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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03In Roval, the houses don't really have hot water.
00:05What?
00:06I could never go in there.
00:08I feel like Chloe is not being honest with herself.
00:11Chloe likes much nicer things, and she's going to want those things.
00:16Since you've been going down here, I've given you a minimum of $20,000.
00:22I'm cutting her off.
00:24You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.
00:30I got you some flowers, and I brought a vase, because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
00:34I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years, but I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
00:40So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:42Probably this week.
00:43You might have to keep an eye on her, Dylan.
00:45It makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself into our relationship.
00:50No, I've gotten better.
00:52Have you?
00:52Yes.
00:53Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
00:57I'm so damn sick of it.
01:00My sister, my mom, my dad, they assume Mano is starting ******, and Marie is like,
01:13to create drama with everyone.
01:15I'm like, wow, wow, wow, wow.
01:17I'm tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
01:26If your sister will react like that, it's not for you, Mano.
01:29If you don't want to be a guy, change your character a little bit.
01:31Okay.
01:34We're just making a buzz.
01:40From tomorrow onwards, please do come in.
01:43We made no money.
01:45They're handing out whole plates of food.
01:47All I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
01:54Ticklet investment.
01:56We might as well be throwing money out.
01:59We might be stuck living with the family forever.
02:02Oh, my gosh, babe, I'm so excited for our night out.
02:26She's had a good time.
02:29It's been about a week since Patia arrived in Tasmania.
02:32Oh, is it like an Irish pub or something?
02:34Yep.
02:35And tonight I'm taking her out to one of the best spots in town.
02:41What do you think about this place?
02:42Different.
02:43It's not that busy.
02:49Well, it's only a Tuesday night.
02:51Oh.
02:53I did not expect to go out to an Irish pub.
02:56I'm like, Irish pub in Australia?
02:58And it's so quiet.
03:00We're all the people.
03:02We're a long way from Dallas and Vegas.
03:04Thank God we're going to be hanging out with his best friend Chris and his brother Glenn.
03:10Drink.
03:10I'll have a Moscato, please.
03:12Moscato, all right.
03:12Do they have that here?
03:13I hope so.
03:14I'm not a beer drinker.
03:17Oh, nice.
03:19Patia.
03:20Chris.
03:20How are you going?
03:23Long time no dream.
03:24Oh, no.
03:25Chris was with Thunder from Down Under.
03:28They were really, really close.
03:30Oh, my God.
03:30Glenn.
03:31Oh, darling.
03:32Oh, my God.
03:33Long time no dream.
03:35Oh, this is amazing.
03:36I haven't seen Glenn in 11 years.
03:39Glenn is a lot of fun.
03:40He loves to shop.
03:41Loves to wine and dine.
03:43All in my category.
03:45Here's to Patia.
03:46To Patia.
03:47To new beginnings.
03:48To her new life in Tasmania, Australia.
03:51I cannot believe I'm here.
03:52Seriously.
03:54I've been teaching this in Australian slang, too.
03:56What have you got?
03:57Bugger.
03:58Yeah.
03:58Yeah, yeah.
04:00And tinnies.
04:02I love the way you said it.
04:03Tinnies.
04:04Have you met the rest of the fam?
04:08Like Dylan's mom?
04:09I met his mom.
04:10She came over the other day.
04:12Oh, she's a sweetie.
04:13She's such a sweetheart, yeah.
04:14So you got on well?
04:15Huh?
04:15You got on well with her?
04:16Yeah.
04:16Okay, cool.
04:20Me and his mom have a long history of not liking each other.
04:25But it's not something I want to bring out in front of his brother.
04:28Because Dylan always, like, tells me, oh, don't trust Glenn.
04:31He'll, like, be nice to your face and stab you in the back.
04:35Well, you've got to put a ring on that thing, huh?
04:37Ah.
04:37Yes.
04:38Well, I'm working on that.
04:40Thank you, Chris.
04:40I'm working on that.
04:41It's been, what, 12 years?
04:44Yeah, 12 years.
04:45Wow.
04:45It's been 12 years.
04:47Had some issues to sort out first.
04:49Yes, we did.
04:50Well, that just got serious.
04:51What are the issues that you need to sort out?
04:54I don't know if now's the right time to bring them up.
04:57You know how many times we broke up, Chris?
04:59A lot.
05:01You know?
05:02Excuse me, guys.
05:03I'm just going to go to the restroom.
