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00:00:01You're special and I am in love with you.
00:00:06Philip finally confessed those magic words.
00:00:10Oh God, I feel like I'm going to cry.
00:00:12But Stella was left feeling triggered.
00:00:15Fear of rejection, not rejection, abandonment.
00:00:17You alright?
00:00:18So I'm dealing with that right now, so...
00:00:21Despite Rachel and Stephen's romantic progression...
00:00:25Made second base.
00:00:27And we've had...
00:00:30They became the butt of the joke at the couple's retreat.
00:00:34Don't even want to be around here anymore.
00:00:37When the group turned on Beck and Danny...
00:00:39Every night you've been the dumbest...
00:00:42The pair made an abrupt exit.
00:00:46And at the dinner party...
00:00:48I've got all this in the screenshots. I've got it in text messages.
00:00:50Gia declared she was sitting on explosive evidence against Beck.
00:00:54I could ruin everything for her right now.
00:00:57She said...
00:00:58Oh!
00:00:59Are you kidding?
00:01:02Tonight.
00:01:04Beck has gotten away with a lot in this experiment.
00:01:07She's done a lot of things wrong by a lot of people.
00:01:10So, I think the screenshots, if they are aired out, they help me because what I've been saying this whole
00:01:16time is she is a calculated evil person.
00:01:18And those screenshots show that.
00:01:21With only three commitment ceremonies remaining, the stakes have never been so high.
00:01:27I'm just excited for the next four weeks and see where we end up.
00:01:31I do see a future with her.
00:01:33Come forward with me.
00:01:35I love you.
00:01:36Yeah, put me on the spot a little bit.
00:01:38But are all of our couples on the same page?
00:01:45Um...
00:01:46If you're so terrified of making someone pregnant, maybe just do a snip.
00:01:50It's the sensitive topic...
00:01:52Has anyone heard of condoms?
00:01:54...that will leave some divided.
00:01:57It's irreversible.
00:01:58But it's a procedure.
00:02:00...before Stella's blindside...
00:02:03...threatens to tear apart the experiment's strongest couple.
00:02:07If I'm being honest with myself and with Philip, this is a breakup.
00:02:14No.
00:02:17Will Gia reveal her evidence against Beck?
00:02:20We do not like you.
00:02:21Don't lie about me then.
00:02:22You're trying to make me look bad.
00:02:23You're interrupting our card session. Shut up.
00:02:26And...
00:02:26I don't think this experiment is for me.
00:02:30What causes not one...
00:02:32Jules!
00:02:33No.
00:02:33Did you just hear that?
00:02:34But two participants to storm out.
00:02:38She's gone.
00:02:53It's the morning of the fifth commitment ceremony of the experiment.
00:02:57And despite the intensity of the week, our couple's connections have become even stronger.
00:03:04Gosh, you're torn.
00:03:07I'm really grateful for you.
00:03:13After reluctantly finding themselves in the spotlight at the retreat, last night's dinner party helped Rachel and Stephen regain their
00:03:22strength as a couple.
00:03:24Yeah, I'm feeling good about us and, you know, the dinner party wasn't as bad as I thought it was
00:03:30going to be.
00:03:31I feel like we came out really, really good.
00:03:32And also a bit of PDA in front of the group, babe.
00:03:35Happy New Year.
00:03:37Happy New Year.
00:03:38Happy New Year.
00:03:39Happy New Year.
00:03:39Happy New Year.
00:03:44I was a happy girl.
00:03:45Like, yeah.
00:03:47Very, very happy.
00:03:48Last week at retreat, like, it wasn't just one of us coming under, like, that humiliation.
00:03:55It was our relationship and we had to work through that as a couple.
00:03:59And what that really showed me is when there are trying times, we can work through that.
00:04:05And that's really, really reassuring.
00:04:07Yeah, I'm feeling good about us and hopefully we can move forward and no more hiccups.
00:04:12But at the same time, it feels like there's still, like, you know, some awkward tension simmering at the top.
00:04:19I don't know if Juliet maybe wanted to say more to Beck or...
00:04:22I hope not.
00:04:24Can I just say, my husband and I are done.
00:04:28We're done talking about retreat.
00:04:30On that note, I think we should make some coffee.
00:04:32Thanks for that.
00:04:33Oh.
00:04:34You want a coffee?
00:04:35Yes, please.
00:04:36No worries.
00:04:37Oh, gosh.
00:04:38He's never done this before.
00:04:40Come on.
00:04:40Oh.
00:04:46The pressure of the retreat also took a toll on Beck and Danny.
00:04:51Oh.
00:04:52Who came close to leaving the experiment for good.
00:04:56But through it all, they found resilience in their relationship.
00:05:00And to lift spirits, today, Danny has a small surprise for Beck.
00:05:06So I got you a card and your favourite chocolate bar.
00:05:10You're so cute.
00:05:12Oh.
00:05:13And it's got a gift in the card.
00:05:18There's two date cards which can be cashed in any time.
00:05:21You're so cute.
00:05:25You're so cute.
00:05:28You're so cute.
00:05:29Me and Beck, we've never been in a better place than at the minute.
00:05:33You know, we're in a really good place.
00:05:34We're really united, really strong.
00:05:36And yeah, things are really progressing well for me and Beck.
00:05:40So it's nice.
00:05:41I am so happy that we didn't leave.
00:05:44I left the retreat thinking there was more hate than there was love.
00:05:48So I'm really glad that we chose to stay.
00:05:51Yeah.
00:05:51Last night I was really, really anxious before going into the dinner party.
00:05:55I was obviously apprehensive going in, not knowing what I was going to, not knowing what I was getting into.
00:06:01Didn't know if Juliet was going to attack again.
00:06:04And even though Jira and Juliet sat on the couch and didn't come up to us, there was more love
00:06:10in that room for us than there was hate.
00:06:12I think it went well.
00:06:14Like, I was a bit disappointed with the apology.
00:06:16She tried to fluff around it.
00:06:18For me, when it comes to Juliet, I do not want anything to do with her.
00:06:25I accept her apology on the surface, but we will never, ever, ever, ever be friends.
00:06:31I think Juliet apologized because the experts were watching.
00:06:36My delivery and me calling you names was disgusting and vile, and I definitely should have not done that.
00:06:43But in the heat of the moment, I felt angry.
00:06:47Just kind of felt like, you know, you were speaking for Rachel's relationship and saying that they were in a
00:06:53massive fight.
00:06:55The argument at retreat was between Rachel and I, and Juliet's excuse was, I was standing up for Rachel.
00:07:02No, honey.
00:07:03You weren't standing up for Rachel.
00:07:04This is just the crux of who you are.
00:07:08Bec and Danny aren't the only couple reflecting on Juliet's behavior last night.
00:07:14I'm so stoked and I'm so relieved that Juliet didn't pop off at Bec.
00:07:20Otherwise, I was going to step in because it was getting a bit too much.
00:07:22So, I'm really thankful that we didn't have to get to that point and that Juliet actually articulated herself well.
00:07:28She apologized, she seemed genuine, and yeah, I'm glad it didn't escalate.
00:07:33Yeah, I thought it went well.
00:07:34Yeah.
00:07:35I wouldn't go as far as saying I'm proud of Juliet.
00:07:37I feel like she f***ed up the exact same way two times back to back and kind of still had
00:07:42a lot of, like, butts and rebuttals to, like, everything last night.
00:07:45Yeah.
00:07:45She was still like, I'm sorry, but I'm sorry about it.
00:07:47Well, for me, I'm proud of her.
00:07:47She's my friend, so.
