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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03Chloe has given up everything.
00:05And I'm just worried that you haven't really changed.
00:10I've learned my lesson and now I really want to take this seriously.
00:14You know, she's young and she's like, I'm in love, I want to get married.
00:17And I'm like, oh God.
00:19I don't want to let her, nor her mom, nor you down.
00:30I grew up with anxiety around money all the freaking time.
00:38Mama, the stress that you put me with the blue card in the magazines.
00:43Oh, the card, she refused.
00:45Imagine the stress.
00:48But Tia, her lifestyle has been fast money, fast living.
00:53How is she going to be happy here?
00:55If I were to go home for like six months and dance.
01:00I wouldn't be okay with that.
01:01You only just got here.
01:03You're just like running off to dancing already.
01:05I wanted to commit to us being together, but you didn't want to commit.
01:10Have you started learning your signature yet?
01:13To sign those checks?
01:14Almost.
01:15Almost, almost.
01:16I married the same kind of person and it's not easy.
01:22You're going to be marrying my son, but the two weeks that he's been here, it's a joke.
01:28Is this really what you want?
01:30This is how it's always going to be with her.
01:48Screw that.
01:49Someone needs to put her in her place.
02:19Oh, my gosh, we have too much, Anthony.
02:22Are you? What are you? You're not even going through stuff like you said you were?
02:25Oh, my Lord.
02:27Oh, it was all folded.
02:29No, it was not folded.
02:30I just can't wait to be at our own place.
02:32Yeah, me too. I cannot watch.
02:33That's all.
02:35It feels good to live.
02:37After living for a few months in this shoebox in my parents' house, we finally found the perfect house.
02:45It's two hours away.
02:46It's definitely the countryside, but it's such a huge space, and there's a lot of potential.
02:53Look, we have to move today, and nothing's ready.
02:56I'd say you just throw it all in a plastic bag and call it a day.
02:59You want to put my clothes in garbage bags?
03:02Clean garbage bags.
03:04I'm very grateful to be able to buy a house, but now that we invested our entire savings into that house,
03:10this move feels permanent, and it's freaking me out.
03:15I'm stressed.
03:18I'm taking my antidepressant again because I'm going freaking cuckoo here.
03:22I have a lot of things to think about, but I'm excited to live.
03:27I'm not going to lie.
03:28I'm excited to live.
03:28I'm happy you find a job.
03:31It's going to be good for you.
03:32Against all the odds and Manon saying it was impossible, I got a job in France, working with kids from the UK at a camp.
03:43I'm just going to be doing stuff in nature, like leading activities and canoeing down the Ardash River.
03:50I'm really excited because I think I'm going to love the job, and it requires me to speak English.
03:56So, even better.
03:57Also, what's making it, like, more stressful, it's the money thing, right?
04:05Like, there's nothing on our bank accounts anymore in the U.S.
04:08It's over with.
04:09We're packing to go.
04:10Yeah, but we lost everything.
04:11That's also very overwhelming and stressful for me because how I'm going to buy a bigger mattress?
04:16Like, my mom is giving me this one, thank God.
04:18How are we going to buy the fridge and everything?
04:19Put everything on credit cards, credit cards.
04:21It's a lot of debt, you know?
04:24I have a job.
04:25You get to stay home and cultivate that relationship you wanted with Ben.
04:29Since being here, that's already improved.
04:32Like, how do you not see all of this coming together?
04:36The thing is, like, we bought our house, like, pretty fast.
04:39It was such a great price, and the loans were so hard to get.
04:43So, we could not pass on this opportunity.
04:46I know I said it's what I want, and I was thinking this day will have never come.
04:50But I've been, like, so worried about money since we gave everything into the house.
04:58I'm in debt, no savings.
05:01It's a whole different game now.
05:05It's just scary to me, Antoni, because I'm not going to have a car.
05:09I'm not going to be making money.
05:10Honey, you're not going to have a car for, like, one month.
05:14I feel I'm going to be, like, stuck in the house.
05:18I feel I'm going to become someone that I've never was before and never wanted to be.
05:23That's just not me.
05:24I'm going against my own nature, I feel.
05:27Okay.
05:27But you've expressed how you wanted me to make all the money so that you could do that before.
05:32You know, honestly, living here, Ben has gotten way closer.
05:38He comes up for kisses, for hugs.
