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Married at First Sight AU S13E17
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00:00:01I still want my happily ever after and I really hope it's with you here's to
00:00:05hopefully being happily ever after yours Sam three new couples entered the
00:00:11experiment wifey in the search for true love if the person across from me today
00:00:18embraces woke culture we'll have a problem thank God
00:00:23Juliet and Joel bonded on their honeymoon I feel safe with him and he
00:00:28makes me feel giddy Chris still wasn't ready to share his upcoming baby news
00:00:33he'll open up when he's ready appreciate that and despite their shared worldviews
00:00:39Stephanie and Tyson clashed what does submissive look like to you then the
00:00:44opposite of you
00:00:48while our original couples celebrated their first month together thank you
00:00:54Grayson was left feeling blindsided that burning desire doesn't seem to be growing
00:00:59as Julia's letter left him heartbroken you're going around dropping bombs you
00:01:07came for my husband with life and when Beck went on an attack
00:01:11stare at me with your evil eyes no one was spared I got told that Jules
00:01:15wished that she had been matched with a woman
00:01:17oh feisty shut up newbie
00:01:20Danny looks embarrassed before hurtful texts from Beck about Alyssa were revealed
00:01:26take a screenshot shall we I'm disappointed you think that someone has your back or they don't
00:01:34tonight I really wanted to show Stephen how special he is to me
00:01:39romantic connections continue to grow
00:01:42I treasure you and I'm proud of you I love that you are open with me I really
00:01:47appreciate you every day it's just getting better and better she just makes
00:01:51me feel like yeah like I'm at home Stella and Philip are already planning their
00:01:55future together what it would look like after we leave this experiment Tyson is
00:02:00challenged by the experts you're saying I want to be with someone who will lie down
00:02:06give up their rights I'm not saying that well you are I'm not you actually are
00:02:11saying that before John delivers some direct feedback I'm gonna let you into a secret and then
00:02:19you hurt me the week before you nearly caused my relationship to end when Beck doubles down why
00:02:27would you do that do you know what you're right I know I'm right but what I don't know is
00:02:31why you're
00:02:32doing that the experts hold her to account watching you last night apply a blowtorch
00:02:38to pretty much everybody at the dinner party if you sent off enough grenades in
00:02:42other people's relationships you can avoid having tough conversations about the two of you
00:03:06it's the morning of the third commitment ceremony good morning good morning and our couples are waking up
00:03:15after another eventful dinner party oh have a sleep all right it's a big night yeah how are you feeling
00:03:26last night yeah just tired but it was Beck's behavior that's got everyone talking I felt like we're in
00:03:34Parliament for a little bit there you know we're in the last four weeks of the election every bit of
00:03:38drama involved Beck's and I don't know stare at me with your evil eyes the only reason I hated Alyssa
00:03:45was because of what you've said about Alyssa so let's pull up the receipt shall we Alyssa went home for
00:03:51the
00:03:51weekend turmoil in the relationship she's jumping in everyone's relationships jumping down everyone's
00:03:57throat what you did was really good though last night like you had my back that came at me and
00:04:04you
00:04:05were like you know shutting her down don't talk to my wife like that like I appreciate you for that
00:04:09I think me and Scott were great I didn't see Danny backing up his woman like Scott was backing up
00:04:14me
00:04:14last night I think he just like let her out to dry Danny didn't say a single word so clearly
00:04:21their
00:04:21relationship is just not on yeah their relationship is going to come unraveled at some point so it doesn't
00:04:30look too good for her and Danny at the moment I don't like yelling but like if you don't yell
00:04:44across that table you can't no one no one's gonna hear you it was crazy at the end of the
00:04:50day my whole
00:04:51purpose of that dinner party was to clear my husband's name and I did that so we're stronger
00:04:56than ever as per usual which is great we did we did well we didn't argue most important thing I
00:05:04had
00:05:04each other's backs which is good at the dinner parties when everyone sees her like that they
00:05:13probably just perceive her she's that type of girl cause them fights off everybody being quite vicious
00:05:23in her approach I don't want to be going to every dinner party just sitting there thinking
00:05:27all I'm going to do is have to back my missus because she's arguing tonight
00:05:32I didn't come here to argue I came here to find love
00:05:46everyone's getting set for tonight's commitment ceremony
00:05:54all right but a surprise decision from the experts awaits our new couples looks like we have a letter
00:06:08juliette and joel dear newlyweds right now you are still very much in your honeymoon bubble but the real
00:06:16experiment begins as you move into your new living arrangements tomorrow therefore at tonight's
00:06:20commitment ceremony you will not be making a decision about the future of your relationship
00:06:25instead it is an opportunity to open up to us seek advice and gain insight on what you might need
00:06:30to
00:06:30move forward as a couple in this experiment we look forward to seeing you the experts and I was
00:06:35all ready to write stay explanation point explanation point explanation right the experts decision to not be
00:06:42able to write stay or leave tonight may prove to be an issue for new couple Stephanie and Tyson you
00:06:49want a water yes please as Tyson left last night's dinner party feeling unsupported by his wife yeah the
00:06:58vibe between Steph and I was a little bit distant come sit down love with a chat about yesterday yesterday
00:07:05she could have got more involved but I think deep down she probably wanted to see me crash and burn
00:07:10to
00:07:11an extent do you believe a man should pay or or what's your view on it um look if I'm
00:07:19into the girl hey but if I'm not really into her then I think 50 50.