00:07:48Yeah, yeah, you can be, I'm not saying.
00:07:49I'm proud of her.
00:07:50You're allowed to be proud of her.
00:07:50Yeah.
00:07:50I'm just saying that, like, I just feel like I'm going to keep her at arm's length because I still
00:07:55just don't trust her much at the moment.
00:07:58I see it as a small step that she apologized and she didn't go back to the old Juliet and
00:08:02for that reason I'm proud of her.
00:08:04Yeah.
00:08:04So, I'll stick with that.
00:08:05Yeah.
00:08:06You don't have to have the same opinion as me.
00:08:07Yeah, no, no, I didn't say I had to.
00:08:09I'm just telling you I'm proud of her.
00:08:10Yeah, yeah.
00:08:10Yeah, cool.
00:08:19I'm just feeling defeated, I guess.
00:08:23Juliet has woken this morning, still upset about last night's intense dinner party.
00:08:31It was just me being empathetic for Rach's situation and feeling it, like, in full force, like, that's what I
00:08:38do as an empath.
00:08:39I feel people's pain in full force and I take it on, which, like, I probably should have not done
00:08:47for someone who was just going to help kick me down a bit further.
00:08:51And that's what I felt like Rach did.
00:08:54Like, I feel like I would never, ever, ever help to, like, humiliate and shame someone who stood up for
00:09:03me in any degree, really.
00:09:05I just feel like I've been, like, a rock for so many people this week.
00:09:10And when time came to it, I didn't see those people around me.
00:09:17The only reason I have the situation with Bec right now is because I've been defending others all week over
00:09:24it, feeling their hurt and joining in on it.
00:09:27Like, I'm here to be a rock and an empath to people.
00:09:31I just hope to get the same back sometimes.
00:09:35Have you spoken to Gia since last night?
00:09:38Um, she's checked in on me this morning.
00:09:41Do you think you guys will be okay going in the future?
00:09:43Yeah, I definitely love her.
00:09:45I'm right or die for Gia.
00:09:47Do you think Gia is still right or die for you?
00:09:50Yeah, I mean, her texting me this morning to check in.
00:09:53And I've also got a missed call from her.
00:09:57Like, that's really nice.
00:09:59And I love her and I miss her.
00:10:00And I think when I saw that, like, tease stream down my face,
00:10:03because I really, really, really, really love her.
00:10:08If someone has bitched about Gia, yeah, like, I'm done with them.
00:10:11And obviously that gets me caught in other situations.
00:10:17It's my character, though. I'm a right or die for my friends.
00:10:29As the commitment ceremony draws closer,
00:10:32our couples are all getting set to face the experts.
00:10:43But for one participant, tonight's focus has been shifted
00:10:48to exposing another bride in the experiment.
00:11:00Gia has been sitting on some damning text messages written by Beck.
00:11:07But instead of planning to reveal the messages herself,
00:11:12Gia has chosen to share the text messages with another participant.
00:11:33Gia has chosen to share the text messages with another participant.
00:11:45You look stunning as always
00:11:47Thanks, so do you give it a ceremony. I know a bit interesting at the moment though. I gotta say
00:11:53what's wrong?
00:11:55Last night. I was talking to Juliet. I
00:11:58Showed her some screen sort of some things that Bec's been saying
00:12:02using disgusting language
00:12:05So then I actually was getting my nails done and when I walked into the nail salon Bec was leaving
00:12:10the nail salon and
00:12:12Started talking shit about Juliet. So I called Juliet and I said hey, just letting you know I ran into
00:12:17Bec
00:12:18She said this and she's like cool. Well sick of this bitch talking about me. So
00:12:22She's gone and printed out some screenshots so that if the experts come at her for using that language
00:12:27I'm sure Bec would deny using that language and go. Oh, I don't talk like that
00:12:31Juliet will probably just drop a screenshot of Bec saying language like that
00:12:37I don't agree with the language Juliet used I
00:12:40I think it was a bit inappropriate and too far, but
00:12:43The screenshots show that Bec is very comfortable using that kind of language
00:12:48So I don't know like I don't know what way it's gonna go tonight some things in the message that
00:12:53were really disgusting
00:12:54Bec has gotten away with a lot of shit in this experiment
00:12:57She's done a lot of things wrong by a lot of people some of them are still unaware that she's
00:13:01done this behind closed doors
00:13:02So I think the screenshots if they are aired out
00:13:06Um, they helped me because what I've been saying this whole time is she is a calculated evil person and
00:13:12those screenshots show that
00:13:15I don't blame Juliet she's she's now got them in her hands and she's gonna do what she's gonna do
00:13:20with them
00:13:20So if Juliet feels that she needs to do this tonight then Juliet should do this
00:13:28I don't know I don't know I don't know what to expect
00:13:31Could blow out a proportion. That's for sure. Whatever happens happens. Yeah, nothing's gonna affect us
00:14:04Good evening. Good evening gentlemen. Hello
00:14:07Welcome gents
00:14:09Hello
00:14:11What do you mean welcome
00:14:24Hello ladies and gents
00:14:27Hey guys
00:14:28Hello
00:14:29Hello
00:14:33Hey bub
00:14:33Darling, how are you going?
00:14:43Welcome everybody to the fifth commitment ceremony now it has been a very eventful week for all of you
00:14:50Coming off the back of a couples retreat
00:14:55Now we do this task and it is a pivotal one every single time during the experiment
00:15:01So that we can see how you operate as couples
00:15:06Outside of your normal environment and how your relationship sustains a different type of pressure
00:15:14Certainly from the dinner party that occurred last night
00:15:18The group has experienced some division
00:15:24We will look at this as well as
00:15:28The individual couples that sit here tonight to find out exactly how you're traveling along
00:15:34But also particularly to get you to think about
00:15:38The very important question of whether or not you can take this relationship from the experiment into the real world
00:15:48And on that note, let's get our first couple up
00:15:57Jira and Scott
00:15:58Great
00:16:00How are you going?
00:16:02Hello
00:16:03Hello
00:16:03You two
00:16:03Hello
00:16:04Welcome
00:16:08All right you two, well why don't we kick off with the couples retreat, how was it?
00:16:13Do you want to talk?
00:16:14Do you want to talk?
00:16:14Yeah, go
00:16:15Oh
00:16:18Um, I don't know it was quite chill for us well throughout the days obviously
00:16:22No, throughout the days I look at the good stuff
00:16:27Like it was just a lot the retreat to be honest it was just really emotional
00:16:30I think a lot of us are drained from it to be honest
00:16:33Can you tell us a little bit about what you experienced and how it's affected your relationship?
00:16:39Uh, to be honest it hasn't affected our relationship any of the drama
00:16:43I it hasn't at all we've been like he even said the last two days like we're the closest we've
00:16:47ever been I think like
00:16:50You know he's called me his soul mate at the dinner party like I just want to focus on like
00:16:54the positives because
00:16:55I've been involved in drama too much and it's taken a toll on me to be honest
00:17:00I just don't want to focus on it anymore to be honest
00:17:03I think we're near the end and everyone's focusing and should be focusing on our relationships
00:17:07And that's what we're doing and I think when we shut out all that drama like it's even better web
00:17:12great
00:17:14That's just other shit. It's got nothing to do with us
00:17:17It doesn't affect our actual relationship because what we have together is real and that's all that matters so
00:17:24Respectfully for them too. I won't talk to them anymore
00:17:25That's because I want to carry on my relationship and I think it's not good we interact because all it
00:17:29does is bring drama to us
00:17:30Were you and danny friends we were?
