny though?
00:13:25She hasn't disrespected me because she doesn't owe me nothing.
00:13:27But she's actually disrespected Scott.
00:13:30Because this task, she could have brought them closer together if she got some genuine feedback.
00:13:36But because she didn't show up, she's got no feedback.
00:13:40Who'd you have, by the way?
00:13:41David, yeah.
00:13:42How'd you go?
00:13:44When Juliet left the commitment ceremony, she sent Alyssa and David all of the text messages.
00:13:49David, David read them.
00:13:51David and Alyssa, yep.
00:13:52Oh God.
00:13:53Yeah.
00:13:54And so...
00:13:55What did they say, obviously, because I don't even know what they said.
00:13:57Babe, I don't remember what they said.
00:14:00Alyssa is going down.
00:14:02Rat bitch with her rat husband.
00:14:06The only fake in this place are those two influencer wannabe .
00:14:13I did apologise to him for the messages.
00:14:16I'm just apologising over and over and over and over and over.
00:14:20And I get it.
00:14:21I've done the wrong thing.
00:14:22But I just feel like it's just something...
00:14:26It's just never ending.
00:14:29Honestly, like...
00:14:31How much more apologising can I do?
00:14:34Like...
00:14:35And I will because I have to.
00:14:37And I'm in the wrong for writing them.
00:14:39But...
00:14:40Like...
00:14:41I'm just...
00:14:42I'm on empty.
00:14:45Things that happened two months ago...
00:14:48Gia keeps bringing up to the forefront of...
00:14:52Issues.
00:14:53And Alyssa and David...
00:14:54Juliet brought them up by sending them back.
00:14:56But Gia sent them to Juliet.
00:14:58And they were sent two months ago.
00:15:01I'm actually just so tired, babe.
00:15:03You say you're tired of it.
00:15:05Imagine how David feels.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:07He'd be so sick of it.
00:15:08Yeah, of course.
00:15:09And I know, like, you're saying that Gia sent the messages to Juliet.
00:15:15But the reality is, if you didn't send them messages in the first place,
00:15:19she wouldn't have no screenshots to send.
00:15:22I don't care what someone had done to me or how I was feeling.
00:15:26I don't send abusive messages.
00:15:28Like, that's just me.
00:15:29You can't condone it.
00:15:31She's, like, trying to say, ah, Gia sent them to Juliet.
00:15:34But I'm like, but you sent them in the first place.
00:15:37Without you sending them, there is no screenshots.
00:15:39So that doesn't really fall with me.
00:15:41It all does go back to Beck.
00:15:43So, yet again, our relationship is just, like, almost smurred
00:15:48with all this other stuff.
00:15:50Like, what about that conversation was about us?
00:15:54She's worried about the screenshots are going to be brought up
00:15:57at the next dinner party.
00:15:59But it's like, they probably will be.
00:16:02So if people want to say a few things to her
00:16:04and call her out of order and stuff like that,
00:16:06then she has to just take that on the chin, to be honest.
00:16:09So you've just got to run up and apologise in front of the group again.
00:16:12And then move on from it.
00:16:14Yeah.
00:16:14And just don't do no dumb shit like that in future.
00:16:27Yeah.
00:16:32Yeah.
00:16:34Yeah.
00:16:41Yeah.
00:16:43Yeah.
00:16:44Yeah.
00:16:49Yeah.
00:16:53Yeah.
00:16:58Yeah.
00:16:59Yeah.
00:17:01Yeah.
00:17:02Yeah.
00:17:04Yeah.
00:17:06Yeah.
00:17:08Yeah.
00:17:09Yeah.
00:17:09I mean, this week has been intense, because it's intensified.
00:17:12And there's pressure and I never wanted that.
00:17:16I'm just really scared of getting hurt.
