00:00What is it difficult for your independent living?
00:08What is it difficult for you?
00:09Actually, it's the current.
00:10It's probably the budgeting.
00:11Today, it's the top of the current.
00:14It's about $15,000.
00:15And it's only $7,000.
00:17Sorry, Ashley.
00:18Yung $15,000.
00:19Two of you guys?
00:21Two of you.
00:22Two of you guys?
00:23$15,000?
00:24Yes!
00:25May nakatap sa inyo.
00:26You know what?
00:28Pero alam mo, depende din kasi sa area eh.
00:32Oo.
00:33Actually, totoo yan.
00:34Pinanong ko kasi yan.
00:35Try mong isaray yung kontador.
00:37Pag buong townhouse na wala ng ilaw,
00:39lahat ng top sa inyo.
00:41Problem solved.
00:42Ang hirap.
00:43Actually, yun yung parang...
00:45Tapos, syempre yung nire-rent namin ngayon,
00:48mas mahal na rin kasi syempre townhouse na.
00:50We need bigger space kasi.
00:51And actually, pinag-usapan naman na namin na
00:53since sige,
00:54kaya naman natin magbayad ng rent ng ganito na kataas.
00:57Pero yung kuryente talagang na-shock kami.
00:59Na 15.
01:00Kasi,
01:01nag-galing kami sa 7,000 lang.
01:02Tapos, naging 15.
01:03Sabi ko nga,
01:04baka nga lahat ng mga Christmas lights ng kapitbahay
01:06na ano baan sa amin.
01:08Ay, hindi.
01:09Part na din ng adulting to madam chair
01:11na nagtitipid tayo sa kuryente.
01:13Ay, oo.
01:14Baka sa aircon.
01:15Actually, sabi ko kay Shubi,
01:17sabi ko kay Shubi,
01:18isang aircon lang dapat magbukas ha.
01:20Hindi na dapat...
01:21Tsaka sabi ko,
01:22huwag lang magbubukas ng Christmas tree mo.
01:24Sabi ko,
01:25kasi,
01:26paggabi,
01:27nakabukas ng Christmas tree,
01:28para Christmas vibes.
01:29Sabi ko,
01:30patay,
01:31walang na magbubukas ng Christmas tree
01:32nang magdamag sa gabi.
01:33Oo.
01:34So, yun, yung budgeting nun.
01:35Tapos,
01:36ang dami ko kasi kailangan isipin eh.
01:38So, kailangan mo iset aside yung budget mo
01:40for your rent,
01:41for your electricity,
01:42for your gas.
01:43Lalo na kami taping ko,
01:45three times a week.
01:46Tapos, eto pa,
01:47yung kami ni Shubi,
01:48eto rin yung problema namin.
01:49Feeling ko,
01:50yun nga rin tong 2026,
01:51yun yung goal ko,
01:52is matuto magluto talaga ng bahay
01:54kasi everyday kami nagpapagrab ng food ni Shubi.
01:56Uy, ang gastos.
01:57Delivery fee.
01:58Everyday talaga.
01:59Tapos,
02:00alam mo,
02:01lunch, dinner.
02:02Tapos,
02:03hindi namin maubos yung pagkain.
02:04Ilalagay lang namin sa ref.
02:05Tapos, alam mo,
02:06ilang araw nakatambak lang sa ref.
02:07Oo.
02:08Pwede ba ba ito kainin?
02:09May green na.
02:10Tapos,
02:11the next day,
02:12bagong order na naman na ulam.
02:13Oo.
02:14So, usually,
02:15yung pinapauwi ko na lang sa PA ko,
02:16Ate Casey,
02:17ang daming nasasayang na food.
02:19Kasi, parang,
02:20naging abusado ata kami ni Shubi
02:21na iba-iba dapat ulam next day.
02:23Tapos, puro order.
02:24So, parang yun siguro yung unhealthy habit namin ni Shubi.
02:27Tsaka,
02:28pag hindi siya lutong ba,
02:29hindi healthy?
02:30Oo.
02:31Alam mo, if I may,
02:32kasi diba,
02:33tatlo anak ko,
02:34tapos kaming dalawa,
02:35tapos dalawang helper.
02:36Pag kumakain kami sa labas,
02:38ang isang kain namin,
02:395,000 to 8,000.
02:40Pag nag-grocery ako,
02:42ang 5,000,
02:43may tatlo na akong dalawang kilong karne.
02:45So, 6 na kilong meat,
02:47plus veggies,
02:48in condiments,
02:49konti lang meron pa sa bahay.
02:51Galing talaga.
02:52Ilang araw na yun na ulam?
02:53Diba?
02:54Sa isang linggo,
02:55dalawang beses lang ako magluluto,
02:56tapos,
02:57tatlong ulam,
02:58apat na ulam isang lutoan,
02:59isang araw.
03:00Diba?
03:01Tapos,
03:02shuffle, shuffle.
03:03Baka makatulong sa inyo ni Shubi.
