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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...
00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.
00:00:04My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.
00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.
00:00:12I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.
00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.
00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.
00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?
00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.
00:00:28I was like living in hell.
00:00:31After everything that I've been through,
00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.
00:00:37Woo!
00:00:39What are you doing?
00:00:40You're just little girls again.
00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.
00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,
00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.
00:00:51Girl strip!
00:00:52Girl strip!
00:00:52Woo!
00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?
00:00:57The man.
00:00:57What happened in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.
00:01:08You guys remember B, right?
00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.
00:01:13A booty call.
00:01:14A booty call.
00:01:15Oh, sexy.
00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.
00:01:25I hope things can be different with Courtney.
00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
00:01:29Using her?
00:01:30Yes.
00:01:30I've been talking to this guy.
00:01:35His name is Pedro.
00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Central and Pedro.
00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.
00:01:42I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.
00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.
00:01:51Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.
00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
00:02:05But now I have to be...
00:02:05I wish you did too.
00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.
00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.
00:02:11A guy starts out one way, and it turns out that we're just hiding their real personalities.
00:02:15It's just who you are.
00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?
00:02:20No, I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.
00:02:24Oh, yeah, you can be concerned.
00:02:24But don't talk about me.
00:02:25No, no, no, no, no.
00:02:26I don't know you.
00:02:27I don't know you.
00:02:28I don't know you.
00:02:29You guys have a f***ing great relationship.
00:02:31Okay, bye.
00:02:32Yeah, yeah.
00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.
00:02:34Yeah, yeah.
00:02:35Okay, whatever.
00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.
00:02:39Damn.
00:02:45Hello.
00:02:58Hello, hello.
00:02:59Is it possible with Pinacolada?
00:03:00Yes, of course.
00:03:01Everything I got done, know you want it, you want it, you want it, come and get it.
00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face.
00:03:09Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.
00:03:11I fly like a peg and sit straight out the gate.
00:03:1320.
00:03:14Do I have your attention?
00:03:15I'm Sophie.
00:03:43I'm 26 years old.
00:03:45I'm from London and I live in Texas.
00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.
00:03:48It's so hot.
00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.
00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years and that marriage didn't go very well.
00:03:56Jers!
00:03:56Oh!
00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce and what better way to celebrate than with a girls'
00:04:00trip?
00:04:00I've never traveled, so this is like, you're going to have to like take the will on this.
00:04:05I'm excited to have some drinks.
00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks and just have a good time and not stress and just actually
00:04:10have some fun.
00:04:11What are you guys excited for?
00:04:12What are you guys most excited for?
00:04:13The men.
00:04:14Me too and the guys here are fine.
00:04:19The workers are cute.
00:04:20The hotel people are cute.
00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.
00:04:23Everything's an upgrade for me, ladies.
00:04:25I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.
00:04:28At first, we didn't get along like at all.
00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected and we kind of became a support for each other
00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.
00:04:38And yeah, now we've actually become friends.
00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?
00:04:42I still like the older man.
00:04:44Older?
00:04:45How old?
00:04:4693 is fine.
00:04:47Let's stick with it.
00:04:4894.
00:04:4994.
00:04:50I'm Liz.
00:04:53I'm 33 years old and I'm from San Diego, California.
00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.
00:04:59I've never actually really dated.
00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.
00:05:04But I'm single and it feels really good to be single for once.
00:05:11Sophia, I know you're like a Latinian guy, right?
00:05:14Latinian?
00:05:15Latinian.
00:05:16Latinian.
00:05:17I would say Caribbean and Latino.
00:05:19Oh, no, yeah, I like that.
00:05:20And I'm mixing them Latinian.
00:05:21Yeah.
00:05:22So, you like them.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time.
00:05:28And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.
00:05:31When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just like hit it off.
00:05:36Like, she's one of my best friends and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.
00:05:40I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.
00:05:44Annoying bitch.
00:05:46Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?
00:05:50He's fine.
00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, Sophie the single, not you.
00:05:56I'm Julia.
00:05:57I'm 31 years old.
00:05:58I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
00:06:03My husband Brandon is very protective, but he has a reason because we have secrets.
00:06:10I'm pregnant.
00:06:12I don't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.
00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jenkins Mockdells.
00:06:20So, let's have fun.
00:06:22Yeah.
00:06:23Let's have Jenkins.
00:06:24Cheers.
00:06:25After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.
00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard
00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.
00:06:44Hi.
00:06:46I miss you so much.
00:06:47Give me a kiss.
00:06:48I missed you.
00:06:49Hmm.
00:06:50Six years ago, when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't
00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.
00:07:00But even though he was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.
00:07:05I found this.
00:07:06You're down to be adventurous.
00:07:07Let's explore.
00:07:08I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.
00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve.
00:07:23And I had to walk away.
00:07:24I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob, and there's definitely something
00:07:42scary about getting back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really with Rob.
00:07:47I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.
00:07:49But it's also very exciting.
00:07:51Sophie B, all here because of you, and we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:07:57For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy, and it's been going really great.
00:08:08He has like dark features that I like.
00:08:10He's tall.
00:08:11He works out.
00:08:12He's very funny.
00:08:13If you could write on paper the perfect guy, it's literally him.
00:08:20His name is Pedro, and yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.
00:08:27How did you guys even start talking?
00:08:32I started swiping on social media, and then I saw this really cute guy.
00:08:36And I was like, okay, I followed him.
00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, it's Pedro.
00:08:42I've heard about Pedro, you know?
00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantelle.
00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation.
00:08:52But I know better than to judge someone based on other people's opinions.
00:08:56We have been talking a lot, and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.
00:09:01He basically was like, oh, what's your ideal date?
00:09:04And I told him what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want.
00:09:09And he just did all of it, and I was like, oh.
00:09:11So what was the gift?
00:09:12He basically took me to a jewelry store, and he bought me a $2,000 necklace.
00:09:16And that was the first time we met in person.
00:09:19Oh, my God.
00:09:20I know.
00:09:21So I was just in shock, you know?
00:09:23He's just so romantic.
00:09:25And I like that he's trying to win me over, kind of, because he doesn't buy me flowers once.
00:09:29It's like every week I get new flowers at my door.
00:09:32Then he leaves this little love note in the flowers.
00:09:34You see that smile?
00:09:35With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.
00:09:40We've only hung out, like, a couple times.
00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday.
00:09:45And I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now.
00:09:48So it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the two.
00:09:51This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.
00:09:54Yeah, but also, I'm not trying to jump into, like, something super serious immediately,
00:09:57because I only met him, like, a couple times.
00:09:59You just finished your relationship.
00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.
00:10:02Yeah.
00:10:03Like, my end goal is a relationship again.
00:10:04But right now, I also want to be single, and I want to make sure I know what I want this time.
00:10:09Yeah.
00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro.
00:10:13But at the same time, I've been through hell with my own marriage,
00:10:16and his marriage was a train wreck, obviously.
00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.
00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.
00:10:25So we're going to see him tonight, which should be fun.
00:10:27All of them have fun.
00:10:28Yeah.
00:10:29Is he bringing friends?
00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.
00:10:31Friends.
00:10:32Yeah.
00:10:33I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.
00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him.
00:10:38But I feel like he's catching very strong feelings very early on.
00:10:42And I really just want to make sure that I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just really not ready for yet.
00:10:49So, let's have fun!
00:10:51Yay!
00:10:52Ladies!
00:10:53We're happy in the Dominican Republic.
00:10:55Stay in the Dominican Republic.
00:10:57All right, Cadets.
00:10:58Your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.
00:10:59It's full of enemies.
00:11:00They're gonna be on all sides and surrounding you.
00:11:01Watch each other's back carefully.
00:11:02Keep each other safe and alive.
00:11:03Let's go play laser tag!
00:11:04Yeah!
00:11:05Yeah!
00:11:06Yeah!
00:11:07I'm gonna get you.
00:11:08I'm gonna get you.