00:17:20i can't make someone fall in love with me i just feel like a fool i just feel silly
00:17:31that's how i feel
00:17:44with the partner swap phase finished
00:17:49chris is waiting for sam to return sam was left feeling pressured after chris revealed at the
00:17:56commitment ceremony that he had a firm plan for the pair outside of the experiment i think what it
00:18:03would probably look like is it just like say we go well everything ticks the boxes we'd have a place
00:18:07in sydney so he'd go to sydney i would stay primarily at the farm and then maybe we can
00:18:12float back and forth for a bit from sydney to the farm someone's been thinking about this
00:18:16quite a bit of detail i think i think that's what it would look like if if we are successful
00:18:21and i
00:18:21want us to be successful but he has a lot of stuff to do in the city whereas i'm like
00:18:25cool to be at
00:18:25the farm full time but after a constructive chat with philip about the need to discuss this issue
00:18:31with chris like i just feel like i didn't get a say or a voice at all if we'd come
00:18:36to that decision
00:18:37together of course it would have landed a lot better right now you don't feel like you're
00:18:41writing your story you really need to verbalize what your plans are because it's a partnership
00:18:46you know sam is returning to the apartments feeling encouraged coming off the back of talking
00:18:53to phil i feel like i can take a step forward and finding a resolution from chris so i really
00:18:59hope
00:18:59that we work through it together that he can um open up a little bit to my point of view
00:19:05of things
00:19:07yeah it was good chatting with phil um but one thing that did come up with him is that
00:19:12like when we sat on the commitments ceremony couch and the experts were like what's the plan for us
00:19:21um and you sort of said like oh this is how it works and we moved to sydney and we
00:19:24can go here
00:19:25and this we go here that's the first time i heard that plan yeah and it was kind of like
00:19:30you've just
00:19:31like made a decision on how no actually no that's not true i said if we were to work and
00:19:38if we survive
00:19:39outside of this experiment i said the most ideal plan would look like us getting a place in sydney
00:19:44and then living at the farm just being like that's not how it happened like that's how it happened for
00:19:48me yeah so like disregarding that like i sat there and like this is what i heard you saying and
00:19:54it felt
00:19:54like you were saying this is the only way um oh i'm just i'm shocked like he's instantly defensive
00:20:05when i tried to bring up something that didn't feel nice for me it just like i don't know i
00:20:10just
00:20:11i'm not used to being spoken to that sharply i guess yeah that's just a conversation i would have
00:20:19rather had the two of us before like any sort of plan was like suggested no it wasn't a plan
00:20:24it was
00:20:25a suggestion it was um well a plan is a suggestion right well it would be like this is the
00:20:30most ideal
00:20:31scenario can you empathize at all that like that might have felt like a bit like no but they asked
00:20:35the question they said you know are you looking at the future and i answered it
00:20:44already i don't feel like i have much leeway or like input into how this can work because it's
00:20:52kind of like if it is going to work with us it's got to work your way because you have
00:20:56heaps on
00:20:57but it doesn't mean that like i don't like it would be nice for you to maybe like
00:21:04mention sometimes that it is a big weight on my shoulders
00:21:13i think it's ridiculous i'm 38 i've got a kid coming i don't need to argue about
00:21:17coming up with an idea for us after the experiment when i got asked a question and i answered it
00:21:22i just feel like it's a bit ridiculous to be honest yeah
00:21:28if someone said that and i i was in sam's position to me i'd be like oh my god that's
00:21:33so cute they're coming up he's thinking outside the experiment um i wouldn't have taken it the
00:21:38way that he's taken it also he said like you're not showing me a lot of empathy i get called
00:21:44an empath all the time well i said that you'll be giving up a lot that's a big change for
00:21:48you
00:21:48as well but it wasn't like a set plan like you could have just um chimed in yeah i mean
00:21:56yeah
00:21:56i mean i feel like you're getting really like defensive with me now i'm not getting defensive
00:22:00at all well even like a little sorry it felt like that i'm sorry that it felt okay cool like
00:22:04yeah i'm sorry that it felt that way but it was just lead with that yeah um i can't even
00:22:10remember what language i use but yeah it's not a big deal yeah
00:22:19i don't know how i feel when someone tells me that something i did hurt them i'll always lead
00:22:29with apology but instead he was like nah that's not what i said and cut me off when he did
00:22:34that
00:22:34and then proceeded to tell me what he said um i was just looking for just to be heard
00:22:57it's a brand new day how'd you sleep great and whilst feedback week is bringing some of our
00:23:06couples closer there we go you did great sweetie
00:23:13following their first fight last night chris is feeling offended with the comments sam made
00:23:19about him not being empathetic
00:23:28i'm feeling like uh it's it's awkward because there's like a bit of tension between us
00:23:32it's not been like this yesterday he said that i have no empathy that is so hurtful
00:23:40so this morning i've got a clear head i've slept on it um i want to just try and clear
00:23:45it up and
00:23:45move forward how are you feeling after yesterday yeah good yeah cool yeah i said everything i
00:23:52wanted to say um yeah yeah i just feel like um i just like to revisit it quickly just so
00:23:59that i can
00:23:59like move forward yeah so as as hard as it was for you is equally as hard for me and
