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00:00Previously on It's Not Like That.
00:11My wife's dead.
00:13How can everything just keep on going home without her?
00:15Is this the year that goes down as, like, mom and dad got divorced and ruined our lives?
00:20The longer you stay somewhere temporary, you know, you're giving them false hope.
00:26When we kissed, I haven't felt that alive in a long time.
00:30But it was a mistake.
00:31I don't know if what happened between us was because I'm lonely or because you are just so comfortable.
00:36You know, we are so comfortable.
00:39We can't.
00:40That's my new client.
00:42Oh, you're repping DJs now.
00:44Why don't you go over there and pin one of them?
00:45Okay.
01:00Girls, stay where we can see, please.
01:21This is looking good.
01:28You know, it might be time to replace this thing.
01:31Don't you dare.
01:32I like it just the way it is.
01:34This sign, you know, I dug the holes with dad back when we moved in.
01:39It's the backdrop for all my favorite family photos.
01:41Mm-hmm.
01:42Including our wedding.
01:44Okay.
01:44Okay.
01:44Fair.
01:45I love everything about this old church.
01:50Yeah?
01:51Yeah.
01:52Especially you.
01:53Oh, thank you.
01:54I've been thinking, actually, what if we partnered with other community leaders, like the temple,
02:04the Islamic center, we could make this sort of an interfaith rummage sale.
02:08Oh, we'd definitely get more donations.
02:10What unites us is stronger than what divides us.
02:13That's what dad always said.
02:14I am all for channeling Pastor Lucas.
02:17And I think you just added a lot more work for us.
02:20Oh.
02:22That's why we have two daughters.
02:23Uh-huh.
02:23I just love seeing all these things find new homes and new life, you know, instead of
02:29sitting around in boxes and garages.
02:34Makes me so happy.
02:36I can see that.
02:49Oh, no, don't open that!
02:51I was just looking for my duffel.
02:53Well, it's not in the junk closet.
02:55Uh, I took it out.
02:56Look under your bed.
02:59Yeah, Dad, I get it.
03:01It's an apartment building with amenities.
03:03It's not an apartment building.
03:04It's a townhome.
03:05Okay?
03:06Hey, where's Case?
03:06I want her to see as well.
03:07Look, look, look, look, look, look.
03:08Hi.
03:09Comes with a pool.
03:11Anytime you guys want to swim.
03:12Okay?
03:13You can...
03:13Hey.
03:13Uh, Dad, you cut out.
03:16It's on his end, Casey.
03:17They'll see you after school, okay?
03:19See you guys.
03:19I love you.
03:20Yeah, I'm not staying there.
03:22Uh, yeah, same.
03:23I want you guys to go through Mom's stuff with me and see what we can give away.
03:27So you want to get rid of everything?
03:29Just all of Mom's stuff?
03:30No, of course not.
03:31That's not what I mean.
03:32I just thought the rummage sale is this week.
03:33This was important to your mom.
03:35I thought we could honor that.
03:36Well, what about what I want?
03:37Okay, that is why we're going to take our time and go through everything.
03:41See what we want to donate, what we want to keep.
03:43But it's not the stuff that matters.
03:45Uh, yeah, Dad.
03:46The stuff matters.
03:47Okay, we're not just going to erase Mom.
03:48Penelope, no one's erasing Mom here.
03:52You're not getting rid of Mom's car, right?
03:54Well, actually, your mom and I thought we might find a new fund.
03:57Okay, okay, okay.
03:58Let's table the car for a moment.
04:01He has no Wi-Fi.
04:02He has Wi-Fi.
04:03Okay, fine.
04:04He has crappy Wi-Fi.
04:05All my homework's on Google Classroom.
04:07Oh, and now it's all about getting your homework done?
04:09Okay.
04:10Guys, you are going to your dad's.
04:12Both of you, end of story.
04:14I know, I know that this is going to be hard, okay?
04:16But your mom believed, we believe in helping others when we can.
04:19So let's just, let's take our time and get things organized, okay?
04:24Why?
04:24Why are we the ones that have to move?
04:25You guys are the ones that got divorced.
04:27Why don't you just sell the whole house while you're around?
