00:00I have seen few couples very closely that one person is on the higher level and one partner is on
00:08the lower level.
00:09So the person who is on the higher level, she just drains her energy to uplift her partner or his
00:15partner.
00:16So how can she save herself? Because ultimately I see that after 20 or 25 years she is just torn
00:21out.
00:22If you have a person in front of you who is committed to nonsense, why are you committed to that
00:29person?
00:32That person is committed to nonsense and you say for 25 years I have been committed to this person.
00:38Do you see what you are saying? You are saying I am committed to nonsense in an indirect way. Why?
00:45Your responsibility is towards who you are.
00:50You are not a husband or a wife or a brother or a friend or a sister or a father
00:55or somebody.
00:56You are a human being.
00:58Your fundamental responsibility is to attain your highest potential.
01:03Born alone, you will die alone.
01:05In fact, we live alone as well.
01:08You are sent off to jail. Do others accompany you?
01:11It's between me and me alone.
01:14Nobody else can walk it for me or even walk along with me.
01:19So that's your fundamental responsibility towards the self.
01:23And that's not the lowly kind of selfishness.
01:26That's deep wisdom. That's the highest spirituality to attain to the highest self.
01:31And in that process, if you get a companion, wonderful.
01:37But it's not for the sake of companion that you walk the road or do you?
01:42Am I open to a relationship? Yes.
01:45Am I hungry for a relationship? No.
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