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00:00Hi guys I'm Mariah Plath I'm the fourth oldest of nine kids we all grew up in
00:11rural Georgia on a farm the cows got out we were homeschooled and had limited
00:17access to technology we played music together
00:27ate together and family was the center of our universe can we watch Donald Duck
00:33tonight after dinner but me and some of my siblings wanted to get out and see
00:40the world here's to getting out of Cairo so we did I'm getting on my first plane
00:48your heart is going crazy we tried lots of new things
00:52take it in own it baby we're ready to hit the runway
00:59first soda that's really good first
01:12get together but just like any other family we've had our fair share of fights
01:17do I can't let you guys this is my property I can walk on my mommy if I
01:21want you're just making me worse look at me look at me worse that is my wife
01:26these are my children you guys can't come to my concert it's like our family
01:32getting divided all over again I'm just ready for Mariah to stop being a bitch on a slam
01:35you accused Olivia of stealing from you that's not respectful and then the
01:41unthinkable happened we are moving forward with a divorce Ethan and Olivia's
01:47marriage fell apart as well you've changed so much that I can't relate to
01:52you you've changed too I think if I'm being completely honest I am struggling to
01:55see the longevity of this relationship
01:59we keep calling it back from home our family's still strong
02:02boom let's go let's go the future is as uncertain as it's ever been I'm dating
02:08someone I don't support that
02:18more
02:32this year a lot has changed I mean a lot a few months ago I moved from
02:56California and moved to South Florida and moved in with this beautiful girl I'm a
03:02lucky man and life's been the life's been thrilling lately
03:17given how I was living my life when I was in California
03:25it was a big shock to settle down we did long distance for a while and you know
03:31the more we got to know each other the more I felt a deeper connection deeper
03:36than I've had with anyone and I was like if I want this to last it's not gonna
03:40last across the country long distance so I've made up my mind I was like I feel
03:44like life's too short to feel like you missed out on something
03:47another dog walking down the street at the moment we're gonna take things slow as far as having a
04:01public relationship she's cautious and shy I'm a little hesitant to put our
04:07relationship out there in the open any chance she's ever gonna join you on
04:12camera I don't know yet no comment make sure you clean up the hair in the sink I
04:19cleaned it and the counter doing that now yeah I'll believe it when I see it clean is my
04:28baby skin really clean it's okay perfect this is the first time I've moved in
04:38with someone before it takes some getting used to one of the things I'm learning a
04:43lot about is the little things matter more than the big ones like if I go to
04:47work leave a little note or if I'm out and about pick up her favorite dinner and
04:52bring it to her or send her pictures this reminds me of you and when your
04:58significant other tells you to do something you kind of have to especially
05:01when you're living at their house so my girlfriend will write new lists and may
05:07take me a little while depending on what's on the list
05:11don't get me wrong I love being able to help my girlfriend around her house but
05:16it can be a lot
05:28listen I wonder they'd be like this from now on I will not answer one more
05:37question with my shirt on I haven't even really asked my parents if they're
05:49supportive of living together before marriage you going to work yeah my summer
05:55you know I think there's things that have changed and things that my family is
06:00completely okay with it they wouldn't have been a while ago
06:03come on say bye to your mom
06:05oh thank you for the kiss I don't know if I can rightly pinpoint exactly what's
06:12different but you know I've I've gone on many dates and I've you know gone out in
06:17the world and explored met a lot of wonderful people but there's just
06:23something special about this girl are we hearing wedding bells here
06:27okay bye bye hang on
06:33have a good day at work have a good day love you love you bye pups
06:43all right we get the day ourselves
06:47when you trust someone it gets you killed when you love someone it hurts you still
07:13when you're seeing the rising of a thousand suns when you're near the end your race is run
07:31look back on your life and you wonder why the things that truly matter that took for granted
07:42it's been many months since I've seen Olivia last time me and Olivia worked together we were talking about
07:50separating and shortly after that she left for California I stayed here in the apartment
07:57because can't get out of the lease we haven't officially gotten a divorce yet but I guess that's right around the corner
08:03it's sort of a mutual decision I don't want it to happen but I don't see how
08:08we can make it work together either so
08:11it is what it is
08:15when me and Olivia first split I'd say I was pretty you know sad and heartbroken
08:29and then it started turning into anger
08:33in the last few months I haven't allowed myself any spare time on the weekends I got to my grandparents and hang out with them work on my old cars
08:53outside of that I've been working two jobs and start at like 3 30 in the morning and then finish up between 5 and 7 every evening after work I go work out in the gym
09:02and get some frustration out
09:05but now the lease is up on this place end of this month and I'm moving out
09:11so Olivia is going to be coming to town to pack up the rest of her stuff
09:15but she didn't really say exactly when
09:18how are you feeling about seeing her?