00:24:06i think you
00:24:06said like i i wasn't showing any empathy or whatever so that's kind of hurt me a little bit because
00:24:11um
00:24:11you know everyone knows me as an empath like i am quite empathetic to people and i didn't realize
00:24:16that you felt like i was not showing any empathy like i felt like i needed more empathy around that
00:24:21situation so you need more empathy about the moving situation yeah i just feel like you're maybe like
00:24:27sweeping under the rug a little bit how big a deal it was that's what it felt like okay yeah
00:24:32yeah
00:24:32when mel asked me that question it was just a throwaway thought that i had while i was on a
00:24:37run
00:24:37i do feel like um yeah maybe that that comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever i'm happy to like
00:24:44just like move forward from it even now i feel like you're getting defensive i'm not getting defensive
00:24:49i'm having a conversation okay i'm just sitting here listening to you i think the saying that he
00:24:53didn't give me empathy comment heard him i guess because he sees himself as quite an empath but i think
00:24:58asking for more empathy shouldn't really be met with defensiveness he's still defensive but again he
00:25:06didn't like me saying that today yeah i'm super sensitive to like to sharp talking i guess i'm
00:25:11not used to it at all um it's not how i like ever communicate yeah um so maybe just like
00:25:17if yeah you
00:25:18could be a little bit wary of that sure i'll take that on board um i am sad i'm disappointed
00:25:27this is all stemmed from the comment that i made on the couch sam's upset that i didn't consult him
00:25:33prior to thinking about this um i thought it was cute i thought it was admirable that i had thought
00:25:38ahead of the experiment he obviously feels different he also feels that i was too defensive
00:25:45i disagree i think i just tried to communicate with him this morning it doesn't seem to be going
00:25:51anywhere so yeah unfortunately it's a bit orcs
00:25:58as feedback week continues i hate these boxes beck and danny receive a familiar task
00:26:05the honesty box what is one dream or goal of yours that you wouldn't be willing to give up for
00:26:11me
00:26:14but will it derail their relationship again it's not just all fun and games it's just not
00:26:20i don't know why i'm laughing i'm sorry i'm sorry
00:26:26don't touch again i'm joking you're pissing me off you're absolutely pissing me off
00:26:48as feedback week continues the experts have prepared another task for our couples
00:26:58that's the gift that keeps on giving oh yo as the experiment enters its final weeks
00:27:08it's time for the couples to think about taking their relationships outside the experiment
00:27:13and consider any hurdles they may face
00:27:17oh i know that box i've seen that well i've seen that before one of the tools we use to
00:27:24assist this
00:27:25process is the honesty box which will ask our couples to face these hard issues as you all know life
00:27:33outside the experiment may come with some pretty hefty hurdles we hope that you can tackle these hard
00:27:39topics head on together not only answering the questions honestly but providing feedback
00:27:45framework and insight for our couples these questions will test whether they are able to align on
00:27:53their futures stella and philip jump straight into the challenge shall we yeah do you see me as the
00:28:00mother father of your children yes i do see as a father of my children you have great genes stud
00:28:06um we both
00:28:08align on so many things yes it would be definitely awesome on that front and
00:28:15you'd be a really good milf
00:28:22if we had to do long distance for a while how much contact do you expect once every fortnight at
00:28:30least for three months and then we move to sydney i like that for rachel and stephen this task offers
00:28:39an
00:28:39opportunity to open up can you see yourself falling in love with me can i see myself falling in love
00:28:47with
00:28:48you the way things are going yes i can you're accepting me for my flaws you're leaning into my
00:28:55hobbies you're just an amazing woman ah that makes me feel really good it really does and it makes me
00:29:02really excited for the future i'm going to swipe this box it's good um keep all sorts of things in
00:29:09here keep all our trinkets keep some lures in there for beck and danny
00:29:21the honesty box is bringing back some memories so was it like like another like like honesty box
00:29:29like the box on the honeymoon yeah that one went well didn't it do you feel any sexual chemistry with
00:29:35me
00:29:39not too much to be honest with you no
00:29:51what that box oh every time i've done one of these it's gone bad do you know what i'd rather
00:29:57have done
00:29:58i'd rather have someone go whack kick me straight in the bollocks i would
00:30:02be honest it's so hard for me to sit there and answer questions and talk about my feelings
00:30:08i'm not the type of guy to be like oh i feel like this like who's like who's like that
00:30:14i want
00:30:14to know because i'm not you ready
00:30:19i'm excited for this task because we haven't talked about how nice it that i you know realized
00:30:26that i was in love with him on a commitment ceremony couch in front of the experts and all of
00:30:29our
00:30:29friends i love you
00:30:41jesus
00:30:46i don't even know what to say to that
00:30:50i know that he's not at that that place yet and when it comes to these sorts of tasks like
00:30:56i know it gets uncomfortable because he's a man and you know talking about his feelings and stuff
00:31:01is hard but i'm hoping we can be super vulnerable and honest because there's a whole life outside of
00:31:08this that we need to be thinking about what is one dream or goal of yours that you wouldn't be
00:31:14willing
00:31:14to give up for me
00:31:17um
00:31:25i'll be honest one would one would hope you've always been honest me and the boys right we had a
