90 Day The Single Life Season 5 Episode 1

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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...

00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.

00:00:03My last two years have just been

00:00:06one dating disaster after another.

00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.

00:00:11I should be jaded at this point,

00:00:13but I'm still here, ready for love.

00:00:17And your cat, I should be on my knees.

00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.

00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your f***ing face?

00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.

00:00:28I was like living in hell.

00:00:31After everything that I've been through,

00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:00:37Woo!

00:00:39Oh, what are you doing?

00:00:40We're just not good together.

00:00:43Shh.

00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.

00:00:45I know.

00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,

00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.

00:00:51Girl strip!

00:00:52Girl strip!

00:00:52Woo!

00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?

00:00:57The men.

00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?

00:01:01Stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.

00:01:08You guys remember B, right?

00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.

00:01:13A booty call.

00:01:14A booty call.

00:01:15Oh!

00:01:16Oh!

00:01:17Sexy.

00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.

00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.

00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.

00:01:29Using her?

00:01:30Yeah.

00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.

00:01:35His name is Pedro.

00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santana Pedro.

00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.

00:01:44I want my wife.

00:01:45I want the house.

00:01:46I want the kid.

00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.

00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.

00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

00:02:05But now I have to be serious.

00:02:05I wish you did too.

00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.

00:02:11A guy starts out one way, and it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.

00:02:15So is this who you are?

00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?

00:02:20I am just here, because they're about him, and asking you about it.

00:02:24But don't call me hostile, because I died.

00:02:27No, you cannot believe I died.

00:02:29You guys have a f***ing great relationship.

00:02:31Okay, bye.

00:02:32Yeah, yeah.

00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.

00:02:34Yeah, yeah.

00:02:35Okay, whatever.

00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame, everybody knows my name.

00:02:57Hola.

00:02:58Hola, hola.

00:02:59¿Es posible en Pina Palada?

00:03:00Sí, claro.

00:03:01Gracias.

00:03:01Everything I got now, know you want it, you want it, you want it, you want it, come and get

00:03:06it.

00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face.

00:03:09Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.

00:03:11I fly like a Peggy, sit straight out the gate.

00:03:14Do I have your attention?

00:03:20Check, check, check, check, check.

00:03:25Hey, bitches!

00:03:27Click, snap, look at that.

00:03:30I'm here!

00:03:37Girl strip!

00:03:38Girl strip!

00:03:39Woo!

00:03:40Do I have your attention?

00:03:43I'm Sophie, I'm 26 years old, I'm from London and I live in Texas.

00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.

00:03:48It's so hot.

00:03:49It's so beautiful here.

00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years and that marriage didn't go very well.

00:03:56Cheers!

00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?

00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to like take the will on this.

00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks and just have a good time and not stress and just actually have some

00:04:11fun.

00:04:12What are you guys most excited for?

00:04:13The men.

00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.

00:04:19Even the workers are cute, the hotel people are cute, people on the beach, everyone's just cute here.

00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?

00:04:27I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.

00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.

00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected and we kind of became a support for each other

00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.

00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.

00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?

00:04:42I still like the older man.

00:04:44Older, how old?

00:04:4693 is fine?

00:04:47Let's stick with it.

00:04:4997.

00:04:4994.

00:04:52I'm Liz, I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California, but I currently live in Seattle, Washington.

00:04:59I've never actually really dated.

00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship, but I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.

00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?

00:05:15Latinian?

00:05:17Latinian.

00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.

00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.

00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.

00:05:22Yeah.

00:05:23So, you like them.

00:05:24Okay.

00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time, and then Julia

00:05:30is married, but she's so fun.

00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.

00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.

00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.

00:05:46Annoying, bitch.

00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?

00:05:51He's fine.

00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, so be the single, not you.

00:05:57I'm Julia.

00:05:58I'm 31 years old.

00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.

00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective, but he have a reason because we have a secret.

00:06:10I'm pregnant.

00:06:12I haven't told anybody yet because I believe in superstition.

00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:21So let's have fun.

00:06:22Yeah.

00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:25Cheers.

00:06:26After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.

00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard

00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.

00:06:44Hi, thank you.

00:06:46I miss you so much.

00:06:48Give me a kiss.

00:06:48I miss you.

00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't

00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.

00:07:00But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.

00:07:05I found this.

00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.

00:07:11Let's explore.

00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.

00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.

00:07:27You just look good together.

00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it.

00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something

00:07:42scary about getting back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really

00:07:47with Rob.

00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.

00:07:50But it's also very exciting.

00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you.

00:07:54We have a special guy who we come to see.

00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.

00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.

00:08:10He's tall.

00:08:11He works out.

00:08:12He's very funny.

00:08:13If you could write on paper, the perfect guy, it's literally him.

00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.

00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?

00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy, and I

00:08:37was like, okay, like, I followed him.

00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.

00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?

00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between

00:08:48him and Chantel.

00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based

00:08:55on other people's opinions.

00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.

00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?

00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I

00:09:09want, and he just, like, did all of it.

00:09:10And I was like, oh, so what was the gift?

00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace, and that

00:09:17was the first time we met in person.

00:09:20Oh my gosh.

00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?

00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic, and I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind

00:09:28of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.

00:09:30It's like, every week I get new flowers at my door, and then he leaves, like, this little,

00:09:33like, love note in the flowers.

00:09:34You see that smile?

00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.

00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.

00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday, and I wanted to do

00:09:47this girl's trip for a while now, so it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the

00:09:51two.

00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.

00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,

00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.

00:10:00You just finished your relationship.

00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.

00:10:03Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single, and

00:10:07I want to make sure I know what I want this time.

00:10:09Yeah.

00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time, I've been through hell

00:10:15with my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.

00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.

00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.

00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which will be fun.

00:10:27All of them have fun.

00:10:28Is he bringing friends?

00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.

00:10:31Friends, yeah.

00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.

00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him, but I feel like

00:10:39he's

00:10:40catching very strong feelings very early on, and I really just want to make sure that

00:10:44I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.

00:10:50So, that's him fun!

00:10:52Yay!

00:10:53Ladies.

00:10:54What happened in Dominican Republic?

00:10:56Stay in Dominican Republic.

00:11:17All right, cadets.

00:11:19Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.

00:11:21It's full of enemies.

00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.

00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.

00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.

00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!

00:11:29Woo!

00:11:33I'm going to get you.

00:11:36Ooh.

00:11:38I like this.

00:11:47Get around to the left.

00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.

00:11:49Star Wars side.

00:11:50Not Star Wars.

00:11:51We're not in the Navy.

00:11:54My name is Kim.

00:11:55I'm 55 years old.

00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.

00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.

00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.

00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.

00:12:19And it's been life-changing.

00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.

00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out

00:12:37of planes.

00:12:39I was a bad bitch back then.

00:12:43I got you.

00:12:44You said, ugh.

00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.

00:12:49Especially in my dating life.

00:12:51Boo!

00:12:52You're shot.

00:12:52Oh, crap.

00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?

00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.

00:12:59You know how I used to go?

00:13:00I do.

00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.

00:13:03I'm excited to be here.

00:13:06I like women when they take charge.

00:13:07Oh, do you?

00:13:08Si.

00:13:09Okay.

00:13:10You got the right kind of woman then.

00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?

00:13:15Like a little blind date.

00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.

00:13:20Try to.

00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.

00:13:24A little bit.

00:13:25No, I'm just joking.

00:13:26He's so handsome.

00:13:27Gracias.

00:13:28De nada.

00:13:30Oh, no, Henry!

00:13:32No!

00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months,

00:13:37but it is hard as s*** to find a good man in your 50s.

00:13:42Okay, we're done.

00:13:44I'm done.

00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.

00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.

00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.

00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.

00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was

00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.

00:14:14Oh, my God!

00:14:18Oh, my God!

00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.

00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.

00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?

00:14:29Oh, my God.

00:14:30This is funny.

00:14:31Is this f***ing funny, too?

00:14:32F***ing funny.

00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.

00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?

00:14:38Yes!

00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days are over, but I loved

00:14:45Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby, and it's

00:14:50crazy when I think about that.

00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this day.

00:14:57No, sir.

00:14:58Listen to me.

00:14:59That will bring you guys more closer.

00:15:01No.

00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.

00:15:03No.

00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.

00:15:09I don't know, and, like, raise this baby together.

00:15:11What the f***?

00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.

00:15:19You're a f***ing asshole.

00:15:20You are a f***ing asshole.

00:15:22I'm done.

00:15:25We tried.

00:15:26We tried, right?

00:15:28We tried.

00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.

00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.

00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.

00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.

00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.

00:15:44So, how do you like it?

00:15:45It was so much fun.

00:15:47Oh, my gosh.

00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.

00:15:49You were in the military?

00:15:50Yes.

00:15:51Wore the little uniform, wore the little beret.

00:15:53I jumped out of planes.

00:15:54I've done a lot.

00:15:55I mean, that's very sexy.

00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?

00:15:58Do you have your uniform?

00:15:59No, but I'll get one.