04:28Does he even have a table?
04:30It would have been nice to get a little heads up, Dad.
04:31And we are not sharing a room.
04:33I don't want to move on stuff here.
04:35Did anyone speak this through?
04:36It's so unfair.
04:36No, this is not fair.
04:44It's the right thing.
04:45I know that.
04:47I mean, we're going to have to go through her stuff sooner or later.
04:51The truth is, I'm ready.
04:54I need it.
04:56But it's hard for them.
04:57You know, I knew Jenny was sick before they did.
04:59I've had more time to grieve.
05:03But I think it'll be good for them.
05:05But I feel terrible.
05:06They said I was trying to erase her.
05:10Well, that's impossible.
05:11For what it's worth, I feel terrible today because I am committing the horrendous crime of forcing my children to spend time with their father who loves them.
05:24Although, uh, feeling terrible is basically my preset these days.
05:30Why are you blaming yourself?
05:32Well, maybe Casey has a point.
05:34They didn't get divorced.
05:35We did.
05:37Well, at some point, you're going to have to cut yourself some slack.
05:39Especially because you know your kids aren't going to.
05:43It's kind of their job to make us feel guilty.
05:45Yeah.
05:47We don't have anything to feel guilty about.
05:52Right?
05:55Right.
05:55Hey.
06:07Hey.
06:08Is it okay if I sit?
06:10You're good.
06:18So, I think I might have something for you to write about.
06:22Oh, yeah?
06:24It's about us.
06:25Well, our parents.
06:27Oh, okay.
06:31What?
06:31Say it.
06:34I think my mom and your dad hooked up.
06:36What?
06:37Or, like, are hooking up.
06:38No, they're just friends.
06:39I don't think so.
06:40No.
06:40I overheard them and they were talking about kissing and, like, how amazing it was and...
06:45No, that makes zero sense.
06:47My dad isn't...
06:48He's not ready to...
06:50You're wrong.
06:51I'm just telling you what I heard.
06:53Are you sure they were even talking about each other?
06:56Did you see them actually do anything?
06:59Did you see them actually...
07:00So you don't know?
07:01I'm sorry.
07:03My bad.
07:04I shouldn't have said anything.
07:04Are you doing anything this weekend?
07:17Me?
07:17Oh, you know I was just messing with you at the halidum.
07:22That's kind of what we do.
07:23It's not personal.
07:25Yeah, I know.
07:29Um, well, this weekend's gonna literally suck.
07:33We're going to our dad's new apartment for the first time.
07:36So, you know.
07:37Yay, divorce.
07:38Where?
07:39Uh, the condo complex on West End?
07:43Oh, yeah.
07:44Transition townhomes.
07:46What?
07:47My dad started there, too.
07:49That place is, like, Divorce Dad Central.
07:53My parents split when I was six.
07:56It was ugly.
07:58It still is.
08:00I'm, like, an expert on divorce.
08:02Right now, you just need to binge some super depressing reality TV about people's lives who suck even more.
08:08You'll feel so much better.
08:11And the best part is cashing in on their guilt.
08:15You can get whatever you want.
08:17Seriously?
08:19Pretty much.
08:22Hey, wait, Dakota.
08:23Why are you talking to me?
08:27You were here.
08:32Please tell me you bailed on us last night because you were on a hot date with Cuppa Joe.
09:01Oh, I wish.
09:03No.
09:04Uh, I finally cracked open a Southern living, and then I immediately fell asleep.
09:09And his name is Joe.
09:10Just Joe.
09:12Not that it matters.
09:13He hasn't responded to any of my texts.
09:15Texts?
09:16How many have you sent?
09:17I should have kissed him.
09:19I blew it.
09:19No.
09:20No.
09:20No.
09:21I mean, we genuinely had a great time.
09:24Like, I don't get it.
09:24What is the point of all of the DMing and the texting?
09:27There's one.
09:28Swipe right, swipe left.
09:29That's it.
09:30He ghosted you.
09:32It's a rite of passage.
09:34Moving on.
09:34Okay, well, I don't want to move on.
09:36Like, I liked him.
09:37I swiped so many to get to him.