05:41Like, he'll come to you instead of coming to me sometimes.
05:44Yeah, I know, I know.
05:46I love how positive you are.
05:50That's why I love the way you are.
05:51But you cannot also, like, deny completely that what I'm saying is real, too.
05:57I'm freaking out a little bit.
05:59But right now, I have no other option than just let it happen and let's try.
06:04But Antoni has to remember, I would have never seen myself moved in the countryside ever in my whole life.
06:10And it's going to be a huge adjustment for me.
06:11I need a moment to feel.
06:14You know, like, heal, process.
06:18It's just how I am.
06:19You know, I need to be in my feelings for a moment.
06:23We're going to make it work.
06:24Ali, let's get it done.
06:28What the heck?
06:33Hey, Chloe.
06:36You going to come help me out?
06:45You ready for this?
06:47Start from top, go to bottom.
06:52Like that?
06:53See?
06:56You know, you got to wash your car every week here in Aruba because it's so salty.
07:01And Chloe is like, I'll just take my car to the car wash.
07:05Hey, that's 30 bucks you could save.
07:07That's money, you know?
07:07That's like, for today, you're a fool, you know what I mean?
07:10You know what I mean?
07:18Enough!
07:19Enough!
07:21Am I supposed to watch The Life in this place?
07:23I think it looks better already.
07:35What else are you going to say?
07:38Stop.
07:39Stop around.
07:41Hey, I had a conversation with my mom today.
07:43Mm-hmm.
07:44About our paper situation.
07:47Okay.
07:47You know, she's just upset that we still haven't made any...
07:52Decisions yet.
07:54Decisions is a better word.
07:55Like, we've made progress in the sense that we went to the appointment and got the information
07:58that we needed, but now I think she's like, okay...
08:01Now what?
08:01Why have you not just done it already?
08:03You know what I mean?
08:03She's like, what are you...
08:04Yeah, waiting for.
08:06It's like, if, you know, this is what we want, and I'm saying, like, I'm ready, it's like,
08:11I don't know what...
08:13I don't know what we're waiting for.
08:19I feel like the first step is your partnership papers.
08:23So that's your decision, then?
08:27Chloe, we can also get married, but we have to talk seriously about that.
08:30Well, this is a conversation I'm trying to have.
08:33Like, if we have to have a sit-down and be like, okay, like, neither of us are ready,
08:36which, I mean, I said I was...
08:38It's easy to say you're ready.
08:40You're ready, but...
08:40What? Because I'm not helping you around more.
08:43I mean, you don't help me out.
08:44Like, small thing, they wash the dishes, you know, but, like, if you're not going to do
08:47anything for me now, what makes me think that you're going to do something for me in the
08:51future?
08:52You want to together, collectively, help me, I will help you around the house, fine, but
08:57that should not decide whether you're ready to get married or not.
09:00That's, like, it's such a minuscule problem.
09:03I'm not asking you to do all of them, I'm just saying to help me.
09:05Like, I wash the dishes, I wash the...
09:08No, it's not just going to be you.
09:09I do, but I do it...
09:11I just got here.
09:12Yeah, I know, that's what I'm saying.
09:13That's all I need you to show.
09:16That's it.
09:17Okay, but that's the thing.
09:18If you're not ready to do it now, then that doesn't help me because I'm already putting
09:21myself in bad standing by sitting here having this conversation and not doing action and
09:25going to fix it.
09:25So that's your main issue then?
09:28Of course, because I'm going to be with you every single day and you're not willing to
09:32help me with certain things.
09:33It's going to, of course, it's going to affect me.
09:34But no one said I wasn't willing.
09:35Ever since we met with the lawyer, Jonathan's been taking these little digs at me about
09:43how I should act in marriage.
09:46And cooking and cleaning is not usually in my agenda at home, not because I don't know
09:52how to do it, because I do and I will, but it's definitely not at the top of my list to
09:58do.
10:00And it's like, all of a sudden, I feel like he's being very nitpicky and he wants me to
10:04start, like, folding towels and cooking and cleaning and doing all those things that
10:08weren't ever mentioned prior.
10:11So, um, I'm having a tough time understanding where he's coming with all that.
10:18I don't know.
10:18I feel that I obviously have given up a lot.
10:22And I think that does, like, show my commitment to you.