00:11:09Ooh.
00:11:10I like this.
00:11:11Ooh.
00:11:12I like this.
00:11:13All right cadets your mission today is to infiltrate this valley it's full of enemies
00:11:22they're gonna be on all sides and surrounding you watch each other's back carefully keep each other
00:11:27safe and alive let's go play laser tag I'm gonna get you oh I like this
00:11:43get around to the left I'm gonna go to the right starboard side not starboard we're not in the
00:11:52Navy my name is Kim I'm 55 years old I'm from San Diego California and for the past probably 10 20
00:12:01years I've just been feeling really down about myself and now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous
00:12:13for the past year I've been on this weight loss journey and I've lost 57 pounds to dates and it's
00:12:20been life-changing I have more energy and it's like I'm just tapping into this young more adventurous
00:12:28Kim again when I was 19 years old I went into the military and I was a sharpshooter and I jumped out
00:12:37of planes I was a bad bitch back then I got you you said oh and now 30 years later I'm trying to get
00:12:47my groove back especially in my dating life oh you're shot oh crap do you think we should just call a
00:12:57truce just call a truce and we'll work together you know I used a gun I do so I'm on a date and
00:13:02this is Javier I'm excited to be here I like women when they take charge oh do you see okay you got
00:13:10the right kind of woman then we have a mutual friend Sarah that kind of set us up right like a little
00:13:16blind date oh you're a gentleman too try to when I saw Javier for the first time I was like oh he's
00:13:23kind of handsome a little bit no I'm just joking he's so handsome gracias de nada
00:13:29oh no I've been casually dating for the last few months but it is hard as to find a good man in
00:13:40your 50s okay we're done I'm done I'm done I'm putting my gun down I feel like I can see through
00:13:47all your games and let's just be honest I was with the biggest game player ever in the world
00:13:52I met Usman on social media about five years ago he's a singer rapper in Nigeria and after 11 months
00:14:09of talking on the phone my ass was on a plane to Africa to go meet Usman in person
00:14:14oh my god from the beginning Usman and I went through a lot we had a lot of challenges a lot
00:14:23of disagreements why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman oh my god this
00:14:30is funny is this funny too but eventually we worked it out and he put a ring on it
00:14:36will you marry me baby yes I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids and my baby making
00:14:44days are over but I loved Usman so much that I was willing to let him take a second wife to have a
00:14:49baby and it's crazy when I think about that when I get married to the second wife I should take her
00:14:56child to you in this state listen to me that will bring you guys more closer no and you love each other
00:15:02like close friends no but he wanted me and the second wife to like coexist and like make biscuits
00:15:08or something I don't know and like raise this baby together what the luckily I came to my senses
00:15:16before this became a whole sister wives kind of thing you're an asshole you are an asshole I'm done
00:15:23we tried we tried right oh we tried I'm very alpha female now I really don't need a man too much for
00:15:33anything but I miss having a man I want to feel emotionally supported I want to feel the comfort
00:15:40and feel safe safe is like my biggest thing so you like it it was so much fun oh my gosh reminds me of my
00:15:48military days you were in the military yes or the little uniform or the little beret I jumped out
00:15:53of planes I've done a lot and that's very sexy if you want to see me in my uniform do you have your
00:15:59uniform no but I'll get one so where do you live I live in Mission Hills okay do you like live by
00:16:07yourself I have two roommates oh two so it's like a big bachelor pad no no no not really I live with two
00:16:16young women so like how did you end up with two girl roommates I used to date one of them you used
00:16:25to date one of your roommates today one of my roommates okay what happened you don't mind me
00:16:30asking sadly I I cheated on her she dumped me well I would have too if you would have cheated on me
00:16:37yeah Javier is really cute but there's a lot of red flags here he's a man in his 50s with roommates
00:16:46and like what is the situation with his ex right he lives with her he cheated on her they're still
00:16:52banging there's something going on there it's not even a red flag at this point it's like an ambulance
00:16:57siren going Kim get out of here Kim get out of here thank you so much it was fun it was fun yeah you
00:17:05too in my past relationships I let so much slide and I'm just not going to do it now I'm not going to
00:17:11do it I'll text you okay or text me okay guys thank you it was fun it was fun so I'm not going to see
00:17:18Javier again but some woman is going to snatch him up it's just not going to be Kimberly sorry bye bye
00:17:24hello what are you doing I ran out of groceries at my house oh so is my house the grocery store now
00:17:47I actually need to take a few things you do oh Jamal is my son he's 30 years old I don't think
00:17:55anybody could be prouder of their son than I am of Jamal he is everything to me
00:18:02you have ranch yeah but you're not taking my ranch I use that I feel like we don't hang out anymore
00:18:13you just come over when you need stuff that's not true I'm going to hang out here while I get
00:18:17myself it's like a it's like a two for one do you need two potatoes no do you would you like
00:18:23to take a potato yeah I'll leave you one thanks so yeah I went on like a little laser tag date
00:18:29oh yeah yeah it was fun maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about
00:18:38I just feel like I still think you have a lot of other things going on
00:18:43indeed
00:18:45things have been feeling really tense and like really difficult between Jamal and I right now
00:18:54can you tell me what's been going on with him I mean there's no easy way to
00:18:59say what I have to say you know or discuss what I've done love you love you too I'm gonna go head
00:19:10out I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me text me later or something yeah she
00:19:18I'll be pretty busy but I will make time for your mom Jamal I preach authenticity I preach being
00:19:27genuine and I've been living a lie and when the truth comes out these things I'm hiding are going
00:19:34to hurt other people I'll never forgive myself for that never forgive myself
00:19:40let's go little puppy the first time I see something online you know I say oh my god I she
00:19:52look fine like the hair the eyes the lip the the ass the leg maybe you see we love it we get some
00:20:01nice to meet you I'm Gino I have never been to a singles event before well I'm not divorced yet
00:20:09I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult but how did this all end up in such a
00:20:18disaster stop down let's go what you drinking what you want your couch right here let's go
00:20:37come on Gino you got this
00:20:44all right last 10 seconds before the end I'm Gino I'm 56 years young and I'm from Kent Michigan
00:21:04one let it all go I'm newly single and I'm looking for the love of my life I'm way out of here
00:21:13I'm working out again getting myself in shape I mean after everything that I've been through I want
00:21:22some young beautiful single ladies baby whoo would you mind taking uh just a couple selfies for me of
00:21:31course you don't mind could you try to get my abs in it a little bit sure give me a big smile I really
00:21:38want to find a woman that has a good heart who's very much into me just how I am nice job I just have
00:21:45to do a better job at choosing women because I have failed miserably in the last well last four years and
00:21:55I met my soon-to-be ex-wife Jasmine online about four years ago and went to Panama to meet her yeah
00:22:16but looking back I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the US there were some huge
00:22:27serious red flags you trash I don't want to see you anymore that's your choice
00:22:32go guys I'm gonna kill this oh god damn the president stop it liar I hate him
00:22:44during our relationship Jasmine always found a way to beat me down and then last year I found out that
00:22:52Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street two months after we separated I want
00:23:01you to know that I am pregnant and Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby and that's what we're
00:23:09gonna do well I thought she loved me I thought she wanted to have a child with me she's such a liar
00:23:35I was knocked down but I got back up on my feet and now I just want to look forward to living my best
00:23:43life today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media
00:24:02I have never been to a singles event before
00:24:30in fact I haven't met a woman in person and asked her out on a date in probably a good 30 years
