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00:00Previously on It's Not Like That, I think I wouldn't have made it through this summer without you.
00:13Me too.
00:14I'm overloaded on widower sympathy.
00:16Death trumps divorce.
00:18Then Jenny died.
00:19I knew I needed to make a change.
00:20How do you think the kids are?
00:23It's okay.
00:24It's not like I'm going to stop, no matter who did it.
00:27Did you sign me up for online dating?
00:29You knew he was dating.
00:30I didn't, actually.
00:31Dad?
00:32Merrick.
00:33Hey.
00:36We are the Grace community, and today, oh, I need to lean on all of you.
00:40I hope that's okay.
00:43I don't want to be alone.
00:45Hey, you're not alone.
00:52My lady.
00:53Oh, a fine vintage.
00:56Oh, boy, my house next week.
00:57Yeah, please.
00:58It takes about a week to clean this up.
01:00Okay, so that's all the kids.
01:02Is it?
01:06Are you?
01:07Oh, my gosh, that's so exciting.
01:08Oh, my gosh.
01:09I know.
01:09I know.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:11Oh, my God.
01:12We're not telling people.
01:13Okay, fine, but I'm not people.
01:15You're not people.
01:16What are these two plotting?
01:23Probably that we all move in together.
01:26I think Sunday did is enough for an hour, right?
01:28I think you're right.
01:28Yeah.
01:30Girls, dinner time.
01:30Let's go.
01:31Come on, let's go.
01:31Here we go.
01:32Here we go.
01:33Here we go.
01:33Here we go.
01:34We go.
01:34We got some food.
01:35Pizza.
01:36I'll grab the rest.
01:36Here we go.
01:37Yeah.
01:38Oh, look at all this good stuff.
01:40Mom, this is for you.
01:41Ah, thank you.
01:43Okay, and we have apples and carrots.
01:45Tenemos manzanas y zanahorias.
01:48Oh, okay.
01:49Okay.
01:50We do have a napkin.
01:51Okay.
01:52Everyone, hands, hands.
01:53Now, Pete, we don't start eating until we say grace.
01:56Okay.
01:56Everybody, can we hold hands, please?
01:59Everybody, there we go.
02:00Well, Heavenly Father, we are grateful for this meal.
02:04We are grateful for the opportunity to share this bounty together.
02:07We are grateful for the fellowship of friends and family.
02:10And bless this delicious meal made by Mom and Malcolm and Justin for us to all eat and enjoy
02:17when y'all come to my house every single Sunday.
02:20And bless Dad, wherever he is and whatever he's eating.
02:24In Jesus' name we pray.
02:25Amen.
02:26Amen.
02:27I read the pepper for you.
02:28It's really nice.
02:29It's a sad time.
02:30I'm not going to hire up a tutorial.
02:31It's like, I gotta be here constantly.
02:32I mean, look, any student, you should be here.
02:34In Christ.
02:34You know, so I'm on the one academy and I'm learning nothing from the teacher.
02:40So I'm just colored, like, rubbered the bottom, like, and I've got a shirt?
02:43Mm-hmm.
02:44Educational.
02:44I promise I will do that.
02:45I'll just come in the middle of it.
02:46You don't need it when your teacher's teaching you, except my teacher isn't teaching you.
02:48And I'm here, rather not.
02:50I'm here, rather not.
02:50I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here.
02:52I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here, but I'm here.
02:55But I can't be sure.
02:56So.
03:01Hello.
03:01Uh, Dad?
03:07Mm-hmm.
03:07Tomorrow night I'm getting boba at the Halodome with Dakota.
03:11Oh, you are, are you?
03:15Okay.
03:16Maybe Casey wants to join you.
03:19Um, that's, that's okay.
03:23I'm, I mean, you can if you want.
03:26I'm fine with it.
03:27Um, maybe, yeah.
03:29I think it sounds like fun.
03:30Hey, y'all.
03:31Oh.
03:32Hey, hey.
03:33Come in, come in, come in, please.
03:34Are you hungry?
03:35Yeah, there's more burgers.
03:36No, no, I'm good.
03:38Hey, guys.
03:39Hey.
03:40Hi.
03:41Hi.
03:42Uh, Lori, can we...
03:44Oh, yeah.
03:46Oh, careful.
