00:26How do I define social?
00:30Someone who knows how to adapt to everyone.
00:34Parang for me.
00:35Kasi social eh.
00:37Social.
00:37For you to be able to know how to adapt to everyone.
00:40To adapt to what's needed in your environment.
00:43And andami ko rin namang kilala na parang ang dami-daming pera.
00:46Pero pagkinausap mo parang tanga.
00:50Parang tanga, di ba?
00:52Hindi pera ang makakapagpa-define sa'yo kung sosyal ka o hindi.
00:56It's how you present yourself.
00:58Do you support your parents?
01:00Of course.
01:01Are you the breadwinner?
01:03Hindi naman ako breadwinner now.
01:05Kasi parang isa sa mga, isa sa mga pinaintindi ko rin sa pamilya ko na
01:10just because I earned more compared to what I did before,
01:14it doesn't mean naaakuin ko na lahat.
01:16Kasi lahat naman tayo capable of working eh.
01:19Tama.
01:20First of all, it's not my responsibility
01:23na maging akuin ko lahat ng gastos ng pamilya natin
01:27dahil hindi naman ako ang padre di pamilya.
01:30Pero nandito ako parang tumulong.
01:33So yung tatay ko nag-work ngayon.
01:36My mom is a full-time pastor.
01:38Your dad is?
01:40A human being.
01:41Sorry.
01:44Nagda-drive siya na parang grab ganun.
01:47So yung mama mo ang pastor?
01:49Actually both sila.
01:50Pero nag-work pa din ang tatay ko.
01:55Side-hassle niya yung pag-dry.
01:56Ang galing naman.
01:57So full-time ang mama mo.
01:59So ayun, kumbaga parang pinaintindi ko sa kanila na
02:03just because I'm earning more,
02:05it doesn't mean na kukunin ko na lahat ng responsibilidad.
02:08Kasi lahat naman tayo, kaya naman nating magtrabaho.
02:11Which I think is something na dapat intindihin din ng ibang pamilya.
02:14Kasi marami ako naririnig na,
02:17hirap na hirap na ako.
02:19Ang hirap maging panganay, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
02:21But have you set the boundary first?
02:24Baka naman kasi yan yung pinaintindi sa'yo ng magulang mo.
02:28I don't have anything against parents, ha?
02:30Pero minsan kasi as a panganay, which I am,
02:33I'm a panganay.
02:34Parang may mga parts sa buhay ko na magiging breadwinner ako.
02:38Na parang yun yung parang naging mindset ko.
02:40Which is not.
02:41Sabi ko, not.
02:42I'm not supposed to get all the responsibilities.
02:44Hindi ka pinanganak para doon.
02:46How will I prepare for my future?
02:48If I'm being focused on the things that I'm not responsible with in the first place.
02:52So nagkaroon kami ng maayos na usapan ng pamilya ko.
02:55Ang ganda.
02:56Nung nagtrabaho ako,
02:58sabi ko,
02:59ako nang bahala dito sa mga kapatid ko.
03:01Panganay ka din kasi.
03:02Yun yung ginawa kong responsibilidad na ngayon tapos na silang dalawa.
03:06O diba?
03:08Stop!
03:09Nihiyak tuloy ako.
03:10Nakaka-proud naman.
03:11Yun nga eh.
03:12Tapos sabi ko,
03:14ayaw ko maranasan to.
03:15Kaya ayun,
03:15nagtrabaho na lang ako.
03:16Nakapasok ako sa call center.
03:19At saka yung,
03:20nag-ano ka talaga,
03:21nag-excel ka doon sa craft mo doon.
03:24Kahit saan ka magpunta.
03:26Oo nga,
03:26totoo.
03:27Kasi iba yung lakas ng loob mo talaga
03:28at yung drive mo.
03:31Wala eh.
03:32Parang pinaghubog tayo ng hirap.
03:34Kapag masabi mo yung sarili mo,
03:36isa yung goal catcher.
03:37Yes.
03:38It is.
03:39Oo.
03:39More tawa, more sa'ya.
03:47More tawa, more sa'ya.
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