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90 Day Diaries - Season 7 Episode 9 - Dear Diary, I Have Mommy Issues
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00:00Here we are! Say hello, papa. It's balloons! Brennan, look! Do you team the boy or girl?
00:18We don't know. I team the boy. See, I am.
00:21Because your boobies could bite. Oh my goodness, no.
00:25I'm finally having my breast reduction surgery, and there's so much that could go wrong.
00:31I want to keep my nipple sensation. Well, you know that it's always just a risk.
00:34You know, there's a risk that you could lose it, but the nerves are so small.
00:39Brennan, your mom not grandmother material. Your dad are grandfather material. Your mom not.
00:46Today is supposed to be a special day. We are getting ready for the baby shower,
00:51but of course, my mother-in-law is trying to rule you. What the ? Even my baby shower,
00:56she has to have turtles and make everything this length now. What can we do?
01:01Tell them to not come. No, no. Don't come.
01:06You attacked Ashley at the tell-all, and that's why they owe her an apology. No, I don't. I don't owe
01:12her nothing. She owes me an apology. You're supposed to be the bigger person. I am. She's very tiny.
01:18I'm not going to sit here and let my parents disrespect my girlfriend to my face.
01:23Well, you're mean with a nasty attitude and a smart mouth,
01:26so maybe you and Ashley belong together.
01:28I'm not going to sit here, but I'm not going to sit here, but I'm not going to sit here.
01:40I'm not going to sit here, but I'm not going to sit here, but I'm not going to sit here.
01:44Say hello, pop-ups. Hi.
01:50Here we are at the party park. I'm Chantel. I'm 34 years old, and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
01:58I'm Ashley. I'm 36, and I'm from Weedowie, Alabama.
02:02All right. Here we go.
02:06Got the plumpers. Little babies.
02:10Ashley and I have been dating for one year now, and we're just joint at the hip all the time.
02:16That includes taking a bath together.
02:19Yes, taking a bath together, taking a shower together.
02:23Do you guys like it right here? Do you like it right here? Say yes.
02:29All right. I guess I'll take them out then.
02:32Mm-hmm.
02:32Is that okay?
02:33Sure.
02:35My 90-day journey began when I married Pedro from the Dominican Republic.
02:41I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
02:44You may kiss your bride.
02:46But things didn't go well when our families didn't get along.
02:56Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
02:57What you talking to you?
02:58What you talking to you?
02:59Hey, hey, hey.
03:00What you saying?
03:00What you saying, ?
03:01What you talking about?
03:02What's up?
03:03What's up?
03:04Hey!
03:05Hey!
03:06Hey!
03:07Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:10Hey!
03:11How the hell you do that?
03:12I was always in the middle, and it took a toll on our marriage, and we divorced.
03:17I started dating again, and things were really rocky.
03:22I tried finding love in Greece.
03:25I even went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
03:28What would your ex say about you?
03:30Where's my money?
03:31Did you take his money?
03:33I took my money out of the bank account.
03:35It was yours, right?
03:36I believe.
03:37But nothing really stuck.
03:39Finally, I found love right in Atlanta with Ashley.
03:46The relationship I had with Ashley early on was strictly friends, like platonic, and it
03:57took a turn one drunken night when you told me that you had romantic feelings for me, and
04:05then my whole world was open to a whole world of possibilities that I didn't knew that existed.
04:11It's been so nice.
04:13I've actually been.
04:15Plus all the sex we're having.
04:19Ashley's been living with me for an entire year now, and it's been going really well.
04:24It just feels good.
04:25Feels right.
04:28You look nice, by the way.
04:31I'll look a lot nicer once I get my breast reduction, because then I won't have like a
04:35supersonic bra showing out the side.
04:38Yeah.
04:38Your big day is coming up.
04:41Oh, man.
04:41Tomorrow, I'm finally having my breast reduction surgery.
04:47I decided to get a breast reduction because I have a size L, boobs, which are, by the way,
04:55100% natural.
04:58And as a nurse who works 12 hours a day on her feet, my back is killing me.
05:04I also feel like I'm always sexualized or not taken seriously because of my big boobs.
05:11And I've battled with it for so long.
05:16Now I think that this, it's time.
05:20It's crazy that this is finally happening.
05:23Oh.
05:24It's your boobies goodbye.
05:26Oh, my goodness.
05:27No.
05:28I'm going to be crying.