00:07:25oh really yeah that's where I find it contradictory because you're like I want to be a provider and the
00:07:29protector and blah blah blah but then you wouldn't make me pay with an actual wife though I am your
00:07:34wife right now
00:07:35yeah well temporarily temporarily I think that's a pretty low comment oh bro that's just how I feel man
00:07:43that's how I feel last night was was hectic wasn't it say the least yeah I was insane I feel
00:07:50like obviously
00:07:51the whole anti-woke thing got brought up and then I just had a target on my forehead yeah but
00:07:57I think
00:07:58as well Steph I thought I'd have just a little bit more support from you because really very quiet
00:08:04and I know there's a lot going on it was very hard to get a word in to be honest
00:08:09you're telling me and
00:08:10I'm not back barking every two seconds it was a bit surprising to hear that Tyson felt that I
00:08:15didn't have his back I mean but I just think that speaks volumes to how him and I handle things
00:08:22I'm not going to stand up and back you if I don't agree with your opinion or your behavior but
00:08:26you did
00:08:27agree with majority of what I had to say didn't you yeah and I and I feel like I spoke
00:08:31about that as
00:08:31well I mean you were quiet I'm not confrontational like that just with me yeah it seems that way
00:08:39mm-hmm I think you added in a little smart ass comment there saying oh he doesn't know what
00:08:45he wants in a woman you said something along those lines oh you don't well I do I know exactly
00:08:50what I
00:08:50want Steph and you shouldn't say that you know what I want you know you barely even know you say
00:08:55what you want you've been given that mm-hmm but that's not what you want well I haven't been given
00:09:00that though I asked for someone that wasn't masculine you do bring a lot of masculinity to this
00:09:05relationship um no I don't I'm like the most feminine person ever I feel like you do I'm just
00:09:11I'm just telling you how I feel I just have the traits of an independent smart career driven focused
00:09:18woman yeah but you can still have that that's masculine energy the way you perceive things and
00:09:24the way you always like try to challenge me it just comes across I challenge you on your behavior
00:09:28yeah because I think that's healthy yeah it's not always Tyson's way and ties the thing is though
00:09:34your voice your voice try to have control like you have these little smart ass remarks to say as well
00:09:39and you give them back to me it comes across so rude it comes across so I think you're rude
00:09:44well I
00:09:45think you're very rude so okay yeah it's it's frustrating Steph it's sometimes it's so frustrating
00:09:52talking to you it's couldn't agree more yeah would not agree more full of contributions couldn't agree
00:10:03more for Mel and Luke despite a recent positive turnaround moving back into the same apartment
00:10:12has seen no further romantic progression between them hello hello how you going good how you going
00:10:20yeah not bad not bad the more time I spend with him the more I realize that my feelings aren't
00:10:29developing I don't want to kiss him I don't want to cuddle him like because I don't have feelings for
00:10:35him my body's telling me no feeling upset by how everything's like I'm really upset by it too
00:10:48every day in this experiment I wake up and I'm like maybe today's the day like my feelings will
00:10:53develop but haven't felt that attraction towards him been open to trying to get there yeah and I
00:11:04you didn't know that like I have also tried for six weeks like it's a long time debatable this week
00:11:18there's been a shock in the experiment as one bride didn't wait till the commitment ceremony to let her
00:11:24intentions be known in the past week Grace and I have really sort of navigated where we're both at in
00:11:33this connection we've had some honest chats and I shared with him you know a letter letting you know
00:11:41how I was feeling that burning desire we have both spoken about doesn't seem to be growing so yeah we've
00:11:51essentially you know broke enough isn't something that I take lightly you know but I think I would be
00:11:58betraying myself if I wasn't listening to what my body and my heart and my mind is telling me and
00:12:04I
00:12:06definitely feel just disconnected and confused despite a strong initial start and Grayson's efforts
00:12:16to follow Julia's lead dangle your head what's been working for us it's just allowing Jules to take
00:12:24things at our own pace Julia has kept Grayson at arm's length which was further compounded off the
00:12:31back of a difficult intimacy week I want to continue the emotional depth and expanding the natural organic
00:12:39free-flowing energy that I probably need to romantically connect what's the greatest moment
00:12:47you've had on the footy field what's your favorite quality about your ex but after weeks of trying
00:12:55Julia drew her line in the sand that burning desire doesn't seem to be growing making her decision very
00:13:03clear I've seen you lean in however at this stage a flame of mutual chemistry hasn't been ignited and I
00:13:10don't want to
00:13:10force anything
00:13:16I'm not sure how to feel about going into tonight there's a whole different range of emotions I'm feeling it's
00:13:21hard to
00:13:22pinpoint it all I really care about it I wanted there to be a future there for us and it's
00:13:27I just feel like I've never been
00:13:29really given a proper chance by Julia you know I've sort of begged for transparency and honesty and
00:13:37clarity and I just haven't never got it I want to fall in love with someone I want to be
00:13:45a father I
00:13:46want to build a life with someone and yeah it's just um at this point it's not um it's not
00:13:53happening
00:13:55yeah I mean I'm I'm so far from where I would have liked this to be
00:14:21well hello gents good evening how are we going good to see you all see everyone
00:14:39good evening ladies hello ladies lovely to see you all
00:14:48hi everyone good welcome thank you new couples
00:15:14welcome everybody to the third commitment ceremony
00:15:20and to kick things off we would like to welcome our three new couples Chris and Sam Joel and Juliet
00:15:27and Tyson and Stephanie because you haven't had a chance to do any of the tasks or get any guidance
00:15:35from us until today you will not be getting a choice tonight on whether you stay or leave we will
00:15:41try to
00:15:42help direct and maneuver you guys in the best way possible for the next week so that at the next
00:15:47commitment
00:15:48ceremony then you can actually start doing your choosing to leave or stay okay
00:15:55well this week of course you had the opportunity the original couples to celebrate your one month
00:16:01anniversary and this is the first time we've ever done this within the experiment so we're really
00:16:06looking forward to hearing how you've come together reflected on the last month together and really
00:16:11celebrated the union that you're developing so far now i'm sure some of you will be nervous about coming
00:16:18up on the couch tonight i can assure you you should be because what we saw last night
00:16:30was something that we need to address the dinner party it was hugely dramatic a lot of accusations were thrown
00:16:40around
00:16:42and certainly sitting here tonight some couples
00:16:47are in crisis tonight we're going to unpack all of that and more
00:16:54you will be different as couples as you leave here tonight that i can assure you
00:17:03now on that note let's get our first couple up on the couch
00:17:12stephanie and tyson let's go
00:17:21how's it going hello you too welcome to the experiment thank you it's good to be here
00:17:27now as you know this is a situation where we get to dive into your relationship
00:17:32ask you some pretty tough questions but you don't have a stay or leave situation
00:17:39this is really for you to then move forward and use what we tell you but we do require
00:17:46you to open up and get real with us
00:17:51tell us about where you're at because last night at the dinner party you looked quite frosty you you
00:17:58weren't a team what went on look with that john i felt like i had everyone against me
00:18:05obviously um at the dinner table i felt like steph didn't sort of support me in my
