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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Let's go, he's ready.
00:04Okay, okay, you gonna help her over here?
00:06It's like really setting in that this is my whole life now, you know?
00:09Can you get a band-aid?
00:11You don't have a band-aid.
00:12Call them and ask for a band-aid, please.
00:14I have to go back to work.
00:16So you need to be able to do this.
00:17I don't want to be 10th grade dating an 8th grader.
00:20We've got a toddler.
00:21Is there anything stressing you out?
00:22No, different subject.
00:24I think a lot of it is he's only 13 and doesn't get to see his dad anymore.
00:29He said, I ruined my life.
00:35He's a piece of s***.
00:37Are you upset?
00:38I'm going to sleep.
00:39When Hunter says he wants to go to bed, that's his go-to whenever he's trying to bottle something up.
00:45Who's all coming for the baby shower?
00:47Mia has her whole family coming.
00:49Since Keith won't be there, I plan on having a conversation with Mia's mom at the baby shower.
00:54Mom, she said she was going to be here, but I don't know.
00:57My mom isn't very reliable.
00:59She doesn't have a stable work environment.
01:02She doesn't have a stable place to live.
01:03That's a sore subject.
01:05Just wish things would be better.
01:07He's going to go cheat?
01:08Well, he is not going to do that.
01:10I've seen it.
01:10Like, I've literally seen it on his phone.
01:12I don't know why his grandparents think he's an angel.
01:14Bryce's whole family is just showing their true colors.
01:16I don't feel like talking to anybody right now.
01:18Okay, I don't want to talk to you either.
01:19Sue, you're a bitch who raised a bitch.
01:22When I'm angry, I do not have impulse control.
01:24It's on now, okay?
01:25We can do it like that.
01:39Hello.
01:40Hey.
01:41Hey.
01:42How are you feeling?
01:43Okay.
01:44I'm doing good issues right now.
01:46Oh, did you get your schoolwork done?
01:48Yeah.
01:49Good, good.
01:50I'm going to be a little bit late coming home from work.
01:57Why?
01:58I'm going to go meet with Connie and Sue.
02:00Because of the way they treated you at the dinner the other night.
02:03I'm not putting up with that from nobody.
02:06Not to my kid.
02:18You look like you're shaking.
02:19You all right?
02:21I'm good.
02:22You sure?
02:23Yeah.
02:24I've agreed to meet up with Tasha.
02:28Connie and I are going to go together to meet up with her.
02:31But our heads are still spinning from everything that happened last night.
02:36What is it that you're lacking?
02:38What is it that you need right now that he can't give you?
02:40You need a car?
02:40Go get a job.
02:42You're actually acting like a very big brat.
02:44Okay.
02:45And you're bullying my son.
02:46And I'm telling you.
02:47Do not tell me I'm bullying your son.
02:49You don't know what your son has put me through.
02:51Then her mother called and accused us of bullying her.
02:56We need to sit down and have a meeting and discuss the way y'all treat Isabella.
03:02After.
03:03You're going to bully my kid?
03:04You are the one who is the bully.
03:07Okay?
03:07I was very confused because Tasha was saying that I was bullying Belle when I feel like
03:16Belle was bullying me and Bryce.
03:20It was total gaslighting.
03:22What's wrong?
03:24I just feel a little nervous, you know?
03:26I don't like all this bickering and arguing.
03:28It makes me unsettled.
03:30And, you know, I'm hoping things go well and we can get it smoothed out so everybody can
03:35get along.
03:36Good luck.
03:37Of course, I'm very anxious.
03:40But they're going to have a baby.
03:42And if the relationships aren't resolved between the two families, you know, it's going to
03:48be a terrible situation.
03:54I want them to know it's not okay to talk to my baby.
03:58Crazy.
03:58Maybe they'll treat you different because you're not, uh-oh.
04:02Not that I'm a kid, but like a, you know?
04:07You're young and vulnerable.
04:09Right.
04:10I'm tired of playing with Sue and them people.
04:14Like, enough is enough.
04:16I've sat back and let Belle go through whatever she needed to go through with Bryce.
04:21But when his family wants to step in and verbally attack and bully my kid, I don't go for that.
04:28I've had enough.
04:29Before you go, I think they should pull.
04:32Pull over, Belle.
04:34Yeah.
04:35I have something to tell you.
04:38Okay.
04:38Is it bad?
04:42Just pull over.
04:45As soon as I find a spot to pull over, Belle, I will.
05:04It hurts right here and right here to breathe in and in my back.
05:08And you're not having contractions?
05:10Mm-hmm.
