00:00Babies are a big business. Babies are a big business, yeah. Such a big business that they
00:06make everybody think they should have one so that they can make more money. It's true, there's like
00:12a big push that you have to have kids. Yeah, absolutely. I think that it's, you know, I think
00:18that every life should have a purpose. I think we should all have a purpose in our life. We
00:22shouldn't be here without a purpose. But I certainly don't think that every woman's purpose is to have
00:27a child. And I think that that's where, you know, our society really puts a lot of pressure
00:31on women as if that's where their purpose lies. And I think it's a shame because what happens
00:37is a lot of times women feel the pressure to do that. They have children when they're not
00:40ready, when they don't really want them. And then the children have to suffer because of
00:45that. And also they are not spending the energy finding what their real purpose is and therefore
00:51they're not as happy with themselves. And, you know, and this all feeds into the fact
00:57that, you know, it comes from the fact that people get so much pressure on them to have
01:02children. It's not even only religious, it's just a cultural thing. Yeah, cultural thing,
01:07absolutely. But what did you learn? Because in a movie, you weren't expecting, and then you
01:12go, you have to expect. What did you learn from the process? Because, you know, I was saying,
01:17you hear so many stories from women, each one goes through different things. But what
01:21did you learn from, you know, from the experience of the movie?
01:23You know, I think that, you know, this film didn't teach me anything really that I didn't
01:29know before. It was one of those things that I think we just were able to bring our own
01:33life experience to it because the book is really very scientific. You know, it's about the actual,
01:38you know, the evolution of the body and the child. But this was really about the emotional
01:45experience and the human connection, the relationships and the ideas of how all these
01:49different ways to get, to bring a child into your life. There's as many children as there
01:54are, that's how many different ways there are to bring a child to, into one's life. So,
01:58you know, it's all, it's an interesting that, that's why I think it's so relatable to everyone
02:04because people can just see themselves in any number of these relationships.
02:08Especially in your type of relationship because you kind of bond after the whole experience.
02:12talk a little bit about that. Yeah, well, I mean, our, our, our storyline was really interesting
02:17because we just met each other. We probably had known each other for two months, uh, before
02:23finding out that we were pregnant. And, um, I, I, I just think it's interesting because
02:28that does happen. That does happen that people kind of get caught up in a moment. And so in
02:36the whole process of us being pregnant, we're also trying to find out about each other and figure
02:41out who you are and trying to make sure the waters aren't, aren't rough because, you know,
02:47I don't know how she's going to react if I say this. And so it's a difficult situation we were
02:52put
02:52in, but then also trying to figure out how we're going to bring this life into the world and how
02:57and how we're going to raise it. And you get, of course, you know, disagree with certain things.
03:01Mm-hmm. Absolutely. There's certain things that we disagree about, like circumcision, um, which, uh,
03:07we're still talking out to this day.
03:09Yes.
03:11You'd think it would be the other way around that women would be advocating to, you know,
03:16that men would be advocating not to have it sliced off. But I find that the, the, the men
03:23usually in America, the, their, their argument is for circumcision, where you'd think that a guy
03:29would be like, just don't touch it. You know what I mean? And women are going like, don't touch it.
03:33Leave it as it is. Right. You, I, I, you'd think that men would say leave it alone.
03:40I don't know. It's just, it's so nice and, and pretty and, and it's still pretty. Let me tell you,
03:47it's still pretty.
03:48Okay.
03:50You're against what?
03:51Uh, am I against circumcision? No, I'm for it.
03:55He, he likes, he wants to.
03:56She's against it.
03:57I'm against circumcision.
03:59Just like the movie.
04:00Mm-hmm.
04:01But, you know, the thing you mentioned, uh, getting to know each other, that's another thing that you just
04:05talked about, you know, having kids, it's, it's a big responsibility. You need to actually be.
04:09Yeah.
04:10On a good relationship too.
04:11Absolutely.
04:12Mm-hmm.
04:12And that's, and that's the whole point with, with what, um, Matt was just saying, was that
04:16these two people don't really know one another. You know, I mean, that's, that's totally relatable
04:21because, you know, a lot of people, that's how a lot of babies happen. You know what I mean?
04:25And, uh, you know, the, it makes you have to, you know, for these two people, make them better
04:31people. You know, they have to become, they have to realize that compromise is part of this.
04:36you know, this partnership that you have to find the, the middle ground. And, um, they
04:41help one another in that, um, in, in that development. So.
04:47Thank you.
04:48Exactly.
04:49Right.
04:49Right.
04:49Grazie a tutti.
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