00:18:13yeah she's very quiet and i get it she's a female like
00:18:23yeah yeah so she probably didn't want to get too argumentative yeah
00:18:32um i don't think it has anything to do with being a female i don't know i'm just saying like
00:18:36maybe she didn't want to get too involved there but just from the get-go um for me i haven't
00:18:42felt
00:18:42that connection with steph at all um physical emotional mental whatever you want to call it
00:18:51geez that's just about everything it is it is yeah so you're saying that she doesn't meet your needs
00:18:58in a number of ways to an extent yes how does that land for you steph
00:19:06i find it very confusing to be honest because i think when i think back to like tyson's vows and
00:19:13what he spoke about what he wants from a woman i feel like i do check a fair few of
00:19:18the
00:19:19criteria that he describes such as um someone who's like goal-driven ambitious
00:19:27someone who's a family girl someone who wants to you know build the dream life be a bit of a
00:19:33power
00:19:34couple i feel like i take a lot of those boxes but he doesn't like any of that
00:19:44well is that true to us no i do to extend masculine for tyson
00:19:48as you can see she talks very pretentious well that's new look john she does talk down to me
00:19:54i'm so sick of her talking down to me like that we constantly bicker and argue over this
00:19:59here's what you need to know you say she's offending you by the way she speaks to you
00:20:07have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:17look john she does talk down to me i'm so sick of her talking down to me like that we
00:20:23constantly bicker
00:20:24and argue over this here's what you need to know you say she's offending you by the way she speaks
00:20:32to
00:20:32you have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:41last night at the dinner party you called her a temporary wife
00:20:48you said if i liked her more i might pay for the full dinner bill in amongst telling her that
00:20:57she
00:20:57is far too much like a man you're eroding any sort of bond that you can have
00:21:08yeah i'm like my breaking point now i really do feel like i want to leave the experiment
00:21:14tyson is she right is she too masculine for you um
00:21:22she's definitely not the submissive type that's for sure
00:21:32what's the submissive type help me understand um well i'd say a little bit more easy going
00:21:37and not constantly talking down to me it's it's not submissive john is it when someone's constantly
00:21:42in your face trying to challenge you it comes across very domineering it's masculine in my eyes
00:21:50so a feminine woman would look like what to you um just the opposite of steph
00:21:59there's been a couple times where i felt a little bit emasculated um even during the wedding day she
00:22:03asked me if i'd be a house husband um no i wouldn't be a house husband um i think it
00:22:09was because you
00:22:09said that you want five kids and i said oh so are you going to five kids are you going
00:22:13to stay at
00:22:14home with the kids and you said well you may as well just ask me to wear a skirt
00:22:19meaning that's a woman's job i think it is for sure i've always the way i've been raised is traditional
00:22:26values my dad was the breadwinner um and my mum stayed at home looked after us kids
00:22:34it's good to hear you be very clear about what it is you believe would be a good match for
00:22:38you
00:22:39and you're talking about quite a traditional feminine role that's one thing but you're using
00:22:46another word to describe this ideal partner that i think is a little bit concerning you're using the
00:22:52word submissive so when you're saying here to steph in front of steph i want a submissive woman you're
00:23:01saying i want to be with someone who will lie down give up their rights not try to have their
00:23:09needs
00:23:09met who will make the relationship all about you and your needs i'm not saying that well you are i'm
00:23:19not you actually are saying that okay you're using the word submissive yeah well maybe maybe i've got
00:23:26the word submissive wrong language matters and when you're talking about you know what you want
00:23:33in a relationship and you're using words like that one it has meaning and it has an impact on your
00:23:39partner so what would you call it then like if i didn't want someone so challenging and dominant in
00:23:45a relationship what word would you use well are you saying that you want to be with someone who doesn't
00:23:51challenge you essentially wow can i ask why um because i just feel like it creates it just creates
00:24:01conflict in a relationship part of having an interpersonal relationship is challenging each other
00:24:09is disagreeing is being able to debate and you know have conversation
00:24:17but more importantly you're not superior to steph i've never said i was well you're behaving as though
00:24:23you are you're behaving as though you should not be challenged you should only be the one with the
00:24:29right to challenge her can you see that um to an extent
00:24:39stephanie are you attracted to tyson um i mean physically yeah but personality absolutely not
00:24:53i'm not that bad am i um
00:24:59no you're not that bad tyson i think you've got very outdated views
00:25:06but i'm willing to continue to try and work with that because i see a lot of good in you
00:25:12and i can
00:25:12see why we've been matched i just think it's very clear to me why you're also single as well because
00:25:20i think you're looking for someone that's maybe not out there unless you find them in church
00:25:26that's a good way of looking at i agree actually
00:25:30why come on married at first sight when you could have just gone to church and met somebody
00:25:35i mean you three experts are here for a reason and i gave you guys criteria of what i look
00:25:39for in a
00:25:40partner and i said may as well give it a go did you think that every single box that you
00:25:45wanted
00:25:46in a perfect match would be ticked
00:25:49i was hoping at least 90 percent wow yeah tyson i'm gonna let you into a secret
00:26:00you're a very hard person to match really yes does that come as a surprise to you um
00:26:07well i've been married before john so it does i mean look i hope i'm not single forever
00:26:16do you know the irony to all of this tyson is that
00:26:20while you're not a particularly easy person to match
00:26:23uh we have found someone who's highly compatible with you you're both calm sensible disciplined
00:26:32ambitious you have strong family values you wanted a mature woman who looks after herself
00:26:39you do have very similar world views some can be polarizing but you share them you know she's
00:26:50a green flag in so many different ways this has been very challenging for both of us and
00:26:59it's hard for me to see this go all the way it is not easy and all of the new
00:27:05couples that have
00:27:05arrived here they've got a lot of catching up the question is have you still got that curiosity
00:27:16i just i just don't feel that connection there john it's just it's hard for me to get curious john
00:27:25i think i am absolutely frightened i've never been in a relationship ever
00:27:31because i've been so scared i don't want to get hurt it's easy to be independent and live in my
00:27:36comfort
00:27:36zone and just live my good life but i'm still just like here wanting to be curious because we're here
00:27:42now
00:27:43may as well surely you can sit here and say you know there is good in steph that i want
00:27:50to find
00:27:50out more about there is yeah you've got that's the first time i've heard it
00:27:56you said something steph that was very important just then you said you're frightened and scared
00:28:03how did that land for you tyson
00:28:08well to hear that she's frightened and scared um it does make me feel like a bit of a failure
00:28:12to an extent but i want the best for steph and i don't want to i don't want to make
00:28:19her
00:28:19feel a certain way maybe i've made her feel pretty bad over this past week
00:28:24ultimately through this conversation what you can learn is rather than being combative
00:28:30rather than trying to win or be right you guys start moving closer when you're vulnerable
00:28:38be respectful and just learn about one another because we see a highly compatible couple and we
