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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:03My last two years have just been
00:00:06one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:11I should be jaded at this point,
00:00:13but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your cat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your f***ing face?
00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39Oh, what are you doing?
00:00:40We're just not good together.
00:00:43Shh.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.
00:00:45I know.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The men.
00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?
00:01:01Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Oh!
00:01:17Sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yeah.
00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santana Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:44I want my wife.
00:01:45I want the house.
00:01:46I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be serious.
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, and it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15So is this who you are?
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?
00:02:20I am just here, because they're about him, and asking you about it.
00:02:24But don't call me hostile, because I died.
00:02:27No, you cannot believe I died.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing great relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame, everybody knows my name.
00:02:57Hola.
00:02:58Hola, hola.
00:02:59¿Es posible en Pina Palada?
00:03:00Sí, claro.
00:03:01Gracias.
00:03:01Everything I got now, know you want it, you want it, you want it, you want it, come and get
00:03:06it.
00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face.
00:03:09Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.
00:03:11I fly like a Peggy, sit straight out the gate.
00:03:14Do I have your attention?
00:03:20Check, check, check, check, check.
00:03:25Hey, bitches!
00:03:27Click, snap, look at that.
00:03:30I'm here!
00:03:37Girl strip!
00:03:38Girl strip!
00:03:39Woo!
00:03:40Do I have your attention?
00:03:43I'm Sophie, I'm 26 years old, I'm from London and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49It's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Cheers!
00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce and what better way to celebrate than with a girl's trip?
00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to like take the will on this.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks and just have a good time and not stress and just actually have some
00:04:11fun.
00:04:12What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:15Me too, and the guys here are fine.
00:04:19Even the workers are cute, the hotel people are cute, people on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?
00:04:27I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older, how old?
00:04:4693 is fine?
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:4997.
00:04:4994.
00:04:52I'm Liz, I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California, but I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship, but I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:15Latinian?
00:05:17Latinian.
00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.
00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:22Yeah.
00:05:23So, you like them.
00:05:24Okay.
00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time, and then Julia
00:05:30is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it off.
00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:46Annoying, bitch.
00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:51He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, so be the single, not you.
00:05:57I'm Julia.
00:05:58I'm 31 years old.
00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective, but he have a reason because we have a secret.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I haven't told anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:21So let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mockdell's.
00:06:25Cheers.
00:06:26After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard
00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi, thank you.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:48Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I miss you.
00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:07:00But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:11Let's explore.
00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve, and I had to walk away.
00:07:27You just look good together.
00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it.
00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something
00:07:42scary about getting back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really
00:07:47with Rob.
00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:50But it's also very exciting.
00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:07:54We have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has, like, dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall.
00:08:11He works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:13If you could write on paper, the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and, yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.
00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy, and I
00:08:37was like, okay, like, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like, it's Pedro.
00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between
00:08:48him and Chantel.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based
00:08:55on other people's opinions.
00:08:57We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like, what's your ideal date?
00:09:05Like, and I told him, like, what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I
00:09:09want, and he just, like, did all of it.
00:09:10And I was like, oh, so what was the gift?
00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store, and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace, and that
00:09:17was the first time we met in person.
00:09:20Oh my gosh.
00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic, and I like that he's, like, trying to win me over, kind
00:09:28of, because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers, like, once.
00:09:30It's like, every week I get new flowers at my door, and then he leaves, like, this little,
00:09:33like, love note in the flowers.
00:09:34You see that smile?
00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:41We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday, and I wanted to do
00:09:47this girl's trip for a while now, so it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the
00:09:51two.
00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,
00:09:58because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:10:00You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:03Like, my end goal is a relationship again, but right now, I also want to be single, and
00:10:07I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro, but at the same time, I've been through hell
00:10:15with my own marriage, and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25We're all going to see him tonight, which will be fun.
00:10:27All of them have fun.
00:10:28Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends, yeah.
00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him, but I feel like
00:10:39he's
00:10:40catching very strong feelings very early on, and I really just want to make sure that
00:10:44I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:50So, that's him fun!
00:10:52Yay!
00:10:53Ladies.
00:10:54What happened in Dominican Republic?
00:10:56Stay in Dominican Republic.
00:11:17All right, cadets.
00:11:19Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:11:21It's full of enemies.
00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:29Woo!
00:11:33I'm going to get you.
00:11:36Ooh.
00:11:38I like this.
00:11:47Get around to the left.
00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.
00:11:49Star Wars side.
00:11:50Not Star Wars.
00:11:51We're not in the Navy.
00:11:54My name is Kim.
00:11:55I'm 55 years old.
00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.
00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.
00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.
00:12:14For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey, and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.
00:12:19And it's been life-changing.
00:12:22I have more energy, and it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.
00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military, and I was a sharpshooter, and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes.
00:12:39I was a bad bitch back then.
00:12:43I got you.
00:12:44You said, ugh.
00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.
00:12:49Especially in my dating life.
00:12:51Boo!
00:12:52You're shot.
00:12:52Oh, crap.
00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?
00:12:57Just call a truce, and we'll work together.
00:12:59You know how I used to go?
00:13:00I do.
00:13:00So I'm on a date, and this is Javier.
00:13:03I'm excited to be here.
00:13:06I like women when they take charge.
00:13:07Oh, do you?
00:13:08Si.
00:13:09Okay.
00:13:10You got the right kind of woman then.
00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?
00:13:15Like a little blind date.
00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman, too.
00:13:20Try to.
00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.
00:13:24A little bit.
00:13:25No, I'm just joking.
00:13:26He's so handsome.
00:13:27Gracias.
00:13:28De nada.
00:13:30Oh, no, Henry!
00:13:32No!
00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months,
00:13:37but it is hard as s*** to find a good man in your 50s.
00:13:42Okay, we're done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:44I'm done.
00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.
00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games, and let's just be honest.
00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.
00:14:00I met Usman on social media about five years ago.
00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria, and after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was
00:14:11on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person.
00:14:14Oh, my God!
00:14:18Oh, my God!
00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.
00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.
00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?
00:14:29Oh, my God.
00:14:30This is funny.
00:14:31Is this f***ing funny, too?
00:14:32F***ing funny.
00:14:33But eventually, we worked it out, and he put a ring on it.
00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?
00:14:38Yes!
00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids, and my baby-making days are over, but I loved
00:14:45Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a baby, and it's
00:14:50crazy when I think about that.
00:14:52When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in this day.
00:14:57No, sir.
00:14:58Listen to me.
00:14:59That will bring you guys more closer.
00:15:01No.
00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.
00:15:03No.
00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to, like, coexist and, like, make biscuits or something.
00:15:09I don't know, and, like, raise this baby together.
00:15:11What the f***?
00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.
00:15:19You're a f***ing asshole.
00:15:20You are a f***ing asshole.
00:15:22I'm done.
00:15:25We tried.
00:15:26We tried, right?
00:15:28We tried.
00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.
00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.
00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.
00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.
00:15:41Safe is, like, my biggest thing.
00:15:44So, how do you like it?
00:15:45It was so much fun.
00:15:47Oh, my gosh.
00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.
00:15:49You were in the military?
00:15:50Yes.
00:15:51Wore the little uniform, wore the little beret.
00:15:53I jumped out of planes.
00:15:54I've done a lot.
00:15:55I mean, that's very sexy.
00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?
00:15:58Do you have your uniform?
00:15:59No, but I'll get one.
00:16:03So, where do you live?
00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.
00:16:06Okay.
00:16:06Do you, like, live by yourself?
00:16:08I have two roommates.
00:16:09Oh, f***.
00:16:10Two.
00:16:10So, it's like a big bachelor pad.
00:16:13No, no, not really.
00:16:15I live with two young women.
00:16:19So, like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?
00:16:23I used to date one of them.
00:16:25You used to date one of your roommates?