00:16:03So, where do you live?

00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.

00:16:06Okay.

00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?

00:16:08I have two roommates.

00:16:09Oh, f***.

00:16:10Two.

00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.

00:16:13No, no, not really.

00:16:15I live with two young women.

00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?

00:16:23I used to date one of them.

00:16:25You used to date one of your roommates?

00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.

00:16:27Okay.

00:16:28What happened?

00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.

00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.

00:16:33Oh, yeah.

00:16:33She dumped me.

00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.

00:16:37Yeah.

00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.

00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.

00:16:47And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?

00:16:49He lives with her.

00:16:50He cheated on her.

00:16:52They're still banging.

00:16:53There's something going on there.

00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.

00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.

00:16:59Kim, get out of here.

00:17:00Thank you so much.

00:17:02It was fun.

00:17:03It was fun.

00:17:04Yeah, you too.

00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide,

00:17:08and I'm just not going to do it now.

00:17:10I'm not going to do it.

00:17:12I'll text you.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:13Or text me.

00:17:14Okay, got it.

00:17:15Thank you for taking me out of here.

00:17:16It was fun.

00:17:17It was fun.

00:17:17So I'm not going to see Javier again,

00:17:19but some woman is going to snatch him up.

00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.

00:17:23Sorry.

00:17:24Bye-bye.

00:17:26Bye-bye.

00:17:41Hello.

00:17:42What are you doing?

00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.

00:17:44Oh, so is my house the grocery store now?

00:17:47I actually need to take him a few things.

00:17:48You do?

00:17:49Mm-hmm.

00:17:50Oh.

00:17:51Jamal is my son.

00:17:52He's 30 years old.

00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.

00:17:59He is everything to me.

00:18:05Do you have ranch?

00:18:06Yeah.

00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.

00:18:09I use that.

00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.

00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.

00:18:14That's not true.

00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.

00:18:17It's like a two for one.

00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?

00:18:22No, dude.

00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?

00:18:24Yeah, I'll leave you one.

00:18:25Thanks.

00:18:27So, yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.

00:18:30Oh, yeah?

00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.

00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:18:37I just feel like I still need...

00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.

00:18:45Indeed.

00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.

00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?

00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to...

00:19:02say what I have to say, you know, or discuss what I've done.

00:19:07Well, I love you.

00:19:09I love you, too.

00:19:09I'm going to go head out.

00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.

00:19:16Text me later or something.

00:19:17Got you.

00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...

00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.

00:19:23All righty.

00:19:24See you later.

00:19:25I preach authenticity.

00:19:26I preach being genuine.

00:19:28And I've been living a lie.

00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.

00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.

00:19:38Never forgive myself.

00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.

00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh my God, like, she look fine.

00:19:53Like, the hair, the eyes, the lips, the ass, the leg.

00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.

00:20:02Nice to meet you.

00:20:03Nice to meet you.

00:20:03I'm Gino.

00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.

00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.

00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a

00:20:19disaster?

00:20:28Stopped down?

00:20:29Let's go.

00:20:30What you drinking, what you want?

00:20:31Two cows are here.

00:20:35Let's go.

00:20:39Let's go.

00:20:40Come on, Gino.

00:20:41You got this.

00:20:54All right.

00:20:55Last 10 seconds before the end.

00:20:58I'm Gino.

00:20:59I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Kent, Michigan.

00:21:02Come on, let it all go.

00:21:04Woo!

00:21:04Let's go!

00:21:06I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.

00:21:10I'm way out of here.

00:21:13I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.

00:21:17I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:21:24Woo!

00:21:25Would you mind taking just a couple selfies for me?

00:21:29Sure.

00:21:29Of course.

00:21:29If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?

00:21:32Sure.

00:21:33Give me a big smile.

00:21:35Give me a big smile.

00:21:35I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I

00:21:41am.

00:21:41Nice job.

00:21:42I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the last, well,

00:21:53last four years, anyway.

00:22:03I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to meet

00:22:11her.

00:22:18But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.

00:22:24There were some huge, serious red flags.

00:22:26You trash.

00:22:28I don't want to see you anymore.

00:22:30That's your choice.

00:22:31You guys.

00:22:34I'm going to hear this.

00:22:36Oh, God damn, the president.

00:22:38Stop.

00:22:38Jasmine, let me look.

00:22:40Stop it, liar.

00:22:41I can't hear.

00:22:42I can't hear.

00:22:43During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.

00:22:48And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street

00:22:54two months after we separated.

00:22:58I want you to know that I am pregnant.

00:23:03And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby, and that's what we're going to do.

00:23:11Well, I thought she loved me.

00:23:17I thought she wanted to have a child with me.

00:23:24She's such a liar.

00:23:34I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet, and now I just want to look forward

00:23:40to living my best life.

00:23:55Today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.

00:24:25I have never been to a singles event before.

00:24:28In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good

00:24:3530 years.

00:24:37Hi.

00:24:38Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.

00:24:42Before the internet, I used classified ads.

00:24:45It was scary because I didn't really know what they looked like.

00:24:51In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do, and I'm lucky I never got scammed.

00:24:58This is Amy.

00:24:59Hi.

00:25:00Hello.

00:25:00Amy, this is Gino.

00:25:01Nice to meet you.

00:25:02Nice to meet you.

00:25:03I'm Gino.

00:25:03But even now, I prefer to meet women online.

00:25:08Being rejected in person is the worst, right?

00:25:12You feel so small, and it's hard to take.

00:25:14So I am way out of my comfort zone being here.

00:25:19I think we need to go play some kickball.

00:25:21Yeah, let's go.

00:25:22Let's go.

00:25:23Let's go.

00:25:24Let's go.

00:25:27Let's go.

00:25:28Get her!

00:25:29Let's go.

00:25:30Can we get Gino up here?

00:25:31Let's go.

00:25:32My bat?

00:25:33Gino, you're up.

00:25:34Go, go, go.

00:25:35Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino, Gino.

00:25:51Gino, Gino.

00:25:59I think the women are finding me pretty sexy I think this is a very good first step for me

00:26:07because it got me out of my comfort zone but now that I have to have conversations with them I

00:26:13hope

00:26:13I don't mess it up we're so excited to have you here every time a guy joins we're like oh

00:26:18my god

00:26:18another normal guy oh that's good we're 70% women so like 70% I like that I know right

00:26:24that's why I think I get excited I'm like a guy

00:26:30so tell us like what brought you here what brought me here well I mean I'm single now

00:26:37when did you get divorced when I get divorced um well I'm not divorced yet okay

00:26:46well I'm married but separated we don't live together

00:26:51I don't do well with someone who's still technically married what if they're not done

00:26:57what chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready

00:27:03I'm with you on that he seems so nervous he's shaking his voice is cracking what the hell is

00:27:09going on here what is he hiding so tell us what happened so basically what happened is

00:27:15five months after our marriage she met a guy a random guy at the gym and cheated on me with

00:27:22him

00:27:22what and then while she was married to me she got pregnant

00:27:28what the hell am I saying here I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract

00:27:33them to me not telling them about my nightmarish miserable relationship that I just went through

00:27:42I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here but anyway um let's change the subject a little

00:27:48what are you what are you guys looking for in a man

00:28:07I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult but how did this all end up in such a

00:28:14disaster

00:28:27all eyes don't mean what you're looking at yeah I'm sticking my teeth like a big cat

00:28:40Pedro's bad baby

00:28:59my name is Pedro I'm 33 years old originally I'm from Dominican Republic but right now I live in Atlanta

00:29:06Georgia

00:29:10since my divorce with Chantel I've been keeping a low profile I need a time to myself

00:29:15dale dale dale

00:29:19eso papá

00:29:20but now I put everything behind me and I'm ready for the next shot of my life

00:29:26that's Dominican engineer

00:29:39I put in my best effort in this okay

00:29:44si claro

00:29:45I'm so excited I'm very happy because Sophie and Brian they are with her friends and they're going to meet

00:29:51me and my friend at the club tonight

00:29:53I really want to impress Sophie when she is in my own country

00:29:56that's why me and my friends are going to decorate the band they're going to drive Sophie and her friends

00:30:01around the yard

00:30:03Pedro

00:30:11the first time I see Sophie online you know I said oh my god like she looks fine like she

00:30:18have everything that I was looking for

00:30:20the hair the eyes the lip the the ass the leg and she got you know the waist you know

00:30:27like it's go go me here go me down you know like a guitar kind of style you know

00:30:31that's made me a little crazy

00:30:34what's that's enamorado

00:30:36definitivamente to the seguro que ya te podias considerar con ella para tener una familia

00:30:40creo que si

00:30:42I have a strong feeling for Sophie and I really really want a relationship with her

00:30:46she have very kind heart she have the full package

00:30:50es momento de tu reiniciar tu vida otra vez

00:30:52si

00:30:53y espero que los errores que se pudieron cometer no se vuelvan a repetir

00:30:57no

00:30:57todos los errores que se meten en pasado fueron errores

00:30:59no me entiendes ahora yo aprendí mis errores

00:31:02when I met Chantel I told my life was set for forever and then you know everything went to the

00:31:08drain

00:31:12ah

00:31:13Pedro

00:31:13ah

00:31:15baby

00:31:16baby

00:31:16oh

00:31:17mmm

00:31:199 years ago I packed my life from the yard and moved to the United States for love

00:31:24hello to my baby

00:31:26mwah

00:31:27mmm

00:31:29but Chantel family cost so much drama they were freaking crazy

00:31:32hey hey hey hey hey

00:31:34what'd you say

00:31:34I tried my best but I wasn't perfect and nobody else

00:31:38let go

00:31:38come on

00:31:40hey hey hey hey hey

00:31:42bat

00:31:43Chantal never stand up for me with her family.