00:31:32little trip to rio planned yeah there's a boys trip and i'm going on that daniel
00:31:45i'm joking
00:31:48what's the question one goal
00:31:53one goal of yours that you would that you wouldn't be willing to give up for me
00:32:01oh kids yeah yeah i want to be a father do you know what you mean maybe because i've just
00:32:08been
00:32:08called daddy for years i just expected him to take it a little bit more seriously
00:32:23i mean look like i love him the way he is he's a jokester like every day is hilarious and
00:32:30fun
00:32:32don't touch it again i'm joking but there's a time and a place for joking around
00:32:37you're pissing me off you're absolutely pissing me off
00:32:42this isn't just a task that the experts have given us and it's a hee hee ha ha
00:32:49and by him acting like that it makes me feel like he's not serious about this relationship
00:32:56it's not just all fun and games it's just not
00:33:01just sometimes it's like there's a place for humans sometimes you want me to to drop the jokes
00:33:06i want you to to like like today i feel like i don't know why i'm laughing i'm sorry i'm
00:33:15sorry
00:33:16because i'm trying not to she weren't finding me funny oh she didn't find it funny did she
00:33:25i try and crack some jokes to like make light of it and just have some fun with it because
00:33:30i find them
00:33:30a bit awkward and i don't know a lot of these questions i've never thought about so i'm thinking
00:33:35on my feet and then i start to give her an answer and like it's like the wrong answer
00:33:43back to danny do you think you will fall in love with me and why
00:33:55do i think i'll fall in love with you and why
00:34:00i want to be very careful i want to be very careful i'll answer this question um
00:34:18do i think i'll fall in love with you and why
00:34:28do i think i'll fall in love with you and why
00:34:33i want to be very careful i'll answer this question um
00:34:41i'd assume i will yeah am i there yet no do i think it's going to go there probably
00:34:56doesn't make you feel too good
00:35:01okay what do you mean what's that place for i knew that he wasn't at that stage right i know
00:35:09i knew that
00:35:10but using the words of potential i assume maybe it's like no i'm here i'm in this i want to
00:35:16make
00:35:17this work and this is how we're going to do it like that's what i need not
00:35:22haha jokey jokey i might love you i might not whatever that's not it's not going to work for me
00:35:32good job buddy why are you being like that oh i hate these boxes you know who does he think
00:35:41he is
00:35:41how dare you not think that you could fall in love with me i'm the best thing that you'll ever
00:35:44get
00:35:45the end like anyway
00:35:57the couples are about to be set a new task which will allow the feedback they give to be taken
00:36:04to
00:36:04the next level do you want me to get it yeah ah look what it is i hope it's an
00:36:11apology from the
00:36:12experts for setting me up with danny yesterday it's time for the anonymous feedback letter
00:36:20as the participants move through the experiment together they have had a front row seat to each
00:36:26other's relationships this year we have devised a new task which will ask our couples to think
00:36:31long and hard outside of their own relationships for this task you will write an anonymous honest and
00:36:38constructive letter to another couple in the experiment anonymous anonymous anonymous i said
00:36:45anonymous is he saying it right this is your chance to tell them what you really think about their
00:36:51relationship where you see the positives but also where you believe they need to make changes if they
00:36:56want to succeed outside the experiment by staying anonymous they can be completely honest with any
00:37:01critical feedback include a clear suggestion they can work on together this may be a ritual a
00:37:07conversation a task or something else you think they could benefit them
00:37:13alissa and david are writing their anonymous feedback letter to rachel and stephen
00:37:20now we just get a brainstorm this is the best possible outcome because david and i are very close to
00:37:25rachel and steven and rachel's my best friend and i've given steven some great feedback yesterday
00:37:32and it's even better that i get to put it in writing with my husband
00:37:36what are you hoping that rachel and steven get out of this
00:37:39um i'm just going to be straight shooting and say steve-o needs to put on his captain's hat today
00:37:44and run the show be the boss for the day yeah rachel needs to allow steven to lead yeah she
00:37:51just sits
00:37:51back and let him run the day run the show the goal of me and elissa's anonymous letter today to
00:37:58rachel
00:37:58and steven is to hopefully get steven to take the lead so that they can get closer together can get
00:38:04intimate and then i feel like oh my gosh this is my brain now what is there something rachel i
00:38:12don't
00:38:13think steven's gonna want to do this but it's an idea davo and i have the surprise for steven
00:38:18he's gonna die i'm so excited for rachel she's gonna love this task today
00:38:25this is the golden product because it's about time we cracked the whip on steven and i feel like the
00:38:32task
00:38:32we've given him today's a really good one it's going to make rachel feel special and he'll feel
00:38:36good about it we've got to seal the deal deal all right we're going to fold it up oh you're
00:38:40going
00:38:40to kiss it okay ready are you going to headbutt it we're going to headbutt it right wait we've got
00:38:49to put some oh my god it looks so beautiful on you okay rub them together give them a kiss
00:38:58go on
00:38:59i don't want my dog kiss her like you mean it god damn it kiss her hey steven you better
00:39:06take this
00:39:07seriously i even had to put on lipstick for you like what more do you want bro get down and
00:39:14dirty with