05:29I'm going to be so upset that I don't have my pillows.
05:32Yeah.
05:32You're going to have to use a real pillow.
05:35I'm going to miss them a lot.
05:37Really?
05:37It's okay, though.
05:38It's okay.
05:39Show me for a better back.
05:41Do you want to do first position?
05:43Okay.
05:43So we have different positions that we sleep in, and we call it first position, second position,
05:48third position.
05:48So all because of these boobs.
05:50But I love when I sleep at night, I jack it up like this.
05:54I put my head like this, and I do this.
05:56This is first position.
05:59Don't go to sleep now.
06:01I'm so nervous.
06:02But I'm so ready.
06:05Really.
06:06Truly am ready.
06:08I know you are.
06:09You know I'm going to want my mom there the day of surgery.
06:12Ashley has been a friend of the family for a very long time, and everybody loved her.
06:23But now that she's in a relationship with me, everybody's acting crazy about it.
06:29Like, especially my mom.
06:31Oh, I brought a little something for you.
06:33Here.
06:34And what?
06:35I thought I would give suckers to the suckers.
06:38Hold up a second.
06:39I'm about to get crazy.
06:40Oh, I'm about to get crazy, too.
06:42She came here throwing trash bags, giving me suckers and calling me a sucker and but who's the plout chaser?
06:49She came here to try to ruin what we got, right?
06:51Is that it?
06:52You're trying to ruin what we got.
06:53Who's acting crazy and ?
06:54Since the tell-all, I haven't spoken to Karen or Chantel's family.
06:58It has been very difficult, and it's made things very weird.
07:02That really made me feel...
07:05Yeah.
07:06Yeah.
07:08I know.
07:09I get it.
07:10But I want her to be a part of it in some way.
07:15I mean, I understand that's your mom, but I really don't want her there.
07:20Like, I really do not want your mom there.
07:22I just want to be there for you and relax, and I don't want to cause a scene in the hospital.
07:29One of my biggest fears is that my mom is in the waiting room with Ashley, arguing while I'm being operated on.
07:37I don't want to go and be put under anesthesia with that fear.
07:44Well, we will figure it out.
07:47Don't you worry.
07:48Oh, my gosh.
07:49I'm really nervous.
07:49Don't worry.
07:50Don't worry.
07:51Don't worry about it.
07:51Don't worry about it.
07:51Don't worry about it.
07:51Don't worry about it.
08:08So we're running late, and I've been trying to get us out the door, but we had to walk the dogs.
08:15Here we go.
08:17Bye, dogs.
08:18We love you.
08:22Oh, man.
08:23Today's my surgery, and I can't believe that it's finally here.
08:27You get in first.
08:29Okay.
08:29Okay.
08:31Then you go.
08:36My nerves.
08:38Your nerves?
08:39Yeah.
08:39My nerves.
08:40I called my mom to talk to her about Ashley and her being at the surgery, and I told her
08:50that I don't want her to come to the hospital when I'm having the surgery.
08:56All right.
08:59I'll see you soon.
09:00See you in a little bit.
09:02And she was not happy about it at all, but I can't risk having any unforeseen drama.
09:10So I am hooked up to my IV.
09:27I've got my bear hugger on me.
09:30I've got my IV going.
09:33Hello.
09:34Hi.
09:35How are you doing?
09:36Doing well.
09:37Doing good.
09:38So I know what we've talked about, you want to be around still a V or a double D.
09:43I want to be more like, I think more like a D.
09:52Okay.
09:52Whatever she can safely do and possibly keep her nipple sensation.
09:56I want to keep my nipple sensation, but I want to make it worth it.
10:00Well, you know that it's always just a risk.
10:02There's a risk that you could lose it no matter how much or how old we take off, but I'll do
10:07my best to kind of, you know, preserve anything that I see.
10:10The nerves are so small.
10:13So any other questions?
10:17I think I'm okay.
10:18Okay.
10:19All right.
10:19So yeah, so they'll get you situated.
10:21And then, you know, once you hear from me that she's in the recovery room.
10:24Okay.
10:24Okay.
10:24One thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation and placement.
10:30I'm worried that my nipples are going to be botched.
10:35Like one's higher, one's lower or different sizes.
10:39Or what if the lines are crooked?
10:42Or I don't know.
10:43There's so much that could go wrong.
10:45Maybe I want to FaceTime my mom.