09:39Well, men love to ghost.
09:41You're making me feel so much better.
09:44Hey.
09:45Sorry, I'm a little early.
09:46It's fine.
09:47Hi, David.
09:48How you doing?
09:48Okay, so, Claire Leslie, our favorite shared client, super psyched about your promo materials.
09:57But...
09:57Well done.
09:58Bridges and I are talking about extending her tour, adding a spring leg across the Southwest.
10:01Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
10:02Uh, can we talk about family schedule first?
10:05Yeah, sure.
10:06We'll talk.
10:06Um, the kids.
10:07They don't want to spend the weekend at your new place.
10:10Okay, well, tell if they don't have a choice.
10:12Okay, well, I get that.
10:13But, you know, we did always say that we wanted them to have autonomy.
10:16You know, to make up their own minds.
10:18Okay, Lori, I'm their father, right?
10:20That's where I live?
10:21In the place that you told me to get?
10:23Okay, I...
10:25Okay, you guys have a text chain without me?
10:31Well, you can have a text chain without me.
10:39Look, I know this sucks.
10:41No, actually, you don't.
10:42Okay, you don't.
10:43You're not the one in transition townhomes.
10:45Casey's words, not mine.
10:46I... I'm sorry.
10:48I feel like I am trying everything here.
10:51I'm trying everything, and nothing is getting through to them.
10:53Like, I...
10:54I don't know.
10:58I think Casey's wrestling has something to do with you.
11:01Yeah.
11:03It's just...
11:04All their stuff is at home.
11:06You know, their routines.
11:08Like, they want to sleep in their own beds.
11:12Okay, how about this?
11:13Why don't you stay at the house this weekend, and the kids can stay home with you?
11:20You know, that way...
11:21You can get quality time with them, they'll be comfortable, and I'll be out of the way.
11:27Does it have to be the whole purpose?
11:29No, it's a thing.
11:30It's called bird nesting.
11:33Malcolm sent me an article about it, and it's...
11:35Like, the kids stay in one place, and the parents move around.
11:39And it's big in Scandinavia.
11:41Aren't they supposed to be the happiest people on earth?
11:46I guess so.
11:49Okay, where are you gonna go?
11:50Well, I hear there is a beautiful three-bedroom in transition townhomes.
11:55I do love a pool.
12:01Hey, hey!
12:03Look who's here.
12:03Did you come to help out?
12:04Oh, no.
12:05I was just...
12:07Can I talk to you for a second?
12:09Sure.
12:13Are you...
12:14Why now?
12:16With donating Mom's stuff?
12:19Uh, well, this is why.
12:21The rummage sale.
12:22There's no other reason?
12:23Are you...
12:27Seeing someone?
12:30No.
12:31I'm not.
12:32This rummage sale was something your mom helped organize every year.
12:35That's what this is.
12:37Okay.
12:38But I'm not saying that I haven't thought about what it would be like to meet someone new.
12:43Does that upset you?
12:44I...
12:45I don't...
12:47Listen, Flora, when I...
12:48When I counsel folks about grief,
12:51I tell them that there is no timeline.
12:54There's no right or wrong.
12:55It's just a journey.
12:56Mm-hmm.
12:56So, at some point,
12:58I will put myself out there again.
13:01But that'll be for me.
13:03Okay?
13:03I'm not gonna give you the play-by-play.
13:04Good.
13:04Good.
13:05Please don't.
13:06I promise I will talk to you guys if I ever get serious about someone.
13:09Okay?
13:10Okay.
13:10Okay.
13:10Okay.
13:11Sorry.
13:11Sorry.
13:12Listen, um, uh, about Mom's car.
13:14That's...
13:14Yeah.
13:15Totally up to you.
13:16Think about what you want to do, whether you want to donate it, keep it.
13:18It's your call.
13:20I trust your judgment.
13:25Surprise!
13:28Uh, what's going on?
13:29Where's Mom?
13:29She's at my place.
13:30I'm here for the weekend.
13:32Why?
13:33Well, it's called bird nesting.
13:35Or something.
13:36Anyways, this way, you guys don't have to come to me.
13:38I come to you, right?
13:39We get to spend the weekend together.
