00:00I met this pretty thing right here.
00:12I hit a friend, a really star, and the DM like, yo, your friend, she beautiful.
00:18Like, what she doing?
00:19She doing a thing.
00:20I want her.
00:21She like, what you mean?
00:25First, she was being stiff.
00:26Like, what you mean?
00:27Like, trying to be that friend.
00:28I'm like, I just like this.
00:29She's beautiful.
00:30Woo-woo.
00:31So then my second angle was, I had a bad boozy dinner, and I specifically put a little
00:36request in for this one right here, you know?
00:41So I'm chilling, and I was just like, I'm finna go just sit over there and go talk to her.
00:45And then I pulled right up on her.
00:47You remember that?
00:48Mm-hmm.
00:49Yeah.
00:50She was nervous, too.
00:51You know what I'm saying?
00:52I seen it on her.
00:53So then I chopped it up.
00:55Just chopped it up.
00:56Chop it up.
00:57You know, like when my friend told me that he was trying to holler at me, I'm like,
01:03mm-mm.
01:04I'm not trying to deal with these rappers.
01:05I'm not trying to deal with no industry rappers because I already know what type of
01:08time they're on.
01:09And they're not gonna be, they're not gonna be slutting me out.
01:12Like, I be finna, I always felt like I was just scared.
01:16I felt like I, I always, I'm a relationship girl.
01:20And we just had a really nice conversation that night.
01:24He was just telling me how he believed in me and how he been watching me for a video.
01:28And I was like, all right, I don't know how to do this.
01:31I guess I gave him my number.
01:33I guess I gave him my number again.
01:39So I did want him to call me, but I'm like, oh, I just don't, I just was like, I just don't
01:44want to get in my feelings when it comes to these men.
01:47Like, I don't want to get in my feelings.
01:49I don't know.
01:50I was just, I was, my hair was everywhere, but I was like, period.
01:54Look at him calling me.
01:55He just asked me.
02:00He invited me out to a club and I went out with my natural hair and everything.
02:07And then, um, he got right behind me and I felt him, you know, I felt him getting close
02:13to me and I felt his, his breath right here.
02:16And I'm like, oh my God.
02:17Oh, Jesus Christ.
02:19Oh, the feelings is rushing through my body.
02:20I can't breathe, but I'm going to be strong and resilient.
02:24I'm not going to give it to him right away.
02:27I ain't tried off the rip though, did I?
02:28No, he ain't tried off the rip at all.
02:29I ain't even tried.
02:30At all, but I don't want to.
02:31See, I respect her.
02:32I knew she was, you know what I'm saying?
02:33I knew she was thinking I'm coming with that, but I respect her heart, what she had
02:37going on, her hustle, what she was doing.
02:39So I ain't want to just be coming in.
02:40So, you know, I was thinking like, let me just go big, man, for the first date.
02:44Where do I need to take her?
02:45And then, you know, we go Super Bowl.
02:49I kind of knew that he was serious.
02:51You know, I kind of like, I felt his vibe.
02:56She wasn't playing with me.
02:58She's saying it all nice right now, but it was really awesome.
03:00What you finna do?
03:01I know what I'm finna do.
03:03I'm finna make you mine.
03:05I was consistent.
03:06I kept calling, kept testing.
03:07Wherever she was at, I was going.
03:08Private jet.
03:09Flying in.
03:10Phew.
03:11We was just like kissing, making out and everything.
03:12He was like, you gonna have my baby.
03:13And I was like, you ain't having no babies yet.
03:14You gotta marry me.
03:15He was like, all right, let's get married.
03:16And I'm like, please.
03:17I thought he was playing around and because, you know, whatever.
03:20We went to the courthouse and did it at the courthouse before I had proposed at Philly and the show.
03:41We was disguised like, we want nobody to know what's going on.
03:45But somebody seen us, I think.
03:46Yeah.
03:47We called somebody we knew.
03:48Like, I seen them.
03:49I think they just got mad.
03:50We like, nah.
03:51We like, you know, we did all the paperwork there.
03:54And then they send us like somebody to officially get us married.