05:04Okay.
05:07I love Petia and I love Dylan.
05:09And I know that they have a rocky relationship.
05:13I know that it's a very passionate relationship.
05:15The happiest Dylan has ever been is when he's with Petia.
05:20But then things happen.
05:22It's all very good now, but six months down the track.
05:26I don't know.
05:28Moving to Tassie.
05:30This is it.
05:31Yeah.
05:32It's crazy.
05:34Oh.
05:35Oh.
05:36What is going on over there?
05:37That young lady over there, Petia.
05:41Oh.
05:43I've written a song for her.
05:45I'm a little bit rusty, but sometimes I feel like I don't express myself properly to Petia.
05:51But if I can put it in a song, that's how I feel like I can get the message across.
05:57My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo when I first laid my eyes on you.
06:08I never thought I could fall in love so fast.
06:13But then I gave you a ring and I took it right back.
06:18And I'm sorry for that.
06:23Welcome down under, baby.
06:25From the outback to the ocean, you got all of my emotions.
06:33And they're running like a river to your heart.
06:38Have you heard this song before?
06:39That was...
06:40If you're not coming, I'm not going.
06:45And I hope that I die knowing that we never spend another minute apart.
06:55And I promise to be more gentle with your heart.
07:01Thank you so much.
07:15Oh, baby.
07:18Hearing that song tonight makes me want to fight harder for our relationship.
07:21I want us to finally tie the knot, get married.
07:25I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again.
07:29I honestly feel like I couldn't take it anymore.
07:33Oh.
07:52Maman, merci pour garder Ben.
07:55Bye.
07:57Attends, j'ai le parapluie.
07:58It's a two-step walk.
08:00Come on.
08:00No, I have my beautiful jacket on.
08:04Okay?
08:06It's been a little bit tense at my parents' house because of the drama that I had with my sister.
08:12Marseille sous la pluie, c'est encore plus triste.
08:16We texted last night and I'm fine with my sister now.
08:19It is what it is.
08:20But the dynamic with my parents attacking my character, like, it just really lit the fire in me to just get the head out of there ASAP.
08:28And Antonio and I, we actually made it really clear from the start, we were only going to live there just temporarily until we found a house.
08:35I'm so excited to see this house, like, so freaking excited.
08:40Because it's exactly 100% what I want.
08:47Today, we are going to La Provence Verte, which is a very nice place in Provence with lakes, waterfalls, a very nice small village to visit a beautiful house that we found online that's for sale.
09:05It's only an hour and something away from the city.
09:12It's, I think, three, four or five bedrooms.
09:15I don't remember, but it's, like, just in what we need.
09:18There's the pool and the view.
09:20You, you are going to love the view.
09:24How much is this one?
09:25It's under our budget.
09:27Well, at $375, this one.
09:29I mean, it's the highest, highest of our budget.
09:32Yeah.
09:32We have the 25% down for that.
09:36And then it's just wiped out.
09:39Yeah.
09:39So it's a little, it's, yeah, but that's negotiation.
09:42We are in France.
09:43And if they want, like, a guaranteed French income, we don't even have an account at a French bank yet.
09:51There's even the option of renting.
09:54No, no.
09:55It's an option to rent.
09:59There will be a lot less worry when it comes to renting an apartment.
10:03Plus, we have the money to do that long term.
10:08Or even, like, buy an apartment if we really wanted to.
10:11We have that money.
10:13Oh, my Lord.
10:14Get me out of here.
10:16Get me out the car now.
10:17Whoa, it's just an option.
10:19Antoni.
10:20Chill.
10:20I am not putting my money down the drain, and I am not living in an apartment.
10:25You will not put me in a cell jail.
10:29I am not living in an apartment.
10:30I've seen some pretty nice apartments.
10:32Good for you.
10:32Go live there.
10:33Go live in an apartment.
10:35I'll live in a house by myself.
10:36You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying we're getting an apartment or we're moving somewhere cheaper.
10:41You know what, yeah?
10:43You know why?
10:43Why?
10:44You know why?
10:44Because I always end up doing what you want.
10:47And I'm tired of this shit.
10:51If we can make getting this house happen, we'll do that.
10:55As long as we're in a good space.
10:58Yes!
10:58So we're not, like, in the shit financially.
11:00Yes, I agree.
11:02But if I'm sitting here putting other options on the table, it's because those might have to be considered.
11:08No, I want to buy a house.