03:50Yuck, that's so...
03:51Why yuck?
03:52No.
03:54What's that?
03:55That's why I talk about the week.
03:57Yeah, I want to spend more one-on-one time with Mary and Casey.
04:00Okay.
04:03Wait, I don't, I don't mean like custody or anything like that, okay?
04:07Okay.
04:08I just want to do more like pick-ups and whatnot.
04:11Pick-ups and whatnot?
04:12Oh, whatever.
04:15I...
04:15Look, I just want to see if we can change the schedule so I can spend more time with them,
04:19okay?
04:19Smooth things over.
04:21Okay.
04:24It's great.
04:25Yes.
04:26Um, can I be honest with you, though?
04:30Mm-hmm.
04:30I...
04:31They hate the extended-stay hotel.
04:35I'm staying there to save money, okay?
04:37You know I got to deal with the hotel.
04:39Okay.
04:39David, I'm not trying to pick a fight with you, right?
04:42It's just the reality is, is the longer you stay somewhere, temporary, you know, you're
04:48giving them false hope that this isn't permanent.
04:52And, you know, it is permanent.
04:57This is what you wanted, so you need to find a real apartment, a place of your own.
05:04Yeah, right.
05:05A place for my own.
05:06Yeah.
05:08A bachelor pad.
05:09Bro-heading.
05:10Mm-hmm.
05:11Second home for your children.
05:13Yeah, that's who.
05:16I'm kidding.
05:18Uh-huh, uh-huh.
05:19Okay.
05:20I want...
05:21I'll text you their schedules.
05:22Okay.
05:24Okay.
05:27Why don't you join us?
05:30It's okay.
05:31So, I'm just sitting, yeah, and all I talk to is talk to my family, talk to my family.
05:36It's nice, guys.
05:37I know she wants me, but she wants me to do it, but I have to keep jelly.
05:43Maybe she had a few.
05:46Maybe we can talk about what happened.
05:57My cupcakes!
06:05Five more minutes.
06:05Hey, guys.
06:30Anyone want a cupcake?
06:31Go away, Justin.
06:33But I made extra.
06:34Dude, for breakfast, no one wants the sugar.
06:37I cannot wait until I'm in high school.
06:40Oh, my God.
06:41He's coming.
06:51What do you got there?
06:55What are you gonna do, huh?
06:56You gonna do something?
06:57I'll pray for you.
07:02What?
07:03I'll grant you to my prayers.
07:10You think you're better than me?
07:11You better pray, PK.
07:13Because one of these days, I'm gonna find you, and I'm gonna kick your ass.
07:19Dude.
07:20I'd take the week off if I was you.
07:23I'll take the week off if I was you.
07:23Oh, why, why?
07:53Oh, why, why, why, why, why, why, why,
08:23Why, why, why, why, why why
08:38Why
08:43Monica is definitely moving to Texas,
08:51so we got to start a youth pastor search.
08:53And your faith leader's lunch is set for Thursday.
08:57Malcolm?
08:59Right. Thursday, Monica, Texas.
09:02Sorry, sorry.
09:03Yeah, um, so we got to talk about
09:06some of the comments that are on these cards.
09:08Apparently, some folks felt you were a little unsteady.
09:12They wrote that on a prayer card?
09:14Just a few.
09:15Yeah, unsteady, teetering, raw.
09:19But not in a bad way.
09:20They were just concerned about you.
09:22They're sending up their prayers.
09:23Mm, not this one.
09:26Bring back Pastor Harris.
09:29Sorry, man.
09:30Don't be. No, you, uh, you got that X factor.
09:33Look, your country, I'm jazz.
09:36Phyllis just likes her some jazz sometimes.
09:37Oh, Phyllis complains about everything.
09:40She can go to the 11 o'clock service.
09:41That's why we have both.
09:42There we go.
09:44I guess I really got to bring it this week, huh?
09:46Oh, you bring it every week.
09:48Always have.
09:49And you get nothing but love on our socials.
09:51I'll take that.
09:53Maybe this week,
09:54we just don't put out as many prayer cards.
10:01All right.
10:02What is the key to a sweet single?
10:04One knee is always what?
10:05Off the ground.
10:09That's right.
10:10So let's try it again.
10:11All right, arms out front.