03:58So we got married in his bedroom.
04:00It was just only me and him and my cousin.
04:04She was recording it, but we all lost the footage of us getting married.
04:10My dream is my ceremony.
04:13Like, I feel like, you know, we just got married, like, on some...
04:18Rockstar type.
04:20Yeah, rockstar type and everything.
04:22And it's like, that's why sometimes, you know, when people look at the Philly thing when I got my ring and everything.
04:27Everybody was like, she was just acting because they were already married.
04:31I wasn't already acting because even after I got married, like, I kept telling, like, my cousin, like, it's like, I just don't feel married.
04:37Like, that nigga didn't even gave me a ring.
04:39I hope he don't think that he could just marry me and he ain't gonna give me a ring.
04:43Do I sound crazy if I tell him, like, so where's my ring?
04:46And I just felt kind of like, I felt like kind of like incomplete because it's like, he never, like, got on his knees and, like, asked me to get married.
04:55We was just on, like, so let's get married then.
04:57Like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
04:59And I was getting pressure too.
05:01Let me catch y'all.
05:02I was getting a little pressure too.
05:03You know, I got friends.
05:04Yeah.
05:05I got fam.
05:06I got friends and they like, bro, what's up with you, my boy?
05:08You all right?
05:09You ready to do that?
05:10You're only 26, brother.
05:12Y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all love each other and stuff, but, and I was like, listen, I'm grown.
05:18Let me make my decisions.
05:20Support it.
05:21You know what I mean?
05:22They supported me four, four players though.
05:26And we don't like, it might sound weird, like, because sometimes you can put the love before work and be messing up your career and messing up what you got going on because you not focusing on what's, like, your love is important, but if you got that foundation, we should respect each other art and what we got going on.
05:39So it's like, I want you to work.
05:42I want you to, I don't want to be just up under you because that get, first off, that ain't, they get tired of that quick anyways.
05:48And it's just like, it's a different experience.
05:50I had never felt, I had never experienced a female that was working so much like me and was doing what I'm doing and like, and it turned me on like this boss.
05:59You know what I'm saying?
06:02Well, my mama was a hustler.
06:03You know, I was raised by my mama and my grandmama and they worked hard to raise the kids and raise our family.
06:08So I'm from the South too.
06:09You know what I'm saying?
06:10So that was like more close to home or more relatable to what I seen.
06:14My mama worked numerous hours, three boys.
06:16I know when she was home, but, you know, she's working a lot, maintaining us.
06:20My grandmama, same thing.
06:21So it just come from that foundation of that, like, home base.
06:27We were talking to each other a lot.
06:29You know, sometimes I could get really down.
06:31Sometimes I get really upset.
06:33He could tell when I'm upset.
06:35He always lift me up.
06:37Same thing with him.
06:38Like, it's like sometimes when he's just not, you know, feeling too good.
06:41I always remind him like how amazing he is.
06:44And that's just the best thing about each other because it's like, it's a lot of pressure.
06:49You know, it's a lot of pressure.
06:51It's people always talking down.
06:54It's people always looking for you to fail.
06:57The older and the more seasoned we are in this industry, we really be feeling like we just really have each other.
07:05I feel like all the things that happened to us, they just make us closer.
07:11Not as just a married couple, as friends and as each other's biggest supporters.
07:16To me, it's just like a real serious locked in for life partnership shit, like best friend shit.
07:25Like, sometimes it's like, okay, he's my husband, but he's really like my best friend.
07:30Nobody got my back like him and he knows I got his back all the way, no matter what.
07:37And nothing could come in between that, always.
07:41It's like a safe house.
07:44Have somebody that you can talk to.
07:46That feel it too though, like, that know exactly what you mean instead of like, like, you know you got friends, but they ain't the position you in.
07:53So they gonna always boost you and it might not, it might be more boosting than something you need to hear.
07:59Sometimes I need to hear certain things like, well, you ain't doing this, so that's why you feel like this.
08:04Or you need to do this more and then you'll feel more like this.
08:07And just to have that is just a blessing.
08:11I'll see you next time.
08:12I'll see you next time.
08:13Bye.
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