00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.
00:16:27Okay.
00:16:28What happened?
00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.
00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.
00:16:33Oh, yeah.
00:16:33She dumped me.
00:16:35Well, I would have, too, if you would have cheated on me.
00:16:37Yeah.
00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.
00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.
00:16:47And, like, what is the situation with his ex, right?
00:16:49He lives with her.
00:16:50He cheated on her.
00:16:52They're still banging.
00:16:53There's something going on there.
00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.
00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going, Kim, get out of here.
00:16:59Kim, get out of here.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02It was fun.
00:17:03It was fun.
00:17:04Yeah, you too.
00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide,
00:17:08and I'm just not going to do it now.
00:17:10I'm not going to do it.
00:17:12I'll text you.
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:13Or text me.
00:17:14Okay, got it.
00:17:15Thank you for taking me out of here.
00:17:16It was fun.
00:17:17It was fun.
00:17:17So I'm not going to see Javier again,
00:17:19but some woman is going to snatch him up.
00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.
00:17:23Sorry.
00:17:24Bye-bye.
00:17:26Bye-bye.
00:17:41Hello.
00:17:42What are you doing?
00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.
00:17:44Oh, so is my house the grocery store now?
00:17:47I actually need to take him a few things.
00:17:48You do?
00:17:49Mm-hmm.
00:17:50Oh.
00:17:51Jamal is my son.
00:17:52He's 30 years old.
00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal.
00:17:59He is everything to me.
00:18:05Do you have ranch?
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.
00:18:09I use that.
00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.
00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.
00:18:14That's not true.
00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.
00:18:17It's like a two for one.
00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?
00:18:22No, dude.
00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?
00:18:24Yeah, I'll leave you one.
00:18:25Thanks.
00:18:27So, yeah, I went on like a little laser tag date.
00:18:30Oh, yeah?
00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.
00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:18:37I just feel like I still need...
00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.
00:18:45Indeed.
00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like, really difficult between Jamal and I right now.
00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?
00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to...
00:19:02say what I have to say, you know, or discuss what I've done.
00:19:07Well, I love you.
00:19:09I love you, too.
00:19:09I'm going to go head out.
00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.
00:19:16Text me later or something.
00:19:17Got you.
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...
00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.
00:19:23All righty.
00:19:24See you later.
00:19:25I preach authenticity.
00:19:26I preach being genuine.
00:19:28And I've been living a lie.
00:19:30And when the truth comes out, these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.
00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.
00:19:38Never forgive myself.
00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.
00:19:48The first time I see something online, you know, I say, oh my God, like, she look fine.
00:19:53Like, the hair, the eyes, the lips, the ass, the leg.
00:19:58Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:20:02Nice to meet you.
00:20:03Nice to meet you.
00:20:03I'm Gino.
00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.
00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:20:19disaster?
00:20:28Stopped down?
00:20:29Let's go.
00:20:30What you drinking, what you want?
00:20:31Two cows are here.
00:20:35Let's go.
00:20:39Let's go.
00:20:40Come on, Gino.
00:20:41You got this.
00:20:54All right.
00:20:55Last 10 seconds before the end.
00:20:58I'm Gino.
00:20:59I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Kent, Michigan.
00:21:02Come on, let it all go.
00:21:04Woo!
00:21:04Let's go!
00:21:06I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.
00:21:10I'm way out of here.
00:21:13I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.
00:21:17I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:21:24Woo!
00:21:25Would you mind taking just a couple selfies for me?
00:21:29Sure.
00:21:29Of course.
00:21:29If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?
00:21:32Sure.
00:21:33Give me a big smile.
00:21:35Give me a big smile.
00:21:35I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I
00:21:41am.
00:21:41Nice job.
00:21:42I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the last, well,
00:21:53last four years, anyway.
00:22:03I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to meet
00:22:11her.
00:22:18But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.
00:22:24There were some huge, serious red flags.
00:22:26You trash.
00:22:28I don't want to see you anymore.
00:22:30That's your choice.
00:22:31You guys.
00:22:34I'm going to hear this.
00:22:36Oh, God damn, the president.
00:22:38Stop.
00:22:38Jasmine, let me look.
00:22:40Stop it, liar.
00:22:41I can't hear.
00:22:42I can't hear.
00:22:43During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.
00:22:48And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street
00:22:54two months after we separated.
00:22:58I want you to know that I am pregnant.
00:23:03And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby, and that's what we're going to do.
00:23:11Well, I thought she loved me.
00:23:17I thought she wanted to have a child with me.
00:23:24She's such a liar.
00:23:34I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet, and now I just want to look forward
00:23:40to living my best life.
00:23:55Today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.
00:24:09I'm going to be here.
00:24:14Hi there.
00:24:15Hi.
00:24:15I'm Melissa.
00:24:16Gino.
00:24:17Gino, nice to meet you.
00:24:18Is this your first event?
00:24:19Yeah, it was my first event.
00:24:20So, let's get you into there and meet some of our people, okay?
00:24:24Okay, sounds good.
00:24:25I have never been to a singles event before.
00:24:29In fact, I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good
00:24:3530 years.
00:24:37Hi.
00:24:38Got Michelle over there and Rachel here.
00:24:41What's up?
00:24:42Before the internet, I used classified ads.
00:24:45It was scary because I didn't really know what they looked like.
00:24:51In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do and I'm lucky I never got scammed.
00:24:58So, this is Amy.
00:24:59Hi.
00:25:00Hello.
00:25:00Amy, this is Gino.
00:25:01Nice to meet you.
00:25:02Nice to meet you.
00:25:03I'm Gino.
00:25:03But even now, I prefer to meet women online.
00:25:08Being rejected in person is the worst, right?
00:25:12You feel so small and it's hard to take.
00:25:14So, I am way out of my comfort zone being here.
00:25:18I think we need to go play some kickball.
00:25:21Yeah, let's do it.
00:25:22Let's do it.
00:25:23Let's do it.
00:25:24Let's do it.
00:25:26Let's do it.
00:25:26Let's do it.
00:25:27Let's do it.
00:25:28Let's do it.
00:25:29Let's do it.
00:25:29Let's do it.
00:25:29Hey, can we get Gino up here?
00:25:31Let's go.
00:25:32Let's go.
00:25:32My bat.
00:25:33Gino, you're up.
00:25:34Go, go, go.
00:25:35Gino, Gino.
00:25:37Gino.
00:25:38Gino.
00:25:48Gino.
00:25:56I'm Erin.
00:25:57Nice to meet you.
00:25:57Nice to meet you.
00:25:58Nice to meet you.
00:25:59I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.
00:26:03Awesome.
00:26:04Good job.
00:26:05I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my comfort zone.
00:26:10But now that I have to have conversations with them, I hope I don't mess it up.
00:26:14We're so excited to have you here.
00:26:16Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh my god, another normal guy.
00:26:19Oh, that's good.
00:26:20We're 70% women.
00:26:2270%?
00:26:23I like that.
00:26:23I know, right?
00:26:24That's why I get excited.
00:26:26I'm like, a guy?
00:26:31So tell us, what brought you here?
00:26:33What brought me here?
00:26:35Well, I'm single now.
00:26:37When did you get divorced?
00:26:39When did I get divorced?
00:26:40Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.
00:26:44Okay.
00:26:46Well, I'm married but separated.
00:26:49We don't live together.
00:26:51I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.
00:26:55What if they're not done?
00:26:57What chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if he's not ready?
00:27:03I'm with you on that.
00:27:04He seems so nervous.
00:27:06He's shaking.
00:27:07His voice is cracking.
00:27:08What the hell is going on here?
00:27:10What is he hiding?
00:27:12So tell us what happened.
00:27:13So basically what happened is five months after our marriage, she met a guy, a random guy at the gym
00:27:20and cheated on me with him.
00:27:22What?
00:27:23And then while she was married to me, she got pregnant.