09:24I don't know what the heck I feel
09:26I'm sure I'll cry tomorrow
09:43when it all starts sinking in
09:45but I have to relive this moment
09:47telling all my friends
09:48I wish that I could stay right now
09:51but I don't see us working out
09:54I'm back in Minnesota
09:56to get the rest of my things moved out
09:58and hopefully get divorce papers signed
10:01last time I was here
10:03we were kind of in a rough spot
10:07I want a family
10:09and I want to be with someone who supports
10:11me changing
10:13I want a family too
10:14I know you don't want a family with me
10:16literally just last week you told me
10:18that you were making a list
10:20of every hill you were going to die on
10:22and if I did not answer yes
10:23to everything on your list
10:24I couldn't have your kids
10:26I couldn't be your wife
10:26it wasn't going to work out
10:27yeah I wish that list was like three things
10:29still
10:31it got to the point
10:37that Ethan wanted to go separate ways
10:39and
10:39it made sense to me
10:42I don't think I would have been the one
10:44to say it was done
10:45just because I'm stubborn
10:46and I didn't want to walk away
10:48but when Ethan said it was done
10:50it was like a big sigh of relief
10:52it was like
10:52okay I actually accept that
10:55it is done
10:55I can move on
10:57I can walk away
10:58I gave it my best
10:59not to say I didn't make mistakes
11:02but I know that I tried
11:03when it all comes down to the bottom line
11:07maybe we'd have worked out in another life
11:11seeing Ethan again
11:13I feel like really
11:15I don't know
11:16anxious and apprehensive
11:18I'm ready to finalize everything
11:22but at the same time
11:23it's a little overwhelming
11:24having a conversation with
11:27the person who you thought
11:29would love you forever
11:29and couldn't
11:32as much as I've tried
11:35to deal with that hurt
11:36it would definitely bring it back up
11:37and I don't want to feel that
11:40do you miss her?
11:56yeah I miss having somebody
11:58to take care of
11:58and do things with
11:59do you miss her?
12:04yeah I do miss her
12:05where do you see
12:08who's that?
12:22knock knock
12:23hey
12:24hi
12:25how are you?
12:30I didn't know you were coming
12:36I mean you never let me know
12:38are you still angry at me?
12:41very much so
12:42the last several months
12:49have been really challenging
12:50for me personally
12:51through the process of this divorce
12:53I have started running
12:54so I can clear my mind
12:56and I have
12:57a running partner
12:59how's it going?
13:15how are you?
13:22oh you kept the plants alive
13:23yep
13:28I didn't know you were coming
13:37I mean you never let me know
13:39hmm
13:41I thought I did
13:42yeah I can see how that would bother you
13:48I understand
13:49and I'm sorry
13:50I've been traveling a lot lately
13:52and just didn't think about it
13:54it was just
13:54the next flight to get on
13:55and
13:55I'm sorry
13:57okay
14:01how's life been treating you?
14:04pretty good
14:05you doing okay?
14:12staying on the side of the ground
14:13okay
14:16um
14:21we got paperwork to deal with
14:23um
14:44I don't know
14:46I don't know
14:46if this has changed for you
14:47I know that when I
14:48left back in the spring
14:50like we were in
14:51a good enough place
14:53to not
14:54need like a lawyer
14:57to mediate between us
14:58do you still feel that way?
15:07okay
15:08is there anything
15:13that you wanted
15:13to talk about?
15:16like anything on your mind
15:17you
15:17wanted to get off your chest?
15:19nothing?
15:24like any closure
15:25that you needed?
15:28there's no closure
15:29are you still angry at me?
15:42mm-hmm
15:43very much so
15:44why?
15:49I don't know where to start
15:53why did you tell me
16:02that
16:02me not having a relationship
16:03with my siblings
16:04for a year and a half
16:05was not a sacrifice
16:06or a compromise?
