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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom,
00:04it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:11We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was going
00:24to take care of the baby, and he's not even trying.
00:27Are we together or not?
00:28I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the frickin' moon.
00:33Leave. I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40Oh, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, OK?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you steal everything
00:56that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:02It's time to push.
01:03I can't.
01:05I'm scared, Mom.
01:12I can't.
01:14No.
01:16You OK?
01:17No.
01:18I can't help you for a better set of sun.
01:21No.
01:22It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25If I can be more ready, then you won't have the strength
01:27to push.
01:27Hold on.
01:28That's fine.
01:30Woo!
01:31Let's go!
01:36Oh, I'm scared.
01:38No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41No, no, no.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:42It's OK.
01:44No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My bow.
01:47It's OK.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the baby you're going to wait for.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point.
01:59And here goes Amaya.
02:02I got it.
02:03No, I don't know if that's what she said.
02:06There's pressure in her butthole.
02:08And I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't.
02:11I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No, it is time to push.
02:16We're about to have as a baby.
02:18We are ready.
02:20We're ready.
02:22I don't want to do it.
02:24No, no, no, no.
02:25She started to realize, oh, this is not a joke.
02:28And she had to push throughout the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural,
02:32she's still feeling pain.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:36Just freeze my hand.
02:37Just freeze my hand.
02:37No, it hurts.
02:38OK.
02:39No, it's not.
02:41And I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:45I was thinking, like, a hundred things all at once.
02:49A hundred things?
02:50What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby,
02:54if something happened to her,
02:55something happened to both of them.
03:00You guys need help?
03:02.
03:08Is that normal?
03:11So they come in to reposition Amaya,
03:14and the baby's heart rate just drops.
03:18And there wasn't a little drop.
03:20And my heart dropped with it.
03:22Come on and come back to you, I think.
03:24I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:28So baby's heart rate didn't look down,
03:31but baby's heart rate went up again, OK?
03:33If the baby's heart rate was down again,
03:36that means you have to go for an emergency C-section.
03:39OK?
03:39I'm going to go call the doctor, OK?
03:41I'll be right down.
03:43Nurse said, if that happens again,
03:45there's no other conversation being had.
03:47We're going straight to the emergency room,
03:49you know, for an emergency C-section,
03:52and that's it.
03:54You can do this.
03:55You're made to do this.
03:58You're Sammy's mama.
03:59You got this.
04:01Now, this is not OK.
04:05My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section,
04:07and the baby won't make it.
04:15And I just don't want her to go through that.
04:22Or have to experience that,
04:24because it's not easy at all.
04:33Oh, oh, oh, oh.
04:45What's wrong?
04:47What?
04:50What?
04:51I'm okay.
04:56so last night me and Bryce was talking about how he should get a job and he had the audacity
05:01to tell me that I should be working it's common sense you gotta get a job why don't you get
05:07a
05:07job too I cannot believe you just said this be real who's gonna keep our kid you I don't really
05:15know where me and Bryce are at right now because he's not trying for anything I don't know if it's
05:21a maturity level I don't know but I'm worried that he'll never understand what he needs to do
05:27in order to fix the problems in our relationship
05:34I guess we'll talk more about how our conversation went after we do this
05:45because I don't want to get mad again and be in a bad mood you seem to get mad no
05:50matter what
05:51now you're gonna make me mad what I don't get mad for no reason I get mad because I have
05:57logical
05:58things to get mad about my feelings are valid and you're trying to discourage my feelings
06:06like they don't matter I never said that it's how you act
06:13can you pull over for a second so I agreed to go to Bryce's nan and papa's house but I
06:19don't know how
06:20it's gonna go because me and him still haven't figured anything out you think the world revolves
06:26around you if it's not on your timing and what not on your way it's not right it's hard you're
06:32not
06:32doing what are you doing I do my school I clean my mom's house for her because that's my job