00:24:38hi got Michelle over there and Rachel here
00:24:42before the internet I'd use classified ads it was scary because I didn't really know what they look like
00:24:52in hindsight it's probably not the safest thing to do and I'm lucky I never got scammed
00:24:59but even now I prefer to meet women online being rejected in person is the worst right you feel so
00:25:14small and it's hard to take so I am way out of my comfort zone being here I think we need to go
00:25:22play you some kickball yeah we get you know I can go my back
00:25:34I'm Aaron nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to meet you I think the women are finding me
00:26:03pretty sexy awesome I think this is a very good first step for me because it got me out of my
00:26:11comfort zone but now that I have to have conversations with them I hope I don't mess it up
00:26:16we're so excited to have you here every time a guy joins we're like oh my god another normal guy
00:26:21oh that's good we're 70% women so like 70% I like that I know right that's why I get excited
00:26:28I'm like a guy
00:26:29so tell us like what brought you here what brought me here yeah well I mean I'm single now when did
00:26:39you get divorced I want to get divorced um well I'm not divorced yet okay well I'm married but
00:26:50separated we don't live together I don't do well with someone who's still technically married
00:26:56what if they're not done what chance does it have for me to leap forward and try to start something if
00:27:04he's not ready I'm with you on that he seems so nervous he's shaking his voice is cracking what
00:27:10the hell is going on here what is he hiding so tell us what happened so basically what happened is
00:27:17five months after our marriage she met a guy a random guy at the gym and cheated on me with him
00:27:24what and then while she was married to me she got pregnant
00:27:27what the hell am I saying here I'm supposed to be telling them something that's going to attract
00:27:35them to me not telling them about my nightmarish miserable relationship that I just went through
00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here but anyway um the change of subject a little
00:27:50I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult but how did this all end up in such a
00:28:16disaster
00:28:17all lies I mean what you're looking at yeah I'm sticking my teeth like a big cat
00:28:32flying so high I'm on in the night I'm gonna show you what I like
00:28:42Pedro's bad baby
00:28:43my name is Pedro I'm 33 years old originally I'm from Dominican Republic but right now I live in Atlanta Georgia
00:29:08since my divorce with Chantel I've been keeping a low profile I need a time to myself
00:29:17but now I put everything behind me and I'm ready for the next shot of my life
00:29:27that's Dominican engineer over there that's what we're gonna do with the band
00:29:36we're gonna take the band and put it pretty nice for Sophie
00:29:38you're always willing to give it all for a woman
00:29:40I put in my best effort in this okay
00:29:47I'm so excited I'm very happy because Sophie arrived in the yard with her friends and they're going to meet me and my friend at the club tonight
00:29:55I really want to impress Sophie when she is in my own country that's why me and my friends want to decorate the band
00:30:01they're going to drive Sophie and friends around the yard
00:30:05Pedro
00:30:06la verdad que te gusta esa mujer
00:30:08no me gusta papa
00:30:10me encanta
00:30:11oye man
00:30:12the first time I see Sophie online you know I say oh my god like she looks fine like she have everything that I was looking for
00:30:22the hair the eyes the lip the the ass the leg and she got you know the waist you know like it's go go me here go me down you know
00:30:31like a guitar kind of style you know that's made me a little crazy
00:30:34I have a strong feeling for Sophie and I really really want a relationship with her she had very calm heart she had the full package
00:30:51it's the moment of you to reiniciar your life again
00:30:55and I hope that the mistakes that you could make will not be repeated
00:30:59no
00:30:59all the mistakes that you've ever happened were mistakes you understand now I've learned my mistakes
00:31:03when I met Chantel I told her my life was set for forever and then you know
00:31:08everything went to the drain
00:31:10ah
00:31:14hey you
00:31:15ah
00:31:16baby
00:31:17baby
00:31:18oh
00:31:19mmm
00:31:20mmm
00:31:21nine years ago I packed my life from the yard and moved to the United States for love
00:31:26hello son of my baby
00:31:27mwah
00:31:28mmm
00:31:29mmm
00:31:30mmm
00:31:31mmm
00:31:32mmm
00:31:33mmm
00:31:34mmm
00:31:35mmm
00:31:36mmm
00:31:37I tried my best but I was a perfect and nobody else
00:31:40oh
00:31:41hey
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00:32:00hey
00:32:01hey
00:32:02hey
00:32:03hey
00:32:18hey
00:32:20hey
00:32:29You're still good tonight.
00:32:32You're going to do great.
00:32:34It's a big night.
00:32:37Okay.
00:32:38All was good.
00:32:40Now let's go down.
00:32:43Let's go, little Bobby.
00:32:46It's been a long time.
00:32:48I never thought that this is going to be my life.
00:32:51The fact that I'm three years old,
00:32:53not a kid, you know what I mean?
00:32:55It made me feel a little devastated.
00:32:58We have to be nice and clean.
00:33:01What you never know.
00:33:03I want the type of life that everyone's dreamed about.
00:33:06I want my wife.
00:33:07I want the house.
00:33:08I want the kid.
00:33:09Maybe if we love it, we get some.
00:33:13If not, we try again.
00:33:16I want to show Sophie a time in her life in the yard
00:33:20and I hope at the end of the street,
00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.
00:33:25Okay.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:27No.
00:33:28We're ready.
00:33:31What the is a picture friend?
00:33:33We are going to have some of San Diego's finest
00:33:36league men and league women pitching their wonderful single friend.
00:33:40Are you ready to meet Kimberly?
00:33:43She has the biggest heart and she loves Cass.
00:33:48Who's that beauty?
00:33:53Who's that beast?
00:33:54Dirty mouth but conscience clean.
00:33:56All in one, a king and queen.
00:33:58Who's she?
00:33:59I must admit, that's me.
00:34:02I know what I bring to the table.
00:34:06I got my plate.
00:34:07I'm willing and able to make my own better and eat it all alone.
00:34:12Hi.
00:34:13How was everything?
00:34:14It was great.
00:34:15Thank you so much.
00:34:16Everything's good.
00:34:17I'm going to go ahead and get you checked out.
00:34:18Thank you so much.
00:34:19Okay.
00:34:20Bye.
00:34:21For about two years now, I have been the spa supervisor in a hotel casino.
00:34:26Oh, it's closing time.
00:34:28I really like it.
00:34:29I like scheduling.
00:34:30I like keeping things organized and I think I get that from my military training because
00:34:36you have to be organized when you're in the military.
00:34:39Are you almost done?
00:34:40We gotta go.
00:34:41It's girls night.
00:34:42Yeah, I just gotta clean up this stuff and then fold the towels and put them away.
00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend and I love the fact that I can confide in her about things.
00:34:51I'm so glad we're all going out tonight.
00:34:53I haven't been out in a while so I think it'll do me a lot of good.
00:34:57Tonight, Lily and I are going to meet some of our other friends and we're just going
00:35:01to have a little ladies night.
00:35:02I really wasn't a part of the planning, but I'm just down for whatever at this point.
00:35:06So if you see any guys tonight, you're going to try to talk to them?
00:35:10I actually went on a first date the other day.
00:35:13Really?
00:35:14Yeah.
00:35:15Rebecca.
00:35:16Girl, he lives with his ex.
00:35:20Would you ever live with your ex?
00:35:22No.
00:35:23But that's a different story.
00:35:25I don't know.
00:35:28I just feel like I'm not going to just settle for anything less than I deserve.
00:35:31You have to be like financially and mentally stable.
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:36You have to be in your upper 40s, 50s.
00:35:39No more 18 years younger than me.
00:35:41Yeah, you're going to need someone to match your vibe.
00:35:44I really want somebody to love me for me.
00:35:46Like I've never had that.
00:35:47And I really need to feel that love like once before I die.
00:35:52Kim says that she's never experienced love.
00:35:56It hurts me as a friend because, you know, she's been through so much in her life that she does deserve to find love.
00:36:04Not someone who's going to try to take advantage or use her.
00:36:07She's a beautiful person.
00:36:08So I believe she should find someone who is going to cherish her and treat her like a queen.
00:36:13All right.
00:36:14Let's go.
00:36:15Let's go.
00:36:16We're all right up here.
00:36:17What is this?
00:36:18We'll see why we get inside.
00:36:23Hi, we love you.
00:36:37What are we doing?
00:36:41What the is this?
00:36:45What the f*** is pitch a friend?
00:36:46Just chill out.
