00:00The origin of this pattern is rarely accidental.
00:03It takes root early, often in childhood.
00:06It can stem from overprotection, when the girl is shielded from frustration, prevented from making mistakes, and deprived of the experience of falling and getting back up.
00:16In this scenario, the adult world becomes frightening because it has never been experienced.
00:21Autonomy seems dangerous, responsibility sounds like a threat.
00:25The implicit message is clear: you can't handle this alone.
00:29Thus, growing up becomes associated with loss, fear, and abandonment.
00:34In other cases, the root is the opposite.
00:37Neglect, rejection, emotional abandonment, unstable or traumatic environments.
00:43Girls who had to mature too early, who learned to swallow their tears, to take care of everyone around them, to survive in silence.
00:53They grow functional, strong on the outside, but frozen on the inside.
00:59They learn not to need, not to ask, not to feel.
01:04And, paradoxically, they carry a secret hope that one day someone will perceive the pain that could never be expressed.
01:12May some connection finally make up for what was missing.
01:16Some love will be enough.
01:17Thanks.
01:18Thanks.
01:19Thanks.
01:20Thanks.
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