00:27:28What the hell am I saying here?
00:27:30I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract them to me.
00:27:35Not telling them about my nightmarish, miserable relationship that I just went through.
00:27:42I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.
00:27:45But anyway, let's change the subject a little.
00:27:48What are you guys looking for in a man?
00:27:56Wait, can you hear?
00:28:04Oh, did I hear that?
00:28:05No.
00:28:06I didn't hear anything.
00:28:07I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult, but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:14disaster?
00:28:15Good.
00:28:27All eyes aren't mean what you're looking at.
00:28:29Yeah, I'm sinking my teeth like a big cat.
00:28:39crowd voice 2
00:28:40Pedro is bad, baby.
00:28:41Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:28:43Muy mala, mala, mala, mala, mala.
00:28:47Muy mala, you bad, honey, got mad money.
00:28:50You bad, honey.
00:28:51Mala.
00:28:52Muy mala.
00:28:54Hello, baby.
00:28:55Hello, baby.
00:28:57How are you?
00:28:59How are you?
00:28:59It's a cold, too.
00:29:01My name is Pedro.
00:29:02I'm 33 years old.
00:29:03Originally, I'm from Dominican Republic.
00:29:05But right now, I live in Atlanta, Georgia.
00:29:07Trae la van.
00:29:08Si, ya estamos aquí.
00:29:10Si.
00:29:10Since my divorce from Chantel, I've been keeping a low profile.
00:29:14I needed time to myself.
00:29:16Dale, dale, dale.
00:29:19Eso, papá.
00:29:20But now, I put everything behind me,
00:29:23and I'm ready for the next Chantel of my life.
00:29:26Bam.
00:29:27That's Dominican engineer over there.
00:29:29Así mismo.
00:29:30Así mismo.
00:29:31¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?
00:29:32Vamos a agrar la van, ponerla bien bonita.
00:29:34Pa' Sophie.
00:29:35Tú siempre estás dispuesto a darlo todo por una mujer.
00:29:38Yo soy un tipo romántico.
00:29:39So, I'm putting my best effort in this, OK?
00:29:44Si, claro.
00:29:46I'm so excited.
00:29:47I'm very happy.
00:29:49Because Sophie arrived in the yard with her friends,
00:29:51and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight.
00:29:53I really want to impress Sophie when she is in my own country.
00:29:57That's why me and my friends are going to decorate the van.
00:29:59They're going to drive Sophie and her friends around the yard.
00:30:03Pedro, ¿a la verdad que te gusta esa mujer?
00:30:06No me gusta, papá.
00:30:08Me encanta.
00:30:09Oye, man.
00:30:12I'm so mad.
00:30:12And the first time I see Sophie online, you know, I say,
00:30:14oh my God.
00:30:15Like, she looks fine.
00:30:17Like, she has everything that I was looking for.
00:30:20The hair, the eyes, the lip, the chick, the ass, the leg.
00:30:24And she got, you know, the waist.
00:30:27You know, like, it's going to go me here and go me down,
00:30:29you know, like a guitar kind of style, you know?
00:30:31That's made me a little crazy.
00:30:42I have a strong feeling for Sophie,
00:30:43and I really, really want a relationship with her.
00:30:46She had very calm heart.
00:30:48She had the full package.
00:31:02When I met Chantelle, I told her my life was set for forever.
00:31:05And then, you know, everything went to the drain.
00:31:12Ah!
00:31:13Baby!
00:31:19Nine years ago, I packed my life from the yard
00:31:22and moved to the United States for love.
00:31:24Hello, my baby.
00:31:29But Chantelle's family caused so much drama.
00:31:31They went freaking crazy.
00:31:32Hey!
00:31:34What'd you say?
00:31:35I tried my best, but I wasn't perfect.
00:31:37And nobody else.
00:31:43Chantelle never stand up for me with her family.
00:31:46That drove me away between us.
00:31:49To the point, our marriage couldn't survive.
00:31:53I feel that we go different ways in life.
00:31:57I want my divorce.
00:32:00I can.
00:32:03I can continue with this.
00:32:06I learned a lot of things from my marriage.
00:32:08Put more time, more effort.
00:32:11Listen more.
00:32:12Be more flexible, you know.
00:32:13And that's helped me right now to mature.
00:32:18Hey!
00:32:18All right, it's a kind of play.
00:32:19Papá, ya tu sabes?
00:32:21Okay.
00:32:21Dale es para allá, ve con la mujer.
00:32:22Dale su abecito.
00:32:24No, vemo allá.
00:32:29You're feeling good tonight.
00:32:32But it's great.
00:32:33It's a big night.
00:32:36Okay.
00:32:37All was good.
00:32:39Now let's go down.
00:32:42Let's go, little puppy.
00:32:45It's been a long time.
00:32:47I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:50The fact that I'm 30 years old, not a kid, not married,
00:32:53made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:56We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:00What you never know.
00:33:01I want the type of life that everyone's dreaming about.
00:33:04I want my wife.
00:33:05I want the house.
00:33:06I want the kid.
00:33:08Maybe, if we love it, we get some.
00:33:11If not, we try again.
00:33:15I go and show Sophie a time of her life in the yard.
00:33:19And I hope, at the end of the street,
00:33:20we can be a relationship forever.
00:33:23Okay.
00:33:25Yeah.
00:33:27We're ready.
00:33:29What the f*** is a picture friend?
00:33:32We are going to have some of San Diego's finest lead men
00:33:35and lead women pitching their wonderful single friend.
00:33:38Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:42She has the biggest heart and she loves Cass.
00:33:49Who's that beauty? Who's that beast?
00:33:51Dirty mouth but conscience clean.
00:33:53All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:56Who's she? I must admit, that's me.
00:34:00I know what I'll bring to the table.
00:34:03I got my plate on.
00:34:04I'm willing and able to make my own bed and eat it all alone.
00:34:09That's me.
00:34:09Hi.
00:34:09How was everything?
00:34:11It was great. Thank you so much.
00:34:12Let me go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:14Have a great day, okay?
00:34:16Thank you so much.
00:34:16Bye.
00:34:17For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor
00:34:21in a hotel casino.
00:34:23Ooh, it's closing time.
00:34:25I really like it.
00:34:26I like scheduling.
00:34:27I like keeping things organized.
00:34:30And I think I get that from my military training
00:34:32because you have to be organized when you're in the military.
00:34:36Are you almost done? We gotta go.
00:34:38It's girls' night.
00:34:39Yeah, I just gotta clean up this stuff
00:34:41and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:43Lily's my closest work friend, and I love the fact that, like,
00:34:46I can confide in her about things.
00:34:48I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:50I haven't been out in a while, so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:54Tonight, Lily and I are gonna meet some of our other friends,
00:34:57and we're just gonna have a little ladies' night.
00:34:59I really wasn't a part of the planning,
00:35:01but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:03So if you see any guys tonight, you gonna try to talk to them?
00:35:07I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:10Really?
00:35:11How'd that go?
00:35:13Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:16Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:18No.
00:35:20But that's a different story.
00:35:24I don't know.
00:35:25I just feel like I'm not gonna just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:28You have to be, like, financially and mentally stable.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:33You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:36No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:38Yeah, you're gonna need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:40I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:43Like, I've never had that.
00:35:44And I really need to feel that love, like, once before I die.
00:35:49Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:53It hurts me as a friend because, you know,
00:35:56she's been through so much in her life that she does deserve to find love.
00:36:01Not someone who's gonna try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:04She's a beautiful person, so I believe she should find someone
00:36:07who is gonna cherish her and treat her like a queen.
00:36:11All right, let's go.
00:36:12Let's go.
00:36:14Go around the world.
00:36:14They're waking up.
00:36:15They serving up.
00:36:16You couldn't catch us.
00:36:16Want to be tried.
00:36:17We serve, we serve spicy.