11:11I want to be out of Menon's parents' house just as much as she does.
11:17But there's options that we need to look at that are really what make the most sense financially speaking.
11:24And if that means we have to stay at her parents' place for a little bit longer, I feel like that's a small sacrifice to be made.
11:31You got, like, tunnel vision.
11:34I want to buy a house.
11:41You want me to help you, or?
11:44First, collect the paper.
11:45No, no.
11:45We are late on paper.
11:47I have no idea how to make this work.
11:53I'm doing my best, okay?
11:55There's a lot of costs involved, and you and Khloe are going to need a more solid plan.
12:04I'm doing all I can.
12:05We are doing all I can to figure it out.
12:08There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
12:11Today is the fourth day of our actual business.
12:41Yesterday, we were successful in the ceremony.
12:45We already served the samplers to a lot of people, so we are hoping that they will be going to show up again.
12:53It's the first big day, so we're going to try to make some money today.
12:56Whatever we spent yesterday, we'll try to recover as much as possible, all right?
13:01Assign yourself a job and don't sit idle, okay?
13:03Jenny, you go to your coffee stall.
13:08We do it, but you go.
13:11Yesterday, we made absolutely no money because we were giving it away for free,
13:17and I was just standing like, don't you guys understand the concept of business?
13:23I'm more worried about making money so I can get out of the house and go back into our own apartment.
13:29I want to make money.
13:30We need to make money.
13:33Okay, that says...
13:35Excuse me?
13:40Cappuccino?
13:40Oh, I've got to find the milk container.
13:50This coffee machine that we're renting is so cool.
13:54It's the real deal.
13:55I mean, it comes with the fresh coffee beans grinder and everything attached.
14:01There's nothing like it anywhere else unless you go to Starbucks.
14:04Okay, I don't know where that container, the milk container is.
14:10Ha!
14:12Find it.
14:12I've been put in charge of the coffee machine by the family, and Sri showed me how to use it.
14:23But I'm not totally comfortable with it yet.
14:26I mean, I can make coffee at home, no problem.
14:29But this thing, I don't even know where to start.
14:33Oh, I have to grind the beans.
14:41I don't know how to do that.
14:42Papa!
14:44I have a customer standing here waiting for his coffee, and I have no idea how to make this grinder work.
14:53Sorry, each minute.
14:56How?
14:57How, how, how?
14:58Oh, it's a panic, you have me.
15:01Sorry, new.
15:03I'm new.
15:04I know you are new, but.
15:06I have to go somewhere.
15:08Okay.
15:11I'm going to eat the time.
15:12I'm going to eat the time.
15:15Plug like ice, but I don't like it.
15:18Connected electricity.
15:20Actually, it's not plugged in.
15:28We didn't plug it in.
15:31Come to find out, it wasn't plugged in.
15:34And that's why it wouldn't turn on.
15:38You want me to help you?
15:40Danny.
15:42Yeah.
15:43First collect, no, no.
15:45We are late, I'm going to pay for paper.
15:47What do you mean, no, no?
15:48That's how you do it.
15:51Okay.
15:52Let's leave.
15:53You'll have two minutes.
15:54I'll leave.
15:58That's a bad sell.
16:01Yes.
16:03Danny, you have to try to do it very quick.
16:06You know what I can do?
16:07I can go home.
16:10That's what I can do.
16:11You're a part of Family Cafe.
16:13This is our idea.
16:14You know, first customer loss is a big loss.
16:18Yeah, just like yesterday, giving away free food
16:20was a big loss, too.
16:22I'm doing my best, okay?
16:24If this is best, then you need to do a little more extra.
16:28I feel like so worried, disappointed, so frustrated.
16:33We were preparing for such a long time, like our first customer,
16:37and we lost it.
16:39Every day, Sri was with her.
16:41It was at night, and the coffee machine woke up.
16:44If you don't understand anything, you should ask her.
16:48You should practice.
16:48You should also practice.
16:49You should also practice.
16:51Don't put pressure on her.
16:53She doesn't know her, doesn't know her.
16:54I'm frustrated with her, but at the same time,
16:58I don't want other people to get mad at her
17:01because everybody in the family is finally getting along,
17:04and I don't want the stress of the business to ruin that.
17:08Thank you so much.
17:32Earlier today, my mom and I went car shopping,
17:39and she kind of dropped the bomb
17:41that she's going to financially cut me off.
17:44Hello, hello, good evening, good evening.