00:17:34Like it does suck because we had a good friendship, but well, that's that's one of the things that you
00:17:38know, we need to bring up
00:17:40What we saw at the dinner party was that you've actually had to lose a friendship as a as a
00:17:46result of some of the drama exactly
00:17:49When I walked in the dinner party with beck scott didn't get up to even acknowledge we were in the
00:17:54room
00:17:55I was just a bit disappointed that as a man and as a gentleman you didn't get up to say
00:17:59hello to me and my wife
00:18:03We're doing that so we aren't involved in drama anymore. It's difficult
00:18:06You know at the retreat you yelled out at me that i'm a liar in front of people
00:18:09So like how do you expect my husband's going to react to that you lied about me as well
00:18:13Yeah, but we're trying to move forward and you're interrupting our card session shut up
00:18:30You lied about me as well. Yeah, but we're trying to move forward and you're interrupting our card session shut
00:18:35up
00:18:41We don't care anymore, okay
00:18:44Don't lie about me. We didn't say hello to both of you because we do not like you either. That's
00:18:47fine. Don't lie about me
00:18:48So we're not gonna go say hi fake. How are you? Enough. Not doing it. We're done
00:18:52All right, let's go back to Scott and Gia
00:18:56Yes, please. Thanks. I just want to move on my relationship because that's all that matters
00:19:00That's all we care about. That's what I came here for. I didn't come here for high school shit
00:19:04I came here to find the love of my life and that's it
00:19:09But to be fair
00:19:12Your involvement in the drama has been there right throughout the experiment
00:19:18So we've got to hold you to account and say there is a reason why there's drama
00:19:23swirling around the two of you
00:19:25What you're saying now is that you're making a concerted decision to move away from it right
00:19:33Do you think you can do that?
00:19:36Last dinner party
00:19:37I didn't say anything and I should have and I didn't so I wanted to back Juliet and I
00:19:42I just I said to myself I can't get involved anymore. I can't get involved
00:19:48So Gia how's your relationship been able to move forward?
00:19:53Through this conflict and
00:19:56Not collapse under that pressure. I'll just ignore the shit
00:20:00Also, I feel like our connection is too strong like there's no way
00:20:05And this just proves it to me all the shit can get thrown at us and it our relationship doesn't
00:20:10change
00:20:11What I do find is that I like
00:20:12I told you John when I met you what I was after and I said my number one thing is
00:20:17I've never had a man back me in my life
00:20:19So when he does this like
00:20:23Yeah, like
00:20:24This is all I asked for
00:20:27I've just never had like a soul connection like this in my life
00:20:30Like I don't think much could waver it to be honest
00:20:34So have you fallen in love with him?
00:20:37I'm not saying that John
00:20:39What are you waiting for him?
00:20:42Yeah, because I feel like he knows where I'm at and I need him to
00:20:47Say it first to be honest
00:20:50For me like I don't know what it is like I don't know whether I'm scared or it's fear
00:20:54I don't know what it is
00:20:56Maybe I'm just pressured to force that love quicker than what it should be
00:21:01For me, I just there's something in my mind like I just I need more of this outside world in
00:21:05before I can really give that true love
00:21:08But I know I'm getting there and I know it'll probably happen
00:21:10So have you two talked about the future and specifically what your relationship would look like?
00:21:15We've spoken a lot about we've been looking at real estate
00:21:17We've been looking at houses and like I got a quote from a mover already like I'm like we're doing
00:21:22it
00:21:23Yeah, we have like we've already looked at areas and places to get a house and stuff because I need
00:21:28to get a bigger place
00:21:29but
00:21:30I have to say that I really have enjoyed how
00:21:35How raw and honest you've been tonight with us and uh had each other's back and you're very invested in
00:21:41one another
00:21:42And uh that's what we love to see
00:21:46So on that note, we're going to go to the decision
00:21:48I think we're pretty unshakable and I'm really excited to move forward and see what the future holds for us
00:21:54so
00:21:55I've got the stay and I've got the gold coast
00:21:58Look at that manifesting aren't you?
00:22:02I am actually
00:22:02We're just I don't know we're so freaking good
00:22:05Like there's not much to say I just bring on the challenges because we already just hit the end of
00:22:09the road
00:22:09So yeah, I wrote stay with the bath because we had the bath in the retreat
00:22:13Oh my god, that's so cute
00:22:17We won that race sorry guys
00:22:20This is what we want at these commitment ceremonies opening up getting raw and really exposing yourselves and you've done
00:22:26that
00:22:27And you've shown who you are and you've also shown particularly that you are you have strong feelings for one
00:22:34another
00:22:34So keep it up
00:22:36You can go back to the group. Thanks guys
00:22:44Thank you
00:22:49Let's have our next couple up
00:22:56Danny and Bec
00:23:01Hello you two
00:23:02How are we?
00:23:11Shall we start at the couples retreat?
00:23:15And then just move forward from there Bec?
00:23:18Sure
00:23:20What's your take on what happened at the couples retreat and how it landed for you?
00:23:27I made a poor choice in words in a speech on the first night
00:23:31And it was a distasteful joke that was not meant maliciously and i've apologized to rach and steven a number
00:23:39of times
00:23:40um
00:23:41Um, i didn't say it expecting to upset rach and i understand why it did and
00:23:50um, i'm sorry to you both again
00:23:53from that came
00:23:56from that came
00:23:58a really bad few days for me
00:24:01personally
00:24:02um
00:24:03um, it just turned into sort of a pylon a little bit i was isolated and
00:24:11you know one day i was just in bed crying for hours
00:24:16so yeah it was hard for me
00:24:18it opened my eyes to maybe you know when i have
00:24:22been
00:24:23curt and unkind to people in the past at the beginning of this how that may have felt for elissa
00:24:28for example
00:24:29and that's just awful
00:24:32but through that hardship came
00:24:35something so beautiful and i could actually say thank you to those girls
00:24:39because what they did was made my relationship
00:24:42tenfold stronger
00:24:44and us so much closer
00:24:46because he didn't leave my side
00:24:49and i could depend on him
00:24:52so as a couple this
00:24:55really pressured
00:24:57situation that you're under
00:24:58has actually
00:25:00taken you to another level
00:25:03tell me how confident are you that
00:25:06you know this has the legs to actually go into the real world
00:25:13look i've got to be honest i'm scared
00:25:16i am i'm scared and
00:25:18what are you scared about
00:25:19i'm scared that i have like my feelings are stronger for daniel than they
00:25:24than he's are for me
00:25:26sometimes sorry babe
00:25:28have you ever said that before to him
00:25:29no
00:25:30okay so this is a very big moment for you
00:25:32and i'm scared that what what makes you feel that way
00:25:35i don't know i just know how how how i i look at him and i think i don't i
00:25:43can't imagine my
00:25:43life without him now
00:25:45and i don't want to but i don't know whether or not he feels that way about me
00:25:51have you asked him
00:25:53have you asked him no
00:25:55well now's as good a time as any jesus christ
00:25:59put a man on the spot
00:26:08what's the question
00:26:27what's the question
00:26:30i've never thought of your my life without you in it because i'm just going through
00:26:35what we're going through
00:26:36what we're going through do you know what you mean
00:26:39i think i should i show you how much i care about you
00:26:41i know i know i know yeah i know that you do i just i just i just look at
00:26:47you and i'm like
00:26:48you're the best and i don't know if you look at me and think you're the best
00:26:53sometimes i always do do i just don't say it so thanks so describe your feelings for him
00:27:01where are we at right now beck come clean
00:27:10my feelings are extremely extremely strong for daniel
00:27:18seriously seriously strong
