00:00Somebody comes to you and says, you are my life, you are my God, you are everything, and you accept that.
00:06That's the moment the other will start expecting and dominating.
00:10The one who tries to dominate you is offering to be dominated in return.
00:16Say, I don't want to dominate you, nor will I allow you to dominate me, and that is what is called really love.
00:25Love does not mean that you are defined by the other.
00:30That some person becomes the very centre of your life. That is not love.
00:36No person in the entire universe, living or dead, is big enough to become the centre of your life.
00:44No single person has that kind of worth. No.
00:49So even if someone is willingly trying to submit himself or herself to you, see that as dangerous and refuse.
00:57No, no, no, no, no. I don't want your life.
01:01Yes, we can be friends, good friends.
01:04Let our friendship be very, very deep.
01:06But don't surrender to me.
01:09Don't say, I am your Lord or your life.
01:11No, I am not.
01:12I don't deserve to be.
01:14And in the same breath, you too don't deserve to be my life.
01:19Yes, you will be a very important part of my life.
01:25But you can't be the centre of my life.
01:28And if you don't leave.
01:37It's true.
01:38I don't.
01:39So big enough to be.
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