00:36:48What is it?
00:36:49We are going to pitch you the single woman in front of a crowd of single men.
00:36:58The group chat was not talking about this.
00:37:00Just calm down.
00:37:02We got you.
00:37:04You knew about that.
00:37:05I did.
00:37:05I knew.
00:37:06She's in on it.
00:37:07I hate you.
00:37:08Uh-oh.
00:37:09Uh-oh.
00:37:10Oh, no.
00:37:11Here we go.
00:37:12You can't hear me.
00:37:15Welcome, welcome to Pitch Up, friend.
00:37:21All right, so we are going to have some of San Diego's finest we men and we women on this
00:37:27very stage pitching their wonderful single friends with a PowerPoint presentation so that
00:37:33you know who is available and looking for love in this room tonight.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:38Give it up.
00:37:41You got me on this one.
00:37:42You got me.
00:37:43You got me.
00:37:44Kim is still single because she's guarding her heart a bit.
00:37:48However, she's definitely ready to get back out there.
00:37:53And that's why we thought an event like this would be fun.
00:37:56We made a slideshow of Kimberly's likes, dislikes, bullet points about different things that
00:38:04we love about her.
00:38:05And who knows?
00:38:06Magic could happen.
00:38:08All right, let's get started and pitch some friends.
00:38:11Starting with Rachel pitching.
00:38:13All right, let's get started.
00:38:14Alex!
00:38:15So I am introducing my friend, Alex.
00:38:19He just celebrated his 42nd birthday.
00:38:23Oh, it's 42.
00:38:24He is 16.
00:38:25He is 16.
00:38:26Any event for us to 24?
00:38:28What do you think?
00:38:29Yeah.
00:38:30Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?
00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?
00:38:34Do you have a strong line?
00:38:36Standards.
00:38:39Boundaries.
00:38:41Alex, come on up here.
00:38:45Questions for Alex.
00:38:48Questions?
00:38:49Alex.
00:38:50Yes.
00:38:51Do you like older women?
00:38:54I don't discriminate whatsoever at night until the age.
00:38:58OK.
00:38:59Give it up for Alex!
00:39:03Coming up here, we've got a duo.
00:39:05We've got Jody and Lauren pitching Kimberly!
00:39:12I don't know what they're going to say.
00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad, but all these little 20-somethings and my 55-year-old
00:39:19ass is going to be on this damn screen.
00:39:22Why the am I here?
00:39:24I'm so nervous now.
00:39:25I'm sweating.
00:39:27Are you ready to meet Kimberly, the most authentic, funny military vet, yo?
00:39:38She has the biggest heart, and she loves her son, Jamal.
00:39:45The other thing she loves more than anything in the world, cats.
00:39:51Her cats.
00:39:52You have to love cats.
00:39:54If you do not love cats, if you are allergic to cats, no, you cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:00You cannot date Kimberly.
00:40:01They sleep with her.
00:40:04OK, could we have picked better pictures of Kim, first of all?
00:40:07Could we have said not so much about the cats?
00:40:09Because now people probably think I'm a cat lady.
00:40:12Kind of true.
00:40:13But, you know.
00:40:14Questions for Kimberly.
00:40:16Raise your hand.
00:40:17Well, hello.
00:40:18Unfortunately, I'm under 45.
00:40:21Damn it.
00:40:22I just want to say thank you for your service.
00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.
00:40:26Thank you so much.
00:40:27Thank you so much.
00:40:29So embarrassing.
00:40:30More questions for Kimberly.
00:40:32Hey, my dad lives in New York, and you date a man that looks far away.
00:40:38I mean, I've dated somebody in Nigeria, so why would I not go to New York?
00:40:44Why the not?
00:40:46This girl wants me to date her dad, and all the other guys here are like 20.
00:40:53I know my friends want me to find a man, and I know they have the best intentions, but this
00:40:59crowd is just making me feel hella old.
00:41:02Next up, we've got the Isabel bitching moment.
00:41:06OK, so what are we going to do?
00:41:08I don't like you.
00:41:09I'm done.
00:41:10Are you tired?
00:41:11I'm done.
00:41:12But I love you guys.
00:41:13I appreciate it.
00:41:14I do appreciate it.
00:41:15That was amazing, right?
00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.
00:41:20Oh, yep.
00:41:21I gotta go.
00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.
00:41:23What?
00:41:24What?
00:41:25What?
00:41:26I have plans to hook up right now.
00:41:30Oh!
00:41:31Wait.
00:41:32Wait.
00:41:33What?
00:41:34So, like, a booty call.
00:41:36A booty call.
00:41:37Yeah.
00:41:38People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:41:43But I like to have sex.
00:41:45I like to lay in bed with somebody.
00:41:47I like to have orgasms.
00:41:49Especially now I got all this energy and lost all this damn weight.
00:41:51I'm like, hello?
00:41:52Come to Kim.
00:41:53You guys remember B, right?
00:41:55I'm going to them.
00:41:57I'm going to them.
00:41:58Oh-ho!
00:41:59Whoa!
00:42:00Okay!
00:42:01Whoa!
00:42:02Whoa!
00:42:03Whoa!
00:42:04Whoa!
00:42:05Whoa!
00:42:06Whoa!
00:42:07Whoa!
00:42:08Whoa!
00:42:09Whoa!
00:42:10Whoa!
00:42:11this is a great deal two for five how can you beat that i mean i am budget conscience and some
00:42:22girls will hate it and say why are you being so cheap well if i'm so lucky enough to find a woman
00:42:27that is all about value we're gonna get along at the grocery store
00:42:41hey excuse me do you uh know where the package meat is at like hamburger yeah it's gonna be down here on
00:42:50the left all the way down all the way down uh-huh i'm really excited because my soon-to-be ex-wife
00:42:57was vegan oh and like i could not just go to the grocery store and buy me because she's vegan you
00:43:04know but now that i'm single i mean it's no problem i feel so happy you know what i'm saying
00:43:11yeah ball and chain ball and chain right but thanks a lot nice talking to you sure enjoy your
00:43:18meat things are really looking positive nowadays i don't feel the stress that i used to feel i have
00:43:25the freedom to do anything i want and be who i really am even if it's as simple as going to the
00:43:32grocery store and buying meat and throwing it in the fridge i have the freedom to do that now i think
00:43:39this will work okay take that jazz the one thing that does stress me out a bit is dating i had a lot
00:43:50of fun at the singles event playing kickball but maybe not the best situation like to find a date
00:43:58in person you know i might be a little bit too anxious so i've been posting more things on my social
00:44:05media nowadays it lets me curate the image i want women to have me it makes me a lot more confident
00:44:14going to meet someone if i know this person is already interested in me check this out i posted a
00:44:23picture today of me working out this woman says sexy man i definitely would not be able to go with you
00:44:32because i'll be looking at you instead of the trainer while i'm drawing
00:44:41i have lots of women sliding into my dms lately and i love it i freaking love it
00:44:50oh someone's messaging me
00:44:55who is it natalie's replying to my workout post and she says great job
00:45:01she's proud of me natalie is a woman that i dated about eight months ago when jasmine and i were on
00:45:09really shaky ground you're like a super amazing person thank you so are you and you're just so
00:45:15adorable too look at your smile it's so cute you're so sweet i thought natalie and i we could have a real
00:45:25future together but when i brought her to my cousin's birthday party and jasmine showed up everything
00:45:31went to hell why are we bringing the horse from vegas
00:45:35so we didn't talk for almost a year and then natalie and i we reconnected at the happily ever after
00:45:53hello and we've been texting each other ever since yeah i responded to her but i added some emojis
00:46:00to it like the heart emoji and the heart head with the three hearts around the head you know i want to
00:46:08get her attention like hey you know i'm still interested in you i still like natalie a lot so i
00:46:15asked her if i could visit her next week and she said yes you know this is soft i mean exactly how i
00:46:24like my women soft this is my chance to build a relationship with her but after everything that's
00:46:32happened it's gonna take a lot of work i really feel like i have a lot to prove with natalie like
00:46:38with actions not just words i know it's my last shot and i cannot mess it up now that i could post on
00:46:46my instagram that big ass cucumber hello i just arranged a van for me and the girls to get around with
00:46:56oh candle in the car the van alone cute but the other stuff i feel very overwhelmed he's coming on
00:47:05very strong ah it's a better he haven't even got his hands
00:47:16they call me fuego they call me fire they call me all that you desire they call me fuego they call me fire