17:46Oh, hi, Johnny.
17:47I thought you were a waiter, the way you came over.
17:50I think, in a way, my mom is trying to create shocking situations
17:53so I can just switch up and be like,
17:55you know what, Mom?
17:57I'm coming home.
17:58But, no, that's just not happening.
18:02So, how was the whole car lot thing?
18:05Did you find anything interesting, any cars?
18:07The price point was much higher.
18:10We couldn't even get it close to the range
18:12that you had thought it should be at.
18:15Okay.
18:16It would be something that we would need to purchase
18:18on, like, the Internet
18:20in order to get anywhere near that pricing point.
18:23Yes, that was a total fail today,
18:24but now we just need to find a plan B
18:27because that's not going to work.
18:30Right.
18:31And I think, at that point,
18:33it should just bring her car, maybe.
18:36I don't know that that's an option either.
18:39Because Chloe and I had a conversation,
18:41you know, that I wasn't going to contribute
18:43financially anymore.
18:49So, this is something that, you know,
18:51Chloe needs to work through, right?
18:54Right.
18:59The thing about Chloe is that
19:00she's always been catered her whole life,
19:03always had that safety net,
19:04so she doesn't really know the concept of money.
19:06You know, like, maybe it's a good thing
19:09that Chloe's mom is actually cutting her off
19:10because, you know,
19:12I think she needs a more sense of reality,
19:14and I feel like if she doesn't have the funds
19:16to just do whatever she wants,
19:18she's going to really have to think smart
19:20on what she's going to do next.
19:22So, like, I feel like now is a good time
19:23to see if she really wants this
19:26and, like, who she really is, you know?
19:31Chloe's going to need, you know, a more solid plan.
19:34You and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.
19:38Yeah.
19:38You know, getting the worker's permit
19:41is a really big deal.
19:44What is needed to get them?
19:46Um, you, yeah, you have to pay for the first permit.
19:49How much do you have to pay for the first permit?
19:51$600.
19:53$600?
19:53Yeah, for the first permit.
19:55But if, you know...
19:55You have to pay, like, a permit every three months.
19:58But if a company signs for you, they pay it.
20:00Wait a second, $600 to $800,
20:02and you have to do this every three months?
20:04The other way to go about it
20:05is if Jonathan and I went to the office together
20:07and Jonathan sponsors me.
20:10How can he sponsor you if he doesn't have...
20:11If he doesn't own a company?
20:13No, this is a different paper.
20:15This is, like, a partnership paper.
20:17Hang on, partnership?
20:19What does that mean?
20:19Like, married partner?
20:21No, that's a marriage certificate.
20:23It sounds like you have a lot more obstacles,
20:25um, just with papers than I thought that you did.
20:28Maybe you're just not listening.
20:30I am listening.
20:31Clearly not, so what's hard about walking into an office?
20:33Right, there's a lot of costs involved.
20:35Why are you being so negative about the situation,
20:37being like, oh, well, it sounds like you have so many obstacles.
20:40Well, I just...
20:41Really?
20:41I wasn't aware of the high costs.
20:43But I'm not asking you to pay for it.
20:45And I've made it clear that I'm not going to.
20:46Exactly, so don't make it so, like, out of reach.
20:49Like, just trust me, like, she's going to do it.
20:51Enough of the drama, to be quite honest with you.
20:54It's not about drama, but, like, the stuff...
20:55I flew all the way out here, and you know what?
20:55This isn't the first time I've come out here, okay?
20:58I've invested a lot of money.
20:59So many times, I understand, but stop making it out to be like that,
21:02because it's frustrating.
21:03If you're going to decide to move there permanently,
21:05then you know what?
21:06We need to have these conversations,
21:07and I don't care if you're frustrated or not.
21:09But have it in the back of your mind,
21:11isn't like, okay, like, you stop...
21:12I'm trying to give you some ease.
21:13No, I want specific...
21:14Yeah, right, but it's general ease.
21:16I need specific ease, okay?
21:17This is my daughter living in a foreign country.
21:19I don't want to make things up to make you feel better.
21:22I'm doing all I can.
21:23We are doing all I can to figure it out.
21:25I feel like a lot more could have been done up until this point.
21:28No, you have to get here to do it.
21:30It's not something you can do from home.
21:35Okay, if you say so.
21:36So, I said that I will not financially support any longer.
21:43700 times.
21:45Yes, agreed.