06:39you know
06:39because my mom pays for everything for me so that's what she expects from me so that's what I do
06:44I watch
06:45truly what are you talking about you even watch her half the time she just comes in your room and
06:49you make her food when she asks like I do stuff with her we color my neck's hurting we paint
06:58I'm
06:59over with this conversation my neck's hurting okay because you're a cry baby yeah you are
07:06glad you finally admitted it keep saying yeah what about it I know I'm a brat but don't make me
07:13a brat
07:13like I there's a reason I act like a brat I'm not just a brat for no reason Bryce expects
07:17me to
07:18just sit there and take like whatever probably because that's how his nan Sue is and she just takes
07:25everybody's and she don't stick up for herself it's learned behavior whatever it is you've changed ever
07:34since I got pregnant you have yes you have yes you have yes what do you mean how because we
07:46never
07:47fought this much at this point I'm like all right what are we arguing over it's like just stupid
07:53things and I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy like taking care of a kid and
07:59doing
07:59the schoolwork is definitely hard I will give it to her and I'll make sure no matter what that I'll
08:04find a way to make money but I want her to understand that I need to do things my own
08:10way without her
08:11harping on me but it's like talking to a brick wall when have you ever said it was your fault
08:16ever
08:16ever what is my fault like what do I do that's my fault I get mad over what have you
08:22changed for
08:23me I get what have you changed for me I don't know how you expect us to sit here and
08:26talk if you
08:27can't even because you can't let me talk ever you never see myself and never see your side of
08:33what no never of what it's always my fault my fault my fault I don't do nothing but sit in
08:39my bed
08:40how is it ever my fault okay that's the problem Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I
08:47talk it's going through one ear and right out the other like I just can't get through to him
08:51you know I feel like Bryce is this way because there's nobody telling him what he's doing is wrong
08:57except Isabella because his dad died and his mom she's worthless so his grandparents are the only
09:04people he has to hold him accountable and to tell him you're wrong and if they can't understand and
09:09get it through his head then I'm done whatever Bryce I'm you I'm 16 I'm 30 weeks pregnant there are
09:20headbands oh my goodness today me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower oh lord and
09:28hopefully my dad doesn't flip out how much you spend on all this 800 800 what hard hard four six
09:39seven
09:39with the baby's heart rate going as low as it did I mean the heart it can stop at any
09:44moment you
09:45know I was very scared she may have to have a c-section
09:55come on push push forward hard
10:09she making you got okay I think we need more butter I mean more milk okay let's see I'm Mia
10:17I'm 16 I'm 30
10:18weeks pregnant still so crazy to me like even I think like oh this baby's about to call me mom
10:24mom now I'm 16 years old like I'm like I still call my mom mom you know it's just so
10:29crazy like
10:30this little baby like it's depending on me let me move okay because your belly's gonna hit the
10:38cupcake I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge I make $13 an hour I started at 950 so I'm
10:46earning a little
10:47over $500 per week before taxes I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks which they are so beautiful
10:55they are so cute every time I get paid I put half in my savings and then I put the
10:59other half in my
11:01account just for me to be able to spend because I'm not gonna work all this and just put it
11:06all my
11:06savings and get nothing from it because that's stupid hello my beautiful ladies my pregnancy has
11:27been going very well I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant besides like my belly
11:33got a lot bigger yeah and now my face has gotten better and my fingers have gotten better because
11:39if you see and you look where my rings at you see that that wasn't that didn't happen before I
11:45got
11:45pregnant like there wasn't a big old mark there and like an invention in my finger now it's hard to
11:51push
11:51my ring back on oh cuz I promised to marry her one day I'm Jesse I'm her boyfriend and I'm
12:09also the dad
12:10me and Jesse have been dating for a year and four months but we've known each other for like two
12:16and a
12:16half years I was the first person to say I love you like I kissed her and it was just
12:25like our whole
12:26future played in my mind I see like us being together probably till death do us part so what
12:37do you plan on getting I want to do like the pink and brown counter print do you have like
12:42an inspo pic