00:39:15your wife oh my
00:39:36i don't know what this is what do you know there's a piece of paper was with some red markings
00:39:44on and
00:39:44an interesting looking instrument what do you mean an interesting looking instrument well i've been
00:39:51around the block a few times and i believe i've seen these things before this is not what i think
00:39:57it
00:39:57is is it it's an actual lipstick babe i thought this was a sex toy for a minute there why
00:40:04do they have
00:40:04to shape it like that for um rachel and steve it's alyssa you reckon it is yeah it's alyssa she's
00:40:17the only
00:40:17one who calls me rachel she's so cute oh my gosh okay rachel and steve-o hey guys it's your
00:40:26secret
00:40:26admirers who have been watching and observing your relationship from the beginning
00:40:32your connection is undeniable and we can see you guys taking the experiment out into the real world
00:40:39rachel it's your turn it's time to be a passenger princess
00:40:46it's time to let steve-o put his captain hat on and lead for the day also your task is
00:40:53to give rachel
00:40:5420 kisses the red lipstick needs to be used steve-o so rachel can count her kisses this is for
00:41:07you bex
00:41:09it's lipstick for me kind of wish it was a vibrator now
00:41:17at least it smells all right we are not doing that right now no i'm not
00:41:23that's for rachel and steve-o time this is a really great opportunity for us to progress our intimacy
00:41:30so i want it to be i would like steve and i to do this in a private setting because
00:41:34i want it to be
00:41:35taken seriously i want this to be a really nice romantic intimate moment that's just for us
00:41:43yeah i actually think it's a really respectful task i'm really happy for steven to take the lead
00:41:51and elissa knows that i want that from him but she also knows her girl pretty well like
00:41:57i will very easily fall into like taking the lead okay let's do this let's do that like
00:42:02you know so i feel like both tasks are really good it's all you boo it's all you oh yay
00:42:15yay
00:42:19still to come
00:42:23are you making me work away from me oh
00:42:26steven takes the lead with rachel i kind of went heavy on the cheese oh well that's not a bad
00:42:32thing
00:42:32only the best for my wife and has the shine of your relationship
00:42:40here let me read it it's all right yep no thanks
00:42:47bye it all becomes too much for gia
00:43:08it's gia and scott's turn to write the anonymous letter to elissa and david
00:43:13and after refusing to participate in the partner swap task gia's mood hasn't improved we can start um
00:43:24getting our hands to work and start writing
00:43:30feedback week has been tough for us that we had an argument this week and we were feeling a little
00:43:36bit
00:43:36off each other yesterday's task was an ideal i didn't end up going on the task on the feedback
00:43:42meeting because i just didn't want to so i just want to get my letter done and i'm ready for
00:43:49this
00:43:49week to be over to be honest i'd say positives is how dave's very understanding
00:43:58coming collective is good to lean on like so just say one positive at a time um understanding um dave
00:44:05is understanding yeah he's um not all about him we're gonna do one for her now oh yeah she brings
00:44:11the energy into their yeah into their relationship so that's how they match into this even level like
00:44:17negatives
00:44:21um can david long-term handle and sustain alissa's energy and also um alissa needs to give more
00:44:28reassurance yeah well i'll get to that so the energy is a bit low i think jesus really on the
00:44:36edge of
00:44:36just yeah i think any all the tasks we've had this week it's just she doesn't want to do them
00:44:44um is david the type that can always be up for alissa's challenges well no just no
00:44:55there's one thing yeah hold on hold on hold on i'm just trying to help i'm trying to think hold
00:44:59on
00:45:04um yeah like whatever i say doesn't matter a suggestion they can work on or a task
00:45:11what's a task then something i don't know scott i have no idea like i i can't i'm sorry
00:45:24feedback week really getting to you babe you've got all this tension built up in your traps
00:45:32oh you're kidding i'll go i'll go you chill okay i'm so excited to get feedback i always think that
00:45:41any feedback is good even if it's from someone that you know you don't even really want to receive
00:45:46feedback from so i'm hoping there's some golden nuggets in there david and alissa oh wow
00:45:53all right let's read it dear david and alissa we think you two are a really strong couple
00:46:01david you are calm collected and understanding alissa you bring so much energy and fun into the
00:46:06relationship however david has mentioned that in this relationship he needs more reassurance
00:46:13alissa we think that's something that you could work on david we know you love alissa's energy but do you
00:46:18think long term you can handle it our task we are giving you that you both write an open and
00:46:25honest
00:46:25letter with one another discussing the things written in this letter
00:46:31i don't that does not make sense that makes no sense hang on
00:46:37they honestly just want us to write a letter about a letter that they've just given us
00:46:41they want us to write a letter about a letter a letter about the letter with the things that are
00:46:47in this letter that's
00:46:55it's all slanted and it's not straight
00:47:00okay it's jira and scott jira and scott for sure david and i believe that jira and scott
00:47:04wrote our letter today that is definitely jia's handwriting and that is definitely
00:47:09jia to the t it was a lazy effort they didn't even think outside the box yeah that would like
00:47:15something fun or something to i agree spice things up or you know make us connect what we did for
00:47:22rachel and steven was that was fun that was nice and well thought of