10:13Shoulders square.
10:13Don't rest on the knee.
10:15You know the only reason she's doing this
10:17is because she wants to hook up with me.
10:19Trevor!
10:19Gail, what do you think for the press kit?
10:30Is this too aggro?
10:32Not enough.
10:33Hey, have you replied to Cup of Joe yet?
10:41Coward.
10:42The new Lori is on IRL Matt.
10:45She goes on dates.
10:46She meets people.
10:47Cup of Joe is employed like you.
10:50Educated like you.
10:52Divorced like you.
10:53And cute.
10:54Like me?
10:57Exactly.
10:58Okay.
10:59Except this new Lori.
11:01I don't know who that is.
11:02I didn't ask for a new Lori.
11:04I like the old Lori.
11:05I did too.
11:06But here we are.
11:06And I'd like to see you have a little fun.
11:08Like David.
11:09Or like our big bald wall here.
11:14What?
11:16What aren't you telling me?
11:18I kissed Malcolm.
11:20Your pastor?
11:21My friend Malcolm.
11:22Okay, your pastor friend Malcolm.
11:24No, my friend Malcolm, who is also my pastor.
11:27And you're blushing.
11:29Well, I didn't mean to.
11:31I mean, I did.
11:32I did.
11:33I did mean to.
11:33And it was actually, um, it was actually amazing.
11:38Or a terrible mistake.
11:40And I honestly don't know which one.
11:42How did this happen?
11:44I was very impulsive.
11:46It just kind of did.
11:49So is this going to be a thing?
11:51No, no.
11:52No, no.
11:53We're not.
11:55It's just Malcolm and I, we've been getting, like, closer for a while now.
12:00I mean, since Jenny died.
12:01And I did not.
12:03I didn't feel that way before.
12:04No.
12:05Because they were in love.
12:06And they were happily married.
12:07And I was married.
12:10But then, you know, she passed.
12:12And David left.
12:13And Malcolm and I just started...
12:17I don't know.
12:18Vibing.
12:19Helping each other.
12:22And then, like, figuring out how to get through all of this.
12:26And yes, vibing, I guess.
12:27I...
12:28Is that wrong?
12:37Right.
12:44So where's mom?
12:46She's busy.
12:47Yeah, I'm picking up the slack this week.
12:49So we can all bond.
12:52You know, I was telling your sister, she can't let this Trevor guy push her around in front of the squad like that.
12:56Lejito tu mano lo que tipo ese de hijo.
12:58Yep.
12:58Dad, I already texted Merit.
13:00Okay, so we can just drop it now, please.
13:02Dad's right.
13:03You gotta call that kid out, Casey.
13:07It'll only get worse if you don't.
13:11You know, Merit, I was thinking, what about basketball?
13:14What about basketball?
13:16Well, instead of wrestling.
13:17You know, you're a junior now.
13:19Extracurriculars matter more than ever.
13:20It's time for you to start thinking about who you want to be.
13:23Basketball's more of a team sport.
13:24That could be...
13:25I don't want to play basketball.
13:26Okay.
13:27All right.
13:28That's cool.
13:30Cross-country.
13:30You know, just you and the road.
13:31Why does it always have to be sports?
13:33It doesn't.
13:34I'm just trying to think of something you like.
13:36No, you mean what you like.
13:40Can you pull over?
13:42Merit, no entiendo lo que te está pasando.
13:43No, it's Flora.
13:51Hey, Flora, you want a ride?
13:53No, no.
13:53We're good.
13:54We're going to walk from here, right?
13:56Yeah, we're...
13:58Thanks, David.
13:59Yeah, but we're going to walk.
14:01Call me, okay?
14:02Adios, Dad.
14:03You know he just thinks you and Mom are going through, like, a midlife crisis, right?
14:19That you guys could still get back together.
14:22Really?
14:24Is that what you think?
14:26No.
14:26No.
14:29Hi.
14:30Oh, hey.
14:31Sorry, are you in the middle of something?
14:33No, I'm...
14:34Uh-uh.
14:35Okay.
14:37Can we talk?
14:39Always.
14:39I just...
14:43I want to say...
14:45Okay.
14:47I'm your pastor.
14:48I'm a pastor.
14:49I'm your pastor.
14:50Uh...