16:08so
16:09I
16:09like
16:09it's not like I
16:10was unable to see
16:11that that was
16:12a sacrifice on your part
16:15but I felt like
16:15that was held over my head
16:16when that to me
16:17was like the bare minimum
16:18for protecting your partner
16:20I don't understand
16:22why that was your direction
16:23that you took
16:24for what should be done
16:25instead of
16:25try to fix it
16:27yeah
16:30that's probably a way
16:32that I was not
16:33a good fit for you
16:34it took me far too long
16:36to realize that
16:37between me
16:38or your family
16:39like you were gonna
16:39pick your family
16:40that's because
16:41you made me choose
16:42okay then
16:44maybe I should have
16:45walked away a lot sooner
16:46I know it wasn't
16:48right for a long time
16:50and I probably
16:50could have saved you
16:51heartache if I
16:52acknowledged that
16:54sooner
16:54and I'm sorry
16:55I wouldn't have
16:59saved me any heartache
17:01so you're happy now
17:13with your family?
17:20okay
17:31I'm gonna take a break
17:32I'll be back
17:36later
17:37with paperwork?
17:39what?
17:39with paperwork?
17:40it's not like I can go
17:41print out paperwork
17:42right now
17:42but we need to figure this out
17:43so I'll be back later
17:46to figure it out
17:46I'll be back
17:47I'll be back
17:48I'll be back
17:48I'll be back
17:49the last couple of months
18:17have really been a time
18:18of transition
18:18for me and the girls
18:19I'm actually living
18:21in Florida right now
18:22which it feels like
18:23I've come full circle
18:24because this is where
18:25I grew up
18:26Barry and I are still
18:29not divorced yet
18:30and I get frustrated
18:32that the divorce
18:33is taking so long
18:34financially it's
18:35a little tight right now
18:37and it's you know
18:38emotionally exhausting
18:39but once the divorce
18:42happens
18:42I'll be in a little bit
18:44better place financially
18:45in the meantime
18:46we're co-parenting
18:47and it's working okay
18:50mom?
18:57yeah?
18:58can I write a ripstick now?
19:00okay
19:00be back before the sun sets
19:02I know
19:03Ken asked me
19:05to move in with him
19:07and I thought about it
19:09pretty hard
19:10but ultimately
19:11I decided
19:12at this stage
19:13in my life
19:14it's more important
19:14for me to have
19:15a home that's not
19:16dependent on anyone else
19:17right now
19:19I need a little bit
19:20of time and space
19:21by myself
19:22I need to
19:23just focus on me
19:24and the girls
19:25so I bought
19:28a houseboat
19:29we're seeing
19:41the need to move
19:42I was at first
19:43kind of worried
19:44like living on a fairway
19:45how's that gonna work?
19:47I gotta get out
19:47can we shut the door
19:49so the bugs don't get in?
19:53last year
19:54there was one particular
19:55part of my life
19:56that I definitely
19:56kept private
19:57I went through hell
20:00recently
20:00and I have a lot
20:02of things
20:02that I'm trying
20:05to sort through
20:05in my head
20:06I grew up
20:22on a sailboat
20:22and I loved it
20:24so I bought a boat
20:25technically
20:28it's a 33 foot
20:30Chris Craft
20:31it's got just enough
20:35living space
20:36to be manageable
20:37the beds
20:39in the main
20:40cabin area
20:41we use
20:42as couches
20:42during the day
20:43and then there's a bed
20:45at the bow of the boat
20:46where it kind of
20:47comes to a V
20:48one or two people
20:49can sleep there
20:50the bathroom
20:52is very small
20:53but it gives us
20:54somewhat of
20:55you know
20:55indoor plumbing
20:57we really just use it
21:01to store our
21:02makeup
21:02and shower supplies
21:03and things like that
21:04we can use it
21:05but the bathrooms
21:07at the marina
21:07are so nice
21:08and big
21:09most of the time
21:10we just grab our bags
21:12and walk over there
21:13especially for showering
21:14can you move your purse
21:23and phone
21:24I was at first
21:27kind of worried
21:27like living on a boat
21:28wait
21:28how's that gonna work
21:30when mom told me
21:35she was buying a boat
21:36I was kind of surprised
21:37it's really different
21:39can we shut the door
21:42so bugs don't get in
21:43get out
21:43I gotta get out
21:44you get out
21:45you get out
21:46then all three of you
21:47brush your teeth
21:47and all three of you
21:48make them do
21:48okay
21:49it is kind of tight