05:11No.
05:11See, like, it hurts to sit down.
05:13Are you going to be able to go take pictures?
05:15Yeah.
05:17Today is my maternity photo shoot with Hunter.
05:21I'm so excited.
05:22I'm wearing this little black dress with my belly out.
05:25It's so cute.
05:26But I'm definitely a little worried because I'm having a lot of trouble and signs of labor coming soon.
05:33I feel like he's pushing down on my pelvis with his head.
05:38There's a lot of things I didn't know that would happen to me during pregnancy.
05:41I can't lift my leg up too far.
05:43My pelvic area hurts.
05:46If I'm, like, coughing a lot, I'll pee myself a little.
05:49And then all the stretch marks on my belly.
05:52But I don't care.
05:53My belly's always out.
05:57I think I'm so confident because Hunter still shows that he's very attracted to me and always, like, wants to
06:05have sex.
06:06Even when I'm in my muumuu and trying to go to bed.
06:09Of course he does.
06:09He's a 13-year-old boy.
06:15Okay, you're going to have to call him and see if he's going or whatever because we're going to have
06:20to leave before long.
06:21I'll try.
06:27He didn't answer.
06:28Nope.
06:30Ever since Hunter's dad bailed on him, he's been really, um, distant.
06:35He wasn't able to make it.
06:38Your dad?
06:40He's not coming?
06:41No.
06:42He had something pop up or something like that.
06:47I'm going to bed.
06:49Hunter's go-to when he's upset is definitely to just be by himself.
06:53And I get that Hunter has a lot going on, like, between his dad and becoming a dad at 13
07:00and struggling with school.
07:02But I do get scared sometimes that Hunter will not be able to get his act together before the baby
07:09comes.
07:12All right, kiddo.
07:13Let's go.
07:14I do want Hunter to be a part of this.
07:17I mean, it is both of our baby.
07:18I do want to experience this with him.
07:20But even if he doesn't come, I still am going to get good pictures.
07:28Is Hunter alive or have you heard from him?
07:30Nope.
07:31I sent him a voice message and called him three times.
07:35And he still didn't answer or text you or anything?
07:37Nope.
07:37No response.
07:39This is my sister.
07:41She's 19 years old.
07:42She's also pregnant.
07:46Twins.
07:47It's nice to have someone to experience my pregnancy with because when I have a symptom or I feel something,
07:54I just kind of ask her if she's feeling something similar.
07:57It's kind of more of a bonding experience.
08:00Absolutely.
08:00And it's really nice to have someone I can rely on because Hunter isn't always the most reliable.
08:09Hey.
08:10Hey, what are you doing?
08:12Headed to go take pictures.
08:14What are you doing?
08:16I've seen where you had called a few times and got some miscalls, but Hunter's been asleep.
08:21Yeah, I figured.
08:22He didn't answer me.
08:25I have been sleeping a lot.
08:28You're depressed and you just want to go lay down and that's exactly what that means because I went through
08:33that before.
08:34That's what you do when you're upset.
08:35You can ask Bella.
08:36You can ask anybody.
08:37You get upset, you shut down, you want to lay down, go to bed, you're done.
08:40It doesn't matter whether it's sports, Bella, anybody, he'll shut you down, shut you out.
08:45That's how he deals with it.
08:47Hunter, you do kind of nap whenever you're upset.
08:50I'm sorry.
08:53See?
08:55You guys are still going though, right?
08:57Yeah.
08:58All right.
08:59Love you, bye.
09:00Love you, bye.
09:02I think that his emotions and everything that's going on with his dad shouldn't affect him wanting to be there
09:10for Bella.
09:14Hey!
09:15Where's Hunter, by the way?
09:17His mom called and said he was asleep, so.
09:20Aw.
09:22You want to take some pictures?
09:23Yeah.
09:26It's kind of like I'm a single mom, really, and it's embarrassing for other people to see that my boyfriend's
09:33not there.
09:34There we go.
09:35I just think he's a 13-year-old boy and he doesn't want to do stuff like that.
09:39He doesn't really understand that it is important to me that he does show up.
09:43All right, so I'm going to have Emmy come in and step in, okay?
09:47And I try to tell her all the time, take the benefit of the doubt for Hunter because he is
09:51a 13-year-old boy who is having to be a father and change his life.
09:56But I don't think at any point it gets more real than it already is, you know?
10:00I just want him to change so bad, and I don't know if he's going to.
10:15It's the morning of my baby shower.
10:19I did a lot last night, but I still have a lot to do.