13:41So, we pack for nothing.
13:42Now you get to unpack for me.
13:46I'm gonna hit the drums.
13:47I have homework.
13:48Uh, okay.
13:50Um, yeah, that's cool.
13:52Homework.
13:52Uh, guys, hey, I'm here all weekend, okay?
14:17Uh...
14:17Dude, air mattresses.
14:30Oh, look at you go.
14:44Did you take Mom's jewelry box?
15:02The one with the ivory tree on it?
15:04No.
15:05Okay, well, I looked everywhere, and you knew I wanted it.
15:07Search my side.
15:08I don't have it.
15:10Fine.
15:11Hey, whoa.
15:13You don't trust me?
15:14I was kidding.
15:15Hey, could you be any messier, Flora?
15:17Yeah, I could try.
15:26Are you seriously not going to help me?
15:28Justin is like a machine down there going through Mom's stuff.
15:31I'm just trying to save what I can.
15:33You can get rid of all of it for all I care.
15:35You don't really mean that.
15:36Yeah, I do.
15:38I don't want to go through her things.
15:40I'm already dealing with her car.
15:41Poor Flora.
15:42She has to deal with the car.
15:43Hey!
15:44I feel really guilty about the car now.
15:46Dad says that it's all up to me.
15:49I trust your judgment.
15:51Yeah.
15:52And then he gives me that look.
15:55I hate that look.
15:57Why can't he just yell like normal parents?
16:00I don't know.
16:04I don't think anyone's going to buy this.
16:08Oh, I don't know.
16:09Kids love clothes with holes in them.
16:10Drew, they love whatever you tell them not to love and do whatever you tell them not to do.
16:16Yeah, or don't do what you owe so carefully tell them to do, like make donations to the rummage sale.
16:22Oh, Carlin, coming in hot.
16:23Already?
16:25Yep.
16:26We're still setting up, Mr. Carlin.
16:27We don't need looky-loos while we do our work.
16:30Hey, it's a free country, isn't it?
16:32I know you like your deals, but you're not going to get a better one just because you're here a day early.
16:36One buck for the belt buckle.
16:41Can you please come back tomorrow?
16:43All right, fine.
16:44Buck and a quarter, but that's my final offer.
16:47No.
16:48No?
16:49That's right, no.
16:50Not for sale.
16:51But it was-
16:52Come back tomorrow, please.
16:55Tomorrow!
16:57Please!
16:57Please!
16:58Please!
16:58This is going to be hard this year.
17:10That's when Pastor Malcolm's rodeo days.
17:12A lot of sentimental value.
17:16You'll be fine.
17:17You'll be fine.
17:22Hey!
17:24Thought I'd go old school today?
17:26A little ropa vieja?
17:27What?
17:31You guys love this.
17:32Or you do.
17:34I do.
17:34Yeah, it's fun.
17:36All right, Case, come on.
17:37You get the plantains.
17:38I got the rice and beans.
17:39The meat will be ready in about an hour.
17:41Okay?
17:41Uh, yeah.
17:42I'm not really a red meat person anymore.
17:45In serio.
17:54But this is good, Dad.
17:56Thanks.
17:57Hey.
18:20Hey, you're to the building?
18:29Larry, tell you.
18:35And you are?
18:38Lori.
18:40Larry and Lori? Come on.
18:43What are the odds?
18:46So, uh, there's a great new sushi spot that just opened.
18:49If you're free for dinner, I'd love to take...
18:51Larry, you know, to be honest, I'm just here for a little me time.
18:55So.
19:02Hey, Larry.
19:04Mike. Pete.
19:06Lori, Mike, Pete.
19:08Okay.
19:10I, um...
19:11What's he doing down there?
19:27Hey, guys.
19:28Hey.
19:29Come on, I got a great idea.
19:31Come on, let's go.
19:32You guys are going to love this.
19:33Come on.
19:33Come on.
20:03Coming out of my cage
20:05And I've been doing just fine
20:07God, I gotta be down
20:08Because I want it all
20:09And started out with a kiss
20:11How did it end up like this?