00:31:46That's dropping a wedge between us to the point

00:31:50our marriage couldn't survive.

00:31:53I feel that we go different ways in life.

00:31:56I want my divorce.

00:32:00I can.

00:32:03I can continue with this.

00:32:06I learned a lot of things from my marriage.

00:32:07Put more time, more effort, listen more,

00:32:11be more flexible, you know?

00:32:14And that's helped me right now, too, my sure.

00:32:18Hey!

00:32:19Papá, ya tú sabes!

00:32:21Dale para allá, busca a la mujer.

00:32:22Dale suavecito.

00:32:24No, vemo allá.

00:32:25Whoa, whoa, whoa!

00:32:29You're doing a group tonight.

00:32:32Going to do great.

00:32:33It's a big night.

00:32:36OK.

00:32:37Hope is good.

00:32:39Now let's go down.

00:32:42Let's go, little puppy.

00:32:45It's been a long time.

00:32:47I never thought that this is going to be my life.

00:32:50The fact that I'm 30 years old,

00:32:52not a kid, not married,

00:32:53made me feel a little devastated.

00:32:56We are three.

00:32:58Nice and clean.

00:33:00What you never know.

00:33:01I want the type of life

00:33:03that everyone's dreaming about.

00:33:04I want my wife.

00:33:05I want the house.

00:33:06I want the kid.

00:33:08Maybe if we're lucky, we get some.

00:33:11If not, we try again.

00:33:15I want to show Sophie

00:33:16had time of her life in the yard

00:33:18and I hope at the end of the street

00:33:20we can be a relationship forever.

00:33:23Okay.

00:33:25Yeah.

00:33:27We're ready.

00:33:29What the is a picture friend?

00:33:32We are going to have some of San Diego's finest

00:33:34lead men and lead women pitching

00:33:36their wonderful single friend.

00:33:38Are you ready to meet?

00:33:40Kimberly.

00:33:42She has the biggest heart

00:33:44and she loves Cass.

00:33:48Who's that beauty?

00:33:50Who's that beast?

00:33:51Dirty mouth but conscience clean.

00:33:53All in one, a king and queen.

00:33:56Who's she?

00:33:57I must admit, that's me.

00:34:00I know what I bring to the table.

00:34:03I got my plate.

00:34:04I'm willing and able to make my own bed

00:34:06and eat it all alone.

00:34:08Kiss me.

00:34:09Hi.

00:34:09How was everything?

00:34:10It was great.

00:34:11Thank you so much.

00:34:12I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.

00:34:14Thank you so much.

00:34:15Bye.

00:34:16Bye.

00:34:17For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor

00:34:21in a hotel casino.

00:34:23Oh, it's closing time.

00:34:25I really like it.

00:34:26I like scheduling.

00:34:27I like keeping things organized.

00:34:30And I think I get that from my military training

00:34:32because you have to be organized

00:34:34when you're in the military.

00:34:36Are you almost done?

00:34:37We got to go.

00:34:38It's girls' night.

00:34:39Yeah, I just got to clean up this stuff

00:34:41and then fold the towels and put them away.

00:34:43Lily's my closest work friend.

00:34:44And I love the fact that, like,

00:34:46I can confide in her about things.

00:34:48I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.

00:34:50I haven't been out in a while,

00:34:51so I think it'll do me a lot of good.

00:34:54Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet

00:34:55some of our other friends,

00:34:57and we're just going to have a little ladies' night.

00:34:59I really wasn't a part of the planning,

00:35:01but I'm just down for whatever at this point.

00:35:03So if you see any guys tonight,

00:35:05you're going to try to talk to them?

00:35:07I actually went on a first date the other day.

00:35:10Really?

00:35:10Mm-hmm.

00:35:11How'd that go?

00:35:13Girl, he lives with his ex.

00:35:16Would you ever live with your ex?

00:35:18No.

00:35:20But that's a different story.

00:35:24I don't know.

00:35:25I just feel like I'm not going to just settle

00:35:27for anything less than I deserve.

00:35:28You have to be, like,

00:35:30financially and mentally stable.

00:35:32Yeah.

00:35:33You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.

00:35:36No more 18 years younger than me.

00:35:38No.

00:35:39Yeah, you're going to need someone

00:35:40to match your vibe.

00:35:41I really want somebody to love me for me.

00:35:43Like, I've never had that.

00:35:44And I really need to feel that love,

00:35:47like, once before I die.

00:35:49Kim says that she's never experienced love.

00:35:53It hurts me as a friend because, you know,

00:35:56she's been through so much in her life

00:35:58that she does deserve to find love.

00:36:01Not someone who's going to try to take advantage

00:36:03or use her.

00:36:04She's a beautiful person.

00:36:05So I believe she should find someone

00:36:07who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.

00:36:11All right, let's go.

00:36:12Let's go.

00:36:13Let's go.

00:36:13Pretty girls around the world.

00:36:14They're waking up.

00:36:15They serving up.

00:36:15You couldn't catch.

00:36:16Just want to be dry.

00:36:17Oh, we serve.

00:36:18We serve spicy.

00:36:19Yeah, we know it's a lot.

00:36:21We're all right up here.

00:36:23What is this?

00:36:25Let's see where we get inside.

00:36:30Hi.

00:36:31Hi.

00:36:32We love you.

00:36:34We love you.

00:36:35Hello, baby.

00:36:36Mwah.

00:36:38I love you.

00:36:38What are we doing?

00:36:40What are we doing?

00:36:41Sit down.

00:36:41What the is it?

00:36:42Pitch a friend.

00:36:43Just chill out.

00:36:44What is it?

00:36:45We are going to pitch you the single woman

00:36:50in front of a crowd of single men.

00:36:54The group chat was not talking about this.

00:36:57Just calm down.

00:36:58We got you.

00:37:00You knew about that.

00:37:01I did.

00:37:01I knew.

00:37:02She's in on it.

00:37:03I hate you.

00:37:05Uh-oh.

00:37:06Uh-oh.

00:37:06Oh, no.

00:37:07Here we go.

00:37:08Here we go.

00:37:09Here's a boy.

00:37:10Did you hear me?

00:37:14Welcome.

00:37:14Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.

00:37:17All right.

00:37:18So we are going to have some of San Diego's finest

00:37:21wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage pitching

00:37:25their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint

00:37:28presentation so that you know who is available and looking for

00:37:32love in this room tonight.

00:37:34Give it up.

00:37:35Give it up.

00:37:36Give it up.

00:37:37You guys got me on this one.

00:37:39You got me.

00:37:41Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.

00:37:44However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.

00:37:49And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.

00:37:53We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes,

00:37:58bullet points about different things that we love about her.

00:38:01And who knows?

00:38:02Magic could happen.

00:38:04All right.

00:38:05Let's get started in Pitch Up Friends.

00:38:08Starting with Rachel pitching Alex.

00:38:13So I'm introducing my friend Alex.

00:38:16We just celebrated his 42nd birthday.

00:38:20Oh, it's 42.

00:38:21It's 42.

00:38:23What do you think?

00:38:26Yeah.

00:38:26Wait, wait, wait.

00:38:27Isn't that kind of on the line?

00:38:29Can we go a little bit lower?

00:38:30You have a strong line.

00:38:32Standards.

00:38:35Boundaries.

00:38:37Alex, come on up here.

00:38:41Questions for Alex.

00:38:44Question.

00:38:45Alex.

00:38:47Do you like older women?

00:38:51I don't discriminate whatsoever at 19's age.

00:38:55Okay.

00:38:56Give it up for Alex.

00:38:59Coming up here, we've got a duo.

00:39:01We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly.

00:39:05Yeah!

00:39:08I don't know what they're going to say.

00:39:10I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings,

00:39:14and my 55-year-old ass is going to be on this damn screen.

00:39:18Why the am I here?

00:39:19I'm so nervous now.

00:39:21I'm sweating.

00:39:23Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?

00:39:34She has the biggest heart.

00:39:37And she loves her son, Jamal.

00:39:41The other things she loves more than anything in the world...

00:39:45Cats.

00:39:47Her cats.

00:39:48You have to love cats.

00:39:50If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats,

00:39:54no, you cannot date Kim.

00:39:56Cannot date Kim.

00:39:57They sleep with her.

00:40:00OK, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?