10:24And Jesse and them aren't here yet, but the only person I really don't know if he's going to show
10:28up, but I hope she shows up, is my mom.
10:30But I guess we're just going to have to wait and see if she comes or not.
10:40Okay, so own the thing out there.
10:44What thing?
10:46The, what's it called?
10:49The net.
10:50Yeah.
10:51We can put, like, the balloons.
10:53Okay.
10:54I think that'd be good.
10:55I'm going to go try to stretch this out.
10:57Okay.
10:58My baby shower starts in four hours, and I still have a lot to do, and there's going to be
11:04a bunch of people here in very few hours, so I just, I'm overwhelmed and stressed out.
11:12I'm there helping.
11:14Yeah.
11:16Mention that.
11:22What about these things, baby?
11:24They go around the tables or something?
11:26Yeah.
11:27Well, should we hang them up?
11:28Whatever you want to do, baby.
11:31Honestly, I wish her dad would have let me stay the night before.
11:34Can Jesse stay the night?
11:35No.
11:38Because it would have been a lot easier on us.
11:40I could have been downstairs, you know, helping him wipe down tables, conversating with him, you know, getting to know
11:46him a little more, him getting to know me.
11:48Like, I wouldn't have to sleep with her or nothing.
11:50I'd have to have slept next to him if he wanted to do.
11:53That's a little weird.
11:54I'm just saying.
11:55Like, if he's that straight, like, hey, make a pallet on my floor and sleep in my room.
12:00Don't go.
12:01The door's going to be locked.
12:01They probably can see you.
12:03I'll just remember I'm going to shoot you or something, you know?
12:05You never know.
12:06Your dad seems like the type of dude.
12:08He doesn't have a shotgun in his closet.
12:10He's just like a, like, what are those called?
12:11And I, like, always carry an axe and, like, do the wood.
12:16A lumberjack?
12:18A lumberjack.
12:23Okay, next question.
12:26Here, put this in the back.
12:28Why are y'all putting it all the way over here?
12:30Is that what you're talking?
12:31I just asked.
12:32Dad, you're supposed to stick the pole in the board.
12:35You can't.
12:36What are you talking about, man?
12:38I don't like it like that.
12:39That looks stupid.
12:41She was stressing out overnight.
12:45Mia, why were you so stressed out?
12:46Oh, yeah, let's get into it.
12:48I just want everything to be perfect,
12:49and I'm feeling really anxious that we won't pull it off all the time.
12:53I'll help you.
12:55What are you looking for?
12:56I mean, I can help you.
12:57My phone.
12:58I'm looking for my phone.
12:59It doesn't help that my mom was supposed to be here this morning
13:02to help set up things, but she isn't,
13:04so now we're down the set of hands.
13:06She can hear you.
13:06It's not surprising, but it sucks.
13:12I don't want to take a breather.
13:14I can't.
13:15There's too much to do out here.
13:16Yes, you can.
13:21My mom isn't very reliable.
13:23You tell her to be on time somewhere,
13:25or you tell her,
13:26hey, you need to be here.
13:28It starts at 6.
13:30She ain't going to be there until 9.
13:32And that's if she comes at all.
13:34Are you taking a shower first and they're getting ready?
13:36I don't know.
13:36I don't know.
13:37When I was growing up, my mom and dad,
13:39they were on and off together,
13:41and my mom was on and off being in jail
13:43and fell into addiction.
13:45So there was all these cops at our house
13:47and things like that,
13:49stuff that kids shouldn't have to deal with at that age.
13:52And as we got older,
13:54my mom became more distant with everybody.
13:57So we never had a relationship like I wanted.
14:01Mia!
14:02I'm leaving!
14:04Which is why I'm glad my dad is there for me for most things,
14:06but he's not sticking around for my baby shower.
14:09Oh, you look pretty.
14:10Thanks, Dad.
14:14Bye, I love you.
14:15I mean, to me, baby showers are kind of like a girl thing, chick thing.
14:20I mean, I just, I don't feel no need to be there.
14:22Have a good time, baby.
14:24Plus, I have no intention on sticking around
14:26in case Mia's mom does show up.
14:28And if she does come,
14:30I hope she remembers that today is about Mia.
14:33Good luck.
14:33I mean, have a good time.
14:35Okay, I love you.
14:41It's been nice knowing y'all.
14:46No, it's gonna be all right.
14:47I love you.
14:48It'll be all right, Nan.
14:50I don't really think that Sue should be going.
14:53You know, that's why I'm not going.
14:55I think that Tasha wants to argue and fight
14:57and make big deal out of nothing.