20:13It was only a kiss
20:14It was only a kiss
20:16Now I'm falling asleep
20:18And she's calling a cat up
20:19While he's having a smoke
20:21And she's taking a drag
20:23Never going to bed
20:24And my stomach is sick
20:26And it's all in my head
20:27But she's...
20:28Oh, what?
20:31Oh.
20:36All right.
20:40Hey, Lori.
20:42Malcolm.
20:43What's wrong?
20:44I'm naked in my ex-husband's bed
20:47Freaking out
20:47Uh, that...
20:50Didn't...
20:51Okay
20:52I just forgot my pajamas
20:54And also, I don't know
20:56What I'm doing here
20:57Can you come over?
20:58Sure.
20:59Uh, I'm on my way
21:00Virginia, can you finish up without me?
21:04Of course.
21:04Okay.
21:04Everything all right?
21:06Just a congregating crisis
21:08Oh.
21:09Okay, so you want to come in here
21:11And they'll hook your arm under his, right?
21:13That's...
21:13That's an arm bar
21:14Casey, hello
21:15Come on, girls, pay attention
21:17Two generations of solo wrestlers teaching you here
21:19It's in your blood, girl, right?
21:21Yep, yep
21:21Come on
21:21Sorry
21:22All right, so this is when you have the leverage
21:23You'll pin his arm back like...
21:26Mary, come on, man
21:27We're just demonstrating
21:28Like that
21:31Right?
21:32Like this
21:33Then you have the advantage
21:34Right?
21:35Because you got him trapped
21:35That's when you want to roll him on his back
21:37Or her
21:37Or her
21:38Of course
21:39Or her
21:39Mary, come on, man
21:41We're just teaching your sister how to
21:42That's when you swivel out your hips
21:44Create a new base
21:45That's called a reverse
21:47And this is called a cross base cradle
21:51Um
21:53Is this what we're doing?
21:57Very tough to escape
21:59Okay, yep
21:59I get it
22:00Okay
22:01All right
22:01All right, Mary
22:02Mary, stop
22:04Mary, come on, man
22:05I'm topping out
22:06Stop
22:07Mary
22:07What does it matter with you?
22:18We're just trying to have some fun here, Mary
22:19Fun
22:20Yeah, dad
22:22This is
22:22This is so much fun
22:23Buddy, I'm trying my best here
22:27Your best?
22:29This is your best, Rovira?
22:32It's more like desperate
22:33Son, what do you want me to do?
22:38What do you want me to do?
22:39Dad
22:40You can't just come here and play house like you're not the reason
22:43All of this happened
22:43You did this
22:45To us
22:46Because you're selfish
22:47Did you know mom's?
22:51Mom what?
22:54You don't belong here anymore
22:55Thanks for coming over
23:13Of course
23:14You okay?
23:15No
23:16I'm just being here
23:18It's like
23:19He's got all these new clothes
23:21And he wears body spray now
23:24It's just this place
23:26It is so empty
23:29And soulless
23:30Blah
23:31I mean the TV and surround sound are working
23:35Of course he set those up first
23:37But
23:37I don't know
23:39I look at this place
23:41And I
23:42A part of me is so sad
23:44But then
23:46Part of me is jealous
23:48I mean he gets to start over
23:51This place is
23:52Literally a blank slate
23:54He can
23:57Totally reinvent himself
24:00And I
24:01I gotta get that
24:03I'd love to do that
24:05So what happened?
24:07I don't know
24:10I got into bed early
24:14With my magazines
24:15Which I haven't had any time to read
24:17But I was wearing his shirt
24:21And it just
24:23Yeah
24:28What's in the bag?
24:31Oh
24:31Pajamas
24:33They should fit you to
24:35Their floor rejects
24:38Apparently I missed a window
24:39On her Phoebe Bridger's face
24:40Okay
24:42I'm kind of with you on this place
24:44Being sad
24:45But um
24:47He chose this
24:50Yeah
24:51This is what he wanted
24:53And more than he wanted me
24:55What does that say?
