00:00who are you I'm Yolanda I'm the entertainment editor at Essence nice to see you I decided to
00:08just bring my ask Wendy mic and my sign to set up ask Wendy here at lunchtime at Essence so how
00:14can I help Wendy when do you know when it's time to walk away from a friendship I do believe in
00:20relationship dumpations in other words you dump a friend I think that and it's a cliche saying
00:26but it's so true relationships have a reason Yolanda and a season and when the seasons change
00:32you have to learn how to move on because life is too complicated for girlfriends you have to chase
00:38after because your your outcome is what you're measuring the man can lead you to the marriage
00:45which can lead you to the children which in my opinion as a married woman having grown up in a
00:51household of married parents and stuff I value family way more I mean friendships are cool but
00:59friendships are interchangeable kids and your man well men are interchangeable too but you know what
01:05I mean yeah I hear you I hear you thank you I appreciate it so when it's time it's time it might
01:10be time not even might be I should say it's time did you hear that authority yes it's time all right
01:16we'll soldier on all right good luck Yolanda here's the problem hi Sharia what's the problem
01:23I had no idea your new building is so big and I'm walking through here trying to be cute with heels
01:28only to nobody told me there was a table I love it y'all don't know she got a little comfortable you
01:36feel like family so we're happy you're here thank you I like your earrings thank you get I'm supposed
01:40to get to my ass Wendy oh go ahead can I get my how you doing first go ahead oh come on all right
01:46how you doing I'll do it myself so I'm Sharia I'm the lifestyle and relationships editor here at Essence
01:51so if you're the editor of relationships what do you have to ask Wendy for you know everything
01:56I'm researching for the readers I don't know at all I'm sure I'm not and this is what my question
02:00is about so I'm in a great relationship getting ready for marriage and babies and I'm already feeling
02:05crazy now so I don't know what is Wendy doing to juggle your personal and professional life
02:10what's working for you and what should we start to do you got to learn how to prioritize and I would
02:16suggest to you um less nights out after work go home and focus okay okay what should I do for
02:24Valentine's Day stay in the house and shut the blinds and don't buy into all of the nine cents and
02:30by the way don't be so pressed with the lingerie it is one day Valentine's Day to me is and I know
02:36that I'm here for Valentine advice but be very clear I've been consistent on my opinion all of my
02:41career I think Valentine's Day is the dopiest holiday ever girls want to jump off the Brooklyn
02:46Bridge guys feel pressured to buy a tennis bracelet when they can barely afford a tennis shoe do that
02:55on February 15th leave the 14th to the amateurs oh got it thank you Wendy you're very welcome bye bye
03:03that shirt is very Valentino-esque
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