14:51I bring more than just myself to this equation, and...
14:55I'm sorry if I crossed a line.
14:58No, no.
14:59No, you didn't.
15:01You didn't.
15:01No, we were...
15:03We were both feeling...
15:09But it was a mistake, Malcolm.
15:13Um...
15:14Look, I don't know if what happened between us was because I'm lonely, or you're lonely,
15:19or because I miss Jenny, or you miss Jenny, or because you are just so comfortable.
15:28You know, we are so comfortable.
15:33You know, but we are all so close.
15:37You know, our families, our kids.
15:41You and I, we made a promise to each other to keep the routines, all of that going.
15:47But, like, it's so fragile, and I don't want to upend any of it.
15:57I get it.
15:58Um...
15:58Yeah.
15:59Yeah, I get it.
16:00I get it.
16:02And your friendship.
16:05Like, your friendship is...
16:08It's everything to me.
16:10And I can't imagine not having it.
16:13And I just...
16:15Like, to risk.
16:18Mm-hmm.
16:19All of that.
16:21I just, um...
16:23Are you...
16:25Like...
16:26Right?
16:29We can't.
16:32Yes.
16:34Yes, I know.
16:35Uh...
16:36Yeah.
16:37There are so many reasons why we can't.
16:43Malcolm, men's prayer group in 15.
16:49Like men's prayer group.
16:51Like men's prayer group.
16:59All right.
17:03Bye.
17:04Bye.
17:25Bye.
17:31Bye.
17:32Bye.
17:32Bye.
17:33Bye.
17:33is it cool that I'm walking with you yeah as long as you don't make me carry
17:45your backpack like you did in fourth grade I did that yeah sorry it's cool
17:54that we have English together this year yeah Watson hate that guy
18:03so why are you walking with me I had to get out of that truck and my dad he just kept going off
18:12about wrestling like sorry you don't get to live vicariously through me anymore he's like what about
18:18this sport what about that sport what are you what are you gonna do instead I don't know and I'll get
18:25it all over again when I get home the two of them they'd split up and now I have to hear everything
18:29twice sorry trauma dump anyway thank you for saving me oh yeah totally planned it
18:40so what are you going to do instead something to piss him off
18:48oh speaking of trauma dump I've got therapy
18:56do you have to go
19:02actually no I don't
19:09we can provide it to you furnished or unfurnished it's a little more
19:28furnished and it's just you on the lease
19:32just me
19:35okay Merritt I'm going uh Casey is out and your dinner is in the fridge
19:45um do I look okay
19:51yeah
19:52thank you for that okay well I love you
19:58yeah
20:01yeah
20:15yeah yeah uh wow I've been regretting that choice for a while now oh no it's really cute
20:25not what I was going for but uh you know what I don't I don't know what I was going for
20:30uh uh Joe is fine hi nice to meet you Joe got it it's nice to meet you
20:37I'm sorry I'm really nervous um and also you you look younger than your profile pictures and that I mean you know if that's supposed to be the other way around right so I don't know well first of all I mean I don't know what I don't know I don't know what I'm sure I don't know yeah it's beautiful I don't know what I'm sure I don't know what to L
21:05I don't know. Well, first of all, thank you, but, uh, don't be nervous. I've done this lots of times, and it only gets easier.
21:16You know what? That didn't quite come out right. Um, you look wonderful, by the way. Really should have lived with that.
21:31Hang on.
21:32Oh. Um, oh, that's all right. I mean, work can be 22. Oh. Um, or my kids, you know, always seem to need something.
21:51Okay, done.
21:56That's from me.
21:57It's just, uh, an idea I had since we're both nervous.
22:03It is my end of the night. It was a great time. We had an awesome date, and I can't wait to see you again, text.
22:12Okay.
22:13I just thought if I send it now, it takes off all the pressure because we already had a good time.
22:18Oh, we did.
22:19Oh, we totally did.
22:21No, it seems like it.
22:23I just figured we'd cut to the, uh, end and work backward.
22:26Okay.
22:27Hmm.
22:28Look, in all seriousness, you seem great, and I get it. I'm your first since your divorce. You're out with some strange dude instead of being at home with your kids. It's whatever you need at night.
22:44Well, I mean, it, it, it seems like we had a lot of fun dancing.