21:47However, there is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
21:54The lottery?
21:56Trust me, I play every weekend.
21:58If you both move to Boston.
22:06Immediately to the left, you will find a bijou of the house.
22:17I love it!
22:19I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool.
22:22Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.
22:24Oh, look at that view!
22:26Hehehehe!
22:27Hehehehe!
22:28Hehehehe!
22:29Hehehehe!
22:30It was summer in Paris
22:32The day when I found you
22:35For you and me
22:38It was all Paris
22:41A paradise
22:45It was summer in Paris
22:47Hi, it's here. Let's go.
22:53I'm excited.
22:55Hello.
22:55Hello.
22:56Bonjour.
22:57Hi.
22:58Hi, nice to meet you.
22:59Nice to meet you too.
23:00You speak French, no French?
23:01I'm French, Marseillaise, and I speak English.
23:04Okay, so let's do it in English.
23:07Sounds good with me!
23:08So then everybody will understand it.
23:09Let's start our journey.
23:11Yes, please, let's go.
23:12Because I see that you are...
23:13Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.
23:14Follow me.
23:15Enter in the living room.
23:17The kitchen, everything together.
23:19Okay.
23:19Oh, the kitchen!
23:22The thing that I like is you can still try to modernize it a little bit.
23:25Yes, you can, and keep the style of Provence.
23:27But keeping the style and without spending too much.
23:30It's not like crazy expensive to redo.
23:34I want to see more, please.
23:35I want to see more.
23:36So, and then you have the first room here for your guests.
23:41Children, maybe?
23:42You have one kid?
23:43Or even an office space, because I do sometimes like remote work, so I'm going to need a room
23:49actually for work, for sure.
23:50Oh, yeah, okay.
23:52For Ben.
23:53No, there's multiple rooms.
23:54Wait.
23:55And here you will find the bijou of the house.
23:59Handmade.
24:00Well, not standard.
24:01Oh!
24:02Exceptional.
24:03Look at that sink.
24:05I love it!
24:06I f***ing love it!
24:08Look at that bathtub!
24:09It is really nice.
24:11And then you can go to the left to the first big room.
24:15And there's another shower in the bathroom?
24:17Yes, yes, yes, there are three.
24:19Showers.
24:20There are three showers!
24:22I thought we were supposed to be playing it cool.
24:27Yeah, that's exactly what I've done.
24:29You show them interest.
24:30You show them you're excited.
24:31So they are like, ooh, she wants it.
24:33Okay.
24:34Like, who's the queen of networking, like you said?
24:38Bebe right here.
24:40Who doesn't have any friends, doesn't have any network?
24:43You.
24:44So please, trust me.
24:45Whoa, I'm not on my own anymore.
24:47I've got my companion.
24:49His name is Ben.
24:50Well, he's a baby who doesn't speak yet.
24:52Speaks to me.
24:54Oh, my gosh.
24:55Can you imagine waking up naked from your bed with your cup of coffee?
25:00You just took your shower.
25:01Hear the birds.
25:02Hear the birds.
25:03And oh, look at that view!
25:05Can I cry?
25:06Go ahead.
25:07It has charm.
25:08It's not a prefab, like you say.
25:09It's not a standard.
25:10Right, yeah.
25:11You can go in the pool naked and no one see you.
25:12It's so, like, private and stuff.
25:13I love what I see.
25:14There's a lot of potential, even if it's not completely quite perfect yet.
25:16There's a pool, which I said it's what I want.
25:17It's an hour away from my parents' house.
25:18Far, but not too far.
25:19Close, but not too close.
25:20You know what I mean?
25:21Alright!
25:22The price at the moment is $3.75.
25:27You were looking for this house, so I guess it's in your world, right?
25:32The price at the moment, right?
25:34Yeah, that's the price.
25:35It's so private and stuff.
25:36I love what I see.
25:37There's a lot of potential, even if it's not completely quite perfect yet.
25:38There's a pool, which I said it's what I want.
25:40And the piece of resistance, it's an hour away from my parents' house.
25:45Far, but not too far.
25:46Close, but not too close.
25:47You know what I mean?
25:48looking for this house so I guess it's in your budget because I guess you
25:52already talked with the banks I guess or not yet? Not yet. We have great
25:57history. I don't have any loan, I don't have any debt, nothing. My husband is a stay-at-home dad.
26:02He's not going to work just yet because he speaks English, he has to learn French.