12:42no no okay it's just in my brain today me and my friends are going to go and chat for
12:49the baby
12:49shower which is in a few days we are having around 50 people at my house and I'm going to
12:58try to stick
12:59to a budget of around three hundred dollars so where you want to start we gotta find we gotta find
13:05the
13:06western western okay oh I see cow prints oh they have found it three four they're headbands oh my
13:16oh that's cute one two three four five six yeah and then get these I'd say five and then get
13:24like the
13:25pink like we're saying like get the pink and go in the middle okay when I first found out I
13:29was
13:29pregnant I freaked out and I cried and cried for like weeks and weeks and then I found out I'm
13:37having
13:37a girl and I'm super excited I'm having a girl because me and my mom we never had a very
13:43good
13:43relationship and I want a relationship like I want it with my mom I want with her you can't be
13:49a hundred
13:50percent perfect mother you know but I think I'm gonna be a pretty good mom okay we put Jessie in
13:56some
13:56chaps look something like this did you see him in that that is terrible I think I'll go with the
14:01thing after I found out she's pregnant I'm sad and worried and frustrated but after the first few
14:07days it was like okay I can actually do this because I've always wanted to be a father because
14:11I never really had one but I've always wanted to be one well yeah but he wants to play good
14:15cop
14:16bad cop and he wants me to be the bad cop and he wants to be the good cop all
14:20the time he's a sucker
14:25what are you texting on your phone I'm texting Jessie well we're having a fun time what's he
14:31mean he's supposed to come to the house when we're done and he's stressed out because he don't have a
14:35ride to the house and all that and he keeps texting me whatever I'm practically planning this baby shower
14:45and doing this baby shower by myself because my mom hasn't really helped during my pregnancy and even
14:51though me and my dad are a lot closer to me and my mom he just don't understand because he's
14:55a guy and
14:56then Jessie's mom has bought a few things to help me decorate and everything but my mom can get kind
15:02of jealous it would just aggravate her a little bit if Jessie's mom helped out yep it's a lot good
15:13morning
15:13or afternoon how are y'all how are you
15:25yes
15:29is this in budget mail as I'm checking out the numbers are steadily going up and we do exceed
15:36three hundred dollars it's by a bit 871 91 oh lord I might have went a little overboard with spending
15:52for
15:52the baby shower but it's my money I do what I want with it I just hope I didn't spend
15:56all that money
15:56for it to be a day filled with drama thank you only because our moms haven't met yet and the
16:02first time
16:03they're supposed to meet is at the baby shower I don't know how I feel about that me either
16:07because when you put my family and Jessie's family together who knows what's gonna happen
16:24so it has been 24 hours since me Maya and Mama G have been in that labor room
16:31I'm just in that constant pain just trying to push hard hard four six seven with the baby's heart rate
16:41going as low as it did I mean it can the heart it can stop at any moment you know
16:46and so she may
16:50have to have a c-section and that's my biggest worry
16:53and go to the count of ten go
16:55come on
16:56thank you I've run for that long thank you
17:01yes I bet
17:02all right
17:04okay Maya so here's what we're gonna do
17:06okay
17:07okay no more shouting
17:08don't get to talking they're gonna be you and me
17:10okay
17:11okay
17:12listen to me
17:13nice quiet delivery
17:15better for you and better for me
17:16okay
17:18all you have to focus on is holding that breath and bearing down and pushing as hard as you can
17:23for that ten seconds
17:24okay
17:28oh man the doctor had to tell everyone to shut up
17:33I mean I get it we are a very loud family
17:36you know he puts his foot down to be honest and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:41and let him do his job but lord knows I'm praying and just hoping Amaya's gonna be able to push
17:48and can deliver this baby vaginally
17:50oh my god
17:52feel that pressure
17:54yes
17:55good
17:55take a deep breath
17:56come on
17:58I am
17:59yes you can
17:59you're doing it
18:00push
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18:09good job
18:11i was scared
18:13i was scared too
18:14i was very scared
18:15because it's been a long 24 hours for all of us and Amaya was like you gotta do this
18:23it's go time and you gotta put your all into it
18:27the nurse told her it could be three hours of push and she was like oh hell no
18:32at that point it kinda put a little fire under her and you know
18:36yeah
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18:38eww
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19:36All right, this is going to be snow mess, man, and have a cut.