10:55Do you mind if I do that right now?
11:06Hi there.
11:07Hi.
11:08How's it going?
11:10So far, so good.
11:11So when does the surgery actually start?
11:13Because I can speed up there real quick.
11:16You should not come up here.
11:17No, we don't do what you say.
11:19And Emma, we are the parent.
11:21You are the child.
11:22No, they only allow me to have one business.
11:26No, we don't throw him out.
11:28We come and eat.
11:28That's right.
11:29They'll throw him out there.
11:31Excuse me.
11:33I'm going to hang up.
11:34Bye, mom.
11:35Bye.
11:35Bye.
11:36See you later.
11:37Hey, we coming.
11:38That is crazy.
11:39Did you hear what my mom just said?
11:41That is ridiculous.
11:42I'm stressed.
11:45They're going to end up here waiting to open the damn door when they're there.
11:49This is the last thing that I need right now.
11:52I'm literally about to have major surgery.
11:55And now, I don't know if my mom's going to show up spontaneously in the waiting room.
12:01And getting in a fight with Ashley while I'm under anesthesia, I don't know what kind
12:05of mess I'm going to wake up to.
12:09I love you.
12:10I mean, I love you too.
12:11We'll take really good care of her for you.
12:12I want to know it.
12:13I love you.
12:14See you soon.
12:14I love you.
12:15Let's do it.
12:16I love you.
12:46Really?
12:48My name is Julie.
12:51I'm 31 years old, and I'm from Russia now.
12:53I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
12:56I'm Brandon.
12:56I'm 33 years old, and I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
13:00I need to be exercising more.
13:03Oh, actually, that is so easy to sit up.
13:06I still can do something.
13:09Whee!
13:10Whee!
13:11I'm looking good.
13:12For eight months?
13:13I mean, yeah.
13:15Whee!
13:16Whee!
13:16I'm so big.
13:21Our 90-day journey began almost seven years ago.
13:24Julia was living in Russia at the time, and I was living in the United States.
13:27But we had a mutual friend in common, and he urged me to reach out to Julia online.
13:32Hi, love.
13:33How are you today?
13:35And we meet in person first time after one month.
13:39And soon after that, I proposed.
13:41Julia, will you marry me?
13:45Yes.
13:45We applied for the K-1 visa, and six months later, we were approved.
13:52Go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
13:59And less than three months later, we got married.
14:03You may kiss your bra.
14:04Through the first few months of our marriage, we had some relationship struggles.
14:16When we, you know, first got together, we wanted to have kids.
14:19And Julia's telling me she no longer does.
14:22When they say, like, I don't want kids, two years ago, I take whole facility tests, and
14:30them say, I can't have kids, but Brandon's trying to tell me I need second opinion in
14:35America.
14:36Yeah, absolutely.
14:37I'm not here to help.
14:38But if we're going to the doctor, if the doctor is saying no, that could be the possibility.
14:41You're going to leave me.
14:43No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
14:46But we made it through.
14:48And now we're entering a new happy chapter.
14:50We're having a baby.
14:56I'm swearing God, I'm not lying.
14:59This is a joke.
15:04Oh, your heart.
15:06Yeah.
15:07And now I eight months alone, and I'm freaking out.
15:11We're still not ready at all for being a parent.
15:17Uh-huh.
15:17We have to go into the one-time class to figure out this brief exercise together.
15:25We need to go to a class to learn how to breathe.
15:28Yeah, that's just a joke.
15:28I've been doing it my whole life.
15:30I'm a professional.
15:31And you just ask me.
15:33Right then.
15:33It's in and out.
15:35We have six weeks left.
15:37We're not ready for anything.
15:39And it's getting so real.
15:42He doesn't know how to hold a baby.
15:44He doesn't know how to change that, Mr. Baby.
15:46He doesn't know.
15:47How to hold it?
15:48Oh, you told me you know how to hold a baby.
15:50Yeah, the cradling head.
15:53That's a baby.
15:54What you need to do with this.
15:57You are going to be dead.
15:58You're overstressing.
16:01Head supported.
16:03It's not rocket science.
16:05I think we can figure it out.
16:06We doesn't have a room ready.
16:10We doesn't have anything set up, clean.
16:14We doesn't have shoulder and car seat.
16:16Do you know they're not going to give us a baby to the home
16:19if he doesn't have a car seat?
