00:00I have seen very well educated boys, they themselves are earning very well and they in their conversations are saying
00:06things like, you know, I've got an offer of a 50 lakh dowry. You call this a trap for both
00:11genders. How is the other gender for a male? Is it a trap?
00:15The girl is not working and she's going to remain dependent on the husband financially. He has taken a rather
00:23big burden on himself. What he's saying is you will be here, you won't go out and I'll provide for
00:29you. First of all, there is a financial burden on the man then. Secondly, the woman is a human being.
00:34You do not allow her to have experience, exposure. She gets inwardly distorted.
00:40Most women in our country, not really adept or skillful in worldly matters. You confine somebody to what is actually
00:50a cage. What else do you expect? Definitely it's a punishment for the woman. But then if you see it's
00:55a trap for the man also. It is the nature of all human beings to be free.
00:59And if you do not allow your partner to grow, to know, to experiment, to explore, to travel, to struggle,
01:09even to get defeated, then you are putting yourself in a spot. And that most men realize, but only after
01:16it's too late.
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