00:00So Valentine's Day is coming up. I know you have something elaborate. Yes, I do and I'm not going to talk about it too tough. I didn't ask. I was going to ask for it. That's the thing about surprises. They're not surprises anymore when we talk about them. But yeah, definitely plan on some stuff for Valentine's. They got to it.
00:16But what about the brothers out there at Essence Live or the women who are trying to drop hints for their men? What can they do for Valentine's Day? You got any tips for them?
00:22Okay, well, I definitely do. All right. Well, one thing that one misconception that a lot of men make is that you got to spend a lot of money on Valentine's Day.
00:29You do not have to spend a lot of money on Valentine's Day. It's not about how much money you spent. It's about how much thought you put into the gift.
00:37Agreed. Now, see, what most men do when I say you don't got to spend a lot of money is just go get something cheap and be like, well, Neil said I ain't got to spend no money.
00:43Don't blame Neil on y'all's relationships.
00:45No. Don't do it.
00:46Not what I mean. The thoughtful gift is not always the expensive gift. Figure out what it is. Like, what do you know about your woman?
00:55What if your woman don't like roses? You walk in the house with a big bouquet of roses thinking you did something and that ain't even her favorite flower.
01:00Right.
01:01Get her her favorite flower. Take her to her favorite restaurant. Get her favorite fragrance for her, you know, without asking her what it is.
01:08Because that just ruins the whole thing.
01:09Do some research. Do some research. You go and bring her a fragrance that she absolutely loves and she goes,
01:14How did you?
01:16I pay attention, baby.
01:18That shows her that you are paying attention, that you are invested in this relationship, that you're not just sitting back letting her do this,
01:23waiting on your turn to talk to the game. Come on.
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