00:28:47need you to start turning on to that and now you can go back to the group thank you off
00:28:53you go
00:29:05coming up feelings deepen when i'm with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah like i'm at
00:29:12home
00:29:13what's making you feel so emotional grayson grayson's heavy heart
00:29:20i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad and then
00:29:26i only didn't
00:29:28like elissa from what i heard from beck the bride's issues ignite at the end of the day you know
00:29:33there's
00:29:34lies that come out of out of jia's mouth like i'm trying to hold back this is this is infuriating
00:29:39enough
00:29:47enough next up stella and philip
00:29:57hello
00:30:02so let's get into it how was the one month anniversary
00:30:06um on the anniversary night like i cooked um dinner and uh i ended up getting this black
00:30:12tourmaline necklace oh beautiful i know that this is like important to her we've got her stones i
00:30:18wrote her a card as well you know just little things like that you know so all sorts of thoughtfulness
00:30:25and progression i wonder where feelings are progressing um we're kind of low-key you know having
00:30:32outline of what it would look like after we leave this experiment um it's all positive signs yeah
00:30:40how does he make you feel he makes me feel cared for um he definitely makes me feel a priority
00:30:48which
00:30:49after three days of spending time together i was like yeah that could be my person
00:30:53so yeah do you sustain that today yes yeah i do
00:30:59and philip when you're with stella how does she make you feel yeah we're just yeah like when i'm
00:31:06with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah like i'm at home
00:31:13i just feel like i don't have to pretend yeah which is good it's great yeah i have to say
00:31:19i really
00:31:19enjoy your giddy smile that you can't wipe off your face philip yeah it's very it's very nice it's
00:31:25gorgeous well let's go to the decision you guys let's start with philip
00:31:38well yeah like i can't i can't really fault you you're definitely making the this the experience that
00:31:44it it is and it should be and uh yeah i'm not really going anywhere so i'm just going to
00:31:50hang
00:31:50around staying yeah yeah
00:31:55and stella um there's definitely a lot of love shared and given to each other and um just keep on
00:32:04building on that what we have amazing thanks guys love it have a great week guys thank you
00:32:16thanks sorry all right cheers our next couple up on the couch
00:32:27luke and mel
00:32:32hello greetings you two hi
00:32:38how have you guys been this week this whole experiment is to build a relationship with
00:32:45somebody and the past few days i haven't been feeling anything and it's making me feel anxious
00:32:52because you know i know i'm meant to feel those feelings and i'm just not it's like i can't continue
00:33:00waking up and being like maybe today's the day i develop feelings because it's not happening
00:33:08it's like watching a pot of water trying to boil if you're just watching it it's not ever going to
00:33:14start boiling can i jump in there i personally feel like mel hasn't really tried throughout this whole
00:33:24experiment like yeah there's times where i feel like you've tried on paper and she's bought me some
00:33:32gifts but i don't want gifts i don't care for gifts i want to spend quality time i want to
00:33:38get to know you
00:33:38i want to grow something it's taken a continual toll on me but every day i've just tried to come
00:33:45back
00:33:45positive i really have i've never put so much effort into a person that i have with mel on this
00:33:53experiment
00:33:54the reason why i why i'm like this is because i'm not feeling any romantic feelings
00:34:02what are you looking for in somebody who you think you can fall in love with in time
00:34:09just looking for someone who has empathy who hears me who makes me feel
00:34:17like they can take the weight off my shoulders
00:34:19he does all those things realistically would you say that luke is an unsupportive person no i would
00:34:26not say that about him would you say he lacks empathy no would you say that he has no practical
00:34:33skills and can't fix anything no i would not say that about him the person that you said that you
00:34:39would fall in love with over time you've just described luke are you aware of that
00:34:50yeah how's that feel
00:34:54i don't know interesting because it's like it's like on paper then why don't i why don't i just
00:35:01have feelings for him you know like it should well i guess where i challenge you mel is whether you've
00:35:07given him a go and really only you can answer that but from where we're sitting you've been given
00:35:15somebody who could absolutely make your life amazing and it's never got past the wedding day
00:35:28he showed up late he chewed gum and that was game over you couldn't forgive him
00:35:37we could not have matched you with someone more compatible than luke
00:35:42to give you a happily ever after let's go to the decision uh let's go with you first luke um
00:35:53it's been a a wild ride um and like i'm so grateful for like this whole experiment but
00:36:00yeah obviously like there's comes a point where like you can't keep keep going so yeah
00:36:14it's been a wild ride and what about you mel to be honest with you i couldn't have foreseen how
00:36:18hard this experiment was going to be for me but i do want to say like i'm really happy that
00:36:24i met you
00:36:25and i'm really sorry about everything that's all good and i really hope we can continue to be real
00:36:29friends yeah but i also decided to leave right
00:36:39well look it has been disappointing for us yeah because we had such high hopes and you are so highly
00:36:46compatible it is sad to see you go but we wish you all the best for the future good luck
00:36:52all the best to
00:36:53both of you well it's time to get our next couple up on the couch alissa and david
00:37:14hello hello
00:37:19well how have the two of you been since our last couch encounter you go oh yeah well you know
00:37:26it's
00:37:26been a fantastic ride with alissa we're falling for each other i feel very vulnerable i feel like i can
00:37:32trust her yeah like we're learning things about each other every single day you know you've given
00:37:38me literally everything i wanted he makes me feel safe all right you two i want to pivot to the
00:37:47dinner
00:37:47party because we've certainly all seen you being a very strong couple and you've come under fire when
00:37:55these uh dinner parties have occurred and the group have got together now two weeks running things have
00:38:01been said about you you've been accused and i'm just wondering why do you think
00:38:08people are coming after you ask them i don't know i don't know what about you david any thoughts on
00:38:17why
00:38:18certain members of the group find the two of you i guess targets um for me i actually can't understand
00:38:26it like it just makes no sense like we're just out here focusing on what we have and i hope
00:38:31everyone
00:38:31else is having a great time in their relationship i just i um i feel like me and alissa at
00:38:36the point where
00:38:37we don't have energy for it every single week it's always something and i'm like i don't even i'm not
00:38:42even in in this shit like i don't know and i would love to know actually what's up to you
00:38:50bec would you
00:38:52say i'm genuinely sorry that that your name has been brought up because at the end of the day it
00:38:58we
00:38:58shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway no bec this is two weeks in a row where you are
00:39:05coming for alissa well i didn't come for alissa last night i had something to say to gia and
00:39:11gia was the one that got her phone and read the messages so i actually haven't come for alissa
00:39:15last night but why are you talking about their relationship do you know what you're right and
00:39:20i know i'm right but what i don't know is why you're doing that
00:39:32being a child gymnast was tough it was relentless but i had a passion for it
00:39:41so i started gymnastics after getting kicked out of ballet at six i loved it i wasn't very good at
00:39:48it
00:39:48but it didn't stop me i wanted to see how far i could go i would what we call pull
00:39:53out of skills
00:39:54in the middle of a skill and i would land on my head like you're actually hurting yourself