00:40:03Could we have said not so much about the cats?

00:40:05Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.

00:40:08Kind of true, but you know.

00:40:11Questions for Kimberly. Raise your hand.

00:40:14Well, hello.

00:40:16Unfortunately, I'm under 45.

00:40:18Damn it.

00:40:19I just want to say thank you for your service.

00:40:22Oh, thank you so much. Thank you so much.

00:40:26So embarrassing.

00:40:27More questions for Kimberly.

00:40:31Hey, my dad is in New York.

00:40:33Have you dated a man that was far away?

00:40:36I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria,

00:40:39so why would I not go to New York?

00:40:41Why the not?

00:40:44This girl wants me to date her dad,

00:40:47and all the other guys here are like 20.

00:40:50I know my friends want me to find a man,

00:40:53and I know they have the best intentions,

00:40:56but this crowd is just making me feel hella old.

00:41:00Next up, we've got the Isabelle bitching moment.

00:41:04Okay, so what are we going to do?

00:41:06Do you want me?

00:41:06I don't like you.

00:41:07I'm done.

00:41:08I'm done.

00:41:08But I love you guys.

00:41:10I appreciate it.

00:41:11I do appreciate it.

00:41:12That was amazing, right?

00:41:13We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.

00:41:17Oh, yep.

00:41:18I gotta go.

00:41:19Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:19What?

00:41:21What?

00:41:22What?

00:41:22Okay.

00:41:24I have plans to hook up right now.

00:41:28Oh!

00:41:28Wait.

00:41:29Wait.

00:41:30What?

00:41:30So, like, a booty call.

00:41:33A booty call, yeah.

00:41:35People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.

00:41:38Like, it's just cobwebs down there.

00:41:40But I like to have sex.

00:41:42I like to lay in bed with somebody.

00:41:44I like to have orgasms.

00:41:46Especially now I've got all this energy

00:41:47and lost all this damn weight.

00:41:48I'm like, hello?

00:41:49Come to Kim.

00:41:51You guys remember B, right?

00:41:55I'm going to them.

00:41:56Oh-ho!

00:41:57Whoa!

00:42:11This is a great deal.

00:42:12Two for five.

00:42:13How can you beat that?

00:42:14I mean, I am budget-conscious.

00:42:16And some girls will hate it and say,

00:42:18why are you being so cheap?

00:42:19Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman

00:42:21that is all about value,

00:42:24we're going to get along at the grocery store.

00:42:25And I'm just open.

00:42:27It's all in good motion.

00:42:29The sky's so bright and open.

00:42:32It might turn the getaway.

00:42:36Hi.

00:42:37Excuse me.

00:42:38Hi.

00:42:38Do you know where the package meat is at?

00:42:42Like, hamburger?

00:42:43Yeah.

00:42:44It's going to be down here on the left.

00:42:45All the way down?

00:42:46All the way down?

00:42:47Uh-huh.

00:42:47I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife

00:42:51was vegan.

00:42:52Oh.

00:42:53And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store

00:42:56and buy meat because she's vegan.

00:42:58Yeah.

00:42:58You know?

00:42:59But now that I'm single,

00:43:01Mm-hmm.

00:43:01I mean, it's no problem.

00:43:03Mm-hmm.

00:43:04I feel so happy.

00:43:05You know what I'm saying.

00:43:06Yeah.

00:43:06A little ball and chain.

00:43:08A ball and chain, right.

00:43:09Yeah.

00:43:10But thanks a lot.

00:43:11Nice talking to you.

00:43:12Sure.

00:43:13Enjoy your meat.

00:43:14Things are really looking positive nowadays.

00:43:16I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.

00:43:18I have the freedom to do anything I want

00:43:21and be who I really am.

00:43:23Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store

00:43:27and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,

00:43:30I have the freedom to do that now.

00:43:32Hmm.

00:43:33I think this will work.

00:43:36Take that, Jeff.

00:43:38The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.

00:43:43I had a lot of fun at the singles event,

00:43:46playing kickball,

00:43:47but maybe not the best situation,

00:43:50like, to find a date.

00:43:53In person, you know,

00:43:54I might be a little bit too anxious.

00:43:57So I've been posting more things

00:43:59on my social media nowadays.

00:44:02It lets me curate the image

00:44:04I want women to have in me.

00:44:06It makes me a lot more confident

00:44:08going to meet someone

00:44:10if I know this person is already interested in me.

00:44:14Check this out.

00:44:16I posted a picture today of me working out.

00:44:20This woman says,

00:44:22sexy man,

00:44:23I definitely would not be able to go with you

00:44:26because I'll be looking at you

00:44:28instead of the trainer while I'm drawing.

00:44:35I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately,

00:44:39and I love it.

00:44:41I freaking love it.

00:44:44Oh, someone's messaging me.

00:44:49Who is it?

00:44:51Natalie's replying to my workout post,

00:44:53and she says,

00:44:54great job.

00:44:55She's proud of me.

00:44:57Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago

00:45:01when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.

00:45:05You're like a super amazing person.

00:45:08So are you.

00:45:09And you're just so adorable, too.

00:45:11Look at your smile.

00:45:12It's so cute.

00:45:13Oh.

00:45:14You're so sweet.

00:45:17I thought Natalie and I,

00:45:19we could have a real future together,

00:45:20but when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party

00:45:23and Jasmine showed up,

00:45:25everything went to hell.

00:45:26Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?

00:45:30Oh, really?

00:45:31You should watch her.

00:45:32Don't get close to me.

00:45:33Don't touch her.

00:45:34Don't you .

00:45:35Relax.

00:45:36No, no.

00:45:37Listen.

00:45:39Get off me.

00:45:41We didn't talk for almost a year,

00:45:43and then Natalie and I,

00:45:45we reconnected at the Happily Ever After tele,

00:45:48and we've been texting each other ever since.

00:45:52Yeah, I responded to her,

00:45:54but I added some emojis to it,

00:45:55like the heart emoji and the heart head

00:45:59with the three hearts around the head.

00:46:01You know, I want to get her attention,

00:46:03like, hey, you know,

00:46:05I'm still interested in you.

00:46:07I still like Natalie a lot,

00:46:09so I asked her if I could visit her next week,

00:46:12and she said yes.

00:46:15You know, this is soft.

00:46:17I mean, it's exactly how I like my women.

00:46:19Soft.

00:46:21This is my chance to build a relationship with her.

00:46:24But after everything that's happened,

00:46:27it's gonna take a lot of work.

00:46:29I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie,

00:46:32like, with actions, not just words.

00:46:34I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.

00:46:39Now, that I could post on my Instagram,

00:46:41that big-ass cucumber.

00:46:47Mejo's arranged a van for me and the girls

00:46:49to get around with.

00:46:50Oh!

00:46:52Candle in the car!

00:46:53The van alone, cute.

00:46:56But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.

00:46:58He's coming on very strong.

00:47:00Ah!

00:47:01It's Pedro.

00:47:02He has an English accent.

00:47:08It's Victor's saying it.

00:47:09They call me fuego, they call me fire.

00:47:11They call me all that you desire.

00:47:13They call me fuego, they call me fire.

00:47:15Yeah, they call me all that you desire.

00:47:18They call me fuego.

00:47:21This is my first night in the VR, and I am going out with Sophie and Juliam, and we are

00:47:28actually going to go meet Pedro.

00:47:30I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends, so I'm super excited right now.

00:47:43I need to get a spark back in my life.

00:47:47I live in Washington, it's always gloomy, there's hardly any sunshine, and it can be

00:47:54very depressing at times.

00:47:56So when Sophie planned a girls' trip, I was all about it, I need sun kisses from head

00:48:03to toe.

00:48:04I am really excited, I'm going to get dressed up, I want to go out, I want to meet people,

00:48:08I want to mingle, I want to flirt, and I want to feel a little sexy.

00:48:11I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship, and looking back, I've never

00:48:17picked the right guy, and I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.

00:48:23Um, I think you're amazing, and I want to ask you out on a date.

00:48:28One of my last relationships was Ed.

00:48:31It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face, but um...

00:48:35It took me a while to get used to you.

00:48:38Burn!

00:48:39We were kind of always a hot mess.

00:48:41Hi, go f*** yourself.

00:48:42Bye.

00:48:44Liz, Liz, Liz, you are out of control, you drunk.

00:48:47Shut the f*** up!

00:48:48You don't give a s***, Ed.

00:48:50But, despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed, and always wanted to make it

00:48:57work.

00:48:58Will you marry me?

00:49:03But then, Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.

00:49:07You're going to be the best version of yourself, and it's not going to be with me.

00:49:12Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an a**.

00:49:18Then came Jason.

00:49:20You're in the past.

00:49:21We're going to move forward.

00:49:22Starting today, you will never disrespect her again, or otherwise, you're going to have

00:49:25to deal with me.

00:49:27Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was

00:49:32dating for a year.

00:49:34And then, the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he

00:49:39didn't.

00:49:39He couldn't.

00:49:41A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, um, I didn't get the best news.