00:47:23they call me all that you desire they call me fuego this is my first night in the vr and i am going out
00:47:32with sophie and juliam and we are actually going to go meet pedro i was told that pedro is bringing
00:47:40some single friends so i'm super excited right now
00:47:43i need to get a spark back in my life i live in washington it's always gloomy
00:47:58there's hardly any sunshine and it can be very depressing at times so when sophie planned a girls
00:48:05trip i was all about it i need sun kisses from head to toe i am really excited i'm gonna get dressed
00:48:13up i want to go out i want to meet people i want to mingle i want to flirt and i want to feel sexy
00:48:19i have jumped from relationship to relationship to relationship and looking back i've never
00:48:24picked the right guy and i've given the wrong guy way too many chances
00:48:30um i think you're amazing and i want to ask you out on a date one of my last relationships was ed
00:48:38it just took me a while to get used to your beautiful face but um it took me a while to get
00:48:43used to you burn we were kind of always a hot mess hi yourself bye
00:48:51liz liz liz you are out of control you drunk shut the up you don't give a ed
00:48:57but despite all that i truly had fallen in love with ad and always wanted to make it work will you marry me
00:49:11but then ed ended the relationship one month before the wedding you're going to be the best
00:49:15person of yourself and it's not going to be with me because rest assured i'm always going to be an
00:49:22answer then came jason you're in the past we're going to move forward starting today you will never
00:49:31disrespect her again or otherwise you're gonna have to deal with me four months into dating jason
00:49:36i found out that he had another girlfriend that he was dating for a year and then the time that i
00:49:43needed him to step up and be there for me the most like he didn't he couldn't
00:49:47a couple months ago right before i broke up with jason um i didn't get the best news um
00:49:56i had a mass that was growing in my stomach
00:50:00it turned out to be pre-stage one ovarian cancer which i actually found out through
00:50:06a miscarriage that jason and i had and i'm so grateful for that because it helped me catch me being
00:50:14sick but i think i need tissue being sick took a huge toll on me but i also know that i'm gonna
00:50:29overcome it i'm really hopeful about my future i don't want to waste any moment i want to
00:50:39live my life and i really do want to find love again girl's night i deserve the best and i've
00:50:50definitely learned that life is too short to accept anything else i don't remember the last time
00:51:05i went clubbing really yeah i was like two days before this trip it's my first night in the dr and
00:51:12i have my girls with me but i'm also really looking forward to just spending some time with pedro
00:51:16hello oh my gosh pedro's arranged a van for me and the girls to basically use in the dr and get
00:51:23around with which i feel like that's really thoughtful and sweet hi hello oh my god oh my goodness
00:51:37oh my goodness okay should i hop in the back i'm sorry that is like candle in the car
00:51:45candle in the car the van alone cute but the other stuff i feel very overwhelmed and i just feel like
00:51:53he's coming on very strong i feel like that's as welcome to his country i don't think that's too
00:51:59much and i'm telling the car okay candle in the car is blow my mind can i just applaud how adorable and
00:52:08sexy this is no it's really cute it's cute it is cute i i it is good okay did he do the ball as well
00:52:16no pedro put this in more than a sexy vibe but he forgot we will be there too it's a sexy vibe for
00:52:25me and my friends nanny nanny pedro she's trying to say naughty i speak julia language yeah this
00:52:33translator yeah do you wanna give him yeah if he goes in for like a well yeah we haven't done
00:52:39anything yet you know so it's like i'm gonna hug him do we keep the tequila out of your hands or do we
00:52:44put it in your hands put it in my hands okay in my hands let's go dance homage honey i don't know if
00:53:01i can't make it long because i'll be watching you while the dj plays your song it's been two and a
00:53:09half months the last time i saw sophie i hope that she still had the same feeling for me
00:53:13maybe you could show me maybe you could show me cause i've been waiting so long
00:53:24where is he he have a ring to his hand shut up you have a ring of flowers and the red carpet
00:53:29you're going to go home you got this girl wow you look good thank you how are you how are you
00:53:45how are you how you been i'm good how are you how about the flight as long as okay she looked
00:53:52like stunning she looked stunning oh the hug that she gave me was very awkward
00:53:58like a brother she hooked me like a like a hold like a brother like a side hug like
00:54:05even the baseball they give you a little spanky oh good job boy oh bam
00:54:12introduce mr you oh yeah that's
00:54:21the first time i met julia and then she hugged me with so much sighting like god damn it like
00:54:25sophie come on get julia's energy please you love it i'm ready to be here nice to meet you nice to
00:54:32meet you liz okay ladies uh we're going to go out there to the rooftop you're going to meet my friends
00:54:38enjoy the night follow me ladies okay which way should we go yeah how are you doing very good how are you
00:54:44good good good good do this one yeah
00:54:56okay um guys let me introduce you that's my friend billas
00:55:04darling and this is rafael okay she's sophie julia and liz
00:55:13nice to meet you question how was the band was good yeah yeah good job guys they helped me
00:55:24i can tell pedro's very excited for all his friends to meet me which
00:55:28just it's nice but it feels like i'm like walking into like a job interview or like i'm supposed to
00:55:34give a speech or something because they were just sat there like this at me okay
00:55:45i already feel like there's expectation of me and i'm kind of brought here as pedro's girlfriend
00:55:51it's just kind of freaking me out a little bit
00:55:57one let's just go please okay we're just gonna go to the bottom real quick okay go to the bottom
00:56:02you know where this bottom at we'll find it huh we'll find it
00:56:11that's that energy bro i don't know what's like i don't know i don't know i don't know i don't know
00:56:20i don't know what's very awkward i'm excited that sophie's here but right now it's it's feel
00:56:28cold indifference weird you know like awkward sophie entirely different person than i met before
00:56:40sexually he is he's good he's great with me and his is big so there you go
00:56:45oh even though i'm in my 50s i still have urges i still have needs
00:56:50i have plans to hook up right now
00:57:20because you already know wait wait so like a booty call a booty call yeah
00:57:28so a booty call is when you're not in a relationship and you just meet up with one
00:57:33of your little friends and you know you have some drinky drinks and then do the deed and then you just
00:57:39go home even though i'm in my 50s i still have urges i still have needs and it like gets the needs
00:57:46met you know what it's a step in the right direction why not i'm meeting up with benjamin
00:57:53or as everybody calls him b he's a really good friend of mine and i dated him for about six months
00:57:59before i met usman once usman and i broke up and he knew it he just slid right in the dms and
00:58:06we've been banging it out ever since it's it's tricky with me and b because the connection is
00:58:13there like you can feel it you know but he's just a friend with benefits like i i just don't feel like
00:58:18we're at that point to make it a relationship when b and i tried to date like five six years ago
00:58:25we were doing pretty good we have a lot of things in common and then about six months in b hit me up with
00:58:31he wanted to be like in a thropple he wanted me to have sex with the woman and i was just like
00:58:37are you high no i'm not doing that he was very free-spirited back then and kim was not sexually he
00:58:44is he's good he's great with me and his thing so there you go well you had that with usman though it
00:58:51was the same thing you had the connection but there was all these other red that's how i feel and i don't
00:58:55want the red flag being a woman of a certain age that we all are it is refreshing for me to see her
00:59:09having a little bit of a hoe phase you know what i'm all for that are you for that yeah i think she
00:59:15i mean get it out of her system for a little bit until she finds the right one friends with benefits