16:23We need to prepare because if we're not,
16:26Brad and Mom will be overstapping and thinking that it's her baby.
16:29And over control can try to make us do everything what she wants,
16:33like usual.
16:34I can talk to a doctor.
16:35I can help go with you if you want to make sure that, you know.
16:38No, I mean, that is our situation.
16:40Yeah, but you need somebody to help.
16:42No, I don't want to.
16:43No, we're family.
16:45We need to be independent.
16:47I know.
16:48And your mom has to be a supporting girl,
16:50not be a role in a mom.
16:52Got it.
16:53Your mom has to have a bunch.
16:55That's what we need to do.
16:56I have to be the controlling one.
16:58Mm-hmm.
16:59Grand, your mom not grandmother material.
17:04Your dad or grandfather material.
17:07Yeah, for sure.
17:08Your mom not.
17:09I survived, didn't I?
17:12Yes, because you're dad.
17:13Grandmother to me is a person who will be respecting your bungee
17:19and helping when they need it.
17:24I guess I'm like,
17:24Betty come and tell me,
17:25like, I doesn't know what I'm going to do.
17:28This is why Brenna have to sit down
17:30and talk about bungees
17:31and tell her to step back a little bit.
17:33I know Betty will be probably freaking out,
17:36but this conversation has to be happening.
17:39Oh, my God.
17:40I just can imagine it's going to be like a nightmare.
17:42It's a nightmare.
17:42I don't want to make,
17:48I don't want to make
17:49the same mistake.
17:53Hello, hello.
17:55Hi.
17:56Our favorite store in the world.
17:59Hi.
18:00Hi, guys.
18:02Today we are at our friend Nikki and Drew's jewelry shop
18:05because Julia has just learned what a push present is.
18:08In Russia, I never heard about this before.
18:10I saw on TV somebody talking about a push present.
18:14This is how I learned.
18:15I don't hear a lot of American traditions,
18:18but this one, I love it.
18:20No more TV for you.
18:24Push give.
18:26Did you know about this tradition?
18:27Yes, very true.
18:28I didn't know about that.
18:30Nikki can show you different stuff
18:31and see if Brenna can step up to the plate.
18:35I think your push present should be an epidural.
18:37Julia has rejected every other American tradition.
18:46She doesn't want to know the gender.
18:48She doesn't want to have a baby shower.
18:51In Russia, it's superstition.
18:54Don't celebrate baby if it's not gone.
18:56But when the tradition involves getting something shiny
19:00and expensive, of course, she's all for it.
19:05Oh, look at that.
19:06That's pretty.
19:08I told Julia that we could at least look at some jewelry today,
19:11but I'm not making any promises.
19:13Let me see what I can get you.
19:16Oh, no.
19:18Oh, no.
19:19Oh, no.
19:20I mean, I give you an example,
19:22and you can come and surprise me after.
19:26Okay, take the notes.
19:27Right.
19:28We got you got the new tools in the workshop.
19:30Oh, yeah, man style.
19:31Let's do it.
19:32Okay, man style.
19:33I'm probably going to play computer game.
19:35Girl, are you ready for the papers?
19:37I am not ready for the papers.
19:39We are, like, six weeks away.
19:42We doesn't have a name.
19:43We doesn't buy anything.
19:45I'm, like, I'm just frustrated about everything.
19:48I know you possibly don't want to do the baby shower,
19:51but I really feel like you should
19:53because you'll get lots of diapers, clothes,
19:57like, maybe even, like, a car seat or stroller,
19:59and then you wouldn't have to worry about getting those things.
20:01Okay, but that is not, like, something like superstition here in America.
20:06No, no, no.
20:07It's just, like, a small get-together with family, friends.
20:09We're just going to eat,
20:10and then we're going to shower you with some gifts.
20:12I mean, but who should come to this baby shower?
20:15Whoever you want.
20:16I'm going to leave that to you.
20:17You know, if you don't want to invite Betty, you're wrong.
20:21She'll take over.
20:22Yeah, she'll be taken for sure.
20:24She should know before.
20:25A couple of days.
20:26A couple of days before, okay.
20:28Nikki gave a good point.
20:30We does need all this stuff,
20:32and no way Bren will have the time
20:35to get everything before baby arrives.
20:37I'm going to ignore the session superstition for now
20:39because we need all this help.