00:49:47Um, I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.

00:49:52It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage

00:49:59that Jason and I had.

00:50:01And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch me being sick, but.

00:50:11I think I can touch it.

00:50:17Being sick took a huge toll on me, but I also know that I'm going to overcome it.

00:50:24I'm really hopeful about my future.

00:50:27I don't want to waste any moment.

00:50:31I want to live my life, and I really do want to find love again.

00:50:37Girls' Night!

00:50:40I deserve the best, and I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.

00:50:46I bet you're missing me now.

00:50:53Yeah, my soul!

00:50:56I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.

00:50:59Really?

00:50:59Yeah.

00:51:00Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.

00:51:03It's my first night in the DR, and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking

00:51:07forward to just spending some time with Pedro.

00:51:09Hello?

00:51:10Oh, my gosh.

00:51:11Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with,

00:51:16which I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.

00:51:18Bye.

00:51:19Hello!

00:51:22Oh!

00:51:26Oh!

00:51:27Oh!

00:51:28Oh!

00:51:29Oh!

00:51:29Oh, my goodness!

00:51:30Oh, my goodness!

00:51:30Okay, should I hop in the bath?

00:51:32I'm sorry.

00:51:33That is, like, candle in the car.

00:51:38Candle in the car!

00:51:40The van alone, cute, but the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed, and I just feel like

00:51:46he's coming on very strong.

00:51:48I feel like that's his welcome to his country.

00:51:51I don't think that's too much.

00:51:53Candle in the car.

00:51:54Okay.

00:51:54Candle in the car has blown my mind.

00:51:57Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?

00:52:02No, it's really cute.

00:52:03It's cute.

00:52:04It is cute.

00:52:05I, I, it is cute.

00:52:06Okay, I'm back.

00:52:08Did he do the ball as well?

00:52:11Pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there, too.

00:52:16It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.

00:52:19Nani, nani, Pedro.

00:52:21She's trying to say naughty.

00:52:23I speak Julia language.

00:52:25Yeah.

00:52:25This translator.

00:52:26Yeah.

00:52:27Do you want to kiss him?

00:52:29Yeah.

00:52:30If he goes in, I'm probably going to...

00:52:31Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know, so it's like, I'm going to hug him.

00:52:35Do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we put it in your hands?

00:52:38Put it in my hands.

00:52:39Okay.

00:52:39In my hands.

00:53:01It's been two and a half months.

00:53:02So, last time I saw Sophie, I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.

00:53:06Maybe you could show me, cause I've been with you all along.

00:53:15Ah, it's Pedro.

00:53:16Where is he?

00:53:17He gave a ring to his hands.

00:53:19Shut up.

00:53:20He gave a ring of flowers and the red carpet.

00:53:22He gave a ring of flowers and the red carpet.

00:53:24I'm going to go film.

00:53:28He got that small.

00:53:32Wow.

00:53:34You look good.

00:53:36How are you?

00:53:37How are you?

00:53:38How are you?

00:53:39How are you?

00:53:39He's like flying.

00:53:40As long as, okay.

00:53:43She looked like stunning.

00:53:46She looked stunning.

00:53:48The hug that she gave me was very awkward.

00:53:51Hug like a brother!

00:53:52She hung like a little, like,

00:53:54hold like a brother like a side hug.

00:53:58Even the baseball, they give you a little Spanky.

00:54:00Oh, good job boy.

00:54:02Oh, bam.

00:54:05Introduce me to you.

00:54:06Oh yeah, that's this тоже.

00:54:07All right.

00:54:08I see you now.

00:54:11How's it going, how's it going, how's it going?

00:54:13That was the first time I met Julia,

00:54:15and then she hugged me with so much sight, like,

00:54:17God damn it, like, Sophie, come on,

00:54:19get Julia's energy, please.

00:54:21You love it?

00:54:22I'm ready to be here, nice to meet you.

00:54:24Nice to meet you. Liz.

00:54:26Okay, ladies, we're going to go out there to the rooftop.

00:54:30You're going to meet my friends, enjoy the night.

00:54:32Follow me, ladies.

00:54:33Which way should we go?

00:54:34How you doing?

00:54:35Good, how are you?

00:54:37Good, good, good.

00:54:38This way?

00:54:39Yeah, thank you.

00:54:49Que lo que, papá.

00:54:50Que lo que, um, guys, let me introduce you.

00:54:55That's my friend Villas, Darlie, Enesis, Rafael, okay?

00:55:01She's Sophie, Julia, and Liz.

00:55:04Oh, yeah, nice to meet you.

00:55:07Well, how was the band?

00:55:09Was good?

00:55:09Yeah, yeah, it was here.

00:55:11Good job, guys.

00:55:12They helped me.

00:55:13Oh, yeah, it was super cute.

00:55:16I can tell Pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me,

00:55:21which, it's nice, but it feels like I'm, like, walking into,

00:55:25like, a job interview, or, like, I'm supposed to give a speech or something,

00:55:28because they were just sat there, like, this at me.

00:55:32Okay.

00:55:33Should we sit?

00:55:34Uh, let me...

00:55:38I already feel like there's expectation of me,

00:55:41and I'm kind of brought here as Pedro's girlfriend.

00:55:45It's just kind of freaking me out a little bit.

00:55:49One, three.

00:55:50Let's just go pee.

00:55:51Okay, yeah.

00:55:52We're just gonna go to the bottom real quick.

00:55:53Okay, go to the bottom.

00:55:55Do you know where the bottom at?

00:55:56We'll find it.

00:55:58Huh?

00:55:58We'll find it.

00:56:05That's...

00:56:06That energy, bro.

00:56:08I don't know.

00:56:09What's life?

00:56:10I don't know.

00:56:11I don't know.

00:56:12I don't know.

00:56:13Wait, wait, wait.

00:56:14What's very awkward?

00:56:16I'm so excited that Sophie is here,

00:56:18but right now,

00:56:19it's...

00:56:19it's feel cold,

00:56:21indifference,

00:56:22weird,

00:56:23you know,

00:56:24like,

00:56:25awkward.

00:56:26Sophie,

00:56:27entirely different person than I've met before.

00:56:33Sexually, he is...

00:56:34He's good.

00:56:35He's great with me.

00:56:36And his is big,

00:56:37so there you go.

00:56:39Even though I'm in my 50s,

00:56:41I still have urges,

00:56:42I still have needs.

00:56:45Boo.

00:56:58I have plans to...

00:57:00hook up right now.

00:57:02Oh-oh!

00:57:03Whoa!

00:57:04All right!

00:57:05I'm feeling too flat.

00:57:07Yeah.

00:57:08I've been going way up.

00:57:09Yeah.

00:57:10Give me my paper,

00:57:11cause you already know.

00:57:12Wait, wait!

00:57:14So, like,

00:57:16a booty call.

00:57:17A booty call.

00:57:18Yeah.

00:57:19So,

00:57:19a booty call is when you're not in a relationship

00:57:22and you just meet up with one of your little friends

00:57:25and, you know,

00:57:26you have some drinky drinks

00:57:27and then do the deed

00:57:29and then you just go home.

00:57:31Even though I'm in my 50s,

00:57:33I still have urges,

00:57:34I still have needs,

00:57:35and it, like, gets the needs met.

00:57:37You know what?

00:57:38It's a step in the right direction.

00:57:41Why not?

00:57:42I'm meeting up with Benjamin,

00:57:44or as everybody calls him,

00:57:45B.

00:57:46He's a really good friend of mine

00:57:47and I dated him for about six months

00:57:49before I met Usman.

00:57:51Once Usman and I broke up and he knew it,

00:57:54he just slid right in the DMs

00:57:56and we've been banging it out ever since.

00:58:01It's tricky with me and B,

00:58:02because the connection is there.

00:58:04Like, you can feel it, you know?

00:58:05But he's just a friend with benefits.

00:58:08Okay.

00:58:08I just don't feel like we're at that point

00:58:10to make it a relationship.

00:58:12When B and I tried to date, like,

00:58:14five, six years ago,

00:58:16we were doing pretty good.

00:58:17We have a lot of things in common.

00:58:19And then about six months in,

00:58:21B hit me up with he wanted to be,

00:58:22like, in a thropple.

00:58:24He wanted me to have sex with the woman,

00:58:27and I was just like,

00:58:28are you high?

00:58:29No.

00:58:30I'm not doing that.

00:58:31He was very free-spirited back then

00:58:33and Kim was not.

00:58:34Sexually, B is...

00:58:35He's good.

00:58:36He's great with me.

00:58:37And his is big.

00:58:38So there you go.

00:58:39What?

00:58:39You had that with Usman, though.

00:58:41It was the same thing.

00:58:42You had the connection,

00:58:43but there was all these other red flags.

00:58:45That's how I feel,

00:58:46and I don't want the red flags.

00:58:47No.

00:58:48Being a woman of a certain age,

00:58:51that we all are,

00:58:54it is refreshing for me to see her

00:59:00having a little bit of a hoe phase.

00:59:03You know what?

00:59:04I'm all for that.