00:59:20whatever they have is is a good connection i'm down for it yeah okay love you i love you all right
00:59:25bye i love you love you too but we wanted her to find somebody that is truly special and truly
00:59:31right that she can fall in love with and that loves her true he ain't the one no for tonight he is the one
00:59:45b and i have been hooking up every couple weeks in some really nice hotels because he has
00:59:50roommates and with my house i never know if jamal's going to show up or not
00:59:59at first it was a little inconvenient but i have to tell you like hotel sex is kind of hot
01:00:03nice hotel sex
01:00:08i know right so much
01:00:18so much nicer than those old hotels we used to get
01:00:33man back in the day look at us now you look beautiful as usual i try my name is benjamin but
01:00:43everybody calls me b because i'm like the bumblebee i'll always be buzzing around and you never know
01:00:49where i'll land at this is a good bit this is nice look at the big thing this is the big bed the reason
01:00:55why me and kim keep coming back to each other is definitely because of the friendship that we have
01:01:00together she's somebody i definitely like i rock with so i went to this like dating event thing you know
01:01:08today yeah see this is why i love you because we can talk about this stuff right of course of course
01:01:12of course so it was laura and jody and my friend lily right and they pitched me so it was called
01:01:18pitch a friend it was a slideshow presentation like a real slideshow like with pictures yeah of me and
01:01:25then like my likes and dislikes and all this stuff so it was cool it was very touching but it just was not
01:01:31my thing sometimes i tell b about me like meeting other guys or like this whole pitch a friend thing
01:01:36because i want to see what he's going to say like don't do that let me try to be your man
01:01:41b and i are good together and i know he sees it and i was kind of hoping that with age that b would
01:01:46like you know calm it down a little bit with the sexcapades and want to be in a monogamous relationship
01:01:52we've known each other forever yeah i miss you so much i miss you too like we're cool like we're
01:01:57friends with benefits now and i love that but like i'd like maybe to see it grow to see what else
01:02:01it could be we've always talked about it you know and the only way we gonna find that out is with
01:02:09more time we should plan like once every two weeks when we can she hasn't even been to my house yet
01:02:19no but i'm so crazy i'm coming
01:02:26yeah okay i am tired and i just want to go take a shower is that okay yeah of course okay i'll give
01:02:33you a massage once i get out of the shower so i'm just i'm just baby baby please baby baby baby
01:02:41baby baby baby please what can can you show me like what that what my dad yeah that might feel
01:02:46like yes let's go let me see let me see let me see i have a good ham i love be to death and i would
01:02:54love to be in a relationship with him and i'm putting out the vibe but he is not picking up what
01:02:58kim is putting down so i mean where do we go from here oh dang all right yeah i'm gonna go take a
01:03:05I don't want to be shuffling with my walker
01:03:07up to a hotel room when I'm 80 years old.
01:03:10I just want more for myself.
01:03:12So if B doesn't step up soon, I mean,
01:03:14this whole relationship is going to have an expiration date.
01:03:17I'm not going to keep waiting.
01:03:22Traveling today to see Natalie again.
01:03:24God, aren't these sexy?
01:03:26I mean, holy cow.
01:03:28I hope she gives me a second chance.
01:03:30And more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.
01:03:35You know I work it, work it, cause I'm going to earn it, earn it.
01:03:49Why are you packing up shampoo?
01:03:53Well, I gotta wash the hair, right?
01:03:55The little hair that I have, the patch of hair on my back of my head.
01:03:58I shampoo it, I condition it, I take very good care of it.
01:04:02That's the only hair I got left on my head.
01:04:05I've got a good thing going and I'm never slowing down.
01:04:16I want to look good for Natalie, you know, so I bought a couple of new shirts.
01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them.
01:04:24I can't wait to hop on a plane and go see Natalie.
01:04:28They're colorful.
01:04:30That's for sure.
01:04:31Definitely colorful.
01:04:33I visited Natalie in Vegas previously because that's where her home's at.
01:04:38This time, I'm going to travel to DC because she's currently working remotely there.
01:04:44God, aren't these sexy?
01:04:46I mean, holy cow, that's some sexy ass underwear right here.
01:04:51A lot of our talks through text and such has been a lot of small talk to be honest.
01:04:57And it hasn't been very deep.
01:04:59So I really, really don't know how Natalie feels about me.
01:05:04But I don't think she would invite me to her apartment if she didn't have any feelings for me.
01:05:10I don't need my little blue pills and I'm not packing any because the little blue pills I need for someone that is ugly on the inside and a constant bitch.
01:05:23Then I need something to pump me up.
01:05:25But Natalie is a different story because just her personality and attitude, the way she is, I'm going to get it up, man.
01:05:35All right, I think we got it.
01:05:38Time to board. I'll see you soon, Natalie.
01:05:54I've been through so much misery and heartbreak for the last two years.
01:05:58So trying to put myself out there again, it's not easy.
01:06:03But there's not many times that you can get a second chance and especially with a woman that's high quality, like Natalie is.
01:06:19Good morning.
01:06:23Good morning.
01:06:24Good morning.
01:06:25How are you?
01:06:26Doing great.
01:06:27Doing great.
01:06:28My first time in Washington, D.C.
01:06:30I'm excited.
01:06:31Excited.
01:06:32I hope you enjoy your stay.
01:06:34I'm so excited to be here to see who I'm meeting today.
01:06:38On top of her having a great personality and caring and fun and kind, she is a hot, sexy, passionate Latina, let me tell you.
01:06:48She's on fire, baby.
01:06:53Oh, is this it?
01:06:54Yeah, this is it.
01:06:56You're welcome.
01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie at a tea shop near her office.
01:07:00The plan is to catch up a little and then go check out her apartment.
01:07:04How are you feeling?
01:07:19Well, I'm super excited to see her and hang out with her.
01:07:24But I have some nervousness.
01:07:26It's a little nerve wracking.
01:07:33My heart's racing a bit.
01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.
01:07:48I hope that Natalie gives me a second chance.
01:07:51But more importantly, I hope I don't mess it up.
01:07:55Hey.
01:07:56What was your name again?
01:08:00Via.
01:08:01Via?
01:08:02Nice to meet you.
01:08:03Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:08:04No.
01:08:05There we go.
01:08:06There we go.
01:08:07Via is very good looking and he smells expensive.
01:08:12Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like he would still be mad.
01:08:17Any hookahs with him?
01:08:19I don't want to be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants.
01:08:24What the are we doing here?
01:08:26How do you feel right now?
01:08:27I don't know why his energy just gives me like, I just feel like in his head we're in a relationship.
01:08:43Like if you ask him, I feel like he's like, yeah, that's my girl.
01:08:50They take a long time in the restroom, what they're doing?
01:08:59Nobody tell you, you can have fun.
01:09:02Just have fun.
01:09:03I feel like he won't let me have fun now.
01:09:05Like, now he's gonna feel like she's in my country, she's meeting my friends.
01:09:10Like, I feel like maybe it's giving off the wrong vibe.
01:09:13You just loosen up a little bit with a couple of drinks and you will be good.
01:09:16That's just there, girls.
01:09:19It'll be a good night.
01:09:21Yeah.
01:09:22You know what? Help me meet my man.
01:09:24Kitty's thirsty.
01:09:28Me and the girls just arrived at the club to meet Pedro and his friends and it's a very overwhelming environment.
01:09:34Sorry, you can sit down.
01:09:37You can see over here, Sophie.
01:09:40But I already started to feel overwhelmed in the van.
01:09:42And now I just feel like he's thinking this is my girlfriend, she's meeting all my friends.
01:09:46And it's not the vibe that I've been in with him before.
01:09:49Which that's what I loved before, it was so easy going.
01:09:51And this feels a little bit, a little bit pressure.
01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce you to my friend, Villa.
01:09:57What is your name again?
01:09:58Villa.
01:09:59Villa?
01:10:00It's nice to meet you.
01:10:01Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
01:10:02No, I don't think that's what we're doing.