00:27:28i love you
00:27:43extreme jesus
00:27:52i don't i don't even know what to say to that
00:28:01you don't have to reply i can't cope
00:28:10extreme
00:28:14uh danny how did it feel to hear that yeah it feels good i'm shocked that she's just told me
00:28:20in front of everyone but yeah it feels good um sorry i've saved that for a special one of course
00:28:26like you say whenever you want but um yeah i guess i'm just a bit thrown right now so so
00:28:34danny i
00:28:34know that you you're shocked uh absolutely because you weren't expecting that tonight but in saying
00:28:40that um what does it do to you to hear that
00:28:48i don't know how to answer for how does it make me feel does it make you feel happy does
00:28:53it make
00:28:53you feel scared obviously it doesn't make me feel scared to be honest with you because
00:28:58why would it do you know what you mean like i think that's a bit of a it just makes
00:29:03me feel happy
00:29:03but not not scared at all doesn't make you feel like you want to do a marathon and run right
00:29:07i'm
00:29:08not the type of bloke to do that i i don't think that daniel's at that place but i would
00:29:14be
00:29:15lying if i didn't if i wasn't honest with you right now that's how i feel i'm scared i'm really
00:29:22scared to feel this way it's really scary for me it's really adulting it's really adult of me and i
00:29:31yeah it's yeah and this is why i'm nervous because my feelings are so strong and i just
00:29:38want it to work out it's what i want
00:29:44well look uh on that note it has been an incredibly uh difficult uh week for you but uh
00:29:52wow you've had huge revelations tonight uh we want to go to the decision stay or leave
00:30:00beck i'm pretty sure i know where this is headed l-e-a-b-e no i'm just kidding um
00:30:06yeah please don't run away from me i won't relax okay well i wrote stay lovely and i wrote thank
00:30:15you boo for his support at retreat oh and for you danny and tonight i'll put
00:30:26stay with a love heart that's cute
00:30:28it well done guys very very powerful thanks so much powerful session have a great week uh you
00:30:35can go back to the group thanks guys congratulations
00:30:50put the pressure on me why don't you
00:30:56i didn't know beck was going to come out with that you're in front of the whole experts the group
00:31:01um yeah it put me on the spot a little bit but i think i dealt with it well
00:31:09i don't feel that you should tell someone you love them unless you truly mean it
00:31:13um love's a massive thing and it's a word that shouldn't be chucked around loosely
00:31:17um so look she could tell me 10 000 times if i don't feel like i'm not going to say
00:31:21it back
00:31:23so
00:31:31our next couple up on the couch tonight
00:31:40rachel and steven
00:31:47go bestie go bestie hello
00:31:53oh yeah comfy lounge
00:31:59you two had a big week
00:32:02oh
00:32:03oh yeah the retreat the gift that keeps on giving and the relationship going places tell us about
00:32:12everything oh you heard about that we were observing the dinner party and the cocktail party well yes
00:32:21okay um we'll start before the retreat um you know me and rachel were uh
00:32:30you know i'm doing well
00:32:34it was a passionate moment i felt connected with rachel and passionate it was really nice
00:32:43i got that part
00:32:47it was like
00:32:49i've known like steven has expressed from many weeks ago that to increase intimacy would mean that he
00:32:58would need to feel more of an emotional connection yes to me so it was really special because
00:33:06he obviously felt that with me so yeah it was it was a nice connecting moment and i just really
00:33:14felt
00:33:15i could just feel our relationship start like take this trajectory it was yeah it was really nice really connecting
00:33:26but we've only increased intimacy that one time
00:33:32why has there been no follow-up on that
00:33:39um okay so um obviously the next day was sort of the retreat
00:33:48and this is where it all unfolds a little bit so um
00:33:55rachel expressed our good news to the group and there was a comment that was made um sort of in
00:34:03bad
00:34:03taste and uh rachel um was really upset by the comment and it was just
00:34:11three days of carnage really um the retreat for me and rachel was meant to be a sort of a
00:34:19getaway
00:34:19and a redemption from our honeymoon and it pretty much deteriorated from day one and
00:34:27no night after night um you know rachel was you know sort of really upset and
00:34:32i guess to answer the question um yeah the last thing i found you know i was going to do
00:34:38is
00:34:38pull moves when rachel was really sort of hurt and i just yeah we just didn't went in that mood
00:34:50so obviously we did hear from the cocktail and dinner party what the comments made were
00:34:55and i guess my question to you rachel is why did it have such a big impact that it lasted
00:35:02three days so we are talking about the comment that beck made yes yes yes yes um
00:35:11in the moment that the comment was right now i understand it wasn't made with malice it wasn't
00:35:15made to make me feel any type of way however because i had shared
00:35:21it i chose my language very carefully when i shared with the entire group
00:35:26that wording right at the end it just felt like it cheapened it i felt humiliated
00:35:32so it just yeah it just became this really big thing and it just didn't mean to be
00:35:38looking back and how i feel on that i definitely was influenced by the information that was given to me
00:35:45one hundred percent um by juliet and gia
00:35:52after reflection i feel like i've been used as a pawn in something that is there's still a rift between
00:36:02juliet beck and gia and i feel like this situation kind of allowed them to like have something else to
00:36:12fuel up about that's how i feel now yeah
00:36:19so you feel like juliet and gia used you as a pawn as a way to generate more drama with
00:36:26beck because
00:36:26there's been clearly um a rift there in their relationship to be fair
00:36:37when beck did make these comments with me i said i didn't want any part of it beck was coming
00:36:42to me
00:36:42with this stuff i said i didn't want the drama and she would cover her mic and say even more
00:36:47stuff
00:36:47about it it's just while i had her crying for me i cannot i did not want any of this
00:36:53i was trying to
00:36:54not engage in it she was coming to me with it and so this is i guess where i don't
00:37:03know that that's
00:37:06honestly just how i was feeling i just didn't know what was real and what like what was real being
00:37:12told
00:37:13me what wasn't and yeah with it it's just been a really emotional time i call it the retreat hangover
00:37:24um and it's just a good description it did interfere a little bit with our relationship
00:37:33it called things off intimacy wise but in terms of our relationship
00:37:39i felt like we got stronger as a couple because it was like yes there was a lot happening with
00:37:46our
00:37:47relationship i like you know it felt like there was a lot outside doors about talking about our
00:37:51relationship but when i was really upset like i just wanted my husband and he was there and we were
00:37:57really connected that way it just wasn't like intimacy was it like that for you stephen
00:38:06at the moment yeah the intimacy thing is just not there but i'm still close and connected with
00:38:11rachel i'm still comfortable i mean we're still having you know good dates together and we're having
00:38:17fun together we're laughing so you know it's still good i'm confident we're yeah we're we haven't
00:38:24gone backwards i love the giggles oh it's gorgeous love it yeah
00:38:32with that let's go to the decision um rachel yeah stay or leave um look this week was just so
00:38:42easy for
00:38:43me and there's no way a man can call me a wonderful woman at a dinner party and not have
00:38:48me stick around
00:38:48it's as simple as that
00:38:54and steven uh well um you know we've come a long way in this experiment i'm very happy with uh
00:39:01the
00:39:01direction it's uh going and um i was going to draw a nice little picture for you to show how
00:39:07much i
00:39:07liked you but i realized i can't draw so all right stay i will say this big steps in the
00:39:23right direction