00:39:58but you're not trying to hurt yourself and that's when they were like you need to go see a sports
00:40:03psychologist because this is getting seriously dangerous it's just so normal in gymnastics
00:40:15i actually haven't come for alissa last night why are you talking about their relationship
00:40:20do you know what you're right and i know i'm right but what i don't know is why you're doing
00:40:26that
00:40:28i don't have i don't actually don't have a reason for it because you've got a relationship here that
00:40:32you know is trending in a really positive direction they've got each other's back they're
00:40:38they're affectionate they've got chemistry they talk about the future and you're bringing it down
00:40:44and i'm not sure why you would want to do that i don't think it's just me i'm not going
00:40:49to sit
00:40:49here and allow just me to be talked like that because the other messages weren't read out i get what
00:40:55you're saying i agree with it and that's why you're doing it do you know i don't i don't have
00:41:02an answer
00:41:02to that are you jealous no not at all i'm i'm happy and doesn't sound like it yeah no worries
00:41:13like you
00:41:13can have your opinion and that's fine i'm just gonna call a spade a spade like i only didn't like
00:41:21alyssa from what i heard from beck i definitely engaged in mean girl behavior that i'm not proud
00:41:26of like 100 i own that but what i heard about you was quite horrible and i just took that
00:41:33as like
00:41:34that's a fact she knows you from adelaide i don't know you at all but you know what i've met
00:41:39beck
00:41:39twice through mutual friends in adelaide she doesn't know me no one actually knows me here yeah we all
00:41:45deserve to find love so enough is enough at the end of the day you know there's lies that come
00:41:52out
00:41:52of out of jia's mouth and and that's my my issue but i never intended for you to have anything
00:41:57come
00:41:57towards you at that dinner party last night if the phone wasn't gotten it never would have happened you
00:42:02would have just sat there and had a nice night i think you both cause this i hate coming to
00:42:08a dinner
00:42:08party and my wife feeling unsettled i hate seeing her sad and i have to go home and pick up
00:42:15the pieces
00:42:16because grown ladies like yourselves can't take accountability and stop it from happening you know
00:42:23all right what you do need to think about beck is why you're doing it because you haven't answered
00:42:30that question and that's an important one that's what you need to sit on but for you jia you've got
00:42:36to
00:42:36also realize that when you brought up the receipts to have a crack at beck it dragged elissa into it
00:42:44and again she's now walking away from a dinner party shattered because the people in this experiment
00:42:50are talking behind her back and essentially throwing grenades into her relationship
00:42:57and there is a pattern here that you beck and jia need to be aware of which is when you
00:43:02go into a
00:43:03dinner party and you come out all guns blazing and you scorch earth anyone that comes in your way
00:43:10you then roll up at the commitment ceremonies and apologize
00:43:15but you're still doing the same thing
00:43:19well look there's no doubt that you two have had a lot to face and to overcome this week
00:43:26uh but what we see in front of us is a couple that uh is very strong despite how much
00:43:33noise there
00:43:33is around your relationship so well done thank you uh but with that being said uh let's go to the
00:43:39decision stay or leave and we're going to go with you first david i'm proud of you i'm proud of
00:43:45your
00:43:45resilience and i can't wait to see how the next couple weeks of this experiment goes i treasure you and
00:43:51obviously i'm here to stay good stuff david and what about you alissa stay or leave i love that you
00:44:00are open with me i really appreciate you and yeah i'm so lucky to call you my husband so i
00:44:06am
00:44:07i'm gonna stay lovely fantastic well done it's so wonderful for us to hear you say that you treasure
00:44:16her oh it's nice um that's beautiful thanks guys have a wonderful week ahead all right well done guys
00:44:21thank you
00:44:30yeah that's the sake of cat
00:44:37next couple up
00:44:42julia and grace
00:44:47hello hi guys hello you too how are you
00:44:54last week when we saw you on this couch you really seem to have turned a corner
00:45:00so frankly we are sitting here wondering what has happened to derail that well after we
00:45:10we saw you guys last time i really took on you know your advice of you know kissing leads to
00:45:18more
00:45:18kissing and so grayson and i kissed again but unfortunately nothing really kind of unfurled after
00:45:26that i then i did like a pulse check i felt like we were sort of talking about this burning
00:45:32desire um is
00:45:34there a burning desire here so i realized i didn't think that the romantic side of this connection was
00:45:42was really flourishing um and so i wrote grace in a letter
00:45:51letting him know that i i didn't feel like this was sort of
00:45:57that soul connection that i came into this experiment for and sort of
00:46:05went separate ways we we moved i moved into a different apartment after that
00:46:11and how did that land for you grace in hearing that um oh it made me feel
00:46:21that the energy the emotion the vulnerability the the buy-in is all just been a
00:46:29um it's gone to waste
00:46:33do you feel rejected yeah she's not physically present she's not emotionally present and that's
00:46:41been since probably three or four days after we moved in that this has been occurring what i find
00:46:47really difficult is that um i kind of get these mixed messages with gray like so the the needs he
00:46:58has
00:46:59i'm i'm not fully across i don't feel like he's transparently telling me his needs
00:47:05the energy it's not inviting i'm not invited into his experience
00:47:10for me i think julia is all words her communication style is just blurting out it's just listen to respond
00:47:21whenever i need to talk about something i can't questions like do you want to have a family
00:47:26do you want to have a family one day oh i'd like the option to have a family do you
00:47:30see a future
00:47:31with me is there any part of you that see a future with me oh if there was ever emotional
00:47:34connection
00:47:35everything is airy-fairy there is no certainty i just want clarity we're talking about emotions you
00:47:42know grayson would want like a yes or a no black or a very binary answer that i wasn't able
00:47:50to give
00:47:50because it's complex we don't speak the same language like yeah your language is vague there
00:47:57is no i i call it nuanced you call it vague we've said this many times we go around and
00:48:03around in
00:48:03circles i just feel so unseen there's no other way to put it what do you mean by that for
00:48:12what i do
00:48:12put into this connection it's like what have you put into it i i have put my energy i've tried
00:48:21to
00:48:21build rapport with grayson in terms of romance that's so that is untrue
00:48:29for me to grow as a person and in connection how could have i supported you more well you could
00:48:34have
00:48:34been present you could have invested your time and energy into the marriage that we have we're married
00:48:39you just don't say anything we just don't speak the same language we don't speak the same language
00:48:44like i am exhausted yeah i think we're we're both exhausted
00:48:52grayson did you see a future with julia at any point i fantasized a future
00:49:00when i saw her walking down the aisle i was just so excited and i had no other expectations
00:49:04apart from leaving here being in love so you had high hopes i had high hopes until
00:49:12i guess julia wrote that letter and told me she was out
00:49:17last night julia i heard you comment i believe you're you were questioning grayson about whether
00:49:23or not he felt comfortable or not in regards to your bisexuality is that an issue that has been
00:49:31coming up between you that maybe we haven't been hearing about here on the couch so in this whole
00:49:37experiment i said i don't mind being matched with a man or a woman there was no preference there and