19:47Do you want to cut the floor again?
19:49Yes, please.
19:50Just put your scissors like that, and there you go.
19:52Cutting the umbellic cord was weird.
19:58It was, like, full of, like, blood.
20:00It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
20:03You have to keep going, and it was like, ugh.
20:13Oh, my God!
20:14You did it!
20:17Oh, my God!
20:23Maya pushes Sammy out, and 40 minutes, doctor gave him a pat on his back.
20:29He started crying, and I was happy.
20:30At 8, 10 a.m., Sammy comes into the world.
20:35He was born, finally.
20:38Oh, my God!
20:40It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam.
20:46He was 7 pounds and...
20:5114 ounces?
20:52Oh, my God.
20:537 pounds?
20:53I know how big my baby was.
20:55I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:56It's okay.
20:57I got it.
20:57He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces.
20:59I thought he was 13.
21:00Almost 8 pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom, because...
21:04I have pictures.
21:05...clearly they don't even...
21:05You want to bet?
21:07He's a big boy.
21:08I don't want to bet.
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man?
21:09You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money.
21:14He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces, okay?
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him!
21:21Beautiful!
21:25We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
21:31The little king of our...
21:34The little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socares.
21:44He's so tiny.
21:45Say hi.
21:46Oh.
21:47Oh.
21:48Oh, look.
21:49He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no.
21:52He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him up?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:57Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers,
22:07and he has both of our last names.
22:11And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:20Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:33Like, he's really there and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:38It was like, I don't know, there's no better feeling than that.
22:44Oh, my goodness.
22:46You did it, baby.
22:47I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're going to be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh.
22:54Don't say that.
22:55She's already an amazing mom.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom.
23:03That's all you did.
23:04Sorry.
23:04The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12Thank you, mama.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandbaby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for was that her and the baby make it through.
23:29And everyone be healthy.
23:34But now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
23:39We're, it's not a game anymore.
23:42Let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are going to want to talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not going to talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Put your seatbelt on.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite.
24:24So I'll hopefully choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's going to love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:29You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab coma.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:36This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents, and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:40My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43Like, I don't know.
24:44They play both of the rules, so.
24:45We started raising Bryce when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot and, you know, not real responsible.
24:57And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
25:00And then a few years later, sadly, his father passed away.
25:04It's a sad situation, and I just thought it would be better if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate, you know, to make up for hard times in his life when
25:21he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did.
25:25But he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:31All righty.
25:36Bryce is just so closed off these days that doesn't really talk about anything, so.
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Yeah.
25:45Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:47Deer in the headlight look?
25:48Yeah.
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58You want to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07At least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09And, uh...
26:10Get to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know, before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change.
26:27And, uh...
26:31I don't know.
26:32It's a very emotional thing.
26:35Yesterday he was a little boy, and now he's like this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant, me and Nan welcomed her and, you know, we did everything we could.
26:46But it is a shock.
26:48It was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did?
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good? You good?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:06Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pup-up, ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine.
27:21Everything's fine.
27:22Everything's fine.
27:23There he is, yeah.
27:24So we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So we're hoping to get some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44Gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad, and yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:01To have protection and to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:20I'm gonna get you scared of it.
28:26Hey, babe. What you got going on right there?
28:28All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:31It's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34Okay, well, just a little bit.
28:37it. I'm going to show you everything I've got, but I've got to pee. I'll be right back.
28:45I'm Keith. I'm 47. I'm Mia's dad, and I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant, I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know. Because I knew he was going to be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16. Going through my head when I found
29:03out was everything. It's like, kind of like, I guess, her life passing in front of my eyes
29:12in a blink, you know? Seeing her little bitty growing up, and then all of a sudden, out
29:17of left field, 100% this. But I do feel some type of way responsible. Because I dropped
29:26the ball, I feel like, and I should have went and got her on birth control. And I mean, that's
29:30on me. I mean, you know. But she wasn't knocking down my door, either, saying, hey, Dad, hey,
29:36did you forget? Because I forget stuff, you know? And I mean, unfortunately, this was one
29:40of them things I forgot.