21:52on the inside
21:53but to be honest
21:54like we're not inside
21:55like a whole lot
21:56we're standing here
21:58I need to see you to move
21:59I'm gonna go through
22:00I've realized
22:05the girls have been living
22:06in a very large house
22:08and here I am
22:09presenting them
22:10with this tiny little boat
22:11to live on
22:12but it's sort of
22:13a less expensive way
22:14of having waterfront property
22:16I want them to see the boat
22:17as gaining
22:18a bike trail
22:20and a river
22:20and all of this
22:21natural beauty
22:22around them
22:23the girls are going
22:26through their teenage years
22:27and there's enough
22:29changes there anyway
22:30so I really worked hard
22:32to make it
22:33as livable
22:34for them as possible
22:35I've never grilled before
22:39this is gonna be interesting
22:40we'd better not ruin
22:43the food
22:43well steak can't be
22:46too hard to grill
22:47right
22:47it takes a little bit
22:49of getting used to
22:50you know
22:50cooking on the boat
22:51because it's hard
22:52to make all of the food
22:54in the kitchen
22:54we can
22:55but it's easier
22:56if there's a main course
22:58on the grill
22:59I still want to have
23:05a sleepover on the boat
23:06with everyone in the family
23:08Ethan, Micah, Mariah, Lydia, Isaac
23:12it would be like
23:13a really small farm
23:14on the water
23:15my first time ever
23:18grilling anything
23:19dad makes it look so easy
23:20mom I've kind of learned
23:23that she likes to have fun
23:24she likes to live life
23:25in the moment
23:26and I think spending time
23:28with mom apart from dad
23:29I think that's helped
23:30our relationship
23:30and also I've grown up
23:31and I understand
23:32where mom's coming from
23:33and nobody's perfect
23:34like we all get through things
23:36do you think it's done?
23:41oh yeah
23:41I think
23:42I don't know how to tell
23:43like how much they're done
23:44I think it's done
23:45I think they're all done
23:46I love being able
23:48to be on the boat
23:49and be on water
23:50just like mom was
23:51when she was a kid
23:52sometimes if it's
23:54kind of small
23:55it gets kind of cramped
23:56but it kind of feels
23:57like an adventure
23:58living on the boat
23:59like it's really fun
24:00oh
24:00mommy tell me
24:02if you think they're done
24:03mommy tell me
24:04I can't tell what I did
24:04oh I think
24:05those look great
24:05I think it's fine
24:06okay
24:07actually grilled steaks
24:08yeah I'm proud of you
24:10where are the green beans?
24:11high five
24:11a great grill
24:12and a great girl
24:13this looks like
24:14something dad would say
24:15I know
24:16I just reminded myself
24:16of dad
24:17okay
24:18initially I feel like
24:19it was hard
24:20for the girls
24:21to adjust
24:21to the divorce
24:23but now that we're
24:26a couple years into it
24:27they have seen
24:27okay life goes on
24:29it's okay
24:30I still have two
24:31really good parents
24:32and of course
24:34things are different
24:35but they're good
24:36is it good?
24:38do you like it Marcy?
24:39yeah
24:40it's good
24:40especially for your first time
24:41for me
24:42my life isn't really
24:43simple right now
24:45ever since Barry
24:46and I separated
24:46I've been trying
24:48to figure out
24:48where I'm going to go
24:49and what I'm going to do
24:50and it's hard
24:51not knowing
24:52a lot of things
24:53if a steak isn't tender
24:55is that the griller's fault
24:56or the cow's fault?
24:59that's a good question
25:00let me on the cow
25:01but I do know
25:04I don't miss
25:05having that big house
25:06the big house
25:07was beautiful
25:08and absolutely huge
25:10the biggest house
25:10I've ever lived in
25:11but I would rather
25:13be on a small boat
25:14with my girls
25:15than in a big house
25:16with
25:17fill in the blank
25:19last several months
25:35have been
25:35really challenging
25:36for me personally
25:37through the process
25:38of this divorce
25:39just having to
25:40mentally prepare yourself
25:42for the long haul
25:43and not get frustrated
25:44but in the meantime
25:46I have started running
25:47so I can get out there
25:49and just get in touch
25:49with the great outdoors
25:51you know
25:53I can clear my mind
25:54and I have
25:55a running partner
25:56how's it going?
26:06you up for a good jog today?