00:39:24on many fronts for the two of you this week that step that you've already taken to getting more
00:39:29physically close and more physically comfortable you're gonna want to repeat and i and i really hope
00:39:36that that is a bit of a goal in terms of just really focusing on the things that bind you
00:39:41together
00:39:41and things that will help nourish that bond that you're constructing so focus on that in the next
00:39:47week you can go back to the group well done you guys good stuff
00:40:03coming up and then i just said look i i love you philip's love this can't be true
00:40:14stella's blind side at the moment he doesn't see sydney as a possibility to move and in my head
00:40:20this is a breakup and then express to me what your point is you should be careful
00:40:29when i have screenshots of what you've said about alissa and david file it was vile
00:40:49our next couple tonight
00:40:55sam and chris
00:41:00hello hello welcome how are we doing well how was retreat for you guys it was good um
00:41:10i was always going into the retreat with the intention that i would make the next move
00:41:15um but there was a lot going on so when we got back from the retreat as he was unpacking
00:41:20i just
00:41:20went into the bedroom and said hey chris come in here for a second and um
00:41:24wait no i was actually doing my laundry in my underwear i had like all my clothes and he's like
00:41:29chris come here i was like yeah what like and i was like oh right okay it's a bit shorter
00:41:33than me
00:41:36and he made business he made business yeah yeah we broke the friend zone so we're out of the friend
00:41:42zone yeah proud mama always always yeah so let me ask you this then mr slow burn
00:41:52that's not what we call me is it no no no not anymore do you feel um you're still burning
00:42:00slow
00:42:01um right now there's feelings i won't deny that because i wasn't gonna act on any intimacy until
00:42:06there was so that's a clear sign that there was you know i turned to you in the retreat and
00:42:10i said
00:42:10like i think of you as my boyfriend and like like that has is what's changed i guess or has
00:42:16developed
00:42:17is probably a better way and what about your feelings chris um yeah so my feelings uh for
00:42:23sam have been pretty strong since i met him like that's who i am i'm like yep cute you know
00:42:28tick six
00:42:28foot like tick blah blah um so i've yeah six foot three six foot three and are you starting to
00:42:38think
00:42:38about life outside the experiment i think what it would probably look like is it just like say we go
00:42:44well
00:42:45everything ticks the boxes we'd have a place in sydney so he'd go to sydney i would stay primarily at
00:42:50the farm and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit from sydney to the farm oh
00:42:54someone's been
00:42:55thinking about this well quite a bit of detail i think i think that's what it would look like if
00:42:59if
00:42:59we are successful and i want us to be successful but he has a lot of stuff to do in
00:43:03the city whereas
00:43:04i'm like cool to be at the farm full time um and i'm just excited for the next four weeks
00:43:08on this
00:43:09experiment and see where we end up well we're going to go to a decision cool today i wrote
00:43:17stay yes you did i'm not yelling it's just i'm very excited
00:43:23and proud yeah beautiful and you chris okay pretty obvious i also wrote stay
00:43:29oh well well done thank you so much you guys thank you guys so much
00:43:47thanks so much guys yeah our next couple up on the couch
00:43:55alissa and david hello you two hello hey how's it going we're going well but we're more interested
00:44:06in how you guys are going oh okay i can't shake him off she can't she can't kick me off
00:44:12her leg
00:44:12are you trying i can't well do you know what i have tested yeah i i i'm just being honest
00:44:18i've tested
00:44:19i've tried to shake him off and he won't leave so you know he likes it he obviously likes the
00:44:24challenge
00:44:25i know this is very cute and playful but do you like it i'm not gonna lie um it's not
00:44:32like i won't
00:44:33say i won't say i like it but i can handle it she is um obviously more of the storm
00:44:40and i'm the calm
00:44:41and for some reason like you know i'm just so pulled towards that storm but i find like i'm able
00:44:47to
00:44:48harbor that storm and it doesn't get to me i even get happy talking about it so yeah i can't
00:44:55explain it
00:44:56so elissa you know when you initially talked about some of the questions you've got around david
00:45:04uh and whether he challenges you is it fair to say now that you're seeing his character his calmness
00:45:12as being something that it's challenging me it's challenging you but also that you're actually
00:45:17responding really well to it actually is like it's because it's a new thing for me to overcome and it's
00:45:25a good thing um i know that i you know i'm a bit of a menace sometimes a bit loud
00:45:30and i can be
00:45:31challenging but he's he is a pillar he's a strong safe place it's another reason why i i'm still drawn
00:45:42to elissa it's because i know i'm good for her i think we balance each other out really well david
00:45:47how
00:45:47do you feel about elissa i feel like i'm still falling for elissa i don't think anything's changed
00:45:53like i do see a future with her and i want her to know that she can't scare me off
00:45:59like it doesn't
00:45:59scare me at all i'm falling for you elissa how does that feel to hear that it's really nice yeah
00:46:08like it's really nice well with that being the case let's go to the decision
00:46:13like i said i am falling for you elissa and you know i like every part about you the bad
00:46:19the good
00:46:19the ugly and and the fun and the fun the fun a lot of fun everyone can attest to that
00:46:25she's a ball of
00:46:26fun and um i'm looking forward to seeing how the rest of this goes so yeah today great stuff uh
00:46:36elissa
00:46:36what you got for us oh well i can't shake him off like he's just he's just hanging in there
00:46:43so i've
00:46:44decided to to stick around love it and on that note go back to the group well done guys thank
00:46:53you
00:46:53thank you
00:47:05all right let's get our next couple up
00:47:09um
00:47:09stella and philip
00:47:16hello
00:47:19wow a pre-emptive tissue grab i'm coming prepared yeah noted
00:47:26i am curious why the tissue grab um i'm in a very sensitive um mood
00:47:35yeah yeah i've sensed that so what's going on for you um
00:47:41um it's okay i think it all kind of unravelled um when philip confessed his feelings
00:47:54um
00:47:58conversations got really heavy really really quick
00:48:03uh so the last commitment ceremony alessandra was saying look i don't understand the confusion here
00:48:09you're dancing around talk about how you feel why don't you just tell her so uh that night i
00:48:16told her you know come over here come sit down she thought she was in trouble and then i just
00:48:22said
00:48:23look look i love you i'm feeling it you know and it felt good saying that and you're right you
00:48:33were
00:48:33right just express it and just say it if you're feeling it
00:48:38stella what specifically did that feel like for you hearing that i went into self-preservation mode
00:48:50um and i think my big fear of abandonment came up to play okay
00:48:57and yeah i i don't know but that reaction surprised me
00:49:04stella did you tell philip that you loved him back i did in my own long-winded way
00:49:13what does that mean um
00:49:22philip did you receive and i love you she's just like sent a long-winded way of saying it
00:49:31so philip has shared to you that he has deep feelings for you he's falling in love with you he
00:49:37sees a future with you
00:49:41what specifically did that feel like for you hearing that
00:49:51it felt
00:49:56this can't be true
00:50:04what's it going to take for you to believe philip i don't know i i i think
00:50:13i do have an amazing human as my partner who understands me but the fact that he lives in
00:50:20melbourne i live in sydney this is going to be an issue for me at the moment he doesn't see
00:50:30sydney as
00:50:30a possibility to move then in my head this is a breakup
00:50:41so from your perspective philip needs to move to sydney or it's off
00:50:50if i'm being honest with myself and with philip
00:51:00it seems it seems like that yeah