10:27My friends, they're like, you know, I just don't want to see you get hurt.
10:30Like, I think they see how much I care.
10:32They see how much effort I've put in.
10:34Maria flat out asked me, like, all the struggles Jonathan and you have, like, overcome, do you
10:39think that you trust him now?
10:41And I'm like, yeah, I do.
10:44Like, I try to stay positive about it because I actually do believe in you.
10:48And that is something a lot bigger than cooking and cleaning in my eyes.
10:53Okay, I agree with that.
10:55I just want to see how good we are compatible together.
10:58We have to do this together.
10:59But do you understand?
11:00I understand we have to do it together.
11:02Fine.
11:03Like, you just have a different view on it.
11:05I'm sitting here saying I'm giving up so much.
11:07I'm willing to do these things that, yeah, I'm not thrilled to do.
11:09I don't want to do them.
11:11I don't.
11:11But I would to do them for you.
11:13Especially just I gave everything up.
11:14I did it all so I could come here and we could be together.
11:17And now you're like, yeah, well, you're not cooking and cleaning for me.
11:19So I'm questioning things.
11:21Yeah, but you can't be like, yeah, you owe me everything because I left everything at home.
11:27And now I have to be on my knees and give you everything.
11:29No one's owing.
11:30No, but you're saying in that way.
11:32No.
11:32You want me to just marry you and all that.
11:34And I know you for a year.
11:35It's not that simple.
11:37Like, I'm going to have to give my life commitment.
11:38I marry you, it's a life commitment.
11:39And if I can't see that you can't help me with certain things and you give me ads about
11:45certain things, it does make me question it.
11:48The bigger picture is because I'm not currently in your kitchen does not mean I'm not ready.
11:54You can say you give me a trial period as if I'm like an app you're trying out if that's
11:58what you want me to do.
11:59But I'm not going to do these traditional things just so we can sit here and play house.
12:02Like, that's not what I'm interested in doing.
12:05I've made it very clear to Jonathan that I'm ready to get married.
12:08But it seems like he's changing the scenario and flipping it on me almost as if he's the
12:14one that's not ready to get married.
12:16I wish he could just rip his ego off and be honest about what he's actually feeling because,
12:22I mean, the clock's ticking at this point.
12:30I'm not used to this.
12:32You know, the arguments and the fighting.
12:35Earlier today, the situation was really bad.
12:37Somehow we have to make the cafe run.
12:40I can't have a boss.
12:42I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
12:45I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
12:49You spoke to me today about you wanting to be on the deed on the property.
12:53I need to make sure I have something for my children.
12:56You're silly.
12:57You're silly thinking that.
12:58I can't believe how he can to say that.
13:02He don't make me feel insecure about getting married to or look.
13:08No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
13:13We work so hard and when we get a day off, we want to have a good family time.
13:38Maybe because she had us all together in one place.
13:50Yes, possibly.
13:50So it just came out.
13:52For me, this is very hard because this is my first time living with your parents.
14:11I'm not used to this, you know, the arguments and the fighting.
14:16It's a difficult situation.
14:19I want to live with my family forever.
14:22I try to do everything right.
14:24I'm trying to run a business.
14:26I'm trying to bring the entire family together.
14:28And like we have to figure it out, how we can keep mother calm.
14:33Because she's an important member, like she's the head of the family.
14:36And if she's upset and mad, this is our responsibility to just fix it.
14:40I think nobody should change anyone.
14:42But sometimes the situation comes when others need to adjust because of one motive.
14:48And here we have a motive, a family cafe.
14:51Yeah.
14:52And if we start having like disagreements, then how we will be able to run the cafe.
14:59Work together in order to make our cafe proper working, we have to like adjust with mother.
15:06Yeah.
15:07I don't know.
15:08I'm too old for this.
15:09So I have to say, I can't have a boss.
15:13I do understand.
15:15The thing is, if you don't like to follow much, but maybe you have to.
15:20Because Indirectly is connecting with family plus family cafe.
15:26And somehow we have to make the cafe run.
15:30And there's no alternative.
15:31I just suggest to you that if things impact you, like impact you in a way that didn't make you mad, then try it.
15:48Like avoid that situation.
15:49We'll try to keep up the peace as much as possible.
16:05We'll listen from one ear and take it out from the other.
16:08Yeah.