00:36:19Yeah, we know it's alive.
00:36:21Come on.
00:36:22Right up here.
00:36:23What is this?
00:36:25Let's see where I'm getting tired.
00:36:30Hi.
00:36:31Hi.
00:36:33We love you.
00:36:35Hello baby.
00:36:38Hi girl, babe.
00:36:39What are we doing?
00:36:40What are we doing?
00:36:41Sit down.
00:36:41What the is picture frame?
00:36:43Just chill out.
00:36:44What is it?
00:36:46We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:54The group chat was not talking about this.
00:36:57Just calm down.
00:36:58We got you.
00:37:00You knew about that.
00:37:01I did.
00:37:01I knew.
00:37:02She's in on it.
00:37:03I hate it.
00:37:05Uh-oh.
00:37:06Uh-oh.
00:37:06Oh, no.
00:37:07Here we go.
00:37:08You didn't want to hear me.
00:37:14Welcome, welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:17All right, so we are going to have some of San Diego's finest wingmen and wingwomen on this very stage
00:37:24pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation so that you know who is available and looking for love
00:37:32in this room tonight.
00:37:34Give it up.
00:37:35Give it up.
00:37:37You guys got me on this one.
00:37:39You got me.
00:37:39You got me.
00:37:40Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:44However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:49And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:53We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things that we love about her.
00:38:01And who knows, magic could happen.
00:38:05All right, let's get started in Pitch Up Friends, starting with Rachel pitching Alex!
00:38:13So I'm introducing my friend, Alex.
00:38:16We just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:20Oh, it's 42.
00:38:21It's 42.
00:38:22I need to advance for us to 45.
00:38:24What do you think?
00:38:26Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:27Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:29Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:30Do you have a strong line?
00:38:33Standards.
00:38:34Okay.
00:38:35Boundaries.
00:38:37Alex, come on up here.
00:38:41Questions for Alex.
00:38:44Question.
00:38:45Alex.
00:38:47Yes.
00:38:47Do you like older women?
00:38:51I don't discriminate whatsoever at 19's age.
00:38:55Okay.
00:38:56Give it up for Alex!
00:38:59Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:02We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:05Kimberly!
00:39:08I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:10I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings, and my 55-year-old
00:39:16ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:18Why the am I here?
00:39:20I'm so nervous now.
00:39:21I'm sweating.
00:39:23Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:39:27Kimberly!
00:39:28The most authentic, funny military vet, yo.
00:39:34She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:41The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats, her cats.
00:39:48You have to love cats.
00:39:51If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no.
00:39:55You cannot date Kimberly.
00:39:56You cannot date Kimberly.
00:39:57They sleep.
00:40:00Okay, could we have picked better pictures of Kimberly, first of all?
00:40:03Could we have said not so much about the cats, because now people probably think I'm a cat
00:40:07lady.
00:40:08Kind of true, but, you know.
00:40:11Questions for Kimberly!
00:40:13Raise your hand!
00:40:14Well, hello.
00:40:16Unfortunately, I'm under 45.
00:40:18Damn it!
00:40:19I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:22Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:23Thank you so much.
00:40:26So embarrassing.
00:40:27More questions for Kimberly!
00:40:30Um, hey, why if my dad was in New York, have you dated a man that was far away?
00:40:36I mean, I've dated somebody in ****** Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:42Why the ****** not?
00:40:44This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:50I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions, but
00:40:56this crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:00Next up, we've got the Isabelle Bitchin' Moments!
00:41:04Okay, so what are we going to do?
00:41:05Do you want to make it?
00:41:06I don't like you.
00:41:07I'm done.
00:41:08Are you?
00:41:08I'm done.
00:41:09But I love you guys.
00:41:10I appreciate it.
00:41:10I do appreciate it.
00:41:12That was amazing, right?
00:41:13We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:17Oh, yep.
00:41:18I gotta go.
00:41:19Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:19What?
00:41:21What?
00:41:22Okay.
00:41:24I have plans to...
00:41:26Hook up.
00:41:27Right now.
00:41:28Oh!
00:41:28Wait.
00:41:29Wait.
00:41:31A booty call.
00:41:33A booty call.
00:41:34Yeah.
00:41:35People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:38Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:40But I like to have sex.
00:41:42I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:44I like to have orgasms.
00:41:46Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:48I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:41:51You guys remember B, right?
00:41:55I'm going to them.
00:41:56Oh-ho!
00:41:57Whoa!
00:42:04Woo!
00:42:11This is a great deal.
00:42:12Two for five.
00:42:13How can you beat that?
00:42:14Yeah.
00:42:14I mean, I am budget conscience.
00:42:16And some girls will hate it and say, why are you being so cheap?
00:42:19Well, if I'm so lucky enough to find a woman that is all about value, we're going to get
00:42:24along at the grocery store.
00:42:25And I'm just open, floating through the ocean.
00:42:29The sky's so bright and open.
00:42:32It might turn the getaway.
00:42:36Hi.
00:42:37Excuse me.
00:42:38Hi.
00:42:38Do you know where the package meat is at?
00:42:42Like, hamburger?
00:42:43Yeah.
00:42:44It's going to be down here on the left.
00:42:45All the way down?
00:42:46All the way down?
00:42:47Uh-huh.
00:42:47I'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife was vegan.
00:42:52Oh.
00:42:53And, like, I could not just go to the grocery store and buy meat because she's vegan.
00:42:58Yeah.
00:42:58You know?
00:42:59But now that I'm single, I mean, it's no problem.
00:43:03I feel so happy.
00:43:05You know what I'm saying.
00:43:06Yeah.
00:43:06A little ball and chain.
00:43:08A ball and chain, right.
00:43:09Yeah.
00:43:10But thanks a lot.
00:43:11Nice talking to you.
00:43:12Sure.
00:43:13Enjoy your meat.
00:43:14Things are really looking positive nowadays.
00:43:16I don't feel the stress that I used to feel.
00:43:18I have the freedom to do anything I want and be who I really am.
00:43:23Even if it's as simple as going to the grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge,
00:43:30I have the freedom to do that now.
00:43:32Hmm.
00:43:32I think this will work.
00:43:36Okay.
00:43:37Take that, Jeff.
00:43:38The one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating.
00:43:43I had a lot of fun at the singles event playing kickball, but maybe not the best situation, like, to
00:43:51find a date.
00:43:52In person, you know, I might be a little bit too anxious.
00:43:57So I've been posting more things on my social media nowadays.
00:44:02It lets me curate the image I want women to have in me.
00:44:06It makes me a lot more confident going to meet someone if I know this person is already interested in
00:44:14me.
00:44:14Check this out.
00:44:15I posted a picture today of me working out.
00:44:20This woman says, sexy man.
00:44:23I definitely would not be able to go with you because I'll be looking at you instead of the trainer
00:44:30while I'm drawing.
00:44:35I have lots of women sliding into my DMs lately, and I love it.
00:44:41I freaking love it.
00:44:44Oh, someone's messaging me.
00:44:49Who is it?
00:44:51Natalie's replying to my workout post, and she says, great job.
00:44:55She's proud of me.
00:44:57Natalie is a woman that I dated about eight months ago when Jasmine and I were on really shaky ground.
00:45:05You're like a super amazing person.
00:45:08So are you.
00:45:09And you're just so adorable, too.
00:45:11Look at your smile.
00:45:12It's so cute.
00:45:13Aww.
00:45:14You're so sweet.
00:45:17I thought Natalie and I, we could have a real future together.
00:45:21But when I brought her to my cousin's birthday party and Jasmine showed up, everything went to hell.
00:45:26Why are we bringing the horse from Vegas?
00:45:30Oh, really?
00:45:31You should watch her.
00:45:33Don't touch her.
00:45:34Don't touch her.
00:45:35Don't you.
00:45:35Relax.
00:45:36No.
00:45:36No.