25:01You know I've uh
25:02I've helped a lot of people
25:04Through divorces
25:06And there's never any one reason
25:09Why things go wrong
25:10So
25:12I think
25:14The best way through this
25:15Is just
25:16You know
25:17Open and honest communication
25:18Well it sounds a lot like
25:20Pastor Malcolm
25:21Yeah
25:23I wanted friend Malcolm
25:25Friend Malcolm
25:28Thinks Pastor Malcolm
25:30Has some pretty good insights
25:32Hey
25:41I looked everywhere
25:43For mom's
25:44Jewelry box
25:45I couldn't find it
25:46But
25:46I'm sure it'll turn up
25:48Justin knows not to donate it
25:50So
25:52I thought
25:54You might
25:55Like to keep this
25:57Beautiful
26:09What was that?
26:14Uh
26:14Justin's in like
26:16Full purge mode
26:18Yeah
26:20Mm-hmm
26:22I moved all of mom's stuff
26:28In here to sort through it
26:29But I don't want your help
26:31If you guys are gonna fight
26:32We're not fighting
26:33Yeah
26:33You know Justin
26:34The whole
26:34Dad's good little boy routine
26:36You know you're making us look bad
26:38I can't help it
26:39This is the book that mom used
26:42To teach me piano
26:43I picked this out for her at the mall
26:47She said it was so
26:50California
26:51Or whatever that means
26:53She should have worn it more
26:56Yeah
26:57So her
26:58Yeah
26:59Alright Justin
27:02So uh
27:03What's the deal?
27:04What's your system?
27:05Anything that's a definite donate
27:07Goes to the left
27:08Anything that's a definite keep
27:10Goes to the right
27:11And the maybes go in the middle
27:14Merritt's outside
27:26You are on Justin duty
27:28I can't even look at him
27:32Casey says he's trying
27:35But it's too late
27:38If he doesn't think of anyone
27:41But himself
27:42I shouldn't have to tell him
27:44How to be a good dad
27:45I'm sorry
27:48I'm sorry
27:49He's just
27:50He's
27:50He's acting so fake
27:53No please say it
27:55You are
27:58Nothing like that
28:02You're
28:04You're real
28:06And
28:09You're always yourself
28:12Do you want to go for a ride?
28:20I have a permit
28:20Um
28:24You're serious?
28:26Yeah
28:27You have a license
28:29I do
28:30I have a car
28:31Yes
28:32Hmm
28:33Come on
28:36You want to go?
28:37You want to go?
28:38Let's go
28:38Let's go
28:50Let's go
29:20Let's go
29:50People see us everywhere
30:03They think you really care
30:09But myself I can't deceive
30:12I know it's only Macbillie
30:19My one and only prayer
30:26Is that someday you'll care
30:29My hopes and my dreams come true
30:32My one and only you
30:35No one will ever know
30:38How much I love you
30:40They're both asleep
30:41Okay
30:42Is Casey on her back?
30:44Uh
30:44Yes
30:46Okay
30:46Well because she likes to roll over under her stomach
30:48And the pediatrician said
30:50And the pediatrician said
30:50That the number one
30:51Ca-
30:51Okay
30:55Um
30:56So that means we have
30:5878 minutes
30:59Before she's hungry again
31:00What?
31:02My breastfeeding log is very accurate
31:04We should make the most of these next 78 minutes
31:07I love this song
31:13I love this song
31:14This sounds great in here doesn't it?
31:17Yeah
31:17It's a little echoey
31:20I'm
31:21And not complaining
31:22No
31:23God bless Jenny and Malcolm
31:25For telling us about this place
31:27It's just
31:29So empty
31:31Well let's fill it up then
31:34Okay
31:35Why do you think I bought us such a big house?
31:39Huh?
31:44Do you remember
31:46When you thought calmly Twitty was a cartoon character?