00:47:28it's kind of killed my buzz yeah the fact that jia has been putting all this effort in recently to
00:47:35build back some trust and a friendship with me um and the fact that she only put not much energy
00:47:40into that letter that feedback letter uh just goes to show that she's obviously not invested
00:47:45in this friendship um or david and i's relationship and that goes for scotty too
00:47:54what do you want to do about that do you want to write a letter to each other or do
00:47:57you want to take a
00:47:58pass i'll be honest and say we'll just take the pause me too yeah there's no point i feel like
00:48:05me
00:48:05and elissa not taking part in this letter's task and doing something ourselves will actually bring
00:48:11us closer together than this letter ever will in fact i mean is uh joel anywhere around because i
00:48:17think teddy might give me and elissa way better feedback on our relationship put it in the bin
00:48:25might as well
00:48:30sorry we don't want to waste the trees
00:48:37oh that was probably not my glamorous moment
00:48:45and down the hall armed with a strict task to take the lead
00:48:51steven has taken it upon himself to plan a romantic date how you going over there babe good and is
00:48:58pulling out all of the stops all right
00:49:04don't you look at what i'm doing
00:49:07oh look i'm a little bit of a hopeless romantic and a little bit of a dope with this
00:49:11taking the lead thing
00:49:14so how are you feeling passenger queen excited for one of my old ancient recipes i'm intrigued
00:49:30you know what screw it
00:49:32are you making me and work away from me only the best for my wife
00:49:39damn it
00:49:41you just sit tight there and keep looking at the wall yeah we're i'm almost i'm almost ready
00:49:48the pro tip from steve-o there's two ways to uh a woman's heart either it's chocolate or cheese
00:49:57i may well
00:49:59you know what the thought is there what did you make i kind of went heavy on the cheese oh
00:50:06well that's not
00:50:07a bad thing
00:50:11i thought quick evening nachos cute yeah the cheese kind of fell out i love it
00:50:22he made me some really bad nachos and i'm really really happy about it i just think it's really
00:50:28sweet you know it's something so simple and so sweet no one makes makes nachos like me though do they
00:50:36know and maybe they shouldn't
00:50:50don't judge the nachos just because they look sad they were still delicious made with love
00:50:55my love thought this can be like a little sample of what's to come it's me to try and take
00:51:00lead i know
00:51:00i murdered the nachos but i actually do want to take you out on a proper day and not just
00:51:06be in
00:51:06the apartment i'm excited you know by you taking the lead it means a lot to me when you do
00:51:14so i'm
00:51:14very excited oh good it seems that this is only a taste taking the lead it's only a taste it's
00:51:21only a
00:51:21dibble just the fact that he's organizing a day and thinking about me it just excites me because it
00:51:28reminds you that you are appreciated want a nacho kiss yeah why not
00:51:38tasty
00:51:41these things are a bit a serious topic in our relationship but fun and playfulness is
00:51:46actually how we're going to get there so yeah i'm really grateful to my secret admirer
00:51:52cheers anyway thank you i know i'm a bit of a dork but i like it
00:52:09as gia and scott await their anonymous feedback letter gia's mood has only worsened can you please
00:52:17not do that right near me right now with the floss it's going to send me into a rage
00:52:24um
00:52:34the energy is
00:52:39like at the moment yeah it's a little bit tiring
00:52:44but i care about her and i want this to work because i don't want to have any more conflict
00:52:48australian relationship so i'm trying to help as much as possible to get through it
00:52:53there's only so much i can do
00:52:57okay can you read it can i yeah um do you want it well it's long jesus
00:53:05give it to me give it to me
00:53:19can you read it
00:53:22this
00:53:27you can read it
00:53:34you can read it
00:53:35dear scott and gia it's been great to see how your marriage and connection has flourished in this
00:53:40experiment from the outside looking in we see that you have a great physical connection and physical
00:53:45intimacy you're both committed and united this is a great foundation for you for a long lasting
00:53:52marriage but gr do you take notice as to how much effort reassurance scott gives you
00:53:59do you give the same reassurance to scott another thing to consider has the shine of your relationship
00:54:09here let me read it it's all right yep it's all right i don't just want to read it another
00:54:13thing
00:54:14to consider has the shine of your relationship it yeah they've written it wrong has the shine of your
00:54:20relationship has been dimmed by external distractions our suggestion would be gia fully
00:54:26remove yourself from group chats all the gossip and so-called drama and just 100 focus on your
00:54:30relationship i have beck don't worry about that um this will totally block out any unwanted
00:54:35distractions need for external validation hopefully the need for drama focus on the emotional connection
00:54:42we challenge both of you to withhold physical intimacy for 10 days to hold physical
00:54:49to not to not have sex for 10 days no no i thought the letter was stupid i didn't i
00:54:55didn't get
00:54:56anything good from that it would have been better if they gave us actual advice that was based on facts
00:55:02it was just stupid and pointless and like no physical touch for 10 days if we're moving towards
00:55:08final ballots and i'm going to move into state for this man i'm not going to not touch him for
00:55:1110 days
00:55:11i just think that's just stupid advice and yeah i'm not going to take it
00:55:18we're not going to not be physical because that's healthy in a relationship that's not good advice