01:10:04He's kidding.
01:10:05No, there we go, there we go.
01:10:07Villa is very good looking.
01:10:11He's very well groomed, like his haircut's on point.
01:10:15And he smells really good.
01:10:17He smells expensive.
01:10:20Cheers, thank you for inviting us all.
01:10:22Okay, ladies, let's go.
01:10:24Arriba.
01:10:25Arriba.
01:10:26Arriba.
01:10:27Abajo.
01:10:28Pal centro.
01:10:29Adentro.
01:10:30Arriba.
01:10:31Arriba.
01:10:32Arriba.
01:10:33Arriba.
01:10:34Arriba.
01:10:35That's it.
01:10:36Bachata de Jota.
01:10:37You dance?
01:10:38Yeah.
01:10:39This is what I feel like, one, two.
01:10:42There, you got it.
01:10:45As we're dancing, I can tell we're both very attracted to each other.
01:10:58Get close, get close, get close to me.
01:11:00No, get close to me.
01:11:01No water.
01:11:02He just smells really good, he dresses well, and he's just hot.
01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him, I don't want to, like, be all over him the first night and lead him on, because I still don't really know what I want yet.
01:11:12Hey, hey, hey.
01:11:15So you've never danced Bachata before?
01:11:16I was trying to sign up for Bachata lessons while I'm out here.
01:11:19Well, it's so easy.
01:11:20I can teach you that.
01:11:21Okay.
01:11:23We can start here, right?
01:11:26So it's one, two, three...
01:11:28Si.
01:11:29Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.
01:11:30Oh, you do know!
01:11:31Si.
01:11:32La la la la la la la, one, two, one, two, one, two, and bam bam bam bam bam!
01:11:39Woo!
01:11:40Ha ha ha ha ha!
01:11:42I love you!
01:11:43You lied to me, you said she didn't know, she said she was going to take classes.
01:11:46I said I wanted to do one less day!
01:11:49No.
01:11:53This is over here better.
01:11:55Everyone just left!
01:11:57That's okay.
01:11:59They needed that alone time.
01:12:02You look beautiful, you look gorgeous.
01:12:04Thank you, thank you.
01:12:05I'm super happy that you're here.
01:12:07Oh yeah.
01:12:08That you take the invitation to come in here, just spend a little time with me.
01:12:11I know you want to have the best time.
01:12:14I woke up and I had a pina colada for breakfast.
01:12:17Because I'm in the DR.
01:12:20Wow, that's a lot.
01:12:23You don't need classes.
01:12:25No class?
01:12:26No.
01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend.
01:12:28Yeah, look.
01:12:29VIA?
01:12:30Yeah.
01:12:31So are you from here or are you from?
01:12:33I was born in Atlanta.
01:12:36When's your birthday?
01:12:38September.
01:12:39September?
01:12:40I'm May, baby.
01:12:41I'm a Gemini.
01:12:42You're a Gemini?
01:12:43Yeah, what is your size?
01:12:44I'm a Libra.
01:12:45Okay.
01:12:46I feel like us Libras are pretty well balanced, which is...
01:12:50Is this your only tattoo?
01:12:51Oh.
01:12:52Yeah.
01:12:53Wow.
01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.
01:12:55It's a Libra.
01:12:56So a woman with the blindfold and the scale.
01:12:59What's this?
01:13:01Oh, it's my son's name.
01:13:03I have a kid.
01:13:05Riley Leanne.
01:13:07You have a kid?
01:13:08Yeah.
01:13:09Really?
01:13:10She's gonna be 12.
01:13:11You have a 12-year-old?
01:13:12Yeah.
01:13:13My baby means everything to me.
01:13:14Same.
01:13:15Yeah.
01:13:16Same.
01:13:17He is my reason for everything.
01:13:20Definitely.
01:13:21Oh.
01:13:22I'm feeling butterflies talking to VIA.
01:13:25He'll be eight in July.
01:13:27He's sweet.
01:13:28He loves his kid.
01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.
01:13:32We're having great conversation.
01:13:34I think we need a drink to that.
01:13:36I think we need a shot.
01:13:37Is your friend a hope?
01:13:40He's?
01:13:41I know.
01:13:42He is a hope.
01:13:43It's okay.
01:13:44Liz is in her single era.
01:13:47So this is her time to just, like, live her life a little bit.
01:13:50Same with me.
01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.
01:13:53You're separated right now.
01:13:54Are you still married?
01:13:55Are you divorced?
01:13:57How...
01:13:58How...
01:13:59How that goes?
01:14:00Like, I'm still technically married, but I'm, like, starting the process of divorce.
01:14:05But we still...
01:14:06How far you are now?
01:14:07Like...
01:14:08Just now.
01:14:10So it's very new.
01:14:12It never really felt like it was the end because he would still call me.
01:14:17He still called you?
01:14:18He called me two days ago.
01:14:19Four in the morning.
01:14:20For what?
01:14:21It was an unknown number.
01:14:22So I have me blocked.
01:14:23And he was like, why do you have me blocked?
01:14:25I'm, like, getting divorced.
01:14:27Why...
01:14:28Why are you so upset with you?
01:14:29Like, why are you not gonna move on?
01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced, like, you would still be mad.
01:14:35I thought that Sophie and her husband divorced was more fired alone.
01:14:40Because she tell me he was the worst husband.
01:14:43That he...
01:14:44He made her, like, miserable all the time.
01:14:47If that guy threw you that bad, why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?
01:14:52Any hookups with him?
01:14:53Yeah.
01:14:54We, like, hooked up after a few months, because as much as that guy was horrible to me, I
01:15:07still had love for him.
01:15:09When he was being nice to me, I forgot about all the bad memories.
01:15:12And so we slept together.
01:15:16They've been hookups.
01:15:17And she never told me they did hookups before.
01:15:20And it's speechless.
01:15:22It's hard when you love someone.
01:15:24I can't just be like, I you.
01:15:26Bye, you know?
01:15:27Look, if you wanna be with Rob, okay, be with Rob.
01:15:29Or be with everybody that you want to be.
01:15:32But I don't wanna be collateral damage for somebody they don't know what it wants.
01:15:37What the we doing here?
01:15:39I wish I would've just handled this whole situation better.
01:15:45You know, but now I have to just...
01:15:47I wish you did, too.
01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:15:54I don't know, I don't know what else.
01:15:55I up, you know?
01:16:09I'm a lion.
01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with Bea.
01:16:13Even at 55, I'm still doing the Walk of Shades.
01:16:16Hey!
01:16:17I ain't got a girl in your mind.
01:16:20Hey!
01:16:21I'm a hard-working woman and I do what I like.
01:16:24Hey!
01:16:25Come on, let me get you some treats.
01:16:27Hey!
01:16:28Hey!
01:16:29Hi, my baby.
01:16:30Cheers.
01:16:31Last night was pretty amazing.
01:16:35Bea's really good in bed, I have to say.
01:16:38And usually after a night like that, I'm feeling all zen and woosah and, you know, calm.
01:16:43But right now I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous because Jamal's coming over.
01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.
01:16:50My God.
01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here to help me build a dresser.
01:16:54But really, I have some things I need to talk to him about.
01:17:03Super good bites.
01:17:04Ding dong.
01:17:05Hey.
01:17:06What's up?
01:17:07How are you?
01:17:08Good.
01:17:09How are you?
01:17:10I'm good.
01:17:11So this is a dresser I want to put in my guest room.
01:17:13See?
01:17:14Is it big?
01:17:15It's...
01:17:16Look at the picture.
01:17:17Oh.
01:17:18Okay, here we go.
01:17:19So they go A-N-C-E.
01:17:21It goes like this.
01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?
01:17:24This is so fun.
01:17:26So I went out for girls night last night with Laura, Jody, and Lily.
01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.
01:17:32So we went to Mavericks and they had this event called Pitch Me.
01:17:35Oh, no way.
01:17:36Yeah, so they did like a presentation of like what I'm looking for in a guy.