00:49:42so i was a bit confused because we hadn't spoken about my bisexuality for quite some time
00:49:48last night i was told that um julia made a comment to someone that um she feels like this experiment
00:49:58would have been a lot easier if it was with a female so did you say that you know i
00:50:02don't recall
00:50:03saying that i mean in terms of easier i mean in terms of anything would it have been for you
00:50:12something a that you think would have made it better easier if i had a preference to to embark on
00:50:19a journey like this i would have been very clear if i wanted to be matched with a woman i
00:50:26would have
00:50:26just said that so it was never a question for you in not finding that connection with grayson that
00:50:31maybe it would have been different with a different human of a different gender uh no just a different
00:50:37human okay just a different yeah does that make sense to you i'm just exhausted i got nothing left in
00:50:46the tank but for me this this experiment i wasn't going to leave any stone unturned i i gave it
00:50:55everything
00:50:55i've got and for me and for that i'm super proud like um and i'm i'm i'm i'm so shattered
00:51:04you know i'm at a point where i'm like am i am i ever going to find my person am
00:51:09i ever going to
00:51:10find love that's understandable and we certainly appreciate um the effort that you very clearly put
00:51:17forth um from your perspective and your reality and your experience in this experiment
00:51:34what's making you feel so emotional grayson
00:51:39what's coming up
00:51:48i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad
00:51:55it's um yeah it's uh it's tough
00:52:03there's only one thing left to do julia what is your decision stay or leave yeah i i'm really grateful
00:52:11for this experience i've learned so much um and this is not easy stuff this is not simple um but
00:52:21with
00:52:21that i am saying leave yeah
00:52:26i'm angry some yeah yeah um i guess despite all the um the challenges we've we've we've come up
00:52:35against i i am super grateful for you and yeah i value your courage to be here i know it's
00:52:42it's been
00:52:42challenging so thank you for that um thank you for the opportunity but yeah i think for me uh my
00:52:49time's
00:52:49up here so i'll choose to leave yeah all right well look it's been an incredible process for the two
00:52:58of you and you know when we first met the two of you a lot of what we talked about
00:53:02was alignment
00:53:03wasn't it and looking for that alignment and unfortunately you didn't quite meet on this
00:53:08occasion but i think grayson i think love's not far away for you thank you appreciate that good on you
00:53:16guys thank you guys thank you oh dear coming up it's the allegation that won't go away i asked the
00:53:32question is it not true or did you not say i'm getting frustrated the whole situation because
00:53:37my name's being dragged through the mud why'd you say it then
00:53:47all right next couple up
00:53:51sam and chris
00:53:56wow
00:54:00crowd favorites there aren't you that's nice a lot of support i love it hi guys
00:54:07all right you two i gotta ask what was it like walking into that dinner party last night
00:54:15these guys are so amazing we had the best time it was great and what about you know the sense
00:54:20of
00:54:21romance or chemistry there what's happening it's growing i think at the start i didn't know where
00:54:26to be or where to feel or like what to do because we've got a ring on your finger but
00:54:31you're like but
00:54:31i also just met this guy yeah now i'm like okay we'll just take it like you normally would meeting
00:54:35someone and we've just been getting to know each other and every day i get to know chris i like
00:54:39him more and he's such a warm and empathetic person we also don't want to um be like super
00:54:45intimate just yet we think it's like uh gentlemen yeah to court each other and be a bit old school
00:54:51and take our time so you're traveling at the same pace would you say yeah yeah like i don't know
00:54:56like
00:54:56i didn't really know what pace to travel at because this is such a new experience for me so
00:55:00i wasn't really sure in the beginning i was like do i passion or do i not like what's going
00:55:03on
00:55:05but um every day it's just getting better and better yeah every day we are a little bit more
00:55:10touchy and a little bit closer and like yeah but with no pressure others yeah there's no pressure on
00:55:15it which i really love so yeah well the energy is really lovely and i have to say i love
00:55:20that you're
00:55:21really uh focusing on building the connection yeah we're just yeah super grateful that you've
00:55:27matched us together so um yeah we're stoked yeah yeah thank you guys thank you thank you so much
00:55:51rachel and steven fantastic hello hello hey guys hi how are you g'day mate oh there he is
00:56:07how have you guys been this week with your one month anniversary it it was really nice we want to
00:56:14go
00:56:15fishing but we couldn't go fishing so i went got a little fishing game so we could play fishing
00:56:20and everyone knows your fishermen have got to have the fishermen snacks so i got a little esky with
00:56:26um steven's favorite snacks i moved a tree and everything to represent nature
00:56:32we turned it on and the fishes were snapping i'm like oh it's a bust up it's a fishing term
00:56:39you're learning you're learning so
00:56:43i really wanted to show steven how special he is to me like my feelings for him and so i
00:56:50really
00:56:50wanted to make sure it was quite personalized and aligned with you know steven yeah so steven what did
00:56:59you do for rachel got her some flowers candles some a nice bottle of wine
00:57:05and i'm an absolute hopeless cook but i cooked up a uh spag bol lunch for her and sort of
00:57:12pretended to
00:57:12be a chef and you know came over with a you know rag on my thingy and pouring the wine
00:57:18thinking i'm
00:57:20all sophisticated and fancy and just acting like a fool pretty much and that's cute it was romantic
00:57:25but sort of light-hearted romantic um that's what i wanted to bring so my personality to it and just
00:57:31yeah she was smiling the whole time yeah i loved the lunch it was beautiful all right
00:57:38well i do think it's time we get to the decision for this week
00:57:45let's go with senior steve um i'm really happy how this week what rachel did for me was absolutely
00:57:53fantastic i thought the thought of fishing and all that sort of stuff and thinking about that because
00:57:58it's a bit it's fishing you know it's not everyone's cup of tea you know and it really didn't make
00:58:04me
00:58:04smile so right stay
00:58:10rachel what is your decision stay or leave
00:58:15how's it say good
00:58:17excellent thank you guys thank you guys go back to the group
00:58:33nice and cozy again our next couple up on the couch
00:58:40gea and scott hello hello you two greetings
00:58:51sunshine lollipops and rainbows everywhere tell us all about the sunshine and lollipops
00:58:58it's been a good couple of weeks yeah it's always good um we started diving into like really deep
00:59:05shit that no one knows about that even only her family knows and i found it brought us really close
00:59:12together so yeah and then we got matching tattoos okay well we we did hear a rumor
00:59:18into the one month but i mean you guys know so this was the way you celebrated your one
00:59:23month together i really felt like okay like he's fully in this on a more serious note we saw you
00:59:32at
00:59:32the dinner party gee you were bringing receipts and it got very heated the previous week obviously i
00:59:39went a bit crazy it was over the top and i i really tried not to do that last night
00:59:45but when things are said and and it's like i'm getting brought up a few times like i've got to
00:59:50i defend myself like i thought we weren't going to attack anyone's relationship anymore
00:59:56i'm done with that like i'm personally done with that so you weren't up to it i just showed the
01:00:01receipts because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing you have no friends here and like
01:00:05oh it just like brought me back to being in high school and being bullied and it actually really
01:00:08hurt me but imagine how you hurt me the week before
01:00:15you nearly caused my relationship to end