03:04Naka ano yun?
03:05Naka...
03:06Sa lansan,
03:07mahayot.
03:08Kaya pa nag-taping to,
03:09zombie.
03:11Wow.
03:12Baka makatulong sa inyo ni Shubi,
03:13meron kayo schedule.
03:14Monday,
03:15ako magluluto.
03:16Elimbawa lang,
03:17Thursday ikaw.
03:18Para iba-iba.
03:19Actually,
03:203-9 na rin namin yan.
03:21Naggrocery naman,
03:22oo.
03:23Pero, yun nga,
03:24dahil siguro tamad rin kami magluto,
03:26nabubulok na yung karne sa freezer.
03:29Dati kasi,
03:303-9 ko yan,
03:31sabi ko,
03:32Shucks,
03:33bibili ako ng breast chicken.
03:34O,
03:35sa freezer,
03:36puno.
03:37Puno ng breast chicken?
03:38Puno ng meat.
03:39Okay.
03:40Oo.
03:41Parang,
03:42inano ko na rin na for my dog,
03:43may beef siya doon.
03:44Parang yun yung pagkain.
03:45Parang,
03:46parang maging aso sa inyo.
03:47Kasi sa iyo,
03:48dog,
03:49hindi siya makain dog food.
03:50Oo.
03:51Tapos,
03:52hanggang sa pag,
03:53siguro naging busy lang talaga kami ni Shubi.
03:56Wala kasi kaming helper.
03:57Kaya nga,
03:58sometimes gusto ko na lang na sana may cook,
04:00pero wala.
04:01Hindi na rin namin naluluto lahat ng pagkain.
04:03Parang on the go kasi talaga kami lagi.
04:05Oo eh.
04:06So, yun yung mahirap.
04:07So, parang,
04:08we're still in,
04:09I'm still in the process na,
04:11to figure things out na yung sa food.
04:13So, yung paglilinis ng bahay?
04:15Ayan.
04:16Paano tokan yun ni Shubi?
04:17Actually,
04:18ayan,
04:19I clean my own underwear bra.
04:22Yung laundry,
04:23may laundry na malapit.
04:24Ako,
04:25naglilinis ako.
04:26Si Shubi,
04:27love ko si Shubi,
04:28tanggap ko na talaga na bura rasha
04:29at makalat siyang tao.
04:31Hindi totoo talaga.
04:32Doon kami nag-aaway.
04:34Actually,
04:35nandun kami sa condo.
04:36Paano kayo mag-aaway?
04:37Oo nga.
04:38Actually, hindi.
04:39Hindi naman.
04:40First,
04:41nagkaroon na kami ng one major fight pa lang.
04:42Nung nandun kami sa San Juan,
04:43nung nasa condo kami,
04:44hindi kami nag-aaway dun eh.
04:45Parang,
04:463BR yun eh.
04:47Isang room sa kanya,
04:48isang room sa akin.
04:49Tapos isang room,
04:50ginawa namin yung walk-in closet.
04:51Oo.
04:52Ito yung ano pa,
04:53before PBB.
04:54After PBB kasi,
04:55nagtuloy-tuloy yung work namin.
04:56Tapos,
04:57bigla na lang dumamit yung,
04:58yung condo naman.
04:59Parang,
05:00naging warehouse,
05:01gano'n.
05:02Parang,
05:03hindi na siya umuwi din halos.
05:04Actually,
05:05kaming dalawa hindi na umuwi.
05:06Tapos,
05:07wala pa kaming helper.
05:08Tapos,
05:09umuwi kami madaling araw.
05:10So,
05:11tambak na lang yung mga gamit.
05:12Tapos,
05:13sabi ko,
05:14shocks,
05:15I can't have a peaceful moment
05:16if uuwi ako ng bahay.
05:17Tapos,
05:18parang bodega.
05:19So,
05:20sabi ko,
05:21babe,
05:22let's transfer to a new place.
05:23And then,
05:24yun nga,
05:25may kanya-kanyang floor na kami.
05:26Doon lang lahat ng kalat ko.
05:27Hindi ko siya papakilaban.
05:29Okay lang.
05:30Sa pinakataas actually.
05:31Parang,
05:32hindi ko makita yung mga kalat niya.
05:33Tapos,
05:34sarili kong floor makalat.
05:35Pero,
05:36make sure sa living and sa dining,
05:37malinis.
05:38Oo.
05:39Kasi,
05:40parang sa ate na yan eh.
05:41Sa condo kasi talaga,
05:42ano talaga siya,
05:43aligaga talaga siya.
05:45Oo.
05:46So,
05:47yun lang.
05:48Tapos,
05:49pero ngayon naman,
05:50nag-improve na siya.
05:51But,
05:52I'm not judging her nung nakakalat.
05:53Parang ako normal na,
05:54normal din naman.
05:55So,
05:56based on how she grew up also sa province,
05:57sinabi niya,
05:58diba ang dami nilang magkakapatid?