31:51Take it back
31:51No
31:52I will drop you
31:53No
31:53I will
31:53No
31:54Okay fine
31:58I admit it
31:59You know more about music than I do
32:02You see that means more to me than hearing you love me
32:07More I do
32:21You know you can get pulled over for driving too slow
32:45Right
32:46Searching for something real
32:48Just like me
32:50Oh
32:51Oh
32:52Oh
32:53Oh
32:54Oh
32:55Oh
32:56Shit
32:59Shit
33:00Shit
33:01Shit
33:02Shit
33:03Shit
33:04Shit
33:05Shit
33:06Shit
33:07Shit
33:08Shit
33:10Shit
33:11Shit
33:12Shit
33:13Shit
33:14Well at least you can still count on David to stock the freezer with ice cream
33:26Oh yes
33:26I'm not sure what else he was going to feed them
33:29I'm sorry I didn't mean to keep you here so late I'm sure the kids are wondering where you got off to
33:40No no uh
33:41No it's fine really
33:43I'm fine
33:44You sure?
33:45Yes
33:46Okay
33:47Pastor Malcolm was very helpful
33:49So was my friend Malcolm
33:51So was my friend Malcolm
33:52I'm just looking for me to change his money
33:56Wonder if I'm ever gonna...
33:58Whoa!
34:01Okay learner's permit
34:03Uh...
34:04You can't stop here
34:07That's my dad
34:08Coming out of my dad's place
34:12Where my mom is bird nesting
34:16Whatever
34:17Whatever
34:18Hey what's up?
34:19I'm in Lori's bed
34:21And you're freaking out?
34:23Uh... yep
34:24Mmhmm
34:25I don't know man just being back in this house Malcolm
34:27Like...
34:28The sheets...
34:29They smell like her
34:30Yeah well that's... that's where she sleeps
34:34I can't stay in this room
34:37I can't do it
34:37Hey I'm gonna come over okay?
34:39No no no no
34:40Uh... I'm... I'm not home
34:41Um...
34:42Uh...
34:44You know what?
34:45I'll... I'll come to you
34:46I'll be there in a few
34:47Alright
34:58See I... I knew something was going on between them
35:01Your... your dad is doing a walk of shame
35:03You don't know that that's what's going on
35:05They could just...
35:06What? What? Spending time on my dad's bachelor pad?
35:08There's so much for my parents here for getting back together
35:11Mary I asked my dad if he was seeing anyone
35:14He said no
35:15He's a pastor! He doesn't know how to do the walk of shame
35:18Look...
35:19I know you see the world in like this rosy way
35:22Be-be-be-because of who your dad is but...
35:24I'm not as innocent as you think
35:26I just know my father and he would never lie to me
35:29Parents lie
35:33They lie
35:36All the time
35:47I don't know, Mago, I chose a divorce, right?
35:49Like I chose to leave this house
35:51I don't know man, just being back here
35:54Like...
35:55I miss it
35:58I miss it, I miss the kids
36:00Is it possible I miss my wife?
36:05Ex-wife?
36:06Of course it's possible
36:09It's really hard to move forward without looking back
36:12Maybe I'm just a grass is always greener kind of guy
36:15You know, I lost it today at the church on this guy
36:20Wanting to buy a cowboy belt buckle that Jenny bought me as a joke
36:23That I've literally never worn
36:25Totally chewed this poor guy out
36:29Right, you mean like you politely told him no
36:31Hey, I raised my voice
36:32I'm a human being
36:34Although I did say please
36:36Numerous times
36:37I don't know
36:39I think I think we both just need to find a way forward
36:44But I'm really sorry you're having a hard time
36:46Truly
36:48Guess I'm reaping what I sold, right?
36:52How is she?
36:53Lori
36:54I mean you're spending a lot of time with her lately
36:56How's she doing?
36:57Uh, she's great, she's great
37:05Hey, you know that, uh, the woman from your office, the accountant?
37:09Sarah?
37:10Yeah
37:11Yeah
37:12Wouldn't hurt to have a cup of coffee with her, right?
37:22Couldn't hurt anyone
37:27You're welcome
37:30Thank you
37:41All right
37:54Hey Dad, we kept a few things
37:56Hey!
37:59Oh, Penn
38:01That looks fabulous on you
38:03Flora picked it out
38:04Wow
38:06Um, but everything in the boxes, we can donate
38:08I'm proud of you guys, thank you, I'll take that
38:11Uh, hey Miriam, my kid just brought in quite a haul for Grace Community
38:15Oh yeah?
38:16What's the wager this year?