00:45:37Listen.
00:45:39Get off me.
00:45:41Bye.
00:45:41We didn't talk for almost a year.
00:45:44And then Natalie and I, we reconnected at the Happily Ever After Tell-All.
00:45:49And we've been texting each other ever since.
00:45:52Yeah.
00:45:53I responded to her.
00:45:54But I added some emojis to it.
00:45:56Like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head.
00:46:01You know, I want to get her attention.
00:46:03Like, hey, you know, I'm still interested in you.
00:46:07I still like Natalie a lot.
00:46:09So I asked her if I could visit her next week.
00:46:12And she said, yes.
00:46:15You know, this is soft.
00:46:17I mean, exactly how I like my women.
00:46:19Soft.
00:46:21This is my chance to build a relationship with her.
00:46:24But after everything that's happened, it's going to take a lot of work.
00:46:29I really feel like I have a lot to prove with Natalie, like with actions, not just words.
00:46:34I know it's my last shot and I cannot mess it up.
00:46:38Now, that I could post on my Instagram.
00:46:41That big-ass cucumber.
00:46:47Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with.
00:46:50Oh!
00:46:52Candle in the car!
00:46:54The van alone, cute.
00:46:56But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed.
00:46:58He's coming on very strong.
00:47:01Ah!
00:47:01It's Pedro.
00:47:01He has an English friend.
00:47:08They call me fuego.
00:47:10They call me fire.
00:47:11They call me all that you desire.
00:47:13They call me fuego.
00:47:14They call me fire.
00:47:15They call me all that you desire.
00:47:18They call me fuego.
00:47:21This is my first night in the VR.
00:47:23And I am going out with Sophie and Juliam.
00:47:27And we are actually going to go meet Pedro.
00:47:30I was told that Pedro is bringing some single friends.
00:47:34So I'm super excited right now.
00:47:43I need to get a spark back in my life.
00:47:47I live in Washington.
00:47:48It's always gloomy.
00:47:50There's hardly any sunshine.
00:47:52And it can be very depressing at times.
00:47:56So when Sophie planned a girls trip, I was all about it.
00:48:01I need sun kisses from head to toe.
00:48:04I am really excited.
00:48:05I want to get dressed up.
00:48:06I want to go out.
00:48:07I want to meet people.
00:48:08I want to mingle.
00:48:09I want to flirt.
00:48:09And I want to feel sexy.
00:48:11I have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship.
00:48:15And looking back, I've never picked the right guy.
00:48:18And I've given the wrong guy way too many chances.
00:48:23Um, I think you're amazing.
00:48:25And I want to ask you out on a date.
00:48:28One of my last relationships was head.
00:48:31It just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face.
00:48:34But, um...
00:48:35It took me a while to get used to you.
00:48:38Burn.
00:48:39We were kind of always a hot mess.
00:48:41Go f*** yourself.
00:48:42Bye.
00:48:44Liz, Liz, Liz.
00:48:45You are out of control, you drunk.
00:48:47Shut the f*** up.
00:48:48You don't give a s***, Ed.
00:48:50But, despite all that, I truly had fallen in love with Ed and always wanted to make it work.
00:48:58Will you marry me?
00:49:00Doodle.
00:49:01Woo!
00:49:02Woo!
00:49:03Woo!
00:49:04But then, Ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding.
00:49:07You're going to be the best version of yourself, and it's not going to be with me.
00:49:12Liz, rest assured, I'm always going to be an a**.
00:49:18Then came Jason.
00:49:20You're in the past.
00:49:21We're going to move forward.
00:49:22Starting today, you will never disrespect her again.
00:49:24Otherwise, you're going to have to deal with me.
00:49:27Four months into dating Jason, I found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year.
00:49:33And then, the time that I needed him to step up and be there for me the most, like, he
00:49:39didn't.
00:49:39He couldn't.
00:49:41A couple months ago, right before I broke up with Jason, I didn't get the best news.
00:49:48I had a mass that was growing in my stomach.
00:49:52It turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer, which I actually found out through a miscarriage that Jason
00:50:00and I had.
00:50:01And I'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch.
00:50:06Me being sick, but...
00:50:11I think I can touch it.
00:50:17Being sick took a huge toll on me.
00:50:20But I also know that I'm going to overcome it.
00:50:24I'm really hopeful about my future.
00:50:26I don't want to waste any moment.
00:50:30I want to live my life.
00:50:34And I really do want to find love again.
00:50:38Girls night!
00:50:40I deserve the best.
00:50:41And I've definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else.
00:50:46I bet you're missing me now.
00:50:53Right now.
00:50:54I'm here, my soul!
00:50:56I don't remember the last time I went clubbing.
00:50:59Really?
00:50:59Yeah.
00:51:00Mine was, like, two days before this trailer.
00:51:03It's my first night in the DR, and I have my girls with me, but I'm also really looking forward
00:51:07to just spending some time with Pedro.
00:51:09Hello?
00:51:10Oh, my gosh.
00:51:11Pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the DR and get around with, which
00:51:17I feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet.
00:51:18Bye.
00:51:19Hello!
00:51:22Oh!
00:51:26Oh, my God!
00:51:28Oh, my goodness!
00:51:30Oh, my goodness.
00:51:30Okay, should I hop in the back?
00:51:32I'm sorry.
00:51:33That is, like, candle in the car.
00:51:38Candle in the car!
00:51:40The van alone?
00:51:41Cute.
00:51:42But the other stuff, I feel very overwhelmed, and I just feel like he's coming on very strong.
00:51:48I feel like that's just welcome to his country.
00:51:51I don't think that's too much.
00:51:53Candle in the car.
00:51:54Okay.
00:51:54Candle in the car is blowing my mind.
00:51:57Can I just applaud how adorable and sexy this is?
00:52:02No, it's really cute.
00:52:03It's cute.
00:52:04It is cute.
00:52:05It is cute.
00:52:07Did he do the ball as well?
00:52:11Pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe, but he forgot we will be there, too.
00:52:16It's a sexy vibe for me and my friends.
00:52:19Nani nani, Pedro.
00:52:21She's trying to say naughty.
00:52:23I speak Julia language.
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:25This translator.
00:52:26Yeah.
00:52:27Do you wanna kiss him?
00:52:29Yeah.
00:52:30If he goes in, he'll probably go, psst.
00:52:31Well, yeah, we haven't done anything yet, you know?
00:52:33So, it's like, I'm gonna hug him.
00:52:35Do we keep the tequila out of your hands, or do we put it in your hands?
00:52:38Put it in my hands.
00:52:39Okay.
00:52:39In my hands.
00:52:48Let's go.
00:52:50Thanks a much.
00:52:52Honey, I don't know if I can make it long.
00:52:56Cause I'll be watching you while the DJ plays your song.
00:53:00It's been two and a half months, the last time I saw Sophie.
00:53:03I hope that she still had the same feeling for me.
00:53:06Maybe you could show me.
00:53:09Cause I've been waiting so long.
00:53:11I'm thejalaz.
00:53:15I got it.
00:53:15Ah, it's in Pedro.
00:53:17Where is he?
00:53:17He's hovering into his hands.
00:53:19Shut up.
00:53:20You're hovering in the flowers and the red carpet.
00:53:22Come on, Johnny.
00:53:24I'm gonna go film.