20:43Betty, I'm fine if she go there,
20:44but I want you to be in both of this.
20:47I just have a lot on my head right now,
20:50and I just hope this will eliminate our stress.
20:54Put this in safe.
20:55I am doing this.
20:56It's literally going in the safe.
20:58Bye, guys.
20:58Love you.
20:59Bye.
20:59Bye.
20:59Good morning, everybody.
21:12Good morning from Inalo.
21:14Yay, we have a baby shower today.
21:17I'm a little scared, excited.
21:20Julia, what do you think about this?
21:24That's what you want to wear into the baby shower?
21:26Yeah, it's somebody's favorite color.
21:28It's your mom's favorite color.
21:31No.
21:31We can both be purple.
21:33No, that is my pajamas.
21:35We can be the purple kids.
21:36No.
21:38It's been a bit of a crazy morning.
21:40We've been a little stressed
21:41and trying to get everything ready to get out the door.
21:44What about this?
21:47I don't think it's a...
21:48No?
21:49I don't think that's right now.
21:51Why?
21:51What about this?
21:52Because you're not going to the club, girl.
21:53I'm excited for our party,
21:55but I'm just anxious Betty and Ron will be there,
21:58and I hope they're not going to create any team drama there.
22:01I think you're excited to get gifts.
22:03Sure.
22:05Let me call my parents,
22:07see if they're on the way yet.
22:09Hey, what's going on?
22:10Not much.
22:11Just wondering...
22:12wondering how you're progressing this morning.
22:14We're just picking the ice up,
22:16and we're on our way.
22:17So we'll be there an hour and 20, though.
22:19Hour and 20.
22:22Okay.
22:22All right.
22:26Bye.
22:27What the...
22:28Even my baby shower,
22:30she has to have her rules
22:31and make everything his length now.
22:33We told them the time,
22:35and them are not coming,
22:36like, exactly the time we asked.
22:38They'd be asking five times.
22:40I know.
22:40Come for this time.
22:41Calm down.
22:42It's...
22:42What can we do?
22:44Tell them to not come.
22:46Too late.
22:46No, I...
22:47Too late.
22:48Doesn't need to come to my baby shower.
22:50Julia.
22:50Don't come.
22:51I know, Nala.
22:56Chantel's going through
23:26with her breast reduction surgery procedure right now,
23:28so...
23:28I'm a little nervous.
23:34Guess we'll see what happens.
23:35All right.
23:35We're all finished, Chantel.
23:46How do you feel?
23:47How do you feel?
23:48I feel nervous.
23:49I feel nervous.
23:51You feel sleepy.
23:53Get your rest.
23:54We'll check in later.
23:55The surgeon just came and talked to me.
23:57Everything went very well.
23:59Oh, my goodness.
23:59I'm so happy to hear that.
24:01Can't wait to have her in my arms
24:02and take her home.
24:04My poor baby.
24:05Can't wait.
24:06I'm so excited.
24:06Yes.
24:07I feel very sore underneath my breast.
24:19I have to pee bad, though.
24:21Okay.
24:22Well, let's get you in this wheelchair
24:23and we're heading home, okay?
24:25I love you, baby.
24:26I love you, too.
24:26My back is so good right now.
24:37So she took three pounds off of one side
24:39and 2.3 off the other.
24:42That's like six pounds off of just boobs.
24:45And you still have plenty there.
24:47Because I still want to be sexy.
24:50Baby.
24:54Did my mom show up?
24:56No, thank God.
24:58Not today.
25:00Or maybe I should say,
25:01not today, Satan.
25:02Like, that's the right one to talk to.
25:04Not today, Satan.
25:06Tomorrow, maybe, but not today.
25:08Yeah, not today.
25:17All right, baby.
25:18Let's change out those drinks.
25:21You got it?
25:21Mm-hmm.
25:26It's been two days since my surgery,
25:29and every hour I have to check
25:32to see how much fluid is coming out of my drains
25:34and keep a log of it
25:36so that we prevent infection
25:37and speed up the wound healing.
25:39It's the same.
25:41Great.
25:42It's got some swing on those eyes.
25:43Mm-hmm.
25:44All right.
25:46Let's see how fast this sucker's been worth
25:48in 12 hours.
25:49I like the smile
25:54that I put on you.
25:56It sure looks good on you.
25:58Ooh, yeah, yeah.
26:07Hello.
26:07Hello.