26:07It's gonna take time. On my end I still have a little bit of source of income
26:12from my agency because I do have a business. What are you doing? What are
26:16you doing? I have a social media and digital marketing agency. We sold our
26:21house in Los Angeles, we sold our car, we sold everything. We have right now a
26:26total of like around $100,000 cash that we have. So based on your
26:33experience do you think it's possible for us to get a loan through a French bank?
26:38I think with everything what you were telling me I don't know that many
26:44persons today who has one third in cash immediately. So I think it's going to be
26:51doable but there there's a but I'm gonna be very honest that's my job also because
26:56I'm there also to be tell you everything in all transparency. I will do the same.
26:59So the place is perfect, the house is perfect but there is in the in the roof
27:06asbestos. Oh there's asbestos. So there are the works to do on the roof and it's around
27:1340,000 to 45,000 to do all the works. Oh wow. So she is ready to deduct that from this price.
27:20Oh. So like 335 instead of 375. Correct, correct. Manon really knows how to make a house a home. I can see the wheels turning in her head but I'm sitting there thinking how well is it gonna hold up and there's asbestos.
27:36This is the first house we are seeing and I know that we could find something better out there. I just hope that she can step back and understand where I'm coming from because it always ends up in a fight or some type of argument and I don't want to get into it.
27:54All right. Bon Appetit. Bon Appetit. Very tender.
28:00Let me get a little something in your head. I hope it's not kangaroo.
28:06Wait a minute. Is it really kangaroo?
28:24Oh my god. That's beautiful. Look at that lake. Have you ever swam over there?
28:35Yeah, I've swam in there. Better watch out for the old crocs though.
28:39You're not swimming there if there's croc. It's bull****.
28:42So it can bite you, you know.
28:44Choo-choo.
28:45Tonight we're having a family dinner at mum's house and I know that Patia can't stand my mum but at the end of the day my relationship with my mum isn't going to change. She's always going to be in my life. So tonight I'm hoping they can really bury the hatchet.
29:05Hello.
29:07Hi.
29:08Hi.
29:09Welcome, Patia.
29:10How are you doing?
29:11I'm good. What about you?
29:12Good, good.
29:12Good, you're settling in?
29:13Yes.
29:14Hi, Patia.
29:15Good to see you. You look gorgeous here.
29:18Being at Jo's house, I'm putting on a little bit of a front. What a beautiful view.
29:24It's gorgeous, isn't it?
29:25Yes.
29:26Like I really want to make a good impression and I want her to accept me. But at the same time I'm like really dreading to have to sit down and talk to her because I really deep inside don't like her.
29:39Why don't I do some cooking? You guys relax and I'll let you know when it's ready.
29:44Okay.
29:44Where's my sous-chef?
29:46Here.
29:52Hey, you look good. Put that apron on.
29:54I'm so relieved that Dylan's cooking because I have this phobia that if somebody else cooks for me and they don't like me, I feel like just the thought of them not liking me that the food is going to be contaminated.
30:08Is that sausage you're cooking?
30:10Do you like sausages?
30:11Yeah.
30:12Good.
30:13My mum always taught me not to eat out of your enemy's hands.
30:16I'm surprised Dylan hasn't kicked off those dirty big boots, Dylan.
30:21Yes, ma'am. I will take them off right now.
30:24Good boy. You should know better. We've got a lot of wallabies running around. You end up with poo on the carpet. It's naughty.
30:32I feel like my mum and Patea are both kind of putting on a performance. Dylan, you didn't tell me that your mum collects elephants too.
30:40It appears we have quite a bit in common, Patea. Yeah, I know. Crystals and elephants.
30:45It's like, I want to see them sort of get along and be friends, but they both need to be honest first and stop pussyfooting around.
30:54Come on down.
30:56It looks good.
30:59All right. Bon appetit.
31:00Bon appetit.
31:01Very nice.
31:06Yes. Very tender.
31:09Mum, you've got a little something on your head.
31:12I hope it's not kangaroo.
31:14Wait a minute. That's not kangaroo, is it?
31:24Shut up.
31:26Shut up. Is it really kangaroo? I don't want to eat kangaroo.
31:30I know it was a little mean, but I just wanted you to try it, and I knew if I said it was kangaroo, you wouldn't try it.
31:35And this is how we eat Down Under.
31:39I told him not to feed me kangaroo, and he fed me kangaroo for dinner.
31:43Tasted like, you know, steak.