00:55:24and also i'm not part of any group chats i was only ever in a group chat with beck and
00:55:29i don't think
00:55:29beck would write that because she knows i'm not in it so now i'm like who was that how do
00:55:33you think
00:55:33that the letter went down i just think that she and scott are just cackling to themselves
00:55:40it's someone who doesn't know us well it's someone who doesn't know us well i have no idea who wrote
00:55:45it
00:55:46i thought it was beck initially because the way that it was written it seemed a bit harsh and a
00:55:52bit
00:55:52like something that she might say to try and piss me off but if it was beck she'd know i'm
00:55:57not in any
00:55:58group chats anymore so yeah i have no idea who it is um i mean it could very well be
00:56:03her and she's
00:56:04trying to push my buttons i have no idea but i'm not going to sit here and conspire all day
00:56:07no idea
00:56:08i didn't get anything out of that well it wasn't useful really did you take anything from it
00:56:15mine's just more covering what they've said a bit more in terms of the detox and removing
00:56:20ourselves from trouble we've already spoken about that so it's something that i find would help us the
00:56:25most just don't want to be involved in anyone's shoot anymore that's it because i find when everything
00:56:29else we've said that we've done that anyway this letter can i won't look the envelope because it's
00:56:36cute but no thanks bye
00:56:44don't care whoever it is you don't know us
00:56:49i think today jia was not open to feedback whatsoever she is not interested she has no
00:56:54interest in what anyone has to say for me i like take everything with a grain of salt and how
00:57:01the
00:57:02letter was describing i could see it but for me i didn't say too much because i know if i'm
00:57:08going to
00:57:08say something jia's not going to respond well so i feel backed off i feel like i can't really talk
00:57:14much
00:57:14lately to be honest and yeah that does suck and i should be able to speak in my feelings and
00:57:18show
00:57:19that but i feel yeah i think this is a part of what's starting to affect the relationship i i
00:57:24feel
00:57:24like i'm starting not be able to get my point out there because i know if i speak she'll probably
00:57:29just
00:57:29start defending she's a very passionate woman she's fiery and i know it can come out a bad way and
00:57:37sometimes i think it shouldn't so that's one thing i need to either adjust to or be able to have
00:57:43a
00:57:43conversation with her without her taking offense to it but right now i can't
00:57:52yeah that's pretty much it what is it bloody letters torn
00:58:02being the nice guy yeah can get you played
00:58:07in the dating world it's sometimes hard to find like a genuine relationship because
00:58:11everyone's just like having sex being a nice guy and being myself i think it helps in life
00:58:16and so for me it's just like if i can make the world a better place a stronger place
00:58:20that is my core purpose run clubs training at the beach make a little noise i have a batman tattoo
00:58:29on
00:58:29my foot take a big inspiration from him like if it was up to me i'd wear a cape 24
00:58:347. i'm a man of
00:58:36international passion and strength have you seen the way my hips move like the the the tornado people
00:58:41call them i do feel like it is possible to find a long-term relationship the nice guys will get
00:58:48there will get their day you need to come to my run club because uh that's where all the ladies
00:58:56are at
00:58:57run club yeah yeah i actually met this lovely lady there the other week her name's berlin
00:59:04oh mate she's unreal for me yeah the boxes that need to be ticked is into their fitness into their
00:59:09health yeah it doesn't take themselves too seriously 100 obviously looks is great yeah and like yeah she's
00:59:15ticking all three boxes she's amazing i i worry a little bit i think henry could be in a little
00:59:20bit
00:59:20too deep too quick i feel like a lot of girls nowadays like the the bad boy and like the
00:59:24guy that you know
00:59:25doesn't give him attention doesn't talk to him and i feel like if you act too keen sometimes it scares
00:59:29them away
00:59:32you only date one at a time yeah yeah yeah it's too too too messy too much admin yeah i'm
00:59:38a real
00:59:38romantic man at heart so if i've got two on the go wow i'm all over the place you're a
00:59:42better man than
00:59:42me and if i'm walking down the promenade i assess everyone that comes towards me i look at him
00:59:48um if i see someone knobble your knees knock knees mate for me that's it ryan's a good looking fella
00:59:55i'm sure he does well for himself i think me and him play the play a little bit differently
00:59:59i'm sure he doesn't really have to do much whereas me i have to rely a bit more on the
01:00:02old charm you know
01:00:05in and around the east you know people love a good a good flashy date like an expensive thing for
01:00:10me
01:00:10like i'm about like seeing if the vibe works yeah they might be a bit more like activity
01:00:14sort of like outdoorsy based like a like a fun thing i think henry being over excited he does
01:00:20you know sort of run the risk of of acting too keen and the date going wrong like it backfiring
01:00:25on him
01:00:27got a nice date coming up with berlin we both love to ride our bikes we're both very competitive
01:00:32people so hopefully the bike ride with berlin goes a little bit better than my previous two outdoor
01:00:37dates i've got a feeling there's going to be a bit of a race coming up wait right now no
01:00:41pressure
01:00:42ready one two three go oh my god i told you i would win i can't believe it he kept
01:00:56up which
01:00:57was awesome you're like the first person i've ever met just like in the wild i was just running around
01:01:01bondi and you're giving me like the biggest smile like your like your smile is like ear to ear and
01:01:07i was