00:59:05Are you for that?

00:59:05Yeah, I think she, I mean...

00:59:07Get it out of her system for a little bit

00:59:08until she finds the right one.

00:59:10Friends with benefits,

00:59:11whatever they have,

00:59:12is a good connection.

00:59:13I'm down for it.

00:59:14Okay, love you.

00:59:15All right, bye.

00:59:16Love you.

00:59:16Love you too.

00:59:17But we want her to find somebody

00:59:19that is truly special

00:59:21and truly someone

00:59:22that she can fall in love with,

00:59:23and that loves her.

00:59:25True.

00:59:26He ain't the one.

00:59:27No.

00:59:27But for tonight, he is the one.

00:59:36B and I have been hooking up

00:59:37every couple weeks

00:59:38in some really nice hotels

00:59:40because he has roommates,

00:59:41and with my house,

00:59:42I never know if Jamal's gonna show up or not.

00:59:49At first, it was a little inconvenient,

00:59:51but I have to tell you,

00:59:52like, hotel sex is kind of hot.

00:59:54Nice hotel sex.

00:59:55Double touch, double touch, double touch,

00:59:57double touch, double touch, double touch.

01:00:04Ooh.

01:00:05Ooh.

01:00:06Yeah!

01:00:08Come on in.

01:00:08I've been waiting to see you.

01:00:13It's good to see you, Michelle.

01:00:14I know, I know.

01:00:16Hell yeah.

01:00:17Come on in.

01:00:17Come on in, come on in.

01:00:18Ooh, this is nice, B.

01:00:19I know, right?

01:00:20So much nicer than those old hotels

01:00:22we used to get in.

01:00:23Uh-oh.

01:00:24Man.

01:00:25Back in the day.

01:00:26You're not crazy.

01:00:27Absolutely.

01:00:27Look at us now.

01:00:28You look beautiful, as usual.

01:00:30Thank you. I try.

01:00:31My name is Benjamin,

01:00:33but everybody calls me B

01:00:35because I'm like the bumblebee.

01:00:37I'll always be buzzing around,

01:00:39and you never know where I'll land at.

01:00:41This is a good bed.

01:00:42This is nice.

01:00:43Look at that.

01:00:44This is a big bed.

01:00:45This is a big bed.

01:00:46The reason why me and Kim

01:00:47keep coming back to each other

01:00:48is definitely because of the friendship

01:00:50that we have together.

01:00:51She's somebody I definitely like.

01:00:54I rock with.

01:00:56So I went to this, like, dating event thing.

01:00:59Today?

01:00:59Yeah.

01:01:00See, this is why I love you,

01:01:01because we can talk about this stuff, right?

01:01:03Of course. Of course.

01:01:03Of course.

01:01:04So it was Laura and Jody and my friend Lily.

01:01:06Right.

01:01:07And they pitched me,

01:01:08so it was called Pitch a Friend.

01:01:10It was a slideshow presentation.

01:01:12Like a real slideshow?

01:01:14Yes.

01:01:14Like with pictures?

01:01:15Yeah, of me.

01:01:16And then, like, my likes and dislikes

01:01:18and all this stuff.

01:01:19Wow.

01:01:19So it was cool.

01:01:20It was very touching,

01:01:20but it just was not my thing.

01:01:23Sometimes I tell B about me, like,

01:01:25meeting other guys

01:01:26or, like, this whole Pitch a Friend thing,

01:01:27because I want to see what he's going to say.

01:01:29Like, don't do that.

01:01:31Let me try to be your man.

01:01:32B and I are good together,

01:01:33and I know he sees it.

01:01:34And I was kind of hoping that with age

01:01:37that B would, like, you know,

01:01:38calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades

01:01:40and want to be in a monogamous relationship.

01:01:43We've known each other forever.

01:01:45Yeah, I miss you so much.

01:01:46I miss you, too.

01:01:47Like, we're cool.

01:01:48Like, we're friends with benefits now,

01:01:49and I love that.

01:01:50But, like, I'd like maybe to see it grow

01:01:52to see what else it could be.

01:01:55We've always talked about it, you know?

01:01:57And the only way we're going to find that out

01:01:59is with more time.

01:02:00Mm-hmm.

01:02:01We should plan, like, once every two weeks.

01:02:04When we can.

01:02:08You haven't even been to my house yet.

01:02:09No, but I'm...

01:02:10It's so crazy.

01:02:11I'm coming.

01:02:17Yeah.

01:02:18Okay.

01:02:19I am tired, and I just want to go take a shower.

01:02:21Is that okay?

01:02:22Yeah, of course.

01:02:23Okay.

01:02:24I'll give you a massage once I get out of the shower.

01:02:27So...

01:02:27I'm just...

01:02:28I'm just...

01:02:29Baby, baby, please.

01:02:31Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.

01:02:32What?

01:02:33Can...

01:02:33Can you show me, like, what that might feel like?

01:02:37Yes.

01:02:37Let's go.

01:02:38Let me see.

01:02:39Let me see.

01:02:41I have good hands.

01:02:43I love B to death,

01:02:44and I would love to be in a relationship with him.

01:02:46And I'm putting out the vibe,

01:02:47but he is not picking up what Kim is putting down.

01:02:50So, I mean, where do we go from here?

01:02:52Ooh.

01:02:53Dang, girl.

01:02:55I'm gonna go take a shower.

01:02:56Ooh.

01:02:56I don't want to be shuffling with my walker

01:02:59up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old.

01:03:01I just want more for myself.

01:03:03So, if B doesn't step up soon, I mean,

01:03:05this whole relationship is gonna have an expiration date.

01:03:08I'm not gonna keep waiting.

01:03:13I'm traveling today to see Natalie again.

01:03:16God, aren't these sexy?

01:03:18I mean, holy cow.

01:03:19I hope she gives me a second chance.

01:03:21And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:03:40Why are you packing up shampoo?

01:03:42Well, I gotta wash the hair, right?

01:03:44The little hair that I have,

01:03:46the patch of hair on the back of my head.

01:03:48I shampoo it.

01:03:49I condition it.

01:03:50I take very good care of it.

01:03:52That's the only hair I got left on my head.

01:03:55I've got a good thing going,

01:03:57and I'm never slowing down.

01:04:06I want to look good for Natalie, you know,

01:04:08so I bought a couple of new shirts.

01:04:12Hopefully, she'll like them.

01:04:14I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie.

01:04:18They're colorful.

01:04:20That's for sure.

01:04:22Definitely colorful.

01:04:24I visited Natalie in Vegas previously

01:04:26because that's where her home's at.

01:04:29This time, I'm gonna travel to D.C.

01:04:32because she's currently working remotely there.

01:04:34God, aren't these sexy?

01:04:36I mean, holy cow, that's some sexy-ass underwear right here.

01:04:40A lot of our talks through text and such

01:04:43has been a lot of small talk, to be honest,

01:04:46and hasn't been very deep.

01:04:49So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me.

01:04:54But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment

01:04:57if she didn't have any feelings for me.

01:05:01I don't need my little blue pills.

01:05:03I'm not packing any.

01:05:06Because the little blue pills I need for someone

01:05:08that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch.

01:05:13Then I need something to pump me up.

01:05:15But Natalie's a different story

01:05:16because just her personality and attitude, the way she is,

01:05:21I'm gonna get it up, man.

01:05:25All right.

01:05:25I think we got it.

01:05:28Whoo-hoo!

01:05:32I'm in the thrift store

01:05:34Wondering what to do with my life

01:05:36And through the back door

01:05:38And she comes sharp as the knife

01:05:40Time to board.

01:05:42I'll see you soon, Natalie.

01:05:43I've been through so much misery and heartbreak

01:05:46for the last two years,

01:05:48so trying to put myself out there again,

01:05:51then it's not easy.

01:05:56But there's not many times that you can get a second chance,

01:06:01and especially with a woman that's high quality,

01:06:04like Natalie is.

01:06:12Good morning.

01:06:13Good morning.

01:06:14How are you?

01:06:16Doing great.

01:06:17Doing great.

01:06:17My first time in Washington, D.C.

01:06:19I'm excited.

01:06:20I hope you enjoy your stay.

01:06:23I'm so excited to be here to see

01:06:25who I'm meeting today.

01:06:27On top of her having that great personality

01:06:29and caring and fun and kind,

01:06:32she is a hot, sexy, passionate Latina, let me tell you.

01:06:36She's on fire, man.

01:06:37She's on fire, baby.

01:06:42Oh, is this it?

01:06:43Yeah, this is it.

01:06:46You're welcome.

01:06:46I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office.

01:06:49The plan is to catch up a little

01:06:51and then go check out her apartment.

01:07:06How are you feeling?

01:07:09Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her.

01:07:13But I have some nervousness.

01:07:15It's a little nerve wracking.

01:07:21My heart's racing a bit.

01:07:24That's what Natalie does to me.

01:07:37I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance.

01:07:40But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.

01:07:44Hey.

01:07:48What is your name again?

01:07:50Via.

01:07:50Via?