15:00And I just don't see it having a positive result.
15:05I'm willing to go
15:07because I'm hopeful for a resolution.
15:09Y'all be careful.
15:10But at the same time,
15:13please never underestimate
15:16that I am a mama bear.
15:26Thank you, Jesus.
15:27Help me to be calm.
15:28Send your spirit for me to be calm.
15:31I am full of anxiety.
15:35Feeling very uncomfortable about this.
15:38It would suck to go back to jail
15:41for fighting Bryce's family,
15:43but I'm gonna do what needs to be done.
15:46Don't come over here.
15:47You don't want to hear what I got to say.
15:49If he doesn't come tonight,
15:50I'm breaking up with him.
15:51You're either going to have to change
15:52or you're going to have to leave.
15:54He's 13.
15:55You have to cut him some slack.
15:57You just always take his side
15:59and it's not fair.
16:15It's so early.
16:16Yeah.
16:17I haven't eaten.
16:17I know I'm gonna be sitting at that appointment
16:19like, I'm freaking hungry.
16:20You should bring something.
16:22This sound of food just makes me nauseous.
16:24I think it's because I don't have any room.
16:27He's too big.
16:28I don't have any room.
16:29He takes up all my stomach.
16:30Is he hogging your stomach right now?
16:32No, he's squishing it.
16:35Yesterday, me and Hunter
16:36were supposed to do a maternity photo shoot
16:38and I had to do them alone
16:39because he bailed on me.
16:41But today, we are supposed to have
16:43what's hopefully my last ultrasound.
16:46Oh, hold on.
16:47He's calling me.
16:52Hello?
16:54Hunter, here.
16:56Oh.
16:56You do the talking.
17:00Hunter doesn't want to go to the ultrasound.
17:03Are you kidding me?
17:04You're bailing on me again?
17:06Never said that.
17:07You're lying.
17:08I never said that.
17:10I'm lying.
17:11I don't care what he says.
17:12This is probably our last ultrasound
17:14before we have the baby.
17:15If he doesn't come to this ultrasound,
17:16I will trash that Xbox with a hammer.
17:18I'm gonna go to bed.
17:20Hunter, it is five o'clock.
17:23You better come.
17:23No, I'm serious.
17:27Bye.
17:30If he doesn't show up,
17:32I actually might rip his head off
17:33with my bare hands.
17:35I'm down to the last three weeks of pregnancy.
17:37We're preparing to have a baby.
17:38It could be here any day.
17:40So if he doesn't come tonight,
17:42I'm breaking up with him.
17:43Like, I can literally do it all on my own.
17:52Well, it says Hunter left home, so...
17:55I'm really not that excited that he left now.
17:58I thought she was gonna leave him a lot,
18:00but that's my thing.
18:02Mom will not let me leave Hunter.
18:16Yes.
18:18Don't come over here.
18:19You don't want to hear what I got to say.
18:21Why?
18:22Because why don't you want to go to the ultrasound?
18:25I never said that.
18:26You did?
18:27Nope.
18:29I did not.
18:29You're either gonna have to change
18:30or you're gonna have to leave.
18:33I do think she's ever reacting.
18:34I don't want to go to the ultrasound
18:35because I don't know what I'm looking at
18:37and I've been to every single one
18:39except for this one.
18:41What if this was the last one?
18:43It's not the end of the world.
18:45You wanna make your car?
18:47Told you you wouldn't like what I had to say.
18:57Yeah, that was awkward.
19:01If you are not ready for this...
19:03To be there for me and come to all of our appointments
19:06or even when I give birth...
19:07If you can't do it, please go
19:09because you're not going to be in and out of our lives.
19:12Like, for real.
19:13That would be it.
19:14We would just be done.
19:16Do you understand why I'm telling you that?
19:20Yes.
19:22Why?
19:24Don't put me on the spot like that.
19:27Why?
19:27I understand.
19:28What do you understand?
19:30I just understand.
19:33What do you understand?
19:34I don't really understand.
19:36Yeah, say he just said he doesn't understand.
19:39I do.
19:40Next question.
19:45What did you say to him?
19:48I told him that he had to change or he had to leave.
19:49Your answer can't be just to leave every time.
19:53Any time of little inconvenience that you and him have,
19:56you always try to bail on him instead of trying to fix it.
19:58When he tries to fix it and you're like, no.
20:01Instead of communicating with him and telling him, like,
20:06you know, I don't like that or we need to talk about it,
20:08she's just like, I'm done.
20:10Because he doesn't listen.
20:12He's 13.
20:14You have to cut him some slack.