05:59So,
06:00maraming gamit rin talaga yun.
06:01So,
06:02dun siya,
06:03sana eh.
06:04Sabi ko,
06:05okay,
06:06ano na lang.
06:07Pero ngayon lumilinis na siya.
06:08Siguro natuturin sa akin.
06:09So,
06:10nakakalat siya.
06:11Pasensya ka na,
06:12Ashley ha.
06:13Bakit?
06:14Namimiss ko kasi yung mga kapatid ko.
06:15Fuck!
06:16What does that mean?
06:20Tapos,
06:21binas ha,
06:22kinawa yung drama.
06:23Kasi may dagat.
06:27Pero,
06:28ano pa yung mga bagay na mas na-enjoy mo ngayon freely?
06:31Nung naging independent ka na,
06:33nung humiwalay ka na sa mom mo.
06:35Na-enjoy ko.
06:36Ano,
06:37wala na akong curfew.
06:38Parang,
06:39pwede na akong,
06:40yes,
06:41hawak ko yung oras ko.
06:42Kung ano,
06:43lalabas ako with my friends.
06:44Kahit abutin pa akong 4am,
06:45walang magte-text na,
06:46asan ka,
06:47naumuwi ka na.
06:48Ayan.
06:49Pero at the same time also,
06:50actually,
06:51when I started doing things on my own,
06:53natatakot talaga ako magkamali.
06:55I made sure na,
06:56I will be responsible.
06:57Kasi,
06:58feeling ko,
06:59if nagkamali ako,
07:00I mean,
07:01okay lang naman magkamali sa buhay,
07:02pero yung alam mo,
07:03yung magpaka-rebelde,
07:04o mawala sa,
07:05sa tamang landas,
07:06naririnig ko yung boses ng mga magulang ko na,
07:08ayan,
07:09ayan,
07:10yun kasi,
07:11sabi ko sa'yo,
07:12yung mga ganyan,
07:13yun yung palagang pinakaayaw ko mangyari.
07:14So,
07:15I made sure na once,
07:16I started living alone,
07:18kakayanin ko,
07:19and every year,
07:20mag-excel ako.
07:21And so far naman,
07:22awa ng Diyos,
07:23every year naman nag-excel ako.
07:25And I think,
07:26alam mo yun,
07:27you have to give,
07:28we have to give credit where it's due.
07:30Yung ganyan mong pag-iisip,
07:32yung ganyan mong perspective,
07:34dahil din yan sa mama mo talaga.
07:37Oh yes, of course.
07:38Kasi,
07:39nakasama kita sa isang show,
07:40diba,
07:41nag-guest ako doon
07:42for a few tapings,
07:43tapos yung mama,
07:44kapasama mo pala,
07:45tapos nakasundo ko rin yung mama niya.
07:47Lagi ko rin kasama sa taping talaga,
07:48everywhere I go.
07:50Yung pagbabantay niya sa'yo,
07:51yung paghihitik niya sa'yo,
07:52at least na pay off.
07:53Actually,
07:54kahit mag-isa ako,
07:55yun yung every time gagawa ko ng mga bagay-bagay,
07:57ini-imagine ko na nandyan siya.
07:59Parang isipin ko,
08:00ayaw ko yung mapagalitan ako,
08:01so ayusin ko yung,
08:02yung parang desisyon ko sa buhay.
08:04But again,
08:05syempre,
08:06sa four years kong living alone,
08:07may mga moments na na nag-fail ako.
08:09Of course.
08:10Like syempre,
08:11inabusado ko rin na walang curfew,
08:12so talagang,
08:13waldas ako ng pera,
08:14sige alak pa,
08:15wine, tara,
08:16go,
08:17libre ko kayo lahat.
08:18Hanggang sa angtami ko na palang expenses sa mga wine.
08:21Pero hindi naman ako umabot sa point na nagwala talaga.
08:23It's more of my close friends na parang,
08:25sige.
08:26Nag-enjoy.
08:27Yes.
08:28Pero ngayon,
08:29mas kontrolado ko na yun.
08:30I'm sure proud na proud sa'yo yung mama mo.
08:32Thank you po.
08:33And she feels good about herself also,
08:35kasi nakikita niya how responsible you are.
08:38And at least,
08:39gusto lang itang kudos sa'yo,
08:41kasi alam mo yun,
08:42ina-acknowledge niya yung pagkakamali niya before,
08:45yung pag-wawaldas niya before.
08:47Totoo.
08:48Tapos alam mo yun,
08:49kinukwento yung sinishare niya sa atin,
08:50nang wala kaabog-abog.
08:51Totoo.
08:52Kung paano siya nag-transition,
08:54kung paano siya nag-change from there to here.
08:57Alam mo yun.
08:58Totoo.
08:59So ang galing lang.
09:00Palakpakan naman natin yung kay Ashley.
09:01Kailangan may gano'n.
09:02Perfect ka talaga dun.
09:04Batatua mo sayar!
09:13Batata mu sayar!
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