38:17A steak dinner at Mallow's
38:19Uh, well, I like my odds and I like mistake medium rare
38:23He's already gloating
38:24Uh-huh
38:25Just, please don't glow it as hard as Yusuf
38:27Oh
38:28I don't glow
38:29I just glow, cause my people are so generous
38:36Malcolm
38:37Hey
38:39Hey
38:40Hi
38:41Hey
38:42Hi there
38:43Um, I just wanted to say thank you for last night for talking me down
38:47Can you give me down?
38:48Of course
38:51Oh, excuse me
38:52Go, go, go
38:56Hey buddy, thanks so much for coming by last night
38:58Oh, of course
38:59Of course
39:00Yeah
39:13Hi
39:15I went through my room, I'm gonna donate this stuff
39:17Oh
39:18Thank you, Flora
39:19Mom
39:20Dad
39:21Mm
39:22I think Mom would want you to put yourself out there
39:26Thanks, sweetie
39:28And I'm keeping her car
39:31It's yours
39:33Virginia
39:35Okay, so this whole house swap thing
39:37Yeah
39:38It doesn't work
39:39It's not my home anymore
39:41Lori, I have a home
39:42You know, I'm starting a new life and they need to be there to be a part of it
39:45I agree
39:47Okay
39:48Yeah
39:49Okay, good
39:50Yeah
39:56Left a little surprise at the house for you
39:59Well, I hate surprises
40:00No, you don't
40:01You say you hate them, but you secretly love them
40:05Yeah
40:15How's it look?
40:26No inkling
40:30Meow
40:32It's perfect
40:38Thanks
40:39Thank you
40:41Bye
40:45Good job
40:48Good job
40:49So, you're saying we have to literally pack and unpack every other weekend?
40:52Yep, that is what I'm literally saying
40:55And like everything in life, you will get used to it
40:58Okay?
40:59Also, you're gonna start tonight
41:00Screw the Scandinavians
41:02Tonight?
41:03How about right now?
41:04Yes
41:05Come on, we can hit up IKEA, Target, wherever you guys wanna go
41:08You get to pick out your beds, decorate your own rooms
41:10Seriously, I want you guys to make this place feel like your own, okay?
41:13Okay?
41:16Well, do you think I was gonna let them sleep in an air mattress?
41:18I don't
41:19No, no, no
41:21Look, I think it's a great idea
41:23Also, I can't wait for you to see that pool, so relaxing
41:27Lovely neighbors, too
41:29Bye, Mom
41:30Bye
41:32Bye
41:34Bye
41:36Bye guys
41:43Bye
41:44Bye
42:13Bye
42:14Bye
42:43Bye
42:44Bye
42:45Bye
42:46Bye
42:47Bye
42:48Bye
42:49Bye
42:50Bye
42:51Bye
42:52Bye
42:53So, uh, I have a math test Monday, so I gotta go study
42:57Yeah, yeah, no worries, I got the dishes
43:00Hey, I love you
43:01Okay
43:03I love you too
43:04I love you too
43:06Bye
43:07Hey, I'm sorry, okay?
43:15For what?
43:19For all of it
43:21I just want us to be
43:26I want us to be good, Merit, as a family
43:28What can I do?
43:38What?
43:41If one thing's to get better, talk to your buddy Malcolm
43:47Malcolm and Mom are hooking up
43:58I'm coming out of my cage and I've been doing just fine
44:02God, I gotta be down because I want it all
44:05I started out with a kiss
44:07Had it eaten up like this
44:08It was only a kiss
44:10It was only a kiss
44:12Jealousy
44:13Turning saints into deceit
44:16Turning christic lullabies
44:19Joking on your lullabies
44:23But it's just the price I pay
44:25Destiny is calling me
44:29Open up my eager eyes
44:34Cause I missed the bright side
44:55I love you
44:56Like I said
44:58When I was revolutionised
44:59You can just grab my eyes
45:01I didn't put the light on my head
45:02I'll see you later
45:03In other countries
45:04I would love you
45:05I'm thinking
45:07What do you want me to do?
45:09Let's get back to the light on our day
45:11I'm thinking
45:13I want you to be coming
45:15A moment
45:17I'm thinking
45:19It's really fun
45:21I'm thinking
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