01:01:07like is he smiling at me he's smiling at someone else and then yeah he said like can you look
01:01:11after
01:01:12my shoes and i was saying don't worry i promise i won't sniff them i didn't hear that oh my
01:01:16gosh
01:01:17honestly thank god i didn't hear that well you know like i didn't sniff them i promise stop they did
01:01:24look proper smelly though after a disappointing honesty box challenge danny wants to apologize for
01:01:43upsetting beck by creating a romantic surprise for her obviously i've been dubbed the king of romance
01:01:50before they call me romeo in a past life so i've been reborn i'm back in the 21st century but
01:01:59not
01:01:59much has changed so i'm still the king of romance
01:02:16hello sweetheart hello i got you these thanks that one's a bit wet because it's been in my mouth
01:02:24so i'm going to lead you i'm going to lead you the way turn around come this way first stop
01:02:31don't
01:02:31look at the notes okay first stop what does this one on the table say enjoy a glass of red
01:02:37no problem
01:02:39you're so cute she's obviously been upset because i didn't take the box task serious
01:02:45but like i didn't really know how to react talking about my feelings so so hard for me
01:02:52so there we go bye here's a glass thanks baby maybe in hindsight i could have worded things different
01:03:00or said things different but i was trying to just be as truthful as i could also i want to
01:03:04apologize
01:03:05for upsetting her because i don't never want to upset her so what i'd done for beck was post-it
01:03:11notes
01:03:11around the place with compliments and things i like about her and just so um she knows how i feel
01:03:18about her essentially there we go now i'm going to lead you around the room i want i want you
01:03:24to read
01:03:24these out loud because i don't give you enough compliments so i'll give you awesome notes i love
01:03:31being married to you you're an amazing wife thanks babe she looked amazing in the french made outfit
01:03:41i heard someone ordered a french made to clean this place up
01:03:46i don't know if i ever told you so i was like you didn't i should write it down thanks
01:03:50baby sometimes i
01:03:51don't don't say it but i'm thinking it so that's what these notes are for oh my god i don't
01:03:55feel
01:03:55like i deserve this oh yeah that that's a nice one to end it on as well i've given a
01:04:02softer side to
01:04:03you than i've ever given anyone before have you yeah thanks it was so cute the notes just mean like
01:04:17everything to hear he loves being married to me and also i'm serious about us and our relationship
01:04:24it's everything you want to hear it's nice isn't it it's so cute i just like hearing them and reading
01:04:35them is just like it makes me feel really good sometimes i need to hear this yeah i know that's
01:04:42why
01:04:42i've done it yeah sometimes when he jokes in the tasks and stuff i'm like it it hurt because danny
01:04:51doesn't articulate his feelings so i've been questioning him and if i had told him that i
01:04:58loved him too soon because he's not set it back but then he does things like this for me and
01:05:05it's just
01:05:06like reminds me this is how he feels i think i need to get rid of my insecurities and just
01:05:12trust that
01:05:13you're here for a reason i'm so scared of getting hurt now but i just have to let that go
01:05:19don't i
01:05:19and just trust promise i will let's cheers to that cheers you're the best
01:05:30after ripping up their anonymous feedback letter from stella and philip
01:05:36gia has reached her breaking point
01:05:43i don't want to talk on mic man everyone listens to everything
01:05:53why don't you just wait on the couch i'll be there in a minute okay i'll be there in a
01:05:56minute i'll walk in
01:06:09i don't think jia's enjoying it anymore i think she just wants to get out of here and i will
01:06:14say
01:06:14that jia has said like we want to leave together so at the moment we both have said like
01:06:23jia wants to leave and i said i'll go with her so i don't know when this would happen i'm
01:06:28leaving the
01:06:28ball in her court because i'm happy to face anything and if we decide to go we go we go
01:06:32together
01:06:47i don't want to talk on mic man everyone listens to everything
01:06:53gear wants to leave and i said i'll go with her so if we decide to go we go we
01:06:58go together
01:07:31i don't know what is going on
01:07:36the fact that jia and scott are walking out with their bags
01:07:42they've obviously got to be somewhere and they've got more better priorities to go to obviously
01:07:49that's wild they're leaving
01:07:52that's insane okay i'm like lost for words
01:07:56that's just a cop-out we are in this experiment to find love and to work together as couples and
01:08:04to grow and we're only here for three months like we're nearing to the end
01:08:09but they would rather pack their bags and walk off and i'm like well have they checked out of the
01:08:20experiment tomorrow night i feel like i have been caught up in the jeer and beck war it's been toxic
01:08:27from the start i refuse to play the game anymore alissa's reached her limit and is standing her
01:08:34ground i've had enough and it's the first time she'll come face to face with beck after those text
01:08:41messages the vibe with elissa is icy cold it was vile and vicious very different vibe tonight
01:08:47i would say doesn't she hang on hang on a minute hang on hang on oh god stop using me
01:08:54why are you laughing what bombshell has sam dropped on chris right before the dinner party
01:08:59i'm fuming i feel uncomfortable i feel betrayed i've never had someone do this to me and then
01:09:07that needs to stop that needs to stop well has danny reached his breaking point
01:09:12i want you to be wary about what you text people two months ago daniel two months ago okay that
01:09:17was 10
01:09:17years ago
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