29:44Okay.
29:45All right.
29:47So these are the centerpieces of the table. They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute. So what else you got?
29:53These are going to be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ, $4 for some freaking balloons. How much you spend on all this?
30:06$800 and...
30:06$800? What?
30:08$75.
30:10$900.
30:12It's like the $900 she spent on the baby shower is a prime example. How she's not ready
30:17to have a baby, and she's clueless about life. That's just money down the drain.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do. I have good grades in school. I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work. It's going to be hard, man. It sucks. Struggling is hard. And I didn't want that.
30:37I don't want that on anybody. Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jesse and all of them are going to be here. And then Mom,
30:49she said she was going to be here, but I don't know.
30:54That's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot. She's just, she's more absent.
31:04We don't have a good relationship, and she, we don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:13But I mean, it's that she's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially like split up, split up like two and a half years ago,
31:23and that's when I started living with my dad. Yeah.
31:26My mom isn't stable. She doesn't have a stable work environment. She doesn't have a stable place to
31:35live. She has a lot to figure out. And I just knew like with my dad, I'd be in a
31:41stable house.
31:43That's my daughter. That's my baby girl. I mean, you know.
31:47I love them. I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just, I don't know. I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know, that's a sore subject.
31:59Well, what else you got?
32:01So we're going to put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:05And then we're going to put like the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully this is, uh, not going to happen anytime soon again.
32:16How are you going to prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me.
32:20She's talking to you.
32:23So how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for after having the baby to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I want to get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because like we did use protection in the beginning, but Jesse took off the condom.
32:45Wow.
32:49What?
32:50Why?
32:51I don't know.
32:55Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:03Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking another human being
33:18that you're responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:24It dumbfounds of me.
33:25It really does.
33:26I mean, it really, it's ridiculous.
33:29You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I hope not, but you need to be, hey, bro.
33:35I mean, do what you got to do.
33:37I don't want to get into all that , but I mean, golly, it's kind of obvious.
33:42Just saying, y'all still children, whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:52And it, eh, whatever.
33:55I'm sorry.
33:56I'm sorry I made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
33:59I don't know.
34:09Hello.
34:11Hello?
34:12Hello?
34:13Is your dad still saying no to me coming over or am I coming over?
34:16Come over.
34:16All right.
34:17I love you.
34:18Love you too.
34:19Bye.
34:21How long is he staying?
34:23Until tonight.
34:27He's not staying here.
34:28That's all I can say.
34:30No.
34:32I'm just telling you how I feel.
34:35It's awkward having Jesse around because I don't really care for him.
34:39I don't want him in my house.
34:41I'm just trying to get over the, that I just heard earlier.
34:50Anyway.
34:56Bryce is going to get a job.
34:58Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
35:00$10 won't do nothing.
35:02You would just make an effort.
35:03That is all my mom is asking.
35:04It's a waste of my time.
35:05Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
35:08I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
35:10You know, that's not right.
35:11That's not the life he dreamed of.
35:13They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
35:15and he does because he helped make this kid.
35:31What's up, boy?
35:34I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get his together, I'm done.
35:38Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
35:41I mean, I've tried, my mom's tried.
35:44There's fixing to be a baby here, so hopefully Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
35:53That's good.
35:55Oh, it's good, man.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:00Kevin.
36:01What?
36:02You're blocking the sunlight.
36:04Mmm.
36:06How's your mom doing?
36:08Oh, she's doing fine.
36:10Working.
36:13Your little sister, you've been looking after her or what?
36:16Yeah.
36:18You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
36:21Maybe more than most at your age.
36:28Isabella seems a little standoffish previously. She was always nice and smiling. And tonight,
36:38she just doesn't seem very inviting or there's a wall there, I feel like, between us.
36:46She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
36:52But I just shook it off as...
36:54We haven't seen her.
36:55I haven't seen her in a while and she's nervous and, you know, we'll see what happens.