20:18Running and lack of communication isn't going to fit.
20:21You know that I'm right.
20:23You're not right.
20:24You just always take his side and it's not fair.
20:27You don't validate my feelings.
20:29It's only about him.
20:30No, that has nothing to do with it.
20:32Y'all both have to be good for each other.
20:47I do feel like my mom always takes Hunter's side.
20:50She tries to sympathize with him because he has been through a lot
20:53and he is only 13 years old.
20:55But at the same time, I feel like she should also validate how I feel
20:59because I am her daughter.
21:02What happened?
21:05Mom, it's just always my fault.
21:08But I try and he doesn't try.
21:12Do you even want to go to the ultrasound at this point?
21:28I feel like it is a lot of pressure trying to navigate being pregnant at 15,
21:35dealing with a 13-year-old boy,
21:37and then also being told that I cannot break up with him.
21:42Honestly, I would rather just be alone than be disappointed.
21:58Jose, how many dishes are in there?
22:01I'm just washing this last one.
22:03It's his baby bottle.
22:05He's nesting.
22:07When we found out that she was pregnant,
22:09Jose asked me if he could move in because his mom was going to be moving across town.
22:15I told them, yes.
22:18But, of course, there's rules.
22:20You still sleep on the couch.
22:22It's no hanky-panky, I don't care that you've already done it and made a baby.
22:26And he was okay with that.
22:28I understand the rules
22:30because we are not to be trusted in the room now after what had happened.
22:35Honestly, I don't really mind not sleeping in the same room.
22:38He snores.
22:40Really loud.
22:43But I still love him, though.
22:50Careful, he's a little fussy right now.
22:52Not a lot, though.
22:53Yeah, he just ate.
22:55He's knocked out.
22:57He's so cute.
22:59Do you have a pen and paper?
23:02Oh, perfect.
23:03We got home from the hospital yesterday,
23:06and I don't think that they really understand where we're at now.
23:11It takes a lot more than just changing diapers and feeding him to be a parent.
23:18Financially, they're going to have to step up and take care of Sammy themselves.
23:24We came home last night, and Sammy needed formula, correct?
23:27Yeah.
23:28Who went and bought the formula?
23:29You did.
23:30That's not my responsibility, correct?
23:33Yeah, I know.
23:34And so something we need to talk about is you starting work as soon as possible as part of being
23:42an adult and providing for your family.
23:45So Jose is a good kid.
23:47I'm going to say it like that because he is a kid still.
23:50But they've made grown-up decisions and are putting themselves in positions where you should be adult, in my opinion.
23:57And so Jose is going to have to carry his part, and we're going to have to really talk about
24:03him stepping up to the plate and man up.
24:06Man up.
24:07In the real world, because we're in the real world now, people pay rent.
24:14So let's say part-time you're working 25 hours a week, right?
24:21Mm-hmm.
24:22Making $12 an hour.
24:24They're probably going to take about 10% out of taxes.
24:27So I would say 25% is fair of your income to contribute into the household income.
24:38Every month?
24:39Every single month, yes.
24:41Okay.
24:42Okay?
24:43They're also responsible.
24:45Anything that Sammy needs.
24:47Formula, water.
24:49Special water, formula, whatever it takes to take care of Sammy should be between you and Amaya.
24:55I shouldn't have to worry about that.
24:57Now, if that's something that you're not able to, you lose your job, you're not helping out, then you're going
25:05to have to go back to your mom's.
25:08Are we clear on that?
25:09Mm-hmm.
25:10I was surprised my mom gave Jose an ultimatum.
25:13If Jose got kicked out, I'd probably be mad at my mom.
25:18Why?
25:19I'm supposed to just sit here and take care of him, too?
25:21She'd be mad at Jose for Jose not taking on his part.
25:27That means he failed.
25:29This is what has to be done.
25:32I'm going to understand.
25:33Okay.
25:37Look how cute.
25:38My baby shower started at 2, and my mom still isn't here.
25:41Bye, baby.
25:42Love you.
25:42Hey, Nicole.
25:43How are you?
25:44How are you?
25:45That is your child's baby shower.
25:47Sorry, but that makes me upset.
25:50I heard that like three times.
25:51Her car is unbrook now.
26:03This is my party.
26:04Say hey to everybody.
26:07Hey!
26:08And then everybody else.
26:11That's weirdo.
26:18It looks so pretty.
26:22I'm excited for the baby shower today because I've been to a bunch and bunch of baby showers,
26:28and I've always wondered how it felt to have the baby shower for you.