16:08I want the cafe to be successful because we need the income.
16:13But I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
16:17That's not what I signed up for.
16:19Smith has a fantasy of living with his parents forever, but I got to figure out a way to get us out of there.
16:27I really hope that things will be settled down with us.
16:31Absolutely.
16:32All sacrifices are for family cafe.
16:35You're going to be marrying my son.
16:50The two weeks that he's been here, it's f***ing hard.
16:54I love it to spend the rest of my life with him and I think I make a choice to really love him.
17:16Nobody was bad, but you know like the relationship we don't are perfect and I get a little bit scarce.
17:26What happened two weeks ago with the strippers, the trust I have in him is lasted a little bit.
17:33I don't, I'll be honest really.
17:35He's committing to marry you tomorrow.
17:37Yeah, I love it that.
17:39You should have no doubts in your mind.
17:41Yeah.
17:42He has cheated, but when he was younger.
17:49One thing I can promise you, he hasn't even thought about cheating.
17:53When he takes after me like that, I was like that.
17:55But when I found the right one, that was the end.
17:59I've never cheated on my wife.
18:02Ever.
18:04You just told me he cheated before.
18:07How are you asking me for a trust?
18:09Because like, you don't make the same case.
18:12Really, this made Mimi so worried.
18:14One people do something like that one time, he continues to do it forever.
18:18Hijo de tigre sale pintado.
18:24We are in a distant relationship.
18:26So the trust is so difficult to get, but so easy to last.
18:30You're never going to have to know exactly what is the other.
18:32That's where your lack of trust is eating at you.
18:34Exactly.
18:35Well, I can assure you, he loves you like he's never loved anything in his life.
18:40And there's no one else, and there will never be anyone else.
18:44Do you think you can learn to trust him?
18:49Um, they think it's a process.
18:53You can't ever say that to him anymore.
18:55It's off.
18:56Okay.
18:57That's got to end.
18:58Yeah.
18:59That's bullshit.
19:00That's got to end.
19:01You're going to be one item tomorrow.
19:08Jealousy is a terrible thing, because it makes you distrust people even when there's
19:13no reason to distrust them.
19:16And in the end, it can tear a relationship apart.
19:21You know he's made some bad decisions.
19:25The best decision he's made is wanting to marry you.
19:30And the property, I think that's a good decision.
19:33There's one thing on that subject.
19:37He spoke to me today when we were viewing the property about you wanting to be on the
19:41deed on the property.
19:43Legally, and I'm not doing this, I'm not trying to do this to cut you out, or I'm just
19:48telling you, you're not married yet.
19:50So legally, it's his.
19:52None of it is yours.
19:54He's given everything he has to you already.
19:57I know that.
19:58So don't, just don't put the pressure on him.
20:01He's under enough pressure.
20:03I got you.
20:04What do you say to that?
20:05But, like my point or my perspective about is I always respect him and what is coming
20:12from him.
20:13But if we plan to have children, it's me like who want to protection our future too.
20:18Because I don't know, for example, one day maybe he don't love me anymore.
20:23Or something happened and we don't be together.
20:26Like I need to make sure I have something for my children.
20:29Believe me, I understand that.
20:31But you're silly.
20:32You're silly thinking that.
20:34You're forgetting he's given up us.
20:37This is family.
20:38Yeah.
20:39A very good future in his business in America.
20:43He's prepared to give all that up for you.
20:45So all I'm trying to say is don't doubt his loyalty.
20:49He's got more to lose than you have.
20:52Yeah.
20:53And I don't mean that disrespectfully.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:56He's worried about losing you.
20:58And if he does, he's lost everything.
21:04No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
21:10For you.
21:11And I don't agree with that.
21:14This is not far at all.
21:17He don't realize.
21:19I give and give and give so much to him, son.
21:24And he never gonna have to find out in other people.
21:27I can't believe how he can to say that to me the night before our wedding.
21:33Right now, he don't make me feel insecure about getting married to look tomorrow.
21:40Be more open-minded.
21:42Don't just look at your situation.
21:45Look at his situation as well.
21:48Yeah.
21:49Remember that, Mrs. Berry?
21:51Yeah.
21:52Oh, there we go.
21:58Patia said she wants to go back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
22:02Can we get closer?
22:03Go right to her, love.
22:04It's eating out of my hands.