00:51:22so from your perspective philip needs to move to sydney or it's off
00:51:31i i see it as a catch-22
00:51:53so at the end of the whole experiment you go back to melbourne and i feel like
00:51:59i can not love a man that's gonna leave with me so unless he gives me clarity i can't
00:52:09be like yes i love you too
00:52:13philip how does that feel to hear that um
00:52:17i think that's unfair because everything from day dot is i'm in sydney uh this is what's happening
00:52:25just get on my program this is it's like this needs to happen or it's not going to work that's
00:52:30a lot of pressure yeah the relationships come with conditions straight off the bat so it is very
00:52:38difficult for myself you know sometimes she does talk to me in a certain way that takes me down a
00:52:48peg
00:52:50give us an example for instance like questioning masculinity because
00:52:55you know like me not wanting to go out after a massive week
00:53:00and to start to turn around just going well that's very feminine what you're saying
00:53:08that's a very feminine thing to do sometimes you just need to go and do
00:53:13what you don't want to do because that is the masculine thing to do and just saying that i'm not
00:53:18masculine
00:53:23it's not a masculine energy it's just a go energy that women and men can have to tell him that
00:53:28it's
00:53:29feminine and it's really attacking his masculinity yeah i'm not i'm not sure if you're aware of the
00:53:36impact that words like that can have i don't want to push him away but like that's what kind of
00:53:42happens
00:53:43in the background i start to pick on him so it's like defense mechanism i think for me i wouldn't
00:53:52like
00:53:52that to to i wouldn't like to deal with me in those moments i have one question that pops to
00:54:02mind that
00:54:03i am curious about how is the physical intimacy with one another
00:54:10it's just not happening just not happening just a few short weeks ago it was a very different
00:54:19story from both of you in that respect with all the stuff mentally that was going on i felt like
00:54:24a
00:54:24little bit um you know underappreciated and all this kind of stuff i'm like well why would i want
00:54:30have sex i don't feel like it right now the thing is um i'm not on any birth control and
00:54:39he's terrified
00:54:40for an accident to happen oh that's very easily a salt birth control um i don't want to take tablets
00:54:52personally i um i was like i was like hey if you're so terrified of um making someone
00:55:00pregnant maybe just do a snip so um has anyone heard of condoms yes i was gonna say in the
00:55:12meantime it's very easily solved with a trip to the pharmacy condoms yeah yeah i don't like it
00:55:21the reality is that there is quite early to be making a decision such as that especially if you're
00:55:26thinking you want children in the future they're reversible they're reversible of course but it's
00:55:31a procedure yeah there are other alternatives where you can make this work um that really shouldn't be
00:55:38the factor to bring you guys apart so it almost seems like a little bit of an excuse
00:55:47maybe to gloss over the disconnect maybe a little bit because i've just been getting thrown around the
00:55:55mental ringer so to speak yes and i'm just like do i even feel appreciate appreciated or is this
00:56:00someone that i should really be attracted to and putting my sexual energy towards because i just
00:56:04don't like i just i feel sometimes that i've just taken for granted that's pretty major to say
00:56:14for me it's just i just need to feel like i'm fully emotionally wanted like i like someone's
00:56:18100 into it then i can fully give 100 of myself to them that's exactly what was happening early on
00:56:25from stellar i fell and sometimes as this experiment's been going on there's just been little glimpses
00:56:31where i've seen that she's not into it uh sometimes and it just kind of gets in my head a
00:56:37little bit and
00:56:38i just withdraw a little bit of that attention you know until i get it built back up again and
00:56:43then i
00:56:43feel comfortable to do it again you guys are at a really crucial stage of your relationship now
00:56:51and the conversations that you're having are really really important stella before you say something
00:56:58to him i want you to think about how's this going to land for him how's this going to make
00:57:04philip feel
00:57:04yeah before you deliver it yeah because my sense is you might be having a few regrets
00:57:12has that been happening yeah yeah yeah absolutely after the fact absolutely let's try and eliminate
00:57:17that through self-awareness which i know you have yeah you guys have had a strong connection from the
00:57:23beginning and have pretty much coasted through all the couch sessions and there's a lot clearly that
00:57:29you hadn't been feeling like you could open up and talk to us about so i think it's very productive
00:57:35that you have chosen to do that tonight and i thank you both for that openness and with
00:57:41all of this to consider and work on let's go to a decision for this week philip so that was
00:57:50a lot
00:57:50to take in yes you know and i'm glad that you're you just kind of told me what's on your
00:57:55minds that in
00:57:56mind i'm going to be writing stay i love that and stella do you want to go yep um i
00:58:06wrote stay
00:58:11good work to do you got a little work to do yes that's all have a great week thank you
00:58:16thank you
00:58:27yeah self-preservation comes in of course in me being a little bitch sorry
00:58:48coming up jules jules tonight's dramatic conclusion don't touch me i'm out i'm out
00:59:00gonna go back in of this world no no
00:59:12last up on the couch juliet and joel
00:59:22Hello.
00:59:24Hi.
00:59:24Oh, you too.
00:59:25Oh, hello.
00:59:30What's happening?
00:59:34What's happening with you guys last time at the commitment ceremony?
00:59:38Juliet, you wrote a stay, and Joel, you had written leave.
00:59:44And there's been quite a turnaround.
00:59:49Perfect couple alert.
00:59:53Shaky, shaky last time.
00:59:55It was shaky, yeah.
00:59:56It was really shaky.
00:59:58We hit rock bottom.
01:00:01But I think we've made quite a comeback.
01:00:04I have to say, I wasn't expecting such a strong, quick turnaround
01:00:10because the things that were said were so strong
01:00:14that I can see how it would have been difficult
01:00:17to come out of that space, especially for you, Joel.
01:00:22Well, yeah, like, what happened was the following day,
01:00:26Juliet came into my apartment, and she was crying.
01:00:29And she apologized again.
01:00:32And I really felt like it was heartfelt.
01:00:35And I accepted her apology.
01:00:38It was like a reset button.
01:00:41And so, yeah, we went pub crawling.
01:00:45This is what, you know, a couple of beers and a palmy does.
01:00:50Yeah, so, um, as we progressed through the pubs,
01:00:54um, there was a certain warmness that was brewing.
01:00:59And then we went back to the apartment, and vibes were good.
01:01:02One thing leads to another, and, uh, a bit of hooking up, you know?
01:01:06It's a little bit of hooking up.
01:01:08It's a bit of hooking up.
01:01:09Mm-hmm.
01:01:10Such a go.
01:01:11And that was nice.
01:01:13Mm-hmm.
01:01:13I think we had a lot of KISS chemistry.
01:01:15The KISS chemistry was strong.
01:01:16Oh, yeah.
01:01:18Yeah, it flipped.
01:01:19Like, I feel like the next day, we both kind of texted each other
01:01:22and were like, what was that?
01:01:24Like, I, I, yeah, I completely saw Joel
01:01:26in a completely different light.
01:01:30Started feeling like I could trust him,
01:01:32and I could feel like I wanted to be close with him,
01:01:34and, like, kind of, yeah, touch his leg.
01:01:36And, like, yeah, I guess when we did retreat,
01:01:39I was like, why don't we give it a crack?
01:01:41Like, why don't we sleep in the same bed
01:01:42and see if there's chemistry inside the bed?
01:01:46And, yeah, it feels like he was, like, giving protective energy,
01:01:50which is another thing I'm attracted to.
01:01:52I think, like, Joel is brilliant in so many ways.
01:01:58There's just...
01:02:01You know, in a time of crisis
01:02:03when I'm feeling like I'm in a situation,
01:02:06I just hope that I would have more of a rock by my side.
01:02:12When did you need that from Joel specifically?