26:08Hi.
26:08How are you going?
26:10Hola.
26:11Thank you for coming.
26:12Don't hug hard.
26:13I can't.
26:14I know.
26:16It's been three days since surgery,
26:19and I'm having my mom and dad over
26:21because they haven't seen me
26:22this whole time I've been recovering.
26:24Ashley wasn't ready to be in the same room as my mom,
26:27so she went out for a very long walk.
26:30I brought you some clam chowder.
26:34I hate that Ashley feels like
26:36she has to leave her own home,
26:37so I'm hoping that I can talk some sense
26:40into my mom today.
26:42Why are you so happy, Chloe?
26:43Of course, we brought you
26:44all your mail.
26:47Yes.
26:48And then something a little special.
26:50A good little wild pass.
26:51There he is.
26:52There's your friend to help you recover.
26:54Yeah, that is my little bear friend.
26:57Give him a sweet.
26:58I love him.
26:59You guys are so sweet.
27:01She's so happy.
27:03I see that everything turned out just fine,
27:07but I wish I could have been there
27:09with you, for you.
27:10Yes, because, you know, I took off work.
27:13He did.
27:14He took off work.
27:14I took off work to come to you,
27:16to your appointment with you.
27:20I would have liked for you to come,
27:22but it just seemed like there was too much friction
27:27between the idea of having you and Ashley
27:29in the waiting room.
27:30I wasn't going to bother Ashley.
27:33Well, you attacked Ashley at the tell-all.
27:36And what Ashley tells me is that it hurt her so badly
27:40because she felt like you guys were really friends,
27:43all for you to just throw it in her face
27:46in front of everybody.
27:47Sounds like you owe her an apology.
27:48No, I don't.
27:49I don't owe her nothing.
27:50She owes me an apology.
27:52You're supposed to be the bigger person.
27:53I am.
27:54She's very tiny.
27:55All you want to do is use your displaced emotions
28:01about Pedro towards Ashley.
28:03I'm seeing the same patterns in you.
28:06In me?
28:06Uh-huh.
28:07As I did with my failed marriage.
28:09Lord, you mean the failed marriage to Pedro
28:12that scammed you to get into this country?
28:14There is similar to the same situation
28:18that someone is trying to look for a come-up.
28:21The same, the same, the same!
28:27I don't want to discuss Ashley with you.
28:32Well, why are you acting nasty towards me?
28:34I brought you soup.
28:34I brought you presents.
28:35And you up here talking about it like that.
28:37You and Ashley might deserve each other.
28:39And I'm not saying that in a mean way.
28:40And what's that supposed to mean?
28:41Well, you're mean with a nasty attitude and a smart mouth.
28:44So maybe you and Ashley belong together.
28:47It might be time for you to go.
28:49I think it might be.
28:50And I'm just going to help you change your drains.
28:54I'm not going to sit here and let my parents disrespect
28:56my girlfriend to my face.
28:59And I'm certainly not going to let them disrespect me
29:02in my own home.
29:04I love my family, but I don't want them
29:06to ruin another one of my relationships.
29:09I honestly, I don't know what to do.
29:13No, dog.
29:15No, you beast.
29:16So this day is already not great.
29:41My parents are going to be late.
29:42And Julia is already in a bad mood.
29:47But we need to get to the shower, Julia.
29:51Be a good girl, Fluffy.
29:54Make friends.
29:55Make good choices.
29:57Today is supposed to be a special day.
29:59We are getting ready for the baby shower.
30:01But of course, my mother-in-law already trying to ruin.
30:04So we're on our way to the baby shower.
30:09Everything is intense already.
30:11My parents, again, decide what I want.
30:15And I don't want to follow any rules.
30:18I ask them to come specifically time.
30:20And now they're late.
30:21So everything is already being off the plan and disaster.
30:26It's already so stressful.
30:28And I already don't want to if I want to do this.
30:30Everything is going to be fine.
30:32Just calm down and relax.
30:34Just like you're having the baby.
30:36Just breathe in and out.
30:39You think that is how it will be?
30:41I think it will help.
30:43Can't hurt.
30:45So we arrive and it's balloons.
30:48It's balloons.
30:49Brennan, look.
30:50Do you team the boy or girl?
30:54I team the boy.
30:55You see.
30:57Baby creature Gibbs.
30:58Oh, my God.
30:59This is so funny.