37:01Well, what's y'all's plans? What do you want to do?
37:04I got no clue.
37:05What do you mean?
37:07Plans for what?
37:07As far as where y'all are going to live, are y'all going to try to live together?
37:10No.
37:11You don't want to live with Bryce?
37:13No.
37:15Not at anybody's house.
37:16Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
37:21Oh, yeah, but...
37:22Or get married or whatever.
37:25My nan and papa had felt like that we should get married because we're really religious.
37:31Well, my family's Christian too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just
37:35because we was having a kid. If we can't financially support a baby, why would we get married?
37:40But it's not like I'm going to go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock.
37:47So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
37:53Or ever?
37:55Not anytime soon.
37:57Got to get a job first.
37:59Right now we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought. I mean, she has a couple outfits
38:04that my mom's bought.
38:06You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything. What about having a baby shower? Are you
38:12interested in that at all?
38:13No. I don't want a baby shower.
38:16People bring you and give you gifts. It's not about the gifts. It's just more about like support.
38:21It's crunch time. Like, this isn't going to happen and there's just like...
38:25Hey, that baby's not going to hurt for nothing. I can promise you.
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything. It has everything to
38:35do with...they're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything and he does because
38:40he helped make this kid.
38:43We're willing to do whatever we can and Bryce is going to get a job.
38:47Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
38:50No, you have to have a decent job.
38:52You have to crawl before you walk. Like my mom said, you don't have to work.
38:55$10 an hour won't do nothing.
38:56Okay.
38:57It won't.
38:58You would just make an effort. That is all my mom is asking.
39:00It's a waste of my time.
39:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
39:06I'm still her daughter and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating.
39:12But me feel like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Haisley. That's just not,
39:17like it don't make any logical sense.
39:19I think her mother's sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do.
39:23You know, that's not right. He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to
39:28raise a
39:28family. Okay. Not just anything.
39:34Bryce has a future, a bright future. Okay. He's smart. He's very smart, but it takes a little time.
39:40You can't just get that overnight. And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job,
39:46that's what you're doing is just settling for that. That's not the life he dreamed of. He wants
39:50to have a life too, you know, and a good life.
39:54What I'm asking is they tell Bryce to get his head out of his ass and get a job. But
40:00oh well,
40:00who cares? Not them because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them. It falls on my family.
40:08It'll be all right. Relax a little bit. Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry because...
40:13I understand. I understand. But it's Bryce's baby too. Let's not forget that.
40:19Okay. Well, let's make an effort.
40:22We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella. And I feel like I have been under
40:35attack the whole time. It's getting dark out here. We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
40:41So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and try to
40:50form
40:50a plan that works for everyone. Well, I hope so. But I'm not holding my breath.
41:03How's it going, bud? Next time on Unexpected.
41:06When I first met Jesse, I kind of didn't like him.
41:09Then this happened. Well, I definitely don't like the kid now.
41:13Can Jesse stay the night? No.
41:15He's making it hard. He is making it harder than it has to be.
41:18I don't know why he don't let you sleep over. It ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
41:30Taking Sammy home is really scary because it's like really setting in that this is my whole life
41:35now, you know.
41:36Um, can you get a Band-Aid?
41:38We don't have Band-Aid.
41:40Okay, can you call him and ask for a Band-Aid, please?
41:43And I have to go back to work. And so you need to be able to do this.
41:48Have fun, Hunter. Thank you.
41:49We'll see y'all later.
41:51Today, Hunter's going to see his dad, but I am worried that he might not show up.
41:55When I go away there, it's going to be like 30 minutes or so.
42:02He's a piece of . When does the disappointment stop?
42:05I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap. He's a 13-year-old boy,
42:09about to have a child of his own. But his dad needs to be consistent.
42:13I don't want to hurt.
42:15Don't this stupid ass.
42:17What the hell? Stop. Wait.
42:18Dinner, it was miserable. I'm not going to sit in the room with a little crybaby because
42:24y'all unable his behavior.
42:29She's going to regret this.
42:30It's on now, okay? We can do it like that.
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