26:08I usually don't talk
26:09while I run
26:09I know
26:10I know
26:11Mariah has moved
26:13from Tampa
26:13to Cairo
26:14and she's home
26:15with me
26:16and you know
26:17as a father
26:18I'm just here
26:19welcoming her
26:20with open arms
26:21you're
26:22you're speedy
26:23holy
26:24Toledo
26:25I can't run that fast
26:27oh it's perfect
26:29bye
26:30I've been home
26:32for a little
26:33less than a week
26:34I loved Tampa
26:36but I really wanted
26:38to save as much money
26:40as I could
26:41and I really want
26:43to not rush
26:43into the next phase
26:44of life
26:45or make any big decision
26:47when I'm not 100% sure
26:48what I want to do
26:49because I don't want
26:50to be stuck in a lease
26:51and somewhere
26:52that I know isn't my place
26:54oh it says to go
26:56slow too bad
26:56slow children at play
26:57oh I remember this place
26:59because this was like
27:00your playhouse right
27:01a few years ago
27:01you were here
27:02yep
27:03Micah and I
27:03renting together
27:04was very fun
27:05not for Micah
27:06for me
27:07yeah
27:07yeah
27:08I was 17
27:10when I moved out
27:11like I was
27:12a very stubborn teenager
27:13I wanted to do my thing
27:14and I wanted to do it
27:15my way
27:16and my parents
27:17had rules
27:17and they were like
27:18well you can follow
27:19these rules
27:20or you know
27:21you can go live
27:22in a place
27:22where you make
27:23your own rules
27:23and I chose
27:24to go live
27:24in a place
27:25where I made
27:25my own rules
27:25but I left home
27:28so quickly
27:30never even said bye
27:32to my family
27:32or anything
27:33and now
27:33just having
27:34the doors open
27:35I feel like
27:36in a way
27:36I'm closing out
27:37a chapter
27:37that I never
27:38closed out
27:39and you're in Tampa
27:41did you run
27:41with Blackjack
27:42at all?
27:42I don't know
27:42I walked with Blackjack
27:43but I would go
27:44for runs on the road
27:45if I don't want to
27:45yeah
27:46dad gave me
27:47the master bedroom
27:48with the biggest closet
27:50and that's bigger
27:51than my apartment
27:51but me and Blackjack
27:53stay in there
27:54so I guess
27:54that's nice
27:55the room she's in
28:00was Kim and Mai's
28:01my room
28:02it was just vacant
28:03and unused
28:04prior to that
28:05it was needing her
28:06Mariah's putting it
28:08to good use
28:09half the time
28:11the girls are here
28:12half the time
28:12they're with mom
28:13so half the time
28:14it's just dad
28:14Isaac and I
28:15Isaac's gone
28:17quite often
28:17flying a lot
28:19and working
28:19Lydia has been
28:21traveling like
28:22all year
28:23all over the place
28:25and of course
28:26there's Blackjack
28:28yeah
28:28oh no
28:29no he sees the cat
28:32no
28:32you are a big dog
28:34Blackjack is like
28:36me on steroids
28:38so you were
28:45like in Tampa
28:46how quickly things
28:47change
28:47yeah
28:48well you know
28:49Tampa was
28:49a big city
28:50with big city costs
28:51you got the full
28:53effect of that
28:54right
28:54yep
28:55there's a reason
28:56why I like
28:56living in a small town
28:58yeah
28:58the cost of living
28:59is lower
29:00yeah I don't
29:01blame you at all
29:02but there was also
29:03another reason
29:04I left Tampa
29:05I went through
29:08hell recently
29:08and I have a lot
29:10of things
29:11that I'm trying
29:13to sort through
29:13in my head
29:14I've never had
29:19like a super
29:20serious relationship
29:21and this is
29:21kind of my first one
29:22at least the first
29:23one that I dove
29:24into
29:24I'm able to cross
29:24country and settle
29:25down with
29:26right
29:26I'm a little bit
29:27surprised that he's
29:28gotten so serious
29:29so quickly
29:29but um
29:30I mean he seems
29:31happy
29:31you hesitated
29:33for a second
29:33why
29:34um
29:34I guess just
29:37one interaction
29:38I saw
29:39well it's
29:47definitely good
29:48to be back
29:49I thought I had
29:50my whole life
29:51planned out
29:51about a year ago
29:52and
29:52you know
29:54sometimes things
29:56don't always work out
29:57yeah
29:58last year
30:00there was one
30:01particular part
30:02of my life
30:02that I definitely
30:03kept private
30:04but um
30:05and that was
30:06just a
30:07um
30:09relationship
30:15that
30:16one day
30:17I just
30:17found out
30:18some things
30:19that he had
30:19kept from me
30:20that's when
30:21everything started
30:22unraveling
30:23and um
30:25I made a
30:26last minute
30:27decision
30:27to come home
30:28I still wonder
30:34about the man
30:35that I thought
30:35I knew
30:36but at the same
30:37time like
30:38the most important
30:39thing for this
30:40is not sharing
30:41what happened
30:43or my sad story
30:44but just
30:45what I learned
30:48which is
30:49you gotta push
30:50forward
30:51you have to
30:52you have no
30:53option
30:53it's easy to fall