31:46But still, when I look at the kangaroo, I'm like, oh my God, I can't eat you.
31:51It's actually really good to see you and Patea in the same space.
31:55I know that Patea sort of felt like we were sort of talking too much.
32:02You didn't like our relationship that we were a bit close, did you?
32:05Well, I don't know.
32:07You can be honest.
32:08No, no.
32:09In the past, Dylan told me that you wanted him to marry somebody younger, closer to his age, and give him kids.
32:16It just made me so mad. I'm like, oh, I want nothing to do with her. I don't want to talk to her.
32:19I don't want her calling you. That's been embedded in my mind, and that's where the resentment with you talking to Dylan comes from.
32:32I've never said that, and you know what? I couldn't give a toss it back, grandchildren.
32:36Yeah, that's the only...
32:37Do you think maybe that was, like, just a thought, a fear that you had?
32:40No, no, no. You said it, babe. You said it. You were very mad, and you said that several times.
32:45Did you, Dylan? Because I've never, ever said that.
32:48I don't remember saying that, no.
32:50Okay, well, I've never said anything like that.
32:55Liar, liar, pants on fire.
32:57I feel like they're in cahoots with each other, and they won't admit that they said it. I mean, why would I make it up?
33:02I mean, I'm not crazy. Who makes that crap up?
33:05So that comment never happened. So aside from that, is there anything else underneath any of that?
33:11No. No, that's it. That's it.
33:13I can't believe it.
33:14I just sort of felt sometimes when Dylan's been on the phone, I'm just, oh, hi, Patia, how you going?
33:19Like, you know, I'm happy to engage, but I don't think you like that.
33:24No, it's because of what he said.
33:28I've never said to Dylan that he should be with somebody younger.
33:32I can't imagine Dylan saying that to Patia. I really can't.
33:37It's an odd thing to say. It's very odd.
33:39It is an odd thing to say. It just seems strange.
33:42Two and two is not adding up.
33:47I'm so sorry, Jo, really. It stemmed from that.
33:51Well, thank you. I really appreciate that.
33:54Yeah.
33:55Because all these years, I thought, God, I haven't done anything. I just, you know, I was happy for you.
34:00Really? Yeah.
34:01I've never, ever had an issue with the age.
34:03So he must have said that to try to make me mad or something.
34:06He'll say some hateful things and that's where...
34:08No, I know.
34:09Because he just lashes out.
34:11Yeah, I get that. But then he regrets it afterwards.
34:14Mm-hmm.
34:15Don't you, Dylan?
34:17Yes.
34:18Yeah, well, I apologise if I did say that. Let's move forward from that.
34:27Did you really never tell Patia that your mom wished you were with somebody younger?
34:31Hmm.
34:32Hmm.
34:35I may have said that when I was, when I was angry, but I don't remember the specifics. It was a long time ago.
34:43So that's, that's put to bed, all right?
34:45Finally.
34:46But now there's still the constant issue of me talking to my mum, and it's always a problem.
34:51Well, that's where it stems from, is the fact that you said that.
34:54I think, I think that's a bit of a cop out, really.
34:56No, it's not.
34:57It's like...
34:58No, it's not a cop out.
34:59I just feel like us chatting on the phone every now and then is still going to be an issue.
35:04No, it's not going to be an issue.
35:06Are you sure?
35:07Yes.
35:08If you want to talk to Dylan as much as you want, then I'm okay with it now.
35:12Problem solved.
35:13I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her, I resented her, and I held this resentment and hate for many, many years.
35:24Well, thank you for having us come over.
35:26You're very welcome.
35:28Now I'm looking at Dylan and I'm questioning my relationship because Dylan had been lying to me about it.
35:35I don't want to be in a relationship like that.
35:37It's going to take you so long to find a job here and you're going to make pennies.
35:46It's very hurtful to hear her.
35:47It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her.
35:50You are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.
36:07That was amazing.
36:18That was insightful.
36:20Today, Anthony and I saw a home for sale.
36:23And I'm excited just thinking about it.
36:28Well, there's a lot to talk about, honey.
36:32Oh, my American boy.
36:34No, boy, I am a man.
36:37You're a man.
36:38Yes, you are my American man who I love so much.
36:43That went so well.
36:45He said he's confident we can make it happen, you know?
36:49I mean, I definitely think it's possible, but I think it's like looking at other stuff because you might find something else you like more that's not going to need a new roof.