31:08Oh, my God.
31:10Hi.
31:13You look beautiful.
31:15You look so beautiful.
31:17Hi, guys.
31:19Hi.
31:20Hey.
31:22I'm going to be a daddy.
31:24Daddy to be.
31:25Daddy to be.
31:27Daddy to be.
31:27I don't have a move because Brennan's parents are late.
31:32They're not here.
31:33So I'm so pissed.
31:37Are you okay?
31:40Hey, buddy.
31:42Good to see you.
31:42All right.
31:43Hey, man.
31:43How you doing?
31:44You guys are great.
31:45I'm good.
31:45Thanks.
31:46All right.
31:46Let me get this stuff out.
31:48I don't know if Julia's going to like this amount.
31:50It says, my Nona loves me.
31:52Well, you like it.
31:53That's for sure.
31:54But I hope the baby's going to love me more than she loves Julia.
31:57Fuck.
31:57Stop.
31:59Betty Ron arrived late.
32:00What is typical Betty?
32:03I hate to complain.
32:04But yes, it is probably one of the most annoying things about my mom.
32:10Oh, okay.
32:11Hi, guys.
32:12Hi.
32:13I really didn't know you're here.
32:14Oh, okay.
32:15So we're trying to set up and get things ready for the food.
32:18Oh, the type of places are beautiful.
32:21Hey, girl.
32:22Hey, girl.
32:23Hey, girl.
32:23How do you set up the food?
32:26Do you go to the kitchen in here?
32:27Yes, come on.
32:28You're hand-cut?
32:29Yeah, that'd be great.
32:32I see Betty already trying to change something in here.
32:34Did she really?
32:34I did not know this.
32:35What did she try to change?
32:37She was trying to move some stuff.
32:38Just, like, that's your decoration.
32:41No, I'm going to snap if she moves it.
32:42If she was trying to move something, that's your decoration.
32:44She's going to make the toilet paper roll?
32:47We need people in this way.
32:48It's like a bathroom.
32:50Betty drives me crazy, and I worry when this baby will be alive.
32:54It's going to be a disaster.
32:56Can you take this pacifier and give me some Betty?
33:02So I'm planning to do a little prank on her today.
33:05She's been bothering us to know the gender of the baby,
33:09and she knows Brandon and I doesn't want to know.
33:13I need to make sure she knows she's going to have to stay in her lane.
33:21You team girl or boy?
33:23Girl!
33:24You team boy or girl?
33:25Yeah.
33:26Girl!
33:26Say boy.
33:29Say boy.
33:31Okay, Brandon.
33:33Okay.
33:33You ready?
33:34Okay.
33:34Are you guys going to do this now?
33:39I give you a reveal?
33:41We're doing a reveal.
33:42We're doing a reveal.
33:43Okay.
33:44Are you guys ready to do the gender?
33:46Yeah, we're ready.
33:47How are you doing?
33:48I want to see that problem.
33:51Let's go.
33:52Let's go.
33:52Let's go.
33:53Yay!
33:57Wait a minute.
33:59Wait a minute.
34:02Are you having a win?
34:03Are you having a win?
34:06No, we decided to not doing this.
34:10This was junk.
34:11Man.
34:12You brought us out of here for this?
34:14We decided to doing this because we...
34:16It's not everything about you.
34:19I knew my mom was not going to take this joke well.
34:31I don't think she understood quite what we were trying to do, so now I've got to smooth things
34:35over with her.
34:37That was pretty cruel.
34:38That joke was not funny.
34:41I'm sorry.
34:47I gotta say...
34:49I don't know.
34:50She's just...
34:50stressing.
34:52She's got those raging hormones.
34:53Like, she's coming up with all these rules and everything.
34:58She's trying to set boundaries.
35:00Boundaries?
35:01For you.
35:02For me?
35:03For dad.
35:03Yeah.
35:04Like, just rules that you have to follow and...
35:08Is this a Russian...
35:09Is this a Russian...
35:10traditional thing?
35:12I think it's a Julia thing.
35:15She hasn't said anything to me about this, so we'll see.
35:18We'll see what happens.
35:20I'm a little worried because...
35:22Brainy said something about the fact that we're going to have boundaries.
35:25I still don't know what those are, but I'm going to keep myself positive and think positive
35:29and happy thoughts if there's nothing that's going to be too invasive or restricting.