01:02:15When we had the dinner party,
01:02:18you know, when I was apologising to Beck and Danny
01:02:22for my crude words,
01:02:25I feel like the conversation was going on a lot longer,
01:02:31and I kept trying to apologise,
01:02:33to diffuse it, diffuse it, diffuse it,
01:02:34and I just kind of wanted Joel in that moment
01:02:37to just be like,
01:02:39look, she's apologised and taken accountability.
01:02:41Like, I think we can take a pause.
01:02:43And so I just kind of feel like
01:02:45I was fighting for myself a little bit,
01:02:47and I admire how Danny was standing up for his wife
01:02:51and being there by Beck's side,
01:02:52and I see Scott do it for Gia as well, you know,
01:02:56multiple times,
01:02:57and David doing it for Alyssa,
01:03:00and I just feel like I just didn't get that.
01:03:09What do you say to that, Joel?
01:03:11I felt like Danny and Beck were respectful to Juliet.
01:03:17I felt like they were giving her a fair shake,
01:03:21so I didn't feel the need to step in.
01:03:24If they were coming at her and attacking her
01:03:27and hurling insults at her,
01:03:29I would have stepped in.
01:03:31I just didn't see that.
01:03:32And I think Juliet has a different perspective
01:03:35on what happened.
01:03:41From everything that happened last week...
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44..that was called out by Joel
01:03:46because he was on the receiving end of that,
01:03:50why did you call Beck the names that you called Beck?
01:03:55Why choose again
01:03:57to use very aggressive,
01:04:00very vicious,
01:04:01very vile deliveries
01:04:03towards somebody else?
01:04:08I guess what I saw
01:04:09was the exact same behavior,
01:04:12simply a different target.
01:04:14Mm-hmm.
01:04:15So why choose to go there again?
01:04:21Mm-hmm.
01:04:23Honestly, I've seen Beck say much, much worse
01:04:28in the same category multiple times
01:04:31to multiple people here.
01:04:32Does it matter?
01:04:33So I...
01:04:33We're not talking about ex-behavior
01:04:35or about Beck.
01:04:36I know, but that's why I felt comfortable
01:04:36doing it to Beck.
01:04:37I'm talking about your behavior.
01:04:38I know, but that's why I felt comfortable
01:04:39saying it to Beck.
01:04:46Why do you think Beck gets so under your skin?
01:04:51Um, because I think she gets away
01:04:53with a lot of her bad behavior.
01:04:55Um, I haven't seen her take accountability
01:04:57for some of the things.
01:04:59She also claims...
01:05:01She'll tell you one thing
01:05:02and then when you address it,
01:05:03she'll claim you're lying.
01:05:05That gets under my skin
01:05:06and I explode.
01:05:08Really pisses me off.
01:05:09Sorry, you called me a dumb effing
01:05:12and an effing freak
01:05:14multiple times.
01:05:16There we go.
01:05:16Point...
01:05:17Sorry, excuse me.
01:05:18Express to me what your point is.
01:05:21This is why I feel angry.
01:05:22Because you've done the wrong thing
01:05:24and you constantly say
01:05:26but, but, but, but, but.
01:05:27Um, you should be careful
01:05:29with how much you are upset
01:05:32about me saying that.
01:05:35When I have screenshots
01:05:36of what you've said
01:05:37about Alyssa and David.
01:05:45Mm.
01:05:47Vile.
01:05:48It was vile.
01:05:50It was vile.
01:05:52You said...
01:06:11So I am the most expensive male escort in Sydney straight I need to clarify straight
01:06:16it's really important that I clarify that I help women of Sydney that's a good way of
01:06:23describing it that's what I do I have a lot of sex like every day different people every
01:06:30single day escorting gives me such an amazing life but it's so much harder than you think
01:06:35when people know you're an escort they just expect you to like pull out all the stops like
01:06:40there's nothing nicer for me better than sex it's just having a cuddle with a movie if you ask me
01:06:44my
01:06:44sexual desires it's just to watch Shrek and cuddle right that's it mate that's it well I mean I have
01:06:50actually had that a few times where people have been like hey do you want to just come around
01:06:53and watch Netflix they're they're the good jobs we're like them ones first official job female
01:06:59client was like hey you're available I'll give you $700 can you go shake your armpits there wasn't a
01:07:05shower with a razor and foam just like rubbing away battling I went there and I was like so
01:07:12like what you want to do yeah and she's just I just want to smell your armpits and I'm pretty
01:07:15ticklish
01:07:16yeah I'm gonna have to lock in here anyways I lay there like my hands on my head yeah I
01:07:22don't know
01:07:23like if you've ever had your armpits like licked and like muscled but like it actually felt really
01:07:30nice yeah I remember walking out the hotel room like is this what it's about because like I can do
01:07:34this and that's not even scratching the surface of the sort of wild stuff that I've done in Sydney
01:07:38like I come from this background of farmers and I grew up riding horses and my additional my
01:07:43grandparents are butchers yeah and all of a sudden I'm getting my armpits smell I'm just like what's
01:07:48going on how's it wound up with this right like where did it go wrong yeah I get obsessed with
01:07:53it
01:07:53yeah so I sort of started studying it and be like how can I be the best give me some
01:07:58pointers
01:07:58reviews online oh they come straight up yeah I don't think I've ever met someone with as many
01:08:09tattoos as him I know yeah it's a scary look for me though just got out of prison vibes they're
01:08:16so
01:08:16expensive to have your full body done like that it's like tens of thousands of dollars obviously he's
01:08:21got a lot of money like he works for one hour and then he makes all that cash like that's
01:08:25crazy
01:08:25it would take me a couple weeks to make the same amount of money could you imagine literally like
01:08:28it's how much we earn in a month in like a couple of hours don't even talk about it I'll
01:08:32get sad what
01:08:33about dating a guy like that I don't know I think it'd be quite hard to start a family when
01:08:37you know
01:08:37you're doing that sort of work right I was brought up in such a traditional family like mama would say
01:08:43no
01:08:43oh 100 yeah obviously if you want to meet someone the first thing you ever tell them is this is
01:08:49the
01:08:49issue I have right recently I was dating and when she approached me I was like listen I'm an escort
01:08:55like full-blown escort yeah I can't hide this and she was cool that to start with and then when
01:09:00the
01:09:00feelings get involved yeah I need to go to work yeah and I come back from work hate myself and
01:09:06be in
01:09:06the shower for an hour for me like sex is like it's like the most intimate thing you can do
01:09:11with
01:09:11someone you know what I mean like you never really attach a price tag or something like that
01:09:16such a lonely life hmm do you want to have like a family eyes and this is what I'm looking
01:09:21for the
01:09:21moment yeah I never thought I'd say these words but like I genuinely want to find someone maybe stop
01:09:27escorting what's a week sort of look like in terms of the cash charge thousand dollars an hour
01:09:32far out so I'll give you an example last December I think I made up
01:09:42you should be careful with how much you are upset about me saying that when I have screenshots of
01:09:49what you've said about Alyssa and David vile it was vile it was vile you said
01:10:08disgusting babe express to me that this is why I feel angry this is why I feel angry what are
01:10:15you
01:10:15trying to prove you're trying to make me look bad you get away with everything what have I done to