30:55into a poor me
30:56mentality
30:57but it's not
30:58poor me
30:58it's
30:58learn and do
31:00better
31:01to stay here
31:03as long as you
31:04need to
31:04to get your
31:05feet under you
31:05yeah
31:06for the next
31:06chapter
31:07yeah
31:07does that sound
31:08okay
31:08yeah
31:09I know
31:10this is where
31:11I'm supposed
31:11to be right
31:12now
31:12I need a little
31:14bit of
31:14healing
31:16the door is
31:17open
31:18the light's on
31:18stay as long
31:19as you want
31:20alright
31:28my lifestyle
31:38is very different
31:39here in Florida
31:40versus California
31:41I'm not single
31:42anymore
31:42you know
31:44everything I do
31:45is centered around
31:46my girlfriend
31:47which is honestly
31:49great
31:49it's nice feeling
31:50cared for
31:51and thought about
31:52all the time
31:52but
31:53I've sure missed
31:55a lot of my
31:55friends from
31:56California
31:57that I made
31:58haven't seen any
31:59of them since I
31:59moved
32:00so I talked
32:01with my buddy
32:01Will
32:02who's like my
32:02best friend in
32:03California
32:03I convinced him
32:04to come down
32:04and see me
32:05and hang out
32:06and see my
32:06new life
32:07hey brother
32:13do I know you
32:14man it's been so
32:18long
32:19how are you
32:20great man
32:21how are you
32:21Will and I got
32:22really close when
32:23we were both
32:23living in LA
32:24every weekend
32:26we were hanging
32:27out
32:27we just
32:28we clicked
32:29and it's hard
32:31to unclick
32:32man it's good
32:34to see you
32:35hell yeah man
32:35how you been
32:36I've been busy
32:37as heck
32:38honestly
32:38oh yeah
32:39this one great
32:40you want to
32:41drive around
32:42I'll show you
32:42around
32:42oh yeah
32:43show me
32:43what's up
32:44let's go
32:44about to be
32:46the good old
32:46days
32:46oh I didn't
32:51have my grills
32:52last time
32:52you saw me
32:52oh shoot
32:53I got them
32:54I saw them
32:54on FaceTime
32:55but I haven't
32:56seen them
32:56try and pull them
32:57out
32:57I'm not going
32:58to touch your teeth
32:59the dentist had
32:59to grind down
33:00my teeth
33:00they're permanent
33:01wait pull them
33:02out
33:02I can't pull
33:03them out
33:03they're permanent
33:03they're like
33:04affixed with
33:04some adhesive
33:05oh crap
33:06no I'm just kidding
33:06oh
33:07I don't really
33:10have a brother
33:11that's like
33:12Will
33:12you know
33:13Will's unique
33:14and he'll do
33:14things that
33:15my brothers are
33:16either too young
33:16or wouldn't do
33:17so
33:18it's fun to be
33:19around
33:19as you can
33:21kind of see
33:21the crowd
33:22is a little
33:22older
33:22yeah looks
33:24like it
33:24it's a fun
33:26little life
33:26I'm living
33:26down here
33:27yeah what are
33:28you doing
33:28for work
33:28not fun
33:30stuff
33:31I'm building
33:33fences right
33:34now
33:34okay
33:36the mic I knew
33:37in LA was
33:38we were young
33:39and we were
33:40sewing our oats
33:42and having fun
33:42a lot of the time
33:43and not doing
33:44so much work
33:45but I know
33:47you were like
33:47also traveling
33:48around doing
33:48modeling gigs
33:49since that kind
33:49of fallen by
33:49the wayside
33:50temporarily
33:52probably
33:52and I don't
33:54necessarily want
33:54to travel as much
33:55because my
33:55girlfriend's here
33:56right
33:57I used to travel
33:58all the time
33:59you know that
33:59I used to like
34:00be a free spirit
34:01and just be able
34:02to go wherever
34:02I wanted
34:02now I have
34:03you out
34:04to hang
34:05now I have
34:06ties
34:06and I
34:07oh the ties
34:09did bind
34:10no kidding
34:10Micah is a little
34:12younger than I am
34:13so I'm a little
34:13bit surprised
34:14that he's gotten
34:15so serious
34:15so quickly
34:16but I think
34:17it's good for Micah
34:18I think he thrives
34:19in like a family
34:19setting
34:20in a monogamous
34:20relationship
34:21style relationship
34:22so I think
34:24it's good for him
34:24I mean he seems
34:25happy
34:25you hesitated
34:27for a second
34:27why
34:28I guess just
34:31one interaction
34:32I saw
34:33I've spoken to
34:35Micah's girlfriend
34:36on the phone
34:36four or five times
34:38maybe over the course
34:39of the last year
34:39year and a half
34:40she seems really nice
34:41really pretty
34:41but the first time
34:43I saw her
34:43was maybe not
34:45one of their best
34:45moments
34:46they were having
34:46a little bit
34:46of a tiff
34:47where you know
34:48they were going
34:49at it a little bit
34:49welcome to my home
34:52but you know
34:54I haven't really
34:54gotten to know her yet
34:55so I'm curious
34:56to see if that's
34:57just a little
34:57one-off moment
34:58or if that's
34:59kind of the tone
35:00of the relationship
35:01welcome
35:05thank you brother
35:06beautiful place man
35:08you want a tour?