01:07:51Nice to meet you.

01:07:51Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:07:54No.

01:07:54There we go.

01:07:55There we go.

01:07:56Via is very good looking and he smells expensive.

01:08:03Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced,

01:08:05he would still be mad.

01:08:06Any hookups with him?

01:08:09I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody

01:08:12they don't know what it wants.

01:08:13What the we doing here?

01:08:23How do you feel right now?

01:08:25I don't know why his energy just gives me like,

01:08:27I just feel like in his head we're in a relationship.

01:08:30Like if you ask him, I feel like he's like,

01:08:32yeah, that's my girl.

01:08:42They take a long time in the restroom.

01:08:44What are they doing?

01:08:47Nobody tell you.

01:08:48You can have fun.

01:08:49Just have fun.

01:08:50I feel like he won't let me have fun now.

01:08:53Like now he's going to feel like she's in my country.

01:08:56She's meeting my friends.

01:08:58Like I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong mind.

01:09:01You just loosen up a little bit with a couple of drinks

01:09:02and then you will be good.

01:09:05Let's just think it goes.

01:09:07It'll be a good night.

01:09:08Yeah.

01:09:09You know what?

01:09:10Help me meet my man.

01:09:12Kitty's thirsty.

01:09:15Me and the girls just arrived at the club

01:09:17to meet Pedro and his friends

01:09:18and it's a very overwhelming environment.

01:09:22Sorry.

01:09:22You can sit down.

01:09:25You can see over here, Sophie.

01:09:27I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van

01:09:29and now I just feel like he's thinking

01:09:31this is my girlfriend,

01:09:32she's meeting all my friends

01:09:33and it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before.

01:09:36Which that's what I loved before.

01:09:38It was so easy going

01:09:39and this feels a little bit,

01:09:40a little bit pressure.

01:09:42Lisa, I'm going to introduce it to my friend, Villa.

01:09:45What is your name again?

01:09:46Villa.

01:09:47Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:09:48Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:09:49No, I don't think so.

01:09:50What are we doing?

01:09:51She can't get you there.

01:09:52No, there we go, there we go.

01:09:54Villa is very good looking.

01:09:58He's very well groomed,

01:10:00like his haircut's on point

01:10:02and he smells really good.

01:10:05He smells expensive.

01:10:08Cheers, thank you for inviting us all.

01:10:10We said,

01:10:11here we go.

01:10:12Arriba,

01:10:13uuwe!

01:10:14Arriba,

01:10:15abajo,

01:10:16pal centro,

01:10:17pal dentro.

01:10:19We go upstairs.

01:10:22That's it?

01:10:22Banchata DJ!

01:10:24You done?

01:10:25Nice.

01:10:26It's when I begin to look like,

01:10:27one,

01:10:28two,

01:10:33Hey, you got it!

01:10:40As we're dancing I can tell we're both very attracted to each other get close get close to me

01:10:46No, get close to me nobody

01:10:49It just smells really good. He dresses well, and he's just hot

01:10:53But even though I'm attracted to him

01:10:55I don't want to like be all over him the first night and lead him on because I still don't

01:10:59really know what I want yet

01:11:02So you've never danced much out there before I was trying to find out about the lessons while I'm out

01:11:06here

01:11:06It's so easy. I can teach you that

01:11:11We can start here, right so it's one two three

01:11:30You lied to me you said she didn't know she said she

01:11:40Let's go over here better

01:11:43Everyone just left that's okay

01:11:47They needed that alone time

01:11:49You look beautiful. You look gorgeous. Thank you. Thank you. I'm super happy that you're here

01:11:55That you take the invitation to come in here just spend a little time with me. I know you want

01:12:00to have the best time

01:12:02I woke up, but I had a pina colada for breakfast

01:12:05Because I'm in a DR

01:12:08Wow

01:12:09Wow

01:12:09That's a lot

01:12:11You don't need classes

01:12:12No class? No

01:12:13I think Liz likes your friend. Yeah, look

01:12:16Do you? Yeah

01:12:19So are you from here or are you from?

01:12:21I was born in Atlanta

01:12:23When's your birthday?

01:12:25When's your birthday? September

01:12:26September? I'm May, baby. I'm a Gemini

01:12:29You're a Gemini?

01:12:31Yeah, what is your size?

01:12:32I'm a Libra

01:12:33Okay

01:12:33I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced

01:12:36Which is?

01:12:38Is this your only tattoo? Oh

01:12:40Yeah

01:12:40Wow

01:12:41It's a whole sleeve

01:12:42It's a Libra

01:12:43So a woman with the blindfold and the scale

01:12:48What's this?

01:12:49Oh, it's my son's name

01:12:51I have a kid

01:12:55Riley Leanne

01:12:56You have a kid? Yeah

01:12:57Really?

01:12:58She's gonna be 12

01:12:59You have a 12 year old? Yeah

01:13:01My baby means everything to me

01:13:03Same

01:13:04Yeah

01:13:04Same, he is my reason for everything

01:13:08Definitely

01:13:08Oh

01:13:10I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via

01:13:13He'll be 8 in July

01:13:15He's sweet

01:13:16He loves his kid

01:13:17He's making eye contact with me

01:13:19We're having great conversation

01:13:22I think we need a drink to that

01:13:24I think we need a shot

01:13:26Is your friend at home?

01:13:28He is?

01:13:29I know

01:13:30He is at home

01:13:31It's okay, Liz is in her single era

01:13:34So this is her time to just like live her life a little bit

01:13:37Same with me, I'm not in a toxic relationship

01:13:40You're separated right now, are you still married?

01:13:42Are you divorced?

01:13:45How

01:13:46How that goes?

01:13:48Like I'm still suddenly married

01:13:49But I'm like starting the process of divorce

01:13:52But we still

01:13:53How far you are now?

01:13:55Like

01:13:56Just now

01:13:58So it's very new

01:14:00It never really felt like it was the end

01:14:03Because he would still call me

01:14:04He still called you?

01:14:05He called me two days ago, 4 in the morning

01:14:07For what?

01:14:08It was an unknown number

01:14:09Because I have me blocked

01:14:10And he was like

01:14:10Why do you have me blocked?

01:14:12I'm like

01:14:12We're getting divorced

01:14:15Why

01:14:16Why are you so upset with you?

01:14:17Like

01:14:17Why are you not going to move on?

01:14:18Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced

01:14:20Like, he would still be mad

01:14:22I thought that Sophie and her husband divorced

01:14:25Was more fired alone

01:14:27Because

01:14:28She tell me

01:14:29He was

01:14:29The worst husband

01:14:31That he

01:14:31He made her like

01:14:32Miserable

01:14:33All the time

01:14:34If that guy threw you that bad

01:14:36Why you get the phone calls

01:14:38And answer the phone?

01:14:40Any hookers with him?

01:14:48Yeah

01:14:50We like

01:14:51We like hooked up after a few months

01:14:52Because

01:14:53As much as that guy was horrible to me

01:14:55I still had love for him

01:14:56When he was being nice to me

01:14:58I forgot about all the bad memories

01:15:00And

01:15:00So we slept together

01:15:04They've been hookups

01:15:05And she never told me they did hookups before

01:15:08I am speechless

01:15:10It's hard when you love someone

01:15:11I can't just be like

01:15:12I you, bye

01:15:13You know?

01:15:15Look, if you want to be with Rob

01:15:16Okay, be with Rob

01:15:17Or be with

01:15:18Every guy that you want to be

01:15:20But

01:15:20I don't want to be

01:15:21Damaged

01:15:22For somebody

01:15:23They don't know what it wants

01:15:24What the we doing here?

01:15:30I wish I would have just handled

01:15:31This whole situation better

01:15:33You know

01:15:34But now I have to just

01:15:35I wish you did too

01:15:36I've been carrying a really big secret

01:15:38For about 30 years

01:15:39I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad

01:15:41I don't know

01:15:42I don't know what I up

01:15:43You know?

01:15:51You can't deny it

01:15:53I'm the queen of the sea

01:15:54I'm a lion

01:15:55I'm just getting home from my night with B

01:15:58Even at 55

01:15:59I'm still doing the walk of shame

01:16:01Hey

01:16:03I'm not gonna fall in your mind

01:16:06Hey

01:16:07I'm a hard working woman

01:16:08And I do what I like

01:16:10Hey

01:16:10Come on, let me give you some treats

01:16:14Hey

01:16:15Hey my baby

01:16:16Here

01:16:19Last night was pretty amazing

01:16:20B's really good in bed

01:16:22I have to say

01:16:24And usually after a night like that

01:16:26I'm feeling all zen

01:16:27And woosah

01:16:28And you know, calm

01:16:29But

01:16:29Right now

01:16:30I'm feeling a little anxious

01:16:31And nervous

01:16:31Because Jamal's coming over

01:16:34So good to be out of those clothes

01:16:36Oh my god

01:16:36He thinks he's coming over here

01:16:38To help me build a dresser

01:16:39Oh

01:16:40But really

01:16:40I have some things

01:16:41I need to talk to him about

01:16:49Ding dong

01:16:50Hey

01:16:51What's up?