22:54Dancing? Hmm. It's a, it's a great idea.
22:57Oh.
22:57Oh.
22:57I want you. I want you, now. I want you, now. I want you, I want you, now.
23:10Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
23:14Guys. Guys. Guys, get in.
23:17Whoa.
23:26No.
23:27No.
23:28No.
23:30Yes.
23:33Dudes.
23:34What?
23:35No.
23:36Dudes.
23:41Are they looking at us?
23:42Don't stare me, guy.
23:43I'm not.
23:44That's Dean.
23:44His brother Miles is friends with my brother.
23:46They go to Woodman.
23:47Oh.
23:49Should we go over there?
23:50Shouldn't they come to us?
23:53Casey, why don't you go over there and pin one of them?
23:57Dakota, don't.
23:59No, Casey is awesome.
24:00I heard you joined wrestling because you wanted to hook up
24:02with Trevor.
24:03Now, you get to wrestle him like every day.
24:06Is that true?
24:07That's so embarrassing, Casey.
24:09Guys, stop.
24:10Max, we're just saying that Casey can teach us some moves.
24:15They would love it.
24:16No, no, that's you.
24:18That's not me.
24:19That's not me.
24:20This guy is so funny.
24:21Casey, come on.
24:22Mommy.
24:23Mommy.
24:23Mommy.
24:24Mommy.
24:24Mommy.
24:25Mommy.
24:25Mommy.
24:26Mommy.
24:26Mommy.
24:27Mommy.
24:27Mommy.
24:28Mommy.
24:28Mommy.
24:29Mommy.
24:29Mommy.
24:30Mommy.
24:30Mommy.
24:31Mommy.
24:31I just got a message from Dr. Collins.
24:33You skipped your appointment today.
24:35I didn't feel like going.
24:37Well, that's not an option.
24:39Dad.
24:40Yeah?
24:40I need a break.
24:42I've been going for over three years, and I'm not saying it
24:44hasn't helped.
24:45It has, but I feel-
24:46I found scissors in your room, Flora.
24:48Under your bed.
24:51Okay?
24:52It's not what you think.
24:53Don't overreact.
24:55I had to make a stupid timeline for AP Euro.
24:58That's all.
24:59I wasn't hiding them.
25:00I was just using them for that.
25:02For real.
25:03Flora.
25:04Dad, I- I get why finding the scissors scared you.
25:08I know that I freaked you and Mom out when I cut myself that
25:14one time, but it's not like I tried to kill myself.
25:18Sorry.
25:19I'm sorry.
25:22I swear I wouldn't do anything like that again, especially now.
25:27I mean, you have to know that.
25:30You know how your mom felt about therapy, how I feel.
25:32It is such an important tool, and I promised her.
25:35I know, but it's- it's just the same thing week after week.
25:41And if you want to know what I was doing instead,
25:44I was hanging out with a friend.
25:47I was having fun.
25:48I mean, that's what you want, right?
25:52You lied to me, Flora.
25:54No, I did- I didn't.
25:56Not really.
25:57Look, you want to walk away from therapy,
25:59you've already walked away from the church.
26:00One has nothing to do with the other.
26:01I just think being there would help you figure out everything-
26:04Dad!
26:05It doesn't.
26:06Being in church actually makes it worse, OK?
26:10I just can't- I can't right now.
26:12And I need you to stop asking me.
26:15I hope you're happy.
26:17No, not really.
26:18I invited Casey, OK, just like you asked me to.
26:23And then she got upset and then took off.
26:24Why?
26:25What happened?
26:26Nothing happened.
26:27She just- she just freaks out over everything.
26:30And I mean, you can't do that with these girls.
26:31I mean, they're really important to me.
26:33OK, have you talked to Casey?
26:35No.
26:36Maybe you should try to-
26:37No, no, no.
26:38OK, it's just different, OK?
26:39We're different.
26:44And this is my boy on his first birthday.
26:46Aw.
26:47And right here is New Year's.
26:48OK.
26:48He loves a good party hat.
26:49Yeah.
26:50My nieces love dressing up Drucus, but I think he loves it more.
26:54Aw.
26:57He's basically my son.
26:58Yeah.
26:59Hello.
27:04Oh, sorry.
27:05That's mine.