22:06But I want this to work.
22:08When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
22:13I don't wanna be around him.
22:15Like, I don't wanna see him.
22:17I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt from someone ever in my life.
22:25I put my whole life on pause to be here with him.
22:28And he ruined it.
22:32Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh my love'll lead you like a map down every road.
22:39Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh oh, oh oh oh.
22:44My love's lost whether you know you go.
22:47World's longest single chair lift span.
22:52Yeah, are you afraid of holidays?
22:54I don't know. I've never done anything like that.
22:57OK, we're about to find out then, aren't we?
22:59I've been here for a month now, and things have not changed.
23:03Dylan is still talking to his mom.
23:06My debt has not been paid off.
23:08What the hell am I doing?
23:10I'm just going to come up underneath you and sweep up your legs.
23:13We have a pattern of, like, just sweeping everything under the rug
23:16for the past 12 years, and this is why it's been 12 years.
23:20And I'm still hanging on, hoping.
23:23I don't know what. Miracle?
23:26Oh.
23:27Oh, there we go.
23:29Wee!
23:31That's cool, huh?
23:33Today I'm taking Patia to a very special place called the Cataract Gorge.
23:37It's always been my favourite place to go when I was growing up as a kid.
23:42We are really high up.
23:45Whoop, whoop.
23:47Stop.
23:48Can you feel that?
23:49Yes, I don't like that.
23:50Vibrations.
23:51Stop swinging your feet.
23:52I'm happy.
23:53It says, don't swing.
23:54There's a sign.
23:55No swinging.
23:56The other night, Patia said she wants to go back to the US and go back to dancing.
24:01And honestly, I really want to show her how much I want this to work.
24:06Little mini waterfall right there.
24:07Look, babe.
24:08Hi, the rapids.
24:09Gosh.
24:10So beautiful.
24:11I love this.
24:12So cool.
24:13Oh, look at that view.
24:14Oh, babe.
24:15So romantic.
24:16I'm so excited to see a place that's very special to Dylan.
24:33I mean, it's just so picturesque.
24:34Mountains and rivers.
24:35Oh, my God.
24:36And wallabies.
24:37Oh, I got to see wallabies.
24:38They're so cute.
24:39Want some food?
24:40She's a little cutie, that one.
24:41Yeah.
24:42Come here.
24:43Come here.
24:44Could we get closer?
24:45Go right up to her, love.
24:46It's eating out of my hand.
24:47What do you think about that, love?
24:48That's so neat.
24:49It's so cute.
24:50Ouch.
24:51Ouch.
24:52Hey.
24:53Hey, don't pack him.
24:54They're like packing him.
24:55No, they're getting all the flies off him.
24:56Oh, they are?
24:57They're doing him a favour.
24:58Oh.
24:59You ready, babe?
25:00Smile.
25:01Awesome.
25:02Oh, my God.
25:03Oh, my God.
25:04Oh, my God.
25:05Oh, my God.
25:06Oh, my God.
25:07Oh, my God.
25:08Oh, my God.
25:09Oh, my God.
25:10Oh, my God.
25:11Oh, my God.
25:12Oh, my God.
25:13Oh, my God.
25:14Oh, my God.
25:16They're so cute.
25:18I love that tree.
25:21That's a sequoia.
25:22They can live 3000 years.
25:24Wow.
25:25How old do you think these rocks are?
25:27I have no idea, love.
25:30Well, you're from here.
25:36No.
25:37Bye.
25:38When two souls are destined to be together
25:44They?
25:48They're bound by an invisible thread
25:50That thread may stretch
25:53It may tangle
25:55But it will never break
25:58Because when something's meant to be
26:03It always finds a way
26:05Are you doing what I think you're doing?
26:11This ring symbolizes that thread
26:14But now that thread is no longer invisible
26:19It's in plain sight for everyone to see
26:22Oh my god, I wish you would have told me I would have dressed better
26:25Oh, babe
26:30Mathea
26:35Will you marry me?
26:41Yes
26:41It's this hand, sweetie
26:43Oh my god, babe
26:48Babe
26:50Oh my god
26:55Oh, babe
26:57Sorry I got lipstick all over you
27:00Flickous
27:01Oh my god, I waited for this
27:1012 years
27:11Come on
27:11Come on
27:12Oh my god
27:15I'm engaged
27:21I'm engaged
27:22Finally
27:23I'm so happy
27:26I'm never taking this ring off
27:29Oh my gosh
27:30It's so beautiful
27:31Oh my goodness, babe
27:34I'm just happy
27:36I'm just happy this day has finally come
27:39And my dreams finally came true
27:42In Tasmania
27:43Am I dreaming?