35:10hell yeah
35:10take me around
35:10so this is
35:12our bedroom
35:13bathroom
35:13and our closet
35:14wow look at those
35:16purses
35:16it's a lot of
35:16designer purses
35:17the house
35:20does not scream
35:20like it at me
35:21it seems to have
35:21a little bit more
35:22of a feminine touch
35:23I've never had like
35:31a super serious
35:32relationship
35:32and this is kind
35:33of my first one
35:33at least the first
35:34one that I dove
35:35into
35:35maybe to cross country
35:36and settle down with
35:37something different
35:40but I feel like
35:40I was ready for it
35:41because you know
35:42after a while
35:42of like say
35:44you go on first
35:44dates over and
35:46over again
35:46it just gets old
35:48yeah like what
35:49makes her different
35:49than past girls
35:50like why did you
35:51decide to move
35:51across the country
35:52to move in with her
35:53it's a pretty big
35:54decision
35:54yeah no I've
35:55tried to pinpoint it
35:56there's just
35:56something about her
35:57she got a hold
35:58of me
35:59sounds like love
36:00yeah I love her
36:01I love the feeling
36:02she's I don't know
36:04young love
36:04there's something
36:05about it
36:05my girlfriend
36:06is such a hard worker
36:07she's such a strong
36:09little person
36:10so it's because
36:11it's good
36:12and there's a downside
36:13to that sometimes
36:14but my personal opinion
36:16is that you're never
36:17going to meet
36:18the perfect person
36:19for you
36:19that like you just
36:21never have any
36:22conflict with
36:22you never
36:23I just don't think
36:25that exists
36:25I feel like you're
36:26not going to find
36:26a soulmate
36:27you kind of create one
36:28so you find someone
36:29who is compatible
36:30with you
36:30and then you work
36:32through your ups and downs
36:33yeah
36:35it's interesting
36:35we're definitely
36:36learning a lot
36:37about each other
36:37I didn't realize
36:39apparently I'm
36:39such an uncleanly person
36:41I was going to say
36:42what's the grossest
36:43thing that's happened
36:43so far
36:44apparently I don't
36:45put my clothes
36:46away often enough
36:47I leave beard hair
36:48in the sink
36:49apparently
36:49and it's his big deal
36:52she catches it
36:53every time
36:53sink is never clean
36:54women women women
36:56you can't live with
36:57them
36:57you can't live
36:57without them
36:58right man
36:59which reminds me
37:02I gotta finish up
37:03some chores
37:03wanna dig a trench
37:04you're gonna put me
37:05to work
37:05let's do it
37:06hey Ethan
37:11me and Olivia
37:13we're gonna try
37:13to meet again today
37:15I feel like
37:17she doesn't care
37:18she's just
37:19moved on
37:19so fast
37:20it's just very hard
37:21for me to wrap
37:22my mind around
37:22I still love you
37:24very very much
37:25I don't know
37:25what to do
37:26with all my emotions
37:26hey Ethan
37:51me and Olivia
38:05met the other day
38:06and it wasn't
38:07the best meeting
38:08there was a lot
38:08of feelings
38:11that came up
38:12the most
38:13intense
38:14feelings
38:15are often
38:16anger
38:17but after that
38:19goes away
38:19it's just
38:20kind of sadness
38:20but
38:21today we're gonna
38:23try to
38:23meet again
38:25and
38:25try to talk
38:27I guess
38:28it's okay
38:30if we maybe
38:30sit and talk
38:30in here
38:31okay
38:33when we talk
38:47I'm
38:47hoping to get
38:50some questions
38:51answered
38:51there's like
38:53something inside
38:54of me that I feel
38:54like needs to be
38:55resolved
38:55I feel like
38:56she doesn't care
38:58she's just
38:58moved on
38:59so fast
39:00it's just
39:01very hard
39:01for me to
39:01wrap my mind
39:02around
39:02I'm sorry
39:13for being
39:14angry at you
39:16yesterday
39:17I know it's