27:06The human child.
27:09Um, Doug, I've really had so much fun.
27:12You made this very easy.
27:13Oh, my God.
27:14Sorry.
27:15Hey, if, uh, if you need to go, it's- it's all right.
27:26Yeah.
27:28Kids come first.
27:29Yeah.
27:30And dogs.
27:33Um, I'd really like to do this again.
27:35Maybe you're not supposed to say that.
27:37You saw my texts.
27:39We are definitely doing this again.
27:45Good night.
27:49Good night.
27:52Good night.
28:01Oh, sweetie.
28:03What happened?
28:04It's Trevor.
28:05Hmm.
28:06He said the only reason I signed up for wrestling is because- because I like him.
28:11And- and everyone thinks that.
28:13And at the mall, they were all just laughing at me.
28:15And Penn was, too.
28:16No.
28:17No.
28:18Just for a second.
28:19I'm sorry.
28:21I know she's really been going through something.
28:23What?
28:24Mom.
28:25No.
28:26No.
28:27All she cares about is being popular.
28:28Okay?
28:29So don't defend her for that.
28:30I'm not.
28:31I am not excusing her.
28:32All right?
28:33I hear you.
28:34I hear you.
28:35I hear you.
28:36I hear you.
28:37I hear you.
28:38I hear you.
28:39Okay.
28:41I mean, wha- why is she like this?
28:49Well, I- I think she's just trying to figure out who she is.
28:56Well, and- also, I- I think she's scared of you.
29:03I think they all are.
29:05Why?
29:06Because you don't care about being popular.
29:11You care about just being you.
29:13And they don't know what to do with that.
29:17You know, I know it sucks right now.
29:19But as you get older, being different,
29:23it's a good thing.
29:29Your hair looks really nice.
29:36See you, kiddo.
29:41Bye, Case.
29:43Have a good day.
29:44Hey, hey.
29:45Look who's up this early.
29:46I know, right?
29:47Uh-huh.
29:48Just trying to pitch in more.
29:49Step up my dad duties.
29:51Good for you.
29:53That sounds like it was a-
29:55Late night for Lori.
29:57Someone had a date.
29:59Oh.
30:00She did.
30:02Already, wow.
30:03It's weird, right?
30:06I mean, we're both on apps now.
30:08It's...
30:09Hopefully we don't bump into each other
30:10at the same restaurant.
30:12Hey.
30:13Well, it might have been jealous, right?
30:14Yeah.
30:15Yeah, right.
30:16Right.
30:18Anyways, I forgot to mention,
30:19there's this woman in my office, Sarah.
30:20She's our accountant.
30:21She's like in her 40s.
30:22She's lovely.
30:23Kind of quirky.
30:24Single.
30:25Told her about you.
30:26She's really interested.
30:27No, no, no.
30:28Uh, you- you saw me at the bar the other night.
30:30I'm not ready to go on a date.
30:32No.
30:33No.
30:34I don't think I've ever even been on a-
30:36I mean, Jenny and I.
30:37But that wasn't even a-
30:39It was more like a courtship.
30:41You know?
30:42So, uh, thank you.
30:43Thank you very much.
30:44But, no.
30:46Okay.
30:47No problem, man.
30:48I just thought I'd put it out there.
30:50No.
30:51No.
30:53I know that this creative writing unit
30:55isn't for everyone.
30:56So I want to thank you for your first writing assignment.
30:59What I'm most looking forward to in this class.
31:02Delighted to know that so many of you are here because you have to be.
31:07But I consider you folks a personal challenge.
31:12So I had these made.
31:15A little practical inspo.
31:20From now on, when you write, I want you to actually write.
31:27Not type.
31:29I'm old school.
31:31Okay?
31:32Your brains pen to paper.
31:34Call me a Luddite.
31:36Look it up.
31:37That's how I roll.
31:39There's a tactile process to the early stages of creativity.
31:42I want this to come from your minds and your body.
31:45I want you guys to get real.
31:50So this week, your assignment is to write about something that is uniquely you.
31:54Something that defines you.
31:56And it can be any form.
31:58It can be a poem.
31:59It can be a story.
32:00It can be an essay.
32:02Just be honest.
32:03What the?
32:04Are you enjoying this?
32:05Let me up.