00:53:28you got this girl
00:53:32wow
00:53:34you look good thank you how are you how are you how you been i'm good how are you how
00:53:39with the
00:53:39flying as long as okay she looked like stunning she looked stunning oh the hug that she gave me
00:53:49was very awkward hold like a brother she hugged me like a like a like a like a side hug
00:53:56like
00:53:58even the baseball they give you a little spanky oh good job boy oh bam
00:54:05introduce mr you oh yeah that's
00:54:11that's the first time i met julia and then she hugged me with so much sighting like god damn it
00:54:17like sophie come on get julia's energy please love it i'm ready to be here nice to meet you nice
00:54:24to
00:54:24meet you liz okay ladies uh we're going to go out there to the rooftop you're going to meet my
00:54:30friends enjoy the night follow me ladies okay which way should we go yeah how you doing oh my god
00:54:36how
00:54:36are you good good good this way yeah
00:54:51guys let me introduce you that my friend villas darling and this is rafael okay she's sophie julia
00:55:03at least nice to meet you well how was the band was good yeah yeah good job guys they help
00:55:12me
00:55:12i can tell pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me which it's nice but it feels like
00:55:24i'm
00:55:24like walking into like a job interview or like i'm supposed to give a speech or something because
00:55:29they're just sat there like this at me okay okay should we sit uh let me
00:55:38i already feel like there's expectation of me and i'm kind of brought here as pedro's girlfriend
00:55:45it's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:50one let's just go please okay we're just gonna go to the bottom real quick okay go to the bottom
00:55:55you know where this bottom at we'll find it huh we'll find it
00:56:04that's
00:56:06that energy bro i don't know what's like i don't know i don't know i don't know i don't know
00:56:13what's very awkward i'm excited that sophie's here but right now it's it's feel cold indifference
00:56:22weird you know like awkward sophie entirely different person than i met before
00:56:33sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:39even though i'm in my 50s i still have urges i still have needs
00:56:57i have plans to hook up right now
00:57:12wait wait so like a booty call a booty call yeah so a booty call is when you're not in
00:57:21a
00:57:21relationship and you just meet up with one of your little friends and you know you have
00:57:26some drinky drinks and then do the deed and then you just go home even though i'm in my 50s
00:57:33i still have urges i still have needs and it like gets the needs met you know what it's a
00:57:39step in the
00:57:39right direction why not i'm meeting up with benjamin or as everybody calls him b he's a really
00:57:46good friend of mine and i dated him for about six months before i met usman once usman and i
00:57:53broke up
00:57:53and he knew it he just slid right in the dms and we've been banging it out ever since
00:58:01it's it's tricky with me and b because the connection is there like you can feel it you
00:58:05know but he's just a friend with benefits like i i just don't feel like we're at that point to
00:58:10make
00:58:10it a relationship when b and i tried to date like five six years ago we were doing pretty good
00:58:17we have
00:58:18a lot of things in common and then about six months in b hit me up with he wanted to
00:58:22be like
00:58:23in a throuple he wanted me to have sex with the woman and i was just like are you high
00:58:29no i'm not
00:58:30doing that he was very free-spirited back then and kim was not sexually b is he's good he's great
00:58:36with me and this thing so there you go what you had that with usman though it was the same
00:58:42thing you
00:58:43had the connection but there was all these other red flags that's how i feel and i don't want the
00:58:46red
00:58:46flag being a woman of a certain age that we all are it is refreshing for me to see her
00:58:59having a little
00:59:01bit of a hoe phase you know what i'm all for that are you for that yeah i think she
00:59:06i mean get it out
00:59:07of her system a little bit until she finds the right one friends with benefits and whatever they
00:59:11have is is a good connection i'm down for it yeah okay love you i love you all right bye
00:59:16i love you
00:59:16love you too but we wanted her to find somebody that is truly special and truly right that she can
00:59:22fall in love with and that loves her true he ain't the one no for tonight he is the one
00:59:31she's my name spell it out serve it up like a lemonade sweet and sour make it bust b and
00:59:36i have
00:59:37been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has roommates and
00:59:41with my house i never know if jamal's gonna show up or not
00:59:49at first it was a little inconvenient but i have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot
00:59:54nice hotel sex
01:00:19so much nicer than those old hotels we used to get
01:00:23oh man back in the day look crazy look at us now you look beautiful as usual i try my
01:00:32name is
01:00:32benjamin but everybody calls me b because i'm like the bumblebee i'll always be buzzing around and you
01:00:39never know where i'll land at this is a good bit this is nice look at the big bit this
01:00:45is a big bit the
01:00:46reason why me and kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship that we have
01:00:51together she's somebody i'd definitely like i rock with so i went to this like dating event thing
01:00:59you know what i'm saying yeah see this is why i love you because we can talk about this stuff
01:01:02right
01:01:03right of course of course so it was laura and jody and my friend lily right and they pitched me
01:01:08so
01:01:08it was called pitch a friend it was a slideshow presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures
01:01:15yeah of me and then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was
01:01:20very
01:01:20touching but it just was not my thing sometimes i tell b about me like meeting other guys or like
01:01:26this whole pitch a friend thing because i want to see what he's going to say like don't do that
01:01:30let
01:01:31me try to be your man b and i are good together and i know he sees it and i
01:01:35was kind of hoping that
01:01:36with age that b would like you know calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades and want to
01:01:41be in a
01:01:41monogamous relationship we've known each other forever yeah i miss you so much i miss you too like
01:01:47we're cool like we're friends with benefits now and i love that but like i'd like maybe to see it
01:01:51grow to see what else it could be we've always talked about it you know and the only way we're
01:01:58gonna find that out is with more time we should plan like once every two weeks when we can
01:02:07so you haven't even been to my house yet no but i'm so crazy i'm coming
01:02:17yeah okay i am tired and i just want to go take a shower is that okay yeah of course
01:02:23okay i'll give
01:02:24you a massage once i get out of the shower so i'm just i'm just baby baby please baby baby
01:02:31baby please
01:02:32what can can you show me like what that what my death yes that might feel like yes let's go
01:02:38let
01:02:38me see oh let me see let me see i have a good hand i love b to death and
01:02:44i would love to be in
01:02:45a relationship with him and i'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what kim is putting
01:02:50down so i mean where do we go from here oh dang all right yeah i'm gonna go take a
01:02:56shower i don't
01:03:02want more for myself so if he doesn't step up soon i mean this whole relationship is going to have
01:03:07an expiration date i'm not going to keep waiting
01:03:13traveling today to see natalie again god aren't these sexy i mean holy cow i hope she gives me a
01:03:20second chance and more importantly i hope i don't mess it up
01:03:40why are you packing up shampoo well i gotta wash the hair right the little hair that i have the
01:03:46patch of hair on the back of my head i shampoo it i condition it i take very good care
01:03:51of it
01:03:52that's the only hair i got left on my head
01:04:06i want to look good for natalie you know so i um bought a couple of new shirts hopefully she'll
01:04:13like
01:04:13them i can't wait to hop on a plane and go see natalie they're colorful that's for sure
01:04:22definitely colorful i visited natalie in vegas previously because that's where her home's at
01:04:29this time i'm going to travel to dc because she's currently working remotely there god aren't these sexy
01:04:36i mean holy cow that's some sexy ass underwear right here
01:04:40a lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk to be honest
01:04:46and hasn't been very deep so i really really don't know how natalie feels about me
01:04:54but i don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me
01:05:01i don't need my little blue pills and i'm not packing any um because the little blue pills i need
01:05:08for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant ditch then i need something to pump me up
01:05:14but natalie
01:05:15is a different story because just her personality and attitude the way she is i'm gonna get it up man
01:05:24all right i think we got it
01:05:40time to board i'll see you soon natalie i've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last
01:05:47two years so trying to put myself out there again it's not easy
01:05:56but there's not many times that you can get a second chance and especially with a woman that's
01:06:03high quality like natalie is
01:06:12good morning good morning how are you doing great doing great my first time in washington dc
01:06:19i'm excited excited i hope you enjoy your stay thank you i'm so excited to be here to see um
01:06:25who i'm meeting today on top of her having that great personality and caring and fun and
01:06:31kind she is a hot sexy passionate latina let me tell you see what fire right she's on fire baby
01:06:42oh is this it yeah this is it thank you i'm meeting natalie at a tea shop near her office
01:06:49the plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment
01:07:06how are you feeling well i'm super excited to see her and hang out with her and but i i
01:07:14have some
01:07:14nervousness it's a little nerve wracking
01:07:21my heart's racing a bit that's what natalie does to me
01:07:37i hope that natalie gives me a second chance but more importantly i hope i don't mess it up
01:07:44hey
01:07:48what is your name again via via nice to meet you oh you don't do the kiss thing
01:07:54no there we go there we go via is very good looking and he smells expensive
01:08:03honestly if i never wanted to get divorced like he would still be mad and the hookers with him
01:08:09i don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants what the we doing here
01:08:23how do you feel right now i don't know why his energy just gives me like i just feel like
01:08:29in his head we're in a relationship like if you ask him i feel like he's like yeah that's my
01:08:33girl
01:08:42they take a long time what they're doing nobody tell you can have fun
01:08:49just have fun i feel like he won't let me have fun now like now he's gonna feel like she's
01:08:55in my
01:08:56country she's meeting my friends like i feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe you should
01:09:01loosen up a little bit with a couple drinks and you will be good that's just there goes
01:09:07it'll be a good night yeah um you know what help me meet my man kitty's thirsty
01:09:15me and the girls just arrived at the club to meet pedro and his friends and
01:09:19is a very overwhelming environment sorry uh you can sit down um you can see over here sophie i
01:09:27already started to feel overwhelmed in the van and now i just feel like he's thinking this is my
01:09:31girlfriend she's meeting all my friends and it's not the vibe that i've been in with him before
01:09:36which that's what i loved before it was so easy going and this feels a little bit a little bit
01:09:42pressure lisa going to listen to my friend villa what is your name again yeah yeah it's nice to
01:09:47meet you oh you don't do the kiss thing you know okay no there you go there you go
01:09:55via is very good looking he's very well groomed like his hair cut some point
01:10:02and he smells really good he smells expensive cheers thank you for inviting us
01:10:09okay ladies
01:10:23when i be look like one two
01:10:34hey you got it
01:10:40As we're dancing, I can tell we're both very attracted to each other.