39:20hard
39:20well I still
39:24love you very
39:25very much
39:25I don't know
39:25what to do
39:26with all my
39:26emotions
39:27maybe for
39:29sake of
39:29productive
39:29conversation
39:30today
39:31we leave
39:32your family
39:32out of it
39:33I think
39:34we both feel
39:35pretty strongly
39:36about that
39:37and we're not
39:37going to see
39:37eye to eye
39:38so maybe
39:38we just
39:39talk about
39:40us
39:40instead of
39:41them
39:41okay
39:43okay
39:43I know
39:49like from
39:49where I'm
39:52standing
39:52there's some
39:53practical steps
39:53that we have
39:54to take
39:54and I need
39:55your
39:55collaboration
39:57on that
39:58I don't
40:04know what
40:04all the steps
40:05are for
40:05paperwork
40:05because I've
40:06it's a learning
40:09process for me
40:09but I do
40:11know that
40:11it will need
40:12your signature
40:12I know that
40:15there's some
40:16assets we
40:17haven't settled
40:18yet that we're
40:18going to need
40:19to settle
40:19are you ready
40:34to move
40:34forward with
40:34that
40:35I can't
40:38accept this
40:39there was a
40:45part of me
40:45that hoped
40:45that after
40:46being apart
40:47for so long
40:47that she
40:48would have
40:48changed her
40:49mind
40:49because I
40:50had a
40:50feeling I
40:51would
40:51just after
40:54seeing her
40:54again
40:55before you
40:58saw
40:59Olivia
40:59had you
41:01any thoughts
41:02of changing
41:03your mind
41:04or did
41:06that kind
41:07of happen
41:07the minute
41:08you saw
41:08her
41:08no that
41:10kind of
41:10happened
41:10the minute
41:11I saw
41:11her
41:12can't we
41:16just make
41:17it work
41:17this season on
41:32welcome to
41:32plazzo
41:33anybody here
41:35I rented a house
41:37in Tampa
41:37for a week
41:38my whole family
41:39will be sleeping
41:40in the same
41:41house
41:42dad can have
41:43that room
41:43you can stay
41:44with me
41:44it's been a while
41:45since Barry and I slept under the same roof
41:48people message me on social media wanting me to set them up with you
41:53I've never experienced a DM
41:55I don't know when I will
41:56Google
41:57how do I get Riz
41:58and what is that
41:59that's sick
42:01sick is still in right
42:03we do have somewhat of a little blended family thing going on here
42:07Lydia's here
42:08Ken's here
42:09he's our backup lead singer in case nobody shows
42:11okay don't worry
42:13I have never disliked Ken
42:16but I'm also not like
42:18yay excited
42:19yay yay
42:20how are you and your girlfriend doing these days
42:23I think she's opened up to the idea of joining me
42:26you know I can hear you
42:27I know you can
42:28a year ago you were spending time with me in Minnesota
42:34so much has changed since then
42:37there was this guy that I met working
42:41there might be potential
42:42it does show me that you're meant to be married once
42:47only once
42:48you and him will reunite
42:50it's the complete reverse of what we thought would ever happen
42:55I went through the hardest heartbreak
42:58I wish I had met him
43:00I wish I had known
43:02he had me believing that he was a great guy
43:06I just got this bass
43:09why don't we do a concert all together as a family
43:13she's not seeing clearly
43:23I do feel like it's rash
43:24dad do you know what's going on with Mariah
43:26I know it's her life
43:29but I'm not okay with that
43:30I loved him as a spouse at one point
43:33so all that just isn't gone immediately
43:36I'm just trying to let her go
43:39I've learned to never say never with Ethan
43:49because ironically when you say never
43:51it happens
43:53hey Ethan
43:58no
44:06I know
44:06I am
44:06I am
44:06I am
44:07I am
44:07I am
44:08I am
44:08I am
44:09I am
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