01:10:20you personally you try to trap me into these conversations oh it's how you try to get into
01:10:26my head I'm not I'm not talking to you about it thank you guys fully me and I was not
01:10:35part of that
01:10:38Juliet so how do you have screenshots
01:10:53Gia sent them to me what why would you do that Gia she asked what she was like so I
01:11:08sent some
01:11:08screenshots of like conversations I don't look great in them either and then I heard that you
01:11:16were excited that I was gonna get up on the CC couch like that's a that's such an evil thing
01:11:22to
01:11:22hope for she said that to Gia at the nail salon I didn't say she's gonna get I said you
01:11:32said babe I
01:11:34said no you said dumb she said you're gonna get in trouble for saying dumb for the way in which
01:11:42you
01:11:42spoke to me yeah that's such an evil thing to hope for and that's why we came up with a
01:11:48plan of let's
01:11:49address the screenshots then this is the time to use it so it was a plan just to be clear
01:12:02Gia you sent the
01:12:04screenshots to Juliet with the intent that it be used against back in her argument I said bad things
01:12:11in there too I didn't really want them out it just shows that me calling her a DC is it
01:12:22shouldn't have
01:12:22not been out like blown up into such a big thing when she's done much worse
01:12:34wow can I please give you some insight of course you could not be further from the truth
01:12:43it is shocking mm-hmm that you would think that yeah it makes you look so much worse okay for
01:12:53sure then
01:12:53back it's like conscious retaliation with the purpose to hurt I know
01:13:10and again you know I'm so I'm cover it I'm covering up so much I'm covering up so much I
01:13:17just don't I
01:13:18don't think this experiment is for me I don't
01:13:26Gia what the
01:13:34Jules Jules
01:13:43Jules
01:13:44she's about to face the music and she bolts
01:13:49Jules
01:13:49no
01:13:51Jules
01:13:52did you just hear that
01:13:56Jules talk to me
01:14:00Jules
01:14:01done
01:14:02you're such a dog you're actually a pig
01:14:05you're a dog and a pig
01:14:07hey
01:14:07Jules
01:14:08that was really yeah
01:14:09Jules
01:14:10what's going on
01:14:11uh nah
01:14:12what's going on
01:14:13I'm going home
01:14:14what's going on
01:14:15why are you going
01:14:15because you just literally don't touch me
01:14:19I'm going back to Melbourne
01:14:21where are you going
01:14:22you just completely threw me under the bus
01:14:23how
01:14:24yeah
01:14:25disgusting
01:14:25I have to be honest
01:14:29I have to be honest
01:14:30you're so evil
01:14:32what are you talking about
01:14:33so evil
01:14:34off
01:14:35Jules come on stay
01:14:36we gotta
01:14:37oh my god ew
01:14:38it's unresolved
01:14:39you don't just leave
01:14:40yeah
01:14:41are you leaving
01:14:41yeah
01:14:42I'm going back to Melbourne
01:14:43go away
01:14:44what do you mean
01:14:45come on
01:14:46come on
01:14:46stay
01:14:47come on
01:14:48Jules
01:15:08she's got caught out of the water
01:15:10shall we check if they're alright
01:15:12shall we check if they're alright
01:15:13shall we also think she's off you
01:15:17I feel like she's going to come back and come for me
01:15:18because I didn't work her
01:15:19she's coming
01:15:20she's coming
01:15:21fuck
01:15:41screenshot what was that
01:15:44You are something else, man.
01:15:48Who, me?
01:15:49It's not nice to hear, but obviously, like, you know?
01:15:55Well, I don't think we should get into it anymore.
01:15:56Bec said this.
01:15:57I'm not...
01:15:58Like, me and Bec both said shit like this.
01:16:00This was weeks ago.
01:16:01I don't think...
01:16:01It was a lot.
01:16:01It's a pretty great spot, you know?
01:16:08You got to laugh or cry, man.
01:16:12Honestly.
01:16:14If I feel sick.
01:16:16All right.
01:16:20Like, I just don't want to keep getting...
01:16:29I'm going to the toilet.
01:16:31I have to pee.
01:16:33I have to pee, sorry.
01:16:35No, I got to pee.
01:16:37No.
01:16:38Yep.
01:16:49Where's Juliet?
01:16:56Go on.
01:16:58Great.
01:16:59Okay, I'm going.
01:17:00Can you get me an Uber, please?
01:17:03Can you do mic me, please?
01:17:05Unclip this.
01:17:05You don't want to go back in a Christmas tree, is that right?
01:17:07No.
01:17:08No.
01:17:12No, I'm out.
01:17:12I'm out.
01:17:16I want to go home.
01:17:19And not keep copying it, man.
01:17:20I can't.
01:17:20What?
01:17:21I showed screenshots to a girlfriend, sue me.
01:17:24Like, sorry, I was talking shit about me nonstop to everyone.
01:17:28Focus is never on me and Scott.
01:17:29It's about everyone else around me and Scott, and it's not fair.
01:17:34Oh, you're not Gia.
01:17:36Yes.
01:17:54Oh, you're not Gia.
01:17:58Can you catch that?
01:18:21Come and grab a seat.
01:18:23Yes, Joel.
01:18:26It's all you, Joel.
01:18:28Oh.
01:18:33Did you speak to her?
01:18:36Juliet did what Juliet does.
01:18:38She stormed out.
01:18:40She's gone.
01:18:42Oh.
01:18:45And that's such an extreme decision.
01:18:49Leave the experiment.
01:18:53So that's very revealing.
01:18:56What did she have to say?
01:18:59She called me a dog and a pig.
01:19:03No.
01:19:05I'm really sorry you had to listen to her call you names after you were so clearly enthused
01:19:15with what seemed to be progress and better direction.
01:19:20I thought I would give her a chance, right?
01:19:25I think you've been incredibly generous to her, given how she's behaved, not only towards you,
01:19:32but towards others in the experiment.
01:19:34Joel, you are no doubt a flamboyant and charismatic character, and some people might say you're
01:19:41an acquired taste.
01:19:42But what you've done throughout this experiment, you've been yourself, you've never wavered on that, and particularly what I admire
01:19:52about you is that you have owned everything that you've done.
01:19:57Regardless, you've never deflected it, you've just taken it on and said, this is me, I'm proud of who I
01:20:03am.
01:20:03You've been consistent throughout.
01:20:05You've been consistent throughout.
01:20:06You have maintained incredible integrity.
01:20:09You are to be commended.
01:20:10Thank you very much.
01:20:11Thank you very much.
01:20:11I appreciate that.
01:20:13We've been sitting here watching you week after week thinking, this man is carrying so much.
01:20:21I think it would have been really hard.
01:20:24It's been an absolute pleasure having you in the experiment.
01:20:28We really wish you all the very best for the future.
01:20:33Thank you, Joel.
01:20:38Join the group.
01:20:49Where is she?
01:20:51Where is Gia?
01:20:53You know her.
01:20:54Yeah.
01:20:55Can't fall and jump to you.
01:20:59Where is she?
01:21:01She's gone.
01:21:03No she's not. What do you mean?
01:21:07She grabbed her stuff before and she asked for an Uber.
01:21:11You're right.
01:21:13Yeah.
01:21:20I just had a great couch session.
01:21:23Like we have so much going for one another.
01:21:29But sometimes other girls and their bullshit can interfere.
01:21:34I'm just a bit jittery. I don't know. I don't know.
01:21:40You can't leave like that.
01:21:42Like we're falling for each other.
01:21:47I'm not going to sit here without her so, yeah, I want to go get my wife.
01:22:20It's all here. What I just read was disgusting.
01:22:24What happens when Bette comes face to face with David after those text messages?
01:22:31The comments were wild, disgusting, like mean and vicious.
01:22:34But how do you know what they were?
01:22:37We've seen them.
01:22:38It was you, buddy.
01:22:38Yeah without me.'m
01:22:38that's why Pharaoh victim. Yeah.
01:22:48It's
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