01:10:43Get close, get close, get close to me.
01:10:46No, get close to me. No worry.
01:10:49He just smells really good, he dresses well, and he's just hot.
01:10:53But even though I'm attracted to him,
01:10:55I don't want to, like, be all over him the first night
01:10:57and lead him on, because I still don't really know what I want yet.
01:11:00Hey, hey, hey.
01:11:02So you've never danced bachata before?
01:11:04I was trying to sign up for a bachata lessons while I'm out here.
01:11:07Well, it's so easy. I can teach you that.
01:11:08Okay.
01:11:11We can start here, right?
01:11:13So it's one, two, three.
01:11:16Oh, you do know!
01:11:20One, two.
01:11:21One, two.
01:11:22One, two.
01:11:24And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam!
01:11:30You lied to me. You said she didn't know.
01:11:33She said she was going to take classes.
01:11:34I said I wanted to do one last day.
01:11:36No.
01:11:40Let's go over here better.
01:11:43Everyone just left.
01:11:45That's okay.
01:11:47They needed that alone time.
01:11:48Yeah.
01:11:50You look beautiful. You look gorgeous.
01:11:51Thank you. Thank you.
01:11:53I'm super happy that you're here.
01:11:55Oh, yeah.
01:11:55Yeah.
01:11:56You take the invitation to come in here.
01:11:57Just spend a little time with me.
01:11:59I know.
01:12:00You're going to have the best time.
01:12:02I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast.
01:12:05Because I'm in a DR.
01:12:08Wow.
01:12:09That's a lot.
01:12:11You don't need classes.
01:12:12No class?
01:12:13No.
01:12:14I think Liz likes your friend.
01:12:16Yeah, look.
01:12:16Villa?
01:12:17Yeah.
01:12:19So are you from here or are you from here?
01:12:20Well, I was born in Atlanta.
01:12:23When's your birthday?
01:12:26September.
01:12:26September?
01:12:27I'm May, baby.
01:12:28I'm a Gemini.
01:12:29You're a Gemini?
01:12:31Yeah.
01:12:31What is your size?
01:12:32I'm a Libra.
01:12:33Okay.
01:12:33I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced.
01:12:37Which is?
01:12:38Is this your only tattoo?
01:12:40Oh.
01:12:40Yeah.
01:12:41Wow.
01:12:41It's a whole sleeve.
01:12:42It's a Libra.
01:12:43So a woman with the blindfold and the scale.
01:12:48What's this?
01:12:49Oh, it's my son's name.
01:12:51I have a kid.
01:12:55Riley Leanne.
01:12:56You have a kid?
01:12:57Yeah.
01:12:58Really?
01:12:58She's going to be 12.
01:13:00You have a 12-year-old?
01:13:01Yeah.
01:13:01Yeah.
01:13:02My baby means everything to me.
01:13:03Same.
01:13:04Yeah.
01:13:04Same.
01:13:05He is my reason for everything.
01:13:08Definitely.
01:13:09Oh.
01:13:10I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via.
01:13:13He'll be eight in July.
01:13:15He's sweet.
01:13:16He loves his kid.
01:13:17He's making eye contact with me.
01:13:20We're having great conversation.
01:13:22I think we need a drink to that.
01:13:24I think we need a shot.
01:13:26Is your friend a hope?
01:13:29He's...
01:13:29I know.
01:13:30He is a hope.
01:13:31It's okay.
01:13:32This isn't her single era.
01:13:34So this is her time to just, like, live her life a little bit.
01:13:37Same with me.
01:13:38I'm not in a toxic relationship.
01:13:40You're separated right now.
01:13:41Are you still married?
01:13:42Are you divorced?
01:13:45How...
01:13:45How...
01:13:46How that goes?
01:13:47Like, I'm still suddenly married, but I'm, like, started the process of divorce.
01:13:53But we still...
01:13:53How far you are now?
01:13:56Like...
01:13:56Just now.
01:13:58So it's very new.
01:14:00It never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me.
01:14:04He still called you?
01:14:05He called me two days ago.
01:14:06Four in the morning.
01:14:07For what?
01:14:08It was unknown numbers to have me blocked.
01:14:10And he was like, why do you have me blocked?
01:14:12I'm like, we're getting divorced.
01:14:16Why...
01:14:16Why are you so upset with you?
01:14:17Like, why are you not gonna move on?
01:14:18Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, he would still be mad.
01:14:22I thought that Sophie and her husband divorced was more fired alone.
01:14:27Because she tell me he was the worst husband.
01:14:31That he...
01:14:31He made her, like, miserable all the time.
01:14:35If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?
01:14:41Any hookers with him?
01:14:48Yeah.
01:14:50We, like, fucked up after a few months.
01:14:52Because as much as that guy was horrible to me, I still had love for him.
01:14:57When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories.
01:15:00And so we slept together.
01:15:04They've been hook-ups.
01:15:05And she never told me they did hook-up before.
01:15:08And it's speechless.
01:15:10It's hard when you love someone.
01:15:12I can't just be like, I... you.
01:15:13Bye, you know?
01:15:14Look, if you wanna be with Rob, okay?
01:15:16Be with Rob or be with every guy that you want to be.
01:15:20But I don't wanna be collateral damage for somebody that don't know what it wants.
01:15:24What the we doing here?
01:15:30I wish I would've just handled this whole situation better.
01:15:33You know, but now I have to just...
01:15:34I wish you did, too.
01:15:36I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:15:39I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:15:41I don't know.
01:15:42I don't know what I... up.
01:15:43You know?
01:15:51You can't deny it.
01:15:53I'm the queen of the sea.
01:15:54I'm a lion.
01:15:55I'm just getting home from my night with Bea.
01:15:58Even at 55, I'm still doing the walk of shame.
01:16:01Hey, I'm not gonna fall in your mind.