27:47This is so romantic
27:49You're full of surprises
27:54I'm just
27:56Just so relieved
27:58Even though things aren't perfect
28:00She's made a massive step
28:02Moving here to Australia
28:04So I just feel like
28:05If I can give Pathea
28:06A solid commitment
28:07All the resentment
28:09And the agitation
28:11That she has
28:12Will fade away
28:13She'll feel more confident
28:14In our relationship
28:15And things will work
28:17A lot better
28:17Ready to stay here
28:20With me in Australia
28:21Yes
28:23Essentially
28:24Your fiancé
28:26Waving us off
28:38Bye
28:39Today's the day
28:40We are finally moving
28:41To our home sweet home
28:42Oh my gosh
28:45You just stalled again
28:47Oh my
28:48We're on a hill
28:49Awkward
28:51Faut attention
28:57Les marchands
28:58Ah la jeunesse
28:59C'est beau
28:59Les hommes forts
29:00Petit bisou
29:03Petit baiser
29:04Si tu savais
29:05Quand tu me plais
29:07Que j'aime
29:08T'en rater
29:09Bon mais ça y est
29:11C'est le dernier jour
29:11Ben oui
29:13Et Ben il part avec vous
29:14Non on est bien gardé Ben
29:17Ah ouais
29:18Ça c'est le seul truc
29:18Que tu aurais bien gardé
29:19Désolé mais non
29:21Ah ça va
29:22Vous êtes pas loué
29:23Today's the day
29:25We are finally moving
29:26To our home sweet home
29:27It's in the assail of France
29:29But at least
29:29It's two hours away
29:30From my parents
29:31So it's a silver lining
29:32Bon mais merci beaucoup
29:33Super
29:33On se rejoint à la maison
29:35I won't feel I'm 16 again
29:36No more
29:37And no sleeping
29:38In the tiny tiny bed
29:39In their house
29:40Thank God
29:41Beny
29:42Bon mais merci
29:44De rien
29:45A big tour
29:46A très big tour
29:47A big tour
29:48Ok
29:49Bye bye
29:50Bye bye
29:50Bye merci
29:51You're waving us off
29:53Bye
29:55Merci pour tout
29:57C'était très gentil
29:58Oh my gosh
30:01You just stalled again
30:03Oh my
30:04We're on a hill
30:06Awkward
30:08Ok bye
30:11Woohoo
30:12Woohoo
30:15Oh finally
30:19Finally
30:20I'm glad
30:21That we are leaving
30:22But also
30:23I remember
30:24Where I'm going
30:25And I'm like
30:26Oh but is it for something better though
30:28Because over there
30:29It's tidy as
30:30There's no food deliveries
30:31No taxi
30:32Nothing modern and stuff
30:34I don't know anyone there
30:36So it's giving me anxiety
30:38I'm just super happy
30:39That I'll go in there
30:40Oh I know you are
30:42It's not the American dream anymore
30:45You're living your French dream now
30:46Our house
30:48The little village
30:49With Saint-Victor de Malcap
30:51So you know what it means right
30:52No
30:52Saint-Victor
30:54It's a name
30:54Malcap means
30:55A bad summit
30:56Or a bad hill
30:57Or a bad
30:58Very hard to
31:00Get to
31:01Yeah
31:04In the assholes of France
31:05Maybe these assholes of France
31:08That you talk about
31:09Are really just like
31:10The hidden gems of France
31:11You know
31:12I'm just scared
31:13Because it's very limited over there
31:15And there's really not a lot around
31:16You know
31:17Like in the village
31:18Everybody knows everybody
31:19It's the same people
31:20I just never imagined
31:22Myself living in this type of
31:25Tiny village ever
31:26Yeah well you also never imagined
31:28Yourself with a kid
31:29And you never imagined yourself
31:31With a dweeb like me
31:32So there you go
31:34Yeah life is full of surprises
31:36You're gonna be shot less
31:44When you're gonna unpack that truck
31:45You know how much I think
31:47You're sexy when you're like
31:49Sweating
31:50Can you be shot less
31:51Sure
31:52I love when you're like
31:53Like you're like sweating
31:55And you know
31:56Kind of like walking out
31:57It's so cute
31:58Ooh I love when your body's shiny
32:00From all that sweat
32:03Ooh
32:04I feel like our life is really starting here
32:10We've kind of just been like
32:11Just waiting and waiting and waiting
32:14For six months
32:15And now it really begins
32:17Saint-Victor de Malkap