26:31Like, not for me, because it's not for me, it's for the baby, but it's like I'm the parent
26:35of the baby that the baby shower's for, so I feel special in a way.
26:38Here's the winner for baby bump measurement.
26:42The baby bump measurement goes to Eden.
26:46Oh, I love it.
26:4841 inches.
26:50My baby shower started at 2, and my mom still isn't here.
26:55She was supposed to be here this morning before the baby shower even started, and she hasn't
27:00contacted me or anything.
27:01That sucks.
27:06Look how cute.
27:08My son's going to be a daddy.
27:11It is hard to believe I'm about to be a grandma at the age of 36.
27:16Just make sure I look cute, Amber.
27:18I wasn't ready yet.
27:20And I know they're not ready yet, but I wasn't ready yet.
27:23I'm already taking care of six kids.
27:25Now there's a grandbaby on the way.
27:26So I was panicking, but I can't just stay mad forever.
27:30And honestly, now I'm absolutely happy that I'm having a granddaughter.
27:35That's when she got excited about the baby was when she found out it was a girl.
27:38Because before that, she was pissed.
27:40Every day, all day.
27:42Yeah.
27:42So I feel like if I was to have a boy, she'd still be mad at me right now.
27:47And they would have been like, yep, you should have worn that condom.
27:50That probably is true, though, y'all.
27:52Can somebody push my glasses up?
27:58I love Mia.
27:59She's like a daughter I never had.
28:01Well, I mean, I got a daughter, but like another daughter.
28:05Jessie, do you think that Mia's going to let me into the living room?
28:09I'm my first baby, so I want my mother to be in there.
28:13Don't get all lovey-dovey, please.
28:16Don't start crying.
28:17Yeah, I am going to cry.
28:18Oh, my God, bro.
28:27How about your gifts?
28:28Yeah.
28:30I hope y'all put y'all's names on these.
28:32That's from either Becky or Lexi.
28:35I don't know which one.
28:36Are you afraid that your mom's not here?
28:38She's supposed to be coming.
28:39Huh?
28:40She's supposed to be coming.
28:41I just, I really thought that she would be here for the baby.
28:45Are you leaving?
28:46Okay, I love you.
28:47I mean, I guess that's one of those kind of moms.
28:51As a mother myself, I feel that Mia needs her mother.
28:56You know, she's missing out on a huge support system for her.
29:00Everybody go out there so we can take a family picture.
29:06Honey, Jesse.
29:07Oh, I'm coming.
29:09I'm really annoyed at the fact that her mom didn't show up.
29:12I know, everybody say Oakley.
29:15Oakley!
29:17But that's how her mom is and has been her whole life, so.
29:21Bye.
29:22Bye, baby.
29:23Love you.
29:24Bye, baby.
29:25Bye, Ellie Jean.
29:27I love my shower.
29:28I think it was great.
29:29I'm so tired.
29:30Me too.
29:31I think the $900 we spent on the decorations were worth it
29:35because we got well over $900 in presents.
29:38And now I'm very, very tired and ready to go to sleep.
29:42Hey, Nicole.
29:43I got it now.
29:43How are you?
29:44How are you?
29:46Aw.
29:48Where can I put this?
29:49I didn't even get to write.
29:50That's Mia's mom.
29:53One of Mia's family members came up to me and was like,
29:57that's Nicole.
29:58And I was like, oh.
30:04That's her mom?
30:05Yeah, you're never about to be here.
30:06I've never met your mom.
30:07That's her.
30:09That's her mom.
30:11That just showed up?
30:11Yeah.
30:12That just showed up.
30:14She's in her car right now.
30:15Good job.
30:17I heard that, I heard that like three times her car is done broke down.
30:21I heard one night it got in a wreck, and then the next night it got stolen.
30:25So which one is it?
30:26Now it done broke down?
30:29I didn't feel like it was just necessarily the car broke down.
30:33There is ride chairs these days.
30:35Or she could have said, hey, Mia, can Miss Ashley come get me?
30:39Even though I don't know her, I never met her, I would have went and got her.
30:43Because that is your child's baby shower.
30:46Like, I just don't get it.
30:48Sorry.
30:49But that makes me upset.
30:51Is she going to come back down so I can meet her?
30:55She just went straight upstairs.
30:56And that's what kind of shocks me, too.
30:59I would have least hoped that she would have came up to me and acknowledged and introduced herself.
31:04So I guess I'm going to have to introduce myself to her.
31:11Every time you get mad, you always try to run from it, and I don't like it.
31:14Like I have said that, you know, if y'all break up, you're not just breaking up two people.