36:59Honestly, I was really in love with the house, but there's asbestos in the roof.
37:08So I understand Anthony and I'm kind of grateful for him nitpicking.
37:12But the good news that you talked to me about financials and everything, saying it's totally possible.
37:19So let's just go visit a little more and maybe I can manifest actually my dream house, you know?
37:24So like a big thing I feel that needs to be addressed the most is employment.
37:33Mm-hmm.
37:34That's the next step.
37:35I agree.
37:36We cannot buy a house without income.
37:38If I build a business for a long time, I'm not going to be able to get a salary or to make money.
37:43So I don't know.
37:44I can find something else too.
37:46Part-time, remote.
37:48But, you know, speaking of like working, I like where we are now.
37:56I know we're living with your parents, but Ben has been way better with you.
38:01Oh yeah, I know.
38:02I love it.
38:03I know.
38:04You've taken a lot more initiative with the food, with everything.
38:06You're, instead of like asking me if I need help, you're actually like doing things.
38:11I'm going to run some errands.
38:13Yeah.
38:14Yeah, run, run, run.
38:15It'll be time for his lunch soon.
38:16So you just, bread, cheese, whatever.
38:19Got it?
38:20Do you want me to do it?
38:22Okay, I love you.
38:23I love you too.
38:25We're starting to get the balance we need.
38:28But granted, we're not working, but I'm starting to see the positive changes.
38:32Already in moving to France.
38:35But we cannot deny that in life we are not rich.
38:39We don't have like money coming in from the sky every month.
38:42We're still going to need to find income.
38:44I understand that.
38:45Balance or not, we're still going to have to.
38:47I'm just scared that you are going to go over.
38:51No.
38:52Why not?
38:53I know how passionate you get with work.
38:55And you're already talking about starting your own business here.
38:59And another thing about moving here was that you would step back and maybe I would take over the providing more, right?
39:05Yes.
39:06And now it seems like you're full steam ahead on you doing the solo providing again.
39:10It's because it's going to take you so long to find a job here.
39:15And even if you find a job here, you are never, ever going to be able to make like I do.
39:22Still, you don't speak French.
39:25I get it.
39:26How are you going to find a job?
39:28And what type of job?
39:29What type of job?
39:30Without speaking French, the only thing that comes to mind is speaking English to kids so that they can learn it.
39:36But you're going to make pennies doing that here.
39:40It's very hurtful to hear.
39:46She would love for me to be providing, but I'll never make as much as her.
39:52And the term I hate the most that she uses is that I would make pennies.
39:56I feel like it's not true.
39:58It just would take time for me to get to that space.
40:01And it makes me feel like I'm not good enough for her, essentially.
40:08I love you.
40:09And we moved here to stay together.
40:12I want to be married.
40:13I want our family to be together.
40:16I am just scared because I've seen how passionate you can get with work.
40:22If I work less, I'll be fine.
40:27Antonia and I want to be out of my parents' house.
40:30And I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, you know, like I know France and he doesn't.
40:35I know the economy here.
40:37So I'm just trying to be practical and me working may be our best shot.
40:43I don't want to survive in France.
40:46If I moved to France, it's to actually be more comfortable and thrive.
40:51Or I would have stayed in the U.S.
40:53So no way I'm just surviving here.
40:55Sorry, not sorry.
40:56Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
41:01All right.
41:03I know he's here to judge and to be negative.
41:08I don't trust him at all.
41:10You don't have chefs.
41:12Your parents are cooking food.
41:14Who does that?
41:15This is not a real business what he's doing.
41:18It will be closed soon.
41:23No, I'm not going there.
41:24This is awesome.
41:25This is like all I've wanted to do since we've been here.
41:27Seeing Menone's reaction to the farm.
41:31I'm questioning my decision on the surprise.
41:37I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday.
41:43I am absolutely pissed that Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.
41:47I can't even put into words how disappointed I am.
41:52If you can't trust somebody, you shouldn't be committing anything to him, let alone changing your entire life.
41:58Look at this.
42:02I had to move some money around.
42:04It was $2,000.
42:06Is this a good use of money?
42:07I don't know.
42:08I think I like give you a pretty good life and it seems like you're always mad at me.
42:13Yes, I am.
42:14You always made me mad.
42:16You never made me happy.
42:17Exactly.
42:18So like what are we doing here?
42:19Never.
42:20If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be, holy do we have problems.
42:25This isn't the life that I sign up for.
42:28you.
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