32:19Here we go
32:19There it is
32:20There it is
32:22Our house
32:23On the corner
32:25Our house
32:27Our house
32:27You're home Benjamin
32:31Fully
32:33In for the first time
32:36Oh my god
32:36Hey first time
32:38First time getters
32:40It's really nice
32:42It's really nice going to our new house
32:44And it's nice that things are really starting to go our way
32:46But I just hope that her buyer's remorse fades away
32:49Here we go
32:50Because historically in our relationship
32:54If Manon's not happy
32:55Nobody's happy
32:56Come on into your house
32:57Here you come Ben
32:58Yeah
32:59Wee
33:03Here we go
33:05Woohoo
33:07This feels awesome
33:08We're home
33:09Look at that view
33:13It is a beautiful view
33:15Love it
33:16Finally we here
33:19In our home sweet home
33:20Yeah it is cute
33:22I like it
33:23When we visited the house
33:25Antoni just fell in love with it
33:28I could see Antoni's eyes like sparkling
33:31He was like wow
33:33That's such a beautiful one
33:35It's huge
33:35It's big
33:36The land is like huge
33:38I can have goats in there
33:40I was like stop it
33:41You're going too far
33:41But anyway
33:42Someone's having fun in their new house
33:46We signed a paper on the spot
33:48You should have seen Antoni's eyes
33:50When he was inside that house
33:52I love the house
33:53That's true
33:53I do love the house
33:54It's very nice
33:55Yeah
33:56Yeah
33:57Yeah
33:58Mommy's right
33:59Yeah
34:00I'm going to make it work
34:01And I'm going to make it mine
34:02Even better
34:03Even better
34:03Even better
34:03Jonathan got a new phone
34:11And he left his old phone
34:13On his nightstand
34:16I mean the first thing I found
34:18Was a message
34:19He sent to a girl
34:20Saying that he missed her
34:22It's a big deal
34:36Oh now the key's stuck
34:40Okay
34:41That's a small drawer
34:56But that's okay
34:57We're going to work with what we have right now
34:59Because we're in shambles
35:01Last night I stayed with my friend
35:05And today I'm checking into my rental
35:07Until I can figure out my way home
35:09Jonathan got a new phone
35:14Because I guess his wasn't working
35:16And he left his old phone
35:20On his nightstand
35:22And I woke up
35:23And he had left to go to his friend's house
35:25And he was going to come back
35:26He said in like an hour or two
35:27So me having the trust issues
35:30That I already do
35:31Respectively went through it
35:34I mean the first thing I found
35:38Was a message
35:40He sent to a girl
35:41Saying that he missed her
35:43And then I kept digging
35:46And it was like three or four
35:48Just emojis to other girls
35:50Swiping up on the stories
35:51Stuff like that
35:53Then I started seeing
35:55Really weird messages
35:56From this one girl on social media
35:58The girl had actually been messaging me
36:00For months saying that I was so pretty
36:02Like you know how do you know Johnny
36:04And I did my investigating
36:07And he had actually been messaging
36:09That girl
36:10While we were filming interviews
36:13Literally when I'm
36:19Too this much distance away from him
36:22Asking her to send him nudes
36:24Asking you know that he missed her
36:26That he missed having sex with her
36:28And I was right there
36:30And I had asked him about her
36:32Thousands of times
36:33And then the more I kept digging
36:36I found a whole sexual interaction
36:40With a different girl in May
36:42Which of course is long ago
36:44But I had asked him about that girl
36:47Multiple times
36:48And he had lied
36:49And said he never had been with her
36:51And there's a whole video
36:52And then to make it worse
36:54When I caught him
36:56And I took photos of the phone
36:58And sent them to him
36:59And left his house
37:00And was like
37:01I am done with you
37:02I'm absolutely disgusted
37:05Then the only thing he said
37:07Was you went behind my phone
37:09Behind my back
37:09How was that your first response
