00:00you know we've seen you share some really vulnerable moments you know the whole infidelity
00:08thing you saw you go through that and rise out on top what is the status of your relationship
00:12with teddy now how y'all doing girl let me tell you something tell me i got the coldest relationship
00:17on this side of heaven me and my husband are so in love and we're using our story through our web
00:23series 10 minutes with teddy and tina to help countless other couples make it through their
00:27hardships who knew that i was in while i was in the middle of that hell thinking that my life is
00:31never going to be same never going to be right again that my life would be this right i so love
00:36my husband i think he is the most amazing human being he was not that four years ago but thank
00:41god that i forgave him and i didn't see him as a mistake because now i'm experiencing the beauty
00:46of the potential that i saw at the altar and i'm so glad that i forgave him that's amazing what are
00:51some tips you know people that are going through it which was so excited about this new web series
00:54that you're telling me about but what is the number one tip that you would give to couples
00:57that are going through that moment right like how do you push through there's tips to give someone
01:03before to pay attention and to be attentive um and to make sure you don't neglect being intimate with
01:10each other and being honest with each other about what you need but if you have gone through it you need
01:15to figure out how did we get here you know um watching them go through with the amount of prayer and
01:20fasting and and and just honesty you know what i mean and raw emotion that you were able to see
01:25that didn't even make the the tv show was the nice stuff so the burning of the stuff that was
01:29happening in the car that didn't that was first of all i ain't burnt nothing yeah people just be
01:33putting too much on okay i ain't burnt nothing up and i definitely ain't shot nothing because first
01:36of all i'm not getting us i'm not getting the black family in the community walking out of there
01:40with my hands behind because i didn't know how to control myself so in the comfort of my own space
01:44with a hammer i went and took all my frustration out i ain't shot nothing
01:47then the police didn't come it was just me i vented then i went to bed but it's important
01:51yeah you went to bed but yeah but i went through all of that hell because i had to get it i had i
01:57had to get it out i do not recommend that everybody takes the path that i went because
02:00you could have ended up in jail with some of the stuff that's true or hell one of them jail or hell
02:05but i'm so grateful right i'm so grateful that god kept me i really wanted to get it all out because
02:10i wanted it out the truth is i thought i looked in my husband's eyes and i was like you are more than
02:14what you did and i feel so stupid for believing this because i always said i hang on never and
02:19in this moment i'm thinking but i love you i don't love this but i love you and i don't hate you but i
02:24hate this and i'm trying i'm thinking that i hate you but if i got all this emotion i don't hate you
02:28i'm just hurt by this so i made a decision that with god's help since i couldn't kill him since i
02:32couldn't kill me yes god help me to do this forgiveness thing because i don't want to marry
02:36somebody else for sex and money yeah i actually love this guy so help me to see that he's better than
02:41what he did so that took a great deal of humility but in doing that my husband said if god can make
02:46you change your mind about the way you was feeling about me this guy got to be real so he ran to god
02:51just like i ran to god and he changed both of our lives now we have an amazing marriage but somebody
02:57has to be willing to concede somebody has to be willing to forgive somebody has to be willing to
03:02consider what you said at the altar sitting up there lying better worse rich and poor and sickness
03:07and health i don't care if you're the worst i'm just gonna be here we say it we walk it though
03:11yeah we walk but when it comes time we all change our mind and so i figured god if i try to consider
03:17committing to my commitments will you help me and he did
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