31:18You're breaking up two families.
31:20That's his son, so he still needs to be a dad.
31:24All right, look, if it gets some type of way, I'm going to laugh, and I'm going to walk away.
31:27I really want to meet with Tasha today because we're fixing to be a family.
31:33I think you're dreaming, Sue, because she is a bitch.
31:47Speak up, speak now.
31:50Never run, never bow.
31:54You know just what you did.
32:07Mom, can you come talk to me?
32:18This morning, I'm still not talking to Bella because she has not communicated with Hunter,
32:23and they have not tried to fix anything.
32:25Typically, whenever they're fighting like that, and I know they're both being ridiculous,
32:29like, I will take a step back.
32:31Because I don't want to say something that I'll regret later, and she'll remember forever.
32:36So it's just better if I don't talk at all.
32:41Can we talk?
32:43Please.
33:00I will admit that a lot of times I am team Hunter because he's never really had someone, I feel
33:07like, besides his mom, that's actually been there and stayed.
33:10You know what I mean?
33:12Because, like, with his dad, he doesn't have consistency, and that is a big issue for Hunter.
33:18So, yeah, a lot of times I do pick his side to let him know that I am there, but
33:24I do worry that she would eventually just be like, I'm done.
33:28Like, I have said that, you know, if y'all break up, you're not just breaking up two people, you're
33:32breaking up two families.
33:35And your grand, or my grandson would have to be in a broken home, and I just don't like that.
33:49I don't understand why we always come back to this.
33:51Every time you get mad, you always try to run from it.
33:56You know I don't deal.
33:57That bail and s*** pisses me off, and I don't like it.
34:00I shouldn't try to leave every time, but even when I try to talk to him, he doesn't talk to
34:08me.
34:08He goes straight to you.
34:11It's me and him in the relationship.
34:12Like, I don't understand why he can't talk to me.
34:15I think it's because he's afraid you're just going to yell at him, or you're just going to tell him
34:17to leave, like you always do.
34:19No, I think he's afraid of being confronted and taking accountability for his actions.
34:24You have to continue to communicate.
34:27I know.
34:29If y'all decide to stay together or not, I'm going to support you, but you also got to understand
34:33that that's his son, so he still needs to be a dad.
34:36You have a baby coming into the world.
34:39Like, you're going to have to do what's best for you and him and Wes.
34:43I also don't want to wait five years for him to change.
34:46You think it's going to take that long?
34:48Hunter says he's ready to be a dad, but I don't know.
34:50I think he would eventually figure it out.
34:54I do think that he will be better once the baby gets here.
35:00But I'm not going to wait for that to happen.
35:03He needs to man up, like right now.
35:12Thank you, Jesus, that you've brought us to this point.
35:15Our intention is to smooth things over.
35:18Help me to be calm.
35:20Send your spirit for me to be calm.
35:22In Jesus' name of God, amen.
35:24Amen.
35:33All right, just remember what my safe word was.
35:35Baseball.
35:36Yeah.
35:36So if it gets some type of way, I'm going to laugh and I'm going to walk away.
35:40All right?
35:40Okay.
35:41And the same for you?
35:42Yep.
35:43Okay.
35:45I am full of anxiety, but I really want to meet with Tasha today because regardless
35:55of how we feel about each other or regardless of whether we wanted to or not, we're fixing
36:01to be a family.
36:02I think you're dreaming, Sue.
36:04That's why I'm not going because she is a bitch, okay?
36:08And that's what she's going to bring on you and it's going to be a lot.
36:11I understand the way that you feel about that, but I am determined to do what is best for
36:19my great-grandchild and her grandchild.
36:24Well, here we are.
36:26However, the worst case scenario would be that it becomes a physical altercation.
36:32Yes, I would fight her.
36:34And so I need you to be there to back me up.
36:38Absolutely.
36:42Feeling very uncomfortable about this.
36:46I'm risking a lot because I'm on probation for theft of property and aggravated robbery.
36:53So if this meeting goes wrong and goes bad, you know, I've got a lot more to lose.
37:00It would suck to go back to jail for fighting Bryce's family.
37:05I'm risking everything.
37:07So yeah, I'm very, very nervous.
37:12She said you want to be in the living room, but I want to be in the living room.
37:14Oh, ma'am.
37:16I didn't think that needed to be discussed there because really it's not a discussion.
37:20I know who's going to be in the room.
37:29Hey.
37:30I just heard that you were Mia's mom.
37:32Yes, hey.
37:33I'm Jessie's mom.
37:34I'm Ashley.
37:35Nice to meet you.