37:14When I picked up my whole entire life
37:16To be here
37:19So it's terrible
37:21Like it's so sad
37:23Like I don't want to be around him
37:27Like I don't want to see him
37:28And now
37:31I can't even
37:33Like I can't even look at this place
37:34I don't even want to see that boat again
37:35Like I don't want to see
37:37Anything to do with him
37:39I don't want to see it online
37:40I don't want to see him at all
37:42Like I can't even
37:43Like I have loved this island
37:45And like he has made me
37:47Hate it
37:49Because I put my whole life
37:52On pause to be here
37:53With him
37:53And he ruined it
37:55I guess you live and you learn
37:59I hope
38:00Because I'm never
38:01I'm not doing this again
38:02I don't think I've ever
38:05Experienced
38:07This much
38:08Hurt from someone
38:10Ever in my life
38:11Hey girl
38:12Hey you
38:14I brought a bottle
38:15I mean it's crazy
38:16To think that
38:17A few days ago
38:18We were talking about
38:18Getting married
38:19And truly
38:20This is probably
38:20The last thing
38:21That I thought
38:22I like
38:24That would happen
38:24I never thought
38:25I would be
38:25In this
38:26State
38:27So what's been
38:30Going on with him
38:31Has he said anything
38:32Has he reached out
38:32To you at all
38:33He
38:33Has not once
38:35Asked if I had
38:37A place to stay
38:37If I was okay
38:39If I needed anything
38:41Nothing
38:43He had texted me
38:45And said
38:47Come get your
38:48Now
38:48I said
38:48I don't want to be
38:49Alone near you
38:51Like I don't want
38:52To look at you
38:52He goes
38:53Okay
38:53I'm gonna throw it out
38:54It's so
38:57It's like mean
38:58It's so mean
38:59It's like
39:00Are you that heartless
39:01Like you're supposed
39:03To be in love
39:04With this girl
39:04Like it just
39:05Doesn't make sense
39:06It just sounds
39:07Like typical Johnny
39:08Though
39:08Like we wanted
39:09Him to change
39:10We wanted him
39:10To be someone
39:11He wasn't
39:11But it's so
39:12On brand for him
39:13When I look
39:16At how much
39:17I gave up
39:18I mean
39:19I left my family
39:20I left my friends
39:22I left my job
39:23I gave up so much
39:25And I didn't listen
39:26To so many people
39:27And
39:28The only thing
39:30I was really asking for
39:31Was to be loyal
39:34And to see that
39:34I couldn't get that
39:35It's more than devastating
39:37It's
39:37Like an unimaginable
39:39Stab in the back
39:42To see how
39:43He actually
39:44Didn't love me
39:45Because you don't do that
39:46To people you love
39:48None of this
39:52Is your fault
39:52You couldn't
39:53Have done
39:54Anything else
39:55For this man
39:55Next time
40:00On 90 Day Fiance
40:02The Other Way
40:02Schmidt and I
40:04Are gonna
40:04Move back
40:05To our apartment
40:06Where we were happy
40:07You are not going to leave
40:12You have to live
40:13With us
40:14We are depending
40:16On them right now
40:17We cannot move
40:18Out of there
40:18I already told your parents
40:20We're moving out
40:21If you don't want
40:22To go with me
40:22I guess I'll have
40:23To move out
40:23By myself
40:24I don't know
40:27What to emotionally
40:28Prepare for
40:29I am open
40:29To have
40:30A conversation
40:31With him
40:32It's been three days
40:34Since Greta
40:35Left for a hotel
40:36Today is
40:43My first day
40:45At work
40:45It's very tiny
40:48This is a new house
40:51In a new village
40:52I don't know
40:53Anybody around
40:54I don't have a car
40:55There's nothing here
40:57Ben
40:58I have anxiety
41:01Right now
41:06I'm headed to
41:08Jonathan's house
41:09To get all my stuff
41:11It's just over
41:12I did something
41:14Really stupid
41:15To be a guy
41:16I did ask
41:18A woman for her news
41:19I'm very sorry
41:20For her
41:20And it's up to her
41:21If she wants to
41:22Forgive me or not
41:23I don't have a daughter
41:30I don't know
41:30I don't know
41:30To get Holiday
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