01:00:26i just showed the receipts because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing
01:00:30you have no friends here and like oh it just like brought me back to being in high school and
01:00:33being
01:00:33bullied and it actually really hurt me but imagine how you hurt me the week before
01:00:41you nearly caused my relationship to end
01:00:46i didn't actually brooke brooke is no it came from your mouth it came from your mouth jeer
01:00:51i don't know if anyone else saw it but brooke kept trying to say something with danny and i said
01:00:55don't babe don't say it don't say it and she said it so you're the one that messaged it to
01:00:59her anyway
01:01:01but that's on camera so that's great at the end of the day it's all happened everyone needs to focus
01:01:04on their own relationship that's all that matters i'm here for this this is what i came here for
01:01:10i'm happy and i'm not i'm just not engaging with that kind of stuff anymore i've realized that i was
01:01:15really wrong last week i've tried to be accountable and i last night i didn't go as crazy as i
01:01:20normally
01:01:20would i didn't get involved i really didn't want to go at people you know what i mean sure what
01:01:27i
01:01:27want to know is what impact does that have on you scott when you see gia in that state in
01:01:33that situation
01:01:36there's way too many positives in our relationship for me to even think about that so it's like
01:01:41and generally defends herself when in need like she's not just trying to deliver something for no
01:01:46reason it's just a defense i know gia so well now and how she approaches an argument how she
01:01:52delivers things it's already happened in the past dinner parties and i don't judge her any different
01:01:57so yeah i think also like he agrees i mean he backed me up um last night which that like
01:02:05you know
01:02:05i asked for this like the whole time to be backed up by a man i've never had that in
01:02:10a relationship
01:02:10ever so this is really uh uncharted waters for you so will you describe your relationship as going
01:02:17from strength to strength yeah yeah i'm really happy just on that how do you feel about her
01:02:26i'm falling for her but love i won't say it till i truly mean it but i'm falling in that
01:02:32direction
01:02:33hundred percent big do you what about you it's it's a lot to for me to say i love somebody
01:02:40like
01:02:41falling more head over heels i don't think it's love yet but we're we're we don't want to go too
01:02:46crazy yet like we just got the tattoos i think we should chill so what are we going to do
01:02:53after a year
01:02:54i don't know with that being the case we're going to go to the decision it's going to be stay
01:02:59or leave
01:02:59and we're going to go with you first scott i suppose what we're doing is right so we're not
01:03:06going to stop that and yeah good i'm staying i love 13. all right what about you then cheers
01:03:13stay early yeah um i adore scott i just trust him and i believe him and i think i just
01:03:19feel safe
01:03:20i love how things are going and i'm gonna stay in it also the same thing with the heart
01:03:25love it lovely put a little 13 in there yeah that's so funny we look forward to seeing you
01:03:31next time okay thank you thank you guys guys great to see you good work thank you
01:03:44our next couple up on the couch joel and juliet hello welcome you two hello experts welcome
01:03:57aboard guys you guys look fabulous by the way thank you very much thank you but we're more
01:04:03interested in you two yeah and how you're going how has this whirlwind been we started off on the
01:04:10back foot after the wedding because my speeches were a bit out there it felt like he was the whole
01:04:17day putting on a performance and being extremely theatrical and then when we came home that night
01:04:22like we had a really good deep chat and i said look is there a real side to you
01:04:29i'm here for something serious and i want to get something serious out of it and um yeah i felt
01:04:35like i saw a completely different side to him and then day by day it's been getting like a lot
01:04:40better
01:04:42but today was the day that where i kind of came to the conclusion okay maybe the attraction's just not
01:04:48there for me like i know like the more i get to know joel the more i'll probably gain attraction
01:04:58to
01:04:58him for sure joel from your perspective how did it feel to hear that she's not attracted to you
01:05:06i can handle it no problem it's only week one attraction can grow for me i'm just more naturally
01:05:14i think warm and affectionate i'm very touchy-feely you know like so that's just my nature and maybe
01:05:19she's a bit different i'm really touchy like it's that's also a big thing for me why i'm like
01:05:31a bit freaked out that i just don't want to
01:05:40joel last night baptism of fire it was bloody brilliant
01:05:47i could see that you were up for the challenge yeah what do you think it was about you that
01:05:53got
01:05:53under the skin of some of the people well particularly beck let's be honest yeah yeah
01:05:58yeah i think all roads lead to the wedding you know i put myself out there i painted a target
01:06:05on
01:06:05my back by being myself as i have always done in my whole life so this is stock standard for
01:06:13me being
01:06:14misunderstood and then people get to know me like hey he's actually all right you know there's some
01:06:20depth to him he's not a total moron
01:06:24like a massive thing for me is how everyone else would kind of view him because i got to see
01:06:30that
01:06:30softer side they hadn't seen that too um like everyone's impression of my man is extremely important
01:06:38i mean i'm trying to just find anything
01:06:43any good signs really um because if i wasn't part of this experiment and i had just met joel out
01:06:52i wouldn't be proceeding
01:06:56and so i'm just trying to find all the good things that are kind of helping me
01:07:00want to stick it out look i guess the thing is that you know early on you're looking around for
01:07:08evidence who is this person do they like him do they not are we going to last but there's going
01:07:13to be a time where you're going to need to say i'm in here i like this guy whether you
01:07:18like him or not
01:07:21yeah yeah like the the balance is tipped in the positive direction i feel
01:07:27and i'm patiently waiting for her to grow that attraction to warm to me i'm waiting
01:07:31okay take as long as you need babe okay yeah yeah not too long you know come on maybe you
01:07:40can fancy
01:07:40me next week yeah all right you've had some difficulties early on but you've got some
01:07:47clear things that you can hang on to but also you are aware that it's the two of you
01:07:54rather than all of the noise around you that you need to be focusing on uh so buckle up throw
01:08:00yourself into these challenges and we look forward to seeing you the next time to hear how you're
01:08:05progressing cool thank you guys go back to the group thank you guys no more speeches
01:08:15that's good that's really good last up on the couch beck and danny
01:08:30last week uh this relationship was really in trouble specifically about things that gia had claimed
01:08:37that danny had said where are you at in respect to that stronger than ever together
01:09:03i'm really confused danny with you it's noticeable how flat and miserable you look
01:09:11so how is this stronger than ever this is not how i would describe what i'm observing at this moment
01:09:26i think first impressions when people see me they must think this is just some
01:09:30dickhead of social media
01:09:35some ass influencer who runs around with a selfie stick and drinks kale smoothies i do give off that
01:09:41impression with the fake teeth and the tattoos right but i'm far from that i'm not the stereotypical
01:09:46eastern suburbs guy everyone wants to do an ultra or a marathon 6 a.m in the morning you can't
01:09:52walk
01:09:52on promenade because it's just full of these run clubs and squat clubs and roly-poly clubs and it's
01:09:58like who's the biggest who's the leanest who's got the most tattoos i absolutely fit into the curls
01:10:04for the girls category that's because i have to it's my job it's my job i'm not going to fit
01:10:12into that
01:10:12bubble of matcha lattes and goat milk
01:10:18i'm really confused danny with you it's noticeable how flat and miserable you look