01:16:07Hey, I'm a hard-working woman and I do what I like.
01:16:10Hey.
01:16:11Come on, let me give you some treats.
01:16:15Hey, my baby.
01:16:16Here.
01:16:19Last night was pretty amazing.
01:16:21Bea's really good in bed, I have to say.
01:16:24And usually after a night like that, I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.
01:16:29But right now, I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over.
01:16:34So good to be out of those clothes.
01:16:36Oh, my God.
01:16:37He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.
01:16:40But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.
01:16:49Ding dong.
01:16:50Hey.
01:16:51What's up?
01:16:51How are you?
01:16:53Good.
01:16:53How are you?
01:16:54I'm good.
01:16:54I'm good.
01:16:56So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.
01:16:59See?
01:16:59Is it big?
01:17:00It's, look at the picture.
01:17:02Oh.
01:17:03Okay, here we go.
01:17:04So they go A and C, E.
01:17:06It goes like this.
01:17:08Yeah, this is E, see?
01:17:10This is so fun.
01:17:12So I went out for girls' night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.
01:17:16You know my friend from work, Lily.
01:17:17So we went to Mavericks, and they had this event called Pitch Me.
01:17:21Oh, no way.
01:17:22So they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.
01:17:26And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.
01:17:27They weren't even like grown, you know?
01:17:29Well, I feel like your last couple guys have been younger, so.
01:17:35My last one guy was younger.
01:17:38So, well, B's not really.
01:17:40B's 44, so, I mean, he's, you know.
01:17:42What's his real name?
01:17:43Benjamin.
01:17:44Oh.
01:17:44Yeah, B sounds better.
01:17:46Yeah.
01:17:46But, um, so then he texts me, and I went over to a hotel with him last night.
01:17:54Sure you don't want to know about that?
01:17:55Yeah, I don't need to hear that.
01:17:58Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.
01:18:02I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just devastated him.
01:18:09As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.
01:18:13But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet,
01:18:16and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then and talk about it.
01:18:19But Jamal will just hang up on me.
01:18:21He won't answer a text.
01:18:22He'll walk out the house.
01:18:24It's been very uncomfortable.
01:18:27Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.
01:18:32Why is he coming out here?
01:18:33Just to see, like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know, get a little more of my
01:18:38family history.
01:18:40And I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
01:18:44You know, but now I have to just...
01:18:46I wish you did too.
01:18:50You hid him for so long.
01:18:55I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:19:02I did what I thought, what I thought was right.
01:19:03Yeah, but why'd you hide him for so long?
01:19:10Just give me a second.
01:19:14Jamal is not my only child.
01:19:19This is really hard for me.
01:19:28Jamal's dad and I were never married.
01:19:30Um, we were together for seven and a half years.
01:19:32We were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time.
01:19:37It was just like, every day there was like a different girl.
01:19:43When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry, first thing his dad said was abort it.
01:19:49And I just couldn't do that.
01:19:51When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.
01:19:54I was not mentally ready.
01:19:56I was starting my military career.
01:19:58I was just not ready.
01:20:00So I decided to put my son up for adoption.
01:20:02And I never told Jamal until last year.
01:20:05When Larry found us through an Ancestry website.
01:20:09I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:11I would have told you.
01:20:12I don't think so.
01:20:12And that's a huge thing for me is like...
01:20:16I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:20Because like, there was no reason to not tell me.
01:20:22I just didn't know how to say it.
01:20:25You know? And it's always been like, me and you, me and you, me and you.
01:20:28And I finally got our relationship to where like, I've always wanted it to be, right?
01:20:33So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.
01:20:36I felt like in my head, I was just like, trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you
01:20:41too.
01:20:42Because I just didn't...
01:20:43Very protecting me.
01:20:44I don't know. I just didn't know how to handle it.
01:20:47That is the complete truth.
01:20:49I did not know how to handle this.
01:20:50At all.
01:20:51At all.
01:20:54Last year, I found out I had an older brother.
01:20:59Full blood, mommy and dad.
01:21:01And my first thought was that she was lying.
01:21:04It was a joke or something.
01:21:06Because...
01:21:08Why would you hide this for so long when we're so close?
01:21:11And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.
01:21:14I have this whole other family and you knew about it.
01:21:18And I'm like, how could my own mom like, look me in my eyes when she knows I have a
01:21:23whole brother.
01:21:27Dude.
01:21:28That's just not something I'm like, even thought about forgiving yet.
01:21:33Because I just don't know who would do that.
01:21:35So I'm like, damn.
01:21:43I don't know.
01:21:44I feel like your mom's the person you're supposed to trust, like, only.
01:21:47Like, if you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.
01:21:49But now it's like, wow, I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.
01:21:54Oh, I'm like shaking.
01:21:59It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.
01:22:03You do make a lot of excuses.
01:22:06I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:22:08I don't know, I don't know what else, I up, you know?
01:22:11Like, I don't, I don't know what else to say to fix it.
01:22:15I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.
01:22:19It ended up just hurting him worse.
01:22:22Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.
01:22:26And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up.
01:22:31Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife and his son.
01:22:37Meeting Larry for the first time was like, crazy.
01:22:41Because I'm looking at him, I'm like, okay, this is my blood, this is my son.
01:22:45And he has my face, he looks just like me.
01:22:47But he's a total stranger to me.
01:22:51And technically, I'm a grandma.
01:22:54It's a surreal feeling.
01:22:57But I'm so relieved, because he was such a good man.
01:23:02And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him, you know?
01:23:06It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.
01:23:11Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry, and I invited him to San Diego so I could
01:23:16get to know him more and he could see where I'm from.
01:23:21What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here? Like, what's next?
01:23:25You think you're gonna have like a deep talk with him?
01:23:26I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:23:29About what?
01:23:33About the other one.
01:23:50How do you think he's gonna react?
01:23:51I think he's gonna be pissed.
01:23:53He's gonna be really upset with me.
01:23:54Hey, by the way, you have a sister like the ****.
01:24:01Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:24:06I also had a daughter.
01:24:17This season on The Single Life.
01:24:22This is the kind of life that I want.
01:24:25Where I can have fun with my partner.
01:24:28You're getting me all hot.
01:24:30Oh, yeah?
01:24:31This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
01:24:34Nice to meet you.
01:24:36I'll never see you again.
01:24:38I was helping him upload something on social media,
01:24:41and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.
01:24:44Something's fishy about this.
01:24:46Courtney's worried that I'm just gonna leave or cheat or whatever one day.
01:24:50Are you still living that way, dude?
01:24:52Be honest with me.
01:24:53Well, um...
01:24:56How are you?
01:24:57A wreck. I'm like, shaking.
01:24:59I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me.
01:25:03Here, sit.
01:25:04But I want to tell him now, and I'm really scared.
01:25:07What if he just turns around and leaves?
01:25:09What if he never speaks to me again?
01:25:12Harder time.
01:25:16Do you mind if I have a dance?
01:25:18It's my girl.
01:25:19Are you serious?
01:25:20I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.
01:25:23I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.
01:25:26So you're stopping me from being who I am?
01:25:29You don't see a problem here at all.
01:25:30What is the freaking problem?
01:25:31I think the problem is actually us.
01:25:33I'm done with this .
01:25:36Yesterday, I was talking to Liz, and she made me feel maybe I do have another guy in your mind.
01:25:41But why would she tell you that?
01:25:42I don't want Sophie to play games with me.
01:25:45I'm not interested in this .
01:25:48Hell no. Not with me.
01:25:50Everything I told you, he knows.
01:25:53You've never had my back.
01:25:54Yes, I have.
01:25:55You've never had my .
01:25:56We have enough.
01:25:57That's breaking girl codes.
01:25:58Like, you don't do that.
01:26:00Go the home, Liz.
01:26:02Have yours.
01:26:02I'm not .
01:26:03What?
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