01:16:51How are you?

01:16:53Good

01:16:53How are you?

01:16:54I'm good

01:16:55I'm good

01:16:56So this is a dresser

01:16:57I want to put in my guest room

01:16:59See?

01:16:59Is it big?

01:17:01It's

01:17:01Look at the picture

01:17:03Okay, here we go

01:17:04So they go

01:17:04A and C

01:17:05E

01:17:06It goes like this

01:17:08Yeah, this is E

01:17:09See?

01:17:10This is so fun

01:17:12So I went out for Girls Night

01:17:14Last night

01:17:14With Laura, Jodi

01:17:16And Lily

01:17:16You know my friend from work, Lily

01:17:17So we went to Mavericks

01:17:19And they had this event

01:17:20Called Pitch Me

01:17:21Yeah

01:17:22Oh no way

01:17:22So they did like a presentation

01:17:23Of like

01:17:24What I'm looking for in a guy

01:17:25And all the guys were like 12, Jamal

01:17:27They weren't even like grown

01:17:29You know?

01:17:29Well I feel like your last couple guys

01:17:32Have been younger

01:17:33So

01:17:35My last one guy

01:17:36Was younger

01:17:38So

01:17:38Well B's not really

01:17:40B's 44

01:17:40So I mean he's

01:17:42What's his real name?

01:17:43Binge name

01:17:43Oh

01:17:44Yeah, B sounds better

01:17:45Yeah

01:17:46But so then he texts me

01:17:48And I went over to a hotel

01:17:51With him last night

01:17:54Sure you don't want to know about that?

01:17:55Yeah, I don't need to hear that

01:17:58Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately

01:18:02I've hid things from him for so long

01:18:04That when I told him

01:18:06That when I told him

01:18:07It just devastated him

01:18:09As long as we're not talking about these things

01:18:12Jamal and I are fine

01:18:13But it's like

01:18:14Everything's hidden under this carpet

01:18:16And I have to pull that carpet away

01:18:17Every now and then

01:18:18And talk about it

01:18:18But Jamal will just hang up on me

01:18:20He won't answer a text

01:18:22He'll walk out the house

01:18:24It's been very uncomfortable

01:18:28You know Larry's coming out here

01:18:32Why is he coming out here?

01:18:33Just to see like

01:18:34You know where I grew up at

01:18:36And you know get a little more of my family history

01:18:40I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better

01:18:44You know but now I have to just

01:18:46I wish you did too

01:18:50You hid him for so long

01:18:55I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years

01:19:02I did what I thought

01:19:03What I thought was right

01:19:03Yeah but why'd you hide him for so long?

01:19:10Just give me a second

01:19:14Jamal is not my only child

01:19:19This is really hard for me

01:19:27Jamal's dad and I were never married

01:19:30We were together for seven and a half years

01:19:32We were in the military together

01:19:35And he was just cheating all the time

01:19:37It was just like

01:19:39Every day there was like a different girl

01:19:43When I got pregnant with my first son Larry

01:19:45First thing his dad said was abort it

01:19:49And I just couldn't do that

01:19:51When I was only 21 years old

01:19:53I couldn't imagine being a single mom

01:19:54I was not mentally ready

01:19:56I was starting my military career

01:19:58I was just not ready

01:20:00So I decided to put my son up for adoption

01:20:02And I never told Jamal until last year

01:20:04When Larry found us through an Ancestry website

01:20:09I don't think you ever would have told me

01:20:10I would have told you

01:20:12I don't think so

01:20:12And that's a huge thing for me

01:20:14Is like

01:20:16I don't think you ever would have told me

01:20:20Because like there was no reason to not tell me

01:20:22I just didn't know how to say it

01:20:25You know?

01:20:25And it's always been like me and you

01:20:27Me and you, me and you

01:20:28And I finally got our relationship to where

01:20:30Like I've always wanted it to be, right?

01:20:33So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret

01:20:36I felt like in my head

01:20:38I was just like

01:20:38Trying to protect myself

01:20:40And then trying to protect you too

01:20:42Because I just didn't

01:20:43Very protecting me

01:20:44I don't know

01:20:44I just didn't know how to handle it

01:20:46I didn't, that's

01:20:47That is the complete truth

01:20:49I did not know how to handle this

01:20:50At all

01:20:51At all

01:20:54Last year

01:20:55I found out

01:20:56I had an older brother

01:20:59Full blood

01:20:59Mommy and Dad

01:21:00And my first thought

01:21:02Was that she was lying

01:21:04And it was a joke or something

01:21:05Because

01:21:08Why would you hide this for so long

01:21:10When we're so close

01:21:11And then when I found out it was true

01:21:12I was just really pissed off

01:21:14I have this whole other family

01:21:15And you knew about it

01:21:18And I'm like

01:21:18How could my own mom like

01:21:22Look me in my eyes

01:21:22When she knows I have a whole brother

01:21:27Dude

01:21:28That's just not something I'm like

01:21:31Even thought about forgiving yet

01:21:33Cause I just

01:21:33I just don't know who would do that

01:21:35So I'm like

01:21:36Damn

01:21:43I don't know

01:21:44I feel like your mom's the person

01:21:45You're supposed to trust like only

01:21:46Like

01:21:47If you can't trust anyone else

01:21:48You can trust her

01:21:49But now it's like

01:21:50Wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore

01:21:54Oh, I'm like shaking

01:21:59It's like hard for me to look at you

01:22:01When we even talk about this whole thing

01:22:03You do make a lot of excuses

01:22:06I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad

01:22:07I don't know

01:22:08I don't know what else

01:22:08I up, you know

01:22:11Like I don't

01:22:12I don't know what else to say to fix it

01:22:15I know keeping Larry from Jamal

01:22:17Was not the right thing to do

01:22:19It ended up just hurting him worse

01:22:22Jamal had every right to know

01:22:24That he had a brother out there

01:22:26And now all I'm trying to do

01:22:27Is just repair what I

01:22:28Up

01:22:31Last year Jamal and I

01:22:32Went to North Carolina

01:22:33To meet Larry, his wife

01:22:35And his son

01:22:37Meeting Larry for the first time

01:22:39Was like crazy

01:22:40Because I'm looking at him

01:22:42I'm like

01:22:42Okay, this is my blood

01:22:43This is my son

01:22:45And he has my face

01:22:46He looks just like me

01:22:47But he's a total stranger to me

01:22:51And technically

01:22:52I'm a grandma

01:22:54It's a surreal feeling

01:22:57But I'm so relieved

01:23:00Because he was such a good man

01:23:02And I don't know how he would have turned out

01:23:04If I would have kept him, you know

01:23:06It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing

01:23:10Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry

01:23:14And I invited him to San Diego

01:23:15So I could get to know him more

01:23:17And he could see where I'm from

01:23:21What do you think you even want to do with Larry

01:23:23Once he comes out here?

01:23:24Like what's next?

01:23:25You think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him?

01:23:26I have to have a deep talk with him

01:23:28About what?

01:23:33About the other one

01:23:50How do you think he's gonna react?

01:23:51I think he's gonna be pissed

01:23:53He's gonna be really upset with me

01:23:55Hey, by the way

01:23:58You have a sister

01:23:58Like the

01:24:02Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption

01:24:06I also had a daughter

01:24:17This season on The Single Life

01:24:19This is the kind of life that I want

01:24:24Where I can have fun with my partner

01:24:28You're getting me all hot

01:24:30Oh yeah?

01:24:31This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for

01:24:34Nice to meet you

01:24:36I'll never see you again

01:24:38I was helping him upload something on social media

01:24:41And it shows me all the women he's been messaging

01:24:44Something's fishy about this

01:24:46Courtney's worried that I'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day

01:24:50Are you still living that way, dude?

01:24:52Be honest with me

01:24:52Well, um...

01:24:56How are you?

01:24:57A wreck

01:24:57I'm like shaking

01:24:59I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me

01:25:03Here, sit

01:25:04But I want to tell him now and I'm really scared

01:25:07What if he just turns around and leaves?

01:25:09What if he never speaks to me again?

01:25:12How are you doing?

01:25:16Do you mind if I have a dance?

01:25:18It's my girl

01:25:19Are you serious?

01:25:20I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else

01:25:23I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with

01:25:26So you're stopping me from being who I am?

01:25:29You don't see a problem here at all

01:25:30What is the freaking problem?

01:25:32I think the problem is actually us

01:25:33I'm done with this

01:25:36Yesterday, I was talking police

01:25:37And she made me feel

01:25:39Maybe I do have another guy in your mind

01:25:41But why would she tell you that?

01:25:43I don't want Sophie to play games with me

01:25:45I'm not interested in that

01:25:48Hell no, not with me

01:25:50Everything I told you, he knows

01:25:53You've never had my back

01:25:54Yes I have!

01:25:56That's breaking girl codes

01:25:58Like, you don't do that

01:26:00Go the home, Liz

01:26:02Have yours!

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