01:17:40And all the guys were like 12, Jamal.
01:17:42They weren't even like grown, you know?
01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple guys have been younger, so...
01:17:49My last one guy was younger.
01:17:52So, well, B's not really.
01:17:54B's 44.
01:17:55So, I mean, he's, you know...
01:17:56What's his real name?
01:17:57Benjamin.
01:17:58Oh.
01:17:59Yeah, B sounds better.
01:18:00Yeah.
01:18:01But, um, so then he texts me and I went over to a hotel with him last night.
01:18:08Sure you don't want to know about that?
01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.
01:18:10Things have been tense between me and Jamal lately.
01:18:15I've hid things from him for so long that when I told him, it just devastated him.
01:18:23As long as we're not talking about these things, Jamal and I are fine.
01:18:27But it's like everything's hidden under this carpet and I have to pull that carpet away every now and then and talk about it.
01:18:32But Jamal will just hang up on me, he won't answer a text, he'll walk out the house.
01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.
01:18:41Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.
01:18:45Why is he coming out here?
01:18:47Just to see, like, you know, where I grew up at and, you know, get a little more of my family history.
01:18:53And I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.
01:18:58You know, but now I have to just...
01:18:59I wish you did too.
01:19:04You hid him for so long.
01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:19:16I did what I thought.
01:19:17Yeah, but why'd you hide him for so long?
01:19:19Right.
01:19:25Just give me a second.
01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.
01:19:34This is really hard for me.
01:19:42Jamal's dad and I were never married.
01:19:44Um, we were together for seven and a half years.
01:19:46We were in the military together and he was just cheating all the time.
01:19:51It was just like every day there was like a different girl.
01:19:57When I got pregnant with my first son, Larry, first thing his dad said was abort it.
01:20:03And I just couldn't do that.
01:20:05When I was only 21 years old, I couldn't imagine being a single mom.
01:20:08I was not mentally ready.
01:20:10I was starting my military career.
01:20:12I was just not ready.
01:20:14So I decided to put my son up for adoption.
01:20:17And I never told Jamal until last year.
01:20:19When Larry found us through an ancestry website.
01:20:22I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:25I would have told you.
01:20:26I don't think so.
01:20:27And that's a huge thing for me is like,
01:20:29I don't think you ever would have told me.
01:20:32Because like there was no reason to not tell me.
01:20:35I just didn't know how to say it.
01:20:39You know, and it's always been like me and you, me and you, me and you.
01:20:42And I finally got our relationship to where like I've always wanted it to be, right?
01:20:46So it was better for me to just keep this big dark secret.
01:20:50I felt like in my head I was just like trying to protect myself and then trying to protect you too.
01:20:55Because I just didn't.
01:20:57Why are you protecting me?
01:20:58I don't know.
01:20:59I just didn't know how to handle it.
01:21:00I didn't, I, that's, that is the complete truth.
01:21:03I did not know how to handle this at all, at all.
01:21:08Last year I found out I had an older brother, full blood, mommy and dad.
01:21:15And my first thought was that she was lying.
01:21:19It was a joke or something because why would you hide this for so long?
01:21:24And we're so close.
01:21:26And then when I found out it was true, I was just really pissed off.
01:21:29I have this whole other family and you knew about it.
01:21:32And I'm like, how could my own mom like, look me in my eyes when she knows I have a whole brother.
01:21:41Dude, that's just not something I'm like, even thought about forgiving yet.
01:21:47Cause I just, I just don't know who would do that.
01:21:49So I'm like, damn.
01:21:54I don't know.
01:21:55I feel like your mom's a person you're supposed to trust like only.
01:22:00Like if you can't trust anyone else, you can trust her.
01:22:04But now it's like, wow.
01:22:05I can't trust anyone in the world anymore.
01:22:08Oh, I'm like shaking.
01:22:09It's like hard for me to look at you when we even talk about this whole thing.
01:22:17You do make a lot of excuses.
01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.
01:22:22I don't know.
01:22:23I don't know what I up, you know?
01:22:25Like, I don't, I don't know what else to say to fix it.
01:22:28I know keeping Larry from Jamal was not the right thing to do.
01:22:34It ended up just hurting him worse.
01:22:36Jamal had every right to know that he had a brother out there.
01:22:40And now all I'm trying to do is just repair what I up.
01:22:45Last year, Jamal and I went to North Carolina to meet Larry, his wife and his son.
01:22:50Meeting Larry for the first time was like crazy because I'm looking at him.
01:22:56I'm like, okay, this is my blood.
01:22:58This is my son.
01:22:59And he has my face.
01:23:00He looks just like me, but he's a total stranger to me.
01:23:05And technically I'm a grandma.
01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.
01:23:11But I'm so relieved because he was such a good man.
01:23:16And I don't know how he would have turned out if I would have kept him.
01:23:19You know?
01:23:20It makes me feel certain that I did the right thing.
01:23:24Since then, Jamal and I have been talking with Larry.
01:23:28And I invited him to San Diego so I could get to know him more and he could see where I'm from.
01:23:35What do you think you even want to do with Larry once he comes out here?
01:23:38Like, what's next?
01:23:39You think you're going to have like a deep talk with him?
01:23:41I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:23:43About what?
01:23:44About the other one.
01:23:45How do you think he's going to react?
01:23:49I think he's going to be pissed.
01:23:50He's going to be really upset with me.
01:23:51Hey, by the way, you have a sister like the .
01:23:52Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:23:53I also had a daughter.
01:23:54I also had a daughter.
01:23:55I don't know.
01:23:56I don't know.
01:23:57I don't know.
01:23:58I don't know.
01:23:59I don't know.
01:24:00I don't know.
01:24:01I don't know.
01:24:02I don't know.
01:24:03How do you think he's going to react?
01:24:06I think he's going to be pissed.
01:24:07He's going to be really upset with me.
01:24:09Hey, by the way, you have a sister like the .
01:24:16Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:24:20I also had a daughter.
01:24:31This season on The Single Life.
01:24:33This is the kind of life that I want, where I can have fun with my partner.
01:24:41You're getting me all hot.
01:24:44Oh, yeah?
01:24:45This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
01:24:49Nice to meet you.
01:24:50I'll never see you again.
01:24:52I was helping him upload something on social media,
01:24:55and it shows me all the women he's been messaging.
01:24:58Something's fishy about this.
01:25:00Courtney's worried that I'm just going to leave or cheat or whatever one day.
01:25:04Are you still living that way, dude?
01:25:06Be honest with me.
01:25:07Well, um...
01:25:10How are you?
01:25:11A wreck.
01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.
01:25:14I didn't tell my son Larry about his sister when he first found me.
01:25:17Here, sit.
01:25:18But I want to tell him now, and I'm really scared.
01:25:21What if he just turns around and leaves?
01:25:23What if he never speaks to me again?
01:25:25It's a hard time.
01:25:30Do you mind if I have a dance?
01:25:32It's my girl.
01:25:33Are you serious?
01:25:34I do feel jealous watching her dance with someone else.
01:25:37I just don't see how that's respectful, the guy that you're with.
01:25:40So you're stopping me from being who I am?
01:25:43You don't see a problem here at all.
01:25:44What is the freaking problem?
01:25:46I think the problem is actually us.
01:25:47I'm done with this .
01:25:50Yesterday, I was talking police, and she made me feel maybe I do have another guy in your mind.
01:25:55But why did she tell you that?
01:25:56I don't want Sophie to play a game with me.
01:25:59I'm not interested in that .
01:26:01Hell no.
01:26:02Not with me.
01:26:04Everything I've told you, he knows.
01:26:07You've never had my back.
01:26:08Yes, I have.
01:26:09You've never had my back.
01:26:10OK, you have enough.
01:26:11That's breaking girl code.
01:26:12Like, you don't do that.
01:26:13Go the homeless.
01:26:14Adios.
01:26:15Homeless.
01:26:16Adios.
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