00:00I think when we're single, we have this perfect picture in our head of what marriage is going to be,
00:06and it's going to be so easy, and we're going to gaze into each other's eyes,
00:09and there's going to be butterflies and love.
00:10It's not that every day.
00:12Like, I think marriage more is, it's more mundane, if I'm being honest.
00:17It's the monotony of, it's Tuesday, did you take out the trash?
00:20Oh my gosh, I got to pay for, I got to pay for summer camp.
00:23Like, that is your day-to-day.
00:24But I think, as Charles said it, in leading in love, and finding those moments of intimacy, of partnership.
00:33So I think even in the moments of monotony and life being mundane,
00:37finding those pockets of peace and pockets of love with your partner, being intentional.
00:42So, dressing up.
00:44I know, me, I work from home, so most days I roll out of bed, I roll into leggings and a sweatshirt.
00:50The leggings, leggings now.
00:51I realize, but when it's time to get dressed, I make sure I get dressed.
00:56If he's like, let's go to dinner, even though it's just me and him, I could go on jeans and a t-shirt,
01:00but I'm like, let me look nice for my man.
01:02You know, let me, let me look nice for him.
01:04Let me, let me show him that, you know, why he fell in love with me.