01:10:26so how is this stronger than ever this is not how i would describe what i'm observing at this moment
01:10:35are you miserable no obviously i'm tired you know what you mean like well yes i'm tired too
01:10:45yeah like commitment ceremonies are hard for me i'm not too good at talking about my feelings and
01:10:49just being put on the spot but um if it comes across like i'm miserable i apologize you certainly don't
01:10:56look like you guys are together you don't look connected to one another it's one thing to just
01:11:01have flat affect at a certain moment but you're describing stronger than ever
01:11:10how did you feel about beck's behavior last night at the dinner party it was pretty full-on and i
01:11:16did a
01:11:16lot of observing of your faces throughout all of her rants how did you feel
01:11:25obviously beck's my wife in this experiment i'll always back her like i asked for a ride or die
01:11:31um i don't think you can ask for something that you're not i think beck just got passionate in the
01:11:38moment or whatever you want to call it but how did you feel seeing her behave that way how did
01:11:45you feel
01:11:46it's a tough question to answer he's scared of her
01:11:52he's dancing around the question i don't know just answer honestly
01:11:58were you proud were you embarrassed um you were what maybe slightly embarrassed yeah
01:12:08why why is that i don't mind confrontation like if it has to be done but i'm not the type
01:12:15of
01:12:15who's looking for it beck i've been wanting to ask you this after watching you last night
01:12:24essentially apply a blow torch to pretty much everybody at the dinner party
01:12:30what did you hope to achieve why would you do that i didn't think i didn't why joel
01:12:41i don't have an excuse for it john i don't have an excuse for it
01:12:48now what i'm wondering is is that you is that your personality no is that your fight style no
01:12:57because i went away from those dinner parties thinking what's it like for danny behind closed
01:13:04doors if he says something wrong makes a mistake is this you no i'm the opposite
01:13:11i actually retreat don't think yeah
01:13:22well well last night danny she was creating all the drama and chaos
01:13:29yeah that's a fair comment she was pretty much in every hostile conversation
01:13:36that was had last night you were setting off grenades beck
01:13:43one of the things i noticed is that by doing that you never had to talk about your relationship
01:13:49with danny if you sent off enough grenades in other people's relationships you can avoid having
01:13:56tough conversations about the two of you and clearly you're not good together right now
01:14:04you might think you are you might say it but what we saw last night was a couple in deep
01:14:10crisis
01:14:12what do you think about that really angry who are you angry at beck i'm angry at jia are you
01:14:23really
01:14:23angry at jia i'm angry at both of them but i didn't realize that i was too angry at him
01:14:29but i don't want to
01:14:30argue with him why what are you scared of i'm scared they'll leave
01:14:39i'm scared to leave me
01:14:44sorry
01:14:54danny when you hear beck say that how does that land for you
01:15:00well i was like we've had this conversation before like when when me and beck when we get
01:15:06like confrontational i need to remove myself from the situation that's how i deal with with that but
01:15:11then it's like that triggers beck beck's saying that she's feeling she's feeling really angry at you
01:15:18because this whole situation around what was apparently said about jia being more your type sounds like
01:15:27beck beck hasn't heard enough from you to put her mind at ease i know he's told me that it's
01:15:34not true
01:15:34and i and i choose to believe him he'd say it's not true or he didn't say it
01:15:43he didn't it's not he didn't say it's not true i don't know you're not sure are you
01:16:08it's not true i'm getting that's why i'm getting frustrated the whole situation because my name's
01:16:16being dragged through the mud i never said that stupid comment with all due respect to jia don't
01:16:21take this the wrong way i'm covered in tattoos but i don't go for girls who have got tattoos
01:16:26why'd you say it then i didn't cheer
01:16:37i didn't cheer
01:16:58i'm curious but this is why i don't want to talk about it because we just go round and round
01:17:02in
01:17:02circles i'm not here to to speak rumors or argue i'm here for love so do you believe him or
01:17:10do you
01:17:11need confirmation that jia lies or doesn't lie i believe him you know what i can't like i'm trying
01:17:21to hold back this is this is infuriating because this is this is the biggest issue with beck and
01:17:26my friendship fake ship she always wants to talk to me off camera and off camera she tells me babe
01:17:33i
01:17:33believe you but what am i going to do then i've got to leave i never said that she's saying
01:17:38she never
01:17:39said that i never said that of course she's not going to say that of course she's not going to
01:17:43go yeah
01:17:44i said that thanks jia let's just go back to you danny why does she lie man so what are
01:17:51you going to
01:17:51do differently communicate better next time that's obviously i've been single for four years so i've
01:17:58just got so used to doing my own thing it's a fair call you do get set in your ways
01:18:02and you do become
01:18:03sort of single-minded but you're in a relationship now reassurance support validation you both need those
01:18:12things it it's hard for me i do need validation and reassurance from him but i'm scared to ask
01:18:18for it i wish you'd have told me that because you know what i've done it for you anything you've
01:18:22ever asked of me i'll always do it for you i know part of me doesn't want to have to
01:18:26ask and that's
01:18:27what i'm nervous about sometimes you do though in relationships you know sometimes you do you're
01:18:32teaching each other about this is how to work with me you know this is what i need and that's
01:18:37part of that early stage in the relationship so maybe do us maybe give him a bit of guidance help
01:18:42him read you and give you what you need okay i hope this conversation has been helpful today i mean
01:18:50it looks like a little bit for both of you you've sort of seen a little bit more of each
01:18:54other of what
01:18:55you need less focus on this more focus on this as you said danny that's what you're here for love
01:19:03the relationship right so yeah all right we're going to go to a decision
01:19:11start with you beck i said stay because we're stronger together good
01:19:31good good strong stay thank you i promise next week i wouldn't have put out i wouldn't have
01:19:38thrown any fires no more fire word no more grenades no more grenades i promise i'll hold you to that
01:19:44beck
01:19:44no promises no grenades do you want to shake on it all right we'll see you next time guys good
01:19:49luck
01:19:49okay have a good week well done beck
01:19:59chill up do you need tissue
01:20:05tomorrow night
01:20:12our couples families and friends come to visit definitely starting to fall for you i can't be
01:20:18more excited for them you've got to let your wall down a little bit over two big nights fresh
01:20:24perspective will see some deepen their connections i do like rachel i need to bring these walls down i need
01:20:30to communicate more i need to be me is j a better version of your ex but for jia
01:20:36like i'm a bit at a dinner party right now i'm getting fired as usual hard-hitting questions will
01:20:40leave her frustrated we're six friends at a table are we i'm not getting that vibe do you want to
01:20:47say
01:20:47it or do you want me to say you go home sweet home our three newest couples move in together
01:20:53here we go
01:20:54and tyson reveals an incredible transformation i'm in a lot more positive mindset now john said i do
01:21:00need to be a little bit more curious i think we do get along on so many levels i think
01:21:05this is like
01:21:05the next step for us caught in the act a video popped up of you that my friend sent me
01:21:10what shocking
01:21:11footage has juliette seen of joel like i'm so icked out and in a dramatic turn of events
01:21:19which participant calls it quits and leaves the experiment
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