35:33Yes, because it's going to be really disappointing and very...
35:36Yeah, no, I...
35:38If I can't, like, spend time or cuddle and love our new...
35:44Franchile.
35:45Mom, we'll...
35:47We'll talk about it.
35:48Okay.
35:48That's a conversation, I guess, for another day.
35:54That's got the cake!
35:56Got the cake!
35:57Ah!
35:58There was a little bit of drama today with Mom, but...
36:02I mean, ultimately, I think the baby shower went well.
36:05Yeah.
36:07Beginning there.
36:08Mom, it's like a piece.
36:09It's like a piece.
36:10It's like a piece.
36:11I did have a conversation with Mom about boundaries, and she did seem to take it well.
36:18I believe it when I see it.
36:20Let's see when this baby gets here.
36:22It could be a call before a storm.
36:25That just made me worry because I know your mom and you know your mom.
36:30God.
36:30I can't wait to have my dreams taken out.
36:51What if she doesn't take them out today?
36:53I don't think I could go much longer with these dreams, honestly.
36:58I hope you don't.
36:59After years of back pain, I finally had breast reduction surgery two weeks ago, and today
37:07is the big reveal because, honestly, I've been wearing the surgical bra this whole time,
37:12and all I've seen is my cleavage.
37:15I can't wait to take off the bandages and see what my breasts look like.
37:20I'm excited to see your boobs, baby.
37:24Me too.
37:25And also nervous.
37:26I'm scared.
37:27Yeah.
37:28I'm nervous.
37:30I'm really nervous about my nipples.
37:33I want them to be in line.
37:36I don't want one bigger or one smaller.
37:39I don't want one looking south and one looking north.
37:41Oh, let me go.
37:44But one thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation.
37:48Well, the nipple sensation and placement is important for me, too, especially the sensation
37:54part.
37:54I sure hope you can feel it.
37:57Hey.
37:58Hey.
37:59How are we doing?
38:00Doing well.
38:01Yay.
38:02How have things been for you?
38:03They've been fine.
38:04Okay.
38:05Very good.
38:05Good, good, good.
38:06So, all right.
38:08Well, let's take a look here.
38:11Oh, gosh.
38:16They're so high.
38:17I know.
38:17Oh, my nipples.
38:18Ah, yes.
38:19Nipples are nice and alive.
38:21Very good.
38:23All right.
38:23And so, and your incisions look great.
38:25You just have minimal amount of bruising.
38:27Okay.
38:28I'm going to show you so you can take a look with the mirror.
38:31Oh.
38:32Oh, my God.
38:35Oh, my God.
38:36Right?
38:36It's like a shock right now.
38:38Yay.
38:38They look so good.
38:39Oh, my God.
38:40Yes.
38:40I so love my new breasts.
38:44They look amazing.
38:45They're light.
38:46They're lifted.
38:47And my nipples are symmetrical and even.
38:51And they're cute.
38:52And I'm just so excited and so happy because now my back is really thanking me.
38:59No more back pain.
39:01Woo.
39:01My boobs look so good.
39:06They so small.
39:07They so cute.
39:07Oh, oh, oh.
39:09Look at them.
39:10Look at them.
39:11Look at them.
39:12Look at.
39:12They don't bounce like they used to.
39:14But I like that.
39:16You know, I like that.
39:17I don't want to be hit in the face when I'm running.
39:20My boobs don't move.
39:22Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
39:27Another question.
39:28The fact that I feel pins and needles, that's good.
39:32That's good.
39:32That's good.
39:32Sensation's coming.
39:33Okay, good.
39:34Okay.
39:35What we'll do is we'll get these little drains out.
39:38And then you'll really be free.
39:41I'm looking forward to the future.
39:43I'm going to be more active.
39:45I'm going to buy a whole new wardrobe.
39:47And I can't wait to wear whatever I want and feel comfortable and confident in my body.
39:55They're ready for some attention, hopefully soon.
39:59Hopefully soon they'll be ready for some attention.
40:02I'm so happy.
40:04I'm just so excited.
40:06That's okay.
40:07I'm not used to that.
40:09I know.
40:10I am so happy that I got the drains taken out.
40:13Oh, thank you for coming and supporting me and taking care of me.
40:20And I just love you so much, my little sweet pea.
40:23I love you too.
40:24I see your smile, I see your smile.
40:29I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I see your smile, I
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