37:35Oh, or AK.
37:36Yeah, nice to meet you.
37:38Yeah, my car broke down.
37:39I've got a day.
37:41Can I tell you?
37:42A day.
37:46Well, you missed out on the party.
37:47I know.
37:49You have to send them all to Mia.
37:50Maybe cry around the room.
37:52I'm Nicole.
37:53I'm Mia's mother.
37:54I am 41 and I'm going to be a grandma.
37:57When I found out that she was pregnant, I just started crying.
38:01I cried.
38:01She's like, stop crying, mom.
38:02Stop crying.
38:03I probably cried for probably about five minutes or so because I just knew the responsibility
38:09that she was fixing to take on.
38:10I didn't want her to have to go through that.
38:12So, you know, it's a lot.
38:16I want to see what you got.
38:17It's a lot.
38:19What are you getting?
38:21Uh, all this stuff.
38:23I mean, it's very independent.
38:26Why do you say it like that?
38:27You're so independent now.
38:28Because it's how I see how, that's how you act towards me.
38:32Like, you got it taken care of.
38:34Pretty much, yeah.
38:35See?
38:36That's what I'm saying.
38:39Well, I do.
38:41I would much rather her be more needy than she is.
38:46What kind of mom asks her daughter to be more needy?
38:49I love you.
38:50I like for you to need me.
38:54When she was younger, she came to me for everything, you know?
38:57I miss it.
39:00I don't like to need anybody.
39:10Why are you crying?
39:11No.
39:13Sorry?
39:15Am I trying to cry?
39:18I wish I was more involved in her life, like it always was before.
39:28A lot.
39:33Because I never know what she's doing, where she's at, if she's okay.
39:38I shouldn't be in the situation that I'm in.
39:40I hate it.
39:45Are you looking forward to being a grandma?
39:48Um, I'm not looking forward to thinking that I'm old to be a grandma, but, um, I am looking
39:54forward to spoiling my grandbaby.
39:57So, I'm getting, what are you getting called?
39:59Because apparently I'm going to call mama.
40:01Are you?
40:01I don't want to be called mama.
40:02Neither did I.
40:03You ain't going to be called honey, either.
40:07You're a mama, believe it or not.
40:09That is the normal name you get called.
40:11I don't know why everybody's so against it.
40:13We don't have no honeys.
40:15We don't have a mama.
40:16I don't like honey.
40:16Where'd honey come from?
40:17AK wants to be called honey.
40:19Well, she's stupid.
40:21She also said you want to be in the delivery room, but I want to be in the delivery room.
40:25The what?
40:26The delivery room.
40:26Oh.
40:27Oh, ma'am.
40:29So, I'm like, uh.
40:31Well, I mean.
40:32If there was only two people to be in the delivery room, yeah, I would think that I earned that
40:38spot because I have been there, I mean, since day one.
40:42And I look at me as a daughter, too.
40:45So, I would hope that I would get that spot, not to be mean or rude, but for Nicole.
40:54Neither of y'all look at me, so Jesse's the only one in there right now.
41:00I thought that AK was very outspoken.
41:02It was a lot more outspoken than I would have been had I been her, you know?
41:06Like, being in the baby room and all that, like, you know, demanding what she was going
41:10to do and, you know, like.
41:13I didn't think that needed to be discussed there because really, it's not a discussion.
41:17I know who's going to be in the room.
41:20Yeah.
41:22Period.
41:24To be determined.
41:25I can't believe that it's even that half the two be determined.
41:27Okay, whoa.
41:29I mean, that hurts my feelings.
41:30Oh, my goodness.
41:31To be determined, Mom.
41:34To be determined.
41:40Next time on Unexpected, today is my 40-week doctor's appointment.
41:46You know, they kept saying she was going to go earlier because he was measuring bigger.
41:50So, I am so ready for him to be here because I know she's miserable.
41:54That much baby, 15 years old, C-section would be the smarter thing.
41:59That's the one thing I didn't want for you.
42:01That's my baby.
42:02I didn't want her to have to get cut open.
42:07Hi, welcome in.
42:09Oh, Lord.
42:10The kids have told me that Keith is only going to let Jessie stay for two weeks after the baby's
42:14born.
42:14But I do feel like I can change his mind.
42:16Hell no.
42:18Is there like a rule that they automatically have to move in together?
42:20They're kids.
42:22Some things have been brought to my attention.
42:25What do you mean?
42:26To see you go through that kills my soul.
42:29I see where this is going.
42:30It happened.
42:32There's just no way that what she was saying was true.
42:34They're attacking my son.
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