00:00I have been thinking continuously of you throughout the day.
00:02If that is happening, that is rather sick.
00:04Good fences make good neighbours.
00:06We think that applies only to neighbours or relative strangers.
00:09No, that applies to any two human beings.
00:13You must know where to stop.
00:14You cannot be at the other all the time.
00:17Spend quality time with each other and then leave each other free,
00:20both physically and psychologically.
00:23Each one of us has a big sky within us.
00:26It is futile, rather exploitative, to expect that you would dominate the other's internal sky totally,
00:33though that's what is expected in the name of love.
00:36And the other starts gloating when you tell that,
00:40you know, I have been thinking continuously of you throughout the day.
00:43If that is happening, that is rather sick.
00:45That means you have nothing purposeful to do in life,
00:48except thinking of someone of the other gender.
00:50Let there be well-defined limits.
00:52Love does not mean that you are defined by the other,
00:56that some person becomes the very centre of your life.
00:59That is not love.
01:00No person in the entire universe living or dead
01:03is big enough to become the centre of your life.
01:07No single person has that kind of worth.
01:10No.
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