32:07What and spoil your fun?
32:09No, because I think you're the one who wants to hook up with me, Trevor.
32:10If only not the other way around, okay?
32:11For all of you, got it?
32:12Because I can take down every single one of you.
32:13Okay, Soto, I think you've made your point.
32:14They actually wrote all that?
32:15They were worried about me.
32:16You know?
32:17They want the old patterns to be a little bit more.
32:18They can't believe you, but you can't believe that.
32:20They can't believe that you're the one who wants to hook up with me, Trevor.
32:21What the ?
32:22Are you enjoying this?
32:23Let me up.
32:24Letting spoil your fun.
32:25No, because I think you're the one who wants to hook up with me, Trevor.
32:26If only not the other way around, okay?
32:27For all of you, got it?
32:28Because I can take down every single one of you.
32:29Okay, Soto, I think you've made your point.
32:31They actually wrote all that?
32:36They were worried about me?
32:38You know?
32:39They want the old patterns to be a little bit.
32:40all that they were worried about me you know they want the old pastor malcolm back i guess
32:45or maybe they need to get used to the new one whoever that is you know i i thought it would
32:50be easier going back i thought that you know once i got up there everything would be fine
32:57at home too and with the kids oh you'll never doubt yourself more than as the father of teenage
33:02girls yeah just take it from me maybe it'll just take you a little bit longer
33:07hmm you know my dad used to say your favorite preacher may be a trumpet but son you might be
33:13a clarinet turns out i'm a tuba problem is malcolm your voice has changed yeah and our faithful
33:22you look to us to lead with an unwavering capital l the worlds are chaotic and complicated and trying
33:28and they come to us for stability for security we're their constant and you ask them for comfort
33:35you scared them man you let them behind the curtain right so basically what we're saying
33:41is i am their rock right i'm always on 24 7 i can never mess up exactly got it
33:50i kissed my wife's best friend or she kissed me we kissed wow laurie it it was in the moment
33:58i wasn't thinking it's not going to happen again but i can't stop thinking about it or her and
34:07now i don't know how to undo it well you can't i mean look i know you and laurie are close and the
34:13fact that you were willing to take a step forward that that's good okay good just my opinion maybe
34:19choose a woman from someone else's church hey now laurie isn't that your brother
34:34i don't want to fight you hannigan no one's asking you
34:37fight fight fight maybe we can talk this out man to man fight fight fight fight fight
34:42why else is that the answer stop talking i'm not afraid of you
34:58hey come here
35:00you okay i think so i can't feel my toes all right listen to me if you touch him one more time
35:09i'm going to bury you got it i said got it got it hey hey hey come on it's okay thanks casey i was
35:18gonna what laugh at him with your bffs it's okay no justin it's really not okay all right let's go
35:30oh flora hey wait up
35:36hi watson is so cringe right yeah i mean he's trying too hard but he's he's trying
35:48everything okay my dad got a new apartment oh that is a lot of capitals and exclamation points
35:56yeah right but this is what he does he's always upselling pizza movie night ice cream don't look at
36:03the divorce look over here you should write about that for watson's class um no i was thinking i'd get
36:10real with chat gpt yeah what are you gonna write about
36:21maybe this
36:26oh
36:26did you do that a few years ago i i knew something happened but i realized yeah nobody knows outside my
36:45family my family my therapist i guess now you
36:55i used to have these panic attacks in middle school and i went down this wormhole online where
37:01these girls would hype each other up about
37:05my therapist would say i was looking for control i haven't done it again it's just hard because
37:18pastor's daughter is not supposed to have problems like that so then if i write about it now will that
37:25freak my dad out like he so desperately needs everything to be nice and neat which i get but
37:35i'm so not
37:43well watson leaf that up you should definitely write about that
37:50so what are you gonna do
37:51hmm
38:04hey merritt merritt what is happening merritt bought a drum set no yeah i can hear it i can see and hear
38:12that yeah well you wanted me to replace wrestling so with drums i'm a drummer now i'm teaching myself
38:21oh yeah man this is so cool wait why'd you stop it's fine i'm tired oh okay well hey i just came
38:35by to you know grab the rest of my things for my new apartment it's moving in day guys you know hey
38:40cone zone for anyone who wants to help me load my truck what do you say oh our old vinyls i'm sorry but
38:46i actually have homework so yeah but we haven't even eaten dinner yet so yeah okay no i get it you
38:52got homework hey guys i promise you're gonna love the new place they'll come around
38:59you guys no hold up go help your dad please we're hungry no dad is not the bad guy
39:08right whatever happened between us he is still your father and at some point you need to let him off the hook
39:16thank you honey
39:23i don't know why i should let either of you off the hook
39:30hey you okay yeah you know a couple bruises okay look i'm really sorry that i let you down
39:50i kind of froze flora says that we have to stick together and i got scared
40:01how do i make him stop
40:06pro tip dude next time don't say that you're going to pray for him
40:10just pray for him okay it eliminates the target on your back
40:18i think casey's such a badass yeah she is
40:28if anyone is in christ the new creation has come the old is gone the new is here
40:34oh corinthian speaks to my heart this morning what's old is gone but i am called to new
40:46as we are all called to growth to change to be more like him
40:52justin's a better audience justin's great but i want my toughest critic
41:07you're gonna be great but i'm still not coming on sunday
41:11how about this more compromise on therapy i will still see dr cullens but just once a month
41:29every other week fine deal
41:34i was thinking that writing could be a good outlet for me
41:39writing yeah hey your mom would love that you're using that yeah i just started but
41:51i'm gonna keep it with me mr watson said that sometimes you can get hit with an idea like a
41:56feeling and you don't want the moment to pass you by before you can get it out you know yeah i do
42:09think that's what's going on so yeah that's what's going on so that's what's going on so yeah
42:15yeah jesus specializes in making things new especially our voices christ calls us to new the new is here
42:21when i first came to this church and saw my future father in law preach
42:26i knew this was the place for me this place made new when pastor lucas and his small but mighty
42:33congregation came to this sanctuary. I knew this was my home. It still is. Now, I know some of you
42:40were worried about me last week. Some of you were very worried about me. Like, call it in worried.
42:48Though I want to assure you that I am fine. I'm different. Immeasurably different. But I'm so
42:57very blessed to be with you in this moment to lead you in worship. Last week, I asked if I could
43:02lean on you. Maybe not in so many words. Maybe in too many words. But this week, I am reminded that
43:08we are all leaning on our Lord, our rock, and His unchanging love. In our church, we welcome all who
43:17hold Jesus in their hearts wherever they may be in their journey, no matter their background, their
43:23size, their shape, or their voice. My voice, friends, may sound different to you today.
43:30Maybe it's a little quieter. Maybe it's unfamiliar. It's a little unfamiliar to me. But it is
43:39certainly new. And this new voice, my voice, is deeply rooted in the enduring Word of God.
43:47Amen. And the unshakable rock upon which we all stand. Amen.
43:52Amen.
43:54Amen.
43:55Amen.
43:59Amen.
44:00Amen.
44:02Amen.
44:03Carbì°©
44:05for me,
44:08let me read
44:10myself in thee.
44:13Let the water and the blood
44:19From my world decide to stay
44:23Don't worry.
44:31Just because our parents want us to be friends
44:33doesn't mean we still have to.
44:43We still have to.
45:13We still have to.
45:43We still have to.
45:53Hey.
45:56Are you okay?
45:58Yes, but I need to say something.
46:00Are you alone?
46:01Yeah.
46:07This might not be fair,
46:10and I hear you about everything you've said about us,
46:12about our families,
46:13about how complicated things are.
46:16Look, I've never had a friend like you, Laurie,
46:19and you're right, we can't be together for all the reasons,
46:21but I want to be truthful with you.
46:26The other day, Flora said to me,
46:29sometimes you get this feeling,
46:31and you just,
46:33you know, you can't let that moment pass you by,
46:35you have to get it out,
46:36and I can't go to sleep tonight,
46:39or maybe ever,
46:41without telling you,
46:42when we kissed,
46:44kissing you,
46:47I haven't felt that alive
46:51in a long time.
46:59And I just wanted to say that,
47:00and now we can
47:01move on,
47:04forward, like we were.
47:05Okay.
47:12Okay.
47:13Good.
47:13Yeah.
47:19Good night.
47:20Good night.
47:35Good night.
48:01Good night.
48:03Good night.
48:03Good night.
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